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Speaker 2: Angela what I call her yee.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela yee. I'm Angela yee, and

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand is here with me today.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Angela.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, and listen, we are getting ready for the holidays.

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Speaker 5: Oh you are?

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Speaker 6: Is that next week? Is that time?

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Speaker 3: Decorations are? People are getting prepared. You know, we would

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Speaker 3: love to hear from you what you guys are doing now.

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Speaker 3: You know it's a Thursday, your favorite day of the week.

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Speaker 3: Friday Eve, Yes, Friday Eve. And we do have a

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Speaker 3: special guest joining us. Are Y'alla van Zaan Oh yeah, beloved,

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Speaker 3: belove it. She has a podcast on iHeart. It's called

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Speaker 3: the Our Spot. It's all about relationships.

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Speaker 6: Makes sense.

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Speaker 3: But in the meantime, let's shine a light. Eight hundred

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Speaker 3: fifty is a number. Let's spread some love and positivity.

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Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela. Ye, shine a light when.

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Speaker 6: We come back.

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Speaker 2: Turn your lights on, y'all. It's breading love to those

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Speaker 2: who are doing greatness.

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Speaker 1: Light on, sh the light on. It's time to shine

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Speaker 1: a light on.

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Speaker 6: What's up?

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Speaker 3: Its way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela yee, and

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand is here.

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Speaker 4: What's up, Angela?

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Speaker 1: What up?

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Speaker 6: Jasmine? And you know what time it is?

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Speaker 3: How we always start the show with some positivity, shining

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Speaker 3: a light on amazing people doing amazing things. And right

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Speaker 3: now I want to shine a light on Amari raf

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Speaker 3: Now I've read this story on black Wealth. He's thirty

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Speaker 3: four years old, formerly unhoused, and he now owns a

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Speaker 3: twenty million dollar trucking company. Oh yes, it's called Sudu.

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Speaker 3: It's an online marketplace utilizing technology to connect small and

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Speaker 3: medium sized trucking companies to major corporations.

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Speaker 6: So shout out to him.

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Speaker 3: By the way, in three years, his company expanded its

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Speaker 3: network and includes over three hundred thousand trucking companies, with

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Speaker 3: the focus on minority women and.

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Speaker 6: Veteran owned businesses.

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Speaker 4: I love that.

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Speaker 3: So just imagine the amazing things and all the money

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Speaker 3: that's circulating because of him. So shout out to you,

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Speaker 3: Maury Ruff. All right, who do you guys want to

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Speaker 3: shine a light on? Eight hundred and two nine two

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Speaker 3: fifty one fifty is the number? What's up, Mark?

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Speaker 1: How are you good? Good?

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Speaker 6: Who do you want to shine a light on?

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Speaker 7: I want to shine the light on on my girl plan.

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Speaker 7: I just want to say, she's a terrific girl.

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Speaker 8: Great mom.

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Speaker 9: Uh, she always got my back when I needed yes,

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Speaker 9: and we're going all four years strong.

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Speaker 6: Okay, what is the fort year universary?

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Speaker 7: Uh, it's actually in March, March nineteen.

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Speaker 4: What's her name? I love that he knows the lama Alana?

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Speaker 6: And what's March nineteenth to day you said let's make

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Speaker 6: it official?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 7: That's that day, that first day we actually talked.

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Speaker 3: Oh cool, okay, all right, from the beginning, it was

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Speaker 3: all right, well, thank you for Colleen, Thank you you, Hayley.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm well, how are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm good? Who do you want to shine a light on.

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Speaker 7: All my sisters, our workers at the Genesis House.

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Speaker 3: We are a domestic violence and sexual assault victims advocates

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Speaker 3: and I couldn't do it without them.

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Speaker 4: That's important work, for sure.

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Speaker 6: What made you get involved with that?

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Speaker 7: And I actually went through a similar.

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Speaker 5: Situation when I was younger, and I'm just going to.

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Speaker 6: Pay it forward.

