1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: We'll go up in the city. My latest one was 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: bad Ants in the House. I was like, what did 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: you have to do so bad in your past life? 4 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: Did you come back as an ants? 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: Wow? Yeah, I know. It's a full intelligence briefing every morning. 6 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 2: It's intense. 7 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 3: That's what you're doing in there. 8 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, what'd you tell it? Never mind? I will start 9 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 2: the room. Fred's show is on Good Morning Everybody, Tuesday, 10 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,360 Speaker 2: April twenty second. The Fred Show is here, Hi, Kaylen 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: mor Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hi ke Key Morning Bella. 12 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: Jamine is here on the phone and the text You 13 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:33,199 Speaker 2: can call and text anytime you want. Eight five, five, five, nine, one, 14 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: one o three plots the same number. We'll get to headlines, 15 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 2: the biggest stories of the day, the entertainment Report, and 16 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: blogs all this hour, stay or go. Let's debate some 17 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,600 Speaker 2: relationship drama waiting by the phone this morning. Kicky lost 18 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: yesterday in the showdown your record now twenty one and 19 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: four still really good. One hundred bucks is the prize 20 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 2: and remember if you if you win between now when 21 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: Shelley comes back, what do we say June first, Yeah, 22 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 2: something like that. Then you can keep the money. 23 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 4: It's April okay and to April okay, so you know, yeah, 24 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 4: you have five weeks left something like that. 25 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 2: I'm counting, so you could win. You can still win 26 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 2: one thousand bucks. 27 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 5: Ye okay. 28 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 2: I think I just did the math quickly in my head. 29 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 2: I haven't had enough coffee, so I'm not sure if 30 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 2: that's true. What are you working on for the ports 31 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 2: this morning? Ky? 32 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 6: A couple of things I will tell you who says 33 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 6: they don't remember their Coachella performance? Also the Hall of 34 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 6: Fame titan and the fifty million dollar lawsuit. 35 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: You want to do have a morality Monday on a 36 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: Tuesday because I think we should. Yes, So how would 37 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 2: you feel about this? Eight five five five n one 38 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 2: one three five. A groom to be recently shared his 39 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 2: dilemma on Reddit, which is where I get a lot 40 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 2: of these. I must I must give credit where credit 41 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: is due. I don't know. I know some a holes, 42 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 2: but I don't know enough to be able to do 43 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 2: I know some immoral people, but I don't know enough 44 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 2: to do morality Monday on a Tuesday every week unless 45 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 2: I did a lot of research. Yeah, so I could 46 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 2: do it just all. 47 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: Your friends every week? 48 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: You just which one of you wanted to be immoral Evans. Yeah, 49 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:12,520 Speaker 2: so this happened to somebody, though it didn't really, So 50 00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 2: here's this is the gist of it. A dude's fiance 51 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 2: plans to wear her late husband's wedding ring on a 52 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 2: chain around her neck during the wedding ceremony to the 53 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 2: new guy. So her husband is dead, okay, and she's 54 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,400 Speaker 2: going to she wants to wear the wedding ring. I 55 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: guess his wedding ring that from when they were married 56 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: before he died, around her neck when she marries another guy, 57 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: the next guy, Okay. She says it's a quiet tribute 58 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 2: to the guy she once loved, who passed away in 59 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 2: a tragic car accident five years ago. She believes the 60 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: laws shaped who she is today and wants to carry 61 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 2: that part of her past into the new chapter. But 62 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 2: her fiance is not feeling great about him. He says 63 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 2: it makes him feel like he's sharing the most important 64 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 2: day of his life with someone who isn't there, and 65 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 2: and like he's somehow second place. And people on the 66 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: forum are torn. Some stood with the groom, saying the 67 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 2: wedding should be about the new relationship, not the old one. 68 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 2: Other suggested a compromise, like a symbolic gesture instead of 69 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 2: wearing the ring, I would if I'm being one percent transparent, 70 00:03:23,000 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: if I'm keeping it on on the reel, one hundred 71 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:29,480 Speaker 2: percent on the one. If I'm being one hundred with you, okay, please, 72 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be one hundred with you as opposed to 73 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 2: the ninety nine I usually am. I'm gonna be a hundred. 74 00:03:34,040 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't like him. I wouldn't 75 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 2: like it. You wouldn't be either. No, I would not. Okay, 76 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: good because you're like, yeah, I know, I know Fred, 77 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 2: I know Fred, You weak, little weak little nugget. No. 78 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: Can you imagine if Hobby in Vegas at the wedding 79 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: had a ring around his neck of a that he 80 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 2: gave to another woman who's dead. 81 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 7: See, okay, I have compassion. 82 00:03:59,160 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 2: You wouldn't. 83 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: No, I'd be upset. I'd be bothered, for sure. But like, 84 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: it's sad if that person tragically died. I mean that's awful. 85 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 2: Nobody's saying that's not sad or awful. But like, yeah, 86 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: why are we I mean you're married me? Now? Like 87 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: can this day be about us? 88 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 7: Correct? 89 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: Why are we still reflecting on this person. I'm sorry 90 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: this person died. I'm sorry this person is not in 91 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 2: your life anymore. But the feeling that it would give 92 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 2: me is. And it's pretty clear. If that dude weren't dead, 93 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be standing here. You never would have chosen me, 94 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: This wouldn't even obviously, this wouldn't even be happening. True. Yes, well, 95 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: I know that. I don't think i'd be reminded of that. 96 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't need to be reminded of 97 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 2: the person that I'm marrying now and committing to the 98 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 2: rest of my life with. Would probably rather be with 99 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: someone else if they weren't dead. 100 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, it takes a special kind of person to be 101 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 6: with a widow. I don't think everyone can do it. 102 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 6: But I'm in a similar situation. Actually, one of the 103 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 6: bachelorettes I have coming up, her previous boyfriend passed away 104 00:04:54,920 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 6: and it was tragic, and his mom wants to pay 105 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 6: for something on her bachelorette to for a new guy. 106 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 6: She's getting married to a new guy and her mom, 107 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 6: her former boyfriend's mom, wants to. 108 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,720 Speaker 3: Pay for something for us, like a table or a 109 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 3: night when we go out. 110 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, and but some of my friends, which I don't 111 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 6: think it was their place to say, are like, no, 112 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 6: completely unacceptable, like that's you shouldn't be doing that, Like 113 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 6: your fiance is going to be upset, and I, I 114 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 6: don't know. 115 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 3: I thought that that was kind of wild. 116 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's it's kind of interesting, like I'm gonna 117 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,160 Speaker 2: pay for you guys to go ahead and get hammered. 