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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Bell and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in grub a dub dub.

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Speaker 1: In the dub but dubum. No space funds today, No

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Speaker 1: my hair. I was actually gonna ask you for them,

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Speaker 1: but my hair's a little wet.

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Speaker 2: Dance sounds pain painful. Yeah, yeah, so we'd have to

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Speaker 2: do low space funds, which I don't know if they

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Speaker 2: would bring the same effects.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well you never know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just feels feels like we needed the space mounds today.

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Speaker 2: You coming back from Mexico invigorated.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't need the space funds because I am like,

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Speaker 1: are you going to high Yeah. Because it's a short

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Speaker 1: work week. I feel like I have to be so productive.

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Speaker 1: So I've just been like on one, like I've done

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Speaker 1: like fifty things today already.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: I know it's weird, like I don't know what's gone

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Speaker 1: into me, but it's inside.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, good for you, Thank you so much. How's your weekend?

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Speaker 2: My weekend, alphabah, My weekend and was great. We went

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Speaker 2: to the opening night of Wicked the movie. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: I the night before I was like laughing at my

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Speaker 2: and she was like, what are you laughing at? I

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Speaker 2: was like, how funny would it be if I went

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Speaker 2: as Alphaba like to the theater and didn't tell anybody

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Speaker 2: because we were going with a big group. And I

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Speaker 2: had all the stuff because we were Alphaba and Glinda

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Speaker 2: for Halloween last year.

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Speaker 1: So it was last year. Yeah, that's sick.

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Speaker 2: So I had everything. It's not like I like sourced

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Speaker 2: it to go to the theater, but I was Glinda

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Speaker 2: last year. So I was like, I'm gonna just like

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Speaker 2: paint myself green and show up as Alphaba. And so

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Speaker 2: I surprised everyone and it was hilarious. I actually thought

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Speaker 2: people in the I thought there would be more people

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Speaker 2: cosplaying and dressed up. So I was thinking, like, oh

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Speaker 2: I nix with like the other Glinda's or the alphabus.

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Speaker 2: No one else dressed up.

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Speaker 3: No one I'm shocked by.

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Speaker 1: I'm shocked by it too, just me.

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Speaker 2: But let me tell you something. I was the actual

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Speaker 2: a four o'clock showing. So there's a lot of young

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Speaker 2: asking for photos with me. So I was like, do

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Speaker 3: Because the green makeup was like professionally done.

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Speaker 2: I gotta be honest, I really did at.

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Speaker 1: I was laughing so hard because I didn't see any

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Speaker 1: of your videos that you'd posted, like on TikTok or

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Speaker 1: anything that that you had dressed up like that. And

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Speaker 1: I was on and I don't remember who posted it,

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Speaker 1: like just I was like, that's so weird whatever, and

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Speaker 2: In an album. But yes, yeah, no, it was. It

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Speaker 2: was really fun. But I guess people at some theater

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Speaker 2: establishments people were painting their face and they were letting

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Speaker 4: They didn't know the rule was masks, like you could

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Speaker 4: wear masks when you're cosplaying in theaters, which I do

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Speaker 3: But it seems weird. Just green paint.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I looked like myself.

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Speaker 3: You did.

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Speaker 1: In fact, that was really wow.

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Speaker 2: This is green really brings off my eyes.

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Speaker 1: But the movie is incredible, so it's like so good.

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Speaker 2: It's so good.

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Speaker 4: My daughter called it a cinematic masterpiece, which from a

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Speaker 1: You look like you're gonna cry right now.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna cry. But I can't listen to this

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Speaker 1: I've listened to I haven't one with with Cynthia and Arianna.

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Speaker 2: I haven't listened to anything else musically since I saw

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Speaker 5: You know, it's it's the it's the fighting for each

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Speaker 2: Alphabet fighting for what she believes in and being changed.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like I've experienced that in my life

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Speaker 2: You know, like there's just something so powerful about it,

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Speaker 2: and I'm so curious because you've never seen the play,

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Speaker 1: Honestly terrified because I feel like you're there's so much

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Speaker 2: Well, one of my sisters, my youngest sister, sawt She

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Speaker 2: said it was she's never seen the play and she

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Speaker 2: was like, it's a little more singing than I was expecting. Like, well,

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Speaker 2: it's a musical.

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Speaker 2: Caroline was like, I loved it so and she's never

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Speaker 2: Maybe you shoot. Opening week is this week for the

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Speaker 2: It's next Thursday is opening night at the Pantagious, So

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Speaker 2: maybe you wait and see it's huge the play.

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Speaker 1: First, I'm going to that you're going to see the

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Speaker 3: What do you think?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: On stage, you're late, really not let me.

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Speaker 1: Should I go with you?

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, tickets. I'll just got the ticket, so yeah, sorry,

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Speaker 1: Do you recommencing the play first and then the movie

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Speaker 1: because that might change things?

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I think going cold the movie, read the book, then.

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Speaker 2: I think if you know that there's a lot of

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Speaker 2: music and music and like every other word is like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like grease.

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Speaker 1: Sure, okay, I know, but like same vibes. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: lots of music, lots of music. Yeah, I like singing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you'll you'll love it. I think. I hope

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Speaker 2: if you don't, and if you don't, that's okay.

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Speaker 1: No, I can't come in here and be like I

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Speaker 2: No no, no, there will be no shame, disrespect, no disrespect.

