1 00:00:01,720 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: Wine Down with Jane Kramer and I have our radio 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:11,799 Speaker 1: podcast Monday Happy Monday, because it's not Monday happy whatever 3 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: day it is, because it doesn't matter. All the day's 4 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: bing together. Seriously, when you it's like, it's not Monday. 5 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: To them, it's Monday, but when we record it, it's 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: not Monday. I'm a pro. I know when this is 7 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 1: coming out. Is that our top of show right now? Well, 8 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: we're delirious in our house. It's kind of funny though, 9 00:00:34,040 --> 00:00:37,839 Speaker 1: because I like when you say it's Monday, Happy Monday's 10 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: hapking Monday? Is that Monday right now? It's Friday Happy Friday? 11 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: But you're gonna listen to this on Monday, But it's 12 00:00:44,720 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: Friday for us because Jane is gonna hate me. Alliday's 13 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: going together for everybody. You know, It's It's so true. 14 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: My neighbor Molly, she came up to me today and 15 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: she goes, had an interesting conversation with mys on Peter 16 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: today and I was like, yeah, what's that, Molly? She goes, Oh, 17 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 1: I woke up and I said, hey, Peter, it's Friday. 18 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 1: And he goes, what does that even mean? And she goes, 19 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:14,200 Speaker 1: you know what, great question? Nothing? It means nothing. It 20 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 1: means absolutely nothing, Peter, and she just really thought about 21 00:01:19,400 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, it means nothing. And we had this 22 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: conversation where I was like, I know, I said, now 23 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: that it's just us and we're not working, it's I 24 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 1: don't know what day it is. I don't know, and 25 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. As long as Jason is in bed for 26 00:01:37,920 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: nap and the kids are in bed at seven, that's 27 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: all that matters. Tell me it's Christmas. Even I would 28 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: be like, okay, yeah, sure, oh I know. And we started, 29 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: you know, talking about Easter, and I'm like, okay, we 30 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: have Easter bags or baskets up in the the storage unit, 31 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, but you just went out 32 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: for your another two week call for grocery and then 33 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: it makes you stripped down naked in the garage and 34 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: run in the house to cover in mud and you're 35 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: covered in COVID. No. But I'm just word, you know, 36 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: just very yes, cautionary. And so you know, you had 37 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: your two week thing, which Michael is now going to 38 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: stop doing the runs because he has very bad asthma, 39 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,760 Speaker 1: and I do care about his life. Contrary to how 40 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: some people don't think that I care about my husband. 41 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: I do care about him, and I do care that 42 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,679 Speaker 1: if he were to catch COVID, he would be UM 43 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 1: one of those that would have a very tough time 44 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: with it because of your um asthma conditions. So I 45 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: will be the one now doing trips and I will 46 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: make sure that I follow all the guidelines that I 47 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 1: have placed on you, and um, I will make sure 48 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: to FaceTime you while you're at the store so you 49 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: get the appropriate things. You can't FaceTime because I can't 50 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: touch anything. I know what to get. It's just you 51 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: get everything after two weeks. I can't FaceTime. You can't 52 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 1: touch I can't touch my phone when I'm like touching, 53 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: you know, add the gloves and it's just aways. Um. 54 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, So that's that's that. We hope everyone's staying 55 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 1: safe though and not being naive to the social distancing 56 00:03:09,919 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: and staying at home. Just do the right thing. Please 57 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 1: stay at home so we can get past all this. 58 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: So I want to talk about something, and we also 59 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: have a really special guess. We have Tyler rich coming 60 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: on who I just love him. I love his music. 61 00:03:21,800 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: Lever Wilde is one of my favorite songs. He's coming 62 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,919 Speaker 1: on the show. In a bit, but first let's take 63 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: a break. Okay. So I kind of have something I 64 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: do want to bring up. I don't even know to 65 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: say this is Uh, usually we save things for like therapy, 66 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: but I guess this is kind of like therapy at times, 67 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: So sure, why not bring it up. Let's do it. Well. 68 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: I don't want it to be two sided, and I 69 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: do want you to feel you want to be too sided. 70 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to. I don't want it 71 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: to be too So what I'm saying is is I 72 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: don't want it to be one sided because I feel 73 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: like sometimes you might feel that I'm picking on you 74 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,840 Speaker 1: or bringing up things from the past or doing those 75 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,480 Speaker 1: kind of things, and I don't ever want you to 76 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: feel that way. Appreciate that because I feel like why 77 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 1: I bring certain things up is to help other people, 78 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 1: for sure, And so if we could just go into 79 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: it with that in mind, that in mind, and to 80 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: maybe sometimes I forget that people are listening to this 81 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:43,039 Speaker 1: when we have these conversations. So what honey, Oh, we're 82 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 1: just working baby, I love you in quarantine? Oh god? 83 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: Um yeah, So I just I get that, and I'm 84 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: not trying to bring up the past. Or whatever. I 85 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: just feel like something we went through could be helped 86 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 1: to other people. Okay, this bring it on? Do you 87 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about? I don't. Let's do it 88 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: the board, the shop, let's do it. So we had yes, baby, 89 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: what sweetheart, you want me to cuddle you up? Okay, 90 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: one second, entertain the crowd for one second. Well we 91 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: do this quarantine style in the house, no nanny, no help, 92 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,560 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go cuddle the baby up. So why 93 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: don't don't set the scene yet. Let's let's leave him 94 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: hanging a little bit on that, but give him something 95 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: else coming, baby girl. I don't know if any of 96 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: you out there with smartphones play game Pigeon, but it's 97 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: a great way to connect with friends. Okay. It's like 98 