1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Lincoln Sell Food halland Bellevue Fitness for foodies from carblooding 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: meat eaters to vegan and everything in between. We've got 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,799 Speaker 1: you covered. Grab a quick lunch or come for Happy 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Hour you'll leave craving more. Order online at Lincoln sah 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: dot com Rooking Jebels Second Date Update. We get emails 6 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: in from time to time for second ad updates with 7 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: people that know that they've made a mistake and they 8 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,680 Speaker 1: just want our help in fixing the situation because apparently 9 00:00:28,720 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 1: they can't do it themselves. And one of those people 10 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: is Sean, who's on the phone for a second ad 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: update today. And Sean, I guess, knows that he's screwed 12 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: up his first date and now he wants to be fixed. 13 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,520 Speaker 1: So Sean, how can how can I fix you? Right now? 14 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: You can fix me by helping me not be so stupid. Yeah, 15 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 1: that's I'm kind of stupid as well, So I don't 16 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: know if I can do that, Sean. So instead, why 17 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: don't you tell us a little bit about the girl 18 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: you want to call today for a second AD update 19 00:00:56,480 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: and we'll see if there's another way to fix you. 20 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: What's her name? Teresa? Teresa? All right? And Where did 21 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: you meet Teresa? We met I was just like randomly 22 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,960 Speaker 1: at a bar. We were out with our own friends 23 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,200 Speaker 1: and we were sitting near each other. We started talking, 24 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 1: really hit it off. I got our number, I asked 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: her out. She's generally excited to go on a date 26 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:19,320 Speaker 1: with this person she just met, so she I mean, 27 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: you had a lot of hope for your guys's first date, 28 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: or maybe high expectations, as high as you can right 29 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: when you're going on a first date. But like, I 30 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: was pretty excited, right and you say that, you know 31 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: how you know you screwed everything up. Yeah, I want 32 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 1: to hear about that in a second. But how was 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 1: the date? Overall? It was okay? So I picked her 34 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: up and she said she was just really in the 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,840 Speaker 1: move for Chinese food and there was a restaurant near 36 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: her place, and I said, yeah, that's awesome. We were 37 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: both really hungry, so we ordered a bunch of food, 38 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: and I swear it was like not even five minutes 39 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 1: and they started bringing out the food, so we barely 40 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: even had a chance to like have a real conversation, 41 00:01:57,360 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: because you know, once the food comes, like half of 42 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: your conversation. It was about the food and before we 43 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: knew it. We were done with dinner, so it was 44 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,280 Speaker 1: just quick, yeah, And I just expected it to go 45 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 1: longer than that, and so I didn't really have like 46 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: a backup plan, so you know, I just asked her 47 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: if she needed to go home right away, if she 48 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: wanted to keep hanging out, And I said, this might 49 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 1: sound weird, but my grandparents live real nearby. They've been 50 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: bugging me to come visit them. It was still early. 51 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: I said, would it be weird if you came with 52 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: me to like hang out with my grandparents? And she 53 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: was actually like so cool with it. She said she 54 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: loved hanging out with old people. But this is the 55 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:35,920 Speaker 1: part where it gets like not good and where I 56 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 1: screwed up. Yeah, So we're walking up to my grandparents 57 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: front door and like I'm about to ring the doorbell, 58 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, just like heads up, they might 59 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,359 Speaker 1: think that you're my serious girlfriend, so just like, don't 60 00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: be mad, just like help me out. And then before 61 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 1: I could even explain, my grandma opened the door. So 62 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,320 Speaker 1: did you tell them that she was your girlfriend? Or 63 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 1: you told them that you had a girlfriend and then 64 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: you show oh yeah, no, like a month before this, 65 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 1: they just went on my case about being single and 66 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: you know, they want grandkids, and I said, oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, 67 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: I'm dating somebody. She's really awesome. Okay, wait, hold up, shot, 68 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: was this whole thing planned just so that you could 69 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: prove no, no, no, no. Honestly, it