WEBVTT - Blended, Not Stirred 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:09.480 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast. Hi, guys, 0:00:09.720 --> 0:00:13.560 so many things. There's a lot happening in the world. Well, 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.520 it's just one of those things where you know, I 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:19.520 feel like it's been a very busy start of the year. Yeah, 0:00:19.520 --> 0:00:21.960 which usually it's like slow, but it's right hit the 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.159 ground running. I'm really glad you said it, because I 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:29.520 feel really behind with what everything like. I'm like, I 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:31.920 keep thinking we're in February because that's how it feels, 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:34.000 the calendar and all the dates and the flights and 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:35.760 all the things. I mean, we just had to take 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.159 twenty minutes before this to just like look at our 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:40.120 calendars and schedules and figure out how to make it 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.280 all work. But I'm really proud of us because there's 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.279 a lot of moving pieces. With all three of us, 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.920 there is. I mean, you've got, you know, kids, but 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:53.599 you feel busier than when it's different. Yeah, nighttime. Yes, yes, 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:56.640 you're like I take that back. You are going, you're 0:00:56.760 --> 0:01:00.160 driving your kids from here to tim Buck two. I'm 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:02.320 an uber driver. It's fine. You're also a cheer mom, 0:01:02.400 --> 0:01:04.480 which I just got to tell your hats because I 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:08.200 watched your story. Yeah, Cat, we were talking about your 0:01:08.280 --> 0:01:11.679 schedules earlier, so maybe feel like those schedules aren't my schedule, 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:13.440 that's my husband's schedule, and I'm just trying to keep 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:18.039 my family unit together fair right anyway. Well, you know, 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:20.120 it's just because it's like when I sometimes when I 0:01:20.160 --> 0:01:24.120 hear your you know, nighttime with I'm like, I'm thinking, 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:27.240 honestly to myself, I'm like, man, how is that going 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:30.840 to work as a co parent situation too? With all 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:33.120 the different activities And i mean even right now, it's 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:34.920 hard because I'm like, all right, on the same day, 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:38.520 there's soccer and baseballs and dance, and I ended up 0:01:38.720 --> 0:01:42.560 having to We're we're cutting dance, are you? I am 0:01:42.600 --> 0:01:45.120 hanging up the ballet shoes for just because I've seen 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:47.800 how good she is a basketball and soccer and I'm like, 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:51.680 you know what, maybe she's just the sport and basketball 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:54.760 and for her age, she's the only girl on the team. 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:58.600 I love that, yeah, really, And she was so scared 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:00.560 to go and I'm like, baby girl, because what I'm 0:02:00.560 --> 0:02:02.120 trying to do is I'm trying to do things too 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.520 that have this same day and the same time with 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:07.760 both kids. That way, it's like not running around because 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.440 it's hard, right, So not having like the other parents 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:15.639 in the house to help go different places. So, uh 0:02:15.760 --> 0:02:18.480 actually feel this. And I have a husband, but like this, 0:02:18.639 --> 0:02:20.160 when it comes to any of this, it's all me. 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:22.600 So I'm like, if you guys can't do it at 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:26.240 the same time, right, we're not doing it. Yeah. We 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:28.480 haven't even been able to hang up ballet shoes because 0:02:28.520 --> 0:02:33.400 we haven't put on ballet. It's hard, it's yeah, and 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.880 it's different than when we were a little you know 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:39.000 what's so interesting My mom, man, my mom. I used 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:41.840 to figure skate and she would drive me almost like 0:02:43.040 --> 0:02:46.280 minutes to this rank morning night. She had a full 0:02:46.320 --> 0:02:50.080 time job. I mean, no complaints, just frozen butt off 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:51.520 on the stands. But it's like, that's a mom. That's 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:53.919 what you do. And just like you like you're running 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.880 like the kids. I mean, that's all you do is 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:59.280 run the kids. That's a lot. I also like camp 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:02.120 out at like hotels for cheer camps, and I love 0:03:02.160 --> 0:03:05.200 it to get the stress of it and how it 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.720 can and it gets stressful, but I love it. I 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.760 do not know what to do when I have a 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.359 afternoon evening off, I feel like Nick's a great partner 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:14.560 though with it. Oh, I could not do it without. 