Speaker 1: There was a problem where taking money.
Speaker 2: All right, welcome, Oh we match color scheme wise, Welcome
Speaker 2: to two cool moms.
Speaker 3: I am Joe Gatto.
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Steve Burn also known as don't text back
Speaker 2: here we are. So four sent messages to you. Over
Speaker 2: the course of a couple of days. Zero response is back,
Speaker 2: and then I get her response back.
Speaker 3: It's like, hey, how are you?
Speaker 1: While I was sitting next to you. No, but we
Speaker 1: talked on the phone. I called you, remember, Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: call you negate that I did.
Speaker 2: Take that out of the mixture, right.
Speaker 1: You're right, Hey, they did.
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not above admitting I'm wrong. I'm wrong.
Speaker 1: Turn your never.
Speaker 3: That's great.
Speaker 1: I can show you how I.
Speaker 2: Went to the Quad Cities and I loved it.
Speaker 1: What is the Quad City QC's I went to. I
Speaker 1: bought this.
Speaker 2: I wanted to show Jiggy this. So the Quad Cities,
Speaker 2: it changes, well, it depends when you asked. But it's
Speaker 2: like Mollin, East Moleen, Davenport and uh Miami.
Speaker 1: I'm not sure.
Speaker 2: But I asked like five different people when I was
Speaker 2: going around town, and they were always they always named
Speaker 2: a different one. So I couldn't get a straight answer
Speaker 2: at anybody. But I think it's it's like a thing there.
Speaker 2: But we found it too. I was very upset that
Speaker 2: you weren't with us because we found some men's shops
Speaker 2: and we did some men's shopping.
Speaker 1: I walked in.
Speaker 2: I thought, you're gonna love. A couple of them were great. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I there was little sleeper hits there and just taking
Speaker 2: a nap. Ski and Davenport joke out and be like.
Speaker 1: Hey, no, there's no subtle Joe entering a shop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm here.
Speaker 3: I like to be I like to let people know
Speaker 3: I'm here and ready to go.
Speaker 1: This This is a question I have for you. Sure,
Speaker 1: because you like to go out on the road. You
Speaker 1: like to drop a dime on some clothing a shop local.
Speaker 1: Do you bring a lot back and then check your
Speaker 1: bag or you what do you do disposable.
Speaker 3: Last stuff with me and throw it out? You just
Speaker 3: chuck it on the floor.
Speaker 1: The on the I've seen you ripped shirts.
Speaker 3: I ripped them off.
Speaker 1: Sometimes they make it a joke if it's this weekend.
Speaker 3: I couldn't button a shirt legit, couldn't even button.
Speaker 2: It when I went to put it on, and I
Speaker 2: had to Justin was with us, and I had to
Speaker 2: send them back to the hotel room to get me
Speaker 2: a different outfit because I didn't. I was in a
Speaker 2: rush to get there, so I was like, I'll just
Speaker 2: grab this and I went to button it and I.
Speaker 1: Did the oh no, it wasn't even close it really, you.
Speaker 3: Know like sometimes you like, I'll get it.
Speaker 1: It was like nipsymmetrical, yeah, hiroish oh no, And I
Speaker 1: was like oh. And I was like, I'll just wear
Speaker 1: it open, but I when was the last time you
Speaker 1: wear that shirt?
Speaker 3: The late eighteens.
Speaker 2: And I had a stained undershirt because it was an undershirt.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it doesn't matter. I couldn't wear
Speaker 1: it open because.
Speaker 3: I had a big coffee stain.
Speaker 1: Did you so you could wear one of your merch shirt?
Speaker 3: I don't like that. My merch hairt is a big
Speaker 3: is my face?
Speaker 1: You don't want to do that?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, Yeah, yes I didn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna do that.
Speaker 2: I have done that before when I took my shirt
Speaker 2: off and threw it into the crowd, because I've seen that,
Speaker 2: you know, they they've you know, the people got to
Speaker 2: get the people they want.
Speaker 3: And I've thrown on a merch shirt before.
Speaker 2: We always laughed because in the first season of Jokers,
Speaker 2: he used to wear, un ironically around town a true
Speaker 2: TV shirt of his own thing.
Speaker 3: And we found that weird and we always made fun
Speaker 3: of him for it.
Speaker 2: And uh, he got called out by two cops at
Speaker 2: the Staaten Island Ferry really like, hey, you have murder
Speaker 2: and practicing jokes and goes, yeah, he's wearing the fucking shirt.
Speaker 1: He doesn't mind being recognized, does He's.
Speaker 3: Somebody that's the people's people.
Speaker 1: Did you?
Speaker 3: Did you ever?
Speaker 2: What was your biggest merch item that you've that you've done.
Speaker 1: I'm not a big merch guy. I don't like doing it.
Speaker 1: I don't like standing there, I don't like like, I
Speaker 1: don't like like taking the card and hi. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just I'd rather do anything but that. Really. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: love doing the performing. I love dipping. But I used
Speaker 1: to have a Sausage Party t shirt, yes, where it
Speaker 1: was like a five silhouetted like boy band poses and
Speaker 1: it said Sausage Party World Tour and then listed all
Speaker 1: the cities I was in that year and I did it,
Speaker 1: and yeah, girls bought it, but no dudes ever bought
Speaker 1: it because if they wanted a thing with sausage party
Speaker 1: A yeah.
Speaker 2: Which is kind of funny, let's get into it.
Speaker 1: But I did sausage Party. I did a crowd work
Speaker 1: show in Nashville on Monday. And I've done that bit.
Speaker 1: I mean twelve fifteen years I've done it. It's a
Speaker 1: fun bit. I love doing it because I never know
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. The audience leaves there, they're so happy.
Speaker 1: But but this I brought this guy up, this black guy,
Speaker 1: and he was you know, you always you kind of
Speaker 1: have the black guy go last because you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: he's probably godn't know what he's doing, right dancer this rhythm.
Speaker 1: I've done this bit again twelve to fifteen years. I've
Speaker 1: seen many versions of it. This was hands down. I
Speaker 1: have video of it. Somebody took video of it. I have,
Speaker 1: hands down, this is the best one I've ever seen.
Speaker 3: Wow, there's a bold stay.
Speaker 1: There's a woman named Noreen who became part of the show.