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: a game app that's through your messages and you can 99 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,960 Speaker 1: play games back and forth to each other that come 100 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:59,200 Speaker 1: in as text messages. You can play darts, you can 101 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: play pool, you can play battleship, you can play four 102 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: in a row. You can basically basically play beer pong. 103 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,280 Speaker 1: That you call it cut pong, but it's probably us 104 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: former college kids out there. It's beer pong. But no, 105 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: it's great. You can play a little bit everything. It's 106 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: a lot of fun. It's a way to connect with 107 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: your friends. So even if you aren't a gamer like myself, 108 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 1: it's just fun something to do take your mind off 109 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: all of the stresses that we're all dealing with right now. 110 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: And this is not an ad. This is just a 111 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: personal endorsement from myself because I enjoy doing it. So 112 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,559 Speaker 1: we're gonna give Jane in a minute, as she cuts 113 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: up Jolie on the couch. Um again, this is just 114 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 1: the joys of working from home during quarantine. So and 115 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: here's Janet, did you cuttle up? Jolly? Can I have 116 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:52,200 Speaker 1: some popcorns? So she's just like sitting pretty out there. 117 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: It is Friday night, Yeah it is, okay, So I 118 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: told them everything. Okay, it's all my fault, super ones, 119 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: I did, got it? Okay, No, but can we just 120 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 1: go into that. So let's put down the guards. Swords 121 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: and shields are Downards and shields are down. This is 122 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: just the teaching moment that we could both do better at, 123 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 1: and this could be maybe helpful. Why don't you give 124 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: the backstory of how we've been the last week we had, 125 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 1: this week we've been, this past week, we've been good. Yeah, 126 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 1: the week before it was a rough week. So usually 127 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 1: we're in ruts for just a couple of days, but 128 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: this one lasted umbout a week. Yeah, it was a 129 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: solid week. So I think because I'll just say, we're 130 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 1: so used to working from home, so a lot of 131 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: people are like, oh, it shouldn't be any different for you. True, 132 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: but usually we're doing you know, we're doing stuff and 133 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: I'm running here and he's got this, and I've got 134 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: a meeting or we've you know, we're not on top 135 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: of each other. And even when travel, we usually travel 136 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: at least once or twice a month, and typically nine 137 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 1: percent of time it's together, where even that at least 138 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: breaks things up a little bit. Like, even the we're together, 139 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 1: it's still traveling is a different scenery, a different vibe, 140 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: in different moods, so it's still kind of feels different 141 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: for us. So I think even that not having the 142 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: travel that we're used to is a little different, and 143 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 1: I feel not to one side it, but I just 144 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: feel like I am a very inquisitive person. I ask 145 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: a lot of questions, and I think the questions throughout 146 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 1: the I'm walking across, like the kitchen James like, what 147 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: are you doing. I'm going to the refrigerator. Why. It's 148 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: just that's just who she is. I'm just very curious. 149 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: And I think I asked you, you know, enough questions 150 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: those few days that you just started to get annoyed 151 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: with me. Yeah. And one of the things was we 152 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: were built this little patio outside for these uh, for 153 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: these bins basically to hold all of our pool stuff. 154 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: And so I finally got around to it thanks to 155 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: the quarantine, and got it done, um six months later. 156 00:09:15,679 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: So I have these they're like mini sheds, have these 157 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: two little mini sheds up, but a little platform looks great. 158 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: When I finished the platform, like a week or two ago, 159 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I text you. I'm like, hey, come outside, 160 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: come take a look. And she comes out, and my 161 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: expectation is for her to be like, oh my gosh, 162 00:09:33,559 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: it looks great. You're basically hercules and I love you 163 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:44,400 Speaker 1: so much. And she comes out she's like hmm, yeah, yeah, 164 00:09:44,400 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: it looks nice, and I can read through that immediately. 165 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:52,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, no, it did look nice. Yeah, but 166 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 1: you're you're you had a different expectation of what it 167 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: would look like. I had no idea. I had no expectations, 168 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: so I was more just like, oh that's what you did. Cool? 169 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,040 Speaker 1: You through rocks downe and like what are like cool? 170 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: So she so she proceeds to go into questions around 171 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,719 Speaker 1: She's like, oh, so, you know, is it's going to 172 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: be sturdy? Is it gonna like there, you know, there's 173 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: little ship's gonna wobble And she's like, you know, she's 174 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: like pushing it and it's like wobbling a little bit, 175 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: and I'm like, um, well, these things aren't you know, 176 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: five thousand dollars, Like we got them on you know, 177 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,720 Speaker 1: Amazon for like a hundred bucks, So they're gonna wobble 178 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: even And I even had to pick this thing up 179 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: and put it on the pool deck concrete and show 180 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 1: her that it's still wobbles a little bit. It's just 181 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 1: the way it is. And then you know, I have 182 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: it with a wood frame and these like nice grabble 183 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: grabble marble rocks to make it look a little bit 184 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,719 Speaker 1: more sestetically pleasing, and she's like, oh, was the door 185 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 1: gonna open like even on rocks, like is it gonna 186 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: get caught? Is it gonna I'm genuinely asking these questions, 187 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: by the way, just so you guys know, like I 188 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: am genuinely oh is it gonna because I'm like, in 189 00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: my mind, I'm like, oh, it's probably not gonna open 190 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 1: because the rocks are right there, but not's a fault him. 191 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:00,080 Speaker 1: I'm just like yeah. And then so there's just my 192 00:11:00,120 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 