Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and
Speaker 1: I'm Nila, and it's Wednesday, Jula, Happy Wednesday.
Speaker 2: Happy Wednesday. What I don't know? This is our first
Speaker 2: time recording separately, even though.
Speaker 1: That's why we're awkward.
Speaker 2: Hell what you said. Even though we're in the same city,
Speaker 2: we sometimes we don't. We even get tired of each other,
Speaker 2: even though even though even when we do we still
Speaker 2: have to talk.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's just you know, I have big plans today.
Speaker 1: Well actually I have actually no plans actually, and I
Speaker 1: don't have my daughter for the next like hopefully day
Speaker 1: and a half. And like I hadn't got no man
Speaker 1: to come over here. I mean I do have a man,
Speaker 1: but like he's not coming.
Speaker 2: I have mine. He's just not coming over.
Speaker 1: He's just not coming. He's not invited today. And I
Speaker 1: just need me time. Just no energies in my space
Speaker 1: except right now via the zoom the internets.
Speaker 2: I'm actually I'm happy that you mandated this space because
Speaker 2: I didn't like mandated. Bitch, Like I don't really want
Speaker 2: to be around anyone tomorrow. I'm like, I don't want
Speaker 2: to see you either, bitch. Actually I just saw you
Speaker 2: all day, but today I was like, you know what,
Speaker 2: I don't want to I don't want to see anybody today,
Speaker 2: and I just want to get high and get my
Speaker 2: nails done, and I hope nobody talks to me.
Speaker 1: I think I'm even gonna like leave my phone. I
Speaker 1: think I'm gonna get crazy leave my phone behind. I
Speaker 1: don't for what, What the fuck do I need it
Speaker 1: for behind?
Speaker 2: I thought you said you weren't going anywhere.
Speaker 1: Well, I mean if I do leave, like I can
Speaker 1: just leave it behind, or I can actually just turn
Speaker 1: it off.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try that because I have to really get
Speaker 2: it done, and I'm the number one distracted person.
Speaker 1: Like there's really no reason for me to have my
Speaker 1: phone on. Like Ari's with her dad. He's got it
Speaker 1: like work. I have nothing for work on the plate
Speaker 1: today except this, and that's it.
Speaker 2: I know. It's you know what, we love our job
Speaker 2: so much that sometimes it's hard to forget not to
Speaker 2: think about it.
Speaker 1: It's so it's impossible.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm like talking to people all day long on fucking Instagram.
Speaker 1: I need a break. I love y'all.
Speaker 2: BRB, No, honestly, okay, Speaking of technologies and conversations last
Speaker 2: night me an adventure Bay. This is the most romantic
Speaker 2: educational thing I've ever done. He is reading a new
Speaker 2: book called Okay, I forgot to write it down. Whatever.
Speaker 2: It's like a book about men and how they like
Speaker 2: their approach to loving women is wrong. It's like, I
Speaker 2: really want you to hear this book. So he gave
Speaker 2: me his audible log in and then we called each
Speaker 2: other on speakerphone and listened together to the audible to
Speaker 2: like five chapters and then like we would pause and
Speaker 2: discuss it and.
Speaker 1: Then go back. Wow, this is so mature.
Speaker 2: It was so mature. I was like, this is lovely.
Speaker 2: I'll see you tomorrow evening for the rest of our chapters.
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, all right, I'm gonna have to try this.
Speaker 2: It was really nice. And the book is really about men,
Speaker 2: and if so, I was just like interested in seeing it.
Speaker 2: But he talks hence my situation, my sticky situation I
Speaker 2: got myself into, and my begging. He really talks about
Speaker 2: women about you know, like if you're attracted to a
Speaker 2: certain type of woman who's kind of wild, and he
Speaker 2: specifically so it's not trustworthy and you know, but this
Speaker 2: is what the book said, she's a little wild, just
Speaker 2: not trustworthy. But there's a lot of passion and polarity
Speaker 2: in the relationship because there's a high female energy compared
Speaker 2: to like a high male energy. And then like you
Speaker 2: could find a safer woman who might have good conversation
Speaker 2: and maybe trustworthy, but it's going to lack of passion
Speaker 2: and and he's like, women need to feel comfortable, even
Speaker 2: if she hurts you, even if she fucks up. You
Speaker 2: need to press into her and bleed love into all
Speaker 2: of her pores. He's like, press her up against the
Speaker 2: wall and bleed all of your love like water into
Speaker 2: her poor.
Speaker 1: What book is this?
Speaker 2: Okay, it's called It's all The Way of the Superior
Speaker 2: Man by David Dida d Ei Da.
Speaker 1: So, I don't know if I like that book title.
Speaker 2: The Way of the Superior Man. At first I was,
Speaker 2: I was interested about it, but it talks a loud
Speaker 2: about polarity and female and masculine and feminine energy, and
Speaker 2: not in the sense of like I'm a female, you're
Speaker 2: a male, but just like we all kind of have
Speaker 2: different energies, and like if I have more masculine energy,
Speaker 2: I might attract a man that has more feminine energy,
Speaker 2: and that as soon as we neutralize the energies that
Speaker 2: we know what, we kind of become friends. If I'm
Speaker 2: doing things that is, I generally expect a man to
Speaker 2: do make decisions, and you know, i'd lack. I'll start
Speaker 2: to trust for him to make decisions if I have
Speaker 2: to start making them, and then we'll become friends because
Speaker 2: it will lack in the bedroom. Anyway, I'm becoming very
Speaker 2: mature over here. I'm listening to Audible with my non
Speaker 2: man at night tree.
Speaker 1: That's I mean, that's a good way to pass the time.
Speaker 2: It didn't matter that should I mean, And it's a
Speaker 2: nice way to expand, like to have insight on things
Speaker 2: about yourself that maybe you weren't recognizing. And then for
Speaker 2: your man or your woman to have insight and and
Speaker 2: and from a third party. It's kind of therapy, like
Speaker 2: he's talking to you and then you can discuss like huh,
Speaker 2: I do do that or yes, this is true. I
Speaker 2: do need, no matter what you do, to lean into
Speaker 2: me and trust me and love me through it, because
Speaker 2: that's what I need to trust you. So basically I
Speaker 2: recommend everybody do that.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hm. Anyway, relationship tip of the day. M hmm,
Speaker 1: that's cool. Well I didn't do anything that sexy last night.
