1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of casual chaos. 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:07,840 Speaker 2: Easy Ken, Welcome to casual Oka host. 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 3: Thanks for having me. 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: I'm so exciting. 5 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: God Okay, guys, So we are live from the Verbo 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:17,800 Speaker 1: summer House in Lake Tahoe. Procrastinators rejoice, the early bird 7 00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: is not the only one. 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:20,240 Speaker 4: Who gets the worm. 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: Verbo offers last minute deals for private vacation rentals, which 10 00:00:24,680 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: is a plus. 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Is this your first time in Lake Tahoe. 27 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 3: I've been here once, but only for a wedding and 28 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 3: it's just like we're here for the wedding and left, 29 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 3: So it's my first time experiencing. 30 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 4: Yeah. 31 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 1: No, this is my first time in Lake Tahoe and 32 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 1: what a better way to be at this gorgeous house? 33 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 3: Right it's stunning. 34 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: So we're here at the almost famous pickleball tournament. What 35 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: would you say your level of pickleball skills are probably. 36 00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 5: Like a four out of set you honestly same. 37 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: I have so much fun playing with my boyfriend or 38 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 1: my friends. 39 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 4: It's definitely a fun activity, definitely. 40 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: And my dad lives in the Bahamas and there's pickleball 41 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: courts right outside of his apartment. 42 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 3: I love that. 43 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: So it's always a fun morning activity to do, just 44 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: to like if you're hungover. 45 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 3: I feel like it's a fun thing everyone can do. 46 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 4: Sweat out all the alcohol. 47 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: Yes, a little detos for sure, a little detox. So 48 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 1: how have you been enjoying like Tahoe so. 49 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 3: Far, I've been loving it. It's been such a great time, 50 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 3: and like meeting everyone that's here too, And you know, 51 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 3: we had a great time last night. 52 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 6: It was so funny. 53 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: I was at the house alone, so me and Daisy 54 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: are staying in the same Verbo rental. I was there first, 55 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: and I didn't know much information. I thought I was 56 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: staying in the house alone at first. 57 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 6: So I'm like walking around. 58 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 3: It's like out in the woods. 59 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god. 60 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: I'm texting my friends like I'm like in a cabin 61 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,239 Speaker 1: in the woods right now. 62 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:39,679 Speaker 6: I don't know what's going on. 63 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: And all of a sudden, I hear you knock on 64 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: the door. And then Daisy tells me that our lovely 65 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,760 Speaker 1: neighbors had informed her to please lock our doors at 66 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 1: night because the bears will come in. 67 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 3: I thought she was gonna be like, oh, like because 68 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 3: of people breaking in, but she was like, lock your 69 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 3: doors because otherwise the bears will come in. 70 00:02:56,280 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: I was like, uh, okay, thanks for information. I'm petrified 71 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: of bears. I also see way too many bears in 72 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: my development in Jersey. 73 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 3: So that shocks me that they're there. 74 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 5: I could have been okay without the Bears. Here at 75 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 5: the Bears. 76 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 2: Well, in our. 77 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 5: Kitchen, there's a label that says Bear Country. 78 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: Oh really Yeah, but I'm confused because like Lake Tahoe 79 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 1: is not a country, so it would. 80 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 6: Have it would have made a lot of bears. 81 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, it would have made total sense, like Bear County. 82 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,600 Speaker 5: I was like, I'm so confused, but yeah. 83 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 4: Lots of bears and bears. 84 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 1: So for some of you who don't know who Daisy is, 85 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: she is from Joey Grossidy's season of the Bachelor. 86 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 2: How was that experience? 87 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 3: I honestly, I had a great experience, and I'm really 88 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 3: thankful for that because I know not everybody can say that, 89 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: especially doing reality TV can go multiple ways. But I 90 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: had such a good experience and I loved all the 91 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 3: producers and the girls, so it was really like a 92 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 3: good time for me. 93 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I'm so happy to hear that. Thank you. 94 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: I also feel like America fell in love with you, 95 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: which is such an amazing thing because, like you said, 96 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 1: reality TV could go one or two ways. Your narrative 97 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: can definitely be shifted for sure, and it all goes 98 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: back to. 99 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 2: The editing room. 100 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel my friends, and I actually watched 101 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: your season religiously, like all my friends would come over. 102 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: We would watch it in my movie theater room, and 103 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,280 Speaker 1: we loved you and we're so happy that you know, 104 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: you were able to make such an amazing career outside 105 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: of the Bachelor. 