WEBVTT - A Mother's Fight for the Truth

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<v Speaker 1>Pushkin. I remember that night like it was yesterday. I

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<v Speaker 1>could still hear the thunderous beat in my head, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember being so startled out of my sleep because

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<v Speaker 1>I've never experienced such a bamming at my door, so

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<v Speaker 1>it shocked me, and I knew that something bad had happened.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Chaparral Wells describing the moment when Chicago police officers

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<v Speaker 1>showed up on her doorstep in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 1>night her oldest child, her twenty two year old son,

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney Copeland, had been fatally shot. Chaparl needed answers about

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<v Speaker 1>what had happened in Courtney's final moments, but it soon

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<v Speaker 1>became clear she wasn't going to get them unless she

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<v Speaker 1>took matters into her own hands. It wasn't by choice

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<v Speaker 1>that I took this journey in investigating my son's murder.

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<v Speaker 1>I had no other option. Chaparral did not know at

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<v Speaker 1>the time that she spent the next five years trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what exactly had happened to Courtney. On

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<v Speaker 1>today's episode, a mother channels her grief into justice for

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<v Speaker 1>her son. I'm Maya Shunker, and this is a slight

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<v Speaker 1>change of plans. A show about who we are and

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<v Speaker 1>who we become in the face of a big change.

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<v Speaker 1>Chaparral was grieving the loss of her son, Courtney, but

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<v Speaker 1>her grieving process was complicated by the fact there were

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<v Speaker 1>so many unanswered questions surrounding his death. I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>hear about her cycle logical journey through all this, how

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<v Speaker 1>she balanced her dual identities as mom an investigator, and importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to know how all of her advocacy may

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<v Speaker 1>have changed her relationship with Courtney's death. I started off

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<v Speaker 1>our conversation by asking Chaparral about the kind of person

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney was. He was such a loving person. I shall

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<v Speaker 1>always come home, like from dropping off the kids at school,

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<v Speaker 1>and he'll be here, and he'll come up and he'll

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<v Speaker 1>be all in my bed. And I remember even in

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<v Speaker 1>his teen and when he was even grown, he'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you just rub on my ears? You know? He

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<v Speaker 1>was just like so affectionate. And I would say, one

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<v Speaker 1>of the best memories I have for Courtney is him

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<v Speaker 1>being the glue. He was someone who if there was

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<v Speaker 1>a conflict or he would be the first person to

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<v Speaker 1>try to resolve it. Hey, you guys, you know we're family.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's pull it together. It doesn't matter what happened. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just resolve this and move on. I remember Courtney shortly

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<v Speaker 1>after my grandmother passed away, and Courtney and my grandmother

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<v Speaker 1>were very close, and he said, Mom, grandma wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to keep the family together. And Courtney may have been

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty at the time that she passed. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, that's a huge responsibility, Courtney, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>but she saw something within you that felt that you

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<v Speaker 1>could do it. Because Courtney was the type of person,

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<v Speaker 1>he got along with everyone, and so he would basically

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<v Speaker 1>try to host family dinners lesson like this person, because

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<v Speaker 1>these are the things that my grandmother did, especially around

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<v Speaker 1>holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas. She made sure everyone got together.

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<v Speaker 1>In addition to being a family oriented guy, Courtney was

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<v Speaker 1>also making great strides in his professional life. He was

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<v Speaker 1>a sales rap and he earned a special bonus that

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<v Speaker 1>allowed him to get at Burgundy BMW and so I

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<v Speaker 1>remember him pulling up in our driveway, probably around twelve

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<v Speaker 1>or one in the morning. He was like, Mom, I

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<v Speaker 1>did it. I did it. I got the car. I

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<v Speaker 1>got the car. And I remember him give me the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest hug and he was like, you gotta come down

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<v Speaker 1>there and see it. And the music was blasting and

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like so excited. His friends were out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's like literally twelve thirty one o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning and he had called out his friends over

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<v Speaker 1>you can't see anything, and everybody was just it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a mini party right in the driveway. And this

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<v Speaker 1>car wasn't just any car to Courtney. They had a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>He would talk to the car every morning like it

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<v Speaker 1>was his girlfriend, Good morning, baby, how are you today?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was just that was his life. The

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<v Speaker 1>car was his life for sure. Wow. So yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it symbolized something so meaningful to him about what

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<v Speaker 1>he had accomplished in life and where he was heading.

