WEBVTT - Second Date Update: The Sobfather 0:00:00.110 --> 0:00:02.830 All right, your second date podcast is here with a 0:00:02.870 --> 0:00:04.130 new episode. Oh, it is here. 0:00:04.290 --> 0:00:04.790 I don't know. 0:00:04.809 --> 0:00:06.650 I felt like going down today. 0:00:06.990 --> 0:00:07.370 That's broke. 0:00:07.490 --> 0:00:08.490 It's my alter ego. 0:00:08.630 --> 0:00:09.530 What up, bro? 0:00:09.630 --> 0:00:11.360 Yeah, what's up, bro? 0:00:11.390 --> 0:00:13.790 No, we got a new episode today. Before we jump 0:00:13.890 --> 0:00:15.780 into it, though, we always love to see what you're 0:00:15.860 --> 0:00:19.989 saying on our socials, on our Spotify. Sorry, Apple. We 0:00:20.010 --> 0:00:20.890 can't see your comments. 0:00:20.930 --> 0:00:21.950 Yeah, we can. Oh, we can? 0:00:22.370 --> 0:00:23.770 We should never read those? Oh, there's just not a 0:00:23.790 --> 0:00:25.810 lot on there. Oh, okay. 0:00:25.910 --> 0:00:26.540 Apple, step it up. 0:00:26.690 --> 0:00:28.250 Okay, come on, guys. 0:00:28.470 --> 0:00:30.870 Oh, you can definitely comment on Apple. 0:00:31.190 --> 0:00:33.129 Hey, and a big thank you to everybody who's been 0:00:33.150 --> 0:00:36.250 checking out our YouTube to watch some of these second 0:00:36.290 --> 0:00:40.090 date videos. We appreciate it. We're getting a new in-studio 0:00:40.350 --> 0:00:43.809 up every Tuesday. That's pretty cool. What are you laughing at? 0:00:43.830 --> 0:00:46.250 What did someone say? Because you mentioned the Apple podcast. 0:00:46.370 --> 0:00:47.370 So I pulled it up. 0:00:47.490 --> 0:00:50.590 You want to see the Halloween costume recommendation was please 0:00:50.659 --> 0:00:52.040 cosplay different toiletries. 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:57.860 Oh, I was thinking I was a plunger. 0:00:57.880 --> 0:01:00.380 You're definitely a plunger. 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:02.820 Jeff could be toilet paper. I see. 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:04.380 There we go. 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:05.910 All right, let's get to it. 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:07.640 Your brand new episode starts right now. 0:01:07.940 --> 0:01:09.400 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:01:09.420 --> 0:01:10.800 Second date update. 0:01:12.130 --> 0:01:14.890 I need to ask the ladies, a guy who shows 0:01:15.090 --> 0:01:18.309 emotion on a first date, is that a good thing, 0:01:18.850 --> 0:01:21.090 or should he be trying to play it more cool? 0:01:21.230 --> 0:01:22.430 Depends on what emotion, Jeff. 0:01:22.450 --> 0:01:25.069 What are we talking? Are we talking anger? 0:01:25.310 --> 0:01:25.560 Yeah. 0:01:25.670 --> 0:01:27.080 Okay. Or just crying immediately. 0:01:27.140 --> 0:01:28.300 Like, full depression? 0:01:28.319 --> 0:01:32.100 Like, where's the emotion? What if he can't control how 0:01:32.260 --> 0:01:34.400 giddy he is every time he takes a bite of 0:01:34.420 --> 0:01:37.740 his burger? He starts clapping and dancing in his chair, like. 0:01:39.940 --> 0:01:46.410 That's just one emotion, I'm just saying. 0:01:46.510 --> 0:01:47.570 You just gave me the ick. 0:01:47.610 --> 0:01:50.290 So yeah, based on that. I only ask because one 0:01:50.310 --> 0:01:53.890 of our listeners, David, mentioned in his email, he believes 0:01:53.950 --> 0:01:56.550 it could have been a turn off when he started 0:01:56.610 --> 0:01:59.860 showing emotion. And that's why he's reached out. So let's 0:01:59.920 --> 0:02:02.260 talk to him. David, welcome to the show, man. 0:02:03.050 --> 0:02:04.280 Thank you so much for having me on. 0:02:04.300 --> 0:02:06.560 Dude, I feel you. I'm an emotional person. 