1 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:21,120 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Death starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi. 2 00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: Everyone left on The Mother Knows Death. Let's get started 3 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: with the story of the day. So right after we 4 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 1: wrapped our show last week, this news broke that the 5 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: CEO had been killed by who everybody was thinking was 6 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 1: like a hired assassin by the way it appeared on video. 7 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: And as of yesterday, they have identified the suspect in 8 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: this case. Now, yeah, so are you shocked by the 9 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: guy that they found who did this? I'm shocked because 10 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: it was a twenty six year old His name is 11 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 1: Luigi Mangioni. Now that his background's coming out and they've 12 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: identified him, it seems like he was this Ivy League student. 13 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: He was a valedictorian of a very good high school 14 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:04,720 Speaker 1: out of Baltimore, Maryland. He comes from this prominent real 15 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: estate family. He has a cousin that's a delegate in Maryland. 16 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:12,279 Speaker 1: So I think normally when we see attacks of this nature, 17 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: it is not somebody that fits this profile. I think 18 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:19,559 Speaker 1: the craziest part of this whole story, with social media 19 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: and especially finding out this guy's only twenty six years old. 20 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: He has this huge family, like this huge extended family. 21 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: He went to colleges at University of Penn and he 22 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: you know, he went to the school, so he has 23 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: tons of classmates. He had a job, like all this stuff. 24 00:01:36,840 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 1: So in theory, there's lots of people that know who 25 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:46,279 Speaker 1: this guy is. And a McDonald's worker in Altoona, Pa 26 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 1: or it was a patriot. I can't really get the 27 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: story straight because I'm hearing it was a worker, but 28 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: then I'm hearing it was a patron who told the 29 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:55,440 Speaker 1: worker to call nine one one whatever. Somebody at McDonald's 30 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: called nine one one and I'm and they basically said 31 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: that this guy looks like the guy that's in all 32 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: the videos and all of the photos that you're showing 33 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: on the news. So you mean to tell me that 34 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 1: a complete stranger from Altuna Pia recognized this guy from 35 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: pictures on the news. But no one that knows this 36 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: guy family with this guy. Nothing knew who this guy was. 37 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: It's just it just kind of it doesn't really pass 38 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: the smell test for me. Well, I'd argue that the 39 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: eyebrows one hundred percent sold him out, because i mean, 40 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: you know, we're Italian, so we have family members that 41 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: might be on the harrier side, but like most men 42 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: don't have eyebrows that thick and noticeable. So right, one 43 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,920 Speaker 1: of the things that's going around the internet, because I'm 44 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: always trying to just find out, like all of the 45 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: conspiracy theories that are going on with this as well, 46 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: is that people are showing photos, the original photos and 47 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: showing that that person didn't really have as much of 48 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 1: a unibrow as this guy does. So the one picture 49 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: that they showed from him getting in the cab at 50 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: first from the bus when he originally arrived to New York, 51 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: I feel like that really looks like him and his 52 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 1: thick eyebrows. But some of the other pictures they're showing 53 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 1: from like the survealance from Starbucks, I mean, I don't 54 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: know if the pictures are altered, but they're showing his 55 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: picture versus this person's picture from the Starbucks, and there's 56 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:22,639 Speaker 1: clearly a gap of skin between his eyebrows, whereas when 57 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: he was just picked up yesterday, he clearly has a 58 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: unibrow pretty much, right, And not to say when was that. 59 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 1: I mean, he's Italian and he could have plucked it 60 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 1: five days ago and that could be like full thickness 61 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: back again. 62 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 2: Right, So that's that's definitely a theory. 63 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: But I'm just curious about all this different stuff that's 64 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:45,119 Speaker 1: going online, especially because unless you're living under a rock, 65 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: you see that multiple people are for this guy who 66 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: killed the CEO of this healthcare company. In fact, Maria 67 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: and I were writing this up in the grossery room 68 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: yesterday in the morning because I was like, well, let's 69 00:03:57,880 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: just talk about it today in the grocery room because 70 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: everybody's really interested in this case, blah blah blah. And 71 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: then we were halfway through writing it when we saw 72 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:08,119 Speaker 1: that they caught the guy. So immediately when we got 73 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: the guy's name, and we have the breaking news on 74 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: our phone, so we got it pretty quickly. I went 75 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: on x and I looked up his name and they 76 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: hadn't deleted any of his social media accounts yet and 77 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: he had thirteen point nine one thousand followers, right, So 78 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:26,119 Speaker 1: then I set thirteen thousand followers, so I said, well, 79 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: does this guy have this many followers? Because then on 80 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 1: top of that, like, how did none of those people 81 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,160 Speaker 1: realize it? And then Maria was looking on her phone 82 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: and she's like, oh my god, he has fourteen thousand followers, 83 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,279 Speaker 1: and by the time we wrote our thing, which was 84 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: what time at night, like five o'clock at night, his 85 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: account had risen to over one hundred and twenty five 86 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 1: thousand followers. I feel like it was at like three 87 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: hundred thousand this morning. 88 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 2: I thought they got I thought. 89 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 1: They took his account, so they took his YouTube, and 90 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 1: they took his Facebook down, which I had also seen. 91 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 1: And this is maybe the first eye profile case ever 92 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: where Goodreads is being cited. I don't think a lot 93 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: of people understands that your Goodreads profile is public. I 94 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: made mine private because I am embarrassed by my reading choices. 95 00:05:13,760 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: But everybody was going through this with a fine tooth code. 96 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 1: Then they saw that this guy left a review for 97 00:05:19,760 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 1: Ted Kezinci's manifesto who is the Unibomber, So I think 98 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: it's really gonna be interesting. There was also a lot 99 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: of books about chronic pain and exercising and everything like that, 100 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: so I think you're gonna. 101 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 2: Really look into that. 102 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: I heard on the news this morning that he had 103 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 1: a back surgery a couple of months ago that was 104 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: related to a surfing accident he had, and after he 105 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: got the surgery, his parents were having a hard time 106 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: getting in communication with him, and they had actually reported 107 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 1: him missing at some point a couple weeks ago. So 108 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: I found that really interesting. Of course, the question everybody 109 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: has is how did nobody recognize this? 110 00:05:56,040 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 2: How do you not recognize somebody. 111 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: That looks you know, It's it's pretty obvious, Like I think, 112 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 1: as my mother, you would know just my eyeballs from pictures. 113 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:06,279 Speaker 2: What do you think? 114 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: But well, what's I mean? I think that this is 115 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm sorry, this is just so juicy. 116 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: I'm just so into this story. But when his mugshot 117 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: got posted yesterday, you just should read the comments underneath. 118 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 1: It's just like it's hard not to finding highly entertaining 119 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: like women being like where is he staying? I want 120 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: to get arrested to and be with him, and just 121 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: crazy things. I mean, you can't deny that he's He's 122 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 1: an attractive guy, you know, So it's really interesting. I 123 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 1: just think that just to see him gain hundreds of 124 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: thousands of followers in yesterday since his identity just obviously 125 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: is talking about the state of healthcare in this country 126 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: and how so many people are completely frustrated and with 127 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: it right, and you're seeing people say comments just as 128 00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:59,679 Speaker 1: terrible as that this guy should have been dead. Nobody 129 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 1: should to call them in. The person at McDonald's is 130 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: a class trader? Is that the word people are using 131 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: for even turning him in. Think about this, Even though 132 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 1: there's this huge percentage of people that agree with what 133 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: he did, you have to think, like, as a chronic 134 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: role follower, I'm thinking about the McDonald's employee that called police. 135 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: Would you rather let this person go or do you 136 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: want to get arrested for obstruction of justice or something? 137 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 1: Right knowing that this person was in the restaurant and 138 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: then them finding that out later and maybe that would 139 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: be a stray might have been the person, but yeah. 140 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: But you can't really get in trouble for that. I 141 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 2: don't think that. 142 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: I just think that the person was trying to do 143 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 1: the right thing because the person was plastered all over 144 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: the news and they're like, this guy's. 145 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 2: On the run, and I'm turning them in. 146 00:07:42,440 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: And there are plenty of people that think that he 147 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: still murdered someone and he didn't have the right to 148 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 1: do that, you know what I mean? 149 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 2: So I kind of understand both sides of it. 150 00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: Honestly, I'm not going to say people have valid points 151 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: with the health insurance. I've been of the them of 152 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,239 Speaker 1: it myself. I'm sure everybody in there, everybody's everybody has 153 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: and I'm really curious what's going to happen when this guy, 154 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: because he's arrested now and charged with what was it 155 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: like a couple counts of murder or something whatever he 156 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: got charged with, but he's going to eventually have a jury. 157 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: And I'd like you to find any people in the 158 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 1: world that don't have some kind of story that has 159 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 1: to do with health insurance. Now, for me, mine's not 160 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 1: that big of a deal. Like I have this chronic 161 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 1: rash on my face that I need cream for and 162 00:08:30,160 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: I have to pay eighty dollars a month for the 163 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: cream because they just won't cover it for whatever reason. 164 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 2: But that's not a life or death situation. 165 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: You have people that are getting life saving medications not covered, 166 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 1: people who are are getting seriously injured and dying because 167 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 1: they're not getting the coverage that they need for whatever 168 00:08:49,160 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: excuse there is. And I guess my whole argument with 169 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 1: it is that there's multiple people who are in management 170 00:08:56,600 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: positions or CEOs of companies or just organizations, either in 171 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 1: the private sector or the public sector, you could say 172 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: law enforcement, FEMA, fire departments, all this stuff. And the 173 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: higher up the chain you get, the more incentive there 174 00:09:12,480 --> 00:09:14,960 Speaker 1: is for you to do well with the budget and 175 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 1: not to go over budget and to stay under budget. 176 00:09:17,320 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 1: So that's how these people end up making more money. 177 00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes they get bonuses if they stay on under budget 178 00:09:22,320 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 1: and stuff. And you could really go if you're going 179 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:28,400 Speaker 1: to say that it's justified to kill this guy because 180 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,240 Speaker 1: he was making life or death decisions for people, well 181 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 1: you could say that across the board because I could 182 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: tell you examples from working in the hospital, which I'm 183 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: sure many nurses that are listening right now could also 184 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: speak to of cutting staff, cutting budgets, people not getting 185 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 1: the care that they should get and getting seriously sick 186 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: or dying as a result of that, because that happens 187 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,839 Speaker 1: every single day in hospitals as well. So then that 188 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: means that all of those CEOs need to die. And 189 00:09:57,240 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: like you, there's just like a point where you're like, 190 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: where do you t all the line that people are 191 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: doing this kind of vigilian How do you say. 192 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:07,520 Speaker 2: The word vigil agil Yeah, they're doing. 193 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 1: They're taking matters into their own hands. I hear a 194 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: lot of people saying, like, no one's listening to the 195 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: peaceful of protest. You kind of have to do something more. 196 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: But like, is this murder actually going to change anything. 197 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: I know that right after he got murdered something with 198 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 1: some anesthesia, Bill didn't get pasted or whatever they said 199 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: for right now just because it was really hot. But 200 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: like I guarantee this past five days that there's been 201 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: people who have been denied medications and denied procedures and 202 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:43,079 Speaker 1: denied everything. So if it was like as easy as okay, 203 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,160 Speaker 1: you take out this one guy and all of our 204 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:48,480 Speaker 1: life's problems are solved, I'd be way more supportive of it. 205 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: But like it's just to me, it's just like it's 206 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: not solving the problem. In fact, that dude was replaced 207 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 1: five minutes after he was pronounced dead by some other 208 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 1: guy that's going to do the same exact thing, you 209 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:01,599 Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, I think I think it 210 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: sent a message for sure, And I mean you have 211 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,199 Speaker 1: to think of which all the by the way message 212 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: it sent was we're taking these people's names off of 213 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: off of public view, and we're going to keep them 214 00:11:13,200 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 1: more anonymous so people can't find out who who's running 215 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: these places. Yeah, I mean it's not it's not changing 216 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:20,760 Speaker 1: the bottom line, it's just not. 217 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 2: I want to say. 218 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: Also, at the top of the show, we didn't really 219 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: explain like a lot of detail about this crime. But 220 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: I base all, you know all of this and who 221 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: knows what based on what my husband knows what's going 222 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: on in the news, and he knows every detail of 223 00:11:34,559 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: this case. 224 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 2: So if you don't know about this case at all, 225 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 2: you've truly been living under rock in my opinion. But 226 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:41,719 Speaker 2: I think you. 227 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 1: Know that just talent real quick for I mean, it's 228 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,640 Speaker 1: it's very simple. It's not it's it's nothing. 