WEBVTT - Defying Gravity

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<v Speaker 1>Scrubbing in with Bell and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in grub a dub dub.

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<v Speaker 1>In the dub but dubum. No space funds today, No

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<v Speaker 1>my hair. I was actually gonna ask you for them,

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<v Speaker 1>but my hair's a little wet.

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<v Speaker 2>Dance sounds pain painful. Yeah, yeah, so we'd have to

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<v Speaker 2>do low space funds, which I don't know if they

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<v Speaker 2>would bring the same effects.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, well you never know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just feels feels like we needed the space mounds today.

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<v Speaker 2>You coming back from Mexico invigorated.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you don't need the space funds because I am like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you going to high Yeah. Because it's a short

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<v Speaker 1>work week. I feel like I have to be so productive.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've just been like on one, like I've done

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<v Speaker 1>like fifty things today already.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's weird, like I don't know what's gone

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<v Speaker 1>into me, but it's inside.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, good for you, Thank you so much. How's your weekend?

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<v Speaker 2>My weekend, alphabah, My weekend and was great. We went

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<v Speaker 2>to the opening night of Wicked the movie. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>I the night before I was like laughing at my

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<v Speaker 2>laughing by myself in bed while it was next to me,

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<v Speaker 2>and she was like, what are you laughing at? I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, how funny would it be if I went

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<v Speaker 2>as Alphaba like to the theater and didn't tell anybody

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<v Speaker 2>because we were going with a big group. And I

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<v Speaker 2>had all the stuff because we were Alphaba and Glinda

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<v Speaker 2>for Halloween last year.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was last year. Yeah, that's sick.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had everything. It's not like I like sourced

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<v Speaker 2>it to go to the theater, but I was Glinda

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<v Speaker 2>last year. So I was like, I'm gonna just like

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<v Speaker 2>paint myself green and show up as Alphaba. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I surprised everyone and it was hilarious. I actually thought

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<v Speaker 2>people in the I thought there would be more people

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<v Speaker 2>cosplaying and dressed up. So I was thinking, like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>I nix with like the other Glinda's or the alphabus.

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<v Speaker 2>No one else dressed up.

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<v Speaker 3>No one I'm shocked by.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm shocked by it too, just me.

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<v Speaker 2>But let me tell you something. I was the actual

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<v Speaker 2>I was getting sed up and we went to like

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<v Speaker 2>a four o'clock showing. So there's a lot of young

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<v Speaker 2>kids there, so they were like the parents would be like,

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<v Speaker 2>can my kid get a picture with you, grown man

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<v Speaker 2>asking for photos with me. So I was like, do

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<v Speaker 2>we hit Hollywood Boulevard or do I go to Universal

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<v Speaker 2>City Walk like start just sending out my venmo.

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<v Speaker 3>Because the green makeup was like professionally done.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta be honest, I really did at.

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<v Speaker 1>I was laughing so hard because I didn't see any

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<v Speaker 1>of your videos that you'd posted, like on TikTok or

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<v Speaker 1>anything that that you had dressed up like that. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was on and I don't remember who posted it,

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<v Speaker 1>but there was somebody posted a video and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like Haley seeing the movie. Taylor Banks was there, Brittany

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<v Speaker 1>was there, and I was like, that's weird. Beckonting go

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<v Speaker 1>like just I was like, that's so weird whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I keep scrolling through and then I realized that

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<v Speaker 1>you dressed up like that when I went back to

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<v Speaker 1>that photo, and I realized, indeed you are that You're just.

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<v Speaker 2>In an album. But yes, yeah, no, it was. It

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<v Speaker 2>was really fun. But I guess people at some theater

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<v Speaker 2>establishments people were painting their face and they were letting

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<v Speaker 2>them in. I guess due to security. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know this, so I was like, imagine if I had gone,

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like sorry, like you come in.

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<v Speaker 4>They didn't know the rule was masks, like you could

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<v Speaker 4>wear masks when you're cosplaying in theaters, which I do

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<v Speaker 4>understand to a degree because people were masks for crimes,

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<v Speaker 4>so I understand concealing your identity.

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<v Speaker 3>But it seems weird. Just green paint.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I looked like myself.

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<v Speaker 3>You did.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, that was really wow.

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<v Speaker 2>This is green really brings off my eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>But the movie is incredible, so it's like so good.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 4>My daughter called it a cinematic masterpiece, which from a

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<v Speaker 4>fifteen year old is really strong.

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<v Speaker 3>Praise.

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<v Speaker 1>You look like you're gonna cry right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna cry. But I can't listen to this

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<v Speaker 2>version of define gravity without like full body chills.

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<v Speaker 1>I've listened to I haven't one with with Cynthia and Arianna.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't listened to anything else musically since I saw

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<v Speaker 2>the movie.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it's it's the it's the fighting for each

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<v Speaker 5>other and the friendship and and being unlikely friends, and

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<v Speaker 5>then and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Alphabet fighting for what she believes in and being changed.

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<v Speaker 2>And I feel like I've experienced that in my life

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<v Speaker 2>of like I'm not the same person as I was.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like there's just something so powerful about it,

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm so curious because you've never seen the play,

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<v Speaker 2>if you're gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly terrified because I feel like you're there's so much

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<v Speaker 1>hype around it and people are like so freaking out

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all my algorithms and then you you're like

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<v Speaker 1>in tears right now talking about and everybody's like hyped

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<v Speaker 1>it up that I'm scared that I'm gonna see it

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<v Speaker 1>and be like.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one of my sisters, my youngest sister, sawt She

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<v Speaker 2>said it was she's never seen the play and she

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<v Speaker 2>was like, it's a little more singing than I was expecting. Like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a musical.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know that as much I didn't much.

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<v Speaker 2>Caroline was like, I loved it so and she's never

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<v Speaker 2>seen the play. So hard away, it's really hard to say.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you shoot. Opening week is this week for the

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<v Speaker 2>It's next Thursday is opening night at the Pantagious, So

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you wait and see it's huge the play.

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<v Speaker 1>First, I'm going to that you're going to see the

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<v Speaker 1>play for playing going to opening night?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>On stage, you're late, really not let me.

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<v Speaker 1>Should I go with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, tickets. I'll just got the ticket, so yeah, sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't me.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you recommencing the play first and then the movie

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<v Speaker 1>because that might change things?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think going cold the movie, read the book, then.

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<v Speaker 2>I think if you know that there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>music and music and like every other word is like

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<v Speaker 2>a song.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like grease.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, okay, I know, but like same vibes. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>lots of music, lots of music. Yeah, I like singing.

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<v Speaker 1>I liked The Gray's Anatomy.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh I did too, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>One with the songs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you'll you'll love it. I think. I hope

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<v Speaker 2>if you don't, and if you don't, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I can't come in here and be like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't like it. I feel so shamed.

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<v Speaker 2>No no, no, there will be no shame, disrespect, no disrespect.

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<v Speaker 2>Just give me your honesty and I just be curious, like,

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<v Speaker 2>what didn't you like about it? You know, because I

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<v Speaker 2>sat in one of the most uncomfortable outfits with green

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<v Speaker 2>paint on, with the in a seat that didn't recline which.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't uncomfortable outfit. Weren't you just like a small.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting No, it was a dress, a witch dress, like

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<v Speaker 2>a tato toll like skirt. Oh my gosh, I was

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<v Speaker 2>pulling so hard. Yeah, I was not comfortable. I'd love

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<v Speaker 2>to go back and like.

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<v Speaker 3>Is the paint after a while?

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<v Speaker 2>No, actually I was a little too comfortable in the

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<v Speaker 2>page it was on there.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get any breakouts from it?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, face looks great. Did you hear from Cynthia Arrivo herself?

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<v Speaker 2>No, but she commented on our I did a reel

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<v Speaker 2>of Haley and I just like put clips together from

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<v Speaker 2>Halloween to the trailer audio, like a month or so ago,

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<v Speaker 2>and she commented on that.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, and now it means so much more because she's

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<v Speaker 7>everything we have a Haley got an Alpha BA doll

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<v Speaker 7>when she went to the premiere, and I'm like, we

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<v Speaker 7>are never giving that away.

