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Speaker 1: Welcome back, Happy Hour listeners. It was another crazy week

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Speaker 1: here on The Bachelor, and it's so weird to think

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Speaker 1: that we're already know to just three women left. I know,

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Speaker 1: the season has flown by. I mean we're pretty much

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Speaker 1: almost at the finale at this point, but with hometowns

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Speaker 1: behind us and Fantasy Suits coming up next, it is

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Speaker 1: no surprise that last night's episode was definitely intense and

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Speaker 1: filled with surprises. And someone who knows how intense the

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Speaker 1: Bachelor journey can be other than you and I beck

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Speaker 1: At is our guest today, Teddy. Yes, I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: I'm so ready to talk to Teddy. I mean, obviously,

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Speaker 1: she was like one of the front runners since night one.

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Speaker 1: We have so much to go over with her. But

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Speaker 1: before we get into it and bring her on, we

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Speaker 1: just have to get into last night's episode. And as

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Speaker 1: you know, you gotta kick it off with our favorite

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Speaker 1: fashion moments. Who I love your dance with that. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what my singing was with that one, but

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Speaker 1: just taking you up. I love the loves all right.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna break things down slightly differently this week, just

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Speaker 1: because we do only have four women and they are

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Speaker 1: all dressed so well. So I'm going to give just

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Speaker 1: a couple individual pieces that I loved versus giving out

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Speaker 1: a full look. So for the night portion, Gabby's black boots,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think I'm gonna damn her today

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Speaker 1: and ask her where she got them from. They're amazing.

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Speaker 1: I've been looking for boots like that, so I genuinely

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Speaker 1: want to know where she got them. And then in

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Speaker 1: terms of outfit, I loved Rachel's knit black rap dress.

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Speaker 1: I thought she looked really cute, comfortable. She dresses so well.

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Speaker 1: Everything is very flattering on her, I find, so yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want the net dress and I want to pair

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Speaker 1: it with Gabby's black boots. And then for our day look,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give a shout out to Susie's pink coat.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she wore this in Vienna, but I

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Speaker 1: loved it. It's such a beautifu color on her. And

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Speaker 1: Serene came in with this gorgeous cream knit sweater, some

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Speaker 1: gold jewelry and her lashes. Oh my gosh, did you

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Speaker 1: see this shot from overhead when she had the helmet on.

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Speaker 1: I think there was like a goper on their helmet.

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Speaker 1: There was an overhead shot of her and her lashes

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Speaker 1: were like absolutely perfection, like so long. I just this

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Speaker 1: is the difference between you and I. You are so

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Speaker 1: good at pain attention to detail, and I pay zero

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Speaker 1: attention to stuff like that. So that is something I

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Speaker 1: would have never ever noticed. I was like, are these falsies?

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Speaker 1: Are they lash extensions? I need to know? Are these natural?

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Speaker 1: We can get the info from her. I want it.

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Speaker 1: I want the info. And then for the rose ceremony,

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Speaker 1: Susie had a great sparkly hoop accessory, but her best

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Speaker 1: accessory was those Louis Vaton shoes. Did you catch did

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Speaker 1: I ever? That was my That was my rose from

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Speaker 1: last week? Yeah, she was wearing them to the rose

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Speaker 1: ceremony this week. I caught the little glimpse of the

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Speaker 1: red bottoms. I couldn't decide whose dress it lights better.

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Speaker 1: Gabby's a serene. Serena had this like really beautiful cross

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Speaker 1: back navy gown on, but I think I'm gonna have

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Speaker 1: to go with Gabby just because I really haven't seen

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Speaker 1: anything like it on the show. I feel like it's

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Speaker 1: House of c CB. She wears them a lot and

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Speaker 1: it just looks great on her. I love the cut

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Speaker 1: I love the color. I loved her like cheek, slick

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Speaker 1: back hair. So I think Gabby's gonna take the Rose

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Speaker 1: Ceremony look for me this week. They all, I mean

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Speaker 1: those four women, they all dressed impectably. I do have

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Speaker 1: to say though, for Teddy's nighttime look along with the boots,

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Speaker 1: I just loved her whole outfit, like she looked great.

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Speaker 1: Is definitely something that I feel like, Yeah, Gabby's I

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I hope Serena calls this out. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: I loved it. Let's get into the episode, because of

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Speaker 1: course it was I would say the most serious part

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Speaker 1: on this entire season so far. Hometowns always are. It's

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Speaker 1: like such a game change each year when you finally

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Speaker 1: bring family and friends into the mix. Some of my

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Speaker 1: key moments I have to say, first of all, have

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Speaker 1: to call out Susie just with sharing her father's story.

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Speaker 1: That one hit home for me personally, so it was

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Speaker 1: just really special to hear. But I cannot not talk

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Speaker 1: about my favorite person who I would have loved to

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Speaker 1: see more in this episode, who I would love to

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Speaker 1: have be in my life, part of my family. Gabby's grandpa. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have to give it up to the grandpa himself.

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Speaker 1: He was incredible. I'm already obsessed with him. I want

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Speaker 1: I want him to also be my grandfather. The fact

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Speaker 1: oh you Gabby, you Gabrielle, You're just I was like,

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Speaker 1: see where she gets her sense of humor. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I love that. And like, there was one moment where

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Speaker 1: I think her and her grandpa sat down. I don't know,

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Speaker 1: of course it's going to be a serious conversation, but

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Speaker 1: wrong with Clayton for keeping you around this song or

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Speaker 1: now see where she gets it from it. It was

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Speaker 1: get to know him a bit. I want more of him. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I love he was the absolute family all star of

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Speaker 1: the entire episode. I'm going to give runner up to

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Speaker 1: Susie's dad because he was also just the coolest dad,

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Speaker 1: Like he was like, you know, I trust my daughter.

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Speaker 1: She is the best judgment ever. Whatever she says, whatever

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Speaker 1: she wants goes. But yeah, Gabby's grandpa was the number

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Speaker 1: one took the cake. I will say though, And I

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Speaker 1: actually got emotional watching it. It It was a beautiful moment.

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Speaker 1: But could they have hinted harder that Gabby's dad was

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Speaker 1: going to show up on that hometown day? Oh, I

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Speaker 1: feel like any chance they got it was like, I

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Speaker 1: just wish my dad was here. I was like, Gavy,

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Speaker 1: I'm certain he is coming, and then they stole right

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Speaker 1: from love actually the whole thing. I know. One other thing,

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Speaker 1: um was I want to touch on Serene's hometown because

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Speaker 1: him on at that point. I want him. I mean

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Speaker 1: to tea single that was well that wasn't his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: or partner wife, right, because there was a female there,

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Speaker 1: but I didn't know if it was her best friend

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Speaker 1: appreciated him because I feel like, realistically, I know like

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Speaker 1: hometowns on The Bachelor, like my uncles and my mom

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Speaker 1: questioned me hard, and so I appreciate him not like

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Speaker 1: to him at all. Obviously it was very uncomfortable for Clean,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like it could have gotten worse with him.

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Speaker 1: the way that him and Rachel interacted, You're like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: was like, this all worked out. Did you have any

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Speaker 1: like really tough hometowns when you were a batch shorette? No, No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't. It was I actually had a lot of

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Speaker 1: fun that week because, like, I know, it was supposed

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Speaker 1: All of them were so fun. I had such a blast.

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Speaker 1: planned the date this time, so I it was like

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Speaker 1: that I'd show up and have a good time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: feel like it's like like I don't know why I

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Speaker 1: could be wrong this, but I feel like the bachelors

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Speaker 1: protective dads or just the protective parents being like, do

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Speaker 1: not be taking advantage of my daughter? Yeah, yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: for sure. And I feel like you just in general,

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Speaker 1: might be her? Last week? I literally have written on

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Speaker 1: Do you okay? Yeah? I was like, honestly from the

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Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, like, I just get the vibes, like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I really like her, and I think that they had

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Speaker 1: a wonderful friendship and he had a lot of respect

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Speaker 1: and she's obviously stunning, but the romantic connection for me

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Speaker 1: watching with Clayton and Serene was like way behind where

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Speaker 1: it was with the other three women, right I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say a the very beginning of the date with Gabby,

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Speaker 1: I was like she might be the one going home

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Speaker 1: only because she is so funny and comedic all the

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Speaker 1: especially her date. Like activity probably I actually thought all

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Speaker 1: the day activities were pretty fun. They were all like

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Speaker 1: very outdoorsy and active and like awesome ideas. But we

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Speaker 1: had a Ropes course at Emma Collin and every single

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Speaker 1: week we were like, Who's getting the Robes Corse date?

