1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: It is time for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:07,560 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, 3 00:00:07,760 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: please please please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:11,640 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Buckle up, hold on tight. 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you, nephew. Subjects torn 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: between my daddy and my man. Here's Stephen Shirley. I 7 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,960 Speaker 1: am a thirty two year old single mom of a 8 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 1: sixteen year old and I still live at home with 9 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: my eighty four year old father. I have never moved 10 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: out because I never wanted my daughter to suffer through 11 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: any hardships or go without having the things she wants 12 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: and needs. My dad takes good care of us, so 13 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: that helps me save money. Here's a problem. I've been 14 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: dating a man for four years and we have a 15 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: great relationship, but he is pressuring me to move in 16 00:00:53,520 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: with him with my daughter. Financially, I am not ready 17 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: to start splitting the expenses with him because I have 18 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: a few small bills to pay off first. My boyfriend 19 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: keeps telling me that it's not a problem because he 20 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 1: will take care of all the bills. I'm not married 21 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: to him, and I need to be sure if I 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: can take care of myself and my daughter if things 23 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 1: don't work out with this man. There's also a bigger 24 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 1: issue that we need to work out through before I 25 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 1: move in with him. He has told me that if 26 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: we move in together, my dad will not be able 27 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: to come over to our place to visit. He stated 28 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: that my dad has always been rude to him and 29 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,399 Speaker 1: makes him feel uncomfortable, and he will not tolerate it 30 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: in his own home. He also said my dad will 31 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:42,199 Speaker 1: not be welcome at our family gatherings and outings now 32 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 1: my dad. Now, my dad has not been the kindest 33 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: person to my boyfriend and my family, but he is 34 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: still my dad. I don't think I should be considering 35 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 1: moving in with my boyfriend if this is something that 36 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: we won't compromise on. It seems that he may be 37 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 1: a little too controlling, especially if he will be paying 38 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: all of the bills. What do you think I should do? 39 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: Stay or go? Stay? I think you should stay with 40 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 1: your dad or get your own place if you can't 41 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: afford it. I mean, why would you want to go 42 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: somewhere with someone who feels this way about your eighty 43 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,399 Speaker 1: four year old dad. You're not married, to this man. 44 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: You didn't mention that he proposed to you or anything. 45 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: You're not engaged to him, and he could be very 46 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: much controlling. You've been with him for four years now, 47 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: you say, and he's promising that he'll take care of 48 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: your small bills, your few small bills if you move 49 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 1: in with him. I'm just thinking, in four years, why 50 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: why hasn't he helped you already? I mean, that could 51 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,799 Speaker 1: be one of the reasons your dad doesn't like him. 52 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: I just say, you're a mother. You have a sixteen 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: year old daughter. You have to be an example for her. 54 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: I don't think you would once your sixteen year old, 55 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: I mean your daughter, you know, when she becomes of age. 56 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: Of course, in a situation like this, I don't think 57 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: there's any benefit for you right now to move in 58 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: with this guy. I mean, you're thirty two years old, 59 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: so you have to move out one day soon, hopefully 60 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: and be on your own. But you should certainly want 61 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,839 Speaker 1: it to be with the right guy with the right situation, 62 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,079 Speaker 1: and that would be someone who would at least try 63 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 1: to work it out with your dad, I mean, not 64 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: shut him out in a vengeful way like this guy's doing. 65 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 1: I don't think he should turn he should be turning 66 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: his back on your dad. That is your dad, after all. 67 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: I think you should stay where you are for now. 68 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: You've been saving money, save money to move out on 69 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: your own, Steve, this is a no goal for me. 70 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: You're thirty two years old, you got sixteen year old 71 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: daughter you live with, You're eighty four year old father. 72 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: This man that came along, you've been dating for four 73 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: years now. If y'all gonna move in, why don't y'all 74 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: get married? He just wants you to move in, right, 75 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: I didn't see marriage on here. And then you stay 76 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: with your father because you didn't want your daughter to suffer. 77 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 1: Your father takes get care you in four years. I 78 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,839 Speaker 1: agree with Shirley. This dude ain't helped you in four 79 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 1: years with these little bills. I'm sorry, man, but if 80 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: you're listening as a man, you're talking a man. I 81 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 1: ain't gonna help her with her bills. Well you don't 82 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: have to, but can I tell you something technically we're 83 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: supposed to. I don't know where this got lost in 84 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: the good old days, but it's obviously lost because you 85 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: all get together now and want to keep everything separate. 