1: inn dog. And then I'm telling her, I'm like, Okay, well, 193 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,280 Speaker 1: you know, I'm underestimated on the rocks. I need to 194 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: get a couple more bags and under the rocks that 195 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: it's soiled to even things out. And she was just like, well, 196 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 1: you have more soil on the truck, so why don't 197 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: you choose that instead of I was like, we already 198 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: laid the rocks. I can exchange the back to soil. 199 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: And she's like, okay, well how much are the backs 200 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 1: of rocks and how much are the backs of soil? 201 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: And so I'm just giving these questions. I'm like, oh 202 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,880 Speaker 1: my gosh in my head, and I don't burst out 203 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: about it as much as I wanted to. In my head, 204 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm like, why can't I just do a job and 205 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: a wife just trust the husband that he's gonna like 206 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:43,199 Speaker 1: trust my judgment, Like instead of having all these inquisitive questions, 207 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 1: I understand you are a curious person, but the way 208 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:51,280 Speaker 1: I receive it is clearly the only reason you're asking 209 00:11:51,320 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: a question is because it's not the way that you 210 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 1: would have liked to have had it done. Can I 211 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: respond her? Now? Sure, that's actually really not true, because 212 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 1: looking at it, First of all, I just want to 213 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: say thank you for sharing. Second of all, I one 214 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:10,839 Speaker 1: thousand percent could as you're saying it, I'm like, oh, 215 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,839 Speaker 1: that sounds really annoying that I'm like that I'm asking 216 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: all those questions that must that would be so annoying. 217 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: And also I love how it looks. I think the rocks, 218 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 1: like the white rocks, you know, how like the border, 219 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: I think it looks great. I just had no idea 220 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: what to even expect, So I was like, oh, like 221 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 1: it was those rocks was the last thing in my 222 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: mind that you would have put it on. So I 223 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: was just, so, what can I ask to understand better? 224 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: So okay, So in your head, you're like, you have 225 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: no expectation of what it's gonna look like, So why 226 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: not just be like what stops you from being like, oh, 227 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: like looks great, awesome? Like I trust my husband's judgment. 228 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,719 Speaker 1: Clearly he wouldn't do that if it wouldn't open, if 229 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: the door wouldn't open, he wouldn't put rocks down. Like 230 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: that's where for sure I get that that makes idiot. 231 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:04,559 Speaker 1: I'm not what I'm doing now, it makes total sense 232 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,079 Speaker 1: and I and logically I can look back and and 233 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: see that. Um and so that's something I can for 234 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 1: sure be better at and be more mindful of, because 235 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:15,920 Speaker 1: I don't want you to feel like an idiot. I 236 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: don't want you to feel like you know, what you're 237 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 1: doing is questioned or why, like, of course you're not 238 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 1: going to have something that doesn't open. I think maybe 239 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 1: there might have been that handful of times where something 240 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: maybe didn't go as planned. So I'm in my mind 241 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:37,719 Speaker 1: it's like, well, if I asked all the questions, then 242 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: we won't have to start from scratch, you know, because 243 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:44,959 Speaker 1: of maybe something in in the past. But that's not fair. 244 00:13:45,880 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 1: And I couldn't even remember, if you know, I couldn't 245 00:13:48,800 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: even think of a time, so you know, yeah, a 246 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 1: thousand percent should have just been like, oh, looks great, 247 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 1: that's awesome, good job, h But I didn't, and I'm 248 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 1: sorry for that. Shit. It's things that we gotta work on. 249 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: Speaking of which I felt very one sided, so well 250 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,760 Speaker 1: to even this out for you. So the reason we 251 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 1: start with that story is but I feel kind of say, 252 00:14:11,240 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: I think it might be a wife thing too, asking questions, right, 253 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: but here's the thing, and and we're going to get 254 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: general right here, that does feel like a wife thing. 255 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: And as a man, it feels it doesn't feel like 256 00:14:22,480 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 1: y'all's questions are out of curiosity. There's a difference between 257 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:31,160 Speaker 1: there's a difference between a question out of curiosity and 258 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:38,720 Speaker 1: being challenged when you question somebody the way y'all wives, 259 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: not everyone. We're just overly generalizing right now for the 260 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:44,880 Speaker 1: sake of the argument is it feels like we're being 261 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,320 Speaker 1: challenged because a man's again, a man's mindset is like 262 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: mine where it's the only reason she would ask me 263 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: is because clearly she has an issue with it. So 264 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: and that's on y'all men or a woman if it's 265 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 1: rules are first, because that's not fair just because we 266 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: might be passive or say a comment or a question 267 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: out of like you've dumb ass, not all questions, but 268 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: you're reading all of our questions like that and those scenarios. 269 00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: Because I genuinely just like oh wow, like is it 270 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: going to be starting on those rocks because in my 271 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 1: mind I just genuinely didn't think they were going to 272 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: be and it had nothing to do to question you. 273 00:15:25,120 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: I totally see how you take that though, but I 274 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: just there are questions when I genuinely just ask you that, 275 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 1: I feel like men and some other people might take 276 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 1: it the wrong You're obviously taking it the wrong way 277 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: because I that always being super just like oh interesting, 278 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 1: like duh almost like kind of like my dad, Like 279 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: my dad would be very much like is that a 280 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 1: uh an electric plug? And it's like, yeah, why are 281 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:57,479 Speaker 1: you asking that question? Like it's just but he's curious, 282 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: you know that does this plug plug in? Yeah? But 283 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,960 Speaker 1: he's he's an engineer, so his mind I know. But 284 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: I'm just saying I wouldn't. The thing is, I think 285 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying. I