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Speaker 4: A bitch, you don't deserve you don't deserve that. I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't have to say she got done dirty,

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Speaker 4: Well, she was coming off of hot movie. She had this,

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Speaker 3: What that's her resume in Like it's like, you know,

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Speaker 4: But you know, that was.

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Speaker 3: And I think whether like I said her, she might

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Speaker 4: Gonna die whether she's right or wrong.

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Speaker 3: I don't like her, so I don't want to say

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Speaker 5: I excuse me, I completely agree in particularly and being

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Speaker 2: It just bothers me. I'm like you, I could take

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Speaker 5: Shit was huh hilarious, like like funny is funny. But

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Speaker 5: Nobody asks your opinion on if you think she's funny

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Speaker 2: It's going on. Like you said Netflix would have been better.

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Speaker 5: She could have shot, oh you know what, you go

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Speaker 5: So when you go this route, you don't know how

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Speaker 5: Some people are cool and would have been like, okay,

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Speaker 3: says they the best five stars by Niche NYC, who

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Speaker 3: says TVGWT is one of the first podcasts that address

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Speaker 3: race and culture in a funny and insightful way.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you, short and sweet and straight to

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Speaker 5: the point, and additional back to Monique.

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Speaker 2: Addition of back to Monique, it's always funny.

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Speaker 5: And being a black woman and a lot of other

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Speaker 5: black women see this, it's always funny. When it gets

447
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:50,159
Speaker 5: to us, it always stopped. We don't ever have time.

448
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Speaker 5: You're being divisive, even our own men turn around and

449
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Speaker 5: tell us this. But when they showing ass is out

450
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Speaker 5: here wanting to get paid more, when they're demanding more,

451
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Speaker 5: pay their demanding equality, when they when when they're out

452
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Speaker 5: here showing their asses out on the street. Let's say

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Speaker 5: Kevin Hart would have did the same thing, these same

454
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Speaker 5: niggas if were go on that more nigue would have

455
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Speaker 5: been like a nigga, go get your goddamn money. What's

456
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Speaker 5: the difference. The fact that he has a penis? Is

457
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Speaker 5: that the difference? Because a lot of a lot of

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Speaker 5: this sundown on racism and sexism, that's what a lot

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Speaker 5: of this brought down to. That's the foundation of a

460
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Speaker 5: lot of the backlash towards her. No matter how you

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Speaker 5: want to paint it, no matter which way you want

462
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Speaker 5: to spend it, no matter how you want to say

463
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Speaker 5: she's not funny, that's nobody go fuck if she's.

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Speaker 2: Not funny to you because you're not fucking paying her.

465
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Speaker 4: Netflix is actually do you want better?

466
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Speaker 3: How many niggas you know support LaVar Ball but want

467
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Speaker 3: Moneique to shut the fuck up?

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Speaker 2: Come on, you know a.

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Speaker 3: Dude that literally doesn't have, you know, like a platform

470
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Speaker 3: or a long standing history of work and shit and

471
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Speaker 3: people I know, people that made arguments to the point

472
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Speaker 3: of saying shit like, uh, he's the Emmitt Teal of this,

473
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Speaker 3: that and the other saying we need to support this

474
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Speaker 3: black man and that, and they then turned around and

475
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Speaker 3: was like, you know, fuck, fuck Monique asking for all

476
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 3: this money. What's wrong with her? You know, Uh, it's

477
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 3: just wild, like they supported this nigga selling five hundred

478
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Speaker 3: dollars shoes that nobody has gotten yet, but somehow Monique

479
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 3: was out of pocket for thinking five hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 3: was low.

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Speaker 4: And then I think, especially when you justtapose this with

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Speaker 4: Tracy Ellis Ross and Wanda Sykes, I feel like you

483
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Speaker 4: do have an argument. But people don't like.

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Speaker 5: Monique, so right, they don't like Monique, And at the

485
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Speaker 5: end of the day, a lot of people don't like

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Speaker 5: black women, even black women themselves.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, some of the people was black women, although in

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Speaker 4: all fairness, most of the people I've seen going up

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Speaker 4: for her were black women.

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Speaker 5: Right, right, right, Most of the people did go up

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Speaker 5: for her were black women. But you always have them

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Speaker 5: special snowflakes that want to come out to woodworks and

493
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Speaker 5: shit like that, or have this self hatred or don't

494
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Speaker 5: or not comfortable in their own blackness, and they'll start

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Speaker 5: coming after woodwork. And even that, you have a lot

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Speaker 5: of women that are politically correct because, oh, we support you,

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Speaker 5: unless you're Leslie Jones, Oh we support you.

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Speaker 2: Unto you, Monique. You you have people that you support.

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Speaker 5: But you have to live a certain lifestyle, you have

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Speaker 5: to have a certain image, you have to be presented

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Speaker 5: in a certain way.

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Speaker 2: It's comfortable to white people.

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Speaker 5: So I said, even some black women come out and

504
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Speaker 5: after what works because she's not neat, she's not cut,

505
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Speaker 5: she's not small enough, or whatever.

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Speaker 2: That goddamn reason is.

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Speaker 5: So even within black women themselves, you have a tiny

508
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Speaker 5: percentage that will come out and do and speak the

509
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Speaker 5: same shit that they constantly on the timeline talking against.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, let's get into the episodes on the page.

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Speaker 3: Episode sixteen hundred is Different When they Like You was

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Speaker 3: a feedback episode and we got no comments, and the

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Speaker 3: pole no comments, But the poe was, are y'all feeling

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Speaker 3: the Women's March this year?

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Speaker 2: Math?

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Speaker 4: Yes or now? Now? Nine percent?

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Speaker 3: Yes, eighteen percent, I'm feeling it and seventy three percent

518
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Speaker 3: of men whatever I think I was kind of into whatever,

519
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Speaker 3: camp this year, it wasn't as exciting, need more controversy.

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Speaker 3: Which is funny though, because after the march there's always

521
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Speaker 3: like signs of black women that's roasting the white women

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Speaker 3: that's out there marching, which is become one of my

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Speaker 3: favorite things. So I hope the march continues forever because

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Speaker 3: the sisters holding up funny signs will completely always crack

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Speaker 3: me up.

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Speaker 4: Anyway, Episode sixteen oh one Know Me Too?

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Speaker 3: For Monique, we have a Shani and Chante on from

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Speaker 3: the single Simulcast podcast and we got one comment. This

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Speaker 3: from Evie says, I think Monique brings up a valid

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Speaker 3: point about the pay disparity of black women. Once again,

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Speaker 3: when black women speak up about injustice, we're told to

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Speaker 3: shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 4: Part of it is that.

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Speaker 3: Some people don't like her for her outspoken this, but

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Speaker 3: that doesn't mean she doesn't have a valid point. I

536
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Speaker 3: was so disheartened seeing y'all so many black men and

537
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Speaker 3: women say she's irrelevant and she should just get be glass.

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Speaker 3: She was offered anything. If you don't fight for what

539
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Speaker 3: you think you're worth, who will for her? And I

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Speaker 3: attend to boycott Crackle for Monique?

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Speaker 4: Who's with me?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I will be boycott and the Crunchy Row network,

543
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Speaker 3: so you know, I also have to negotiate with Monique. Okay,

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Speaker 3: but nah, I feel you know, I just don't understand

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Speaker 3: why people are so threatened about her.

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Speaker 4: It's like, if she wouldn't.

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Speaker 3: Have said the Netflix thing, I wonder if that would

548
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Speaker 3: have changed anything. No, you know, cause some people seem

549
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Speaker 3: to be more offended at the idea, like it you

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Speaker 3: want us to boycott Netflix. And then it started from

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Speaker 3: there and went into like like if she had a

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Speaker 3: call to action from black people, because I do, I

553
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: do want to say, I there's something to that that

554
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Speaker 3: is fucked up, like when you call on the black

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Speaker 3: community that you don't really seem to.

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Speaker 4: Like you don't really seem to.

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Speaker 3: Be supporting the actions and causes of the community all

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Speaker 3: the time, like you're not an activist or anything like that,

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Speaker 3: and then something bad happens to you, and then it's

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Speaker 3: like all black people, get the word out, y'all need

561
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Speaker 3: to do this for me?

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Speaker 4: It does, it does part.

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Speaker 3: Of that part I cannot I cannot separate part of

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Speaker 3: the backlash from that. That definitely is where it started,

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Speaker 3: because if she would have said the same thing, and

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Speaker 3: not brought up we need a boycott Netflix. Some like

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Speaker 3: some people wouldn't have been so quick to be like,

568
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Speaker 3: shut the fuck up. They would have been more like, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's fucked up that they did that to her once

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Speaker 3: she but but once it started with I ain't boycott Netflix,

571
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Speaker 3: it just fired out of just to and also you

572
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Speaker 3: should just be happy, and also shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 4: And also who the fuck you think you all to

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Speaker 4: tell me what to do?

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Speaker 3: And I think that's been part of the vitrioll. And

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Speaker 3: the response is that you shouldn't be telling me what.

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Speaker 4: I got a boycott to help yall ass And you know,

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Speaker 4: y'all can argue over the fairness of that, but I

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Speaker 4: do understand that that impulse. It's like when Kanye says

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Speaker 4: something about the fashion industry and we all have to

581
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Speaker 4: be like, okay, Kanye, But that's like yo thing, you know,

582
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Speaker 4: because there's been plenty of shit where you like, I'm

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Speaker 4: not black, or you know, I like Trump and shit,

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Speaker 4: and it's like, Okay, you opt in and out when

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Speaker 4: you want to.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not saying Monique does doesn't, but you know,

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Speaker 3: I and I guess nobody wrote in to explain why

588
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Speaker 3: she needs to not have her husband manager. But you know,

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Speaker 3: I was listening to I think Firestarter or whatever, and

590
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Speaker 3: they was talking about it. Bob brought up a good point,

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Speaker 3: which is that you know she has been in several

592
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Speaker 3: like kind of public spats with people at this point

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Speaker 3: and their gatekeepers, their Lee Daniel.

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Speaker 4: Or Tyler Perry, their Oprah.

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Speaker 3: And he was saying like, if your management can't stop that,

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Speaker 3: then maybe you need different manasion. Not that he's necessarily

597
00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 3: doing a bad job or as far as representing her

598
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Speaker 3: interests right, but part of being someone's manager sometimes is

599
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Speaker 3: being like, I know what's best for you even if

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Speaker 3: you act if you won't act accordingly, So.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to get us.

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Speaker 3: Money, right, So maybe you need somebody in your corner

603
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Speaker 3: that says don't make that video, as opposed to her

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Speaker 3: husband who may be like, baby, I believe in you

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Speaker 3: so much and I support you so much. If you

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Speaker 3: want to make that video, fuck Netflix. We're gonna ride

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Speaker 3: on them. And it's like, yeah, you do want a

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Speaker 3: husband and a partner that's a rider that has your back,

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Speaker 3: that supports you.

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Speaker 4: But as a business, if it's not a smart move,

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Speaker 4: you need the.

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Speaker 3: Objectivity as a management as management to be like, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: we can't do that, like this is gonna burn a

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Speaker 3: bridge forever with you. So I kind of understand now,

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Speaker 3: but nobody wrote that explain it. So the poe was,

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Speaker 3: would you rather have seman thrown on you or be

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Speaker 3: attacked with a sword?

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Speaker 4: Careen m hm.

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Speaker 2: Don't want to be attacked with a sword, So.

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Speaker 4: You'd rather have seeman thrown on you? Okay, I'll be mad,

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Speaker 4: but the results were the results for fifty to fifty

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Speaker 4: people couldn't decide. Can I mean you.

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Speaker 2: Can wash sperm off? I mean, id damn? I mean?

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Speaker 2: But still both options is fucked up?

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Speaker 4: The comments. Demetrius says, I'll take my chances with the

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Speaker 4: sword because once that seeman.

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Speaker 3: Hits you, that's it. And don't let it be thick

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Speaker 3: as a nigga. She ah, thigga's a nigga seemen. Courtney

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Speaker 3: says it's crazy that attack with the sword is winning.

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Speaker 3: One option has an increased chance of bod the injury

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Speaker 3: and or death, while the other option is mostly just gross.

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Speaker 3: I can wipe off sperm, I can't regrow an arm

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Speaker 3: or something like that. Right, Yeah, I think people that

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Speaker 3: have had a lot of sperm on them. Probably feel

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Speaker 3: differently too, Really, dark Knight says, way man, twenty nine

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Speaker 3: of you out here'll rather get attacked with a sword

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Speaker 3: than get nut thrown on you?

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Speaker 4: Are you? Are you all for real?

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Speaker 3: After all these years listening to sword ractions, you still

640
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Speaker 3: rather be a victim of that put me down for

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Speaker 3: a bakaka party instead of tasting that co hot fill.

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Speaker 3: Fuck that something wrong with y'all are crazy, even, he says,

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Speaker 3: discussing is having seen thrown on you by a stranger.

