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Speaker 1: argue when we've been drinking, like because it was literally

424
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,479
Speaker 1: about nothing, you know, like well, her argument is as

425
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:46,000
Speaker 1: we as women, and this is absolutely true, we are

426
00:21:46,040 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: supposed to act like it is totally fine for you

427
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 1: guys to adjust your balls and your dick or whatever

428
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,640
Speaker 1: it is that y'all are doing when y'all grab and

429
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 1: pull into the little pinch thing. And then the worst

430
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 1: wort is, like she called me after and we're talking

431
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,120
Speaker 1: through this, I think I to use the word chauvinist

432
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 1: in the text to her and I was like wait,

433
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, wait, is that the proper term there?

434
00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,040
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but like we're like, are you fucking serious?

435
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 1: Like we are standing there half the time, I'm like

436
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: having a conversation like one on one with a guy

437
00:22:14,560 --> 00:22:16,959
Speaker 1: and they had just and I'm like, am I supposed

438
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,600
Speaker 1: to keep eye contact right at all? Like this is awkward?

439
00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 1: You just grabbed your balls like it is so beyond

440
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:29,239
Speaker 1: inappropriate to me. I will fully own that like that

441
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,639
Speaker 1: exists in the world because I think it is just

442
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: more normalized. And if you've got an itch, we all

443
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: like your butt itches, your balls it, pussy. I don't

444
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,000
Speaker 1: care scratch it really just I don't want to see

445
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: it while you're scratching it. Well, right, you know, I

446
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: would never feel comfortable to scratch in public, right. And

447
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: I also feel like if I was really aware of

448
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 1: people saying it, I would go somewhere that they couldn't.

449
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,879
Speaker 1: But does that mean that I've never just been like

450
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: impulsively like move drunk around. Yeah, I mean, of course

451
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,360
Speaker 1: I have. I mean I guess it's hard. You guys

452
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 1: have these things hanging off your body, right, and they

453
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: stick to your legs gross but sweaty balls. I mean,

454
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: that's why I wanted to talk about it today because

455
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: like she didn't give me the opportunity to like even

456
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: really explained because she was like, nope, you're being a chuvinist,

457
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: and it was like one of those things we were

458
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 1: just elevated and that became funny to us. Yeah, it's like,

459
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 1: but I love that it even became a conversation after,

460
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: I mean, like a phone call about it after. Um.

461
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's like so interesting to me because it

462
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: is true though, like a guy doing that and scratching

463
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: and adjusting in public, it's like sort of just the

464
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: thing we've become accustomed to. If you saw a girl

465
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: legit do it, you would probably minus even the vagina

466
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: exposure that you were saying, you would still be taken

467
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,919
Speaker 1: aback a bit. I feel absolutely like, and that's like

468
00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 1: one of those unequal things about women because men made

469
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: the rules, you know what I mean, made the rules.

470
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,240
Speaker 1: Women are supposed to be pretty and have their ship

471
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 1: together and be in this like perfect little box, like

472
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: we don't have itches. A braw situation is a little

473
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 1: bit more accepted than scratching your pussy. What's the situation?

474
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:25,119
Speaker 1: Adjusting her bra is not dissimilar, completely dissimilar to like

475
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: a guy adjusting himself. It's just a different area of

476
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: the body. Hard for me to say because I never

477
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 1: wear bra. So do you see people like adjust I guess,

478
00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: but I'm not really. I mean you'll see it would

479
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 1: be like oh yeah, like sorry, it's just like lifted

480
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: my titties. Get the girl. But can you see that?

481
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 1: And no one would be like, oh, that girl just

482
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 1: lifted her you know what I mean, Like there's something

483
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,320
Speaker 1: that's almost would be like hey, right, So it does

484
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:58,800
Speaker 1: it say something about like a man like being like,

485
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 1: oh god, she's got a a cheap puss, Like I

486
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: don't know, like why what's going on down there? Sometimes

487
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: you just have weird ditches, I mean right, especially if

488
00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 1: you're sweaty as mentioning and sticking somewhere you don't wanted

489
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 1: to be sticking and stuff. I don't know. I just

490
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: think overall women are supposed to act a little more

491
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,640
Speaker 1: proper And it's like, wait, who made these rules? Where

492
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,360
Speaker 1: did these come from? And like there are a lot

493
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: of different things that fall under these categories. Yes, we

494
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: actually found an article this was from Houston, like this

495
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,479
Speaker 1: was the CBS Local and Houston. They did this article. Um,

496
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:38,199
Speaker 1: tim things men do that women can't Some of them

497
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: are stupid. Women can't impregnate another person. I mean that's dumb, right, Like, yeah,

498
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: I mean that's just bioll okay, this one. I think technically,

499
00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: if you are a lesbian couple, a woman could insert

500
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 1: a syringe of sperm into her partner and impregnate her.