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Speaker 3: Okay, beautiful, See that's purpose. Well, we appreciate you. That

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Speaker 3: work is definitely super important. So thank you for calling

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Speaker 3: and to yab all right, well, that was shining light.

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Speaker 3: And when we come back, we have your yeet and

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Speaker 3: let's set it up with j Cole. People were very

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Speaker 3: disappointed that he's not joining Drake on all of his

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Speaker 3: toy days, but we'll tell you why. It's way up

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Speaker 3: at Angela Yee yeat is next.

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Speaker 2: From Industry Shade to all of gos angels.

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Speaker 1: Feeling that.

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Speaker 6: What's up.

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Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela ye and

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand is here with me.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I'm here listen.

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Speaker 3: I'm glad that in a few days we have off

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Speaker 3: because you hear my voice, guys, but let's get into

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Speaker 3: some yut now. Ja Cole's manager had to responded to

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Speaker 3: people who want to know why he's not on all

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Speaker 3: the dates with Drake on the new tour. Okay, and

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Speaker 3: according to the tweets, he said, I feel your pain,

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Speaker 3: but this is not a major city run.

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Speaker 6: The run is for secondary markets.

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Speaker 3: He said, we don't get to go to those as much,

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Speaker 3: to ZC though, he said, all love to DC, and

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Speaker 3: then some people asked about other locations and he said,

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Speaker 3: wait to see those cities again. It's been a minute, Okay.

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Speaker 4: I kind of like the idea of them doing secondary market.

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Speaker 3: Right, and I think they also have his dream bill,

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Speaker 3: and so when the reason why he's not doing North

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Speaker 3: non competet So can you have a show someplace within

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Speaker 3: That means people are going to be buying flights and traveling,

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Speaker 3: all right, and speaking a show.

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Speaker 6: Shout out to Alicia Keys.

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Speaker 3: Her play Hell's Kitchen has sold out its entire run already.

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Speaker 3: It's running through January fourteenth. Okay, so I don't think

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Speaker 3: you'll be able to get tickets. But what this means

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Speaker 3: is it feels like this is going to make it

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Speaker 3: It would be a dream come true because right now

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Speaker 4: All right, Yeah, we should say on Broadway soon.

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Speaker 3: But to see and that's the main thing about Broadway.

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Speaker 3: They want to see that you could sell those tickets.

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Speaker 4: I did, had an amazing time, all right.

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Speaker 3: Now, Hip Boy is talking about buying the house that

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Speaker 6: Crazy how life works.

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Speaker 3: I just bought the property in Beverly Hills I was

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Speaker 4: Beautiful.

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Speaker 6: We love, love love to see a come up story

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Speaker 3: He said that his financial struggles it wasn't because he

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Speaker 3: of foolish investments, but it was because he was spending

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Speaker 6: You got to take care of you because you.

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Speaker 3: Can't take care of anybody else if you're not handling

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Speaker 4: And it's also good to learn this lesson early on

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Speaker 3: come back, we have about last night. That's where we

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Speaker 6: It's way up at Angela.

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Speaker 8: Ye.

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Speaker 6: About last night is next?

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Speaker 1: So about last night? Last night? Last night Za went down?

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Speaker 6: What's up?

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Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela yee, and

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand is here with me.

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Speaker 4: I'm here Angela.

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Speaker 3: Happy Friday Eve, Yes, Happy Friday Eve. And it's time

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Speaker 3: for about last night.

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Speaker 3: Alabama State University today, which I'm really excited for. The

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Speaker 3: only problem I had was there's no direct flight, so

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Speaker 6: Yes, it is in Atlanta.

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Speaker 3: But they are saying that this Thanksgiving is going to

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Speaker 6: You guys a heads up.

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Speaker 3: I know people are going to be going to see

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Speaker 4: So I'm nervous now. I was thinking about flying. Now

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Speaker 3: And I think that's at any point when it's the

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm here.

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Speaker 6: They have teamed up.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I feel like we're gonna definitely make our way there.

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Speaker 3: Chance the Rappers says Chicago will always be part of

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Speaker 6: Here is what was said.