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Speaker 4: I choose that over being attacked by a sword. Backshots

645
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Speaker 4: have never killed anyone. Yeah, I hear you.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking I go with the seamen too. Man, these

647
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Speaker 3: swords man calls irreparable harm right.

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Speaker 2: Losing eyes and limbs and shit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is some type of infected seeming or something.

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Speaker 4: I'm good. Yeah, anyway, fifty to fifty for that one

651
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Speaker 4: that tested a lot of people. I did. We had

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Speaker 4: episode sixteen oh two on Goals.

653
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Speaker 3: Where we talked about government shutdown, Daka Siarra LGBTQ News,

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Speaker 3: all the stuff, and we had one comment, which is

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Speaker 3: loading Falconszea says, hey, riding car, y'all spoke a word

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Speaker 3: about that the church and marriage. I was one of

657
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Speaker 3: those women that would have been co signed the sermon

658
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: that the air posted. Admittedly, I was over the quest

659
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: for marriage by the time I got married. In other words,

660
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 3: I gotten past thinking something was wrong with me and

661
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:11,720
Speaker 3: was fully prepared to be single for the rest of

662
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: my life. But there was some residual church teachings that

663
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 3: led to me ultimately getting married, like the sin of

664
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 3: sex outside of marriage and the woman's called to be

665
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 3: the man's helper. More importantly, some of those church teachings

666
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: are what kept me in the marriage.

667
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 4: Mm hm.

668
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: I can't put it all on church. Though before I

669
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 3: got married, my family and close friends were resigned to

670
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: the fact that I wasn't going to get married.

671
00:32:31,480 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 4: After I got married, I love it up in my

672
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 4: family's eyes like a mofo. Listen here.

673
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 3: I am single, good job, well traveled, debt free except

674
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 3: for my mortgage. Always swooping in the same family members,

675
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: only one that showed up to all family functions. I

676
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 3: thought I was pretty phenomenal. But when I walked in

677
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: with that man, you would have think I turned into

678
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,719
Speaker 3: wonder woman. After that, if I showed up without him,

679
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 3: the questions were endless, Where was he?

680
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 4: How was he doing? Is he coming next time?

681
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: By the time I decided to get divorced, I was

682
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 3: at peace, but I was a little hesitant to tell

683
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: my family. I suspected there was a lot of speculation

684
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: and I was being too hard on him. No one

685
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 3: asked how I was doing, but there was plenty of

686
00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 3: inquiries about him and how he was doing. Listen, I

687
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 3: love respect my family, but this past Christmas I had

688
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 3: to take a break from them.

689
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 4: Then.

690
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 3: I was pretty then, I was pretty petty with it

691
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 3: and Droda n s. But I spent time with friends

692
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 3: and my godmother. Oh and it's been a while since

693
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 3: I've been to church too. God and I still are good,

694
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 3: but I had to take a break from the misogynistic rhetoric.

695
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 4: Sorry for such a long event, but every now and

696
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 4: then I get triggered.

697
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: I've given myself until one year at the versary of

698
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,000
Speaker 3: them out of voice, to stopped being bitter about my marriage.

699
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 4: So please forgive me. I have a little less than

700
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 4: four months to get it all out.

701
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 5: And I'm gonna tell you this, when when it comes

702
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 5: to family, it's okay to separate from family. A lot

703
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 5: of people think that's the worst shit ever. No, no, na,

704
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 5: Sometimes you gotta be like, you know what, this holiday,

705
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 5: I'm good And if a lot more people would do that,

706
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 5: you would actually have better functioning relationships with your family.

707
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 5: You know, your family's crazy. You know your family go

708
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 5: on your nerves. You know you don't and I'm just

709
00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 5: keep it around. You know, you don't like to be

710
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:06,239
Speaker 5: in the president of your family. Every time you get

711
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 5: around them.

712
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 2: Is girl, you don't gainst somebody? Yeah, bitch, I know,

713
00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 2: I know before you know, like I got family members

714
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: like that.

715
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 5: I'm like, don't ask for that shit. You know, a

716
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 5: constant accent about your mate.

717
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: That shit gets old.

718
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 5: And they've been doing that since you shit, since you've

719
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 5: been a child. So it's not brand new. Your got

720
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 5: a family, ain't changing. Some of your family been doing

721
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 5: this since you was five and six.

722
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 2: You know, take a break.

723
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,759
Speaker 5: It's all right if that feels hurt, wilright, you know,

724
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 5: but that's the thing nobody wants to be looked at.

725
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 2: That's a bad guy.

726
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,479
Speaker 5: And a lot of times what I realized the family

727
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 5: family makes you feel bad for opting out.

728
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 2: They make they put the obligation on.

729
00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 5: You to come to shit that you don't want to

730
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 5: come to and you don't feel like coming to because

731
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 5: you know they got fucked up views, fucked up opinions,

732
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 5: They get on your nerves. You know you have to

733
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 5: pray or whatever or get your mind right or woosagh

734
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 5: because you know when you walk up in that bitch

735
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 5: you almost after you. You don't want to fight and

736
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 5: fuss with them. So it's all right to take a break.

737
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 5: And also, don't give yourself a deadline, baby, you go,

738
00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 5: I give myself a year. Nobody knows how long it

739
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 5: takes to get over something like that. That's that's not

740
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,879
Speaker 5: something that you can easily get quote unquote get over.

741
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 2: So whenever you are done with it, let it be

742
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 2: on your time.

743
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 5: Don't don't put unrealistic timetables on yourself, because what happened

744
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 5: If you get to a year and you're still feeling

745
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 5: the same way you feel right now, have you failed?

746
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 2: Is there's something wrong with you, like you begin to

747
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,879
Speaker 2: question yourself. Just let things take their time and when

748
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 2: it's time to heal, baby, you know.

749
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 4: Yeah.

750
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 3: One of the things I'd also add is that you

751
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 3: brought up that that you.

752
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 4: Stayed in the marriage partially because of like those believes too.

753
00:35:42,920 --> 00:35:44,840
Speaker 3: And I think that's another thing we don't talk about,

754
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 3: is not just the getting married thing, because like I said,

755
00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 3: everyone thinks I get.

756
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 4: Married and then it's pressureus off of me. But it

757
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,280
Speaker 4: never stops because then it's all you're gonna have some kids,

758
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 4: What about the house, what about you know, a bunch

759
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 4: of other just more. It's always more for people to

760
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 4: be in your business about not to mention if the

761
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,240
Speaker 4: man cheats on you. How many articles things have women

762
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 4: blaming themselves for a dude cheating.

763
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 3: You know, you're not enough woman to keep me from cheating.

764
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 3: How many abusive relationships are what you're supposed to submit

765
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,399
Speaker 3: to me? How many emotionally abusive relationships are you're supposed.

766
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 4: To submit to me?

767
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 3: So he gets to run out, tell you whatever, treat

768
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 3: you like you're not his partner in this, but but

769
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 3: his child. You know the you know, you let your

770
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 3: woman wear that, you let your woman go here, you

771
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 3: let your woman do go.

772
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 4: Out with this person.

773
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:37,799
Speaker 3: Like all that kind of shit is like kind of

774
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 3: ingrained in our culture, and a lot of it comes

775
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 3: through religion. So even if you you know, even once

776
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,680
Speaker 3: you're married, if you got married with.

777
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 4: A lot of harmful a lot of harmful beliefs in

778
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 4: the forming of the marriage.

779
00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 3: Then yeah, you're gonna end up carrying those beliefs on

780
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:05,560
Speaker 3: to this, you know. And I think that's a very

781
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 3: real thing that can happen because even within the marriage,

782
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,400
Speaker 3: it continues to be harmful and they keep you from

783
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 3: leaving and keep you from from demanding better and stuff

784
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 3: like that. Right, And you know, people don't want to

785
00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:21,439
Speaker 3: admit this, but it's a lot of abusive relationships quote

786
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 3: unquote within religion. You know, they preached this thing about marriage,

787
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 3: but you know, where's the word about getting divorced? Where's

788
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 3: the word about nobody wants to be abused? Where's the

789
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 3: word about I shouldn't be emotionally and physically attacked.

790
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 2: Where's that abuse?

791
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 5: I shouldn't be yelled at me and my children should

792
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,400
Speaker 5: be fearful for our lives. Like nobody talks about that. Nobody,

793
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 5: you know, nobody talks about it's okay to leave. You know,

794
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 5: a lot of people are shunned and frowned upon, and

795
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,240
Speaker 5: like you say, particularly way.

796
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 2: To come to religion.

797
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 5: No, none of the responsibility of even falls on the man,

798
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 5: and even some and some religions, you have to have

799
00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 5: the man's permission to quote unquote the goddamn leave, you know,

800
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 5: depend on what your religion is and how their laws

801
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 5: are laid out.

802
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: And to me, that's fucked up.

803
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 5: You know, a lot of and a lot of times

804
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 5: in religion, a lot of the power and authority is

805
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 5: stripped from women.

806
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 2: You know, that's also a trick of it too. You know,

807
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 2: women are.

808
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,360
Speaker 5: Taught to be less than women are taught not to

809
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 5: be in a place of authority. Women are taught, you know,

810
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 5: to sit down, shut up, and be quiet and just

811
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 5: be here and have children. But a lot of times

812
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 5: if you aspire to be more, all of a sudden,

813
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 5: your shun you're pushed to the side. Or even if

814
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 5: you are in religion and you quote unquote try to

815
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 5: fight against the machine. That's very very hard to do.

816
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 5: It's not impossible, but it's very hard to do. And

817
00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 5: those are things that people don't want.

818
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:36,479
Speaker 2: To talk about either.

819
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I's smart saying in the chat, it's hard

820
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,280
Speaker 3: to leave when your support system cares more about marriages

821
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,320
Speaker 3: as a concept that individual's health and safety.

822
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,319
Speaker 5: Right, your mental health, you know, your physical health, you know,

823
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 5: you go you know, to them for help, and they'll

824
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:52,880
Speaker 5: turn around and tell your abusure. You go to it

825
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 5: for them for help, and then they'll turn around and

826
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,120
Speaker 5: tell your abusure where you are, and you're physically telling

827
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 5: them like, we are in harm, we are in danger,

828
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 5: and a lot of times you have to end up

829
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 5: leaving and separating from these groups for your own safety.

830
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like, go get your wife, because it's basically

831
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:11,359
Speaker 4: we still looked at women as property. It's go get

832
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 4: your property back, you know, go like, she had this shelter,

833
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 4: she's doing this, it's your right to have her back,

834
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 4: you know, Like we don't really do that with men,

835
00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 4: you know. But also it's also weird too because one

836
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,800
Speaker 4: of the things about the Me Too movement that's so

837
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,399
Speaker 4: scary to so many people to me is like, it's

838
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,839
Speaker 4: not scary because it's just the natural evolution of what

839
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 4: we've been building towards for decades at this point, and

840
00:39:36,760 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 4: if not centuries. This is what equality for women is

841
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 4: gonna end up looking like, it's gonna be a lot of.

842
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 3: People that are gonna have to reconcile that the things

843
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 3: that they've done, that they've gotten away with are no

844
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:53,160
Speaker 3: longer acceptable. And this is just part of that process,

845
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: you know, and I hope it doesn't stop, but I

846
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 3: hope it continues to go because this is the only

847
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 3: way we're gonna find out. You know, some of these

848
00:39:59,800 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 3: things we don't know as a society. We know, but

849
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 3: we don't know women know, but in general society doesn't

850
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 3: treat it like it's common knowledge. And it's like, well,

851
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 3: this is the part of the process that makes it

852
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 3: common knowledge. Is us going, hey, every woman, you know

853
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 3: it's been sexually arassed. Every woman you know has had

854
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 3: the quote unquote aseason sorry type dude.

855
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 4: Every woman you know has.

856
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 3: Had the worker who got too close or touched or

857
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 3: something like everyone. So now that you know everyone's having

858
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 3: it and it's been happening to everyone, well, part of

859
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,399
Speaker 3: that is this too, Like for a long time, these

860
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 3: guys go to these churches and they get these speeches

861
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 3: and people pass them around and there's no real backlash.

862
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 3: People cla applaud in the audience. There's no real backlash,

863
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 3: there's no counterpoint to it. There's no Christian argument against it,

864
00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,760
Speaker 3: which is really the most important part.

865
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 4: You know.

866
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 3: It's like back to I think it was doctor Kelly

867
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 3: wrote then talking about how what role would you call

868
00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 3: these people a hotel? I call these people Christians, like

869
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 3: the people that I don't have a special pet term

870
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 3: for them if they're Christians too, like like the people

871
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,880
Speaker 3: that applauded that man in that room, the people that

872
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 3: spread his message on the internet, and now they're finally

873
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,400
Speaker 3: hearing some backlash to it. But I wish more the

874
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 3: backlash was from a Christian perspect where it was other

875
00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 3: people saying I'm gonna use the same text and the

876
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 3: same doctrine to say this is wrong. But you don't

877
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 3: really see that. You just see a lot of people

878
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 3: kind of outside being like, this is just wrong. But

879
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 3: you know, it would be interesting if someone went to

880
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 3: the scriptures and was like, this is why this is wrong,

881
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,280
Speaker 3: and this is why people shouldn't be spreading these messages

882
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 3: that women need to basically be property.