501
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 1: So I mean, if you want to add, you could

502
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: impregnate somebody we're doing in the same way that I

503
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: can impregnate you with another man's sperm, the same way,

504
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, it's still impregnating you.

505
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: I guess that's true, But that's not what they mean.

506
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,840
Speaker 1: They can'try. Biology cannot impregnant, and it requires an outside

507
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: person to make that happen. This one is one that

508
00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: I think about all the time. Men can use the

509
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: restroom without completely removing their pants. A woman can't perform

510
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 1: the same task without such some unforced, unfortunate consequences, what

511
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,919
Speaker 1: like wedding or pants. I guess, but that's not the

512
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,920
Speaker 1: thing I think about. Men can pee wherever they want

513
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,359
Speaker 1: to pee. We talk about this all the time. You

514
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,200
Speaker 1: said you pee in your backyard, Like guys pee outside

515
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: just constantly. I feel like this is like peat at

516
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 1: the park today when I was talking to my dog

517
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: because I wasn't. I just was like I had to

518
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 1: time it to make sure nobody could see me. But

519
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 1: I was like, gonna pee my pants. It's ridiculous. It's

520
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: like you guys, anytime you're just anywhere near bush can

521
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: go pee. It's like a dog and we have to

522
00:26:51,440 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: just wait till the bathroom. I mean, unless you're gonna

523
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,920
Speaker 1: pop a squad like that's like an emergency situation that

524
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: it's like a lot of thigh workouts. It is like

525
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get it on your shoe. You're a professional.

526
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: There's definitely splatter that you deal with. There's a well

527
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 1: if you do it properly, and if you grow up

528
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,879
Speaker 1: in the South, you know how to pop a squat

529
00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: somewhere if you have to. But but it isn't necessarily

530
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: as easy and it's just like so frustrating sometimes when

531
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, driving in a car. You know I've

532
00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 1: talked about that, because you'll pee in a water bottle

533
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:22,640
Speaker 1: if you have to, like an emergency situation in a car,

534
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: like I don't. There's no out for me, right yeah,

535
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 1: and we'd have to pull over to the side of

536
00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,320
Speaker 1: the roads. Now they've got the I mean, they've got

537
00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: that go girl, But gl a go Girl is like

538
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: it's basically like a funnel that women can use. I've

539
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: been reading that. Like Amazon drivers use it because they

540
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 1: can't get to a bathroom without like losing an hour

541
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: of their work because they live they're delivering down these

542
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: rural roads, so they're peeing in the bottles. And women

543
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: are using these things called a go Girl, which was

544
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: invented for female truck drivers. Interesting, but like I still

545
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 1: feel like there's a mess there, you know, Like then

546
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,440
Speaker 1: you've got this like basic like a funnel that you've

547
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 1: paid in that you've got to like put somewhere in

548
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,440
Speaker 1: your car. Like it's not as easy as me being

549
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: at going on. It's a lot going on. This is

550
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 1: another good one. Women can't get away with calling a

551
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,440
Speaker 1: man crazy or by polar or blame hormones to remove

552
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,480
Speaker 1: blame during an argument with a significant other. I mean,

553
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,360
Speaker 1: if I told you how many times that's been used

554
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: on me, Like what time? Oh is it that time

555
00:28:22,280 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 1: of the month, And you're like, go fuck yourself. No,

556
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: you're just a dick. Well to play devil devil's advocate.

557
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,159
Speaker 1: How often does it use like I'm sorry, I'm on

558
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: my period, you know, like, yes, okay, yes, that's fair,

559
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 1: it's a fair argument, but you never it's true that

560
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,120
Speaker 1: you can never do that. Well, it's fair that we

561
00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: say things like I feel like ship today or p

562
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: M SNG like, but it's mores and a fog like period.