Speaker 2: You saw me, I saw you.
Speaker 1: And then I went to bed and I was really
Speaker 1: happy that I woke up one didn't have to do
Speaker 1: zoom school.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 1: Oh speaking of kids. Speaking of kids, you guys, we
Speaker 1: are doing an event on October twenty fourth and twenty fifth.
Speaker 1: We partnered up with Outside Cinemas. It's a drive in
Speaker 1: movie experience in downtown LA. So if you're in the
Speaker 1: LA area, you definitely definitely want to come. It's actually
Speaker 1: my birthday and it's all being out with you girl
Speaker 1: on my birthday. Bring the kids.
Speaker 2: It's also a Halloween event because if you're like anything
Speaker 2: like us, we're obsessed.
Speaker 1: No how serious we take this ship.
Speaker 2: This is our most serious holiday of the year. Of course,
Speaker 2: it's Halloween, and the fact that people are discussing it's
Speaker 2: being canceled is absolutely fucking absurd. And so Halloween is
Speaker 2: not canceled. We are meeting up in downtown LA at
Speaker 2: a drive in. It's a two day we have. There's
Speaker 2: two opportunities to come, bring the kids, pop open your
Speaker 2: trunk bycorn. They're having a contact patching Coco. We're watching Coco,
Speaker 2: which is like the best movie. We're dressing up in
Speaker 2: our costumes so your kids get the opportunity to showcase
Speaker 2: their costumes. There'll be a car costume contest with Coco
Speaker 2: and friends. There's a mobile pumpkin patch. Each kid will
Speaker 2: receive a little mini pumpkin, and there is going to
Speaker 2: be a photo activation, so your kid will have the
Speaker 2: opportunity to get out of their car buy appointment. Only
Speaker 2: you and your family or whoever's in your car can
Speaker 2: go take cool pictures with you know, a little setup
Speaker 2: and it will be like a little old, safe, COVID
Speaker 2: friendly Halloween celebration. So like, don't don't be scared about
Speaker 2: what we're going to do this year. We got you covered.
Speaker 2: Go to Outside Cinema and get these tickets.
Speaker 1: Yeah, go to outside Cinemas dot com. Definitely, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be it's it's gonna be so much fun. And tickets
Speaker 1: are really limited because it is a COVID friendly event
Speaker 1: and we're really taking into mind so social distancing for
Speaker 1: the kids, but also still wanting them to have a
Speaker 1: good time and be able to like trigger read and
Speaker 1: do the pumpkin thing and like, you know, I expect
Speaker 1: y'all to bring your best Halloween costume game, Okay, because
Speaker 1: I already got mine in the in the mail. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm ready. I gotta do a little few more tweaks
Speaker 1: to my Blackest King outfit. But when you, bitch and
Speaker 1: see me on the scene looking like find your way back,
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 2: That's what you're gonna wear?
Speaker 1: That one? You know she does that?
Speaker 2: Are you getting like a boom box so you could
Speaker 2: just like bust out in this dance?
Speaker 1: Oh my god. It's such a fucking good idea.
Speaker 2: But first of all, if you don't have Patreon, you
Speaker 2: need to get it now. Just to see Erica doing
Speaker 2: this Beyonce and interpretation, it's very.
Speaker 1: Daddy used to keep me too.
Speaker 2: Wow, who knew you've been following the move so.
Speaker 1: Bitch, I've watched that video so many times. It's so
Speaker 1: fucking dope. Her outfit, that's like my one of my
Speaker 1: favorite outfits of the whole shit. Irie. I was trying
Speaker 1: to get her to do this other blue Ivy look.
Speaker 1: She's really into blue Ivy. I really wanted her to
Speaker 1: do the My Power blue Ivy look, but she chose
Speaker 1: the brownskin girl look, which is like debutante with of course,
Speaker 1: because it's like a princess, right. I saw Beyonce and Blue.
Speaker 1: I expect you to come through. I know, Mila, you're
Speaker 1: gonna come. You're gonna come to serve.
Speaker 2: Yep.
Speaker 1: But actually Sunday, the twenty fifth is my birthday, so
Speaker 1: come out. You know it's a Detos celebration. I am.
Speaker 1: I am an altar. I am accepting gifts me too,
Speaker 1: O friend that to.
Speaker 2: Me, preferably weed.
Speaker 1: I am a walking altar. I will accept all gifts,
Speaker 1: cannabis and everything else, jewelry, candles or hair oils. Bring
Speaker 1: them to hair oils. Wow, bitch, Yes, my hair's been
Speaker 1: so dry lately. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2: No, it's gonna be really really fun and really safe.
Speaker 2: And for those parents or families that are not comfortable
Speaker 2: with the trunk or treating, yes it's trunk or treating
Speaker 2: a trigger treating, all the kids will get a little
Speaker 2: bit of candy, emphasis on a little bit, but we'll
Speaker 2: have uh, we'll have things for the window red or green.
Speaker 2: If you feel comfortable, you could put it in the
Speaker 2: window green. Come on, give us candy. And if you
Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable. You could just put it on red
Speaker 2: without even having to be awkward and tell anyone and
Speaker 2: people will know to roll right pastill roll back. It's
Speaker 2: super fun. We've been taking the kids and it's just
Speaker 2: something to do. There's not much to do right now.
Speaker 2: It's an experience they get to chill.
Speaker 1: Love that. I ever since we went like a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago to see Space Jam with the kids, Like
Speaker 1: outside cinema is so cool because IRA's never been to
Speaker 1: a drive in. I don't really I feel like I
Speaker 1: went when I was a kid, but I don't really remember,
Speaker 1: but like I just love it or something. It's just like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just an experience to have with
Speaker 1: your kid and like it's easy.
Speaker 2: You just chill sit there, it's true, and talk.
Speaker 1: And the food is bombed too. The food is actually
Speaker 1: really bomb.