106 00:04:30,360 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 5: I think your. 107 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: Book and you were able to. 108 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: For yourself again too, I know, and you rekindled an 109 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: old love I did. So, Yeah, Daisy found her love 110 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: not on the Bachelor, actually outside of the Bachelor side 111 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:48,000 Speaker 1: of the Bachelor, so yeah, tell us about him. 112 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:53,040 Speaker 3: So, yeah, that was fun. We met in college and 113 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 3: then dated for like a little under a year and 114 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 3: then broke up. We hadn't been together for like four 115 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 3: and a half years, and then after the show started 116 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 3: talking again and now we're back together. 117 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 2: I love so. 118 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 3: I think we both definitely grew up. I think when 119 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 3: you're like nineteen twenty, you're pretty young. I don't know 120 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 3: what's going on completely. 121 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: No, Also, boys take a little longer to make too. 122 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: We were talking about that yesterday and. 123 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 1: No, definitely, I mean, I've been with my boyfriend for 124 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 1: so long, but yeah, we've been together for six years. 125 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: I don't really at this point, just because we've been 126 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: together for so long. We did go through rough patches, 127 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 1: but I don't even count them at this point. 128 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, cause you're like, growing up and doing that 129 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 3: together is sometimes hard because you're still figuring out who 130 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 3: you are one hundred percent. 131 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: So we did break up for some time, but during 132 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: that time, I still thought that he was mine the 133 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 1: whole time. 134 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 4: So I'm like, it's fine. 135 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, this is just a period where we both 136 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: honestly needed to grow up. Yeah, and you know, I 137 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: experienced things. He went to go experience whatever, you know, 138 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,479 Speaker 1: he needed to get out. Yeah, we all just we 139 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: both learned throughout that experience and it was honestly the 140 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 1: best thing we've could have ever done. 141 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 2: For sure. 142 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 3: That's amazing. 143 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: You know. 144 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 5: I was really happy about that. But so the two 145 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 5: of you recently just moved to Las Vegas. 146 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 1: Yes, So why Vegas? Was that an easy decision for you? 147 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 3: So I've been in California for probably like the last 148 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: like six years, and I really liked it, but I 149 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 3: never loved it. And then when we got back together, 150 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 3: he's from Vegas, and so I love the way you 151 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 3: say that my Minnesota accent coming out some words, it 152 00:06:37,120 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 3: still hangs in there. But so then I decided to 153 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 3: move there because what I'm doing now I can kind 154 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 3: of do from wherever, So that's really nice, and I 155 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 3: have the ability to travel when like stuff like this 156 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 3: comes up. 157 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 2: So of course, yeah, do you. 158 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: Ever wish you were in a city that had more events? 159 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: Because does Las Vegas hold a lot of events for 160 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 1: influencers and. 161 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 2: Not as many? 162 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 3: There's definitely some and it's been fun because I get 163 00:07:01,200 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 3: to work with like things in Vegas too, which has 164 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 3: been fun. But there's definitely one that's yeah, yes, hopefully 165 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 3: I'll go to that soon. Yeah, but it's really close 166 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 3: to La So if I ever need to like fly 167 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 3: there for like a few days, I'll let go and 168 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 3: then stack up a bunch of events and do that. 169 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:19,679 Speaker 2: That's so smart. 170 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, So I like have that. 171 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: Flexibility too, So that's nice because definitely, no, there's not 172 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 3: as much as those in like New York and LA. 173 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 1: I mean, and honestly, with events, it's kind of just 174 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 1: a way for us to network and just make relationships 175 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 1: with other brands for that and form that connection definitely, 176 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: So I mean it's always nice just having that in 177 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: person connection. So it is for sure, put yes, putting 178 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: a face to the Yeah for sure. So you guys 179 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: are building a house in Las Vegas. Yeah, how has 180 00:07:51,400 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 1: that been? Who's taking the lead? 181 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 3: So I've never like built a house or anything, so honestly, 182 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: his mom helped us a lot pick out everything and 183 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 3: like the furniture and stuff, and then the walls are 184 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 3: still all completely blank. We want to like find art 185 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:05,520 Speaker 3: different places. 