563
00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: But those are more about the physical symptoms of PMS.

564
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: And again I will go to like the grave saying

565
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: this ship a man could not handle one month of

566
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: a goddamn period. I am thankful every day that it

567
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:11,640
Speaker 1: is legitimately terrible. It's like having the flu and still

568
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: having the function in your life and your brain feels

569
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: like a mess and you can't you and you're bleeding

570
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 1: and have to being out of an orifice in your body.

571
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: Is that the right words? Like you're bleeding out of

572
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: your body and you're not dying, like it's like you

573
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: actually wish you could sometimes like it is not right

574
00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 1: and we have to go in like where I was

575
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 1: listening to some podcasts. It was that comedian you and

576
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 1: I were listening to and she was talking about like

577
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,959
Speaker 1: you don't see there's not like a situation where a

578
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 1: man comes in and his arm is like off his body.

579
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: He's bleeding out of his body, and everyone's still just like, hey,

580
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: how's your day going, right, like and do your work

581
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: Like it's not a thing. Like it's just like we're

582
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: literally bleeding out of our bodies and we're expected to

583
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: function like normal. It's word, it is such a weird

584
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 1: biological thing. Like you would think that so much research

585
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 1: would have been put into like changing that. Well, I mean,

586
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: I think that's why birth control got But the thing is,

587
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 1: it's like like I don't take birth control because I

588
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: just first of all, my body doesn't react and too

589
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 1: sensitive to any medicine. But I feel like I'm like,

590
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: our bodies are supposed to do this thing, and so

591
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 1: stopping it feels wrong and not good for me. You know,

592
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, but it's the it's the burden we must bear. Yes, strong, beautiful,

593
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: And so you know he's switching a stane right now.

594
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 1: He's like, is she on her period? Let me boobs

595
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: did start to get a little sold today? Mine never

596
00:30:49,560 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: really do that. Let's right here, Um, what's another one?

597
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: Did you see any other one. I mean, I think

598
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: this one's kind of funny. Men can have super hairy

599
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: legs and under arms, women in this country cannot. So true.

600
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: I guess in other countries like Europe, in a lot

601
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: of places, people do. But how much of that is

602
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: being put on by women to like, what's just what

603
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: we've been programmed to believe someone? And I think some

604
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: people are starting to do this, but until someone is like, hey,

605
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna have orampit hair. But it's like you

606
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: want to be beautiful by whatever your society standards are.

607
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 1: So it's tough because I wouldn't feel comfortable having hair

608
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: because yeah, you don't like that. Well, I've also gotten

609
00:31:37,200 --> 00:31:40,160
Speaker 1: used as viewing that it's sort of like being tan, right,

610
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 1: like in America, there's these certain things. Isn't it funny that, like,

611
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: of course it's America. It is America. To leave this

612
00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: country France. I've always dreamed about living in France and

613
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 1: smoking cigarettes like this, like let's do more old. Okay,

614
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: we'll just buy a little place and like want pilly

615
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 1: A or somewhere like in south of France, and it

616
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: just smokes strict rose. All of a sudden, we like smokes. Yeah,

617
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: you do it when you're like dying, and you know,

618
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: I just always look so glamorous to me in the movies,

619
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: but it's really probably not. But anyway, yeah, the warm thing,

620
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 1: I mean, that hair thing is really interesting. What else? Um,

621
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 1: I mean the restaurant were kind of rest of them

622
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 1: were kind of dumb. I do think there's one that

623
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: men pay approximately fours per garment for dry cleaning, but

624
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:29,520
Speaker 1: this a similar garment for a woman is always more expensive.

625
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: I mean I've never really paid attention to that either.

626
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 1: I wonder if it's like the simplicity of a man's shirt.

627
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: I was thinking about that when I read it, just

628
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 1: from a styling perspective, like women's clothing in general is

629
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: more expensive than men's too, because we'll pay it. But

630
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 1: you also, I like I get jealous, not that I

631
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: would want to dress as a woman, but I just

632
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: get jealous by the diversity of what women wear. You do, Yeah,

633
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: like there's so many more options. Like that's true. I

634
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: have to put on pants in a shirt, you know. Yeah,

635
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: that's it, like like you really jazz it up, you know,

636
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: try to like have flair with that. But it's like

637
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: you can wear a romper or a jumpsuit or a dress.

