1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stuffing not good to mother. 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn you, you gotta 5 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn. You haven't got to 6 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: turn them out to turn turn water to the water. 7 00:01:48,000 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 1: Go come come on your thahuh. I shall a good 8 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice? I come on 9 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: digging now one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay. 10 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you today about success. But 11 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: I want to talk to you about it like I 12 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: usually do in terms of a principle of it, but 13 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: I want to share something with you about it now. 14 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: I was talking to my daughter about it. I've talked 15 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: about my son in law about it, talking about it 16 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: with all my children, and I'm really starting to express 17 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: it to them now because I'm talking to a wide 18 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 1: range of people constantly. But I want to share something 19 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: with you. If you have any aspiration of being successful, 20 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: I want you to realize, starting right now, the effort 21 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 1: that is going to require. And that's why I think 22 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: it stops a lot of people. I think a lot 23 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 1: of people are never told or don't understand the sheer 24 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: efforts that it takes to become successful at anything in 25 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: any area of your life. If you think that doing 26 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 1: your best is enough, that I got news for you. 27 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: It's not. Well, Steve, What if you've done your best, though, 28 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,399 Speaker 1: and your best ain't good enough? Well, let me ask 29 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: you that same question. Hold on. If you want to 30 00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: be successful and you've done your best and best isn't 31 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: good enough, what you through? That's it? But Steve, it 32 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: was my best? No, no, no, no. It was the 33 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: best you had at that time, in that particular day. 34 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: But tomorrow add something to it. You've never done everything. 35 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: There is no you can't go no more, you can't 36 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: add no more. I've seen marathon and runners end up 37 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: crawling across the line. I've seen triath line people man 38 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: just staggering in the street and didn't want nobody to 39 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: help them because they knew that would disqualify them from 40 00:04:11,480 --> 00:04:17,480 Speaker 1: the race. You got more? Have you ever dipped into 41 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 1: your reserve tank? That's what we're talking about now. See 42 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: all of us have a reserve tank, you know. I 43 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: you know, on my ranch, I like to ride four wheelers. 44 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:30,919 Speaker 1: I have all terrain vehicles, and all of them have 45 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: a gas tank on it and a gas tank and 46 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: most of mine, let me see all of them. Yeah, 47 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: all of them have gas tank needles on them, and 48 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: it lets me know when I get down towards EAT 49 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 1: there's a little lane that's read that lets me know. Okay, Steve, 50 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 1: you're in the danger zone. Now you're riding into the 51 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 1: lowest part of your tank. But if I keep riding 52 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: and I forget to get some gas in there, guess 53 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 1: what when it runs out of gas. All of my 54 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: all terrain vie, all of them, Honda, Polaris, all of them. 55 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: Those are the makers. There's a button on the gas 56 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 1: tank itself that I can click and it says reserve. 57 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: That means they know that for the hardcore riders, they're 58 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: gonna ride somewhere and they're gonna get themselves in a 59 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: situation and they're gonna run out of everything. They're gonna 60 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: run out of road, they're gonna run out of gas. 61 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: They've prepared because they know for the hardcore rider, every 62 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: hardcore rider needs a reserve tank. And so there's a 63 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 1: button that you can click on the gas tank that 64 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: clicks it into a reserve, and it'll give you about 65 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:46,800 Speaker 1: fifty miles or twenty miles worth of gas in that Now, 66 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: guess what in that reserve That may be all you 67 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: need to get you to where you're going, or get 68 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:57,119 Speaker 1: you back to safety so you can refuel. Don't tell 69 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: me you've done your best. When your best, don't cut it. 70 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: What you're gonna do. See when best is possible, then 71 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: good enough ain't enough. See that's good enough. But if 72 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: the best is possible, why would you not shoot for that? 73 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 1: And you are all capable of making it. But you've 74 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: got to change your mindset and realize the effort that 75 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: has to be put forth in becoming successful. You've got 76 00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: to do it relentlessly, over and over and over and 77 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: over and every day. I try to do something to 78 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: progress my life for the better. I try to do 79 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,279 Speaker 1: something every day. I wake up every day with the plan. 80 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 1: Some phone calls, some meetings, some some some interviews. Something. Man, 81 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: that's going to advance and move the brand forward. Because 82 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: here's what's gonna happen. You are Let's say you reach 83 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: your goal. Let's say your goal is to make one 84 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. Well, I got news for you. Listen 85 00:06:58,000 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: to this. When you make the one hundred thousand dollars, 86 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: you can't go nowhere and go on vacation and put 87 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: your hand behind your head and say, I made a 88 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars. Guess what you got to do? You 89 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 1: got to find a way now to maintain that one 90 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 1: hundred thousand, to keep it coming in. So you can't 91 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: just get there and stop and rest and whoa. It 92 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 1: is harder to maintain your success than it is to 93 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: get successful. See let's say, let me let me show 94 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: you this. Supposed it takes you five to eight years 95 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: to find a way to make fifty thousand dollars. Let's 96 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 1: say it takes you five to eight years to find 97 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: a way to make an extra fifty thousand dollars, and 98 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: you finally, through work and effort, you get to the 99 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: fifty thousand dollars. More. That's that's it's only just begun now, 100 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: because guess what, in order to keep the fifty coming in, 101 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: you got to duplicate what you did to get there. 102 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: And then, oh, here's what you're going to have the 103 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:07,559 Speaker 1: audacity being a human being, You're gonna want another fifty 104 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: because you're a human being. Because you gotta have something 105 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: else to shoot for. Now you're gonna want another fifty. Well, now, 106 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: I guess what you gotta do now, Now you gotta 107 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: do what you did before, plus you gotta come up 108 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: with something else. Then after that you're gonna have the 109 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: audacity because you're humans, you're gonna want another fifty. Says 110 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: how this works? And see that that's that that's the 111 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: importance of your relationship with God, because you're gonna constantly 112 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 1: need it and ain't ever a point where you're gonna 113 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: be through needing it. But there ain't gonna become a 114 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: point in your life where you're gonna through. Won't through, 115 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: be through, won't nothing unless you just gave up. And 116 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: if you don't gave up, who wants that? Come on, y'all, 117 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: this is going to take quite a bit of effort, 118 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,360 Speaker 1: and if you think it will come to you any 119 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: other way, you're sadly mistaken. Because of all the successful 120 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: people out I know that the effort they put out 121 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: on a daily basis is daunting, and I think that 122 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:09,040 Speaker 1: the average person just doesn't understand the requirement of time 123 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,839 Speaker 1: and effort that it takes to get that and willingness 124 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,599 Speaker 1: to put it out. You gotta cut a lot of 125 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: monkey business out your life. All that hanging out, all 126 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: that late and all that club and all that drinking, 127 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 1: all it. You gotta cut a whole lot of monkey 128 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: business out to be successful. Man, if you're planning on 129 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:37,240 Speaker 1: being successful, get up early, stay up late, work, try, think, meet, greet, smile, attract. 130 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: It takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it. 131 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 1: God is pressed to passing out blessings all day long. 132 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 1: Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling 133 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: you right now. I want everything God got for me 134 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 1: because what he's shown me so far. Who if he 135 00:09:52,760 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 1: got some more? Man on man? How good is God? Hunt? Ladies, gentleman, everybody, anybody, 136 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 1: somebody who that down? Do I have your attention? That's 137 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: good because I need it because what I'm about to 138 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:27,439 Speaker 1: say now can only be said by a very very 139 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:32,199 Speaker 1: small minute group of people. It's about six of us, 140 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: to be exact. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Steve 141 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Now I can introduce you to that 142 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: small group of people that can say that. Surety Strawberry 143 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 1: ain't good morning, Steve, Good morning, Colin Farrell, good morning. 144 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: What's up crew kill space. We call him Junior morning. 145 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 1: I'm King of praise nephew, Tommy top top top top. 146 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 1: And you can't hear because I might don't ever work 147 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: Mississippi monocle up up. And the dude that told you 148 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:24,559 Speaker 1: it was a small group that said it me And 149 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,480 Speaker 1: if you don't know who I am, I don't know 150 00:11:26,520 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: what to tell you. Everybody, yea, ladies and gentlemen, we 151 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: are here, thank you Lord for another day. I show 152 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: appreciate it. The sun ain't up yet, but I showed 153 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: praise God I am. And if you let me live 154 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 1: to see another crack of dawn, I give you my word. 155 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do everything in my power to say thank 156 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:57,680 Speaker 1: you by taking this day and taking full advantage of it. 157 00:11:58,280 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: I promise you, Lord that I will make a concerted 158 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 1: effort to forward and progress myself, to make myself better, 159 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 1: and to do something today to make you proud of me. 160 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do today. Anybody else gonna join 161 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: in with that? Alright? Am? I'm there, hen, raise up, 162 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: let's go. I like how you think this morning, sir, 163 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 1: uh huh. Make that same thing just applying for me, 164 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:46,959 Speaker 1: just in the hospital. That's a blessing everything. J I 165 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: will get heavy when you need to talk a little 166 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 1: strongly in your miccause I'm thinking you sound like your 167 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: fathing right now. No, okay, there you go, there you go. 168 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: Oh man today, Steve, you know we're pretty good man, 169 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: I really do. Man, I'm ready. Oh what do you 170 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: segment's gonna be? But I'm ready for it. You know 171 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: that's coming to work like a listener though you don't 172 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:20,840 Speaker 1: know what. That's why we like coming because it's an adventure. 