86 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,920 Speaker 1: You join together with a person to become one. If 87 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: you don't want to become one, quit joining with these 88 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: damn people. Now, this dude don't here wants you to 89 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: pull up ranks, then in here he comes with it. 90 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: Funker ass. Now, your daddy didn't put it in all 91 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: the hard work, you and your daughter. Now when y'all 92 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: get together, your damn daddy can't come over here. Shelly 93 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: hit it on the head because let me explain something 94 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 1: to you. Eighty foe, No, eighty four year old man. 95 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: He knows some stuff. He got a feeling about your 96 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,359 Speaker 1: boyfrid first of all four years of coming through that 97 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: he don't like to dude, because he eighty four and 98 00:05:04,200 --> 00:05:06,559 Speaker 1: he know how he should be active and he ain't 99 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,479 Speaker 1: seeing that. So now he don't like him, and he 100 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: ain't gonna turn his daughter and his little princess over 101 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 1: to these dude. That's what he don't like it. Now, 102 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: your boyfriend, No, he don't like him, and he feel 103 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: uncomfortable with him not liking him. Now he don't want 104 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: him more with the house because he said he make 105 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 1: him feel uncomfortable when he comes, you know, White make 106 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 1: hi feel uncomfortable because he's shady and old dudes know it, 107 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: and they ain't going to play that game with you 108 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 1: in the house. He said your dad would not be 109 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: welcome at our family gatherings and OUTI hemn, man, your 110 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: daddy eighty four. This dude can't pull his man who 111 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 1: had pants up a little bit tighter for however long 112 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,919 Speaker 1: your daddy got left and at least just be cordier 113 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: to the man. He might not be the greatest to him, 114 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,839 Speaker 1: but to you and that girl, he'd been y'all's everything. 115 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: And if he came on it in respect the fact 116 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,280 Speaker 1: that this man then lived eighty four years and it 117 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 1: took care of you when obviously you had the baby 118 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: at sixteen, he put you out, he embraced you. Now, man, 119 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 1: this is not to do, and he just want to 120 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 1: move you in. You're scared to go, And the reason 121 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: you're scared to go because you don't feel secure with him. 122 00:06:21,560 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, man, it's this strawberry go letter going 123 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 1: this move. You know why I go ja here insecure? 124 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 1: You know I've been doing this strawberry letter for years, Michelle, 125 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: and we just be doing it. Her response, my response, 126 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 1: and all of a sudden, I noticed all my damn response, 127 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: I gotta stop and address something. Hold on and bit 128 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: of black bound That Part two of Steve's response coming 129 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: up at twenty three after the hours. Freshman, you're listening 130 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: to show, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's 131 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,480 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. Now, thirty two year old woman got a 132 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: sixteen year old baby, been living at home with the 133 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: eighty four year old father because she didn't want to 134 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: move out, because she wanted her daughter to stuff my 135 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: dad take good care of him. Problems she got. She'd 136 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: been dating this man for four years. She say they 137 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: got a great relationship, but he's pressuring me to move 138 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: in with him with my daughter. Now. The ladies say 139 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: she ain't ready to do that financially because she ain't 140 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 1: ready to start splitting expenses with him, because she got 141 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: a few small bills to pay off. And my boyfriend 142 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,520 Speaker 1: keep telling her Dad ain't no problem. See what's gonna 143 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: make it the difference for you? Now, you could have 144 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: been helping this girl with her financial problem, but you didn't. 145 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna come move in and I'm gonna help you. 146 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: He hadn't told you that he don't want that yo 147 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 1: eighty for you old daddy to come nowhere near his house. 148 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: He ain't welcome because he made him feel uncomfortable. You 149 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 1: know why, the eighty four year old man making feel 150 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:57,119 Speaker 1: uncomfortable because eighty four no, and he hadn't read this dude, 151 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: and he don't like the way head. He ain't got 152 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: enough sys to honor the fact that this is your 153 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 1: eighty for year old daddy. And how much ever longer 154 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: he got at least let y'all have y'all time together. 