Speaker 2: I'm rolling weed right now and I'm pretty sure I
Speaker 2: got a weed crumb in my eye. But speaking of
Speaker 2: kids and weed, we have a very special episode for
Speaker 2: you today, very educational episode. And I don't know how
Speaker 2: we've waited this long to do this episode. We've done
Speaker 2: some similar but this one is specific to our Canna
Speaker 2: mamas out there.
Speaker 1: Our cannabis, what did you let's see you boo ganggang?
Speaker 1: And also the ones that aren't can of mamas but
Speaker 1: you know, don't you know, want to be want to
Speaker 1: normalize weed in their households, even if they don't smoke weed.
Speaker 1: We get a lot of questions all the time about
Speaker 1: how we talk about weed with our kids. Obviously, our
Speaker 1: kids are five, and there's there's some of you have
Speaker 1: kids that are much older and maybe haven't you haven't
Speaker 1: started that conversation yet you feel either late to the
Speaker 1: party or you don't know where to start, or maybe
Speaker 1: your views on cannabis have recently shifted and you want
Speaker 1: to start, you know, a new view of how you
Speaker 1: and your kids talk about cannabis. This is a really
Speaker 1: great list. We came up with five easy.
Speaker 2: Ways the first and for those of you who didn't know,
Speaker 2: I kind of encouraged Erica on her kid in her
Speaker 2: Kid in Cannabis Journey when we started hanging out more
Speaker 2: via the podcast. This is definitely a topic that people
Speaker 2: get weird about, and especially if I know we're in LA.
Speaker 2: It's it's legal here, so it's a lot more normalized.
Speaker 2: But I think normalizing weed and normalizing smoking weed is
Speaker 2: super important in introducing cannabis to our kids. If it's
Speaker 2: if something seems scary, if it seems like this big,
Speaker 2: scary illegal drug, then your kid will kind of have
Speaker 2: that perception of it going into their their life. But
Speaker 2: if we normalize it at a young age, if we
Speaker 2: let them know, hey, mommy's not doing anything wrong. I
Speaker 2: smoke because mommy needs a break or whatever. It's not
Speaker 2: a big deal. I tell Luna, Hey, mommy's smoking weed
Speaker 2: right now. Go inside. Look at this flower, you know,
Speaker 2: I name it. I show her. I want her to
Speaker 2: smell it. I want her to see it, because then
Speaker 2: she realizes it's not some big scary drug or whatever
Speaker 2: they say to you at the Dare commercials. It is
Speaker 2: simply a flower.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree like not making it a big deal.
Speaker 1: And for those parents that don't smoke, I think the
Speaker 1: opportunity you have is that when you when your child
Speaker 1: does maybe see someone smoking on TV or anything, calling
Speaker 1: it out there and saying like they're not doing anything wrong,
Speaker 1: it's not a big deal. Or like you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: kids like because they've already been conditioned and they've already
Speaker 1: someone has already touched them, and their perception of what
Speaker 1: is good and bad, like they can be. They'll giggle
Speaker 1: or they'll like, I know, Iri like sometimes when she
Speaker 1: thinks things are like naughty, like she'll like, you know,
Speaker 1: she laughs and giggles, and it's like those are the
Speaker 1: times you're like, hey, like, actually that's not weird at
Speaker 1: all like that. I mean, no, mommy doesn't do that.
Speaker 1: But like if they do, it's not it's not a
Speaker 1: bad thing as long as they you know, they're doing
Speaker 1: it responsibly. So I think that normalizing it again, like
Speaker 1: Jamila said talking about it, it is a flower showing
Speaker 1: them showing them weed, especially if you are a can
Speaker 1: of mom, like you have weed in your possession, pull
Speaker 1: it out, show it to them so that they know
Speaker 1: what it looks like, so it's not the scary thing
Speaker 1: that they don't even like they just see people smoking
Speaker 1: and they don't actually know what it is.
Speaker 2: I know, for both Erica and I, our parents were
Speaker 2: like smoking in secret all the time. But weed is
Speaker 2: the loudest drug there is. You can smell it, so
Speaker 2: like it's almost insulting to your kids to be like
Speaker 2: nothing's happening over here, you know, Like I felt super
Speaker 2: insulted as a kid like, what the fuck are you
Speaker 2: guys talking about? What the fuck are you doing out there?
Speaker 1: Well, just yeah, it automatically starts this layer of distrust.
Speaker 2: This layer of distrust and that your parent is doing
Speaker 2: something really scary. I think it's really important that your
Speaker 2: kid know that what you're doing isn't something really bad,
Speaker 2: that you're not a criminal, but while partaking and so
Speaker 2: that is initially will always change their perception, you know,
Speaker 2: going into trychildhood and then adolescents and adulthood.
Speaker 1: Or second tip we would give parents who are trying
Speaker 1: to figure out how to discuss cannabis with their kids
Speaker 1: is education. I mean, educating your kid is really important
Speaker 1: about it. I think having an ongoing conversation with your
Speaker 1: child about it, not you just kind of saying, okay,
Speaker 1: this is what it is and then moving on and
Speaker 1: hoping that that's enough. If you have kids that are
Speaker 1: you know, teenagers, maybe explaining what you're using using it
Speaker 1: for so, explaining the difference, the differences between medical and recreational,
Speaker 1: and you know, obviously a lot of a lot of
Speaker 1: times those lines blur, for sure, I mean, for sure,
Speaker 1: on my end, absolutely, I think I think Mela, you
Speaker 1: can agree to that.
Speaker 2: But absolutely this is a I mean because what I think.
Speaker 2: I think we've used it both medically and recreationally. But
Speaker 2: I think it's important that kids know. In fact, our
Speaker 2: kids per specifically know even though they're five, mommies smell,
Speaker 2: you know, sometimes during work breaks and sometimes during work.
Speaker 2: Erica and I really do use weed as a tool
Speaker 2: as a release to relax and also as a creative
Speaker 2: tool to kind of help take us there to get
Speaker 2: in our creative process for different things. And I think
Speaker 2: it's important that we explain that to children. I also
Speaker 2: think I've also explained to Luna, like it helps people
Speaker 2: who are really sick, you know her she her grandmother
Speaker 2: had cancer. You know, I use that as an example
Speaker 2: to help with appetite, to help with actual medical coal conditions.