really wasn't. As 70 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: it was happening, I was like, oh, this will like 71 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 1: hill two birds, one stone, you know. Okay, yeah, that's 72 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: a bad idea. So you asked her basically to pretend 73 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: to be your girlfriend for your grandparents. Yeah, I mean hindsight, 74 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 1: but you know, I thought if I could explain to her, 75 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:30,720 Speaker 1: she totally get it because she seemed cool. Yeah, but 76 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: you didn't even give her a chance to say no, 77 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: I don't want to participate because you were literally on 78 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: the doorstep waiting for the door to open when you 79 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: dropped that bombshell on her. No, that's totally true. So 80 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,200 Speaker 1: I forgot that. I told them that I had the 81 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 1: girlfriend in who we are like, they're ringing the doorbell, 82 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: and so I just kind of blurted it out because 83 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,080 Speaker 1: I didn't want her to be surprised by these two 84 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: old people. That's where you're stupid comes in. I feel like, yeah, 85 00:03:55,360 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: exactly after all that, How was the end of the date. Honestly, 86 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: I thought it was going really well. What did she 87 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: do when your grandparents, you know, assumed that it was 88 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: her girlfriend? How did she act? She totally went with it, 89 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: Like I thought, she was totally on my side. You know. 90 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: My grandparents of course started like talking me up, you know, 91 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: because as her grandparents do. For like over an hour, 92 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: we just had like a really nice time. She actually 93 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:24,400 Speaker 1: seemed to really enjoy hanging out with my grandparents. And 94 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:26,359 Speaker 1: like I said, she didn't blow my cover, so I 95 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 1: assumed that I was golden. So that's why you thought 96 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: it was going well? Yeah, okay, all right, So how 97 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: did it end with her? So bad? Yeah? So bad? 98 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: What happened that was so bad? The door closed behind 99 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: us and I went to like hold her hand, and 100 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: she said, don't touch me, don't talk to me, just 101 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: take me home. Whoa, Okay, So you really read that 102 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: situation wrong, that she was enjoying herself at your grandparents. Yeah, 103 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 1: she was definitely acting the part. So I thought that 104 00:04:57,440 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 1: she was like actually having of time and into it, 105 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: but she was not. She was just being nice in 106 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,919 Speaker 1: the moment. And then yeah, afterwards, it was obviously she 107 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,840 Speaker 1: was pissed. Have you talked to her since then? No. 108 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,559 Speaker 1: I tried to talk to her on the right back 109 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: to her place. I you know, I tried to explain 110 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,600 Speaker 1: to her, like why I did what I did. She 111 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: refused to talk to me, got out of the car, 112 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: slammed the door, and I mean that was like a 113 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: month ago, and she won't return my calls. I've been 114 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:26,719 Speaker 1: texting her, apologizing, like everything that I can do to 115 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 1: get her to just talk to me again. Like I said, 116 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 1: it's like I realized I was stupid, but I was 117 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: not trying to be like deceitful. Okay, So you basically 118 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 1: you need our help to give you an opportunity takes 119 00:05:37,960 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: to really explain yourself and apologize absolutely. Okay, all right, 120 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: well we'll do that. We'll play a song and then 121 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: come back and call her and get your second day update. Okay, okay, 122 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: all right, hang on looking jubil in the morning date 123 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: right in the middle of today's second day update. And 124 00:05:56,960 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us, I think we might have 125 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 1: found somebody who's a worse grandson than I am. My 126 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: grandpa died a few weeks ago. I didn't even know, 127 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: so that shows how bad of a grandson I am. 128 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: But Sean is giving me a run for my money 129 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us. Sean, when I was a 130 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: girl named Teresa, and he said they had a great 131 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 1: time and everything else, but dinner went really fast, so 132 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 1: he decided to stop by his grandparents' house because it 133 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,800 Speaker 1: was in the neighborhood. And then while he was at 134 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: the door, he remembered that he had told his grandparents 135 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: a lie and said that he had a serious girlfriend, 136 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: and then asked Teresa to play the role of his girlfriend, 137 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: which