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<v Speaker 2>That might go on a shelf somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow displayed It's like, yeah, remember when I saw the

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<v Speaker 1>movie The Green Book? Can you do quick google the

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<v Speaker 1>two main characters in Green Books?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, that'sherschel Ali Maherschela Ali.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, he was so amazing I've never seen any of

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<v Speaker 1>his stuff before, but I posted on Instagram some like

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<v Speaker 1>a snippet from the movie and like just tagged him

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<v Speaker 1>in it, and he responded to it, and I literally

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I'm trying to find like an equivalent of

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that we would be like really like Patrick Dempsey responding

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, yeah, it was a big deal.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's impactful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very impactful. I just did a little tag like cute, innocent,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he responds, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Like e but like Cynthia Riva was like the biggest

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<v Speaker 4>start in the planet, universe, everything right in this moment,

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<v Speaker 4>In this moment, there's no one bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>I would argue maherschel Ali.

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<v Speaker 4>Perhaps at the time because that was the best picture

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<v Speaker 4>of twenty eighteen, but right now, none bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>I love twenty eighteen. Twenty eighteen is my theme right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Twenty eighteen teen?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that mean that's that was what Haley called her?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, why is that your theme right now?

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<v Speaker 1>On just like really basking in the year twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it was a good year.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a great year. Yeah, I would say Green

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<v Speaker 1>Book winning Oscars.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so y'all are seeing Wicked Friday Friday.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, Friday. We were up in the mountains this weekend

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<v Speaker 6>and there's a movie theater that has one screen and

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<v Speaker 6>they were playing Red One, and so we went did.

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<v Speaker 1>You watch it?

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<v Speaker 6>I absolutely get that bleep button ray. I love read

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, it was so good. It was so good,

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<v Speaker 6>and we were like also loved to walk out with

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<v Speaker 6>all jazz, like we love Red One, and we go

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<v Speaker 6>through our Instagram like everyone else's seen Wicked. We were

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<v Speaker 6>so jealous because we wanted to see Wicked. We're seeing

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<v Speaker 6>it this week though.

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<v Speaker 1>But see, that's the thing, like I go into these

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<v Speaker 1>movies lately with no expectations are very low, like Read One.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not think I was going to enjoy Deadpool Wolverine.

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<v Speaker 1>Thought I would hate it, and I end up loving

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<v Speaker 1>these movies. So now I'm like, that's why I'm nervous

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<v Speaker 1>for the expectation that I have on Wicked. But you know, I.

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<v Speaker 6>Haven't seen a single person say anything bad about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Like some people have problems with the color of Wicked,

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<v Speaker 6>like the saturation.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>Getting deep there to complain about. By the way, Red

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<v Speaker 4>One is interesting to me because you know, on Rotten Tomatoes.

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<v Speaker 4>They have the ratings from the critics and the ratings

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<v Speaker 4>from people who have regular people have gone to see

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<v Speaker 4>the movie critics, it's thirty one percent positive reviews, which

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<v Speaker 4>is terrible. Among people who go see it ninety positive.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a blast.

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<v Speaker 6>It's so funny that it's got great action. There's like

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<v Speaker 6>practical effects. There's a Crampis costume that's insane that I love.

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<v Speaker 6>Crampus showed up and elson I got and cheered. It

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<v Speaker 6>was like it was like thorhad landed on the screen.

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<v Speaker 1>Was new to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah, it's a great movie. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all have me hyped to see it. Yeah, I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>my just like going to see movie eras.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very much enjoyed the movies myself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, we'll put Becca. We didn't see any movies were

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<v Speaker 4>good for Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love a movie theater experience. I love sitting

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<v Speaker 2>down with my popcorn and my candy and being all

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<v Speaker 2>like cozy in my outfit and watching this like show

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<v Speaker 2>come to lie. And I love not being tempted or

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<v Speaker 2>to go on. You can't do it at home, like

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<v Speaker 2>I have no control if my phone is anywhere near me,

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<v Speaker 2>which is a personal problem.

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<v Speaker 1>But I agree. I'm with you. I'm with you. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like the it's like you're in a zone.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, it's just the general.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you love yourself, as Eminem would say, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>as the great as the greatest.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you get the same snacks every time? Do you

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<v Speaker 6>have a routine?

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<v Speaker 2>You know? So this one I went to a theater

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<v Speaker 2>that's not my normal. They had pepsi products, which I

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<v Speaker 2>found very problematic, a regal theater.

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<v Speaker 1>I love a pepsi product.

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<v Speaker 2>Good, well, you should go there. I like coke, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the pop the same thing. It's not the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>A pepsi and a Coca cola are not the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the same thing. Though.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand if you haven't Hedicota and ever then that

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<v Speaker 2>they probably do taste similarly.

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<v Speaker 1>There exactly the.

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<v Speaker 2>One drink soda very regularly. There's a difference. They're fine,

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<v Speaker 2>They're both fine. Pepsi's fine, Yeah, the same, But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I get my popcorn sometimes if there's a mazzarella stick

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<v Speaker 2>or nacho situation, I'll dabble. Okay, that depends on if

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<v Speaker 2>I've popped a little, if I've gardened or not. Where

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<v Speaker 2>my hunger level is I normally get like a.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if everybody understands that reference.

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<v Speaker 8>I think because I have found many of people I've

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<v Speaker 8>used that reference in like the world, and people are like,

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<v Speaker 8>that doesn't what you talking about, And so now I need.

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<v Speaker 7>To hear how I'm using it because there could definitely

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<v Speaker 7>be a delivery that's not no.

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<v Speaker 1>Like we'll see someone on the TV that looks high

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<v Speaker 1>as a kite and I'm like, oh, he's obviously was

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<v Speaker 1>gardening before, and they're like, that's not a thing. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I think we need to tell people on

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<v Speaker 1>this podcast, because I don't think everybody listening no knows

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<v Speaker 1>about if I gardened earlier means.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, gardening is taking it, taking an edible and being

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<v Speaker 2>a little high.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yes, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I say gardening, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I felt like I was led astray you were

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<v Speaker 1>by this podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>You're actually you're just cooler than the people you're hanging

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<v Speaker 2>with because you're more in the No, that's what the

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<v Speaker 2>people and that's what the kids on TikTok are saying.

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<v Speaker 1>They're saying gardening.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because TikTok, you can't say.

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<v Speaker 1>Like smoking an edible or taking an edible.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no smoking.

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<v Speaker 1>Edibles, smoking the ganja. I'm saying I did a little

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<v Speaker 1>gardening smoking a dooby.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And I was like, oh, guarden And then.

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<v Speaker 1>They were like huh.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh, you need to surround herself

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<v Speaker 2>with just people in the know.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought she was in the No, what's the candy situation?

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<v Speaker 2>Situation is I get a chocolate candy and I get

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<v Speaker 2>like a candy candy. So lately it's been nerd clusters,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'll go with like, I love a bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>crunch that's normally my chocolate choice, and then I I

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<v Speaker 2>do nerd clusters are like a sour like water sour

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<v Speaker 2>patch watermelon.

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<v Speaker 6>I always wanted do double candy, and I never I

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<v Speaker 6>feel like I can't. But now I'm gonna be like

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<v Speaker 6>Tilly does it double candy.

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<v Speaker 1>So the thing that you have to understand about Backatilly

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<v Speaker 1>is she doesn't eat all of the candy. She'll have

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<v Speaker 1>like two or three from the nerd cluster. She'll have

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<v Speaker 1>like two or three.

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<v Speaker 2>I have way more than two or three, but I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't eat the box.

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<v Speaker 6>No, that's good where mama?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it just flops them in her mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>Tanya talks about how gross they are, and then she's

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<v Speaker 2>got her hand digging in my box the last one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you eat the rest of those nerd clusters. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>Because Ali had a birthday gift for me and she

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<v Speaker 2>was gonna put nerd clusters in the bag, but she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>I ate the nerd clusters from your birthday present. Sorry

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<v Speaker 2>about that, like before she ever gave it to me.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I put the text on my Instagram and

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<v Speaker 2>people were like, I put like, who do you think

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<v Speaker 2>this is from? Ali, Tanya or Haley? And everyone's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>we know it's not Tanya. She would never eat those likely.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you are.