883
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 4: But at the same time, is that even really in

884
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:46,640
Speaker 4: the Bible? I don't know anyway.

885
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 3: Do you believe ourset didn't know he was using queer

886
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 3: as a slur? Yes, he didn't know, or know he

887
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 3: meant it as a slur. Nine percent said yes, he

888
00:41:55,560 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 3: didn't know, and ninety one percent said no, he meant it.

889
00:41:58,480 --> 00:41:58,919
Speaker 4: As a slur.

890
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 3: Yes he did, and it's actually less than I percent

891
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 3: because the comment is from Courtney, who says accidentally pressed yes,

892
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 3: definitely meant no. I don't believe him excuse for something

893
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,799
Speaker 3: right out of Trump's playbook aka, oh no, I didn't

894
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,760
Speaker 3: mean it like that, even though there's no other logical

895
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 3: way to take what I said.

896
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 2: Thank you baby.

897
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's even less than IRU's like seven percent.

898
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: Even less.

899
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,400
Speaker 6: Uh.

900
00:42:21,480 --> 00:42:24,400
Speaker 3: We had episode sixteen oh three Chopping Chokers. The smither

901
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 3: Rings talked about that Dino Dick. My man Barney also

902
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 3: pregame was good this week. I talked to Justin about

903
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 3: this story the next day and.

904
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:38,280
Speaker 4: It was, uh, it was fun.

905
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: Ha ha.

906
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,840
Speaker 4: If you guys are if you guys are premium, you

907
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 4: really will enjoy it. This week's fast. I think it's

908
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 4: actually called Dino Dick, but I'm not.

909
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,919
Speaker 2: Yes, I listened to that. You told Justin to leave

910
00:42:51,000 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 2: you alone.

911
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 3: Brooklyn Shoebag says, the story report you read about the

912
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 3: hospital bed death, the hospital yes increasing during the late

913
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 3: weekend hours were startling accurate. When I was young, I

914
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 3: had terrible asthma, no health insurance, regular doctor.

915
00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 4: I would go to a er with with my mom.

916
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 3: In the middle of the night, I'd be in the

917
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 3: highway with the worst of the worst, shot cops, shot suspects,

918
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 3: odn addicts, suicidal teens, et cetera. When I reached my twenties,

919
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 3: I would wait if I could go to the emergency

920
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 3: room at five or six in the morning because there

921
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 3: was a shift change pressure doctors, nurses and intake. Thankfully,

922
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 3: I have health insurance and there's better medicine to control

923
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:29,280
Speaker 3: my asthma in hell steroids that still has become a generic.

924
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 3: But that's another rant. So those regular er trusts are

925
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 3: basically behind me. I know that feeling. I had asthma

926
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 3: all my whole youth.

927
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 4: MM.

928
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 5: If you've been into a hospital and those you know,

929
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 5: and you don't want to die because we know the

930
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 5: weekend shift, the night shift is like the probability you

931
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 5: die is higher.

932
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 2: They do.

933
00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:49,120
Speaker 5: They normally work twelve hour shifts and they know them.

934
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 5: Like you said, the shift changes about six am seven am.

935
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 5: That's when the twelve I was in in the time

936
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 5: for the next shift to come on.

937
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 4: Right.

938
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 3: Uh, Dick's tropics says, what Dick's trap, See, I don't

939
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 3: know this is I can't stop laughing. Even though the

940
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 3: ad is fucked up thick as a nigga, I have to.

941
00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 3: I had to listen to this episode twice. Ain't no

942
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 3: energy blocking this way. Cheryl says, I was listening to

943
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:15,000
Speaker 3: the two of you talk about the poop knife and

944
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 3: I had the pause because I was shot. I ran

945
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 3: into the office and asked my husband. He knew what

946
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,800
Speaker 3: a poop knife was, and he did he had experience.

947
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 3: My response was, holy shit, no lie, white people, white

948
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:24,919
Speaker 3: people knews for real?

949
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 4: What the hell? Damn that's crazy. Uh, let's see. Amy

950
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 4: says I died every time I heard Magestick start up

951
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 4: that song in that time and why I perfect though,

952
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 4: I think I'll get this episode of the second listen.

953
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 4: It was too funny. Thank you, thank you. A lot

954
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 4: of people really liked this episode.

955
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 5: Uh.

956
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 3: Eve E says I used to babysit a lot, and

957
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 3: kids were literally hypnotized by Barney. They could be in

958
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 3: the middle of a huge tantrum, but I turned on

959
00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 3: Barney and they would immediately stop crying.

960
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 4: It was weird.

961
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 3: Even back then, I knew something wasn't right with the

962
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 3: effect he had on his Really, is that what we're

963
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:01,240
Speaker 3: going with? Guys, you could tell.

964
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 4: You could tell Barney was slanging dick because because it's

965
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 4: the way the kids paid attention to him. I don't

966
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 4: think it was that.

967
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 3: None of us saw this coming, and I think that

968
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,279
Speaker 3: should be okay to admit, guys, we don't have to

969
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,960
Speaker 3: act like we we always knew something about that damn dinosaur.

970
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 3: He was out here slinging it around these little kids,

971
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 3: paying too much attention.

972
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 4: Uh even back then, I knew someone was right there.

973
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 4: Uh now now that I know he's.

974
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 3: Slanging that dick I had, I want to ask Selena

975
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 3: Gomanz and Demi Levado if they're okay. I don't think

976
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 3: he molested, looked hid anything. But in that article he

977
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: said the kids could feel his energy and now outside

978
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 3: of him, I was never here the I Love You

979
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:43,240
Speaker 3: song the same.

980
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 4: Way again, shaking my head, Yeah he was.

981
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 3: He was slanging that dick. But listen, I don't want

982
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 3: to take it out of what the pedophilia.

983
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 4: Guys. I hope it was he.

984
00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:54,399
Speaker 2: Was slinging a dick.

985
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it didn't sound like I mean, look, it don't

986
00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,760
Speaker 3: just like because he out here hitting the fifty year okakes,

987
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: It don't sound like he nowhere near you know, a

988
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 3: dude that's just trying to smash some some young some

989
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,360
Speaker 3: young chicks. Okay, so you know, I'm gonna be careful

990
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 3: with Let's be a little careful with that.

991
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 4: The poets, have you had tantric sex? Yes? Six No,

992
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:21,879
Speaker 4: I thought we had some freaks in here.

993
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 3: Brook Brooklyn shoe Ba says the tantric sex it means

994
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 3: mind for sex, and I've had tantrik sex because I

995
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 3: was in the mind to get laid.

996
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 4: Laugh my ass. Sorry, I'm corny. It's okay. I know

997
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 4: youre just out here getting your your life. What what? What?

998
00:46:56,360 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 2: What?

999
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 4: Uh?

1000
00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 3: Episode sixteen oh four curtain call. We had no comments.

1001
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:05,839
Speaker 3: It was just our walking down recap and I mean

1002
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,280
Speaker 3: no comments, no feedback, Like what the hell?

1003
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 2: People was like, I'm glad they did my recap.

1004
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 4: It's our father for waiting that long. Honestly, it's not

1005
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 4: yours fault. We did take faux Eltart back up.

1006
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but but seeing this way, we won't have as

1007
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:23,240
Speaker 3: long as a break, you know't anyway.

1008
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,959
Speaker 4: The poets are you gonna miss Fetti car? Yes? I will,

1009
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 4: or no, it was time for him to go.

1010
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 3: Eighty four percent of them said yes, I will miss

1011
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 3: fetti car. You know what that's that's sweet, guys, You

1012
00:47:36,080 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 3: guys are real sweet for that sixthe him said no,

1013
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: it was time for him to go. Courtney says, I

1014
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,279
Speaker 3: missed the hat. The most recipes of the car and

1015
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 3: the hat. The greatest couple of the show has ever known.

1016
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 3: They almost made it right. Yes, Yeah, it's gonna.

1017
00:47:51,960 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 4: Be excruciating to watch how he die because you know,

1018
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:57,439
Speaker 4: you're gonna you're gonna have to die like I wonder

1019
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 4: his dad.

1020
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 5: Yes, it's gonna have to do something big because you know,

1021
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 5: on this show, when some you know, some main characters

1022
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 5: got a big thing, it's like you get like a

1023
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 5: really big death, like like your death. You know it's

1024
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 5: gonna be something special about it. That is you just

1025
00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 5: don't you know, walk and get caught by by by

1026
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 5: a straight uh walker. They're like, nah, we gotta do

1027
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:17,680
Speaker 5: something big.

1028
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1029
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:21,919
Speaker 3: I wonder if he's gonna fire, I mean not fire,

1030
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 3: if he's gonna give the hat to.

1031
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,800
Speaker 4: Judith now or something, or if he's gonna put the

1032
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 4: hat back on.

1033
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,080
Speaker 3: You know, it'll be interesting to see what they learn

1034
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 3: from this. All right, we had some emails. Let's get

1035
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 3: into this and then we'll get out of here. Hey,

1036
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 3: Karen and Rogers from Simone, who says, I'm five minutes

1037
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 3: into the first episode of Black Likenings, my Lord Nina

1038
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:45,320
Speaker 3: Simone singing strange fruit.

1039
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 4: All these black actors.

1040
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 3: Work in a Fanny liu Hammer reference. Chris Williams, who

1041
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 3: will always be schooled from living single in my mind

1042
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 3: is still fun. I totally get while you both fanned out,

1043
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:57,479
Speaker 3: and I'm just at the first commercial break. This show

1044
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 3: already feels like it's just it's just what I needed

1045
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 3: after extremely trying two weeks, nearly two full episodes left

1046
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 3: to watch, but had the pause that thank my friends

1047
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,959
Speaker 3: in my head, hope, hope you both had a great week.

1048
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 2: We did, and thank you, thank you.

1049
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:17,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, Black Lightning is lit, kids, it was our second

1050
00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 3: episode is dope too, Eman says Hi again, just want

1051
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,919
Speaker 3: to clarify my voicemail. I wasn't saying the conversation around

1052
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:25,760
Speaker 3: Moniques versus Netflix isn't important.

1053
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 4: We're talking about talking about what.

1054
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 3: People who clearly seem setting a mind state of hating

1055
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 3: on her, especially on social media. It also annoys me

1056
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 3: that people are trying to use black women comedians to

1057
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,280
Speaker 3: undercut a point. How many other black women comedy specials

1058
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 3: are there on Netflix right now? I think it's only

1059
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,360
Speaker 3: one of her old specials, in one of Leslie Jones

1060
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 3: old specials.

1061
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 4: That's it.

1062
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 3: It also enrages me when folks bring in Monique's dramatic

1063
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 3: work as a negative mark on her, Like, what.

1064
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 4: The fuck you look? You know what?

1065
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, this is just making me mad all over again.

1066
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 3: I'm going to leave it there. Thanks for talking about

1067
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 3: all the hypocrisy on this issue. Side note that Frankie

1068
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 3: French pros you shared shocked me because I didn't even

1069
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 3: notice there were no black women in bright I was

1070
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 3: too mad and distracted by that being no black elves.

1071
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:10,760
Speaker 4: Our boy our boycott nick at NICKD. Knight, love y'all

1072
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 4: in mine. Ah yeah, Frankie French.

1073
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 3: Who uh, she's one of the people that goes on

1074
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:20,759
Speaker 3: a sock puppet of three guys on but she's also

1075
00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:22,759
Speaker 3: very funny comedian and stuff, And she had this really

1076
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:28,439
Speaker 3: good post about like how to her to see other

1077
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 3: black women hating on the Monique thing really bother her

1078
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 3: a lot, because like, we can't ask for better for ourselves,

1079
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:36,359
Speaker 3: and what the fucking we asked for right, you know,

1080
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 3: and I completely understood that point. She wasn't saying all

1081
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 3: black women are blaming all She was the basically saying, like,

1082
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 3: of the people that are rooting against her, why other

1083
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 3: black women?

1084
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 4: You know, that's so weird. Marissa Rights saying, dear Rod

1085
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 4: and Karen, Happy new.

1086
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 3: Years to both of you, and I hope the new

1087
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 3: year we get more adventures with Karen at travel series.

1088
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 4: I'm glad you enjoy your trip to Jamaica. Karen.

1089
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 3: I'm also glad you confirmed how nice the resource of

1090
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 3: sandals was, because I always viewed all inclusive resources as

1091
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 3: like that fire festival job Rule was hosted.

1092
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 4: Now on to business.

1093
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:10,360
Speaker 3: I watched the debate about Monique in Netflix, and let

1094
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 3: me say, people can think what they whatever about Monique

1095
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:15,600
Speaker 3: regarding her marriage or attitude, whatever the levels. I saw people,

1096
00:51:15,600 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 3: even black people, twisting themselves, and the pressls defending black

1097
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 3: women getting lowballed.