Speaker 1: She in her sixties. I was just you know, she
Speaker 1: was fun. When I called her up on stage, the
Speaker 1: crowd chanted her name. I was like, Wow, this is
Speaker 1: gonna be fun. Okay, cool. So she comes up. She's
Speaker 1: a great sport. She's smiling, she's excited to be there.
Speaker 1: It's like price is right. She gets on stage like yeah,
Speaker 1: black guy. She The reason I said it is like
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, you get to cross something off
Speaker 1: your bucket list. And she goes, oh Steven, I go yes,
Speaker 1: and I put the mic down. She goes, I've had
Speaker 1: black and I was like, oh my, and the crowd
Speaker 1: again she had nor Reen Noreen. It was like, okay,
Speaker 1: we're off to the races. So I completely had forgotten
Speaker 1: this guy had brought up. I'd't seen him in a while.
Speaker 1: He used to be security at the club. A former marine.
Speaker 1: Super nice guy, kind of you know under underspoken, doesn't
Speaker 1: not outgoing, you know. She's kind of like comes up
Speaker 1: up and he just puts his hands up to her.
Speaker 1: She puts her hands in his and he literally just
Speaker 1: picks her up and just starts drilling her in the
Speaker 1: air and she is like bucking on like an and
Speaker 1: she is dying laughing. Her head is snapping back, she's laughing.
Speaker 1: She go who and he's like hitting her, but then
Speaker 1: he does the old rapid punch. He's like, she's just
Speaker 1: like this. It was like a.
Speaker 3: Magic mic moment.
Speaker 1: I fell to the ground. I was crying. I was
Speaker 1: laughing so hard. And then we had another four minutes
Speaker 1: after that bit. But I have the video. I'll send
Speaker 1: it a well institute in this or whatever. But could
Speaker 1: have been my favorite one I've ever seen, standing ovation
Speaker 1: after Sawtage Party, which I've seen a handful of times,
Speaker 1: but this one was like everybody wrapped hers up top.
Speaker 1: It was sold out, everybody stood up and it was
Speaker 1: one of those great moments.
Speaker 2: Do you think that Noreens Night started with sure, I
Speaker 2: go catch a comedy show.
Speaker 3: Next thing she knows, she's.
Speaker 2: Being levitated by a reg Democrat two hundred and fifty
Speaker 2: strangers her name yelling Norrin.
Speaker 1: She's like, this is my life.
Speaker 3: I hope she went out till I got hit by
Speaker 3: a truck and died, because.
Speaker 1: That's a great Now again better yeah, it'll never get better. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She was in her sixties, and I really thought before
Speaker 1: she did it, I was teasing her. I was like,
Speaker 1: don't die, yeah, you know, as like a line. But
Speaker 1: when she was getting bucked, I was like, oh, seriously,
Speaker 1: don't die. I mean, I'm really she was getting chucked,
Speaker 1: and then.
Speaker 3: That's so fun.
Speaker 1: For no walk it off, Nourene walk it off, because
Speaker 1: the danger with that bit is sometimes you get Here's
Speaker 1: what I've learned the last few years is when I
Speaker 1: first did it, I was a guy my twenty or
Speaker 1: you know, early thirties. When I started doing, I think,
Speaker 1: and you could pick out girls kind of like your
Speaker 1: own age. It was fun. Something happened in the last
Speaker 1: four or five years were young girls with all the
Speaker 1: me too stuff and everything, they don't want any part
Speaker 1: of it. I've had a handful of girls just like No,
Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't ask for this. I've had a
Speaker 1: few get up and walk out. And then what I've
Speaker 1: had is I've brought up like a woman in her
Speaker 1: forties and fifties or like a sixties and they go bananas.
Speaker 1: Well they're they're in a different mindset too, right, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: they don't give a shit. They're grabbing ass, they're feeling
Speaker 1: the guys they're getting like really hands I.
Speaker 2: Had a that reminds me of a I had a
Speaker 2: very handsy coworker when I was in my late twenties
Speaker 2: named Ricky Party City nice fella. I worked with this
Speaker 2: older woman I think her name was Alison, not Hundreercent.
Speaker 3: She always either Alice or Allison. But she was super.
Speaker 2: She was like in her late fifties maybe sixties, working
Speaker 2: to register at Party City, and she would always like
Speaker 2: corner me in the stock room be like help me
Speaker 2: with this box.
Speaker 3: Like it was really weird.
Speaker 2: And I was like, it's so funny to think, like
Speaker 2: she was like she couldn't wait to go to work.
Speaker 3: She was like, I'm gonna get stock.
Speaker 2: But it's so funny to see, like when you get
Speaker 2: hit on by older women when you're older, or even
Speaker 2: when you're younger, I guess, but like when you're when
Speaker 2: you're when you're younger, it's just like super weird because
Speaker 2: like it's like sometimes like you're attracted back, and do
Speaker 2: you remember like a couple of cougar moments you had
Speaker 2: where you're like, oh, I'm talking about when you were younger.
Speaker 2: It was like oh yeah, yeah, yeah, she still got it.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sure, yeah. I love that they did that.
Speaker 2: That was my favorite thing about Golden Girls, that they
Speaker 2: made Blanche, the way they made her. Oh that was
Speaker 2: so phenomenal, Like even before like think about when they
Speaker 2: made that TV show, right sure, Like that was such
Speaker 2: a smart, fun move to make her just like own her.
Speaker 1: A sexuality old on Sullivan and Sudden, we did that
Speaker 1: with Christine. She was very promiscuous. But the thing we
Speaker 1: did on our show, which had never been seen in television,
Speaker 1: which we always loved, is that Christine and Owen Benjamin
Speaker 1: her Son, it was always like are they having sex?
Speaker 1: Like they were? They were always so comfortable with each
Speaker 1: other sexually, and they would be each other's wingman or
Speaker 1: wing person. But they would also say things where just
Speaker 1: like they'd leave, We're like, are they banging? Like should
Speaker 1: we call the cops? Like this is weird? There was
Speaker 1: an episode where oh, we did a karaoke episode and
Speaker 1: they were singing like yes, I remember, like they were
Speaker 1: like banging each other. We're like, what is going on?
Speaker 1: It was That was the dynamic I really really liked
Speaker 1: on our show. Oh my God, and she's she's just fantastic.
Speaker 1: But anytime the old trope of the older sexualized woman
Speaker 1: was always fun.
Speaker 2: My mom's relationship was very much like Owen Benjamin and
Speaker 2: Christine's with me and my mom.