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Speaker 2: Just give me your honesty and I just be curious, like,

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Speaker 2: what didn't you like about it? You know, because I

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Speaker 2: sat in one of the most uncomfortable outfits with green

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Speaker 2: Interesting No, it was a dress, a witch dress, like

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Speaker 2: No, actually I was a little too comfortable in the

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Speaker 1: Did you get any breakouts from it?

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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, face looks great. Did you hear from Cynthia Arrivo herself?

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Speaker 2: No, but she commented on our I did a reel

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Speaker 7: Wow, and now it means so much more because she's

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Speaker 7: everything we have a Haley got an Alpha BA doll

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Speaker 7: when she went to the premiere, and I'm like, we

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Speaker 2: That might go on a shelf somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Wow displayed It's like, yeah, remember when I saw the

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Speaker 1: movie The Green Book? Can you do quick google the

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Speaker 1: two main characters in Green Books?

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Speaker 4: Sure, that'sherschel Ali Maherschela Ali.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he was so amazing I've never seen any of

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Speaker 1: his stuff before, but I posted on Instagram some like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's impactful.

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Speaker 4: Like e but like Cynthia Riva was like the biggest

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Speaker 4: start in the planet, universe, everything right in this moment,

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Speaker 4: In this moment, there's no one bigger.

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Speaker 1: I would argue maherschel Ali.

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Speaker 4: Perhaps at the time because that was the best picture

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Speaker 4: of twenty eighteen, but right now, none bigger.

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Speaker 1: I love twenty eighteen. Twenty eighteen is my theme right now?

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Speaker 2: Twenty eighteen teen?

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Speaker 1: Does that mean that's that was what Haley called her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, why is that your theme right now?

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Speaker 1: On just like really basking in the year twenty eighteen.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it was a good year.

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Speaker 1: It was a great year. Yeah, I would say Green

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Speaker 1: Book winning Oscars.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so y'all are seeing Wicked Friday Friday.

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Speaker 6: Yes, Friday. We were up in the mountains this weekend

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Speaker 6: they were playing Red One, and so we went did.

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Speaker 1: You watch it?

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Speaker 6: I absolutely get that bleep button ray. I love read

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, it was so good. It was so good,

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Speaker 6: and we were like also loved to walk out with

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Speaker 6: all jazz, like we love Red One, and we go

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Speaker 6: through our Instagram like everyone else's seen Wicked. We were

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Speaker 6: so jealous because we wanted to see Wicked. We're seeing

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Speaker 1: But see, that's the thing, like I go into these

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Speaker 1: movies lately with no expectations are very low, like Read One.

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Speaker 6: Haven't seen a single person say anything bad about it.

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Speaker 6: Like some people have problems with the color of Wicked,

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Speaker 3: Wow, that's it.

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Speaker 4: Getting deep there to complain about. By the way, Red

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Speaker 4: One is interesting to me because you know, on Rotten Tomatoes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it just flops them in her mouth.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I don't buy nerd clusters for my

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Speaker 2: And you love them.

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Speaker 6: I'm afraid to try them. I have not tried them yet.

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Speaker 6: I'm afraid they're really good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but when we come back, I love that. Wow. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I was like, what the hell, that's forever from now.

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Speaker 2: I haven't cared about the return date of Grade and

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Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, take the holidays off, we skip December, we're.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something though that episode the past well,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's a nice edition. She's a nice edition to anything.

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Speaker 3: The iHeart family. Amen, amen scrubbing, we love her. But yes,

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Speaker 3: They're thinning the herd a little bit. What you have

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Speaker 2: No, I think she wanted to go explore other like

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Speaker 3: Of all terrible.

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Speaker 1: I will not tolerate.

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Speaker 2: I think he might cheat on Teddy now, so we'll

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Speaker 2: I didn't say Kevin mckittt. I love Kevin.

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Speaker 1: I will not hear this blasphemy about my Owen Hunt,

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Speaker 2: Hunt, Christina and Meredith old school. He is a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Baby, he is no, he's not he is.

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Speaker 2: Yes. He stormed off and got mad because Sophia Bush

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Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, don't talk about my own Okay, we're good

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they need to never leave the hospital because everything

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Speaker 1: Did you see those? And I feel like because Sarah

446
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: Drew remember when she was on the podcast and she

447
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,520
Speaker 1: told us about how intense her scene was when she

448
00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,359
Speaker 1: was delivering the baby, And I don't know why. For

449
00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 1: some reason, that really stuck with me. Hasn't left my mind.

450
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:04,720
Speaker 1: And I saw these tiktoks about Ariana Grande and how

451
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 1: she hasn't been the same since she got this role

452
00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:09,680
Speaker 1: as Glinda and that she's like kind of like adapting

453
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 1: that behavior and that like I don't know, They're like

454
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 1: showing like these before and after videos of her, and

455
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's so crazy that like playing a certain

456
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:21,640
Speaker 1: role can like infiltrate your psyche that much.

457
00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,760
Speaker 6: But Butler syndrome.

458
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like how crazy is that that it just takes you,

459
00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,320
Speaker 1: takes your whole personality and morphs it into like something different.

460
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: Well, her dream was to be this role and she

461
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,679
Speaker 2: was so in my opinion, she played it so similarly

462
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,119
Speaker 2: to Kristin Chenna with and so I felt like she

463
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: just put everything she had into being like literally becoming Glinda.

