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Speaker 1: To Teas and a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera

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Speaker 1: je Edge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Pod with myself,

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Speaker 2: Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 1: And Katie Danilla.

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Speaker 2: I am so excited to have you here.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for inviting me, really, thanks.

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Speaker 2: For coming on in.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I know it's been rough for you. Yes, if anyone

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Speaker 2: knows rough, I can tell you I was. I was

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Speaker 2: probably the most hated human there actually was. How it's

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Speaker 2: actually okay, okay, okay. I need you to embrace it

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Speaker 2: and enjoy it. It becomes fun.

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Speaker 1: It's enjoyable. Yes, okay, Well I'm waiting for that.

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Speaker 2: We just need you a couple of good friends on

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Speaker 2: the show and then it won't matter.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, I put in my stories the other day.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny if I'm asked back, and if I

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Speaker 1: can bring someone on. My friend Noreene is literally perfect

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Speaker 1: for this show.

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Speaker 2: She's been to Wolf. Yes, I know her.

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Speaker 1: How do you know her?

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Speaker 2: I know her because back in the day I used

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Speaker 2: to work at CAA or UTA in the mailroom and

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Speaker 2: she was a client.

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Speaker 1: Yes, she's an actual actress. She did one hundred episodes

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Speaker 1: of Anger Management with Charlie she she's been in movies.

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Speaker 1: She's she's incredible, and she's feisty, so feisty that girl

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Speaker 1: could read anyone down, That's what I'm saying. And she's

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Speaker 1: a dear friend of mine. Her husband and Matt are

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Speaker 1: dear friends. Her husband was in the NHL for nineteen years.

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Speaker 2: Is this her second husband or first husband?

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Speaker 1: Second?

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Speaker 2: But I was gonna say I think I knew her first.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, her first they were married very briefly. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: she's lived on the street from her first husband. I

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Speaker 1: want to think mine was brief, but it wasn't. But

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Speaker 1: she's amazing and a real friend, an actual one.

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Speaker 2: So if you had her and then she bonded with

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Speaker 2: somebody else and that dodn't know each other, well, Jen's

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Speaker 2: no friend to you. Do you think she is?

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Speaker 1: I think she thought she was. But I'm very, very,

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Speaker 1: very hurt.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I said to Erica, I'm like, she has

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Speaker 2: the worst case of pretend amnisia I've ever seen.

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Speaker 1: Well, I remember, like looking back now, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you remember this, but towards the beginning of the season,

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Speaker 1: on the way down to the Golden Door, Yeah, I said,

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Speaker 1: I heard you called me a con artist. Did you

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Speaker 1: call me that? She was like, well, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: but if I did, I'm sorry. And I was like, no, Jen,

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Speaker 1: did you like just say I didn't call you that?

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Speaker 2: Like did?

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like anything you would say, you know,

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Speaker 1: and that I was kind of like, well, that's weird,

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Speaker 1: Like if you didn't say it, why wouldn't you just

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Speaker 1: say I didn't say it? You know.

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Speaker 2: The other thing is if you didn't say it, why

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Speaker 2: not say it? But every single time you ask her

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Speaker 2: for backup, she's never.

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Speaker 1: There, And I do yes, And I do remember last

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Speaker 1: year I went in for her a little bit, you know,

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Speaker 1: every interview I was talking about how people need to

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Speaker 1: leave her and Ryan alone because they were getting blasted

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Speaker 1: with things from last year.

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Speaker 2: But I think she went into this season. She had

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Speaker 2: a good fan reaction last year.

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Speaker 1: Did She's very lovable.

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Speaker 2: She's very lovable. So then I think she went in

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Speaker 2: and she was like, I'm not messing that up. I'm

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Speaker 2: not doing it in the second season curse. I'm giving

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Speaker 2: it to Teddy. I did get it. I got it.

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Speaker 1: I do think she didn't want to go down with

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't want to go down with this ship.

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Speaker 2: All right, So going into the season, did you anticipate

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Speaker 2: the fan reaction that you got or.

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Speaker 1: No, Teddy, I was. I literally told Matt, I said

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Speaker 1: Like I think we should move to Ireland. No, We'll

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Speaker 1: go into the middle of nowhere. And Matt's like where

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Speaker 1: his grandfather's land is, great grandfather, We'll just live there

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Speaker 1: in that little shack, Like, let's just go into hiding.

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Speaker 1: I think people are going to hate me. People think

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Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, I can't wait, and the fans

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think that you know something. I want

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Speaker 2: I don't want to start with exactly what's happening right now,

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Speaker 2: but let's take it back a season. We go back

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Speaker 2: when you brought up the head paparazzi stuff. Yes, do

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Speaker 2: you regret that?

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Speaker 1: Yes? And no, yes, because I think the timing wasn't good.

