1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: I told my family to f off because you're not 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: seeing my babbie? Am I the ahle? Okay, Opie, I 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: don't know. 4 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:09,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 5 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: I don't know. That seems like a little aggressive. I mean, 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: maybe you'll never see my child again. 7 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 3: Maybe they like, dude, maybe they ate like the last 8 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 3: of like the potato chips. 9 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: Or maybe they ate the firstborn child. They're like, hey, 10 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 1: I can't let you know. You know, I let you 11 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: see the first baby, you guys ate it, can't let 12 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: you see the second baby. 13 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 3: That's what I call a reasonable scenario. On Op's part. 14 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 3: Parents are not condoning. 15 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm like, John, are you trying to eat 16 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: some children right now? Have you seen you said reasonable? 17 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: There's a modest proposal. A modest proposal, I have not Okay, 18 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 1: So a modest proposal is a it's like a piece 19 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: of satire written by I forgot who, But basically it's like, hey, 20 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 1: I know what we got to do about this overpopulation thing, 21 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: eat the children, and like a bunch of people like 22 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,560 Speaker 1: it was clearly satire, but a bunch of people read it. 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 3: It's like he's got a point, you've got a point. 24 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:09,639 Speaker 3: We get food, We get lower population. Boo, wow, winning 25 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: that's amazing. Don't don't eat kids. I love how there's something, 26 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 3: there's something out there for everyone. 27 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: You know, So people, it's the rule thirty four of 28 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 1: the Internet. Do you know have you heard of that? 29 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: Rule thirty four of the internet means if it exists, 30 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:31,399 Speaker 1: there exists porn of it that is accurate, that is accurate. 31 00:01:31,800 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 1: If you were did you know about on casts on cast? 32 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: On casts, tell me, tell me what it is, tell 33 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: me what it is. So, uh, you have a Big 34 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: Hero of six that movie. Yeah, yeah, no, so so 35 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: the on and on cast, you know, everyone was like, 36 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: oh damn, on cast is fine. Right, So like there 37 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: have been like whole studios that have popped up that 38 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: are just making on casts naughty videos. And now there's 39 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: Big Kiro six two coming out. Oh my, And like 40 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: I was reading this post on Reddit where it was 41 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: or no, I was reading on I was watching reading 42 00:02:09,880 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: some comments on YouTube and it was like the Big 43 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: Hero six trailer and everyone's like I never really watched 44 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: the Big Hero six movie, but I did watch a 45 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: lot of the spinoffs, and I am excited for the 46 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:25,919 Speaker 1: spinoffs of the second one. Wow, I wonder spinoffs being porn? 47 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 3: Do they just do they just like get sued and 48 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: just like they don't care because they make so much money, Like. 49 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:31,959 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't, I don't. I think it's hard 50 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: to see some of these people. 51 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 2: Right, is is that like satire or something where. 52 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:39,320 Speaker 1: They can Yeah? What a world? What a world? What? 53 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: Thirty four? I twenty five female have a six month 54 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: old son. His father is deceased, sad, his father's family 55 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:50,359 Speaker 1: don't want anything to do with him, and my own 56 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: family minus my dad have told me that they don't 57 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: want anything to do with him either. Shit, why like. 58 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 3: Hero family don't want to like interact with the child 59 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 3: or yeah, I wonder what happened. That's like the mother 60 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 3: of their grandchild and their daughter and their their grandson. 61 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: What. Yeah, I feel like there's some there's some context. 62 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 3: Maybe also I have to shut out op for not 63 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 3: doing and my baby six months? 64 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and my six month old son, yeah six months. 65 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:24,920 Speaker 1: I've read and heard enough to know that I shouldn't 66 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: expect anyone to help me and that my kid is 67 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: my own responsibility. So that's how I've been dealing with everything. 68 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: Very stoic of you, ok. 69 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 3: Stoic and but you know, a very a very hard 70 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 3: thing to emotionally be with. 71 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: I work from home, so I don't really need a 72 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: babysitter for work or anything either. And guys, to be honest, 73 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: I'm okay. I'm still dealing with grief and I'm kind 74 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: of lonely. But every time I talk to anyone, they 75 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 1: always remind me that they don't want to deal with 76 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,120 Speaker 1: a baby. Damn. For example, I sent my sister a 77 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: funny post, and before reacting to the post, she sent 78 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: me a warning text saying that this doesn't mean she'll babysit. 79 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: I didn't even mention my son. Like, I don't understand, bro, 80 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: there's some context we're missing here, because like like both 81 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 1: sides of the family like I don't want anything to 82 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:10,160 Speaker 1: do with you or your child, And the sister immediately 83 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: is like, yo, don't ask me to babysit because I'm 84 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 1: not gonna do it. Like there's something, there's something going 85 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 1: on here. I think it's weird that like it's I 86 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: guess it's around the baby. Yeah, I don't know. 87 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know what it could possibly could 88 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,239 Speaker 3: be where they're like they don't want to interact at all. 89 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 3: With the grandchild. 