WEBVTT - | Ep 58 | Per My Last Email…

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of Reasonably Shity. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's that?

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<v Speaker 1>What's that? My people? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>once again for being here with us. Yes, and first

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<v Speaker 1>and foremost problem, we have things to discuss, like our

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<v Speaker 1>reasonably Shady moment of the week. All right, what are

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<v Speaker 1>we talking about? Let's see. Okay, So I don't really okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is still This is just something I wanted to share.

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<v Speaker 1>This is you know, did not happen to me, but

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<v Speaker 1>I witnessed it. It's another traveling story, Okay, because I

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<v Speaker 1>have one too. Yes, um, so when we were on

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<v Speaker 1>the plane on the way back home from Jamaica, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, you gotta do what you gotta do.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's how you're gonna start this. You gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>what you gotta gotta do. Yeah, Okay, you gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>what you gotta do. So you know, they're all like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the plane is about to take off. You know, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>put your seatbelts on. Everybody. You know, we're backing up

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<v Speaker 1>from the gate and turn your turn. This off with whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>all that all that ship, stay in your see, don't

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<v Speaker 1>get up blah blah. You know, the flight attendants got

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<v Speaker 1>their seatbuls bugle. Okay, And all I hear is this

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<v Speaker 1>little voice. I got a pee? I got it was

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, yes, oh yes, So the little boys like

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<v Speaker 1>behind me, it's like the row, you know, the other

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<v Speaker 1>owl or the other side of the plane behind me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I look and he's looking. He's like there with

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<v Speaker 1>this his grandma. Right, she's just a little boy. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's like looking like, oh, ship, Like what do I do?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh ship? Grandma? What pulled out a cup? No? Pulled

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<v Speaker 1>out the little penis a little way way No, and

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<v Speaker 1>she directed that pee into the cup. I'm disgusted. I

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<v Speaker 1>am disgusted. This ain't shady. This is disgusting. What she

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<v Speaker 1>but she didn't miss. I mean, I was like not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to watch what I was watching because I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta see if she make it in right, they

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<v Speaker 1>make it in the cup. He made it in the cup,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know grandma's shoe, you know. Chrisis averted. But

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<v Speaker 1>it just made me think, I'm like, okay, so many

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<v Speaker 1>things here like yes, you have to do what you

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<v Speaker 1>had to do when you're traveling with kids and literally

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<v Speaker 1>have to pee in the middle of take off, Like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>don't you tell him to hold it? But a kid

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<v Speaker 1>like literally he was like three to three, he was okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he was real little. Yeah, he was real little. So

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<v Speaker 1>you couldn't say just hold it until we take off. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he kept I gotta pee. I got grandma

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<v Speaker 1>a cup. I'm sure the little boy has done pete

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<v Speaker 1>on himself. Well where did she get the cup from?

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<v Speaker 1>What was in the cup? So the cup so I think,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like sometimes when you're um on a plane

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<v Speaker 1>and they like give you a drink before you take

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<v Speaker 1>off or something. So she had like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>let that okay, it's gone. Um. She had like one

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<v Speaker 1>of those like plastic cups that you usually get on

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<v Speaker 1>an airplane, right, so it was like a nice wide opening,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, he was able to pee into. But then

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<v Speaker 1>it just had me thinking like, oh my gosh, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's when you get the heebie geebs, Like how much

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<v Speaker 1>ship happens on these damn airplanes? Like how many little boys?

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<v Speaker 1>How many little boys have pete on the seat? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't make it, didn't have a cup and pete

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<v Speaker 1>on the seat and now I'm sitting on it, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like, it's just so many things

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<v Speaker 1>to think about. So it's I mean the moment is shady, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because like that's just grows. It's not Shady's disgusting. It's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>But Grandma had to do what she had to do. Listen, Grandma,

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes you just stuck it out right. Yes, Grandma, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not mad at you at this point, I'm not mad

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<v Speaker 1>at her because she really was like like she had

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<v Speaker 1>the look of like worry on her face. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at the people across, like right across the

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<v Speaker 1>out and they were like like we were just looking

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<v Speaker 1>at each other like what the fun like because they

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<v Speaker 1>knew what was going on behind them. Oh my god, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember being pregnant and I took I was sick

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<v Speaker 1>on the plane. I took out the the airbag and

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<v Speaker 1>I threw up in it and then I put it back.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, Like, why didn't I just throw that

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<v Speaker 1>in the trash can? Um? That that was disgusting. Pa,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure somebody eventually threw it away. That's that was

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<v Speaker 1>that was terrible that was absolutely terrible, disgusting. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>not my shady moment. Okay, I have a shady moment,

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<v Speaker 1>your shady moment. Okay. As I told y'all, Ill spent

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<v Speaker 1>some four or five days in London. Yes, okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>outside of my kids, who walk really fast, and they

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<v Speaker 1>had decided to like walk super fast and like leave me.

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<v Speaker 1>That was and I like try was trying to keep

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<v Speaker 1>up with them, and I'm like, my really, my heart

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<v Speaker 1>started being fast because I'm like trying to keep up

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<v Speaker 1>with my kids who are sixteen walking fast. Me and

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<v Speaker 1>Grace are like slow out. But anyway, that's not there

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<v Speaker 1>the Twains being shady because they walked fast. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>my shady moment. Okay, this is I have a shady

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<v Speaker 1>question moment. Okay. So while in London, I decided to

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<v Speaker 1>speak like I was from London, so you know, people

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<v Speaker 1>would be like, you know, um so if I wanted. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, taxis are all over the place and

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<v Speaker 1>like nobody really ubers and everybody takes taxis like New

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<v Speaker 1>York back in the day. I love and their taxis

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<v Speaker 1>are you sit facing each other, so there's like two

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<v Speaker 1>seats and then like a row and like you face

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Okay, okay to like pull down seats. It's

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<v Speaker 1>very cute. So um, I would be like, oh, I'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to go, oh my god, oh my god, i'd

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<v Speaker 1>I'd like to show my kids looking palace. Why why

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<v Speaker 1>I can't even get it out? I'd like to show

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<v Speaker 1>my my children Buckingham Palace. Why can you make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that that you take a road so that they can

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<v Speaker 1>see Buckingham Palace? I was I don't know. I was

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<v Speaker 1>talking British slash Jamaican. I mean, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 1>what that is. So my kids were like, my, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that because you're not really British. But I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I was paying them respect by using their

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<v Speaker 1>same accent. That was respectful. I thought, um, no, negative, negative,