0:02:06.580 --> 0:02:08.120 I can't keep it in. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:10.500 It is all over the map sometimes. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.340 I cry a lot, but not on dates. 0:02:13.370 --> 0:02:16.410 I definitely have cried on dates before. So I feel 0:02:16.430 --> 0:02:17.070 you if that's it. 0:02:17.169 --> 0:02:18.470 Is that what happened? 0:02:19.190 --> 0:02:23.220 I am just kind of An emotional guy by nature. 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:23.320 Okay. 0:02:24.460 --> 0:02:26.440 Like I'm a horrible poker player. Oh, you're a. 0:02:26.419 --> 0:02:28.700 Horrible sleeve kind of guy. 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:30.840 Mostly because I don't understand the rules, but that too. 0:02:30.900 --> 0:02:33.620 And she has big reflective glasses on. You can see 0:02:33.660 --> 0:02:35.080 her hand. Right. 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:37.000 So yeah, I just can't hide what I'm feeling. My 0:02:37.020 --> 0:02:40.710 emotions just, they live really close underneath the surface. 0:02:41.090 --> 0:02:43.390 All right. So this isn't out of the norm for you. 0:02:43.510 --> 0:02:45.890 So tell us about the girl and what happened on 0:02:45.910 --> 0:02:46.210 your date. 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:49.880 So yeah, her name's Shay. She's awesome. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:51.300 How'd you guys meet? 0:02:51.720 --> 0:02:55.880 So we matched on a dating app and I did 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.739 cry three times on the date. 0:02:58.900 --> 0:03:02.010 Three times? Sorry, I didn't mean to react like that. 0:03:02.030 --> 0:03:02.110 Okay. 0:03:02.270 --> 0:03:04.570 What led up to the first emotional moment? 0:03:05.150 --> 0:03:06.750 You know, we had just been chatting and we decided 0:03:06.810 --> 0:03:11.050 we would just meet at this HomeGoods because it was nearby. 0:03:11.070 --> 0:03:12.329 At a HomeGoods store, huh? 0:03:14.110 --> 0:03:16.190 Well, she had said like home goods. Oh my gosh, 0:03:16.210 --> 0:03:18.750 that's my favorite place to just go and walk around. 0:03:18.770 --> 0:03:19.930 So I'm like, okay. 0:03:20.389 --> 0:03:22.190 So I got there a little early. She wasn't there yet. 0:03:22.210 --> 0:03:22.750 Okay. 0:03:22.790 --> 0:03:25.929 So I was just kind of looking around inside and 0:03:25.950 --> 0:03:29.880 I saw these salt and pepper shakers. They're like the 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:33.239 same exact ones from when I was a kid. 0:03:33.260 --> 0:03:33.320 Oh. 0:03:34.090 --> 0:03:36.810 Oh, nostalgic. The glass ones with the silver tops. 0:03:37.050 --> 0:03:39.910 With that ass and a pee on them. 0:03:39.950 --> 0:03:41.830 Yeah, the most plain ones ever. 0:03:42.330 --> 0:03:47.670 Wait, is that what made you emotional? Like you hadn't 0:03:47.710 --> 0:03:48.250 even met. 0:03:48.150 --> 0:03:50.510 Up with her yet? No, I hadn't seen her yet. 0:03:50.570 --> 0:03:54.220 So it just brought me back. And so I started 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:57.080 to cry a little bit. And, you know, that's exactly 0:03:57.160 --> 0:04:01.240 when she was like, David. And I turned around and 0:04:01.260 --> 0:04:02.400 like tears streaming down my face. 0:04:02.420 --> 0:04:05.060 She's seeing it. Oh, it was tears full on. What 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:06.680 did you say? Did you claim allergies? 