118 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 3: Yeah for the why did the best work at the wedding? 119 00:05:29,120 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 6: D Yeah, But she, like I guess, feels like this 120 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 6: is the closest she's going to get to, Like I 121 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 6: don't know, her son getting married, I don't know. 122 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 3: She's like happy for her. She still talks to her. 123 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 3: So it is. But it is interesting, that's nice. 124 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 2: It's something. It'sn't even marrying a widow, like, uh, it's 125 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 2: not even it's not even so much that it's it's okay, 126 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: I'm marrying a widow. So I'm already aware that you 127 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:53,599 Speaker 2: were fully in love with another guy. I actually just 128 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: happened to a family member of mine, and I've never 129 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 2: discussed it with her. I've discussed it with her family though, 130 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: And this dude, sadly, when in a business trip, the 131 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 2: company had private jets. There were two private jets. Everybody 132 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: piled in one or the other. There was no rhyme 133 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,440 Speaker 2: or reason one made it the other one didn't, and 134 00:06:10,520 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: so there was I don't know the inside of their relationship, 135 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: but from what I understand, they were relatively newly married. 136 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: Like everything was fine, you know, and then he's gone, right, 137 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,720 Speaker 2: so she moved on married another guy, had kids with him. 138 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 2: Everything's great, and I wonder, like I wondered, does that 139 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 2: guy ever lay up at night and be like, man, 140 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 2: you know, if that dude hadn't tragically died, like I 141 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:30,280 Speaker 2: wouldn't even be here. I wouldn't have my kids, I 142 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: wouldn't have any of this. Like maybe I would have 143 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 2: had it with somebody else. But like that, I'm admitting 144 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 2: that's an insecurity, but that would get to me, I think, 145 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,159 Speaker 2: But but it's that that's life. But now I got it. 146 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,760 Speaker 2: Now you got to have like something tangible with you 147 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 2: at the wedding. To me, I'm trying to really like 148 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 2: sure resemble him, Like guys, we're moving. 149 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: On like right at the wedding, probably not see if 150 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: Hobby did that, we wouldn't be at the Little White 151 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: Wedding Chapel I think we'd be honestly in therapy to 152 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: work through that because it's like, why would you want 153 00:06:58,800 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: to include that on your special day? 154 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 2: Are you really ready to do this? If we're still 155 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:03,200 Speaker 2: reflecting on the best. 156 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 6: Question, have anything from their previous you know, marriage or 157 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 6: like a photo or. 158 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: Anything, I mean, and how it exists? Like we can 159 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: put them away. I'm not saying I don't want them, 160 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: you know, like plastered on the on the living room 161 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 1: wall when you walk in. Probably not, but I would 162 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: still understand that this happened. Like you said, it's a 163 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: part of his history, right, I mean she didn't do 164 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 1: anything to me. 165 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 7: I mean she passed away. 166 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,239 Speaker 1: Right, Theoretically, in this theory, we're doing like she passed away, 167 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 1: and I don't want him to forget her, But on 168 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 1: our special day, probably not. 169 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 7: This is today is about us because. 170 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 3: You're loving a not complete person. 171 00:07:33,920 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 6: I feel like at that point, like a part of 172 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 6: their heart will always be with the spouse that they 173 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 6: thought they were going to spend the rest of their 174 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 6: life with. 175 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: And that's totally fair. 176 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: But like you know, on our special day, at least 177 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 1: you know it's my wedding too, right, it's a two 178 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 1: people event. 179 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 2: It's you know, for yourself, I watched it can be 180 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 2: a multiple person, you know, it could. 181 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: Be correct, It can be, but my mind, for example, 182 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 1: always me and we two of us. 183 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 6: Right, That's what I'm saying. I don't think everyone can 184 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 6: handle that situation. I really don't think that. I agree, 185 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 6: just my opinion. 186 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: I mean, what, Jason, you're over here with this look 187 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 2: on your face of disgust, like honestly, like, okay, so 188 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 2: so Mike the mechanic wants to marry you, and he's like, hey, 189 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 2: but this dude I hooked up with on grinder a 190 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 2: while ago, like, I need I need to make sure 191 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 2: that I he left his chain in my house. 192 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 8: It's a little different, but for multiple years. 193 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 2: Okay. But honestly, though, do you want a person who 194 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 2: is who is essentially you're replacing them? I mean, okay, okay, 195 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: imagine this, imagine imagine Okay, you're my beloved co worker, right, you, 196 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 2: my beloved coworker. God forbid, I hate this example, but 197 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 2: God forbid you decide I'm going to I'm I'm going 198 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 2: to move on. I'm going to go and be Britney 199 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 2: Spears's manager. And everyone's happy, well sort of happy. 200 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 4: For you. 201 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean like it's a little late in the 202 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 2: game for that, but you know, still, okay, so you're 203 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: going to be Britney Spears's manager. We're also happy for you. 204 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 2: We're clapping or whatever, and then you know, it's wonderful, 205 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 2: it's a wonderful day, something like, you know, here's to 206 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 2: the jolly goodfellow whatever. Okay, So then we have to 207 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 2: replace you. Sadly, it's terrible. But we have a picture 208 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 2: of you right there in your chair that stares at 209 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 2: the new person every single day, and it says, we 210 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 2: miss so we miss you so much Jason Brown, you know, 211 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: to the greatest person to ever sit in this chair, 212 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 2: Jason Brown, you know. And the new person has to 213 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 2: sit there and stare at that all morning. I mean, 214 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 2: it might be true, but what I'm saying is nobody 215 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 2: wants that daily reminder that like there was somebody greater 216 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 2: than me here. 217 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,959 Speaker 9: That's completely it is not it is not at all. 218 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 9: It is completely different. 