638
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: L be wearing rompers because you never know what a

639
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: pussy to eat post pants? Your pussy's eating your pants?

640
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: What song? Is that not true? I mean not sure cut?

641
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:26,520
Speaker 1: What not true? Right now? Well this was interesting, So

642
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: just to give the flip side, because we're not just

643
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: going to try to be like men have it so easy.

644
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: There are programmings for both sides. I believe like there's

645
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 1: a lot of programming for women about looking pretty fitting

646
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 1: in a certain box. I did a podcast I think

647
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: I mentioned this last week called The Good Girl Miss

648
00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: that's really great for all women to go listen to,

649
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: like just to even understand what kind of programming and

650
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 1: why you're operating the way that you are, and how

651
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: some of the stuff might be things that you could

652
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 1: let go of. But I do think this is true

653
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: for men to write like men are supposed to be strong,

654
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 1: long and like have it together and be these like

655
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: pillars of strength that don't have feelings. And I found

656
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:09,120
Speaker 1: this other article on thought Catalog, and there's a lot

657
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: of things that actually there's The article is twenty things

658
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: women get away with that men can't. And the first

659
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 1: one they say, is having feelings, and it's this is

660
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: again I think maybe an American thing, but like we

661
00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: aren't accustomed, are very comfortable yet with men being very

662
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 1: sensitive or feelers or emotional in general. Yeah, I mean,

663
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,319
Speaker 1: and there's there is this one that's for a little

664
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 1: bit further down, but I think it plays into it.

665
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:40,840
Speaker 1: And but it really strikes me is talking to random children. Oh,

666
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: like men can be considered creepy. Yeah, and but I

667
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: think it's like when you see a man who is

668
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 1: willing to like engage with a child, Yeah, it's because

669
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:53,800
Speaker 1: they're a little probably more emotional too. I just rewatched them.

670
00:34:53,960 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 1: It's the Mr. Rogers Neighborhood documentary neighbor And like I

671
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:06,040
Speaker 1: would think in if he weren't a television star, most

672
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 1: people would be really creeped out by him. That's like

673
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: you would think that he was like you would not

674
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: trust him. Yeah, I mean it was like, but he's

675
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: so like it was all about just spreading kindness and

676
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: love and it's really beautiful. I wish there were more

677
00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 1: people like that in the world, you know. Um, but

678
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,839
Speaker 1: he was so good with kids. That's interesting. He said.

679
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: There was a moment where he said, like when I'm

680
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,880
Speaker 1: looking at the camera, I am envisioning that I am

681
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: talking to one child, so that the kids that are

682
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: watching on their screens or receiving it as if like

683
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: I'm talking directly to them. But that is something that

684
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 1: I think a woman would A lot of people would

685
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: feel way more comfortable with a woman doing that a man.

686
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,759
Speaker 1: And the interesting part is that men and women both

687
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 1: have masculine and feminine energy, right, and so we're both

688
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: supposed We're all supposed to tap into both sides to

689
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,839
Speaker 1: be a full embodied human or whatever. But it is

690
00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 1: interesting the culture and societal like pressures to not be

691
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 1: a certain way or to not have these feelings. Like again,

692
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: a man is supposed to be strong and feelings are

693
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,839
Speaker 1: viewed as a weak, which is actually the opposite of truth,

694
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,120
Speaker 1: you ask me. But but you know, like it's so

695
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: funny because I also feel like it's pretty highly revered

696
00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:20,080
Speaker 1: to like be a sexy, good dad, you know what

697
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 1: I mean. It's like a dad that's like emotionally connected

698
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:26,440
Speaker 1: their kids. Like I think men are jealous of it

699
00:36:26,560 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 1: and women are like pennies be dropping the absolutely I

700
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 1: mean it was damp. That's a reference to uh, the

701
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 1: righteous gemstones, gemstones, damp. This one was interesting to me, groping,

702
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: groping in general. I had a strange woman come up

703
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: to me at a bar and touch my arm and

704
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,120
Speaker 1: chest without even saying a word. If I did that

705
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 1: to a woman, I'd be on my ass on the

706
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: street and a heartbeat. That is true because we like

707
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: Also this, there's this like message I think that's out