wouldn't ask you a 286 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: question of something that you know better than me, Like 287 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: you know how to sell I do, okay, but you 288 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: do you can. So when you sow those buttons on, 289 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: like those couple of jackets I needed done, I didn't 290 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: look at it in question, Well, did you go through 291 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: the loop enough valid point. But but but here's here's 292 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:36,920 Speaker 1: which direction should you start from? Valid point? But to 293 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: the valid point? Totally get that. But if you would 294 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: have said, oh, do you think that will hold? I 295 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't get I wouldn't think this is I think again, men, men, 296 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: wife think. I would not get defensive. If you asked 297 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: me if the string that I use used would have 298 00:16:56,640 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: held the strength of your button unto your jacket, it 299 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: would not offend me in the louise because we don't 300 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:10,600 Speaker 1: ask those questions. But if you did, but did we 301 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: are used to your challenging questions to see what our 302 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: answer is. We don't question you all like that. We 303 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 1: give you the benefit of the doubt. Right, I'm just saying, 304 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: given the benefit of doubt, even on something that we 305 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: may know better than you. Oh that's not true. Like 306 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't challenge you on certain things like that, 307 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: you know, hanging up the garage whatever, YadA yutah, hanging 308 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,800 Speaker 1: up the garage, like the pull up bar. Like I 309 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 1: didn't be like, well you should use the double whatever 310 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: did you put that little thing of a jigger in there? 311 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: I don't know, but is it going to hold hold you? No? Janna, 312 00:17:47,480 --> 00:17:48,879 Speaker 1: I put it in the wall and making sure it 313 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't hold me, and as soon as we put our 314 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:53,040 Speaker 1: hands on it, we're gonna get a giant hole in 315 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: the drywall. You did ask your question? Is that going 316 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 1: to hold us? Why else would I put it up? 317 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,239 Speaker 1: From my feeling in the microphone, so I don't want 318 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:04,760 Speaker 1: to hear you you didn't ask a question, because you did, 319 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: I don't know why. I it's just it's not like 320 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: I don't want you to take it defensively. It's just 321 00:18:10,320 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 1: a general question. And I don't know why. Maybe it's 322 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,040 Speaker 1: just me. Maybe I'm the only female out there. And 323 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: if i am, then I'm so sorry that you have 324 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,720 Speaker 1: to live with such an inquisitive female. And I'll never 325 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 1: ask a question again. But that's not true. But I'm 326 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 1: gonna starting then. I'm gonna before i'm done, I'm going 327 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: to write a list of questions, the questions I know 328 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: not anymore, because now I'm gonna be like great or 329 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: a list of the questions that Jan would ask. I'm 330 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 1: going to write them out with my answer, and before 331 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 1: I show you something, or as I show you something, 332 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to hand you the piece of paper with 333 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: your questions and the answers on there, and you won't 334 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 1: you won't have to ask a thing. Well, you know, 335 00:18:50,480 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 1: you know what, that's great, That that really just I 336 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 1: don't know. I just sometimes I just feel like you 337 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,639 Speaker 1: guys have to Again, maybe I'm the only one. If 338 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: I'm the only one out there, then than than I sucked. 339 00:19:01,280 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: But I'm just hoping a few women will reach out 340 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: to me after hearing this podcast and also validate that 341 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: they may be asked questions not because they don't trust 342 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,359 Speaker 1: their husband, but just because you know, there might have 343 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 1: been a time or two that the dry wall did 344 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: come out or whatever, or they're just curious. Once again, 345 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 1: just validate. It's my point that you have a strategic 346 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: purpose for asking a question, not all the time. Not 347 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,959 Speaker 1: all the time. It's but you, guys, I can understand 348 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: how you would miss construe when we genuinely are just 349 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: asking a question. These are the things that are coming 350 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 1: up for us as we're quarantined together for a month straight. 351 00:19:34,840 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: So far, let's get down to the next part of 352 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: it now. I think maybe we should have saved that 353 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 1: one because we kind of went long on that, so 354 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: maybe we should save that for another. But it goes 355 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: hand in hand. It does, but that's kind of long, 356 00:19:48,440 --> 00:20:01,439 Speaker 1: very one sided. I'm very defensive and angry right now. Okay, 357 00:20:01,640 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 1: so excited because, um, we have on zoom with us 358 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: Tyler Rich Yes, Um, how are you doing? Are we're 359 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 1: doing well? We're hanging in there. Where do you guys? 360 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: Your wife? I see your beautiful wife behind you. Where 361 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: do you guys? Where do you guys live? So we 362 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: split time between Nashville, um and l A. So we're 363 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: in l A right now. To get crazy, I grabbed 364 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 1: the dog and flow out here and just been hanging 365 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:35,680 Speaker 1: out inevitably and seeing what happens. So how's everything in 366 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 1: l A then? Because I know you guys, it's it's 367 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: getting hit some kind of a hot spot. So, um, 368 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: is it super weird to just see nothing happening? Or 369 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:50,879 Speaker 1: is there are people still interacting and what's going on? Um? 370 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 1: It's it's funny because when I look out side, it 371 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 1: looks like everything is kind of normal. But I know 372 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,919 Speaker 1: that when they're everything is normal again. I'm gonna real 373 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: that's how crazy it usually is outside. But I don't know. 374 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: I guess I think I'm feel like I'm supposed to 375 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 1: look out side and see nobody, but I see so 376 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: many people still. Um, so it kind of feels like 377 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 1: not much has changed. But then you see the But 378 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 1: we also live on a street with two grocery stores 379 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 1: where they're they're lined up down the street. Yeah, so 380 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,719 Speaker 1: it's convenient for us, but there's people everywhere. How long 381 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 1: have you guys been married for? Oh? Wow? Really was? Yeah, 382 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: but they're in the newly wed phase. This is where 383 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: they're like still right, but they're like they're accelerating their 384 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: marriage clock by like years right now. It's like dog 385 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: years like in marriage, you know, but like it's six months. 