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<v Speaker 1>Why would that be respectful? Because like, I'm speaking like

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<v Speaker 1>they speak. I liked the book they speak. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you were in um, just let's say Mexico, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know Spanish, okay, but you were speaking with

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<v Speaker 1>an accent. I don't know Spanish. So the only way

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<v Speaker 1>I pull this off is actually like English, because I

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<v Speaker 1>know English and they speak proper English okay. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and they would always ask me like, what did you

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<v Speaker 1>get into the queue? So you know, que is line right,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be like, oh, yes, I cute. On the

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<v Speaker 1>other side, I was really busted the line. I was

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<v Speaker 1>never staying in the line, and I would always say

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<v Speaker 1>I cute, I cute, and oh my god, a lion anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>so I felt like I was showing them respect. My

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<v Speaker 1>kids were like, this is cultural appropriate disappropriation. Appropriate appropris

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<v Speaker 1>so now, okay, So what if we're at an HBCU,

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<v Speaker 1>right and there's a one white student in the class

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<v Speaker 1>and every time he raises his hand to talk, he

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like he's trying to sound like a black man. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be wrong. Is that okay, that's not okay? Okay, fine.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was shady. I was shady in London, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to speak like y'all. And apparently that

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<v Speaker 1>was not good. But I was enjoying it because I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like the way British people talk is like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>it's beautiful. Interesting to me, it's beautiful, and you sounded

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<v Speaker 1>nothing like them. That's the other part. Like it what

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<v Speaker 1>they probably oh my gosh, like lady beat it, if

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<v Speaker 1>lady beat it, if you're going to talk like them, like,

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<v Speaker 1>at least I don't know, make it sound good, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I would in the morning. I would ask

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<v Speaker 1>for cool songs. No, stop it, stop moving on. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't say that CRU would like a proper breakfast anyway, Londoners,

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<v Speaker 1>we love y'all. We know that you're a big fans

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<v Speaker 1>of Real Housewives and we do appreciate it. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>we we last week did not talk about speaking of

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<v Speaker 1>black colleges. We didn't talk about the fact that Zahara

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<v Speaker 1>Jolie or Pitt. I don't know what her last name is,

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<v Speaker 1>but Angelina is it? Julie? Oh, she's going to spell Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I know how awesome is that? So for people who

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what spelling is, Spellman is a historically black college, um,

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<v Speaker 1>and isn't all women's college in Atlanta. In Atlanta, it

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<v Speaker 1>is very you know, prestigious, very prestigious, beautiful, amazing school.

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<v Speaker 1>And the Jolie Pitts are sending their black daughter because

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<v Speaker 1>she's like what I guess she like Ethiopian or clearly, um,

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<v Speaker 1>they're sending into a black college, which I think is beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely amazing. When so they had their like freshman orientation

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<v Speaker 1>day and Angelina was there, and she was amongst all

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<v Speaker 1>the other black mamas, and I think that they were

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<v Speaker 1>having um dance off and Angela and Jelie didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell was happening. They even do the electric slide.

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<v Speaker 1>She is like electric slide. She didn't know what the want. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not invited to the barbecue, Angelie, You're not invited.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a hard can come anytime, but you ma'am, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not invited. So do you think that she's going to

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<v Speaker 1>come back for like parents weekend and stuff. Yes, that's

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<v Speaker 1>her child. Yeah, but I love the fact that she

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<v Speaker 1>was trying, Yeah, like she was trying to like fit

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<v Speaker 1>in with the other black mamas. And but I saw

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<v Speaker 1>Brad wasn't there. Um he's like out promoting a movie

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<v Speaker 1>or something. Yes, he's he's he's playing the bills, but no,

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<v Speaker 1>develment is not cheat. Yeah. I thought that's so cool,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's that's Um. They did right by her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm sure she's lived a very strange, shelter privileged life.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I wonder if it was their decision

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<v Speaker 1>or if this if I want to came from the

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<v Speaker 1>parents Angelina and Brad Orfree came from herself to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I want to experience something different. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to wear my people. Yeah, I wonder how that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good question. I'm sure she'll tell us one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, yeah, I'm sure somebody will interview her and

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<v Speaker 1>ask her and she she will let the people know.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, I think that it is. She's going to

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<v Speaker 1>get a fantastic education. It's funny because my kids were like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh they they The question there they were asking was like,

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<v Speaker 1>do we think she's going to be treated normally? Quote normally?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, yeah, anybody think about Angelina and Brad right.

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<v Speaker 1>And also there's like so many black celebrities send their

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<v Speaker 1>children to Spellman right, Like, so they're they're as hard

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<v Speaker 1>as not the first celebrity child either. So so yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she would be treated like everybody else, and she should

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<v Speaker 1>be and that'll be the best thing for her. Now, um,

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<v Speaker 1>speaking of being people being treated unfairly, all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>know you don't know who this guy is, but my

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<v Speaker 1>kids wanted me to be up on this dude named

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<v Speaker 1>Andrew Tate. Okay, so Andrew take used to be like

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<v Speaker 1>a professional boxer or something. He's the guys like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>around thirty five. Um, but now I think he's retired

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<v Speaker 1>from this whole boxing gig. So now he has like

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<v Speaker 1>this like one of the largest podcasts ever. I start

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<v Speaker 1>typing in a N d R and his name comes

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<v Speaker 1>up immediately, nice looking guys like a black No, what

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<v Speaker 1>is he now? He's he's like a b He's American,

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<v Speaker 1>British retired kickboxer, kickboxing internet personality and to that personality. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so his views on women are disgusting. He thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>women once we're like over the age of twenty five,

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<v Speaker 1>we're we're no good, We're ugly. He's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>only like five percent of women are datable to him

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<v Speaker 1>and the rest are trash. Oh and he has beat

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<v Speaker 1>a woman with a belt. Yes, And some people allegedly

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<v Speaker 1>are saying that he's a what do you call a

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<v Speaker 1>sex trafficker? But I don't. I'm not saying that, So

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<v Speaker 1>let me just say this. That's allegedly, but I can

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<v Speaker 1>say that he has a huge following of young men

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<v Speaker 1>do who think that he is speaking the truth. It's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like a Cam Newton nish type, you know,

0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:12.079
<v Speaker 1>Cam is like, I want a woman to cook and

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<v Speaker 1>clean and have some babies. He's kind of like that too,

0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:20.560
<v Speaker 1>and he's so articulate that you might even be like,

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<v Speaker 1>mm oh, he sounds convincing. He might be saying something good.