464
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like now she's like still like has that

465
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 1: same has that same to me? I know, I'm very

466
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:54,040
Speaker 1: curious to see if it continues.

467
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 2: Mm hmm hmmm.

468
00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,720
Speaker 1: And I always I think about that because of what

469
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:02,679
Speaker 1: Sarah Drew told us that Sarah really uh sticking with me?

470
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: Yeah good, Yeah, memorable interview in my opinion.

471
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 2: Yeah good, I'm serious.

472
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,280
Speaker 1: I had it the other day. I was like, wow,

473
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,199
Speaker 1: like that's so crazy. These roles can impact them that

474
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 1: much with like physically it like impacts their bodies.

475
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean Sean has probably caused a lot

476
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: of bodily trauma to these gray synatomy people having to

477
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 2: act out these traumatic scenes, crazy switching gears. That was

478
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 2: my weekend.

479
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Speaker 1: I is it time to take a quick break?

480
00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,840
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I.

481
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 1: Wanted to tell you that there's two types of people

482
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Speaker 1: in this world. Okay, there are people who fill up

483
00:22:42,520 --> 00:22:45,880
Speaker 1: their gas tank when the light goes on go. There's

484
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Speaker 1: people who don't. Becca is one that doesn't.

485
00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 3: Becca has run out of gas on more than one.

486
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: Occasion, and so is another very important person in Tanya's life,

487
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:57,960
Speaker 2: her fiance.

488
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Speaker 3: Yeah you ran out of gas.

489
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,600
Speaker 1: No some this is actually like it's so annoying to

490
00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: me sometimes when he's right about stuff. But we're driving

491
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: back from our workout and there's three miles left in

492
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 1: the tank. He's like, I need to get gas. And

493
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: I looked and I see three miles and I'm like,

494
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Like we're not even close to a

495
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: gas station, like at all, not a close at all.

496
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: He goes, I think it's about one point eight miles

497
00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,680
Speaker 1: away from where we are right here.

498
00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,800
Speaker 2: Look three miles left, correct, So you would have.

499
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,120
Speaker 1: Like, But then it switched in the middle of our conversation,

500
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Speaker 1: switched to two miles. So I'm like, oh my gosh.

501
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: So I look it up on my phone. Sure enough,

502
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,840
Speaker 1: it's literally one point eight miles from where we were.

503
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 1: But this thing is going. Went from three to two

504
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,399
Speaker 1: real fast, and it went from two to one even faster,

505
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 1: and I was like, we're not making it. Then it

506
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: went to zero. It hit zero, and we're still going.

507
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 1: So first of all, those things lie they do.

508
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Speaker 6: That's a dangerous line.

509
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 4: They know they can't trust you, So we'll give it

510
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Speaker 4: an extra probably ten miles.

511
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Speaker 1: So we ended up making it. We did make it

512
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 1: to the gas station. We didn't have to push the.

513
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:02,920
Speaker 2: Car or whatever.

514
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 1: But I was just like, I just spent the last

515
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:08,880
Speaker 1: ten minutes of my life stressed and panicked. Why does

516
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: anyone like to live like that?

517
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 2: But we don't. We don't experience that. In the same

518
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:16,400
Speaker 2: situation though.

519
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 1: I was so stressed, I was like, pull over, let

520
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 1: me get out of the car, because.

521
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: I don't want to do I'm just uber home.

522
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 3: Well, there's less weight in the car. You've used less fuel.

523
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, I'll sacrifice myself so that you can get

524
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 1: to this here gas station.

525
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Speaker 4: I don't really have an issue with this because Robbie

526
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,879
Speaker 4: knows what his car can do. I've pushed it before

527
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 4: because I know exactly what I'm dealing with.

528
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 1: My life comes on and I am at the gas station.

529
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,879
Speaker 1: Baby girl never gets below twenty five miles life.

530
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Speaker 6: I mean, it's bad for your car to run that

531
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 6: low on the guest exactly. Easton Sam's boyfriend at one

532
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 6: point in his life was would rent low frequently, and

533
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 6: he famously coasted his car run out of gas, coasted

534
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 6: into the gas station and up to the pump, and

535
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 6: that rules.

536
00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 3: It's like some James Bonds.

537
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were at zero and he goes good thing

538
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: it's downhill all the way to the gas. It's like, yeah,

539
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:12,960
Speaker 1: he was doing things with the thing. I was like,

540
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, the stress in my life.

541
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Speaker 2: Well, some people just like to live on the edge

542
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,639
Speaker 2: or just feel like they can do it, you know.

543
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 2: And I told Robbie, I go, you're gonna people on zero,

544
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: like ninety percent of the time, you're gonna make it. No,

545
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 2: I said, most of the time you're gonna make it,

546
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,200
Speaker 2: And he goes, yeah, like ninety I said, I'd say

547
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Speaker 2: ninety five. I'd say out of all the times I've

548
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 2: gone on zero, I've ran out of guess twice in

549
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:40,919
Speaker 2: my life.

550
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:42,920
Speaker 1: How many times have you gotten on zero?

551
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 2: Every time I need to take gas? It's on zero

552
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 2: every time.

553
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 1: I haven't seen zero on my car since birth. Never

554
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 1: have I seen it. Never have I seen the zero

555
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: on my gas gage.

556
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you said it. There's two types of people

557
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,679
Speaker 2: in this world.

558
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: Yes, indeed there are.

