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<v Speaker 1>Second Dato Date. A listener named Amanda is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone for a second date update today, and she's smart, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because she did what people normally don't do. She did

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<v Speaker 1>her research, like, not just on the date the person

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<v Speaker 1>she was going with, but the actual place. You showed

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<v Speaker 1>up the day before, interviewed everybody at the restaurant, waited

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<v Speaker 1>around check it out to make sure that it was

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<v Speaker 1>the proper location to have a base psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not exactly what I did. Oh my god, Thank god.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to spend what you did and make

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<v Speaker 1>it better, but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make it better. But no, that's not exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what I did. Yeah. I did go to the restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>the day before, but that was on accident. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't go to make sure that you had the

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<v Speaker 1>best lighting at the table so that you looked fantastic

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what happened on your date? Right? No, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's a great idea. No, I totally screwed up. I

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<v Speaker 1>should have brought the restaurant and I was waiting for

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<v Speaker 1>a really long time, and I kept calling him and

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<v Speaker 1>texting him until finally got a response, and he wrote

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<v Speaker 1>me back saying that we actually had planned a date

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<v Speaker 1>the following night shot up, So he screwed up your

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<v Speaker 1>schedule and showed up to the restaurant a day early.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. I should have kept clambing it on him.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been like, no, I'm pretty sure it was tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't imagine the emotions you were going through, though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>after thirty minutes, I was pretty upset. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like hating this guy so much and then you

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<v Speaker 1>realize it's your own fault. Did you say anything rude

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<v Speaker 1>to him when you texted him? You know? But I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hear from him. I kind of just wrote, like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>are you showing up or not? Because I'm going to leave? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not too bad, and so did you make it

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<v Speaker 1>the next night? Yeah? We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed

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<v Speaker 1>up the next night awesome, And it was a little

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<v Speaker 1>weird when I showed up the second night, in the

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<v Speaker 1>row because all of the servers and the hostess remembered me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was awkward because the night before I kept checking

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<v Speaker 1>in with everyone wondering if they had seen this guy

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<v Speaker 1>was there? Like I have his picture, like a police

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<v Speaker 1>officer that shows up trying to track somebody down, Like

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen this man before in here? Ever? Exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, how did you deal with that though? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>were you able to laugh or was it just weird?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was a little awkward, but I had

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh it off. I had no other choice, Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And was he cool with it? Yeah? He made fun

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<v Speaker 1>of me, okay, as he should. As he should, right,

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<v Speaker 1>So how was the actual date? The actual date I

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<v Speaker 1>thought went well. We had a lot of things in common,

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<v Speaker 1>listen to the same music, a lot of our hobbies

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<v Speaker 1>are the same. Conversation was good, but I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>from him since. So when you were leaving the date,

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<v Speaker 1>what was your thought like that you were for sure

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<v Speaker 1>going to see him again? I don't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I to be honest, just dating is terrible and both

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't know what happens to them. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it went really well and we had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of chemistry, but I don't know if he feels

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<v Speaker 1>the same way because he's not saw me back, or

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<v Speaker 1>you've had plans with him for a while now, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not very good with your schedule, so screwed up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's been waiting on your call. Yeah, maybe that's too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, did you guys kiss or anything? No. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to kiss him to see if we had a

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<v Speaker 1>deeper connection, but we just kind of hugged and said

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<v Speaker 1>it was really nice to meet each other and thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for a nice evening, and no plans to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again. Like you guys and say we should totally

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<v Speaker 1>go out again. No, I didn't make any plans. I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of hoping that he would be the one

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<v Speaker 1>to call me and plan another date. But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he thought I was going to screw that one

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<v Speaker 1>up too and then show up choice screw it. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, and then call him

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<v Speaker 1>again your second day update, Okay, Okay, all right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do it next Okay, like after the song, like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't go anywhere, I don't show up somewhere else. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning, second Hey, Amanda,

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<v Speaker 1>you there, Yes, I'm here. Hey. You know, at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the first part of the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm thinking. When we call this guy and find

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<v Speaker 1>out if you'll go on another date with you or not.