386 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,239 Speaker 1: Like you're still obsessed with their like breath, like when 387 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:40,159 Speaker 1: they wake up in the morning and they're like you know, 388 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 1: they're every like time they walk through like yeah, like 389 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:45,080 Speaker 1: every time they walk through a door, it's like, oh 390 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: my god, everything's still so cute and fancy it Like, okay, 391 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: I mean, how is it though? It's it's been cool. 392 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: It's we're literally in the middle of an argument, is 393 00:21:59,080 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 1: whispering in my ear about right now about how hot 394 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 1: he is right now. She always has it so hut 395 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 1: sound for sound purposes, thank you, And he just whispered 396 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 1: in my ear and he's like, it's so hot, Like, 397 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 1: all right, can we're in the sound And I'm like, 398 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,199 Speaker 1: I feel like the sweating is definitely the trade off 399 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 1: for bad sounds. That's definitely our argument pretty much. Seven, 400 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:21,439 Speaker 1: He's like, why did you turn the heat on? It's 401 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:24,240 Speaker 1: seventy three degrees outside, and like because it's cold in here, 402 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 1: and she has on like shorts and a T shirt. 403 00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, we'll put some clothes on and you won't 404 00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: be cold. What effort. This is a daily argument, so 405 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: we get it. But I mean, is the is the 406 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,760 Speaker 1: bliss still there even with being you know, kind of 407 00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,159 Speaker 1: on top of each other? Have you have there been 408 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,360 Speaker 1: moments of just that just annoyance or are you still 409 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:53,760 Speaker 1: in that honeymoon phase even with the quarantine? So how 410 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:55,400 Speaker 1: long did you guys date before you got married? Because 411 00:22:55,400 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 1: I'll well, here's the thing, here's a think. Ty and 412 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 1: I are a long distance so I live in l A. 413 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: Tyler's in Nashville, So our norm has always been with 414 00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: a ton of space, so we've never really been on 415 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: when you pretend together. So it's actually been really good 416 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,560 Speaker 1: with the issue is we're working from home so much 417 00:23:11,560 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: time an actor, so I'm doing self tape auditions while 418 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,240 Speaker 1: he and voiceover auditions in the living room, while he's 419 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,640 Speaker 1: like in my room trying to record songs. So we're 420 00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: just more like it's it's a really good problem. Thank 421 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: god we're able to like still try to be as 422 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: as productive as possible, but it's like us trying to 423 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:32,920 Speaker 1: like honor the space and each other's like creative. We 424 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 1: finally feel married for sure. Welcome. How has that been 425 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: with both you guys and your professions, which obviously in 426 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:43,400 Speaker 1: both professions you're typically with a lot of people, whether 427 00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: you're on there set or touring or whatever. How has 428 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,920 Speaker 1: that been for y'all? Like mentally being able to be like, 429 00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,560 Speaker 1: all right, we're just kind of stagnant right now. We 430 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,640 Speaker 1: have to do whatever we can to try to move 431 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: the needle. But it's really hard. Yeah, I feel like, 432 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: especially the first week was like scrambling and grabbing for 433 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,960 Speaker 1: straws to try to figure out how to instantly mold 434 00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: your business into this new business model of online only um, 435 00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:12,240 Speaker 1: and it's been it's actually for me, it's kind of crazy. 436 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,800 Speaker 1: I actually feel busier than I've ever been because it's 437 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 1: like wake up in the morning all the way ntil 438 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 1: I go to sleep at night. It's trying as much 439 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: as possible to be as productive as possible. When I 440 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,840 Speaker 1: used to have downtime, now I'm like, I need to 441 00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: feel every second of every day to stay ahead of 442 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 1: this thing. Um. It's been exhausting. It's been inspiring, especially 443 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 1: to see how everybody's coming together, Seeing how everybody's being 444 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 1: creative in ways they've never been creative before. And um, 445 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 1: using Instagram Live in ways that we've never used it before, 446 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:46,640 Speaker 1: and doing a podcast through Zoom, you know, and just um, 447 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,120 Speaker 1: all these different ways we're having to mold um. Sabina 448 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: has actually kind of been busier too, because now that 449 00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,440 Speaker 1: she can self tape, it's almost like even more auditions 450 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 1: are coming in now. But at the same time, like 451 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: not getting paid for anything that we hear you on 452 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,480 Speaker 1: that we just had to unfortunately lay off our nanny 453 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: because we're not I mean, I booked a film up 454 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:07,959 Speaker 1: in Canada and we got we flew all the way 455 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 1: up there and then we filmed one scene and then 456 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,639 Speaker 1: had to come right back to Tennessee, and so, you know, 457 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 1: things like that aren't coming in and so we had 458 00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 1: to unfortunately lay off the nanny and that's been really hard, 459 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 1: and you know, because I think people expect us to 460 00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 1: be making all this money and have all this but 461 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,120 Speaker 1: it's like nowhere we you know, we don't. Yes, we're fortunate, 462 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,440 Speaker 1: but at the same time, you know, we still have 463 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 1: expenses and if we don't have money coming in, then 464 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: we can't live our lives how we have lived them. 465 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: So but yeah, it's fun times. But I'm glad that 466 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: you're still able to, you know, do some auditions and stuff. 467 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:44,399 Speaker 1: But I can. It's definitely hard, especially when you know 468 00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: he's probably trying to do music in the other room. 469 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 1: I know a lot of times and all self tape. 470 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: Michael is usually my my person. That is the actor Tyler. 