0:04:06.700 --> 0:04:07.000 Well, hold on. 0:04:07.020 --> 0:04:09.300 Alexis, what are you thinking? If you're the girl on 0:04:09.340 --> 0:04:11.990 this date, you walk up and immediately you see your 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:14.950 date in tears. Honestly, you're assuming something worse happened. I'm 0:04:14.970 --> 0:04:19.110 thinking something bad. He just got a bad call or something. Okay, 0:04:19.150 --> 0:04:21.970 but yeah, Brooke, you're right. What did she say? Thank 0:04:21.990 --> 0:04:24.770 God he just goes, no, it's just salt and pepper shakers. Oh, yeah, 0:04:24.790 --> 0:04:26.290 what did you say? I don't even know what I 0:04:26.300 --> 0:04:28.280 would do. Yeah, yeah, what happened? 0:04:28.710 --> 0:04:30.870 She she was concerned yeah i mean she thought that 0:04:30.910 --> 0:04:33.770 something was like seriously wrong and she felt bad and 0:04:33.850 --> 0:04:36.470 i i told her what was going on and how 0:04:37.170 --> 0:04:39.490 i just i pictured my mom like using them to 0:04:39.510 --> 0:04:41.589 like season my eggs when i was a kid. 0:04:41.350 --> 0:04:44.690 Okay well i'm sorry to i'm sorry to ask this 0:04:44.730 --> 0:04:46.750 but like does that mean that your mom isn't with 0:04:46.830 --> 0:04:49.700 us anymore is that like no well i'm just asking 0:04:49.900 --> 0:04:51.500 why are you so emotional. 0:04:51.060 --> 0:04:54.660 About it yeah no my mom's fine okay oh we 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.560 didn't need to ask Well, I'm trying to think if 0:04:56.620 --> 0:04:59.280 there's a reason for the deep. 0:04:58.520 --> 0:04:59.960 Well of emotion. Because he has to do it on 0:04:59.990 --> 0:05:02.050 his own now, Jeff. And she was just sprinkling it 0:05:02.070 --> 0:05:06.890 for him. Yeah, that is sad. Hopefully we don't walk 0:05:06.950 --> 0:05:09.630 by a Nintendo 64 and a whole other range of 0:05:09.650 --> 0:05:13.250 emotions comes out. She's blowing my cartridges, too. 0:05:13.270 --> 0:05:15.530 Here's the question. Were you able to pull it together 0:05:15.810 --> 0:05:19.400 or even do some self-deprecating humor? Usually that's what I 0:05:19.460 --> 0:05:21.000 do in the middle of tears. 0:05:21.060 --> 0:05:21.940 Like to rebound. 0:05:22.690 --> 0:05:24.550 I'd say, yeah, I pulled it together pretty good after 0:05:24.610 --> 0:05:27.010 like five minutes or so. Five minutes. 0:05:27.210 --> 0:05:28.150 Wow. Okay. 0:05:28.170 --> 0:05:29.490 So it's a lot of tears. 0:05:29.529 --> 0:05:31.310 I will say that is a hard way to start 0:05:31.350 --> 0:05:34.010 a date. Like not your fault. Bad timing. 0:05:34.290 --> 0:05:34.610 Yeah. 0:05:34.730 --> 0:05:35.250 But tough. 0:05:35.490 --> 0:05:35.770 Sure. 0:05:35.830 --> 0:05:36.029 Yeah. 0:05:36.050 --> 0:05:37.670 So let's move on. What happened after that? 0:05:38.230 --> 0:05:39.650 So, yeah, we, you know, we walked around the store 0:05:39.670 --> 0:05:41.430 a bit and it was, and it was fun, you know? 0:05:41.650 --> 0:05:43.790 And then we were just kind of in the parking 0:05:43.830 --> 0:05:46.250 lot deciding what to do next. There was like this 0:05:46.300 --> 0:05:47.540 good fish and chips place. 0:05:48.380 --> 0:05:48.600 Okay. 0:05:48.750 --> 0:05:49.320 Yeah. 0:05:49.339 --> 0:05:49.560 All right. 0:05:49.580 --> 0:05:52.580 So you guys go to lunch? Yeah. So we drove separately. 