559
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: How many times do you run out of gas in

560
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 3: your life?

561
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: She said two?

562
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 3: Is that for sure?

563
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 2: Three?

564
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 3: Three times?

565
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,760
Speaker 2: One was a rental car, though, so I can't that

566
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 2: one's hard because I was in a car. I had

567
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 2: no idea how long I could go on zero. So

568
00:26:17,520 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 2: I was just like, maybe this will go as long

569
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 2: as it didn't. The Jeep compass does not have on zero.

570
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: You better get to a gas station. You're not gonna

571
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 2: go for very long. Wow, I was in the middle

572
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: of Texas Cooston.

573
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: Stress.

574
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: That was a little bit stressful because that was literally

575
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 2: in the middle of nowhere. Went knocked on people's doors

576
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 2: in the neighborhood.

577
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 3: Story.

578
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it's a It builds character at the very least.

579
00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: You have to be a little brain. You know. Had

580
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,920
Speaker 2: I not run out of gas and had to ask

581
00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 2: for help in my life, maybe I wouldn't have had

582
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:52,720
Speaker 2: the courage to go.

583
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 1: Ask for help in life in general.

584
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: To go to Wicket as alphabet on a level of

585
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:01,199
Speaker 2: like it can't hurt me, correct, Yeah, gave you a

586
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:03,879
Speaker 2: level of courage Ridge like the cowardly lion.

587
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,119
Speaker 1: Is he in this wickeed?

588
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 6: No kind of they're in the trailer the gang.

589
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

590
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm so curious to see what happens with that.

591
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm not I need to watch The Wizard of Oz

592
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 1: again too, because I don't even know what that's about.

593
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: A lot of homework that's about. No, I just remember

594
00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: the yellow Yeah, it's pretty classic. Yeah.

595
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 2: Mexico did a lot of eating this weekend.

596
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: I did a lot of eating this weekend. I ate

597
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 1: so much food this weekend. It was insane, like more

598
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,480
Speaker 1: food than I've eaten in a week. But it was amazing.

599
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:44,080
Speaker 1: Any nerd clusters, No nerd clusters, straight they at the

600
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: resort nerd clusters, I haven't seen any on the property.

601
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 1: I haven't seen any.

602
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 2: Those myself and bring them over.

603
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 1: Yeah the No, I haven't seen any, but I'm sure

604
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,239
Speaker 1: at the gift shop they might have.

605
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: Well explain to people what you were doing in Mexico

606
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 2: because it was for a significant reason.

607
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really cute because we are getting married

608
00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 1: in Mexico, and so we had to go and meet

609
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: with like all of our vendors that we're using, because

610
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: we've never met them in real life, just like over email.

611
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: And so we had his parents come, my parents come,

612
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: and then Robbie and myself and then our wedding planner,

613
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 1: and we met with like the rentals, the music, the lighting,

614
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: and then we did food tasting. So we did like

615
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,199
Speaker 1: a lot. It was like a very forty eight hours,

616
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 1: like a very busy forty eight hours, big step.

617
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 3: It's very real now, I would imagine, Yeah, yes.

618
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: And it's so crazy because I wasn't sure where we

619
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: were gonna have our ceremony. And then when we found

620
00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 1: the spot, I like walked down the aisle or like

621
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: what it's going to be the aisle, and I just

622
00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: started like bawling, like this is I can't and I'm

623
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: not having close like I like you know what I mean,

624
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: Like there's nothing, no music playing, and I'm just walking

625
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,360
Speaker 1: down this thing and I started like bawling.

626
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to make sure you're not going to

627
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 2: be good waterproof. Yeah it's not going to be good,

628
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 2: Like it could be great.

629
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm just saying that my water work situation is going

630
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 1: to be a problem.

631
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,200
Speaker 2: When you get nervous, do you cry, like you know,

632
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: if you're like nervous sometimes like it almost makes the

633
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: emotion that you would normally feel like you were relaxed

634
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: and in a very like you know, no one was

635
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 2: staring at you and with address on, and you cried

636
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: because you've probably felt like relaxed and safe. But I

637
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: wonder if, like when you're you're trying not to think

638
00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 2: about tripping, if you'll be as like, right, yeah, allow

639
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 2: yourself to go there.

640
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: I did think about that because I was like there's steps,

641
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: like it's like it's like a staircase kind of not

642
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: like an aisle, like a normal aisle. It's like you

643
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: come up from like a staircase. So and I.

644
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 2: Gotta make sure the shoes I'm wearing or because we're

645
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 2: all walking down the stairs, right, you're all.

646
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,239
Speaker 1: Walking down the stairs. But it's also grass too, so

647
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: but the steels are gonna maybe want to be short

648
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: or blocks or flocks. But you're gonna be walking with

649
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: your dad, yes, down the aisle. Yeah, so you'll have

650
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: him for like support. Yeah, but you know he he might.

651
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: She's not not so clumsy himself. Really, he's been known

652
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 1: to trip over a thing or two. So I got

653
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: to make sure does that walk many times before we go.

654
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: The rehearsal will be a long rehearsal. Yes, yeah, I

655
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 2: get really emotional when I see the groom when he

656
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 2: sees the bride walking down for the first time. That's

657
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 2: always what like really chokes me up.

658
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: Oh me too. I'm gonna need someone to video that

659
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 1: because I'm not going to a videographer. A. Yes, yes, yes,

660
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 1: we have not We have not gotten a videographer yet.