1098
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 4: The argument always went back to, well who Monique thinks

1099
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 4: she is? Dave Chapelle, Amy Schumer, what a coincidence that

1100
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 4: a black woman is viewed as less than a white

1101
00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:31,880
Speaker 4: woman and a brother, now we've met, now have we

1102
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:36,080
Speaker 4: seen this mentality? Before exactly. Oh yeah, we have to

1103
00:51:36,200 --> 00:51:36,880
Speaker 4: a lot of people.

1104
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 3: Equality exists only because a black man and white women

1105
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:42,200
Speaker 3: have come up. So you black chicks, you take whatever

1106
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 3: we give you and be happy. Amy Schumer is not

1107
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 3: nor will she ever be funny to me. But she

1108
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 3: getting her money because she has an audience. Then we

1109
00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 3: saw what went down. Emonique has an audience too. I

1110
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,720
Speaker 3: remember watching her on Comic View back in the early nineties.

1111
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 3: She has won awards for her acting, had specials a

1112
00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 3: Queen the comedy still bang five hundred k as an

1113
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 3: insult now offering my non comedian ask that money is

1114
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:10,240
Speaker 3: different an industry yet, Nope.

1115
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,280
Speaker 4: An industry that nope. Yeah, I agree.

1116
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 3: Well, what's interesting is because the thing what's funny is

1117
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,920
Speaker 3: you could have made this argument about Leslie Jones just

1118
00:52:17,920 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 3: two years ago, correct, forty eight years old, you know,

1119
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 3: really just first getting her break into S and L

1120
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 3: and a bigger white audience. She had been the best

1121
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 3: kept secret of black audiences for a long time.

1122
00:52:31,080 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 4: Black audiences kept her afloat.

1123
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 3: Kept her employed, you know, like she was able to

1124
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 3: go do black stand up.

1125
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,040
Speaker 4: Now. One of the things that's becoming.

1126
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 3: A major contention in all these discussions about stand up.

1127
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 3: There's a lot of people who don't really fuck with

1128
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 3: stand up talking about stand up, right, you know, And

1129
00:52:53,440 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 3: there's a lot of people that just don't know what

1130
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:59,279
Speaker 3: the fuck they talking about. So and maybe that's the

1131
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 3: problem is the art of stand up, the industry of

1132
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 3: stand up is just not something that people are that

1133
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 3: interested in, but yet they want to give an opinion.

1134
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 2: Have a hot take about everything.

1135
00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I mean, because in all fairness, the Dave

1136
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 3: Chappelle specials to me, were still funny. He's still really

1137
00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 3: fucking good. He's still one of the best in the

1138
00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 3: game ever to ever do it. He put out basically

1139
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 3: four specials in two years, and all of them to me,

1140
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:28,840
Speaker 3: were funny.

1141
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 4: They might not hit the social critical lens and the

1142
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,320
Speaker 4: academic levels that people wanted, but that's.

1143
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 3: Not something I necessarily ask of my comedians, Like I

1144
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 3: don't ask you to be right. I ask you to

1145
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,239
Speaker 3: be funny, and if you make me laugh, then we good,

1146
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,399
Speaker 3: you know. And it doesn't mean I agree with every

1147
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 3: joke or that every joke is funny. There's some jokes

1148
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 3: in every special. I'm like, ah, well, let's see what

1149
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 3: he does with this. We'll see how you can get

1150
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 3: himself out of that or whatever. Right, But I appreciate

1151
00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 3: the art of stand up, you know, I appreciate that.

1152
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 3: But I think one of the things that hasn't been

1153
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:05,239
Speaker 3: discussed as much because it was too focused on Monique.

1154
00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 4: Netflix is kind of undercut the value of stand up

1155
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 4: by just giving everybody a.

1156
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 3: Special correct and so stand up, for like HBO is

1157
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 3: an event. It's like this person must be funny or

1158
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 3: they must god next. Even even HBO has lowered the

1159
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 3: bar to give you a special. I think Jerry Carmichael

1160
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 3: has two of them already, like he's young at fuck

1161
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 3: the Michael Chase specially, I want to say, started on.

1162
00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 4: HBO, but maybe it was on Netflix first.

1163
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 3: Anyway, the point the point being like it's so low

1164
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 3: and the competition is so high at this point with

1165
00:54:39,080 --> 00:54:41,799
Speaker 3: in stand up, that motherfuckers are basically giving away these

1166
00:54:41,800 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 3: goddamn specials, you know, every like, let's just give everybody one,

1167
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 3: and at some point there will be like a lowering

1168
00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 3: of the value. And I don't know how much people

1169
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 3: are watching these specials like that anyway, you know, I

1170
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 3: don't even know what the watch numbers were from Chappelle.

1171
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 3: You know, because if your argument is she's not gonna

1172
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:05,400
Speaker 3: bring in enough views to make it worthwhile to have

1173
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 3: her on Netflix, then how many views did the Chappelle

1174
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 3: specials get? Cause that that mofuck costs way more than

1175
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 3: y'all were willing to offer her.

1176
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 4: So what number is the right number? You know, if

1177
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 4: that's how you think they measure value, which I low

1178
00:55:20,600 --> 00:55:22,560
Speaker 4: key don't think that they can measure value in views.

1179
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,719
Speaker 4: That's just that's a to me. It's like that's a

1180
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 4: partial picture of the value. But they get their money

1181
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:32,719
Speaker 4: from investors, so it's more about spending money to look

1182
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 4: a certain way. And once we.

1183
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 3: Talk about optics, don't you want to look like you

1184
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,319
Speaker 3: have black women on your fucking shit?

1185
00:55:40,840 --> 00:55:42,960
Speaker 4: Don't you want to look like you do? They might

1186
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:44,759
Speaker 4: be more valuable to you to look like you pay

1187
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 4: them and stuff like that. Then even then even the

1188
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 4: value of the views, like it's not such a meritocracy

1189
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 4: as people try to portray it anyway. So all that

1190
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 4: shit to say, like, I don't think that we really.

1191
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,400
Speaker 3: Got to discuss like the big issue of stand up

1192
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 3: in general and what is the value of stand up now?

1193
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:09,160
Speaker 3: Because we spend so much time consuming shit via social

1194
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 3: media via the Internet all this stuff. How many people

1195
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 3: really sit down with the mentality to let us stand

1196
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:19,360
Speaker 3: up do their thing and want to also be on

1197
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 3: social media talking about this stuff, Like, I don't think

1198
00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,360
Speaker 3: the social media crowd is necessarily the stand up crowd.

1199
00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 2: It's not.

1200
00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,799
Speaker 3: You know, social media is kind of a like like,

1201
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 3: it's kind of a it's a hyperble, like I said,

1202
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,240
Speaker 3: it's hyperbole, Like social media is a lot of people

1203
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,560
Speaker 3: talking a lot of times to a lot of people

1204
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 3: that agree with them in most cases, and being very loud.

1205
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 3: But I would say they don't really represent the true

1206
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 3: representation of the audience at a stand up or the

1207
00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 3: audience of people that watch stand up and don't have

1208
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 3: hot takes and and all this shit. Most people that

1209
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,320
Speaker 3: watch that Chappelle special are probably just either gonna laugh

1210
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 3: at it or not laugh at it, and they're not

1211
00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 3: gonna go And now I want to go talk to

1212
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 3: people about it.

1213
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:05,440
Speaker 4: I recognize the bubble.

1214
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 3: I men, we have surrounded ourselves with a lot of

1215
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 3: very funny people, many of them professional stand up comedians,

1216
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 3: you know, friends of the showing stuff that like they

1217
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 3: they want to talk about it because it's their careers,

1218
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 3: right I tal I talk about it because I love

1219
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,880
Speaker 3: stand up like that. I'm like, oh my god, I

1220
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 3: nor McDonald got a special lot. I don't want to go.

1221
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 3: I want to see this, you know. And even with me,

1222
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,640
Speaker 3: I can't see as all of it anymore because they're

1223
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 3: giving away so much that it's not special anymore. The

1224
00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 3: odds of me watching a whack ass stand up special

1225
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,480
Speaker 3: have increased tenfold in the last few years because everybody

1226
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 3: getting them, you know, people that clearly aren't ready, they

1227
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 3: don't have thirty minutes to an hour, but somehow they

1228
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 3: got the special, you know.

1229
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 5: And then you have people out there that have been

1230
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,560
Speaker 5: working for a very long time and that are very funny.

1231
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: They won't even get a glance.

1232
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 5: But you have a lot of average to mediocre white

1233
00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 5: ass dudes to get specials, and Comedy Central's giving away

1234
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 5: a lot like it's this was the way the game

1235
00:57:59,920 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 5: was gonna go eventually. It's just wild that within that spectrum,

1236
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 5: Monique still.

1237
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 4: Should carry some cashet because she's been doing it so long.

1238
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:10,960
Speaker 2: She is a name.

1239
00:58:11,160 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 4: We don't even call her by her last name. None

1240
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 4: of us know her last name.

1241
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

1242
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 4: She's somebody.

1243
00:58:15,720 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 3: It's not like This isn't a nobody asking for some

1244
00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 3: a handout, right, She's somebody you would think she would

1245
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:26,960
Speaker 3: marrit more Wander Sykes is definitely somebody. They offer her

1246
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:29,600
Speaker 3: less than half of that, Like, come on, man, it's

1247
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 3: a problem. I don't I don't even know why this

1248
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 3: is an argument. And if d Ray Davis was joking

1249
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,840
Speaker 3: about that five million, then I guess haha. But if

1250
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 3: he wasn't joking, come on, guys, come on man, like

1251
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 3: they could have gave him more.

1252
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:45,800
Speaker 4: They may brite.

1253
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 3: With ninety million dollar budget, they got more money to give.

1254
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 3: And I just don't know why that turned into such

1255
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 3: a personal thing. Then we saw it with down with

1256
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 3: Tracy Ellis Roth saying thing all of a sudden when

1257
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,280
Speaker 3: it was leaked she may have been paid less. The

1258
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:01,040
Speaker 3: levels of folks to meeting her play some compared to

1259
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 3: Anthony Anderson. That train of shit, that train to shit

1260
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 3: on sisters is literally never late. It won't be long

1261
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 3: before they're coming from Tiffany hatis that train will be

1262
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:13,040
Speaker 3: on time too. Anyways, congratsic Car for no more student loans.

1263
00:59:13,160 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 3: Nice job with the sister Rod, no problem you uh yeah.

1264
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 3: And also Tracy Ellis Ross thing was kind of funny too,

1265
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 3: because isn't it funny how much people love Tracy Ellis

1266
00:59:23,560 --> 00:59:28,439
Speaker 3: Ross when she's hosting an AWAR when she's like when

1267
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 3: when it was her Anthony Anderson hosting the BT Awards.

1268
00:59:31,720 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 3: When Tracy Ellis Ross shows up under black carpet with

1269
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 3: the black power fist, like people legit like will support her,

1270
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 3: and then the second she's like, you know, and by

1271
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 3: the way, she didn't say shit, but the second there

1272
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 3: were rumors about her being unhappy with the negotiation process,

1273
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,720
Speaker 3: it was like, well, shit, don't nobody watch the show

1274
00:59:50,760 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 3: for you?

1275
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 5: Like, okay, a lot of people do, and it will

1276
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,040
Speaker 5: fucking affect the ratings, whether you want to believe.

1277
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:59,400
Speaker 4: That or not, right, But you know what, I don't.

1278
00:59:59,760 --> 01:00:02,439
Speaker 4: It's it's weird. I wonder how far we come.

1279
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,520
Speaker 3: I don't know, true, because I still remember aunt vill

1280
01:00:05,560 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 3: Gating replace, you know, and they ain't make anybody turn

1281
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 3: that shit off, you know what I mean. I wonder

1282
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:13,840
Speaker 3: if we've come further in that twenty years or so,

1283
01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 3: if people would be like, because I mean, I hope

1284
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 3: you're right, I think matter fac I would say, I

1285
01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 3: think you're right. But I wonder because people I let

1286
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:23,959
Speaker 3: me down.

1287
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:25,720
Speaker 2: I think they'll see a deal.

1288
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think.

1289
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 2: I'm not saying you're gonna get canceled.

1290
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 5: I'm just saying you're gonna have a percentage of people

1291
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 5: they were like, oh, I only watched the show for her,

1292
01:00:34,120 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 5: Fuck it.

1293
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 4: I'm out. Yeah. I wonder what it would be, is

1294
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:37,240
Speaker 4: what I'm saying.

1295
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 3: I wonder because I don't think it happened with aunt Vill,

1296
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,120
Speaker 3: so I wonder what would happen if and this was

1297
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 3: before the quarter work walk, before social media.

1298
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,400
Speaker 2: Because if that ship was to happen now, oh, some

1299
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 2: people will say.

1300
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 4: Something yeah, right, And I wonder if they have the

1301
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:56,240
Speaker 4: numbers now to be like we're gonna make an impact,

1302
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 4: like fuck the show, you just thanked your show.

1303
01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 3: I hope it ain't come to that though. All the best,

1304
01:01:01,680 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 3: Marissa from the Bronx. Thanks Marissa of PS. Where are

1305
01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:07,160
Speaker 3: y'all finding these terrible ass acoustic covers that are more

1306
01:01:07,240 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 3: they're more awful than the usual ones played on the show.