219 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 5: This is. 220 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 8: Cast away. 221 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 9: I didn't die, but you're not here anymore. Better even 222 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 9: crazier people I've somehow found them, But that's so different. 223 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 9: There's nothing like I can't even imagine the pain of 224 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 9: losing a spouse. 225 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 8: So I look at I have. 226 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 9: If I have not been through that, there, I cannot 227 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 9: say one single thing about how you deal with it. 228 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 9: That pain is like I can you even think about 229 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 9: how that makes you feel? Like you can feel all 230 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 9: you want, But I would have to be fine with 231 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:25,200 Speaker 9: It's not like it's competition. 232 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:28,679 Speaker 2: He's gone, yeah, but don't. Don't my feelings about this matter. 233 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 2: I'm marrying you now. It's about me now, it's not 234 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 2: about that person. I'm so sorry for what happened. But 235 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 2: I feel like if we're honoring your ex husband at 236 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 2: your new wedding, I mean, listen to that sentence that doesn't. 237 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 9: Say anything about the grief and how she deals with it. 238 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 9: I'm sorry, absolutely my opinion, you didn't you know, go 239 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 9: through that. She did, So whatever she needs to do 240 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 9: to feel better, that's what she gets to do. 241 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, at your wedding. At your wedding, you're going to 242 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 2: honor another. 243 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 9: Jason yea if someone died that they were married to, 244 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 9: who am I to say? You don't get too honestly 245 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 9: the new husband. 246 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 2: Goodness? 247 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 4: Oh, because I was trying to figure out whose side 248 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 4: I'm on today, and I think today I want to 249 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 4: be on the right side today. 250 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 2: Right, it's welcome, it's nice over here. 251 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,959 Speaker 7: Because Fri is dead. 252 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 4: So like literally, they're never going to be your competition, 253 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 4: competing with the goal. 254 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 8: Never. 255 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,520 Speaker 2: I don't think that's true. I don't think that's true. 256 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,719 Speaker 2: I think if a person is still honoring their ex 257 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: husband at the wedding to the new person, you are 258 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: constantly being compared to that honoring. 259 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 4: First of all, it's just I'm wearing today a symbol 260 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,280 Speaker 4: of somebody I love that has passed on. 261 00:11:44,679 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 6: Yes, it, I mean for you would have to walk 262 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 6: away like it bother you. Then you would have to say, listen, 263 00:11:50,280 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 6: this is not for me. 264 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: I can't handle that. 265 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 2: She's not wearing his chain, She's wearing his wedding ring. 266 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god, what do you want. 267 00:11:58,160 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 7: Me to do? 268 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 2: Yes, now, she can keep it. I don't don't even 269 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 2: melt it down. I'm not trying to. I'm not trying 270 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,320 Speaker 2: to destroy the human being. I mean, we're moving on. 271 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 2: We're moving on to Cleveland. Roberta, Roberta, how you doing? 272 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,720 Speaker 2: What did you want to say? This is nuts? You 273 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 2: guys are crazy. 274 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 10: I agree with me. 275 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 5: Why is he? 276 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:19,720 Speaker 10: Why is he? 277 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 3: Like? 278 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 10: Why is he comparing himself to a ghost, like why 279 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 10: did you feel like he's in competition with him? Like 280 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 10: she knew what he was good heyman? To he knew 281 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 10: that she was a widow, and he knew that she 282 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:30,280 Speaker 10: loved that. 283 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 2: She loved him. But isn't memory enough? 284 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 10: I mean, it's braud. 285 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 2: What Roberta, are you married? Are you married? Yes? Would 286 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 2: you have been okay with your husband honoring another woman 287 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 2: who he was previously married to at his wedding to you? 288 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 2: Come on, Roberta, come on, There's a time and a 289 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,720 Speaker 2: place for this stuff. I'm not saying we raised his memory. 290 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that it wasn't. They're not. It's been 291 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 2: a fun time in your life. But I'm so you 292 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 2: tell me when when I take your clothes off at 293 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 2: the end of the night, I gotta look at the 294 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 2: wedding ring of the dude from before. 295 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,839 Speaker 10: It's like a tattoo if somebody had a tattoo, do 296 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 10: you know what I'm saying? Or the tramp stamps, you know, 297 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 10: like it's so little reminder. But why are you like 298 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 10: he knew amp stamp? 299 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 2: Who's getting a tram stamp with him? Roberto what kind 300 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: of tattoos you got, I'm worried about you. 301 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 10: I got a lot. 302 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:26,839 Speaker 2: How you doing? 303 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 4: Oh? 304 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 10: You know that some women get their their spouses names 305 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:34,160 Speaker 10: on them, although they shouldn't, but you know it's so 306 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 10: it's like that. But like this person is dead, Like 307 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 10: why is he trying to like? Why is he trying 308 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 10: to compete with him? 309 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:42,400 Speaker 8: Right? 310 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 2: Why am I being reminded of him? I guess it's 311 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 2: going to be hard enough to just Camean's original point. 312 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 2: The amount of trauma that must you know, that you 313 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 2: must endure to process something like that is extreme, like 314 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 2: and there's no one questioning that. But I guess I 315 00:13:58,720 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 2: would wonder if we're doing that, are you really ready 316 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 2: for me? I guess would be the question that I 317 00:14:03,679 --> 00:14:04,280 Speaker 2: would be asked. 318 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,839 Speaker 10: But do you not think that they had the conversation beforehand? 319 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 10: Like I'm sure that he was aware that he meant 320 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 10: something really special to her because that was her husband 321 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 10: at some point, so he should have had that in 322 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 10: the back of his mind before he asked her to 323 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 10: marry him. 324 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, but he also he's gone to Reddit because he 325 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 2: feels a little shocked by this gesture, like he didn't 326 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 2: see this case. 327 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,359 Speaker 10: He's a man he doesn't know how to communicate. 328 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 2: I mean, he wrote very clearly. I read it, so 329 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:38,160 Speaker 2: have a good day. I don't think anyone's saying that 330 00:14:38,200 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: you don't honor what was. I just don't know if 331 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 2: that's the time and the place and the way to 332 00:14:42,760 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: manifest him, because because I do think you also have 333 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: to consider how it makes the person you're marrying feel. 334 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 2: That person's feelings matter too in this but the grief 335 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:52,280 Speaker 2: that comes with losing a spouse. 