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Speaker 3: That's a hard thing to prove. Yeah, okay, that's a

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Speaker 6: Well that is your under the radar.

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Speaker 3: Now we do have Ayana van Zant joining us today

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Speaker 6: What's up? Its way up at angela Ye, angela Ye.

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Speaker 6: You know anything.

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Speaker 3: But Will Smith's team denied the allegations, saying that it's

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Speaker 3: completely fabricated and the claim is unequivocally false.

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Speaker 4: So is it like his word against theirs?

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Speaker 6: Now, I think we'll see what happens with the lawsuits.

452
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Speaker 3: So if it really is something that's not true, you know,

453
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Speaker 3: it's defamation and so yes, but right now, people enjoy Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I enjoy it.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, people enjoy just I enjoy.

456
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Speaker 4: People get it out of it, but I enjoy mess.

457
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Speaker 4: Sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean clearly a lot of people do. That's

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Speaker 3: why it's making the rounds the way that it is.

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Speaker 3: I was surprised that Will Smith responded, Yeah, I was

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Speaker 3: too that they released the statement.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, and the thing is Jada was going

463
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Speaker 4: to be asked about it multiple times that she's promote

464
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Speaker 4: her books, so they kind of had to anyway.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I saw Data respond a couple of times.

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Speaker 3: Already, we sue it, all right, and you know, The

467
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Speaker 3: Officer is one of my favorite shows. Well, Steve Carell

468
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Speaker 3: is going to be making his Broadway debut. Nice and

469
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Speaker 3: Uncle Ban. Yeah, and so I'm excited for that. Now

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Speaker 3: that is going to start previews April second next year,

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Speaker 3: and it will open April twenty four US.

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Speaker 6: So, I know. We talk a lot about plays up here.

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Speaker 3: We talked about Alicia Keys and how her plays already

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Speaker 3: sold out. It's not on Broadway yet, but I have

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Speaker 3: a feeling that it is going to.

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Speaker 6: Make it there.

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Speaker 4: And I love the office fy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I feel like we might want to go

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Speaker 3: see that. I was thinking that too, all right, And

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Speaker 3: let's debunk a rumor.

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Speaker 1: Rode Wave.

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Speaker 3: They were saying that over two hundred cars got broken

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Speaker 3: into at his concert in DC.

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Speaker 4: You live in DC, I love DC?

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Speaker 6: All right.

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Speaker 3: Well, reports are saying that it's not true. It was

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Speaker 3: nowhere near the two hundred cars that were requireless and

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Speaker 3: people like blew it up out of proportion. They said

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Speaker 3: there were only four reports.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's not bad.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where this story came from, but somebody

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Speaker 3: said it was two hundred and thirty two cars that

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Speaker 3: got broken into.

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Speaker 4: I will say, in DC there has been an increase

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Speaker 4: in carjackings, so it's not far fetched that you know, well,

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Speaker 4: it's not a car jacking. They're just breaking into cars.

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Speaker 4: So they've been they've been carjacking and they've been breaking

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Speaker 4: the cars. Yeah, they've been taking pieces and it's been

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Speaker 4: a whole thing.

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Speaker 6: So you know what.

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Speaker 3: The first time when I was in college, the first

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Speaker 3: time I was with my best friendly drove to how

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Speaker 3: It's Homecoming, her car got broken into.

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Speaker 4: I mean it was how It's home Coming.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but a lot of people's cars got broken into

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Speaker 3: during that time, so I was like, this has happened.

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Speaker 6: That's the worst feeling. I got my car broken into once.

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Speaker 4: It's such an invasion.

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Speaker 6: I cried, did you I did.

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Speaker 3: I was a lot younger, but I cried, all right,

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Speaker 3: well that is your yet, and when we come back,

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Speaker 3: we have asked yee. Eight hundred two ninety two fifty

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Speaker 3: one fifty is a number any question you have. We're

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Speaker 3: here to help. It's way out.

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Speaker 2: Everybody since whether it's relationship or career advice, Angela's dropping facts.

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Speaker 1: You should know. This is ask gee, what's up its way?