1307
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 3: Those covers should be reported to Homeland Security.

1308
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 4: Your your opinions, men knowed?

1309
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,920
Speaker 3: Ms Martakin says, level up, wife yourself, wife your silly

1310
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 3: with wait, wife yourself silly? Women's what is he it's

1311
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 3: so interesting to hear your views on the Sierra Post.

1312
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:30,480
Speaker 3: When I've heard it first, I did not take it

1313
01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:32,600
Speaker 3: as because you're not married, you ain't shit. I took

1314
01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 3: it as you should carry yourself with the assurance that

1315
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 3: you are married, that you are married or not, because

1316
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 3: you are so loved by God, as you are so

1317
01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:43,320
Speaker 3: walked in confidence and know your worth. Now while the

1318
01:01:43,360 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 3: standard of the ultimate confident woman is wife. We already

1319
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 3: know why misogyny. But yeah, I took it as love yourself.

1320
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:52,360
Speaker 3: God already finds you wonderfully worthy, and let the light

1321
01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:55,120
Speaker 3: shine and you and a good man, we'll see that

1322
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 3: and recognize the treasure. You should already know the treasure

1323
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 3: you should already know you are. Yes, I wear rose

1324
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:05,439
Speaker 3: colored glasses sometimes, so basically I was not offended as much,

1325
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:07,800
Speaker 3: but found it to be problematic in a slightly different

1326
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:09,480
Speaker 3: way than you for hearing your perspective.

1327
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 4: I do see what you're saying, y'all.

1328
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 3: Always glad to hear different views from my own, even

1329
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 3: though most of the time completely agree with child, especially

1330
01:02:16,920 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 3: the rants and the puns. I will say young, the

1331
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:21,880
Speaker 3: for a life partner is not all church based or

1332
01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 3: religion based.

1333
01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:24,800
Speaker 4: It could be individual or anthropological.

1334
01:02:24,880 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 3: Societal pressures surely play apart, but also just because of

1335
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 3: the human condition. Maybe the target of this message are

1336
01:02:30,800 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 3: the women who are tired of being single. I mean,

1337
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,840
Speaker 3: and you have your Queen caren So it's not your

1338
01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,080
Speaker 3: experience to live well until your forties as a single person,

1339
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 3: let alone single woman in this world, not by choice.

1340
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 3: It is partly fomo fe you're missing off, in part

1341
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 3: just wanting to partner in his life, someone in your corner, and.

1342
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,280
Speaker 4: Not about not what about.

1343
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 3: It's not about what other people think or about measuring

1344
01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:53,560
Speaker 3: self worth. I think the pastor is pay their into

1345
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 3: that crowd and kind of saying that he thinks these

1346
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 3: women what these women want to hear. I do not

1347
01:02:58,040 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 3: think he has any right to tell these women how

1348
01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 3: to be. Though as Sierra being silent is free. Well,

1349
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 3: you know, let me add a couple of days to this,

1350
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:09,480
Speaker 3: because I'm not a single woman and in my forties

1351
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:13,080
Speaker 3: and shit like that. But a part of what we

1352
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 3: a lot of what we call society is influenced by religion.

1353
01:03:15,840 --> 01:03:18,200
Speaker 2: Though yes it is. And my thing is that you

1354
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 2: can't ignore that.

1355
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 5: And what you said is not what he said on

1356
01:03:21,640 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 5: this video, like like what you said is different. He

1357
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 5: never said God loves you, love yourself, get your you

1358
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 5: know and and and instead of saying you don't need

1359
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:37,240
Speaker 5: a man to me. The whole message, in my opinion,

1360
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 5: was you you, as a woman looking for a man,

1361
01:03:42,840 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 5: get yourself right in a position to find a man

1362
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:46,919
Speaker 5: like like that.

1363
01:03:46,920 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 2: That was the pushing of this message.

1364
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 3: Listen, he said, the reason you're not married is because

1365
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 3: you carry yourself in the spirit of a girlfriend. This

1366
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 3: was not up for debate. This is not because you

1367
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:05,480
Speaker 3: don't love yourself as God loves you. He literally said,

1368
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,680
Speaker 3: the measure of your value is being a wife to

1369
01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 3: a being picked to be a man's wife. So the

1370
01:04:12,240 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 3: reason you are not with a man is because you

1371
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 3: don't have the right mentality and you don't carry yourself

1372
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:20,760
Speaker 3: the right way, and then you will be valuable. So

1373
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 3: it's whether he was trying to flip it to like

1374
01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 3: some fake it till you make it type shit. He

1375
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 3: essentially was saying the ultimate value of a woman is

1376
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 3: to be chosen by a man. Secondly, the societal thing

1377
01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 3: we cannot skip over. This society is influenced by thousands

1378
01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 3: of years of religion. So while the things we call

1379
01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 3: society are not amorphoust like different religious culture put it

1380
01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 3: this way, in other cultures where you can have multiple wives,

1381
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 3: if we don't just go, well, I was missing a

1382
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 3: life partner and stuff. Where there's arranged marriages, they don't

1383
01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 3: even have the romanticism of picking and choosing a wife

1384
01:04:58,360 --> 01:04:59,800
Speaker 3: on that level.

1385
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 4: It's almost like a business decision.

1386
01:05:02,200 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 3: Like our parents go, this will be the good paring,

1387
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 3: this will be the right We'll keep the class going.

1388
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 3: We'll keep this going, like our stake in society will

1389
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 3: be moved up by this arrangement. You know, dowries and

1390
01:05:13,320 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 3: stuff take place. Marriage is a business proposition more so

1391
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 3: than anything else. The love part is extremely optional and

1392
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 3: very lucky and fortunate. I feel very lucky and fortunate

1393
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:27,240
Speaker 3: to be with Karen and to be with somebody I love.

1394
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 3: But that's like the actual arrangement of a marriage. Ain't

1395
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:32,440
Speaker 3: that fucking special?

1396
01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:33,280
Speaker 6: You know?

1397
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 3: Like the press and the pressure we put on women

1398
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 3: in society that also is not that special. It's not

1399
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 3: just the Christian Church, it's a lot of people through society,

1400
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:46,560
Speaker 3: and we specifically put it on women. You notice, like,

1401
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:49,520
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I'm not trying to blow up on you.

1402
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:53,360
Speaker 3: But it's like you do notice like it. They don't

1403
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 3: address the men. They never do.

1404
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 4: Why is that they're in a room full of people.

1405
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 3: Some of those people are and me, I've never been

1406
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:03,920
Speaker 3: in a church where they took the me into Hey,

1407
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:08,120
Speaker 3: why aren't you are not acting how a man should act.

1408
01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 4: When he's looking to be a husband. Never like we

1409
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 4: can't skip over.

1410
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 3: Some obvious stuff in the room to then go to like,

1411
01:06:16,360 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 3: well it could be a nice thing. It's not and

1412
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 3: it never is. You know, you can dress your misogyny

1413
01:06:23,240 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 3: up in flowery words, you can hide it behind the cross.

1414
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:28,720
Speaker 4: You can do whatever you want. Misogyny, misogyny.

1415
01:06:28,840 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 3: You know, it is what it is, so you know,

1416
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 3: and I don't think we're doing any favors by trying

1417
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 3: to like put the rose colored glasses on it, you know.

1418
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 3: And I don't mean to the mean folks religion. I

1419
01:06:41,360 --> 01:06:43,480
Speaker 3: know people are. There's plenty of people that are religious

1420
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 3: that listening to show. It's plenty of Christians that listening

1421
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 3: to show. One of the reason I try not to

1422
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,280
Speaker 3: talk about this shit, to be honest, is because I

1423
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 3: don't want to make y'all mad or upset y'all about

1424
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 3: some shit about the way I feel, and ultimately it's

1425
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 3: not gonna change anything. It's not like anyone ever listening

1426
01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:00,080
Speaker 3: to shit and then it go, well, you know, he

1427
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 3: changed my mind I have been feeling this way or whatever.

1428
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 3: For the most part, people are just like either already

1429
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:06,000
Speaker 3: see what you're saying.

1430
01:07:06,160 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 4: Or fuck it.

1431
01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 3: And most people that go to this, you know, they

1432
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,040
Speaker 3: go to church and they hear these messages, They're gonna

1433
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 3: keep going even if they disagree with them, the same

1434
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:14,959
Speaker 3: way that they go and they hear the stuff about

1435
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 3: gay people and they keep going, and they hear the

1436
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:20,080
Speaker 3: stuff about you know, you know, all this shit. You know,

1437
01:07:20,120 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 3: they just keep going anyway. So I'm not even saying

1438
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,200
Speaker 3: it's to change of mind or whatever. But it's obvious

1439
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 3: to me what the message was, Like I don't know

1440
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 3: what he would have had to, like did he if

1441
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:34,040
Speaker 3: he would have said bitches would have been different, like

1442
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 3: Peo would have said, females would have been different, Like

1443
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:39,960
Speaker 3: these are some of the same things that misogynistic men

1444
01:07:40,000 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 3: say online, but they use different language. Like all these

1445
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:45,640
Speaker 3: females be acting like this and that's why they ain't

1446
01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 3: no wife, you know, Like it's that kind of shit

1447
01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 3: to me. So but but you know, but I also

1448
01:07:52,640 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 3: understand how, especially if you've been in that environment, and

1449
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,880
Speaker 3: especially with the him being on stage and all these

1450
01:07:58,880 --> 01:08:01,880
Speaker 3: women applauding him, it's like, oh, no, he's telling them

1451
01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:04,320
Speaker 3: what they want to hear. He's telling them the right thing.

1452
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 3: But you know, and that's actually the trick to me

1453
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 3: of a lot of church, a lot of church, is

1454
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 3: I can trick you into thinking this is good because

1455
01:08:16,360 --> 01:08:18,280
Speaker 3: everybody's clapping for it, and because I'm on stage with

1456
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 3: a mic, and I got an organ, and I got

1457
01:08:20,280 --> 01:08:22,960
Speaker 3: a choir, and I'm in a suit, and it's like, well,

1458
01:08:22,960 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 3: then I guess this misogyny is different. But when you

1459
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 3: take the same misogynistic message and it's Tyrese, how many

1460
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:32,879
Speaker 3: of the same people would be like, man, fuck tyres who.

1461
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 4: Is he to tell me? Blah blah blah.

1462
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 3: Well, if he was if it was a Sunday and

1463
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 3: he was at an organ and you got a fucking

1464
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 3: choir behind him, and he was on the stage in

1465
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 3: a pull pit behind a podium, how many people would

1466
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:47,960
Speaker 3: absolutely be applaud in Tyrese's message. It's one of the

1467
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:52,160
Speaker 3: reasons he was so confused at the pushback, Like, really, y'all.

1468
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 3: Why y'all saying this, like cause this ain't church, you know,

1469
01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:59,919
Speaker 3: but so many black men are ridden this model to luxury,

1470
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 3: to be rich, you know. And and I guess it

1471
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 3: bothers me because I feel like it's such as it's

1472
01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:10,920
Speaker 3: such an obvious scam and you know, whether it's internalized

1473
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 3: misogyny or whatever, the people that buy into it, it

1474
01:09:13,560 --> 01:09:17,960
Speaker 3: kind of to me it is a negative effect, a

1475
01:09:18,000 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 3: net negative effect on the entire community. For women to

1476
01:09:20,880 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 3: be walking around feeling like dang shit till they get

1477
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:26,759
Speaker 3: a man. And oh, I would try to down anything

1478
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:29,680
Speaker 3: that was part of that system, whether it was a

1479
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:35,880
Speaker 3: church or whatever. But but I do understand it's not

1480
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,879
Speaker 3: just church, So please don't get it twisted.

1481
01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 4: I'm not saying only church does this, life does this.

1482
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 4: We the government does this, right right.

1483
01:09:45,000 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 5: The government benefits you to be married, they benefit you

1484
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:50,000
Speaker 5: to have children, You get tax breaks.

1485
01:09:50,000 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 2: That's not for no reason.

1486
01:09:51,760 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I you know, I'm not, like I said,

1487
01:09:55,040 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 3: I hesitated to even talk about it because I didn't

1488
01:09:57,360 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 3: even talk about it on social media, to be honest,

1489
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,800
Speaker 3: because I saw how many people were upset by it.

1490
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 3: And and there's reasons that people are upset by it

1491
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 3: as well, you know, with their own insecurities and own

1492
01:10:08,320 --> 01:10:11,280
Speaker 3: things that they're dealing with, the own messages that they're getting.

1493
01:10:11,920 --> 01:10:14,760
Speaker 3: Because technically it shouldn't really matter with the Fuxierra things

1494
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 3: or that pastor things. It really shouldn't matter, to be honest,

1495
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 3: if you're single, day has nothing to do with your life,

1496
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 3: you know. But there's a level of like just getting

1497
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 3: fed up with hearing the shit over and over that

1498
01:10:25,479 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 3: people are starting to have. And I'm happy to hear

1499
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:29,760
Speaker 3: that the people are tired of this shit because it's

1500
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:32,759
Speaker 3: not your fault, you know, it's fucked up.