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Speaker 1: Like everyone wanted to do the Robes course date and

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Speaker 1: no one got it. But it looked so much fun.

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Speaker 1: It was so fun to watch and they looked like

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Speaker 1: they were really enjoying each other's company. But yeah, I

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Speaker 1: she's going to be able to see that her connection

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Speaker 1: maybe just wasn't where she thought it was in comparison

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Speaker 1: the Happy Hour. Well, Teddy, welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour.

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Speaker 1: I think there's just a lot of pressure. You put

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Speaker 1: very first one on one date, so I established the

430
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 1: most time right away. But I probably experience something similar

431
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 1: to you where you start on such a high and

432
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: you're like rolling, rolling, rolling, and then you get on

433
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 1: the group date and you're like, oh wait, but I'm

434
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,760
Speaker 1: not the only one here, and now I have to

435
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,320
Speaker 1: watch him divide his time between other people and it's

436
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 1: really difficult. It's like you're trying to move forward in

437
00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: a relationship, but sometimes in the sense, especially on group date.

438
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 1: Afterard group date, it's like you take what is this saying,

439
00:21:26,320 --> 00:21:29,199
Speaker 1: like one step forward, two steps back. It's like you

440
00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:32,080
Speaker 1: can't quite get to that point. And especially in this

441
00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 1: environment where like at the end of this there's an engagement.

442
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 1: You need to ask the right questions. I have enough

443
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 1: time to get to that point. It makes it really

444
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 1: difficult if you don't get that that alone time until

445
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 1: later on. So, speaking of group dates, because you had

446
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 1: a lot under your belt, you know, those first few

447
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 1: weeks overall, what was your favorite group date of the season.

448
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,640
Speaker 1: Definitely Houston. I love the football date, and I thought

449
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 1: that was going to be the worst one that I

450
00:21:55,560 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 1: would go on. I'm not usually big on physical activities,

451
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:03,920
Speaker 1: but it was so much fun, like getting to meet

452
00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:06,400
Speaker 1: the NFL players and I think it was cool. There

453
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: definitely was drama, but we all were not following the rules,

454
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: and none of us knew that. Like the winning team

455
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,560
Speaker 1: that I was on, I guess we were doing things

456
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 1: that were like illegal and regular football, but we thought

457
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: we were just doing so good illegal Like I would

458
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,000
Speaker 1: have had no idea either, And when like everything's fair, Yeah, okay,

459
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 1: the rules are, they're already exactly, but whist all blow

460
00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: and I would just tackle the quarterback. And then after

461
00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 1: I found out you're not allowed to do that, but

462
00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 1: I think you're nuts. You have to wait a searchain

463
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: amount of seconds, but like blow and I would just charge.

464
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I would be like, yeah, I got that. Sad,

465
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 1: but it was so much fun because then the next

466
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 1: day we were all worried, like, ah, like is everyone

467
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: going to be mad at each other because we were

468
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: just like tackling, But everyone was like just laughing about it.

469
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:48,600
Speaker 1: It was such a fun day because that was my

470
00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,320
Speaker 1: favorite well you, and so much drama that took place

471
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 1: that evening that wasn't even with anyone that was supposed

472
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: to be on the group portion of that date that

473
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: night that it just took over. Um, I want to

474
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: get into some of the drama, but we don't need

475
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,400
Speaker 1: to harp on it because we've talked at length about everything,

476
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,959
Speaker 1: you know, especially in terms of Cheney. But did you

477
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:12,479
Speaker 1: feel like, because there was so much drama with her

478
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: and some of the other women early on in that season,

479
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: did you feel like at any point that your relationship

480
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 1: with Clayton just really prevented it from developing any further. Yeah,

481
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 1: Cheney never really like affected me that much. I think

482
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,520
Speaker 1: for me, the biggest thing was and a lot of

483
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: the other girls didn't have the luxury of this, So

484
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 1: I know I was lucky that I felt this way,

485
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,679
Speaker 1: But I knew that Clayton did see my personality, he

486
00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 1: knew who it was. So I was never really that

487
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: concerned about Shane because I knew she was making up

488
00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 1: lies about girls. But I knew, like if she ever

489
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: lied to Clayton about me, we had a strong enough foundation.

490
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: But I would have at least hoped that he would

491
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: have been able to see through it and be like,

492
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 1: I know, that's not who Teddy is. So she never

493
00:23:53,119 --> 00:23:55,199
Speaker 1: really bothered me in that way. But I think just

494
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: the drama in general, I hate drama. Being surrounded by

495
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 1: it did like cause me to just shell up a

496
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: little bit because she was just monopolizing the house, especially

497
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: near the end of it, and I think that was

498
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 1: causing to me to just kind of withdraw to not

499
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 1: like be so anxious all the time. So yeah, she

500
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: never really like was worrying me about if she could

501
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 1: affect my relationship, but then it was affecting me personally,

502
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: which then I guess was just taking so much time away.

503
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 1: So that's like totally understandable though, because I do remember

504
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: feeling somewhat of a similar way where you're like, when

505
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: there's so much drama happening around you, even if it

506
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,879
Speaker 1: doesn't evolve you, You're like, this just doesn't feel like

507
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: a safe space. Like I feel almost nervous being like

508
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: totally candid and myself because like what if something is

509
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 1: said or done that's taken, Like I don't know, it

510
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: just doesn't feel like if you feel like the people

511
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,439
Speaker 1: that are causing in the drama and are participating in it,

512
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:55,480
Speaker 1: like you almost can't trust those people. I mean, in

513
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 1: Shy's case, you definitely can't trust her, But I mean, yeah,

514
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: I get how that can create like a very anxious environmentally.

515
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,239
Speaker 1: I have a question because you just had mentioned, you know,

516
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: if she were to go to Clayton and spread lies

517
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 1: or say anything about you that you would know you

518
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: had such a solid foundation. And it really seemed like

519
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: she was going after anyone who, you know, potentially opened

520
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,400
Speaker 1: themselves up to be I would say, not that they

521
00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: were a target, but she kind of made them that.

522
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 1: Like in the house, did everyone feel like, oh my gosh,

523
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: it's gonna be mean next, She's going to go to

524
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:31,879
Speaker 1: Clayton and make these lies and tell them whatever she

525
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: has to say to save herself. Yeah, because it never

526
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 1: had an actual reason. Like the girls she would go after.

527
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: It never made sense. So I think we all were like,

528
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,720
Speaker 1: it could be us next, because there's never actually a reason,

529
00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,679
Speaker 1: Like none of the girls she went after it actually

530
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,639
Speaker 1: there was an actual reason. It was all just basically

531
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: made up. So yeah, we all kind of felt like

532
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: my name could be next. That he that like she

533
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 1: talks to him about. And yeah, I did cause a

534
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:01,400
Speaker 1: very anxious environment for everyone. Yeah, I would see clear

535
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: of her totally, super totally okay with the fact she

536
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: got left in great Falls. You did not have to

537
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 1: bring her to Avar with you, so you know, moving past,

538
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: say we're in Havar and you finally get that one

539
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: on one day. Were you surprised when you heard Clayton

540
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: say your name? Like, what was your reaction. I was

541
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,439
Speaker 1: surprised by the time of Croatian. I really was like,

542
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't think I'm going to get a one on one. Yeah,

543
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: you had resting, sad girl face by the time everyone

544
00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:33,680
Speaker 1: tells me that, I'm like, I know, I can't hide

545
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: my emotions and I was sad, so so you know,

546
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:40,280
Speaker 1: I was not expecting my name to be called. I

547
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: was so excited. I felt like that was such a

548
00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: good week. Once I finally came, I was like, Okay,

549
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: this is a good week because I already had such

550
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: a strong, like comfortability with him, so I felt like

551
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 1: we could really go deep and we didn't have to

552
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: worry about like small talk. So I was really excited

553
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: to get it. But I was not expecting it at all.