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Speaker 3: But Angela Gee, I'm Angela Gee, and Jasmine Brand is

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Speaker 3: here with me, and it's time for you guys to

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Speaker 3: call in and let us know any question that you have.

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Speaker 3: Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty is a number. Hey, Jordan,

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Speaker 3: how are you?

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Speaker 8: I'm good?

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Speaker 7: How are you?

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Speaker 6: I'm good? Thank you. Jazzon's here and we would love

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Speaker 6: to know what your question is.

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Speaker 8: I'm currently unhappy with where I'm working. Pay isn't great,

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Speaker 8: the hours are really long, and it's a really poor

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Speaker 8: work life bound Okay, so I've started to look elsewhere,

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Speaker 8: applying doing some interviews. I was wondering any advice in

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Speaker 8: terms of granting myself to other companies, but also just

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Speaker 8: maintaining that focus where I currently am to.

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Speaker 7: Not go off the rail.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I've had these experiences myself, so I cannot wait

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Speaker 3: to talk to you about this. But as far as

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Speaker 3: where you are currently right, no matter what you're doing,

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Speaker 3: you never know who's watching. So when you have a job,

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Speaker 3: even though you may not be happy there and ready

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Speaker 3: to leave, you can never act like that. You still

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Speaker 3: have to show up and do what you're supposed to

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Speaker 3: do to the best of your ability, because the worst

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Speaker 3: thing you want to do is having work somewhere. I

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Speaker 3: don't know how long you've been there, but you don't

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Speaker 3: want to burn a bridge when you know you're on

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Speaker 3: the way out right, and so knowing that you have

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Speaker 3: this plan and a plan is good because let me

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Speaker 3: tell you something, there's people who will be at a

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Speaker 3: job that they hate and complain, complain, complain, but don't

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Speaker 3: do anything about it. So I commend you for knowing

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Speaker 3: that your time is up yep, and you got to

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Speaker 3: look for something else and keeping that in mind.

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Speaker 6: One day you won't be here anymore.

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Speaker 3: But you also, I don't know if somebody else in

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Speaker 3: another department is paying attention to how you are. You

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Speaker 3: don't know where anybody else might land later. So you

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Speaker 3: don't want to burn the bridge and you know, set

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Speaker 3: everything on fire. You just want to make sure you

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Speaker 3: still show up, do your job, mind your business, go home,

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Speaker 3: and always stay on the lookout for what's next, because

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Speaker 3: you also don't know someone's going to reach out for

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Speaker 3: a potential employment, and you don't want people to say

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Speaker 3: negative things about you.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely all right.

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Speaker 3: Now, as far as looking for another job, the first

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Speaker 3: thing is the impression that you make when you walk

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Speaker 3: in that room. How you're dressed, yes, all right, make

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Speaker 3: sure that you look the part, make sure that you

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Speaker 3: get there early. You don't want to be rushing. You

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Speaker 3: don't want to feel frazzled. Do you want to be

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Speaker 3: nice and calm. So give yourself time so that even

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Speaker 3: if you're running late, you're still going to be early.

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Speaker 3: And practice, you know, think about all the questions that

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Speaker 3: you know they always ask on an interview. Do your

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Speaker 3: research on the company, so make sure that you have

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Speaker 3: questions that you can ask too. That way, it does

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Speaker 3: show that you came in prepared, you know, about the company.

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Speaker 3: If you could even search the person who's interviewing you,

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Speaker 3: so that you have some type of connection like, oh,

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Speaker 3: you know, I saw that you went to whatever whatever

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Speaker 3: school you know, I went there also, or whatever whatever

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Speaker 3: it is to make some type of personal connection I

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Speaker 3: think helps, but also to show that you cared enough

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Speaker 3: to research the company, because a lot of times they'll

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Speaker 3: ask you, do you have any questions for me?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 3: And you shouldn't just be like no, you should be like,

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Speaker 3: you know, I was wondering. I know you guys are

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Speaker 3: heading in this direction and with certain challenge. What is

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Speaker 3: it that you know? Whatever it is, just make sure

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Speaker 3: you do your research. And when I say practice, it's

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Speaker 3: good for you to think about questions that they're going

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Speaker 3: to ask you, but don't seem rehearsed.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, completely understand.