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Speaker 1: It was very fresh and new in the season, and

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Speaker 1: maybe I should have waited on that. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: was being told to bring it up. And if you

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Speaker 1: notice if you look back. I actually only talk about

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Speaker 1: it one time. Everyone else talks about it. Gina was

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Speaker 1: encouraging me in text and calls, bring it up, bring

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Speaker 1: and then she's like, I told you not to say anything.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, wait what You literally told me

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Speaker 1: to say it? And I again, I thought it was

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Speaker 1: a silly, funny thing, like who cares if you did?

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Speaker 1: You did? You were going through I don't know Heather Debro.

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Speaker 1: I really don't know her, so I didn't realize it

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Speaker 2: Would you still say that you still don't know her?

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Speaker 1: I still don't know her. Yeah, no, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know most of the cast.

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Speaker 2: Who would you say, I mean, because we can't say Jen,

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Speaker 2: But who would you say you feel like a true

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Speaker 1: Well, it varies. In the beginning, it was Gina. I

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Speaker 1: were like, she's great. She's a fun girl. She's very outgoing,

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Speaker 1: And then towards the middle, they were like, what the fuck.

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Speaker 2: She didn't realize she was coaching you?

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Speaker 1: I did not.

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Speaker 2: At what point did you realized she was coaching you? Well?

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Speaker 1: because I was going to bring it up to Heather.

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Speaker 1: She was like, Okay, this is what I just think

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Speaker 1: she's using you. Yeah, she's using you, Katie, and I

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Speaker 1: I'm with this woman now five days a week. I

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, stop talking about it.

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Speaker 2: So Matt can read people, and you can't.

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Speaker 1: We do that for each other. I think I think

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Speaker 1: we do that for each other when people are harsh

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Speaker 1: we do that for each other. But no, he always

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Speaker 1: tells me, Katie, you can't save every animal. You know,

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Speaker 1: I am trying. I think it goes back to like

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Speaker 2: Like you and you want.

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Speaker 1: I am a people pleaser, You're a thousand percent and

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Speaker 1: it it's that's why I stayed married to my first

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Ten years?

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Speaker 2: I think because this brings us back to your feud

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Speaker 2: with Emily got a little dark at the reunion when

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Speaker 2: she brought up your previous domestic violence incident and how

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Speaker 2: that affected the custody with your kids. Matt said on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to talk about it really bad.

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Speaker 2: I can see getting emotional in that. I know.

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Speaker 1: I just I hate talking about I am. I hate

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Speaker 3: But really it was just a really horrible time of

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Speaker 3: I I was literally homeless. I was seeking help of

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Speaker 3: it came out like you're a bad person, that hurts. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: because then I got them back.

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Speaker 2: You know, and clearly they love you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, we're going through stuff right now with

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Speaker 1: I guess what happens with that. But that hurt. I

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Speaker 2: Because so often people ask questions just in hopes for

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Speaker 1: Right, And that was my qualm the whole time, Like

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Speaker 1: let's get to know each other. I think that if

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Speaker 1: you actually knew who I was, you wouldn't hate me

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Speaker 1: so much. You know. I made a lot of rookie mistakes.

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Speaker 1: I'm not denying that I did, yea, and I wish

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Speaker 1: I could go back and change a lot of things,

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Speaker 1: But I didn't mean it. There was no crazy malicious intent.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't feel like you're malicious. I feel like

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Speaker 2: sometimes you look scared or like a deer in headlights.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well when it's six verse one. Yeah, that's not

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Speaker 1: something I've ever dealt with.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I get it. I get it. When you

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Speaker 2: apologize to you?

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Speaker 1: I know, I was hoping she would, that we could

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Speaker 1: move forward because we did have good moments last season,

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Speaker 1: and my daughter loved her kids, by the way, loved

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Speaker 1: her kids, So I was hoping we can move forward,

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Speaker 1: maybe because they never babysit again, but friendly. But no,

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Speaker 1: I didn't think she was, and I really hope she does. Though.

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Speaker 2: How was your daughter affected by all this?

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Speaker 1: Now, she didn't really want to film this season. You

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Speaker 1: don't see her. Yeah, well she was in Korea for

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Speaker 1: a while. But also she didn't really want to because

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Speaker 1: when all that came out last year, she got death threats. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: big time ones. And she's an influencer before any of

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Speaker 1: this Housewives stuff, she was an influencer. She has hundreds

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Speaker 1: of thousands of followers. She makes more money than I

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Speaker 1: do on partnership, Oh way more money than I do.

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Speaker 1: And she is hustling she's fantastic, she's smart, she's in college,

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Speaker 2: It's crazy how it happens, I know. And then once

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so how come you didn't just say, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: No, You're totally right, teddy, And I think sometimes things

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Speaker 2: Or no food. Yeah, that's the thing. Like sometimes I think, like,

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Speaker 1: Okay, but it seem like it's a lie. One hundred percent.