186 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 5: But this is so funny days he told me this last. 187 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 3: But I was like, arts expensive. 188 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 6: I was like, oh my god, it is. 189 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: If you go to some of these art galleries in 190 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,800 Speaker 1: New York City too, it's wild. 191 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 2: I just I feel like home goods. 192 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 4: Yes, and good. We love home goods. 193 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 5: We love home goods. Home goods will suffice. 194 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I was like, maybe I can try painting something. 195 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,760 Speaker 2: We can throw it at as. 196 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: Do any of his habits bother you, because I know 197 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: when you move in with somebody, you really find out 198 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 1: you know what you love or don't love about the person. 199 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: And moving in with someone they say it makes or 200 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: breaks a couple. 201 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: And sure even when they say, like even. 202 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 1: If you go on vacation, like with a friend for 203 00:08:54,760 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: a long period of time, yeah, like that after the vacation, 204 00:08:58,200 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: you'll know if. 205 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 3: You're long, like, yeah, if you're going to be like 206 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 3: friends forever ever exactly. I would say I was a 207 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 3: little nervous to move in because I'm messy, but I'm 208 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 3: clean and he is very like clean, like everything's always yeah, 209 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 3: like everything's always put away, which, honestly, I think it's 210 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 3: a blessing that he's that way and i'm not, because 211 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: usually I feel like it's the other way. Yeah, But 212 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 3: so I was more nervous about like me and my 213 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 3: mess is bothering him. But I've done a lot better 214 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 3: of like cleaning up and stuff, and it hasn't really 215 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 3: been an issue. But I would say that's been like 216 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 3: the only thing. And then I just have like so 217 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 3: much random stuff and like so much clothes, and like 218 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:38,640 Speaker 3: I need to like get rid of stuff and like 219 00:09:38,720 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 3: overcluttering it. 220 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 5: Are you guys living in the house now, Yes? 221 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I've been living in it since March, so 222 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 3: it's been a little bit. 223 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: I feel like the easiest thing is go section bisection. Yeah, 224 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: so if you haven't worn it in six months, you're probably. 225 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 6: Never gonna wear it again. 226 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,199 Speaker 3: To then toss it out, Yeah, Okay, I need to 227 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,000 Speaker 3: do that. I'm so bad at getting rid of clothes literally. 228 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 6: Sigh, no, I'm terrible. 229 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 1: So basically, in my basement I have a boutique. 230 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 2: Quite literally. 231 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: So I hired an organizing company to come in and 232 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 1: really like rework my closet. But at the same time, 233 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: a stylist that I work with came over and helped 234 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: me go through my clothes. And then recently my best 235 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 1: friend came over. She works in fashion. She came over 236 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 1: and helped me. 237 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 3: Okay, that's amazing. 238 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 5: It made a world of a difference. 239 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 1: Like there were things that they were grabbing and looking 240 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 1: at me like I had ten heads and I was like, okay, guys. 241 00:10:33,679 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 3: Like really, but I like it. 242 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is not that bad. 243 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: But I have over twenty bits in my basement of 244 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: just clothes that I've gotten rid of, and now I 245 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 1: upload my clothes to Poshmark and Curtsey. 246 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:48,160 Speaker 2: That's so smart. 247 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:51,320 Speaker 1: I just you know, I sell my clothes because half 248 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: the things have tags. 249 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 6: On them, half the things I've worn once yea. 250 00:10:55,360 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 4: And why not? 251 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: Like why am I going to get But it's so 252 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: smart because it's not even like Poschmark is just my 253 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: followers that are going. 254 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 3: Searching for random things. 255 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 5: A huge like a huge range of people that search 256 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:11,199 Speaker 5: your clothes. 257 00:11:11,240 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: So it's taking some time for the bins to go down, 258 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:16,480 Speaker 1: but but they're getting there. 259 00:11:16,960 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 6: They're going there. 