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<v Speaker 1>And it did. His goals were always to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't have to work or his sisters didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do anything. So once he received that BMW bonus,

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<v Speaker 1>he actually pushed harder and he was working harder, talking

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<v Speaker 1>to more people and trying to get as much as

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<v Speaker 1>he could in the way of excelling his business as possible.

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<v Speaker 1>So one night, you hear a knock on the door

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<v Speaker 1>at two in the morning, and it's the police. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you take me back to that moment. Yes, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>that night like it was yesterday. I could still hear

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<v Speaker 1>the thunderous beat in my head. You know, this is

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<v Speaker 1>something that you never forget, these sounds, these moments where

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<v Speaker 1>you were. And I remember being so startled out of

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<v Speaker 1>my sleep because I've never experienced such a bamming at

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<v Speaker 1>my door. So that bamming it shocked me and I

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<v Speaker 1>knew that something bad had happened. And so when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to the door, the officer was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>know a Courtney Copeland And I said yes, I'm his mother,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he said, well, we come to notify you

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<v Speaker 1>that you need to call Illinois massign A Hospital. And

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<v Speaker 1>at that moment, the first thing that goes through my

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<v Speaker 1>mind is, oh, my god, my son has been in

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<v Speaker 1>a terrible accident. Something that's happened. And so I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>for a police officer to come to your home, it

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<v Speaker 1>has to be extremely serious. So I remember my husband

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<v Speaker 1>he had jumped out of bed as well. And by

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<v Speaker 1>this time I'm focusing on Okay, I have to go

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<v Speaker 1>change my clothes and get ready because they're telling us

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<v Speaker 1>that we have to go to this hospital and so

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<v Speaker 1>my husband is talking to them and I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>Brent called the hospital, let's see what's happening. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting all my clothes and they said, we can't tell

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<v Speaker 1>you over the phone. You need to come in. Once

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<v Speaker 1>that happened, once he uttered those words, I remember being

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<v Speaker 1>in my bedroom and just falling to the floor because

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<v Speaker 1>I just felt in my gut that them telling you

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<v Speaker 1>that they can't tell you on the phone, this must

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<v Speaker 1>be bad. And then once I arrived to the hospital,

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<v Speaker 1>I told him who I was. I said, I'm here

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<v Speaker 1>to see Courtney Copeland. And then they said, well, we

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<v Speaker 1>need to take you to the family room. And I remember,

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<v Speaker 1>just like it just happened just now. When they said that,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'm not going. I'm not going into

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<v Speaker 1>the family room because in that moment, you know that

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<v Speaker 1>your child is gone. And so I said at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>I started to demand to see Courtney, and they were like,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't allow you to see him, and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was an emotional, emotional moment because everyone

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<v Speaker 1>knew at that moment that Courtney was gone. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as a mom, you want to see that confirmation. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to you want to see your child, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were at first denying us the right to see Courtney,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were denying us the right to even really

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of information about him. What was the

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<v Speaker 1>reason they wouldn't let you see Courtney, Well, because it

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<v Speaker 1>was a murder investigation. And so they said that the

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<v Speaker 1>police had already determined that this was a murder and

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<v Speaker 1>that no one is to be able to see him.

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<v Speaker 1>And so they said their protocol is to send them

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<v Speaker 1>directly to the morgue. And so about forty five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to an hour, the doctor finally comes and tells us

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. And so we're in the family room and

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<v Speaker 1>at this time it's about thirty family members that are

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<v Speaker 1>with us, and his friends, his closest friends, and they

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<v Speaker 1>were like, you know, the doctor came and said, your

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<v Speaker 1>son was brought in by ambulance and he was shot,

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<v Speaker 1>and all of us just like shot by who? And

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<v Speaker 1>we all fell to the ground because we couldn't believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, because for Courtney to be shot, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just something that was unfathomable about him, of all people

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<v Speaker 1>being shot. He was not you know, violent, he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if he saw confrontation Courtney would leave, so for them

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us that he had been shot, we immediately said,

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<v Speaker 1>by who who did this to him? After nearly two

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<v Speaker 1>hours of pleading with hospital doctors and staff, Chapel was

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<v Speaker 1>finally allowed to see her son. She and her family

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<v Speaker 1>made their way to the trauma ward, where Courtney was

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<v Speaker 1>lying on a hospital bed. I would probably say that

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<v Speaker 1>was probably the hardest moment of my life to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to see him in that state. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember so vividly when we first walked in the room,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, all of my family was there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can remember myself just telling everybody, I need to