she did, but as soon as the date was over, 138 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 1: she was obviously very upset about that and hasn't talked 139 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: to him since. So, you know, Sean, you say that 140 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: you just remembered about that big lie you told your 141 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: grandparents while you're standing on the doorstep. But I even 142 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: have a hard time believe in you. It does feel 143 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 1: like it was a whole setup, the entire date, just 144 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:52,480 Speaker 1: so that you could fulfill this thing with your grandparents. No, 145 00:06:52,640 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, it totally seems like that. But 146 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to make a sound like I'm a 147 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: pathological liar, but like sometimes you're like you have to 148 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,159 Speaker 1: tell your parents or your grandparents things, and it's hard 149 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: to keep tracked because you don't want them to worry 150 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: about you, you know. Yeah, or just tell them the 151 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: truth or just tell the truth, and if they don't 152 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: like who you are, it'd be like, screw you, I'm 153 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: not talking to you. That's kind of what I did. 154 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: So anyway, Okay, so you'll lie and pretend that you're 155 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: somebody else, got it? Yeah, Well it's not working out 156 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: in your favor. But I'm gonna dial her phone number 157 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: right now and see if we can help you out. Okay, 158 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: thank you, guys, I really appreciate it. All right, here 159 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:38,760 Speaker 1: we go. Hello, I'm gonna speak to Teresa. Please, It's Terza, Teresa. 160 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:40,559 Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel 161 00:07:40,600 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who Jewel from Brook and Jewel in 162 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show, I'm guessing by the 163 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: who you haven't listened to it? No, I'm not familiar 164 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: with it. I'm sorry. Why are you calling me? I'm 165 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: calling you because we do a segment on our show. 166 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Update, and what that is 167 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: is where if you go out on a date with 168 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them back after 169 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: they can email us to get you on the phone 170 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: and ask what happened. So you went out on a 171 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: date with a dude named Sean recently who listens to 172 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 1: our show. Oh god, he emailed you. Yes, Sean emailed 173 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: and told us all about your date, even the fact 174 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: that he asked you to pretend to be his girlfriend 175 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: for his grandparents. Oh, he told you that, Yes he did. 176 00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: He admitted it, and he admits that that was a 177 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: big failure and he knows that that's why you're not 178 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 1: talking to him, and he was hoping that he could 179 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: maybe explain himself a little bit more. I don't know 180 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: that I want to talk to him. I mean, he's 181 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 1: a pretty dishonest guy, obviously, if you know the story. 182 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 1: So I don't really know what there is to talk about. 183 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: He didn't well, it wasn't an accident, but he didn't. Yeah, 184 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: that's kind of well. I mean he said that you 185 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 1: went along with a story and pretended to be his 186 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: girlfriend while you were at the grandparents and then as 187 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:56,160 Speaker 1: soon as you left, you like win, just cold on him. Yeah, 188 00:08:56,280 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: that's pretty accurate. I mean, I don't know what else 189 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: someone would expect if they're going to do something like that. 190 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: I mean, why did you go along with it? If 191 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: I was under the impression when we left the restaurant 192 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: that we were just going to like pop in and 193 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 1: say hi to them, like really quick, and he dropped 194 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: this bombshell on me about this lie that he's told 195 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:17,719 Speaker 1: him in like the minute or at the doors. It's 196 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 1: a super awkward situation. What am I supposed to do? Yeah, like, 197 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: are you going to blow him up? Right there in 198 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 1: front of his grandparents? And now it's even more awkward 199 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: than just suffering through it. By nature, I'm a really 200 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,959 Speaker 1: honest person, So I mean, it was one of the 201 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: worst things about it to me was just the ease 202 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: with which he lied to these people who loves him, 203 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: and not only that he could do it, that he 204 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: wanted someone he just met to participate in that lie 205 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,080 Speaker 1: with no account for my feelings. Yeah, yeah, that's a 206 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,960 Speaker 1: pretty heavy observation that you just made right there. So 