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<v Speaker 1>But he was like, you know, if a woman has

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<v Speaker 1>gone to a club before, then she's trashed to me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I want to be able to have her experience

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<v Speaker 1>everything the first time with me, not with you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's unattractive if she's like dated a bunch of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think he's doing this to get a response,

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<v Speaker 1>to get attention now? I think he really feels his way, really,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, so, I'm googling him right now, and

0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:52.000
<v Speaker 1>it's like, so he recently has gone viral. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like all these articles, who is Andrew taiting? Why has

0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.240
<v Speaker 1>he suddenly gone viral? And now there's all these calls

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for TikTok to remove him, and so feminists

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<v Speaker 1>have spoken out against them. So his response to feminists

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<v Speaker 1>are where y'all are all ugly anyway, So I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>even talking about you. So this is a feminist Giselle

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<v Speaker 1>and Robin, and we're not ugly, Okay. I think he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing this for attention. He's trying you know why he's

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<v Speaker 1>doing this because he wants to up the anti for

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<v Speaker 1>future fights, like he wants to fight again. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so, and does he looks? I think that that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like your agent, Jake Paul targets fight with

0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:33.360
<v Speaker 1>controversial kickboxer Andrew Tate. So it's like, now people want

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<v Speaker 1>to fight him, Okay, but you need to ask you

0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:37.440
<v Speaker 1>want to up the antie, You need to ask your

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<v Speaker 1>boys if they've ever heard of this dude, because if

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<v Speaker 1>they have and they listen to him, god forbid they

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<v Speaker 1>subscribe to anything this man says out his mouth because

0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.760
<v Speaker 1>he is disgusting. I've never heard his name before, but

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<v Speaker 1>I will. I will definitely ask and make sure they

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<v Speaker 1>know that this is not this is not okay. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like people do do ship nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>for attention. I really do, for a response for to

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<v Speaker 1>go viral, Like I don't know, this is just like ridiculous, Okay.

0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:16.480
<v Speaker 1>But speaking of on the other side of that, women's empowerment,

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<v Speaker 1>loving yourself, loving your body, can we talk about Lizzo's

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<v Speaker 1>new show, What's Up, y'all? It's Lizzo, I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 1>dancers to join me on my tour. Girls that look

0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:33.040
<v Speaker 1>like me, don't get representations. Kind of pull up my sleeves,

0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:38.920
<v Speaker 1>find them myself. We think, and we pretty and we

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<v Speaker 1>know what we doubt. It's the battle of the big Girl.

0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:47.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about show. Okay, let me tell y'all

0:14:47.360 --> 0:14:53.840
<v Speaker 1>about Lizzo's Big Girl Show. Um it's something like Big Girl. Okay, yeah,

0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:57.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like okay. So somebody called me while I was

0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:58.880
<v Speaker 1>on vacation. They were like, you need to be like

0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:00.960
<v Speaker 1>if you're like traveling or whatever, you need to watch this.

0:15:01.960 --> 0:15:03.800
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, I'm not a big Lizzo fan,

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<v Speaker 1>just only because I don't really know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>her songs. So I was like, Lizzo, I'm not watching

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<v Speaker 1>that Big Girls, like give it up for the big girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you talk about I want to be a big girl,

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<v Speaker 1>now I do. I've been watching it. I really want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a big girl. Okay, So she needs to

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<v Speaker 1>find she's Lizzo is doing a show at Bonaru, which

0:15:21.120 --> 0:15:24.360
<v Speaker 1>is similar to like a Coachella, and she's a headliner,

0:15:24.720 --> 0:15:28.040
<v Speaker 1>so she needs to find backup dancers and you know,

0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:30.080
<v Speaker 1>all of her backup dancers. She wants to be big girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that. So she has auditions. She she picks

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<v Speaker 1>like ten of them. She puts them in a big

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<v Speaker 1>house and they have they have to do a nude

0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:42.600
<v Speaker 1>photo shoot. They gotta do um learn all this choreography,

0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.200
<v Speaker 1>I mean, all this stuff that they canna do. Because

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the day, Lizzo travels with these

0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:49.680
<v Speaker 1>girls and they're like family. She never wants to have

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<v Speaker 1>anybody around that's like, can't click with the fans, okay,

0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:56.760
<v Speaker 1>so she eats with them. She's like and she's always like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so powerful because it's all about empower and loving

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<v Speaker 1>your body. Ever, it looks like she comes in and

0:16:04.120 --> 0:16:09.000
<v Speaker 1>she's twerking and she got her throngs on. I'm like, damn, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be a big girl. Cann audition for

0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the big Girl. True, I'm not a big girl, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm just like just loving the confidence. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>loving the confidence. And mostly girls are coming in not

0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:26.920
<v Speaker 1>being obviously as confident as Lizzo, right, So that's a

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<v Speaker 1>whole transformation that they're going through, and Lizzo is so

0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:35.440
<v Speaker 1>loving to them and empowerment, empowering to them. It's beautiful. Wow. Okay,

0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:39.640
<v Speaker 1>so what is this one? Amazon Prime? Check it out. Um,

0:16:40.360 --> 0:16:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not done with it yet, but there's like, oh

0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.200
<v Speaker 1>and there was one girl. I'm just gonna give you

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<v Speaker 1>all this right now. This is a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a spoiler alert. She was like I hated her from

0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:52.200
<v Speaker 1>the first episode. I'm not gonna say what her name is.

0:16:52.480 --> 0:16:54.280
<v Speaker 1>She was very toxic to the group, and she she

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was on Real Housewives. Okay, so she was

0:16:56.880 --> 0:16:59.480
<v Speaker 1>like fighting with everybody and listen. I was like, one

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<v Speaker 1>of our rule says that there is no toxicity big girls,

0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:10.480
<v Speaker 1>and so she was given toxicity more than noon tonight. Listen, listen,

0:17:10.600 --> 0:17:14.040
<v Speaker 1>send her a package. So I was like, yes, listen,

0:17:14.080 --> 0:17:18.440
<v Speaker 1>oh yes, ok so okay, So I like it all right.

0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:22.919
<v Speaker 1>It's it's about confidence and being positive and supporting one another.

0:17:23.680 --> 0:17:26.520
<v Speaker 1>So I want you guys to watch it and if

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<v Speaker 1>regardless of like what side you are, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to then become a big girl, because it's gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>you want to become a big girl. Have you seen

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<v Speaker 1>Claimed the Fame? No? Okay, it's actually it's very interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's on I want to say CBS. It's like

0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:44.040
<v Speaker 1>a group of a bunch of people say, like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, twelve fifteen people in a house and they

0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:50.200
<v Speaker 1>all are somehow related to a famous person. I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Okay, it's actually really intriguing. It's kind of funny.