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<v Speaker 1>If he says yes, just skip everything. Get married right away.

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<v Speaker 1>That way you don't have to worry about dating anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Great idea. And then if he says no, just the

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<v Speaker 1>next guy you go on a date with, just me

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<v Speaker 1>him at the courthouse, get married. Get just stop with

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<v Speaker 1>the dating, you know. Okay, Great, it's like arranging your

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<v Speaker 1>own wedding. Yeah, great idea. I'll keep that in mind. Okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just joining us for today's second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Jacob. They went out to eat dinner together.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was

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<v Speaker 1>that Amanda showed up on the wrong day to the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant and then blamed him for standing her up, But

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<v Speaker 1>they worked it out. They ended up going there the

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<v Speaker 1>next day to eat dinner. She says they had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, but now he's not getting back to her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't know why. I'm just worried that this

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<v Speaker 1>is gonna go poorly and you're just gonna give up

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<v Speaker 1>on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last straw

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<v Speaker 1>for you? You know, I don't know. I've had such

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<v Speaker 1>bad luck in the past that I might at all

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<v Speaker 1>know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give up

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<v Speaker 1>on dating, just get married, Amanda. That's the way it works.

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<v Speaker 1>His marriage is so much easier than yeah, right right,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm gonna doubt his phone number right now.

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<v Speaker 1>See if we can get him on the phone. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go, Hello him a speak to Jacob Jacob. Hey, Jacob,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? My name is Jebil from a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show called Brook and Jebel in the morning. Okay, can

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<v Speaker 1>I help you with something? Her? No, just calling for

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<v Speaker 1>no reason, just to talk. All right. I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>confused here. Do you you need a donation or something

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<v Speaker 1>or no? I'm calling you because we got an email

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<v Speaker 1>from one of our listeners and it was about you,

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<v Speaker 1>about about me? Yeah, how so? Well, her name is Amanda,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went out to dinner the other day,

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<v Speaker 1>Yes we did, Yes, he did. And she showed up

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<v Speaker 1>to the restaurant on the wrong day and then started

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<v Speaker 1>to blame you for it. You remember that, Yes, they

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<v Speaker 1>do remember that. Okay, Well, Amanda told us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about your date when you guys actually did go out,

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<v Speaker 1>and now she's wondering why you won't call her back.

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<v Speaker 1>Really yep, Um, so she contacted you and told you

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<v Speaker 1>all about our date. Yes, it sounded like a lovely

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<v Speaker 1>date from what she described. WHOA. If I'm being one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent on us, this is a huge surprise to

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<v Speaker 1>me because she did not seem very interested in me. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>she told us the opposite. She said that she was

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<v Speaker 1>really interested in you, but she thought that you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>feeling it. Really really, I mean, why would she try

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<v Speaker 1>to contact you for another date if she wasn't interested. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing is news to me. I did not

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<v Speaker 1>know that, and that was not the impression I got. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's to be sure. Wait, you haven't gotten like a

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<v Speaker 1>text message or a voicemail or something from her. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I got a text message from her, but based

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<v Speaker 1>on kind of how things went, it sort of seems

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<v Speaker 1>more like a courtesy. You know, hey, thanks, that was great, like,

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<v Speaker 1>but not not like she was really serious about wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to see me again, especially Okay, what you know, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this could be one of the easiest second date up

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<v Speaker 1>that we are done, then yeah, guy, we should just

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<v Speaker 1>hook you up right now then obviously because you guys

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<v Speaker 1>both like each other and didn't know it. Well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure that I actually really want to go out again.