336 00:14:52,360 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 4: And then I'm back at this wedding place where I 337 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 4: only saw this for my past husband, so it's like 338 00:14:57,760 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 4: it's something that maybe makes her feel safe in moment 339 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 4: to like I'm doing this again. I'm trying to love 340 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 4: again without the fear of losing this person again. It's 341 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 4: just a little sense of comfort, like a blanky. I 342 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 4: cannot bring my blanky like you know this. 343 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,560 Speaker 2: Why is your dead husband your comfort? I'm your comfort. 344 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 6: It takes a special kind of person and it's okay, 345 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:19,040 Speaker 6: Like everybody's feelings are valid. If it's not working for you, 346 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,440 Speaker 6: that's okay, that's okay period. 347 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 2: Okay to Wanta, Hi, Hi, Hey, so sad that you 348 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 2: were in this situation like this, and I am sorry 349 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 2: that you encountered this. 350 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 5: Thank you. I was with to one for ten years. 351 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 5: We had three boys together, and unfortunately he passed away 352 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 5: and about four ish, almost five years later, I met 353 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 5: someone else. We were married. My system off from my 354 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:49,360 Speaker 5: previous marriage was my matrid of honor. Her husband helped 355 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 5: pay for our limos, and we're still very active in 356 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 5: each other's lives. We go on vacations together with each 357 00:15:57,120 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 5: other's families and everything. So I think it just depends 358 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 5: on how mature you take the situation. I'm sure that 359 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 5: my husband probably feels a certain way, but because we 360 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,640 Speaker 5: have children together, he just wanted to give them as 361 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 5: much love as he could doing if they had a loss. 362 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 5: So I just think that sometimes you have to think 363 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 5: about that person's all over with you, and if it 364 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 5: was you that passed away, would you want your wife 365 00:16:23,600 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 5: to forget about you and never ever think about you 366 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 5: ever again? No, I think that's hard to say if 367 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 5: you haven't been in a situation. 368 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 2: No, Jo what I wouldn't, But I also I wouldn't. 369 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 2: I guess I can tell you I wouldn't expect to 370 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,560 Speaker 2: be honored in any way at her wedding to another man. 371 00:16:38,920 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: I don't think that's the time and the place. I'm 372 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 2: not saying that you shouldn't be friends with your I 373 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 2: mean everything that you just said is completely reasonable. You 374 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 2: have kids in a family, You didn't ask for any 375 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 2: of this, that's all reasonable. I just don't know why. 376 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 2: You know, we have the ice sculpture of the man 377 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 2: at the rehearsal, like I don't know, Like I don't know. 378 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 2: We don't need to do that, you know what I mean? 379 00:16:57,560 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, I sculpture might be a little much. Yeah, you know, 380 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:04,880 Speaker 5: I mean he wanted to wear the necklace. I mean 381 00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 5: maybe not on her neck per se, but maybe intertwine 382 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,119 Speaker 5: and her garter or something like that. I mean, I 383 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 5: don't I don't. 384 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 2: Think we needed any closer to the virgin than just 385 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 2: think there's a time and a place. But hey, and 386 00:17:19,400 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 2: thank you for sharing. And I'm sorry that happened to you. 387 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 2: And I appreciate your. 388 00:17:23,040 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 5: Perspective your friend, and I hope that everything turns out 389 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 5: great for her. 390 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,960 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. Luckily I don't know this person, 391 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 2: because if I did, I wouldn't I would be uninvited 392 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:36,960 Speaker 2: to the wedding. Hey, Kyle, how you doing? Good morning? Hey, 393 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 2: turn the radio down, Kyle, please, Okay, there you go. 394 00:17:40,040 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 2: Hey man, what do you want to say? 395 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 11: Go ahead, Hey, I'm just saying I agree with you. 396 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 11: I mean the guy unfortunately he passed away. But at 397 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 11: the same time, like he don't need to remember that 398 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:53,679 Speaker 11: at my wedding, because hey, this is my day, Like, 399 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,440 Speaker 11: why do you take my shign off of me? And no, 400 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 11: it's not about being a competition or anything. But how 401 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 11: would you feel if I wore my springing as she 402 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 11: passed away? You're gonna have a whole feet Yeah. 403 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,359 Speaker 2: I don't think that would go over very well with 404 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:06,760 Speaker 2: very many people. But thank you, Kyle. 405 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 5: I have a good day. 406 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 2: I appreciate you now. But somebody said, here's the thing. 407 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 2: Somebody said on here, what do they say Fred isn't 408 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 2: ready to marry a widow because he's not accepting it 409 00:18:15,280 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 2: her fully. First of all, I don't know what you're 410 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 2: talking about. That is it is case by case. I'm 411 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 2: talking about a particular case where it seems like a 412 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 2: woman is not necessarily over her previous marriage. That's what 413 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 2: it seems like to me. But I don't think we're 414 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 2: considering the other side of this. I think we're only 415 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 2: considering the needs of this woman. Okay, because as a 416 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:36,679 Speaker 2: guy who has dated people who have lost their previous 417 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 2: significant other, I'm accepting of that person's situation, But I 418 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: think that person needs to be accepting of mine, which 419 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 2: is that I'm going to be insecure about this man 420 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 2: that you loved and didn't do anything wrong. This isn't 421 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 2: a breakup, this isn't a divorce. I mean, you know, 422 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,919 Speaker 2: everything was fine and then they were gone, and that 423 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 2: is awful, right, But like that's going to be difficult 424 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 2: for me too. So why why are we Why do 425 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 2: we have to put that in my face on that day? 426 00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 2: I guess it'd be the question that I'm asking because 427 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: as much as I am going to be obviously i'm 428 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 2: marrying you, I'm accepting of of of whatever you've been through. 429 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,160 Speaker 2: I think you also have to accept the fact that, wow, 430 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even be here if that hadn't happened. And 431 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 2: you know, that's a significant relationship that ended with zero closure. 432 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 6: Did they say how long she had been widowed before 433 00:19:27,160 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 6: they started to It didn't say. 434 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 2: And by the way, someone says that screams insecurity. Yeah, 435 00:19:31,600 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 2: I said that from the beginning. It does. I'm insecure 436 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:33,960 Speaker 2: about it. 437 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:34,959 Speaker 3: I'm very honest. 