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<v Speaker 1>be along with my baby. I need a moment. I

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<v Speaker 1>need him to know that you know, Mommy was sorry

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<v Speaker 1>that she wasn't there. You know. I just imagine my

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<v Speaker 1>son going through all this trauma by himself and not

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<v Speaker 1>having his mom there, and that was hard for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember touching him and kissing him and his

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<v Speaker 1>body was still warm, and you know, you know those

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<v Speaker 1>moments you just think about all of the time that

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<v Speaker 1>you had and they're rushing back every moment from birth

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<v Speaker 1>and him into this moment where you're looking at him

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<v Speaker 1>for his final days, his final seconds, his final hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's that very final moment when you're getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>to say goodbye. There's a moment at the hospital that

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<v Speaker 1>night where when you feel more than just grief. Yes. Yes.

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<v Speaker 1>After we view Courtney, the two detectives that allow us

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<v Speaker 1>to see him, they begin to question us about Courtney

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<v Speaker 1>in the vehicle. The first question they asked was who

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<v Speaker 1>was the owner of the BMW, And I said, Courtney.

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney is owner of the BMW. And I said, but

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<v Speaker 1>he did have a co signer. So on my mind,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking maybe this was a traffic stop gone wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>because why would you be questioning you know, I'm thinking detectives.

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<v Speaker 1>If they're telling me that my son was shot and

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<v Speaker 1>killed by an unknown assailant, then the first thing should

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<v Speaker 1>have been you know, where was he going, who was

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<v Speaker 1>he with? What information do you know? But to question

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<v Speaker 1>the vehicle it made me suspicious of their intent. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they thought that Coordiney had stolen the vehicle. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like to me they were interrogating Coordiney as opposed to

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find out who could have done this to him.

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<v Speaker 1>So at this point, Chaperl, you decide to take matters

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<v Speaker 1>into your own hands, and you go in a full

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<v Speaker 1>investigator mode. I'm trying to put myself in your shoes,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's hard to imagine where I'd even begin. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it wasn't by choice that I took this

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<v Speaker 1>journey and investigating my son's murder. I had no other option.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt that Courtney deserved to have closure. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was like day in and day out from the

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<v Speaker 1>moment I found out that Courtney had been killed. I

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<v Speaker 1>needed to know why. I still need to know why,

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<v Speaker 1>and I needed to know how, how did these things occur,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened, and so you know, within my being, it

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<v Speaker 1>was just constantly turning all of these unknowns and I

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<v Speaker 1>had to try to uncover whatever I could. I mean literally,

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<v Speaker 1>we were working. We were working on Courtney's case twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four to seven. I don't think I slept the first

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<v Speaker 1>week because I would maybe sleep like two to three

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<v Speaker 1>hours because I was constantly going over the timeline. I

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<v Speaker 1>was recording what my thoughts were, any tips, I was

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<v Speaker 1>putting it in there. We were going out in the neighborhood,

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<v Speaker 1>we were walking looking for clues. We were talking to

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<v Speaker 1>his friends that he would have encountered that night. So

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<v Speaker 1>we were literally we had all boots on the streets

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<v Speaker 1>trying to figure out what happened. You eventually tracked down

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<v Speaker 1>Courtney's hospital records. What did the record say? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>at the time that I actually received the medical records,

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<v Speaker 1>I had already had suspicions that something was wrong. So

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<v Speaker 1>the first page of the medical documents was the Chicago

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<v Speaker 1>Fire Department runs sheet, and that particular run sheet, the

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<v Speaker 1>first paragraph of it it states that my son was violent, agitated, combative,

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<v Speaker 1>and a threat to others. And so I knew in

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<v Speaker 1>my heart, because I know my son, that this information

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<v Speaker 1>had to be wrong. As I continue to read, it

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<v Speaker 1>says and the patient was handcuffed. When I saw that

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<v Speaker 1>my son was handcuffed, I lost it. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like, why would you handcuffed somebody who was

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<v Speaker 1>dying and he went to you for help? And so

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<v Speaker 1>none of this made any sense to me, and it

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<v Speaker 1>only hyped my suspicion. You know, you felt a little

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<v Speaker 1>comfort in knowing that at least he was well cared

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<v Speaker 1>for on the scene, but when you find out that

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<v Speaker 1>that was not true, it just crushed me. Throughout your investigation,

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<v Speaker 1>you and members of the community are sharing leads with

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<v Speaker 1>the police, but they seemed to be falling on deaf ears.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, the police department goes totally silent on you

