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<v Speaker 1>the phone for a second date update today, and Mia

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<v Speaker 1>says she feels bad about what happened on her date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh now, Mia, the rule is you only have to

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad if you made them cry. So did he cry? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't cry. All right, Well, then you shouldn't feel bad. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>your conscience can be cleared and you are free to go.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome, have a good day. I don't know. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like she's about to cry right now, Mia, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a joke. Sorry, he's being sarcastic. Not really though. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well listen, maybe we should learn more before I jumped

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<v Speaker 1>to intrusions. Okay, tell us about this guy. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>His name is Steve. Okay, it sounds like a crier. Well, no,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't cry. My friends at work actually something up

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<v Speaker 1>with him. He works for the company but on a

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<v Speaker 1>different floor, so I've actually never met him. Oh, blind date.

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<v Speaker 1>I always like to know, how are you feeling going

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<v Speaker 1>into this blind date? Hopeful, doubtful? Oh, I was feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>I was excited. I know, it's it's just been kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like dry for me, and I was excited to

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<v Speaker 1>get out there and like meet someone that my friends

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<v Speaker 1>actually said it was really cool, you know, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're your friends, right. Yeah, he was like really cute

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<v Speaker 1>and we were talking at the bar, and I like

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<v Speaker 1>to just kind of like talk about things right away,

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<v Speaker 1>about relationships. And that's good to want to talk on

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<v Speaker 1>a date. That's a positive no, but not everything. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you exactly are you talking? Like? She opened

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<v Speaker 1>it up with like, I have four xes, I'm over

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<v Speaker 1>three of them, but one still having issues. Well, by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, here's my number. Yeah. No, it's just funny

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<v Speaker 1>like how people think about relationships, I guess, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was asking him. I just we were talking and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think that you should always share everything

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<v Speaker 1>with your partner, Like in healthy relationships, you don't, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't hide anything. You're really open about everything with each other.

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<v Speaker 1>But not everybody does. I can see why that's an

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<v Speaker 1>important thing to talk about. So you think everything needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be shared, no secrets. Yeah, but then he said

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<v Speaker 1>that he thinks it's not healthy to share everything, but

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<v Speaker 1>there should be boundaries and certain things that you don't

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<v Speaker 1>that are off limits. Basically, okay, I could see his point. Two.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if it's how important, how did that sit

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<v Speaker 1>with you? I don't agree. I said, if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>sharing everything, then you're hiding something and that's obviously going

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<v Speaker 1>to poison the relationship. You know. So wait, did you

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys start out your first date with your

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<v Speaker 1>first couple's argument? This is what it sounds like. It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't an argument. It was just a spirited discussion. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're give me your phone? Real? I mean, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty intense way to start off the date. Like

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<v Speaker 1>did things get lighter later? Uh? No? Oh? I said,

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<v Speaker 1>let's test it. And I pointed to a girl across

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<v Speaker 1>the bar and I said, do you think she's attractive? What?

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<v Speaker 1>That is a terrible question. You want this state to

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<v Speaker 1>go back, but don't shore No. I just wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>show him what I was talking about, you know, prove

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<v Speaker 1>my point. And then he said, I'm not answering that, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>good Joe, Way to go, Steve. How could anyone answer

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<v Speaker 1>that properly? If he says yes, then you're gonna be mad, right,

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be Joe's If he says no, then you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna think he's lying. Well, no, if he's honest and

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<v Speaker 1>says yes, she'll say thank you for being honest. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so. Or maybe he says yes and then

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<v Speaker 1>the girl comes and joins in on the date and

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<v Speaker 1>now it's a party. Now you're thinking like every other man.

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<v Speaker 1>So what did he say? Well, he said he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>going to answer it, and I told him, well, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a test. Let's just see how it plays out.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, fine, Okay, she's a little attractive, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>safe answer to hit him him? I said, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you like about her? Come on this to yourself. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's been so vague. He's not playing by the rules

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<v Speaker 1>I'm setting up. He's probably just trying to be polite

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<v Speaker 1>and not offend you by saying that there's the gorgeous

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<v Speaker 1>woman over there, and he's noticing all these amazing things

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<v Speaker 1>about her. I'd rather he'd be honest and tell me

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<v Speaker 1>that that's the whole point I was trying to make.

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<v Speaker 1>So you nudged him a little bit. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>so you you probably want to sleep with her, right,

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't you? Right? This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>This sounds like an unstable relationship already, where you're incredibly jealousy.