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:55.300 Uh, I feel like at that point I was feeling good, 0:05:55.500 --> 0:05:59.010 not really emotional at all. Um, she had recently gone 0:05:59.070 --> 0:06:02.190 to Las Vegas and so she was showing me pictures 0:06:02.370 --> 0:06:06.490 from the trip and that's when the tears started coming again. 0:06:06.510 --> 0:06:09.690 Why would you cry over her Vegas pictures? 0:06:10.700 --> 0:06:11.659 I've never been there. 0:06:11.680 --> 0:06:11.740 Oh. 0:06:11.740 --> 0:06:16.150 You can still go. It's not too late. You don't 0:06:16.170 --> 0:06:17.090 have memories or anything. 0:06:17.110 --> 0:06:18.830 I will say, in that moment, it's kind of making 0:06:18.870 --> 0:06:23.400 it about you instead of about her. 0:06:23.450 --> 0:06:26.880 The Bellagio fountains are gorgeous, though. They could evoke tears 0:06:26.940 --> 0:06:28.160 if you've never seen them in person. 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:28.700 Okay. 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:30.120 It's nice. 0:06:30.180 --> 0:06:32.460 When you say you're crying, is it obvious? 0:06:32.480 --> 0:06:32.560 Yes. 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:34.480 Oh, it's obvious. Okay. 0:06:34.860 --> 0:06:38.420 Sometimes when I start crying, I get frustrated that I'm crying, 0:06:38.460 --> 0:06:40.300 and especially on a date with such a good person. 0:06:40.380 --> 0:06:44.740 So then my frustration kind of creates even more tears. Oh, 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:46.060 I hear you, David. 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.040 Please tell me that was the third time. 0:06:48.100 --> 0:06:49.620 It was just out of frustration, not. 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:51.380 So, no, actually, I did. 0:06:51.520 --> 0:06:53.400 It was a separate time the third time. Uh-oh. 0:06:53.490 --> 0:06:55.230 What was that? 0:06:55.730 --> 0:06:59.110 She had just been so sweet and understanding the whole day, 0:06:59.150 --> 0:07:02.050 and that's really kind of rare for me to come across. 0:07:02.070 --> 0:07:02.130 Oh. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:08.930 Yikes. That's a lot. Was there laughter? Was there joy? 0:07:08.950 --> 0:07:11.470 There was plenty of that, like when we were having 0:07:11.530 --> 0:07:14.330 lunch and when we were walking around the store and stuff, 0:07:14.370 --> 0:07:17.420 but just kind of what's memorable for her, I fear, 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.210 is just the moments where I was. 0:07:20.310 --> 0:07:22.470 At least you have an idea of what it could be. 0:07:22.530 --> 0:07:25.600 We're not going in totally blind. You've cried three different 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:29.000 forms of tears to her. Memory tears, jealousy tears, and 0:07:29.060 --> 0:07:31.520 happy sweet tears. Yeah. 0:07:31.540 --> 0:07:32.820 Cover the spectrum. 0:07:32.860 --> 0:07:35.000 Yeah, well, maybe we'll cry a whole new level of 0:07:35.060 --> 0:07:37.480 tears when we come back and she says yes to 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:40.420 another date with you. Oh, wow. 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:41.820 It gets awkward. 0:07:42.140 --> 0:07:44.320 It's who he is, Alexis. Let him be him. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:46.990 I promise you guys, I will not cry. 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:47.430 Okay, good. 0:07:47.460 --> 0:07:50.170 Because if you cry, Brooke's going to start crying, and 0:07:50.190 --> 0:07:52.730 then Alexis will probably start. I think it's so healthy. 0:07:52.830 --> 0:07:55.050 It's good for a good cry. Maybe not that many 0:07:55.130 --> 0:07:56.890 times in a short amount of period. 