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<v Speaker 1>for an entire year. What tactics do you use to

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<v Speaker 1>try to keep their attention on Courtney's case. Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>actually did rallies outside of the twenty fifth district. We

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<v Speaker 1>marched on the mirror office, and we also canvased the neighborhoods.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked to neighbors who hit video cameras. We requested

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<v Speaker 1>for your information Freedom of Information Act so that that

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<v Speaker 1>way we can get all the tapes, the audio, the visual,

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<v Speaker 1>the pod cameras, everything that surrounded this case. Chaparral was

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<v Speaker 1>intent on getting access to the footage surrounding Courtney's death

0:16:38.836 --> 0:16:41.796
<v Speaker 1>and began searching the web for potential partners who could

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<v Speaker 1>help her. One night, around two thirty in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>she came across an article about Lakwan McDonald, the seventeen

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<v Speaker 1>year old who was fatally shot by a Chicago police

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<v Speaker 1>officer in twenty fourteen. The article cited a nonprofit called

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<v Speaker 1>The Invisible Institute. The institute had played a key role

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<v Speaker 1>in getting footage release from LaQuan McDonald's case. And so

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<v Speaker 1>I said, well, at this point, I have nothing to lose.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to write to the Invisible Institute to see

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<v Speaker 1>if I can get some help with trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>the videotapes and the audio tapes that we know that

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<v Speaker 1>the police have surrounding Courtney's case, because at that point,

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<v Speaker 1>I was only looking for someone to listen to me

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<v Speaker 1>and to hear me, because I felt like everything I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying as a mom, it was being misconstrued as

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just a grieving mom and none of this have

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<v Speaker 1>any merit. But what I was showing to the world,

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<v Speaker 1>what I wanted the world to understand, that there are

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of inconsistencies in this case. Yeah, it's so

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<v Speaker 1>interesting how when you occupy the role of mom, there's

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<v Speaker 1>a presumption that emotions bias, all that stuff is creeping in,

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<v Speaker 1>when in actuality, you were holding yourself to a very

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<v Speaker 1>rigorous process and you were just trying to find the facts. Yes,

0:18:02.436 --> 0:18:06.436
<v Speaker 1>very early on, my friend Santita, she told me, you

0:18:06.476 --> 0:18:08.476
<v Speaker 1>don't want to come to a conclusion. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>arrive the conclusion. You want to let the evidence lead

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<v Speaker 1>you to what happened to your son. And so that

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the crucial advices that I received and

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<v Speaker 1>that I tried to adapt during the whole process, that

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to naturally allow the evidence to tell us

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<v Speaker 1>what happened to Courtney. I'm wondering whether strategies you use

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<v Speaker 1>to try and gain more credibility in the eyes of

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<v Speaker 1>the police force given your status as quote mom. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that they were dismissive because I was a mom,

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<v Speaker 1>They would dismissive because I was black, all of these things,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know if they would treat everyone like that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I felt that they treated me very badly. But

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<v Speaker 1>I believe that they felt that because I'm not I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go to law school. I didn't go to the

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<v Speaker 1>police academy that they're for. That my only knowledge about

0:19:11.996 --> 0:19:17.756
<v Speaker 1>solving crimes is Special Victims Unit on Law and Order.

0:19:17.836 --> 0:19:20.796
<v Speaker 1>That's what That's what they basically thought that I was doing.

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<v Speaker 1>And just like I told them, I said, no, this

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<v Speaker 1>is basic information. I mean, you know, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>actually read a lot of terminology. I had to understand

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<v Speaker 1>everything that I was reading in their report. Some things

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't understand and I had to go and look

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<v Speaker 1>it up. Well, what does this mean? When they say,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what does these code me in police language.

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<v Speaker 1>So in order for me to understand that, I had

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<v Speaker 1>to actually reach out to a couple of police offers

0:19:49.636 --> 0:19:52.156
<v Speaker 1>of friends that I know, had to reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>some share off people that I know, and to try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the terminology so I can understand on

0:19:58.116 --> 0:20:01.956
<v Speaker 1>their level. Same with the autopsic report. It's a lot

0:20:01.956 --> 0:20:05.916
<v Speaker 1>of medical terminology I didn't know, so as a mom,

0:20:06.316 --> 0:20:09.436
<v Speaker 1>I had to take off my mom emotional world and

0:20:09.476 --> 0:20:14.276
<v Speaker 1>put on my investigative mode hat and try to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened to my son. So I wanted to