229 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: There. 230 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 1: There was a CEO for the biggest health insurance company 231 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 1: walking down the street and somebody came up to him 232 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,800 Speaker 1: and shot them at six and six forty five in 233 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: the morning in New York City. I mean, that's the 234 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: end of the story. And the crazy, the seest thing 235 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: is that you keep hearing like what could have been 236 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 1: his motive? And you're like, really, I think it's pretty 237 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 1: obvious what his motive was. It's one hundred percent obvious 238 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: what the motive was. I mean, I'm sure it's gonna 239 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: come out over the next couple of weeks or years 240 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: depending on his legal process. What was the exact like 241 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: thing that set him off? But you know, he had 242 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:24,280 Speaker 1: this manifesto on his body that apparently was calling out 243 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,559 Speaker 1: Corporate America and saying these healthcare companies were prioritizing profits 244 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: over care, which I think everybody living in the United 245 00:12:31,840 --> 00:12:34,680 Speaker 1: States can agree that that is a major problem we're 246 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: having right now. And then the bullet casings had the 247 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: writing on them. He left a backpack full of monopoly money. 248 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,360 Speaker 1: I mean, he was sending a clearest day message that 249 00:12:43,400 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: there is a problem. Like, it's not that ambiguous, you know. 250 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:50,240 Speaker 1: Another question I have is that he was found with 251 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 1: a three D printed ghost gun and with a suppressor. 252 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: And obviously the point of having a ghost gun is 253 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: so it can't be traced back to the person who 254 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,719 Speaker 1: used it. So typically if you were going to use 255 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,079 Speaker 1: something in a case like this, you would use it 256 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: and then like drop it in the alley because who cares, 257 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: It's never going to get traced back to you. So 258 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm curious as to why he kept it with him, Like, 259 00:13:13,200 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: what would be the point of that. Why wouldn't he 260 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: just use a I mean, I know other times people 261 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: use three D guns, are guns that are ghost guns 262 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: or three D printed or put together with parts spot 263 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: on the internet, just because maybe it wasn't possible for 264 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 1: him to legally purchase a firearm. So that's another way 265 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: that especially criminals get around getting guns. 266 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:35,680 Speaker 2: Is that they get these ghost guns. 267 00:13:35,960 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: But I don't see if he didn't have any kind 268 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: of criminal record, I don't see why he wouldn't have 269 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,959 Speaker 1: been able to legally obtain a firearm. 270 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 2: Well, there's that. 271 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: I think the main question is like how are people 272 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: able to three D print guns? That was completely a 273 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: mind blowing to me, And apparently this is like a 274 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 1: major problem. 275 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,559 Speaker 2: That's they sell the plans online. You just have to 276 00:13:58,600 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: have a three D printer. 277 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: I'm just so naive that I just never even thought 278 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: of it being possible. I don't know, like you could 279 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: argue maybe he didn't want to buy a gun because 280 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,960 Speaker 1: he didn't want anything tracking back to his identity. I mean, 281 00:14:13,040 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: for what we know as a public right now, it 282 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,080 Speaker 1: seems that they had absolutely no idea who this guy 283 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: was until they got this call about a lookalike. Right, 284 00:14:20,920 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: So it's I just can't I can't believe it. I 285 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 1: just can't believe it. With his picture was all over Instagram, 286 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: X YouTube, I saw it everywhere, Like I just I 287 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 1: can't believe that nobody knew who he was. 288 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,600 Speaker 2: I just can't wrap my brain around it. 289 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: So I think most people are comparing this to the 290 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 1: manhunt of the Boston bombing. Right. So, when I was 291 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 1: listening to an interview with an investigator that worked on 292 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 1: the Boston marathon bombing, they were saying that a lot 293 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: of you know, the guy's one of the brother's friends, 294 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: were like, that does look like him, but like, mentally, 295 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: you just can't accept that your friend or your loved 296 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: one would do so something like that. Or you know, 297 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: this guy's like majorly Italian, right, his name is Luigi. 298 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: I don't think Italian people are like wanting to rite 299 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 1: each other out, if I'm being perfectly honest. But no, 300 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: I understand that maybe from the family for sure, especially 301 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: because of the family we come from. I think that 302 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: that's how we grew up, and that's kind of a 303 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: you know, you never go against the family kind of 304 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 1: thing and all that. I get that, But like, he 305 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: just he just was well known around other places. He 306 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: had friends, he had college, he went to school here, 307 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: he lived like he was all over. He was in Philly, 308 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 1: he was in Honolulu, he was you know what I mean, Like, 309 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: I just think and and like he's the demographic of 310 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 1: kids that are online all the time, so they're like 311 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: the biggest social media crowd, right so I just think 312 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:50,400 Speaker 1: it's it's just it's just totally nuts. 313 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: Think about this though. 314 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:53,680 Speaker 1: So right now they think that he took a bus 315 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:57,080 Speaker 1: from New York to Philadelphia and then somehow got to Altuna. Right, 316 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: so think about us being in Philadelphia, which we live 317 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: five minutes away from, and walking down the street and 318 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: seeing this person. I feel like, truly in your mind 319 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 1: you would just be like that looks like that guy. 320 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 2: But no way, there's just no way. 321 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: I know what though, It's it's funny because you think 322 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: I think about that time sometimes. Like I'll be in 323 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 1: home goods, right and someone will come up to me 324 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:20,840 Speaker 1: and they'll say. 325 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,800 Speaker 2: Are you missus? Saying Jemmie from Instagram? And I'm like, 326 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 2: how the fuck do you recognize me? Like out just 327 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: like at a store right now, I have no makeup on. 328 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:32,400 Speaker 2: I'm just like slobbing around in here, like how do 329 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 2: you even know who I am? Right? 330 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: Well, this it's the same thing like, well, we met 331 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 1: Nancy Grace for example, right, Like I know that we 332 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:42,960 Speaker 1: were in the situation where she would have been, but 333 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: like if we saw her in real life, you'd be like, 334 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: that's her. Like you what, you look at these people 335 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: online or you look at these people on TV all 336 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 1: the time, you know who they are. You always think like, 337 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 1: would you recognize that person? 338 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: And you would? 339 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:59,040 Speaker 1: You know, it happened to me once, like remember Mark Summers, 340 00:16:59,080 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 1: that was from like and stuff like ye, Like, one 341 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:04,679 Speaker 1: day I just like walked into some deli at lunch 342 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,359 Speaker 1: and I knew that he had ties to Philly, but 343 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: just didn't even think he lived in Philly anymore. And 344 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 1: I walked in and I was like, oh my god, 345 00:17:09,680 --> 00:17:11,880 Speaker 1: that's Mark Summers. There's like, no way that's not him, 346 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's that just happened, so 347 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: you could recognize somebody like that, you know, and I 348 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: think that I guess they said he was acting suspicious 349 00:17:22,240 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 1: whatever that means. Well, no, so I got a further 350 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: clarification on that. So basically, when the call came in 351 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 1: from McDonald's and the cops got there, they went up 352 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,000 Speaker 1: to him and they were like were you in New 353 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:35,959 Speaker 1: York recently? And he started like physically shaking, and then 354 00:17:35,960 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: they were like, all right, show me your ID, and 355 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,560 Speaker 1: then he pulled out the same fake ID that was 356 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 1: on file at the hostel, which he had multiple fake IDs. 357 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: Why aren't you switching them out or getting rid of them? 358 00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: Why aren't you getting rid of the ghost gun? I mean, 359 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: I think he just made a million mistakes. I think 360 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:55,680 Speaker 1: Cheryl made an incredible point because he's getting a lot 361 00:17:55,680 --> 00:17:58,199 Speaker 1: of criticism for going to McDonald's and being out in 362 00:17:58,240 --> 00:17:59,000 Speaker 1: the public right. 363 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: But she said, even if this. 364 00:18:00,920 --> 00:18:04,719 Speaker 1: Is Cheryl McCollum you're talking about, yeah from Zone seven podcasts. 365 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: She made a post on Instagram yesterday saying that even 366 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 1: though somebody could really well plan out a crime, they 367 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: don't change their habits. And of course when they were 368 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 1: going through his Facebook page, they found a picture of 369 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 1: him as a teenager holding up a McDonald's box. So 370 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: you might think it's a comfort food. You have to 371 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: imagine the stress he's going through knowing he killed somebody, 372 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: and like every cop on the East Coast and maybe 373 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 1: the country has an eye out for him, and I 374 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: don't know, I just I did find it interesting that 375 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:34,720 Speaker 1: he didn't just stop real quick to get food, but 376 00:18:34,760 --> 00:18:37,480 Speaker 1: I mean, where was he staying? I guess the questions 377 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: that are left to be answered is a how did 378 00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: he know that CEO is going to be on that 379 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 1: block at that exact time? Well, that was an interesting 380 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: thing because I think that guy wasn't due to speak 381 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 1: until like eight o'clock in the morning, and he had 382 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: arrived almost an hour and a half prior, so that's 383 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: a question. And then he was on the phone right 384 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 1: before the shooting, and who was he talking to at 385 00:18:58,119 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: six point thirty in the morning. Yeah, and especially because 386 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: his parents, as far as we know right now, believed 387 00:19:04,600 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: him to be missing. So I think the family's compressing 388 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: for your could you imagine like your kid, you know, 389 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: being like a name, like our our last name, or 390 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: like a last name that's very It's not Smith, No, 391 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:21,719 Speaker 1: everybody knows you and your twenty cousins are connected to it. 392 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: I think, you know, it's a lot for them to process. 393 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of information to come out. 394 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: I think they're trying to still figure out how what 395 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: was it five days, five or six days he was gone? 396 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 2: So where was he in those five days? 397 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: Was he staying with somebody. Was he just like getting 398 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: off of a bus and sleeping in the woods, Like 399 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: what how did he get there undetected? 400 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:45,119 Speaker 2: I don't know. 401 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: But we could talk about this all day, and we 402 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 1: have some other juicy things happening, So let's get into 403 00:19:51,160 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: celebrity news, all right. John lethcow So I believe you 404 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: know him probably most from being the iconic serial killer 405 00:19:58,720 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: on Dexter. 406 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 2: It was definitely I know him best from Harry and 407 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 2: the Hendersons. 408 00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: Okay, that was like my that was like my childhood, 409 00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 1: for my childhood, yea, for my childhood. He was the 410 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 1: voice of Lord Farquad in Trek. Oh. Yeah, and he's 411 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,439 Speaker 1: also on this incredible show called The Old Man that 412 00:20:17,480 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: I watch right now. So he shared how the death 413 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: of his friend has made him more comfortable with his 414 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 1: own death. And he's saying he hopes for a quote, 415 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:27,679 Speaker 1: good ending that quote no one grieves over. Yeah, they 416 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: didn't really say much. Hey, Apparently he's had three cancers 417 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: in his life. The first was in nineteen eighty eight, 418 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: which seems like it was a melanoma that he had 419 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:38,960 Speaker 1: removed and didn't reoccur. And then in two thousand and four, 420 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: he was diagnosed with prostate cancer again. Seems like they 421 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,119 Speaker 1: took care of that, but then recently he said he 422 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: was diagnosed with cancer again, and they didn't really explain 423 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:50,479 Speaker 1: that either. I think because the melanoma was in nineteen 424 00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,359 Speaker 1: eighty eight, which was such a long time ago, and 425 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:55,000 Speaker 1: even two thousand and four, which was twenty years ago. 426 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 1: With the prostate cancer, I think it's highly unlikely that 427 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: one of those cancer reoccurred, so it's probably a new 428 00:21:03,880 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: primary of some sort. 429 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 2: So it sucks. 430 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 1: I mean he I mean, he was almost eighty seventy 431 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 1: nine and he's he was like I think he's like 432 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: a pretty well liked person in. 433 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 2: Hollywood, right, Yeah. I doesn't have any like drama associated 434 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:18,440 Speaker 2: with him. 435 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,880 Speaker 1: No. I also feel like he lives close to us. 436 00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,879 Speaker 1: I think he lives in like Delaware or something, oh real, 437 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 1: which is interesting. I feel like I could be wrong. 