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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. Hello and welcome to

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Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shity. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's that?

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Speaker 1: What's that? My people? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you

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Speaker 1: once again for being here with us. Yes, and first

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Speaker 1: and foremost problem, we have things to discuss, like our

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Speaker 1: reasonably Shady moment of the week. All right, what are

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Speaker 1: we talking about? Let's see. Okay, So I don't really okay,

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Speaker 1: this is still This is just something I wanted to share.

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Speaker 1: This is you know, did not happen to me, but

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Speaker 1: I witnessed it. It's another traveling story, Okay, because I

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Speaker 1: have one too. Yes, um, so when we were on

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Speaker 1: the plane on the way back home from Jamaica, and

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Speaker 1: you know what, you gotta do what you gotta do.

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Speaker 1: So that's how you're gonna start this. You gotta do

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Speaker 1: what you gotta gotta do. Yeah, Okay, you gotta do

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Speaker 1: what you gotta do. So you know, they're all like, okay,

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Speaker 1: the plane is about to take off. You know, everybody,

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Speaker 1: put your seatbelts on. Everybody. You know, we're backing up

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Speaker 1: from the gate and turn your turn. This off with whatever,

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Speaker 1: all that all that ship, stay in your see, don't

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Speaker 1: get up blah blah. You know, the flight attendants got

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Speaker 1: their seatbuls bugle. Okay, And all I hear is this

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Speaker 1: little voice. I got a pee? I got it was

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Speaker 1: a kid, yes, oh yes, So the little boys like

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Speaker 1: behind me, it's like the row, you know, the other

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Speaker 1: owl or the other side of the plane behind me.

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Speaker 1: And I look and he's looking. He's like there with

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Speaker 1: this his grandma. Right, she's just a little boy. And

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Speaker 1: she's like looking like, oh, ship, Like what do I do?

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Speaker 1: Oh ship? Grandma? What pulled out a cup? No? Pulled

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Speaker 1: out the little penis a little way way No, and

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Speaker 1: she directed that pee into the cup. I'm disgusted. I

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Speaker 1: am disgusted. This ain't shady. This is disgusting. What she

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Speaker 1: but she didn't miss. I mean, I was like not

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Speaker 1: trying to watch what I was watching because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I gotta see if she make it in right, they

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Speaker 1: make it in the cup. He made it in the cup,

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Speaker 1: and you know grandma's shoe, you know. Chrisis averted. But

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Speaker 1: it just made me think, I'm like, okay, so many

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Speaker 1: things here like yes, you have to do what you

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Speaker 1: had to do when you're traveling with kids and literally

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Speaker 1: have to pee in the middle of take off, Like, well,

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Speaker 1: don't you tell him to hold it? But a kid

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Speaker 1: like literally he was like three to three, he was okay,

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Speaker 1: he was real little. Yeah, he was real little. So

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Speaker 1: you couldn't say just hold it until we take off. Now,

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Speaker 1: I mean, he kept I gotta pee. I got grandma

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Speaker 1: a cup. I'm sure the little boy has done pete

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Speaker 1: on himself. Well where did she get the cup from?

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Speaker 1: What was in the cup? So the cup so I think,

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Speaker 1: you know, like sometimes when you're um on a plane

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Speaker 1: and they like give you a drink before you take

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Speaker 1: let that okay, it's gone. Um. She had like one

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Speaker 1: of those like plastic cups that you usually get on

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Speaker 1: an airplane, right, so it was like a nice wide opening,

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, he was able to pee into. But then

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Speaker 1: it just had me thinking like, oh my gosh, like

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Speaker 1: that's when you get the heebie geebs, Like how much

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Speaker 1: ship happens on these damn airplanes? Like how many little boys?

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Speaker 1: How many little boys have pete on the seat? You know,

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Speaker 1: I didn't make it, didn't have a cup and pete

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Speaker 1: on the seat and now I'm sitting on it, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, it's just so many things

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Speaker 1: because like that's just grows. It's not Shady's disgusting. It's disgusting.