207 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: I mean I just didn't have a good sense about 208 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: him as a person at all. Like, as soon as 209 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: that happened, I was like that he admits, he admits 210 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 1: that he screwed up, and he knows that that's why 211 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to him again. But he 212 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: was hoping that, you know, we could get you on 213 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: the phone and maybe explain things a little better. I 214 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: don't know that that's necessary. I mean, it was a 215 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: really frustrating date, and it was really it was disappointing 216 00:10:06,120 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: that I gotta tell you, like, it's actually in the end, 217 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: it was one of the best things that's happened to 218 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 1: me in a long time. I'm actually not sorry that 219 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: it happened, because really a really good thing has come 220 00:10:14,960 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: out of it. So you decided to just stop dating 221 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: in general, because everybody lies. Yeah, so you've given up dating. 222 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: I know. Actually what happened is like, after it went down, 223 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: I felt guilty about it for days, and I knew 224 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 1: when I was sitting there with these two just lovely 225 00:10:32,000 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: people that he's introducing me to, that I'm not being myself. 226 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 1: I'm looking them in the eye and lying to them 227 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:39,959 Speaker 1: and making something up. And it weighed on me and 228 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:42,960 Speaker 1: weighed on my conscience. So I went back to his grandparents' 229 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: house a few days later and I told them, it's like, 230 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: what happened. Of course you told them all. You told 231 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: them that you were pretending to be his girlfriend I did. 232 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: It came totally clean, and I was like, listen, if 233 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: you're upset with me, I completely understand. But it bothered 234 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: me to know that these two people with such generous 235 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: hearts to like welcome me in that. I was basically, 236 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: how do you know that they have such generous hearts 237 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: and everything else? I mean, their grandson is a liar, 238 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: and you know it tends to run in the family, 239 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: so maybe they're just as big of a liar. You know, 240 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: age doesn't have anything to do with the truth. No, no, no, no, 241 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,720 Speaker 1: you know what. I don't know why that particular apple 242 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 1: fells so far from the tree. But I had to 243 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 1: tell you. They were so kind and understanding. They let 244 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: me hang out. We chatted for hours. They've got this 245 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: beautiful love story. They met in Europe when they were 246 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: like sixteen and escape to the war. I mean, these 247 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,960 Speaker 1: are people who have like they get what's important in life, 248 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,680 Speaker 1: They get in love and try you know more about 249 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: his grandparents, and he knows about his grandparents. I actually, 250 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 1: you know, I don't have grandparents of my own, so 251 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 1: I've kind of adopted them, you know. I mean, that's 252 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,719 Speaker 1: something I've always wanted in my life, and so I've 253 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: been visiting them like every three or four days. You're 254 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 1: hanging out with his grandparents. That's so cute. That's weird, though, 255 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: you guys, if you met them, you would completely understand why. 256 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: And I told him I wasn't with him, and they 257 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: were like, don't worry. He doesn't say it's that much anyway. 258 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: You know, it would be very interested to hear that, Teresa. 259 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: Who well, Sean, of course, don't you think good luck? 260 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: I mean no, I'm not talking to him, so it 261 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:14,439 Speaker 1: doesn't matter. You kind of just told him though, because 262 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: he is actually on the other line listening and wants 263 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: to talk to you. Yeah, what, Sean, You're still there? Yes, 264 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 1: I'm here. Are you kidding me? No, I'm not kidding 265 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: you that they've told me like how little they've seen 266 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: and heard from you, and you lie to them you're 267 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: happy grandson. I don't know what else to tell you. 268 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: That's not true, not including Christmas. I've seen them at 269 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 1: least like two or three times this year. Wow, I've 270 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: seen them four times this week. You tool o day 271 00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: that I'm more of a daughter to them than you 272 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:52,120 Speaker 1: were a grandson, Like, I mean, you will lie to 273 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,719 Speaker 1: them they said to me. They're like, yeah, we don't. 274 