438 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 1: I feel like when Dexter was out, I had a 439 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 1: family friend on my dad's side that said he would 440 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 1: go to the gym and he would just be there 441 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: working out, and he's like I just watched him like 442 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: murder somebody on TV last night, and he's just like 443 00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 1: this nice guy at the gym that works out next 444 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 1: to me. 445 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 2: God, Dexter was so good. 446 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 1: That was I feel like that's when Dexter just like 447 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,480 Speaker 1: wasn't good anymore as soon as he killed that lady 448 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:51,800 Speaker 1: Rita was her name. 449 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just I just was like it just like, 450 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 2: I don't know, it went downhill from there. That was shocking. 451 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 2: But okay, okay, let's talk. 452 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: Let's talk about the biggest juicy celebrity story this week. 453 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 454 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,320 Speaker 1: So in October, the civil lawsuit had been filed by 455 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 1: a Jane Doe claiming that Diddy raped her in two 456 00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,720 Speaker 1: thousand when she was just thirteen years old. So now 457 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 1: the suit's been amended to include Jay Z and the 458 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: sexual assault. Basically, they're saying what happened is that MTV 459 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,320 Speaker 1: was hosting the VMAs in New York in two thousand 460 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: and this thirteen year old really wanted to go and 461 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 1: didn't have a ticket, and she really wanted to go 462 00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,359 Speaker 1: to an after party and couldn't figure out how to 463 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: get in, So she started going up to the limo 464 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 1: drivers and asking them if they could bring her to 465 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 1: a party. So when she gets up to one of them, 466 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: who ended up being Ditty's limo driver. He basically said 467 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: something along the lines of you're exactly what he would 468 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,920 Speaker 1: be looking for, which is disgusting. 469 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 470 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,760 Speaker 1: So then this limo driver, who I also think should 471 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,240 Speaker 1: be liable in this case if they could figure out 472 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: who it is, brings her to this party. She's given 473 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 1: a piece of paper to sign, which she said at 474 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,200 Speaker 1: the time she believed was an ending, which is common 475 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 1: when you're going in celebrity spaces. And she was also 476 00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: given a drink which made her really woozy. So at 477 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 1: this party she went to lay down because she was 478 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 1: feeling weird from the drink, and at that time, she 479 00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 1: said that's when jay Z and Diddy entered the room 480 00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,760 Speaker 1: she was in, and the suit is alleging that jay 481 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: Z took her clothes off and raped her while Ditty 482 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: and an unnamed female celebrity watched, and then when Ditty 483 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 1: came up to her was trying to receive oral sex 484 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,760 Speaker 1: from her, she was able to hit him, grab her clothes, 485 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 1: run out, and call her. 486 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 2: Dad at a gas station. 487 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 1: So, is there any other information that she told anyone 488 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,199 Speaker 1: about this when it happened, or like, what makes her 489 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,920 Speaker 1: come out right now with this story because it's twenty 490 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: whole years later. Well, I'm on four year. It was 491 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:46,919 Speaker 1: two thousand. 492 00:23:47,760 --> 00:23:49,080 Speaker 2: At the time this happened. 493 00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 1: Both of them, jay Z and Diddy were in prime, 494 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: in the prime of their careers. So I don't know 495 00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 1: if it was a situation where she was too scared 496 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: or maybe she didn't tell her dad would happen because 497 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: she was embarrassed and she thought she was going to 498 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 1: get in trouble with her parents. I know that happens 499 00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 1: a lot with children that are molested, is that they're 500 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 1: scared about what's going to happen to them. You know, 501 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 1: she's saying she called her dad. I think more details 502 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: about that are going to come out in court, not 503 00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:22,359 Speaker 1: just in these preliminary court dogs and jay Z's team 504 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: is basically saying that they're trying to blackmail him. Well, 505 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,919 Speaker 1: the reason that I ask is not because there's a 506 00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 1: reason that people can't wait, because obviously people have lots 507 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: of different excuses why they wait so long. I just 508 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 1: I'm more curious that if this ever goes to court, 509 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,639 Speaker 1: if you know, they would be able to, like you know, 510 00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 1: with the Menendez case, that they're able to go back 511 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: and be like, oh, these couple things happened when they 512 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 1: were younger, that we could prove that these allegations may 513 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: indeed be true. That's all I'm trying to say. You're 514 00:24:56,040 --> 00:25:01,159 Speaker 1: in a situation where you're you. I mean, like the 515 00:25:01,240 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: Diddy thing is is like, there's just no way that 516 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:08,399 Speaker 1: he's the only one that was in on this. He 517 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: was having these crazy parties and like they were living 518 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: this rock star lifestyle kind of. But at the same time, 519 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,160 Speaker 1: a lot of these these people that have a lot 520 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,639 Speaker 1: of money are now going to be targets for people, 521 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: for anybody that ever associated with any of them, because 522 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 1: because they have money, and that could just be that 523 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: could just be a thing. So you can't automatically just 524 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 1: jump to it. But does does jay Z ever have 525 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 1: any kind of allegations like this against him? Besides this 526 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: one particular case that just came up. I don't we know, 527 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 1: Beyonce sister beat the shit out of him once, right, 528 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: which is, well, yeah, I said that to you because 529 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 1: I found it interesting, and there is you know, there 530 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: is a lot of speculation a couple of years ago 531 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: that he had an affair and then she wrote her 532 00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,920 Speaker 1: album Lemonade, which was kind of like just bashing him. 533 00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: And I'm like, really good on her for, you know, 534 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: embarrassing the shit out of him, but again, she decided 535 00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: to stay with him. I think right now, you know 536 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 1: their oldest daughter is around this age, she's twelve years old. 537 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: I think you really have to look at that and 538 00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,919 Speaker 1: look at this and just you know, really evaluate it 539 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 1: like that, because I'm like, even if the girl lied 540 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,359 Speaker 1: and said she was eighteen years old or of whatever, 541 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: the consenting ages in New York, you can tell when 542 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: somebody's thirteen versus being older, right, Oh, yeah, totally so. 543 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:33,880 Speaker 1: And he's facing a lot of criticism because the three 544 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,160 Speaker 1: of them, meaning Beyonce, jay Z and their daughter went 545 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,720 Speaker 1: to some movie premiere like last night. 546 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: Or the night before. 547 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: I saw that, and I was kind of shocked. I 548 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: thought it was very coincidental when this lawsuit was dropped. 549 00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 1: And I actually think it's kind of I don't know 550 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 1: the whole story because I'm like, don't really care about 551 00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: their lives. But this was the third daughter, what's her name, 552 00:26:56,280 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: Blue Ivy or Ivy. She was in this Lion King 553 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 1: Mufasa movie. Right, I don't know if she's in it 554 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: my family, so I think she's in it. And and 555 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 1: like that's the thing, Like it was dropped right before 556 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,840 Speaker 1: like her big moment, and I think that that's kind 557 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,080 Speaker 1: of not cool. And I don't know, like what are 558 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 1: her parents not going to go to the premiere of 559 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:22,640 Speaker 1: her her big debut like that, you know what I mean? 560 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: Like it especially, what are they because if they didn't go, 561 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: there would be lots to talk too, Like they're kind 562 00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:29,919 Speaker 1: of in a shitty place. 563 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 2: What are you going to do the kids? 564 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,400 Speaker 1: Even though the kid's wearing a dress that shows are cleavage, 565 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: which is kind of weird for a twelve year old. Honestly, Wait, 566 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: like the kid's twelve years old, Like my kid's twelve 567 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,120 Speaker 1: years old. She like needs her mommy and daddy there, 568 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: like she's a child, you know what I mean? So 569 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:49,120 Speaker 1: what was she going to go to this premiere by herself? 570 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 1: Like no, it just would be weird. 571 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,800 Speaker 2: So I don't I. 572 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 1: Guess a lot of I guess a lot of people 573 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,199 Speaker 1: don't understand because when you want to look at it 574 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 1: from a celebrity point of view, it's like you just 575 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 1: got slapped with this lawsuit, whether it's true or not 576 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: that you did this. It's in the news and it's 577 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:07,360 Speaker 1: everywhere and some people are gonna think you're guilty even 578 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 1: though you haven't been convicted. Right, So, I think it 579 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 1: seems impoor taste that he went. But when you put 580 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 1: it in the perspective of a parent that's just trying 581 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 1: to be there, we supportive for their daughter. Yeah, I 582 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: think most parents are going to understand that. I mean 583 00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 1: I saw the pictures of her on the red carpet, 584 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,600 Speaker 1: and I felt terrible for her because she looks I mean, 585 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,159 Speaker 1: obviously she's probably just scared because she's standing there and 586 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,240 Speaker 1: millions of people are taking pictures of her and stuff. 587 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,199 Speaker 1: But I'm just like, she knows what's going on, you 588 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,919 Speaker 1: know what. I'm like, I can't even I like, I 589 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: want to throw up even thinking about, like talking about 590 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: my dad having sex with somebody that was my age 591 00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,280 Speaker 1: when I was thirteen years old or whatever. Like, it's 592 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: just it's just disturbing how these people live, honestly, So 593 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,120 Speaker 1: that right there was like I just I felt bad 594 00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,560 Speaker 1: for her because I was like, this is like her 595 00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: moment and it's getting overshadowed by all this bullshit. One 596 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: important thing I saw an article yesterday was that apparently 597 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 1: so jay Z is like way older than Beyonce. He's 598 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: she he's fifty five and she's I don't know how 599 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 1: old she is, she's in her forties, Yeah, but he's 600 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 1: he's significantly older than her, and I guess there's they 601 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:16,160 Speaker 1: They supposedly didn't start dating until she was nineteen, but 602 00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: there's like photos of him backstage with her when she 603 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: was sixteen around the same time. So, so do you 604 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,400 Speaker 1: understand what I'm saying, Like they're saying like he's backstage 605 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 1: with her when she was sixteen, and he was making 606 00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: comments like, oh, she's gonna be mine one day, and 607 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 1: he was like twenty eight. 608 00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: And I think and like to think. 609 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: That he was a that he could have been involved 610 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: with a thirteen year old that was only three years 611 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: younger than her at the time. 612 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 2: Is not. 613 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: It's not unli It's not unlikely, but a lot of 614 00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: men would say that. No, there is a distinction between 615 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 1: thirteen and sixteen, obviously, But I think that happened with 616 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: Celine Dion that her agent, Oh yeah, that was she's 617 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,280 Speaker 1: really young. 618 00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:00,760 Speaker 2: Oh yes, like thirteen, you know, she was. 619 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 1: Like like a little No, I think she was like 620 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: actually a little kid. 621 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 2: And then they ended up getting married when she was 622 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 2: of age. 623 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,920 Speaker 1: But that and nobody really talks about that, like that's 624 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: that's like a whole other I think he died. So 625 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,479 Speaker 1: I don't know a lot of people are thinking about it, 626 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: but like it happens. I know a lot of people 627 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: were like, this is weird she was she wasn't. I 628 00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 1: don't even think she was a teenager. I think she 629 00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:26,600 Speaker 1: was like a little girl when he started being her manager. 630 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: And that's what really bothered people about that. But any anyway, 631 00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: Like so, so the questions are is that he's the 632 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,600 Speaker 1: named male celebrity. I don't know why there's an unnamed 633 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,360 Speaker 1: female celebrity. If you're naming Diddy and you're naming jay Z, 634 00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: why is the female unnamed? Well, and there's been speculation 635 00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:49,360 Speaker 1: that it's Beyonce online, but she has not been named. 636 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: This also happened in two thousand. 637 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 2: She apparently around that time she was like sixteen, Well 638 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:56,480 Speaker 2: could that be right? 639 00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,320 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know how old were you in 640 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:04,160 Speaker 1: two thousand? In two thousand, I was five, about to 641 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:07,840 Speaker 1: turn six at the end of two thousand. Yeah, So 642 00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,320 Speaker 1: in so, I don't think she can't say was sixteen 643 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,280 Speaker 1: in two thousand. I think she's your age, so she 644 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: was probably in her early twenties regardless beyondest in two thousand, 645 00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: I was like, I was like nineteen or twenty, so 646 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, but I'm forty five. I think that 647 00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 1: she if she's forty, that would completely make sense that 648 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 1: she was sixteen. 649 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 2: I'm looking it up. 650 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: She's forty three, So in two thousand she would have 651 00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: been nineteen. 652 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 2: Okay, so that's when. So then that's when she started 653 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 2: dating him. No, so she did it. 654 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: They did not publicly start dating until two thousand and one, 655 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 1: and this happened in two thousand. Also, like it could 656 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 1: have been somebody did he was dating? 657 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 2: You don't know? 658 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 1: So it's like, well I saw that he was dating 659 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: so jay Z at the time was dating Aliyah. 660 00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 2: There was one other one that I forget that. I 661 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,520 Speaker 2: was like, oh she's still yeah. I mean, who was 662 00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 2: Diddy dating at that time? Was it Ja Lo? Curious? 663 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 1: Well, he was dating j Loo when he shot that 664 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: woman at the night club, So when did that happen? 665 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,240 Speaker 1: This was like all around the same time, wasn't It 666 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: was all around the same time, like late nineties, early 667 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,280 Speaker 1: two thousands. 