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Speaker 3: And then afterward follow up. You know, even if it's

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Speaker 3: a thank you card. People don't normally take the time

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Speaker 3: to do those things, but after the interview, you know,

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Speaker 3: just send out a thank you card.

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Speaker 6: Thank you for your time.

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Speaker 3: I really, you know, enjoyed sitting down with you and

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Speaker 3: hope to hear from you soon. Whatever it is, send

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Speaker 3: a thank you for their time, express your interests, say

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Speaker 3: that this is something that you know you would really

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Speaker 3: like to be there, and if they need any additional

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Speaker 3: inform make sure they have your best contact.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely and even just sort of keep that my my

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Speaker 8: impression impression in their mind for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well a little industry are you are you in?

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Speaker 4: Are you looking to.

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Speaker 8: Get in entertainment industry?

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Speaker 3: Keep in mind a salary, do your research on that too,

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Speaker 3: so that if they ask you what your expectations are,

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Speaker 3: you know what the range is, because you know, sometimes

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Speaker 3: they want to know, like, well, you know, if we

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Speaker 3: do have something available, what are your expectations, So just

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Speaker 3: make sure you're prepared for anything they could potentially ask you.

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Speaker 8: Yes, Stefane, you don't want to shoot too high or

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Speaker 8: shoot too low depending on where their head is at.

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Speaker 6: And remember everything's negotiable.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, I wish you so much luck and again,

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Speaker 3: don't burn that bridge for where you're at right now

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Speaker 3: if you.

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Speaker 6: Can help it.

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Speaker 8: Absolutely, thank you so much for taking Michael.

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Speaker 3: Of course you're going to send us a thank you letter. No,

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Speaker 3: thank you, Jordan, good luck. All right, Well, that.

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Speaker 6: Was ask ye.

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Speaker 3: Eight hundred two nine fifty one fifty is a number

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Speaker 3: in case you couldn't get through and you want to

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Speaker 3: leave a message. We still will answer your questions that way,

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Speaker 3: and when we come back speaking to people giving advice

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Speaker 3: and answering questions.

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Speaker 6: Ayalla van Zant is here to help you. Belove it.

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Speaker 6: It's where you put Angela Yee.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and let's kid it. Let's go.

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Speaker 2: Well with Angela ye is back to set off your workday.

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Speaker 6: What's up? It's where you put Angela Yee.

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Speaker 3: I'm Angela Yee and Jasmine brand is here with me, yes,

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Speaker 3: and we have the amazing Ayalla van Zant here with us, and.

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Speaker 6: Listen, listen.

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Speaker 3: I know that season two of your podcasts is starting now.

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Speaker 3: I want to ask you this because you said this

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Speaker 3: new season is going to be focused on men, yes,

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Speaker 3: right when it comes to relationships.

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Speaker 6: I did a podcast last night shout out to math.

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Speaker 3: How from my expert opinion, the men in the room

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Speaker 3: are saying that sometimes they don't feel safe expressing themselves

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Speaker 3: around women being able to be vulnerable.

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Speaker 11: None of us, men or women, we haven't been trained.

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Speaker 11: We don't have the skills and the tools required to

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Speaker 11: really sustain and maintain relationships in the way the world

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Speaker 11: is today. But the other thing is men are just

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Speaker 11: not emotionally solid. They haven't done the work. A lot

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Speaker 11: of them were raised by mothers who were not emotionally solid.

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Speaker 11: Sorry moms, I've raised the son too. A lot of

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Speaker 11: them were been traumatized and never taught how to process it,

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Speaker 11: and so they're not safe. And you know, women today

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Speaker 11: are a lot more aggressive in our approach to life

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Speaker 11: in general, and we've done more work than them. So

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Speaker 11: we have some things that are solid that they don't,

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Speaker 11: and they've got to catch up.

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Speaker 3: Now, what do you mean by we're more aggressive women today?

