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Speaker 1: the phone for a second date update today, and Mia

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Speaker 1: says she feels bad about what happened on her date.

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Speaker 1: Oh now, Mia, the rule is you only have to

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Speaker 1: feel bad if you made them cry. So did he cry? No,

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Speaker 1: he didn't cry. All right, Well, then you shouldn't feel bad. Okay,

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Speaker 1: your conscience can be cleared and you are free to go.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, have a good day. I don't know. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like she's about to cry right now, Mia, it's

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Speaker 1: a joke. Sorry, he's being sarcastic. Not really though. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well listen, maybe we should learn more before I jumped

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Speaker 1: to intrusions. Okay, tell us about this guy. What's his name?

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Speaker 1: His name is Steve. Okay, it sounds like a crier. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: he didn't cry. My friends at work actually something up

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Speaker 1: I always like to know, how are you feeling going

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Speaker 1: into this blind date? Hopeful, doubtful? Oh, I was feeling good.

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Speaker 1: I was excited. I know, it's it's just been kind

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Speaker 1: actually said it was really cool, you know, okay, and

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Speaker 1: we're your friends, right. Yeah, he was like really cute

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Speaker 1: a date. That's a positive no, but not everything. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what are you exactly are you talking? Like? She opened

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Speaker 1: first couple's argument? This is what it sounds like. It

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Speaker 1: We've got Mia on the phone, and Mia is feeling

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Speaker 1: It's not because I don't think that honesty is great.

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Speaker 1: I just think that you're asking questions that don't matter

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Speaker 1: where it's coming from. You're ready, Yeah, Alogy, I'm not apologizing,

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Speaker 1: phone of it right now? Here we go? Why are

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Speaker 1: we even part of this? Hello? Hi? Can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Steve? Please? Yeah? Speaking Hey Steve. My name's Young

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey from the radio. Do you have a minute to

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Speaker 1: Did I win something? No? Not really? I'm calling because

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Speaker 1: Date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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Speaker 1: named Mia. Yeah, yeah, you're right, Steve. I don't think

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Speaker 1: you know what, Mia, I will apologize. I am sorry

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Speaker 1: Well you know what if I'm if I'm going to

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Speaker 1: what do you say we'll pay for that? Oh? Sure, awesome, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that was sarcastic. That's so surprising, to be honest, Steve,

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Speaker 1: No matter why. Mia, listen, you sound like you could

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Speaker 1: Stop paint. I think you know what? You know what?

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