173 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: You just never know what's gonna happen. You never know 174 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: that ain't gonna happen. Why don't we know that pre 175 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,560 Speaker 1: radio show me after twenty something years, we know ain't 176 00:13:34,600 --> 00:13:37,600 Speaker 1: coming up? At thirty two minutes after the hour, asked 177 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 1: the CLO. With the Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in 178 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: the building right after this, you're listening to the Steve 179 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now 180 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:53,360 Speaker 1: for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey, at 181 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: your service. This one is from Ashland and Tennessee. Ashland says, 182 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,200 Speaker 1: I've been married for six years to a chief eater 183 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: and we have not had sex in a year. He 184 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 1: confided in our next door neighbor, who happens to be 185 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:09,600 Speaker 1: young and single. My neighbor saw my husband leave one morning, 186 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:13,200 Speaker 1: and he came over and lectured me, unsaving my marriage. 187 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 1: I got emotional and he came close to comfort me, 188 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 1: and I could feel him through his pants. He said 189 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 1: he would be happy to comfort me if I ever 190 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 1: needed it. It scared me half to death. But how 191 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 1: can I stop staring at his house? Should I go 192 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: next door and relieve a little stress with this fine 193 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 1: young man? Well, well, look what didn't happened here? Well, ma'am, 194 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 1: look can I have a real honest and frank answer 195 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 1: for this man? Tell Ashlyn Ashley, you've been married six 196 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: years to achieve it? Now, did she say she confided 197 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: in the young man nor her husband? Now, her husband 198 00:14:59,720 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 1: would over that and told this little dude what he 199 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: up to and what he's doing little dude and took 200 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: this information like, oh okay, like he'll really care for 201 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: your husband, know how? So now he just slid all 202 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 1: over to comfort you, up against you. Now you're looking 203 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: out when you can't take your eyes off his house. 204 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 1: But it ain't really the house though, it's one of 205 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: the tenants and it's the tenant that stayed on the 206 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 1: neighbor that's got you the most concerned. Look, if you 207 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:53,200 Speaker 1: went over that to get some comfort, you would be 208 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: wrong for doing that, because that is wrong and two 209 00:15:57,880 --> 00:16:05,400 Speaker 1: wrongs don't make a right. But with that said, if 210 00:16:05,440 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: the situation were the other way around, I promise you 211 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: your cheating husband would be over that getting comforted like 212 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 1: he is anyway something. So now, if you went over 213 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:26,200 Speaker 1: that forwsome comfort, h come on, nah, ringing home? Ain't 214 00:16:26,200 --> 00:16:33,400 Speaker 1: nobody got to know? Yeah, we encouraging her. I this 215 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 1: just a fact, all right. We gotta move on, Tommy, Yeah, McKay, 216 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 1: we're moving on. McKay. He got us. My boyfriend and 217 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: I dated for a long time, but we broke up 218 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: and we'll never get back together. So I went out 219 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: with his friend and we clicked. Mike's boyfriend found out 220 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,440 Speaker 1: and he's having a hard time dealing with it. He's 221 00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 1: tried to jump on his friend and he's been calling 222 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:08,439 Speaker 1: me all kinds of names. We're all single, and I 223 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: can date whoever I want. I wouldn't have a problem 224 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: if he dated a friend of mine. I don't want 225 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: him anymore. Why is he tripping? Oh? Why is he 226 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: tripping because the two things. One, he tripping with his 227 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 1: boy because you're supposed to be my boy, but which 228 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: proves they ain't really as close or the boy he 229 00:17:33,400 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 1: thought he was. Secondly, he tripping with you because how 230 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:41,679 Speaker 1: could you because you knew this is supposed to be 231 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:44,919 Speaker 1: my boy. So what I think is I thank your 232 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:50,680 Speaker 1: little boyfriend been delusional for quite some time. He think 233 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 1: his boys his boy that really ain't his boy, and 234 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: he still thank you his woman, she said, ever get 235 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 1: back together? Your ex boyfriend is living a life with 236 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: a lot of delusion because he thought his boy was 237 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 1: really his boy, but he ain't his boy, and he 238 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: think you still his woman. So now he didn't try 239 00:18:15,119 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 1: to jump on the boy, and now he mad at you. 240 00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: But now you lied talking about didn't lie. You told 241 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:25,320 Speaker 1: you wouldn't be mad if he dated one of your girlfriends. 242 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:31,280 Speaker 1: That's a damn lie, and you and I and everybody listening, No, 243 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:38,080 Speaker 1: that's a lie. Well maybe that's what her ex should do. Well, 244 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:43,040 Speaker 1: you know, don't nobody want him. They're never getting back together. 245 00:18:43,320 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 1: She does not want him anymore anymore. All right, Edna, 246 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,840 Speaker 1: We're moving on. Edna in Kentucky, says, I'm in my 247 00:18:51,920 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: mid sixties, Edna, Steve that name in my mid sixties, 248 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: and I started driving for a ride share company. Recently, 249 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: I picked up an older black mail from an upscale 250 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: neighborhood and he said he had to pick a friend up. 251 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: I want to pick up a beautiful, younger black woman. 252 00:19:13,440 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: They started to kiss and undress in the back of 253 00:19:15,960 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: my suv. He instructed me to get on the interstate 254 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 1: and ride until they finished their business on the back seat. 255 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 1: He paid me three hundred dollars cash for the ride, 256 00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:29,239 Speaker 1: and I asked and asked if I would like to 257 00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 1: be his personal driver? Is this too risky or should 258 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:39,439 Speaker 1: I do it? What boy? Become his personal driver? What 259 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 1: is you talking about? And quick write me in about it? Yeah? 260 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 1: And you miss your money out with your little old tail. 261 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: Stop all this? What is you write us? Fall? Drive? 262 00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,879 Speaker 1: Beat the personal drive and drive and shut your damn mouth. 263 00:19:55,520 --> 00:20:00,439 Speaker 1: Personal driver, you ride share, personal driver, ride share, chouff, 264 00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: ride chair dry to rich dude, girl, we're riding us. 265 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: And get your money and try not to look back down, 266 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: miror try get your three hundred dollars and keep your 267 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 1: eyes on the road. Edna, that's all you need maps 268 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: and driving. That's all you needs. Baby. That's right. Wow, 269 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: nice personal driver. So is he married, Steve or is 270 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: she married? Uh? Yeah, it don't matter. That ain't our business. 271 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:47,800 Speaker 1: I'm asking. We don't know them. Oh he married while 272 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: he in that car? Right, exactly? All right? All right, 273 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 1: thank you, CeeLo. Coming up next, it is the nephew 274 00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: would run that brank back. Right after this. Are listening 275 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 1: to This Day Morning show coming up at the top 276 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 1: of the hour and trending headlines. The four former Minnesota 277 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 1: police officers pled not guilty in violating George Floyd's civil 278 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:15,000 Speaker 1: rights at a virtual hearing. We'll talk about that, and 279 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: in entertainment news, what is going on with Joy Reid 280 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 1: versus Nicki Minaj's viral vaccine deliberation, and doctor Fauci responds 281 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: to Nicki Minaj about this too. We'll talk about these 282 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: stories at the top of the hour. But right now, 283 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 1: the nephew is here. We'll run that prank back. What 284 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: you got fourth, nap, It's a God is not through 285 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:43,520 Speaker 1: with you, but we are more time. It is not 286 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 1: through with you, but we are. Let's go cat go Hello, Hello, 287 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach our sister Takara. This is brother 288 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: Brinkley from the church. How are you doing? Oh hey, 289 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: how it's it's I'm at work. Can I call you back? Uh? Well, 290 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 1: this is this is kind of urgent. I call your 291 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: your house phone and I didn't get an answer, and 292 00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:12,639 Speaker 1: I had this other number on file, so I wanted 293 00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: to reach out to you. But what I won't take long. 294 00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: But it really is a hurt. All right, wellcome that 295 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 1: urgent matter if you don't mind, all right, hold on, 296 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 1: hold on, let me let me step away from our tubercle. Hello. Hello, yeah, okay, 297 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: so what's uh spechually Okay, we have a bit of 298 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: a problem here and we're gonna try to We're trying 299 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: to clean up a lot of things here at the church. 300 00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 1: You know, I hate to be the one to bring 301 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: you some bad news. Let me just start by by 302 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: saying this. God might not be through with you, but 303 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,920 Speaker 1: we are here at the church. It has been brought 304 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 1: to our tension. Uh, Sister car that you guys are 305 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:56,320 Speaker 1: halfway coming to church. You you you might come once 306 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: once out of a month. You're not tithing as we 307 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:03,879 Speaker 1: expect that. You know, the church can't really depend on you. Um, 308 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,399 Speaker 1: it's you you got, you know, you bring your kids. 309 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 1: I think your brother comes to the church, but everybody 310 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,679 Speaker 1: is coming every now when then we cannot depend on 311 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,360 Speaker 1: you all to be the members and have the expectation 312 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: of what we're trying to Dodd you say, you say, 313 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:26,480 Speaker 1: your name is yes and you work, you work under 314 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: the Dacian. I'm sorry, I've never heard of you before. 315 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: I have been officiated by the pastor as I'm over 316 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:36,760 Speaker 1: actually over the finance and we're going through all of 317 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 1: the books and looking at all of the numbers of 318 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: the of the members of the church, the directory, and 319 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,399 Speaker 1: we're noticing what people are payan tide, what people aren't fanside, 320 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:49,040 Speaker 1: who's coming to church, who's participating in different and different 321 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 1: UH ministries and whatnot. And Sister Takar, I got, I 322 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,520 Speaker 1: have to be honest with you. You you am maybe 323 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: once every one of the mind we might see you 324 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,359 Speaker 1: might not see you, you know, and like I said, 325 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: God may not beat through it, but we all okay, 326 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 1: you mean saying that understening Why I don't understand like 327 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,120 Speaker 1: y'all monitoring my my my church going like I can't, 328 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: I can't, I can't. I have to go every single week. 329 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: I mean, when I can, Why are you absent so 330 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: much at the church? Explain that? I mean, I have 331 00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: three kids, you know, I mean I have two jobs. 332 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes I don't. I mean, I still pray. I don't 333 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 1: understand how a church can are you y'all stairs? You 334 00:24:35,320 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 1: got two jobs? But we're not getting tired like you 335 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 1: got two jobs. You're not tied like you got two 336 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 1: jobs because I can't afford you. Just you just said 337 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: I got two jobs. That's what you just said, and 338 00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:49,520 Speaker 1: that those two jobs are in supporting my chid. I mean, 339 00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,960 Speaker 1: I can't support the church and my kids. It's the 340 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: same term. I can't do both. I mean, I I 341 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: give when I can. Let me ask you something. What 342 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: are you making on that other job? Are you serious? 