260 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, if I'm selling like eight things a week, 261 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:22,319 Speaker 1: those are eight things leaving the. 262 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 5: Bins every week. 263 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:26,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I don't know when I when I move out, 264 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 1: my mom's probably gonna kill me. She'd be like, what 265 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 1: are you doing with this stuff? And I'm like, please 266 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:35,439 Speaker 1: just keep it here? Have you learned anything about yourself 267 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: since living together? 268 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,520 Speaker 3: I feel like we have like an interesting relationship when 269 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 3: we moved in together because freshman year of college we 270 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 3: were next door roommates. 271 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 5: In the dorm. 272 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 3: That's okay, and so like he had already seen me, 273 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: like a long time ago, back like my absolute like worst, 274 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 3: you know, and best, and so I'm like, I was like, 275 00:11:55,360 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 3: there's nothing you guys are comfortable, yeah, which was really nice. 276 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 5: Do I have separate bathrooms? 277 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 3: So we have a can joined like bathroom, but we 278 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 3: both have our own sinks? Yeah, and then we both 279 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 3: have or it's like mine's on one side and his 280 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 3: is on other sides, like our backs face each other, 281 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 3: and then there's like a bath in the middle, and 282 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 3: then we have separate toilets, which I like. 283 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:20,679 Speaker 1: Wait, so then you could like shut the door on 284 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: your toilet. 285 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh wait, I love that. So you designed that 286 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 4: no in the house. 287 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:28,199 Speaker 3: Well, when we were like modeling the house there, I 288 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 3: were like a couple of options, but that one had 289 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 3: two toilets. I was like, I've never seen this, but 290 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:32,760 Speaker 3: I like it. 291 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: I like it. 292 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 6: We can do our business separately. 293 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: Like when you go on vacation with your boyfriend for 294 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: the first time and you have to like go to 295 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 1: the bathroom. 296 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 3: I know, it's like, oh this, especially when you're like 297 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 3: not fully comfortable, fully comfortable. 298 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 299 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 1: Christian I first started talking my freshman year of college 300 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 1: and he goes, I want to go to Florida. 301 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 5: I was like, wait, is my mom gonna be okay 302 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 5: with this? 303 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 6: Is this boy like I've never done this in my life. 304 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: And I just went to Florida with him and I 305 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,200 Speaker 1: was terrified. I don't think I went to the bathroom 306 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:07,199 Speaker 1: the entire vacation. 307 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: I was terrified. It was like horrible. Yeah, I was like, 308 00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 4: this is too soon. 309 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 3: Everyone says that though, Like when me for three months 310 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 3: and he goes, let's go to Florida, Like, no, pump 311 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 3: the breaks, let me like got comfortable. 312 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 4: It wasn't fun, No, it was fun. 313 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:26,840 Speaker 5: I just didn't go to the bathroom. 314 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, building a home together in general is a big step, 315 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: moving in with your partner and everything like that. 316 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 5: How did you know that you were ready for this? 317 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: I don't know. 318 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 3: We just had a lot of conversations about it. And 319 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 3: we were spending like all the time we could together anyways, 320 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:45,079 Speaker 3: so like we'd be doing our work stuff, but then 321 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 3: we were together like every single weekend, yeah, or if 322 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 3: I could like work from Vegas or if he could 323 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 3: work from La Like we were always like trying to 324 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 3: be with each other, were. 325 00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 1: Doing longest yeah, which I feel like also made it 326 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: ten times harder and kind of probably. 327 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 3: And I had like a sit easy yeah, a room 328 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,920 Speaker 3: at his house that was just like filling up with 329 00:14:03,080 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 3: clothes and we were like, okay, I think it's die. 330 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love so I feel like we're doing. 331 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: Since that what makes it even more so you want 332 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:13,839 Speaker 1: the move to happen. 333 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 5: It's almost like you guys are playing hard to get 334 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 5: like all the ye and. 335 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 3: It's like it's sad, like say, like Sunday comes around 336 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:23,480 Speaker 3: and you have to like fly back to her like 337 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: spot alone. 338 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 4: It's like it's so depressed. 339 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 3: And then like this Sunday scaries are like way higher. 