438 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,880 Speaker 2: I'm telling you. I know it's an unpopular opinion. I'm 439 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:38,919 Speaker 2: just telling you what I think. 440 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 6: And I respect that. I respect that. I mean, I 441 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:42,640 Speaker 6: think we should all be able to say our opinions. 442 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 6: And that's okay. 443 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:45,440 Speaker 2: I did say from the beginning when I told you, 444 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:50,240 Speaker 2: I was keeping it on the real it's an unpopular opinion, 445 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 2: and you guys can cunt on me all day, but 446 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:53,600 Speaker 2: that's what I think. Oh, I have agree with you, 447 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 2: and it would be it would absolutely be an insecurity. 448 00:19:58,680 --> 00:19:59,919 Speaker 2: Absolutely it would be. 449 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, because I don't know if you ever get over 450 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:04,840 Speaker 6: that because it wasn't there's no closure, there wasn't any problem. Yeah, 451 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 6: So it's like you say, she's not over it. I 452 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 6: wonder if you ever do. I mean, who knows. I 453 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 6: couldn't speak on it. 454 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:12,480 Speaker 2: But let's see the biggest stories of the day. Next. 455 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: God got Bruno mars now back in three minutes. It's 456 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 2: the Fred's Show. 457 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: Fred's Show is on Friend's Biggest Stories of the day. 458 00:20:20,160 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 2: People are texting like, well, you know you're never gonna forget. 459 00:20:24,000 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 2: I'm not asking you to forget. Can we not do 460 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 2: it on my birthday and my wedding day, did you 461 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: mind as hard as it is Christmas? Right, I mean, 462 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 2: I don't think we needed to have like a full 463 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 2: play setting for the guy, you know, but gifts under 464 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 2: the tree from Bob, like he got a better Christmas 465 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,399 Speaker 2: present than I did, and he's dad like, what are 466 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 2: we doing? No? No, no, that's Bob, like a full 467 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 2: on offering, like could I have seconds to know those? 468 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, that's for Bob. 469 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 11: Man. 470 00:20:57,520 --> 00:21:00,800 Speaker 2: I don't know, especially if the dude were like awesome, yes, 471 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And that tends to have 472 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 2: when people pass away to it's like we only remember 473 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: the really really amazing thing, which is fine. I mean, 474 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,719 Speaker 2: I tell I want to be remembered not from all 475 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 2: my moronic things that I've done, but like for the 476 00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 2: better things I've But you know, that would I just 477 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 2: think that would be really hard. You know, You're at 478 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 2: like family dinner and everyone's like, oh, man, yeah you 479 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 2: know so and so, oh yeah he was he was 480 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 2: a great He was in you know, greated skiing. He 481 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 2: was a great skier. You know, he was actually was 482 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 2: really good. He could have gone pro with it, I think, 483 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 2: you know, and you're just sit there. 484 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,480 Speaker 3: Going damn it. I can't even go down the bunny. 485 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 2: I can't. I'm like, I'm out here with the what 486 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 2: do they say that like the cheese greater cheese? Yeah? Really? 487 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: Like really? Okay, So I don't add up to the guy, 488 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 2: got it? 489 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I remind you, Bob, barbecue was so much better. 490 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: And you're talking about how in a fight you'd be like, well, Bob, 491 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 2: Bob never would have acted this. 492 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:52,760 Speaker 3: Way like. 493 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 2: Honoring. 494 00:21:55,880 --> 00:22:00,440 Speaker 8: Now you're just being toxic weapon. Where I no longer here. 495 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 7: Jason wants to make sure I know he's not with me. 496 00:22:05,560 --> 00:22:09,880 Speaker 2: Ye, biggest choice of the day. A certificate has been 497 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 2: issued by the Vatican lists the cause of Pope Francis's 498 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 2: death as a stroke that prompted irreversible heart failure. The 499 00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 2: certificate officially lists the cause of death as cerebral stroke, 500 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 2: coma and cardio circulatory collapse heart failure. I guess now 501 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,120 Speaker 2: there you go. Now that's something I'd like to see 502 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 2: all these guys going, oh man, all these cardinals getting together. 503 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 2: Oh so sad about Francis. But it should be me, 504 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:34,679 Speaker 2: you know, you can bet on it, it should be me. 505 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 2: I could yeah. 506 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I forgot it was you. Who sent 507 00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:38,840 Speaker 3: it to me? 508 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're taking bets on which cardinal it's going to be. 509 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:49,400 Speaker 2: I thought it was an Italian guy. Shoot, there's the Canadian. 510 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,359 Speaker 2: Oh so the Canadians jumping ahead. 511 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:52,920 Speaker 8: I can't say his name. 512 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 2: Wow, Jason's on the pulse of this. Let's go, let's 513 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 2: go line to the Vatican now, Jason Brown out in 514 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 2: front of the the papal conclave. Jason, what is the 515 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 2: latest on the race to be the. 516 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,919 Speaker 9: According to the you know the betting websites that I'm 517 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 9: always on and following out here and the Vatican, here's 518 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 9: that Italy I'm at it, Cardinal Pietro Parolene is the 519 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 9: slight favorite to succeed. He's Canadians. Yep, wait, maybe not. 520 00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:27,400 Speaker 9: Oh I thought Canadian is cardinal I saw is from 521 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 9: It's uh, he's Italian. 522 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: Gee, he's always an Italian. Always go with the Italian, 523 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 2: I know. That's what about Steve Smith? About Cardinal Steve Smith, 524 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 2: Kansas City? 525 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 10: Right? 526 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:39,360 Speaker 2: Why are we not looking at him? 527 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,880 Speaker 8: He's also seventy years old, so old as hell. 528 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 3: That's the last time I believed him for my bets. 529 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 3: You told me he was Canadian. 530 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,240 Speaker 8: I saw the sea with Canadian. 531 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 2: Well we shouldn't because you would have bet on the Canadian. Yeah, 532 00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: never before. I don't believe he has been a Canadian pope. 533 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 2: I don't think they're right. 534 00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:57,679 Speaker 6: There should be the very fair. But he was my 535 00:23:57,720 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 6: sports reporter and now familiarly like. 536 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 7: A line up I can see, like a starting lineup. 537 00:24:03,640 --> 00:24:04,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, there may be. 538 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 7: I I'm just curious to see who's up for this job. 539 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 3: And they one of them picks the hats. 540 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 2: If you want to know about this though, it's the 541 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 2: Papal Conclave. I guess. The movie Conclave is now on 542 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 2: Amazon Prime as of like today, so nice, nice timing. 