Speaker 3: As she got older.
Speaker 2: Really, my mom was active, okay, and that's a polite
Speaker 2: way of yeah, because she came up anyway, became Yeah,
Speaker 2: she became a widow at fifty two. No, if she
Speaker 2: was even that old, I don't even know she was
Speaker 2: fifty two. Yeah, I think she was fifty two. Right,
Speaker 2: So she was young and vibrant her whole life, right,
Speaker 2: And she was a good looking lady. Mom Duke's uh
Speaker 2: silver fox, you know, turned some heads.
Speaker 1: And when you have a great personality as well, or
Speaker 1: it's tough not to.
Speaker 3: Say she was ugly about her personality was no, no, no.
Speaker 1: No, you're saying she's good looking. But when you have
Speaker 1: that together, you know what I mean, when when you're
Speaker 1: a little older, personality goes so fucking you're killing it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look at me, Look at me crushing it. Crushing it.
Speaker 1: Stand back form the line to the left, silver funks.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So my mother and not very much like she would
Speaker 2: talk about very openly about her dating life and then
Speaker 2: like her first quarter, like the first church, Like if
Speaker 2: I came off from day whatever, I think, so she'd be.
Speaker 1: Like sitping a cofee and home moo. She'd be like,
Speaker 1: so did you bang?
Speaker 2: Sal is always super like uncomfortable around me, and my
Speaker 2: mother too, because I've always just talk about anything with
Speaker 2: my mom and and I'd be like my mom, like
Speaker 2: I go what. I would go out with Sal and Sala.
Speaker 2: Sometimes we'll come back to my house and crash. We
Speaker 2: would just hanging out whatever. And we wake up and
Speaker 2: behind breakfast with my mom. She's like, so, boys, I
Speaker 2: was at night last Like, like, Mom, you should have
Speaker 2: seen the ass on this one.
Speaker 1: She's like, tell me, you.
Speaker 3: Know, like that.
Speaker 2: But we had that like kind of open relationship too.
Speaker 2: I hope that my kids are comfortable like that because my.
Speaker 1: Niece and they're going to be they have no true
Speaker 1: my niece.
Speaker 2: And nephew just started being uh, they went to college
Speaker 2: right now, so they're eighteen. They're eighteen years old, freshman's
Speaker 2: in college, and they have My sister has a very.
Speaker 3: Good rapport with them as well. Sure they're very open
Speaker 3: about talking.
Speaker 1: About but your sisters, like you, they're very outgoing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I would be hard pressed to think that they'd be
Speaker 1: recluse to around the kids or whatever.
Speaker 2: I think outgoing parents though, because it's a different dynamic
Speaker 2: with your kids and you have with you know, being
Speaker 2: outgoing with your kids doesn't Outgoing isn't really a word
Speaker 2: you use for your parents, right, because your parents are
Speaker 2: the outgoing is like for strangers. So, but if your
Speaker 2: parents are approachable or sure outspoken, maybe.
Speaker 1: Right, right, there's a big difference between approachable and outspoke
Speaker 1: one hundred percent. I would I would assume that your
Speaker 1: mother is probably was probably outspoken, very vibrant. Yes, what
Speaker 1: I guess, sure, yeah, sure you never met her never? No, No,
Speaker 1: she goes by the grave.
Speaker 3: We go by the grave.
Speaker 1: You bring it up all the time. So, yeah, my folk,
Speaker 1: my father is always approachable. My father, dad is he's like,
Speaker 1: he's just a he's a great dude.
Speaker 2: So he's one of those guys that he always feels
Speaker 2: like your uncle, you know, he's got that vibe about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's you're instantly part of his family.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the kids always like my dad. My dad
Speaker 1: would always come to the comedy sets, the comics love
Speaker 1: my father. He's just a great dude, very outgoing, but
Speaker 1: but still like a father. You know. He's not my buddy,
Speaker 1: he's not my friend. He's like he's my dad. And
Speaker 1: my mom is just just the sweetest little lady that
Speaker 1: can barely She gets so insecure about her English that
Speaker 1: she gets really inhibited, should get quiet and but She's
Speaker 1: the most brutally honest woman I've ever met in my life.
Speaker 1: She remember my wife, Jessica, her younger sister Amanda, uh,
Speaker 1: look very similar, and then Lindsay doesn't really look like them,
Speaker 1: but you know, you could tell their sisters, but jess
Speaker 1: and Amanda look alike. And then Lindsay, you know, anyways,
Speaker 1: could be like a cousin. But they're all sisters, right,
Speaker 1: And so my mom knows Jessica knows Amanda, and meeting
Speaker 1: Lindsay for the first time, to this day, I can't
Speaker 1: believe she said this. She goes, she goes, oh, hi,
Speaker 1: She's like, yeah, I'm a Lindsay, I'm Jessica's sister. She goes, oh, sister,
Speaker 1: you look weird. I was like, oh no, oh no,
Speaker 1: you just feel yourself leaving your body and you're instantly like,
Speaker 1: grab the tools. I gotta do patchwork. I gotta fucking
Speaker 1: fix this.
Speaker 2: And she's like, oh, I mean it's just your eyes
Speaker 2: they're too far apart.
Speaker 1: But unusual to the other two. My mom doesn't have
Speaker 1: the dense vocabulary, so that's what she said. And I'm
Speaker 1: just like, oh, for fox sake, so that's great. I
Speaker 1: don't get stuck like it did. Apologize the next like
Speaker 1: twenty times a solid. By the way, my mom, you
Speaker 1: know she wasn't. Fuck. You look weird?
Speaker 3: Weird?
Speaker 1: Who wants to hear that?
Speaker 3: I get that all the time.
Speaker 1: You look weird?
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, yeah, I get that.
Speaker 1: Why why would you look weird?
Speaker 3: I mean, look at me, I'm a weird looking fella.
Speaker 1: I don't think so.
Speaker 2: I mean my body type is very weird. Well, like
Speaker 2: all all my fats in my stomach right pretty much.
Speaker 1: I look at my arms.
Speaker 3: Look, I look kind of jacked.
Speaker 1: You look like if you were in the ocean from
Speaker 1: here up. He's kind of like a good looking Yeah.
Speaker 1: And then and then you get out and it's like
Speaker 1: getting fish start flowing to the top, just dead fish.
Speaker 3: Oh it's low tide.