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Speaker 1: But Grandma had to do what she had to do. Listen, Grandma,

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Speaker 1: sometimes you just stuck it out right. Yes, Grandma, I'm

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Speaker 1: at her because she really was like like she had

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Speaker 1: the look of like worry on her face. And then

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Speaker 1: I looked at the people across, like right across the

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Speaker 1: out and they were like like we were just looking

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Speaker 1: at each other like what the fun like because they

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Speaker 1: knew what was going on behind them. Oh my god, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I remember being pregnant and I took I was sick

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Speaker 1: on the plane. I took out the the airbag and

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Speaker 1: I threw up in it and then I put it back.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Like, why didn't I just throw that

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Speaker 1: in the trash can? Um? That that was disgusting. Pa,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody eventually threw it away. That's that was

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Speaker 1: that was terrible that was absolutely terrible, disgusting. But that's

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Speaker 1: not my shady moment. Okay, I have a shady moment,

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Speaker 1: your shady moment. Okay. As I told y'all, Ill spent

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Speaker 1: some four or five days in London. Yes, okay, so

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Speaker 1: outside of my kids, who walk really fast, and they

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Speaker 1: had decided to like walk super fast and like leave me.

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Speaker 1: That was and I like try was trying to keep

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Speaker 1: up with them, and I'm like, my really, my heart

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Speaker 1: started being fast because I'm like trying to keep up

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Speaker 1: with my kids who are sixteen walking fast. Me and

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Speaker 1: Grace are like slow out. But anyway, that's not there

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Speaker 1: the Twains being shady because they walked fast. It's not

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Speaker 1: my shady moment. Okay, this is I have a shady

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Speaker 1: question moment. Okay. So while in London, I decided to

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Speaker 1: would be like, you know, um so if I wanted. Oh,

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Speaker 1: by the way, taxis are all over the place and

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Speaker 1: like nobody really ubers and everybody takes taxis like New

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Speaker 1: York back in the day. I love and their taxis

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Speaker 1: are you sit facing each other, so there's like two

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Speaker 1: each other. Okay, okay to like pull down seats. It's

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Speaker 1: very cute. So um, I would be like, oh, I'd

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Speaker 1: like to go, oh my god, oh my god, i'd

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Speaker 1: I'd like to show my kids looking palace. Why why

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Speaker 1: I can't even get it out? I'd like to show

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Speaker 1: my my children Buckingham Palace. Why can you make sure

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Speaker 1: that that you take a road so that they can

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Speaker 1: see Buckingham Palace? I was I don't know. I was

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Speaker 1: talking British slash Jamaican. I mean, I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what that is. So my kids were like, my, you

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Speaker 1: can't do that because you're not really British. But I

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Speaker 1: felt like I was paying them respect by using their

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Speaker 1: same accent. That was respectful. I thought, um, no, negative, negative,

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Speaker 1: Why would that be respectful? Because like, I'm speaking like

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Speaker 1: they speak. I liked the book they speak. So if

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Speaker 1: I don't know Spanish, okay, but you were speaking with

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Speaker 1: and they would always ask me like, what did you

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Speaker 1: get into the queue? So you know, que is line right,

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Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh, yes, I cute. On the

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Speaker 1: so I felt like I was showing them respect. My

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Speaker 1: kids were like, this is cultural appropriate disappropriation. Appropriate appropris

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Speaker 1: so now, okay, So what if we're at an HBCU,

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Speaker 1: right and there's a one white student in the class

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Speaker 1: and every time he raises his hand to talk, he

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Speaker 1: sounds like he's trying to sound like a black man. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that would be wrong. Is that okay, that's not okay? Okay, fine.