0:07:56.910 --> 0:07:58.250 To be honest, while we play a song, I'm going 0:07:58.270 --> 0:07:59.290 to go cry in the bathroom. 0:07:59.310 --> 0:07:59.690 Oh, good. Okay. 0:07:59.730 --> 0:08:02.770 Full emotional breakdown, and when we come back, we'll be 0:08:02.810 --> 0:08:05.350 ready to go for your second date update right after this. 0:08:05.390 --> 0:08:05.770 Hold on. 0:08:06.270 --> 0:08:07.750 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:07.770 --> 0:08:09.170 Second date update. 0:08:10.430 --> 0:08:12.510 Not a dry eye in the house. 0:08:12.530 --> 0:08:12.790 Ooh. 0:08:13.380 --> 0:08:14.820 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:08:15.500 --> 0:08:16.560 On one face, anyway. 0:08:17.380 --> 0:08:20.560 At least for our listener, David, who admitted he cried 0:08:20.760 --> 0:08:24.850 three separate times during his first date with Shay. Not 0:08:24.910 --> 0:08:28.170 on purpose. He was triggered, first by a pair of 0:08:28.410 --> 0:08:30.489 salt and pepper shakers at a home goods store. 0:08:30.890 --> 0:08:33.329 And she just happened to walk up at that exact moment, 0:08:33.470 --> 0:08:34.070 which sucks. 0:08:34.210 --> 0:08:37.590 Literally beginning, middle, end, this guy. Yeah, saw him crying 0:08:37.610 --> 0:08:39.970 in the aisle while looking at them. He set the tone. 0:08:40.050 --> 0:08:44.020 Number two was interesting. He cried looking at her picture 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:47.160 roll from a trip to Las Vegas because he's always 0:08:47.200 --> 0:08:51.120 wanted to visit, and the photos of homeless Spider-Man reminded 0:08:51.140 --> 0:08:52.850 him of what he's missing out on. 0:08:53.460 --> 0:08:55.220 Or the Mickey Mouse on the street that takes his 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:57.090 head off sometimes and smokes a cigarette. 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:57.869 Could be me. 0:08:57.929 --> 0:09:00.929 Or sometimes leaves the head on and smokes a cigarette. 0:09:00.990 --> 0:09:03.310 The third time happened when he was walking her out 0:09:03.330 --> 0:09:05.910 to her car after their meal of fish and chips. 0:09:06.380 --> 0:09:10.530 And he got overwhelmed by her kindness and compassion throughout 0:09:10.570 --> 0:09:13.710 the date. So he held her and the tears just 0:09:13.750 --> 0:09:17.429 started to flow. And David admits he's an emotional guy. 0:09:17.490 --> 0:09:20.309 That's just who he is. But he promises he's going 0:09:20.330 --> 0:09:21.949 to hold it together for this call. 0:09:22.210 --> 0:09:25.010 I don't know if I really believe you on that one, David. 0:09:25.050 --> 0:09:25.590 No, no, no. 0:09:25.610 --> 0:09:26.610 I promise. I promise. 0:09:26.670 --> 0:09:28.490 I'm feeling okay. I feel like he's got. 0:09:28.350 --> 0:09:31.550 Tape on his eyes right now, like wide open. So 0:09:31.570 --> 0:09:32.670 he can't like even blink. 0:09:33.210 --> 0:09:37.090 I mean, I think emotions are okay. It's just guy, girl, 0:09:37.130 --> 0:09:39.510 doesn't matter. Three times is a lot on one date. 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:41.040 Too much of any emotions. 0:09:41.059 --> 0:09:43.520 I think it would be good if you could hold 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:45.100 it together during this phone call. 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:46.980 David, you know what? I think you'll be able to 0:09:47.020 --> 0:09:49.140 do that. There you go. I believe in you. Let's 0:09:49.179 --> 0:09:51.540 just dial the number before we say anything else and 0:09:51.559 --> 0:09:54.110 get Shay on the line here. Here we go. 0:09:56.429 --> 0:09:57.429 Hello? 