WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Hoping For A Bad Date + Nathan Of The Night 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:01.920 It's bricking Jeffrey in the morning. Welcome to the second 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:02.520 date Update. 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:02.960 Yeah. 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:06.960 I could still be asleep right now, but you. 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:08.719 Know it is the weekend, and on the weekends we 0:00:08.880 --> 0:00:11.840 just give you a little treat. Okay, sit back for 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:14.240 a little drama, a little fun, maybe some laughter. 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.880 It's all part of your second date Update starting right now. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:21.480 We've been covering dating trends for literally over a decade 0:00:21.480 --> 0:00:23.840 on this show. Wow, long time, and the more we 0:00:23.880 --> 0:00:29.040 get into them, the more unhinged, untethered and ridiculous they 0:00:29.080 --> 0:00:32.600 seem to get. Yeah, that's how we like it. Yeah. 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:34.880 And if you need an example of how weird it's 0:00:34.920 --> 0:00:38.839 actually getting, look no further than today's call, when a 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.480 beautiful woman asked our listener to purposely take her out 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.520 on a date she would hate. 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:47.280 Oh okay, why on. 0:00:47.159 --> 0:00:50.120 Earth would she want that? And why would he agree 0:00:50.159 --> 0:00:53.080 to actually do it? Yes, he says, when you hear 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:55.680 what the trend is, it's all gonna make sense. You're 0:00:55.680 --> 0:00:58.080 gonna hear in your second date update right after this 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:03.600 second Date up. Some guys feel this way. I know 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:06.399 I do. But as a man, if a person on 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:10.120 a dating side ever approaches me and is very forward 0:01:10.160 --> 0:01:15.440 and direct in their pursuit that sends up alarms. It's 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:19.560 funny because it's like, boy, this person must be really 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:21.640 messed up if they actually want me. 0:01:23.120 --> 0:01:25.760 Well actually yeah, actually, now that you like pinpoint it 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.600 to just you and not me in the red flag? 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:31.520 Did they lose a bet or something? Am I being 0:01:31.640 --> 0:01:34.840 lured and do a trap of some sort? What is 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.320 going on with you? 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:36.759 For work? 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:37.160 Yeah? 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:40.839 But for our listener, Damon, he looked right past those 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:44.080 blaring alarms and went forward with a different type of date, 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.880 a date he says he's never been on before in 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:49.960 his life, and he's gone on a lot. So Damon, 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:52.400 welcome to the show. What type of date was it? 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:53.440 So? 0:01:53.840 --> 0:01:55.080 I was on a dating app. 0:01:54.880 --> 0:01:59.640 With this girl, Marissa, and she called it a contradictory date. 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:01.600 Contradictory date? 0:02:02.680 --> 0:02:03.800 What is that date? 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:07.200 Like you do opposite things, You eat dessert and then 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:13.400 you work out. 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:13.520 It was? It was? It was weird. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:15.560 I had no idea what I was getting into, and 0:02:15.639 --> 0:02:18.320 she told me it's kind of like the person and 0:02:18.400 --> 0:02:22.320 the type of date that you would normally not go on. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:25.120 So it's counter through what you're using. 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:25.960 So is she. 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:29.280 Telling you a little offensive to you. Yeah, because basically 0:02:29.320 --> 0:02:30.560 she's saying you're not my type. 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:32.960 So that's the thing, is like, Yeah, it was kind 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:35.320 of like a backhanded compliment because she was like, nothing 0:02:35.400 --> 0:02:37.600 about your profile really speaks to me. 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:40.720 But I'll try it. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.400 But I mean I can see where like you've been 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:45.720 doing the same thing for so long and you're like 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.600 it's not working on these apps, so let me do 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:50.280 they always good? 0:02:50.480 --> 0:02:55.120 Yeah? Yeah, maybe what she's saying isn't that like you're bad, 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:58.880 It's that I have bad taste, so I need to switch. 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:02.959 It also feels icky, yeah. 