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Speaker 1: Second Dato Date. A listener named Amanda is on the

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Speaker 1: phone for a second date update today, and she's smart, okay,

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Speaker 1: because she did what people normally don't do. She did

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Speaker 1: her research, like, not just on the date the person

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Speaker 1: she was going with, but the actual place. You showed

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Speaker 1: up the day before, interviewed everybody at the restaurant, waited

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Speaker 1: around check it out to make sure that it was

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Speaker 1: the proper location to have a base psycho. Isn't that right, Amanda? No,

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Speaker 1: that's not exactly what I did. Oh my god, Thank god.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to spend what you did and make

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Speaker 1: it better, but I guess not. Yeah, thank you for

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Speaker 1: trying to make it better. But no, that's not exactly

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Speaker 1: what I did. Yeah. I did go to the restaurant

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Speaker 1: the day before, but that was on accident. Oh okay,

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Speaker 1: no matter what happened on your date? Right? No, But

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Speaker 1: that's a great idea. No, I totally screwed up. I

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Speaker 1: a really long time, and I kept calling him and

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Speaker 1: texting him until finally got a response, and he wrote

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Speaker 1: me back saying that we actually had planned a date

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Speaker 1: the following night shot up, So he screwed up your

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Speaker 1: That's true. I should have kept clambing it on him.

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Speaker 1: I've been like, no, I'm pretty sure it was tonight.

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Speaker 1: I can't imagine the emotions you were going through, though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: after thirty minutes, I was pretty upset. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're like hating this guy so much and then you

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Speaker 1: realize it's your own fault. Did you say anything rude

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Speaker 1: to him when you texted him? You know? But I

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Speaker 1: didn't hear from him. I kind of just wrote, like, dude,

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Speaker 1: are you showing up or not? Because I'm going to leave? Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's not too bad, and so did you make it

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Speaker 1: the next night? Yeah? We did? Okay, good. Everybody showed

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Speaker 1: up the next night awesome, And it was a little

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Speaker 1: it was awkward because the night before I kept checking

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Speaker 1: was there? Like I have his picture, like a police

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Speaker 1: officer that shows up trying to track somebody down, Like

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Speaker 1: have you seen this man before in here? Ever? Exactly?

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Speaker 1: So wait, how did you deal with that though? I mean,

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Speaker 1: And was he cool with it? Yeah? He made fun

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Speaker 1: So how was the actual date? The actual date I

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Speaker 1: thought went well. We had a lot of things in common,

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Speaker 1: listen to the same music, a lot of our hobbies

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Speaker 1: are the same. Conversation was good, but I haven't heard

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Speaker 1: you've had plans with him for a while now, but

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Speaker 1: you're not very good with your schedule, so screwed up. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Oh God, did you guys kiss or anything? No. I

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Speaker 1: all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning, second Hey, Amanda,

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Speaker 1: you made the comment that dating sucks totally. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: Great idea. And then if he says no, just the

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Speaker 1: If you're just joining us for today's second day update,

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Speaker 1: Amanda is on the phone. She wants to call a

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Speaker 1: The problem at the beginning of the whole thing was

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Speaker 1: next day to eat dinner. She says they had a

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Speaker 1: on dating altogether, Like, could this be the last straw

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Speaker 1: for you? You know, I don't know. I've had such

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Speaker 1: know the truth marriage marriage marriage. If you give up

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Speaker 1: His marriage is so much easier than yeah, right right,

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Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil from a radio

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Speaker 1: show called Brook and Jebel in the morning. Okay, can

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Speaker 1: I help you with something? Her? No, just calling for

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Speaker 1: about about me? Yeah, how so? Well, her name is Amanda,

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Speaker 1: and you guys went out to dinner the other day,

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Speaker 1: Yes we did, Yes, he did. And she showed up

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Speaker 1: do remember that. Okay, Well, Amanda told us a little

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Speaker 1: to contact you for another date if she wasn't interested. Well,

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Speaker 1: the guy and enough about him. It seemed like a

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Speaker 1: nice guy, but you know, good looking guy, but nothing

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Speaker 1: she's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. Hi, Hey, Amanda. Wow,

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Speaker 1: Okay you looked up my my ex? Huh uh. Yeah,

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