0:09:58.950 --> 0:09:59.170 Hello? 0:10:00.100 --> 0:10:01.640 Hey, we're looking to speak with Shay. 0:10:03.059 --> 0:10:04.160 Yeah, this is Shay. 0:10:04.980 --> 0:10:05.460 Hey, Shay. 0:10:05.700 --> 0:10:06.280 Hi, Shay. 0:10:06.300 --> 0:10:07.120 I like your energy. 0:10:07.200 --> 0:10:07.800 Quick to it. 0:10:08.179 --> 0:10:11.540 Yeah. Thank you for picking up. We're a radio show. 0:10:11.580 --> 0:10:13.280 We're called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:13.300 --> 0:10:16.420 Okay. 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:16.540 Okay. 0:10:17.429 --> 0:10:27.620 Definitely don't Google us. But we would like to talk 0:10:27.660 --> 0:10:30.199 to you about the segment that we do. It's called 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:31.280 a second date update. 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:37.470 Yeah, I've seen those before on social media. 0:10:38.510 --> 0:10:39.350 Oh, okay. 0:10:39.429 --> 0:10:41.270 Hey, Shay, coming to a feed near you. 0:10:41.370 --> 0:10:44.569 Yeah, they're kind of fun, right? We get to talk 0:10:44.610 --> 0:10:47.730 about people's personal lives or talk about people's dating lives 0:10:47.770 --> 0:10:52.040 and help them out a little bit. Shay, did you 0:10:52.059 --> 0:10:53.579 hang up? Oh, okay, she's there. 0:10:53.620 --> 0:10:56.660 No, I'm here. I'm just, what's going on? 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.679 Yeah, so that segment is what we would like to 0:10:59.720 --> 0:11:03.270 talk to you about. involving a listener of ours named David. 0:11:04.890 --> 0:11:07.340 Oh. Yeah. Oh, no. 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:12.000 David knows that he could have done some things a 0:11:12.020 --> 0:11:13.800 little differently on the date. 0:11:13.900 --> 0:11:16.250 To be fair, some of them were out of his control. Like, 0:11:16.290 --> 0:11:18.870 he did not know about the salt and pepper shakers 0:11:18.950 --> 0:11:21.550 and that. You were going to walk in right there. 0:11:22.030 --> 0:11:24.709 Oh, so he told you about that situation. 0:11:24.730 --> 0:11:27.060 I would love to. 0:11:26.860 --> 0:11:29.319 Hear your perspective of meeting a guy on a first 0:11:29.340 --> 0:11:31.760 date in a home goods. And wow. 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:36.280 I was really confused. Cause I, I mean, you know, 0:11:36.300 --> 0:11:40.450 that's our first, first time we saw each other like 0:11:40.690 --> 0:11:44.209 in person and there he is with tears. I mean, 0:11:44.770 --> 0:11:46.429 I didn't know if like, he'd just gotten a bad 0:11:46.570 --> 0:11:50.480 phone call. I had, I, You just don't know. Right, right, right. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.000 So, I mean, you were understanding. 0:11:52.020 --> 0:11:53.679 Yeah. 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:54.319 Okay. 0:11:55.820 --> 0:11:58.699 You know, so obviously you're not calling him back for 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:02.480 another date, and we're trying to see if that might 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:03.360 be the reason why. 0:12:03.380 --> 0:12:09.530 You know, there was so much emotion there. like, throughout 0:12:09.550 --> 0:12:13.280 the date, that there really wasn't much time to, like, 0:12:13.740 --> 0:12:16.960 actually get to know him or him to get to 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:17.679 know me. 0:12:18.059 --> 0:12:19.160 He didn't bounce back quick. 