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.920 Yeah, Well she did say that I was cute, so 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:07.440 I took that as a good side. 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:09.120 She's like, go on a date. 0:03:09.240 --> 0:03:13.280 We usually I go with hot, muscular, but you're sick. 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:16.200 Yeah, so it's like going for a person who're not 0:03:16.280 --> 0:03:18.600 normally going for. And what was the other part of 0:03:18.639 --> 0:03:19.839 a contradictory date. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.600 Well, it was like going for a person but also 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:25.799 going four experiences. And her friends apparently told her about 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:27.959 this type of date and she was like, screw it, 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.160 I'll try it. And apparently she was like would I 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:31.720 be up for this? And I was like, sure, that 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:33.560 sounds interesting experimental? 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:33.880 Why not? 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:38.520 Well, I out there, So, like, did she explain what 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:39.320 was contradicting? 0:03:39.360 --> 0:03:41.600 Like you said, the date itself was even the activity 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:43.040 activity is supposed to be. 0:03:43.000 --> 0:03:45.240 Different exactly, So I guess. 0:03:45.320 --> 0:03:48.400 I mean, like from her profile and from her photos 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.240 and everything, it looked like she was like a really 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:53.040 outdoorsy type of person. And don't get me wrong, I 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:54.960 like going out, but when I'm going out, I like 0:03:55.000 --> 0:03:57.720 to do more like urban exploration stuff and go to 0:03:57.800 --> 0:03:59.160 like bars. 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.160 Yeah exactly, Well you want to have five bars on 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.080 your phone signal wherever you're going. That makes sense to me. 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.040 So what did you guys end up doing? 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:09.760 Yeah, we went out to a bar. We went out 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:10.720 to a pool hall, I know. 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:15.640 And okay, you like, okay, yeah, so it was something 0:04:15.680 --> 0:04:16.080 new for. 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.919 Really Yeah yeah, because she was like, I want to 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:20.440 do stuff that I don't normally do. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:26.000 Well, maybe she's not calling you back because she hated it. 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:30.279 No, no, no, she seemed to enjoy it. 0:04:30.320 --> 0:04:32.320 And it's weird too, because she was like, do something 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.360 you would normally do, and I would normally go and 0:04:34.360 --> 0:04:36.840 play pool at this pool hall with my friends, and 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:39.279 so she was like, you should also invite your friends 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.920 so I can like get to know them and everything, 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.480 and I was like, sure, for a first day it 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.360 was weird. I mean, don't get me wrong, like that's 0:04:45.400 --> 0:04:47.240 not how I play it. But at the same time, 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:48.440 like she was gong ho about it. 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:50.000 So I was like, all right, oh my god, what 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.440 were your friend's reactions when you told them what they 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.400 were meeting you up and meeting up with you for? 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:56.880 I mean before the date, they were like, oh my gosh, 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:58.760 she's gonna be a catfish or whatever. And then when 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:00.280 we got there, and when she got the and we're 0:05:00.279 --> 0:05:01.760 all playing pool and we were all getting long, they 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:03.040 kind of pulled me aside. They were like, dude, she's 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:03.719 actually really hot. 0:05:06.440 --> 0:05:08.080 Did the friends sign of approval? 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:09.120 Yeah, exactly. 0:05:09.160 --> 0:05:11.080 And so at this first point, I was like, you know, 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.839 speaking of a contradictory date and everything, I was. I 0:05:13.880 --> 0:05:16.719 was kind of like, usually on one of my dates 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:18.480 at this point, I would have gotten a second base 0:05:18.520 --> 0:05:18.920 by now. 0:05:19.440 --> 0:05:21.040 So you should contradict yourself. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:24.080 If you want to do stuff that you normally don't do, 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:27.000 you should start kissing. That's funny. 0:05:27.200 --> 0:05:27.440 Did she. 0:05:29.279 --> 0:05:29.520 Did? 0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:30.159 She did? 