554
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: I would have picked a keuter outfit, but I was like,

555
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 1: I'm not getting this one on one today, so I'm

556
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:03,080
Speaker 1: just going to wear something. Yeah. He said the exact

557
00:27:03,119 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 1: same thing, because I guess she was a similar situation

558
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: where like they were like, okay, you're going right now,

559
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: and she was like like in the car, you're on

560
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,439
Speaker 1: you're on that night. I mean, that date just seemed

561
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 1: first of all, I have to say, like you were

562
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: lucky about that one on one in Havar, because Croatia

563
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: is just beautiful in general, and so the fact that

564
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: you could just explore and just be a normal couple,

565
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 1: you know, traveling and experience like this vacation together was

566
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: I was like, she's a lucky girl. But that night

567
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,640
Speaker 1: you sat down at dinner and opened up a bit

568
00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: more about your personal life and the fact that you

569
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 1: were a virgin. How did you think he was going

570
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: to handle that? And like how I guess I don't

571
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: want to say stressful, but how nervous were you or

572
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: how heavy was that weighing on you to share that

573
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,240
Speaker 1: with him in that moment. It was never something that

574
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: I've ever been really nervous about telling a guy in

575
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 1: the past. I think because the day portion of our

576
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,280
Speaker 1: date went so well, I started to gave nerves as

577
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: the day went on, because I usually tell guy really

578
00:28:06,640 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 1: early on before I have that strong of a connection

579
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: with them to where I'm like, well, if they don't,

580
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: if this is something that bothers them, then like whatever,

581
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,159
Speaker 1: I'll just move on. But because that whole day portion

582
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: went so well, like we were laughing the whole time.

583
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,720
Speaker 1: It was as perfect as it could have been. I

584
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: was really nervous because I already at that point really

585
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: liked him, so I was worried what his reaction would be.

586
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's something that I'm really open about, and

587
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:35,159
Speaker 1: I knew if he didn't respond well, it would just

588
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: have to be we would have to part ways. But

589
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: I will say he did respond well. A lot of

590
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:43,320
Speaker 1: people did get on him because he made like a

591
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:45,960
Speaker 1: weird comment about like, well, you don't remind me of

592
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:50,680
Speaker 1: virgin which was even me, that was really weird. Yeah,

593
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: he was like, I mean I never wouldn't know well obviously,

594
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: but yeah, I think he took it well. He asked

595
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: a lot of questions and they were all very future

596
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: focused in that moment of just well, what would you

597
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: do differently like if we had kids, because I did

598
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: have a lot of pressure growing up on my virginity.

599
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: It was faith based, but it also was just you know,

600
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,000
Speaker 1: my mom had a child at a young age, and

601
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: then my sister had a child at a young age,

602
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: so my mom was a definitely stricter with me. So

603
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: I think we just talked about like how I would

604
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: do things differently as a mom. He asked like, well,

605
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: if we have sex, Like, is your mom going to

606
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: hate me? So he asked me, now, my mom doesn't care.

607
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: These are some weird questions and he's asking, well, I'll

608
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: be honest. He seemed totally shocked, Like his response, right, what,

609
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm sure he it sounded like you guys had a

610
00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:46,520
Speaker 1: good conversation, but the part they showed he just looked

611
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: kind of deer in the headlights of like, oh my gosh,

612
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: I'm shocked. I didn't expect this. I don't know how

613
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 1: to respond. So I am glad to hear that he

614
00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: you know, there's not always like right or normal questions,

615
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: so like, I'm just glad to hear that he was

616
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: inquisitive and asking you. How did his response make you feel? Yeah,

617
00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: I felt really like confident about it in the moment.

618
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,640
Speaker 1: I really did think that his questions made sense and

619
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: they were all future focused to where I knew like

620
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 1: he was taking me seriously in our relationship seriously, So

621
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: I felt good about it. But yeah, I think it

622
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: did cause some concerns for him, and I wasn't I

623
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 1: wasn't really expecting that I will give him credit. I

624
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 1: think there is like a stereotype of a virgin, and

625
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:32,400
Speaker 1: I don't fall under that bracket. I am very sexual

626
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: and I like to talk about it, and I don't

627
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: I don't mind that. I don't think that's really normal

628
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: for virgins at least like what society sees um, you know,

629
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: like you see us making out like in every episode.

630
00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:46,959
Speaker 1: So I understand why he was shocked, but I think

631
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 1: that just has to go more of like that society

632
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: creates this thing where like virginity equals prude, and that

633
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,000
Speaker 1: just isn't the case. I just had a set of

634
00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 1: values that I, you know, changed as I grew up.

635
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 1: But like I said, why he was shocked, I think

636
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: guys that I dated have always been shocked. Like it's

637
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: never been something that a guy really would guess for me.

638
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: But I felt so good after that date. I really thought, like, whoa,

639
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: I think I might get engaged at the end of

640
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: our date. So I felt really good about it in

641
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: a moment. Well, so then moving forward, we see you

642
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: go on to the next week, you guys go to Vienna,

643
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: which also seemed incredible, and I want to get into

644
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: like that entire week. But since we're talking about, you know,

645
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: your journey with claim specifically, and feeling so confident and

646
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: that you could potentially get engaged at the end of

647
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: this that week, he sent you home and in that

648
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: moment there wasn't really much dialogue between the two of you,

649
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: which I also found weird. Like I thought he was

650
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: at least going to walk you out and sit down

651
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: and have that conversation, because I feel like you deserved that,

652
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:56,280
Speaker 1: and there really wasn't much, but you had made the

653
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: come and like you know, I thought I was going

654
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: to hometowns, everything that led up into this point. Heman

655
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: feel so confident that I was going to be one

656
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: of these top four women whose family he would meet.

657
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: And so where do you think that disconnect was? And

658
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: did you ever even have the time when he was

659
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 1: sending you home to ask him that. I will say,

660
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: we did get a moment that we were able to talk,

661
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: but I was so shocked that I didn't ask him anything.

662
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: I just couldn't like wrap my head around it in

663
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: the moment, so I didn't say anything, and I regretted

664
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: that for like weeks after I got home. I should

665
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: have asked him more. But I also think he could

666
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: have on his own set more so, I do think

667
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: that moment was kind of strange, especially because we had

668
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 1: built such a strong connection. A lot of it honestly

669
00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: wasn't shown, and that just had to do with so

670
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: much of the drama function name andopolizing a lot of things.

671
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 1: But we were really strong and really close at that point.

672
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:51,560
Speaker 1: So him kind of just giving me like a generic goodbye,

673
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: it was really hard to take in a moment, Like

674
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: when he was sending me home at were looking at

675
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: him and it just seemed like all his feelings just

676
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: like had vanished, and he was like, okay, well, like

677
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 1: I hope you you know, you'll make someone happy like goodbye,

678
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 1: And I was just like, what just changed? Like we

679
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: were so strong a week ago, Like a week ago,

680
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 1: you were telling me this was perfect. He told me

681
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: the feeling he had been waiting to feel on a

682
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: one on one he finally felt with me. So I

683
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 1: was completely blindsided, but I'll take some of it that

684
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: I could have asked more, and I really regretted that

685
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: when I got home, But yeah, it was a really

686
00:33:26,160 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: weird goodbye to what you just said, Teddy Beck, I

687
00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 1: really want your take on this because in my eyes,

688
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: if you're the one doing the breaking up with, meaning

689
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: like Clayton is sending you home, I think the responsibility

690
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 1: falls on Clayton to an extent to have mentally prepared

691
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,600
Speaker 1: for like what he's going to say during that conversation,

692
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 1: to be able to give that person like closure and answers,

693
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: because obviously he went through it on Michelle season at

694
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 1: about the same time, and I'm sure he experienced to

695
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: a degreat shock and I thought she did a really

696
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: good job of saying like, this is my explanation for

697
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: why I've made this decision, because like you've been in

698
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:09,280
Speaker 1: those shoes. Yeah, I mean well, and I see both

699
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: sides because again, like I was on the Bauch Short

700
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 1: and I was the Bachelorette, and like Teddy for you,

701
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: like when you say you felt shocked and you didn't

702
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: really even know what to ask, I was the exact

703
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:21,879
Speaker 1: same way when I got broken up with by Ari,

704
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,879
Speaker 1: And even during the finale when it was the first

705
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: time I actually sat down and talked with him, I

706
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: was so shocked still because I yeah, it's like what

707
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: do you say to somebody that's breaking up with you?