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Speaker 1: I can see that. I can see how you think that.

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Speaker 1: So that's what I was doing. So I'm in my

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Speaker 2: You didn't really believe some of the amends that you're

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Speaker 1: Were No, I do feel bad for hurting people, even

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Speaker 1: if it's indirectly, right, Like if I said something about

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Speaker 2: Just pro tip for the for the reunion. I'm sorry

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Speaker 2: I messed up.

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Speaker 1: I said that to Shannon multiple times.

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Speaker 2: You did, Okay, Okay, So now we got to get

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Speaker 1: Oh God, okay, So.

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Speaker 2: We're going to get into the Kiki monique of it all.

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Speaker 2: So I heard a rumor. So there isn't one part

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Speaker 2: There isn't a part of me that doesn't believe that

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Speaker 2: you went out to dinner with Jen Ryan, Gretchen Slade

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Speaker 2: So we'll get into the gen of it all in

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Speaker 2: a minute. But what I was told, who knows if

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Speaker 1: I have heard that from multiple people.

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Speaker 2: Too, Okay, So I'm glad that we got that figured out.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I heard that they are very tight.

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Speaker 2: So there's multiple sources that could have told Kiki.

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Speaker 1: There is an account that was created just for this.

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Speaker 1: I was sent what uh huh. I'll send it to

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Speaker 2: Because I heard that you said on Bile Files, what

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Speaker 2: did you say? I'll die on that?

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Speaker 1: I'll die on that I didn't tell Kiki.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, about myself. I was sitting at that lunch and

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Speaker 1: she had seen screeners that I hadn't even been given.

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Speaker 2: I think things are getting a little bit confused. I

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Speaker 2: if Matt says it, you said it. I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: It was actually Slade. And that's why semantics. No, she

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Speaker 2: How is there any stretch of the imagination that Jin

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Speaker 1: She was sitting right next to her.

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Speaker 1: I think we were on our first drink, So can

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Speaker 1: we had one end. Gretchen and Jen are talking, talking, talking.

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Speaker 1: I'm basically quiet because they're talking about their hatred of Tamara.

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Speaker 1: So I'm just kind of sitting there listening. I have

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Speaker 1: I'm like, listen to this. They told a lot of

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Speaker 1: I've had one lunch with her. I've seen her at

437
00:19:50,600 --> 00:19:55,119
Speaker 1: balmaand party. This was end of September, long before she

438
00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 1: even knew about casting. She knew about casting in December,

439
00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,520
Speaker 1: so there there. I don't I don't know. They did know,

440
00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,240
Speaker 1: and they were setting me up. I don't know whatever.

441
00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,959
Speaker 1: But I'm going in like, okay, I'm just meeting these

442
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:07,080
Speaker 1: people and they're screaming this from the rooftops in the

443
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,760
Speaker 1: middle of a crowded restaurant and you're just meeting me

444
00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,360
Speaker 1: and people are saying, oh, she said, Oh. I told

445
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:15,840
Speaker 1: her in confidence a friend. I told her, you know

446
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,760
Speaker 1: something that was supposed to be sacred or whatever words

447
00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:21,560
Speaker 1: she used. She never said, Hey, I'm going to share

448
00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,120
Speaker 1: this with you. Don't tell anybody this is this is bad.

449
00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 1: Bravo is involved. Don't tell anybody. None of that was said.

450
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,360
Speaker 2: What's all this? Nine? When one call me? Nine one? One?

451
00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,480
Speaker 2: Thing that happened when you were in New Orleans.

452
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 1: So, okay, it had come out Tamar had said something

453
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: to her, Hey, Katie's going around saying I roofeed you

454
00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:39,880
Speaker 1: number one. I'd like to point out I never used

455
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 1: that word, because she didn't use that word. She used

456
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:45,240
Speaker 1: the word drugged, drugged, So I never used that word.

457
00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:49,439
Speaker 1: So I got a call from Matt Katie, what is

458
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,399
Speaker 1: going on? Slade just called me. He said, you have

459
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: to back up, Gretchen tell people she never said it.

460
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,000
Speaker 1: He sent me a nine to one one text. He's

461
00:20:57,040 --> 00:21:01,480
Speaker 1: called me repeatedly. I mean that, I say so, Well,

462
00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:05,400
Speaker 1: I mean, this is all he's ever known. This is

463
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,119
Speaker 1: you know, my It's funny.

464
00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:09,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, because what he can't get a job for the

465
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 2: last ten years because of He's blaming Tamra for it.

466
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 1: Yes, but why I have no idea. He has a

467
00:21:18,040 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: daughter and I think he needs to work. Yeah, I

468
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:26,960
Speaker 1: don't know. It's funny. My sister in laws don't watch

469
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 1: the show. Well now they do because of me, but

470
00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,000
Speaker 1: they don't. They don't do reality TV. One's a professor

471
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 1: and well actually they're both professors. And they were in

472
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: northern California on a walk in a park, a random park.