340 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,840 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, No, I feel like I would cry, right 341 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: sometimes I cry leaving Christian when I like go on 342 00:14:34,520 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 1: a work vacation because he's like, babe, it's okay, but 343 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: he even I'm not gonna lie. He's even Shedd's here 344 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: or two I'm going away for like four days. 345 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 2: It's concerning. 346 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: That's so I'm gonna make it back, okay. Yeah, but 347 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 1: I think it's just, you know, it's definitely an attachment 348 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,440 Speaker 1: thing too. Yeah, I just feel so comfortable with him, 349 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 1: and I'm sure you I felt the same way that 350 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 1: It's like you don't you never want to really. 351 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: Leave your partner, oh for sure. 352 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: Before reconnecting with Thor, was there ever a point in 353 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:12,479 Speaker 1: time where you regretted saying no to being the Bachelorette? 354 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 3: No, I never did, And I remember, I think because 355 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:19,640 Speaker 3: I like the feeling I had in my stomach about it, 356 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:25,080 Speaker 3: and like it was never like an exciting thing for me. 357 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,239 Speaker 3: It was almost just like anxiety. 358 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 2: Even though you had a good edit. What made you feel? 359 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 3: I think it's just no matter no matter how the 360 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 3: show goes or the edit, like it's a lot of pressure. 361 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 3: I think when that happens to you, and it happens 362 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 3: really fast, and I think at the end, I just 363 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 3: knew like this situation, like I went out on like 364 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,960 Speaker 3: a high note and I had a really great time 365 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 3: and a really great experience. And I remember my older 366 00:15:53,800 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 3: sister was like it, like you had such a great time, 367 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 3: Like why don't you just like walk away from it 368 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 3: now versus like getting back into it? 369 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:04,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 370 00:16:05,520 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 2: High, Yeah. 371 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 3: And I also I had like a crazy couple of 372 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 3: years before that I'd lost my hearing. I had just 373 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: got my cochlear implant, like a few months before I 374 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:16,160 Speaker 3: went on the show, So it was still I was 375 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 3: learning like a ton with that and a ton about 376 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 3: myself too, and so I knew, like it just what 377 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:25,520 Speaker 3: it didn't feel right for me to go right into 378 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 3: something else, Like I felt like I owed myself time 379 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 3: to like just kind of breathe and take a sec. 380 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,240 Speaker 3: And so no, I never have. And I remember when 381 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 3: they like announced it, I was wondering, I'm like, oh 382 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 3: am I going to be like sad, like knowing that 383 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 3: I said no, But like when they announced it, I 384 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 3: was like Okay, I feel really good, like this was 385 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 3: meant to be good. 386 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: I'm so happy for thank you because I feel like, 387 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 1: you know, it could be a mix of emotions, like 388 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 1: maybe you would regret it for a second, especially like 389 00:16:57,440 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 1: while seeing the announcement after. 390 00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 2: You do the tell all. 391 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like when they announced who the next. 392 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: Bachelora is going to be, in that moment, okay, maybe 393 00:17:07,960 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 1: there would be a little bit of I don't know, 394 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 1: I don't want to say it's like a jealous. 395 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 3: Feeling, but yeah, but like we are like wondering, like 396 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 3: what what have And that's why I was like worried 397 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 3: about too. And then I don't know, it just felt right, 398 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 3: which I was kind of shocked that it felt so right, 399 00:17:24,359 --> 00:17:24,880 Speaker 3: but I was. 400 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: Like, okay, fact that it did feel right. 401 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 6: You know that you made the right decision for sure. 402 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,679 Speaker 1: Who from your season of The Bachelor are you still 403 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: close with today and is there anyone. 404 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 2: That you do not talk to anymore? 405 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 3: I feel like all most of the girls that I 406 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 3: was like really close with on the show, I'm still 407 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 3: really close with. I would say I'm definitely closest with Rachel, 408 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 3: and then Autumn and Chrissa probably and Leah and Jess too. Also, 409 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 3: I would say, but I still talk to like majority 410 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 3: of the girls too that I was friends with on 411 00:17:58,560 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 3: the show. 412 00:17:58,960 --> 00:17:59,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 413 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: So yeah, so you really don't have bad blood with 414 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: anyone from show. 415 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 3: Definitely not. And I think also in our season, I mean, 416 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 3: there was a lot of conflict, but afterwards all the 417 00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 3: girls were kind of like everyone kind of moved past 418 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 3: it and was like yeah yeah. And also, like you said, 419 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 3: like edits and stuff can completely change everything, So I 420 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 3: think everyone kind of realized that too, because a lot 421 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 3: of the people, like mostly everyone that goes on the 422 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 3: Bachelor of the Bachelorette, they've never done reality TV or anything. 