Speaker 2: And I think we forget that, as you know, in society,
Speaker 2: as they've painted as such a negative thing, that weed
Speaker 2: actually helps people and who have very are very ill.
Speaker 2: And it's important to remember that it is a sacred
Speaker 2: herb that is in medicine, and then it comes from
Speaker 2: the earth, and things that come from the earth rarely
Speaker 2: are here to harm us, and a lot of times
Speaker 2: they're here to aid us. And weat is one of those.
Speaker 1: Things, right, I mean, if you're using weed for medical
Speaker 1: use only or sometimes those lines get blurred. I mean
Speaker 1: medically it's medicine. That's it. Like there's not kids understand
Speaker 1: what that means. And I think like maybe even saying
Speaker 1: to a kid, like if you saw, like you know,
Speaker 1: my medicine for my heart condition, my diabetes, like, are
Speaker 1: you gonna start putting needles in your arm? Like you
Speaker 1: don't touch other people's medicine, right, Like, so you shouldn't
Speaker 1: touch my medicine.
Speaker 2: Or you don't use medicine when you don't necessarily need it,
Speaker 2: you know, right, right, So I think that's really important
Speaker 2: to let them know all of its beautiful, wonderful uses.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, we had an episode with a friend
Speaker 1: of ours, Natasha, and she's a big cannabis advocate. She's
Speaker 1: also an Indian woman and obviously has had a lot
Speaker 1: of pushback from her community about her use with cannabis,
Speaker 1: and she's very public about it, and she's used it
Speaker 1: for PTSD and anxiety and it's really helped and you should,
Speaker 1: guys should should definitely check out that episode. But she
Speaker 1: talks about how cannabis really saved her life that she
Speaker 1: had tried to use you know, xan x'es and different
Speaker 1: types of prescribed medicine and nothing really made her feel
Speaker 1: like herself. And cannabis was something that really really helped her.
Speaker 1: So there are so many heat, there's so many studies,
Speaker 1: there's so many healing things that have improven that cannabis
Speaker 1: assists with. And so it doesn't have to be and
Speaker 1: understanding that it is that it is.
Speaker 2: It's not.
Speaker 1: The scary negative thing that people use and drug addicts
Speaker 1: for drug addicts. I mean, I think when I was
Speaker 1: a kid, I remember my grandfather. I think I've talked
Speaker 1: about this on other episodes, like labeling everything as dope
Speaker 1: like dope like and in his mind too, like when
Speaker 1: he thought of dope, he thought of like heroin. Right,
Speaker 1: But like under that whole umbrella is weed, cannabis, but alcohol,
Speaker 1: for some reason, is this separate thing. And let's not
Speaker 1: forget you guys. There was an alcohol prohibition, and essentially
Speaker 1: there's been a cannabis prohibition and it's still going on
Speaker 1: in certain states, but alcohol prohibition obviously no longer exists.
Speaker 1: I don't think anywhere in the world. I mean, I
Speaker 1: could be wrong, right, even.
Speaker 2: Though alcohol is much more harmful than weed will ever be.
Speaker 2: It's actually like a form of poison, but.
Speaker 1: It's now legalized and people use it if you use
Speaker 1: it responsibly, like you know, I mean, obviously, the blurs
Speaker 1: of responsibility, the lines of responsibility and alcohol get very
Speaker 1: fucked up a lot, because it really is poison in
Speaker 1: many ways, and cannabis obviously is not poison and does
Speaker 1: not have the same side effects as alcohol. And still
Speaker 1: there's still this prohibition going along going on, but it
Speaker 1: has I think, I think progressive people and progressive states
Speaker 1: have legalized it, and that's for a reason, so that
Speaker 1: it doesn't have to be, you know, this this negative thing,
Speaker 1: especially if you're using it recreationally. Just as like simple
Speaker 1: as I pour a glass of wine, I should be
Speaker 1: able to smoke a joint. Like Nobody questions me when
Speaker 1: I'm at a restaurant drinking three tequila sodas. But if
Speaker 1: I'm if I light up a joint, it's like whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa,
Speaker 1: whoa whoa, And you know, it's speaking of alcohol. I've
Speaker 1: actually been taking a break from alcohol because I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys follow my stories on a personal page.
Speaker 1: But I'm like a workout queen.
Speaker 2: Now, oh, a workout queen. Okay, yeah, girl, Helton surprised.
Speaker 1: If I start my own fitness page, I'm gonna start
Speaker 1: a side hustle of training. I'm just gonna record all
Speaker 1: of KT's workout and just like start my own shit.
Speaker 1: It's a k but low key. It's been like a
Speaker 1: little bit difficult. I'm like used to having a glass
Speaker 1: of wine at night or like a drink, and so
Speaker 1: I found this, actually found this distilled non alcoholic spirit.
Speaker 1: I've like it's the only one in the world. A
Speaker 1: friend of mine told me about it, and it's called
Speaker 1: seed lip. So it's just it's crafted without alcohol or
Speaker 1: calories or sugar, which is really important because I'm a
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Speaker 2: Now, oh okay, your health is fitness.
Speaker 1: But you know what I love about it is that
Speaker 1: so it's it's flavored and like I can make it
Speaker 1: really cute, Like I put a little bit of ginger
Speaker 1: all in there, put a little muddled strawberries, and I
Speaker 1: be feeling them like I'm having a drink.
Speaker 2: Oh okay. So it's like I've heard of like a
Speaker 2: non alcoholic beer, but I haven't. I think this is
Speaker 2: the first non alcoholic spirit ever, which is really which
Speaker 2: is really cool because just because you don't want to drink,
Speaker 2: you want to feel like you're drinking and like not
Speaker 2: necessarily a beer, so like that's.