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:23.610 No, he was crying over the salt and pepper shakers. 0:12:23.630 --> 0:12:23.970 Yeah. 0:12:24.309 --> 0:12:26.810 But he was still crying when we got to the 0:12:26.870 --> 0:12:29.150 pillows and the candles. 0:12:29.570 --> 0:12:33.300 You're just walking through the store with him while he's sobbing? 0:12:33.880 --> 0:12:35.700 We were actually just trying to leave. The salt and 0:12:35.740 --> 0:12:37.920 pepper shakers were in the back of the store, so 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.000 we kind of had to go buy other things. 0:12:40.980 --> 0:12:43.160 You're like, look down. Just look at the floor. We'll 0:12:43.179 --> 0:12:45.699 get out of here as soon as we can. Well, 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:48.620 I can promise you that he is not crying at 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.280 this very moment. Are you sure? That might give you 0:12:51.340 --> 0:12:53.360 a chance to get to know him the way that 0:12:53.400 --> 0:12:55.830 you wanted to because he's on the other line listening 0:12:55.850 --> 0:12:56.420 to this call. 0:12:57.090 --> 0:12:58.250 He is? He's there? 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.929 Yeah, and I haven't heard any sobbing whatsoever. 0:13:01.690 --> 0:13:04.690 Oh, my God. Hey, Shay. 0:13:04.929 --> 0:13:06.130 Yeah. 0:13:06.530 --> 0:13:07.230 Hi. 0:13:07.270 --> 0:13:08.390 Coming stronger there, David. 0:13:08.410 --> 0:13:11.780 I really don't know why you're having the radio do this. 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.240 Did you not find that date strange? 0:13:16.220 --> 0:13:18.680 No, I know. I know. It's not, I guess, what 0:13:18.700 --> 0:13:20.120 a lot of people would consider normal. 0:13:20.140 --> 0:13:20.559 Hmm. 0:13:21.590 --> 0:13:24.370 But it is true that, you know, I am just 0:13:24.429 --> 0:13:27.690 in general kind of an emotional guy. You obviously saw 0:13:27.770 --> 0:13:30.870 kind of a firsthand example of that. But I'm here, 0:13:31.110 --> 0:13:34.760 I'm talking to you right now, and I'm holding it together. 0:13:34.780 --> 0:13:35.600 Look at that. 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:36.340 There he is. 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:37.980 I hear a manly man. 0:13:38.059 --> 0:13:40.780 I mean, honestly, that's impressive after what he just heard 0:13:40.820 --> 0:13:43.219 you say. I mean, not that you meant any harm 0:13:43.260 --> 0:13:45.240 in it, but, like, that would be tough for anybody. 0:13:45.260 --> 0:13:51.490 David, that is great. I mean, I'm... This is really, yeah, no, 0:13:51.510 --> 0:13:52.370 this is good. 0:13:52.390 --> 0:13:54.170 This gives me a pat on the head. 0:13:54.190 --> 0:13:56.490 But I want you to put yourself in my shoes. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:01.040 I show you pictures of my fun trip to Vegas 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.240 with my friends, and you start crying. 0:14:04.260 --> 0:14:05.660 Oh, my God. 0:14:06.660 --> 0:14:08.260 I mean, they're fun pictures. 0:14:09.120 --> 0:14:11.240 I know, I know, I know, but Shay, I mean, 0:14:11.380 --> 0:14:13.199 you know that that was kind of like a sensitive 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:14.630 topic for me, and I. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.400 Vegas? You're doubling down? He's always wanted to go. It's 0:14:18.420 --> 0:14:20.940 like a bucket list thing. It's not about him. 0:14:20.980 --> 0:14:23.620 You were so good the whole day about managing my emotions. 