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<v Speaker 2>So fooled by this act.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no acts.

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<v Speaker 2>There is an act.

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<v Speaker 3>It's an act you.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I don't buy nerd clusters for my

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<v Speaker 1>home because I will eat them off.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't say you bought them at home. I just

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<v Speaker 2>said you once.

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<v Speaker 1>I bought it once myself in an airport coming back

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<v Speaker 1>from a Las Vegas wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>And you love them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I was very drunk. Though.

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<v Speaker 2>Hailey is so mad that I introduced her to the

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<v Speaker 2>nerd clusters.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew about the nerd because I used to like

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<v Speaker 1>nerds on a rope. So these are just like a

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<v Speaker 1>different yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, these are just a different adiation.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it adiation?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 1>Iteration iteration.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm afraid to try them. I have not tried them yet.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think I've had a nerd.

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<v Speaker 2>People go crazy for the blue ones. The blueberry pink

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<v Speaker 2>is good too. They're good, but the blue, if you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to go for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe get a blue and a pink.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm afraid they're really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Mark, did you watch Gray's Anatomy?

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<v Speaker 6>Of course?

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<v Speaker 4>Can we talk about a little shocking parts though, whether

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<v Speaker 4>this is not a spoiler.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but when we come back, I love that. Wow. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're back, and this will mostly just be a conversation

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<v Speaker 2>between Mark and myself.

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to say that the most disturbing part

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<v Speaker 4>of the whole thing was and it said to be

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<v Speaker 4>continued March sixth.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what the hell, that's forever from now.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't cared about the return date of Grade and

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<v Speaker 2>Nasty in a minute, and it shocked me. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>one of the best finales they've had in years, and

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<v Speaker 2>they're gonna make us way till March.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, okay, take the holidays off, we skip December, we're.

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<v Speaker 2>Back in January.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll take early February fine, because February sweeps. That's when

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<v Speaker 4>everybody's gonna be watching TV is in February.

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<v Speaker 3>March sixth is an eternity from now.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me tell you something though that episode the past well,

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<v Speaker 2>I've only watched the past three. I didn't go that

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<v Speaker 2>far back. They are so good. I told Tanya, she

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<v Speaker 2>just catch up on the last three, said the last three, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Basically when Sophia Bush comes in.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's a nice edition. She's a nice edition to anything.

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<v Speaker 3>The iHeart family. Amen, amen scrubbing, we love her. But yes,

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<v Speaker 3>I love the farewell to Levi. I love a mon taive. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a sucker for a mondog like, oh he.

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<v Speaker 2>Looks so young in you.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes me so.

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<v Speaker 4>Sad, really nice, really enjoyed that. And the drama we

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<v Speaker 4>talked about last week with y Suda and her sister.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm all in, but I never left.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, you've been consistent. I thought, Y Suda, I

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<v Speaker 2>thought that story was going to go dark, like darker

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<v Speaker 2>than she pretty dark. It was dark, but it was

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<v Speaker 2>just like her spoiler alert, her like basically being like,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to go find myself. I can't be here

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<v Speaker 2>right where I thought it was going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>little more dark than that.

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<v Speaker 3>They're thinning the herd a little bit. What you have

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 4>You bring in a big new class of interns. Some

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<v Speaker 4>people aren't going to make it, and she appears to

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<v Speaker 4>be one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder why people did people not like her.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think she wanted to go explore other like

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<v Speaker 2>opportunities and the like. But that's what I read. Still

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<v Speaker 2>one of the worst characters.

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<v Speaker 3>Of all terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>I will not tolerate.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he might cheat on Teddy now, so we'll

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<v Speaker 2>be back to just absolutely said that up.

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<v Speaker 1>Such a baby. I will not hear this about my

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin mckitt.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't say Kevin mckittt. I love Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>I will not hear this blasphemy about my Owen Hunt,

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<v Speaker 1>not my own.

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<v Speaker 2>Hunt, Christina and Meredith old school. He is a bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby, he is no, he's not he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes. He stormed off and got mad because Sophia Bush

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<v Speaker 2>touched Teddy's and the elevator opened and he saw her

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<v Speaker 2>touching her shoulder and he's like, I'm gonna go take

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<v Speaker 2>that break that you're suggested, and then he storms off,

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<v Speaker 2>and then he offers to give this woman a ride

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<v Speaker 2>who he was flirting with, to her hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, baby, don't talk about my own Okay, we're good

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<v Speaker 1>friends now. Just if anybody's listening and taking notes. Kevin

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<v Speaker 1>mckitt and I thick as thieves.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I would say it was like really intense.

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<v Speaker 2>It had similar feel. I hate to give it the

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<v Speaker 2>credit of the shooter episode, but it had similar intensity

0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:08.639
<v Speaker 2>as a shooting.

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<v Speaker 3>Well yes, because there was a shooter.

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<v Speaker 2>Shooter, yeah, but it had that same feel where like

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<v Speaker 2>everything every other scene felt very quiet except for what

0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:22.920
<v Speaker 2>was going on. It was just old school grades were

0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:24.080
<v Speaker 2>anything that could go wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they need to never leave the hospital because everything

0:20:26.920 --> 0:20:29.240
<v Speaker 4>that every time they do, somebody collapses. They have to

0:20:29.240 --> 0:20:31.280
<v Speaker 4>save their life, Like something awful happens every time they

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<v Speaker 4>leave that building.

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<v Speaker 2>And I said on my Instagram, I said, if I

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<v Speaker 2>was in an ambulance and they saiver going to Seattle Grace

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<v Speaker 2>or Grace Loan, I'd be like, take me anywhere do

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<v Speaker 2>the surgery and ambulance right this year, car, I have

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<v Speaker 2>a better chance.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you see those? And I feel like because Sarah

0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:52.080
<v Speaker 1>Drew remember when she was on the podcast and she

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<v Speaker 1>told us about how intense her scene was when she

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<v Speaker 1>was delivering the baby, And I don't know why. For

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<v Speaker 1>some reason, that really stuck with me. Hasn't left my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>And I saw these tiktoks about Ariana Grande and how

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't been the same since she got this role

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<v Speaker 1>as Glinda and that she's like kind of like adapting

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<v Speaker 1>that behavior and that like I don't know, They're like

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<v Speaker 1>showing like these before and after videos of her, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, that's so crazy that like playing a certain

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<v Speaker 1>role can like infiltrate your psyche that much.

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<v Speaker 6>But Butler syndrome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like how crazy is that that it just takes you,

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<v Speaker 1>takes your whole personality and morphs it into like something different.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, her dream was to be this role and she

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<v Speaker 2>was so in my opinion, she played it so similarly

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<v Speaker 2>to Kristin Chenna with and so I felt like she

0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:46.480
<v Speaker 2>just put everything she had into being like literally becoming Glinda.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but like now she's like still like has that

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<v Speaker 1>same has that same to me? I know, I'm very

0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:54.040
<v Speaker 1>curious to see if it continues.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm hmmm.

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<v Speaker 1>And I always I think about that because of what

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<v Speaker 1>Sarah Drew told us that Sarah really uh sticking with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah good, Yeah, memorable interview in my opinion.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah good, I'm serious.

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<v Speaker 1>I had it the other day. I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's so crazy. These roles can impact them that

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<v Speaker 1>much with like physically it like impacts their bodies.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, I mean Sean has probably caused a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of bodily trauma to these gray synatomy people having to

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<v Speaker 2>act out these traumatic scenes, crazy switching gears. That was

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<v Speaker 2>my weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I is it time to take a quick break?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Wanted to tell you that there's two types of people

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<v Speaker 1>in this world. Okay, there are people who fill up

0:22:42.520 --> 0:22:45.880
<v Speaker 1>their gas tank when the light goes on go. There's

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<v Speaker 1>people who don't. Becca is one that doesn't.

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<v Speaker 3>Becca has run out of gas on more than one.

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<v Speaker 2>Occasion, and so is another very important person in Tanya's life,

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<v Speaker 2>her fiance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah you ran out of gas.