473
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:39,800
Speaker 1: They ran into Slade's mom randomly. They sent Matt this

474
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: text and it was like a photo of them with

475
00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: his mom and they're like, we ran into Slade's mom

476
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 1: and she's like, he's a narcissist. He's on his fourth

477
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:51,920
Speaker 1: Orange County Wife Housewife from the show, And.

478
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:53,200
Speaker 2: Why am I missing one?

479
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:55,720
Speaker 1: I know that's what I said, I'm missing one.

480
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: Oh he dated Laurie. Oh, so it is for.

481
00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: And she his mother called him a narcissist. His mother.

482
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: So I'm like, I so I didn't even respond, but

483
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: Matt responded like, we know, yeah, okay.

484
00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 2: So you think this is where it's just driving me

485
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 2: so bananas. I'm gonna just I feel like I'm beating

486
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,239
Speaker 2: a dead horse. But like, as your friend have you

487
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 2: had as like a friend of yours, have you said

488
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 2: to Jen off camera? Why are you pretending you heard nothing?

489
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, sort of after New Orleans we talked a

490
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: little bit, but not really. I was pretty drained from

491
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:41,199
Speaker 1: that trip. You saw me kind of reach out to

492
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: her at that Lie Detector party. I was like, Jen,

493
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: you know, I meet with her and I try to

494
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: tell her like you've probably seen the clip. The clip

495
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:51,480
Speaker 1: is online a US meeting for coffee and I was like,

496
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: I'm kind of hurt that you never reached out to

497
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: me last night after the Lie Detector party and she

498
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 1: was like, well, I was mad, and I was like, what,

499
00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,679
Speaker 1: We've talked on the phone about it. We've had exchanges

500
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: about it. I called her when Gretchen got cast and

501
00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 1: I said, do you remember this happened? And she was like, here,

502
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 1: talk to Slade because they were in Palm Springs and

503
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 1: there were some fans around them. Then I text Gretchen,

504
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: I will never bring this up. Okay, I have that receipt.

505
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: I will never bring this up.

506
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 2: So you text Gretchen, I'll never bring this up. So

507
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: you don't. I don't, you don't. But then when it

508
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:28,680
Speaker 2: is brought up, that's where you kind of went into

509
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: your shell.

510
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,640
Speaker 1: Correct. So I went to that dinner and New Orleans like, Okay,

511
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: I got to protect my friend or she's going to

512
00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 1: be in trouble and I'm going to be in trouble.

513
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: I also heard that Gretchen wasn't great TV on that

514
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 2: episode on that season of that we never saw.

515
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you meant the no tears part of

516
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,400
Speaker 1: my episode.

517
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 2: Was that the gee, no, how did she just have

518
00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,840
Speaker 2: her wisdom teeth removed? When you were in New Orleans?

519
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 2: Like what happened?

520
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: I think that was the microphone?

521
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 2: What's going on? Can I set a fish girl? When

522
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 2: you guys were on the boat not knowing wherever you

523
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 2: are on?

524
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:08,359
Speaker 1: Okay, I think it was the microphone because you noticed

525
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: the scene with Tamar when she's telling her, when she's

526
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 1: like outing me for whatever I allegedly did. Tamar's microphone

527
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 1: was like that too.

528
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 2: Oh.

529
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: I think it was the microphone.

530
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 2: Okay, because I was like what I heard it too?

531
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 2: I was like, cotton balls in your mouth? Is going

532
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 2: on here?

533
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,959
Speaker 1: Maybe if she did and she's under amnesia, we'd get

534
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: the truth.

535
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,719
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my go Jen needs some cotton balls.

536
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: A detector test. We have an amnesia party. Oh, let's

537
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,600
Speaker 1: have where we all get like drugs and then we

538
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 1: come out of it and they ask us questions.

539
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 2: Speaking of amnetia, how does Gretchen forget that she's done

540
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 2: a lie detector test before with the same guy, with

541
00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 2: the same guy, and you know how I feel about

542
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:42,160
Speaker 2: that guy.

543
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,280
Speaker 1: Well, everyone feels the way you feel about that guy.

544
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 2: So just to give you guys the don percent, now,

545
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:52,119
Speaker 2: Gretchen went on with him on Marriage boot Camp. She

546
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 2: did a lie detector test with him. So when she

547
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:57,040
Speaker 2: says she's never taken a lie detector test before, she

548
00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 2: has been on marriage boot Camp.

549
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: But can I tell, are you something funny? Not funny?

550
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: In funny but not funny but not funny?

