WEBVTT - Why These Men Make The Best Husbands 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:17.040 Hey, it's I Do Part two and it's your celebrity 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:20.400 mentors Brian Austin Greene and Kathy Schwartz. 0:00:20.480 --> 0:00:22.919 And we are in beautiful. 0:00:22.760 --> 0:00:27.520 Salving, California, on a fabulous farm with some of our 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:32.120 farmers from Farmer Wants a Wife and incredible it's an 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:35.839 incredible farm. And sitting between us right now is Farmer 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:39.520 Matt from season three and we are going to kick 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:40.960 it off and. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:44.560 Wait, can we just wish him a happy birthday weekend? 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:44.879 Right? 0:00:44.960 --> 0:00:45.360 Thank you? 0:00:45.400 --> 0:00:49.160 Tomorrow it'll be twenty one, twenty one years. 0:00:49.600 --> 0:00:51.760 He's going to be thirty two, which is amazing because 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.320 I turned thirty four the next week after that. So 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:56.840 we're just always celebrating birthdays. Or how about you, how 0:00:56.840 --> 0:01:02.240 about the fieldest one in the room always happened? 0:01:02.240 --> 0:01:03.520 Maybe I could give you guys some advice. 0:01:04.160 --> 0:01:08.960 Okay, so on with that in mind, something really interesting 0:01:09.000 --> 0:01:11.280 to note here is that Farmer Wants a Wife is 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:15.160 the biggest dating show in the world. It has aired 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:18.680 in thirty two countries and resulted in two hundred and 0:01:18.680 --> 0:01:20.960 twenty six marriages, and after I finished, it's going to 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.880 be two hundred and twenty seven and five hundred and 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:26.959 sixty five babies with four more on the way. Again, 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.720 I'll pass on that. Of those, they must be doing 0:01:29.760 --> 0:01:35.160 something right. So let's got what do you say. 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:39.640 The for those numbers are incredible and their bananas and 0:01:39.680 --> 0:01:41.800 I don't there's a part of me that doesn't really 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.520 believe them. I feel like maybe they're they've added those 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:48.080 numbers to make it seem I iced to think that too. Right, Well, 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:51.160 we'll get your roster. Yeah, I would like I would 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:55.560 like name by name, experience by experience. So you were 0:01:55.560 --> 0:02:02.640 on last season, and first of all, like, did okay, 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:06.360 did you really come on the show looking for a wife? 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:10.720 Yeah? Absolutely, Well there's you know, being thirty two, I'm 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:13.000 get in my thirties. Yeah, I would like to view 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:13.520 it somebody. 0:02:13.680 --> 0:02:13.920 Sure. 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.640 Yeah, And I you know, at the time they approached it. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.079 To choose, like, yeah, I want to be with someone, 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:20.760 so I think I'm going to go on a reality 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:24.799 show and I mean the same thing. Why why do 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:27.440 you giving them a hard time? I'm just asking It 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:30.640 just seems like because you're young, and that just seems 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.519 like a like an interesting step to take. 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.440 It was Yeah, I'm glad it did it. It wasn't 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.200 something I sought out, they approached me. 0:02:38.320 --> 0:02:40.120 So you didn't consider other dating shows? 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:42.280 No, I never thought I would do something like that 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.000 in my life. You know, I don't really watch a 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:46.959 lot of reality TV, but I would you know, seen 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:48.360 clips and that not for me. 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:50.840 So what did your family? What did your family say? 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.360 They were so excited. My parents actually were fans of 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.200 the show before I have ever been heard of it. Okay, 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:58.239 so when I got reached out to, my whole family 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.880 was very excited, forced me to do it. 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:06.000 And and how how was that experience? You met someone 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:07.120 on the show? Right? That was? 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:11.000 Yeah, it's wild. I mean, yeah. One one of the 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:13.160 things that I tell people about this show probably different 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.359 than any others. There's a lot of things. But they 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:18.320 film in your home. So we're here on Shawn's ranch today. 