WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: I Dated a "Movie Star"

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and jew bils second d date. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want a second date update, all you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two

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<v Speaker 1>five dot com. We will call the person that didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call you back after a date. We have Naomi on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us right now. Naomi, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing all right? Hate Thank you? So you met

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<v Speaker 1>the dude that you're calling us about it when your

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<v Speaker 1>CrossFit classes? Right? You guys do CrossFit together? Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly where I met him. I know, I'm sorry cross

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<v Speaker 1>it people are very serious. I shouldn't be joking about

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<v Speaker 1>what attracted you to him? Um, I mean, honestly, at

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<v Speaker 1>first it was like a physical attraction. There were a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of classes that we had together where we hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually talked, but you could just tell we were reviving

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<v Speaker 1>on off each other, you know, like I would catch

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<v Speaker 1>him looking at me and vice versa. You were doing squad,

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<v Speaker 1>you were doing burpies. He was staring at you and

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<v Speaker 1>winking at each other. Did he ask you out or

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<v Speaker 1>did you ask came out? He actually asked me out,

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<v Speaker 1>and he invited me to go out for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and drinks. How did dinner go I went really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was nervous, but I felt really comfortable around

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<v Speaker 1>him at the same time, Like we laughed a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was funny. We even told like some

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<v Speaker 1>personal embarrassing stories. And just like it weren't even betters

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<v Speaker 1>and I had anticipated he did he try to make

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<v Speaker 1>a move at the end of the day or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he was a total gentleman. He walked me

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<v Speaker 1>to my car, he was really polite, and he gave

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<v Speaker 1>me a kiss and that was it, which was perfect

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Right. We've done a couple of these second

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<v Speaker 1>day up dates before where people talk about and like

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<v Speaker 1>they're explained the day and they're like, oh, we shared

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<v Speaker 1>the embarrassing stories, and that usually ends up being that

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<v Speaker 1>the stories that they shared were like an overshare. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that maybe that happened. I don't think. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like that at all. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>nothing too crazy, you know, just like we were comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>enough where we weren't like putting on this like facade

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<v Speaker 1>that's often on a first date, like my guard wasn't enough.

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<v Speaker 1>So the date ended well. And have you guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone since or have you even seen him

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<v Speaker 1>at the gym, Um, I haven't. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we've missed each other at our classes, but I've sent

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<v Speaker 1>a text. I only spent on one text because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be I'm not that girl that's going

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<v Speaker 1>to phone and these messages and be like that crazy

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<v Speaker 1>stalker girl. That's not me at all. And I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been done anything like phone or radio station. But I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>at this point, you know, what do I really have

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<v Speaker 1>to lose? It sounds like you liked him a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I mean, I had a really good time

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just kind of completely in the dark about

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<v Speaker 1>what it could have been. I will say this, it

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of weird that he kissed you, and like

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<v Speaker 1>light Like if I know that I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl back right, I'd still kiss her. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>never mind, but you great. You wouldn't have taken her

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<v Speaker 1>out to dinner or to begin with, you would have

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<v Speaker 1>asked her to come over watch a movie your house,

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<v Speaker 1>and you would have made your signature dish. Yeah, Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>knows me all too well. All right, So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call him right after this. See we can get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and get an answer for you. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you brooking Jubil in the Morning, Naomi, yep, you

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<v Speaker 1>get a quick workout in between the songs. I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>say that because Naomi met the guy that she wants

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<v Speaker 1>us to call. His name's David. They went out for dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>they had a good time, kissed at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, and he hasn't called her back, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why. Now that you've had like a few minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to think about it, there's nothing you can think of

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<v Speaker 1>as to why you wouldn't be calling you back. No,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely nothing. In fact, I wouldn't be like calling you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to help me if I if I thought so,

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea. All right, all right, okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call him right now. Feel free to jump in

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<v Speaker 1>on the conversation whenever you want to. All right, Okay, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to David? Please? This is him, David.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Man? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two point five. You

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<v Speaker 1>got a second like, yeah, the radio station moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five, just giving you a call? Uh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's this about? Well? I wanted to call and talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about a girl named Naomi that you know. Okay, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm talking about. She goes acrossfit with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. You and her went out on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>was like a week ago. She said, you had a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, but you haven't been calling her back, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling to ask why. And I'm on the radio

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Yeah, that's part of it there, Sorry dude. Uh, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't spoken in Naomi hard day. Okay. Uh, do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel comfortable telling us why not? Really? It's that embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>Does she know you're calling? Yeah, she does. She's actually

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<v Speaker 1>a segment that we do on our show where people

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<v Speaker 1>email us to call someone that blew them off after

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Okay, So she's totally cool with you telling

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<v Speaker 1>us why you didn't call her back. Wants to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually, you know I had. I had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time on the date. Um, I really did. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>thereafter I showed her face picture to a buddy of mine.