1501
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 5: To right people and people and women are single for

1502
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 5: a lot of different reasons. And the thing is, and

1503
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 5: people that like some single women are actually out here

1504
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:43,479
Speaker 5: looking for a man.

1505
01:10:43,640 --> 01:10:46,439
Speaker 2: Every single woman ain't looking for a man, dog mm hmm.

1506
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 3: Like you know what else, church like it's black churches

1507
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 3: have also been used to put respectability politics on black people.

1508
01:10:55,840 --> 01:10:57,400
Speaker 3: And they are black people that clap for that shit

1509
01:10:57,439 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 3: and eat it up too.

1510
01:10:58,360 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 4: And I don't fuck with that, you see what I'm saying.

1511
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 3: Like it's bigger than just this one thing, Like if

1512
01:11:04,240 --> 01:11:06,120
Speaker 3: you would have shared the clip of this dude being

1513
01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:10,080
Speaker 3: like and the reason y'all out here going to jail

1514
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 3: is cuz y'all don't pull y'all pants up.

1515
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 4: I would be like, the.

1516
01:11:13,800 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 3: Fuck is this nigga talking about? You know what I mean?

1517
01:11:16,680 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 3: Like if it's if he was out here, like the

1518
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,519
Speaker 3: reason y'all don't do this is because y'all won't cut

1519
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:26,439
Speaker 3: y'all hair I'm like, okay, bro, I don't know that

1520
01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:31,600
Speaker 3: that's the message of you know, like if systematic racism

1521
01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:34,519
Speaker 3: is gonna be solved by us all getting haircuts, and

1522
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:36,599
Speaker 3: the church is one of the main places that argument

1523
01:11:36,680 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 3: comes from.

1524
01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:38,559
Speaker 4: And if she would have.

1525
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 3: Shared that clip, I would have been just as like, uh,

1526
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:43,640
Speaker 3: you know, And keep in mind, I'm saying this is

1527
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:44,559
Speaker 3: someone who didn't even.

1528
01:11:44,479 --> 01:11:46,880
Speaker 4: Talk about on social media, Like I think I made.

1529
01:11:46,760 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 3: A joke about it, Like if anything beyond jokes, I

1530
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:52,200
Speaker 3: don't have really the contribute because I don't really care

1531
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 3: what they think. Russell and SR Like that's their life.

1532
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:58,040
Speaker 3: And like I said, there's a lot of people around

1533
01:11:58,120 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 3: us that.

1534
01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 4: Think this shit. Oh yeah, I don't. I don't know anyway,

1535
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 4: And like I said, the government is complicit. You a

1536
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:08,120
Speaker 4: tax break for getting married to write your kids off, right,

1537
01:12:08,760 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 4: But what is part of what what is the moral

1538
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:17,120
Speaker 4: fabric of the government? Where'd that come from? Right?

1539
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:21,320
Speaker 3: Like, like it still comes from the foundation of religion.

1540
01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 3: Our government has one man, one woman as the blueprint

1541
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 3: for marriage. The fact that this guy's not even talking

1542
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 3: about saying sex relationships, right, Like, there's a lot of

1543
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 3: stuff that is in being put into the conversation by

1544
01:12:36,960 --> 01:12:38,360
Speaker 3: omission of other things.

1545
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:41,120
Speaker 4: Right. So like this is a place where it's not.

1546
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:45,320
Speaker 3: Like we say, well, forty year old lesbian women, you know,

1547
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:48,080
Speaker 3: out here being lonely and they you know, you're not

1548
01:12:48,200 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 3: valuable to you somebody's wife. We don't say that the

1549
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:55,519
Speaker 3: lesbian women, right, they don't even count. So you know,

1550
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:57,919
Speaker 3: we don't say that the gay men. You ain't somebody's

1551
01:12:58,000 --> 01:12:58,879
Speaker 3: husband yet.

1552
01:12:59,120 --> 01:13:01,360
Speaker 4: You yo a man? They ain't picked you. How you

1553
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 4: living your life? Right? We don't even say that. There's

1554
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:06,479
Speaker 4: a lot of shit right there in.

1555
01:13:06,439 --> 01:13:09,240
Speaker 3: Front of our faces that will just letting slide because

1556
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 3: he said it in the suit and he said it nice,

1557
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 3: and he need to cuse you know anyway, I'm just

1558
01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 3: sharing my initial reaction to him. In the reaction your

1559
01:13:15,880 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 3: analysis on the video, I cannot hear your analysis I've

1560
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:20,400
Speaker 3: acknowledged some of the problems you identify. Some people are

1561
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:23,280
Speaker 3: better off single, but that's not the case for everyone. Ultimately,

1562
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 3: we all just have to make the best of our

1563
01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 3: circumstances and make the best decisions.

1564
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:28,599
Speaker 4: We can and try to be happy.

1565
01:13:28,920 --> 01:13:32,879
Speaker 3: I agree too, not listen, being single ain't for everybody

1566
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:36,839
Speaker 3: being coupled up. Ain't for everybody being in a one couple,

1567
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 3: ain't for everybody being in an open relationship.

1568
01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 4: Ain't for everybody being in a.

1569
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:47,840
Speaker 3: Sexually monogamous relationship. Ain't for everybody Like all, all I'm

1570
01:13:47,880 --> 01:13:51,639
Speaker 3: saying is, go find the things that make you happy.

1571
01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:54,320
Speaker 3: If this, If you are a person that needed to

1572
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:56,080
Speaker 3: hear what we said on the show, I hope you

1573
01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:58,639
Speaker 3: heard it. If you're a person that is like, yo,

1574
01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:01,560
Speaker 3: why have I closed myself off to all these possibilities

1575
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:05,120
Speaker 3: and let myself feel bad because my worth is.

1576
01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 4: Being defined by man?

1577
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 3: Because I heard those women applauding that shit, and that's

1578
01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:10,400
Speaker 3: the part that made me feel sad.

1579
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:13,040
Speaker 4: You know, I don't really care. Like if that's some

1580
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:14,320
Speaker 4: belief system.

1581
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 3: You've arrived to it your own, and you just want

1582
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 3: to be miserable because you ain't got no man somehow,

1583
01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 3: I guess, but I really doubt that most people have

1584
01:14:22,600 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 3: completely arrived to that decision on their own. Most people

1585
01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:30,240
Speaker 3: have been influenced by a society and a religion and

1586
01:14:30,280 --> 01:14:32,880
Speaker 3: the pressure of you ain't shit if you're a woman

1587
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 3: and you ain't got a man, and we can't ignore

1588
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:39,720
Speaker 3: this very real pressure that's very prevalent in all our

1589
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:42,599
Speaker 3: media and all this shit. And then go, well they

1590
01:14:42,720 --> 01:14:44,599
Speaker 3: just you know what, that's how women won't it?

1591
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,680
Speaker 4: Like, is it though all of them? You know what

1592
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 4: I mean?

1593
01:14:48,120 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 3: Like there should be some acknowledgment like maybe motherfuckers have

1594
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:54,200
Speaker 3: been indoctrinated into feeling bad about themselves or something that

1595
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:55,760
Speaker 3: they shouldn't feel bad about.

1596
01:14:56,000 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 4: You know.

1597
01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:59,080
Speaker 3: It's almost the same argument we use for gay people

1598
01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:01,639
Speaker 3: when we talk about this discrimination and well gay people

1599
01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 3: are killing themselves.

1600
01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 4: Well that's because they feel bad because they're doing the

1601
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:04,639
Speaker 4: wrong thing.

1602
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 3: Or do we have an entire fucking society of messages

1603
01:15:07,400 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 3: that you're not a good person because you're LGBTQ.

1604
01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:13,439
Speaker 4: Like some of this shit does matter, the stuff we

1605
01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 4: put out into the world.

1606
01:15:14,520 --> 01:15:17,880
Speaker 3: So I do think that, you know, and like I said,

1607
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 3: if you're like I want to be single, I don't

1608
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:23,200
Speaker 3: need no man. I understand that, and not every woman

1609
01:15:23,280 --> 01:15:25,200
Speaker 3: is sitting around like I'm strong, I don't need no man.

1610
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 4: But I'm just saying you shouldn't.

1611
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:29,960
Speaker 3: Have to feel bad as if you're less of a

1612
01:15:30,040 --> 01:15:33,760
Speaker 3: person because you ain't got a man. That's so that's

1613
01:15:33,800 --> 01:15:38,360
Speaker 3: not I feel very comfortable saying that's just fucked up, right,

1614
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:43,360
Speaker 3: you know, I feel very comfortable saying that's different than

1615
01:15:43,439 --> 01:15:45,479
Speaker 3: going I wish I was with somebody and it just

1616
01:15:45,479 --> 01:15:49,440
Speaker 3: hadn't happened yet, or I'm not a good person.

1617
01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 4: Because it hasn't happened yet.

1618
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:54,040
Speaker 3: And I feel like this shit was promoting you're not

1619
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:56,800
Speaker 3: a good person. You don't operate correctly, that's why you

1620
01:15:56,840 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 3: haven't had a man. And I'm saying so much of

1621
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 3: this is luck, So much of this is just not

1622
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:04,680
Speaker 3: in the It's just not someone's fault. It's not a

1623
01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 3: negative character trait that we should stop talking about it

1624
01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:10,040
Speaker 3: as if it is like you act like a girlfriend,

1625
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:12,040
Speaker 3: that's why you ain't got no man like kind of shit?

1626
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 4: Is that?

1627
01:16:12,960 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 2: What do you mean?

1628
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 3: I act like a girlfriend. I'm not carrying myself correctly,

1629
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 3: you know, like everyone And meanwhile, getting married. I understand

1630
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 3: that's a big deal to a lot of people. It

1631
01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 3: ain't even that fucking big of a deal. It's not

1632
01:16:23,840 --> 01:16:25,599
Speaker 3: some anominally that appens on the woods.

1633
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:29,120
Speaker 4: A lot of motherfuckers are married unhappily as fuck, you

1634
01:16:29,160 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 4: know what I mean, Like, but they married though, you

1635
01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, like harp O beating a lot of.

1636
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,559
Speaker 2: People, dog beat the shit out of them.

1637
01:16:38,640 --> 01:16:39,639
Speaker 4: Not everything is.

1638
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 3: So it's so rosy, and I just wanted to add

1639
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:43,760
Speaker 3: some levity to it, which why I brought up the

1640
01:16:43,760 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 3: whole statistics of women's lives, fans getting shorter and all

1641
01:16:47,320 --> 01:16:47,719
Speaker 3: this stuff.

1642
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 4: Like it's not as rosy as we paint it to be.

1643
01:16:50,040 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 3: And it's okay, if we're gonna have the conversation, let's

1644
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:55,599
Speaker 3: be honest about the whole conversation, you know, because there's

1645
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 3: a lot of people that put this shit on the

1646
01:16:57,520 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 3: pedestal and then they get married and then you know,

1647
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:01,840
Speaker 3: they can't stand the motherfucker. It's like, I don't want

1648
01:17:01,840 --> 01:17:05,120
Speaker 3: to be home with this nigga either, you know. Anyway, Now,

1649
01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:05,719
Speaker 3: as far as.

1650
01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 4: For the know me too.

1651
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:08,280
Speaker 3: For Monique, I have to go back and listen to

1652
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 3: how you broke down the econotstructure Netflix I would talk

1653
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 3: about that too, but A this email is long, too long,

1654
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 3: and my pressure goes all the way up.

1655
01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 4: Love the show.

1656
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:19,519
Speaker 3: I'm premium gave a five star review, so I don't

1657
01:17:19,560 --> 01:17:21,719
Speaker 3: feel too bad about this long ass rebling as email.

1658
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:24,240
Speaker 4: You shouldn't, but I still feel a little bad. Nah,

1659
01:17:24,320 --> 01:17:25,040
Speaker 4: continue to right in.

1660
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 3: I'm going to have to spend to send you some

1661
01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 3: tea for calling your vocal cords from reading this long email. Nah,

1662
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 3: you don't need to do that, and we appreciate the feedback,

1663
01:17:33,920 --> 01:17:34,639
Speaker 3: and we do.

1664
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:36,680
Speaker 4: Honestly, man, I think.

1665
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:42,120
Speaker 3: That attitude of like, it's not that bad, it's kind

1666
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:45,160
Speaker 3: of how the shit feels to a lot of people.

1667
01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 3: And I think it's hundreds of years of practice to

1668
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:49,320
Speaker 3: make it feel that way.

1669
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:51,559
Speaker 4: Like what I'm saying is not bad. I just want

1670
01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 4: you all to be out here getting the man. I'm like,

1671
01:17:54,760 --> 01:18:02,040
Speaker 4: is that you know? Is that what it's about?

1672
01:18:02,160 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 2: You know?

1673
01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 3: And why does a room full of women want to

1674
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:08,080
Speaker 3: be told that they gonna get a man?