0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:55.480
<v Speaker 1>So it's like people in the house trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out who's who, and then they have challenges and you know,

0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:01.320
<v Speaker 1>somebody's at the bottle them and you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>figure them out, they got to go home. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you guess wrong, then then you get sent

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<v Speaker 1>home and whatever. I don't know, so anyway, I just

0:18:09.480 --> 0:18:11.960
<v Speaker 1>watched it and it was just like so like sometimes

0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:14.440
<v Speaker 1>it's just fun just to watch like stupid TV where

0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to think too much, but you're like intrigues,

0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:18.879
<v Speaker 1>are you? You know, you go online and you're like Google, like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who's in this house? So the ones? Okay, there's one

0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:25.359
<v Speaker 1>on there and maybe she might be kicked off. By

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<v Speaker 1>now it is one thousand percent clear that she is

0:18:28.880 --> 0:18:33.119
<v Speaker 1>simone Bows's sister. Like they look alike. She looks exactly

0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:36.199
<v Speaker 1>like her, Like it's like she should not be on

0:18:36.240 --> 0:18:39.080
<v Speaker 1>this show, right, but they're keeping her around. At least

0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:41.159
<v Speaker 1>when I was watching it, they were keeping her around

0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:45.440
<v Speaker 1>because she's an easy guest. So it's like like they're

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<v Speaker 1>not so when someone is kind of like it's like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of her explained when they're like in the when

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<v Speaker 1>they are appointed the guess or if they think they

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<v Speaker 1>have an inkling about someone else, they're going to go

0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.800
<v Speaker 1>for that other person instead of Mombo was a sister

0:19:00.800 --> 0:19:02.879
<v Speaker 1>because they're like, well, we're gonna keep her around because

0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:04.960
<v Speaker 1>at some point we're gonna need her because we know

0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:06.919
<v Speaker 1>it's her. Okay, god, you know what I'm saying. Yes,

0:19:07.080 --> 0:19:08.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. So anyway, so it's like fun to

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<v Speaker 1>try to like figure out like who these people are.

0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.600
<v Speaker 1>And so like one girl when I got she got

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<v Speaker 1>voted off. She's like Brett Farve's daughter. Um, Brett father,

0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:19.320
<v Speaker 1>the quarterback, famous quarterback. Oh you know Brett, you go

0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:24.000
<v Speaker 1>way back, Brett. What you said? It like, I know

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<v Speaker 1>who that is. He's not my homeboy. Oh no, I

0:19:26.119 --> 0:19:31.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know. No, he's not in any of my past.

0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:36.359
<v Speaker 1>No I'm not. I think. Um, I think one girl's

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<v Speaker 1>like will be Goldberg's daughter. No what, but we know

0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:43.320
<v Speaker 1>what she's Al Sharpton's daughter. Now she's in there, puppet

0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:46.119
<v Speaker 1>she is the puppet Man's puppet. Yes, okay, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>mad at that. So I had to Google to figure

0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:49.840
<v Speaker 1>out who she was. But she was in and she

0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:52.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, my father is a like they'll

0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:54.120
<v Speaker 1>give you hints and stuff. Oh, they'll give you clues,

0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:55.919
<v Speaker 1>and some of the clues aren't right. It's just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's just really like it's kind of it's cute,

0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:01.840
<v Speaker 1>it's fun, it's like easy to watch. It's almost like

0:20:01.880 --> 0:20:04.000
<v Speaker 1>a mystery, but it's like not that, you know, it's

0:20:04.000 --> 0:20:06.240
<v Speaker 1>not like a murder mystery. It's like you're playing the

0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:08.560
<v Speaker 1>game clue. Okay, So what what station is this on?

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<v Speaker 1>I think CBS. Okay, so I'll check it out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think I missed it last night. I need

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<v Speaker 1>to catch up. But I was just like, and what

0:20:15.000 --> 0:20:17.680
<v Speaker 1>do you win at the end? A hundred thousand dollars?

0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I'll take that, right, okay? Yeah, and you're how long

0:20:20.600 --> 0:20:23.920
<v Speaker 1>are you there? Probably two weeks? You know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I wonder how often they have these

0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:30.639
<v Speaker 1>eliminations because it's literally like it's at least twelve people. Okay,

0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:32.880
<v Speaker 1>so they gotta they gotta get rid of they gotta

0:20:32.920 --> 0:20:35.359
<v Speaker 1>get down to a winner. Yeah, but our Sharp's daughter

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<v Speaker 1>she was. You know what, I want to google and

0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:40.280
<v Speaker 1>see who got voted off yesterday? Okay, you google that.

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<v Speaker 1>And in the meantime, what I do, like, what what's

0:20:43.119 --> 0:20:46.000
<v Speaker 1>the show? Um the mass singer? Yes, I'm like I'm

0:20:46.040 --> 0:20:48.359
<v Speaker 1>always googling, like who is who is on this show?

0:20:48.720 --> 0:20:51.760
<v Speaker 1>Who do people think it's on? Here? Well, we know

0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Candy one one year we gotta give shout out to.

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<v Speaker 1>So while you're googling that, I do want to bring

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<v Speaker 1>up the fact that like up duping me, stop trying

0:21:02.520 --> 0:21:07.680
<v Speaker 1>to make me believe in love. Love conquers all. Neo

0:21:07.880 --> 0:21:14.359
<v Speaker 1>and his wife remarriage, we re wedding or I don't know.

0:21:14.400 --> 0:21:17.640
<v Speaker 1>They said they renewed there so they filed for divorces

0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:21.760
<v Speaker 1>years ago and then they guess clearly didn't get they

0:21:21.760 --> 0:21:23.479
<v Speaker 1>didn't go through with the divorce and they renewed their

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<v Speaker 1>vows and then they had like a second second wedding

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<v Speaker 1>all kinds expensive, and now they're not gonna be together

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<v Speaker 1>no more. And that's what I'm just like, Neo, you

0:21:35.560 --> 0:21:38.720
<v Speaker 1>knew you aren't gonna do right the first time, so

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<v Speaker 1>like come on now, like don't stop it. That's I'm

0:21:44.280 --> 0:21:46.280
<v Speaker 1>moving on. Stop it. But how can you feel about

0:21:46.320 --> 0:21:50.199
<v Speaker 1>people like so she put the neo's wife post like,

0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:53.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, pretty much saying she was divorcing him or

0:21:53.080 --> 0:21:56.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, breaking up because he's been like sleeping with prostitutes.