155 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: But that don't suit what he wanted. So his standing, trifling, 156 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 1: non compromising, self center, he won't all and go his way. Well, 157 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,320 Speaker 1: that's not how it works. You even said your dad 158 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: ain't been the kindest person to your boyfriend, because your 159 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: daddy know now, I don't think I should be considering 160 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: moving in with my boyfriend, and this is something that 161 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,800 Speaker 1: he won't compromise on. You shouldn't. So now you can't 162 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:37,559 Speaker 1: have relationship with your daddy who has always had his 163 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 1: arms open to you and your daughter to have relationship, 164 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: and this dude wants you to sever that relationship. Who 165 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 1: wants that to happen? Man? What decent man? So you 166 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:51,200 Speaker 1: gotta ask yourself a couple questions about your boyfriend. Why 167 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 1: won't he do anything to make me happy? You've been 168 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: dating for for year? Why don't he marry you? Why 169 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: don't he help you with your bills? Now? What is 170 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: it about him that your daddy know that he don't 171 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 1: like about it? Now? Why isn't he don't want your 172 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 1: daddy over to the house no more? And don't want 173 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 1: your daddy coming to no family gatherers. This is eighty 174 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: four year old man that's been holding the family down 175 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 1: his entire adult male life. Now here, this dude, come, 176 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: this is not a good relationship to get into. If 177 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: I were you, I would say no. And if he can't, 178 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: at least treat your father dc. Even if your father 179 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: is a little rude, he old, So it's okay. Yeah, yeah, 180 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,839 Speaker 1: i'ma tell you right now, you're lucky. Wasn't my daddy 181 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: slick harming? Let me explain something to you. My father man, 182 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: he didn't something about see old dupers at their house. 183 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: They don't play, they don't change nothing at their house. Tommy, 184 00:09:53,240 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 1: your daddy was the same way. This is his house. 185 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 1: My daddy was the same way, this is his house, 186 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:04,719 Speaker 1: coming here fixing nothing for you? If he don't like you. 187 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: You're gonna find out about it if you come in 188 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,960 Speaker 1: his house. I had a friend of mine that my 189 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: daddy didn't like. He couldn't come past the kitchen. What 190 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: do you mean, Jeffrey overhill? Jeff stay that by that dough. 191 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 1: Jeffrey couldn't make it in. No, Jeffrey could not come 192 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: in my house because you know we're a little small house. 193 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 1: You come through the back door. When you open the 194 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: door to refrigerator, you could touch refrigerator when you open 195 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: the door to the left and behind it. I mean 196 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 1: you could touch the stove to the left, and refrigerator 197 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: was behind the dough. When Jeffrey come in, he come 198 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: in the kitchen. He could shut the door. Couldn't bring 199 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: his ass out that kitchen because he ain't like Jeffrey. 200 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: He's still oh yeah, my dad had or somebody like that. 201 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: He an't like one of my pockets. He always get 202 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: my pocket to two spoon and say click these spoons together. 203 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: And you know, my friends like, mister, what I'm doing this? 204 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: I didn't know where you had my damn keeps them spoon, click, 205 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 1: keep them keep clicking them damn spoon right there. I 206 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,319 Speaker 1: bet I better hear them spoon, they're time I'm walking 207 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 1: in old school. Is just funny, isn't it. Jeffrey Gil 208 00:11:17,559 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: stayed by the damn doge. I'm talking about maybe if 209 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: four friends come over, Jeffrey come in and he knew. 210 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 1: You know, my friend laughed at eight Gils. Stay there, 211 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: stay dore, mister Harvey. I'm right here, Hey, mister Harvey, 212 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,160 Speaker 1: How miss Harvey, you stay your ad by that dough. 213 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 1: Now we're being there for ten minutes. They'd be waiting 214 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: on me anything. He could not come past that dope. Man, 215 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: don't walk past it. Fitzer, that was this mark like 216 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: Jeffrey's parents. Did they know his parents? Na Jeffrey Jeffrey 217 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 1: lived one hundred fourteen. My dad ain't talking nobody over 218 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 1: over there. You know, we don't go far, he man. 219 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 1: My daddy was clear, we want twelve street people. We 220 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: want twelve street penn. We don't go over there. One fourteen. 221 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what they're doing around your bike over there. 222 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: You can go over there, but there ain't me nobody Mama, 223 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 1: Dad over there. I don't know them. People don't know 224 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: what they're doing over there. That's funny, it's the truth. 225 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 1: They had us. We don't go around now. St people 226 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: were hunted. Twelve street people. I know there. I know 227 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: how they keep their yard. I know how the garbage 228 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: can look. I know when they put sent the trash 229 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: out on the curve. I know these people. Yeah, I 230 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: don't like where they garbage can't look over there all 231 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 1: being at all up and there the hell of a 232 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: reason not to like the family. The way your damn 233 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: garbage can't right, they got dance on, they can't. They 234 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: ain't got no ain't got no lead. What are you lead? 235 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: All right? Listen, guys. We you can email us or 236 00:13:11,240 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter. We gotta 237 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: get out of people. Go to Steve Harvey FM. You're 238 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 1: listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.