708
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 1: there that men just want sex all the time and

709
00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,279
Speaker 1: like they want to be touched by a woman. So

710
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: like there don't seem to be that many boundaries around it,

711
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: but like, I don't think that's probably actually true. That's

712
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,960
Speaker 1: just the message that I think it's put out a

713
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: lot of so women can get away with that kind

714
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: of stuff. Yeah, we it's um, we sort of have to, uh,

715
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 1: except being objectified. Yeah, remember that commercial. This is probably

716
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: a little old, but remember that like diet coke commercial

717
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 1: that was like the Sexy Gardener and all the women

718
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:30,439
Speaker 1: were like looking out their windows like being like no,

719
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: but I can imagine. It was just like there was

720
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 1: this really hot guy and it was like sweating and

721
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 1: drinking a diet coke. And I feel like if that

722
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: and it's look, it's it's happened obviously, like there were

723
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: there's always been sexy women in ads, but it was

724
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 1: like so clearly about just objectifying the sexy man that

725
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,880
Speaker 1: I feel like if that had happened the other way,

726
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,720
Speaker 1: it would have without it being like because they're there.

727
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: There have been like the Carl's Jr. Ads with like

728
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: the Kardashians in Paris Hilton, but like there was a

729
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 1: level there. There was a level of like they were

730
00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: in on the joke, and I guess you could say

731
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: that the male actor was too, but something about it

732
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: felt very different. That's interesting. I think women are so

733
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: constantly objectified, if I'm being honest, But it's like the

734
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 1: way that a woman feels like they're getting their power

735
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: back is to objective to all right back or no,

736
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: to objectified back. So it's like the Cardi B's and

737
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: the Megana Stallions of the world we've talked about, like

738
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,560
Speaker 1: that wop song. I think that is their way to

739
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: be like oh no, no, no no, no no, like you

740
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 1: get to thing about your big dicks all so here

741
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 1: we go and talk about how you need to go

742
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: down on me more right. Um So I don't know,

743
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 1: but I actually don't I think You're right in that

744
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 1: it's not really the right approach to to just like

745
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 1: reverse the behavior back to the other sex isn't necessarily

746
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,839
Speaker 1: the answer to us finding equal rights. It's just like

747
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: someone has to stop the behavior in Generally, no one

748
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 1: should be objectified, that's just the deal. But because women

749
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: have been objectified for so along and so consistently and

750
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,680
Speaker 1: on such a bigger scale, I think that it's like

751
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:06,759
Speaker 1: we're like, oh no, we'll do it back and it's

752
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 1: funny then versus insulting. I thought this one was really interesting.

753
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: Men can't be bisexual. Oh, it's such a double standard. Like,

754
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: you know, if a guy tells you that he's bisexual,

755
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,200
Speaker 1: you're like, that guy is gay. But if a girl

756
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: is like, oh, I hope tell with so many girls

757
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: in college, like, no one's like she's a lesbian. Most

758
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 1: of the the time guys think it's hot. Such a double standard. Yeah,

759
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 1: that is so truly believed that there are bisexual men

760
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 1: that like just like both, Yeah, they're just incredibly sexual.

761
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: I think that like the scale of sexuality is a

762
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 1: one to ten and like there are people that fall

763
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 1: at five. I actually I used to be very much

764
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: in the mindset of like a guy is not because

765
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 1: any heterosexual guy that I knew would be so turned

766
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: off by that, and so I was like bisexual. But

767
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,719
Speaker 1: now I like, I buy into the scale. I really do.

768
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 1: I think it's like it's it is. It's like everything else.

769
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 1: I mean, there's a skill for everything. I think autism, narcissism,

770
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 1: it's like and we can have little characteristics of each thing,

771
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 1: but you don't have to be full like narcissistic personality

772
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 1: is ordered to have some traits, you know, or whatever,

773
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 1: or more than another. This one's a good one. Being

774
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: a sugar baby. I want to know what you think

775
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: about this because it says that sugar babies sugar daddy relationship.

776
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: I mean, how many guys out there sponsored about older women? Actually, yeah,

777
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 1: I feel like that is that one's a little gray.

778
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: I feel like I think it's happening more and more now.

