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Speaker 1: Second Dato Date. A listener named Amanda is on the
Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today, and she's smart, okay,
Speaker 1: because she did what people normally don't do. She did
Speaker 1: her research, like, not just on the date the person
Speaker 1: she was going with, but the actual place. You showed
Speaker 1: up the day before, interviewed everybody at the restaurant, waited
Speaker 1: around check it out to make sure that it was
Speaker 1: the proper location to have a base psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No,
Speaker 1: that's not exactly what I did. Oh my god, Thank god.
Speaker 1: I was trying to spend what you did and make
Speaker 1: it better, but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for
Speaker 1: trying to make it better. But no, that's not exactly
Speaker 1: what I did. Yeah. I did go to the restaurant
Speaker 1: the day before, but that was on accident. Oh okay,
Speaker 1: you didn't go to make sure that you had the
Speaker 1: best lighting at the table so that you looked fantastic
Speaker 1: no matter what happened on your date? Right? No, But
Speaker 1: that's a great idea. No, I totally screwed up. I
Speaker 1: should have brought the restaurant and I was waiting for
Speaker 1: a really long time, and I kept calling him and
Speaker 1: texting him until finally got a response, and he wrote
Speaker 1: me back saying that we actually had planned a date
Speaker 1: the following night shot up, So he screwed up your
Speaker 1: schedule and showed up to the restaurant a day early.
Speaker 1: That's true. I should have kept clambing it on him.
Speaker 1: I've been like, no, I'm pretty sure it was tonight.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine the emotions you were going through, though. Yeah,
Speaker 1: after thirty minutes, I was pretty upset. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're like hating this guy so much and then you
Speaker 1: realize it's your own fault. Did you say anything rude
Speaker 1: to him when you texted him? You know? But I
Speaker 1: didn't hear from him. I kind of just wrote, like, dude,
Speaker 1: are you showing up or not? Because I'm going to leave? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: that's not too bad, and so did you make it
Speaker 1: the next night? Yeah? We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed
Speaker 1: up the next night awesome, And it was a little
Speaker 1: weird when I showed up the second night, in the
Speaker 1: row because all of the servers and the hostess remembered me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was awkward because the night before I kept checking
Speaker 1: in with everyone wondering if they had seen this guy
Speaker 1: was there? Like I have his picture, like a police
Speaker 1: officer that shows up trying to track somebody down, Like
Speaker 1: have you seen this man before in here? Ever? Exactly?
Speaker 1: So wait, how did you deal with that though? I mean,
Speaker 1: were you able to laugh or was it just weird?
Speaker 1: I mean I was a little awkward, but I had
Speaker 1: to laugh it off. I had no other choice, Okay.
Speaker 1: And was he cool with it? Yeah? He made fun
Speaker 1: of me, okay, as he should. As he should, right,
Speaker 1: So how was the actual date? The actual date I
Speaker 1: thought went well. We had a lot of things in common,
Speaker 1: listen to the same music, a lot of our hobbies
Speaker 1: are the same. Conversation was good, but I haven't heard
Speaker 1: from him since. So when you were leaving the date,
Speaker 1: what was your thought like that you were for sure
Speaker 1: going to see him again? I don't know, you know,
Speaker 1: I to be honest, just dating is terrible and both
Speaker 1: and you don't know what happens to them. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I thought it went really well and we had a
Speaker 1: lot of chemistry, but I don't know if he feels
Speaker 1: the same way because he's not saw me back, or
Speaker 1: you've had plans with him for a while now, but
Speaker 1: you're not very good with your schedule, so screwed up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's been waiting on your call. Yeah, maybe that's too.
Speaker 1: Oh God, did you guys kiss or anything? No. I
Speaker 1: wanted to kiss him to see if we had a
Speaker 1: deeper connection, but we just kind of hugged and said
Speaker 1: it was really nice to meet each other and thank
Speaker 1: you for a nice evening, and no plans to go
Speaker 1: out again. Like you guys and say we should totally
Speaker 1: go out again. No, I didn't make any plans. I
Speaker 1: was kind of hoping that he would be the one
Speaker 1: to call me and plan another date. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe he thought I was going to screw that one
Speaker 1: up too and then show up choice screw it. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, and then call him
Speaker 1: again your second day update, Okay, Okay, all right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna do it next Okay, like after the song, like,
Speaker 1: don't go anywhere, I don't show up somewhere else. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning, second Hey, Amanda,
Speaker 1: you there, Yes, I'm here. Hey. You know, at the
Speaker 1: end of the first part of the second date update,
Speaker 1: you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find
Speaker 1: out if you'll go on another date with you or not.