90 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: The only thing I can think of is like it 91 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: was it was like a child out of weblock or something, 92 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: or like she cheated on That's true, Like that that 93 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: that I could see. Maybe I mean still like awful, 94 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 1: but like I could see more of that reaction. There's 95 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 1: there's some context we're missing here. Yeah, everyone does this 96 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 1: to me, my mother's sister's friends. They also act like 97 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: I made a mistake for not terminating after my boyfriend passed. 98 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: So yeah, I'd rather be lonely. What is terrible? 99 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: Like the friends too? 100 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah? Everyone, these people are all terrible. See, Like but 101 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: I'm you know all right, See like when everyone is terrible, 102 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: it's like who's actually terrible? You know? 103 00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? 104 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,239 Speaker 1: You know, like like like there's like this this idea 105 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: where you know only so like like at a certain point, 106 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: so many people hate you that you have to under 107 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: like I have to look into yourself and and ask, 108 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:22,479 Speaker 1: am I the drama? This is? 109 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 2: This is true? There could be. 110 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 3: Something there or or maybe uh we just start a 111 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:30,200 Speaker 3: campaign to just hate and rag on this baby. 112 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, like this baby is just maybe this baby is 113 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: like Minnie Hitler or something, and it could go bro, 114 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 1: it could be this baby sucks. Six only six months old. 115 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 1: But I know your baby sucks, and I don't want. 116 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: Anything to do. I mean, that's that's a bad Maybe 117 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 3: the baby just has like chronic barfing or something and yeah, 118 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 3: like vomit. 119 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: Or it's just talking shit all the time. 120 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: True. 121 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 3: I mean, if there's a talking baby, if there's a 122 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 3: ship talking baby, I would love to spend. 123 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,200 Speaker 2: Time with it. 124 00:05:56,240 --> 00:05:58,280 Speaker 1: I would give it its own own show. 125 00:05:58,360 --> 00:05:59,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, we would make a podcast. 126 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 1: Have you seen that kid on TikTok like that? There's 127 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: like a it's like a podcast. It's like a six 128 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: year old with her dad and it's a podcast. Oh yes, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, 129 00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: it's like super door. What's the deal with strollers? 130 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 2: Right? 131 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: And she's I love that. We have a family group 132 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:18,039 Speaker 1: chat and although I don't bother texting on there. After 133 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 1: my sisters told me to not send pics of my 134 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: son because no one cares except me. Holy shit, everyone's so. 135 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 2: Mean, everyone is. 136 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 3: It's it's there just bringing down the absolute hammer. 137 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: I do read their conversations accasionally to feel something. I 138 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know how they didn't realize I 139 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: was in the group chat, because you know, family group 140 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: chat and all. But they were talking about how they 141 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: have a surprise party plan for my birthday and I 142 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: lost it. I burst into tears immediately called my sister, 143 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: who was with the rest of the family. Wait, why 144 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: is she losing it talking about how they have a 145 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: plan for my birthday? 146 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 2: I guess we're gonna find out. 147 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,680 Speaker 1: Wait, a surprise party seems like a good thing. 148 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 3: It seems like a good thing, but uh, you know, 149 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,920 Speaker 3: maybe maybe maybe it's a trigger. 150 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: I asked them what they were trying to accomplish after 151 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: making me feel like absolute shit for almost a year. 152 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 1: She told me to stop being so dramatic, but I 153 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: kept going. I asked her and the rest of my 154 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 1: family why they thought i'd appreciate the party after months 155 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: of them not talking to me or my baby. My 156 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 1: mom told me that she wanted me to realize how 157 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 1: difficult being a single mother is. Bro being a single 158 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: mother is already difficult enough without you ragging on her 159 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: and the baby. 160 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 3: I think I think that this mom is, uh, you know, 161 00:07:29,600 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 3: let's crash. Why don't we throw more things in the mix. 162 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe we can a victor from her house? 163 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, or maybe maybe we can't understand how hard being 164 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: a single mother is. 165 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 3: Maybe we can steal her car and drive it drive 166 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: it off a cliff, so that way she she truly experiences. 