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Speaker 3: And why do you think that is?

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Speaker 11: We have become what I call men in skirts. We

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Speaker 11: are so aggressive, so demanding, so unaware. Really we think

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Speaker 11: we got it going on, but women really aren't aware

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Speaker 11: of their power, because our power as women is silent.

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Speaker 10: If you really know what you're doing, you can work

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Speaker 10: a room.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been told I'm BOSSI in relationships we are.

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Speaker 11: We are because I think we've been left alone and

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Speaker 11: up to our own devices for too long. I find

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Speaker 11: women to be mean as hell.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, really, Oh my gosh, I mean, oh yes,

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Speaker 4: are you mean a little bit? Yeah, you're more passive.

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Speaker 4: You'll be mean on the inside and not say and

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Speaker 4: I'll say hey or.

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Speaker 10: But see, I'm an outful woman. I'm straightforward too, but

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Speaker 10: I'm not mean.

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Speaker 4: Okay, do you are you aggressive?

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Speaker 10: No, I'm assertive aggression.

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Speaker 4: What's the difference?

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Speaker 11: First of all, your intention okay, an assertiveness it's about

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Speaker 11: dominion and accomplishing a particular thing, and aggressive it's about

684
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Speaker 11: control and getting what you're going forward. And there's a difference.

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Speaker 11: One comes from the head. One comes from the heart,

686
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Speaker 11: A searching comes from the heart. Aggression comes from the head,

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Speaker 11: and it's ego and control. And women today I find

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Speaker 11: are extremely aggressive, unloving and.

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Speaker 3: Mean as hell. Right now we are talking to Ayala

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Speaker 3: van ZANDT. Before we get too deep into that, I

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Speaker 3: do want to bring up one topic you had on

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Speaker 3: your page, which is about women proposing to men.

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Speaker 6: Also question.

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Speaker 4: I know, so I want to talk about it now

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Speaker 4: because you know we're so aggressive.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, personally, if I were in the marrying realm today,

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Speaker 11: I wouldn't have a problem asking. Here's why I've heard

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Speaker 11: of from too many women who've waited five, seven, ten years.

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Speaker 11: And then he goes off with Kafada and has six

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Speaker 11: kids and there with the dress in the box, and

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Speaker 11: he don't ask them.

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Speaker 6: You know, can you see yourself asking no for somebody's hand.

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Speaker 4: I would feel like I am into him more than

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Speaker 4: he is into me.

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Speaker 10: What if he just has poor communication skills?

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Speaker 4: If he has poor communication skills, I feel like we

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Speaker 4: have a conversation, like I want to get married. What

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Speaker 4: are you thinking about saying that?

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Speaker 11: I think you thought I was talking about get down

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Speaker 11: on why you know, just bringing up the conversation, No, just.

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Speaker 4: Bringing up to talk about anything. I feel like, but

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Speaker 4: I don't. I'm not okay with proposing.

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Speaker 3: I feel like if you're sleeping with somebody, you can

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Speaker 3: pretty much have a conversation about anything, Like I should

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Speaker 3: be able to ask you anything or talk about the future.

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Speaker 3: Because sleeping with somebody could mean a future together, whether

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Speaker 3: or not it's intentional or not.

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Speaker 11: That's true.

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Speaker 7: True.

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Speaker 11: Here's the problem that I'm having. I think we're sleeping

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Speaker 11: with these men much too soon, and then we get

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Speaker 11: upset when they don't honor and respect us. But you know,

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Speaker 11: for me, she who has the Madam rules, So I

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Speaker 11: got the Madam?

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Speaker 4: What's appropriate time frame to give away the Madam?

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Speaker 11: Likeway, I'm going to invite you to worship in her temple,

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Speaker 11: this church?

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Speaker 10: No, this is this is sacred life, sacred living.

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Speaker 6: Right, you tied to the matter.

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Speaker 4: What's the appropriate I.

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Speaker 11: Say between ninety and one hundred and twenty days because

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Speaker 11: you're going to see the truth, because that's how a

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Speaker 11: lot of us are getting snapped up and beat up

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Speaker 11: in two months and they see if you wasn't giving

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Speaker 11: them the Madam and he wasn't serious, he wouldn't be around.