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.560 I mean, hear me when I say when we were separated, 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:20.080 I was like, well, here's how we're going to do 0:03:20.160 --> 0:03:22.960 this this day. It doesn't matter whose day it is. 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.040 You're taking this kid, and I'm taking that kid and 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.600 take an activity to cancel because I can't do it. Okay, right, 0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:31.160 So okay, So Julia's girl back to basketball. So we 0:03:31.160 --> 0:03:33.919 were she was, I mean, she was so nervous, she 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.360 was crying. She didn't want to go to my baby girl. 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:36.760 If you don't like it, we give it. We always 0:03:36.800 --> 0:03:39.040 say two to three tries. After two to three tries, 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:40.600 if you're still, I'm not going to drag you here, 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:44.360 you know. So it's that wouldn't be fun for anybody either. 0:03:44.600 --> 0:03:47.240 So she she got if you don't like it, let's 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.080 give it two to three tries, like that's our motto. 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:52.240 Two three tries. And so with marriages and sports and 0:03:52.280 --> 0:04:00.360 all the things, that's a blanket steak literally three tries 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:03.600 and after that we hang up our shoes. Can I 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:10.240 have a fourth? I don't think she wasn't stop. You 0:04:10.480 --> 0:04:13.360 really have nothing on the field with that one. Cramer. 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.080 I didn't mean this soft toss. But I'm real glad 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:21.359 you caught that one. I really did. I two to 0:04:21.480 --> 0:04:25.560 three tries, and um, I just met with your last 0:04:25.720 --> 0:04:29.000 I met with your last last husband. Not in marriages. 0:04:29.520 --> 0:04:32.159 Well that now how it sounded now it was like 0:04:32.160 --> 0:04:34.000 a slam. I didn't mean it to be a slam 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.840 I made. You wouldn't be you wouldn't be the first, 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.720 and you wouldn't be the last to slam me. Whether 0:04:38.800 --> 0:04:41.719 I mean it like that, I mean like you gave 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:48.320 him two to three tries. No, no, no, like fifteen millions. Okay, 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:52.839 I liked the other one. That one made more sense, 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:56.240 the one where I was really awful. I don't like that. 0:04:56.320 --> 0:05:01.640 That made way more sense anyhow, So due to three tries, 0:05:03.800 --> 0:05:06.479 and so she gets there again, it's all boys, and 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:07.840 I'm like, all right, baby, girl, like you got this, 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.200 you know, like you're so good. They start going in 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:12.599 a line, you know, a little free throw line. She's 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:16.000 hitting every single one. I mean, the coach is even like, 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.000 whoa is this? Like she played before? I was like 0:05:18.200 --> 0:05:21.000 not a day in her life, Like I mean I'm 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:24.000 talking not even like a dribble, not even a practice nothing. 0:05:24.320 --> 0:05:27.880 So she's swish, swish swish, and I'm just like whole 0:05:28.320 --> 0:05:31.400 and Mike. So Mike came to the to the to 0:05:31.520 --> 0:05:33.280 the game or a practice. It's like a practice then 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:36.240 a game. He walks over and he goes, I think 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:39.039 she's going to be the athlete in her fad because 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.359 I look over and I see Jay's just rolling, like 0:05:41.440 --> 0:05:46.880 doing like somersaults like the especially for basketball. Yeah yeah, 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:50.240 but also like Jolie is just I mean when it 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.000 comes to soccer to like Jays will just sit on 0:05:52.040 --> 0:05:55.039 the field, and Jolie's like she's in people's faces. She's 0:05:55.080 --> 0:05:58.039 like goalie. She's I mean, she's like really defensive and 0:05:58.120 --> 0:06:01.839 just like she's a strong, strong person, like a strong player. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:05.279 And so but what was I was so angry because 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:10.160 at basketball, so it's again all boys, right, Jolie was open. 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.320 She kept I go, baby, girls stay open. Oh, but 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:15.040 she's got her hands out open. Those boys were throwing 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:19.000 the ball over her to another boy monkey in the middle. 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:21.039 And so I say, I text Mike and I go, 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:22.880 are you seeing this because he's on the other because like, 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:25.400 because I'm watching Jason, we're like and then we switched 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:26.680 to go the other one. I was like are you 0:06:26.720 --> 0:06:29.200 seeing this? They're they're throwing the ball over her. Can 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:30.800 you please go talk to the coach to be like, 0:06:30.839 --> 0:06:33.240 pass you could pass it to Jolie. She's open. She's 0:06:33.240 --> 0:06:36.719 saying open. I don't like that. So yeah, that sucks 0:06:36.839 --> 0:06:40.400 over her. Yeah, and it honestly, it gets worse. Like 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.279 if you're the player that like may not be the best, oh, 0:06:43.360 --> 0:06:45.480 they will just not pass it to you. And you 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.200 gotta have good coaching to make about not being the best, 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:50.720 about her being a girl. Well, and here's the thing too. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.400 So at the very end, the coach was like, good 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:57.440 job boys, and I go and girls like, I'm just like, 0:06:57.480 --> 0:06:59.640 all right, if we're gonna do this, So after the 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:01.440 words was like, hey, well you you talked to coaches, 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:02.760 you know. If not, I'm going to and I'm not 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:05.560 gonna like because I'm in a mommy bear this and listen, 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.400 I know she's a girl, but she she's she's hitting more, 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:12.480 she's making more baskets than some of the boys. So 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.240 don't worry, they'll quickly figure out she's the m v 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.200 P everyone. But if not, we are all going to 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:19.800 be there in our matching shirts. So it's gonna get 0:07:19.840 --> 0:07:25.360 really obvious and awkward bad. But I having said all that, 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.600 it was one of those things where I don't know why. 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:30.920 You know, I was a figure skater not I was 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:32.720 never I will never call myself a dancer, but I 0:07:32.840 --> 0:07:37.640 just it's not the route. Not a dancer, well, dancing 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:40.600 with the stars. But you know how it's like, Okay, 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:42.480 I think for a long time I really wanted her 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:45.960 to be and having that realization, it's like, she's she's 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.440 not going to be. It was like a little tingent 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:50.600 like because I go, hey, baby girl, like do you 0:07:50.640 --> 0:07:53.160 like basketball or dance better? And she's like, basketball, Mommy, 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:54.720 I want to do this so much more. And I 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:57.920 was like okay. And then it was like a little 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.520 like my mom had that with me. I'm the jolie. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:06.080 She was like a cheer girl and all the coordinated things, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:09.200 and then there I came just as polish and uncoordinated 0:08:09.200 --> 0:08:12.280 as I could be. Yeah. Well, it's also like one 0:08:12.280 --> 0:08:13.400 of those things too. I'm like, I'm not going to 0:08:13.480 --> 0:08:15.600 be running around town if I know. That's why I 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:17.720 pulled her owd gymassics. I'm all right, she she's she's 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:21.080 not gymnastics wore me out? Yeah, because I remember talking 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:22.800 to Sean Johnson. I was like, so should I get 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:24.679 her private training? She can she do a cart wheel? 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:28.400 And I was like no, She's like she should be yeah, 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:30.680 she should be done. And I was like, great, like 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:32.800 tell me this, I'm not going to be the mom 0:08:32.840 --> 0:08:35.040 that's like you have a great voice and then for sure, 0:08:35.120 --> 0:08:37.320 but otherwise, like you don't want to be running around. 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:39.040 I mean that's where I'm at with Ramsey with cheer. 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:41.800 It's like, okay, like are we gonna go anywhere with 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:43.400 this or not. I'm spending way too much time and 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:45.160 money for it to be a lot of money. When 0:08:45.160 --> 0:08:46.959 you when you're on your third or fourth activity, it's 0:08:46.960 --> 0:08:48.800 like all right, time to start, time to start cutting. 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:50.200 And that's where I was like, all right, let's just 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:52.720 do like the sports. And so now I'm like Jason, 0:08:53.920 --> 0:08:58.360 what I know he's going to do baseball with Leudgie. Yeah. No, no, 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:01.240 he's gonna do yeah, he's baseball's soccer anyways, or we 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:03.760 got totally off topic. But with the schedules and stuff, 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:07.600 so we were going to New York in Boston. Uh, 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:12.319 we've got you're going out with your your hubby, making 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:16.280 some time with him, I'm trying this year. His schedule 0:09:16.360 --> 0:09:20.080 is crazy, he's touring a lot, and he's got a 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:22.480 new song coming up. He does Oh can we please 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:28.600 talk about three favorite colors? Low cash, please pre save 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:32.720 now and help our kids go to college. Alright, So 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.720 today's episode is all about hot topics. There's some really 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:39.319 good ones, you know what. I need this show because 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:41.440 I feel like I live under a rock. The hot 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.160 topics come in from our young little sweet things and 0:09:44.240 --> 0:09:48.319 I'm like, what, who's doing what? Like I feel in 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:51.680 my hundred no, because I didn't really know either. Until 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:54.240 I didn't really know that I did see one that 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:57.640 I really am interested to talk about. Um. The only 