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.240 Why would you bring it up right now when you 0:14:25.300 --> 0:14:27.940 know that's what kind of caused it on our day? 0:14:28.260 --> 0:14:30.220 That is fair, Shay. That was kind of a low blow. 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:32.859 You would end up being the only person that goes 0:14:32.900 --> 0:14:36.160 to Vegas and is sober crying through the whole thing. 0:14:36.180 --> 0:14:38.800 There is a lot of drunk crying. Okay, I'm sorry. 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:41.760 I'm so sorry. I didn't put two and two together, 0:14:41.830 --> 0:14:45.950 but I really feel like I am just way too 0:14:46.050 --> 0:14:50.110 triggering for him yeah i don't know somehow home goods 0:14:50.530 --> 0:14:53.750 vegas these are not things that normally make people cry 0:14:53.770 --> 0:14:55.080 yeah true no. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.740 But listen we we avoid home goods and then if 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:00.820 we went if we went to vegas together that would 0:15:00.860 --> 0:15:03.060 be like that would be like the that would be 0:15:03.080 --> 0:15:04.540 like the dream. 0:15:04.270 --> 0:15:10.400 David let's calm down working Hit the brakes a little 0:15:10.420 --> 0:15:11.380 bit here, David. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:14.070 He's going for it, Brooke. 0:15:14.210 --> 0:15:17.010 I know, but here's the problem. You're putting so much 0:15:17.230 --> 0:15:19.710 on her about how she's the one triggering you. I 0:15:19.750 --> 0:15:22.910 think it's you that needs to gain control of your emotions. 0:15:23.050 --> 0:15:26.570 That's hard to hear coming from Brooke, honestly. I get it. 0:15:26.630 --> 0:15:28.010 It's hard to do sometimes. 0:15:28.490 --> 0:15:32.360 But I'm not actually crying right now, and I'm handling 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:33.020 my emotions. 0:15:33.180 --> 0:15:33.410 Oh, man. 0:15:33.700 --> 0:15:34.240 Doing good. 0:15:34.260 --> 0:15:35.740 He's waiting for us to hang out. Sounds like it. 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:36.980 Okay. You need to, like, pinch. 0:15:36.780 --> 0:15:39.400 Yourself or something to get out of it. You know, like, 0:15:39.540 --> 0:15:41.990 what do dudes do? You think of your grandma or something. 0:15:42.070 --> 0:15:44.330 I don't know. Maybe that's something else. That's a totally 0:15:44.350 --> 0:15:47.260 different scenario. Your grandma? It doesn't help, by the way. 0:15:47.270 --> 0:15:47.730 Baseball. 0:15:47.910 --> 0:15:49.790 I don't know. No, that's fine. 0:15:49.850 --> 0:15:51.320 That's okay. My grandma is totally fine. 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:52.060 Okay. 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:54.700 Okay. Grandma calms him down. All right. 0:15:55.260 --> 0:15:59.850 I'm struggling because I picture us going out and picking 0:15:59.950 --> 0:16:05.190 someplace fun, like Rainforest Cafe. And I want to know, honestly, 0:16:05.210 --> 0:16:07.960 how do you think that would go? 0:16:07.980 --> 0:16:12.450 Yeah, yeah. I mean, I would totally go to Rainforest Cafe. I... 0:16:13.090 --> 0:16:15.250 I actually once kind of hooked up with somebody in 0:16:15.270 --> 0:16:16.630 a bathroom at a Rainforest Cafe. What? 0:16:16.910 --> 0:16:18.280 Oh, my God. 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:19.840