668 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:16,840 Speaker 2: Interesting. 669 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 1: It's just such a hot mess. I mean, I really 670 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: I heard this term earlier. 671 00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 2: I'm going to reuse it. 672 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,200 Speaker 1: I hope we don't get Epstein in this case where 673 00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:26,240 Speaker 1: we like don't ever get the list of people. Oh, 674 00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:28,480 Speaker 1: I think I think that list is coming out. So 675 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: I think I think a lot of stuff's going to 676 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: start unraveling this year, and I'm very interested to watch. 677 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: All right, So, well, if we hear anything else about 678 00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: like obviously more stuff's going to be coming out about 679 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: the the Brian Thompson murder, but like we're not going 680 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: to just talk about it all the time unless it's 681 00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: like other stuff, because I want to wait until the 682 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:49,520 Speaker 1: trial to really get in on it. 683 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,000 Speaker 2: But yeah, for sure. Okay. 684 00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: So apparently in South America there's this traditional spiritual cleanse 685 00:32:56,160 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 1: where people will ingest poisonous Amazonian Frau venom. I guess 686 00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: they use it as this toxic cleansing method. So this 687 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:08,960 Speaker 1: Mexican actress, her name was Marcella Alcazar Rodriguez, was doing 688 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:09,479 Speaker 1: the cleanse. 689 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 2: She willingly consumed the venom and then. 690 00:33:11,920 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 1: Immediately became very sick, having diarrhea, throwing up, and then 691 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: she died. 692 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 2: So I look this up. 693 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:21,680 Speaker 1: It's called cambo and it's a South American healing ritual 694 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 1: from and they take venom from a giant monkey frog, 695 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:29,640 Speaker 1: which is called a philo medusa bicolor. All of the 696 00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: stuff I looked up said that these indigenous people put 697 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: burns on people and form a blister and then basically 698 00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 1: pop the blister and put the venom inside of this blister. 699 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: So they put it on like more topical, and then 700 00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: the venom goes into their body and it does like 701 00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:50,040 Speaker 1: the theory is it's supposed to like cleanse. 702 00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 2: Their body out right. 703 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: I didn't see anything about supposed to you're supposed to 704 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: eat it, so that could be. I don't know if 705 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,120 Speaker 1: people do that or whatever, but that doesn't seem to 706 00:33:59,960 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: be part of this ritual. Even people that get it 707 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,240 Speaker 1: done with the burns and everything could have symptoms for 708 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: five minutes to a half hour afterwards, which include nausea, vomiting, 709 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 1: and stuff like that, but people usually don't die from it, 710 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:17,720 Speaker 1: although it has been linked to toxic hepatitis and organ failure, 711 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: which clearly happened in this case with her. Well, it 712 00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: appears that there's a shaman that was involved and they're 713 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 1: under investigation, so I don't know if they incorrectly told 714 00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:30,759 Speaker 1: this actress what to do with it or what, but 715 00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,040 Speaker 1: she did. The weirdest thing is that I read that 716 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,799 Speaker 1: this is not illegal to do, but it is not 717 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,359 Speaker 1: regulated by the FDA, so you should be careful if 718 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 1: you do it. 719 00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 2: But I don't think that she did it right. I 720 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 2: don't know. 721 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 1: I mean maybe if you guys know anything more about this, 722 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,839 Speaker 1: you could fill us in. But sounds like a kind 723 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,520 Speaker 1: of dumb way to die, don't you think? 724 00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:54,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? Of course? 725 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: All right. Last week, this brand called a Bunch Bunch 726 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,920 Speaker 1: Fox Lunch I was holding a holiday event in LA 727 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 1: where influencers were invited. Are you familiar with this brand? 728 00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:05,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 729 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 1: They make those, don't they make, like cute little purses 730 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,760 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. Yeah, they're all it's I feel 731 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: like they're primarily Disney themed item like the ones they 732 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,680 Speaker 1: sell it hot topic. Yeah, it's very hot topic leg 733 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 1: of a store. Anyway, they invited this Disney influencer, her 734 00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: name was Dominique Brown, to this event they were having. 735 00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 1: Before the event, it appears if they asked everybody attending 736 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,400 Speaker 1: this if they had any food allergies, and I guess 737 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,440 Speaker 1: she told them she did, and they relate it to 738 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:40,319 Speaker 1: the venue, and then again at the venue. This influencer 739 00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: had double checked with the staff to make sure that 740 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,239 Speaker 1: her allergen was not going to be in the meal, 741 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 1: and they assured her it would not be, and then 742 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 1: after she started eating the meal, she immediately started having 743 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: a severe allergic reaction and then ended up dying. I 744 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 1: hate hearing stories like this. I just think they're so 745 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,839 Speaker 1: they're so preventable. But I'm gonna say the same thing 746 00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,600 Speaker 1: I say every single time, like, if you have an. 747 00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 2: Allergy, that's that bad. 748 00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: I just wouldn't trust anyone else to make my food. 749 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: I just I just think, I just think it's not 750 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,520 Speaker 1: a good idea. Really, I mean, what do you think 751 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 1: about that? I have complicated feelings about it, because as 752 00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,880 Speaker 1: somebody with food allergies, you know, it's like you can't 753 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,960 Speaker 1: but you don't have any food allergy that's going to 754 00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 1: cause you to I don't. I don't, But I'm saying 755 00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:29,120 Speaker 1: like I have ones that make my throat extremely itchy 756 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: and make me uncomfortable or will have to make me 757 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: take a band a drill or something. And it's like 758 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 1: you want to live your life and be able to 759 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,840 Speaker 1: go to events such as this, but not have to 760 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,480 Speaker 1: worry that, you know, somebody will just blow you off. 761 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,040 Speaker 1: But I think if you have such severe allergies, you 762 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 1: need to have an EpiPen or something on you that 763 00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,320 Speaker 1: could try to help you. Because I was reading in 764 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: another article that apparently the DJ at the event had 765 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: stopped the event asked over the microphone if anybody had 766 00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 1: an EpiPen because it didn't seem like she had one 767 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,719 Speaker 1: on her and they were not able to help her 768 00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,879 Speaker 1: fast enough. Yeah, And I don't know, Like, I don't 769 00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 1: know how you have an allergy that's severe that you 770 00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,520 Speaker 1: trust people to make your food, and then on top 771 00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,839 Speaker 1: of that, if you do that, you don't have emergency 772 00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:13,360 Speaker 1: medicine strapped to your body at all times in case 773 00:37:13,560 --> 00:37:15,440 Speaker 1: you do have an exposure accidentally. 774 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:16,560 Speaker 2: But I'm curious. 775 00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: They haven't released what the allergy was yet, so I'm curious. 776 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:25,719 Speaker 1: Possibly peanut a lot, It's it's the most common one 777 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 1: that would cause an anaphylaxis reaction like this, Like another 778 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 1: one is beestings, Like there's there's certain ones that just 779 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 1: like cause people to have these extreme reactions. 780 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 2: Not that it couldn't have been something else, but I 781 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 2: don't know. 782 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 1: Like I just look at it, especially with adults, like 783 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,240 Speaker 1: you're in control of your own body when it comes 784 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:47,759 Speaker 1: to that stuff, and you can't. You are, but you 785 00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 1: can't like live in a bubble in your house, you know, 786 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: Like we I feel like we had a story or 787 00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,440 Speaker 1: I read a story in the last year where like 788 00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,440 Speaker 1: somebody had a severe peanut allergic reaction on an airplane. 789 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,719 Speaker 1: Like people are to bring snacks from their home on 790 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: the airplane. You're allowed to buy peanut products and the 791 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: airplanes so you just can't fly at all because somebody 792 00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: might bring peanuts on the plane one time, Like you 793 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,520 Speaker 1: have to live your life at the same time, I 794 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,200 Speaker 1: just think it's not realistic to expect other people to 795 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: accommodate you, even though restaurants when they're alerted, should do that, 796 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: but like if they were cooking something that had a 797 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,600 Speaker 1: sauce or something like if you haven't enough of an 798 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: extreme peanut allergy. I was just explaining this to the 799 00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,720 Speaker 1: kids the other day because they were eating like regular 800 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 1: m and ms, and it says like maybe made in 801 00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,960 Speaker 1: a factory that has peanuts or you know, something like that, 802 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 1: and I was trying to explain to them, like that 803 00:38:41,640 --> 00:38:44,320 Speaker 1: they're made in the same factory, and there's a possibility 804 00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,320 Speaker 1: that like you know, someone could be picking up stuff 805 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,400 Speaker 1: or one of the machines cowt malfunction or something, and 806 00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,320 Speaker 1: something could fly over to the other side of the 807 00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:53,319 Speaker 1: room and just like that, one little piece of it 808 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,319 Speaker 1: could get people sick. And it has that's why they 809 00:38:56,360 --> 00:39:00,960 Speaker 1: put that packet, that writing on the packages, so you know, 810 00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:04,719 Speaker 1: when you have people preparing food, especially for events like that, 811 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: it's like a cafeteria style feeding a lot of people thing, 812 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 1: they might just not be all hip. Like imagine if 813 00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,360 Speaker 1: you had a kid that was like seventeen years old 814 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,400 Speaker 1: and they're just like, oh, this wasn't this this gravy 815 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:18,400 Speaker 1: doesn't have peanuts in it. 816 00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 2: You don't know, you know what I mean, Like. 817 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 1: I think you I think we're spinning our tires. You 818 00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:26,160 Speaker 1: could just argue either side all the time. 819 00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 2: It's you know, like I. 820 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:30,839 Speaker 1: Mean, it's the whole thing is just unfortunate. And it's 821 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,960 Speaker 1: just like a reminder to carry an EpiPen with you 822 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,279 Speaker 1: if you have a severe allergy like that, just in 823 00:39:36,320 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 1: case you do have an accidental exposure it. It sucks 824 00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,319 Speaker 1: too because like lots of places like people have them 825 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,879 Speaker 1: sometimes you know, it just sucks in that particular case, 826 00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 1: like no one was. 827 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 2: Able to help her. So, okay, freak accidents, All right, 828 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 2: we have. 829 00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,400 Speaker 1: An update about the grandma who is missing and suspected 830 00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: to have fallen in a sink hole. So now she 831 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:01,239 Speaker 1: has been found and confirmed dead. They're saying she died 832 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: of head and torso injuries from falling thirty feet into 833 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:08,000 Speaker 1: the same hoal. Yeah, so she had a preliminary autopsy 834 00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:10,840 Speaker 1: result so she had blun trauma from the from the fall. 835 00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 2: That's it sucks, I was hoping. 836 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,479 Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't look good when when they weren't 837 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 1: able to find her right away and then it moved 838 00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,839 Speaker 1: to a recovery effort and then they finally found her, 839 00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,120 Speaker 1: So just like what it. I guess that's the thing, 840 00:40:23,200 --> 00:40:24,919 Speaker 1: like if you live in an area like that that's 841 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 1: prone to get these that you just always have to 842 00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,040 Speaker 1: kind of be paying attention to those types of things. 843 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,880 Speaker 1: It it really just sucks. I guess it's fortunate in 844 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,880 Speaker 1: this case that you know, the kid didn't get out 845 00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: of the car too. 846 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:36,280 Speaker 2: Yeah. 847 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm still mind blown that these mining towns have this 848 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: problem that. I mean, they're saying she fell into an 849 00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:46,120 Speaker 1: abandoned mine essentially that wasn't in operation since the fifties. 850 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, And what I mean. 851 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: Is she walking over a sidewalk in grass that collapsed 852 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,520 Speaker 1: like you would how would you even be able to 853 00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:58,000 Speaker 1: recognize that one of these was there? You know, it's 854 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 1: I don't think she fell into an actual hole, like 855 00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 1: it's a sinkhole, is like the ground falls in, you know. 856 00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:10,360 Speaker 1: Like I feel that it's kind of the town's responsibility 857 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,200 Speaker 1: to locate the abandoned mines and try to like seal 858 00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:15,600 Speaker 1: them up in some type of way so that this 859 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: doesn't happen. 860 00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I don't know. Just it sucks. Unfortunate's 861 00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:22,160 Speaker 2: freak accident, all right. 