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<v Speaker 1>No some this is actually like it's so annoying to

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<v Speaker 1>me sometimes when he's right about stuff. But we're driving

0:23:07.000 --> 0:23:10.760
<v Speaker 1>back from our workout and there's three miles left in

0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:13.840
<v Speaker 1>the tank. He's like, I need to get gas. And

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<v Speaker 1>I looked and I see three miles and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, Like we're not even close to a

0:23:18.119 --> 0:23:21.000
<v Speaker 1>gas station, like at all, not a close at all.

0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:23.080
<v Speaker 1>He goes, I think it's about one point eight miles

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<v Speaker 1>away from where we are right here.

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<v Speaker 2>Look three miles left, correct, So you would have.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, But then it switched in the middle of our conversation,

0:23:31.160 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>switched to two miles. So I'm like, oh my gosh.

0:23:34.440 --> 0:23:36.359
<v Speaker 1>So I look it up on my phone. Sure enough,

0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:39.840
<v Speaker 1>it's literally one point eight miles from where we were.

0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:42.640
<v Speaker 1>But this thing is going. Went from three to two

0:23:42.720 --> 0:23:45.399
<v Speaker 1>real fast, and it went from two to one even faster,

0:23:45.480 --> 0:23:47.520
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, we're not making it. Then it

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<v Speaker 1>went to zero. It hit zero, and we're still going.

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<v Speaker 1>So first of all, those things lie they do.

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<v Speaker 6>That's a dangerous line.

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<v Speaker 4>They know they can't trust you, So we'll give it

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<v Speaker 4>an extra probably ten miles.

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<v Speaker 1>So we ended up making it. We did make it

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<v Speaker 1>to the gas station. We didn't have to push the.

0:24:02.359 --> 0:24:02.920
<v Speaker 2>Car or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was just like, I just spent the last

0:24:04.840 --> 0:24:08.880
<v Speaker 1>ten minutes of my life stressed and panicked. Why does

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<v Speaker 1>anyone like to live like that?

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<v Speaker 2>But we don't. We don't experience that. In the same

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<v Speaker 2>situation though.

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.119
<v Speaker 1>I was so stressed, I was like, pull over, let

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:20.560
<v Speaker 1>me get out of the car, because.

0:24:20.320 --> 0:24:22.760
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to do I'm just uber home.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, there's less weight in the car. You've used less fuel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly, I'll sacrifice myself so that you can get

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<v Speaker 1>to this here gas station.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really have an issue with this because Robbie

0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:37.879
<v Speaker 4>knows what his car can do. I've pushed it before

0:24:37.920 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 4>because I know exactly what I'm dealing with.

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<v Speaker 1>My life comes on and I am at the gas station.

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<v Speaker 1>Baby girl never gets below twenty five miles life.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's bad for your car to run that

0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:51.840
<v Speaker 6>low on the guest exactly. Easton Sam's boyfriend at one

0:24:51.840 --> 0:24:54.960
<v Speaker 6>point in his life was would rent low frequently, and

0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 6>he famously coasted his car run out of gas, coasted

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<v Speaker 6>into the gas station and up to the pump, and

0:25:02.680 --> 0:25:03.399
<v Speaker 6>that rules.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like some James Bonds.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were at zero and he goes good thing

0:25:07.280 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 1>it's downhill all the way to the gas. It's like, yeah,

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:12.960
<v Speaker 1>he was doing things with the thing. I was like,

0:25:13.080 --> 0:25:16.560
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, the stress in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, some people just like to live on the edge

0:25:22.400 --> 0:25:24.639
<v Speaker 2>or just feel like they can do it, you know.

0:25:24.800 --> 0:25:28.600
<v Speaker 2>And I told Robbie, I go, you're gonna people on zero,

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<v Speaker 2>like ninety percent of the time, you're gonna make it. No,

0:25:31.160 --> 0:25:32.760
<v Speaker 2>I said, most of the time you're gonna make it,

0:25:32.800 --> 0:25:35.200
<v Speaker 2>And he goes, yeah, like ninety I said, I'd say

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<v Speaker 2>ninety five. I'd say out of all the times I've

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<v Speaker 2>gone on zero, I've ran out of guess twice in

0:25:40.440 --> 0:25:40.919
<v Speaker 2>my life.

0:25:41.440 --> 0:25:42.920
<v Speaker 1>How many times have you gotten on zero?

0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:44.920
<v Speaker 2>Every time I need to take gas? It's on zero

0:25:46.160 --> 0:25:46.920
<v Speaker 2>every time.

0:25:47.520 --> 0:25:51.879
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen zero on my car since birth. Never

0:25:52.040 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 1>have I seen it. Never have I seen the zero

0:25:54.960 --> 0:25:55.960
<v Speaker 1>on my gas gage.

0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:58.879
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you said it. There's two types of people

0:25:58.880 --> 0:26:00.679
<v Speaker 2>in this world.

0:26:00.040 --> 0:26:01.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, indeed there are.

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<v Speaker 3>How many times do you run out of gas in

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<v Speaker 3>your life?

0:26:06.760 --> 0:26:07.359
<v Speaker 1>She said two?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that for sure?

0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:09.399
<v Speaker 2>Three?

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:10.200
<v Speaker 3>Three times?

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<v Speaker 2>One was a rental car, though, so I can't that

0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:14.640
<v Speaker 2>one's hard because I was in a car. I had

0:26:14.760 --> 0:26:17.439
<v Speaker 2>no idea how long I could go on zero. So

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.159
<v Speaker 2>I was just like, maybe this will go as long

0:26:20.200 --> 0:26:25.440
<v Speaker 2>as it didn't. The Jeep compass does not have on zero.

0:26:26.160 --> 0:26:28.760
<v Speaker 2>You better get to a gas station. You're not gonna

0:26:28.760 --> 0:26:30.680
<v Speaker 2>go for very long. Wow, I was in the middle

0:26:30.720 --> 0:26:32.880
<v Speaker 2>of Texas Cooston.

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<v Speaker 1>Stress.

0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 2>That was a little bit stressful because that was literally

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of nowhere. Went knocked on people's doors

0:26:38.600 --> 0:26:39.800
<v Speaker 2>in the neighborhood.

0:26:41.200 --> 0:26:41.480
<v Speaker 3>Story.

0:26:42.280 --> 0:26:46.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well it's a It builds character at the very least.

0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:48.240
<v Speaker 2>You have to be a little brain. You know. Had

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:49.920
<v Speaker 2>I not run out of gas and had to ask

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:51.800
<v Speaker 2>for help in my life, maybe I wouldn't have had

0:26:51.840 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 2>the courage to go.

0:26:52.680 --> 0:26:54.199
<v Speaker 1>Ask for help in life in general.

0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:58.040
<v Speaker 2>To go to Wicket as alphabet on a level of

0:26:58.080 --> 0:27:01.199
<v Speaker 2>like it can't hurt me, correct, Yeah, gave you a

0:27:01.280 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 2>level of courage Ridge like the cowardly lion.

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:05.119
<v Speaker 1>Is he in this wickeed?

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:09.439
<v Speaker 6>No kind of they're in the trailer the gang.

0:27:09.640 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:12.119
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm so curious to see what happens with that.

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:14.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not I need to watch The Wizard of Oz

0:27:14.560 --> 0:27:16.360
<v Speaker 1>again too, because I don't even know what that's about.

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>A lot of homework that's about. No, I just remember

0:27:21.320 --> 0:27:25.040
<v Speaker 1>the yellow Yeah, it's pretty classic. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Mexico did a lot of eating this weekend.

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I did a lot of eating this weekend. I ate

0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:35.880
<v Speaker 1>so much food this weekend. It was insane, like more

0:27:35.880 --> 0:27:39.480
<v Speaker 1>food than I've eaten in a week. But it was amazing.

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:44.080
<v Speaker 1>Any nerd clusters, No nerd clusters, straight they at the

0:27:44.119 --> 0:27:47.120
<v Speaker 1>resort nerd clusters, I haven't seen any on the property.

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:48.120
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen any.

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Those myself and bring them over.