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,839 Speaker 1: We don't trust him. He's lied to us about things before, 275 00:12:55,840 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: like your grades and stuff when you were in college, 276 00:12:57,760 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: and then they found out later about things they were 277 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,040 Speaker 1: on to you. You need to stop talking. I need 278 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 1: to get a word in here, please, so you can 279 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,160 Speaker 1: tell you any more lies you want, may be quiet 280 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,680 Speaker 1: so you can lie. Oh my god, Like shut up 281 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: for a second, because first of all, I can't believe 282 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: you're seeing my grandparents behind my back. That is messed up. 283 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: Like what, Sean, have you not talk to your grandparents 284 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: since you guys went on that date. No, I haven't, 285 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,839 Speaker 1: but I don't think that that matters. I will talk 286 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: to them. It's been a month. You don't tell me 287 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: when I talk to my grandparents already visit them. I 288 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 1: am a grown man. I'll do it when I want 289 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,959 Speaker 1: to do it. You're your grandparents want you to grow 290 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,680 Speaker 1: up and settle down. Like they said to me, they hope, 291 00:13:38,720 --> 00:13:40,959 Speaker 1: I mean you're not with me. They think I'm too 292 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 1: good for you. Okay, so that's not going to happen. 293 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: But they want you to meet someone nice. But they're like, 294 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 1: you know, he does need to meet someone at his 295 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: maturity level. Okay, I'll get right on that, Sean. I mean, 296 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: it sounds like they had already found out that you'd 297 00:13:55,880 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: lied to him in the past. It doesn't sound like 298 00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 1: that was really news to them. I feel like you 299 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 1: thought you were getting away with stuff that you weren't. 300 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: Are you guys on her side now too? Everyone tells 301 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: their grandparents who little white lives. It makes them happy. 302 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 1: I don't want them to worry about me. You're not 303 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 1: making them happy. You're disappointing them all the time. That 304 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: is not true. You know what, I forbid you from 305 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: seeing them. I forbid me to see them. They're my friends, 306 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: and you can't tell me who to be friends with 307 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: it and you can't tell them to who to be 308 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 1: friends like, hey, that is up to Morton Nancy who 309 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:31,360 Speaker 1: they want to hang out with. So you dare call 310 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: Nanna and pop up by their first names. You are 311 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: not their friends. You know what? You better watch that will, okay, 312 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 1: because let's see who's going to inherit it set. It 313 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: sounds like you made a big mistake trying to get 314 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,480 Speaker 1: Sus to play this game. She's taking over your family. Actually, 315 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: could you like brainwash them? Are you like just taking 316 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: advantage of two poor little old people who escaped the war. 317 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: I mean, I swear like it sounds to me like 318 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: you're just taking advantage of two old people for your 319 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:04,040 Speaker 1: her own personal fulfillment. Back Yeah, well you know that's 320 00:15:04,080 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: pretty emotionally fulfilling to them. They like being visited, okay. 321 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,720 Speaker 1: They like like when people come and treat them like 322 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: their family and that they matter and they're not just 323 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 1: like people who should be put out to pasture because 324 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 1: they're old and you're not interested. Wow, Sean, I don't 325 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: know if you want to argue with her anymore. Yeah, 326 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: She's She's winning. Teresa, would you like to go out 327 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: with Sean again on a second date? We'll pay for it. 328 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't even know Sean wants to go 329 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:29,000 Speaker 1: out at this point, but I don't know of a 330 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 1: way to wrap it up. Teresa, would you like to 331 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: go out with Sean? I would love it if you 332 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 1: would pay Sean to take his grandparents out for a 333 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: nice dinner somewhere, because that would mean a lot to them. 334 00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: Play Sean, Sean, what what do you want? I like, 335 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:48,800 Speaker 1: I like Teresa's idea, but instead I'm gonna pay for 336 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 1: Teresa to go out with your grandparents because I think 337 00:15:52,120 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 1: she's more important to them at this point. Sean, are 338 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 1: you kidding right? No? Not, congratulations Teresa. You're going to 339 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:02,120 Speaker 1: be delighted in Morton, Nance would be delighted. God you 340 00:16:02,200 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 1: think that now? Name broken Jupil in the morning.