543 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 2: There won a bunch of awards. I might have to 544 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,479 Speaker 2: watch it, though, But the pontiff his funeral has been 545 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 2: scheduled for Saturday. After nine days of morning events, cardinals 546 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 2: from around the world will meet at the Sistine Chapel 547 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 2: to conduct a secretive vote to elect the new pope. 548 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 2: The process takes two to three weeks and all ballots 549 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 2: are burned afterwards. What is going on in there that 550 00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 2: we can't know about it? While you are sworn for 551 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:45,159 Speaker 2: eternity not to tell anybody what happens in there? What 552 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 2: are we doing in there. How are we determining which 553 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 2: one of these people is the best? 554 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 3: I don't love that. 555 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 2: And are they campaigning? You think Number one on the 556 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: list is calling his boys and being like, I'll tell 557 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 2: you what you know. You hook me up with this, 558 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 2: I'll make sure that you're a saint. Like literally, I 559 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 2: can make you a saint. Like I'll do that for you. 560 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 6: It's like an unfair advantage because like it's all the 561 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:05,160 Speaker 6: way over there. 562 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:09,359 Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I'm really not sure. But yeah, then 563 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:11,680 Speaker 2: it will be white smoke that will rise from the 564 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,600 Speaker 2: chapel's chimney, signing a new era of leadership for the 565 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 2: world's one point four billion Catholics. So there's that another day. 566 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 2: An of the plane story A couple for you. A 567 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 2: Delta Airlines plane with almost three hundred people on board 568 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 2: caught fire at the Orlando International Airport on Monday, but 569 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 2: the airline says that it was safely evacuated with no 570 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,120 Speaker 2: reports of injuries. Also, passengers on a recent Delta flight 571 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: from Atlanta to Chicago were forced to hold up the 572 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 2: plane ceiling after it collapsed mid air. The Boeing seven 573 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,640 Speaker 2: to one SEVENS panel was later a fixed into place 574 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 2: by attendant so customers didn't have to manually hold it 575 00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,160 Speaker 2: up during the flight. No injuries reported during the flight. 576 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 2: I have to say this, as far as this is 577 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,640 Speaker 2: concerned for the picture that I saw, and I don't 578 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,840 Speaker 2: know anything about this seven seventeen, but you know, i'd 579 00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,320 Speaker 2: look like a trim piece fell and those things are 580 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 2: meant to come off so they can inspect the oxygen masks, 581 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,840 Speaker 2: inspect everything that's behind there. So I mean, this is 582 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 2: not like a critical thing, but I would not feel 583 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: great if I'm flying along on the ceiling just because 584 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,880 Speaker 2: I'd be like, what else did we? Did we miss 585 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:12,159 Speaker 2: any other nuts or bolts? You know, It's like me 586 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 2: at the end of a Lego set where there's like 587 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 2: five or six pieces left, and I'm like, I really 588 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 2: hope those weren't essential to anything. You know, do you 589 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 2: think this the airplane took off and the mechanics were like, 590 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,560 Speaker 2: oh man, we forgot to screw those things in, didn't we? Okay, 591 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,439 Speaker 2: But as far as like it would be like the 592 00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,560 Speaker 2: ceiling tile falling in the thing, Like the building's not 593 00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: going to collapse the ceiling tile film. It's not awe 594 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:34,000 Speaker 2: inspiring by any means, but like nice. 595 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 3: My trail mix with my handholds the ceiling. 596 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 2: You not to trade off with the guy next to you. 597 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,480 Speaker 2: Come on, you know, be like, I'll tell you what 598 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 2: or maybe the middle seat has to do it because 599 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,600 Speaker 2: the middle seat, you know, you're just the unlucky one. 600 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 11: Right. 601 00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 2: This is disgusting and it's a whole new generation of bullying. 602 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,000 Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like we all grew up with 603 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,399 Speaker 2: people just saying mean things. And you know, you go 604 00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:57,360 Speaker 2: to school and there were the bullies and the insecure 605 00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 2: people and they would say mean things to you or 606 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:00,679 Speaker 2: tell you that you were ugly or not good at 607 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 2: sports or whatever like that was hard, right. Well, now 608 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 2: you can't escape it because social media and tech and 609 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 2: all this stuff. The latest teams are using artificial intelligence 610 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 2: to create realistic nude images of their classmates and then 611 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:16,680 Speaker 2: share them. So with just a headshot, often lifted from 612 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 2: a yearbook photo or social media platform, these AI apps 613 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 2: can fabricate explicit, deep fake images that appear scarily real, 614 00:27:25,680 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 2: and it's happening in schools. Last summer, the San Francisco 615 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 2: City Attorney's Office said that sixteen people were sued for 616 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:35,920 Speaker 2: so called Newdify websites for allegedly violating laws around child 617 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 2: exploitation and non consensual images, but they escape past some 618 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:45,119 Speaker 2: state laws. In Minnesota, they're trying to pass legislation to 619 00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:47,440 Speaker 2: hold them accountable. A whole different level of bullying and 620 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,920 Speaker 2: it's terrible. Gen Z grads, I think a lot of 621 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 2: people can relate to this, say their college degrees were 622 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: a total waste of time and money. Nearly half of 623 00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:00,400 Speaker 2: gen Z grads say that their degrees have are been 624 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 2: made obsolete by the rise of generative AI tools like 625 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 2: chech EPT, and they're wondering why they even bothered to 626 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: attend college. And new Indeed report found forty nine percent 627 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,640 Speaker 2: of gen Z job hunters think that their college education 628 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 2: has lost value in the job market thanks to AI. 629 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,159 Speaker 2: Only one third of millennials feel the same way, and 630 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,119 Speaker 2: one in five boomers have similar regrets. Have you went 631 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,919 Speaker 2: to college thirty years ago and I went to college 632 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 2: twenty years ago? At this point you should expect that 633 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,719 Speaker 2: whatever you know. I don't think I can ride on 634 00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 2: when they do it temmy HTML. You know, I don't 635 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 2: think I should still be making money on that now. 636 00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 2: I probably should have evolved, but I would I will 637 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 2: say the amount of money that was invested in a 638 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 2: college degree. Did I have to have it? I hear 639 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 2: you to be successful in this business, I would tell 640 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 2: you probably not. However, and I was talking to my 641 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,000 Speaker 2: sister about this the other day because the college that 642 00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:51,880 Speaker 2: we went to is now eighty five thousand dollars a year. 643 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 2: She and my mom actually went to the same college. Yes, 644 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,240 Speaker 2: eighty five thousand dollars a year, all in to go 645 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 2: to college there. And that's just to live there and 646 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,960 Speaker 2: eat and go to school and buy the books or whatever. 