167 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 3: She doesn't understand that the human condition, Sam like, she 168 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 3: doesn't have the worst logic ever, she doesn't have she 169 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:56,520 Speaker 3: doesn't have enough pain in her life. We have to 170 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 3: really show her what the single mother experience is. 171 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: I told her to shut up. I then told them 172 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 1: they'll leave me the fuck alone and don't bother with 173 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: the surprise party because it's not even a surprise because 174 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: she's in the freaking group chest it's true. One sister 175 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,080 Speaker 1: called me a biach, and the others laughed at me, 176 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: saying that I'm being hysterical and overly dramatic, and they 177 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:19,320 Speaker 1: definitely weren't doing the party now, or at least until 178 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: I apologize. I don't want to apologize, though, I don't 179 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: think I'm being the a hole. But my sisters and 180 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 1: mothers say that I'm overreacting and that this is exactly 181 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: why I don't have any friends and no one likes 182 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: me at all. Sam geez, they say I'm the a hole. 183 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: My dad found out about everything and came over last 184 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 1: night and told me to ignore everyone. But I can't 185 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 1: stop thinking about this. Am I the a hole? 186 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 2: I have no idea why this family. 187 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, this rationale doesn't make sense, and it sounds like 188 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: they're trying to It. Sounds like like she's like Cinderella 189 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 1: and these are all the evil stepsisters and they're just like, 190 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: let's just make this person's life miserable. 191 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: We want you to understand the experience of being a 192 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 2: single woe. 193 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 3: Also, Also, how tragically sad is it that they were 194 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 3: literally planning like the one thing that they did, they 195 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 3: literally like forget about her so much that I didn't 196 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 3: even realize she was into the group chat. 197 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:07,599 Speaker 2: Wow. 198 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: Rough, Wow, but there is an update. Wow. I have 199 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: never felt so supported and loved in a very long time. 200 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,319 Speaker 2: That's good to hear. 201 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 1: Read it. You did a thing, you did it. I 202 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 1: wasn't even going to post anything, but I'm so happy 203 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: I did. I don't know how to explain just how 204 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 1: big of an impact everyone's comments and dms had on me. 205 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 1: Was so lovely. Thank you so much for all the 206 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,480 Speaker 1: offers of friendship, and more so, as of a few 207 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: weeks ago I moved in with my father. Being alone 208 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,520 Speaker 1: with my son I had me going crazy. The loneliness 209 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: was literally killing me. I needed help, and I am 210 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: no longer ashamed to admit it. My dad made the 211 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: offer to actually help me. I work Mondays through Fridays 212 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: and have weekends off. And while I've been following everyone's 213 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: advice and signed up for a mommy and me thing nearby. 214 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: It was nerve wracking, but so many moms were so 215 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 1: friendly and came up to me themselves. I got three 216 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: numbers and they're all inviting me to a dinner party. 217 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,680 Speaker 2: Dude, that's adorable. 218 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 1: They're really sweet despite being at least five years older 219 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:05,959 Speaker 1: than me. Yeah, because you know, people who are five 220 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: years older than you can't be sweet. Dude, They're evil. 221 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: They're old pieces of garbage, old crotchety cratcher sins. 222 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: They've sort of adopted me, in their words, not mine. 223 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:19,760 Speaker 1: I'm also going for walks after work. My dad and 224 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: son come along sometimes too. Me and my dad also 225 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: cooked together. It makes some pretty neat stuff for his girlfriend, 226 00:10:25,080 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 1: who has also been really kind. As for my mother 227 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: and sisters, I still don't know why they dislike me 228 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 1: and my baby so much, but I took that step 229 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: and left the group chat. Are we go? 230 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 2: There we go? Get out of there. 231 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: This might sound ridiculous, but it was really hard. I 232 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: even shed a tear, but I didn't and I haven't 233 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:45,319 Speaker 1: spoken to them since. I contacted my in laws one 234 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: last time. I don't know why, but his parents said 235 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: they were willing to meet. They won't try and take 236 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 1: him from me, but my dad got me a lawyer 237 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: just in case. I'm meeting them this weekend, and depending 238 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 1: on how it goes, I will let them see my 239 00:10:56,679 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 1: son eventually. Finally, I saw a doctor and I I've 240 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: been diagnosed with PPD, which postpartum depression. Yeah. I'm currently 241 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:07,679 Speaker 1: seeing a therapist that was recommended to me and has 242 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: started a treatment planned. My son, father and his girlfriend 243 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 1: have been my biggest supporters, and I'm trying to be 244 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 1: better for me but them as well. I've also been 245 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: missing my fiance a lot these days, but his memory 246 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: is kind of common. I don't know. It hasn't been 247 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: very long, but I've already seen improvements in my life. 248 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: It's crazy how making my original posts kick started this change. 249 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: Thank you so much everyone for everything. 250 00:11:29,640 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 2: Dude. 251 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:35,079 Speaker 1: This is incredible wholesome Reddit content. Wholesome Reddit content often, 252 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: but when it appears by God we love it, beautiful,