343 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,840 Speaker 1: Are you really? You? Really? You really? As I didn't 344 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: know the church? God is this deep with you really 345 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: asking me how much I make? And my fucking y'all 346 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 1: that I chat to support my kids? Cool? Now? Did 347 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:19,200 Speaker 1: this got to be something? This is I'm gonna say 348 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: this to you again. God may not be through with you, 349 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 1: but we are. You are gonna pay your tides if 350 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: you're not gonna come to work on a consistent basis, 351 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,199 Speaker 1: then what what do you benefit the church? Is that 352 00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 1: what the church is about? This can't be. I'm gonna 353 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: say this. I'm gonna say this to you. You let 354 00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 1: me tell you what the church is all about. The churches. Hey, 355 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: and you say we go with you again one more time. 356 00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 1: I'm serious. No, I'm gonna tell you this you're talking about. 357 00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,000 Speaker 1: This is that what the church is about. Let me 358 00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 1: tell you what the church is. The church is a 359 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:59,840 Speaker 1: hospital for cripple souls. You understand it. That's what Okay, 360 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,360 Speaker 1: that's what the church is. But when when we have 361 00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: the souls that are coming in to be saved, we 362 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 1: are doing our job. And guess what those people that 363 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: are coming in, you know what they're doing. They're tithing. 364 00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: That's what they're doing. They're tithing. You said the Dakara. 365 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,879 Speaker 1: I'm sure your soul it's crippled. You're not coming and 366 00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:22,840 Speaker 1: you're not tithing. You may give us a little some 367 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:25,840 Speaker 1: something when you show up if you show up. Am 368 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 1: I right or wrong? M okay? Hold, let me get 369 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: one thing straight. This is what you called me for 370 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: in the middle of my work day to tell me 371 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:38,359 Speaker 1: that you're kicking me out the church because I don't 372 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: give enough money to the church while I'm at my 373 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:46,840 Speaker 1: job that I can barely afford to pay my bills with. 374 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:49,160 Speaker 1: Not a fact. I don't even know who you are. 375 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: I've never met you in my life, and I don't 376 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 1: even know what this church. You know, this church. I 377 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,040 Speaker 1: hate to say it, but if that's what the church 378 00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:04,800 Speaker 1: is about, you had the nerve to call blo. Okay 379 00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: na na na, na na. Let me say something. Now, 380 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:11,920 Speaker 1: you're being very Unchristian like, nah, just the car you're 381 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: gonna watch you done? In your language him, this is 382 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: not Christian like, well, well do you do you know 383 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: brother Dwayne? Isn't that your brother? Okay? And my brother 384 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:28,040 Speaker 1: Duwayne is who told me to call you? Really my brother? 385 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 1: So so what is this about? Hum? Whatever? I don't 386 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,639 Speaker 1: know what is your name? My name is nephew Tommy 387 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your brother Duwayne got 388 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:51,760 Speaker 1: me to prank phone call you. No, Oh my gosh, yo, 389 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: he's about to get me fire you from this job. 390 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: I'm in a lobby screaming. He looking at me. Oh mysh, 391 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:09,840 Speaker 1: you are yeah, what's up? No? No? Normal, Oh my god, 392 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:14,800 Speaker 1: oh my god. My heart is racing tell me it's 393 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,199 Speaker 1: the car. What is the baddest and I mean the 394 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harvey. God is 395 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:32,880 Speaker 1: not through with you, but we are. We are gonna 396 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:35,400 Speaker 1: pay ties around here. I'm telling you you're gonna pay well. 397 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: Last tell y'all, pay y'all ties every day. We don't 398 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: want to allow next. What else is going on? Yeah, 399 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,920 Speaker 1: let's get your you know what's going on West Palm Beaches. 400 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,040 Speaker 1: What's going on? Baby? Next week Friday and Saturday, twenty 401 00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 1: four and twenty fifth at the Improv. That's what's going on. 402 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: Stupid is coming to town and Nephew will be there. 403 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 1: Think it's our own said. Now I get to take 404 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 1: his way to getting his good. Four shows. Two on Friday, 405 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: two on Saturday, and we're gonna be m you know 406 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 1: what our mask on. We're gonna laugh through the mask. 407 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: How about that? Laugh through the mask? Next Friday and 408 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: Saturday night at dan Pride, West Palm Beach, Floyd. All right, nephew, 409 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, 410 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you. Don't go anywhere, 411 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: stick around. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll 412 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey 413 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:34,720 Speaker 1: Morning Show and trending headline news. Former Minneapolis police officers 414 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 1: Derek Chauvin, Thomas Lane, j Alexander Quang, and Taotoe have 415 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:44,640 Speaker 1: been charged with violating Floyd's that's George Floyd's constitutional rights 416 00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: in ways that resulted in bodily injury two and the 417 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 1: death of George Floyd. Each officer pleaded not guilty to 418 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 1: federal charges Tuesday at a virtual hearing. The hearing also 419 00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 1: included some of the free trial motions, including request us 420 00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: from former police officers that lame Quang and Taou and 421 00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: asking to separate their cases from Chauvin's. Chauvin was convicted 422 00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,240 Speaker 1: in Floyd's murder in April twenty twenty one, and his 423 00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: fellow ex officers argue that they would not get a 424 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:20,080 Speaker 1: fair trial if connected to Chauvin. The judge recessed the 425 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: hearing without announcing a decision on a trial date, leading 426 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: some close to the case to speculate it could be 427 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: pushed into next year. Derek Chauvin is serving a twenty 428 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 1: two year and a half sentence in a Minnesota prison 429 00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:37,280 Speaker 1: for the murder of George Floyd. See here's when it 430 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: comes to law. That kind of throws me. You. These 431 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: defendants are trying to say they don't feel as though 432 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: they can get a fair trial if they're connected to 433 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:54,400 Speaker 1: George Floyd. I mean to Mark Chauvin, You, Derek Chauvin, 434 00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,840 Speaker 1: you was there, You were connected to him that day 435 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: when you yeah, you understanding that watching watching him murder 436 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 1: this many and your job is to serve and protect everybody, 437 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,800 Speaker 1: and you did nothing to serve or protect that day. 438 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:17,640 Speaker 1: Now you want to act like called You don't want 439 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: nobody to think you was with him. Y'ah, same uniform, O, y'all, 440 00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: same division, y'all you stood there. See, man, the only 441 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 1: way we're going to put a curb on this police 442 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:38,240 Speaker 1: brutality that that happens is that everybody involved has to 443 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: be a held accountable. If a criminal. If four criminals 444 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 1: get in a car and one criminal gets out the 445 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: car and go inside and shoot somebody and come back 446 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 1: and get in the car, all four of them fit 447 00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: to go to jail, and together together one is gonna 448 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: go in there for murder one you got out to 449 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: call you in there and shot him, and everybody else 450 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:10,400 Speaker 1: is going for murder. Two, you participated in a murder. 451 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: You didn't intend for it to happen, but that's man 452 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: slaughter dog. And you didn't do anything to call the police. Alice, Yeah, 453 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: you damn police. That's another thing. How many times have 454 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,240 Speaker 1: you watched these police shows and you heard them say 455 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:34,480 Speaker 1: why didn't you report it? Why didn't you try to 456 00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: get the man help? I was scared. Well, when you 457 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:44,080 Speaker 1: are the help and you provide no help? What you 458 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:48,479 Speaker 1: want us to do? Who pay you to help? I'm sorry? 459 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: Where we had now? Yeah? Yeah we didn't already die? 460 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: Nine one one? You help? Now? You ain't the nine 461 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:08,920 Speaker 1: or the one on? What were doing? Hill? Yes, sir? 462 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:14,760 Speaker 1: It is so types of cases too, all them guts 463 00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,880 Speaker 1: to pay. Gotta stop all of that blue code honor, 464 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:23,160 Speaker 1: the blue, the Blue brotherhood. That all to stop, stop 465 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:29,400 Speaker 1: all that collaboration on filling out the police report, Na man, 466 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: everybody accountable. Because I watched after the George Floyd thing, 467 00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:38,440 Speaker 1: they showed a video of a police officer handling somebody 468 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 1: crazy and one of the black police officers went over 469 00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 1: there and put him and say, hey man, yo, you 470 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:46,560 Speaker 1: you know what you're doing. See that's how policing work. 471 00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,400 Speaker 1: That's it. When you see something wrong, corrected what you're 472 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: to do? Yeah, going too far? Yeah? Yeah? All right? Um, well, 473 00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 1: said Steve switching gears in entertainment News. Well, NICKI Nag 474 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: if you notice, did not go to the MET gala 475 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: because of the vaccine requirement. That's why she said she 476 00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 1: didn't go. She shared the news on Twitter, saying if 477 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:13,719 Speaker 1: I get vaccinated, it won't be for the met She said, 478 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,719 Speaker 1: It'll be once I feel I've done enough research. I'm 479 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,840 Speaker 1: working that now. She also shared that her cousin and 480 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: Trinidad won't get the shot because his friend got it 481 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:26,520 Speaker 1: and got this guy's his friend got it and became 482 00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: impotent and had swollen testicles. The vaccine, that's what said. 483 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: That sounded like an infection. That sound like a virus. 484 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: That sounds like like the shot, because of which she 485 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 1: puts this on Twitter. Though. Yeah, so Joey read from 486 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 1: us in d c RI report. Um just got mad. 487 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,480 Speaker 1: I mean this upset her. She got mad at Nikki 488 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: for not urging her followers, and you know Nikki has millions. Uh, 489 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: she got mad at Nikki for not urging her followers 490 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,320 Speaker 1: to get vaccinated. From there, it got real ugly between 491 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,319 Speaker 1: the ladies with the viral results, and there is more 492 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,760 Speaker 1: doctor falls heard about it. He didn't agree with Nicki 493 00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:27,000 Speaker 1: Minaj's anti vaccine stand so he said on CNN with 494 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: an interview with in an interview with Jake Tapper that 495 00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: Nikki was spreading misinformation after she admitted that she's not vaccinated. First, 496 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: we didn't heard about her about testicle. And let me 497 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: explain something to y'all. For everybody that has a theory 498 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 1: that this is a plot to get rid of black people, 499 00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: let me explain something to you. This this is this 500 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 1: vaccine is everywhere. It's a global pandemic. Y'all. Do you 501 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,399 Speaker 1: know that France just passed the issue coming up on 502 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 1: fashion Week that you couldnt come into parents from the 503 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 1: United States and lets you vaccinated. That's not a black event? 