1675
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:09,160
Speaker 5: Like?

1676
01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 4: We have to ask I feel like we should ask

1677
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 4: the question before you even walk in the room. What

1678
01:18:15,920 --> 01:18:18,599
Speaker 4: are the influences that are making people feel a certain way?

1679
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:19,640
Speaker 5: You know?

1680
01:18:19,960 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 3: Because what is the influence to make black people clap

1681
01:18:23,840 --> 01:18:25,640
Speaker 3: for you telling me to pull my pants up and

1682
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,480
Speaker 3: cut my hair off, because that happens in church a lot.

1683
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 4: What's the influence?

1684
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:33,320
Speaker 3: Systemic racism puts pressure on me to make me feel

1685
01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:35,599
Speaker 3: like I have to beat it, you know what I mean.

1686
01:18:35,640 --> 01:18:37,200
Speaker 3: It makes me feel like I have to get in

1687
01:18:37,240 --> 01:18:40,599
Speaker 3: here and prove that I'm valuable. So I will clap

1688
01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:42,680
Speaker 3: for another black person in the suit telling me to

1689
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:44,639
Speaker 3: put on a suit and that I'm not a bad

1690
01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 3: person because I feel like I beat it. But when

1691
01:18:47,160 --> 01:18:48,800
Speaker 3: I go outside, the cost can beat me in my

1692
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:50,520
Speaker 3: fucking head in my suit.

1693
01:18:50,520 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 4: And it won't have changed anything.

1694
01:18:52,000 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 3: But I felt good for a couple of hours that

1695
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,680
Speaker 3: week in my church, and I'm not trying to take

1696
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:59,280
Speaker 3: that feeling away from people. But I feel like, also

1697
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 3: that feeling is necessarily real, and it's detrimental when we

1698
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,320
Speaker 3: start relying on that as if it's fact when it's

1699
01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:09,719
Speaker 3: not scientific fact. I like, I'm completely understanding the idea

1700
01:19:09,720 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 3: of wanting some relief from this this society. It's like,

1701
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 3: you ain't shit, you ain't got a man where you're

1702
01:19:15,000 --> 01:19:17,080
Speaker 3: man at you come down to Thanksgiving when you ain't

1703
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:19,040
Speaker 3: got no man when you're gonna have some kids, Like

1704
01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 3: I understand, like that pressure sucks, But then the solution

1705
01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 3: of that pressure isn't to then go, well, every Sunday,

1706
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you that you ain't shit, and but

1707
01:19:30,960 --> 01:19:32,760
Speaker 3: one day maybe you can hope to be ship and

1708
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,599
Speaker 3: then you'll get a man like Nah, we should start

1709
01:19:35,680 --> 01:19:38,800
Speaker 3: with like, nothing's wrong with you, you know? And here's

1710
01:19:38,880 --> 01:19:41,639
Speaker 3: here's a clip again because I think it's relevant.

1711
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:43,760
Speaker 7: My single sisters is a guy?

1712
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:44,400
Speaker 2: What is it about?

1713
01:19:44,680 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 4: Where?

1714
01:19:45,360 --> 01:19:45,599
Speaker 7: Where?

1715
01:19:45,760 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 6: Lord?

1716
01:19:46,040 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 7: Where am I gonna be found? Jesus, I've been in

1717
01:19:49,840 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 7: here worship, making perfect and love your ways. But I'm

1718
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 7: still saying, here's what the scripture says.

1719
01:19:57,720 --> 01:20:00,800
Speaker 4: He that finds a wife finds a good thing. Didn't say.

1720
01:20:00,800 --> 01:20:03,240
Speaker 4: He defines a girl that he's attracted to, who he

1721
01:20:03,280 --> 01:20:04,720
Speaker 4: then begins to date, who he.

1722
01:20:04,680 --> 01:20:07,360
Speaker 7: Then calls his girlfriend, who he then buys a ring, proposes,

1723
01:20:07,400 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 7: and makes her his fiance, who even marries later, who

1724
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 7: becomes his wife. You're not a wife when I marry you,

1725
01:20:14,280 --> 01:20:15,040
Speaker 7: You're a wife.

1726
01:20:14,880 --> 01:20:15,720
Speaker 4: When I find you.

1727
01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 3: I don't really see how that as another way to

1728
01:20:23,000 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 3: see what he said as all the flowery kind of

1729
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,639
Speaker 3: He's just saying, love yourself and the way that God

1730
01:20:29,720 --> 01:20:32,519
Speaker 3: loves you and you Nah, it sounds like he's literally saying,

1731
01:20:32,640 --> 01:20:35,040
Speaker 3: like you're wondering why you ain't got a man, it's

1732
01:20:35,040 --> 01:20:38,760
Speaker 3: because you act like a girlfriend as opposed to.

1733
01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 4: A wife and whatever that means.

1734
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,559
Speaker 3: He doesn't really offer the how you know, in that

1735
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:45,760
Speaker 3: small clip, maybe he goes on the offering, but he

1736
01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:47,080
Speaker 3: doesn't really tell you what.

1737
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 4: A wife is compared to a girlfriend.

1738
01:20:51,760 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 3: But if y'all think every woman in that room is

1739
01:20:53,880 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 3: quote unquote acting like a girlfriend, that's why she ain't

1740
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:57,760
Speaker 3: got a man, that immediately is the.

1741
01:20:57,720 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 4: Problem, you know what I mean? And I don't know,

1742
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 4: the presence of a man doesn't seem that fucking uh flattering,

1743
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:10,840
Speaker 4: just you know, knowing just any old nigga, you know

1744
01:21:10,880 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 4: what I mean, right?

1745
01:21:11,800 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 5: Because the thing about and I can tell being married

1746
01:21:17,920 --> 01:21:23,720
Speaker 5: to you is is a privilege, uh because like some

1747
01:21:23,880 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 5: men don't know how to talk to women. And I've

1748
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 5: heard of the men like talk to their wives and

1749
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,040
Speaker 5: talk to their husband. I would be like, nigga, will

1750
01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:33,559
Speaker 5: cush you the motherfucking fuck out. You know a lot

1751
01:21:33,560 --> 01:21:35,599
Speaker 5: of women deal with a lot of stuff and deal

1752
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,680
Speaker 5: with men disrespecting them, because, like you said, it's a

1753
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,080
Speaker 5: lot of people that quote unquote did all the right things,

1754
01:21:40,120 --> 01:21:42,760
Speaker 5: prayed and worship Lady before God and just did all

1755
01:21:42,760 --> 01:21:45,840
Speaker 5: these great things, and they're in miserable marriages, and they

1756
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:48,599
Speaker 5: have to deal with some fucked up situations, and they

1757
01:21:48,680 --> 01:21:51,000
Speaker 5: have to deal with people not treating them right and

1758
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 5: ostracizing them and all that stuff, you know, because when

1759
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,960
Speaker 5: it comes to marriage, everybody preaches about how great and

1760
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 5: wonderful a marriage is, but nobody talks about what happened

1761
01:21:59,360 --> 01:22:00,960
Speaker 5: when the marriage just and work, what happened when they

1762
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 5: fall apart, what happened when you're no longer in love,

1763
01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:05,559
Speaker 5: what happened when you want to leave for abuse. Nobody

1764
01:22:05,600 --> 01:22:08,759
Speaker 5: talks about the things of escape. No, No, religion doesn't

1765
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:11,479
Speaker 5: talk about all marriages ain't the same, you know, you know,

1766
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,800
Speaker 5: and if you are divorced a lot of times and

1767
01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:15,840
Speaker 5: certain religious.

1768
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:16,160
Speaker 2: As, you're shunned.

1769
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,559
Speaker 5: You can't get positions of authority all of a sudden

1770
01:22:18,600 --> 01:22:22,040
Speaker 5: you consider unworthy, particularly with the women, you know, if

1771
01:22:22,040 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 5: you've ever been divorced and have children and shit like that.

1772
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 5: And so when you talk about this, you can't separate

1773
01:22:27,720 --> 01:22:29,880
Speaker 5: that part of the sermon too. You know, because those

1774
01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:31,880
Speaker 5: party in this sum those are things that you know,

1775
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,080
Speaker 5: they don't touch it, they don't talk about or if

1776
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:36,759
Speaker 5: they do, they they talk about it. And quote unquote

1777
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 5: a separate ministry. You know, you don't get everybody to

1778
01:22:40,320 --> 01:22:42,080
Speaker 5: gather on a sudden that going and and preach to

1779
01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:43,120
Speaker 5: the people in masses.

1780
01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:43,679
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1781
01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:46,240
Speaker 3: I just I just of anything that we said on

1782
01:22:46,280 --> 01:22:48,639
Speaker 3: the show, especially anything I said.

1783
01:22:49,360 --> 01:22:51,719
Speaker 4: I just don't want people to have to feel bad because.

1784
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 3: They're not with somebody that just seems that just seems

1785
01:22:54,160 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 3: fucked up, you know.

1786
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying you're fucked up. I'm just saying

1787
01:22:58,040 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 4: the whole idea of your less of a woman because

1788
01:23:00,960 --> 01:23:02,680
Speaker 4: you ain't got a man. It's some shit that we

1789
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:07,040
Speaker 4: need to do away with. We got another card.

1790
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:11,840
Speaker 3: This one has a beach on the front, and let's

1791
01:23:11,840 --> 01:23:13,680
Speaker 3: see what this says. Dear Rodan and Karen, thank you

1792
01:23:13,720 --> 01:23:16,200
Speaker 3: for the Christmas card. Oh okay, so it's somebody we

1793
01:23:16,280 --> 01:23:16,760
Speaker 3: sent one to.

1794
01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:20,559
Speaker 4: Yes Caribbean Queen Caribbian Queen.

1795
01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 3: Dear rod and Karen, thank you for the Christmas card.

1796
01:23:24,160 --> 01:23:26,160
Speaker 3: I wanted to write because twenty seventeen was one.

1797
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:26,720
Speaker 4: Hell of a year.

1798
01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,640
Speaker 3: Last February after I finally went Premium. Shortly there after,

1799
01:23:29,720 --> 01:23:31,800
Speaker 3: I was wrongfully terminated. The four months I was out

1800
01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,599
Speaker 3: of work fight my employer. When I wasn't reading policies

1801
01:23:34,640 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 3: at hearings or job.

1802
01:23:35,520 --> 01:23:37,760
Speaker 4: Hunting, I was at home binging on Netflix and turning

1803
01:23:37,920 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 4: tune into my favorite podcast TVGWT was one of the

1804
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:43,639
Speaker 4: fun on the top of the list. Your words, jokes,

1805
01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 4: and puns often were reassuring. After coming from hearings where

1806
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:49,360
Speaker 4: I was basically called incompetent.

1807
01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 3: In June, I was triumphant. They had to eat crow.

1808
01:23:52,000 --> 01:23:54,000
Speaker 3: I got my job back and had to be made whole.

1809
01:23:54,080 --> 01:23:56,120
Speaker 3: I had the same manager, but this time my eyes

1810
01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:58,760
Speaker 3: are wide open. First of all, congratulations on one of

1811
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 3: your battle in court. Come on, oh, and I'm so

1812
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,400
Speaker 3: sorry you went through that.

1813
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:04,400
Speaker 4: That's that's wild.

1814
01:24:04,439 --> 01:24:06,640
Speaker 2: That's about the job. They don't tell you about either.

1815
01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:11,120
Speaker 4: So you know another I'll keep getting this changing. Another thing.

1816
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 4: We do this with unemployment. When people don't have jobs,

1817
01:24:14,560 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 4: we make them feel like shit.

1818
01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 3: Like they are not contributing members to society like when

1819
01:24:19,000 --> 01:24:21,400
Speaker 3: they were working. They checked and go into that motherfucking

1820
01:24:21,479 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 3: unemployment insurance fun like everybody else's.

1821
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:27,560
Speaker 4: And when they have the nerve the audacity they have

1822
01:24:27,640 --> 01:24:29,120
Speaker 4: to get a little bit of unemployment.

1823
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:31,280
Speaker 3: We make them feel like they are less of a

1824
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 3: fucking human being, you know, like you ain't shit, you

1825
01:24:34,439 --> 01:24:37,680
Speaker 3: ain't got no job, Like it's just societal shit that

1826
01:24:37,760 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 3: we bought into as a structure of this country in

1827
01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:40,439
Speaker 3: the world.

1828
01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:43,080
Speaker 4: That it's not good for people. Man, Like you're not

1829
01:24:43,160 --> 01:24:45,360
Speaker 4: a productive member of society because you out of a job.

1830
01:24:45,400 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 4: I remember when I was unemployed.

1831
01:24:47,280 --> 01:24:50,839
Speaker 3: You know, they stripped down the unemployment to inhumane levels

1832
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:51,559
Speaker 3: in our fate.

1833
01:24:51,960 --> 01:24:53,559
Speaker 2: You can't live off that bullshit.

1834
01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:55,880
Speaker 3: It went like you used to be on unemployment for

1835
01:24:55,920 --> 01:24:58,640
Speaker 3: like three years, it was matched by your salary.