Speaker 1: If he says yes, just skip everything. Get married right away.
Speaker 1: That way you don't have to worry about dating anymore.
Speaker 1: Great idea. And then if he says no, just the
Speaker 1: next guy you go on a date with, just me
Speaker 1: him at the courthouse, get married. Get just stop with
Speaker 1: the dating, you know. Okay, Great, it's like arranging your
Speaker 1: own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool.
Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for today's second day update,
Speaker 1: Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a
Speaker 1: dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.
Speaker 1: The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was
Speaker 1: that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the
Speaker 1: restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up, But
Speaker 1: they worked it out. They ended up going there the
Speaker 1: next day to eat dinner. She says they had a
Speaker 1: great time, but now he's not getting back to her,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this
Speaker 1: is gonna go poorly and you're just gonna give up
Speaker 1: on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last straw
Speaker 1: for you? You know, I don't know. I've had such
Speaker 1: bad luck in the past that I might at all
Speaker 1: know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give up
Speaker 1: on dating, just get married, Amanda. That's the way it works.
Speaker 1: His marriage is so much easier than yeah, right right,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna doubt his phone number right now.
Speaker 1: See if we can get him on the phone. Here
Speaker 1: we go, Hello him a speak to Jacob Jacob. Hey, Jacob,
Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil from a radio
Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jebel in the morning. Okay, can
Speaker 1: I help you with something? Her? No, just calling for
Speaker 1: no reason, just to talk. All right. I'm a little
Speaker 1: confused here. Do you you need a donation or something
Speaker 1: or no? I'm calling you because we got an email
Speaker 1: from one of our listeners and it was about you,
Speaker 1: about about me? Yeah, how so? Well, her name is Amanda,
Speaker 1: and you guys went out to dinner the other day,
Speaker 1: Yes we did, Yes, he did. And she showed up
Speaker 1: to the restaurant on the wrong day and then started
Speaker 1: to blame you for it. You remember that, Yes, they
Speaker 1: do remember that. Okay, Well, Amanda told us a little
Speaker 1: bit about your date when you guys actually did go out,
Speaker 1: and now she's wondering why you won't call her back.
Speaker 1: Really yep, Um, so she contacted you and told you
Speaker 1: all about our date. Yes, it sounded like a lovely
Speaker 1: date from what she described. WHOA. If I'm being one
Speaker 1: hundred percent on us, this is a huge surprise to
Speaker 1: me because she did not seem very interested in me. Really,
Speaker 1: she told us the opposite. She said that she was
Speaker 1: really interested in you, but she thought that you weren't
Speaker 1: feeling it. Really really, I mean, why would she try
Speaker 1: to contact you for another date if she wasn't interested. Well,
Speaker 1: this whole thing is news to me. I did not
Speaker 1: know that, and that was not the impression I got. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's to be sure. Wait, you haven't gotten like a
Speaker 1: text message or a voicemail or something from her. I
Speaker 1: think I got a text message from her, but based
Speaker 1: on kind of how things went, it sort of seems
Speaker 1: more like a courtesy. You know, hey, thanks, that was great, like,
Speaker 1: but not not like she was really serious about wanting
Speaker 1: to see me again, especially Okay, what you know, Well,
Speaker 1: this could be one of the easiest second date up
Speaker 1: that we are done, then yeah, guy, we should just
Speaker 1: hook you up right now then obviously because you guys
Speaker 1: both like each other and didn't know it. Well, I'm
Speaker 1: not sure that I actually really want to go out again.