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<v Speaker 1>What was she doing that made you think she wasn't interested? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the first sign I got was when the waiter came

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<v Speaker 1>at the table to take our drink orders. He walked

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<v Speaker 1>away and she said, Wow, that guy's jaw line looks

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<v Speaker 1>just like my exes. And I kind of was like,

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<v Speaker 1>did she just say that? And then she just launched

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<v Speaker 1>into it. In the day, she was just talking about

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<v Speaker 1>her ex and going on and on in this way

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<v Speaker 1>that made me feel like, I mean, it was actually

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sweet. It just seemed like she was still

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hung up on him, and you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>she seemed like a good person but just honestly not

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<v Speaker 1>over him. Yeah, when you're making comments about the waiter's

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<v Speaker 1>jaw line being similar to your x, it sounds to

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<v Speaker 1>me like that's all she's thinking about. Yeah. Well, not

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<v Speaker 1>only that, she she kind of said like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we were working on he was going to night school,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he had to move for a job. And

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't anything bad to happen, but he moved, and so,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think they still have a cat together.

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<v Speaker 1>He has the cattail. I learned it all. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like you're on a date with that dude. I

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<v Speaker 1>might as well been. You might as well just pulled

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<v Speaker 1>right up. Were you asking her questions about it? Or

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<v Speaker 1>was she just I didn't ask her anything about the AX,

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<v Speaker 1>that's for sure. I wouldn't like that wouldn't have been

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<v Speaker 1>my style, Okay, And like, I don't know. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of left the day thinking this girl's really

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<v Speaker 1>not that into me and she's got some history that

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<v Speaker 1>she's not cleared up with. So I went home, and

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<v Speaker 1>I guess when I was home, I was thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it some more, and so I checked out this guy

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<v Speaker 1>her AX on Facebook just because I was curious, and well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you've heard so much about him pulling up a celebrity's

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page. X. I know, I know, even when I

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<v Speaker 1>was doing it, I was like, this is a little,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is beyond. But I'm I was curious,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I feel like I should have just friended

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<v Speaker 1>the guy and enough about him. It seemed like a

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy, but you know, good looking guy, but nothing

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<v Speaker 1>really specialized thought. It wasn't like I meant. They didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do it for me. Son, Yeah, I mean, good enough

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<v Speaker 1>looking guy, but but you're just not really what you need.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, We've got from talking about your day to

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<v Speaker 1>analyzing the looks of her ex on Facebook. Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a strange, man, and this kind of happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was ready to move on. Well we're not

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<v Speaker 1>really ready to move on yet. Neither as Amanda, because

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<v Speaker 1>she's actually on the other line listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. But what Yeah, she's on the phone. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, Hey, Amanda. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>Okay you looked up my my ex? Huh uh. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I did. I was I did guilty. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I actually did. Really been trying to avoid it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, is he like he had a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of him fishing? Is that still is that still

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<v Speaker 1>what he's doing? What are you doing? I just yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really remember what the picture was, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you kind of do you hear yourself right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I can kind of does anyone else? Yeah, you have

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation, So, um, what do you mean you honestly

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<v Speaker 1>don't hear, like hear what you're doing. Yeah, No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, I'm interesting because I just want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what he's up to, Like does he have a status update?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like, what is he up to? Amanda? You

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<v Speaker 1>are you're clearly not over this guy. No, I am.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally over him. I just look, I've been with

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<v Speaker 1>him for a really long time and I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 1>to what he's doing. His profile picture had another girl

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<v Speaker 1>on it, but I don't know if it was that.

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<v Speaker 1>What did she have brown hair with like blond highlights

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<v Speaker 1>in the front, Amanda, It doesn't matter, it's your ex,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't matter. It does matter. I want to know

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to know if it's his sister or

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<v Speaker 1>if it's the girl he was dating before me. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, Amanda. Yeah, listen, I'm sorry. I should not

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<v Speaker 1>have brought that up. I don't think you should have, Amanda.