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Speaker 1: So I was shady. I was shady in London, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to speak like y'all. And apparently that

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Speaker 1: was not good. But I was enjoying it because I

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Speaker 1: feel like the way British people talk is like, so,

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Speaker 1: it's beautiful. Interesting to me, it's beautiful, and you sounded

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Speaker 1: nothing like them. That's the other part. Like it what

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Speaker 1: they probably oh my gosh, like lady beat it, if

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Speaker 1: lady beat it, if you're going to talk like them, like,

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Speaker 1: at least I don't know, make it sound good, like

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Speaker 1: that's what I would in the morning. I would ask

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Speaker 1: for cool songs. No, stop it, stop moving on. They

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Speaker 1: don't say that CRU would like a proper breakfast anyway, Londoners,

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Speaker 1: we love y'all. We know that you're a big fans

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Speaker 1: of Real Housewives and we do appreciate it. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: we we last week did not talk about speaking of

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Speaker 1: black colleges. We didn't talk about the fact that Zahara

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Speaker 1: but Angelina is it? Julie? Oh, she's going to spell Man.

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Speaker 1: I know how awesome is that? So for people who

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Speaker 1: don't know what spelling is, Spellman is a historically black college, um,

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Speaker 1: and isn't all women's college in Atlanta. In Atlanta, it

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Speaker 1: And the Jolie Pitts are sending their black daughter because

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Speaker 1: they're sending into a black college, which I think is beautiful,

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Speaker 1: absolutely amazing. When so they had their like freshman orientation

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Speaker 1: come back for like parents weekend and stuff. Yes, that's

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Speaker 1: or something. Yes, he's he's he's playing the bills, but no,

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Speaker 1: develment is not cheat. Yeah. I thought that's so cool,

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's Um. They did right by her, you know,

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Speaker 1: And you know, I wonder if it was their decision

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Speaker 1: parents Angelina and Brad Orfree came from herself to say,

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Speaker 1: to wear my people. Yeah, I wonder how that happened.

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Speaker 1: That's a good question. I'm sure she'll tell us one day.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, I'm sure somebody will interview her and

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Speaker 1: But yes, I think that it is. She's going to

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Speaker 1: get a fantastic education. It's funny because my kids were like,

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Speaker 1: oh they they The question there they were asking was like,

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Speaker 1: do we think she's going to be treated normally? Quote normally?

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, anybody think about Angelina and Brad right.

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Speaker 1: And also there's like so many black celebrities send their

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Speaker 1: be and that'll be the best thing for her. Now, um,

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Speaker 1: speaking of being people being treated unfairly, all right, I

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Speaker 1: know you don't know who this guy is, but my

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Speaker 1: kids wanted me to be up on this dude named

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Speaker 1: Andrew Tate. Okay, so Andrew take used to be like

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Speaker 1: typing in a N d R and his name comes

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Speaker 1: up immediately, nice looking guys like a black No, what

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Speaker 1: But speaking of on the other side of that, women's empowerment,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about show. Okay, let me tell y'all

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Speaker 1: about Lizzo's Big Girl Show. Um it's something like Big Girl. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: now I do. I've been watching it. I really want

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Speaker 1: Just get your money and go That's what I say.

419
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,120
Speaker 1: Just just get your if you have a prenup, get

420
00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 1: whatever the prenup says, and go the end. Um, oh

421
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:45,600
Speaker 1: she was eliminated our Sharpton. God, now I can't watch

422
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:48,119
Speaker 1: because because she was like, oh yeah she was she

423
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,159
Speaker 1: was pulling strings Okay, they had to get her up

424
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 1: out of there. Okay, now I know one thing, oh,

425
00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 1: a couple of things. Chris Brown and his meat and great.

426
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 1: We did not talk about that, okay. If Chris Brown

427
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 1: did not give me high school from yes, yes, okay.

428
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: So if you go to Instagram and you pull up

429
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,439
Speaker 1: like Chris Brown Meet and Greet, you will see him

430
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 1: taking pictures with all kinds of random people I wanted.

431
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,360
Speaker 1: First of all, I wonder how much he's charging for them.