0:20:16.316 --> 0:20:20.716
<v Speaker 1>know all the ins and outs, how the bullet travel everything,

0:20:20.836 --> 0:20:23.076
<v Speaker 1>And people were like, this is just too much. It's

0:20:23.076 --> 0:20:25.396
<v Speaker 1>too much, You're doing too much, and I will tell

0:20:25.436 --> 0:20:27.916
<v Speaker 1>them no, I need to know. I need to know

0:20:28.036 --> 0:20:31.636
<v Speaker 1>how did my son pass away. I need to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Together with the Invisible Institute, Chaparral continued to advocate for

0:20:37.116 --> 0:20:41.196
<v Speaker 1>the release of footage from Courtney's final moments, and finally

0:20:41.316 --> 0:20:44.036
<v Speaker 1>the police agree to turn it over. One and a

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<v Speaker 1>half years after Courtney's death, I asked chaparl what it

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<v Speaker 1>was like to hold those videos in her hands for

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<v Speaker 1>the first time. You know, I remember receiving the videos

0:20:59.236 --> 0:21:05.036
<v Speaker 1>in my mailbox, and I had prepared myself all right,

0:21:05.876 --> 0:21:09.476
<v Speaker 1>came up in my room, set up the DVD player,

0:21:10.836 --> 0:21:14.356
<v Speaker 1>got prepared to watch it. I prayed before I loaded

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<v Speaker 1>it because I knew it was going to be hard

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<v Speaker 1>to actually see it. I pop it in and it

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<v Speaker 1>tells me it's in a format that I can't even read.

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<v Speaker 1>So I remember feeling this horrible, horrible feeling like they're

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<v Speaker 1>playing with me, They're playing with my emotions. They knew

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<v Speaker 1>that they sent me a format that I couldn't read,

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<v Speaker 1>so I remember just crying out, and I called the

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<v Speaker 1>Invisible Institute to ask them if they can decode it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the moment that we get the videotape decoded, I

0:21:50.836 --> 0:21:55.556
<v Speaker 1>remember the Invisible Institute being with me, and all I

0:21:55.596 --> 0:22:00.396
<v Speaker 1>could see is my son just like reaching up on

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<v Speaker 1>his knees, begging them to help, begging. He surrounded by

0:22:07.196 --> 0:22:11.836
<v Speaker 1>eight to ten cops. My son is begging to be helped,

0:22:13.156 --> 0:22:18.956
<v Speaker 1>and then the video cuts away and focuses on the

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<v Speaker 1>police station for two minutes, and so I'm like, what

0:22:24.156 --> 0:22:28.636
<v Speaker 1>is happening to my son? I'm panicking because I don't

0:22:28.636 --> 0:22:30.796
<v Speaker 1>even know what's happening. At this point, why would the

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<v Speaker 1>video just automatically turn away from the scene into we're

0:22:36.836 --> 0:22:41.956
<v Speaker 1>watching the police station. And then the next frame is

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<v Speaker 1>when they aggressively picked up my son off the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>throw him against the police car, and then onto the

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<v Speaker 1>gurney as if he was a ragged out And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I often tell people, it's so hard, it's so

0:23:02.276 --> 0:23:07.076
<v Speaker 1>hard to even imagine the emotions that my son. I

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<v Speaker 1>just know my son was just so confused, like police

0:23:13.756 --> 0:23:16.076
<v Speaker 1>are supposed to be here to serve and protect you,

0:23:17.916 --> 0:23:24.076
<v Speaker 1>and I'm shocked, I'm scared what's happening. And this is

0:23:24.076 --> 0:23:28.956
<v Speaker 1>what his final moments worked, and he was by himself.

0:23:29.396 --> 0:23:31.956
<v Speaker 1>And I tell people all the time that's like the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest thing for me as a mom to know that

0:23:36.836 --> 0:23:40.436
<v Speaker 1>he endured all this by himself, and there was nobody

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<v Speaker 1>there who cared enough for him to help him through

0:23:47.156 --> 0:23:53.396
<v Speaker 1>this and to comfort him in these moments. Not a

0:23:53.516 --> 0:24:08.596
<v Speaker 1>soul was there. We'll be back in a moment with

0:24:08.676 --> 0:24:15.596
<v Speaker 1>a slight change of plans. Over the next several years,

0:24:15.716 --> 0:24:19.476
<v Speaker 1>Chaparral Wells continued to push for further clarity around what

0:24:19.636 --> 0:24:23.556
<v Speaker 1>actually happened to her son Courtney Copeland. In September of

0:24:23.596 --> 0:24:26.676
<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty, she received some news from the City of Chicago.