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<v Speaker 1>Will you just please shut up them? Let me finish? Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>finish okay. So then I said, if you lie to me, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell, I'll be able to tell, So just

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<v Speaker 1>tell me the truth. And so then he finally admitted, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd probably sleep with her. And I didn't think he

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<v Speaker 1>was going to answer and say that, and it honestly

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<v Speaker 1>pissed me off. So you asked for the truth and

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<v Speaker 1>then got pissed at it. She's trying to say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't think he would answer at least that quick.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, really rude. Oh my god, So is that

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<v Speaker 1>the end of your date? Like? Did you guys continue

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out? You're pissed at this point? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you do? Well? I got kind of quiet, and I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he tell he said sorry, and I told him it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to find someone an attractive but like, why would

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<v Speaker 1>you say that you like, why would you say that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to sleep with her? It is not You

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have asked the question on This is probably why

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<v Speaker 1>she feels bad. And then you were like, you you

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<v Speaker 1>want to marry her too, you want to have babies

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<v Speaker 1>with her too, You want to open a four O

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<v Speaker 1>one K with her? Okay, stop being ridiculous right now?

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<v Speaker 1>This is serious? Oh yeah, okay, Okay, So what happened next?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the date fizzled, it was done. I went home,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean I just cried a lot, not in

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<v Speaker 1>front of him. I credit home, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel bad. How we know? We just paid for

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<v Speaker 1>our drinks and left and it was really awkward and weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I just feel bad about how everything went down. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think I freaked him out because now he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling me back. Okay, you definitely freaked him out. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you feeling a little bit of remorse about how this

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<v Speaker 1>all played out? Though? Yeah? Duh? I feel bad? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how many times we gonna make me say it? Obviously

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm calling you guys. Yes, sound remorseful. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I just told you. Okay, So you want us

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<v Speaker 1>to call Steve, and you want to just explain or

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<v Speaker 1>apologize or what exactly are you looking to do here? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I I want to know why he's not called me back.

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<v Speaker 1>And also, yeah, explain a little bit and tell him

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad and I don't want the stick the

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<v Speaker 1>end of us. Okay? And and are you are you like?

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<v Speaker 1>Is your new standpoint that you're not going to ask

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<v Speaker 1>those type of questions anymore? Okay? Stop asking me stupid questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you guys call on try to get him out

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<v Speaker 1>of date? That's why I called you guys. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>no more questions. We're just we're just gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back, we'll call Steve, and we'll try and

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<v Speaker 1>get you a second date. Update. Great, Okay, hold update

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got Mia on the phone, and Mia is feeling

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<v Speaker 1>regretful about how her first date played out. Questionable but okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm hesitant to even recap it because I'm afraid I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say it wrong and make her mad. But the

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<v Speaker 1>sticking point that happened on the actual date is the

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<v Speaker 1>question should you be honest and share everything with your

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<v Speaker 1>significant other? Absolutely every that snowballed out of control because

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<v Speaker 1>her date, Steve, thought that some things need to be

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<v Speaker 1>kept private in a relationship, but Mia disagrees. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you should always be one hundred percent honest. So she

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<v Speaker 1>tested that theory by asking her date point blank if

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<v Speaker 1>he would sleep with a lady sitting across the bar

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<v Speaker 1>from them, and poor Steve gave in and said yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Well he was asked, Well, that honest answer was a

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<v Speaker 1>little too honest for Mia, and now here we are

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<v Speaker 1>hard feelings on both sides, and Mia has said in

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<v Speaker 1>her own special way that she feels remorse and she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to make things right with Steve again. So Mia,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think was that recap accurate? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess those were the facts, But I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>like your tone. Guys. I feel like you're not really

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<v Speaker 1>on my side or no, I'm gonna say, I am

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<v Speaker 1>having a hard time yet, and I'll tell you why.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not because I don't think that honesty is great.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that you're asking questions that don't matter

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship, Like it doesn't matter if he's attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to another woman. What matters is he's with you. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's your opinion. I disagree and it matters to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't know my life. You don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>I feel about things or what I've gone through. So

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that works for you, but not for me. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to apologize me on behalf of Brook. She is

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<v Speaker 1>just in a really crabby mood today. She gets really

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<v Speaker 1>upset whenever she hears people that sound like they're really

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<v Speaker 1>in love and that they actually have a chance, and