Speaker 1: Right, that's you, you know, like I get it now
Speaker 1: because because I haven't been drinking, and like if other
Speaker 1: people are drinking like that, you feel just like they
Speaker 1: low key make fun of you. You're like, oh, you're
Speaker 1: not drinking, especially me, because like I love I love
Speaker 1: my tequilas, and like you know, some people are like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're not drinking, So now I just be pouring up
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Speaker 1: For all my mamas who either don't drink or are
Speaker 1: trying to do better in life. Drink all the time like.
Speaker 2: Me, And that's I'm totally the person like you don't
Speaker 2: want to drink. You don't drink.
Speaker 1: I know, bitch, I know, I don't know. I'll be mad,
Speaker 1: don't So don't be surprised when I pull up with
Speaker 1: my seed lip drink. I wat, I'm gonna start giving
Speaker 1: this shit to you. You're gonna be like, I'm so drunk,
Speaker 1: you know, like the plus.
Speaker 2: I doubt that, but it will look like you're drinking,
Speaker 2: and so I will make fun of you less.
Speaker 1: Anyway, back to back to the cannabis's education. Like we
Speaker 1: said talking about it, not just having the convo once.
Speaker 2: That's another thing. Not having the convo once. It's not
Speaker 2: something you just leave. You have to. I mean, just
Speaker 2: like we train our kids about like stranger danger, don't
Speaker 2: accept food from people, don't accept don't let someone lure
Speaker 2: you into a corner. We start training them early on
Speaker 2: things like that, scenarios that could possibly happen. Do the
Speaker 2: same with weed. Do the same with those common conversations.
Speaker 2: If somebody offers you something, you come talk to me.
Speaker 2: If you the more you strategize and have these conversations
Speaker 2: in your household, the less the more likely when it
Speaker 2: comes up your your child is going to come and
Speaker 2: be like, oh, mom, so and so mentioned this and
Speaker 2: she's trying this and then you and she's not scared.
Speaker 2: He or she is not scared to have the conversation
Speaker 2: with you. In fact, they're familiar and they're prepared about
Speaker 2: all the possible little situations and scenarios. It could happen
Speaker 2: at a party at school, blah blah blah. You know,
Speaker 2: because these kids been trying to educate your kids for you,
Speaker 2: and you got to get down on that level.
Speaker 1: I'm got to get ahead of it. And for those
Speaker 1: who have teenagers that you haven't had that conversation, like
Speaker 1: it's time, it's it's time. Don't wait. You're a low
Speaker 1: key kind of late, but it's okay, Like you can
Speaker 1: there's still there's still time, but it is time. So
Speaker 1: number three, like Jamila was saying, it is preparation. You know,
Speaker 1: how do you prepare your child for that inevitable moment
Speaker 1: that they're offered weed and you aren't there. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think one of those things is I don't even
Speaker 1: want to call it this, Like there's got to be
Speaker 1: a better play way to say this, Like the state
Speaker 1: the stranger danger. I'm about to light up too. Hold on,
Speaker 1: let me light my meetups.
Speaker 2: Speaking of smoking, made smoke and smoking, I'm actually smoking
Speaker 2: from our good friend Jessica. Well we know fourteen, Jessica. Sorry,
Speaker 2: Jessica Hooper. The I think this is the Via. This
Speaker 2: via the Via strand, which is actually delicious and smooth.
Speaker 1: And yeah, she gave me some shit, girl, That shit
Speaker 1: knocked me the bug.
Speaker 2: This is the sativa. This is the sativa one.
Speaker 1: Okay, well that one probably gonna have you like up
Speaker 1: at the other. This is one she gave me.
Speaker 2: Wait, look why I have two. This is one by
Speaker 2: my bed. This is the Indica, and then this is
Speaker 2: my one I dis rolled for the daytime. I almost
Speaker 2: smoked this because I was too lazy, but I said,
Speaker 2: I know better, and you know what. Speaking of different
Speaker 2: types of weed and educating our kids on it, these
Speaker 2: are conversations that even need to be had, especially if
Speaker 2: you have older children. Obviously we're not breaking down the
Speaker 2: different we strands were smoking to our five year olds,
Speaker 2: but we're aware and it's taken us a long time
Speaker 2: in our adulthood to figure out what weeds work for us.
Speaker 2: We used to be very down for the sativas. Only
Speaker 2: then I started didn't Erica started giving me coffee plus
Speaker 2: the sativa dad or up and you know, And there
Speaker 2: was a time I wasn't asking what kind of weed
Speaker 2: I was smoking, and then I would feel like I
Speaker 2: was having a fucking blacks rainy cloud over me. During
Speaker 2: the sunny days, I couldn't open my eyes, I couldn't move,
Speaker 2: so I was smoking fucking into because during the day
Speaker 2: not getting shit done. So there is a weed journey
Speaker 2: that even as an adult, I'm aware I've gone on
Speaker 2: to get to a comfortable level of knowing how much
Speaker 2: I should consume, knowing when I should consume, what works
Speaker 2: for me, and you know when I should if I'm working,
Speaker 2: if I need a hybrid, et cetera. These are conversations
Speaker 2: we need to be having with our kids, like Nigga,
Speaker 2: you can't smoke all day. You don't even know what
Speaker 2: you're smoking and what time it is. It needs to
Speaker 2: make sense and by having these conversations, they'll know, like
Speaker 2: I'm not taking that from me a little Johnny from
Speaker 2: up the street because I got to go to school.
Speaker 2: That might make me go to sleep right again.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, with that idea, of like not taking weed
Speaker 1: from strangers. And I think even like using the analogy
Speaker 1: of like would you accept a bag of chips from
Speaker 1: a stranger on the street, Like what like if a
Speaker 1: random person came up to me on the street and
Speaker 1: off said, hey, here's some chips or at a party,
Speaker 1: just gave me some chip, I'd be like, what are these? Why?
Speaker 1: I don't Like, I would be like, you know, and like,
Speaker 1: I think the same applies to weed, Like you don't
Speaker 1: know where this person got the weed from. You're not
Speaker 1: saying that it's a bad thing to be interested in it,
Speaker 1: but be responsible about who you're accepting things from. You
Speaker 1: have no idea, especially now in this day and age
Speaker 1: with all these other fucking weird ash strains.
Speaker 2: What's salvia?
Speaker 1: Well, salvia too, like sala as.