661
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 2: Okay, that would definitely be on the list of the

662
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:34,360
Speaker 2: shot list you want.

663
00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I'm definitely gonna want to see that.

664
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 2: Well, you'll see it.

665
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: You'll be walking towards him, I know, but you know

666
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: like that initial like, oh yeah, I guess I will

667
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: see it.

668
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 2: You'll be looking right at him.

669
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 1: Ah yes, yes, yes, I imagine it's going to be

670
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:53,239
Speaker 1: like a blur. So I'm definitely yes. Yeah. But uh

671
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: so we did all that, and it's so crazy because

672
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 1: you don't even realize how many decisions you have to.

673
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 1: I feel like I made a hundred decisions weekend, Like

674
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: even like little things too, like what order do people

675
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: walk down the island and like where do you like?

676
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, I didn't even know that.

677
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 1: I was just I was just have my wedding planner

678
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: to side that. But I guess it's a big decision.

679
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,959
Speaker 2: Using what side of you is going to be facing

680
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: the audience?

681
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: Audience are close friends and family.

682
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 2: Know, like what side of your face? Like you know,

683
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 2: because and don't you have a good side? I do it?

684
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 1: Better be on my good side, a good side.

685
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:32,920
Speaker 4: And then there was like you're good, which is your

686
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,600
Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm sorry it should be obvious to me,

687
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 4: but which is your good side?

688
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 3: I see it? Yes?

689
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: And then look at this side. Uh huh, which one's better?

690
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 3: Exactly this?

691
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you're lying.

692
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 4: Show the camera way Crystal can make this her magic

693
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 4: for Instagram. There's there's one side and there's the other side.

694
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 2: You turn more, wait, you turn more for that way.

695
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 2: So make sure you're like, look at look at my hand.

696
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I love the smile and like that.

697
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: But yeah, yeah, just right there.

698
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 6: Yeah it's right side.

699
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: Right, my right side is better. Yeah, yeah, thank you

700
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: really wow?

701
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 6: Yeahs to me.

702
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:15,680
Speaker 1: Yes, so lucky you too, blessed.

703
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 3: Wow.

704
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like even like stuff like that. And

705
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 1: then and then we're doing we want to like have

706
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: these lights over the reception, so it's like, oh, do

707
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: you want the lights covering just the tables or the

708
00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: tables and the dance floor or I'm like, I don't know. Yeah,

709
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: it's like all these little things that you just don't

710
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: even realize until you're in it, and I'm just kind

711
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 1: of making the decisions.

712
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm telling you, and I know it doesn't

713
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 2: feel like this because you want everything to be perfect,

714
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 2: but not a single person is going to remember where

715
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 2: the lights are or what the silver wear looked like.

716
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 2: And we'll just be like, oh my god, that was beautiful.

717
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: My biggest thing right now is the food. So the

718
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 1: food's amazing at this hotel, Like, the food is delicious.

719
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:55,760
Speaker 2: You made some good choices for us.

720
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: Yes, the choices are amazing ate every single one of

721
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: them licked it to the bone. But here's the thing.

722
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: So I've always thought I would have a plate of

723
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,400
Speaker 1: dinner at my wedding because I just thought I would

724
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:11,000
Speaker 1: have a plate of dinner. There's they also offer to

725
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: do stations, not like a buffet, but like there would

726
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,600
Speaker 1: be like a station for the civice. There would be

727
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: a station for the for the meat, and the station

728
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: for the salad. Da da da da. I. For some reason,

729
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: I've always just envisioned my wedding with a plate of dinner.

730
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: But I feel like it's gonna mess up the vibe

731
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: that I want, which is just like party and if

732
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 1: some people because we're gonna have cocktail hour before the ceremony,

733
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: so people might not even be hungry. So if you

734
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 1: have stations, it lets people eat when they want to.

735
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:40,160
Speaker 1: We also have more variety because if people have to

736
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: decide what they want, you only get that one thing,

737
00:33:42,240 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 1: versus if you have the stations, you can pick from

738
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: two or three things, you.

739
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 2: Know what I mean. I, before I moved to California

740
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: had never had a set, sit down, plated dinner at

741
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:56,440
Speaker 2: a reception. I've always had kind of buffet style, go

742
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: up and eat what you want when you want. So

743
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 2: like when my first wedding out here, when we had

744
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: to sit down reception, I was like, what is happening?

745
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: Are we all having to sit here and eat at

746
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 2: the same time? Like I was so confused, But then

747
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 2: everybody's been too since out here does the plate of dinner.

748
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: I know, and I think that's so ingrained in me,

749
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like it's this

750
00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: weird thing that I can't. I'm like, I know, the

751
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: logical answer is to do the stations, you know, and

752
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:23,319
Speaker 1: like also, we're not doing all of our speeches, We're

753
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: gonna do the night before, so but for some reason

754
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: I can't. And the desserts, Oh.

755
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 3: You were very excited.

756
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 2: She is a dessert. If y'all don't know this about Tonya,

757
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:36,319
Speaker 2: because we talk we focus a lot on.

758
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: Your healthy ye, yes, but you love a dice. I

759
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 1: love dessert like I love dessert. And we tried both

760
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,439
Speaker 1: of the desserts, ones like a chocolate one and one's

761
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 1: like adulte de leeche one, and they were I can't

762
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: even pick which one was better. It was like just

763
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,439
Speaker 1: thinking about it now makes me like makes my mouth water.