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<v Speaker 1>she gets really jealous and lashes out. So that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>where it's coming from. You're ready, Yeah, Alogy, I'm not apologizing,

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<v Speaker 1>but I hope through all this that we all learn

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<v Speaker 1>something together. Okay, I think that should be the goal

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<v Speaker 1>right here? Okay, can we just stop talking about it

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<v Speaker 1>and call him? Okay, I'm just gonna dial in the

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<v Speaker 1>phone of it right now? Here we go? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>we even part of this? Hello? Hi? Can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Steve? Please? Yeah? Speaking Hey Steve. My name's Young

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey from the radio. Do you have a minute to

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<v Speaker 1>talk with us? The radio m yes, FM frequency modulated.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I win something? No? Not really? I'm calling because

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<v Speaker 1>we do a segment on our show called a Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone and afterwards they're not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email us and we'll try and get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of them to figure out why. Okay, and so

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with a woman

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<v Speaker 1>named Mia. Yeah, yeah, you're right, Steve. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of mystery and why you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back. She's calling a radio show to ask me

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<v Speaker 1>if I went out with her. No, she knows that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out, and she recognizes that maybe things

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<v Speaker 1>didn't play out quite the way she had hoped. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what she told you, but I do not

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<v Speaker 1>mind talking about this publicly. The date was weird, man,

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<v Speaker 1>What specifically was weird to you about it? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean the first it was fine. She is attractive, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had coworkers trying to set us up, so it

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<v Speaker 1>was like, okay, if my friends like her, she's got

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<v Speaker 1>to be cool, right, right. So we're sitting at the

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<v Speaker 1>bar and she sees this girl and she pressures me

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<v Speaker 1>into admitting that the other girl is hot, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kept trying to back off, being like, no, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do that, and finally she just wouldn't let

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<v Speaker 1>it go, so just out of pure frustration, I just went, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd sleep with her. Yeah, yeah, we heard, we heard.

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<v Speaker 1>That didn't sit well with her either, that although she

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<v Speaker 1>said she wanted the truth, she didn't really and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not that kind of guy. And I felt really bad, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because I could tell her her feelings, so I tried

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<v Speaker 1>to make it better. It did not work. The date

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sizzled out, and I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm thinking about this the wrong way. Maybe it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't as bad as I thought. So I was honestly

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<v Speaker 1>planning on calling her back until I got to work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you are a much bigger person than

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<v Speaker 1>I think most people would have been in your situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes those fiery girls kind of excited guy. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>he's yeah, it was. I guess it was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like that. But I also just didn't want to base

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<v Speaker 1>it on one day. You know, maybe she's had a

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<v Speaker 1>bad day or something. Right, that's good. Now you're very

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<v Speaker 1>open minded, and you've got really bad luck, like sitting

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<v Speaker 1>across from this gorgeous woman, Like maybe if she had

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<v Speaker 1>pointed to an ugly girl, you would have been inclined

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<v Speaker 1>to say no. Me it's very pretty, Like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say this girl was more attractive than her,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean, she just wouldn't let it go right right?

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<v Speaker 1>But you said it changed at work. What happened at work? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our mutual friends comes up to me

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<v Speaker 1>at work and goes, dude, I heard what you said.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you do that? And I went, what are

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<v Speaker 1>you talking about? And he goes, you told me to

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<v Speaker 1>her face that you wanted to go sleep with another

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<v Speaker 1>girl at the bar. Did not twist it like that? Why?

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<v Speaker 1>She absolutely did, or my friend thought she did. So

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<v Speaker 1>I go, hey, she asked me to do that. She

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't let it go, And then all these other people,

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<v Speaker 1>the officer give me weird looks like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>can I curse on the radio because I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>frustrated now that I'm back into it, because I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like an assole and like that's what she asked me

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<v Speaker 1>to say, right, No, she told us like I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Yo, there is no way any any

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<v Speaker 1>person should ever ask another person in a relationship if

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<v Speaker 1>you'd sleep with somebody else, like you're never gonna like

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<v Speaker 1>the answer. And we weren't in a relationship. It was

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<v Speaker 1>the first date, right, Well, we obviously have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of different opinions here. I think we all need to

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<v Speaker 1>get on the same page. The only way to do

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<v Speaker 1>that is to let you know, Steve that Mia has

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<v Speaker 1>been on the phone listening this entire time. Oh my god, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to talk to you, Mia, Steve him. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I just don't know why you're so upset

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<v Speaker 1>about Hi. I'm sorry, guys, I cannot believe this. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean really honestly, though, at this point, he shouldn't surprise me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, listen me. I will tell you why I'm upset.