Speaker 1: What was she doing that made you think she wasn't interested? Well,
Speaker 1: the first sign I got was when the waiter came
Speaker 1: at the table to take our drink orders. He walked
Speaker 1: away and she said, Wow, that guy's jaw line looks
Speaker 1: just like my exes. And I kind of was like,
Speaker 1: did she just say that? And then she just launched
Speaker 1: into it. In the day, she was just talking about
Speaker 1: her ex and going on and on in this way
Speaker 1: that made me feel like, I mean, it was actually
Speaker 1: kind of sweet. It just seemed like she was still
Speaker 1: kind of hung up on him, and you know, like
Speaker 1: she seemed like a good person but just honestly not
Speaker 1: over him. Yeah, when you're making comments about the waiter's
Speaker 1: jaw line being similar to your x, it sounds to
Speaker 1: me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah. Well, not
Speaker 1: only that, she she kind of said like you know,
Speaker 1: we were working on he was going to night school,
Speaker 1: and then he had to move for a job. And
Speaker 1: it wasn't anything bad to happen, but he moved, and so,
Speaker 1: you know, I think they still have a cat together.
Speaker 1: He has the cattail. I learned it all. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: almost like you're on a date with that dude. I
Speaker 1: might as well been. You might as well just pulled
Speaker 1: right up. Were you asking her questions about it? Or
Speaker 1: was she just I didn't ask her anything about the AX,
Speaker 1: that's for sure. I wouldn't like that wouldn't have been
Speaker 1: my style, Okay, And like, I don't know. I guess
Speaker 1: I kind of left the day thinking this girl's really
Speaker 1: not that into me and she's got some history that
Speaker 1: she's not cleared up with. So I went home, and
Speaker 1: I guess when I was home, I was thinking about
Speaker 1: it some more, and so I checked out this guy
Speaker 1: her AX on Facebook just because I was curious, and well, yeah,
Speaker 1: you've heard so much about him pulling up a celebrity's
Speaker 1: Facebook page. X. I know, I know, even when I
Speaker 1: was doing it, I was like, this is a little,
Speaker 1: this is this is beyond. But I'm I was curious,
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like I should have just friended
Speaker 1: the guy and enough about him. It seemed like a
Speaker 1: nice guy, but you know, good looking guy, but nothing
Speaker 1: really specialized thought. It wasn't like I meant. They didn't
Speaker 1: do it for me. Son, Yeah, I mean, good enough
Speaker 1: looking guy, but but you're just not really what you need.
Speaker 1: All Right, We've got from talking about your day to
Speaker 1: analyzing the looks of her ex on Facebook. Yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: It was a strange, man, and this kind of happened,
Speaker 1: and I was ready to move on. Well we're not
Speaker 1: really ready to move on yet. Neither as Amanda, because
Speaker 1: she's actually on the other line listening and wants to
Speaker 1: talk to you. But what Yeah, she's on the phone. Yes,
Speaker 1: she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, Hey, Amanda. Wow,
Speaker 1: Okay you looked up my my ex? Huh uh. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess I did. I was I did guilty. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, I actually did. Really been trying to avoid it.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, is he like he had a
Speaker 1: picture of him fishing? Is that still is that still
Speaker 1: what he's doing? What are you doing? I just yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really remember what the picture was, but I mean,
Speaker 1: do you kind of do you hear yourself right now?
Speaker 1: I can kind of does anyone else? Yeah, you have
Speaker 1: the conversation, So, um, what do you mean you honestly
Speaker 1: don't hear, like hear what you're doing. Yeah, No, I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm interesting because I just want to know
Speaker 1: what he's up to, Like does he have a status update?
Speaker 1: You know, like, what is he up to? Amanda? You
Speaker 1: are you're clearly not over this guy. No, I am.
Speaker 1: I'm totally over him. I just look, I've been with
Speaker 1: him for a really long time and I'm just curious
Speaker 1: to what he's doing. His profile picture had another girl
Speaker 1: on it, but I don't know if it was that.
Speaker 1: What did she have brown hair with like blond highlights
Speaker 1: in the front, Amanda, It doesn't matter, it's your ex,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. It does matter. I want to know
Speaker 1: because I want to know if it's his sister or
Speaker 1: if it's the girl he was dating before me. Oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, Amanda. Yeah, listen, I'm sorry. I should not
Speaker 1: have brought that up. I don't think you should have, Amanda.