504 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,399 Speaker 1: All right? Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, 505 00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,200 Speaker 1: stay well, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 506 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:16,799 Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening to show, all right? Uh, 507 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 1: We were still talking about the statement that Nicki Minaj 508 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,840 Speaker 1: made why she didn't go to the met gala because 509 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 1: she didn't want to get vaccinated because her cousin told 510 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 1: her that one of his friends took the vaccine and 511 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,719 Speaker 1: he ended up being becoming impotent and with swollen testicles 512 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 1: and face. Day. Yeah, let me just and doctor Fouci said, 513 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 1: there's no medical claim to that. That's misinformation. Go ahead, Yeah, 514 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let the sellers jump in here. Yeah, but 515 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 1: you trying to tip And oh, by the way, I 516 00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: like Nicki Minaje. But listen to this, though, all the 517 00:36:56,800 --> 00:37:02,880 Speaker 1: people that then took this damn vaccine were testicles. We 518 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: we using the reference of your cousin's friend in Trinidad, duds, testicles, 519 00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: the swolden. That's why he shouldn't have took the vaccine. Girl, 520 00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 1: what you mean to tell me that a bunch of 521 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 1: men got together and created something that could affect our testicles? What? No? 522 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: And a woman and have you heard research scuse any 523 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:50,720 Speaker 1: other testicles spoke out on this any first? Okay, Now, now, 524 00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,919 Speaker 1: ain't a man testicles across the country that then got 525 00:37:54,920 --> 00:38:01,799 Speaker 1: the shot, ain't new motesticle swolders, ain't nobody the Trendidad 526 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 1: that's called VD Let's keep dog. That is not the vaccine. 527 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 1: And Calip pointed out on the break, Yeah, Fiser, which 528 00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: came up with the vaccine is the same people that 529 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 1: makes something else that start with a V. That's important, 530 00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: and that's viagra, which is a top seller. Oh, by 531 00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,799 Speaker 1: the way, a matter of fact, why don't when we 532 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:42,200 Speaker 1: take our next shot, drop something that viagra in there 533 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,560 Speaker 1: for me? But we can get all this at one time. 534 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 1: They'll be lined up, Tommy, you will run out of them. 535 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:51,719 Speaker 1: You'll run out of vaccine if you do that. Genius, Tommy, genius, 536 00:38:53,360 --> 00:39:02,439 Speaker 1: we take viagra. Don't know what in its? What? Sir? 537 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:10,200 Speaker 1: The research she go? What we gotta go? Guys, coming 538 00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:15,200 Speaker 1: up four minutes after day hour. We'll be back with 539 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,719 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. 540 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:22,960 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, now 541 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: that summer's practically over, a lot of couples are probably 542 00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 1: getting ready for a nice long cuffing season. But it 543 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: turns out the cold weather it may not be so 544 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:36,400 Speaker 1: good for couples, with cheating likely to be on the rise. Okay. 545 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:40,799 Speaker 1: A new survey by Elicit Affairs suggests that September is 546 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:44,040 Speaker 1: the month with many people realize they need to break 547 00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: from their significant other and start looking for love somewhere else. 548 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: In fact, the polls find that over half of people 549 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: claim that they reassess their relationship during the pandemic, while 550 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 1: thirty four percent of women and thirty two percent of 551 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: men feel less passionate about their p partners after spending 552 00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:05,799 Speaker 1: so much time at home with them, plus with some 553 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 1: folks returning to the office, it makes it easier to cheat. So, Steve, 554 00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:13,480 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you any advice for people to help 555 00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,800 Speaker 1: them stay together and to stop all of this cheating 556 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,520 Speaker 1: and stuff in the well. And you know, COVID was 557 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,640 Speaker 1: you know when he's When I knew that COVID was 558 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:28,960 Speaker 1: was it was devastating. Okay, I knew it was bad. 559 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 1: But when Bill and limit h five for divorce doing covid. 560 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,800 Speaker 1: When a hundred and thirty billion can't keep a woman, 561 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 1: we Houston, we have a problem. Highly helled. The dude 562 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 1: driving the Panpsy truck supposed to keep his girl, Bill 563 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,720 Speaker 1: got one hundred and thirty bitten. It's hundred and thirty 564 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:09,799 Speaker 1: billion and she rolling out. This pandemic is real. If 565 00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:16,880 Speaker 1: you have any chinks in your armor COVID. COVID not 566 00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:22,880 Speaker 1: only attacks your body, your immune system, yeah, it attacks 567 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:28,320 Speaker 1: your relationship. Yeah, you don't have a strong immune system 568 00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:33,320 Speaker 1: in your relationship. COVID fitting to dismantle that. Yeah, COVID. 569 00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:38,400 Speaker 1: COVID will let you know what your spouse really really 570 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 1: look like. After about two and a half months of 571 00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: not going to the nail salon or house salon, you 572 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:48,640 Speaker 1: really really get to see who that other person is. 573 00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:54,839 Speaker 1: Whoa that? Yeah? Have you lost? I think he did? 574 00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 1: I think he really. I didn't say that, y'all. I 575 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 1: said mine was different. See you when you try to 576 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:11,280 Speaker 1: keep your relationships nails. Okay, we both in here shaving. 577 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 1: Let me say that full bid, no idea. She's listening 578 00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:31,040 Speaker 1: and she taking the kids. Yeah, Steve said, I didn't 579 00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:37,640 Speaker 1: say that. Up. What is you and Steve on that 580 00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: talking about hand nail's fault and y'all ain't got either one. Yeah, 581 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,600 Speaker 1: mind you. The nail salons were closed. The hair salons 582 00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 1: were closed for a good period of time. Oh we know, 583 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: Oh we know. They were clothed. Well back to the 584 00:42:55,800 --> 00:43:01,040 Speaker 1: original question, See what advice can you get to these 585 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 1: couples for the month of September not to cheat? I 586 00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,640 Speaker 1: ain't you know. Look, I'm gonna tell you something, and 587 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real with If a person got their 588 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,120 Speaker 1: mind made up. They ain't nothing reef and being able 589 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 1: to say on this radio as soon as he hear it, 590 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: he or she gonna see them again. They not gonna 591 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:27,240 Speaker 1: stop wanting them because I'm fitna get his uncle Steve speech. 592 00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:42,080 Speaker 1: Try y'all go, you could try, well, you know you 593 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:47,600 Speaker 1: did say your vials. Okay, you know it would be 594 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: the honorable thing to do, and you know you gotta 595 00:43:51,680 --> 00:44:00,000 Speaker 1: consider the consequences and damages that can occur from your actions. 596 00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:05,640 Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not going You're getting next, not buying 597 00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,279 Speaker 1: it all? Right here, we gets a dude unbuttoning his 598 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 1: shirt right now while we talk. Coming up next the 599 00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:15,359 Speaker 1: nephew with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're 600 00:44:15,400 --> 00:44:20,439 Speaker 1: listening Stave Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top 601 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,400 Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's the 602 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:27,560 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter for today. The subject is turning a hood 603 00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:31,359 Speaker 1: dude into a husband. We'll get into that a little later, 604 00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's prank 605 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us? Nea? What We're 606 00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,680 Speaker 1: gonna go down to the adoption agent, the adoption eight. 607 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: That's where we hit it. Let's go Kare down. Let's 608 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: roll down to the adoption. Y'all stay with me. Buckle up, 609 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,520 Speaker 1: buckle up, and radman, we're going down to the adoption eight. 610 00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 1: Let's go ki. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Clarens. Yeah, 611 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,680 Speaker 1: this is Clarens. How you doing man? This is Robert Robert. 612 00:44:57,960 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: We were trying to get us schedule with you guys. 613 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:03,200 Speaker 1: Maybe we can swing through and uh pick up a 614 00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,520 Speaker 1: little Clarence. I guess around six, if you guys are 615 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:09,160 Speaker 1: available around six? Uh okay, hey, what do you mean 616 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:12,400 Speaker 1: picking up little Clarance? Well, we got the um, we 617 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 1: got the call that we can come and actually pick 618 00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 1: up Clarence and and and take him with us if 619 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:20,440 Speaker 1: you guys practice things up yet? Whoa way? Man got 620 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,239 Speaker 1: the call from? Who? Did you can come pick him up? 621 00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,360 Speaker 1: I don't know nothing about this. Well, my name is Robert, 622 00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:28,120 Speaker 1: Robert and my wife and I got the call that 623 00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 1: we could do. You not know about us, um adopting 624 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:36,839 Speaker 1: little Clarence? Oh what adopting? Who? Oh? Okay, wait a minute, 625 00:45:36,920 --> 00:45:40,560 Speaker 1: are you guys that are you guys that drive? Yeah 626 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:43,719 Speaker 1: that's that's my address, but uh, what what you're talking about? 627 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,920 Speaker 1: You're gonna come taking my son from you. Okay, but 628 00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:48,799 Speaker 1: you're your son is two years old? Right, yeah, he's 629 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:52,040 Speaker 1: too What would you come to pick up my son? 630 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:55,759 Speaker 1: And what is this agency's number? The agency told us 631 00:45:55,840 --> 00:46:00,120 Speaker 1: that what adoption agency. They've got all our information and 632 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,239 Speaker 1: we've we've filled out all the paperwork, and you guys 633 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,600 Speaker 1: aren't aware that that we're supposed to come there today 634 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:09,399 Speaker 1: to pick him up. Hell know what adoptionation said as well? 635 00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,319 Speaker 1: How to get my information? I'm not sure We've we've 636 00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:16,680 Speaker 1: got pictures of Clarence and and uh, you know, my 637 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,160 Speaker 1: wife has actually going out and bought balloons and everything, 638 00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:21,600 Speaker 1: and and we were gonna come through. They told us 639 00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,360 Speaker 1: anytime today, so we felt maybe like around six pm 640 00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:26,319 Speaker 1: we'd come get it. Now, you ain't coming here to 641 00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:29,359 Speaker 1: pick up No clans tell you that right now. Okay, 642 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,319 Speaker 1: wait wait a minute, now this this this, I mean, 643 00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 1: this can't be happening. Uh okay, wait a minute. You're 644 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,319 Speaker 1: you're you're you're Clarence Senior. Correct, Yes, I am. And 645 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,560 Speaker 1: you don't know anything about us to come over there 646 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,080 Speaker 1: to pick the baby up. He'll know I'm known about this. 647 00:46:45,239 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: See what's adoption agents who give you my information? And 648 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:53,799 Speaker 1: how they get my information, come pick up my son. 649 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,719 Speaker 1: I don't know that, sir. All I know is is, uh, 650 00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,839 Speaker 1: we've bought a car seat. We're you know, my wife 651 00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: has bought balloons. Man, I don't care y'all bought carci balloons, 652 00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 1: hotchail whatever. You ain't come and get my son, okay, sir. 653 00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: I mean what I'm not gonna do is tell my 654 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,520 Speaker 1: wife that we're not coming to get Clarence Junior today. 