708
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to have to fight for your love.

709
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like, you deserve to

710
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: give me something, and but I just kind of hold

711
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: up and put these guards up because I was like,

712
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to give you anything. I don't know

713
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 1: what to ask at this point. But to Clayton's credit too,

714
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: I will say that as the lead, each week, you

715
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 1: know you have to send people home, and so you

716
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: have to mentally prepare to a certain extent for those goodbyes.

717
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 1: And I'm you know, if he's anything like how I

718
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 1: kind of process things going into those row ceremonies, you

719
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: already know what's going to happen for the most part,

720
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: whether it's going to be easy or not. You already

721
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 1: kind of know who's going on to the next week

722
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: and who's going to be sent home. And so I'm

723
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,960
Speaker 1: sure he had time to process that a bit, and

724
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 1: that's maybe why for him it seemed like he wasn't

725
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: as emotional or vocal as he could have been, because

726
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 1: I'm sure in his mind as man, he had processed

727
00:35:30,520 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: it in a way which not to say like I

728
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: think deserved to still sit you down and have that

729
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: conversation and give you more. And that's something that you

730
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,680
Speaker 1: just kind of learned as time goes, because I could

731
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: when I was lead, I could put myself back into

732
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:46,640
Speaker 1: your position as a contestant and be like, well, this

733
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,400
Speaker 1: is how I felt when I was blindsided, this is

734
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,319
Speaker 1: what I would have wanted. So I tried to go

735
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: a bit slower and give the guys more time and

736
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 1: have those conversations, especially when you're going home right before hometowns,

737
00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 1: Like it's not like you're going home week two or

738
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: week three where you don't know each other that well.

739
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: Like you guys had spent enough time together at this

740
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: point to get up to nearly hometowns, where I wish

741
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 1: he would have just had a bit more time and

742
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 1: respect where he sat you down and he could have

743
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:13,440
Speaker 1: even just opened it up of like I can imagine

744
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: this is so hard for you. I'm sorry for hurting

745
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: you asking me anything, Like even if it was that

746
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 1: where then it kind of went back to you where

747
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:21,839
Speaker 1: you could just kind of process me, like what do

748
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: I really want to know right now? But it's weird

749
00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:27,919
Speaker 1: being on both sides and it's never easy, And even

750
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: if he had time to process it, I'm sure it's

751
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 1: still hurt him after that it's just you just at

752
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 1: the end of the day kind of know what you

753
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 1: have to do and you know the steps that you

754
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: have to take. But I really do hope that at

755
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: least when you see him again during the tell all

756
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,879
Speaker 1: that you have the opportunity to ask him those questions

757
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,360
Speaker 1: and don't leave anything up in the air. That's the

758
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,479
Speaker 1: worst feeling, is like having the regrets and the what IF's,

759
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: and who knows you might still have them. I know

760
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: I do still to this day for certain situations. But

761
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 1: you just kind of just know that everything that was

762
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,680
Speaker 1: in the past and they're so much more that's going

763
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 1: to be opened for you in the future. That's exciting

764
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:08,399
Speaker 1: that you can have to look forward to. So there's

765
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: still a lot to come. And as you go through

766
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:13,520
Speaker 1: different seasons and get to meet people in this world,

767
00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: you kind of I think it's easier for you to

768
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,320
Speaker 1: let your guards down and ask questions and open up totally.

769
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: I'll say that's like the biggest thing is Clayton I

770
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: think was just like a lesson learned for me and

771
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: like the best way possible. I feel like he was

772
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: such a good person to get those lessons from because

773
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:29,279
Speaker 1: he was a safe space for me and in my

774
00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:31,760
Speaker 1: next relationship, like I will be so much more open

775
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 1: and I will be a lot more vulnerable because of

776
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 1: the regrets I have to see and watch week by

777
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: week with him so overwall. Like I think he did

778
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: like the best he could, of course, like I wish

779
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 1: we would have had more conversations, but I did get

780
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: the closure that I needed after that, and like we'll

781
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 1: see more at the Tell. So yes, well, I'm definitely

782
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 1: so excited to see the Tell next week. I mean,

783
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,359
Speaker 1: it's definitely going to be in time. Can we just

784
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: take it back a little it because I know we're

785
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,479
Speaker 1: going to see this at the Tell, and I would

786
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: love to get your take on it the Mara and

787
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:10,839
Speaker 1: Sarah dramas. Please tell me what you think, because there

788
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 1: was just so much that unfolded in such a short

789
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: amount of time. And obviously we saw you at Gabby

790
00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: and Rachel speak on it with Clayton directly. Did you

791
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,279
Speaker 1: have a side that you were on? Were you on

792
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: nobody's side? I mean, you're also one of the younger

793
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: women in the house. How did Mara's comments resonate with you? Like,

794
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: I want to know it all. I was really shocked

795
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,520
Speaker 1: by the Mayor and Sarah drama like that wasn't looming

796
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: at all when it just happened that week. I was

797
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 1: very surprised. And at that point me and Sarah were

798
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 1: good friends. Me and Rachel and Sarah were hanging out

799
00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:42,919
Speaker 1: a lot in like the beginning of the show or

800
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: the weeks, so I was really surprised by that. I

801
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: remember when Sarah came back with the Rose and she

802
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: kind of confronted all of the girls there, and Mara

803
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: said that it had to do with age. That part

804
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: was hard for me to listen to because I don't

805
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: think age really has much to do with it. We

806
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 1: all kind of move in life differently, and some things

807
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 1: that I experienced at a young age, someone else might

808
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: not experience late until later in life or never have

809
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 1: to experience. So I think we all grow and mature

810
00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: in different ways. So I don't think age has anything

811
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 1: to do with if you're ready for marriage. I mean,

812
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 1: child brides I do not support, but young I don't.

813
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: I don't think that like a twenty three year old

814
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: cannot be ready for love and commitment with one person.

815
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: So I guess when I had to do with the

816
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: age portion of the argument, I would have been on

817
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 1: sarah side. I think Mara had other arguments as far

818
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 1: as confidence and words and things that Sarah was saying.

819
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of more where I might have

820
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: been more on Mara's side, and we see that kind

821
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: of come into blow in Austria, and that was kind

822
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 1: of where me, Gabby, and Rachel ended up going to

823
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:56,760
Speaker 1: Clayton about it. So I wasn't really on a merit

824
00:39:56,840 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: or Sarah side as far as like Croatia went, but

825
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: as far as age went, I didn't agree with that,

826
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: but I think Maya did make good points because a

827
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 1: lot of the girls in the house were starting to

828
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 1: get really uncomfortable with the things Sarah was deciding to

829
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 1: divulge to them. So yeah, Austria was definitely hard. I

830
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: don't think any of us. I was not planning and

831
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: I was not going to say anything to Clayton. It

832
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: was kind of something that I think the girls had

833
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: been talking about for a while of kind of pushing

834
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: me and Rachel to say something because we were the

835
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 1: ones that had most of the experience with Sarah at

836
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 1: that point, and I remember telling them like, I'm not

837
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 1: going to say anything, Like I don't care if Clayton

838
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 1: says specifically, like, what is Sarah doing? Like, I will

839
00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 1: not say anything because to me, at that point, I

840
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,680
Speaker 1: had realized that she was not telling the truth about

841
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 1: some things, and it made me realize, Okay, we might

842
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: not have a friendship, and as far as a friend goes,

843
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:54,319
Speaker 1: I'm not sure how great of a friend she is.