862 00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: So in another crazy accident, this pregnant woman had called 863 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 1: nine one one around two am and said that her 864 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 1: brakes weren't working. And you know, she was really stressing 865 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 1: out because she said she was twenty weeks pregnant and 866 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,040 Speaker 1: she was like, I'm not going to die today basically, 867 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,280 Speaker 1: So the officers recommended she put the car in neutral 868 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,200 Speaker 1: because she said when she was pressing on the brake 869 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,799 Speaker 1: it wouldn't stop the car. She wasn't able to turn 870 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: it off or anything. So by putting in a neutral 871 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,319 Speaker 1: it was able to slow it down a little bit. 872 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: But what's really scary is that she was headed downhill 873 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:57,400 Speaker 1: basically towards this lake, and officers were able to quickly 874 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 1: get there and get in front of her so that 875 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 1: they were able I guess the way they positioned it, 876 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:05,720 Speaker 1: she was able to bump into their car without causing 877 00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:08,680 Speaker 1: this like catastrophic car accident and stopped the car before 878 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:11,480 Speaker 1: it rolled into the lake with her in it. This 879 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: story is giving me massive anxiety in my chest. Like, 880 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 1: imagine driving and your brakes don't work. That that's like 881 00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:22,800 Speaker 1: a terrifying feeling. I just and and like those cops 882 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:26,239 Speaker 1: are kind of heroes too, Like imagine because if her 883 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:30,000 Speaker 1: car hit their car, it could have pushed because they're 884 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: not gonna like pull over a let her go into 885 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,280 Speaker 1: the lake, you know, like it could have just pushed 886 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,160 Speaker 1: both of them into the water, you know what I mean. 887 00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,840 Speaker 1: It's very scary. It reminded me of this Lifetime movie 888 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: I watched when I was fifteen, where that you know 889 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,400 Speaker 1: how dramatic those movies are. Like this, this guy was 890 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:49,240 Speaker 1: a mechanic and the woman like did him dirty or something, 891 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:54,000 Speaker 1: so he cut her brakes so that, well, she that's nice. Yeah, No, 892 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 1: I mean she's She's very lucky this happened. I think 893 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: she I don't know why she was driving at two am, 894 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:00,799 Speaker 1: if she had a like a bar job or something 895 00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:02,400 Speaker 1: and she was working late, or maybe she was just 896 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: running out to get you know, she had the pregnancy 897 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,440 Speaker 1: hunger and just wanted a stack. But I feel like 898 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 1: it was lucky this happened in the middle of the 899 00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 1: night because there probably was no other cars on the 900 00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 1: road and she was able to avoid crashing into anything else. 901 00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,840 Speaker 1: So I was looking some stuff up, and so she 902 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,400 Speaker 1: had a Chevy Malibu car and I saw that there 903 00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,920 Speaker 1: was a class action lawsuit between twenty thirteen and twenty 904 00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,960 Speaker 1: twenty two saying that the vehicles contained defective engine parts 905 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 1: that could cause a loss of breaking capability. Oh so 906 00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:36,239 Speaker 1: I wonder if there was a recall associated with that. 907 00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 1: That's that's something that we need to talk about too. 908 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,279 Speaker 1: It's just if you ever get a recall, you need 909 00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: to get it handled immediately, because there was there was 910 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:46,399 Speaker 1: I did a post years ago about all of these 911 00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: lawsuits that were coming up because of recalls with air 912 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 1: bags and shrapnel injuries when the air bags deployed, and 913 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,520 Speaker 1: a lot of the people were just like, yeah, I 914 00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 1: just got the card in the mail, and I kind 915 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,600 Speaker 1: of ignored it, you know, because it's a pain in 916 00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:01,640 Speaker 1: the ass to have to get your steering will ripped 917 00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,759 Speaker 1: out and stuff. But well, we had the depth dis 918 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:06,759 Speaker 1: section too about that actor who was crushed by his 919 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,560 Speaker 1: car because the jeep. 920 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 2: The jeep. 921 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 1: What was his name, Antoine anton Yelch. Yeah, that was 922 00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:16,960 Speaker 1: really interesting. But I guess if you get any recalls, 923 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:19,520 Speaker 1: just get them fixed, because they're not just letting you 924 00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:20,480 Speaker 1: know for no reason. 925 00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 2: It's pretty important, all right. 926 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,879 Speaker 1: So recently doctor Jeannette Neshue, is that the right way 927 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: to pronounce her name? 928 00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:30,040 Speaker 2: I have no idea. 929 00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,240 Speaker 1: So she's been chosen to be the next US Surgeon General. 930 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,080 Speaker 1: So now this insane story is coming out about the 931 00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,360 Speaker 1: death of her father. Apparently in nineteen ninety when she 932 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,040 Speaker 1: was thirteen. She said she went to her father's bedroom 933 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,600 Speaker 1: in the morning to get scissors out of his tackle box. 934 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 1: The tackle box was above his bed, and when she 935 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 1: opened it, she said, the entire thing dumped out, including 936 00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,840 Speaker 1: this loaded handgun, and when the gun fell out, it 937 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,279 Speaker 1: accidentally fired, shooting her sleeping father in the head and 938 00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 1: killing him. Could you imagine, like anybody dealing with something 939 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 1: like that these like I always think about that. You 940 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 1: hear a lot of times, especially people that are leaving 941 00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 1: guns laying around that are ready to go, which is 942 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,880 Speaker 1: just the dumbest idea ever. It's usually children. I mean, 943 00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,120 Speaker 1: she was thirteen. She was a child that comes across 944 00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,600 Speaker 1: it and they end up killing one of their siblings 945 00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 1: or something like that. And just imagine waking up every 946 00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 1: day knowing that you did something like that to kill 947 00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: your sibling or to kill somebody else, even though it 948 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,720 Speaker 1: wasn't really your fault. I mean, it was her dad's 949 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,080 Speaker 1: fault for leaving the gun loaded like that, if it 950 00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 1: was his weapon. Yeah, and she feels guilty just because 951 00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:40,480 Speaker 1: of it happening in her innocently trying to just go 952 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 1: get a pair of scissors out of his tackle box. 953 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:44,560 Speaker 2: And I think you know, the. 954 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:47,359 Speaker 1: Message here is you should never leave a loaded gun 955 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,880 Speaker 1: unattended or just in reach of anybody, especially a child 956 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,279 Speaker 1: that doesn't know how to use it or anything, or 957 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,799 Speaker 1: in cases like this where they could fall and accidentally 958 00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 1: it could have happened to him too. It's just you 959 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,319 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like that's it shouldn't just be 960 00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,520 Speaker 1: ready to go like that. I know a lot of 961 00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,880 Speaker 1: people want to leave them like that because obviously, if 962 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,879 Speaker 1: there's an emergency or a break in, you just want 963 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 1: it to be ready to go. But I mean, this 964 00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:12,400 Speaker 1: is the kind of stuff that happens, and that's terrifying. 965 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: And she said that that. I guess that was one 966 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 1: of the reasons that she decided to become a doctor, 967 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,839 Speaker 1: because she's just looking at her dad helpless and wasn't 968 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: able to help them. I don't think a doctor would 969 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 1: have been able to help them either, honestly. But I 970 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,000 Speaker 1: don't know, Like I think she was just picked. Don't 971 00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 1: they have to like appoint these people, Like, don't they have. 972 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,239 Speaker 2: To get voted in or something. I don't. I have 973 00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:32,680 Speaker 2: no idea how that works. 974 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: But she's she's this denominee, been officially chosen or something. 975 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,839 Speaker 1: But what I do find it interesting to hear from 976 00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:43,440 Speaker 1: an adult this happened too, because well, I guess we're 977 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: not hearing from her directly because they're saying she wrote 978 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: a book and she like had the first sentence talk 979 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 1: about his death inspiring her to become a doctor, and 980 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,200 Speaker 1: then never mentioned the details of it, Yes, so leave 981 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,440 Speaker 1: it to the news to go find You know this 982 00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:58,360 Speaker 1: what I've been hearing over the past couple of weeks 983 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,959 Speaker 1: about all these people that are getting appointed for things 984 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 1: and everything, Like, you really have to be nuts to 985 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:06,239 Speaker 1: want to work in politics, because these people just go 986 00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,799 Speaker 1: into the depths of your background and just find every 987 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:13,520 Speaker 1: little thing like you, Like, who wants to live like that? 988 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,120 Speaker 2: Really? 989 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,359 Speaker 1: They argue the same thing about being on a Bravo show, 990 00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:21,000 Speaker 1: because Bravo fans are notoriously psychos and they will find 991 00:47:21,080 --> 00:47:23,280 Speaker 1: anything that ever happened to you in your life. 992 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:26,000 Speaker 2: No thank me, no thanks? All right. 993 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 1: This next one is about a mom who took her 994 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,359 Speaker 1: two daughters to Target and put the three year old 995 00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: in the main part of the car, not the little 996 00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 1: basket up front. She said they were going through the 997 00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:39,200 Speaker 1: entire store and everything seemed okay, and then as they 998 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: were about to leave, the three year old got her 999 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,200 Speaker 1: finger stuck in the hole of the cart. This reminds 1000 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 1: me of when I got my head stuck in the 1001 00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,360 Speaker 1: bars at the King of Prussia Mall when I was 1002 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:51,360 Speaker 1: a kid and had to be rescued by his firefighters. 1003 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:53,239 Speaker 2: No tell I don't think you've ever heard. 1004 00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:56,520 Speaker 1: Always I could meet one of these firefighters, like, hey, 1005 00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,239 Speaker 1: is sometime in like nineteen eighty three or eighty for 1006 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,520 Speaker 1: do you remember rescuing a kid from the bars of 1007 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,880 Speaker 1: King of Prussia Mall. I thought I was at the 1008 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 1: Eschelon Mall. No, it was because we were with Nanny and 1009 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,879 Speaker 1: Pop and we were like up there, Oh my god, 1010 00:48:10,920 --> 00:48:12,960 Speaker 1: all right, tell everybody what happened exactly. 1011 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:13,439 Speaker 2: Well, I don't. 1012 00:48:13,560 --> 00:48:15,919 Speaker 1: I kind of like vaguely remember it because I guess 1013 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,600 Speaker 1: I was like four or five, like I was little, 1014 00:48:20,600 --> 00:48:22,800 Speaker 1: you know, I remember pieces of it, but I guess 1015 00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:26,919 Speaker 1: my mom was my mom and dad and grandparents were 1016 00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: at the mall, and my mom and my grandmom went 1017 00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,800 Speaker 1: in a store together, which is typically what would happen, 1018 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,000 Speaker 1: and then my dad and my grandpap were sitting in 1019 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,239 Speaker 1: the mall because they have absolutely no interest in being 1020 00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,359 Speaker 1: in a mall. In fact, that's probably the last time 1021 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:42,960 Speaker 1: my dad was ever at a mall and my mom 1022 00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:44,919 Speaker 1: was in a store and she was like, that's something 1023 00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 1: like coally screaming? 1024 00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,400 Speaker 2: Is that her? And she went out. Of course, anytime 1025 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:48,839 Speaker 2: my mom. 1026 00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,440 Speaker 1: The two times my mom left the children with my 1027 00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 1: dad's and my grandpap actually there's been like an injury, right, 1028 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,040 Speaker 1: So she goes out of the store and finds like, 1029 00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: my head is stuck in between the bars, like from 1030 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:04,160 Speaker 1: the top floor on the bottom floor, the the you 1031 00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 1: know the railing around the top floor. So they had 1032 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 1: to call emergency response to Common and like get be 1033 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 1: out of the bars. Was this before or after you 1034 00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,120 Speaker 1: spacked your head on the fireplace? 1035 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 1036 00:49:18,120 --> 00:49:21,080 Speaker 1: I don't know actually, but you know that you want 1037 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 1: to hear the cutest story that Gabe ever had. I 1038 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,600 Speaker 1: stay cute, But he had to rescue this like really 1039 00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,400 Speaker 1: fat little kid, like a baby though, like baby fat 1040 00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:34,600 Speaker 1: thighs that was stuck in one of those those like 1041 00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: swing set you know those like rubber like seats that 1042 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,520 Speaker 1: go on a swing set for a baby, like place 1043 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:45,120 Speaker 1: them in. It's like a rubber diaper. Almost see the baby, 1044 00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 1: Like he put the the I guess the parent put 1045 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,439 Speaker 1: the baby in this thing and they're like, fat little 1046 00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,640 Speaker 1: leg got stuck in. 1047 00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,480 Speaker 2: This in the seat of the swing set. And he 1048 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:55,279 Speaker 2: had to cut it out. 1049 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,320 Speaker 1: And he showed me the fat little leg of the baby, 1050 00:49:57,360 --> 00:49:59,960 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, it's so cute. 1051 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,320 Speaker 2: So this is what happened. To this kid. This kid stuck. 1052 00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,360 Speaker 1: It looked like there was like two fingers stuck in 1053 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 1: one of the holes of the car, So everybody knows 1054 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 1: what that is. And the mom noticed and like you're thinking, like, okay, 1055 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:15,359 Speaker 1: she's kind of in a drugstore. So she goes over 1056 00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:17,279 Speaker 1: to an aisle and get them vasili and it's try 1057 00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 1: to like wedge this kid's fingers out. But you know 1058 00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:21,600 Speaker 1: what happens, like when you get a ring stuck and 1059 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,640 Speaker 1: you're trying to take the ring off, right, it just 1060 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,680 Speaker 1: gets more and more swollen the more you're trying to 1061 00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,480 Speaker 1: play with it and get it off, And that's what happened. 1062 00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,480 Speaker 1: So that was just like not happening. So finally they 1063 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,480 Speaker 1: got a Target employee to try to help, and they 1064 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,480 Speaker 1: couldn't do anything, and they had to call nine one 1065 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,759 Speaker 1: one have the fire company come, and the kid was 1066 00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:41,879 Speaker 1: freaking out and they had to cut the car out 1067 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: around the kid's hand and they finally got the kid free. Okay, 1068 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,960 Speaker 1: So this is my problem with the story is because 1069 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,560 Speaker 1: she is arguing that Target needs to change the design 1070 00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 1: of their car. But I would argue that it's common 1071 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 1: knowledge that you don't put children in that part of 1072 00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,319 Speaker 1: the basket. I actually think you're not allowed to. There's 1073 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,560 Speaker 1: signs in the car. I don't know if there's signs 1074 00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,760 Speaker 1: in the Target cards specifically, but other shorts have signs 1075 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,879 Speaker 1: that say do not put children in the main part 1076 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 1: of the cart. All right, well, this lady already is 1077 00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:14,360 Speaker 1: kind of I have feelings about her because she said, quote, 1078 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 1: I had to call my husband because I couldn't deal 1079 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 1: with the stress of it by myself. 1080 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 2: Like, get a life, lady, come on. 1081 00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 1: Also, just like if you can't deal with that, like 1082 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:27,759 Speaker 1: wait until you have a teenager or something like, this 1083 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:31,240 Speaker 1: is really not a problem. But she and yes agreed, 1084 00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:34,120 Speaker 1: like I am a Target shopper, especially when the kids 1085 00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:37,320 Speaker 1: were little. They have a cart that is very bulky 1086 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,600 Speaker 1: to push around, but it has two seats up front, 1087 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,920 Speaker 1: so you could put both of the kids in it 1088 00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:43,640 Speaker 1: with seat belts and everything like that. 1089 00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,399 Speaker 2: That goes you know that thing I'm talking about that, Yeah, 1090 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:48,040 Speaker 2: I know exactly what you're talking about. 