432
00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 1: I heard there was a thousand dollars, a thousands and

433
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,240
Speaker 1: the people are able to take like any kind of

434
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 1: picture they want. This man, he's like, it's hilarious. He's

435
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: like holding them from the back, like like from pictures,

436
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: like his arms around this one girl. He was like

437
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: bent down on one knee and she was like straddling

438
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 1: the knee and then they were like all smiles, like

439
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: he was really with this one. They were like all

440
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 1: over him. But I think that's so cute. So first

441
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: of all, people are like a thousand dollars, he's crazy

442
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 1: for charging a thousand dollars. Let's talk about that, Like,

443
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: I understand why he's charging a thousand dollars, right, If

444
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 1: he charged a hundred dollars, it would be a million

445
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: people there, So right, so you gotta che like for him.

446
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 1: He's got to charge a high amount to be able

447
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: to control the crowd, you know what I mean. And

448
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 1: he's allowing you to do whatever you want in the picture.

449
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,520
Speaker 1: I mean, sure there's like limitations, but like he's giving

450
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: you your full experience. But I'm sure those people didn't

451
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,439
Speaker 1: even know when they bought this thousand dollar meet and

452
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: greet ticket that they were literally going to be able

453
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: to take a picture with Chris brown and his arms

454
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:17,679
Speaker 1: would be fully wrapped around your back and your chest

455
00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: and your arms. It's given it to me. I mean,

456
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: he looks like he's in love with every less and

457
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:25,640
Speaker 1: he looks like he's having fun. Yeah, like he's having

458
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: a ball. So would you do that? So are we

459
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:33,479
Speaker 1: splitting this if we're both given five with Chris browne? No, no, no,

460
00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm saying if we if we had a reasonably shady show,

461
00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:45,119
Speaker 1: would you take some extra cozy Why not? Now one

462
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: is not allowing you to do that. Okay, let's just

463
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 1: make that clear. I mean, I don't think want to

464
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 1: be worried about true the people, it's true. I don't know,

465
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 1: because they're they're up closing personal I mean, I don't

466
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: I feel kind of weird about charging a thousand dollars

467
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: for it? Oh yeah, no know, I mean I don't

468
00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: think we would command I don't think we have not

469
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 1: Chris Brown. I'll be honest, right, Um, but yeah, I

470
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind that. Yeah, yeah, even though I'm not, like,

471
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't really love meet and greets. I don't want

472
00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 1: to say that. I don't want to say that that's

473
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: not true, but I feel like so for us meet

474
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: and greets because they're so you know, you kind of

475
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: like I have to you know, get through as many

476
00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: people as possible. You don't really get to spend great

477
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 1: time with them. So I think these pictures that Chris

478
00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: Brown is taking is giving them like the best memory

479
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 1: of their life. Yes, And that's actually my issue with

480
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,399
Speaker 1: meet and greets, Like you really don't get to like

481
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: talk to the people and have a conversation. It's just like, hi, okay,

482
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:41,479
Speaker 1: picture and then you're going to see how Like I mean,

483
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: if you're doing meet and greeds, so like they filed through,

484
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 1: take a picture, you know, a little chit chat and

485
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 1: then let them stay and do like a little intimate

486
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,639
Speaker 1: Q and a yeah, okay, okay, yes you know what

487
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: I mean. I think then then it makes it. Then

488
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:56,639
Speaker 1: you feel like, okay, you're able to like connect a

489
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: little bit more. Yeah, And now that we're talking this out,

490
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: you know, I would never want to do a Chris

491
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 1: Brown situation because we're women. It's like man, man might

492
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: start feeling your butt or something like and then a

493
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,439
Speaker 1: lot of like we meet women, we meet man, we

494
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 1: met we meet straight man, we meet gay man, and

495
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 1: so it's like, who are we taking a picture with

496
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: like that? Yeah? Now, yeah, I say no, I'm a

497
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: past So if you want to if you were going

498
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: to put that on that on the agenda for our

499
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 1: next meeting, the answer is now I'm saying no. Okay.