779
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,240
Speaker 1: And also like the whole idea of like the cougar,

780
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: you know, like it's that has become more accepted in

781
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 1: the world. Um. I also think too, like the world

782
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:49,480
Speaker 1: is even in our lifetime, like where women fall on

783
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: the level of like success, you know, more women were

784
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: leaving the home, like when I was a kid, a

785
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: lot of moms didn't work, and now I feel like

786
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: most kids moms work and a lot of them are

787
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: successful than the men. So the idea of sugar mom

788
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 1: is existing, is just more naturally going to be more prevalent, right,

789
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,799
Speaker 1: I think so. I was actually just looking to see

790
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: when this article was written, and it was two thousand seventeen,

791
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,839
Speaker 1: and I think there's been some changes. I really, because

792
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: then there's another one that says dating much younger people

793
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,120
Speaker 1: like date much younger men and not get called creepy,

794
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: Like women can do that. Um, but I think that

795
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,839
Speaker 1: there is a normalization happening with both or I don't know,

796
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: Like I just think I do think a lot of

797
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:34,080
Speaker 1: women are dating much younger men. Women they are in

798
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: their sexual prime later in life too, so when it

799
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: comes to the physicality of dating, it kind of makes sense. Yeah.

800
00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 1: Fat shaming. I think it's rotten that a woman can

801
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 1: make fun of a guy if, for example, they are overweight.

802
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 1: Do women do that? I mean, I think shitty people do.

803
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 1: I think that's just a bad I think, yeah, I

804
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 1: think if it happens, their friends are going to be

805
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 1: less likely to call them out. But like if a

806
00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: guy were like, look at that fat bitch, like, and

807
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 1: we're around other women like that would never fly? Yeah,

808
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: did a man write this article? I'm going back to

809
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 1: for Lorenzo, of course, because at the end he just says,

810
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 1: he says, well everything really, and he starts just listening,

811
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: and I'm like, okay, now we're done with you, Lorenzo. Anyway,

812
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,399
Speaker 1: I thought it was all really interesting. Um, I'm kind

813
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,479
Speaker 1: of glad to hear that you were not as far

814
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 1: on the chau and his side that I thought you

815
00:42:27,800 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 1: were at the bar. Yeah, I mean, there was no

816
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: way to argue my way out of it, so I

817
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 1: just let her have her pickleback pick. Yeah, those things

818
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 1: are disgusting, all right, Let's move to listener emails. This

819
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 1: one comes from Jessica. She says, I absolutely love the podcast,

820
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: and I think it's fun to do a little bit

821
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:46,680
Speaker 1: of everything and cover all sorts of topics. I think

822
00:42:46,719 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 1: it's great to do an episode maybe once a month,

823
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: heavy on the sex and dating, and then maybe another

824
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:53,839
Speaker 1: week where you deal with more current events stuff. Then

825
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,880
Speaker 1: maybe have an episode once a month where you do

826
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 1: interview somebody. I'd love to be interviewed. I've got some

827
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:02,759
Speaker 1: great stories. The latest one is where both of my

828
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 1: boyfriends found out about each other. That's a good one.

829
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 1: I hear all the complaints that you guys share on

830
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: the podcast, and I just think these people are complaining,

831
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: should really go that are complaining, should really go? Sit

832
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 1: on attack because like it's a podcast, Why are they

833
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:23,400
Speaker 1: such judgmental? Oh? Sit on attack because like it's a

834
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 1: it's a podcast. Why are they such judgmental bitches? Susan

835
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: she talking to you. Hey, Chip, this one actually came

836
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 1: from you forwarded me this a couple of weeks ago.

837
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: Do you remember this? This is when we talked about

838
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 1: your orgy stories. Um, and you say that people don't

839
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: write to you, So I'm just reading this one specifically

840
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 1: because this is directed at you. I know, Hey, Chip,

841
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: love you and Kelly. I never send messages like this,

842
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 1: but thank you so much for putting your orgy story

843
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 1: out there. I've never done it, but my husband and

844
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 1: I are more adventurous and do enjoy sex, and I

845
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,960
Speaker 1: get made fun of a lot for it, and it's

846
00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:59,080
Speaker 1: hard in our friend group. I'm a Christian and our

847
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 1: kids go to a Christi in school, but that doesn't

848
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 1: mean I don't like to have a good time in

849
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:05,120
Speaker 1: the bedroom. Thank you for making me feel a little

850
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: less self conscious for getting freaky. Also, please do meet

851
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 1: ups or a live podcast soon. I would love I

852
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: would so pay to come meet y'all. You have seriously

853
00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: been like two friends I don't even know through this pandemic.