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Speaker 3: All right, Ayana van Zane is here with me and

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Speaker 3: Jasmine Brand and we have a lot more questions because

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Speaker 3: we have relationship issues.

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Speaker 5: All right.

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Speaker 6: We got more with her when we come back. It's

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Speaker 6: way up at Angela.

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Speaker 1: Yee, yeah, yeah, more way up with Angela. On Now.

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Speaker 6: What's up?

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Speaker 3: It's way up at Angela Yee, I'm Angela Yee. Jasmine

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Speaker 3: Brand is here and so is Ayana van Zan. Now

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Speaker 3: I want to ask you this as we're talking about

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Speaker 3: men in relationships on this new season of your podcast

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Speaker 3: here at iHeart. One of the big topics is always

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Speaker 3: about infidelity, right, and you've discussed this too on your

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Speaker 3: page Healing from Infidelity. But a lot of times men

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Speaker 3: don't equate infidelity with whether or not they love the

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Speaker 3: person who they're with. All right, So is it possible

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Speaker 3: to say I love this person, I'm in love with

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Speaker 3: this person, yet still be cheating.

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Speaker 11: It is, and it's really a matter of integrity. Is

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Speaker 11: this a man who's gonna honor his word, honor his commitments.

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Speaker 11: For me, it's not so much the cheating the act,

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Speaker 11: the physical act of being intimate with someone else. What

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Speaker 11: scares me is the fact that you lie, and that

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Speaker 11: you can look me in my face and lie.

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Speaker 10: Now, that scares me. Okay, I don't like that part

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Speaker 10: of it, because you can take.

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Speaker 11: Your little weenie and watch it all.

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Speaker 10: Plus some paroxide on that.

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Speaker 6: Suckeroxide don't do that.

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Speaker 1: I never heard that.

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Speaker 6: Well, whatoxide cleans up in section? I know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know, some peroxide on me.

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Speaker 6: You might gotta go get some penicilina.

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Speaker 11: But the fact that you could look me in my

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Speaker 11: eye and lie to me is a betrayal of my heart.

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Speaker 10: How do you live with yourself?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 10: The exciting thing that I've discovered, this is really exciting

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Speaker 10: for me. A women cheat.

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Speaker 6: Too, They be out cheating.

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Speaker 7: Have I have?

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Speaker 4: And did you lie about it too?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh my god, I am you've cheated before?

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Speaker 4: I forgot because the way she just looked at me,

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Speaker 4: she looked at me like she never cheated.

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Speaker 6: I forgot that.

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Speaker 4: Looked at her like I just forget.

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Speaker 10: But I didn't lie.

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Speaker 11: Okay, where you've been I slept with my man?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: I did not lie.

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Speaker 4: I didn't Angela. Have you cheated before? Did you tell?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 6: No, I did not.

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Speaker 3: But I will say this. When I cheated, it's because

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Speaker 3: the relationship is already over.

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Speaker 6: I just mean, well, they don't know I didn't end yet,

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Speaker 6: but they don't.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they don't know.

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Speaker 3: I cut him cheated and after that I knew I

797
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Speaker 3: was going to break up. And sometimes it takes me

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Speaker 3: a minute to do that. Like you'll be with somebody

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Speaker 3: still and.

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Speaker 4: Women will check out way before I.

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Speaker 6: Don't found email.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, we just don't pay attention.

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Speaker 11: Maybe might be right, but they've checked out. But we're

804
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Speaker 11: so busy doing whatever we're doing. But so the whole

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Speaker 11: cheating thing for me is the breach of trust. Right

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Speaker 11: now we are talking to Aya la Vanzan. How do

807
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Speaker 11: you heal from that?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 6: What are some things that you would tell people?