500
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 1: So we do have to talk about um, you have

501
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:30,040
Speaker 1: brought up to me how many photos or videos do

502
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 1: you have in your phone? Who do you? Okay, first,

503
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 1: do you think I have more? Do you think you

504
00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 1: have more? I think you have more? Um, And I'll

505
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: tell you even why this was like a subject. So

506
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 1: my phone was like at capacity for storage, and when

507
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 1: I looked at like how many pictures I had, I'm like,

508
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 1: this is ridiculous, Like I shouldn't have this many pictures

509
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 1: because like what do you do with all these pictures? Right?

510
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 1: So I just I literally have been on a mission

511
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:03,040
Speaker 1: to delete all the necessary pictures in my phone. Right. So,

512
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: like think about when you take a picture, right, you

513
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 1: take a selfie, you take like twelve versions of the

514
00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 1: same picture, right, and you just leave them there, like

515
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 1: you don't you know, say, you just pick the one

516
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:16,959
Speaker 1: you post, the one you want to use, and then

517
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,959
Speaker 1: the red and then you're all these like crazy suns.

518
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: Or if like someone, if you give someone a picture

519
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: of your phone, like, oh, take a picture of me,

520
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: and they take like all these you have, like like

521
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 1: so many pictures of the same outfit, the same pole,

522
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 1: the same It's like, oh on my face is now

523
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm stiling Now, I'm cocking my head to the side

524
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: to the right. I cocked my head to the left,

525
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,880
Speaker 1: Like which one do you need? You know what I'm saying. Okay,

526
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: so before you started purging? Yeah, are you gonna give

527
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: me the number before you started? Because this is unfair

528
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,159
Speaker 1: robbing because I haven't purged, you haven't purged, and I

529
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: just went on vacate and I have a million pictures

530
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 1: in here, right, I'm sure you do. Okay, so give

531
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 1: me the number before you decided to clear out your phone. Okay,

532
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:59,639
Speaker 1: and this so photos and videos? How many photos? Okay,

533
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: that's just start with photos, just photos, all right. So

534
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,840
Speaker 1: so I believe I have well, so I believe I

535
00:28:08,880 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: have so far deleted like four thousand photos, so right,

536
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 1: so that would put me at like, um like photos, okay,

537
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: al right, so I only have nine thousand ninotos, so

538
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: you have beat to me I have, which is crazy

539
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: because like I stopped taking like I don't take that

540
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: many pictures anymore. And I think I stopped doing it

541
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I take all these damn pictures, I

542
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 1: never do anything with them, yes, but nine thousands a lot.

543
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: So right now, So after I've done some deleting, I

544
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: have eight thousand three photos, and I have how many videos?

545
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: Do you have? Two thousand, six d nineteen damn? What

546
00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: any videos? Because videos is like w's what's up? I

547
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: mean videos you can like get into it. You can

548
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,479
Speaker 1: do a turn in a spin, you can cock your

549
00:28:55,480 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: head to the side and throw your ponytail. Honey. Well okay, okay,

550
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: so I probably have deleted a thousand videos. So right

551
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:07,600
Speaker 1: now I have one videos. Okay, so we're about the same.

552
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: But my videos are not of myself swinging my ponytail.

553
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: There of my kids playing basketball and football, and like

554
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: how many parents have videos of their kids playing sports

555
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 1: and it's like, you know, they dribbled the ball out

556
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 1: of bounds. You know what I'm saying, It's like, yes,

557
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 1: delete that, right. So I'm going through all that. I'm

558
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: going through all the ones where it was like, okay

559
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: that that was pointless. Okay, because when you're like filming

560
00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: your kids playing sports, you like record the video and

561
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 1: then you stop and then instead of deleting right away,

562
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 1: like you just accumulate all this stuff. So now I

563
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: have I've got space on my phone. You do, I do,

564
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 1: And I'm still going so, oh, I'm in year. I'm

565
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: gonna tell you where I left off at because I

566
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,320
Speaker 1: need to get I dropped my phone on vacation. I

567
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: think I need to get a new one. Really yeah,

568
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: And plus that body makes fun of me because I

569
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,800
Speaker 1: only have to, um, you have a ten. You have

570
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: a phone ten? Yes, and listen, don't Robin Dixon is

571
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: a hater, okay, because if you don't have an current

572
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 1: iPhone because she always has a current one. I don't have.