0:27:49.880 --> 0:27:53.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah the No, I haven't seen any, but I'm sure

0:27:53.200 --> 0:27:54.239
<v Speaker 1>at the gift shop they might have.

0:27:54.680 --> 0:27:56.760
<v Speaker 2>Well explain to people what you were doing in Mexico

0:27:56.800 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 2>because it was for a significant reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was really cute because we are getting married

0:28:01.960 --> 0:28:03.640
<v Speaker 1>in Mexico, and so we had to go and meet

0:28:03.640 --> 0:28:05.640
<v Speaker 1>with like all of our vendors that we're using, because

0:28:05.640 --> 0:28:09.080
<v Speaker 1>we've never met them in real life, just like over email.

0:28:09.520 --> 0:28:12.600
<v Speaker 1>And so we had his parents come, my parents come,

0:28:13.000 --> 0:28:15.320
<v Speaker 1>and then Robbie and myself and then our wedding planner,

0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:19.040
<v Speaker 1>and we met with like the rentals, the music, the lighting,

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:21.879
<v Speaker 1>and then we did food tasting. So we did like

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:24.199
<v Speaker 1>a lot. It was like a very forty eight hours,

0:28:24.200 --> 0:28:26.080
<v Speaker 1>like a very busy forty eight hours, big step.

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:29.000
<v Speaker 3>It's very real now, I would imagine, Yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's so crazy because I wasn't sure where we

0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 1>were gonna have our ceremony. And then when we found

0:28:34.080 --> 0:28:36.399
<v Speaker 1>the spot, I like walked down the aisle or like

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:38.400
<v Speaker 1>what it's going to be the aisle, and I just

0:28:38.400 --> 0:28:41.560
<v Speaker 1>started like bawling, like this is I can't and I'm

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:44.200
<v Speaker 1>not having close like I like you know what I mean,

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:46.760
<v Speaker 1>Like there's nothing, no music playing, and I'm just walking

0:28:46.800 --> 0:28:48.360
<v Speaker 1>down this thing and I started like bawling.

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:51.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got to make sure you're not going to

0:28:51.760 --> 0:28:54.480
<v Speaker 2>be good waterproof. Yeah it's not going to be good,

0:28:54.920 --> 0:28:55.680
<v Speaker 2>Like it could be great.

0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:59.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying that my water work situation is going

0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>to be a problem.

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:04.200
<v Speaker 2>When you get nervous, do you cry, like you know,

0:29:04.240 --> 0:29:07.880
<v Speaker 2>if you're like nervous sometimes like it almost makes the

0:29:07.920 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 2>emotion that you would normally feel like you were relaxed

0:29:11.480 --> 0:29:13.920
<v Speaker 2>and in a very like you know, no one was

0:29:14.440 --> 0:29:17.680
<v Speaker 2>staring at you and with address on, and you cried

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 2>because you've probably felt like relaxed and safe. But I

0:29:20.200 --> 0:29:21.920
<v Speaker 2>wonder if, like when you're you're trying not to think

0:29:21.960 --> 0:29:25.240
<v Speaker 2>about tripping, if you'll be as like, right, yeah, allow

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 2>yourself to go there.

0:29:26.360 --> 0:29:30.120
<v Speaker 1>I did think about that because I was like there's steps,

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:32.360
<v Speaker 1>like it's like it's like a staircase kind of not

0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.480
<v Speaker 1>like an aisle, like a normal aisle. It's like you

0:29:34.560 --> 0:29:37.360
<v Speaker 1>come up from like a staircase. So and I.

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 2>Gotta make sure the shoes I'm wearing or because we're

0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:42.240
<v Speaker 2>all walking down the stairs, right, you're all.

0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:44.239
<v Speaker 1>Walking down the stairs. But it's also grass too, so

0:29:44.520 --> 0:29:46.600
<v Speaker 1>but the steels are gonna maybe want to be short

0:29:47.440 --> 0:29:50.560
<v Speaker 1>or blocks or flocks. But you're gonna be walking with

0:29:50.600 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 1>your dad, yes, down the aisle. Yeah, so you'll have

0:29:53.080 --> 0:29:57.760
<v Speaker 1>him for like support. Yeah, but you know he he might.

0:29:57.880 --> 0:30:03.480
<v Speaker 1>She's not not so clumsy himself. Really, he's been known

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>to trip over a thing or two. So I got

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:10.440
<v Speaker 1>to make sure does that walk many times before we go.

0:30:10.600 --> 0:30:14.000
<v Speaker 2>The rehearsal will be a long rehearsal. Yes, yeah, I

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:17.920
<v Speaker 2>get really emotional when I see the groom when he

0:30:17.960 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 2>sees the bride walking down for the first time. That's

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:22.840
<v Speaker 2>always what like really chokes me up.

0:30:23.440 --> 0:30:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh me too. I'm gonna need someone to video that

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:28.880
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not going to a videographer. A. Yes, yes, yes,

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:31.360
<v Speaker 1>we have not We have not gotten a videographer yet.

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that would definitely be on the list of the

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 2>shot list you want.

0:30:34.480 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I'm definitely gonna want to see that.

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 2>Well, you'll see it.

0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>You'll be walking towards him, I know, but you know

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 1>like that initial like, oh yeah, I guess I will

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:43.200
<v Speaker 1>see it.

0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 2>You'll be looking right at him.

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:48.960
<v Speaker 1>Ah yes, yes, yes, I imagine it's going to be

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:53.239
<v Speaker 1>like a blur. So I'm definitely yes. Yeah. But uh

0:30:53.560 --> 0:30:57.000
<v Speaker 1>so we did all that, and it's so crazy because

0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't even realize how many decisions you have to.

0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:00.880
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I made a hundred decisions weekend, Like

0:31:01.040 --> 0:31:03.720
<v Speaker 1>even like little things too, like what order do people

0:31:03.760 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>walk down the island and like where do you like?

0:31:08.080 --> 0:31:09.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my gosh, I didn't even know that.

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I was just I was just have my wedding planner

0:31:11.720 --> 0:31:13.960
<v Speaker 1>to side that. But I guess it's a big decision.

0:31:14.440 --> 0:31:17.959
<v Speaker 2>Using what side of you is going to be facing

0:31:17.960 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 2>the audience?

0:31:19.600 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Audience are close friends and family.

0:31:22.360 --> 0:31:24.280
<v Speaker 2>Know, like what side of your face? Like you know,

0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 2>because and don't you have a good side? I do it?

0:31:27.400 --> 0:31:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Better be on my good side, a good side.

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:32.920
<v Speaker 4>And then there was like you're good, which is your

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 4>I don't know, I'm sorry it should be obvious to me,

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:37.200
<v Speaker 4>but which is your good side?

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 3>I see it? Yes?

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:41.160
<v Speaker 1>And then look at this side. Uh huh, which one's better?

0:31:42.120 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 3>Exactly this?

0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, you're lying.

0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:47.280
<v Speaker 4>Show the camera way Crystal can make this her magic

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:51.040
<v Speaker 4>for Instagram. There's there's one side and there's the other side.

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:54.160
<v Speaker 2>You turn more, wait, you turn more for that way.

0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 2>So make sure you're like, look at look at my hand.

0:31:57.120 --> 0:32:00.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love the smile and like that.

0:32:01.240 --> 0:32:02.640
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, yeah, just right there.

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 6>Yeah it's right side.

0:32:05.200 --> 0:32:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Right, my right side is better. Yeah, yeah, thank you

0:32:07.520 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>really wow?

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.840
<v Speaker 6>Yeahs to me.

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Yes, so lucky you too, blessed.

0:32:15.800 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 3>Wow.

0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, it's like even like stuff like that. And

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:21.200
<v Speaker 1>then and then we're doing we want to like have

0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:24.360
<v Speaker 1>these lights over the reception, so it's like, oh, do

0:32:24.360 --> 0:32:26.480
<v Speaker 1>you want the lights covering just the tables or the

0:32:26.480 --> 0:32:30.440
<v Speaker 1>tables and the dance floor or I'm like, I don't know. Yeah,

0:32:30.480 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>it's like all these little things that you just don't

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 1>even realize until you're in it, and I'm just kind

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>of making the decisions.