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:59.440 thing that I remember seeing that came up was about 0:09:59.440 --> 0:10:01.280 the Boy Meets World because I was always like, oh, boy, 0:10:01.280 --> 0:10:05.320 Mean's World because that was just so our generation watching that, 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:06.800 and then I read it, I I was like, oh wow, 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:08.760 so let's get into that when we come back from 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:24.240 a break. All right, So do you guys know the 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:30.080 whole uh Sean Penn, Robin right, Yes, I love them. 0:10:30.120 --> 0:10:33.680 I love both of them. I love both of them, 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:37.360 you know. Okay, So um, it says Sean Penn and 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:39.600 Robin right together for the first time in years at 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:42.240 the Los Angeles Airport. They were spending time together. Over 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.439 the weekend, the Axes were spotted together at Los Angeles 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:48.040 International Airport as they carried their bags up an escalator. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:52.160 The actors have both recently ended relationships. Uh. Penn filed 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:58.040 his divorce from Ulilah in right filed for divorce and 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:04.959 also two uh they were married from and they have 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:08.360 a son twenty nine and a daughter thirty one. So 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:10.880 what do you guys think? Do you think they're back 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:15.199 together or just like doing a casual Oh yeah, because 0:11:15.240 --> 0:11:20.000 this is a cat move, this whole escalator. Do they 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:25.439 got divorced in so it's been years. I don't know. 0:11:25.559 --> 0:11:29.360 Did you see the photos. I don't know. Well, they 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:32.000 weren't even really like, yes, they were together. They were 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:34.640 coming up an escalator and she's kind of way behind 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:36.640 him with the bag. Like it wasn't like they were 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:38.520 all cozy. So I don't know if they just ran 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:42.000 into each other. They probably maybe they were going somewhere 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:44.880 with their kids. Well, but I was reading an article 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:48.520 about that and they um he had said that they 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:51.839 had very separate relationships with their kids because part of 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:54.960 the reason they broke up was they had different stances 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:58.880 on how to parent adult children, which I found very interesting. 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:01.520 So and I'm like, because that was my thought too. 0:12:01.559 --> 0:12:03.520 Maybe they were going and maybe they were, but it 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:07.000 sounds like they have very separate relationships. Feel like, a wait, 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:09.280 a reason. Maybe it wasn't the full reason, it was 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:12.600 just something that he mentioned. I'm like, if you've made 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:17.319 it that far now, like adults, the difference between adults, 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.920 and it sounds like one parent really wanted to still 0:12:20.960 --> 0:12:24.480 parent even though they were older, and one parent was like, 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:27.000 and I'm going to guess him, but that's just a guess. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:31.400 They're old enough. Let them make their own decisions. What 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:33.320 do you think is old enough to make? Because I 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.400 think your parent for the rest of your life. Now, 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:36.840 I think there's a point where you have to kind 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.920 of let go a little bit. Yeah, that's hard. I 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:42.080 don't know one that will ever be for me. I 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.600 don't you have to let them. I mean, I even 0:12:44.640 --> 0:12:46.280 think before they're adults, you have to let them make 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:50.480 some decisions. And sometimes they're gonna, you know, sometimes they're 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.600 gonna fall, and sometimes they're gonna make wrong decisions. But 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.880 that would be hard. I mean, I don't I don't know. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:13:02.400 It is interesting when you think about how people parent differently, right, 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:06.200 because if someone were to come in, because I knew, 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:07.600 I mean there was that was one thing like Max 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:11.120 and I we we parent very similar, um same page. 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:14.160 But if someone was to come in, let's say, my 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.880 boyfriend and I continue down the road on the path. 0:13:18.000 --> 0:13:20.480 I love it when we dropped the bee where we 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:23.840 go down that path and it's you know, he's around 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.840 the kids, and what if I don't like the way hear? 