764
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: I was like, please watch your words.

765
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: But so that's kind of the big decision right now.

766
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: But anyways, we did it and our parents really enjoyed

767
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 1: the food and it was just like really sweet because

768
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 1: my parents have hung out with Robbie's parents multiple times,

769
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,000
Speaker 1: like we've done things givings together and stuff like that,

770
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 1: but we've never spent like a weekend together like a

771
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: lot of meals, Like we've had breakfast and we did dinners,

772
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: and we spent every day. We went to the beach together,

773
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: and then Robbie and I came home Sunday night and

774
00:35:22,120 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: our parents stayed and had dinner together and like, yeah,

775
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 1: so like we've never I've never seen them spend so

776
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: much time and like, I don't know, it's just like

777
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: really really sweet and it was really really special. I

778
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:33,759
Speaker 1: was like emotional like the whole weekend and it made

779
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,480
Speaker 1: me and it almost it did feel really real, like

780
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:36,879
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, like this is where

781
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: we're getting married. Yeah, we're like this is like this

782
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 1: is it? So now it feels like countdown is on.

783
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 2: So well, y'all go before the wedding around it. I

784
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 2: mean I was so smart to do that though. Yeah,

785
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 2: that was it, wow, because no, like really you can

786
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 2: just make the decisions you need to make and by

787
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 2: the timing, like you know everything, you're not going to

788
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 2: be surprised by anything.

789
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, hopefully what great.

790
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 3: As long as you have chicken, that's all that really matters.

791
00:36:07,640 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: Although we are having chicken as an appetizer, it's like

792
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: it's like a crispy chicken taco. Oh yeah, but it's

793
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 1: not like you're not gonna be able to have like chicken

794
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:18,320
Speaker 1: like off of a like chicken. O.

795
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: God about.

796
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,040
Speaker 1: The carving, yeah, the carving. Also thinking like stations is

797
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: better for like a Haley, because I was thinking about

798
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 1: Haley with her onion and garlic.

799
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 2: So thoughtful, but also she she's able to typically they can,

800
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: especially at a resort like that.

801
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: But I was like, oh, it's probably better for like

802
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: her people that have allergies to certain things to do

803
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 1: it kind of in stations because they can hold the

804
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,720
Speaker 1: onion or whatever.

805
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: I don't know, Hold the onion, Hold the cilantro. Yeah,

806
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: me exactly. Well, this is very exciting.

807
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 1: It was so and we got like so drunk the

808
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 1: first night because we were so excited, Like we we

809
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: just got there and the hotel did like a lot

810
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,440
Speaker 1: of really sweet things for us. They like had a

811
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: little band and they like had picture like pictures of

812
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,880
Speaker 1: us framed in the room and like a little like

813
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:07,759
Speaker 1: balloon with butterflies on it, and like they just did

814
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 1: like a lot. And so they gave us a margarita

815
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: when we got there, so we drank the margarita, and

816
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: then they gave us champagne. So we drank the champagne

817
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 1: and then we went to dinner with our parents. And

818
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: it was the first night, so we were just like woo.

819
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 1: So the next day we were like hungover doing all

820
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 1: these walk through which was not smart. And it's like

821
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:24,800
Speaker 1: eighty degrees.

822
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah it did look warm.

823
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: It was warm.

824
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 2: She was still not be cold.

825
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: No wedding, No it will not be cold.

826
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:33,480
Speaker 2: This is great.

827
00:37:33,560 --> 00:37:34,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was really really exciting.

828
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about the bachelorette because there's this

829
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: new thing saying people are ditching rides, are ditching bachelorette

830
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 2: parties for solo trips.

831
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: Not Amy, but let's talk about it.

832
00:37:45,200 --> 00:38:04,840
Speaker 2: But we'll do it when we come back, all right, Tanya.

833
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: So it seems to be that brides are ditching the

834
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:14,200
Speaker 2: traditional bachelorette parties for solo trips because the bachelorette party

835
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 2: has turned into a multi day weekend trip for a

836
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,120
Speaker 2: lot of people. It cannot up to a lot of cost,

837
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:23,720
Speaker 2: and people love it. But some people are just choosing

838
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,439
Speaker 2: to go away by themselves to really ground themselves before

839
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,399
Speaker 2: the bridal festivities begin.

840
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: No one needs to be grounded less than me. Solo grounding.

841
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: I don't last thing I need is solo grounding. You

842
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 1: could end time period, especially because I'm so stressed about

843
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 1: all this stuff. The last thing I need is to

844
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: be left alone in a hotel to my own thoughts.

845
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 2: You could pin the penis on the robbie by myself.

846
00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 2: Nothing sounds worse blindfolds yourself.

847
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: Is this because you want to get out of going

848
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: to my bachelorette Now? I'm actually I'm hearing here.

849
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 2: I'm very excited about your bachelor. I love a bachelorette. Yeah,

850
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 2: they're so fun, I know. So I'm very excited about it.

851
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 2: I would be very sad if you did your solo

852
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 2: bachelorette party.

853
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: Well, I ain't doing it.

854
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 2: They're calling it a solourette.