1091 00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:51,279 Speaker 1: So they're like, yeah, this is absolutely not Target's fault 1092 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: at all. Okay, it's it's really not Target's fault. And 1093 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but like she took all these pictures too, 1094 00:51:58,200 --> 00:52:00,400 Speaker 1: of the first responder to get in the kid of car, 1095 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,200 Speaker 1: and then you put them on the internet like that 1096 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,960 Speaker 1: shouldn't be where your priorities are, and then blaming Target 1097 00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,239 Speaker 1: when it's convion knowledge as somebody who is not a mother, 1098 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 1: that you don't put a baby in that compartment of 1099 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,839 Speaker 1: their car. There there are I could say that there's 1100 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,960 Speaker 1: probably even so many people listening to us right now 1101 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,280 Speaker 1: that go to Target every single day with their kids, 1102 00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:21,479 Speaker 1: and like, you don't hear about this happening all the time. 1103 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,880 Speaker 1: It's just the Targets I think had the same exact 1104 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 1: cart for probably twenty years plus two so and this 1105 00:52:28,520 --> 00:52:30,680 Speaker 1: is the first time this is coming out that this happened. 1106 00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,239 Speaker 2: I don't know all right. 1107 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,719 Speaker 1: Back in twenty twenty two, this teenager was on one 1108 00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,799 Speaker 1: of those free fall rides at an amusement park in Florida. 1109 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:41,560 Speaker 1: His safety restraints did not fully lock in place, which 1110 00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:43,719 Speaker 1: caused him to fall out of the ride, falling to 1111 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:46,800 Speaker 1: his death. And now a jury has determined that the 1112 00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,160 Speaker 1: ride makers must pay over three hundred million dollars in 1113 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,360 Speaker 1: damages to his family. I think that is well deserved. 1114 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:55,719 Speaker 1: This was terrible when this happened. I don't know if 1115 00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:57,560 Speaker 1: you guys remember about this. But I have a post 1116 00:52:57,560 --> 00:53:00,279 Speaker 1: in the gross room called free Fallen. It was from 1117 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:01,600 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. 1118 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,520 Speaker 2: One, twenty two, twenty two. 1119 00:53:03,560 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: Okay, so this fourth so I have the video of 1120 00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,239 Speaker 1: the whole entire thing happening, and when you look at it, 1121 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,440 Speaker 1: any person looking at it is going to be like, 1122 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,680 Speaker 1: why the hell did they ever let this kid. 1123 00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 2: On the ride? 1124 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: So, even though we're talking about a fourteen year old child, 1125 00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:21,200 Speaker 1: when you see this kid getting on the ride with 1126 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,200 Speaker 1: his friends, he's clearly just like one of these huge 1127 00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:29,440 Speaker 1: football player looking like kids that is really really a 1128 00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:32,840 Speaker 1: lot taller and a lot bigger, and he's he was obese, 1129 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,279 Speaker 1: he was just a lot bigger. And when you see 1130 00:53:35,360 --> 00:53:37,759 Speaker 1: him on this ride next to these other people, you're like, 1131 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:41,720 Speaker 1: clearly he doesn't fit on the ride. He has this harness, 1132 00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,840 Speaker 1: you know, the harness that they put over the shoulders. 1133 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:45,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, he has that. 1134 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,000 Speaker 1: Every other kid that's strapped into the ride, it's like 1135 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:51,640 Speaker 1: going down to their thighs, and on him, it's like 1136 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,000 Speaker 1: hanging at the top of his belly because it can't 1137 00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:54,800 Speaker 1: even reach. 1138 00:53:54,640 --> 00:53:56,520 Speaker 2: Over his shoulders. 1139 00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:59,279 Speaker 1: It looks like you're looking at it like this is 1140 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 1: ridiculou right, and there's so the guy that's checking the 1141 00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,759 Speaker 1: ride goes around the checks half the ride, but not 1142 00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,600 Speaker 1: all the ride, And as it's lifting up, people are 1143 00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 1: yelling at the ride operator like, hey, are you going 1144 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,880 Speaker 1: to check people at the other side of the ride. 1145 00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,239 Speaker 1: They go up and this So this ride goes up 1146 00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,239 Speaker 1: four hundred feet and drops. It's like the free fall 1147 00:54:20,360 --> 00:54:23,200 Speaker 1: ride and it goes down seventy five miles an hour. 1148 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,840 Speaker 1: So as soon as it goes up and it starts dropping, 1149 00:54:25,920 --> 00:54:28,719 Speaker 1: the kid flies out of the harness because he's not 1150 00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:32,120 Speaker 1: strapped in and falls to his death in front of everyone. 1151 00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:34,160 Speaker 2: It was so terrible. 1152 00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 1: The video is really disturbing too, because there is a 1153 00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 1: video of him falling out of the ride, and it 1154 00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:42,759 Speaker 1: seems like he fell out so quickly and fell to 1155 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 1: his death that he didn't even he didn't even scream 1156 00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:45,720 Speaker 1: or anything. 1157 00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 2: He didn't even know what was happening. 1158 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 1: And when first responders came and they're you know, all 1159 00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 1: of this stuff is recorded, they were saying that they 1160 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 1: weren't able to really flip him over easily to do 1161 00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,840 Speaker 1: CPR because they said he was at least three hundred pounds, 1162 00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 1: So I don't know if that was I mean, that's 1163 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:03,160 Speaker 1: just an estimate by people on the ground. But all 1164 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,400 Speaker 1: I'm saying is like when you watch this video, and 1165 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 1: this needs to be a thing now because so much, 1166 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:12,840 Speaker 1: so many more people are obese that they need to 1167 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,839 Speaker 1: be They have to have restrictions at rides, even though 1168 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,520 Speaker 1: it might offend people. He might have got upset if 1169 00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 1: they turned him away, but at the same time he'd 1170 00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 1: still be alive. Well, I think we need to have 1171 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:27,920 Speaker 1: a conversation too about teenagers operating these rides, because how 1172 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,160 Speaker 1: many accidents do we, you know, talk about and it 1173 00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,920 Speaker 1: ends up being like a sixteen year old running this 1174 00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:35,960 Speaker 1: ride that's extremely dangerous for humans to be on, and 1175 00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,600 Speaker 1: they don't check the restraint, they don't hear when people 1176 00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 1: are calling for help, and most of the time they're like, hi, 1177 00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 1: of course they are because they're working at a theme 1178 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,480 Speaker 1: park and like that's what you do with you to 1179 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: a teenager. So yeah, I think the settlement is good 1180 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,840 Speaker 1: for the family. It said they also reported a settlement 1181 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 1: between the theme park and the ride operators, so this 1182 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 1: was specifically about ride makers And yeah, I mean I think, no, 1183 00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:06,719 Speaker 1: I don't really think it has anything to do with 1184 00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,680 Speaker 1: the ride itself. I just think, I mean, I don't 1185 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,000 Speaker 1: know the details of the case, but just looking at it, 1186 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:13,680 Speaker 1: it's like it doesn't seem like it was a problem 1187 00:56:13,719 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: for anyone else. It just was they just really need 1188 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 1: to maybe clearly they found them responsible for something, or 1189 00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:21,480 Speaker 1: they wouldn't have vage O. 1190 00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:22,120 Speaker 2: I know they. 1191 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I would think it was more just the 1192 00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,480 Speaker 1: operator of the ride. But I mean, this kid, he 1193 00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,960 Speaker 1: was only fourteen years old. So if if the adults 1194 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 1: in the room are telling him it's okay to go 1195 00:56:33,080 --> 00:56:34,799 Speaker 1: on the ride and letting him sit down, then how 1196 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: would he know. I mean, he knew it didn't fit correctly, 1197 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,480 Speaker 1: But kids are fourteen years old, don't understand seventy five 1198 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: miles an hour with that thing over your shoulder is 1199 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,320 Speaker 1: not holding you down. 1200 00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:48,959 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. Yeah, So, yeah, really sad case. 1201 00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:50,680 Speaker 2: I felt so terrible when that happened. 1202 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:01,400 Speaker 1: This episode is brought to you by Nicole and Jemmy's 1203 00:57:01,440 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: Anatomy Book. 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And you could get my book, 1209 00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,520 Speaker 1: but also you can get a signed book plate from me, 1210 00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:24,360 Speaker 1: so you could order that on our website and you 1211 00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:26,480 Speaker 1: could just write whatever you want me to write, sign 1212 00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,360 Speaker 1: it to somebody, and it's a little sticker that you 1213 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,520 Speaker 1: could stick inside of the book that matches, and it's 1214 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,960 Speaker 1: really cute. Yeah, So head over to the doravider dot 1215 00:57:34,000 --> 00:57:36,360 Speaker 1: com slash book for info on where to order the 1216 00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:39,320 Speaker 1: book and how to get a special customized book plate. 1217 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:43,560 Speaker 2: Okay, true crime. 1218 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:47,600 Speaker 1: So a Missouri couple has been arrested after performing a 1219 00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,600 Speaker 1: botched circumcision on their child in their house. 1220 00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:56,760 Speaker 2: What's wrong with people using a box cutter? Oh? Disgusting? 1221 00:57:56,840 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 2: Like all right, So, so they did this at their house, 1222 00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:02,840 Speaker 2: and they brought their. 1223 00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 1: Kid to the hospital because clearly it didn't go right 1224 00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 1: when they thought it was going to. And then they 1225 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,720 Speaker 1: got tired of waiting, so they left against medical advisement 1226 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 1: from the staff. 1227 00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,439 Speaker 2: So they have a bunch of kids. 1228 00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: They had five other kids maybe or something so or 1229 00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:19,880 Speaker 1: maybe that including that kid, five kids at least, and 1230 00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 1: did they try to do this on the other kids. 1231 00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,080 Speaker 2: Did they successfully do this? Like why were they doing this? 1232 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:27,680 Speaker 2: I don't know. They didn't even say how old the 1233 00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,360 Speaker 2: kid was. The kid could have been fourteen. 1234 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:31,120 Speaker 1: They said it was a kid under eighteen, So we 1235 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:32,640 Speaker 1: don't even know if it was a baby or not. 1236 00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,960 Speaker 2: But yep, but yeah, they brought the kid. 1237 00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:38,160 Speaker 1: So the dad said he did it with a box 1238 00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:41,560 Speaker 1: cutter and was surprised how much bleeding there was, so 1239 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: took them to the hospital. And there at the hospital, 1240 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:47,360 Speaker 1: like Maria said, they had to wait for hours and. 1241 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:48,840 Speaker 2: They were like, yeah, we're not waiting him more. So 1242 00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 2: they went home. 1243 00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:55,640 Speaker 1: What what gave the tip off to the authorities about this, Well, 1244 00:58:55,720 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 1: I guess the medical staff at the hospital alerted, like 1245 00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 1: Child protect Services and said that something was fishy. And 1246 00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:05,600 Speaker 1: then when they got to the house, they asked the 1247 00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,000 Speaker 1: parents about it, and they didn't even deny it. They 1248 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,960 Speaker 1: said they did it. They asked the dad about how 1249 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,920 Speaker 1: he did it. He said with a box cutter, and 1250 00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 1: then when they asked if he had any medical training, 1251 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:18,560 Speaker 1: he said he didn't, but he conducted research and prayed 1252 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:19,240 Speaker 1: for a blessing. 1253 00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just. 1254 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:24,960 Speaker 1: Doesn't make any sense to me. It wasn't associated with 1255 00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,400 Speaker 1: like a religious thing or whatever. I don't know why 1256 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,080 Speaker 1: anybody would do that with a box cutter anyway. 1257 00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:32,000 Speaker 2: That's just so gross. 1258 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 1: This kid's lucky he's not going to have permanent issues 1259 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,240 Speaker 1: with it, between an infection or just having too much 1260 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: skin cut off or whatever. And we don't know he might, 1261 00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:45,360 Speaker 1: but they took the kids away from the parents for now. 1262 00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:49,959 Speaker 1: So yeah, so both the mother and father were charged 1263 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,600 Speaker 1: with child abuse and the dad has an additional charge 1264 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:57,480 Speaker 1: of performing unauthorized surgery, which is insane. Think about being 1265 00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 1: an adult and being like my parents performed surgery on 1266 01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 1: me when I was a little kid in my house. 1267 01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,880 Speaker 2: Well, I mean some cultures do that. They're not surgeons. 1268 01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm just saying it's not like I understand 1269 01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:13,480 Speaker 1: that there's like more of a ceremony and everything that 1270 01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 1: goes with that, but you know, it's still it could happen, 1271 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:20,800 Speaker 1: and there's been there's issues with those sometimes too, you know. 1272 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,360 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't. 1273 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:27,640 Speaker 1: Understand what the point of doing this is. I mean, 1274 01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:30,680 Speaker 1: you know, like I'm anti circumcision anyway, so I don't 1275 01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: understand what the point of this is ever, but definitely 1276 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:38,680 Speaker 1: not to do at home with a box cutter. No never, Okay, 1277 01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:41,800 Speaker 1: medical news. Back in the summer of twenty twenty two, 1278 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 1: this woman went to the hospital because she felt that 1279 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:46,760 Speaker 1: something was stuck in her eye. So the doctors had 1280 01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,520 Speaker 1: examined her. They noticed some irritation, sent her on her 1281 01:00:49,520 --> 01:00:50,440 Speaker 1: way with eyedrops. 1282 01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:51,600 Speaker 2: A couple of weeks. 1283 01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 1: Later, it didn't get better, so they then numbed her 1284 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:55,400 Speaker 1: eye to take a closer look. 1285 01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:58,520 Speaker 2: And what did they find. They found live parasites, little 1286 01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:01,080 Speaker 2: white worms squirming or in her eye. 1287 01:01:02,080 --> 01:01:06,280 Speaker 1: I can't even see them. How horrible this is. It 1288 01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:09,840 Speaker 1: is disgusting. I don't really like eyeball content in general, 1289 01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:12,720 Speaker 1: but like the thought of worms being in your eye 1290 01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:17,240 Speaker 1: parasite something moving around is horrible. So this post is 1291 01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:19,520 Speaker 1: in the grocer room and it's called I See why 1292 01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,600 Speaker 1: And you can fathom them. How terrible it is because 1293 01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:26,240 Speaker 1: you could see the video of them extracting them from 1294 01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:26,800 Speaker 1: her eye. 1295 01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:27,800 Speaker 2: Did you say it? 1296 01:01:28,520 --> 01:01:31,600 Speaker 1: I saw that you posted it, and then I started 1297 01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 1: watching it and saw where it was going, so then 1298 01:01:33,880 --> 01:01:39,240 Speaker 1: I couldn't handle it. So this particular parasite is called thlasia, 1299 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:44,800 Speaker 1: and this occurs in domestic carnivores like cats and dogs, 1300 01:01:44,880 --> 01:01:47,760 Speaker 1: and it could usually be transmitted while we should say 1301 01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:52,280 Speaker 1: rarely transmitted from two humans. So it's called a zoonotic disease. 1302 01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,640 Speaker 1: It's one that goes from animals to humans. 1303 01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:55,959 Speaker 2: Via a fly. 1304 01:01:56,440 --> 01:02:00,200 Speaker 1: Okay, so they question this lady and they say like, hey, 1305 01:02:00,960 --> 01:02:03,080 Speaker 1: have there been flies in your house? Like how did 1306 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:04,040 Speaker 1: you get this kind of thing? 