Speaker 2: A synthetic weed or some shit that makes you crazy.
Speaker 1: There's all types of weird shit out there that have
Speaker 1: and you just don't know where people are getting things.
Speaker 2: People are lacing shit.
Speaker 1: Parent for me as a parent, like I don't want
Speaker 1: to instill fear, but I also but I do want
Speaker 1: them to know. Like Nick, just come over here and
Speaker 1: ask me if you're interested if you got someone offered
Speaker 1: you some weed at a party and like, you know,
Speaker 1: you are now interested. You said no, you're now interested,
Speaker 1: Like talk to me about it because I would rather
Speaker 1: that And you say no than like you take some
Speaker 1: weed and then like you're so high that you can't
Speaker 1: even move, like because I have literally smoked indicas where like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I was like, I definitely can't drive for sure, Like
Speaker 1: know your limits, because there are limits in weed. There
Speaker 1: isn't amount of weed you can smoke, where like you're
Speaker 1: you probably should not be operating a vehicle.
Speaker 2: Oh no, it's happened to me. And now I'm gonna
Speaker 2: tell my as soon as it is old enough to
Speaker 2: understand this story, I'm gonna tell her. One time I
Speaker 2: was driving and I was so fucking high. I was
Speaker 2: at a red light and then the green light turned
Speaker 2: and my friend was like go and I was like
Speaker 2: looking for the gas with my foot, but I couldn't
Speaker 2: find it. You guys, I couldn't find it. I swear,
Speaker 2: I see, bitch. On one time I smashed my own
Speaker 2: finger in the door of the car and I had
Speaker 2: to like a quick thought of like trying to pull
Speaker 2: it out before first opening the door. This is all
Speaker 2: high shit it.
Speaker 1: This is why I don't believe you need to tell them,
Speaker 1: like people will try to say, like, man, no, like
Speaker 1: there's no such thing as being too high to drive,
Speaker 1: like you can always drive when you smoke weed. No,
Speaker 1: that's a lie.
Speaker 2: There are such things as being too hot.
Speaker 1: There are limits. There are such thing as being too hot. Now,
Speaker 1: can you overdose on cannabis? No, it would be almost
Speaker 1: damn near impossible. I think that. I can't remember. I
Speaker 1: was watching I read some study on it, and it
Speaker 1: was like you'd have to consume Like I don't think
Speaker 1: it's ever pounds of weed in like an hour. That
Speaker 1: is literally basically you can't. It's impossible. So no, and
Speaker 1: and that should and that and can you overdose on alcohol? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can. So that just gives you the perspective on
Speaker 1: like the obviously the safety and the spectrum, but like
Speaker 1: you still need to be responsible.
Speaker 2: I mean so, I think I'm just gonna say even
Speaker 2: the fact that alcohol is so damaging to the body
Speaker 2: it's literally called intoxic toxication, like it literally the only
Speaker 2: reason and it was taken away and then brought back
Speaker 2: is because they realized they had a way to make
Speaker 2: money on it. By taxing it. At the end of
Speaker 2: the day, you know, I'm anti government, even though I
Speaker 2: am gonna vote. Oh what, Yeah, I've.
Speaker 1: Turned it into lead.
Speaker 2: Not in belief, but you've just thought I would just
Speaker 2: would never not do it. And even if maybe it
Speaker 2: is rigged, which it probably is, I'm gonna at least
Speaker 2: do whatever I can in my power to not put
Speaker 2: any woman in a position to not be able to
Speaker 2: get an abortion.
Speaker 1: I think.
Speaker 2: I'm so happy to hear that, amongst other things. But
Speaker 2: being as anti government as I am, you have to
Speaker 2: be real about like the things we're consuming and the
Speaker 2: information we're consuming. And like alcohol is terrible, I know
Speaker 2: because I drink, and like it makes you the physically sick,
Speaker 2: much much more ill than the power of cannabis and
Speaker 2: the healing components of cannabis. But up until now, in
Speaker 2: certain places it hasn't. They had and had a way
Speaker 2: to make it taxable. The government and the laws don't
Speaker 2: necessarily give a fuck about your health, your wealth, your spirit,
Speaker 2: what's healthy for you. They care about this money. So
Speaker 2: I think a lot of our podcasts and even this conversation,
Speaker 2: when coming to cannabis and normalizing it, is like we
Speaker 2: have to re educate ourselves and dismantled what we've been
Speaker 2: taught and what we've been fed and really see what's
Speaker 2: the truth? You know, Like is this plant that I
Speaker 2: can grow that's naturally made by God bad? Or is
Speaker 2: this like highly toxic liquor that they package and beautifully
Speaker 2: colored bottles so we can consume it? Is that actually damaging?
Speaker 2: But that's legal as soon as my kid turns twenty
Speaker 2: one and in some places eighteen, you know. So I
Speaker 2: just think the truth sticking with the truth and not
Speaker 2: just what you've been taught or what school has been
Speaker 2: taught you're socially what we've been taught, but really the truth,
Speaker 2: finding information that's true.
Speaker 1: I agree. I also think that how your kids can
Speaker 1: learn or be prepared to handle certain scenarios is just
Speaker 1: actually relating them to your own personal life, Like for me,
Speaker 1: like I remember the first time I was offered cannabis,
Speaker 1: you know, and like what those scenarios look like and
Speaker 1: the different stances that you can take, Like sometimes kids
Speaker 1: just need clear direction, like hey, listen, Like you might
Speaker 1: be at a party and some guy like you don't
Speaker 1: know that seems cool, is gonna be smoking a blunt
Speaker 1: and he's gonna pass it to you, and you might
Speaker 1: feel peer pressured to say yes. You might be intrigued
Speaker 1: to say yes. You might be like fuck no, but
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say no. Like these are
Speaker 1: the ways that you can handle that situation without feeling
Speaker 1: judged or you know, like and if you are intrigued, like,
Speaker 1: let's talk about that too. So I feel like just
Speaker 1: giving them scenarios, even if they're like, you know, personal,
Speaker 1: it's always best to be personal, I think with your
Speaker 1: kids and be able to be honest with them, I think,
Speaker 1: And I think also preparation for yourself, prepare yourself for
Speaker 1: your child to maybe finally be and not finally hopefully
Speaker 1: be honest with you and say, mom, I want to
Speaker 1: smoke weed and like or asking about weed, and being
Speaker 1: prepared to be calm and not judgmental so that you
Speaker 1: can create that trust. Like that's the hardest part because
Speaker 1: as parents we want to fly off the hand and
Speaker 1: be like what the fuck? Who Oh I knew I
Speaker 1: didn't like Jessica. I knew Jessica was smoking that weed.