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<v Speaker 1>You do not need to be dating right now. Yeah, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not in charge of my life. I thought dating

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<v Speaker 1>would be a really good thing for me. So, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I dated this guy and now I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to find someone new. Okay, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're still focusing quite a bit on the old dude, Amanda. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we're trying to say. It's not fair to

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<v Speaker 1>you to the new dude. It's not really fair to

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<v Speaker 1>anybody until you heal whatever's going on there. If you

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<v Speaker 1>were dating someone for over a year and then you

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<v Speaker 1>found out that some other girl was into his profile

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<v Speaker 1>picture on Facebook, and you would be really upset too

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<v Speaker 1>and probably want to know who it is. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you completely, Amanda. I'm on your side. Probably

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<v Speaker 1>not when you have your date on the phone too.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like maybe if you were talking to

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<v Speaker 1>your best girlfriend. I'm just curious and I want to know. So, Jacob,

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<v Speaker 1>could you please tell me more about what you saw

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<v Speaker 1>on his Facebook profile? Yeah? You know, I'm gonna that's

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<v Speaker 1>a hard no, Amanda. And you know what, I have

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<v Speaker 1>a better idea, Jacob. How about this. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Amanda? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it and then you guys can talk all

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<v Speaker 1>about it. You know what, as fun as that sounds,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna decline. No, come on very much. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys could gossip about the whole thing the whole time?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Jacob, you know what you owe me for this? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that everyone is laughing about this right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but you were the one who looked, and I think

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<v Speaker 1>that you owe it to me to tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>you found. Oh my gosh. Wow. Okay, So why don't

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<v Speaker 1>you just do yourself a favor and look at his

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook profile? Or are you are you blocked or something

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<v Speaker 1>or something? Yeah? Yeah, why aren't you on there? Amanda?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about that. I'm just curious

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<v Speaker 1>about well, Amanda, how about this? How about how about this?

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<v Speaker 1>How about you just set up like a dummy account

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<v Speaker 1>and then try to follow him? That's the That's what

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<v Speaker 1>most same people do. Yeah. I don't appreciate your lame advice.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, but no, thank you, Jacob. When we hang

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<v Speaker 1>up on this radio station, I am going to contact

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<v Speaker 1>you and I am going to expect that you give

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<v Speaker 1>me some answers about what you found. Oh my god. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you need some good girlfriends right now, Amanda. Stop telling

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<v Speaker 1>me what to do. Oh my god, Yeah, Amanda, it's

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<v Speaker 1>your life, live it the way you see fit. And

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you'll be reaching out to Jacob because there's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing we can do about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>will be reaching out to him, and he better answer

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. I'm scared. That really makes me eager. I

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<v Speaker 1>love a good threat. All right, Well, Amanda, it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like no second date for you. Hopefully you can get

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<v Speaker 1>the information that you want though, And I guess we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't find out that dating really does suck after all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a problem. Jewel in the morning. Okay, everybody texting

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<v Speaker 1>in at seven eight, five nine two right now calling

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<v Speaker 1>the girl from today's second date update crazy needs to stop. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>not because we disagree, just it's really full of people

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<v Speaker 1>just saying she's crazy. And I'd like to read some

0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:29.360
<v Speaker 1>different texts talking about today's second date update. If you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, Amando wanted to call this dude named Jacob.

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<v Speaker 1>When we got him on the phone, we found out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason he wasn't calling her back was because she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed pretty obsessed with her ex. Yeah, and through the

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, she still seemed pretty obsessed with her

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<v Speaker 1>ex because he said that after the date he pulled

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<v Speaker 1>up the dude's Facebook page just to see who he

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<v Speaker 1>was because he heard so much about him on the date,

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<v Speaker 1>and she started asking tons of questions because it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like she's blocked from seeing any of his content online.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad for though. I mean, everybody's been in

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<v Speaker 1>a situation where they like pine after some man and

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<v Speaker 1>it goes through everyone's head. I just don't think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people actually go through with that. She talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it too much. She doesn't have any self control.

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<v Speaker 1>There is part of the issue, and maybe some self

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<v Speaker 1>esteem issues on top of the I mean, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things going on. I get that, but her

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<v Speaker 1>X sounds amazing though, Yeah, and I want to learn

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<v Speaker 1>more about him. Remember, if you want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>Seconday up, they don't have to do his email the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and we will call the person who isn't calling you back.