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.640 Laugh, okay, but she didn't kiss you right then? 0:05:33.320 --> 0:05:34.440 No, No, no, no, not at all. 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:38.000 Okay, So was that the whole date. You guys just 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:40.000 did beer and pool with your buddies. 0:05:40.560 --> 0:05:42.919 Well no, So she was actually asking me like, what 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.880 do you normally do from here? And the game was on, 0:05:45.960 --> 0:05:48.320 so we went to a sports bar and we're drinking 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:49.839 and watching college football. 0:05:50.680 --> 0:05:53.039 I'm sure she asked me you normally do with your friends, 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:54.240 not what you normally do on a date. 0:05:55.200 --> 0:06:01.360 You're I mean, she was trying to like kind of 0:06:01.400 --> 0:06:03.119 get out of her comfort zone. 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:05.680 Got it. So she was like, how do you normally hang? 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:07.520 How do you normally chill? And we can turn that 0:06:07.640 --> 0:06:08.240 into a date. 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:12.240 Okay, so maybe it's like Alexis said, it's a fun 0:06:12.400 --> 0:06:16.720 night with the bros, but nothing necessarily romantic unless I 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:17.760 don't know. How did it end? 0:06:18.400 --> 0:06:20.720 So I told her, I mean, you know at that point, 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.080 I was like, I tell you what, this is an 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:25.640 over you owe me at this point. How about I 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:29.240 get a contradictory date and I will do all of 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.080 the things that are outside of my comfort zone and 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:33.480 more within your realm. 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:36.279 I love that. I mean that's cute. 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:37.800 Try to leave it open. 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:41.640 Yeah, And I've been texting her only like once or twice. 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:44.760 I'm not trying to be like super pushy about. 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:45.760 It once or twice an hour. 0:06:46.520 --> 0:06:48.279 I feel like at least you gave her the out, 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:49.760 Like even if she had a bad date, she can 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:51.400 drag you on a bad date next. 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:54.680 Like now, it's if you have one bad date who doesn't. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:55.040 Want another life. 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:59.520 Honestly, I would love a bad date with her. 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:03.600 Let's talk to her, get her on the phone, and 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.360 try to convince her to take you on the absolute 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:09.880 worst date of your entire life when you come back 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:14.000 for a second date. Update right after this second date 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:17.800 update if you're just joining us. We've been talking to 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:21.920 Damon about his contradictory date with Marissa, which is a 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:24.160 new thing that we just learned about, where you go 0:07:24.240 --> 0:07:27.640 out with someone you normally wouldn't go for and do 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:30.280 activities you normally wouldn't do. 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:33.560 Oh man, that's a lot of wouldn't in there, you know, 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:35.880 Like maybe we just do the one, not both. 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:38.000 Well, like if we were to do that on our show, 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:42.840 jose would run a five k well, he'd walk it, yeah, 0:07:42.880 --> 0:07:45.520 not even he can't Uber eats guy to do it 0:07:45.560 --> 0:07:49.440 for you, And Alexis would go out with an American 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:51.240 man to a comedy pun off. 0:07:51.560 --> 0:07:56.200 I can't think about oh my god off American speak. 0:07:57.040 --> 0:08:00.640 Oh no, so, but our listener Damon was challenge to 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:04.160 do that go on a contradictory date with Marissa, and 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:07.920 that consisted of her drinking beers, playing pool, and watching 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:10.640 football because she normally doesn't do any of that. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:12.840 Yeah, do you regret Damon? 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:13.240 If? 0:08:13.280 --> 0:08:16.400 Like, because I know now you want her to take 0:08:16.440 --> 0:08:18.520 you out doing stuff you don't normally do. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.440 Like, maybe you should have started with. 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:22.720 That, you know what I'm saying, Like the first date 0:08:22.720 --> 0:08:25.520 should have been all about things she likes that you 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:26.320 have never done. 