Speaker 1: Kids are screaming, hell's weird, like on the whistle, helicopter's
Speaker 1: coming in. Weird weird. But you you admit you don't
Speaker 1: do anything. No, I say, do you want to take
Speaker 1: a walk. I don't take a walk for what? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't. You don't three blocks? You don't exercise at all. No.
Speaker 2: I used to work on my feet a lot, and
Speaker 2: I don't any excuse me. I used to work on
Speaker 2: my feet a lot.
Speaker 1: So you considered working on your feet that was exercise
Speaker 1: for sure.
Speaker 2: I mean, if you don't sit down for all day,
Speaker 2: you know, there's the difference. Now I sit down at
Speaker 2: your computer, I'm right, and I'm doing whatever. You know,
Speaker 2: But like it's I was used to be not sit for.
Speaker 3: You know, twelve to fourteen hours a day.
Speaker 1: Sure, it's crazy you're up and around you when you're
Speaker 1: getting your steps in. Do you not get steps in
Speaker 1: at all?
Speaker 3: Like it is something?
Speaker 1: Do you when's the last time you had the gumption
Speaker 1: to be like, I should get off the couch and
Speaker 1: do something. I should do something like for my health.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure it was two thousand and four, Joseph,
Speaker 1: jose you know that's not good to not be somewhat active. No,
Speaker 1: I'm yeah, because when we're on the road, I've mentioned
Speaker 1: it to you, but like, hey, we should take it,
Speaker 1: you know whatever. But you you walk through shops and stuff.
Speaker 1: So I walk about town, you walk about town. Maybe
Speaker 1: that's considered.
Speaker 2: I guess you're gonna get step I'm not just like,
Speaker 2: oh we're going lethargic, big fatty.
Speaker 3: I don't mind it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably should. You could do more?
Speaker 3: Well, we all could.
Speaker 1: Of course I should, I absolutely could. But but you,
Speaker 1: I think you.
Speaker 2: Was That's something people say, what because like I should
Speaker 2: do more? And I'm owning that I should definitely do more.
Speaker 2: And I answered, we all could do more. I'll throw
Speaker 2: it in a royal way like no, it's like I
Speaker 2: get it.
Speaker 1: I get it. But Joe, we're talking about you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'll do more.
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 3: How was that? I'm not sitting around all day now.
Speaker 3: This is my job now is sit.
Speaker 1: Around and walk to you and she do the hokey pokey.
Speaker 2: Turn myself around and then you're done. That's what it's
Speaker 2: all about. All right here, we want to help some Americans.
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Speaker 1: Coming to us from Natalie. Hi, Mommy's how do you
Speaker 1: deal with feeling? How do you deal with feelings? Stuck
Speaker 1: in life? I get up and take a walk. When's
Speaker 1: the last time you were in a rut? I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm still in one. Do you consider yourself still in
Speaker 1: a rut?
Speaker 3: I would say I'm at the precipice of the rut.
Speaker 1: I'm stay active with work. I say, act you're always working?
Speaker 3: Well, no, I say acting with work? I say acted
Speaker 3: with I would you know?
Speaker 2: I'm invested heavily in the in the in the children's
Speaker 2: which is good. I wouldn't consider myself I was in
Speaker 2: a Yeah, I'm out of a rut. I wouldn't say
Speaker 2: I'm in a rut anymore. Yeah it's nothing. I mean,
Speaker 2: come on, it's been you know, over a year. You
Speaker 2: gotta you gotta, you gotta get it on to move
Speaker 2: with yourself.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you gotta do something. What are you gonna
Speaker 1: sit there and poor er?
Speaker 3: I did that for too long.
Speaker 2: I eat nice cream and just sitting on the couch
Speaker 2: watching you know, Oprah reruns on Peacock.
Speaker 3: Like what am I doing?
Speaker 2: So I would say I was in a rut for
Speaker 2: a minute, but I think I'm out of the rod. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I might be driving with despare though you know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Really you think that, yeah, I would say that. I
Speaker 1: would say I'm driving with the spare when you know
Speaker 1: what I think, and feel free to edit this out.
Speaker 1: Feel free to edit this out because because sometimes.
Speaker 2: You don't want to get too personal, right, I wouldn't
Speaker 2: say I'm in a run anymore.
Speaker 1: I would say I'm almost out of the rut, almost reutless.
Speaker 1: That's your edited points. That's why you did it, That's
Speaker 1: why we got You're right.
Speaker 3: We did edit all that out.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well, I'm glad to hear you're not in
Speaker 1: a rut, and you never seem like you were in one.
Speaker 1: By the way, you you do a great job at
Speaker 1: compartmentalizing for sure.
Speaker 3: Everything you have to keep the train moving, right, that's it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Well she's stuck.
Speaker 3: So what she said? What do you do when you
Speaker 3: feel stuck?
Speaker 2: The first thing I would say is probably try to
Speaker 2: identify what caused you to get stuck, right, You have
Speaker 2: to work through that first.
Speaker 3: It could be anything, It could be something. You know.
Speaker 3: This happens with a lot of people, too, is what.
Speaker 2: I have a lot of friends that this has happened
Speaker 2: to something that seems minor completely derails you and you
Speaker 2: don't realize it until you're derailed, you.
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like if a relationship falls apart, or a you know,
Speaker 2: or you lose a job or some of those are
Speaker 2: big things and you're like, oh, that's why I'm stuck.
Speaker 2: But some people are just like wanted something that happened
Speaker 2: didn't happen, had a you know, a bad night out
Speaker 2: with a friend and it didn't like go out the
Speaker 2: way they wanted to where they gotten a little bit
Speaker 2: of a tiff and it was like, oh, that's nothing,
Speaker 2: and it realizes it becomes something.
Speaker 3: So I think the first part is.
Speaker 2: To identify while you're stuck and see if it's a
Speaker 2: big reason. Well you have to work on that anyway, right,
Speaker 2: you have to get a new job, sure, get back
Speaker 2: on their different relationships.
Speaker 3: Figure that part out. But it's a little thing.
Speaker 2: I think that's where more of the work is needed,
Speaker 2: because you have to really dig down and take.