573
00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 1: Did she lets you know? Well, no, if you have

574
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: an old ass one, I'll let you know. I have

575
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 1: a twelve. I don't have a thirteen. You know it's

576
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: thirteen out now, thirteen out now? Okay, Um, yeah, I

577
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 1: have a twelve, but you got an old ass one.

578
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: If you have an old ass one, you're gonna let

579
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 1: you know. Like my mother, My mother must have a six.

580
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: She has one camera. Oh my gosh, yes, probably listen.

581
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing wrong with a six. It still works. I'm

582
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 1: trying to remember what year I think I've have paused

583
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 1: at two thousand. Yeah, so I still got like three

584
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: years pictures to delete. Okay, guys, this is this is

585
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: follow up Monday. Oh yes, this is follow up Monday. Okay.

586
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,200
Speaker 1: So a lot of times we talked about stuff and

587
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: then we ask y'all to comment on whatever it is

588
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 1: we talked about, or y'all just comment because y'all want

589
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: to talk to us, And so we're going we're now

590
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: following up on some of the things that we have discussed. Okay, So, well,

591
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 1: a little while ago, we were giving advice to a

592
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:22,959
Speaker 1: teacher who was an administrator, but now they're not an

593
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 1: administrator and she wants to like hang out with her

594
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: teacher friends because she's now a teacher, she's not an administrator,

595
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 1: and the teacher friends and giving her no love, so

596
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: or she just feels awkward because she's like, I went

597
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: from being an administrator to a teacher, and it feels

598
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 1: awkward because they look at her, you know, as an

599
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:42,720
Speaker 1: administrator role. So we got some feedback from Stephanie. I

600
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: won't give you a last name. Thank you Stephanie for

601
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: um writing us and you say to me and Robin,

602
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: you say hello, Robin and Giselle. I'm such a fan

603
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 1: of both of the both of you, the podcast and

604
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 1: our h op. In response to the advice that you

605
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: gave to a former administrator, as a teacher that's been

606
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,200
Speaker 1: in the teaching game for a while, I can say

607
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 1: that your advice was spot on. Go robb it okay.

608
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 1: There has always been a divide between teachers and administration,

609
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: and having the former administrator be the one to not

610
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 1: only plan a happy hour, but to be straight up

611
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: about her reasoning behind it will hopefully help teachers see

612
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 1: her in a different light or at least respect her.

613
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: On some level, because let me tell you, if my

614
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,800
Speaker 1: current administrator all of a sudden became a former one

615
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: and sent out a happy hour email, I'd be like, girl,

616
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 1: buys um, you were never an allied to us as

617
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: an administrator, but now you're trying to do that. Good

618
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: luck on your friendship endeavors. I say this is because

619
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 1: one of my current administrators is so far removed from

620
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: the classroom and is one of those persons who will

621
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,960
Speaker 1: put up her hand when she doesn't want to listen

622
00:32:56,120 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: to someone speak anymore. That's rue, that's really, oh my gosh,

623
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:04,520
Speaker 1: And to top it off, she is not liked by

624
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: about the staff. Anyway, y'all offered great advice by putting

625
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,960
Speaker 1: the responsibility on the former administrator and letting people make

626
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,719
Speaker 1: their choice. I look forward to the next episode. So

627
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: thank you Stephanie for letting us know that we we

628
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: all hate giving some good advice. Were good. I'm happy

629
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Speaker 1: to know that, yes, we told we we said, okay

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Speaker 1: as the former administrator, And if you want to invite

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Speaker 1: people around, tell them you know, hey, listen. I know

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Speaker 1: I was in this position, but I'd like to get

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Speaker 1: to know you better. Blah blah blah, blah whatever. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and you set up the happy hour and invite people. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: up front about your feelings about it. I love that. Yes.