1307 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:04,720 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 1308 01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:08,400 Speaker 1: And she's like, well, my cat did have a similar 1309 01:02:08,520 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 1: discharge and itchiness to their eye, but that's it. So 1310 01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:14,960 Speaker 1: then okay, doctors are like, Okay, she got it from 1311 01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:17,840 Speaker 1: her cat somehow, right, And then they wanted to test 1312 01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,040 Speaker 1: her cat to see if her cat had the same thing, 1313 01:02:20,160 --> 01:02:21,440 Speaker 1: and she refused to get the. 1314 01:02:21,400 --> 01:02:22,400 Speaker 2: Cat to tested. 1315 01:02:22,880 --> 01:02:25,520 Speaker 1: Why would you deny them from looking at the cat? 1316 01:02:25,600 --> 01:02:27,920 Speaker 1: Like did she think they were possibly possibly going to 1317 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:30,360 Speaker 1: put it down or something? Yeah, that's what I would think, 1318 01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:32,240 Speaker 1: Like this happened in China, and I don't know what 1319 01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:35,000 Speaker 1: their procedure is when there's things like this that happened, 1320 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:37,400 Speaker 1: but she was you know, if this happened in America, 1321 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:40,040 Speaker 1: they would test the animal and treat the animal and 1322 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,280 Speaker 1: then send the animal back to your house if there 1323 01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:45,160 Speaker 1: was no signs of neglect or abuse with the animal, right, 1324 01:02:45,560 --> 01:02:48,280 Speaker 1: but there who knows what they do, right, Like, they 1325 01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,600 Speaker 1: might take the cat away, and maybe she just didn't. 1326 01:02:51,160 --> 01:02:53,840 Speaker 1: She didn't want to do that, you know, the problem 1327 01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:56,880 Speaker 1: is is that they extracted all of these parasites out 1328 01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,760 Speaker 1: of her eye and they treated her. But like, if 1329 01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:02,840 Speaker 1: the hat doesn't ever get treated, then she just risks 1330 01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:05,880 Speaker 1: getting it again, you know what I mean, Because she's 1331 01:03:06,080 --> 01:03:08,640 Speaker 1: she's probably cleaning this goo off the cat's eye and 1332 01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:11,480 Speaker 1: then like not washing her hands properly and touching her 1333 01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:13,400 Speaker 1: eye or however she's getting it. 1334 01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:14,840 Speaker 2: I don't freaking know what she's doing. 1335 01:03:15,280 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 1: But yeah, it's so the craziest part of this case 1336 01:03:19,840 --> 01:03:23,280 Speaker 1: is that not only is their video of them extracting 1337 01:03:23,280 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 1: these worms out of her eye, but then they put 1338 01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,360 Speaker 1: they get a microscope slide and they put sterol saline 1339 01:03:28,400 --> 01:03:30,400 Speaker 1: on the slide and they put the worms in this 1340 01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,920 Speaker 1: like drop of sterol saline, and you could see the 1341 01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,840 Speaker 1: worm like squiggling around, and you're just like, oh my god, 1342 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:40,200 Speaker 1: imagine this is exactly why this lady was like freaking 1343 01:03:40,240 --> 01:03:42,280 Speaker 1: the hell out about her eye and having this like 1344 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:43,480 Speaker 1: foreign body sensation. 1345 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:47,080 Speaker 2: Could you imagine that? No, not at all, Like, I shit, 1346 01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 2: is the worst. I can't stand it all. 1347 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:52,160 Speaker 1: Right, before we get in this next story, can you 1348 01:03:52,200 --> 01:03:55,360 Speaker 1: talk about the condition that's known as were wolf syndrome. 1349 01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:56,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's. 1350 01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:59,680 Speaker 1: Really really rare, and it's called hypertrichosis. You've probably seen 1351 01:03:59,720 --> 01:04:02,880 Speaker 1: it the news that there's these people that actually kind 1352 01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,240 Speaker 1: of are human, but they look like werewolfs. They have 1353 01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:09,160 Speaker 1: hair growing in places that most humans don't have hair growing, 1354 01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:13,080 Speaker 1: like on their cheeks and their forehead, and they they 1355 01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:15,600 Speaker 1: kind of look like a werewolf and that's where it 1356 01:04:15,680 --> 01:04:19,040 Speaker 1: comes from. But it's really rare, and they've. 1357 01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,640 Speaker 2: Been seeing a lot of increased cases of it recently. 1358 01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:25,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you know, at first and I was like, 1359 01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:28,720 Speaker 1: get pictures of this. I thought about Luccia because she's 1360 01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:32,560 Speaker 1: so the artist. The article was saying that it can 1361 01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:34,920 Speaker 1: make you grow hair and make you look like a wookie, 1362 01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:38,080 Speaker 1: which is actually a nickname we call Lucia because she's 1363 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,440 Speaker 1: just like this cute little furry hair while you know, 1364 01:04:40,520 --> 01:04:43,720 Speaker 1: she's like yeah, and she's Italian and she's just got well. 1365 01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:46,480 Speaker 1: So the picture in the article has a picture of 1366 01:04:46,520 --> 01:04:49,280 Speaker 1: a kid's back that's really hairy, and then underneath it's 1367 01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:52,920 Speaker 1: like hypertrichosis and they can look like a wookie d 1368 01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,480 Speaker 1: quote and I screenshot that whole thing incided to Gabe 1369 01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:57,240 Speaker 1: this morning and I was just like, oh my god, 1370 01:04:57,280 --> 01:05:02,520 Speaker 1: because we I pour little wook Wook. So so yeah, that's 1371 01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:04,960 Speaker 1: one of the little nicknames that we've had for Lucia 1372 01:05:05,040 --> 01:05:06,160 Speaker 1: since she was a little kid. 1373 01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,200 Speaker 2: But this is a little bit more extreme. 1374 01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:11,000 Speaker 1: This is just how I mean, you see guys on 1375 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:12,760 Speaker 1: the beach that have hair on their back, and then 1376 01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,720 Speaker 1: this is like having as much hair on your head 1377 01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:20,200 Speaker 1: on areas of your body that you normally wouldn't have hair. Yeah, 1378 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:24,200 Speaker 1: so they're saying in Spain, since the Middle Ages, there's 1379 01:05:24,240 --> 01:05:27,160 Speaker 1: been less than one hundred documented cases, and in just 1380 01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,720 Speaker 1: the last year they have nearly a dozen documented cases, 1381 01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:35,160 Speaker 1: and they think it's related to this common hair loss 1382 01:05:35,440 --> 01:05:39,600 Speaker 1: over the counter medication that people are using, yeah, monoxidal 1383 01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:43,520 Speaker 1: or it's like rogine. Okay, okay, so this is this 1384 01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:46,440 Speaker 1: is my only question. So so they've done all of 1385 01:05:46,480 --> 01:05:49,320 Speaker 1: these studies now to find out that there are certain 1386 01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:51,800 Speaker 1: children that all of a sudden would have all of 1387 01:05:51,840 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 1: this hair all over their body hypertrichosis. And when they did, 1388 01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:57,960 Speaker 1: when they found out like what was going on in 1389 01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,640 Speaker 1: their families. It was like there was always some caregiver 1390 01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:04,120 Speaker 1: that was using this product and they thought that that 1391 01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:05,280 Speaker 1: was what was causing it. 1392 01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 2: So in one case, one. 1393 01:06:06,720 --> 01:06:10,160 Speaker 1: Of the dads had alopecia and he was using the 1394 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:14,000 Speaker 1: monoxidol for that, and then when he discontinued it, the 1395 01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,080 Speaker 1: child like lost the hair and didn't have the symptoms anymore. 1396 01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,400 Speaker 1: So they're just making So when I first read this story, 1397 01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 1: I thought they were saying that before conception, the father 1398 01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:27,760 Speaker 1: was taking this medication which then gave the child this problem. 1399 01:06:27,960 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 1: But it's seeming like they're using this topical cream and 1400 01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:33,400 Speaker 1: then touching the kids at the same time, which is 1401 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:37,800 Speaker 1: then transferring over. Yeah, there's there's somehow a transfer from 1402 01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:43,600 Speaker 1: the topical cream. And my question is is that people 1403 01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:48,240 Speaker 1: have been using this for like twenty plus years. 1404 01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:49,040 Speaker 2: I don't even know how. 1405 01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: I mean, I remember seeing advertisements for Real Game when 1406 01:06:51,600 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 1: I was a kid. It's been around for a long time, 1407 01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:57,200 Speaker 1: So why is it all of a sudden This year alone, 1408 01:06:57,280 --> 01:07:02,400 Speaker 1: eleven cases, It just seemed it just seems unusual to me. 1409 01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:05,439 Speaker 1: And plus so many people use it in America too. 1410 01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:10,400 Speaker 1: I actually used it once because after and it's funny 1411 01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:13,160 Speaker 1: because I was thinking, like, did I use that with Luchaya? 1412 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:15,000 Speaker 2: But why would she still be hairy? You know what 1413 01:07:15,040 --> 01:07:15,360 Speaker 2: I mean? 1414 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,160 Speaker 1: But I did use it because I got extensions once 1415 01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,280 Speaker 1: and big chunks of my hair fell out. And when 1416 01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:23,680 Speaker 1: I went to the dermatologist and just asked them about that, 1417 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,680 Speaker 1: they were just like, oh, use like rogaine, It'll make 1418 01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: it grow back. And it did, which is insane. So 1419 01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,320 Speaker 1: I did use it once for a short per like 1420 01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,880 Speaker 1: for a couple of months or whatever. But it's just 1421 01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:38,040 Speaker 1: it's just really lots of people use it. 1422 01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:38,479 Speaker 2: All the time. 1423 01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:42,720 Speaker 1: So why is this just happening in eleven kids as 1424 01:07:42,760 --> 01:07:45,320 Speaker 1: opposed to all these people that use rogaine all the time. 1425 01:07:46,160 --> 01:07:46,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 1426 01:07:47,000 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 1: I find it weird that you can just like have 1427 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:51,880 Speaker 1: an ointment on your skin and then hold a baby 1428 01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden they get hairy. 1429 01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:54,400 Speaker 2: Okay. 1430 01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:57,800 Speaker 1: Other death news, So the World's most Dangerous toy has 1431 01:07:57,880 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 1: hit auction. Fewer than five foul of these have been made, 1432 01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: so they're quite valuable. But basically, back in the fifties, 1433 01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:08,280 Speaker 1: this guy, Alfred Carlton Gilbert created the Gilbert You two 1434 01:08:08,480 --> 01:08:12,840 Speaker 1: thirty eight Atomic Energy Laboratory, which was marketed towards children 1435 01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:16,360 Speaker 1: who are interested in science, and this kit has real 1436 01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:19,120 Speaker 1: uranium in it, and now it's up for auction. So 1437 01:08:19,200 --> 01:08:21,640 Speaker 1: we did a post in the grocerym back in twenty 1438 01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,640 Speaker 1: twenty three that was all about the injuries that you 1439 01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:26,800 Speaker 1: could get from different types of toys, and it was 1440 01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:29,400 Speaker 1: a it's a special Christmas post and we'll talk about 1441 01:08:29,880 --> 01:08:32,479 Speaker 1: a lot of that in our upcoming Christmas special, which 1442 01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:35,519 Speaker 1: is next week, next week, next week. 1443 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:35,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1444 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:38,320 Speaker 1: So, but this is one of the toys that we 1445 01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:42,080 Speaker 1: talked about because this is obviously like nineteen fifties. 1446 01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:44,240 Speaker 2: Just get your kids some uranium, you know. 1447 01:08:44,600 --> 01:08:47,080 Speaker 1: The problem is is that in the nineteen fifties they 1448 01:08:47,160 --> 01:08:52,680 Speaker 1: knew the dangers of radioactive materials, and so it was 1449 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:54,519 Speaker 1: weird that they were selling it to children when they 1450 01:08:54,600 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 1: knew that it could make you sick and kill you. Yeah, 1451 01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:00,400 Speaker 1: but all right, so this toy can came out in 1452 01:09:00,479 --> 01:09:03,960 Speaker 1: nineteen fifty and then within a year was banned because 1453 01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:07,400 Speaker 1: of danger. But they knew when it was when it 1454 01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:10,400 Speaker 1: came out that it wasn't that it wasn't good. You know, 1455 01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,400 Speaker 1: like short term exposure of it can make you sick. 1456 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,800 Speaker 1: But if you have like if a kid has that 1457 01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:19,559 Speaker 1: and they're playing with it for a long term. It 1458 01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:22,799 Speaker 1: could really damage the DNA and it could cause leukemia 1459 01:09:22,880 --> 01:09:25,360 Speaker 1: or something down the road. Like this is like really 1460 01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:28,040 Speaker 1: bad shit, not to mention just the kid, anybody that 1461 01:09:28,240 --> 01:09:32,639 Speaker 1: is exposed to it. So I'm actually surprised that any 1462 01:09:32,680 --> 01:09:35,479 Speaker 1: of these are kind of still hanging around and ones 1463 01:09:35,520 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: for sale. 1464 01:09:36,040 --> 01:09:38,640 Speaker 2: And did you see how much it's for? Yeah, there is. 1465 01:09:38,840 --> 01:09:41,880 Speaker 1: As of the recording of this, there is sixteen bids 1466 01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,920 Speaker 1: and it was up to twelve thousand dollars. I mean, 1467 01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:46,599 Speaker 1: it is kind of cool to be like, oh, I 1468 01:09:46,640 --> 01:09:49,280 Speaker 1: have this uranium in my house, but you don't really 1469 01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:53,519 Speaker 1: want radiation stuff around you like that. They're saying that 1470 01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,000 Speaker 1: if the containers stay sealed, it's as much radiation as 1471 01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 1: you would get from UV exposure. But like that's bad, 1472 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: So you don't even risk it. Why would you even 1473 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,400 Speaker 1: want that? But if but if someone opens it, like 1474 01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:08,640 Speaker 1: it could be really bad. I just don't understand, like 1475 01:10:08,680 --> 01:10:11,960 Speaker 1: this should be in in like a science museum, locked 1476 01:10:12,040 --> 01:10:15,439 Speaker 1: up behind some kind of lead glass or so. I 1477 01:10:15,439 --> 01:10:17,439 Speaker 1: don't know, that could just like make it more safe 1478 01:10:17,439 --> 01:10:18,160 Speaker 1: for it to be. 1479 01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,360 Speaker 2: Viewed or something. I don't know. I just think this 1480 01:10:21,439 --> 01:10:22,640 Speaker 2: is a terrible idea. 1481 01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:25,559 Speaker 1: How are they gonna ship it? Why would the auction 1482 01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:28,080 Speaker 1: house want to handle it? How are they gonna ship it? 1483 01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,320 Speaker 1: Do you know how it was stored for the last 1484 01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:33,200 Speaker 1: seventy years? Where did it come from? You have to 1485 01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:37,479 Speaker 1: ask mailman Mike about this, like, yeah, because they can't. 1486 01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:38,439 Speaker 2: They can't ship it. 1487 01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:40,760 Speaker 1: I mean like in theory they could ship it and 1488 01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 1: just not say what was in it, but that wouldn't 1489 01:10:43,200 --> 01:10:46,040 Speaker 1: be cool for the person that's uh. We have to 1490 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,360 Speaker 1: ask him if there's any stories, because he's been a 1491 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:52,160 Speaker 1: malman forever, Like if there's any stories of Postman like 1492 01:10:52,240 --> 01:10:54,960 Speaker 1: having finding out that they were carrying like a human 1493 01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:58,200 Speaker 1: head or I told you that once, right, And when 1494 01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:00,840 Speaker 1: I was working in the hospital, you got a brain 1495 01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,439 Speaker 1: set like I don't know if it was courrier or 1496 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:04,599 Speaker 1: set in the mail or whatever. 1497 01:11:04,600 --> 01:11:07,200 Speaker 2: I don't remember. We got a brain that for one 1498 01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:08,960 Speaker 2: of our neuropathologists to look at. 1499 01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: And when the guy handed me the box, I was 1500 01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:16,400 Speaker 1: kind of like, do you know what's in this box? 1501 01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,519 Speaker 1: And he was like no, And I was like, it's 1502 01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:21,920 Speaker 1: a brain, like a human brain, and he was like, 1503 01:11:22,640 --> 01:11:25,160 Speaker 1: are you joking? I was like, no, it's it really 1504 01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:26,800 Speaker 1: is there's a brain in here? Like it just was 1505 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:27,320 Speaker 1: so funny. 1506 01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:28,920 Speaker 2: I'm like, how do you not know that you're holding 1507 01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:30,800 Speaker 2: like someone's brain in this box right now? 1508 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:34,479 Speaker 1: But yeah, so I'm curious with mail and stuff like that. 1509 01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:37,760 Speaker 1: If he's ever had any like crazy stories of like 1510 01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:42,400 Speaker 1: transporting anything crazy, well, fitting ends tomorrow. So if what 1511 01:11:42,520 --> 01:11:44,560 Speaker 1: if you were interested, you get head over to the 1512 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:47,000 Speaker 1: auction site and see if you could get a chance 1513 01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,120 Speaker 1: to get this thing, which I would not advise, but 1514 01:11:50,600 --> 01:11:53,800 Speaker 1: some people clearly don't care. All right, let's move on 1515 01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,160 Speaker 1: to question to the day. Every Friday at the at 1516 01:11:56,160 --> 01:11:58,960 Speaker 1: Mother Nose Death Instagram account, we put a question box 1517 01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 1: up in the story. You, guys, ask whatever you want First. 