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:28.040 Well, it's too late now, bron. 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:30.760 Try to read through the pity of what she just said. 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:32.640 Do you feel like maybe you could have done a 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:33.199 better job. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.200 I mean, don't get me wrong, Like that is a 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.440 smart idea. I would have gone with that. But at 0:08:38.440 --> 0:08:40.760 the same time, she was the one that kind of 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:43.280 came at me with this notion that's has egged on 0:08:43.400 --> 0:08:44.240 by her friends. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.320 So I like that if she didn't like any part 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.200 of the date, when we call her, were just like, Hey, 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:53.160 that's your fault. You wanted this, you brought it upon. 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:54.559 Yourself, Blame your friends. 0:08:54.840 --> 0:08:58.240 Yes, I wouldn't throw it in her face like that. 0:08:58.440 --> 0:09:02.880 But well I will. You don't have to. I'm gonna 0:09:02.880 --> 0:09:05.000 call her right now and we're gonna make her feel 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:06.079 bad if she didn't. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.080 Have a good Is that what we're gonna do. 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:10.240 Well, we'll convince her to take you on the worst 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:11.360 date ever. That was what you want? 0:09:11.880 --> 0:09:12.680 Worst date ever? 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:16.480 Let's go, Okay, let's make you hate this. We're going 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:16.840 to do it. 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:17.319 Here we go. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:33.120 Hello, Hey is this marissah is Hey Marissa? I think 0:09:33.160 --> 0:09:33.800 that you think? You said? 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:34.000 Yes? 0:09:34.200 --> 0:09:35.599 Yeah she did, she said it is. 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:37.880 Her phone's not great. But Marissa, you're on the radio 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:40.080 right now with a show called Brooke and Jeffrey in 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.520 the Morning. 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:46.600 Hi, what's happening right now? 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.880 What's happening is a segment that we do on the 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:50.720 show called a second Date Update. 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:51.920 Hey, you're on. 0:09:51.840 --> 0:09:53.600 The show, congratula show. 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:59.280 Okay, you don't try to be positive, jeff it's not 0:09:59.320 --> 0:09:59.800 coming through. 0:10:00.040 --> 0:10:08.840 It sounds very sarcastic, but no, we are. We're all. 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:10.360 I'm not going to try anymore. 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:16.240 That's the spirit broke anyway, Marissa. We actually are excited 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:19.360 to talk to you because we've spoke earlier to a 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:21.640 guy that you went on a date with named Damon. 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:24.240 Oh. 0:10:24.720 --> 0:10:29.040 Man, we'd say somebody else's name. 0:10:29.800 --> 0:10:31.480 At first, I. 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:33.680 Don't know what I was. I was hoping. You guys 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:34.760 have caught me so off guard. 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:38.440 Okay, that's okay. I mean maybe you're just kind of 0:10:38.920 --> 0:10:39.600 taking it all in. 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.880 Yeah, well, we're contacting you for a good reason because 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:44.920 Damon said he had a really nice time with you. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:47.440 He actually told us about the whole idea, which we 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:50.800 thought was really interesting. You wanted to do a contradictory date. 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:53.960 Yeah, it is. 0:10:54.000 --> 0:10:56.800 Kind of silly we heard about it. It was interesting. 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.080 I mean I got to say good for you for 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.760 proposing this and telling him you're not someone that would 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:05.640 normally go for and then having him still agree to 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:06.000 a date. 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:09.640 I felt so bad saying it, but you know, I 0:11:09.679 --> 0:11:11.120 wanted to be upfront with him, right. 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.480 Yeah, he wasn't insulted at all. 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.440 He was actually really excited about you know how different 0:11:17.480 --> 0:11:17.760 you were. 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:20.640 We're just trying to get a vibe of, like, what 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:23.400 did you think about your contradictory day? Did you have 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:23.920 a good time? 0:11:25.600 --> 0:11:26.559 I actually did. 0:11:26.400 --> 0:11:27.120 Have a good time. 