0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:58.320
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, like how everybody, how do you

0:21:58.320 --> 0:22:02.080
<v Speaker 1>feel about people like making these public statements, especially when

0:22:02.080 --> 0:22:06.160
<v Speaker 1>there's children involved. I think that you should not. Um,

0:22:06.520 --> 0:22:07.919
<v Speaker 1>you know, we we know a lot of people are

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.119
<v Speaker 1>going through divorce these days, and I think that you

0:22:10.200 --> 0:22:12.640
<v Speaker 1>always have to be That's what you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>aware of. The children are going to have a feeling

0:22:16.760 --> 0:22:19.520
<v Speaker 1>about what you're saying about their parents at some point.

0:22:19.880 --> 0:22:21.920
<v Speaker 1>Probably not then, but at some point if you're a

0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:24.199
<v Speaker 1>public person, yeah, they can always google it and and

0:22:24.320 --> 0:22:27.919
<v Speaker 1>learn later. Yes, yes, So govern yourself accordingly and just

0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:30.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, you don't have to burn people in the streets.

0:22:30.760 --> 0:22:33.600
<v Speaker 1>Just get your money and go That's what I say.

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<v Speaker 1>Just just get your if you have a prenup, get

0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:40.520
<v Speaker 1>whatever the prenup says, and go the end. Um, oh

0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:45.600
<v Speaker 1>she was eliminated our Sharpton. God, now I can't watch

0:22:45.720 --> 0:22:48.119
<v Speaker 1>because because she was like, oh yeah she was she

0:22:48.160 --> 0:22:50.159
<v Speaker 1>was pulling strings Okay, they had to get her up

0:22:50.160 --> 0:22:52.000
<v Speaker 1>out of there. Okay, now I know one thing, oh,

0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:54.399
<v Speaker 1>a couple of things. Chris Brown and his meat and great.

0:22:54.840 --> 0:22:58.040
<v Speaker 1>We did not talk about that, okay. If Chris Brown

0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:04.320
<v Speaker 1>did not give me high school from yes, yes, okay.

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.320
<v Speaker 1>So if you go to Instagram and you pull up

0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:08.439
<v Speaker 1>like Chris Brown Meet and Greet, you will see him

0:23:08.480 --> 0:23:11.320
<v Speaker 1>taking pictures with all kinds of random people I wanted.

0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:13.360
<v Speaker 1>First of all, I wonder how much he's charging for them.

0:23:13.359 --> 0:23:15.439
<v Speaker 1>I heard there was a thousand dollars, a thousands and

0:23:15.440 --> 0:23:17.240
<v Speaker 1>the people are able to take like any kind of

0:23:17.280 --> 0:23:21.160
<v Speaker 1>picture they want. This man, he's like, it's hilarious. He's

0:23:21.200 --> 0:23:24.080
<v Speaker 1>like holding them from the back, like like from pictures,

0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:26.560
<v Speaker 1>like his arms around this one girl. He was like

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:28.600
<v Speaker 1>bent down on one knee and she was like straddling

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<v Speaker 1>the knee and then they were like all smiles, like

0:23:31.480 --> 0:23:34.280
<v Speaker 1>he was really with this one. They were like all

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<v Speaker 1>over him. But I think that's so cute. So first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, people are like a thousand dollars, he's crazy

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<v Speaker 1>for charging a thousand dollars. Let's talk about that, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand why he's charging a thousand dollars, right, If

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<v Speaker 1>he charged a hundred dollars, it would be a million

0:23:46.200 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 1>people there, So right, so you gotta che like for him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got to charge a high amount to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to control the crowd, you know what I mean. And

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<v Speaker 1>he's allowing you to do whatever you want in the picture.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, sure there's like limitations, but like he's giving

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<v Speaker 1>you your full experience. But I'm sure those people didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know when they bought this thousand dollar meet and

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<v Speaker 1>greet ticket that they were literally going to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to take a picture with Chris brown and his arms

0:24:12.640 --> 0:24:17.679
<v Speaker 1>would be fully wrapped around your back and your chest

0:24:17.760 --> 0:24:19.760
<v Speaker 1>and your arms. It's given it to me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he looks like he's in love with every less and

0:24:23.200 --> 0:24:25.640
<v Speaker 1>he looks like he's having fun. Yeah, like he's having

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<v Speaker 1>a ball. So would you do that? So are we

0:24:29.560 --> 0:24:33.479
<v Speaker 1>splitting this if we're both given five with Chris browne? No, no, no,

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying if we if we had a reasonably shady show,

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<v Speaker 1>would you take some extra cozy Why not? Now one

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:47.639
<v Speaker 1>is not allowing you to do that. Okay, let's just

0:24:47.760 --> 0:24:49.320
<v Speaker 1>make that clear. I mean, I don't think want to

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<v Speaker 1>be worried about true the people, it's true. I don't know,

0:24:53.200 --> 0:24:56.160
<v Speaker 1>because they're they're up closing personal I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I feel kind of weird about charging a thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>for it? Oh yeah, no know, I mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we would command I don't think we have not

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<v Speaker 1>Chris Brown. I'll be honest, right, Um, but yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't mind that. Yeah, yeah, even though I'm not, like,

0:25:12.080 --> 0:25:14.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't really love meet and greets. I don't want

0:25:14.480 --> 0:25:15.600
<v Speaker 1>to say that. I don't want to say that that's

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<v Speaker 1>not true, but I feel like so for us meet

0:25:18.840 --> 0:25:21.600
<v Speaker 1>and greets because they're so you know, you kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like I have to you know, get through as many

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<v Speaker 1>people as possible. You don't really get to spend great

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<v Speaker 1>time with them. So I think these pictures that Chris

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<v Speaker 1>Brown is taking is giving them like the best memory

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<v Speaker 1>of their life. Yes, And that's actually my issue with

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:36.399
<v Speaker 1>meet and greets, Like you really don't get to like

0:25:36.440 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 1>talk to the people and have a conversation. It's just like, hi, okay,

0:25:39.560 --> 0:25:41.479
<v Speaker 1>picture and then you're going to see how Like I mean,

0:25:41.640 --> 0:25:43.440
<v Speaker 1>if you're doing meet and greeds, so like they filed through,

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<v Speaker 1>take a picture, you know, a little chit chat and

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<v Speaker 1>then let them stay and do like a little intimate

0:25:49.200 --> 0:25:51.639
<v Speaker 1>Q and a yeah, okay, okay, yes you know what