655 00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:15,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, y'all, you're gonna have to tell her that 656 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:17,160 Speaker 1: because you ain't coming here to pick up my hun sir, 657 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,320 Speaker 1: from with the paperwork that I have. Clarence is actually 658 00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,799 Speaker 1: my son. Now, man, you ain't your paperwork. You ain't 659 00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:26,800 Speaker 1: coming here to pick up my son. Sir, Clarence Junior 660 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,560 Speaker 1: is mine. And I'm actually gonna change his name to Robert, 661 00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 1: so I mean like him. You are come on over 662 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:34,319 Speaker 1: here if you want to come on over here. I'm 663 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 1: waiting for you. I'm standing in that way right now. Okay, 664 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:39,320 Speaker 1: we'll wait a minute. The adoption agency tell us that 665 00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:43,920 Speaker 1: you guys are not doing well financial financial Are you working? No? 666 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:46,839 Speaker 1: I ain't working, y'all doing anything. I ain't gonna get 667 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,840 Speaker 1: rid of my son just because I ain't working. Okay, 668 00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:51,200 Speaker 1: but but but in other words, you're not You're not 669 00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 1: able to provide for him. From what I understand, my 670 00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,839 Speaker 1: son ain't mis No mean, he got clothes on the back, 671 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: he got a roof overs here. Man, I'm out. You 672 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 1: ain't coming here to pick my son. I don't care 673 00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: what I got to do. Man, I go out cut grasses. 674 00:48:03,120 --> 00:48:06,320 Speaker 1: I'll make money on the side and watch them cars menthing. Okay, okay, 675 00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:08,399 Speaker 1: about to come here and get my son. But don't 676 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,360 Speaker 1: you think he deserves a better home. I don't know 677 00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,719 Speaker 1: what the but the screw up is. I don't know, 678 00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,279 Speaker 1: but I'm trying at least rationalize with you so you 679 00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 1: can understand why me and my wife Ji ain't coming 680 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,600 Speaker 1: and get my son. He ain't going home right now, 681 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:23,319 Speaker 1: I learned my son. You ain't taking nowhere. I'm telling 682 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 1: I'm right in the way. Come on over here, sir. 683 00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to go back and forth, but I am. 684 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 1: Me and my wife are coming to get Clarence today. Okay, 685 00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,800 Speaker 1: come on, come on, I'm waiting for you. I know 686 00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: a real turns about two three times. Come on, I'll 687 00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,919 Speaker 1: be waiting right here. I get you, sir, I don't 688 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: want any altercations when I get there. I just want 689 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,120 Speaker 1: Clarence to get in the car and me and my 690 00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:43,200 Speaker 1: wife are gonna take him to its new home. When 691 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:45,240 Speaker 1: you gain it's gonna be one hell of an altercation. 692 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,399 Speaker 1: So you might won't come to law. Whoever gonna come 693 00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,000 Speaker 1: with you, bring my Adoptionnation too, so I can whoop 694 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 1: that too. You know what, man, if you was to 695 00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 1: be able to provide for your family, wouldn't nobody to 696 00:48:54,600 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 1: be trying to adopt your child? The problem is that 697 00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:58,719 Speaker 1: you can't take care of your family. Now, I'm leaving 698 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 1: my wife coming over there and coming to get Claire 699 00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,359 Speaker 1: and tell you you ain't come down here to get 700 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: my child. Man, you get down here or you ain't 701 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,960 Speaker 1: your wife up? How about wait a minute? Wait? Will 702 00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:10,960 Speaker 1: you gonna do what to my wife? I don't hear women, 703 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:12,880 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna tell you right now you ain't your 704 00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:15,480 Speaker 1: wife's gonna come down here. I'm gonna hurt both of you. 705 00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: Anybody come down here to try to take my child 706 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,160 Speaker 1: about the ass they're gonna get up. Fantee. I'm coming 707 00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,879 Speaker 1: to kiddy. I got to do what I got. I'm 708 00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:25,799 Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, you ain't coming down here 709 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 1: get my son. You your wife are telling you. Nobody's 710 00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: gonna come here and tell you. I disappoint my wife 711 00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: has got my No. I don't know how you got 712 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,000 Speaker 1: my all dress. I don't kill what as you sing 713 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:39,640 Speaker 1: you got going through or whatever going on. But I'm 714 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:41,840 Speaker 1: telling right now you come down here. I don't know. 715 00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,200 Speaker 1: I don't know gory to disappoint my wife. Now just 716 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:46,960 Speaker 1: say we're coming to you. I don't give him disappoint 717 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 1: what you won't disappoint. I don't get nothing right now, 718 00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,600 Speaker 1: But you ain't gonna take my so about. I'm gonna 719 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: coming kid about that. I might have told my wife 720 00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,080 Speaker 1: I was coming to kid man. I'm telling man, you 721 00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: better tell your wife you come this driveway. I'm gonna 722 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:02,440 Speaker 1: s if my whole waiting for him, the last one 723 00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,200 Speaker 1: y'all up, every last one y I don't care who 724 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 1: he brings you bringing pleasure the Obama. I'm gonna you 725 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: ain't Beenna do now. You ain't been. You ain't been 726 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 1: my son out of the house. I'm gonna tell you 727 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: right now, everybody didn't well, I'm hanna do it. Let 728 00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,040 Speaker 1: you know this I'm coming to get clears, Junior. If 729 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,040 Speaker 1: you ain't got nothing to tell me or let me 730 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,879 Speaker 1: new I'm letting you know ride. Now you better come 731 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:26,799 Speaker 1: here with the corner and everybody, because I'm about you up. 732 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:30,760 Speaker 1: You're gonna heed here. Come on, let me tell you something. 733 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. You get his clothes. He 734 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 1: can come and here of a better life. He's not 735 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,200 Speaker 1: living a good life. There you get him. I'm told 736 00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:42,279 Speaker 1: you about six and eight times, bring you more down here, 737 00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 1: and I'm you and everybody whoever you bring down here up? 738 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: You trying to you know who else I'm bringing with 739 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,160 Speaker 1: me because I'm bringing somebody. I don't you better bring 740 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:53,720 Speaker 1: an army and say what it better be a mommy 741 00:50:53,800 --> 00:50:55,960 Speaker 1: to come down here and get my son about the house. 742 00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 1: I'm bringing nephew Tommy with me. You may I'm I'm 743 00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,800 Speaker 1: bringing nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey more than his 744 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: show with me. Oh man, this is Timmy man. This 745 00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:15,440 Speaker 1: is the nephew Timmy Man. Who who man, I'm a 746 00:51:15,640 --> 00:51:18,439 Speaker 1: body out here. Man come down and taking my show 747 00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,319 Speaker 1: brother named Benjamin. Got me to get you dog. Oh man. 748 00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:24,120 Speaker 1: See that's my family against next time I see him. 749 00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:28,200 Speaker 1: It's a man. That was a good one. Now, oh man, 750 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,919 Speaker 1: all right, Pa, tell me one more thing. Man, what's 751 00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 1: the baddest that? I mean, the baddest radio show in 752 00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:42,719 Speaker 1: the land, The Steves All the Morning Show. I love 753 00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 1: Claren singing, I love him seeing you just started comprising 754 00:51:50,000 --> 00:51:54,319 Speaker 1: the list. Who all when they come down here? Who 755 00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:58,640 Speaker 1: often to get up soon? And then he got time 756 00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: to tell you. First, you said, I've told you three 757 00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:04,319 Speaker 1: four times? Did you tell her? I said, I'm told 758 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:07,719 Speaker 1: you five six times. He said, look, man, I'm told 759 00:52:07,719 --> 00:52:13,160 Speaker 1: you about seven many times. If you come down you 760 00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:22,640 Speaker 1: need the agent. Man, I'm doing everybody. Yeah, clar right 761 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:27,719 Speaker 1: right when he said bring the corner, I said this, dude, 762 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:34,959 Speaker 1: right if you killed Oh man, clar not the dad. 763 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,480 Speaker 1: You ain't working though, you ain't able to, man, I 764 00:52:38,600 --> 00:52:40,920 Speaker 1: cut grass. I'm watching collar do whatever I gotta do. 765 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,759 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna come down here, get my son. I'll 766 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,600 Speaker 1: tell you what. Come on, I'm in driveway. They get 767 00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:50,239 Speaker 1: out in that driveway, right, he's gonna be We're gonna 768 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 1: handle this outside. You ain't coming in now. They want 769 00:52:53,200 --> 00:52:55,319 Speaker 1: you as soon as you roll up. I'm here as 770 00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:59,200 Speaker 1: soon as you roll up driveway. What he said he 771 00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:05,080 Speaker 1: was change name to Robert Claire's. We're gonna change his name, 772 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,399 Speaker 1: give him a better life. Yeah, oh man, good one. 773 00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:11,239 Speaker 1: Now get your laugh on with your boy at the 774 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,920 Speaker 1: Improv and West Palm Beach, Florida. It's going down next 775 00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,839 Speaker 1: weekend Friday and Saturday, the twenty four to twenty fifth 776 00:53:17,160 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: at the Improv, West Palm Beach. Baby the Nephew come 777 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,719 Speaker 1: to town. You think the pranks and stupid, Come see 778 00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:24,200 Speaker 1: what stupid look live and in person. Put your mask 779 00:53:24,280 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 1: on and get your laugh on with the Nephew next weekend, 780 00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:30,080 Speaker 1: West Palm Beach, Florida. Yeah, all right, thank you, nephew, 781 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 1: Thank you. Up Next, Strawberry Letter turning a hood dude 782 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,320 Speaker 1: into a husband. We'll get into it right after this. 783 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:41,839 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time 784 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice 785 00:53:44,719 --> 00:53:48,880 Speaker 1: on relationships, sex, work, dating, parenting, and more, please submit 786 00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:51,959 Speaker 1: your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click 787 00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,720 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Lecture. Here it is. We could be reading 788 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,759 Speaker 1: yours live on the air, just like we're gonna read 789 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know 790 00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,719 Speaker 1: it could be yours. You never know, buckle lapping, hold 791 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,440 Speaker 1: on tight. We got it for you. Here. It is 792 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:10,719 Speaker 1: the Strawberry letter, Thank you nephew. Subject turning a hood 793 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:14,520 Speaker 1: dude into a husband. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty 794 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,879 Speaker 1: year old engaged female and my fiance is thirty four 795 00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 1: years old. I work as a school administrator and he 796 00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:24,160 Speaker 1: is a mechanic. We met when he fixed my flat 797 00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:27,080 Speaker 1: tire and then offered to detail my car for free. 798 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 1: He is a tall, thin man with pearly white teeth 799 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,920 Speaker 1: and a nice frow. I could tell he was a 800 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,160 Speaker 1: hood dude the minute I saw him, and that's what 801 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,120 Speaker 1: attracted me to him. He played basketball at a community 802 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:43,080 Speaker 1: center and he invited me to a game. He was 803 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,480 Speaker 1: bawling on the court and I was very turned on 804 00:54:45,640 --> 00:54:48,759 Speaker 1: by him. We made love later on that day and 805 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:52,279 Speaker 1: we've been inseparable since then. He was rough in bed 806 00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,279 Speaker 1: and cursed a lot initially during sex, but he is 807 00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 1: more romantic now. After we dated for almost two years, 808 00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 1: a little diamond ring and he proposed. Then. That's when 809 00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: everything got tricky because I never admitted to my friends 810 00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:10,840 Speaker 1: and family that he is my man. They thought he 811 00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 1: was just my maintenance man and just for sex until 812 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:17,640 Speaker 1: I found mister Wright. They know I like edgy guys, 813 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,320 Speaker 1: but not this edgy. He curses a whole lot, He 814 00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:25,920 Speaker 1: uses slang, and he calls everybody the N word. He 815 00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,600 Speaker 1: is very well known in the neighborhood he grew up in, 816 00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 1: and he's still living in the house he grew up in. 817 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,319 Speaker 1: I would never try to change him, but I did 818 00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,480 Speaker 1: ask him about getting a GED so he could advance 819 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,160 Speaker 1: in his career. He said he's going to take over 820 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,919 Speaker 1: the shop when the owner retires, and he doesn't need 821 00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 1: a GDGED for that. He is content where he is 822 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,400 Speaker 1: in life, so I try not to push him. I 823 00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:52,759 Speaker 1: plan to take him on trips to other countries so 824 00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:54,560 Speaker 1: he can see there is more to life than his 825 00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:59,120 Speaker 1: hood and the auto shop. Some days I love him unconditionally, 826 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,520 Speaker 1: and on the other days I feel embarrassed by him. 827 00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,480 Speaker 1: Can I turn this hood dude into a good husband? 