844
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: But I still don't think I can judge how great

845
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: of a wife she would be. I don't think those

846
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: really correlated us far as what she was doing. I

847
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: think like what changed was when the therapist brought it

848
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: up and called someone performative. That's kind of where it

849
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,719
Speaker 1: changed where I felt like, okay, like we kind of

850
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:14,280
Speaker 1: have to now say it to Clayton if he's asking.

851
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 1: I can't just sit back and not say anything, because

852
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: that's not really fair to Clayton at that point because

853
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,319
Speaker 1: he's just going to be running through his head right

854
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 1: before hometowns, like is one of the girls I just

855
00:41:23,440 --> 00:41:27,719
Speaker 1: kept not here for the right reasons. So yeah, we

856
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 1: did to end up going to him about it, and

857
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 1: I don't regret doing that. I think it made sense

858
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 1: at the time, and I think he needed to be

859
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: aware at that point because a lot of his strongest

860
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: girls there had all kind of had feelings of wanting

861
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: to leave and it had to do with the thing

862
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 1: Sarah was telling them that weren't actually true. Well, I

863
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:50,800
Speaker 1: want to ask you this because you had just mentioned,

864
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 1: like the drama between Mirror and Sarah wasn't really looming

865
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,400
Speaker 1: until you got to Vienna, right, like that's when it

866
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:02,720
Speaker 1: really exploded. But it seems like really things were looming

867
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: with Sarah, whether it's with stuff she was divulging to

868
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,879
Speaker 1: the group and saying to you guys behind closed doors,

869
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 1: that seems now looking back in piece and everything together,

870
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: that that was looming more since the beginning and like

871
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,480
Speaker 1: very early on. And so at any point, like this

872
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:19,799
Speaker 1: is a two part question, I want to ask, at

873
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: any point did anyone confront Sarah any earlier that we

874
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,320
Speaker 1: just didn't see it air or do you now wish

875
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: and maybe you've chatted with the other women about this too, like,

876
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 1: does anyone wish they would have confronted her earlier so

877
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 1: I didn't have to blow up and get to the

878
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: point that it did. And really, I mean, because it

879
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:37,480
Speaker 1: sounds like she made y'all feel like shit and it

880
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,319
Speaker 1: really rocked your relationships and like wanting to be there

881
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 1: at certain points. I think that that was a consensus

882
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,319
Speaker 1: of the group. So do you does anyone wish they

883
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,399
Speaker 1: would have called her out earlier totally to answer a question?

884
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: As far as I know, no one confronted her earlier,

885
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: and I wish that we would have. I think the

886
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: hard part was is she would go to us all

887
00:42:55,719 --> 00:43:00,440
Speaker 1: individually and off camera. So she would start it by saying,

888
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 1: you know, because we are so close, I want to

889
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 1: tell you. What he's saying is that you can guard

890
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 1: your heart. So when you're phrasing it like that, like

891
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 1: you just don't having a friend coming and talking to you.

892
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 1: Is this like late night bedroom chat. Yeah, it's like

893
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:18,280
Speaker 1: to each other's rooms at night, like not really supposed

894
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: to be doing that. But she would phrase it as

895
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: being your best friend. And I am very naive to that.

896
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: I love having a lot of friends, and I was.

897
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: I was thankful on the moment because again, like I

898
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: did want to guard my heart, and when someone's phrasing

899
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 1: it in a way that they're doing it to be

900
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: your friend, I didn't feel like that was something I

901
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: should tattle or tell someone talk about to someone else.

902
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: But she would do that to everyone, but none of

903
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 1: us knew because none of us were talking about it,

904
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: because we all thought she was just going to us,

905
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: just us and just as our best friend, but really

906
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 1: she was doing it to every person that had a

907
00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: strong relationship with him. So I didn't feel in the

908
00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:58,359
Speaker 1: moment like there was anything to confront because I thought

909
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: it was coming from pure intentions. Looking back, I think

910
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 1: we all wish we would have by week two, after

911
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: she got her one on one, confronted her in that moment,

912
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: but we didn't know that it was it was happening.

913
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: We didn't think there was malontinet in the moment. It's

914
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: so interesting in hearing everything back now from you women,

915
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: because they're, like you said, there's so much I think

916
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: that everyone missed, Like I can't even imagine being in

917
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 1: your position and piecing it together with everyone else. But

918
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 1: it just seemed like and again like I don't know

919
00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:30,760
Speaker 1: Sarah that well. We've only got her on the podcast

920
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: once and I hosted the date with her for two

921
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: seconds and basically made her get down in turn her

922
00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 1: under her. But but it seems like from everything she

923
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: was saying and doing too well, it just it's so

924
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: manipulated totally. And I think, like one thing that I

925
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: want to clear up is it wasn't that she was

926
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: making us insecure in our relationships with things that were true.

927
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:52,440
Speaker 1: It was just the fact that it ended up not

928
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: even being true. And it wasn't things that we were asking.

929
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: It wasn't like we were saying, can you tell us

930
00:44:57,920 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: what Clayton is telling you? It would always it is

931
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: just her starting the conversation and her saying, hey, I

932
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: want to tell you as your friend. I think that's

933
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,400
Speaker 1: where it got difficult was where we found out that

934
00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: the things she was saying we're not actually true. So

935
00:45:12,840 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: there were some things that she would say that made

936
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: me feel I mean, I'll just say and I think

937
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 1: this was said in an episode. It was. It was

938
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 1: the strongest relationship. She went to me individually, Rachel individually,

939
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:29,160
Speaker 1: Gabby individually, and Susie individually. And we all had times

940
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: since week two that we all felt like, I don't

941
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 1: know if I should stay still because if he's telling

942
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:38,279
Speaker 1: her these things this early on, why am I here?

943
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:41,879
Speaker 1: And why am I sharing things about my family? Why

944
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 1: am I sharing myself? If he's already made his decision.

945
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 1: And again, he wasn't saying those things, but we didn't

946
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,120
Speaker 1: know that, So I think that's where it was hard

947
00:45:51,120 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: of I still in that moment you seem an episode

948
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 1: being like, well, I just don't know if she knows

949
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 1: what she's doing, But I think she did, because it

950
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,560
Speaker 1: wasn't just oh, maybe her perception was different than reality.

951
00:46:02,680 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 1: She thought that she was the strongest relationship, because I

952
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:07,760
Speaker 1: think we all thought we were the strongest relationship because

953
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: we don't see his conversations with the other girls. But

954
00:46:10,960 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 1: I think it was just actually the things she was

955
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: saying were false that there can't really be pure intentions

956
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: behind that when it's actually lies that we're being told

957
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: to us. Yeah. Yeah, it was like she was just

958
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: like throwing out her feelings for Clayton at breakfast to

959
00:46:24,920 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: the ground like it was intentional, it was targeted to

960
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,480
Speaker 1: specific women, and it was and it was consistent. That's

961
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 1: the thing. It wasn't just like a one and done

962
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: situation watching everything back now being part of the Woman

963
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: Tell All and just you know, kind of putting a

964
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: boat on this chapter in your life watching everything, Is

965
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 1: there anything that completely shocked you that you wished you

966
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:50,239
Speaker 1: would have addressed that just like you were blown away

967
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:53,319
Speaker 1: when you saw or hurt it. I don't think so.

968
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 1: I think I think it honestly was just good closure

969
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: watching back because again I thought I did have the

970
00:46:57,600 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: strongest relationship just from my inner actions with him, and

971
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: watching it back it was it was honestly good to

972
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: see that he had a lot of other strong relationships too,

973
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 1: and it was good closure for me to realize, Okay,

974
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 1: maybe this girl actually does make more sense for him,

975
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: or maybe this girl did bring out a different side

976
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,680
Speaker 1: of him that I didn't. I think the drama in

977
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 1: general just shocked me because I kind of stayed out

978
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: of it. If I heard someone raise their voice, I

979
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 1: would run in the other direction. So a lot of

980
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: the drama was shocking. To see a lot of Shane's

981
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: interviews that you know, none of us saw in the moment,

982
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: those were completely shocking. There's so much you miss when

983
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: you're not with the person in the interviewal like they

984
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 1: can really, as we've learned, spew whatever they want to

985
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 1: spe you out, and so like, what was that like

986
00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 1: for you? And all the women hearing that? So crazy?