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.680 I mean, the girls are living here, which is wild. 0:03:21.520 --> 0:03:23.959 Normally you fly off to some tropical location, which I 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:27.000 thought it nice too, But it's weird to have like 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.760 a huge film crew and all these women and everything 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:33.600 in your own territory in your home. That's not okay. 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:36.480 And this is a very interesting representation of a farm, 0:03:36.600 --> 0:03:40.320 like this is not this is pretty badass. Yeah, it's 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:42.520 I could live here and I'm not a farmer at all. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.280 Yeah, I grew up in New England and this does 0:03:45.360 --> 0:03:47.680 not represent any kind of farm I. 0:03:47.680 --> 0:03:50.440 Grew up and this is gorgeous, but it's it's fabous. 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:50.960 But I want to know. 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:52.920 I want to get back to your family. So what 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:55.600 kind of filmly did you grow up in? Like, when 0:03:55.640 --> 0:03:57.960 it came to your parents' relationship, what was your example 0:03:58.160 --> 0:03:58.760 of marriage? 0:03:58.800 --> 0:03:59.640 What were you looking for? 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:01.520 I couldn't have been any better, And I think in 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:03.320 some ways when I was younger, I didn't realize how 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.280 good I had it. My parents have been married about 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:08.400 forty six years. My grandparents were married fifty something years. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:11.800 No pressure, Yeah, I know, right. I have three siblings 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:14.480 that are all married with kids, and so you know 0:04:14.520 --> 0:04:17.520 in our family there's just there isn't any divorce or 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.760 any of that. And so I had such good examples, 0:04:19.800 --> 0:04:22.160 but these days things are a little different out there, 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:24.720 and so you know, it's. 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:27.120 Well again, then let's circle back to and then you 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:29.360 took the risk of coming and doing it here you 0:04:29.360 --> 0:04:34.000 were like this. Yeah, it's like the representation of relationships 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:36.080 in my life has been pretty strong. Yeah, I'm going 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.240 to come on a reality show I feel like this 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:42.120 is going to be where I find my partner for life. 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:43.359 I like to do things a little different. 0:04:43.920 --> 0:04:45.400 Do you believe in love att first sight? 0:04:45.680 --> 0:04:47.440 No, I don't think so. I think you can see 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:51.680 someone and be pretty interested. I mean might change my mind, 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.520 but yeah, it's a wild thing to do. But I 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:57.840 will say I did my research on the show, and 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.920 my parents had seen it, and this show is different 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:03.320 than any other dating show. I think a lot of 0:05:03.360 --> 0:05:06.080 the you know, in my opinion, eighty five percent of 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:08.200 the cast, whether it was Girls on My Farm or 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:11.120 the other guys was, were all actually there for genuine reasons, 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:13.520 which I didn't really expect. To me, There's to be 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:15.320 a lot more of people there for the clout and 0:05:15.360 --> 0:05:15.880 all that, but. 0:05:15.800 --> 0:05:18.120 You would assume that everybody's showing up. It's that part 0:05:18.160 --> 0:05:19.400 of like I want to be on a show. 0:05:19.200 --> 0:05:22.160 And to make a lot of the shows that we 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:24.080 see are like that, right, and so this one's not 0:05:24.200 --> 0:05:26.080 that way. I think it's pretty genuine and it is 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.960 pretty real and a lot of the cast, you know, 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:31.400 I would say, majority are faith based people who really 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.159 there to meet somebody. I mean, I was pretty shocked. 0:05:33.200 --> 0:05:35.719 I'd say all almost all of the girls that I 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:37.479 had selected were very genuine. 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:39.839 So what was your What was the trait? 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.640 Obviously you're looking for a woman who you know wants 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:44.359 to move here and be your wife and give you 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:45.320 twenty six children? 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.640 But what was the trade thirty children? 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:54.560 I was just accounting for, maybe, you know, the slow start. 0:05:54.839 --> 0:05:56.720 What's the trait, the underlying traite? 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:58.880 Obviously you want pretty, you want to attract me, you 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:00.880 want smart, you want somebody's be a great mom and 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:04.080 all that. Now give me something else. What's that hidden trait, 0:06:04.200 --> 0:06:06.080 that hidden gem that you're looking for. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.480 I think in today's dating climate, it's pretty rough out there. 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:12.960 There's the people's morals are just not what they used 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:14.640 to be, and people are there for a lot of 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:19.880 other reasons. I think it's just comes down to Loyalty 0:06:19.960 --> 0:06:23.400 is a big part of it, but just really how 0:06:23.480 --> 0:06:26.800 someone operates out other than being with me. It's not 0:06:26.920 --> 0:06:28.279 just about us, It's like, how are you as a 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:31.320 person in general? Yeah? You know, what do you do 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:32.080 and no one's looking? 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.559 How's your sure that someone's always looking? 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:35.679 Usually? 0:06:35.760 --> 0:06:39.600 Yeah, I find out, well, especially when you're on a 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.920 show like this, Yeah, everybody much? 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:46.520 Yeah, Wow, what's your biggest turn off in dating. I'm 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:47.719 writing a book here, I need to know. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:51.000 Well, I don't know a lot of things. I think 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.760 it's how you treat other people, because I've dated girls 0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.120 in the past that maybe to me they're great and 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:57.760 it's all fun, but then you're kind of seeing how 0:06:57.800 --> 0:06:59.839 they're talking about their friends, or how they interact with 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.760 family or a waiter or whatever it is. So you 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:04.039 got to keep an eye out for that. 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:05.040 Is that your biggest dick? 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:09.120 I would say that's up there. Yeah, someone mistreating someone else. 0:07:09.160 --> 0:07:10.160 It's not how I operate. 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:14.000 So wow, hmmm, Well, now we have to get down 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:16.880 to the So I'm I'm single and dating this. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:22.760 Guy, but I'm working on him. She's She's been trying 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.680 to get drinks in me all morning and I'm like, no, So, 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:26.280 are you. 0:07:26.240 --> 0:07:29.400 Open to dating divorced women? Are you to dating older women? 0:07:29.480 --> 0:07:31.520 Tell me your I mean, you are just. 0:07:34.760 --> 0:07:37.960 On the couch and I could sit closer to you. 0:07:38.360 --> 0:07:42.240 Welcome, Let's make sure we get pretty even right now. Yeah, 0:07:42.240 --> 0:07:44.920 I have date dated someone in the past is divorced 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:47.480 that had children already, So yeah, it would be open 0:07:47.520 --> 0:07:51.280 to it. You know, it just depends on the situation. 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:53.760 You forgot the second part of the question. Is it 0:07:54.080 --> 0:07:58.480 older women? Oh, you don't have to answer that. You 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.640 don't have to answer that. I didn't say me. I'm 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:02.480 just going to take the heat off of you right now. 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:06.800 I want you to feel comfortable sitting on this couch. Okay? 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:10.520 Can we so this? So this was brought to our 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:14.320 attention earlier? Can we talk a little bit about Chelsea? 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:14.600 Is that? 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:14.920 Okay? 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:15.800 Sure? 0:08:16.320 --> 0:08:17.000 What do you want that? 0:08:17.080 --> 0:08:21.480 Sure? I was so that. So Chelsea is who you 0:08:21.560 --> 0:08:26.560 ended up with, right? And I heard recently that that 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.840 you guys that you no longer follow her. 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.000 You don't follow her on Instagram and she doesn't follow you, 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:33.760 and there's no limit to the number of people you 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:34.199 can follow. 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:35.640 So spill what happened. 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:40.800 Yes, you know, in a nutshell, we did date for 0:08:40.800 --> 0:08:43.120 a while after the show, and uh, I think we 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.439 liked each other. It was just it didn't pan out, 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:49.960 and not for any particular reason. Friends, Oh, I would 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:53.199 use that word. She's a She's a great person of nothing, 0:08:53.280 --> 0:08:55.200 not a single bad thing is Where is she from? 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:58.839 She is from Texas? I thought so aware, ye small town? 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:00.240 What do you mean you thought so? 0:09:00.360 --> 0:09:05.040 Because I get around Dallas you're not gonna believe this. 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:09.199 I know her really, no, right, you tell. 