Speaker 1: A real look and to see like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: what it is. Smart to take stock of how big
Speaker 1: of an issue it ultimately is. You know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean do you feel I feel like you
Speaker 2: get you feel like you're stuck a lot me personally,
Speaker 2: but you work through it every time.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean the worst thing to do
Speaker 1: is just sit there and oh the world, you know,
Speaker 1: the just feeling sorry for yourself. It's like, you know,
Speaker 1: I think when I get in those situations, it's like
Speaker 1: it takes a day or two and I just and
Speaker 1: then just something comes over me like fuck it, you're
Speaker 1: gonna bitch about this all day and are you gonna
Speaker 1: do something about it? So what are we gonna do?
Speaker 1: This is the situation you want to It's like complaining
Speaker 1: about the weather. It's out of your control. Just shut
Speaker 1: the fuck up and get to work.
Speaker 3: That's a great analogy. It's like complaining about the weather
Speaker 3: because that.
Speaker 1: Really is Yeah, you can't do anything about it.
Speaker 2: Like I will say that too about the other thing, too,
Speaker 2: is like I've learned this, you know, kind of the
Speaker 2: hard way too, is like nobody helps you, but you nobody,
Speaker 2: Like you can have friends who are there for you
Speaker 2: and help you through, but the end of the day,
Speaker 2: it's one on you.
Speaker 1: Oh, you're going to be stuck until you start moving.
Speaker 2: Even if if somebody's trying to push the car out
Speaker 2: of the mud, you guys still step on the gas,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.
Speaker 3: It's like you're in charge of it.
Speaker 1: Did you make that up?
Speaker 3: I did? That's pretty good.
Speaker 1: That was a pretty good one. All right. That's something
Speaker 1: you'd expect to hear from like a priest or like
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry or Yeah, I present the blessing Father Father,
Speaker 1: Tyler Perry. There we go. That's a great a little
Speaker 1: you just made that up?
Speaker 3: I did. Yeah, So you've inspired me to motivate.
Speaker 1: Where you got to come up with a calendar?
Speaker 3: I have a bunch of motivational little sayings.
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, give me one more. Life sucks sometimes, you all,
Speaker 2: you gotta do a suck harder.
Speaker 1: My next question, here's a question coming us from Hannah.
Speaker 1: Where's the merch? Oh? You know what?
Speaker 2: The demand the demands are coming in, so we're going
Speaker 2: to have to start doing it. This is like the
Speaker 2: third or fourth time I've heard it. We have to answer,
Speaker 2: we have to answer with it. And I guess you
Speaker 2: know what link is going to be in the bio
Speaker 2: to uh get a two cool moms?
Speaker 3: What are we gonna do? A shirt?
Speaker 1: What do you wanna do a shirt? Or saying you
Speaker 1: know what I like?
Speaker 3: I like Bazancres.
Speaker 2: I'd love that saying that's my favorite thing we've said
Speaker 2: over the fifteen plus episodes.
Speaker 1: You said it, well, you jumped on it. I jumped
Speaker 1: on on that episode and I love it.
Speaker 3: Do you not want it to be what I've said?
Speaker 3: You want to be what you've said?
Speaker 1: I wanted to be Bizoncres. No. Well you're you're gonna
Speaker 1: say something, go ahead, No, No, I think Bezocres is good.
Speaker 1: Two cool moms yes and end quotes yan Yang Parmesan.
Speaker 2: Yang Parmisan. Yeah, Yingang Parmesan's great. Yeah, we should put
Speaker 2: a pizza pie. That's the ying Yang on it.
Speaker 1: I mean, the simple one is just to have the
Speaker 1: two cool.
Speaker 2: Moms, like the logo on a on then our nuggets,
Speaker 2: you know what faces this is.
Speaker 1: But you know what we should sell more than I
Speaker 1: think we should.
Speaker 2: I think we should sell a coffee munk ah. That's
Speaker 2: smart as mom is having their coffees, that's right, and
Speaker 2: then listening, you know, yep, let's do it all.
Speaker 3: Right, let's get on it. All right, we'll talk to
Speaker 3: our merch department.
Speaker 2: J all right, honorary honorary mom, mommy.
Speaker 3: That's great, that's pretty cool. That's pretty cool. An honorary mommy.
Speaker 1: I mean, we just gave it to you.
Speaker 2: You know what, maybe we should another one we can
Speaker 2: put it is get talking to a fucking microphone, you idiot,
Speaker 2: because he's here, he is again, without a micro we
Speaker 2: can't hear him. We can hear him in the room,
Speaker 2: and he's now everybody now we gotta do subtitles.
Speaker 1: Yep. Well there's no WI in it. You you doing
Speaker 1: total Why don't you have a microphone?
Speaker 3: It's facing nothing. The microphone right now is just facing nothing.
Speaker 3: It's straight up in the air.
Speaker 1: This is coming to us, I think I think we
Speaker 1: answered something similar to this. This is coming us from Marissa. Okay,
Speaker 1: how did you two meet? What is something you've learned
Speaker 1: about yourself or became in through your friendship with one another?
Speaker 1: So that's the part that's different. That's why I picked it.
Speaker 3: Oh that's nice.
Speaker 1: That's been inspiring through Well, we met. We discussed this
Speaker 1: before we met. When when your show is premiering? My
Speaker 1: show was premiering my last three seasons and whatever. You
Speaker 1: have like three homes. So I think the thing that
Speaker 1: I find most inspiring about you is is there is
Speaker 1: a relentless positivity that you don't just exude, but I
Speaker 1: really feel is a part of your person, like a
Speaker 1: part of you. You just are a very upbeat, positive person.
Speaker 1: I think that's part of the reason why your show
Speaker 1: is so successful, because it's not only what you see
Speaker 1: on screen, but it permeates to the set. I think
Speaker 1: that's why you've had the same people working there for
Speaker 1: so many years. But everywhere we go, everywhere we go,
Speaker 1: you treat everybody the same. You treat the security guard,
Speaker 1: you treat the house manager, you treat the clerk at
Speaker 1: whatever boutique shop you walk into, or the coffee shop.
Speaker 1: Everybody's a friend, and you do live by that mantra
Speaker 1: of be kind. I really think you do do that,
Speaker 1: Unlike like Ellen, who was preaching it but you know
Speaker 1: you heard horror stories about but like you genuinely are
Speaker 1: that individual. And I know that even on days where
Speaker 1: you've received, you know, less than promising news, it takes
Speaker 1: a minute to get that out of you because you
Speaker 1: can see it because you're just kind of like moving
Speaker 1: on and everything, but you just you don't dwell on things.