987
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: And I'll say for me and I do regret this.

988
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 1: Me and Susie, the were girls that really were honestly

989
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:54,600
Speaker 1: kind of trying to argue Shane's point of view. I

990
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: was completely on the other side the whole time because

991
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: she was targeting my friends and I knew them. I

992
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:02,320
Speaker 1: knew that shee was saying wasn't true. But I also

993
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 1: never want someone to feel ganged up on, so I

994
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: would try to be the voice of reason for Cheney

995
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,799
Speaker 1: of maybe this is actually what she's meaning to do.

996
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: So I think watching those interviews back and saying, oh no,

997
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 1: she really was just playing all of us. She really

998
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,319
Speaker 1: came off, at least when I was around, is like

999
00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,759
Speaker 1: very like meek and like quiet, and she would be like,

1000
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: I don't know, like I'm just sorry, like I just

1001
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,480
Speaker 1: feel bullied, and then instantly we would see in an

1002
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:30,920
Speaker 1: interview like I just checked all of those girls. So

1003
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: it was hard to watch just because I I was played,

1004
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: and that's something that I guess I got played a

1005
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:40,959
Speaker 1: lot during the season with some of the girls. But yeah,

1006
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 1: she was the most shocking for sure. Those interviews were crazy.

1007
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: None of us were expecting that, Like we knew Cheney

1008
00:48:46,760 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: had some issues and she was kind of crazy, but

1009
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,279
Speaker 1: her interviews were a lot worse than I think any

1010
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: of us were ever imagining, right, Yeah, I had Queen

1011
00:48:55,360 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 1: Victoria my season, so I can definitely saying shocking interview.

1012
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong, she is a shocking

1013
00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:06,880
Speaker 1: person all of the time in and out of interviews.

1014
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,520
Speaker 1: But some of the things that I remember saying, I

1015
00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: was like, whoa Victoria? Where did that one come from? Overall,

1016
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: now you've lived the season of the Bachelor, there's, like

1017
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:19,280
Speaker 1: I said earlier, there's so much more to come. But ultimately,

1018
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 1: like now going through this, ye saying journey, But going

1019
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:26,399
Speaker 1: through this journey, how has it changed you and just

1020
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:30,480
Speaker 1: your outlook or approach to finding love in the future. Yeah,

1021
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: I feel like it's changed it so much. I think

1022
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:36,480
Speaker 1: while I was there, I never wanted to be completely

1023
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 1: honest of my feelings, especially it had to do with love,

1024
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,439
Speaker 1: because I felt like, once you say that, you can't

1025
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: take it back, and once you say that, that's when

1026
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 1: the pain happens. But I think I realized, no, you're

1027
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,439
Speaker 1: going to feel pain either way. When I went home,

1028
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: I had to deal with heartbreak. Plus the fact that

1029
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: I did regret not being completely honest about how I

1030
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:58,359
Speaker 1: was feeling. I always felt like I had more time

1031
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 1: with him, and I wanted to wait for these perfect moments.

1032
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 1: I think the biggest lesson that I learned was you

1033
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,720
Speaker 1: just have to create a perfect moment with the person

1034
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: that you're with. I'm a lot more open to love

1035
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: now because of this experience, and I am a lot

1036
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:15,080
Speaker 1: more just able to feel what I want to feel.

1037
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 1: And I think there's a lot more courage and power

1038
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 1: and being vulnerable and just like wearing my heart in

1039
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 1: my sleep more than I feel like I have in

1040
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,920
Speaker 1: the past. I love that those are great words, and

1041
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:28,280
Speaker 1: I love that you just said it's about you creating

1042
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 1: that right moment. You know no one else or a

1043
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,560
Speaker 1: show can't necessarily do that for you. I think there's

1044
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,919
Speaker 1: so much power in those words. YEA, yeah, I think

1045
00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 1: that's something I learned as well, is like it's not

1046
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: always about like where you are or what you're doing,

1047
00:50:41,560 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 1: It's like whatever feels like the perfect moment for you,

1048
00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: and like when you feel ready, which is something I

1049
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: learned on Paradise. Would you go to the beautiful beaches

1050
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: of Mexico this summer if you were asked, Yeah, I'll

1051
00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: say I think I completely believe in this experience. It

1052
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: didn't work out for me on the Bachelor. But I

1053
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: fully believe that if it's the right person, that this

1054
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: can work. And I think especially Paradise, you spend so

1055
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:14,319
Speaker 1: much time with the person that you're with m I

1056
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: think if the Bachelor ever calls even asks you to

1057
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: do something, I think you should say yes. Obviously think

1058
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: about it, but I'll just say yes if if I

1059
00:51:22,239 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 1: am offered it, I think there's a good chance that

1060
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 1: I would go yay, Yeah, I'm getting a direct answer

1061
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,000
Speaker 1: when we asked that question. How sometimes people don't know well.

1062
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 1: And I will see this coming from somebody who said

1063
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,800
Speaker 1: no to Paradise for a long time before I actually

1064
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:43,319
Speaker 1: said yes, say yes. It is so worth it if

1065
00:51:43,400 --> 00:51:47,799
Speaker 1: you're talking to two D. But I will say this,

1066
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: going through The Bachelor, Bachelorette, and Paradise. Out of all

1067
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 1: three of those seasons, Paradise was by far the most fun,

1068
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,800
Speaker 1: like the most fun, like, you know, I'm so lucky

1069
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,959
Speaker 1: to have found Thomas and lasting love. But even just

1070
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: the scenario that it's co ed, you have equal male

1071
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 1: and female, and the food's great, the weather's incredible, Like

1072
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 1: it's just it's so worth it. If you can go,

1073
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:16,040
Speaker 1: I would definitely say go which now, if you do

1074
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:21,800
Speaker 1: go give me, don't don't hold back. Give me two

1075
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:24,200
Speaker 1: to three guys that you would really want to see

1076
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,759
Speaker 1: on that beach. Okay, I'll say, first of all, I

1077
00:52:26,840 --> 00:52:34,280
Speaker 1: haven't met any of them in person. No, yeah, okay,

1078
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: well okay we have. We do know that somebody and

1079
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to give it away. Somebody special did

1080
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: slide into your DMS that you talked about on Tell All.

1081
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: But apart from that, yeah, who's der DMS? No em, Yes,

1082
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 1: I asked rod the same question a couple of days ago.

1083
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say no one sletting it ms, which might

1084
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 1: be a live but I'm eve at that. But I

1085
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:04,240
Speaker 1: will say my three guys that I'm interested in. Um,

1086
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: I'm very big on personality, and like again, like I've said,

1087
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: like my first initial reaction that I have to someone

1088
00:53:10,640 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: in person is really important to me, So I am

1089
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: open to anyone when I get there. Um, but right now,

1090
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: the guys that I am interested in would be Um

1091
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: Andrew Spencer. I've heard really great things about Brandon and

1092
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:34,640
Speaker 1: then back in the day Ben Fromtatious Season. Um. Okay,

1093
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,239
Speaker 1: those who I'm interested in. I also just met Rodney

1094
00:53:37,800 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 1: A couple of days ago when he's very keel. So

1095
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 1: I love Rodney. Oh my gosh, I could see this,

1096
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 1: I will say. So I'll be on tour with both

1097
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: Rodney and Andrew, so I'll get a feel for them. Yeah,

1098
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: I'll bet them for you and let me I think.

1099
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:56,080
Speaker 1: I love I love that you throughout names like get it, Teddy.