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:11.400 Me exactly she said, you're not going to believe. 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:12.960 You just wanted to see you squirm and it worked. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.480 So are you into square dancing or line dancing? Because 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:19.280 I had to learn it when I moved to Texas. 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:20.760 No, I don't fall around with that stuff. You don't 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.280 dance trying to get me to do that on the 0:09:22.280 --> 0:09:25.239 show actually one of the episodes, and I refused, you cannot. 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:27.720 I'm more of a free dancer, you know, after like 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:30.280 ten dranks, maybe I'll get not just kind of like in. 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:34.400 A circle like it. Yeah, you and everybody moving into 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:35.320 kill over. 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:38.640 Yeah. Not a big choreograph dancer. 0:09:38.800 --> 0:09:39.200 All right. 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:42.360 So I'm asking for a friend. If a woman is 0:09:42.360 --> 0:09:45.000 a bad kisser, is that a turn off or something 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:45.760 you can work with? 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:50.480 Oh boy, you know, it's a lot more about a 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:51.920 lot of other things said. 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:55.200 Get out of here, Come on now. No, kissing is 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:56.320 a big. Kissing is a. 0:09:56.320 --> 0:09:59.520 Big I think there's chemistry with somebody, you know, there is. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.199 There's no nothing that takes you out of a situation. 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:08.800 Keep talking. Then bad kissing, Yeah, a bad kisser of course, 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:11.720 because it pulls you completely. For me, it pulls you 0:10:11.800 --> 0:10:13.920 completely out of the moment. There have been times where 0:10:14.320 --> 0:10:16.920 I've thought, oh, this is really this could be something, 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:19.320 and then the kiss was bad, and it's like breaks, 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.560 what if she was great in bad? Doesn't it? Well? 0:10:21.640 --> 0:10:26.600 You don't want to This is iHeart, man, this is 0:10:26.600 --> 0:10:28.960 how we do it. I told you I'm tired. I am. 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:30.319 I'm on the dating scene. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:32.439 I'm getting I'm using you guys to get all the 0:10:32.480 --> 0:10:34.320 information we Okay, yeah. 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:38.200 I'm just a small, humble farmer. I don't kiss and 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:39.079 tell Oh. 0:10:39.000 --> 0:10:42.120 Come on, now, he doesn't kiss and tell them. He 0:10:42.160 --> 0:10:43.760 doesn't dance. I mean. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:48.440 You well, I didn't say did you grow avocados? 0:10:48.520 --> 0:10:50.920 Come on, there's gotta be more than that. Yeah, are 0:10:50.960 --> 0:10:52.400 you dating qualities? 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:54.000 I've dated around a little bit. 0:10:54.240 --> 0:10:56.920 Okay, are you like an English major? Just it's yes 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:58.360 or no? Are you dating now? 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:01.200 I've been dating. 0:11:01.080 --> 0:11:01.800 I have been. 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:08.000 I like, let's use can use the subjunctive. I would 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:09.080 date if. 0:11:09.960 --> 0:11:12.760 Yeah, you know, there's this whole year has been a whirlwind, 0:11:12.800 --> 0:11:14.079 as you can imagine afterwards. 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:14.439 Jesus. 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.120 Yeah, and so I'm just trying to make sure I'm 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.520 in a good position to be with somebody else, because 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:22.240 there's a lot Like one thing you don't realize maybe 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:24.640 is there's a lot of stuff that comes along with 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:26.360 being on a dating show. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:28.560 Yeah, for some reason, pressure all of a sudden. I'm 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:31.200 sure when you go out, people go well that and. 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.560 Then you know someone got to see you, you know, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:35.480 get a bunch of other people and said as their 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:36.640 family and all that kind of stuff. 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:39.800 So it could happen to anyone morally. How was that 0:11:39.840 --> 0:11:45.000 for you having so many women and going through that. 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:46.920 I tried my best to dating them all at the 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:47.520 same time. 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.640 Yeah, that was weird. It was harder than I thought 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:52.920 because I think I didn't realize how real it was 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:54.720 going to be. Yeah, so then a lot of people 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:56.400 were really invested emotionally. 0:11:56.440 --> 0:11:59.040 So were you invested emotionally with more than one woman? 