0:24:27.516 --> 0:24:31.916
<v Speaker 1>Chaparral's advocacy had paid off. The Office of the Inspector General,

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<v Speaker 1>an independent watchdog agency, had decided to launch a formal

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<v Speaker 1>investigation into Courtney's case. The investigation is currently under way.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you go from here, Chaparral? A lot of

0:24:46.116 --> 0:24:49.156
<v Speaker 1>people say, you know, don't put too much stock in

0:24:49.316 --> 0:24:56.916
<v Speaker 1>what this report shows, But I think that what happened

0:24:57.196 --> 0:25:03.556
<v Speaker 1>to Courtney has to be addressed on all levels of

0:25:03.676 --> 0:25:08.716
<v Speaker 1>city government, state government, federal government, because I feel that

0:25:08.836 --> 0:25:16.076
<v Speaker 1>the incidents occur far more frequently than police shootings, but

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<v Speaker 1>they don't get the highlight and the notoriety because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not the police pulling the trigger or a beat down

0:25:25.396 --> 0:25:29.316
<v Speaker 1>or a knee on a neck. But these type of

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<v Speaker 1>incidents of racial profiling and the police accountability need to

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<v Speaker 1>be addressed. So I'm looking for more legislative changes to

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<v Speaker 1>see if the Inspector General kild make policy changes that

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<v Speaker 1>would change the policy from they can intervene until they

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<v Speaker 1>must intervene to help to save more lives. Because the

0:25:57.276 --> 0:25:59.796
<v Speaker 1>reality is is that, like I said, it wasn't the

0:25:59.836 --> 0:26:02.476
<v Speaker 1>fact that Courtney was shot. It was the lack of

0:26:02.636 --> 0:26:07.396
<v Speaker 1>urgency to his care. You know, recently, Offers a French

0:26:07.876 --> 0:26:13.036
<v Speaker 1>was shot Chicago and she was killed. I listened to

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<v Speaker 1>that traffic on the police scanner that day, and I

0:26:18.956 --> 0:26:22.556
<v Speaker 1>was listening in real time. I saw how they move

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<v Speaker 1>heaven and earth to get her to the nearest trauma

0:26:25.796 --> 0:26:30.156
<v Speaker 1>center as they should. As they should, But that same

0:26:30.276 --> 0:26:34.236
<v Speaker 1>care that they put for offers of French should go

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<v Speaker 1>for every citizen in Chicago in the United States. There

0:26:38.916 --> 0:26:41.916
<v Speaker 1>should be no respect of person because of their title.

0:26:42.796 --> 0:26:46.716
<v Speaker 1>But everybody deserves a fighting chance, and so if we

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<v Speaker 1>make these legislative changes to ensure that everyone has the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity at life, then that would be justice for Courtney.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ever find your relationship at the police changing

0:27:05.836 --> 0:27:09.396
<v Speaker 1>throughout this process, I mean, how you approach that change

0:27:09.516 --> 0:27:14.196
<v Speaker 1>in any way? Well, I would say we still have

0:27:14.236 --> 0:27:19.076
<v Speaker 1>a contentious relationship. I would say that I still have

0:27:19.116 --> 0:27:23.436
<v Speaker 1>no faith in them that they would actually solve Courtney's murder.

0:27:23.996 --> 0:27:28.556
<v Speaker 1>But I'm hoping that we can come to a clear

0:27:28.636 --> 0:27:34.116
<v Speaker 1>understanding that Courtney deserves justice. This was not for me

0:27:35.596 --> 0:27:40.156
<v Speaker 1>an investigation on the police to try to entrap them

0:27:40.276 --> 0:27:42.996
<v Speaker 1>or to make them look like the bad guy. I

0:27:43.116 --> 0:27:46.956
<v Speaker 1>wanted justice for my son. It didn't matter if it

0:27:46.996 --> 0:27:50.796
<v Speaker 1>was the police, if it was a stranger. Whoever did

0:27:50.876 --> 0:27:55.356
<v Speaker 1>this to Courtney, they deserved to be prosecuted and convicted

0:27:55.436 --> 0:27:58.156
<v Speaker 1>of this crime. So that was my only goal, and

0:27:58.236 --> 0:28:00.636
<v Speaker 1>I was always telling them, I want you to treat