551
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:08,479
Speaker 1: In that scene Okay, they didn't show this, but in

552
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,640
Speaker 1: that scene she was pacing. We were all a little

553
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,960
Speaker 1: bit nervous. I was this physically sick before.

554
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,000
Speaker 2: What was making you physically sick when you heard lie

555
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:17,640
Speaker 2: detector test.

556
00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: No, I got there and I was sick before they

557
00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 1: even announced. People are like, oh, she's sick, she's a liar. No,

558
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: it's because I got into that room of a bunch

559
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: of people that don't like me, walking into a house

560
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 1: of a woman that hates me. It doesn't feel that

561
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: great and soon to be kicked out. Correct. She was

562
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: pacing back and forth, and she goes, you know, I

563
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:38,280
Speaker 1: think they've had a lie detector on another housewife show.

564
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: She said that, and I was like, they did. And

565
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,879
Speaker 1: then someone else and I honestly can't name who it was,

566
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't remember, said oh, yeah, they did on Beverly Hills.

567
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh, that's weird, you know. And

568
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,920
Speaker 1: I'm sitting there like, oh my god, and I'm just

569
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: sipping water. And they showed that in the teaser because

570
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 1: it makes feel guilty. But I had just three times.

571
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 2: And so you were sick prior to arriving. It was,

572
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 2: it was prior to finding out those lives.

573
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't a stomach bug. I was literally so anxious

574
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: about just being.

575
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 2: There, just being there around people that you didn't feel

576
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:12,959
Speaker 2: comfortable with.

577
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I was in the car service all the

578
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:16,520
Speaker 1: way down and I was like, forgot to take my

579
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: anxiety medicine. I should have turned around and got it.

580
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 1: And also, I'm leaving my kids for this. Yeah you know,

581
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: like that, doesn't you know this?

582
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 2: I know? But also we can't say here's the thing,

583
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 2: I'm going to give you another thing. What I'm leaving

584
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 2: my kids for this. We all leave our kids for

585
00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,399
Speaker 2: our jobs. Yeah it happened, I know, But you have

586
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,120
Speaker 2: to also say, like I signed up to do this,

587
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:37,879
Speaker 2: I'm here to do this, and that's why I went.

588
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 2: And but this is where you got to fight for

589
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,399
Speaker 2: yourself a little bit. When people are doing you wrong.

590
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: You have to stand up for yourself, like not to Jen.

591
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,159
Speaker 2: Did you hear that? No, it's I want you to

592
00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 2: go into the reunion and be like, Jen, there isn't

593
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 2: a glimmer of hope that I forgot that you heard

594
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 2: this conversation, Like you need to hold her feet to

595
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:01,160
Speaker 2: the fire.

596
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: Well, now, looking back, when I did call her in

597
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: Palm Springs and she hot potato the phone to Ryan, yeah,

598
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 1: I think she was like, oh shit, does.

599
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 2: He do all her dirty work?

600
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:10,360
Speaker 1: I don't know the answer to that.

601
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: You don't know that. You're good at You're good at avoiding.

602
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: The question, what are you talking about?

603
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 2: I don't know my first day on the job here, detective.

604
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: I think slave does for a fact. I know that

605
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:25,960
Speaker 1: for a fact, But I don't know truly. I don't

606
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,199
Speaker 1: know about Ryan. No, he's always been really nice to me.

607
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: But I don't know why both of them aren't, like

608
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: you know what they kind of did slip up and

609
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: see them, yeah.

610
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 2: You know. Kiki also brought up Gina, asking if you

611
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:53,320
Speaker 2: were wearing Asian designers, why did you not make it

612
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 2: a bigger deal last season or this season? Like you

613
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 2: kind of we only can kind of men it to Jen.

614
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 2: Correct off the side while you guys are on the bikes.

615
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:05,679
Speaker 1: Correct that was last season?

616
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 2: Oh that was last season.

617
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: Again. I was in the frame of mind, I need

618
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 1: to repair my relationships, and if I were to address

619
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: that with Gina when she already hates me because of Emily,

620
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 1: you think that that would have repaired a relationship, that

621
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 1: would have just brought us way backwards. So I didn't

622
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 1: bring it up. It is. It was very hurtful. Again,

623
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,960
Speaker 1: I said this yesterday. I am not looking to Gina

624
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: for advice on how to be Asian or how Asian

625
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,959
Speaker 1: I need to be. So I'm going to do that

626
00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:36,280
Speaker 1: on my I.

627
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 2: Could give you your roses there. That's probably a good.

628
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: Idea, Okay, So I'm just gonna I'm going to do

629
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:41,720
Speaker 1: that on my own.

630
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, Or how to dress or how to make tiktoks?

631
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: Should you ask her or Gretchen and Jen how to

632
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:49,960
Speaker 2: make tiktoks?