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<v Speaker 1>You showed her Facebook picture to a buddy of yours?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you said? Yeah, yeah, just show just

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<v Speaker 1>to say who I went out of date? Okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>he more or less knew her already. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>say know her. He knew her, like biblically knew her.

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<v Speaker 1>Um sort of, uh you like you've seen her before

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<v Speaker 1>in a featured film. Oh okay? Like wait, hold, like

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<v Speaker 1>not a film that you can see in a regular

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<v Speaker 1>movie theater film like you, Oh, are you sure that

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<v Speaker 1>she just doesn't look like that girl? We went in

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<v Speaker 1>and watched the video and it is her way, Naomi? Ah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is this true? Okay, yeah, it's true. But that was

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<v Speaker 1>a long long time ago. I was nineteen when I

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<v Speaker 1>did that. I am like a completely different person now,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just shows how your past can come back

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<v Speaker 1>to Bernie, like that is from so long ago? Was it?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me ask you this, uh, Nami? Was

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<v Speaker 1>it like a professional video or was like something amateur

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<v Speaker 1>that ended up on the internet. It was like a

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<v Speaker 1>bootleg professional I mean, but I was like I knew

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that it was in the film, Like he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a complete stranger or anything. And I don't do

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that anymore. And I don't know how you

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<v Speaker 1>saw that film, but like it is not who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. Why why did you do it? Naomi? I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like a really wild and crazy teenager. I

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<v Speaker 1>was partying a lot. I wasn't in my right mind,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, okay? Uh David? Yeah, so her being in

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<v Speaker 1>this adult movie too much for you? Yeah, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>eat on it. Whatever, I just see I was probably

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<v Speaker 1>not somebody I want to be in a relationship this.

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<v Speaker 1>So Naomi, just now that it's all out there, how

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<v Speaker 1>many times did you do this? Like? Are there a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of videos out there of you? Can? I have some?

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<v Speaker 1>It is just three, but it is not who I

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<v Speaker 1>am anymore. And this thing is too is like having

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<v Speaker 1>you ever done anything that you've regretted and you learned

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<v Speaker 1>from your mistakes and you grew as a person. Didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize I was going on a date with someone that's perfect. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a question for David. David. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's talking to you. Have you ever done anything that

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<v Speaker 1>you regretted? Of course? And I'm not like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a funny for you. It's just like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I would want to, I don't know, to be

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with a porn star. Yeah, okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>she's not anymore, and how long I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a porn star. And the fact that your friend has

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<v Speaker 1>seen it, and it's not even that popular, that popular

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<v Speaker 1>of the David. If you had never seen this, you

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<v Speaker 1>would have gone back out with her, right, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And there's no way you can race from your memory

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<v Speaker 1>what you already saw, really all right, well it would

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<v Speaker 1>be you just think of it like it was my

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<v Speaker 1>naughty twin sister something through the I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>that's help in the situation, Naomi. I know, I really

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<v Speaker 1>like this. I like you, David, and I made a mistake,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't you know. I'm not perfect, I admit that,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have like grown so much as a person

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<v Speaker 1>since I did those films. All Right, we will send

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<v Speaker 1>you on a second date. We'll pay for it if

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<v Speaker 1>you'll go out with Naomi again. Will you go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with Naomi? I'm gonna okay, all right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you find someone that's absolutely perfect. David has

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<v Speaker 1>never done anything wrong in their past. It's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you want I don't even know, like

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's super prim and proper. Well, maybe just someone where

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<v Speaker 1>your buddies can't watch them having sex. Yeah, I don't. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mean to be mean. And Naomi, I'm sure,

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<v Speaker 1>there's plenty of guys out there who would you know

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<v Speaker 1>be comfortable with that love. Actually, Naomi, I actually would

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<v Speaker 1>think it would be awesome. I'm not even trying to

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<v Speaker 1>joke like I actually I would date a girl that

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<v Speaker 1>had done that. I date a current for star, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm weird. Yeah, uh, Naomi, you got your answer. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>at least I know you know. And I do want

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<v Speaker 1>someone that I can be completely honest with about things

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<v Speaker 1>that I have done. And I guess that it's better

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<v Speaker 1>to know in the beginning because I don't always want

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<v Speaker 1>to have to be defending myself in my path, like

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<v Speaker 1>I've made mistakes, but everyone has better. Better you find

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<v Speaker 1>out now than later. Um, email us anytime whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>need to email us some links too, that'd be awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>Nobil No, no, Naomi will help you forget that part. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right bye. I find it funny that Naomi spelled backwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Is I'm own? Ah, you would catch that seriously broken

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<v Speaker 1>jubil in the morning.