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Speaker 1: Oh good. So yes, you did something right and listen

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Speaker 1: so I got some more feedback. I continue to give,

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Speaker 1: you know, say right thing and give good advice? Do

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Speaker 1: I give because advice Robin you do sometimes sometimes, But

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Speaker 1: on this this one, this was on me so um

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Speaker 1: and I got multiple like d m s and emails

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Speaker 1: about this. I'm just going to read one of them.

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Speaker 1: So this subject is over email etiquette. This is from Shannon.

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Speaker 1: She says, Hi, ladies, I recently listen to your Shady

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Speaker 1: Girl Summer podcast episode, and I must say I totally

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Speaker 1: agree with Robin. Sorry, Jase. Okay, wait a minute, let

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Speaker 1: me just stop you right here. I don't think email

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Speaker 1: is where you show your personality. It's not about personality.

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Speaker 1: She's about being courteous. Okay, continue on. We're going to continue.

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00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: We're going to continue, Yes, continue on. I am a

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Speaker 1: reading specialist, and I actually teach my middle school students

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Speaker 1: a lesson on email etiquette since the pandemic started and

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00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:44,960
Speaker 1: we were all learning virtually and at the time, the

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Speaker 1: only way for the students to communicate with me was email,

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Speaker 1: and their email messages were horrible. I always told my

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Speaker 1: students that they write like they talk, and there's a

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Speaker 1: difference between informal and formal language. For instance, the way

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00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: you communicate with your friends and emily is different from

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Speaker 1: the way you communicate with your teacher. Anyway, I had

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Speaker 1: an entire lesson on email etiquette. How to send the

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00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: proper email message, A subject line, a greeting, the body

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Speaker 1: of the message that must include why you were sending

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00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: the message and any other important information, a closing, and

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00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:18,799
Speaker 1: your name. That's a lot, it is not. That is

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Speaker 1: a lot. You gotta give a greeting. You gotta give

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00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: a subject, Then you gotta give a greeting. Then you

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00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:25,479
Speaker 1: gotta like talk about what you want to talk about.

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00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 1: You got to say goodbye and thank you very much.

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00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,719
Speaker 1: If we're debating this, I mean, I just feel I

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00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: cannot so, Robin, I agree with you. People need to

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Speaker 1: learn email letter writing etiquette, but sadly it's not required

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Speaker 1: as a teaching standard any longer. Sincerely, a frustrated educator. Shannon.

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00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:47,719
Speaker 1: I also heard from a law professor who was like, yes, Robin,

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Speaker 1: Like She's like, I'm gonna play this for my students,

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00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:54,440
Speaker 1: because her law students will literally like send her an

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00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: email and just be like, here's my paper, and like

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Speaker 1: that's it, you know what I'm saying, Like, and she's

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00:35:58,920 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 1: just like, Okay, that's rude. It's rude, and it's like, no,

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00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,959
Speaker 1: give me your you know, okay, but this, this is hello, Okay,

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00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 1: this is what I think you're looking for in that

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00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: In that scenario, I think you're looking for. Hey, law professor,

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Speaker 1: how are you hope you had a great now? How

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00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:18,360
Speaker 1: are you? Nope? Not a Hey, law professor, hope you

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00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:21,680
Speaker 1: had a great weekend. I hope you're feeling great about life.