828 00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:10,359 Speaker 1: Or am I wasting my time? Please advise? See right 829 00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:12,640 Speaker 1: there for you to even have to ask that question, 830 00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,240 Speaker 1: there's a problem. And you know the number one rule, ladies. 831 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: We cannot change them. We can only change ourselves. If 832 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,400 Speaker 1: there's to be a change in him. He'll have to 833 00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:25,520 Speaker 1: want to do that change. He'll have to want to 834 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,800 Speaker 1: do it for you or just want to do it 835 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 1: on his own. And second, if this is who you 836 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,120 Speaker 1: love and want to be with your grown and you 837 00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,480 Speaker 1: don't have to explain him to your friends and family 838 00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,399 Speaker 1: who think he's a maintenance man and not your man. 839 00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 1: But some days you say you love him unconditionally and 840 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:47,240 Speaker 1: other days you're embarrassed by him. Well, that's a problem. 841 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:50,640 Speaker 1: That's not good. Okay, you're supposed to be happy with him, 842 00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,040 Speaker 1: you know, and proud to be with him. All of that. 843 00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:58,280 Speaker 1: You've accepted him for who he is right now. But marriage, 844 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:01,440 Speaker 1: marriage is a whole different situation because you're going to 845 00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:05,640 Speaker 1: grow in marriage, you know, and in life of course, 846 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 1: you know there's going to be changed. You don't want 847 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:10,640 Speaker 1: to grow apart. You don't want to drift apart because 848 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:14,440 Speaker 1: of these differences. You're a school administrator. He's a mechanic 849 00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:18,640 Speaker 1: who can but won't get his ged, who could make 850 00:57:18,920 --> 00:57:21,400 Speaker 1: a big difference in his life, He could could take 851 00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 1: him further in life. I'm assuming you may you may 852 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:28,440 Speaker 1: use a little profanity at times, but nothing like him, 853 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,680 Speaker 1: who you say curses a lot, and you mentioned that 854 00:57:30,760 --> 00:57:33,400 Speaker 1: a couple of times in the letters, so that you 855 00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,160 Speaker 1: know that kind of bothers you. He calls everyone the 856 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:42,520 Speaker 1: in word, everyone the in word. Come on, these are problems. 857 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:44,600 Speaker 1: You said he still lives in the house that he 858 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 1: grew up in. Now does that mean he lives with 859 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 1: his mom because you did not put that in the letter, 860 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:50,880 Speaker 1: But in the house he grew up in, he grew 861 00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:54,720 Speaker 1: up with his parents. So you guys already have problems, 862 00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:58,520 Speaker 1: and I guarantee you marriage will complicate this situation even further. 863 00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 1: I don't think you too, are from marriage because you're 864 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 1: too unequally yoked right now. It has nothing to do 865 00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 1: with him being edgy or from the hood. It's just 866 00:58:07,000 --> 00:58:09,400 Speaker 1: that he doesn't want to better himself and you want 867 00:58:09,520 --> 00:58:11,720 Speaker 1: much more. You said it in your letter. That's gonna 868 00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:16,120 Speaker 1: frustrate you, irritate you, and your word embarrass you. So 869 00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 1: right now I say, continue dating and don't jump the broom. Steve, 870 00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:27,080 Speaker 1: see this letters, It just reminds me of me. I 871 00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:30,600 Speaker 1: just I ain't really I ain't really bothered by this. 872 00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,840 Speaker 1: You know, it's thirty year old engage female and fiance 873 00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 1: is thirty folk, you work as a school administrator. Hill McKenny, 874 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:44,960 Speaker 1: we met. He fixed your flat tie. Then what the 875 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:51,160 Speaker 1: man did was offered to detail it free, right down 876 00:58:51,960 --> 00:58:58,480 Speaker 1: homeboy working. Then he detailed your car free, tall thin, 877 00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:03,520 Speaker 1: pearly white tea nice after. Now, you said, at the 878 00:59:03,640 --> 00:59:07,160 Speaker 1: time you could tell he was a hood dude. But 879 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:13,240 Speaker 1: that's what attracted you to Hill. Okay, so what his 880 00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:18,200 Speaker 1: attraction was his hood dude with your little quote unquote 881 00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:25,280 Speaker 1: school administrator self. So now let the fund begin. He 882 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,720 Speaker 1: do what a hood dude dude? He played basketball down 883 00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:30,960 Speaker 1: at the center, invited you to come see the game. 884 00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: If I can't do nothing, I can bolve, I'm gonna 885 00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:38,440 Speaker 1: let her come down here. And then you said, on 886 00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:44,600 Speaker 1: that day he was bawling. He came in, he flexed, 887 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:49,600 Speaker 1: shot his best shot. Now he was crazy. Right after 888 00:59:50,400 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: y'all started bawling, y'all made love that day. All it 889 00:59:55,720 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 1: took was a couple of jumpers on all he did, 890 01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:08,720 Speaker 1: a couple of outs, score some baskets. You're passing it out. 891 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:16,440 Speaker 1: Oh he passing the ball. You say, my turn, All right, 892 01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:21,960 Speaker 1: hold on, Steve, hold that surpassed two. We'll have part 893 01:00:22,040 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 1: two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes 894 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:28,840 Speaker 1: after the hour Strawberry Letters, subject today turning a hood 895 01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 1: dude into a husband. We'll get back into it right 896 01:00:31,360 --> 01:00:36,040 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 897 01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,040 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, let's recap today Strawberry letter. The subject 898 01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:43,280 Speaker 1: turning a hood dude into a husband a little thirty 899 01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,200 Speaker 1: year old school administrative at just thirty four. Ye'll, dude, 900 01:00:46,240 --> 01:00:49,360 Speaker 1: that's a mechanic. He fixed a car down that in detail, 901 01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 1: it for free. She liked him. She could recognize the 902 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:55,440 Speaker 1: fact he was a hood boy, but that's what attracted her. 903 01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,680 Speaker 1: He invited her to the basketball game he played wood 904 01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: down at Through Center on that weekend. She came and 905 01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:06,880 Speaker 1: homeboy with balling. I'm talking about bawling, letting them med 906 01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:10,280 Speaker 1: all this hell. That turned her on. So right after that, 907 01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:13,840 Speaker 1: later on that day they made love. I mean, what 908 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:18,120 Speaker 1: what you supposed to do after good game? You know 909 01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,480 Speaker 1: you here, you know we got time, go get nothing 910 01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: need let's get on get back in the same you 911 01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:30,280 Speaker 1: was bawling, you kept passing the ball. Let me pass 912 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:36,760 Speaker 1: you something, okay, And then she says, after that they 913 01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:43,080 Speaker 1: were in separable. Uh, now he was rough in bed, 914 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:47,000 Speaker 1: and he cussed a lot initially doing second well, you 915 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:50,080 Speaker 1: know the first one, you know it's gonna be some cussing, 916 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: you know, and then he probably cussed a lot anyway, 917 01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm anna cusser, So I know for you that first 918 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,960 Speaker 1: time that that brains out some cussing because you first 919 01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:01,800 Speaker 1: of all, you can't leave there. And it's just it's 920 01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:05,040 Speaker 1: a form of expression, customness of you know, a lot 921 01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:08,520 Speaker 1: of adjectives in there that can be used in various places. See, 922 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:12,200 Speaker 1: custom is a very limited vocabulary, so only I don't know, 923 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,440 Speaker 1: maybe I think it's maybe twelve cuss words, you know, 924 01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 1: I use the top four all the time. But it said, 925 01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:21,960 Speaker 1: but these cuss words mean different things at different times, 926 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: you know. You know, all hell naw can be applied 927 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:29,440 Speaker 1: a lot of different ways, so you scott to know it. 928 01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,680 Speaker 1: So he doesn't have a large vocabalary. But the custom 929 01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:36,880 Speaker 1: doing sex is all hell knaw. Man, I can't believe 930 01:02:36,920 --> 01:02:40,880 Speaker 1: in hell board is good. I'm feeling something old. Yeall go, 931 01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:43,919 Speaker 1: it's teamling and all this, say all the producers cus. 932 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:48,600 Speaker 1: But let's move on. But now he's yeah, he's remote romantic. 933 01:02:48,680 --> 01:02:52,160 Speaker 1: Now now y'all been dating for two years, he got 934 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: a little diamond ring and he proposed you. Say, that's 935 01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 1: what it got tricky because I knew you had never 936 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:02,280 Speaker 1: admitted to your friends and family if he was your man. See, 937 01:03:02,400 --> 01:03:06,480 Speaker 1: they thought he was your maintenance man for sex until 938 01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:11,280 Speaker 1: I found mister Wright. So that's see this your fault. 939 01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,000 Speaker 1: See this, the little this, the little image you tried 940 01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:17,919 Speaker 1: to portray. I'm just doing him, just to be doing something, girl, 941 01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:20,680 Speaker 1: But you didn't want to admit you was in love 942 01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:24,400 Speaker 1: with your brother. See in all of this letter right here, 943 01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 1: you know what I see. I see a good man. 944 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:30,480 Speaker 1: But now let's talk about this. They know you like 945 01:03:30,840 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 1: edgy guys, but not this edgy. What you mean, not 946 01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,680 Speaker 1: this edgy, this the one that asked you to marry it. 947 01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 1: What you mean you don't like them? This edgy, just 948 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:42,400 Speaker 1: the one that didn't proposed to you. What you mean 949 01:03:42,520 --> 01:03:45,320 Speaker 1: you don't like them? This edgy? This one then lasted 950 01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:49,120 Speaker 1: two years. See, sister, you got to quit lying to 951 01:03:49,280 --> 01:03:53,440 Speaker 1: yourself because it's really a good dude. Now here we go. 952 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,240 Speaker 1: He cusses a whole lot, He uses sling, and he 953 01:03:57,400 --> 01:04:07,640 Speaker 1: called everybody the end word. So we do what And 954 01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,919 Speaker 1: I am very familiar with this line in the letter 955 01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:19,000 Speaker 1: right here, because it's a lot he uses slang. He 956 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:23,200 Speaker 1: called everybody N word. Now, I don't call everybody inn word. 957 01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 1: But if you're my dude, though, I'm gonna just keep 958 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,160 Speaker 1: it real with you. But now, if you ain't my 959 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:38,240 Speaker 1: dude and you ain't black stepped light. But I never 960 01:04:38,440 --> 01:04:40,960 Speaker 1: used I never use that around people that's not in 961 01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:44,400 Speaker 1: my circle. So if you said to me, please understand, 962 01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 1: the reaction will be swift and severe. He is very 963 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:53,000 Speaker 1: well known in the neighborhood. He grew up in I'm 964 01:04:53,000 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 1: telling you on the reel and were never fit the play. Okay, 965 01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,520 Speaker 1: he is very well known in the neighborhood he grew 966 01:04:58,600 --> 01:05:00,800 Speaker 1: up in and he's still living in the house he 967 01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:03,160 Speaker 1: grew up in. Well, that don't mean he stayed with 968 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,480 Speaker 1: his mama. That just means that's the houses mom and 969 01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:07,360 Speaker 1: never grew up in, and he bought it. He got 970 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 1: the house. I don't think he lived with his mama ever. 971 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,800 Speaker 1: I would never try to change him. But I did 972 01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:17,640 Speaker 1: ask him about getting the ged so he can advance 973 01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,360 Speaker 1: in his career. He said, he taking over the shop 974 01:05:20,400 --> 01:05:22,360 Speaker 1: with the ownery time. He don't need no damn g 975 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:26,880 Speaker 1: d for that. That's his plan. Now he's content where 976 01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 1: he is in life, so I try not to push him. Well, 977 01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 1: see now that's where you come in as a woman. 