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm telling you, and I know it doesn't

0:32:38.640 --> 0:32:40.600
<v Speaker 2>feel like this because you want everything to be perfect,

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.040
<v Speaker 2>but not a single person is going to remember where

0:32:43.080 --> 0:32:45.840
<v Speaker 2>the lights are or what the silver wear looked like.

0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:48.160
<v Speaker 2>And we'll just be like, oh my god, that was beautiful.

0:32:48.400 --> 0:32:50.960
<v Speaker 1>My biggest thing right now is the food. So the

0:32:50.960 --> 0:32:54.240
<v Speaker 1>food's amazing at this hotel, Like, the food is delicious.

0:32:54.320 --> 0:32:55.760
<v Speaker 2>You made some good choices for us.

0:32:56.040 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Yes, the choices are amazing ate every single one of

0:32:59.640 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>them licked it to the bone. But here's the thing.

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:04.800
<v Speaker 1>So I've always thought I would have a plate of

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:07.400
<v Speaker 1>dinner at my wedding because I just thought I would

0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:11.000
<v Speaker 1>have a plate of dinner. There's they also offer to

0:33:11.040 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 1>do stations, not like a buffet, but like there would

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:16.600
<v Speaker 1>be like a station for the civice. There would be

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 1>a station for the for the meat, and the station

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 1>for the salad. Da da da da. I. For some reason,

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I've always just envisioned my wedding with a plate of dinner.

0:33:25.160 --> 0:33:27.320
<v Speaker 1>But I feel like it's gonna mess up the vibe

0:33:27.360 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>that I want, which is just like party and if

0:33:30.320 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>some people because we're gonna have cocktail hour before the ceremony,

0:33:33.040 --> 0:33:35.200
<v Speaker 1>so people might not even be hungry. So if you

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:37.680
<v Speaker 1>have stations, it lets people eat when they want to.

0:33:37.960 --> 0:33:40.160
<v Speaker 1>We also have more variety because if people have to

0:33:40.160 --> 0:33:42.080
<v Speaker 1>decide what they want, you only get that one thing,

0:33:42.240 --> 0:33:44.800
<v Speaker 1>versus if you have the stations, you can pick from

0:33:45.400 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>two or three things, you.

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:49.880
<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean. I, before I moved to California

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 2>had never had a set, sit down, plated dinner at

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:56.440
<v Speaker 2>a reception. I've always had kind of buffet style, go

0:33:56.600 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 2>up and eat what you want when you want. So

0:33:59.240 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 2>like when my first wedding out here, when we had

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:05.200
<v Speaker 2>to sit down reception, I was like, what is happening?

0:34:05.560 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 2>Are we all having to sit here and eat at

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:09.560
<v Speaker 2>the same time? Like I was so confused, But then

0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 2>everybody's been too since out here does the plate of dinner.

0:34:13.120 --> 0:34:15.239
<v Speaker 1>I know, and I think that's so ingrained in me,

0:34:15.760 --> 0:34:17.520
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So it's like it's this

0:34:17.560 --> 0:34:19.160
<v Speaker 1>weird thing that I can't. I'm like, I know, the

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:21.640
<v Speaker 1>logical answer is to do the stations, you know, and

0:34:21.680 --> 0:34:23.319
<v Speaker 1>like also, we're not doing all of our speeches, We're

0:34:23.320 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna do the night before, so but for some reason

0:34:26.640 --> 0:34:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I can't. And the desserts, Oh.

0:34:30.880 --> 0:34:31.880
<v Speaker 3>You were very excited.

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 2>She is a dessert. If y'all don't know this about Tonya,

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:36.319
<v Speaker 2>because we talk we focus a lot on.

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:39.560
<v Speaker 1>Your healthy ye, yes, but you love a dice. I

0:34:39.800 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 1>love dessert like I love dessert. And we tried both

0:34:44.239 --> 0:34:46.439
<v Speaker 1>of the desserts, ones like a chocolate one and one's

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:49.040
<v Speaker 1>like adulte de leeche one, and they were I can't

0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 1>even pick which one was better. It was like just

0:34:54.040 --> 0:34:56.439
<v Speaker 1>thinking about it now makes me like makes my mouth water.

0:34:57.000 --> 0:34:59.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, please watch your words.

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:02.560
<v Speaker 1>But so that's kind of the big decision right now.

0:35:02.600 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>But anyways, we did it and our parents really enjoyed

0:35:05.640 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 1>the food and it was just like really sweet because

0:35:07.719 --> 0:35:10.359
<v Speaker 1>my parents have hung out with Robbie's parents multiple times,

0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:12.000
<v Speaker 1>like we've done things givings together and stuff like that,

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 1>but we've never spent like a weekend together like a

0:35:15.480 --> 0:35:17.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of meals, Like we've had breakfast and we did dinners,

0:35:17.640 --> 0:35:19.800
<v Speaker 1>and we spent every day. We went to the beach together,

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:22.080
<v Speaker 1>and then Robbie and I came home Sunday night and

0:35:22.120 --> 0:35:24.960
<v Speaker 1>our parents stayed and had dinner together and like, yeah,

0:35:25.120 --> 0:35:28.239
<v Speaker 1>so like we've never I've never seen them spend so

0:35:28.320 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 1>much time and like, I don't know, it's just like

0:35:30.160 --> 0:35:32.040
<v Speaker 1>really really sweet and it was really really special. I

0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:33.759
<v Speaker 1>was like emotional like the whole weekend and it made

0:35:33.760 --> 0:35:35.480
<v Speaker 1>me and it almost it did feel really real, like

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:36.879
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh my gosh, like this is where

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:39.960
<v Speaker 1>we're getting married. Yeah, we're like this is like this

0:35:40.040 --> 0:35:42.640
<v Speaker 1>is it? So now it feels like countdown is on.

0:35:43.239 --> 0:35:46.440
<v Speaker 2>So well, y'all go before the wedding around it. I

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:48.560
<v Speaker 2>mean I was so smart to do that though. Yeah,

0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 2>that was it, wow, because no, like really you can

0:35:51.120 --> 0:35:53.359
<v Speaker 2>just make the decisions you need to make and by

0:35:53.360 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 2>the timing, like you know everything, you're not going to

0:35:55.560 --> 0:35:56.640
<v Speaker 2>be surprised by anything.

0:35:57.239 --> 0:36:01.319
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, hopefully what great.

0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:03.480
<v Speaker 3>As long as you have chicken, that's all that really matters.

0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:10.600
<v Speaker 1>Although we are having chicken as an appetizer, it's like

0:36:10.719 --> 0:36:13.640
<v Speaker 1>it's like a crispy chicken taco. Oh yeah, but it's

0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:15.120
<v Speaker 1>not like you're not gonna be able to have like chicken

0:36:15.280 --> 0:36:18.320
<v Speaker 1>like off of a like chicken. O.

0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:20.719
<v Speaker 2>God about.

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:26.040
<v Speaker 1>The carving, yeah, the carving. Also thinking like stations is

0:36:26.080 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 1>better for like a Haley, because I was thinking about

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:29.360
<v Speaker 1>Haley with her onion and garlic.

0:36:29.320 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 2>So thoughtful, but also she she's able to typically they can,

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:35.200
<v Speaker 2>especially at a resort like that.

0:36:36.480 --> 0:36:38.000
<v Speaker 1>But I was like, oh, it's probably better for like

0:36:38.120 --> 0:36:40.239
<v Speaker 1>her people that have allergies to certain things to do

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.759
<v Speaker 1>it kind of in stations because they can hold the

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:43.720
<v Speaker 1>onion or whatever.

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, Hold the onion, Hold the cilantro. Yeah,

0:36:47.080 --> 0:36:49.640
<v Speaker 2>me exactly. Well, this is very exciting.