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<v Speaker 1>You made me look like a jerk to everybody at work.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't tell them everything that happened about how you

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<v Speaker 1>said people in relationships need to share everything. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't give them the whole story. I just but I

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<v Speaker 1>told them exactly what you said to me on the date.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you not say you would sleep with her? You

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<v Speaker 1>said that, right? I just told them what was they

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to say when they asked me what happened or

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<v Speaker 1>what you said? You asked me to tell you that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you delusional? I feel like you're living in this

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<v Speaker 1>altered reality. Not only did you ask him, you pressured

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<v Speaker 1>him and he didn't say. He didn't say I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go sleep with her tonight? You said would you

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with her? And force him to answer? Okay, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, shut up step it. Of all, I'm talking

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<v Speaker 1>to Steve and asking him a question and asking him

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<v Speaker 1>about if he had a problem with something like you

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<v Speaker 1>clearly do. But weren't different people, So let us to

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<v Speaker 1>figure this out. You can have to answer, Steve. I

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<v Speaker 1>told my friends the truth, and did you want me

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<v Speaker 1>to lie about what you said? Like I wasn't going

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. They said, Well, I told them exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what you said, but you didn't the context. You didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell them that you made me say it. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like I just sat down at the bar and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>my name Steve. Oh look at that girl. I've like

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<v Speaker 1>the banger. Okay, Steve, I don't appreciate you joking about

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<v Speaker 1>how you wanted to bang that girl. Okay. I already

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<v Speaker 1>feel sorry about it, already feel bad and already bad

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<v Speaker 1>about the whole thing. Okay, that's why it has them

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<v Speaker 1>call you. Hold on, Mia, can I just like ask you? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't. I'm talking to Steve. Okay, not just me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's your show me. You need to relax, Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>shop No, that's just why I had them call you.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you do something extremely rude? Okay? You know at

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<v Speaker 1>least you were being honest, and that's why I'm willing

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<v Speaker 1>to give you a second chance. Okay, that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>had them tell you. Oh, I'm so grateful, And what

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<v Speaker 1>are you saying? I thought this whole thing was because

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<v Speaker 1>you felt bad about pressuring him into saying that on

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I feel bad that ended that way, but

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<v Speaker 1>I also want to get him a chance to fix it.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're taking into responsibility. What would have been a

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<v Speaker 1>good response from Steve in that scenario? What would you

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<v Speaker 1>have liked to hear him say? Well, the best response

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<v Speaker 1>would have obviously been that he didn't want to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>with that girl, but he did, and so now I

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<v Speaker 1>want to figure to sat on the forward. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you guys are to spend forty five

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<v Speaker 1>minutes talking about that stranger that Steve wants to sleep with.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a huge chunk of the date. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna lie. That's why I like it was just purely

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<v Speaker 1>out of frustration. Just to get the conversation to end,

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<v Speaker 1>I just went, yeah, okay, okay, Steve, you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>not helping right now. Okay, you should just be apologizing

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<v Speaker 1>for what you put me through. God, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, Mia, I will apologize. I am sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that my friends set us up on a date. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>No need to get mean and nasty now, okay, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well you know what if I'm if I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>be one hundred percent honest, I would sleep with both

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<v Speaker 1>of them. I honestly want to know if the two

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<v Speaker 1>of you would go out on a second date. Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say we'll pay for that? Oh? Sure, awesome, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll send you guys out. No, no, god no, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that was sarcastic. That's so surprising, to be honest, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>No matter why. Mia, listen, you sound like you could

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<v Speaker 1>be a rad girl, and you sound beautiful, and you

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<v Speaker 1>need to stop being so insecure. Okay, I'm not insecure.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop paint. I think you know what? You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>You weigh in anymore on this brooke? Okay, like just sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a headache. Sorry, guys, I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you I am so happy that this is on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio because all of our friends at work can

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<v Speaker 1>now hear why things didn't work out a very good

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<v Speaker 1>points and they all know, Steve, that you would totally

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<v Speaker 1>sleep without woman. Oh yeah, yeah, we all know that

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<v Speaker 1>you would sleep with someone else in a date when

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<v Speaker 1>you worker. Okay, stop me,