Speaker 1: You just drive forward with relentless positivity. And that's something
Speaker 1: I find very inspiring. Thank you, you're a friendship.
Speaker 3: Yet Mommy, I appreciate that you.
Speaker 2: Are a here we go, you know where to get
Speaker 2: a good slice of pizza, and that is really very
Speaker 2: I will say this about you.
Speaker 3: This is what I will say about you too.
Speaker 2: I will say that you make you have what I
Speaker 2: call the Jeter effect, and it was something I saw
Speaker 2: in real life that I couldn't believe. It's like when
Speaker 2: you talk, when you're talking to someone, you make them
Speaker 2: feel like they're the most special and only person in
Speaker 2: the room.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 2: Think you have a great you have a superpower that
Speaker 2: way where you make people feel and you see that
Speaker 2: when you especially that's just why you're such a successful
Speaker 2: when it comes to crowd work and whatnot and you
Speaker 2: and just even speaking within two people like you make
Speaker 2: them feel like you care about what they're saying and
Speaker 2: like sure you want to get to know them, and
Speaker 2: even if it is an act, which it's not.
Speaker 3: You do it better than anybody ever has. Like I
Speaker 3: feel like, thank you.
Speaker 2: I think you're just really like to get to know Pia,
Speaker 2: and you really do take the time to like you're thoughtful.
Speaker 2: I would say that's probably the best word ever like
Speaker 2: you buy your gifts for no reason, like you do
Speaker 2: things like that, Like you're.
Speaker 3: A thoughtful person. I think that's why I thank you.
Speaker 2: But that's what's most inspiring about you is I've had
Speaker 2: I've tried to think about that as well, and taking
Speaker 2: the time and putting stock in friendships the way that
Speaker 2: I feel like you do, because you know a lot
Speaker 2: of people too, but you don't consider a lot of
Speaker 2: people friends true, you know, like you've been around a minute,
Speaker 2: Like I would go to around town with you, like
Speaker 2: down to the cellar and not here in New York
Speaker 2: and just seeing like when you walk in the room,
Speaker 2: everyone knows you and you know everybody, but you could
Speaker 2: tell like there is people that you want to spend
Speaker 2: time with and talk to.
Speaker 1: Sure. Yeah, So I think that's a great thing about
Speaker 1: the comic clubs too, is that you're waiting to go
Speaker 1: up right, so you're kind of forced to talk to
Speaker 1: with everybody. But I mean it's just like I don't know,
Speaker 1: there is a nice fraternal bond that you develop after
Speaker 1: like so many years of just doing this and running
Speaker 1: and everybody. It's I don't know, even going out last night,
Speaker 1: I like I enjoy catching up with, you know, and
Speaker 1: then there's all these new comics I haven't met or whatever.
Speaker 1: But but you know what's funny is being friends with
Speaker 1: Vince Vaughan for years. I'm always the other guy, right
Speaker 1: when you're with Vince. When I'm by myself, I'm a comic, right.
Speaker 1: But when you're with Vince, you're the other guy, and
Speaker 1: you're constantly being, oh, can you take this for me,
Speaker 1: can you take this picture for me? Whatever? And so
Speaker 1: every time I'm somewhere and I'm talking to somebody, I
Speaker 1: see the other guy, and so I try to give
Speaker 1: credence to the other guys well or like I remember
Speaker 1: one time we were hanging out with Jason Sideikis and
Speaker 1: his friend and I and I was with Vince, and
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, he's Jason's other guy. So we
Speaker 1: were just bullshitting about that. But I just being that
Speaker 1: other person. Like That's why that picture Justin always makes
Speaker 1: me have he's your other guy, you know. And there
Speaker 1: was a girl that literally climbed over Justin at dinner
Speaker 1: to take a picture. I think it's bananas, but I
Speaker 1: always have a lot of empathy for the other guy
Speaker 1: or the other girl too. Yeah, the other person the
Speaker 1: other person. Yeah. And one of my favorite things to
Speaker 1: do this This is something I used to do when
Speaker 1: I was when i'd go out all the time, is
Speaker 1: I would go out and there's always like after a show,
Speaker 1: you'd go to the bar or the club whatever, and
Speaker 1: there was always and my friends were like, why the
Speaker 1: fuck are you doing this? And there was like the
Speaker 1: table of girls, every guy's going to buy a drink for,
Speaker 1: right And what I said is, look, we're just getting
Speaker 1: our night started, so let's have a little fucking fun.
Speaker 1: So I go over to the table of girls that
Speaker 1: nobody's buying a drink for. I bet, girls, I'm buying
Speaker 1: you fucking drink. Let's go. We're going to the bar
Speaker 1: right now. We're all doing a shot together. And every
Speaker 1: time I did it, I was never let down because
Speaker 1: the intention wasn't hook up obviously with any of them,
Speaker 1: but it was we're going to have an absolute blast night.
Speaker 1: I was always like, trust me, that's the most fun
Speaker 1: table in this room, the table of fun, right, the
Speaker 1: table of fun, and that's where you start your night
Speaker 1: off and have fun and then you you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. For me, it was always like, that's that's
Speaker 1: where I go. It's the way to go. Yeah, I agree.
Speaker 3: I like that.
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go, this is coming us from Stone.
Speaker 3: You got some work here, great name.
Speaker 1: Okay, ooopsies, okay, this going us from Stone. Hytoogle moms,
Speaker 1: my name is Stone. You might not remember, but I
Speaker 1: told you I was going to a jiu jitsu tournament
Speaker 1: and I want to let you know I won first
Speaker 1: when six and oh your advice really helped my nerves.
Speaker 1: Just want to say, thanks, We're champions. We are champions. Oh,
Speaker 1: you have to do it.
Speaker 3: I can't.
Speaker 1: You worry about my edded points? Oh my god, isn't
Speaker 1: that a musical? Well, in this day and age, it
Speaker 1: could be considered eracis the best joke.
Speaker 2: In your special, the best joke in your special. And
Speaker 2: if you haven't seen it, make sure you will, make
Speaker 2: sure you check it out. So the last late night
Speaker 2: Steve Burns on Amazon Prime, Uh, you gave.
Speaker 1: Words of wisdom. Though you're you're you're the jiu jitsu whisper,
Speaker 1: I am the jus was. Do you remember this conversation.