854
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: I love it. She invited me to She invited us

855
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 1: to our house, and it's funny the talent she lives

856
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: and I actually drive through all my way home to Virginia.

857
00:44:26,160 --> 00:44:31,040
Speaker 1: So maybe a little stuff, a little cocktail hour. I

858
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: love that you made her feel more Um, are you

859
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: just normalize the topic? Are just by sharing your stories

860
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: she felt more comfortable. And it's funny because even for

861
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: me to like step out of my comforta to share

862
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,480
Speaker 1: that too, and it's like it made me feel more

863
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: normal just to say it. Yeah. So it's like, I

864
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 1: think the moral of that whole story is is like,

865
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,040
Speaker 1: just to own who you are, and anybody who thinks

866
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 1: that you're fucking freak, you don't need them in your life. Also,

867
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: don't you think it's interesting that when you start owning

868
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,319
Speaker 1: who you are and saying you're tooth out loud, a

869
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: lot of people are like, oh me too. I think

870
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: it's just like so normalised in our society not to

871
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: talk about the truth. And it's like, so do we

872
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 1: actually really even know anybody? You know? Like I had

873
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: a friend messaged me this morning and she told me

874
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 1: something and then she was like, don't tell anyone else,

875
00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: and I was thinking about I said to her, I'm like,

876
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: you're so smart because in our friend group, I tell

877
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: everything and so then everyone has an opinion on everything

878
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: in my life because I literally verbal vomit all the

879
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: details all the time, and it does kind of backfire

880
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,200
Speaker 1: on me when I'm like wavering on certain things or

881
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: not really sure where I stand because I'm getting too

882
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: many opinions. And so I was like, wow, you really

883
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: are smart. Now I started driving and I was like,

884
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 1: that's so interesting though, because do we really even know

885
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: our people? Yeah? I mean I think it's a It's

886
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: a really interesting point because it's like you want to

887
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 1: share who you are and you want people's feedback, but

888
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: you're also like don't want their opinion. Well, you know what,

889
00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,719
Speaker 1: they have to go live your life. There's the way

890
00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,799
Speaker 1: that works for you. But for like a person like me,

891
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: who I'm a big external validation, Like it's something I've

892
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: really had to work on in my adult life and

893
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 1: so to really to have that sometimes like I just

894
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,280
Speaker 1: need better boundaries. Like I'm we're both the opposite extremes,

895
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 1: me and this one friend that I'm talking about, and

896
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: so it's like maybe there's somewhere in the middle where

897
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 1: it's like you have boundaries about what you share and

898
00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 1: you're not verbal vomiting, but you're also not like hiding ship,

899
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:25,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's I mean, it's a

900
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 1: really like fine line to walk, truly. I'm so jealous

901
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:36,759
Speaker 1: of people that are like open books. Yeah, I mean,

902
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 1: I kind of just feel like I wish I could

903
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: be that something would see that's what happens is like

904
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 1: I'll do it. I tell everybody everything, and then I

905
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,760
Speaker 1: feel so much shame sometimes, especially if I like change

906
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: my mind right, because like when you're intense in the moment,

907
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: sometimes you're like like I'm such a feeler, you know.

908
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,760
Speaker 1: So I'm like I can either be like super fucking

909
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: angry or like sad, and then I got the next

910
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 1: day like I'm actually fine. Well, when I'm processing, sometimes

911
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:07,120
Speaker 1: it's like insane. I think that the where you need

912
00:47:07,680 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: like the way you need to think about it is

913
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 1: like you have to ask yourself if you really care

914
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,760
Speaker 1: about someone's opinion about something. Like I think it happens

915
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: a lot during breakups because like you'll be like, oh,

916
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,800
Speaker 1: this motherfucker, and then they're like, yeah, I've always hated

917
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: your boyfriend, hated your Like you can't take that back,

918
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:30,040
Speaker 1: You can't, that can't be unsaid. So I think in

919
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:33,240
Speaker 1: those moments, like they might not have hated your boyfriend,

920
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: but that's your friend protecting you of course, and everyone

921
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: in your life that loves you just wants you to

922
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:40,239
Speaker 1: be happy. So it's like, yeah, you just have to

923
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: be prepared to, like hear someone's opinion that it might

924
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: differ from mirrors, but you don't have to like let

925
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: that change how you feel. Yeah, that's a tough one.