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.160 That's that's a thing. I mean, that's definitely a step 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:37.920 parent coming in. Yeah yet, Enny and Georgia, No, Netflix, 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:40.680 I need to watch that. He's asking me to watch 0:13:40.679 --> 0:13:43.200 it and george table it. But that's in that it's 0:13:43.240 --> 0:13:46.760 in that Netflix series with it about like why she's 0:13:46.760 --> 0:13:48.719 a little more free reigin I'm a best friend kind 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:51.280 of parent. And then the step dad mayor comes in 0:13:51.320 --> 0:13:53.640 and it's like this is how it should be and 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.280 blah blah blah. Well, so he's been we have talked 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:58.800 about it because he has been in that situation before 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.920 where he had to up in as a uh stepdad. 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:06.440 Oh yeah that's true. So for a while. Yeah, I 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.040 mean since yeah, I mean because he has two kids, 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:13.600 so um and one of which is from a step 0:14:13.720 --> 0:14:17.720 parents situation. So he's like, and I told him this 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:21.720 the other day too. I'm like, obviously, like our world 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:23.040 like whenever I come to see you, it's like the 0:14:23.040 --> 0:14:26.440 bubble like we talked about. But when you are, you know, 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:27.840 when I'm ready for you to meet the kids and 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:30.240 where we have it, CON's like it's a different thing. 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:32.640 He's like, I've He's like, I've already stepped into it. 0:14:32.720 --> 0:14:34.920 I know, and I wanted to I know what I 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:37.440 said up for what I want to take us to 0:14:37.480 --> 0:14:42.640 a different hot topic because Amalist didn't even I don't 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:44.800 know if it's allowed. Well, can we just say what 0:14:44.880 --> 0:14:48.000 the X? I think if they were awesome, I think 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:51.200 sometimes it's all about timing, and I just wonder how 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.360 accurate it is. Where did they just catch the same 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:54.920 like where they just happened to be at the same 0:14:54.960 --> 0:14:57.760 airport at the same time. The photos to me didn't 0:14:57.800 --> 0:15:00.160 scream oh they're back together. But also I think that 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:04.440 there's a familiarity. However, you say that word two, I 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:07.120 mean it's a twenty year relationship. They weren't married that long, 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:09.360 but it was like an almost twenty year relationship that 0:15:09.440 --> 0:15:12.600 I also wouldn't be surprised if they're both getting divorced 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:15.720 and they have spent some time together. Maybe there's just 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.600 something familiar. Maybe they are a question and I think 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:20.720 there's something sorry to be said about, Like I think 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:22.920 it's okay to get back together after some time has 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.080 passed and people have grown. Like I know, I could 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:29.520 never do that with a certain someone, but like some 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:31.560 I could. Honestly, I would be like, you know what 0:15:31.600 --> 0:15:34.080 I was gonna be my question? Are you a girl? 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:37.040 This goes to both of you because I have a 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:41.000 friend who is late forties and she and a guy 0:15:41.040 --> 0:15:43.960 friend just keep reconnecting. Because she's like, I would just 0:15:44.120 --> 0:15:47.680 rather know what I know and just catch up with 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:49.800 him when I catch up with him catch up in 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.840 air quotes, she was like, I'd rather catch up with 0:15:52.880 --> 0:15:54.880 the same person than go try to catch up with 0:15:55.000 --> 0:15:57.440 someone new and learned someone new. I think that's fair. 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:01.000 So are you a person that would repeat the roster 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:05.400 or are you someone that's unafraid to do new territory 0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.160 if you had the choice, Because I always, even in 0:16:09.240 --> 0:16:15.880 dating younger, was always a repeat roster. I would say 0:16:15.960 --> 0:16:20.000 that I would repeat roster to see if anything has 0:16:20.120 --> 0:16:23.760 changed or if there was a spark, so like there 0:16:23.760 --> 0:16:25.920 had been. There were two guys that I saw during 0:16:26.200 --> 0:16:31.080 hot Grow summer that I had seen back in my twenties. 0:16:31.240 --> 0:16:34.840 That's correct. I forgot about that, and yeah, one was 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:40.360 yeah they're both yeah, and so yeah, I was like 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:45.800 I was seven or whatever and both of them around 0:16:45.840 --> 0:16:51.080 that at that time, and so yeah, but either neither 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.640 one of them there was like the spark really wasn't there, 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:56.600 and so I wouldn't continue just because I had been 0:16:56.600 --> 0:16:58.640 there done. That wasn't a letdown. Did you kind of 0:16:58.680 --> 0:17:00.320 go like, man, I wish it felt like it did 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:03.480 when I was in my twenties. Uh no, because it 0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:06.040 was kind of affirm because I always kind of wondered, like, oh, 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.160 I wondered if if I was in a different place 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:10.600 in my