0:25:51.680 --> 0:25:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean. I think then then it makes it. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like, okay, you're able to like connect a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more. Yeah, And now that we're talking this out,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I would never want to do a Chris

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<v Speaker 1>Brown situation because we're women. It's like man, man might

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<v Speaker 1>start feeling your butt or something like and then a

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:09.439
<v Speaker 1>lot of like we meet women, we meet man, we

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:11.439
<v Speaker 1>met we meet straight man, we meet gay man, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it's like, who are we taking a picture with

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<v Speaker 1>like that? Yeah? Now, yeah, I say no, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>past So if you want to if you were going

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<v Speaker 1>to put that on that on the agenda for our

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<v Speaker 1>next meeting, the answer is now I'm saying no. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So we do have to talk about um, you have

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<v Speaker 1>brought up to me how many photos or videos do

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<v Speaker 1>you have in your phone? Who do you? Okay, first,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think I have more? Do you think you

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<v Speaker 1>have more? I think you have more? Um, And I'll

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<v Speaker 1>tell you even why this was like a subject. So

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<v Speaker 1>my phone was like at capacity for storage, and when

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<v Speaker 1>I looked at like how many pictures I had, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>this is ridiculous, Like I shouldn't have this many pictures

0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:55.480
<v Speaker 1>because like what do you do with all these pictures? Right?

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 1>So I just I literally have been on a mission

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<v Speaker 1>to delete all the necessary pictures in my phone. Right. So,

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<v Speaker 1>like think about when you take a picture, right, you

0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:09.240
<v Speaker 1>take a selfie, you take like twelve versions of the

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<v Speaker 1>same picture, right, and you just leave them there, like

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<v Speaker 1>you don't you know, say, you just pick the one

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<v Speaker 1>you post, the one you want to use, and then

0:27:16.960 --> 0:27:18.959
<v Speaker 1>the red and then you're all these like crazy suns.

0:27:19.320 --> 0:27:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Or if like someone, if you give someone a picture

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<v Speaker 1>of your phone, like, oh, take a picture of me,

0:27:23.080 --> 0:27:25.080
<v Speaker 1>and they take like all these you have, like like

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:28.840
<v Speaker 1>so many pictures of the same outfit, the same pole,

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<v Speaker 1>the same It's like, oh on my face is now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm stiling Now, I'm cocking my head to the side

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<v Speaker 1>to the right. I cocked my head to the left,

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<v Speaker 1>Like which one do you need? You know what I'm saying. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so before you started purging? Yeah, are you gonna give

0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:44.359
<v Speaker 1>me the number before you started? Because this is unfair

0:27:44.480 --> 0:27:47.159
<v Speaker 1>robbing because I haven't purged, you haven't purged, and I

0:27:47.200 --> 0:27:49.000
<v Speaker 1>just went on vacate and I have a million pictures

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<v Speaker 1>in here, right, I'm sure you do. Okay, so give

0:27:50.920 --> 0:27:56.240
<v Speaker 1>me the number before you decided to clear out your phone. Okay,

0:27:56.400 --> 0:27:59.639
<v Speaker 1>and this so photos and videos? How many photos? Okay,

0:27:59.680 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 1>that's just start with photos, just photos, all right. So

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<v Speaker 1>so I believe I have well, so I believe I

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<v Speaker 1>have so far deleted like four thousand photos, so right,

0:28:14.080 --> 0:28:20.399
<v Speaker 1>so that would put me at like, um like photos, okay,

0:28:20.600 --> 0:28:24.280
<v Speaker 1>al right, so I only have nine thousand ninotos, so

0:28:24.359 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you have beat to me I have, which is crazy

0:28:27.040 --> 0:28:29.800
<v Speaker 1>because like I stopped taking like I don't take that

0:28:29.840 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>many pictures anymore. And I think I stopped doing it

0:28:32.440 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>because I'm like, I take all these damn pictures, I

0:28:33.960 --> 0:28:37.080
<v Speaker 1>never do anything with them, yes, but nine thousands a lot.

0:28:37.680 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 1>So right now, So after I've done some deleting, I

0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 1>have eight thousand three photos, and I have how many videos?

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you have? Two thousand, six d nineteen damn? What

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>any videos? Because videos is like w's what's up? I

0:28:51.320 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 1>mean videos you can like get into it. You can

0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:55.479
<v Speaker 1>do a turn in a spin, you can cock your

0:28:55.480 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 1>head to the side and throw your ponytail. Honey. Well okay, okay,

0:29:01.120 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>so I probably have deleted a thousand videos. So right

0:29:03.920 --> 0:29:07.600
<v Speaker 1>now I have one videos. Okay, so we're about the same.

0:29:07.640 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 1>But my videos are not of myself swinging my ponytail.

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 1>There of my kids playing basketball and football, and like

0:29:16.520 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 1>how many parents have videos of their kids playing sports

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:22.920
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, you know, they dribbled the ball out

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<v Speaker 1>of bounds. You know what I'm saying, It's like, yes,

0:29:25.400 --> 0:29:27.880
<v Speaker 1>delete that, right. So I'm going through all that. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going through all the ones where it was like, okay

0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:32.800
<v Speaker 1>that that was pointless. Okay, because when you're like filming

0:29:32.800 --> 0:29:35.240
<v Speaker 1>your kids playing sports, you like record the video and

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:37.800
<v Speaker 1>then you stop and then instead of deleting right away,

0:29:38.360 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 1>like you just accumulate all this stuff. So now I

0:29:40.640 --> 0:29:44.120
<v Speaker 1>have I've got space on my phone. You do, I do,

0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:47.000
<v Speaker 1>And I'm still going so, oh, I'm in year. I'm

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:50.280
<v Speaker 1>gonna tell you where I left off at because I

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>need to get I dropped my phone on vacation. I

0:29:52.320 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 1>think I need to get a new one. Really yeah,

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:56.360
<v Speaker 1>And plus that body makes fun of me because I

0:29:56.400 --> 0:29:59.800
<v Speaker 1>only have to, um, you have a ten. You have

0:29:59.800 --> 0:30:06.520
<v Speaker 1>a phone ten? Yes, and listen, don't Robin Dixon is

0:30:07.040 --> 0:30:10.680
<v Speaker 1>a hater, okay, because if you don't have an current

0:30:10.680 --> 0:30:12.680
<v Speaker 1>iPhone because she always has a current one. I don't have.