471 00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: Do you read do you read with Sabina on her sealthie? Yeah? 472 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,080 Speaker 1: Do you give? Do you give her text? Is he 473 00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: gives me? Not? Yeah? Hey, look you want us to 474 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,239 Speaker 1: help you. You know, the guys we've seen a lot 475 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: of movies. We can you know, we have a little 476 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: bit of education here. How long do you guys think 477 00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 1: you'll do the long distance for? Um? I guess as 478 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 1: long as we have to. I think until we I 479 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 1: think until we decide to have little ones because I 480 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 1: think for now it's worked. It really does work for us. 481 00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,919 Speaker 1: I mean it's it really worked for us. I think 482 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 1: I find that Tide it's rather aunty. If I'm in 483 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,040 Speaker 1: Nashville with him for a good two week window, I 484 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 1: find he gets cut, he's busy, he's right, and he's 485 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: gone all day and I feel like he gets anty, 486 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 1: like he feels guilty, like he's leaving me and like 487 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: as if he's not honoring my dreams to Like I 488 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 1: think there's some guilt that kind of sets in. So 489 00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: I think when we have a family, then we'll make 490 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: the move to be together. But for now, it's for now, 491 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 1: it's been it's been working. So because you guys have 492 00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:53,440 Speaker 1: spent so much time apart, Like, what's one thing that 493 00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: you've noticed that you're like that kind of gets on 494 00:26:55,160 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: my nerves. It's something there's it's actually something that Tie 495 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: has actually really taught me. Like he wakes up, started 496 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 1: up first thing in the morning and he has this 497 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: to do list and he gets he sticks with it. 498 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 1: He's like eight am, I'm doing this nighting and like 499 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: he really he's actually taught me a lot because like 500 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: I'll just I'll just like push things off on that 501 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: I'll do it tomorrow the next day. So he's actually 502 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:22,200 Speaker 1: I don't know that it gets The first few days 503 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: it was getting on my nerves because I just wanted 504 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,719 Speaker 1: to like sit for a minute. But but but now 505 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: it's actually taught me that, like, Okay, this is why 506 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,800 Speaker 1: he gets so much done, and he's hustling and working 507 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,200 Speaker 1: so hard, and it just really taught me that I 508 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: can't roll my to do list over from day to 509 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: day to day. Tyler Janna, that's like her fantasy for 510 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 1: me to have that trade to go buy a list 511 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,359 Speaker 1: like and not move anything. Because I mean, I'm like you, 512 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, does this really need to get 513 00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: done right this moment? Now, I'm good, I'll do it later. 514 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: You want to you want to know? Hold on, let 515 00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: me show you. Let me just show you what ty 516 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: got me. I kind of the thing is, I just 517 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 1: got really bad O c D. And it's kind of 518 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,240 Speaker 1: things organize and meat and she's kind of like a 519 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: cluster of chaos. Just what are those ore timers? Their 520 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,679 Speaker 1: efficiency timers, Those little sand things minutes, five minutes, ten minutes, 521 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: little sand things are hourglasses. But there are timers to 522 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 1: keep me on track, I'll be like, Saba, this has 523 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 1: been on your to do list for two weeks. You have, 524 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 1: Oh that is the most amazing thing. Like do you 525 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: know if I did that to you, you would we 526 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,280 Speaker 1: would have getten the biggest fight ever. You'd yell at me, 527 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: like would be broken by the you would you would 528 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 1: take my hour glass and you would throw it up 529 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: against the wall and it' chatter everywhere. He hasn't actually 530 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: used it yet. I think if you actually implemented and 531 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: put it in front of me and watched the sand 532 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: go down and go freaking nuts, Oh gosh, I'm so envious. 533 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: Like the stuff we could get done together, Tyler, Like 534 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 1: we would just we would rule the world. You and 535 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,480 Speaker 1: Sabbina would just be like, hey, let us know what 536 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:06,480 Speaker 1: we can do just riding cotails out. No, but I 537 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: will say, though it's been it's been nice, you know, 538 00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,200 Speaker 1: just to affirm you, Mike, like you've you have instead 539 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 1: of going to your normal trait, which is a little 540 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:19,080 Speaker 1: laziness in reclusiveness, like you've you've really like you've built 541 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 1: the shed and the the you know, you've you've really 542 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: done this stuff that hasn't been needing to get done. 543 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: So I just I really appreciate it. You're welcome kind 544 00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:32,240 Speaker 1: of guy, I am, honey. We're an apartments in both places, 545 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,040 Speaker 1: so we can't build sheds yet, but one of us doesn't. 546 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: I cleaned a lot of Are you not impressed with 547 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: how much I've gotten up? I showed up to l 548 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 1: A with the dog three weeks ago and she goes, hey, 549 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,800 Speaker 1: so I have a honey to do list of what 550 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 1: a husband should do around here that has been compiling 551 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 1: for ever because I'm never here more than just a 552 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: few days. And one was like, rearrange the entire storage unit. 553 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: Great idea, help her rearrange and organize all of her 554 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: clothes in her class night priorities. I love it. Oh, 555 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: it's not actually organizing. I actually need to help with 556 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 1: purgeing and need him to look at me and say 557 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 1: you don't need this. It's more and it's not like organizing. 558 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,880 Speaker 1: It's actually look I get attached to everything, sure like 559 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: I get so I need him to look at me 560 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: and be like, you don't need this. We can get 561 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: rid of this, and like okay. So it's more not 562 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,360 Speaker 1: organization tests it's more like I need me like kicking 563 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 1: the butt. Understandable Tyler, what are you doing kind of 564 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: with your brand and everything to build that right now? 565 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 1: Like you're talking about you, you're trying to change your 566 00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: business model to you know, incorporate how things are and 567 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: how society is right now. Like what do you personally doing? 