855
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: Nothing sounds worse to me, honestly, Like I don't want

856
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 1: that at all. I was actually thinking, because we're doing

857
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: things a little different, We're gonna do a cocktail hour

858
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: before the ceremony so that people can have like a

859
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: little food and a little drink before. And uh, I

860
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: was like, well that sucks because I can't be there,

861
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: like I'm not going to be a part of it.

862
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,800
Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, and none of my

863
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,360
Speaker 1: bridesmaids are gonna be therecause they're gonna be with me,

864
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 1: And Roby's like, no, you should let them go, and

865
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:40,799
Speaker 1: like I'm sitting there by myself before the ceremony. No,

866
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:41,359
Speaker 1: thank you.

867
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 2: Well, there might be a moment like right, because it's

868
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: gonna be crazy, I will say, like Ali getting ready there.

869
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: It was so much happening that I did feel like

870
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 2: if she had had a moment just to like calm, yeah,

871
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 2: like this is happening, have a moment with yourself or.

872
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,319
Speaker 1: I've had those moments, okay, but.

873
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 2: We will not you that crowd you and not make

874
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 2: sure you are not alone, but you know moments.

875
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: You know, what I thought would be really fun is

876
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: one night of the Bachelorette to do Love Island theme.

877
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:12,080
Speaker 2: What does that mean?

878
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, just like like just get like cups

879
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,239
Speaker 1: with our names on them essentially.

880
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 2: Okay, the water bottle names on them. Color is going

881
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:21,600
Speaker 2: to be there.

882
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:23,720
Speaker 3: From Love Island.

883
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: Taylor disrespectful.

884
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 3: I don't know these people, tramp her.

885
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:33,760
Speaker 1: No, but you know what you might be excited about

886
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: live from uh Love Island is dating Christian Cavalary's ex.

887
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 3: I don't think I'm excited about that, but good for them.

888
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: For sure, if they're dating. But that seems to be

889
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: on the rumor mill.

890
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 2: They definitely spent some time together because they did the

891
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: Vegas screening of G and then they were also both

892
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 2: at the premiere.

893
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: Oh and then I saw some TikTok that she posted

894
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: with him.

895
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, there was something about like what she proposed to

896
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 2: him or something.

897
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's multiples. There's multiple with them.

898
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 2: Well, well, when she comes on the podcast, we'll ask

899
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:12,399
Speaker 2: her about I'll ask her about it. Yeah, if there's

900
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: any truth to that.

901
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 1: I love any tie to a Christian Cavalary.

902
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we know. Yeah, well we can have Kristin Cavalary

903
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: on the podcast to talk about the rumors between Mark

904
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 2: and Live.

905
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: I don't think she'd enjoy that very much.

906
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 2: Okay, right then we will not. I mean, I don't know.

907
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 2: She's pretty much an open book.

908
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:30,560
Speaker 1: She is an open book, that's for sure. But like,

909
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 1: would you want to go down a podcast talk about

910
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 1: like your ex and their new girlfriend.

911
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, think about it, but I don't always

912
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 2: do things the way Kristen does. Think so she could

913
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 2: be into doing that just because I want it. Doesn't

914
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 2: mean she would look at all this rain.

915
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 3: Okay, see, we shouldn't have TVs on during the show.

916
00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 1: By the rain. Oh my gosh, it's going to be

917
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,320
Speaker 1: a wet Thanksgiving here in l A for us.

918
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:58,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, so, it seems, Yeah, it seems there

919
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 2: is a We do have a email from an anonymous It.

920
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 4: Kind of fits the theme here. Yeah, Hi, Tanya, Beckham,

921
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 4: Mark and Easton. I love listening to you age every

922
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 4: week and always find myself smiling and laughing along. Your

923
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 4: conversations are a bright spot in my week. That's very nice.

924
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 4: I could really use some advice on a wedding related dilemma.

925
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 4: I recently got engaged, and I'm thinking of asking my

926
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:19,720
Speaker 4: two best friends to be co matrons of honor.

927
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: However, I'm a little torn.

928
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 4: Because my sister, who would normally be my first choice,

929
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 4: lives across the country and has already said she's not

930
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 4: going to make it to my wedding.

931
00:42:28,000 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: Oh gosh.

932
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,320
Speaker 4: I don't want to hurt my sister's feelings, but I

933
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 4: also know that my two best friends would be the

934
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 4: most helpful leading up to end during the wedding. My

935
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 4: question is, do you think it's okay to ask my

936
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 4: best friends to be co matrons of honor? Or should

937
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 4: I just ask them to be bride'smaids instead? How can

938
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 4: I make my friends feel special when I ask them

939
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 4: to be part of the wedding party. How do I

940
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 4: ensure my sister still feels included even though she won't

941
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 4: be physically present. Any advice you have would be so appreciated.

942
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 4: Thank you for all the joy and laugh do you

943
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 4: bring to my life every week.

944
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: Do we think she's really saying she's not going to

945
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 2: the wedding or we think more just the fest of

946
00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 2: like the festivities, like like being there for the dress.

947
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 2: I'm hoping it's not wedding.

948
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 4: But even if the wedding, Anonymous seems cool with it,

949
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,759
Speaker 4: Like apparently it seems to be no matter what it is,

950
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 4: Anonymous is cool with that.

951
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 2: Anonymous is accepted.

952
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 3: There's no bitterness here that I'm sensing.

953
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:24,240
Speaker 2: Right right, I think it's well, you what do you think?