Speaker 1: Is that why you're asking me? Oh, you want to
Speaker 1: do it already? You want to have like, right, what
Speaker 1: kind of weed was it? Where was it? What time
Speaker 1: was it?
Speaker 2: That?
Speaker 1: Like, just chill, take a breath. Being able to have
Speaker 1: that ope, that dialogue is and that trust is so crucial.
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you you can't punish your child or
Speaker 1: be stern with them or even get upset, but just
Speaker 1: be careful with that because it's hard to go back,
Speaker 1: especially if that's how you enter the place, like the
Speaker 1: first time is like you enter it tripping, like you
Speaker 1: might trip along the way later on because they're just
Speaker 1: being irresponsible. But like, let's actually have a conversation that's okay,
Speaker 1: let's establish trust.
Speaker 2: And remember like how your your first conversations about certain shit, sex,
Speaker 2: about drugs, about things you want to experiment with, all
Speaker 2: the dumb things that someone told you, you know, like
Speaker 2: and if you had that you had a parent, you
Speaker 2: could talk about it too. You know. It's so important.
Speaker 2: It really does in those sensitive times. It really shapes
Speaker 2: how they'll come to you with other issues in other
Speaker 2: areas too.
Speaker 1: Right, So number four is discretion.
Speaker 2: Discretion, This is really important. This is why I also say,
Speaker 2: like i'd like to like, I know, my kid is five,
Speaker 2: and I try to talk to her normally, like not
Speaker 2: like an adult necessarily, but in a way she understands.
Speaker 2: But like because you know, discretion is important. You have
Speaker 2: to be able to feel out of environment and know
Speaker 2: if it's a safe space to talk about certain things,
Speaker 2: to do certain things, to know be president who you
Speaker 2: are and where you're at, you know, as black children,
Speaker 2: and you have to conduct yourself a different way in
Speaker 2: the world, and as black parents, we have to relay
Speaker 2: that to our children in a way that they're protected
Speaker 2: and they're not unaware, and also you know, without damaging them.
Speaker 2: So it's a very difficult conversation, but it's something that
Speaker 2: we do from hopefully we touch on from the beginning.
Speaker 2: But like with things like weed and with raising free
Speaker 2: children and freely expressive children, there are things that they
Speaker 2: might be confronted with differently as black children and weed,
Speaker 2: especially in certain places as one of them, you know,
Speaker 2: you might get caught with we and have a completely
Speaker 2: different circumstance or response than somebody else that doesn't look
Speaker 2: like you, depending on where you're at, just like in
Speaker 2: any type of situation outside of our house. So you know,
Speaker 2: it's important that you really choose what you're doing smartly
Speaker 2: and wisely and who you're with and where you're at.
Speaker 2: If you're in Georgia, even if you're in LA, you're underage,
Speaker 2: you can go to jail. I don't Once you go
Speaker 2: to jail, I have no I can't do anything for you.
Speaker 2: That's out of my control. But if you come, if
Speaker 2: you come to me, then we could seer this thing
Speaker 2: together and I can protect you because I only want
Speaker 2: your best interest in mine. You're gonna do what you're
Speaker 2: gonna do regardless, but like, let's do it right. If
Speaker 2: we're going to do it, let's do it the best
Speaker 2: way possible. So yeah, even having the discussion about who
Speaker 2: you discuss it with. You know, it's normal in our house,
Speaker 2: but you know down the street you're friends a Christian,
Speaker 2: don't talk about this over there. If they have questions
Speaker 2: that they don't feel copetable talking with their parents, let
Speaker 2: them know this is a safe space. But you know,
Speaker 2: you're ass don't be going to school talking about me
Speaker 2: smoking weed or whatever we do in this household. And
Speaker 2: it's like we don't keep secrets, but we know who
Speaker 2: and when it's safe.
Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, that's a big one, like for sure,
Speaker 1: especially because of cannabis. And it's like like the way
Speaker 1: that it's viewed in certain places, like they are, there
Speaker 1: are people that will do the most if they find
Speaker 1: out you smoke weed around your kid too, you know,
Speaker 1: as a parent too, I think I think we me you, Jamila,
Speaker 1: we have the luxury of living in LA Like that's
Speaker 1: really not even on our fear of ours for someone
Speaker 1: to call child protective services on you, right and be
Speaker 1: like you've been smoking weed, Like we'd be like what
Speaker 1: you know, but like that just unfortunately is not the
Speaker 1: case in certain states. And so if you you.
Speaker 2: Just run the risk of yeah, they have to know
Speaker 2: the risks that you're taking by partaking, and why it
Speaker 2: is important the environment that you're in.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and how it's a risk for everyone involved.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I feel like such a mom giving
Speaker 2: this speech right now. I'm just feeling very mamash. I'm
Speaker 2: really a parent.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to be having to tell them of
Speaker 2: these things.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I think lastly, is I mean respects. I mean
Speaker 1: some of some kids just like there, you have to
Speaker 1: respect your child's comfortability and boundaries around smoking, like smoking
Speaker 1: outside in open areas. If your child is like clearly
Speaker 1: bothered by like naturally bothered by your cannabis intake, Like
Speaker 1: you need to understand your child's boundaries and they have
Speaker 1: to understand yours, you know. And so I think a
Speaker 1: mutual respect is really important and checking in with your
Speaker 1: kid asking them questions, and that's how you do keep
Speaker 1: the ongoing conversation going, you know. And that is kind
Speaker 1: of again like tying in the whole aspect of normalizing it.