0:28:01.156 --> 0:28:03.996
<v Speaker 1>my son as if it was yours. How would you

0:28:04.196 --> 0:28:08.316
<v Speaker 1>go about handling this investigation if it was your child

0:28:08.436 --> 0:28:14.516
<v Speaker 1>on that slab instead of mine. I'm curious to know

0:28:14.556 --> 0:28:18.436
<v Speaker 1>how having clarity around Courtney's death will impact your life

0:28:18.876 --> 0:28:23.636
<v Speaker 1>on a personal level. Aside from the advocacy part. I

0:28:23.756 --> 0:28:29.196
<v Speaker 1>know there's nothing I could do. I know as a mother,

0:28:29.316 --> 0:28:33.316
<v Speaker 1>I cannot change what happened. I don't even know if

0:28:33.476 --> 0:28:39.156
<v Speaker 1>me being there would have been any different. But for me,

0:28:39.996 --> 0:28:46.276
<v Speaker 1>the clarity I have is more introspective about life and

0:28:46.316 --> 0:28:51.836
<v Speaker 1>how fragile it is, and how that you live every

0:28:51.876 --> 0:28:57.636
<v Speaker 1>moment as if it's your last, and you love harder

0:28:58.796 --> 0:29:02.836
<v Speaker 1>and you love more freely. So that's the clarity I've

0:29:02.916 --> 0:29:07.956
<v Speaker 1>learned in all of this, is to make sure you

0:29:08.036 --> 0:29:10.876
<v Speaker 1>tell everyone that you love them. Because I didn't know

0:29:12.236 --> 0:29:14.236
<v Speaker 1>that I wasn't going to be able to tell my

0:29:14.276 --> 0:29:18.036
<v Speaker 1>son that and now I only can tell him and

0:29:18.156 --> 0:29:23.476
<v Speaker 1>my actions and my continuous fight for him, But I

0:29:23.516 --> 0:29:26.476
<v Speaker 1>wish I had that moment to say that for him

0:29:26.516 --> 0:29:30.396
<v Speaker 1>to hear it. Do you think this reflects a change

0:29:30.476 --> 0:29:33.716
<v Speaker 1>and how you how you've thought about your goals throughout,

0:29:33.756 --> 0:29:36.756
<v Speaker 1>which is at the beginning you were seeking clarity around

0:29:36.796 --> 0:29:42.116
<v Speaker 1>the facts, and actually now it's it's also its clarity

0:29:42.156 --> 0:29:44.796
<v Speaker 1>around how you plan to live the rest of your life.

0:29:44.916 --> 0:29:47.356
<v Speaker 1>Like that's what you ended up getting from it. Yeah,

0:29:47.436 --> 0:29:51.276
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's this poem that I often quote. The

0:29:51.316 --> 0:29:55.356
<v Speaker 1>hardest thing was hearing that my son had passed away,

0:29:56.556 --> 0:29:58.956
<v Speaker 1>But now it's the hardest thing is going on and

0:29:59.036 --> 0:30:03.796
<v Speaker 1>living without him. Now that I've heard that, and that

0:30:03.916 --> 0:30:07.396
<v Speaker 1>is that is the truth? How do you? How do

0:30:07.476 --> 0:30:11.636
<v Speaker 1>you continue to move forward and go on? And I

0:30:11.676 --> 0:30:16.636
<v Speaker 1>hope that what the world gathers from Courtney is just

0:30:16.756 --> 0:30:20.796
<v Speaker 1>to love, Just to love, to show the love and

0:30:20.956 --> 0:30:24.476
<v Speaker 1>not be afraid to show how you feel about someone.

0:30:25.076 --> 0:30:27.676
<v Speaker 1>One of the greatest things about Courtney that I learned

0:30:28.356 --> 0:30:32.596
<v Speaker 1>and his death is that he had this keen ability

0:30:33.116 --> 0:30:37.676
<v Speaker 1>to make everyone feel special, to make everyone feel loved.