647 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,480 Speaker 2: I don't know, I guess iPads or computers, whatever it is. Now, 648 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,920 Speaker 2: that's not the travel back and forth. That's not all 649 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: the rest of it, the cars and whatever else you 650 00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:13,480 Speaker 2: might need. And my sister has two kids, and that's now, 651 00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 2: and they're fourteen years away from doing this. I can't 652 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:19,200 Speaker 2: imagine what it's going to cost. And so let's say 653 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,600 Speaker 2: let's say it's let's say it's one hundred thousand. Let's 654 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 2: say let's just around numbers, it's going to cost a 655 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,959 Speaker 2: million dollars to send both those girls to school. And 656 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 2: you have to ask yourself at some point, is there 657 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 2: a return on investment for that? Like, it's not going 658 00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: to be is probably going to be four hundred thousand 659 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 2: dollars ahead of everyone else if we send her to 660 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,880 Speaker 2: college and pay that much money. My answer would be 661 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:43,720 Speaker 2: probably not. And then you could say, well, you know, 662 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 2: for those people who I know, Caitlin, you did and 663 00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:49,160 Speaker 2: and I did, you know, moved far Well, you didn't 664 00:29:49,200 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 2: move too far away, but I moved a thousand miles 665 00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 2: already to go to college, you know. And it was 666 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 2: and my parents were like, you can go anywhere you want. 667 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,760 Speaker 2: You nowhere in Arizona, nowhere, or any neighboring state, Like 668 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:00,120 Speaker 2: you need to go far enough away you can and 669 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 2: drive home like this is part of the deal. And 670 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 2: so we went and we did that, and I did that, 671 00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 2: and I would argue that that was a transformational time 672 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,960 Speaker 2: in my life. But was it worth that much money? 673 00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:12,239 Speaker 2: If you've got it, maybe, But if you don't, If 674 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 2: you're sending your kid to college because you think they're 675 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,600 Speaker 2: going to get a better job and make a bunch 676 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,480 Speaker 2: more money off of that, I'm not sure if that's 677 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 2: true anymore. 678 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 1: It's just crazy eighty thousand dollars a year, and then 679 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,480 Speaker 1: these people are applying for jobs that pay like eighteen 680 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,160 Speaker 1: dollars an hour, So like it's just the math's not 681 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 1: math thing. 682 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 7: And I feel like AI is doing a lot. 683 00:30:27,440 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 1: Of stuff in the work in the workforce, like it's 684 00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: changing a lot of jobs and opportunities for people too. 685 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 1: It's you know, essentially like eliminating jobs. So I don't 686 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: know where the fairness is for kids who are going 687 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 1: to college. 688 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:38,760 Speaker 7: I want my kid to go to college. 689 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 1: I do, but I'm also not a post to her 690 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 1: doing other things like if gig shows, for example, my daughter, 691 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,200 Speaker 1: if she shows, you know, interest in makeup, whatever it 692 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: might be, and she's good, we might be going to cosmetology. 693 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 2: School, you know what I mean, trade schools that or 694 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: something specialized like computer programing. My brother in law did that. 695 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:55,480 Speaker 2: He makes it a very good living. 696 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 1: Some of these kids are just good at certain things, 697 00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,800 Speaker 1: like I said, the makeup, or they are going to 698 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: Peter work and computer stuff. 699 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:02,480 Speaker 2: I don't know what it's called. 700 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 7: That's how good they are. I don't even know how 701 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 7: to call that. 702 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 2: I don't even know what it's don't even peter. That's 703 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: how we got Karen. Now, Karen went to college and 704 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 2: she's a genius. The actual men's a genius. But that 705 00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 2: she was a genius before she went to college. Okay, 706 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 2: she born, she was born that way, lady guy I 707 00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 2: got saying that song about her. Yeah, it's true. I 708 00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 2: don't know. It's a luxury. I think it's long been 709 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 2: a luxury. And if you've got the money, great, Yeah, 710 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 2: I just I don't know. I guess I don't know 711 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 2: about if you want to be a doctor or a lawyer, 712 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,840 Speaker 2: you're going to have to do it, you know, therapist, 713 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 2: any kind of you know, you need to graduate degree 714 00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:34,239 Speaker 2: for it. You're going to have to do it. It's 715 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 2: the way it is, and we probably should. But I 716 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,239 Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know if it's you know, if 717 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 2: it was automatic. It seemed for everybody I grew up with, 718 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 2: and now I'm not sure if it should be for 719 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:43,400 Speaker 2: that much money. 720 00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 3: It's great for life skills, but I was going to say. 721 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 2: Right, but for a half a million bucks, like, I 722 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: don't know. I'll tell you what i'll take. I'll take 723 00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 2: half of that, or less than half of that. I'll 724 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 2: buy you an apartment in a big city, and we'll 725 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 2: get you a nice online gets you a nice laptop, 726 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 2: and you can get some online training, get you a 727 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 2: job and honestly like, okay, we can. We can do 728 00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 2: a lot of the same things for less money, and 729 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 2: it will get you some life experience, like we'll throw 730 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,600 Speaker 2: you into You're not wrong. But here's the thing about college, right. 731 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 2: The thing about college is it's kind of like supervised 732 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: responsibility because no one's holding your hand. But like freshman year, 733 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 2: you've got our age, you got people to make sure 734 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 2: that you're like getting out of your room eventually. If 735 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,880 Speaker 2: you don't go to class, someone's gonna call somebody and 736 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 2: call your parents eventually and be like where is so 737 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 2: and so. So there's a little bit of accountability. So 738 00:32:29,520 --> 00:32:34,040 Speaker 2: it's kind of like sheltered independence. You can still totally 739 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:34,800 Speaker 2: screw up your life. 740 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 7: You can't. 741 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:37,600 Speaker 2: But then but at the same time, like there's a 742 00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,840 Speaker 2: limit to how far it's gonna go before somebody finally 743 00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 2: calls mom and dad and goes, hey, little Timmy hasn't 744 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 2: shown three months, you know, right, you better go get 745 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 2: little Timmy out of you know, Sam's pub down the 746 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 2: street or whatever. 747 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 7: I don't know, to be honest, you like, i'd rather invest. 