423 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 5: So it's such a shock. 424 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 425 00:18:35,080 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: So, like you, I've still shocked after next Gen and 426 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:42,120 Speaker 1: I've been on since I. 427 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 4: Was eight years old. The editing never gets easier. 428 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, so you like never know what it's going to be, 429 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:50,520 Speaker 3: and I think, yeah, just going into it, you never know. 430 00:18:50,680 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, for sure. What is your relationship like with 431 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: Joey currently? Do you still get to see Kelsey and 432 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 1: Joey from time to time? 433 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:08,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll like see each other at events and stuff, 434 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 3: and like we're all good. Everyone's like, everyone's happy that 435 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:17,200 Speaker 3: that ended obviously, and they're very happy there. I think 436 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:20,400 Speaker 3: they're great together. So yeah, so we see each other 437 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 3: like time to time and everything's. 438 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,919 Speaker 1: Good, but there's mantating a real relationship obviously. 439 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 4: I mean no, like that would be straight. We like 440 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 4: say hi and stuff. 441 00:19:33,359 --> 00:19:38,400 Speaker 3: But besides that, like no by God, to be by God. Yeah, 442 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 3: I think we all have a lot of respect for 443 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:40,400 Speaker 3: each other. 444 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 2: We're all kind of like, okay for. 445 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,480 Speaker 4: Show, We're all good. Yeah, definitely. 446 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,119 Speaker 1: Are you currently watching Bachelor in Paradise? If so, what 447 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:49,440 Speaker 1: are your feelings about it? 448 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 3: Yes, so I have been watching it. I didn't watch 449 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 3: the last episode because we were here last night. 450 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 1: Last night, I was actually just talking to one of 451 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: the Golden Bachelors. 452 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,160 Speaker 4: Okay, and it was Teresa. 453 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 3: Okay. 454 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 5: She was like, I'm so upset I'm missing the episode of. 455 00:20:07,400 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 2: A yeah, and I was like, yeah, I heard. 456 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,399 Speaker 1: It's a little crazy because they're mixing like the older 457 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: people with the younger people. And Teresa's like, yeah, I 458 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: just feel like there is kind of like an unspoken 459 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:24,360 Speaker 1: rule that you go for people that are your age 460 00:20:24,680 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: and respect that downtry level. And I was like, interesting, yeah, 461 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:32,600 Speaker 1: what if they want the older Yeah? 462 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 3: Now, people can go either way. I've been liking it though, 463 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 3: I love it. Jess is one of my good friends 464 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:41,720 Speaker 3: and she's been on it from like the beginning, so 465 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:45,280 Speaker 3: it's been really fun watching her. And then Leah just 466 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,960 Speaker 3: showed up too, So I'm excited to watch the last 467 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 3: night's episode and see them. 468 00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 5: Was Bachelor in Paradise something that you would ever consider? 469 00:20:53,320 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 3: Definitely, not just because I'm went thor of course, and 470 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,760 Speaker 3: I think they are together forever. So I don't think 471 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 3: I'll ever do like another a dating or I won't 472 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 3: ever do another dating reality TV show, But you ever. 473 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:05,320 Speaker 4: Think about doing it? 474 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: Maybe after the Bachelor when you didn't decide to be 475 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette. 476 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 3: I mean if at that time. I don't think right 477 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 3: after it, because at that time I was just like, 478 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 3: I was so like, okay, I need like a little 479 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 3: bit of a break, you know. But so I didn't 480 00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 3: really think about it, honestly. And they also didn't do 481 00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 3: Paradise that last year, like right when I was off 482 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 3: of it, so I was like pretty content where I 483 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,159 Speaker 3: was at. But then but yeah, so I'll never do 484 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 3: like another dating show, but I would do like a 485 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:42,200 Speaker 3: different reality TV show, you know what I mean and like. 486 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 2: Maybe I'll make an appearance on next trend. 487 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll come visit you. 488 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: Yeah please. 