Speaker 1: You do not need to be dating right now. Yeah, Look,
Speaker 1: you're not in charge of my life. I thought dating
Speaker 1: would be a really good thing for me. So, Okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I dated this guy and now I'm not
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to find someone new. Okay, Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you're still focusing quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we're trying to say. It's not fair to
Speaker 1: you to the new dude. It's not really fair to
Speaker 1: anybody until you heal whatever's going on there. If you
Speaker 1: were dating someone for over a year and then you
Speaker 1: found out that some other girl was into his profile
Speaker 1: picture on Facebook, and you would be really upset too
Speaker 1: and probably want to know who it is. Okay, I
Speaker 1: agree with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. Probably
Speaker 1: not when you have your date on the phone too.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like maybe if you were talking to
Speaker 1: your best girlfriend. I'm just curious and I want to know. So, Jacob,
Speaker 1: could you please tell me more about what you saw
Speaker 1: on his Facebook profile? Yeah? You know, I'm gonna that's
Speaker 1: a hard no, Amanda. And you know what, I have
Speaker 1: a better idea, Jacob. How about this. Would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Amanda? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it and then you guys can talk all
Speaker 1: about it. You know what, as fun as that sounds,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna decline. No, come on very much. Did you
Speaker 1: guys could gossip about the whole thing the whole time?
Speaker 1: You know, Jacob, you know what you owe me for this? Okay.
Speaker 1: I know that everyone is laughing about this right now,
Speaker 1: but you were the one who looked, and I think
Speaker 1: that you owe it to me to tell me what
Speaker 1: you found. Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay, So why don't
Speaker 1: you just do yourself a favor and look at his
Speaker 1: Facebook profile? Or are you are you blocked or something
Speaker 1: or something? Yeah? Yeah, why aren't you on there? Amanda?
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that. I'm just curious
Speaker 1: about well, Amanda, how about this? How about how about this?
Speaker 1: How about you just set up like a dummy account
Speaker 1: and then try to follow him? That's the That's what
Speaker 1: most same people do. Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice.
Speaker 1: Thank you, but no, thank you, Jacob. When we hang
Speaker 1: up on this radio station, I am going to contact
Speaker 1: you and I am going to expect that you give
Speaker 1: me some answers about what you found. Oh my god. Oh,
Speaker 1: you need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda. Stop telling
Speaker 1: me what to do. Oh my god, Yeah, Amanda, it's
Speaker 1: your life, live it the way you see fit. And
Speaker 1: I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's
Speaker 1: nothing we can do about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: will be reaching out to him, and he better answer
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I
Speaker 1: love a good threat. All right, Well, Amanda, it looks
Speaker 1: like no second date for you. Hopefully you can get
Speaker 1: the information that you want though, And I guess we
Speaker 1: didn't find out that dating really does suck after all.
Speaker 1: That's a problem. Jewel in the morning. Okay, everybody texting
Speaker 1: in at seven eight, five nine two right now calling
Speaker 1: the girl from today's second date update crazy needs to stop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not because we disagree, just it's really full of people
Speaker 1: just saying she's crazy. And I'd like to read some
Speaker 1: different texts talking about today's second date update. If you
Speaker 1: missed it, Amando wanted to call this dude named Jacob.
Speaker 1: When we got him on the phone, we found out
Speaker 1: the reason he wasn't calling her back was because she
Speaker 1: seemed pretty obsessed with her ex. Yeah, and through the
Speaker 1: second date update, she still seemed pretty obsessed with her
Speaker 1: ex because he said that after the date he pulled
Speaker 1: up the dude's Facebook page just to see who he
Speaker 1: was because he heard so much about him on the date,
Speaker 1: and she started asking tons of questions because it sounds
Speaker 1: like she's blocked from seeing any of his content online.
Speaker 1: I feel bad for though. I mean, everybody's been in
Speaker 1: a situation where they like pine after some man and
Speaker 1: it goes through everyone's head. I just don't think a
Speaker 1: lot of people actually go through with that. She talked
Speaker 1: about it too much. She doesn't have any self control.
Speaker 1: There is part of the issue, and maybe some self
Speaker 1: esteem issues on top of the I mean, there's a
Speaker 1: lot of things going on. I get that, but her
Speaker 1: X sounds amazing though, Yeah, and I want to learn
Speaker 1: more about him. Remember, if you want to do a
Speaker 1: Seconday up, they don't have to do his email the show,
Speaker 1: and we will call the person who isn't calling you back.