568 00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,840 Speaker 1: Like where can people find you? Here? Stuff from you 569 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 1: and kind of follow what label are you on again, 570 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: Tyler Valerie through Big Machine? Very cool? Um, So I 571 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,080 Speaker 1: created this thing. So my first single was called the 572 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 1: Difference and so great song. By the way, thanks, we 573 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 1: have it crossed out it says the Distance Tour. And 574 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,920 Speaker 1: so what that is is three shows a week um 575 00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: on Instagram Live and so on Tuesdays, what I do is, 576 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: because everybody's going live and everybody is trying to be 577 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 1: you know, give as many people to watch as possible. 578 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: And so I was like, how can I be more 579 00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: creative and create a show that isn't just alive me 580 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 1: sitting on my couch playing music. And so on Tuesday's 581 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,520 Speaker 1: I have a show called Singing Behind the Scene and 582 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:21,920 Speaker 1: I showcase three songwriters and what happens is each one 583 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,800 Speaker 1: gets twenty minutes and they tell stories. They played two 584 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,440 Speaker 1: of their hits and they tell the stories behind it, 585 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 1: and then I either play a song I've written with 586 00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 1: that songwriter or I cover one of their other hits, UM, 587 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,360 Speaker 1: and we do that three rounds. And then on Friday's 588 00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: my new song coming out is called Feels Like Home, 589 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: which is perfect as everybody's at home, and so we 590 00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: have it Feels Like Home Couch Concert series, which is 591 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:47,240 Speaker 1: just traditional Instagram live show for an hour. I just 592 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:51,400 Speaker 1: take requests hang out, um and then Sundays, I've got 593 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: a song called leaver Wild that's my favorite. I was 594 00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 1: just gonna say leave Wild my absolute favorite jam. I 595 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: even had it all cute up to say this is 596 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:02,320 Speaker 1: my favorite and trying to turn and live do you 597 00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:13,760 Speaker 1: live if if? If? That's the jam right there? So good, dude. 598 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: I love that song because so many times you just 599 00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 1: you know, it's like just live like leave her wild man, 600 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 1: Now I see, and that's now I get it now. 601 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: Meeting your beautiful wife, I get it. And she said 602 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: every time I try to give her to do it, 603 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 1: she goes yes. There's nothing you can say against that 604 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:39,320 Speaker 1: you leave him wild. It goes both ways. It's by 605 00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: the way I took I took leave her a whild 606 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 1: was stup too far. On day one of Believe Her Wild, 607 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,280 Speaker 1: So Sunday says leave her Wild Sunday Brunch, And so 608 00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: at one o'clock in the afternoon on Sundays, we have 609 00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 1: this brunch that it's kind of like a day drinking 610 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,440 Speaker 1: thing for people that can't go day drink on a Sunday. Um, 611 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: and we do it like a talk show. Like the 612 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 1: first ten minutes, I do news, positive stories. Um, I 613 00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,120 Speaker 1: don't have to playing music on this one. And then 614 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: it leads us to say show number one didn't have 615 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:14,240 Speaker 1: like as much structure, and I started to get more drunk, 616 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 1: and then I just started to text friends, join us, 617 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: join us, and then what happened. It turned into like 618 00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: a three and a half hour Also, what happens is 619 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: we have a guest come on and we do a 620 00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 1: drinking game for trivia, and then they promote whatever they 621 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,479 Speaker 1: have going on and we go to another guest. It's 622 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 1: an hour show now, but first one was it was 623 00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 1: like the Wild Wild West, and now it's Sober Sunday. 624 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,720 Speaker 1: But before it was not. Yeah, well it's still not 625 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 1: Sober Sunday, but it was It definitely wasn't blackout Sunday 626 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: like Number one I was. I did it just got excited, 627 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 1: and I don't want to make a drink because it 628 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 1: feels like, I mean, I don't know, I'm gonna take 629 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: a drink. I mean my Twitter, I'm gonna I'm gonna 630 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,960 Speaker 1: commit playing. You know, So we play this game, but 631 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,760 Speaker 1: we expected it to play around for one hour, and 632 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: and I invited some more friends and we had you know, 633 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: John Cardy came on and Dustin when she came on, 634 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: and we had some really great friends of ours. And 635 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 1: I was excited to see their faces. And then I 636 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 1: just kept drinking, really drinking, and then I blacked out. 637 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: So four thirty pm for thirty pm. She lays down 638 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: on the couch. Basically, this is the bag. This is Sebina. 639 00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,279 Speaker 1: She just puts her down. That's sticking a little nap. 640 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: She woke up at nine thirty and she walks to 641 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: the room. She goes celthing's not right. What happened? She 642 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:32,399 Speaker 1: goes to the room and she falls asleep until ten 643 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:41,600 Speaker 1: a m. Going hard. Eight hours. Good for you, quarantine coma, 644 00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,760 Speaker 1: I mean one of those right now? Wow? Um wait, Tyler, 645 00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:50,120 Speaker 1: how long did you um, you know, do the guitar 646 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 1: singing song or anything? Before you got signed. Um, I mean, 647 00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:58,320 Speaker 1: so I just turned thirty four. Um, I was in 648 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:02,120 Speaker 1: and out of bands, I mean since was nineteen, from California, 649 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,880 Speaker 1: from northern California, in and out of bands, touring stuff 650 00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: until I was about twenty two. Um. Then I went 651 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 1: back to school. I got a degree in economics. For 652 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: some reason, you used it to do the timer thing. 653 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 1: That the same timer with my taxes, and he's very 654 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:24,120 Speaker 1: efficient the timers is what I've learned from all of this. 655 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 1: But and then I started doing the singer songwriter thing 656 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:31,279 Speaker 1: in l A. Probably, I guess I probably did it 657 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,880 Speaker 1: for two years, three years. And then I moved to 658 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 1: Nashville five years ago. Trying to piece all this together. 