633
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 1: Well, they just copied it, So no, I literally, I

634
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: literally just wanted to highlight Asian brands. I said that

635
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: to my stylist, I said that to Matt, I said

636
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: that to all my friends. Because I'm the first Asian

637
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: on Orange County. Why wouldn't I do that. I never

638
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: said it's going to be exclusive. You know, I do

639
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,080
Speaker 1: wear Zara and stuff, like it's not Asian.

640
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 2: But I feel like you said Balenciaga, like they panned

641
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 2: to that, Like I'm like, yeah, of course that's what.

642
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 2: And the difference between first season and second season is

643
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: very different.

644
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: Yeah.

645
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 2: I mean my first season, I remember having a pair

646
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 2: of wedges on like super high and like booty shorts

647
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 2: and like going into Kyle's stone. Probably it was it's

648
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 2: what got me the.

649
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: Job that Booty.

650
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 2: Your stylist did a TikTok to defend you. Can you

651
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 2: can you go into this a little bit?

652
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So they were really offended because Gina said, these

653
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:45,480
Speaker 1: two fucking stylists, and they were like, she doesn't realize

654
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 1: that more than half of my looks are either an

655
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: Asian designer or an Asian creative director. And if you look,

656
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: a lot of my jewelry are Korean owned brands. I

657
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: just don't say it. Hi, this is Korean my necklace.

658
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: Do you want to see it? Yeah? I don't.

659
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,239
Speaker 2: I don't you know, No, you just want to promote it.

660
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 1: You it's correct, Yeah, I don't. They did a TikTok

661
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 1: showing some of the looks that are some of our

662
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: favorites from last season and a few from this season,

663
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: proving that or Ve Lazier creative director is Michelle Ox,

664
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: which is also at Ox, which was my gallery shoot

665
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: Silver Dress. She's Filipino, Like, we we have to get

666
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: past this. Oh it's not called you know, Katie, you

667
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: and it's you know, like it's so, I don't know

668
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 1: what to tell you, but it's literally an Asian creative director.

669
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm I am highlighting in the industry, and.

670
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 2: You're well versed and you're passionate and you're doing what

671
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 2: you love. Yeah, but I also don't want to be,

672
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 2: you know, sitting here trying to kiss your butt and

673
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 2: all the things I know.

674
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:56,959
Speaker 1: Keep going.

675
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 2: Do you think the lie to test detective party will

676
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 2: a setup?

677
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: One hundred percent? I felt that way when I was

678
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: there and when I was leaving, I was very upset,

679
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 1: but I didn't know I can't prove it. And then

680
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: watching it back when they were like, oh, we have

681
00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 1: a plan and we got Katie. Don't worry about we

682
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: got her.

683
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 2: And nobody seemed to care what everybody else was lying about.

684
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 1: No, it was all about me. That's how it kind

685
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: of shows you. In the moment, I couldn't have put

686
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: two and two together. I was like, you know, it

687
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 1: was all happening fast. But looking back thirty thousand feet

688
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,880
Speaker 1: and now watching, wow.

689
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: Yeah it was a setup. It was a setup. And

690
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 2: I can say from personal memory, a lie detector test

691
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 2: isn't actually valid unless it's skinned to skin. I think

692
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 2: we google this.

693
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: A lot of people have said that to me. Also,

694
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: light detector tests take like four to six hours per

695
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: person in a controlled environment, not in Emily's closet.

696
00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 2: You know that not a controlled environment.

697
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: And also the lie detector administrator needs to be certified

698
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: within California to legally do it, and allegedly those two

699
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: people are not certified. Yeah, they have no certification.

700
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 2: They're they're paid actors. On their allegedly.

701
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:18,640
Speaker 1: Allegedly on their website, it says like a B and

702
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: C a menu list of what you can get for money,

703
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: and one of the options is full acting.

704
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: I made this fight before, and I've got no war.

705
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: With I'm backing you up. You are vindicated, Thank you,

706
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: You're vindicated.

707
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 2: Okay, Then we got to talk about the Big Cast trip.

708
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: Were you put on pause or why weren't you there?

709
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you just have to watch and see.

710
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 1: But I did want to go on that trip.

711
00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: You did want to You would have gone, Yes, you

712
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: would have gone, Okay, gone, that's good to know. If

713
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 2: you return. What's the first conversation that has to happen.

714
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,200
Speaker 1: Well, I think all those conversations are going to happen

715
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: at the reunion, right. I think I'm owed some apologies.

716
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 1: I was really hurt. I felt used. I feel like

717
00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: that was a setup. Yeah, I don't know. I need

718
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: to see how the reunion goes.

719
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 2: Can we promise to never say your truth again?

720
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 1: I didn't choose that.

721
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 2: I know you didn't choose it, but you have said, like, well,

722
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 2: that is my truth.