0:11:59.559 --> 0:11:59.679 Uh? 0:12:00.240 --> 0:12:01.240 Yeah, I think. 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.319 I knew it was going to be Chelsea from the beginning. 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:08.120 I don't know from the beginning. There was such a whirlwind. 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:10.880 There's so much going on. I think probably halfway through 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:12.839 I realized that that was going to be the case. 0:12:13.280 --> 0:12:15.360 Wow, And so how long does the season last? 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:16.960 Like, how long are you filming? 0:12:17.040 --> 0:12:17.280 Yeah? 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:19.520 The filming was about five weeks. But it felt like 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:22.080 six months. Yeah, it's an intense like it was. I 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:23.720 think we had an intense five weeks. I think we 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:25.400 had two days off in the five weeks. And you're 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:28.040 filming all day nine am to ten pm sometimes. 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.880 And are they picking all of the activities and the 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:30.559 things that you do? 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.720 And they let me have a lot of creative freedom 0:12:32.760 --> 0:12:34.400 with like dates and that kind of thing. So they 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.080 would kind of like set things up around what I 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:37.640 wanted to do or things I like to do, which 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:38.200 was pretty cool. 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:42.240 That's great. Yeah, what was your best date? What were 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:43.040 you doing? I mean. 0:12:44.480 --> 0:12:47.839 Best date? Are you doing good one? 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:50.280 What was I we'll get your mind out of the 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:53.400 gut or bots. You're the one that said it. It 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.280 wasn't me, Like what. 0:12:55.160 --> 0:12:55.760 Were you doing? 0:12:57.559 --> 0:13:02.439 You sort of sad? Why? Seeding a baby goat? Picking 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:04.040 a nova? Connor specific? 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:06.360 It was fun. It was really fun, like the group 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:09.000 kind of dates with all the girls because we got 0:13:09.040 --> 0:13:14.360 like shut myself on the foot on that one. You 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.520 know what I meant, I did? It was a blast. 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.200 I mean we're out there on my pharm and these 0:13:19.200 --> 0:13:20.480 girls are all picking avocados. 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:22.440 I was going to say my show group dates sucked. 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:24.920 So yeah, that was a blast, and I really liked 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:26.959 all the girls even besides, like in a dating way. 0:13:26.960 --> 0:13:28.880 It was fun having them all there. They were neat people. 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:30.560 I'm friends with a lot of them still. 0:13:30.640 --> 0:13:37.160 So so what's the biggest misconception then about farmers from. 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.760 Just farmers in general across across the board. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:40.880 I mean, I would say farmers that are in there, 0:13:40.880 --> 0:13:43.600 I would assume that, like a peanut farmer is very different. 0:13:44.120 --> 0:13:47.160 There's a really there's a really big range. Like me 0:13:47.240 --> 0:13:48.560 and some of the guys got a lot of hate 0:13:48.600 --> 0:13:50.240 afterwards and like they're not a real farmer. 0:13:50.880 --> 0:13:52.959 You're you're not growing correctly. 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:55.480 Yeah, well, people think of a farmer and they think 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:58.679 of a small town Midwest like hardworking guy out there 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.319 on a tractor all day. And that is the case 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:02.200 a lot of people. But like for us, we don't 0:14:02.200 --> 0:14:05.720 operate that way. We can't. We have to have labor 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:08.439 crews and different piece it's more like management and stuff. 0:14:08.200 --> 0:14:11.679 Like getting at this place absolutely brings that tol like, 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:14.280 oh this is there's not one guy running all of this. 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.080 This is like you have a crew and he's making coffees. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:18.840 Yeah, there's a big range, that's. 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:23.440 What he does Now, I really love making coffee. You're 0:14:23.480 --> 0:14:25.640 all about the coffee and you're all about the vodkast. 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.040 So between the two of us, listen, them's fighting words. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:28.840 You and I are going at. 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.680 It, but just settle on an espresso marchini. 0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:35.040 Matt, Now you really do want an older woman because 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:36.320 that's one of my drinks. 0:14:36.320 --> 0:14:37.640 Okay. 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.680 I have a question that people ask me all the time. 