1518 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,840 Speaker 1: What makes you more interested in natural pathology versus forensic 1519 01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:11,679 Speaker 1: I think natural pathology is more exciting to me because 1520 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:15,240 Speaker 1: I think it's more relatable. It's certainly more relatable to 1521 01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:19,400 Speaker 1: me because I don't I've known a couple people, honestly 1522 01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:22,080 Speaker 1: that have been murdered or had it. Forensics a way 1523 01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:26,120 Speaker 1: of death and injury, but more commonly, I think most 1524 01:12:26,120 --> 01:12:28,439 Speaker 1: of us could agree that we know everyone that deals 1525 01:12:28,439 --> 01:12:31,479 Speaker 1: with some kind of natural pathology, including your own self. 1526 01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:34,960 Speaker 1: So I think it's more interesting, and it's it's more 1527 01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:37,639 Speaker 1: it's I don't want, I don't know how to say 1528 01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:41,880 Speaker 1: the word it's spontaneous, it's it's it's just it's just 1529 01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,120 Speaker 1: more interesting to me than forensics. I think forensics there's 1530 01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,479 Speaker 1: just a certain amount of things that you're going to 1531 01:12:47,560 --> 01:12:51,600 Speaker 1: see that and I don't really like a lot of 1532 01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:56,040 Speaker 1: the stories that go around it. Like, for example, we 1533 01:12:56,160 --> 01:13:00,479 Speaker 1: talk about all these terrible stories here, but I don't 1534 01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:02,720 Speaker 1: have to do the autopsies on these people and the 1535 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,040 Speaker 1: surgical specimens and have any interaction with their families or anything, 1536 01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:08,519 Speaker 1: and like be able to feel the real human element 1537 01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,559 Speaker 1: of it. So I think that I'm really I'm interested 1538 01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:14,080 Speaker 1: in forensics to talk about it like that, but to 1539 01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 1: actually be doing the autopsies, which I have been involved 1540 01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,240 Speaker 1: with when I was training are it's just a lot 1541 01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:25,280 Speaker 1: different when you're actually involved with it, and sad it's 1542 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:28,320 Speaker 1: just like a kind of depressing day every day. And 1543 01:13:28,360 --> 01:13:30,720 Speaker 1: I feel like with natural pathology, it's like there's a 1544 01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:32,719 Speaker 1: lot of it is like you can't really do anything 1545 01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:34,720 Speaker 1: about it. It just happens and you kind of got 1546 01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,960 Speaker 1: a roll with it. So I don't know that's why 1547 01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:40,680 Speaker 1: I just find it a little bit more interesting. All Right, 1548 01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:46,160 Speaker 1: what does ACP mean after your name? American Society for 1549 01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:51,040 Speaker 1: Clinical Pathology. So that is after we go to PA school. 1550 01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:52,920 Speaker 1: So you have to if you're going to be a 1551 01:13:52,960 --> 01:13:55,360 Speaker 1: PA or a pathologist assistant, you have to go to 1552 01:13:55,760 --> 01:14:01,080 Speaker 1: an accredited school that is allowed to teach the pathologists 1553 01:14:01,080 --> 01:14:05,000 Speaker 1: Assistant program and once you finish that program, so that 1554 01:14:05,040 --> 01:14:07,000 Speaker 1: would be a master's degree. 1555 01:14:07,000 --> 01:14:09,360 Speaker 2: I think all of the programs are master's degrees. At 1556 01:14:09,400 --> 01:14:09,920 Speaker 2: this point. 1557 01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:13,040 Speaker 1: You have to take a test to be a certified PA. 1558 01:14:13,160 --> 01:14:15,519 Speaker 1: So if you don't take the test, then technically you're 1559 01:14:15,520 --> 01:14:18,599 Speaker 1: not a PA. And that is through the American Society 1560 01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:21,479 Speaker 1: of Clinical Pathology. So not only do we have to 1561 01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:24,759 Speaker 1: take a test when we graduate, but every three years 1562 01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,840 Speaker 1: we have to renew our certification by taking CMEs or 1563 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:34,720 Speaker 1: continuing medical Education credits to recertify. So I just did 1564 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:38,720 Speaker 1: mine right this year in August? Yeah, yeah, because I 1565 01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:42,120 Speaker 1: always am like crunching at the end. But yeah, so 1566 01:14:42,400 --> 01:14:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm good for the next three years or so to 1567 01:14:46,000 --> 01:14:50,479 Speaker 1: renew that. All right, last, what decided for both of 1568 01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:54,479 Speaker 1: you that your husband was the one you want to 1569 01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 1: go first? 1570 01:14:56,680 --> 01:14:57,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1571 01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,439 Speaker 1: I think it's one of those corny things like just 1572 01:15:00,640 --> 01:15:02,920 Speaker 1: when you know you know type of deal. It's not 1573 01:15:03,000 --> 01:15:06,599 Speaker 1: like this magical moment happens like in a Hallmark movie 1574 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:09,320 Speaker 1: or something where you realize it. I think you just 1575 01:15:09,400 --> 01:15:13,280 Speaker 1: realize how good and organic your chemistry is. For me, 1576 01:15:13,479 --> 01:15:17,280 Speaker 1: something I was seeking and my long term significant other 1577 01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:20,160 Speaker 1: was I wanted to have a lot of same interests 1578 01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:22,920 Speaker 1: but also a lot of different ones, because what fun 1579 01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:26,000 Speaker 1: is it going out with the same exact person as yourself. 1580 01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:29,639 Speaker 1: And I think part of growing a life with somebody 1581 01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:33,080 Speaker 1: is like taking on new interests or learning about something 1582 01:15:33,120 --> 01:15:35,880 Speaker 1: else and sharing different things you guys are interested in 1583 01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:39,639 Speaker 1: with each other. I also think, you know, the biggest 1584 01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:42,479 Speaker 1: contributing factor is being with somebody that's loyal and that 1585 01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,080 Speaker 1: you trust, and that genuinely loves you and cares about 1586 01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:47,840 Speaker 1: your well being and your family. And I saw all 1587 01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:50,920 Speaker 1: of those things in Ricky and very quickly, and I 1588 01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,400 Speaker 1: kind of just knew right away that we you know, 1589 01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:55,720 Speaker 1: I couldn't predict two weeks into dating that we were 1590 01:15:55,760 --> 01:15:57,920 Speaker 1: going to get married or anything, but I knew he 1591 01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 1: was really good and awesome for me pretty quickly into 1592 01:16:01,120 --> 01:16:04,519 Speaker 1: going out. Yeah, I mean, I'm like different than Maria, 1593 01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:08,599 Speaker 1: because I'm like a right away person and like lots 1594 01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:11,200 Speaker 1: of people in my Maybe Maria can't speak for that 1595 01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:13,360 Speaker 1: because she was only thirteen and she didn't really like 1596 01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:17,240 Speaker 1: understand the full depths of dating and relationships at that point. 1597 01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:19,760 Speaker 2: But like if you ask people that. 1598 01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 1: Were in my life around that time when I met Gabe, 1599 01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:26,479 Speaker 1: like my mom or maybe like Aunt Crisper Andrea, all 1600 01:16:26,520 --> 01:16:29,840 Speaker 1: these people will say like she one hundred percent knew 1601 01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:31,759 Speaker 1: that she loved him, like the very first. 1602 01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:32,559 Speaker 2: Day that she met him. 1603 01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,599 Speaker 1: Yeah, like they will one hundred percent say that, And 1604 01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:39,360 Speaker 1: I can't really explain it. It's just like prior to 1605 01:16:40,479 --> 01:16:43,080 Speaker 1: being with Gabe, I was in a relationship for like 1606 01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:47,280 Speaker 1: years before that, and it's just like and and other 1607 01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:51,760 Speaker 1: relationships too, And I just think that once I just 1608 01:16:51,880 --> 01:16:54,280 Speaker 1: met him, it just I just felt different, Like I 1609 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:56,880 Speaker 1: felt like this connection that I never wanted to be 1610 01:16:57,200 --> 01:17:00,679 Speaker 1: away from him, and it just was like this feeling 1611 01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:04,639 Speaker 1: of no one else could quite just ever be what 1612 01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:08,000 Speaker 1: he is in my life and what I feel of him. 1613 01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:11,479 Speaker 1: There were times when we first started dating because like 1614 01:17:12,640 --> 01:17:16,519 Speaker 1: it just didn't go like normal relationship stuff, just because 1615 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:20,120 Speaker 1: he was just like so weird and we broke We 1616 01:17:20,280 --> 01:17:23,919 Speaker 1: broke up in the beginning there just because I couldn't 1617 01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:26,400 Speaker 1: deal with his weirdness. And then as soon as I 1618 01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:29,400 Speaker 1: would leave him, it just I just I would try 1619 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:31,439 Speaker 1: to date other people and stuff, and I'm just like, 1620 01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,000 Speaker 1: I just like I feel like this missing thing in 1621 01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:36,080 Speaker 1: my life, like it just has to be him. There's 1622 01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:40,360 Speaker 1: no other shoes that could fill that. And I always 1623 01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:43,000 Speaker 1: think about that too, like if anything ever happened to him, 1624 01:17:43,479 --> 01:17:46,479 Speaker 1: because like a lot of like my one aunt lost 1625 01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,759 Speaker 1: her husband when Aunt Terry, when she was young. 1626 01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 2: Pretty young. 1627 01:17:50,120 --> 01:17:52,200 Speaker 1: I think she was still in her fifties maybe or 1628 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:55,439 Speaker 1: like her late fifties, and she never got remarried and 1629 01:17:55,479 --> 01:17:57,680 Speaker 1: she's in her eighties now, you know, and you just 1630 01:17:57,760 --> 01:18:00,080 Speaker 1: I just think, like I just don't ever think that 1631 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:03,080 Speaker 1: I could ever meet any person that would even be 1632 01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:06,800 Speaker 1: to that level of like what how I feel about him? 1633 01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:07,639 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 1634 01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree with that, and I think, you 1635 01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:13,439 Speaker 1: know it, I feel like so corny saying this, but 1636 01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:16,400 Speaker 1: I think there's just like a feeling you get around 1637 01:18:16,439 --> 01:18:18,800 Speaker 1: the person that you've never felt in your life, and 1638 01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:20,960 Speaker 1: you know, nobody else in the world can make you 1639 01:18:21,000 --> 01:18:21,639 Speaker 1: feel that way. 1640 01:18:22,080 --> 01:18:24,679 Speaker 2: And like when you get those type of feelings. 1641 01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:26,960 Speaker 1: I think that's when you know, like, this is your person, 1642 01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:30,760 Speaker 1: because I'm very convinced that a lot of people just 1643 01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:34,360 Speaker 1: get married to, you know, whoever's seemingly check the box, 1644 01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:37,919 Speaker 1: check the box looks good in your Facebook pictures, whatever, 1645 01:18:38,520 --> 01:18:40,960 Speaker 1: and they're not like genuinely in love with each other, 1646 01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:43,880 Speaker 1: like your husband should also be your best friend, and 1647 01:18:43,960 --> 01:18:46,760 Speaker 1: like that's how I feel about it. I don't think 1648 01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:48,920 Speaker 1: other people feel that way, but that's how I. 1649 01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:49,559 Speaker 2: Feel about it. 1650 01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,720 Speaker 1: And you know, you can just tell the difference, like 1651 01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,040 Speaker 1: you just know when you know, you genuinely know it's 1652 01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:59,720 Speaker 1: not you shouldn't ever have to question like should I 1653 01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:04,080 Speaker 1: be marrying this person? Like you should not at all? Well, 1654 01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:06,439 Speaker 1: I think, I always say one of one of the 1655 01:19:06,479 --> 01:19:09,200 Speaker 1: biggest warning signs I see with some people is when 1656 01:19:09,200 --> 01:19:11,599 Speaker 1: they get so obsessed with like what kind of ring 1657 01:19:11,680 --> 01:19:13,960 Speaker 1: they get and what kind of big, huge wedding they're 1658 01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:15,840 Speaker 1: going to get, and you're just like, do you want 1659 01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:19,360 Speaker 1: do you really like love this guy? Because that's will 1660 01:19:19,640 --> 01:19:21,840 Speaker 1: That's like always the advice I'll give to somebody, like 1661 01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:25,519 Speaker 1: if this guy couldn't really afford to give you a 1662 01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:27,960 Speaker 1: good ring, and you just had to get married by 1663 01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:32,160 Speaker 1: like the mayor. Would you still want to marry this person? 1664 01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:34,559 Speaker 1: Would you you know, would that be okay with you? 1665 01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:37,160 Speaker 1: That's why I look at it like that, because I 1666 01:19:37,160 --> 01:19:40,080 Speaker 1: think a lot of women, especially get wrapped up with 1667 01:19:40,200 --> 01:19:44,120 Speaker 1: like having these weddings that I'll do their friend's weddings 1668 01:19:44,160 --> 01:19:47,559 Speaker 1: and things like that. And you know, one of the 1669 01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 1: things with marriage is that I could say, like when 1670 01:19:50,360 --> 01:19:52,920 Speaker 1: I got married at Gabe almost eleven years ago, now 1671 01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,640 Speaker 1: our relationship is like a hundred times different than it 1672 01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:58,960 Speaker 1: was then, and in another eleven years it's going to 1673 01:19:58,960 --> 01:20:01,439 Speaker 1: be one hundred times different again. So you have to 1674 01:20:01,479 --> 01:20:05,439 Speaker 1: be with a person that's like constantly evolving with you, 1675 01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:08,439 Speaker 1: because like, I've been through so much in the past 1676 01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,360 Speaker 1: eleven years, and Gabe's been through so much in the 1677 01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:12,240 Speaker 1: past eleven years, and like, if we're not on the 1678 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: same page and always changing and supporting each other, then 1679 01:20:15,479 --> 01:20:19,000 Speaker 1: then that's when things start falling apart. You know. I 1680 01:20:19,040 --> 01:20:21,320 Speaker 1: think you also need to be with somebody that has 1681 01:20:21,360 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 1: no problem calling you out on your shit, because like, 1682 01:20:24,120 --> 01:20:26,599 Speaker 1: you just can't act like crazy and let. 1683 01:20:26,479 --> 01:20:28,960 Speaker 2: It go on. You need somebody to put you in check. 1684 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:33,240 Speaker 1: And I think that's very important, and obviously communication is 1685 01:20:33,320 --> 01:20:33,920 Speaker 1: very important. 1686 01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:39,040 Speaker 2: Check too much, too much. He puts everybody in check. Thought, 1687 01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:41,599 Speaker 2: He's like the what do the girls say? 1688 01:20:41,640 --> 01:20:44,560 Speaker 1: He is elected? But he called they call him the lecturer. 1689 01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:51,120 Speaker 1: He is a lecturer. But no, But yeah, so I 1690 01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:54,880 Speaker 1: don't know. I would say, like, like, genuinely, it's intuition. 1691 01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,120 Speaker 1: You really just know when you know that it's the 1692 01:20:57,200 --> 01:20:59,519 Speaker 1: person you're supposed to be with. It just doesn't feel 1693 01:20:59,520 --> 01:21:02,000 Speaker 1: like anything else you've ever vote before. Yeah, And I 1694 01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:05,559 Speaker 1: can say that for sure because I was almost thirty 1695 01:21:05,600 --> 01:21:08,040 Speaker 1: when I met Gabe, and I started dating when I 1696 01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,120 Speaker 1: was like fifteen years old. I've been around the block, 1697 01:21:10,479 --> 01:21:13,000 Speaker 1: you know, And I'm like, I just like it just 1698 01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:15,400 Speaker 1: was different with him, Like it just like this internal 1699 01:21:15,520 --> 01:21:16,519 Speaker 1: drives me crazy thing. 1700 01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:19,040 Speaker 2: I don't know how to explain it. Like I never 1701 01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:20,280 Speaker 2: had that with anyone else. 1702 01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,320 Speaker 1: And there were times before him that I felt like 1703 01:21:23,400 --> 01:21:25,800 Speaker 1: I loved a person I was with, and I was 1704 01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,080 Speaker 1: with a person for a while, but a lot of 1705 01:21:28,120 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: the times it was kind of like I like this 1706 01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,479 Speaker 1: situation or I like, there's like this famous episode of 1707 01:21:33,840 --> 01:21:36,600 Speaker 1: Sex in the City where Carrie's dating this guy that 1708 01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:39,240 Speaker 1: she doesn't really like, but she loves his mom. I 1709 01:21:39,280 --> 01:21:41,759 Speaker 1: had one of those boyfriends too, Like this guy dated 1710 01:21:41,760 --> 01:21:44,680 Speaker 1: when I was like seventeen. 1711 01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:48,040 Speaker 2: Or something for two years. He sucked so bad. He sucked. 1712 01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,800 Speaker 2: He actually wasn't cute at all, not my type at all. 1713 01:21:51,400 --> 01:21:53,960 Speaker 1: And but I loved his mom so much and she 1714 01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 1: loved me, and I loved like his dad. I loved 1715 01:21:56,400 --> 01:21:58,360 Speaker 1: the family and going over there and like I used 1716 01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:00,799 Speaker 1: to do her nails and like all this stuff. 1717 01:22:00,840 --> 01:22:04,360 Speaker 2: And then like you're in love with this situation, but 1718 01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,439 Speaker 2: you're just like, if he was just different, this would 1719 01:22:06,439 --> 01:22:06,960 Speaker 2: be perfect. 1720 01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: But like you know, that happens all the time. There's 1721 01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:11,720 Speaker 1: always like every relationship you're in, there's like this. 1722 01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:16,880 Speaker 2: Butt and you know, I don't know. Yeah, But all right, 1723 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:21,679 Speaker 2: that's our stories. Thank you guys. We'll see you later 1724 01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:22,240 Speaker 2: in the week. 1725 01:22:22,400 --> 01:22:29,040 Speaker 1: Sayah, thank you for listening to mother nos Death. As 1726 01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:33,439 Speaker 1: a reminder, my training is as a pathologists assistant. I 1727 01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:36,920 Speaker 1: have a master's level education and specialize in anatomy and 1728 01:22:36,960 --> 01:22:40,479 Speaker 1: pathology education. I am not a doctor and I have 1729 01:22:40,640 --> 01:22:44,400 Speaker 1: not diagnosed or treated anyone dead or alive without the 1730 01:22:44,439 --> 01:22:49,760 Speaker 1: assistance of a licensed medical doctor. 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