926
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:51,320
Speaker 1: It's tough, all right. This one comes from Casey, Hey, Kelly,

927
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: and Chip listening to the latest episode of The Edge,

928
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 1: the piece about the weddings. I was feeling weird about

929
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:58,600
Speaker 1: doing our vows in front of a ton of people,

930
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 1: and my hobby is very shy. I we ended up

931
00:48:01,160 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: writing out everything we wanted to say and promised to

932
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: read each other in letters and promise to each other

933
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: in letters that we read the day of the wedding

934
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: in private and in front of the guests. We kept

935
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: it traditional with the do you do, you I do,

936
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 1: et cetera. That way, no one heard our private thoughts.

937
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 1: So that is just a comment because I felt the

938
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: apprehension of being in front of people and having them

939
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: judge me. That's actually brilliant. I love that. I mean,

940
00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:29,759
Speaker 1: think about like when you whether it's like something really

941
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: nice you want to say or something you really mean,

942
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:34,240
Speaker 1: it's so much easier to put it down on words

943
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: for me to write it. I feel like I would

944
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 1: really open my heart. I mean I'm also like I

945
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: just couldn't do that in front of a lot of people.

946
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: I would be so right, Like I would be inclined

947
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:46,320
Speaker 1: to make it funny, of course, to lighten the mood

948
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 1: for me. If you're more vulnerable, like less vulnerable, um,

949
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: and I would say, like, real ship. If I wrote

950
00:48:53,040 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: the letter, well, it's also sort of in line with

951
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: like it's it's very private, I would imagine how you

952
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 1: feel about each other. And so I mean, you know

953
00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 1: you could say something, but like it's a little more

954
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: sacred if you keep it between the two of you.

955
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I like it. This is from Chelsea. Hey,

956
00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: Kelly and Chip. I love the Edge podcast. You guys

957
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 1: crack my ass up. Your topics are for the fun peeps,

958
00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 1: and I love it. My daughters and I are coming

959
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: to Nashville and July and we plan to ride the

960
00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: Golden Dick. We get to find that by no, I'm

961
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: starting to worry that it's not real. Maybe it's not.

962
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:25,200
Speaker 1: We really need to look into it, you know. We

963
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: need to get out. Can't even google. You can't google it.

964
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 1: I can't what happens if you google Dick all my

965
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:36,080
Speaker 1: work computer solve? Oh my god? Okay, and hit We

966
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 1: plan to ride the Golden Dick and hit up the

967
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: Wild Beaver for some karaoke and bull riding action. I

968
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,520
Speaker 1: guess I should mention my daughters are adults anyway, keeping

969
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:49,560
Speaker 1: you imagine if dy with your kids God going on

970
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,239
Speaker 1: the Golden Dick, going to the Wild Beaver, that would

971
00:49:52,239 --> 00:49:55,879
Speaker 1: be a site. Oh my god. Anyway, you guys keep

972
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,439
Speaker 1: the stories coming to the Edge at Velvet's Edge dot com,

973
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 1: or you can sa it into my d m s

974
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: at Velvet's Edge. Chip is at chip dort spell it

975
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Speaker 1: for us. Just h I P D O R S H.

976
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: What are you miss beldro name? This morning I was

977
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: telling someone that your real name is Frank. Oh my god,

978
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: it is Frank. Adolf's quite theirring to it. Well, we

979
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 1: hope you guys enjoyed this episode. As you move into

980
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: your weekend, uh, I thought I was about to slide

981
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,880
Speaker 1: in so good. Really just like nail it. As you

982
00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 1: move into the weekend, Um, remember when you're living on

983
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 1: the edge to Oh no, you actually just messed up

984
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: when you're living on the edge. I hope you guys, Okay,

985
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: let's breep start over. When you're moving into your weekend.

986
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 1: You know this is Friday after all. I hope that

987
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: you guys are living on the edge and you always

988
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 1: remember to act casual. I really do have to write

989
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Speaker 1: a stack