1100
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: I feel like myself I didn't know who I actually

1101
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: wanted to me, like I genuinely that was my honest answer,

1102
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 1: Like I had no idea. But I feel like if

1103
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,920
Speaker 1: I did have names, I would not have been confident

1104
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 1: to be like I can't let the world know that

1105
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:10,479
Speaker 1: I have as so good for you? Like that takes

1106
00:54:10,560 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 1: confidence and I like it. Well yeah, and it's like

1107
00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: everyone has somebody that catches their eye, whether it's on

1108
00:54:16,560 --> 00:54:19,839
Speaker 1: the show or not. And so I hate when people

1109
00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 1: play coy's like you could spew on anyone's name from

1110
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: about Yeah, you're not asking them to marry you. Okay,

1111
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: one more question, Teddy? What is next for you? You know,

1112
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: we know, maybe Paradise is on the horizon, fingers crossed.

1113
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 1: I would personally love to see you there, but right now,

1114
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 1: what are your next steps? I'm just gonna enjoy watching

1115
00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 1: the rest of the season. I'm so excited to not

1116
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,960
Speaker 1: see my face on TV for a little bit and

1117
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:49,200
Speaker 1: just watch my best friends get back to work. I'm

1118
00:54:49,239 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 1: a nurse, so I'm going to start working. I get

1119
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: maybe go to the gym now that I'm going to

1120
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:56,399
Speaker 1: be on Paradise. Yeah, girl, I was not invited yet,

1121
00:54:56,440 --> 00:55:00,719
Speaker 1: So Okay, I'm sure that call will be coming very soon.

1122
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: I have no doubt that I will reach out to

1123
00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: I think just like enjoy my time. I made so

1124
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: many friends. I truly, I think this is so cliche,

1125
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: but I made friends that I really believe I will

1126
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 1: have forever. And I'm just excited to get to hang

1127
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 1: out with them in public and just really like root

1128
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: for each other. It was so fun at the tell

1129
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:18,920
Speaker 1: after we just have like a giant slumber party. So

1130
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm just excited to be friends with each other and

1131
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 1: like just root for each other in public. And yeah,

1132
00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 1: I'm just happy for my life right now. So I'm excited.

1133
00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,080
Speaker 1: I love that. Well, I'm happy for your life too.

1134
00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 1: There's so much wonderful fun things to come. I can't

1135
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: wait to hopefully see more of Miss Teddy. Okay, before

1136
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,399
Speaker 1: we let you go. We play our Bachelor Superrelatives game,

1137
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 1: so it's basically rapid fire. Serena and I are going

1138
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:45,239
Speaker 1: to ask you a most likely to question, and you'll

1139
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 1: just finish the sentence with one of the women that

1140
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,080
Speaker 1: was on Clayton's season. So to kick it off, out

1141
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: of everyone on Clayton's season, who was most likely to

1142
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: get the party started? Oh, probably Genevieve. All right, who

1143
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: is most likely to get the ladies laughing? Gabby for sure?

1144
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: She is absolutely hilarious. What you see on TV is

1145
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:09,040
Speaker 1: her in real life. She is hilarious. I love Gabby.

1146
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:11,640
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, I don't know. I mean, obviously we

1147
00:56:11,680 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: know she makes it to top three. I don't know

1148
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: who makes it all the way. But I would also

1149
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 1: love to see Gabby on Paradise. I feel like she

1150
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: would be fish. Yeah, okay. Who is the best cook? Oh?

1151
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: I don't know. I never really ate anyone's cooking. I

1152
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 1: think Elizabeth made a lot of food for people, though,

1153
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: so I'll give it to her. I think people have

1154
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 1: mentioned her two yeah, her and Kate. Who is the

1155
00:56:39,440 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 1: first person to wake up in the morning? Oh, I

1156
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: don't know who would wake up early in the morning.

1157
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 1: Because I was usually asleep. Susan got up the latest

1158
00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:52,160
Speaker 1: as though, I can say that even after my own heart.

1159
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:58,800
Speaker 1: Who was miss congeniality? Oh, I would say Susie. Who

1160
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: had the best smile in the house? Um? I love

1161
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: Rachel's smile. It's so sweet and like, yeah, I would

1162
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:13,759
Speaker 1: go with Rachel. Okay, best dressed? Oh Eliza, Yeah, she

1163
00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,200
Speaker 1: had a great Serene she had a really she had

1164
00:57:16,240 --> 00:57:21,480
Speaker 1: really good dresses. Yeah. Did um did Hunter go home

1165
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: in Serene's night one gown? I want to be surprised.

1166
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: We were switching dresses around every week. Gabby's first night

1167
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: dress I think was worn like four times. Yes, I

1168
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:34,240
Speaker 1: think I've seen the photos on Instagram. Everyone wearries the

1169
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 1: same dress. Oh my god, yeah I saw it. Serrine

1170
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 1: definitely wore that like two weeks ago. Yeah, I love it.

1171
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: I love that you guys are all sharing clothes. Who

1172
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: is the biggest gossip m m Probably Shane in her interviews? Yeah, yeah, definitely.

1173
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 1: Who's most likely to see Clayton during the Oh? Wait, okay,

1174
00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: who's most gay the Seal clan? First at a cocktail party? Um,

1175
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,720
Speaker 1: she didn't make it far, but Cassidy definitely was the

1176
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: one that liked to get gone first. Yeah, oh yeah,

1177
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: go started in the middle of my question. It was

1178
00:58:13,280 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: the first to go to bed. Oh. I liked to

1179
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,240
Speaker 1: get a lot of sleep. So me and Susie were

1180
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: in the same room in the mansion, and we both

1181
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 1: would be in beds, like looking across from each other, like, well,

1182
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 1: everyone else was up staying in late. Wait what room

1183
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: were you in? I was in one of those smaller rooms,

1184
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,880
Speaker 1: so we had like a really good room. It was me,

1185
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:38,840
Speaker 1: Rachel um Serene, Susie Mara. I'm leaving someone out and

1186
00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:40,440
Speaker 1: they're not going to be happy. But did you get

1187
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 1: assigned your rooms in the mansion? Yeah, yeah, we couldn't,

1188
00:58:44,160 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: but it worked out perfectly because I became close with

1189
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: like all of them. Yeah. I was in the big room,

1190
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: which obviously had the most space, but like, I don't

1191
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,440
Speaker 1: know what it was. Somebody brought seven suitcases and there

1192
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 1: was no extra walking room in there. So for like

1193
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 1: the two weeks, two or three weeks we were there,

1194
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: it was amazed. I would like have to tiptoe around. Yeah,

1195
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: that's why I'm saying. Molina was in my room too,

1196
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: and she brought like seven suitcases and we were in

1197
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 1: the small room. Oh god, it was you couldn't walk anywhere.

1198
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: We would be stepping on everything. Did anyone keep their

1199
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: luggage out on the balcony? Yes, okay, that's what we

1200
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,040
Speaker 1: did too on the season. Imagine I mean the girl

1201
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 1: who brought seven suitcases and going home night one like

1202
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: that would just be so hurt break well. That was

1203
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 1: like one of the girls in r season. I love her.

1204
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:32,439
Speaker 1: Her name was Lauren Schler. She is still a dear friend.

1205
00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: She's incredible. But she brought seven suitcases and went home

1206
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:40,760
Speaker 1: within the first week. And and she and selfishly she

1207
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 1: had bluckily left some stuff because she went on on

1208
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 1: one and one and got some home. So she left

1209
00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 1: like these this really great swimsuit, this really wonderful jean jacket,

1210
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: which Lauren, I still have your jean jacket to this day.

1211
00:59:51,400 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: It's it's in safe keeping. Um. But yeah, that's the

1212
00:59:55,000 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: one thing I will say about that's different from like

1213
00:59:58,120 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: Serena when you were on the season, when you had

1214
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: like your separate room. Oh yeah, just me and Rachel

1215
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: in like a gorgeous room with like a bathroom with

1216
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 1: a double sink in a bathtub in luxury. That's what

1217
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,600
Speaker 1: people who tried to hot wire the TV. It did

1218
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: not work. Like people get so excited about being in

1219
01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:20,479
Speaker 1: the mansion because obviously it's iconic, but what they don't

1220
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: realize is there's zero extra room for anything, especially at

1221
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: the beginning when there's so many women. It's it's crazy town,

1222
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: which I guess is a good segue into the next superlative.