723
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: I have never said that is my truth. That Jen

724
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: Ponti said, Oh that I have never said that. Okay, Well,

725
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say never never never never say.

726
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: Speaking out Hello. I also, I just want.

727
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 1: To want to don't say my truth because that sounds

728
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 1: like it's a lie.

729
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does it. It is my tagline, it is

730
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 2: your My tagline is was I'll never do your dirty work.

731
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: Meanwhile I was doing everyone's dirty work. So a professional

732
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:58,160
Speaker 2: of tagline. I know there's like five or six taglines,

733
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 2: and then you kind of say the ones that you're

734
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 2: comfortable saying.

735
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: And then I wanted to write some fun ones, but

736
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,320
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't get to write any of them.

737
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 2: But you didn't get picked. Did any of them get picked?

738
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: No, I didn't get to write any.

739
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 2: Oh I wrote some, but none of them are ever used. Well, Rat,

740
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 2: what are your thoughts on the fact that Gina said

741
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 2: in an interview that if you come back, she won't.

742
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 1: I think it's very sad and I don't think I'm

743
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 1: that scary.

744
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 2: I think, do you think it's true? Let's let's be blunt.

745
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 2: You think that's the truth. No, no, me neither.

746
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 1: I don't think it's the truth.

747
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 2: So don't speak in absolute Gina.

748
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 1: I know, honestly, I've seen them say like I'm the

749
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:46,879
Speaker 1: Monica Garcia moment of the season. What no, what? There

750
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 1: was no, there was none of that. I don't think

751
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 1: I'm that scary or horrible to be around. I really don't.

752
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: I think you just need a friend, a real friend.

753
00:34:57,640 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 2: You need a real friend. And all this showed me

754
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 2: was that Jen and Gina both are easily is it pliable?

755
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 2: Is that the word?

756
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:11,759
Speaker 1: But but Teddy, don't you think that the housewife I'm

757
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: not going to say game, but game is deflection, Like,

758
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 1: of course it's deflection.

759
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 2: Okay, But but then if you in these moments, if

760
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 2: you're getting if you're getting hammered, and there is a

761
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,760
Speaker 2: percentage of a chance, that's where you could have said, like, yeah,

762
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 2: I do gossip with Kiki Monique all the time.

763
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: What was leave time?

764
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 2: All right? One time time I gossiped with Kiki Monique once.

765
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I did gossip. I did, But I did say

766
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 1: we went to lunch, right.

767
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:46,240
Speaker 2: But end of sentence, okay, and then people can take

768
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 2: that with with what they want, okay, and then you

769
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 2: then you're able to move on. But if you're if

770
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 2: you're swearing on your life, if you're doing this, you're

771
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 2: doing all these things, then people don't believe you.

772
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: Okay.

773
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, of course, yeah, I love Kiki Monique. She's hilarious. Yeah.

774
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,359
Speaker 2: I saw at a couple of parties and we went

775
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 2: out to lunch once and gossiped.

776
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: We did.

777
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 2: Yeah the end are you lying there? No, No, I'm

778
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: not a lie detector, but like there's nothing.

779
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: You are good. Actually we need you instead anyway.

780
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 2: That should be my new job, add to my resume.

781
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 2: So in our final question, if you were to guess

782
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 2: what the seating arrangement would be at the union, what

783
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 2: do you think it would be?

784
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: Probably me and then everyone else quite literally next to me.

785
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 2: Who's who's on one side of the couch?

786
00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 1: Everybody but me?

787
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 2: No, you can't. You have to. This is we have

788
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 2: to do. Legists. Let's break it down.

789
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 1: I really think that on one side, I'm not saying

790
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: this is in no particular order. I think on one

791
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: side it would probably be me, Heather and Tamera and

792
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 1: the other side everyone else. That's what I think. I mean, Tamor,

793
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 1: I mean, Heather doesn't like me, but she is dear

794
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:03,399
Speaker 1: friends with Tamra. Yeah, you know, but.

795
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 2: I think Heather could like you. I think that because

796
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 2: I think you're likable in person.

797
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: What do you try to say? Was that a dig?

798
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,960
Speaker 1: It's a little bit of a dig. That is not

799
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:16,720
Speaker 1: very nice.

800
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 2: I know, but I met you in person, so I

801
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 2: already liked you.

802
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good. I will say I really appreciate when

803
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,759
Speaker 1: I did see you at that same US Weekly party.

804
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,959
Speaker 2: Yeah for Kyle, the one that Kyle was on the cover.

805
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,240
Speaker 1: Yes, you were very kind. You knew that the reunion

806
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: was really difficult for me, and I do appreciate that.

807
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 1: I think you made me cry because that was I

808
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 1: just I was on the heels of filming that and

809
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: I was very emotional, and you made me feel really good.

810
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 2: I think that's the thing. No, But like I met

811
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 2: you and I was like, this is a likable person.