0:36:49.760 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 1>It was so and we got like so drunk the

0:36:52.880 --> 0:36:55.319
<v Speaker 1>first night because we were so excited, Like we we

0:36:55.400 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 1>just got there and the hotel did like a lot

0:36:57.080 --> 0:36:59.440
<v Speaker 1>of really sweet things for us. They like had a

0:36:59.440 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 1>little band and they like had picture like pictures of

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:04.880
<v Speaker 1>us framed in the room and like a little like

0:37:05.320 --> 0:37:07.759
<v Speaker 1>balloon with butterflies on it, and like they just did

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:11.400
<v Speaker 1>like a lot. And so they gave us a margarita

0:37:11.440 --> 0:37:13.120
<v Speaker 1>when we got there, so we drank the margarita, and

0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.080
<v Speaker 1>then they gave us champagne. So we drank the champagne

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:16.320
<v Speaker 1>and then we went to dinner with our parents. And

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:17.960
<v Speaker 1>it was the first night, so we were just like woo.

0:37:20.200 --> 0:37:21.880
<v Speaker 1>So the next day we were like hungover doing all

0:37:21.880 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 1>these walk through which was not smart. And it's like

0:37:24.000 --> 0:37:24.800
<v Speaker 1>eighty degrees.

0:37:25.080 --> 0:37:27.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah it did look warm.

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 1>It was warm.

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:30.280
<v Speaker 2>She was still not be cold.

0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:32.600
<v Speaker 1>No wedding, No it will not be cold.

0:37:32.840 --> 0:37:33.480
<v Speaker 2>This is great.

0:37:33.560 --> 0:37:34.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was really really exciting.

0:37:34.840 --> 0:37:37.399
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to talk about the bachelorette because there's this

0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 2>new thing saying people are ditching rides, are ditching bachelorette

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:42.719
<v Speaker 2>parties for solo trips.

0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Not Amy, but let's talk about it.

0:37:45.200 --> 0:38:04.840
<v Speaker 2>But we'll do it when we come back, all right, Tanya.

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 2>So it seems to be that brides are ditching the

0:38:09.560 --> 0:38:14.200
<v Speaker 2>traditional bachelorette parties for solo trips because the bachelorette party

0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:16.880
<v Speaker 2>has turned into a multi day weekend trip for a

0:38:16.920 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 2>lot of people. It cannot up to a lot of cost,

0:38:20.400 --> 0:38:23.720
<v Speaker 2>and people love it. But some people are just choosing

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:27.439
<v Speaker 2>to go away by themselves to really ground themselves before

0:38:27.520 --> 0:38:29.399
<v Speaker 2>the bridal festivities begin.

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:34.400
<v Speaker 1>No one needs to be grounded less than me. Solo grounding.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't last thing I need is solo grounding. You

0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:40.600
<v Speaker 1>could end time period, especially because I'm so stressed about

0:38:40.680 --> 0:38:43.160
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff. The last thing I need is to

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:45.600
<v Speaker 1>be left alone in a hotel to my own thoughts.

0:38:45.880 --> 0:38:49.239
<v Speaker 2>You could pin the penis on the robbie by myself.

0:38:50.520 --> 0:38:53.560
<v Speaker 2>Nothing sounds worse blindfolds yourself.

0:38:54.120 --> 0:38:55.480
<v Speaker 1>Is this because you want to get out of going

0:38:55.480 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>to my bachelorette Now? I'm actually I'm hearing here.

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:02.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm very excited about your bachelor. I love a bachelorette. Yeah,

0:39:03.000 --> 0:39:06.279
<v Speaker 2>they're so fun, I know. So I'm very excited about it.

0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:08.800
<v Speaker 2>I would be very sad if you did your solo

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:09.880
<v Speaker 2>bachelorette party.

0:39:10.239 --> 0:39:11.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, I ain't doing it.

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:13.800
<v Speaker 2>They're calling it a solourette.

0:39:14.400 --> 0:39:17.560
<v Speaker 1>Nothing sounds worse to me, honestly, Like I don't want

0:39:17.560 --> 0:39:20.439
<v Speaker 1>that at all. I was actually thinking, because we're doing

0:39:20.480 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>things a little different, We're gonna do a cocktail hour

0:39:22.360 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 1>before the ceremony so that people can have like a

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:28.000
<v Speaker 1>little food and a little drink before. And uh, I

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.239
<v Speaker 1>was like, well that sucks because I can't be there,

0:39:30.440 --> 0:39:31.600
<v Speaker 1>like I'm not going to be a part of it.

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:32.800
<v Speaker 1>And then I was like, well, and none of my

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:34.360
<v Speaker 1>bridesmaids are gonna be therecause they're gonna be with me,

0:39:34.400 --> 0:39:35.880
<v Speaker 1>And Roby's like, no, you should let them go, and

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>like I'm sitting there by myself before the ceremony. No,

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:41.359
<v Speaker 1>thank you.

0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:43.759
<v Speaker 2>Well, there might be a moment like right, because it's

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 2>gonna be crazy, I will say, like Ali getting ready there.

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:49.560
<v Speaker 2>It was so much happening that I did feel like

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:54.040
<v Speaker 2>if she had had a moment just to like calm, yeah,

0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:56.799
<v Speaker 2>like this is happening, have a moment with yourself or.

0:39:56.760 --> 0:39:59.319
<v Speaker 1>I've had those moments, okay, but.

0:39:59.400 --> 0:40:02.759
<v Speaker 2>We will not you that crowd you and not make

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 2>sure you are not alone, but you know moments.

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 1>You know, what I thought would be really fun is

0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.600
<v Speaker 1>one night of the Bachelorette to do Love Island theme.

0:40:11.480 --> 0:40:12.080
<v Speaker 2>What does that mean?

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, just like like just get like cups

0:40:15.760 --> 0:40:17.239
<v Speaker 1>with our names on them essentially.

0:40:16.960 --> 0:40:20.839
<v Speaker 2>Okay, the water bottle names on them. Color is going

0:40:20.880 --> 0:40:21.600
<v Speaker 2>to be there.

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:23.720
<v Speaker 3>From Love Island.

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:27.960
<v Speaker 1>Taylor disrespectful.

0:40:28.280 --> 0:40:31.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know these people, tramp her.

0:40:32.040 --> 0:40:33.760
<v Speaker 1>No, but you know what you might be excited about

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:40.400
<v Speaker 1>live from uh Love Island is dating Christian Cavalary's ex.

0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:43.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I'm excited about that, but good for them.

0:40:47.400 --> 0:40:48.920
<v Speaker 1>For sure, if they're dating. But that seems to be

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:49.680
<v Speaker 1>on the rumor mill.

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 2>They definitely spent some time together because they did the

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Vegas screening of G and then they were also both

0:40:58.000 --> 0:40:58.680
<v Speaker 2>at the premiere.

0:40:58.920 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh and then I saw some TikTok that she posted

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:01.560
<v Speaker 1>with him.

0:41:01.719 --> 0:41:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there was something about like what she proposed to

0:41:03.640 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 2>him or something.

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, there's multiples. There's multiple with them.

0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:10.359
<v Speaker 2>Well, well, when she comes on the podcast, we'll ask

0:41:10.400 --> 0:41:12.399
<v Speaker 2>her about I'll ask her about it. Yeah, if there's

0:41:12.440 --> 0:41:13.480
<v Speaker 2>any truth to that.

0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:15.280
<v Speaker 1>I love any tie to a Christian Cavalary.

0:41:16.239 --> 0:41:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we know. Yeah, well we can have Kristin Cavalary

0:41:20.120 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 2>on the podcast to talk about the rumors between Mark

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 2>and Live.

0:41:23.200 --> 0:41:24.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't think she'd enjoy that very much.

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 2>Okay, right then we will not. I mean, I don't know.

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:28.720
<v Speaker 2>She's pretty much an open book.

0:41:28.960 --> 0:41:30.560
<v Speaker 1>She is an open book, that's for sure. But like,

0:41:30.560 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>would you want to go down a podcast talk about

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:33.760
<v Speaker 1>like your ex and their new girlfriend.

0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:39.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, think about it, but I don't always

0:41:39.520 --> 0:41:41.760
<v Speaker 2>do things the way Kristen does. Think so she could

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:44.120
<v Speaker 2>be into doing that just because I want it. Doesn't

0:41:44.120 --> 0:41:45.560
<v Speaker 2>mean she would look at all this rain.

0:41:45.760 --> 0:41:48.000
<v Speaker 3>Okay, see, we shouldn't have TVs on during the show.