0:30:38.316 --> 0:30:42.196
<v Speaker 1>And if you ask any of his friends, they'll say

0:30:42.236 --> 0:30:45.716
<v Speaker 1>Courtney was my best friend. Usually we only get one,

0:30:46.796 --> 0:30:51.276
<v Speaker 1>but he made everyone feel like they were his best friend,

0:30:52.556 --> 0:30:57.756
<v Speaker 1>and so I'm learning from him those qualities of making

0:30:57.796 --> 0:31:04.756
<v Speaker 1>myself vulnerable and to show love more often has telling

0:31:04.796 --> 0:31:08.036
<v Speaker 1>Courtney's story, including the story of how well he lived

0:31:08.076 --> 0:31:11.036
<v Speaker 1>his life, helped you heal in ways that you couldn't

0:31:11.076 --> 0:31:15.716
<v Speaker 1>have anticipated. I would say, yes, Um, as a parent,

0:31:16.756 --> 0:31:23.156
<v Speaker 1>you grow up teaching your children the morals guidance. You

0:31:23.196 --> 0:31:27.196
<v Speaker 1>know you're still you're instilling so much into them, and

0:31:27.276 --> 0:31:29.796
<v Speaker 1>you're like, I want, I hope these kids are listening

0:31:29.836 --> 0:31:33.316
<v Speaker 1>to me. And what what what I found out in

0:31:33.436 --> 0:31:37.076
<v Speaker 1>his death is that he was the way I raised

0:31:37.156 --> 0:31:40.356
<v Speaker 1>him is the way that he was living. And so

0:31:40.436 --> 0:31:43.876
<v Speaker 1>I find so much comfort and so much joy and

0:31:44.116 --> 0:31:47.876
<v Speaker 1>hearing other people talk about my son the way that

0:31:47.916 --> 0:31:54.236
<v Speaker 1>he made them feel. I recall the weekend that Courtney

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<v Speaker 1>had passed away. I opened my home to the public

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<v Speaker 1>because it was just so much outpouring of grief, and

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<v Speaker 1>they were grieving with me, grieving for me, and we

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<v Speaker 1>were all united in this great loss of Ortney Copeland.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had opened my house to anyone who wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to come and pay their respects, and I remember a

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<v Speaker 1>gentleman walking into my home and he told me, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know me, and I don't even know your son,

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<v Speaker 1>but I saw his photo on the TV that he

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<v Speaker 1>had been killed. And he handed me this koran. And

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<v Speaker 1>he hands me this koran. He said, ma'am, your son

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<v Speaker 1>came into my restaurant about a month ago and he

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<v Speaker 1>saw me. He was sitting with his girlfriend. He saw me.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, I was in so much pain that day,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, your son saw the anguish in my face.

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<v Speaker 1>And he walked over to me and he said, Sir,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you, but I just want to encourage

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<v Speaker 1>you today. I want to give you some hope and

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that whatever it is that you're going through,

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<v Speaker 1>that God is going to be able to help you.

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<v Speaker 1>He started crying, and he said, because your son came

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<v Speaker 1>to me in that day and he gave me those

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<v Speaker 1>words of encouragement and told me to keep going and

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<v Speaker 1>whatever I was going through it was going to be okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here today, and he turned around he walked out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just like, oh my God, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>so much You have so much joy and sadness at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time. But you as a parent, you said,

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<v Speaker 1>my child has feel listening in there, and they're validating

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<v Speaker 1>you as a parent, and so I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>just like so profound that we wanted him to grow

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<v Speaker 1>up and treat people with dignity and respect, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way I would want him to have been treated

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<v Speaker 1>as well. There's an update to Chaparral's story that I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to share with you. When she and I initially spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>the Inspector General's investigation was still under way, but Chaparral

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<v Speaker 1>was recently notified that the investigation has wrapped up and

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<v Speaker 1>a final report has been sent to the City of Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>The report is slated to be released to the public

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<v Speaker 1>in the coming months. For more details on the evolution

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<v Speaker 1>of Courtney's case, you can listen to the podcast Somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>which was named a finalist for a Pulled Surprise this

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<v Speaker 1>past year. Hey, thanks so much for listening to A

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<v Speaker 1>Slight Change of Plans this year and for sharing the

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<v Speaker 1>From the whole Slight Change family. We're wishing you a

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<v Speaker 1>A Slight Change of Plans is created, written an executive

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just quickly share the story of finding out

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<v Speaker 1>what Courtney name you on his phone? You know, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going through his phone and we're looking at all the

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<v Speaker 1>messages and it says, oh, whose number is this? And

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<v Speaker 1>the blow and behold it's my number. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as anywether as He's like here she go again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh but he would also call me Mama Bear. He

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<v Speaker 1>would like Mama Bear, Mama Bear. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that that is just it, and Mama Bear is fighting

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<v Speaker 1>for him. And he knew that whatever situation, whether it

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<v Speaker 1>was oh oh, Mama Bear, I was going to be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that's going to be determined to find out what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to him.