Speaker 2: I remember him saying that he was nervous what he
Speaker 2: had to do, and we told him that he trained
Speaker 2: from his whole life don't get stuck in the moment.
Speaker 1: Think about everything you've done to get there, and you'll
Speaker 1: be fine. Six and oh in its tournament, he took
Speaker 1: home first place, and he's got to thank you. There's
Speaker 1: so many people to thank. I gotta thank mom, I
Speaker 1: gotta take my daddy. I got to thank my brother's sister.
Speaker 1: But guys, I gotta take anybody else that knows jiu
Speaker 1: jitsu or the spirit of a line. It's too cool
Speaker 1: buys more more joke out on the sea burn he
Speaker 1: was there with joke outill, Thank you are you? Everything
Speaker 1: is for Joe.
Speaker 3: I went six and oh today.
Speaker 1: I just want to tell her. There's a podcast out there.
Speaker 3: Changed my jujitsu career. It's called too Cool Up.
Speaker 1: It took sporting advice from a man who's got the
Speaker 1: body of a melting candle. The names choke Out, Dust Joe,
Speaker 1: and one guy that's half an as you did. That's
Speaker 1: for you, Stevie.
Speaker 2: He came up and took the trophy immediately. Thank you right,
Speaker 2: thank you Stone Wow.
Speaker 1: You were a big part of that. Well, you know
Speaker 1: what we inspire, it's what we do here to You
Speaker 1: went to a Rams game, La Rams. You were undefeated
Speaker 1: there as well as well, and on the Jumbo Tron,
Speaker 1: and you made it on ESPN quests. That's right. I
Speaker 1: remember watching the game. I was like, get the fuck
Speaker 1: out of here.
Speaker 2: The guy came over, He's like, don't pay attention to us.
Speaker 2: So me and Jiggy pretend to have a fake conversation,
Speaker 2: and he was all really perfect, like if you notice one,
Speaker 2: if you know, because.
Speaker 1: You're talking to Jiggy, you can be more Jiggy than Yes.
Speaker 1: I go to jigg and I'm like, oh what we
Speaker 1: would just using my hands a lot. Yeah, And then I.
Speaker 3: And the guy was like, that's enough.
Speaker 1: But you guys, you guys won the game. We did
Speaker 1: that game.
Speaker 3: That was a big comeback game too for a boy
Speaker 3: justin Herbert.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want it.
Speaker 3: That's like it.
Speaker 2: Next year though, they're gonna go all the way. He's
Speaker 2: gonna wear the ring and win the Stanley Cup.
Speaker 1: Next question, Next question sports sports. This is coming ups
Speaker 1: from Grace. Hey, Mommy's how do you deal with anger?
Speaker 1: I think that changes as you get older? Yeah, definitely older.
Speaker 3: When I was younger, you were a short fused guy,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: You when I was younger, Yeah for sure, Yeah, for sure,
Speaker 1: and then you get older, you're just like you're too
Speaker 1: tired to be angry almost, but also you have more
Speaker 1: to lose.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that you talked about their road road rage thing
Speaker 2: once where kids were in the car.
Speaker 1: Sure that was that was your way of saying, don't
Speaker 1: tell that fucking story again.
Speaker 2: Like remember when you told that story three times already.
Speaker 1: So I met this kid in Connecticut. He showed up himself.
Speaker 2: Good job is there, I did. I don't think I
Speaker 2: ever really had a short fuse. I only remember one time,
Speaker 2: one time I got and I had.
Speaker 1: This one time Murray.
Speaker 2: I didn't really have short fuses. But I wouldn't even
Speaker 2: say I deal with my anger. I kind of just
Speaker 2: like I try to let it. People say that we
Speaker 2: like you, let'stuff roll.
Speaker 3: Off your back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a way of not really addressing
Speaker 2: what's bothering you.
Speaker 1: Though sometimes I I've just come to learn that anger
Speaker 1: will subside. Anger is temporary, And so I've gotten to
Speaker 1: a point where I'm like, Okay, you're fucking angry, get
Speaker 1: it out. Let's take a walk. And I'll go take
Speaker 1: a walk. I'll get some fresh air, I'll listen to
Speaker 1: some music, and i'll just mule through what it is.
Speaker 1: And again to quote, you take stock of what it is.
Speaker 1: But it's just temporary and solvable for sure. Yeah yeah, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: So I it's a man made problem, so there's a
Speaker 1: man made solution. A look at that, great John F. Kennedy.
Speaker 1: John F.
Speaker 2: Kennedy said, yeah, yeah, I was saying, because smart you should. No,
Speaker 2: don't take that, because somebody's gonna write in angrily. It's
Speaker 2: gonna be writing the comments.
Speaker 3: You're no JF guy.
Speaker 2: I've never really, I've never really had felt like I've
Speaker 2: got let anger get the best of me.
Speaker 3: I only once in college.
Speaker 2: I remember that I was I was angry that a
Speaker 2: guy was dancing with a girl that I liked at
Speaker 2: the club and I stepped up. He had thrown a
Speaker 2: look at me, and I had stepped up and said
Speaker 2: what And I said what? I said I And I
Speaker 2: said you know, I said, what.
Speaker 1: Are you doing? You know?
Speaker 3: I said, you know that you know that I like
Speaker 3: her and blah blah, and the kid was like, oh.
Speaker 2: Yea, all right, all right, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. And
Speaker 2: I was like, but the kid was thinking of me,
Speaker 2: And I was like, why is this kid saying? And
Speaker 2: I turned around and Mungo was behind me, my one
Speaker 2: of my frat brothers.
Speaker 1: Well, and Mungo doesn't sound small he was.
Speaker 2: He was like literally like like a rottwhiler on the chain,
Speaker 2: like he was like waiting to go, waiting for me
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 3: And I turn around. I instantly switched.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, no, no, no, welcome, calm down
Speaker 1: God and I turned into like the pasifist stopped it all. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I remember what time there was a huge fight at
Speaker 2: a bar and it's spilled out onto the streets and
Speaker 2: now all my friends were fighting, and this one guy
Speaker 2: comes up to me.
Speaker 3: And he comes up to me and he guess right,
Speaker 3: he has his hands up and I go, I.
Speaker 2: Go uhhing, I said, no, thank you, he's just punch
Speaker 2: somebody else.