978 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:39,160 Speaker 1: Women do find a way to help push and motivate it. 979 01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 1: Ain't push his motivation. You can find a way to 980 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,920 Speaker 1: motivate him. Now. See this is why I know we 981 01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,400 Speaker 1: all the way in. I plan to take him on 982 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,960 Speaker 1: trips to other countries so he can see that as 983 01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 1: more to life than his hood and the auto shop. 984 01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:55,720 Speaker 1: Now listen to me, don't do that for him. Don't 985 01:05:56,000 --> 01:06:00,120 Speaker 1: don't do that. Take his ass off the cushion. I'm 986 01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,000 Speaker 1: gonna tell you this right now, y'all gonna wind up. 987 01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:06,360 Speaker 1: You've seen the show. Locked up abroad, get your ass 988 01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:09,920 Speaker 1: in that situation here. Listen to me. You can't take 989 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:12,640 Speaker 1: his ass out of the country. Best place you can 990 01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:16,160 Speaker 1: take his ass is Vegas. He can go to Venice 991 01:06:16,320 --> 01:06:19,240 Speaker 1: out there, he can go to Italy out there, and 992 01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,480 Speaker 1: he can go to New York. You can go right 993 01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:23,800 Speaker 1: on the strip and visit two places. You can go 994 01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:27,320 Speaker 1: New Yall, you can go to Paris, and you can 995 01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:30,720 Speaker 1: go to Venice. You can go. Don't take his ass 996 01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:34,840 Speaker 1: out to country. Y'all ass it's gonna be locked up 997 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:42,840 Speaker 1: abroad and don't my remarks today. Post your comments on 998 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. 999 01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:49,600 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up 1000 01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:53,120 Speaker 1: at forty six minutes after the hour, our girl Cheryl Underwood. 1001 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:57,520 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1002 01:06:58,120 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, It's Carlin's 1003 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:04,600 Speaker 1: Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce our girl 1004 01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 1: from the top. Ladies and gentlemen upon us, you better 1005 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,720 Speaker 1: know it. Let me hold twere dollars that hold your 1006 01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:19,760 Speaker 1: long way little gas money, little you know, a little 1007 01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 1: snack money at your job and everything. But I'm glad 1008 01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,120 Speaker 1: you started with a money discussion. Now, we had a 1009 01:07:25,160 --> 01:07:29,960 Speaker 1: little recall out here this week in California. You know, uh, 1010 01:07:30,720 --> 01:07:32,720 Speaker 1: Colin Farrell, I know you're about to get mad at me, 1011 01:07:32,840 --> 01:07:37,200 Speaker 1: but Larry Elder got his ass kit. Thank you. They 1012 01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:44,160 Speaker 1: calling that Elder abuse Tommy all over the listen to me. 1013 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:46,760 Speaker 1: But while we laughing at it, we're trying to make 1014 01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:51,120 Speaker 1: you think if this recall had been successful, then Larry 1015 01:07:51,200 --> 01:07:55,120 Speaker 1: Elder would have been able to replace them fine Stein 1016 01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:57,920 Speaker 1: in the Senate and it would have tipped the balance 1017 01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:00,680 Speaker 1: of the Senate when no case Slicier, Sure, what that 1018 01:08:00,800 --> 01:08:03,360 Speaker 1: got to do with me? We'll matching over here acting 1019 01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:08,160 Speaker 1: crazy and West Virginia. That's right. He won't let them 1020 01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:12,080 Speaker 1: get the money for the infrastructure that will make jobs. 1021 01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:15,160 Speaker 1: Because this is a power game to these people, and 1022 01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:17,120 Speaker 1: people say, well, what has it got to do with me? 1023 01:08:17,400 --> 01:08:19,960 Speaker 1: It's got everything to do with you. If we didn't 1024 01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:21,920 Speaker 1: vote the way we needed to vote to get Biden 1025 01:08:22,080 --> 01:08:25,720 Speaker 1: Harris in now we wouldn't have a different d OJH. 1026 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:27,680 Speaker 1: What has that got to do with me? What the 1027 01:08:27,800 --> 01:08:30,000 Speaker 1: same dude that they wouldn't let get on the Supreme 1028 01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,439 Speaker 1: Court is now the dude that's running the d o 1029 01:08:32,600 --> 01:08:36,840 Speaker 1: J who's doing what? Trying to fight this bustion thing 1030 01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:40,759 Speaker 1: in Texas. See, they test stuff out in other states 1031 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 1: to see if it fly, to see if we're sleeping, 1032 01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:46,400 Speaker 1: to see if we're gonna get caught slipping. So then 1033 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,760 Speaker 1: they say, well, if it works over here, then it 1034 01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:52,240 Speaker 1: will work over here. So anything that goes on anywhere 1035 01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:55,759 Speaker 1: has something to do with the quality of your life. 1036 01:08:56,000 --> 01:08:59,280 Speaker 1: When you're talking about COVID, when you're talking about homelessness, 1037 01:08:59,439 --> 01:09:02,679 Speaker 1: when you talk about anything that affects your everyday life. 1038 01:09:02,880 --> 01:09:06,080 Speaker 1: That's why voting is important. That's why you need to 1039 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:08,880 Speaker 1: vote and keep your rights to vote or get your 1040 01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:12,080 Speaker 1: rights to vote back. And why do they want to 1041 01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:15,479 Speaker 1: make it difficult to vote so that what happened in 1042 01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:19,080 Speaker 1: California does not happen anywhere. They made it easy to 1043 01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:23,280 Speaker 1: vote in California. You can walk in, you can mail 1044 01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,599 Speaker 1: it in, you can put it in a little box. 1045 01:09:25,880 --> 01:09:28,880 Speaker 1: So we've got to fight for the right to vote. 1046 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:33,160 Speaker 1: Brothers and sisters. All politics is local, but right now 1047 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:38,080 Speaker 1: we're looking at California. Hold strong, and Larry Elder, get 1048 01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,960 Speaker 1: somewhere and set your ass down, because you do not 1049 01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:44,200 Speaker 1: speak for not just black people, but you're gonna take 1050 01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:46,720 Speaker 1: that ale for the Republican. Don't the republic Don't we 1051 01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 1: as a Republican get tired of losing all the damn time. 1052 01:09:50,040 --> 01:09:52,880 Speaker 1: And don't get me started on Trump talking about Pence. 1053 01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,400 Speaker 1: He told Pence, we ain't gonna be France. No, mom, 1054 01:09:55,720 --> 01:10:03,200 Speaker 1: it was never friends. He was never all right. Thank you, Cheryl. 1055 01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:05,679 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour with Carla's 1056 01:10:05,760 --> 01:10:09,800 Speaker 1: Reality update. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve 1057 01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:14,840 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Ladies and gentlemen, get ready. It is 1058 01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:17,600 Speaker 1: that time. I said, it is that time, ladies and 1059 01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:19,760 Speaker 1: gentlemen get ready to get ready, get ready. She is here, 1060 01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:26,560 Speaker 1: Carla Ferrell with what reality update coming in hot he 1061 01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,280 Speaker 1: let you have it today. Thank you, Nephew, thank you, Shirley. 1062 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Let's start off with some 1063 01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:34,719 Speaker 1: rumors about the Real Housewives of Atlanta. There's a rumor 1064 01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:38,160 Speaker 1: out there that Cynthia Bailey and Kenya Moore are not 1065 01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:44,400 Speaker 1: returning to the Real Housewives of Atlanta. Now, Portia and 1066 01:10:44,680 --> 01:10:47,880 Speaker 1: Candy will be back, but they're saying that they are 1067 01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:52,240 Speaker 1: going to cast younger new cast members. That's a rumor. 1068 01:10:52,320 --> 01:10:55,400 Speaker 1: We don't know if that's true, and no word yet, Junior. 1069 01:10:55,439 --> 01:10:59,599 Speaker 1: I'm not sure if the ogs like your girl Charrey, Yeah, 1070 01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,639 Speaker 1: are coming back. We don't know yet. We don't know yet. 1071 01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:07,520 Speaker 1: I Cynthia Bla and her husband Michael my show yesterday, 1072 01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:12,639 Speaker 1: did they still any t Steve a lot of stuff, 1073 01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,639 Speaker 1: But it wasn't about whether she'd come back on the show. Man. Well, 1074 01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:17,240 Speaker 1: that's a rumor. We don't know if it's true. So 1075 01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:19,920 Speaker 1: we will see waiting on the new season. For the 1076 01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:22,799 Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Atlanta this fall. All right, Real Housewives 1077 01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,599 Speaker 1: of Potomac Kansas is having issues with her husband, Chris, 1078 01:11:27,280 --> 01:11:30,760 Speaker 1: being her manager. You know, she's a singer and an actress, 1079 01:11:30,960 --> 01:11:34,240 Speaker 1: so it's causing some tension. That's causing some tension, i 1080 01:11:34,320 --> 01:11:36,679 Speaker 1: should say, in their marriage. So they're trying to work 1081 01:11:36,760 --> 01:11:41,200 Speaker 1: that out. The New Housewife newcast member Mia, she hosted 1082 01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:44,720 Speaker 1: a goddess luncheon. She wanted to do something positive for 1083 01:11:44,800 --> 01:11:48,040 Speaker 1: the women, get them all together, and she asked them 1084 01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,639 Speaker 1: to go around the table at this luncheon to say, 1085 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:55,240 Speaker 1: you know, something nice about each person, each lady. And 1086 01:11:55,640 --> 01:12:02,760 Speaker 1: it was awkward. It was hard to say something nice 1087 01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:07,080 Speaker 1: about somebody you hate. Yeah, yeah, Steve. It was a struggle. 1088 01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,200 Speaker 1: But at the end of it, the ladies, you know, 1089 01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:13,120 Speaker 1: they tried to compliment each other and say positive things. 1090 01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:17,080 Speaker 1: And then Giselle wanted Karen to apologize to her. Karen 1091 01:12:17,120 --> 01:12:19,559 Speaker 1: wanted Gizelle to apologize to her. You know, they've been 1092 01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:23,439 Speaker 1: beef in the entire season, but Gizelle has apologized in 1093 01:12:23,560 --> 01:12:27,040 Speaker 1: her defense to Karen a lot in past seasons, so 1094 01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:30,680 Speaker 1: she Gizelle told Karen that she wanted her to apologize 1095 01:12:30,720 --> 01:12:34,320 Speaker 1: to her for the things that Karen said about Giselle's 1096 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:38,160 Speaker 1: ex Jamal Bryant. Gizelle said that those things were hurtful 1097 01:12:38,240 --> 01:12:41,080 Speaker 1: to her daughters and to her children, and so Karen 1098 01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:45,120 Speaker 1: did apologize for that, saying she didn't want her daughters 1099 01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:47,960 Speaker 1: and her children to be upset. So they kind of 1100 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:51,439 Speaker 1: squashed their beef and then Ashley asked them to hug 1101 01:12:51,479 --> 01:12:53,479 Speaker 1: it out and they said, don't push it. So there 1102 01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:57,439 Speaker 1: you go. There you go. Real Housewives a Potomac and 1103 01:12:57,479 --> 01:13:00,360 Speaker 1: then finally Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. I've been 1104 01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:03,639 Speaker 1: on roll watching these Real Housewives shows Salt Lake City. 1105 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,320 Speaker 1: Well it happened, honey. You know, they were taping it 1106 01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:08,439 Speaker 1: was a new season. They were going on a girl's 1107 01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:12,519 Speaker 1: trip to Vail, Colorado, and then Jen, she gets this 1108 01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:16,439 Speaker 1: call from her husband. I guess he was warning her 1109 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,080 Speaker 1: that the Feds, that the police were about to show 1110 01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:24,280 Speaker 1: up on location where they were at the party bus. Well, 1111 01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:28,479 Speaker 1: Jen gets off the bus, takes her microphone off, gets 1112 01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:31,439 Speaker 1: off the bus, get into the car. The police show 1113 01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 1: up at the party bus asking for her, looking for her. 1114 01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:40,480 Speaker 1: Now she has been charged with wire fraud, money laundering 1115 01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:43,880 Speaker 1: in this huge telemarketing scheme that has been going on 1116 01:13:44,080 --> 01:13:47,360 Speaker 1: for over ten years with her company, her assistant. He 1117 01:13:47,760 --> 01:13:51,519 Speaker 1: was arrested. So the question the Housewives of Salt Lake City, 1118 01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:55,479 Speaker 1: they want to know who tipped off the police and 1119 01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:59,000 Speaker 1: let them know where Jen was going to be at 1120 01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:02,000 Speaker 1: that exact moment while they were taping. I mean they 1121 01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:05,240 Speaker 1: came right to the location, they came right to the bus. What. 1122 01:14:06,560 --> 01:14:08,880 Speaker 1: I ain't a detective, but I gotta clue you as 1123 01:14:08,880 --> 01:14:12,200 Speaker 1: a housewife. Yeah, yeah, for five hundred, you'll take a 1124 01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:16,160 Speaker 1: housewife for five hundred. I'm with you, Junior. Now, Meredith, 1125 01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:21,960 Speaker 1: you're right brilliant. Meredith the housewife. She can't stand gin so, 1126 01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:24,920 Speaker 1: oh my boy, I don't know. I'm thinking it might 1127 01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:28,080 Speaker 1: have been Meredith that tipped off the fence because she 1128 01:14:28,320 --> 01:14:32,000 Speaker 1: wasn't fair thun thun than. I'll keep watching. I'll let 1129 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:35,080 Speaker 1: you know. Hit me up at lips Marcarla on a 1130 01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:38,200 Speaker 1: gram and Twitter, and we'll talk more about reality update. 