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00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 1: Here is my paper. I hope that you like it. Um,

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00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 1: I would really hard on and I hope I get

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00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: an a. Sincerely, Giselle. No, I'm not asking for all that,

688
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: but that's what this conversation feels like. It doesn't, No,

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00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: it doesn't. It should be okay, so what should it

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00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 1: be doing this? It can be Hi, I'm I am

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00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: submitting my paper, you know, in accordance to the to

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00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 1: the whatever was it called hands syllabus? Okay, syllabus. Thank

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00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: you in advance for your time. Sincerely, Bob, why couldn't

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00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: it be robbing okay or you know, hi, professor whatever. Okay,

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00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 1: but if it was Giselle handing in her paper, it'd

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00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: be like, hi, um law professor, see okay. My issue

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00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 1: was that the person don't say hi, they don't say please,

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00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 1: they don't say things. Okay, but wait, wait, let me

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00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,920
Speaker 1: tell you what I would say, Hi, Professor so and

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00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: so attached to my paper. Okay, Giselle, thank you sincerely,

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00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: best best wishes. Probably probably not. It's the paper you

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00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 1: asked for, the paper, I'm submitting the paper. Okay, what

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00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: at least you said hi. I would say hi, because

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00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: many times you don't say hi. Okay, So you have

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00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: schooled me. So I'm trying to be better. Okay, I'm

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00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: trying to be a better person. I'm just saying, like

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00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: if like my kids, if they if they were to

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00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 1: write like that to their teachers and not say hi,

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00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 1: miss so and so, if they're just like, um, my

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00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: dog ate my homework, you know, say whatever, Like no,

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00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 1: that's not okay, Like I'm not letting my kids get

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00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 1: away with that. Okay, okay, very good and okay. And

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00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 1: on the flip side, if someone you know, I have

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00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: people reach out and say, oh, I'm interested in uh,

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00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 1: you know, do you have any jobs and internships something.

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00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: If they're emailing me and they don't say hi, Like,

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00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 1: if their first word is not hello or dear or

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00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 1: hi or greetings, I'm not reading it. I'm not like

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00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 1: you're you were not being considered. Okay. But this is

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00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: what the other side of that looks like. I get

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00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: the same d M s or emails about being an

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00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 1: intern or whatever, and they're like twelve paragraphs long. They've

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Speaker 1: given me backstory on how they grew up and their

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00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: mother and where they came from. It are you freaking

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00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: kidding me? And guess what if they don't say hi, Hello,

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00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't want your backstory. If

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00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 1: they can't start with a hello, it's not it's not

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00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:53,400
Speaker 1: going down, okay. So, so Carly has just pulled up

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00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: an email that I have sent her just to try

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00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: to prove for a point that I am rude, and

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00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 1: it says, um, I needed some balloons for this event,

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00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 1: so I said, I said, hi, Antoinette, which was going

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00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 1: to be the balloon girl. Carly is my assistant, and

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00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: I would like to see pricing for a balloon reef

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00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: for a small gathering. Thanks, just all, Brian, Do I

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00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 1: need to get more than that? Oh? This is fine,

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00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,440
Speaker 1: that's fine. You said hi, oh, I said, Hi said

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00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: thanks and you and you wrote your name. Okay, so

739
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing better. That's fine. Okay. Just be consistent, being consistent. Okay,

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00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 1: all right, I just didn't get straight to the point. Okay,

741
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: just be consistent. Okay, I will do. And especially for

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Speaker 1: a person, you know, if it's a student, if it's

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00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: someone who's seeking a job, I mean, in a in

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00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:48,359
Speaker 1: a professional setting, always start with a hello, Hi, thank you,

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00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: in a in a you know, closing all that please,

746
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,479
Speaker 1: thank you? Like it goes a long way, It does,

747
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: it does, it goes along. But if I ever got

748
00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,439
Speaker 1: an email that was just like straight to the point,

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00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be offended. We're yeah, but don't do it though,

750
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: because Robin's gonna get mad. So just everybody change your

751
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: way because Robin is the email police. Hey, all right,

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00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: we have got to go, We have got to get

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00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,959
Speaker 1: out of here. This is our episode. If you live

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00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 1: your life, please don't ever forget to live it. Reasonably

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Speaker 1: or shitty by Reasonably Shady is a production of the

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Speaker 1: Black Affect podcast Network. For more podcasts from Our Heart Radio,

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