748 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how you can do this in like 749 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: life skills, essentially putting my kid in a situation where 750 00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: she learns how to like bes a room or. 751 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 7: Like work the room, meet people. I'm a big believer 752 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 7: it's about who you know, not just what you know. 753 00:33:05,280 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 7: And I'm like, well, how do I get my kids 754 00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 7: to like be that. 755 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,320 Speaker 1: I don't want her to be shy and just like 756 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:10,880 Speaker 1: always closed off, Like I want her to be able 757 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: to walk into your room and just bes the crap 758 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:12,959 Speaker 1: out of it. 759 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 3: Send her out with Jonathan. 760 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:16,240 Speaker 2: Honestly, but you could argue you throw them into the 761 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 2: real world in some kind of like nurtured way, and 762 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:23,000 Speaker 2: they're first they're forced to sink or swim like they 763 00:33:23,040 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 2: have to. They have to figure this stuff out, you know. 764 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 2: It's like you can't really teach that street smarts. You 765 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:27,760 Speaker 2: kind of have to. 766 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:28,920 Speaker 7: Like that's a good point. 767 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 2: I gotta wrap this up though. Chipotle Mexican Grill might 768 00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:34,880 Speaker 2: have Mexican in its name, but it hasn't gone to 769 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 2: Mexico until now. Chipotle is opening up in Mexico City 770 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 2: early next year, and I'm sure they're super excited about it. 771 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 2: They can't wait. I'm sure the people in Mexico City 772 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:50,440 Speaker 2: are like I've been waiting for their soutange Quisi the. 773 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 3: Best street tacos in the world, arguably in. 774 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so they have James Beard street tacos. But here's 775 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,200 Speaker 2: the thing. Chipotle is delicious. I don't know that it 776 00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:03,600 Speaker 2: represents some form of Textmax. It's its own lane, you know, 777 00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 2: so like not to say that they won't enjoy it there. 778 00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 2: But maybe we don't call it a Mexican grill there. 779 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 2: Maybe we just call it Chipotle and we just serve 780 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,920 Speaker 2: the food and you enjoy it. And the most unhealthy 781 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:18,839 Speaker 2: fast food burger in America is at five guys, which 782 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 2: apparently it's just like the normal cheeseburger is super unhealthy. 783 00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,200 Speaker 2: It's one of the most unhealthy cheeseburgers, if not the 784 00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 2: most unhealthy, with a fifty point unhealthiest score. They also 785 00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:34,680 Speaker 2: wig in as the unhealthiest fries, Waterburger, smash Burger, and 786 00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 2: Carls Junior trailed behind in the ranking. Five Guys had 787 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,239 Speaker 2: seventy three percent more saturated fat than any other fast 788 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,800 Speaker 2: food cheeseburger on the list. Now, remember Carls Junior is 789 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,839 Speaker 2: the place that takes the cheeseburger and deep fries it 790 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:48,880 Speaker 2: and then rolls it in a pizza like that SNL 791 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: skit and then deep fries it again and then rolls it. 792 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 3: In ranch and ladies and bikinis right. 793 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,640 Speaker 2: And then serves it to you. You know, well, the 794 00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,400 Speaker 2: whole thing goes down your fright in a bikini and 795 00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,959 Speaker 2: goes down your face. So it's a school bus Driver 796 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:06,239 Speaker 2: Appreciation Day, National Jellybean Day, National Girl Scout Day, and 797 00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 2: today is Earth Day as well. All right, let's see 798 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:12,960 Speaker 2: Stay or Go. We'll debate some relationship drama. We'll get 799 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,279 Speaker 2: to an entertainer report at some point. I promise there 800 00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 2: were too busy talking about the youth of America and 801 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,320 Speaker 2: whether not to go to college. That show is on, 802 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 2: Stay or Go. Let's debate some relationship drama. In just 803 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 2: a second. The entertainer report a hundred bucks show biz Kiki, 804 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 2: still a very good record in the game. But you've 805 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,719 Speaker 2: never lost two in a row. So we'll see if 806 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,319 Speaker 2: it happens. Today people are texting that a lot of 807 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 2: the like AI digital recruiting sites or application sites where 808 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 2: you apply for jobs, will eliminate people who don't have 809 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,799 Speaker 2: at least in associates, which is crazy, but I guess 810 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,319 Speaker 2: I would argue in the years to come, like are 811 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 2: we going to rethink that, because people are going to, 812 00:35:46,600 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 2: if they haven't already, are going to stop being able 813 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 2: to afford this, or they're going to say I just can't, 814 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,040 Speaker 2: like I cannot start my life with a half and 815 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 2: a lot of people in this room and otherwise no, 816 00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,320 Speaker 2: like I can't start my life with a half a 817 00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 2: million dollars in debt at ten percent interest or whatever 818 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 2: it is. I don't know what the interest rate is. 819 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,000 Speaker 2: But oh yeah about that part, you know. And then 820 00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,760 Speaker 2: you look at my sister. She wanted to be a therapist. 821 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,839 Speaker 2: She went to undergrad masters, worked her ass off. Makes X. 822 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,279 Speaker 2: My brother in law went to computer coding class I 823 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 2: think for three months and he makes the X two X. 824 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,239 Speaker 2: I'm sure you know it, and they did. We joke 825 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 2: about it all the time, like good for him, it's amazing, 826 00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:21,840 Speaker 2: you know whatever. And he's had to run with that 827 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 2: and make it into something more so that he could 828 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 2: do that. Well, But then you know, my but my 829 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,200 Speaker 2: sister had no option. You want to be a therapist, 830 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 2: that's what you got to do. Your mom knows that. 831 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,600 Speaker 4: Has anyone ever asked you to see your degree before 832 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 4: they gave you a job? 833 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 2: Never? No. But I've also only interviewed for one job 834 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,360 Speaker 2: in my professional life, and it was for this company 835 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 2: twenty four years ago. 836 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:40,120 Speaker 3: I don't know anybody who had to shut there. 837 00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 2: Nobody. I never No one asked for a resume, Nobody 838 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 2: asked me, no one asked me to prove that I 839 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 2: had a degree exactly. 840 00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 3: Paulina brought hers. 841 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I brought my Nobody even you physically brought it 842 00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 7: to this job interview, not for not to be on 843 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 7: the radio, but she work in sales. 844 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,680 Speaker 2: He brought the you like the physical piece of paper. 845 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,879 Speaker 7: Nobody tells you not, they know that's real. 846 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:01,160 Speaker 9: Big. 847 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 7: Nobody tell you right, Nobody tell hey, I woke my 848 00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 7: ass off. Yeah, I'm bringing this piece of paper with ray. 849 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 2: Nobody even know where miney is. 850 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,320 Speaker 8: All this money, I don't even know where to find. 851 00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,040 Speaker 2: But they sure know where to find me to ask 852 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,080 Speaker 2: for more money. Right. I'm like, didn't you get a 853 00:37:17,120 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 2: number my parents' money already? Why are you calling me 854 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 2: now more freadshell next