659 00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: I was in Nashville. I was a Nashville for a 660 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: year before I got signed. I mean that's huge. But 661 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 1: when I moved there, I moved because I was I 662 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,760 Speaker 1: guess I was already was already contacted, I had already 663 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,880 Speaker 1: taken some meetings, got it from California. So I went 664 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 1: out there and met with some people, and basically what 665 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: it was like, we love what you're doing. You just 666 00:35:57,200 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: can't do it out there the best as you can't, 667 00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,520 Speaker 1: you know, the best play. Yeah, they're not going to 668 00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: think you're authentic if you are. You live in California, Yeah, 669 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,280 Speaker 1: in do country music, which just makes no sense, But whatever, 670 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? And when did you guys meet? 671 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: Along the way? We met at stagecoach? Yeah you did. 672 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:19,880 Speaker 1: She was just wearing a cute little tap and a 673 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,719 Speaker 1: little fringe, had a little bandana on his face, and I, 674 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 1: I mean, you could see he's got a nice little smile. 675 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: But he was there dancing, and I was like, I 676 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: didn't even know I like tattoos, by the way, and 677 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: he's there dancing next to me. And my friends were like, 678 00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:35,160 Speaker 1: that's the hottest guy ever. But I couldn't actually see 679 00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,759 Speaker 1: his face, just saw his eyes and his tattoos, and 680 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 1: I got better pries than That's where I covered up, 681 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: you know, like, oh my god, this who knew I 682 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: like tattoos. I'm so flustered while looking at him, and 683 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:48,160 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, he takes his bandanna off 684 00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: and he smiles. Okay, it was game over because she 685 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:57,719 Speaker 1: walked away. She's not got very flustered. I was like, 686 00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: this is too much. I did you had already here? 687 00:37:00,000 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 1: I heard him sing. He wasn't performing. He was just 688 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 1: there and he didn't know. We didn't know anything about 689 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 1: each other. And then he was like, we must know 690 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 1: each other. He was trying to look at my Instagram 691 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:11,759 Speaker 1: and there was on the surfaces and then I in 692 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,120 Speaker 1: that moment, I was like looking at him and I'm like, 693 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:19,319 Speaker 1: oh boy, I'm gonna I had just been through real relationships, 694 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,920 Speaker 1: so seeing this hot sexy man, I was like, I 695 00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,399 Speaker 1: was like, I can't it can't be truck. She's drunk 696 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:27,240 Speaker 1: right now. It's fine. She's saying what we're all thinking. 697 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:37,279 Speaker 1: Tyler's lead for a whild So okay, I love that. Yeah, 698 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 1: my Bandana Smile game was okay, but it was the 699 00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: d M game that really put her in the next 700 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 1: day slid into the d M s. That's fabulous, I know. Well, okay, 701 00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,439 Speaker 1: so your your new song, feel like Home. It's coming 702 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 1: out when we don't know yet. So I'm actually recording 703 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: it right now from Quarantine and sending files to Nashville. 704 00:37:55,800 --> 00:38:01,319 Speaker 1: So we're doing zoom FaceTime live, real time recording recording. Yeah, 705 00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: straight into my producers computer. Well that's amazing, and I 706 00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:09,360 Speaker 1: love you guys. I think you guys are so cute. 707 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 1: And when you guys get back to Nashville, let's have 708 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:13,839 Speaker 1: and we can actually be around other people a little 709 00:38:13,840 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: wine down. Yeah, I know I miss I miss connection, 710 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 1: connection and other people. Like I know I have you, 711 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: but like I want. It's killing Danna not to hug 712 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: anybody because she's a big hugger. I'll hug stranger. You 713 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:31,200 Speaker 1: guys will have epic hugged then, So she it's killing 714 00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:36,440 Speaker 1: her right now not to hug strangers. Yeah, strangers. I 715 00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,600 Speaker 1: do that sometimes because bad bad happened. Oh do you 716 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,360 Speaker 1: give your what what numbers? Strange? Yeah, I know I 717 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: do too, Like on planes, Like I met one of 718 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:48,759 Speaker 1: my best friends on the plane, so we are friends. Yeah, 719 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,840 Speaker 1: that's that's how. And I shut everyone else out on 720 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,919 Speaker 1: the world, in the world when I'm on a plane. Yeah, 721 00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,600 Speaker 1: but you know it's okay now that we're instant best friends. 722 00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:59,279 Speaker 1: When you guys come to Nashville, this is all over. 723 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: We'll give big hugs, will drink wine. You can sing 724 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: for us, Tyler and it'll be great, and you can 725 00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,799 Speaker 1: just sit here and be me great. You guys can 726 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,879 Speaker 1: talk about your tattoos like, it'll be awesome and we'll 727 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:13,359 Speaker 1: just drink wine. So it'll be great. You guys, listen 728 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 1: to Tyler Rich and Sabina. You guys are a beautiful couple. 729 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 1: I love you, guys, and thanks for coming on wine down, 730 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 1: Thanks guy to hang out. Thank you all right, Well, 731 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 1: Tyler and Sabina were great either so sweet, yes, super 732 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 1: sweet couple. You know. Look out for them and what 733 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:34,800 Speaker 1: they're doing. And uh, I'm sure we'll get together with 734 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: them soon here in Nashville, for sure. I was just 735 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:39,160 Speaker 1: reading this little thing from Bianca though she goes, um, 736 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: she's she's pregnant and she's really starting to miss her 737 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,719 Speaker 1: glass of wine. And what did I substitute for this? Um? Te? 738 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: I loved having tea. It was tea and then um, 739 00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,040 Speaker 1: I know it's getting warm, but if it's still cold 740 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 1: wherever you're at Bianca. UM I loved having um hot 741 00:39:55,760 --> 00:39:58,279 Speaker 1: chocolate with marshmallows. I don't know why, it just was 742 00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: so good. Um. And then if it's for like a 743 00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: cold drink, I would do Topo Chico and then some 744 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:07,040 Speaker 1: lemon and ginger and honey and it's a really nice 745 00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:12,440 Speaker 1: little spritzer. Anyways, Um, y'all have a good whatever day 746 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:14,359 Speaker 1: it is, and talk to you soon.