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:42.880 I was on Golden Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise. Did 0:14:42.880 --> 0:14:45.000 not find love on either one? Because what are you 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:55.760 looking at? Slash Kathy and Matt walks off into the sunset. Hi, kids, 0:14:55.800 --> 0:15:01.360 I'm not coming home. I'm picking avocados in California. See 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:04.000 it was coming from reality TV one way or the other. 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:06.080 That's that's why you're. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:16.760 Okay. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:18.560 I want to know, seriously that what did you learn 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:20.840 about yourself? I get asked this all the time. What 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:24.080 did you learn about yourself? Did you change? It's like 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.280 a multifaceted question. Do you think of yourself differently? All 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:27.880 those things? 0:15:27.960 --> 0:15:28.080 Now? 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:30.600 I don't think of myself differently at all. It's been 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:33.280 a really amazing experience. I've made a lot of good 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:36.520 friends out of it, which is really cool. I think 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:39.960 I now, going through all this stuff and all this 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:41.520 I'm just like, Okay, I know what i want. Like, 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:42.680 I'm not gonna do you want? 0:15:43.200 --> 0:15:44.680 What do you want? Oh? 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:47.560 I want to be now you know what I want 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:49.520 to be with my wife, whoever that may be. But 0:15:50.080 --> 0:15:53.280 I am really looking at someone's morals at this point, 0:15:53.400 --> 0:15:55.000 not just you know, not just looks. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:56.880 The fun. The heat coming off of this end of 0:15:56.920 --> 0:16:00.440 the couch is like unbelievable. Just tell me, this is 0:16:00.440 --> 0:16:01.400 an air conditioned room. 0:16:01.720 --> 0:16:04.040 Let me just tell you something. I will get you back. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:08.520 This day is not over, No, it's not. 0:16:08.600 --> 0:16:09.640 It's gonna be a long day. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:11.440 Yeah. 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:14.040 So okay, so you really are seriously looking. I mean 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:18.080 because I'm a mother of three and you're a little 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:22.440 younger than my youngest child. So I could adopt you 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:23.960 or I could date you. 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:25.080 Yeah, one of the two. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:26.320 But but I. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:29.120 Would say, you know, thirty two, you could, you could, 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:30.920 you could shop around for a while. 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:31.280 Good. 0:16:31.400 --> 0:16:34.240 I don't want to though. Yeah, I think after all 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:38.520 this experience, there's a blast. Obviously getting attention from girls 0:16:38.920 --> 0:16:42.160 is the worst thing. But I'm really looking. I would 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:43.640 get fooled before a lot when I was younger and 0:16:43.720 --> 0:16:46.360 looks and all this, you know, having fun and all that, 0:16:46.400 --> 0:16:48.560 but I think you come to realize like that, if 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:52.360 you're not with someone who respects you and has the 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.640 same morals and cares about your family or that, just 0:16:54.800 --> 0:16:56.360 it's just not gonna work. It might be fun for 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:57.000 a little bit, but. 0:16:57.320 --> 0:16:58.960 Oh, I love I'm serious that. 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.400 As a mom, I love hearing that because that's what 0:17:02.440 --> 0:17:04.760 you want for your children. You want them to realize 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.960 that there's so much more. I was married almost forty 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:11.680 six years before my husband passed away, and marriage is 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:13.679 an easy and so I love hearing you say that. 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:16.080 You're no, I mean, it's there's gonna be a lot 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:17.879 of tough stuff you go through no matter what. And 0:17:17.880 --> 0:17:19.120 so you don't want someone that's. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.000 I don't know, somebody's good looking at you. How tough 0:17:21.040 --> 0:17:21.879 can it be? Really? 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:32.320 Well, it's it's not about that though, yeah, but yeah, 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.600 just I'm looking way past all that stuff now. 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:37.080 All right, So I have one more question for you, 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.600 and then you're taking it away because I know you 0:17:39.640 --> 0:17:41.760 have a lot. What advice do you have for the 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:46.240 farmers from you know, from Brayden and Sean and Brett 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:47.720