0:41:50.239 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>By the rain. Oh my gosh, it's going to be

0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:55.320
<v Speaker 1>a wet Thanksgiving here in l A for us.

0:41:55.640 --> 0:41:58.839
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is, so, it seems, Yeah, it seems there

0:41:58.960 --> 0:42:01.879
<v Speaker 2>is a We do have a email from an anonymous It.

0:42:01.840 --> 0:42:04.200
<v Speaker 4>Kind of fits the theme here. Yeah, Hi, Tanya, Beckham,

0:42:04.239 --> 0:42:06.160
<v Speaker 4>Mark and Easton. I love listening to you age every

0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:09.000
<v Speaker 4>week and always find myself smiling and laughing along. Your

0:42:09.000 --> 0:42:11.920
<v Speaker 4>conversations are a bright spot in my week. That's very nice.

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:15.200
<v Speaker 4>I could really use some advice on a wedding related dilemma.

0:42:15.280 --> 0:42:17.600
<v Speaker 4>I recently got engaged, and I'm thinking of asking my

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:19.720
<v Speaker 4>two best friends to be co matrons of honor.

0:42:19.760 --> 0:42:21.920
<v Speaker 3>However, I'm a little torn.

0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.320
<v Speaker 4>Because my sister, who would normally be my first choice,

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:26.440
<v Speaker 4>lives across the country and has already said she's not

0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:27.920
<v Speaker 4>going to make it to my wedding.

0:42:28.000 --> 0:42:29.520
<v Speaker 3>Oh gosh.

0:42:29.560 --> 0:42:31.320
<v Speaker 4>I don't want to hurt my sister's feelings, but I

0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 4>also know that my two best friends would be the

0:42:33.000 --> 0:42:35.200
<v Speaker 4>most helpful leading up to end during the wedding. My

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<v Speaker 4>question is, do you think it's okay to ask my

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<v Speaker 4>best friends to be co matrons of honor? Or should

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<v Speaker 4>I just ask them to be bride'smaids instead? How can

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<v Speaker 4>I make my friends feel special when I ask them

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<v Speaker 4>to be part of the wedding party. How do I

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<v Speaker 4>ensure my sister still feels included even though she won't

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<v Speaker 4>be physically present. Any advice you have would be so appreciated.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for all the joy and laugh do you

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<v Speaker 4>bring to my life every week.

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<v Speaker 2>Do we think she's really saying she's not going to

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<v Speaker 2>the wedding or we think more just the fest of

0:43:00.600 --> 0:43:04.920
<v Speaker 2>like the festivities, like like being there for the dress.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm hoping it's not wedding.

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<v Speaker 4>But even if the wedding, Anonymous seems cool with it,

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<v Speaker 4>Like apparently it seems to be no matter what it is,

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<v Speaker 4>Anonymous is cool with that.

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<v Speaker 2>Anonymous is accepted.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no bitterness here that I'm sensing.

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<v Speaker 2>Right right, I think it's well, you what do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? Well, I asked my sister and my two best

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<v Speaker 1>friends to be co matron's maids of honor because I

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<v Speaker 1>felt the same way like I was like, obviously I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be I'm asked my sister, She's my sister,

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<v Speaker 1>but I felt like Becka and Paulina would be doing

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<v Speaker 1>the brunt to the work, so I wanted to like

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<v Speaker 1>honor them and respect them and give them that title.

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<v Speaker 1>In hindsight, I'm thinking, like, I only have two other bridesmaids,

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, I should have just made everybody

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<v Speaker 1>you made of honor, you know what I mean, Because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, recounts of fear are going to be doing

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<v Speaker 1>just as much, you know, So in hindsight, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have done that a little bit differently. But we're here now.

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<v Speaker 1>But I feel like, at the end of the day,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much pressure put on every single all of

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<v Speaker 1>these little things, like and I think just telling people

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<v Speaker 1>like that you want them to be as involved or

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<v Speaker 1>not involved as much as they want. Like I get

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<v Speaker 1>what she's saying, because it's like there's this weird like

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<v Speaker 1>I like, my sister lives far away. She doesn't live

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<v Speaker 1>across the country, but she lives in San Diego. She's

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<v Speaker 1>two kids, so it's not so easy for her to

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<v Speaker 1>just come up to La. We're doing flower girl dress trials,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just happened to land on a day where

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<v Speaker 1>like they're going to be somewhere for Thanksgiving, so they

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<v Speaker 1>can't be there. And I'm like, I literally like and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I feel like she's sad that I'm sad,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, I'm not sad at all. I'm doing

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<v Speaker 1>this to make everything easy for people to give the

0:44:47.640 --> 0:44:50.520
<v Speaker 1>girl's flower girl dresses. If she cannot make it, we

0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:53.840
<v Speaker 1>will FaceTime, We'll send photos, We'll send it. Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>I think everybody just feels this like pressure on every

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<v Speaker 1>single side. And I feel I wish that we could

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<v Speaker 1>all feel unpressured and just do and enjoin and what

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<v Speaker 1>we want to do and not feel I just feel

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<v Speaker 1>like there's this level of pressure that just like it

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<v Speaker 1>is not nice.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's just wanting to be a part though,

0:45:11.400 --> 0:45:13.880
<v Speaker 2>you know, like you're invited to something or to be

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<v Speaker 2>a part of something and wanting to be wanting to

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<v Speaker 2>be there, but knowing that it's not really physically possible

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<v Speaker 2>with the other obligations of life. But I think that

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<v Speaker 2>you just honoring your sister and if she I can't

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<v Speaker 2>tell if she's married because she's referring to her as

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<v Speaker 2>a matron, because typically it's a matron and the maids.

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe it's like your sister's your matron of honor

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<v Speaker 2>and then your other bridesmaids are are maids of honor.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you don't say nothing wrong with having co's though.

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<v Speaker 4>And make a three cos I mean you wish that

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<v Speaker 4>she had whatever you.

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<v Speaker 3>Want to do. There's no rules here.

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<v Speaker 1>The rules are out the window, gone gone, left them

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty eighteen.

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, I don't know if they've been gone that long.

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<v Speaker 1>But but yeah, I feel like invite her to everything

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<v Speaker 1>and just make her feel like obviously there's no pressure.

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<v Speaker 1>I want you here, but I'm not gonna be upset

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<v Speaker 1>or hold it over your head or you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean. I feel like that's the thing that like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know how to explain it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you just say, hey, I obviously know that

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<v Speaker 2>circumstances and distance don't allow for you to be a

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<v Speaker 2>part of everything, but I will invite you. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>include you in everything, right. I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I'm upset for anything you can't make. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just so happy that you're going to be included and

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<v Speaker 2>like be on this text messages to see what we're doing,

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<v Speaker 2>how we're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I love you, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. That's it. You're the bride. You don't need

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<v Speaker 2>to like take care of everybody.

0:46:41.520 --> 0:46:41.960
<v Speaker 1>But you do.

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<v Speaker 2>You really don't, but you do.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Not everyone's emotions or your responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, say it against sister.

0:46:47.840 --> 0:46:51.040
<v Speaker 2>Not everyone's emotions are your responsibility.

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<v Speaker 1>One more time for.

0:46:51.719 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 2>The people to not everyone's emotions are your responsibility. It's good,

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<v Speaker 2>especially adults.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good. I gotta do that.

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<v Speaker 2>That applies to everything, not just brides.

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<v Speaker 1>Care to share anything, get anything off your chest?

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<v Speaker 2>No no no no no no no no no no on

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<v Speaker 2>that note. That's all we got. But this is a

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<v Speaker 2>Thanksgiving week and we do have an episode coming out

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<v Speaker 2>because what we do is we take care of our scrubbers.

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<v Speaker 1>And on our most thankful day, we are thankful for you.

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<v Speaker 2>We are thankful for you. So we hope that whether

0:47:30.600 --> 0:47:33.840
<v Speaker 2>you're celebrating with family, friends or doing a solo giving,

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<v Speaker 2>get back to yourself. Yes, we love your that's right,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't going there girl.

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<v Speaker 1>By love you bye to be continue out

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<v Speaker 2>Chairs