812
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 2: I think the problem is if there's too many cooks

813
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 2: in the kitchen. I agree, then it's hard. And I

814
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 2: think that because you are new, you're not fighting for yourself.

815
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:56,680
Speaker 1: I do need to fight more for myself, but I

816
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,839
Speaker 1: and I also feel like I need time to show

817
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,919
Speaker 1: who I am. I don't think anyone. Everyone just thinks

818
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: I'm a shitster that actually don't know anything about me.

819
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: People have messaged me like, I want to see more

820
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 1: of your home life. I want to see more of

821
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:07,840
Speaker 1: you and your daughter.

822
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:10,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I want to understand you a little bit

823
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:11,239
Speaker 2: more so than I can judge you.

824
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:18,839
Speaker 1: Better make digs. You want to make more digs? Teddy Godly, Yeah, right,

825
00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:20,960
Speaker 1: this is what it is.

826
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 2: There's been rumblings that Shannon isn't going to be asked

827
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: back as a full time housewife.

828
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: I don't know, but she did tell me once and

829
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: recently said in an interview, I think that her daughters

830
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: are in New York City and she wants to be

831
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: and her her daughters.

832
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 2: Oh well, maybe that's it. I don't know, Maybe that's it.

833
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: I mean, if my kids moved across the country, I

834
00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: would go, yeah, yeah, I would stalk them and follow them.

835
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: Well, I really appreciate you coming on the twats. You

836
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: can see we're nice and twatty, but you know, and.

837
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: Maybe you can change Erica's mind because I saw the clips.

838
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: She said she didn't want to know me.

839
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 2: Yea, she said she didn't want to be your friend.

840
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 2: I know that.

841
00:38:58,880 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: Talk about a dagger.

842
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: You know what. She didn't want to be my friend

843
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 2: for two years and now she's one of my best friends.

844
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: So you know, there's there's home shame.

845
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's my muse of like fashion. I

846
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 1: look at her and I'm like, can I be Erica

847
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: Jane one day?

848
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,919
Speaker 2: She's lovely. You would love her, and once you meet

849
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,880
Speaker 2: in person, you will, Okay. I think it's hard to

850
00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 2: judge people solely off of what you see on television.

851
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, and I did. I can I just

852
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,280
Speaker 1: say really quick, I first met you last year filming

853
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: that Traders party, and I was a little scared of you.

854
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 1: You were to meet you because you you are a

855
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 1: very strong personality, and what I remembered of you being

856
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: on Beverly Hills, I was like, oh fuck, she's gonna

857
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 1: hate me her. And then I met you and I

858
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: was like, first of all, you're stunning in person. I

859
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: think I told you. I was like, tod you, why

860
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 1: are you so hot? And then I was like she's

861
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: so nice?

862
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: Oh thank you?

863
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:48,439
Speaker 1: Were so normal and nice, and I was like, Okay,

864
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 1: there's nothing to.

865
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 2: Be scared of.

866
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 1: She was actually really great.

867
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 2: I think that's that what ends up happening a lot

868
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: of the time. You it's like people thinking, you know, oh,

869
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: people always you're still I bet you're.

870
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:02,160
Speaker 1: Tall, and I'm like, I did think you were taller.

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Speaker 1: People always think I'm tall and then they meet me

872
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Speaker 1: and they're like, and you're a tramp.

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Speaker 2: I know. Yeah, so it's I'm like, you're towering over me.

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Speaker 2: So but yeah, you guys. Thank you guys for tuning

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Speaker 2: in for another episode of to Teas in a Pod.

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Speaker 2: I hope that you listen to this podcast and that

877
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Speaker 2: you listen with open ears, actually listen to it, listen

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Speaker 2: to the facts, and so that way we can go

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Speaker 2: into the reunion and have some fun fun. You gotta

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Speaker 2: make it fun.

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Speaker 1: What part of it is fun?

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Speaker 2: Listen you need it's not read.

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Speaker 1: Something I am from Atlanta. It's not that I don't

884
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Speaker 1: know how okay, because what goes on up here, I.

885
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 2: Know I can see you processing and then not saying

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Speaker 2: what you're actually thinking. I'm scared. I did the same thing,

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Speaker 2: and I regret it. I'm telling you.

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Speaker 1: But okay, I have a re recording. Is think about

889
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Speaker 1: what my history, my work history is. I work in golf.

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Speaker 1: You think we're like, yeah, I had a bitch and golf. No,

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Speaker 1: we're very much like great to meet you, right, So

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Speaker 1: it's nice I am switching gears up here, do you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean?

894
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Speaker 2: I know, but just that first gear that kicks in,

895
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Speaker 2: that's the one I want you to go with at

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Speaker 2: the reunions deal.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it in my mind, this is for Teddy,

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Speaker 1: all right, Thanks guys, Hi