0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Did she lets you know? Well, no, if you have

0:30:15.560 --> 0:30:17.760
<v Speaker 1>an old ass one, I'll let you know. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a twelve. I don't have a thirteen. You know it's

0:30:21.320 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 1>thirteen out now, thirteen out now? Okay, Um, yeah, I

0:30:25.720 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 1>have a twelve, but you got an old ass one.

0:30:28.200 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 1>If you have an old ass one, you're gonna let

0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:34.720
<v Speaker 1>you know. Like my mother, My mother must have a six.

0:30:34.760 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>She has one camera. Oh my gosh, yes, probably listen.

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 1>Ain't nothing wrong with a six. It still works. I'm

0:30:41.880 --> 0:30:44.920
<v Speaker 1>trying to remember what year I think I've have paused

0:30:45.040 --> 0:30:49.880
<v Speaker 1>at two thousand. Yeah, so I still got like three

0:30:49.960 --> 0:30:59.920
<v Speaker 1>years pictures to delete. Okay, guys, this is this is

0:31:00.120 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 1>follow up Monday. Oh yes, this is follow up Monday. Okay.

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of times we talked about stuff and

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 1>then we ask y'all to comment on whatever it is

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:10.640
<v Speaker 1>we talked about, or y'all just comment because y'all want

0:31:10.640 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>to talk to us, And so we're going we're now

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:17.080
<v Speaker 1>following up on some of the things that we have discussed. Okay, So, well,

0:31:17.080 --> 0:31:18.920
<v Speaker 1>a little while ago, we were giving advice to a

0:31:19.000 --> 0:31:22.959
<v Speaker 1>teacher who was an administrator, but now they're not an

0:31:22.960 --> 0:31:25.800
<v Speaker 1>administrator and she wants to like hang out with her

0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:28.400
<v Speaker 1>teacher friends because she's now a teacher, she's not an administrator,

0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:30.800
<v Speaker 1>and the teacher friends and giving her no love, so

0:31:31.160 --> 0:31:33.040
<v Speaker 1>or she just feels awkward because she's like, I went

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:35.320
<v Speaker 1>from being an administrator to a teacher, and it feels

0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:38.000
<v Speaker 1>awkward because they look at her, you know, as an

0:31:38.000 --> 0:31:42.720
<v Speaker 1>administrator role. So we got some feedback from Stephanie. I

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:44.640
<v Speaker 1>won't give you a last name. Thank you Stephanie for

0:31:45.280 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>um writing us and you say to me and Robin,

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:51.880
<v Speaker 1>you say hello, Robin and Giselle. I'm such a fan

0:31:51.960 --> 0:31:54.440
<v Speaker 1>of both of the both of you, the podcast and

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:57.120
<v Speaker 1>our h op. In response to the advice that you

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<v Speaker 1>gave to a former administrator, as a teacher that's been

0:32:00.920 --> 0:32:03.200
<v Speaker 1>in the teaching game for a while, I can say

0:32:03.280 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 1>that your advice was spot on. Go robb it okay.

0:32:07.720 --> 0:32:10.520
<v Speaker 1>There has always been a divide between teachers and administration,

0:32:10.600 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>and having the former administrator be the one to not

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:16.880
<v Speaker 1>only plan a happy hour, but to be straight up

0:32:16.920 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 1>about her reasoning behind it will hopefully help teachers see

0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:23.360
<v Speaker 1>her in a different light or at least respect her.

0:32:23.520 --> 0:32:26.880
<v Speaker 1>On some level, because let me tell you, if my

0:32:27.040 --> 0:32:29.800
<v Speaker 1>current administrator all of a sudden became a former one

0:32:30.080 --> 0:32:33.320
<v Speaker 1>and sent out a happy hour email, I'd be like, girl,

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:38.320
<v Speaker 1>buys um, you were never an allied to us as

0:32:38.360 --> 0:32:41.560
<v Speaker 1>an administrator, but now you're trying to do that. Good

0:32:41.640 --> 0:32:44.960
<v Speaker 1>luck on your friendship endeavors. I say this is because

0:32:45.320 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>one of my current administrators is so far removed from

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<v Speaker 1>the classroom and is one of those persons who will

0:32:52.160 --> 0:32:55.960
<v Speaker 1>put up her hand when she doesn't want to listen

0:32:56.120 --> 0:33:01.400
<v Speaker 1>to someone speak anymore. That's rue, that's really, oh my gosh,

0:33:01.720 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 1>And to top it off, she is not liked by

0:33:04.520 --> 0:33:08.400
<v Speaker 1>about the staff. Anyway, y'all offered great advice by putting

0:33:08.400 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the responsibility on the former administrator and letting people make

0:33:11.000 --> 0:33:13.719
<v Speaker 1>their choice. I look forward to the next episode. So

0:33:13.760 --> 0:33:15.880
<v Speaker 1>thank you Stephanie for letting us know that we we

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<v Speaker 1>all hate giving some good advice. Were good. I'm happy

0:33:18.160 --> 0:33:20.800
<v Speaker 1>to know that, yes, we told we we said, okay

0:33:20.880 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 1>as the former administrator, And if you want to invite

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:26.440
<v Speaker 1>people around, tell them you know, hey, listen. I know

0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:28.400
<v Speaker 1>I was in this position, but I'd like to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know you better. Blah blah blah, blah whatever. Yes,

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:33.440
<v Speaker 1>and you set up the happy hour and invite people. Yes, yes,

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:37.760
<v Speaker 1>up front about your feelings about it. I love that. Yes.

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:41.560
<v Speaker 1>Oh good. So yes, you did something right and listen

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<v Speaker 1>so I got some more feedback. I continue to give,

0:33:46.160 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 1>you know, say right thing and give good advice? Do

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:54.240
<v Speaker 1>I give because advice Robin you do sometimes sometimes, But

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<v Speaker 1>on this this one, this was on me so um

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:00.280
<v Speaker 1>and I got multiple like d m s and emails

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<v Speaker 1>about this. I'm just going to read one of them.

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<v Speaker 1>So this subject is over email etiquette. This is from Shannon.

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<v Speaker 1>She says, Hi, ladies, I recently listen to your Shady

0:34:08.880 --> 0:34:12.319
<v Speaker 1>Girl Summer podcast episode, and I must say I totally

0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.880
<v Speaker 1>agree with Robin. Sorry, Jase. Okay, wait a minute, let

0:34:15.880 --> 0:34:22.480
<v Speaker 1>me just stop you right here. I don't think email

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:26.520
<v Speaker 1>is where you show your personality. It's not about personality.

0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:30.960
<v Speaker 1>She's about being courteous. Okay, continue on. We're going to continue.