1836
01:24:59,840 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 4: So so that you know, because you have.

1837
01:25:01,200 --> 01:25:03,320
Speaker 3: A good paying job, which means you put more money

1838
01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:04,519
Speaker 3: into the uninsurance front.

1839
01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 4: Correct, But most importantly, like.

1840
01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,559
Speaker 3: You you have a good paying job, that means you

1841
01:25:10,640 --> 01:25:13,400
Speaker 3: got bills. That means you live a place that you

1842
01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 3: gotta pay some you know, rent on this a little bit,

1843
01:25:15,920 --> 01:25:18,599
Speaker 3: you gotta pay a mortgage, you might have a car note.

1844
01:25:19,120 --> 01:25:21,519
Speaker 3: So they used to be like, okay, you would get

1845
01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:24,920
Speaker 3: in say three thousand dollars every two weeks or some

1846
01:25:25,000 --> 01:25:27,479
Speaker 3: shit like, well, you won't get three thousand, but you

1847
01:25:27,600 --> 01:25:32,040
Speaker 3: might get saved fifteen hundred or something, right Like, you

1848
01:25:32,080 --> 01:25:33,880
Speaker 3: don't have to cut back some expenses, but you.

1849
01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 4: Might be able to make it if you listen.

1850
01:25:36,560 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 3: They cut this shit to three something a week and

1851
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:41,160
Speaker 3: taxes come out of that max max.

1852
01:25:41,240 --> 01:25:42,799
Speaker 2: They don't give a fuck what you've been doing.

1853
01:25:42,680 --> 01:25:46,400
Speaker 3: Before, right, Like, that shit is inhumane, but you know

1854
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:48,120
Speaker 3: why it passed, and you know why people don't have

1855
01:25:48,200 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 3: problem with it because everyone thinks if you don't have

1856
01:25:50,479 --> 01:25:52,720
Speaker 3: a job, you don't deserve a job. You ain't shit,

1857
01:25:52,800 --> 01:25:54,679
Speaker 3: You just don't work hard, you don't care about yourself.

1858
01:25:55,000 --> 01:25:58,120
Speaker 3: That's kind of how the message to me felt when

1859
01:25:58,120 --> 01:26:00,639
Speaker 3: this dude was talking about why women don't have a man.

1860
01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,080
Speaker 4: It's like, Oh, it's because you ain't.

1861
01:26:02,439 --> 01:26:05,160
Speaker 3: You ain't walking around with the mentality of a wife, like,

1862
01:26:05,760 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 3: or what the fuck is the mentality of a wife?

1863
01:26:08,760 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 4: And how do you know I don't have that? I

1864
01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:12,479
Speaker 4: just don't. I'm just not married right now.

1865
01:26:12,520 --> 01:26:15,599
Speaker 3: I just don't, you know, I don't, just like and

1866
01:26:15,640 --> 01:26:18,080
Speaker 3: I think low key if he would have had to

1867
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:19,760
Speaker 3: go and explain, I feel like a lot of that

1868
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:22,639
Speaker 3: shit is really just don't be out here having sex

1869
01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:25,160
Speaker 3: with dudes. Until you get married to him, which is

1870
01:26:25,200 --> 01:26:27,160
Speaker 3: always some reductive shit because we ain't never talked to

1871
01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:30,040
Speaker 3: dude that ever in church ever, we have never been

1872
01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 3: like and men stopped giving away out this dick fuck

1873
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:36,120
Speaker 3: out my face anyway, So moving along optimistically, you come

1874
01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:38,200
Speaker 3: September Hurricane i Irma.

1875
01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:41,040
Speaker 4: My family home literally was gone with the wind. Damn.

1876
01:26:41,120 --> 01:26:43,160
Speaker 3: It was rough those first few weeks, no home, no power,

1877
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:46,080
Speaker 3: no internet. I had no appetite and survived on gatorade.

1878
01:26:46,120 --> 01:26:48,719
Speaker 3: The signal was not strong enough to download the podcast.

1879
01:26:48,760 --> 01:26:50,799
Speaker 4: However, I did go old school and read books.

1880
01:26:50,920 --> 01:26:53,519
Speaker 3: When we finally got access, our Benz downloaded all regular

1881
01:26:53,520 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 3: favorite podcasts throughout all of the holidays. We're low key,

1882
01:26:57,320 --> 01:26:59,760
Speaker 3: but I'm totally I'm truly looking for twenty eighteen. So

1883
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:02,280
Speaker 3: in his car to add you to to a long

1884
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:04,280
Speaker 3: thank you list of family and friends that have helped

1885
01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:08,000
Speaker 3: me through twenty seventeen. Your podcast is really, it really

1886
01:27:08,439 --> 01:27:11,360
Speaker 3: is all the good things people say. Love Caribby and

1887
01:27:11,439 --> 01:27:15,400
Speaker 3: Queen PS. I use this method because in truth, my

1888
01:27:15,439 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 3: handwriting it's trocious, so is mine, and I thank you

1889
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 3: so much not just for listening to stuff, but also

1890
01:27:21,320 --> 01:27:24,880
Speaker 3: for putting this paper in here and thank you, and

1891
01:27:24,920 --> 01:27:26,080
Speaker 3: the back of the car has a.

1892
01:27:25,960 --> 01:27:29,120
Speaker 4: Message because it's from the beach.

1893
01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:32,679
Speaker 3: Has always fell home like home to Christian Wheatly, whether

1894
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 3: serving in California age eleven or later working in the

1895
01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:36,879
Speaker 3: Florida Keys on a reef project.

1896
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:39,160
Speaker 4: I don't know what Christian Wheatly is. That sounds white,

1897
01:27:39,680 --> 01:27:41,320
Speaker 4: but it is a white dude with a dog on

1898
01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:41,599
Speaker 4: the back.

1899
01:27:41,720 --> 01:27:44,160
Speaker 3: I've been camera on the backs. Thank you Christian Whekly

1900
01:27:44,240 --> 01:27:47,439
Speaker 3: as well. Appreciate you dog, Thank you. And then Karen

1901
01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:48,120
Speaker 3: got this gift.

1902
01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:51,880
Speaker 4: Hi, Karen and Rod. I've not seen any affordable, an

1903
01:27:51,880 --> 01:27:54,880
Speaker 4: affordable option like this one until I saw it on

1904
01:27:54,920 --> 01:27:55,320
Speaker 4: your list.

1905
01:27:55,400 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 3: I hope this helps and stay glowing and exfoliated. Our

1906
01:27:57,880 --> 01:28:00,160
Speaker 3: black will crack if it is dry, stay more us

1907
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:03,400
Speaker 3: rides and enjoy samon E and I can't explain to

1908
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:04,760
Speaker 3: them what this is.

1909
01:28:05,880 --> 01:28:11,080
Speaker 5: Oh, that's a beautycare massager. I think I remember Miss

1910
01:28:11,160 --> 01:28:13,439
Speaker 5: Smart was talking about it. Hers probably a little bit

1911
01:28:13,439 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 5: more fancier than mine. But this is one where it

1912
01:28:16,880 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 5: has like different.

1913
01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:20,000
Speaker 2: Brushes and some of my soft and some of them

1914
01:28:20,000 --> 01:28:21,360
Speaker 2: are hard, and they.

1915
01:28:21,880 --> 01:28:26,040
Speaker 5: Help with your skin, exfodiate your skin, get to their skins,

1916
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:28,000
Speaker 5: s grub all the stuff off your face to keep

1917
01:28:28,000 --> 01:28:30,920
Speaker 5: your forest popping and keep your skin bumping. And it

1918
01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:33,040
Speaker 5: was it was not expensive at all, like she said,

1919
01:28:33,080 --> 01:28:34,439
Speaker 5: normally those things are really high.

1920
01:28:34,800 --> 01:28:35,960
Speaker 2: I was looking on Amazon.

1921
01:28:36,040 --> 01:28:38,599
Speaker 5: I found a special They got like seven seven, eight

1922
01:28:38,600 --> 01:28:42,920
Speaker 5: different brushes and shit like that. So I'm excited using

1923
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:44,719
Speaker 5: it to get my skin shining.

1924
01:28:44,880 --> 01:28:45,679
Speaker 4: Shout out to Simon.

1925
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 3: And lastly, this isn't really podcast laated, but I was

1926
01:28:49,120 --> 01:28:52,040
Speaker 3: live tweeting Future Man, which is a funny show on Hulu.

1927
01:28:52,120 --> 01:28:53,760
Speaker 4: We also did an off season review.

1928
01:28:53,520 --> 01:28:57,600
Speaker 3: Of it, and the Future Man Hulu account saw me

1929
01:28:57,840 --> 01:28:59,720
Speaker 3: live tweeting it and hit me up and was like,

1930
01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 3: can we DM you?

1931
01:29:02,240 --> 01:29:04,160
Speaker 4: And they did, and they said they were gonna send

1932
01:29:04,200 --> 01:29:04,599
Speaker 4: me something.

1933
01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:08,759
Speaker 3: They sent me these pins from the Future Man TV show,

1934
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 3: which is also Sarah Dippity. Because I was wearing my

1935
01:29:11,200 --> 01:29:13,760
Speaker 3: Future Man T shirt when I checked the mail. I

1936
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,400
Speaker 3: don't know like what the fucking odds of that were,

1937
01:29:17,680 --> 01:29:19,880
Speaker 3: and I took a picture with it, although I spilled

1938
01:29:19,880 --> 01:29:21,479
Speaker 3: something on my shirt so I had to take the

1939
01:29:21,520 --> 01:29:24,960
Speaker 3: shirt off. But anyway, the point being, thank you Future

1940
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 3: Man as well, and y'all should check out that show

1941
01:29:28,960 --> 01:29:31,719
Speaker 3: if y'all are into that really really good.

1942
01:29:32,680 --> 01:29:35,320
Speaker 4: All right, We'll be back tomorrow this week.

1943
01:29:35,640 --> 01:29:38,760
Speaker 3: I know we have our Wednesday comedy outliers will be

1944
01:29:38,760 --> 01:29:43,760
Speaker 3: a guest yay, Mike Brown and Brandon Collins, so can't

1945
01:29:43,760 --> 01:29:48,719
Speaker 3: wait to talk to them, I know Wednesday, and until

1946
01:29:48,760 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 3: then we'll just you know, regular shows the rest of

1947
01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:52,799
Speaker 3: the week.

1948
01:29:53,080 --> 01:29:55,000
Speaker 4: So we'll see you guys tomorrow.

1949
01:29:55,040 --> 01:29:58,679
Speaker 3: Also, I'm gonna be on the Sandy Check the movie

1950
01:29:58,680 --> 01:30:02,320
Speaker 3: trailer reviews podcast as should be out today or tomorrow

1951
01:30:02,760 --> 01:30:05,080
Speaker 3: with Chris, which is why we're doing the shelter early.

1952
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:09,160
Speaker 4: So anyway, thank you God, I guess keV Yeah, thank you.

1953
01:30:09,520 --> 01:30:10,559
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, go ahead.

1954
01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 2: Oh and there's something special for the premium people.

1955
01:30:13,520 --> 01:30:18,439
Speaker 5: You're gonna get something really really uh special soon. I

1956
01:30:18,479 --> 01:30:22,080
Speaker 5: did some what is some own scene recording on site

1957
01:30:22,160 --> 01:30:25,000
Speaker 5: recording very special guess with a very special guest, and

1958
01:30:25,160 --> 01:30:28,920
Speaker 5: I am so excited about it. So for those of

1959
01:30:28,960 --> 01:30:31,160
Speaker 5: years premium, you're gonna see a new feed and we'll

1960
01:30:31,160 --> 01:30:33,200
Speaker 5: tell about tomorrow because you're gonna try to put it

1961
01:30:33,240 --> 01:30:36,640
Speaker 5: up today and I am so excited.

1962
01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:37,800
Speaker 2: I bet.

1963
01:30:38,280 --> 01:30:40,439
Speaker 5: Please forgive me, baby, I do not remember your name

1964
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:41,559
Speaker 5: because you sent it in a while ago.

1965
01:30:41,680 --> 01:30:44,720
Speaker 2: Shout out to it was. It was a female.

1966
01:30:45,080 --> 01:30:50,200
Speaker 5: Uh shout out to the person that sent me zoom

1967
01:30:50,240 --> 01:30:52,120
Speaker 5: because that's what I used for the recording.

1968
01:30:52,320 --> 01:30:54,360
Speaker 2: I started tinkling with it. I've been taking with it

1969
01:30:54,400 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 2: for a while.

1970
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:57,240
Speaker 5: I started tinkling with it, and I finally learned how

1971
01:30:57,240 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 5: to record it on it and do stuff on the scene.

1972
01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:01,439
Speaker 2: So y'all might get of my own sing ship with me.

1973
01:31:01,600 --> 01:31:06,720
Speaker 3: A yep. So there you guys, go see you dems tomorrow.

1974
01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:07,840
Speaker 3: Until then, I love you.

1975
01:31:07,960 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 2: I love you too.