489 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 1: You tease in a recent TikTok that you just finished 490 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,200 Speaker 1: writing your second children's book. 491 00:21:55,560 --> 00:21:57,200 Speaker 4: How has that process of your. 492 00:21:57,160 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 5: Second book been going and what made you want to 493 00:21:59,560 --> 00:21:59,960 Speaker 5: write an. 494 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,239 Speaker 3: So I think my first one just seeing like the 495 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 3: feedback i'd wrote it before I went on the Bachelor, 496 00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 3: and yeah, and then when I was on the Bachelor, 497 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 3: it got kind of more exposed, which was really cool, 498 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 3: and it was fun just to see most of the 499 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:18,480 Speaker 3: people that reached out about it were like parents or kids, 500 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:21,119 Speaker 3: and parents would send me like pictures of their kids 501 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 3: with like cochlear implant. And I did some book signings 502 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 3: and kids would come and they'd be in a wheelchair 503 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 3: or they'd have a glass eye. So it was just 504 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 3: all these things that I didn't realize, you know, like 505 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 3: me having hearing loss can relate in other ways too, 506 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 3: and so I was kind of like I want to 507 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:40,639 Speaker 3: expand that and like keep doing it. 508 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 1: Well, I feel like you what children know, like it's 509 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:46,440 Speaker 1: okay to be a little different in your own way. 510 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, and you're always still accepted. 511 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,080 Speaker 5: And yeah, it was shit was really moving. 512 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:51,919 Speaker 2: Thank you. 513 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:53,679 Speaker 3: And I think the thing too is like I know 514 00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,959 Speaker 3: when I was getting it, I was like, oh, this 515 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 3: is going to make me like look different, like feel different, 516 00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 3: And it is a scary thing when you have something 517 00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,959 Speaker 3: that not everybody has. And so I feel like just 518 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 3: being that outlet if I can make them feel more seen, 519 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 3: because I know how that felt like, and you're kind. 520 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 2: Of going through that as a child too. 521 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 1: I feel like it's just all very difficult while even 522 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 1: going to school. 523 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 3: For sure, kids can be so mean too, so mean. 524 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 3: So yeah, so I just wanted to keep doing it. 525 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,720 Speaker 3: So it's been fun, still working on it, working with 526 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:31,680 Speaker 3: an illustrator, so getting it exactly, like fine tuning it 527 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 3: and everything. So I'm hoping before the new year it'll 528 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: be out. 529 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 2: Love that. Congratulations you. 530 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: What is next for you? Do you see you and 531 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: thora getting engaged anytime soon? And what would be your 532 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 1: ideal timeline? 533 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 3: I honestly, I don't think I really have an ideal timeline. 534 00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 3: I feel like when you put timelines on things, it's 535 00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:57,159 Speaker 3: just like for sure, stresses people out, you know, I mean. 536 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: The house is being finished, yeah, yeah, I feel like 537 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:02,480 Speaker 1: the next step is probably engagement. 538 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 2: But it's when the time comes. 539 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,119 Speaker 3: The time the time comes, so we'll see like not 540 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:11,240 Speaker 3: rushing at anything, you know. Yeah, and then like career wise, 541 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 3: I'm getting into a lot more public speaking. I love that, 542 00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 3: so that's really fun. So this fall I'm going to 543 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,080 Speaker 3: a few colleges and speaking. 544 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: So I even feel like if you went to elementary 545 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: schools and middle schools, it would. 546 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 6: Be pretty amazing. 547 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, even just reading your book to definitely like kids 548 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: in elementary school. 549 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like that would. 550 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 3: Be and I do that a lot, Like I'll go 551 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 3: in especially when I'm back in Minnesota. I'll like going 552 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,600 Speaker 3: to schools and I'll read to like kids from like 553 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 3: kindergarten to probably like third grade. 554 00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 2: I read to a. 555 00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 3: Lot, and usually there'll be like one kid in the 556 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 3: class that has like hearing aids or a cochlear implant. 557 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 3: So that's been really cool too. And then all the 558 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:51,640 Speaker 3: kids are like talking to them about it too, so 559 00:24:51,680 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 3: I feel like it makes them like more involved too, 560 00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 3: which is fun. So yeah, I really like doing that 561 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,240 Speaker 3: stuff because it makes me feel like perfect, i know, 562 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,880 Speaker 3: and like I'm doing something. 563 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,320 Speaker 5: Of course, so doing stuff like that is a lot 564 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 5: more rewarding. 565 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely, well, Daisy. 566 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 5: Thank you so much for coming on Casual Chaos. 567 00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 2: This is such a fun episode. 568 00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 3: Thank you for having met. 569 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,520 Speaker 2: With your second book. 570 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: Finishing your new home and hopefully an engagements. Thank you 571 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: so many amazing things to come, all the good things, 572 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: all the good things. 573 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 5: Thank you for having me