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:35.279
<v Speaker 1>We're going to continue, Yes, continue on. I am a

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<v Speaker 1>reading specialist, and I actually teach my middle school students

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson on email etiquette since the pandemic started and

0:34:42.480 --> 0:34:44.960
<v Speaker 1>we were all learning virtually and at the time, the

0:34:45.040 --> 0:34:47.520
<v Speaker 1>only way for the students to communicate with me was email,

0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.759
<v Speaker 1>and their email messages were horrible. I always told my

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 1>students that they write like they talk, and there's a

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 1>difference between informal and formal language. For instance, the way

0:34:58.600 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>you communicate with your friends and emily is different from

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:03.880
<v Speaker 1>the way you communicate with your teacher. Anyway, I had

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<v Speaker 1>an entire lesson on email etiquette. How to send the

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<v Speaker 1>proper email message, A subject line, a greeting, the body

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<v Speaker 1>of the message that must include why you were sending

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<v Speaker 1>the message and any other important information, a closing, and

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<v Speaker 1>your name. That's a lot, it is not. That is

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. You gotta give a greeting. You gotta give

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<v Speaker 1>a subject, Then you gotta give a greeting. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta like talk about what you want to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>You got to say goodbye and thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 1>If we're debating this, I mean, I just feel I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot so, Robin, I agree with you. People need to

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<v Speaker 1>learn email letter writing etiquette, but sadly it's not required

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<v Speaker 1>as a teaching standard any longer. Sincerely, a frustrated educator. Shannon.

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<v Speaker 1>I also heard from a law professor who was like, yes, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>Like She's like, I'm gonna play this for my students,

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<v Speaker 1>because her law students will literally like send her an

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<v Speaker 1>email and just be like, here's my paper, and like

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<v Speaker 1>that's it, you know what I'm saying, Like, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, Okay, that's rude. It's rude, and it's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>give me your you know, okay, but this, this is hello, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what I think you're looking for in that

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<v Speaker 1>In that scenario, I think you're looking for. Hey, law professor,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you hope you had a great now? How

0:36:14.480 --> 0:36:18.360
<v Speaker 1>are you? Nope? Not a Hey, law professor, hope you

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<v Speaker 1>had a great weekend. I hope you're feeling great about life.

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<v Speaker 1>Here is my paper. I hope that you like it. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I would really hard on and I hope I get

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<v Speaker 1>an a. Sincerely, Giselle. No, I'm not asking for all that,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's what this conversation feels like. It doesn't, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't. It should be okay, so what should it

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<v Speaker 1>be doing this? It can be Hi, I'm I am

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<v Speaker 1>submitting my paper, you know, in accordance to the to

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<v Speaker 1>the whatever was it called hands syllabus? Okay, syllabus. Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you in advance for your time. Sincerely, Bob, why couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>it be robbing okay or you know, hi, professor whatever. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but if it was Giselle handing in her paper, it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hi, um law professor, see okay. My issue

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<v Speaker 1>was that the person don't say hi, they don't say please,

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<v Speaker 1>they don't say things. Okay, but wait, wait, let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what I would say, Hi, Professor so and

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<v Speaker 1>so attached to my paper. Okay, Giselle, thank you sincerely,

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<v Speaker 1>best best wishes. Probably probably not. It's the paper you

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<v Speaker 1>asked for, the paper, I'm submitting the paper. Okay, what

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<v Speaker 1>at least you said hi. I would say hi, because

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<v Speaker 1>many times you don't say hi. Okay, So you have

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<v Speaker 1>schooled me. So I'm trying to be better. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be a better person. I'm just saying, like

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<v Speaker 1>if like my kids, if they if they were to

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<v Speaker 1>write like that to their teachers and not say hi,

0:37:53.360 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 1>miss so and so, if they're just like, um, my

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<v Speaker 1>dog ate my homework, you know, say whatever, Like no,

0:38:00.320 --> 0:38:02.520
<v Speaker 1>that's not okay, Like I'm not letting my kids get

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<v Speaker 1>away with that. Okay, okay, very good and okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>on the flip side, if someone you know, I have

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<v Speaker 1>people reach out and say, oh, I'm interested in uh,

0:38:10.080 --> 0:38:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, do you have any jobs and internships something.

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<v Speaker 1>If they're emailing me and they don't say hi, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if their first word is not hello or dear or

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<v Speaker 1>hi or greetings, I'm not reading it. I'm not like

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<v Speaker 1>you're you were not being considered. Okay. But this is

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<v Speaker 1>what the other side of that looks like. I get

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<v Speaker 1>the same d M s or emails about being an

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<v Speaker 1>intern or whatever, and they're like twelve paragraphs long. They've

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<v Speaker 1>given me backstory on how they grew up and their

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<v Speaker 1>mother and where they came from. It are you freaking

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<v Speaker 1>kidding me? And guess what if they don't say hi, Hello,

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:47.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want it. I don't want your backstory. If

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<v Speaker 1>they can't start with a hello, it's not it's not

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<v Speaker 1>going down, okay. So, so Carly has just pulled up

0:38:53.440 --> 0:38:55.640
<v Speaker 1>an email that I have sent her just to try

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<v Speaker 1>to prove for a point that I am rude, and

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<v Speaker 1>it says, um, I needed some balloons for this event,

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<v Speaker 1>so I said, I said, hi, Antoinette, which was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the balloon girl. Carly is my assistant, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to see pricing for a balloon reef

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<v Speaker 1>for a small gathering. Thanks, just all, Brian, Do I

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<v Speaker 1>need to get more than that? Oh? This is fine,

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine. You said hi, oh, I said, Hi said

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<v Speaker 1>thanks and you and you wrote your name. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing better. That's fine. Okay. Just be consistent, being consistent. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I just didn't get straight to the point. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just be consistent. Okay, I will do. And especially for

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<v Speaker 1>a person, you know, if it's a student, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>someone who's seeking a job, I mean, in a in

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<v Speaker 1>a professional setting, always start with a hello, Hi, thank you,

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:51.640
<v Speaker 1>in a in a you know, closing all that please,

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:54.479
<v Speaker 1>thank you? Like it goes a long way, It does,

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<v Speaker 1>it does, it goes along. But if I ever got

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<v Speaker 1>an email that was just like straight to the point,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't be offended. We're yeah, but don't do it though,

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<v Speaker 1>because Robin's gonna get mad. So just everybody change your

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<v Speaker 1>way because Robin is the email police. Hey, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we have got to go, We have got to get

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