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Speaker 3: Maybe they are working on getting things back on track,

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Speaker 3: but there's a lot of triggers that can happen. There's

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Speaker 3: a lot of where you're going, a lot of questions

813
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Speaker 3: that are asked, like a hundred times over and over again,

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Speaker 3: a lot of explaining that has to be done, you know,

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Speaker 3: and sometimes you have to put that work in and

816
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Speaker 3: you just have to accept that if you've cheated. But

817
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Speaker 3: then sometimes guys feel like, ah, I can't do this anymore.

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Speaker 3: This is what this is, what this is going to

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Speaker 3: be like, Well.

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Speaker 11: It takes a moment to get over it. But if

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Speaker 11: you're going to stay, stay, and if you're not going

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Speaker 11: to stay, then go. You can't beat him up all

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Speaker 11: the time. You just can't a human mind, you just

824
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Speaker 11: can't take that. Yeah, and if he's.

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Speaker 10: Knock on the stay or you don't want to stay

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Speaker 10: with it, let him go.

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Speaker 6: Are you enjoying and loving this season of your life?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, it's not dramatic.

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Speaker 6: I look at it. I feel good.

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Speaker 10: But I tell you what is so I don't know

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Speaker 10: what the word is. Let me that's the word.

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Speaker 6: I'm like.

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Speaker 11: What I got it the depth and level of respect

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Speaker 11: and regard that I get in the world from the

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Speaker 11: thirty eight years of consistent work that I've done.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I've seen some of.

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Speaker 11: The hard hardest, hardcore foul mouth beasts, but when they

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Speaker 11: see me Auntie, you know, miss miss IAmA or whatever

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Speaker 11: they're calling me. Yeah, so that is so exciting and

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Speaker 11: you'll excite me.

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Speaker 6: Well, listen, you are definitely legendary.

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Speaker 3: You deserve all of the accolades that you get because

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Speaker 3: you have moments that are going to live on forever.

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Speaker 6: When can people hear these episodes?

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Speaker 11: Every Wednesday we have a new episode on the our

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Speaker 11: spot wherever you listen to podcast.

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Speaker 3: All right, well, thank you so much. We appreciate you

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Speaker 3: for coming through, thank you for having me. And if

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Speaker 3: you want to watch that full interview, you can go

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Speaker 3: to my YouTube channel Way Up with Ye And when

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Speaker 3: we come back, you guys, of course have the last

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Speaker 3: word is way up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 8: Pack up the.

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Speaker 1: Phone, tap to get your voice heard. What the word is?

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Speaker 1: Here is the last word on Way Up with Angela Yee.

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Speaker 3: What's up this Way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela

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Speaker 3: Yee and thank you guys so much for joining us today.

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Speaker 6: We had a great time with you.

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Speaker 3: Thank you to Ayalavanza and make sure you check out

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Speaker 3: that full interview because she's really fun and you can

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Speaker 3: learn all about what a madam is on our body. Okay,

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Speaker 3: it was awkward, but it was cool. And today I'll

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Speaker 3: be at an Alabama State University. I'm part of the

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Speaker 3: lead speaker series and so we'll be doing a nice,

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Speaker 3: fun sit down conversation. So if you are in that area,

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Speaker 3: make sure you come and see me. I cannot wait

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Speaker 3: to see y'all. And as usual, you have the last word.

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Speaker 5: Recently, I just lost sixty time. The problem is so

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Speaker 5: found so much right, I have like a lot of

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Speaker 5: XS skin and I'm supposed to be getting blues out

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Speaker 5: for the first time in life, and I'm just so

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Speaker 5: scared what the guy's gonna say. I don't know if

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Speaker 5: I'm supposed to tell him now, Please.

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Speaker 7: So Hey, Angela and Jasmine. It's Eric from Jersey. I'm

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Speaker 7: gonna try to lay on my girlfriend. Her name is Tania.

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Speaker 7: Her birthday was on Tuesday, November the fourteenth, when we

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Speaker 7: got back from Miami. We had a great time, so

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Speaker 7: shout out to her. She's twenty six now dot you hello.

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Speaker 5: My secret is I'm a guy and I have a

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Speaker 5: lot of.

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Speaker 8: Sugar dog.

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Speaker 1: Going way out I was with Angela. Are you