954
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 1: Uh? Well, I asked my sister and my two best

955
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: friends to be co matron's maids of honor because I

956
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:37,879
Speaker 1: felt the same way like I was like, obviously I'm

957
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,040
Speaker 1: going to be I'm asked my sister, She's my sister,

958
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: but I felt like Becka and Paulina would be doing

959
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: the brunt to the work, so I wanted to like

960
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: honor them and respect them and give them that title.

961
00:43:47,239 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 1: In hindsight, I'm thinking, like, I only have two other bridesmaids,

962
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: So I was like, I should have just made everybody

963
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,479
Speaker 1: you made of honor, you know what I mean, Because

964
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, recounts of fear are going to be doing

965
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: just as much, you know, So in hindsight, I would

966
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:00,879
Speaker 1: have done that a little bit differently. But we're here now.

967
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,520
Speaker 1: But I feel like, at the end of the day,

968
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: there's so much pressure put on every single all of

969
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:13,200
Speaker 1: these little things, like and I think just telling people

970
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: like that you want them to be as involved or

971
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:18,960
Speaker 1: not involved as much as they want. Like I get

972
00:44:18,960 --> 00:44:20,880
Speaker 1: what she's saying, because it's like there's this weird like

973
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: I like, my sister lives far away. She doesn't live

974
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 1: across the country, but she lives in San Diego. She's

975
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: two kids, so it's not so easy for her to

976
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:30,440
Speaker 1: just come up to La. We're doing flower girl dress trials,

977
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: and it just happened to land on a day where

978
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: like they're going to be somewhere for Thanksgiving, so they

979
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:39,239
Speaker 1: can't be there. And I'm like, I literally like and

980
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like she's sad that I'm sad,

981
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm not sad at all. I'm doing

982
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: this to make everything easy for people to give the

983
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 1: girl's flower girl dresses. If she cannot make it, we

984
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 1: will FaceTime, We'll send photos, We'll send it. Like it's

985
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: I think everybody just feels this like pressure on every

986
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: single side. And I feel I wish that we could

987
00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 1: all feel unpressured and just do and enjoin and what

988
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: we want to do and not feel I just feel

989
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: like there's this level of pressure that just like it

990
00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 1: is not nice.

991
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 2: I think it's just wanting to be a part though,

992
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 2: you know, like you're invited to something or to be

993
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:17,040
Speaker 2: a part of something and wanting to be wanting to

994
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,760
Speaker 2: be there, but knowing that it's not really physically possible

995
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 2: with the other obligations of life. But I think that

996
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:28,279
Speaker 2: you just honoring your sister and if she I can't

997
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 2: tell if she's married because she's referring to her as

998
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: a matron, because typically it's a matron and the maids.

999
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 2: So maybe it's like your sister's your matron of honor

1000
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 2: and then your other bridesmaids are are maids of honor.

1001
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you don't say nothing wrong with having co's though.

1002
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:46,360
Speaker 4: And make a three cos I mean you wish that

1003
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 4: she had whatever you.

1004
00:45:47,880 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 3: Want to do. There's no rules here.

1005
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: The rules are out the window, gone gone, left them

1006
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen.

1007
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 2: WHOA, I don't know if they've been gone that long.

1008
00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: But but yeah, I feel like invite her to everything

1009
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,320
Speaker 1: and just make her feel like obviously there's no pressure.

1010
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 1: I want you here, but I'm not gonna be upset

1011
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: or hold it over your head or you know what

1012
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 1: I mean. I feel like that's the thing that like,

1013
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how to explain it.

1014
00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:16,759
Speaker 2: I think you just say, hey, I obviously know that

1015
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 2: circumstances and distance don't allow for you to be a

1016
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 2: part of everything, but I will invite you. I'm gonna

1017
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 2: include you in everything, right. I don't want you to

1018
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,479
Speaker 2: feel like I'm upset for anything you can't make. I'm

1019
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,319
Speaker 2: just so happy that you're going to be included and

1020
00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: like be on this text messages to see what we're doing,

1021
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 2: how we're doing it.

1022
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you, and.

1023
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 2: That's it. That's it. You're the bride. You don't need

1024
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 2: to like take care of everybody.

1025
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: But you do.

1026
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 2: You really don't, but you do.

1027
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:44,319
Speaker 1: No, but you do.

1028
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 2: Not everyone's emotions or your responsibility.

1029
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: I know, say it against sister.

1030
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: Not everyone's emotions are your responsibility.

1031
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: One more time for.

1032
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 2: The people to not everyone's emotions are your responsibility. It's good,

1033
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 2: especially adults.

1034
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,319
Speaker 1: It's good. I gotta do that.

1035
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:06,400
Speaker 2: That applies to everything, not just brides.

1036
00:47:09,040 --> 00:47:11,479
Speaker 1: Care to share anything, get anything off your chest?

1037
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 2: No no no no no no no no no no on

1038
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 2: that note. That's all we got. But this is a

1039
00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:20,799
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving week and we do have an episode coming out

1040
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 2: because what we do is we take care of our scrubbers.

1041
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: And on our most thankful day, we are thankful for you.

1042
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 2: We are thankful for you. So we hope that whether

1043
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 2: you're celebrating with family, friends or doing a solo giving,

1044
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 2: get back to yourself. Yes, we love your that's right,

1045
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 2: I wasn't going there girl.

1046
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:50,760
Speaker 1: By love you bye to be continue out

1047
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:53,760
Speaker 2: Chairs