life, which I am now, and if we 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.399 could make it work, and I think it and I 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:15.000 maybe kind of had thought from time to time about 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:18.920 wondering possibility and it was like Nope, good done, possibility 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:25.159 gone out the window. Okay, cat repeat for sure? Yeah obviously, 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:28.960 but I and I mean no, I had a similar 0:17:28.960 --> 0:17:32.679 situation with an ex boyfriend always wondered, went back and 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:35.560 very quickly was like that, very quick like, oh yeah, no, 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:37.960 nothing's here. Great. We were meant to be friends. See 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.119 you later. Yeah, And I'm still friends with both of 0:17:40.119 --> 0:17:42.600 those guys, because it's like there was no bad blood 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.960 on either side. I think it was just if if 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:47.880 someone's not going to can on both sides, don't want 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:51.560 to put in the effort or whatever too on top 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.199 of it, and the like feelings. It sound like all right, 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:59.399 move along, move on, okay, but all right, repeat I 0:17:59.480 --> 0:18:03.040 was a repeat her. Keep those numbers low and keep 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:11.080 those frequent shoppers happy. So what do you want to 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:13.439 say about the bubble? For totop? I think Kat and 0:18:13.440 --> 0:18:15.399 I would like to talk about the bubble is a 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:18.439 hot topic. Okay. I love that you just threw me in. 0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:22.040 There's well, I didn't actually I didn't even know I 0:18:22.040 --> 0:18:24.040 was going to mention it. But you said you mentioned 0:18:24.160 --> 0:18:29.600 that you and boyfriend I do are in the bubble, 0:18:30.640 --> 0:18:36.560 and recently you were ready to pop the bubble and 0:18:36.760 --> 0:18:45.480 go public. Oh we going here. She's mad at me 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:52.520 for calling the other one out. I just want to 0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:55.240 talk about the bubble bursting, because would you like to 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:57.520 talk about my text message that I sent y'all, uh huh, 0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:03.040 Janna doesn't just send it to this is what the 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:08.119 people want to know. Greamer shots one day just so 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:10.399 I can go on record. We got to be careful 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:12.480 sometimes I text stuff to you guys, and I'm like, 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:14.800 you know, because Screamer will go rogue and she'll screenshot 0:19:14.840 --> 0:19:16.480 something and just tag in it and not even like, 0:19:16.520 --> 0:19:19.480 hey can I pose this? And I'm like, well, I 0:19:19.520 --> 0:19:25.000 wanted to screenshot it something she can bury us, So 0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:29.280 to be careful. There's a lot s h idea in there. 0:19:29.880 --> 0:19:34.359 So so Creamer sends. She doesn't even send like hey, 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:37.200 what do you guys think? She sends us this full 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:44.320 full movie trailer, Oh yes to song, start to picture 0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:47.680 montage of her and boyfriend, and she's like, I'm gonna 0:19:47.680 --> 0:19:49.240 go to Instagram with it right now. I'm just gonna 0:19:49.280 --> 0:19:53.399 get and I'm like, okay, whoa, whoa whoa, Like no, 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:55.399 wait a second. The same where we talked to she 0:19:55.520 --> 0:20:01.520 posted that yes, well I have even more strong and 0:20:01.560 --> 0:20:03.720 I was like nope, no, no, And I keep going 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:07.119 Protect Scotland. That's my my slogan for all of this, 0:20:07.200 --> 0:20:11.920 because he is Scottish and I just really feel very 0:20:11.960 --> 0:20:14.880 passionate about him as a human and I wanted him protected. 0:20:15.400 --> 0:20:17.920 She's like, I think I just go in. I could tell. 0:20:18.119 --> 0:20:20.320 I could tell she's getting close, and then she got 0:20:20.400 --> 0:20:23.639 silent one and I wrote, and I go back to 0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:28.080 the group tex. It's like, and I answering this cat 0:20:28.080 --> 0:20:30.760 because she's busy posting to Instagram. She's taking her emo. 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:34.200 She started it with, talked me off the ledge, so 0:20:34.240 --> 0:20:37.320 we had every right to come back and try. That's 0:20:37.400 --> 0:20:40.040 usually what she says right before she hit the post. 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:44.200 I was like, we're literally talking to each other, like 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:48.040 like we're behind her back right now. Christ it doesn't 0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.520 matter what you say. She's not listening. I go, Kat's 0:20:50.600 --> 0:20:52.919 just me and you on here now, it's fine. And 0:20:52.960 --> 0:20:54.879 then you in silent and I was like, you're calling 0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:57.080 her as a manager, and so then I was like, 0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.560 I'm all here, but I'm just here by myself. What 0:20:59.680 --> 0:21:03.359 I've and is I say my piece and then that's 0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:06.440 you know, manager character of thing. I just keep using 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:10.640 the brave heart. What's wrong with the beautiful video I made? 0:21:10.960 --> 0:21:14.720 It's precious, so great, it is amazing. Which of this 0:21:14.800 --> 0:21:16.840 girl's like just put it out there like a month ago. 0:21:17.560 --> 0:21:19.919