1131 01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:41,200 Speaker 1: What you guys, Shirley, Well, thank you, Carla. Coming up 1132 01:14:41,320 --> 01:14:44,400 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after. 1133 01:14:44,680 --> 01:14:48,240 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 1134 01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:54,680 Speaker 1: Show and trending airline news Southwest Airlines isn't bringing alcohol 1135 01:14:54,800 --> 01:14:59,040 Speaker 1: back to serve their passengers until twenty twenty two. Okay 1136 01:14:59,160 --> 01:15:02,160 Speaker 1: you hear that, they say, because too many passengers have 1137 01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:08,040 Speaker 1: just been acting a fool on these flights. Okay. Yeah, 1138 01:15:08,439 --> 01:15:12,439 Speaker 1: according to USA Today that this timeline is extended with 1139 01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:16,120 Speaker 1: the federal mass mandates on airplanes and at airports. We've 1140 01:15:16,160 --> 01:15:19,680 Speaker 1: all seen the viral videos of passengers just getting out 1141 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,160 Speaker 1: a line on these airlines, fighting flight attendants upset about 1142 01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:27,040 Speaker 1: wearing masks. And we love the Alaska Air flight attendant 1143 01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:30,920 Speaker 1: who had to duct tape an unruly passenger to his 1144 01:15:31,040 --> 01:15:34,160 Speaker 1: seat to get him to calm down. Remember that he 1145 01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:38,519 Speaker 1: was out hero. We loved him. Yeah, it's behind. I 1146 01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:41,040 Speaker 1: packed duct tape, Nah, I do. I got it in 1147 01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:46,160 Speaker 1: my carry on, justin case, nephew, stain case something go down. 1148 01:15:46,280 --> 01:15:49,200 Speaker 1: I like that duct tape. We google. I like Steve 1149 01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:57,400 Speaker 1: when I'm coming, Captain you need help getting passion. I 1150 01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:04,960 Speaker 1: got anybody to know. I hoped him, you know, I 1151 01:16:05,040 --> 01:16:11,519 Speaker 1: called him the disturbance on my flight exactly. So cap 1152 01:16:11,680 --> 01:16:15,240 Speaker 1: Capenian guy, come back here. You just drive rocking no 1153 01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:21,000 Speaker 1: alcohol till next year. That's good. Yeah, I think so yeah, 1154 01:16:22,080 --> 01:16:25,479 Speaker 1: calmed down, all right. More of the Steve Harvey Morning 1155 01:16:25,520 --> 01:16:27,760 Speaker 1: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour 1156 01:16:28,120 --> 01:16:33,240 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to show? All right, guys, 1157 01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:36,920 Speaker 1: it is time now for asked the CLO Chief Love Officer, 1158 01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:41,720 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, at your service. This one is from Ashland 1159 01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:45,240 Speaker 1: and Tennessee. Ashland says, I've been married for six years 1160 01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:47,720 Speaker 1: to a cheater and we have not had sex in 1161 01:16:47,800 --> 01:16:50,960 Speaker 1: a year. He confided in our next door neighbor, who 1162 01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:54,200 Speaker 1: happens to be young and single. My neighbor saw my 1163 01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,400 Speaker 1: husband leave one morning, and he came over and lectured me, 1164 01:16:57,680 --> 01:17:00,720 Speaker 1: unsaving my marriage. I got emotion and oland he came 1165 01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:03,559 Speaker 1: close to comfort me, and I could feel him through 1166 01:17:03,720 --> 01:17:06,920 Speaker 1: his pants. He said he would be happy to comfort 1167 01:17:07,120 --> 01:17:10,599 Speaker 1: me if I ever needed it. It scared me half 1168 01:17:10,640 --> 01:17:13,479 Speaker 1: to death. But how can I stop staring at his house? 1169 01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,439 Speaker 1: Should I go next door and relieve a little stress 1170 01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:25,200 Speaker 1: with this fine young man? Well? Look what didn't happened here? Well, ma'am, look, 1171 01:17:25,439 --> 01:17:28,160 Speaker 1: can I have a real honest and frank answer for 1172 01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:34,200 Speaker 1: this man? Tell Ashley, Ashley, you've been married six years 1173 01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:40,280 Speaker 1: to a Cheatah? Now did she say she confided in 1174 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:45,960 Speaker 1: the young man her husband. Now, her husband went over 1175 01:17:46,040 --> 01:17:48,960 Speaker 1: that and told this little dude what he up to 1176 01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:53,040 Speaker 1: and what he doing little dude, and took this information like, 1177 01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,840 Speaker 1: oh okay, like he'll really care for your husband, know how? 1178 01:17:57,720 --> 01:18:02,280 Speaker 1: Apparently think that's he just slid all over to comfort 1179 01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:06,080 Speaker 1: you up against you. Now you're looking at when you 1180 01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:10,400 Speaker 1: can't take your eyes off his house. But it ain't 1181 01:18:10,439 --> 01:18:20,240 Speaker 1: really the house though. It's one of the tenants, and 1182 01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:25,960 Speaker 1: it's the tenant that stayed on the neighbor that's got 1183 01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:34,519 Speaker 1: you the most concern. Look, if you went over there 1184 01:18:34,800 --> 01:18:40,160 Speaker 1: to get some comfort, you would be wrong for doing that, 1185 01:18:40,360 --> 01:18:45,360 Speaker 1: because that is wrong and two wrongs don't make a right. 1186 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:52,680 Speaker 1: But with that said, if the situation were the other 1187 01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:59,600 Speaker 1: way around, I promise you your cheating husband would be 1188 01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:03,360 Speaker 1: over and getting comforted like he is anyway at some point. 1189 01:19:05,920 --> 01:19:09,200 Speaker 1: So now, if you went over there for awesome comfort, Hi, Hi, 1190 01:19:09,400 --> 01:19:14,080 Speaker 1: come on bringing home, ain't nobody got to know? Yeah, 1191 01:19:14,439 --> 01:19:22,320 Speaker 1: we encouraging her. I this just a fact, all right. 1192 01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:30,080 Speaker 1: We gotta move on, tommy, Yeah, kind that damn don't 1193 01:19:34,960 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 1: coming up. It is our last break of the day. 1194 01:19:37,760 --> 01:19:40,040 Speaker 1: And of course, at forty nine minutes after the hour, 1195 01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:42,439 Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only, 1196 01:19:42,560 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 1: our fearless leader, Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening, 1197 01:19:49,680 --> 01:19:51,880 Speaker 1: all right, guys, here we are last break of the 1198 01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:56,160 Speaker 1: day on this Thursday. All right, thank you, thank you, 1199 01:19:56,240 --> 01:19:59,439 Speaker 1: thank you. I appreciate you. This is it so much. 1200 01:19:59,560 --> 01:20:01,880 Speaker 1: And and once again, guys, we got to say a 1201 01:20:02,040 --> 01:20:05,600 Speaker 1: huge shout out to California voters. We asked you, we 1202 01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:07,479 Speaker 1: asked you to get out and vote, and guess what 1203 01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:10,400 Speaker 1: you did that and you made it happen. Democratic Governor 1204 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:15,720 Speaker 1: Gavin Newsom remains governor, he stated the recall and will 1205 01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:20,840 Speaker 1: remain governor like I said, of the great state of California. Yeah, 1206 01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:24,120 Speaker 1: we still have to work today, So Steve Harby Nation 1207 01:20:24,920 --> 01:20:26,960 Speaker 1: Day woke. We still have work to do. And get 1208 01:20:27,040 --> 01:20:30,160 Speaker 1: ready because in two weeks it's the National Voter Registration 1209 01:20:30,280 --> 01:20:34,880 Speaker 1: Week of Action September twenty seventh through October third. Let's 1210 01:20:34,920 --> 01:20:37,600 Speaker 1: get your friends, your family, and your neighbors ready to 1211 01:20:37,720 --> 01:20:42,080 Speaker 1: register to vote and check their voter registration status. All 1212 01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:44,280 Speaker 1: you have to do is go to when We All 1213 01:20:44,439 --> 01:20:49,200 Speaker 1: Vote dot org for more details. Let me tell you 1214 01:20:49,400 --> 01:20:54,240 Speaker 1: something we are going to be about the business doing 1215 01:20:54,400 --> 01:20:59,639 Speaker 1: this campaign to make an our mission to make sure 1216 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:08,560 Speaker 1: that us, we and all of our friends, relatives, and 1217 01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:14,280 Speaker 1: acquaintances and associates are registered to vote. Because let me 1218 01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:19,519 Speaker 1: tell y'all something, we are fully engaged at this point. 1219 01:21:21,120 --> 01:21:26,360 Speaker 1: And I want to thank the minority, the ultra right 1220 01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:34,400 Speaker 1: wing conservatives, the Tucker Causes, the Hannities, the Larry Elders. 1221 01:21:34,800 --> 01:21:37,840 Speaker 1: I really want to thank you, man, because one of 1222 01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:40,519 Speaker 1: the reasons that we are fully engaged is because now 1223 01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:44,360 Speaker 1: we are fully enraged, because you have just really just 1224 01:21:44,520 --> 01:21:49,760 Speaker 1: pissed us off. And I really appreciate that. I love 1225 01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:54,439 Speaker 1: to see blatant racism because see, somebody needs to see 1226 01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:59,479 Speaker 1: racism in a blatant form, not subtle racism, because some 1227 01:21:59,600 --> 01:22:04,479 Speaker 1: people don't get jokes some some some people ain't quit quitted. 1228 01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:09,280 Speaker 1: Some people have to get hit with it dead in 1229 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:13,879 Speaker 1: their teeth for them to taste it. So I'm okay 1230 01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:18,639 Speaker 1: with blatant racism because I know your ass exist anyway, 1231 01:22:19,800 --> 01:22:22,880 Speaker 1: so you might as well come front and center. So 1232 01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:26,640 Speaker 1: I like the Tucker castles, I like the Hannitis, I 1233 01:22:26,920 --> 01:22:30,960 Speaker 1: like the Larry Elders who just blatant. I like the 1234 01:22:31,520 --> 01:22:36,760 Speaker 1: Karens of the world who are getting videotaped all over 1235 01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:40,639 Speaker 1: this country right now just being your little caring racist 1236 01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:46,080 Speaker 1: ass self. Thank you, because see, we need people like you. 1237 01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:49,520 Speaker 1: Instead of getting mad when they show up, y'all, appreciate 1238 01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:54,880 Speaker 1: what they do, because now it really shows who who 1239 01:22:55,600 --> 01:23:00,439 Speaker 1: you really are. See, you know abortion to me, let me, 1240 01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:03,240 Speaker 1: let me talk about this for a second. You know, 1241 01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:06,800 Speaker 1: these attacks on abortion clinics and people who want to 1242 01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:10,560 Speaker 1: have an abortion. First of all, in all honesty, this 1243 01:23:10,720 --> 01:23:14,120 Speaker 1: is my honest opinion. I really do think that abortion 1244 01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:18,040 Speaker 1: laws and right should be conducted and enacted by women 1245 01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:22,240 Speaker 1: and women only because women are the only ones who 1246 01:23:22,280 --> 01:23:26,680 Speaker 1: can create life. What do we even know? It's so 1247 01:23:26,960 --> 01:23:31,040 Speaker 1: hypocritical of us to get involved in the abortion issues 1248 01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:35,439 Speaker 1: when it should be a woman's right period. Women should 1249 01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:40,840 Speaker 1: come up with the laws, penalties, requirements, everything, women. Women 1250 01:23:40,880 --> 01:23:43,599 Speaker 1: should do it. But let me tell you something, man, 1251 01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:51,800 Speaker 1: about men and about these ultra right wing people. They 1252 01:23:51,920 --> 01:23:56,599 Speaker 1: don't really care about abortion at all. They really don't. 1253 01:23:57,920 --> 01:24:04,240 Speaker 1: They only care about the issue of abortion. And just 1254 01:24:04,360 --> 01:24:08,599 Speaker 1: hear me out what I'm saying. Men don't care about 1255 01:24:08,680 --> 01:24:11,519 Speaker 1: abortion at all. Stop the front and man, you know 1256 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:15,000 Speaker 1: I know the truth. I talk to y'all on golf courses. Man, 1257 01:24:15,080 --> 01:24:18,160 Speaker 1: I talk to y'all in little social clubs. I talk 1258 01:24:18,200 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 1: to y'all. I talk to elite people. They don't care 1259 01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:25,080 Speaker 1: about abortion, y'all, quick tripping. They care only about the 1260 01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:30,759 Speaker 1: issue of abortion because the issue of abortion tips votes. 1261 01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:35,479 Speaker 1: And all they do is they use it as a 1262 01:24:35,680 --> 01:24:42,960 Speaker 1: voting mechanism because it is a false illusion of morality. 1263 01:24:44,520 --> 01:24:50,440 Speaker 1: They use abortion as an issue to deal with morality, 1264 01:24:51,600 --> 01:24:56,200 Speaker 1: and they try to use groups like the Southern Baptists 1265 01:24:56,240 --> 01:25:00,520 Speaker 1: in all of these people to appeal to your moral morality. 1266 01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:04,840 Speaker 1: But the people who are asking to appeal to your 1267 01:25:04,960 --> 01:25:10,040 Speaker 1: morality ain't got none, they damned self. You can miss 1268 01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:13,000 Speaker 1: me talking about abortion when you steady trying to take 1269 01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:16,200 Speaker 1: the right to vote from people. You can miss me 1270 01:25:16,320 --> 01:25:20,320 Speaker 1: with abortion. When you refuse to help the underprivilege of 1271 01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:23,880 Speaker 1: this country with childcare. You can miss me with the 1272 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:28,280 Speaker 1: abortion issue when you try everything in your power to 1273 01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:31,240 Speaker 1: keep our tax system in place where people who pay 1274 01:25:31,320 --> 01:25:35,080 Speaker 1: less taxes get less education. So now you can keep 1275 01:25:35,120 --> 01:25:36,720 Speaker 1: the poor poor, and you can keep them in a 1276 01:25:36,840 --> 01:25:40,200 Speaker 1: certain place and they can't elevate through education because they 1277 01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:42,360 Speaker 1: don't live in an area that pays a certain amount 1278 01:25:42,400 --> 01:25:45,360 Speaker 1: of taxes which keeps them on the poor side of education. 1279 01:25:45,680 --> 01:25:51,040 Speaker 1: But you moral though, man, miss me, So don't throw 1280 01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:55,599 Speaker 1: in abortion as a moral issue when your whole life 1281 01:25:55,760 --> 01:26:00,280 Speaker 1: is filled with immoral and acts of hypocrisy. That's what 1282 01:26:00,439 --> 01:26:03,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, and that's the truth of the matter, y'all. 1283 01:26:04,680 --> 01:26:08,360 Speaker 1: Y'all using abortion simply to tip vote, and you use 1284 01:26:08,439 --> 01:26:12,720 Speaker 1: the morality issue with your little Southern Christian organizations and 1285 01:26:12,880 --> 01:26:15,760 Speaker 1: try to make people think they moral. But this whole 1286 01:26:15,880 --> 01:26:20,839 Speaker 1: system is more immoral, and this whole system is corrupt, 1287 01:26:21,200 --> 01:26:25,280 Speaker 1: and it's a hypocritical thing. We awoke now, awake now 1288 01:26:26,040 --> 01:26:30,040 Speaker 1: as wide open, and we're voting. We vote all, y'all 1289 01:26:30,040 --> 01:26:33,200 Speaker 1: of fin to be gone. We're voting in all elections now. 1290 01:26:33,560 --> 01:26:47,400 Speaker 1: Thank you, see your mind for all. Steve Every contests 1291 01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:50,760 Speaker 1: no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal 1292 01:26:50,880 --> 01:26:54,479 Speaker 1: US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 1293 01:26:54,600 --> 01:26:58,040 Speaker 1: For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 1294 01:26:58,479 --> 01:27:01,160 Speaker 1: You're listening Fiveday Morning Show