1223
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:34,040
Speaker 1: Who was the messiest? I would have to say Malina,

1224
01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: just because she was in my room. Her hair and

1225
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: her suitcases were everywhere, But I love her, Okay. Who

1226
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: is most likely to be found lounging by the pool? Oh?

1227
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: Probably Gabby. She loved to just not do anything and

1228
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: just lay by the pool. But like, can someone bring

1229
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: me a drink? Everyone is Gabby for that one, all right?

1230
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 1: Who and you can give us a couple names because

1231
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:58,600
Speaker 1: I know one is tough for this one. But who

1232
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: is most likely to be a brides made in your wedding?

1233
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna have a long line of

1234
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: people because I just love everyone from my season. I

1235
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 1: would say the girls I got extremely close with. Definitely Rachel,

1236
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:17,840
Speaker 1: Definitely Hunter, Um. I got really close with Jill and

1237
01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:23,440
Speaker 1: Lindsay Serene. I love so much, so you'll have a

1238
01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 1: big party. Yeah, I have a huge bridal party, all right, Teddy,

1239
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,240
Speaker 1: it has been so fun before we let you go.

1240
01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 1: We have a little tradition here and Baucher Happy Hour,

1241
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: which we all go and share our rose and our thorn.

1242
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:39,240
Speaker 1: So I'll kick it off. I'm gonna do just for

1243
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 1: the week that I watched. But you can do because

1244
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: you experienced so much, you can do overall your rose

1245
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: and thorne of the season. Okay, so my rose of

1246
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:52,480
Speaker 1: the week during Hometowns, it has to go to Gabby's grandpa.

1247
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 1: I want him, like I said, to be my grandpa.

1248
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: He is incredible. He gets all of all of my

1249
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: roses for the entire season, and I am obsessed with him.

1250
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: My thorn is going to be the fact that Clayton

1251
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 1: sent one of the best stressed women home. I really

1252
01:02:08,120 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: like Serena. Was sad to see her go, and I'm

1253
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 1: gonna miss seeing all of her incredible outfits. I know

1254
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: she's a good one. Okay, my rose, I have two

1255
01:02:16,680 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: roses this week. My first one is watching Clayton trying

1256
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:24,840
Speaker 1: to jump off that really tall platform and like watching

1257
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 1: him like hype himself up, you like, come on, Clayton.

1258
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: It was absolutely hysterical and I could watch that on repeat.

1259
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 1: And then my second one is Rachel's the beginning of

1260
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: her hometown. Clayton's coming towards her and she's like trying

1261
01:02:40,240 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 1: to hype him up to do the run jump hug

1262
01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,480
Speaker 1: thing and she's like, are you gonna do it? Are

1263
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 1: you gonna do it? I've never seen that before. I

1264
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 1: thought it was so funny. She's so cute. And then

1265
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:52,160
Speaker 1: my thorne of the week is going to be them

1266
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: not miking up Gabby's dad and just having him hold

1267
01:02:57,160 --> 01:03:01,480
Speaker 1: Q cards with writing. I was so f straighted watching

1268
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: that whole scene because it was so beautiful. But I

1269
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,280
Speaker 1: wanted him to speak to his daughter, like using his voice,

1270
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:10,600
Speaker 1: say anything anything at all, literally hello, I love you

1271
01:03:10,640 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: at the end. It would have been perfect. I would

1272
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:16,240
Speaker 1: say My rose was just probably the friendships that I made,

1273
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: and honestly a lot of the stuff that just couldn't

1274
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 1: be shown because it's only a two hour episode every week.

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01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 1: But the girls got so close, Like we would have

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Speaker 1: dance parties every night, we just sat around, we would

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Speaker 1: talk about our childhoods and like we would just comfort

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01:03:30,200 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: each other and cry with each other. So I think

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Speaker 1: just those moments that probably weren't really shown on the show,

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Speaker 1: of us becoming real life best friends while we were

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Speaker 1: there is my rose. My thorn is probably maybe just

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01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 1: being a little bit naive to some of the girls

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01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 1: and just allowing myself to be manipulated and then just

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01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: not allowing myself to fully be open and honest about

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Speaker 1: my feelings. But I think it was just a lesson learned,

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Speaker 1: and I'm excited for the few you're getting to just

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01:04:01,920 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 1: tell anyone that I love them right away. Well, we

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01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 1: are excited to see what your future holds. Study It

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Speaker 1: has been such a pleasure having you on. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for joining us. And like I said earlier, I hope

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Speaker 1: we see more of you in a very special, warm

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Speaker 1: place one day. Yeah, you take care of Teddy. Thank you, Eddie.

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Speaker 1: She's so sweet, I have to say. I mean, we

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01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: did not see nearly enough of her on camera throughout

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01:04:27,120 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: this season, but from everything that I've heard from people

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Speaker 1: who know her, from the contestants to the producers, they

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01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: all have nothing but sweet, sweet things to say about her.

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Speaker 1: So I'm so glad we're finally finally able to have

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Speaker 1: her on. Yeah, I like Teddy so much. This was

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Speaker 1: such a fun interview to do with her, and I

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01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: am really hoping we see her in Paradise this season.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why. I just get a good feeling

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01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 1: about her time and her journey there, and I just

1304
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 1: love love and I want everyone from this season to

1305
01:04:56,960 --> 01:05:00,919
Speaker 1: find it firmly on a beach in I know, well,

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01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: like you said, I mean, we're we might be a

1307
01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: little biased to the beaches of Paradise, but yeah, don't

1308
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: be right. Sucks most days, but then it ends up

1309
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 1: so magical. I loved it, I know, I mean that

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Speaker 1: I have different feelings towards Paradise. I was also very

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Speaker 1: I'm like downplaying and now I was so anxious the

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01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 1: entire time, Like I'm making it seem like it was

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01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: the best month of my life. It truly wasn't. But

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Speaker 1: looking back now, I'm nothing but fond memories. So I

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Speaker 1: really hope she and other deserving people from the past

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Speaker 1: seasons can go and experience that as well. Such a

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Speaker 1: pleasure to have Teddy on. There's a lot that goes

1318
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:39,440
Speaker 1: down during Women Tall All. I mean, you guys, you

1319
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: will truly not want to miss this. So many shocking moments,

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01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: so many shocking things that were said that like even

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01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 1: for me, who I feel like I've seen and done

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01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,000
Speaker 1: everything in this franchise, Like I'm still blown away by everything.

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01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,360
Speaker 1: So please make sure you tune in next week. It's

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01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: a little bit of a different week, so Monday will

1325
01:05:56,400 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: actually be Women Tall All and then Tuesday will be

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Speaker 1: Fantasy Suite. So we have a lot to cram into

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Speaker 1: in these next two weeks before the finale. But Serena,

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Speaker 1: thank you again for joining me today. It was so

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Speaker 1: much fun and a huge thank you to all of

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Speaker 1: our Bachelor Happy Hour listeners. I've said it every week,

1331
01:06:14,800 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 1: but as a reminder, we are casting for both The

1332
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: Bachelor and The Bachelor Ett, so make sure you head

1333
01:06:19,600 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: to Bachelor Nation dot com slash apply to nominate either

1334
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:26,960
Speaker 1: yourself or somebody else, and make sure to hit us

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01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,160
Speaker 1: up on social. You can follow us at Bachelor Happy

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01:06:30,200 --> 01:06:33,240
Speaker 1: Hour on Instagram and from there you will find everything

1337
01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,480
Speaker 1: that you need to know to follow us on TikTok

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01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 1: and Twitter and Bachelor Happy Hour is available on Apple podcasts,

1339
01:06:39,640 --> 01:06:42,440
Speaker 1: Amazon Music, or wherever you listen, and you can always

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01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 1: listen ad free by subscribing to Wondering Plus in Apple

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01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 1: Podcasts or the Wondering App. Thank you everyone for listening,

1342
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 1: and be sure to tune in next week because you

1343
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: know it's going to be a good one, so good

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Speaker 1: Thanks everyone,