Speaker 1: Oh that's great. One of my favorite videos. You ever
Speaker 1: see that video of a fight breaking out and there's
Speaker 1: just this Chinese kid and he's eating a bowl of
Speaker 1: the noodles and the fight breaks out. He doesn't even
Speaker 1: he doesn't even look. He just goes like this and
Speaker 1: walks out of frame and keeps eating his noodles. I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, that's anybody in their forties, I think
Speaker 1: in your twenties, you're like, hey, guys, what's going on.
Speaker 1: You want to be peacemaker and stuff. I think you
Speaker 1: get to a point just like fuck oh they'll work
Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, yeah, everybody.
Speaker 2: I feel like everybody's getting punched everywhere nowadays too. You
Speaker 2: see these videos like they're in McDonald's, they're in Target,
Speaker 2: they're in Walmart, they're in a library.
Speaker 1: Like there's no place that's safe. No, no, oh, somebody
Speaker 1: told me. I think sometimes they get angry again. When
Speaker 1: you're driving, people are constantly constantly doing incredibly rude, really
Speaker 1: dangerous shit on. I think driving's got more aggressive, for
Speaker 1: sure in the last ten years. I'm blown away at
Speaker 1: the times I get cut off. And before I would
Speaker 1: kind of speed up or whatever, and now I'm just like,
Speaker 1: all right, just go the far right, give it ten seconds,
Speaker 1: just chill out. I forget my story. I forget what
Speaker 1: oh oh, this is it. So somebody was telling me
Speaker 1: that their father, when somebody would tailgate them where they'd
Speaker 1: see somebody fly by or whatever. I thought, this is
Speaker 1: such a good line. Their father would always would always
Speaker 1: kind of pull over to the right and go, yeah,
Speaker 1: go get them, and so that kind of pops in
Speaker 1: my head. Now when I hear that, I'm like, that's
Speaker 1: such a funny line.
Speaker 2: There is there is not There are not many things
Speaker 2: in life that are give you a fill of satisfaction
Speaker 2: and pry and just just so happy to be alive.
Speaker 2: Is when somebody's being an ass on the road and
Speaker 2: about a quarter of a mile.
Speaker 1: You see the wreck and the fireball and you're like,
Speaker 1: in their dad, Yeah, that makes me smile. Oh I
Speaker 1: love Yes. Next question, I was gonna say, pulled over,
Speaker 1: but you know it is the best when you're like.
Speaker 3: Again, I'm like, roll down the window. You're like, hey,
Speaker 3: was it jerk?
Speaker 1: Was that ass? Here we go. This is coming us
Speaker 1: from Austin. Austin, Okay. Question for the podcast. How do
Speaker 1: you guys exude so much confidence? I've always feared public
Speaker 1: speaking or speaking to new people in general. I always
Speaker 1: go through scenarios in my head if I said the
Speaker 1: right thing, if the conversation went well, et cetera. Any
Speaker 1: advice for building confidence.
Speaker 2: Something I heard early on in my life that stuck
Speaker 2: with me was people don't care as much as you think.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I think that's a big thing.
Speaker 2: Like you're you're up there all nervous like oh whatever,
Speaker 2: like and if you like people are just like, okay,
Speaker 2: what do you have to say? Like you put so
Speaker 2: much pressure on the audience looking, But think about the
Speaker 2: time you're in the audience and you're sitting there, like
Speaker 2: watching someone speak, Sure, what are you doing? You're sitting
Speaker 2: there and listening like you're not like, oh, I can't
Speaker 2: wait the list person messages up or something like that.
Speaker 3: So I think that was a minor thing for me.
Speaker 2: That really was like people just don't really care as
Speaker 2: much as you think when you're up there speaking.
Speaker 1: They just someone I want to say, and you especially.
Speaker 2: Public speaking, that's a big fear for people too, though,
Speaker 2: like public speeding, they'd rather die.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought they were like speak public speaker.
Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of people.
Speaker 1: I mean we're the real heroes, we are, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean first responders, like the military flyovers is like.
Speaker 3: No, I mean they're not even stopping, they're just flying over.
Speaker 1: I mean we're getting in there.
Speaker 3: We're getting in there, mixing it up with the people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, really doing the hard stuff.
Speaker 3: Chopping it up. I never really did you have a
Speaker 3: fear of public speaking.
Speaker 1: I think when you first start, Dana, for sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it took two or three years. But I
Speaker 1: always say it's just like imagine platform diving. Right, you're
Speaker 1: ten meters, twenty five meters, thirty meters, So the first
Speaker 1: one hundred times you do it, yeah, you're gonna be
Speaker 1: a little scared. The one hundred and first you're like,
Speaker 1: all right, I've done this, Now I can do my
Speaker 1: gain or whatever. It is helped the thing, so let's
Speaker 1: get used to it. Yeah, but I think it terms
Speaker 1: about younger though, like before stand up, like when you
Speaker 1: were Yeah, of course you get nervous, but I was
Speaker 1: like Stevie rally, I did like little routines and stuff
Speaker 1: for five minutes take it through that. I don't I
Speaker 1: don't know what I would it's all kind of a blurb,
Speaker 1: but I would do.
Speaker 3: Here about Stevie's pep rally routine.
Speaker 1: I would do. I would do like five minutes before
Speaker 1: the pep rally and just tell jokes or pull up
Speaker 1: my current at the frog doll and do an impression
Speaker 1: and stuff. And it's just like there was humili I'm
Speaker 1: sure it was humiliated, but but at the time like
Speaker 1: it it was doing well. Yeah I got laughs.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you had a Kermit and you did the
Speaker 2: Kermit voice.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Like at pep rallies and stuff, I would do
Speaker 1: like dances or just anything for attention and laughs. Yeah, anything,
Speaker 1: but it was humiliating. Yeah. I think like in terms
Speaker 1: of like building up confidence, I wholehrdly agree with you
Speaker 1: about people don't think as much as you do. And
Speaker 1: I think if anything, people appreciate effort, whether if you're
Speaker 1: a stranger in a situation you Hey, I'm Steve, how
Speaker 1: are you just like, hey, thanks for taking the time
Speaker 1: to Yeah, of course, who's not gonna who's not gonna
Speaker 1: knock that.
Speaker 2: I think talking more in smaller groups also helps more
Speaker 2: you're speaking to strangers, because that's all speaking is. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's speaking to strangers and then speaking to a group
Speaker 2: of strangers.
Speaker 3: So a way that helps is baby stuff.
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