Speaker 1: So and I was just saying, you know, and being
Speaker 1: an example of what a responsible cannabis smoker is versus
Speaker 1: a pothead cannabis smoker. You know, your child is going
Speaker 1: to see you using cannabis in whatever ways you use cannabis.
Speaker 1: So if you use it to cope, they probably might
Speaker 1: use it to cope, you know. And if they notice
Speaker 1: that you smoke cannabis at times where you feel very
Speaker 1: upset or you know, like, you kind of do shape
Speaker 1: the way that they could potentially use it if they
Speaker 1: want it, if they were interested in it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think respect also in respecting your child's boundaries,
Speaker 2: you'd be clear that like, I'm not your friend, I'm
Speaker 2: giving you respect by being honest with you. I need
Speaker 2: you to return that respect by not abusing me, allowing
Speaker 2: you to have a safe space with me because everyone
Speaker 2: doesn't have the same luxury. And yeah, I can't just
Speaker 2: get high and blow away my day. It's something I
Speaker 2: do after things are done or because I know I
Speaker 2: can do that while it enhances what I'm doing. And
Speaker 2: some people do great. Some people smoke weight and get
Speaker 2: super productive and do great. If that's too or power too,
Speaker 2: but you I need to see that you're using it
Speaker 2: like whatever it is. It's responsible, I'll like, and it's respectful.
Speaker 2: Respect me if I'm like, don't do it at my
Speaker 2: house whatever whatever my rules are, respect them because you
Speaker 2: don't pay no bills. So it's not about like being
Speaker 2: your friend, your kid's friend and your homie and like
Speaker 2: smoking with them per se, I think. So it just
Speaker 2: has to be like a mutual respect and everybody has
Speaker 2: their different levels of comfortability of what that looks like
Speaker 2: in your household. I didn't smoke with my dad or
Speaker 2: my parents, you know, until probably like seventeen, and that
Speaker 2: was like the first time ish and then now you
Speaker 2: know here and there. But I had to become an adult,
Speaker 2: even with my grandma. Wasn't until like my twenties, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean. I had no idea, but everybody
Speaker 2: has a different level of comfortability in their household, so
Speaker 2: just kind of find out what that is for you.
Speaker 2: Oh and one last thing, if you're listening to this
Speaker 2: and you haven't had any conversation about cannabis, it's a
Speaker 2: secret in your house and you have a whatever, however,
Speaker 2: old kids, when to have the conversation. I just think
Speaker 2: if you could just comfortably kind of start rolling it
Speaker 2: in now, do it. If you can start normalizing something
Speaker 2: that you've realized you should have normalized before, do it. Start.
Speaker 2: It's never too late to start having the conversation.
Speaker 1: Especially if you really want to be up. If you
Speaker 1: want to know, some people don't want to know, some
Speaker 1: people don't want to know about that. Like I think
Speaker 1: it'll help in other areas of relationships as well. There's
Speaker 1: so many taboo things that and once those things are broken,
Speaker 1: they unlock these certain parts of your relationship that you
Speaker 1: any other way would have missed out on. Life is short, man,
Speaker 1: Connect with your kids. Don't set up boundaries with them
Speaker 1: for no reason that they don't have to be there.
Speaker 1: Not to get deep, but like I do, like I
Speaker 1: think about like I never really fear death before, and
Speaker 1: I still don't necessarily fear it, but like the fact
Speaker 1: that I like, especially now in the time that we
Speaker 1: live in, like thinking about leaving my daughter here, I
Speaker 1: want to have the best, most honest relationship in all ways,
Speaker 1: in the way that she allows me to. You know,
Speaker 1: I know she's going to have her her things and
Speaker 1: her secrets, and I don't expect to know everything, but
Speaker 1: like I want us to, you know, be boundless if
Speaker 1: we can. And I think a lot of that starts
Speaker 1: with just getting rid of like these fucking stupid rules
Speaker 1: about what parents how and what and how parents talk
Speaker 1: about things that are like sex and cannabis and alcohol
Speaker 1: and drugs and mental health and.
Speaker 2: And mostly things that are inevitably going to come up
Speaker 2: no matter what they that no matter what, these things
Speaker 2: are going to come up. And how are we gonna
Speaker 2: how are we going to introduce them? How are we
Speaker 2: going to co exist with them and prepare our children
Speaker 2: in a healthy way if we're unwilling to have uncomfortable
Speaker 2: conversations and be honest and be real, you know, be human.
Speaker 2: It's so important, I think honestly, when you give, when
Speaker 2: you give yourself permission to do that, and then you
Speaker 2: give your child permission to do that, and you encourage
Speaker 2: your child to do that. They then go out into
Speaker 2: the world and have a sense of fears and being
Speaker 2: honest in who they are, you know, because they're not
Speaker 2: trying to hide it from from themselves or from you
Speaker 2: or from anyone. There's like a sense of confidence that
Speaker 2: you kind of are aware, you know, right, you get
Speaker 2: you kind of give your hift, your child a gift
Speaker 2: of just being and and being free to express themselves,
Speaker 2: and then you can receive it and sort through it
Speaker 2: with them versus being closed off even in some places,
Speaker 2: you know, even in some ways it affects the entire
Speaker 2: being of a child that show.
Speaker 1: Well, we hope these help. We hope these help you guys,
Speaker 1: you know, you can hit us up if you have
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Speaker 1: There's I know, there's moms that listens that have already
Speaker 1: done this. I've already done all these things.
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Speaker 2: I mean, I think the more as a community we
Speaker 2: discussed it too, and the more as a community we
Speaker 2: normalize it and we can kind I take from each
Speaker 2: other's you know, they're lesson plans That's how I saw
Speaker 2: another family normalize it and show their very small children
Speaker 2: plants before I ever had kids, and when I had
Speaker 2: kids years later, that's exactly the model of another you know,
Speaker 2: model I adopted and then added whatever I thought was appropriate.
Speaker 2: But had I not seen that, maybe I don't know
Speaker 2: if I would have felt as comfortable doing it or
Speaker 2: understanding that. But just because I saw that shit that
Speaker 2: one time, that one family, I was so totally like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm on board with that because I saw it. So
Speaker 2: I just think it's important that as a community we.
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