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.640 I mean this was not my idea, right, It was 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:32.600 my friends who suggested it. I thought they were insane, 0:11:32.760 --> 0:11:36.160 but clearly what I was doing wasn't working for me anyway, 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:39.920 So I was like, Okay, we'll just try something. And 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:43.200 it was probably the most relaxed date I've ever been on. 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:45.840 Well that's that's great news. 0:11:46.160 --> 0:11:50.360 Normally, like it was hanging out, it was watching sports, 0:11:50.400 --> 0:11:53.520 it was you know, going to bars and like, you. 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.200 Know, oh my gosh, wait were your friends right? 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.360 Was this like something to get you out of your 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.600 comfort zone and find some of you actually? 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:04.040 Like yeah, I mean I didn't want it to be. 0:12:04.080 --> 0:12:08.360 Right, Oh my god, but you did have a good time. 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:11.360 I'm like embarrassed to say that I did have a 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:11.840 good time. 0:12:14.400 --> 0:12:16.920 Why aren't you calling Damon back? If you guys had 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:17.560 a blast together? 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:19.319 What's embarrassing about it? 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:23.120 Well, he's he is normally not not my type. That's 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:25.560 not something that I've ever done before. I feel like 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:28.720 we just like leapt to the like the third date, 0:12:28.800 --> 0:12:30.640 you know, where you just get to hang out, you 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:32.800 know what I mean. It was so it was so 0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:35.840 chill and it was so comfortable, and I don't know 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.040 what to do with that. That's like not what I'm 0:12:38.080 --> 0:12:38.360 used to. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.160 You know, it freaks you out that you are so 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:43.480 comfortable with him? Is that what you're getting to. 0:12:44.600 --> 0:12:48.760 Yeah, I guess does that sound crazy? 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:51.880 So now you want to go back to your normal type. 0:12:51.840 --> 0:12:54.840 The ones that make are really uncomfortable on edge and. 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:58.640 You're not having fun or everything, you don't feel like yourself. 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:01.600 Well when you put it that way, it doesn't sound 0:13:01.640 --> 0:13:03.079 so good, doesn't. 0:13:03.160 --> 0:13:05.240 But that's not that sounds like what you're saying you want. 0:13:05.640 --> 0:13:06.880 Isn't that what dating should be? 0:13:07.240 --> 0:13:12.720 No? Well, like, yes, for a little bit, I don't 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:13.120 think so. 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:15.360 I think that when you meet somebody that you feel 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:19.000 more yourself with than anyone else, then that's the sign. 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:21.000 That that could be it like, that could. 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.679 Be the person you're supposed to be with. I don't 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.319 know about forever, but at least for right now. 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:30.480 You saying that actually scarcely a lot. 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:29.600 Are you doing? 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:32.880 Why are you scaring the women on the phone, we're 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:36.960 talking about them feeling good just because you like rush 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:37.720 into anything. 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:40.000 Oh yeah, people for like two years and we're still 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:40.320 not dating. 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:45.280 If you want to feel like uncomfortable and like you 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:47.079 don't know what's going on, then let me do this 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.320 to you and surprise you by telling you Damon's been 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:52.200 secretly listening to this conversation. Wanting to talk to you. 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:54.240 Doesn't that freak you out? O? 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.480 No? 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:03.920 Uh so it sounds like you were shocked that you 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:05.400 had such a good time with me. 0:14:05.520 --> 0:14:10.079 Huh Oh yeah, I didn't expect to, but I did. 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:14.280 I mean, like, nothing in my body says. 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:20.840 Like I should have had a good time, but I 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:23.960 I mean, I've kind of been thinking about you, which 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:25.640 is weird. 0:14:26.240 --> 0:14:28.280 Damon, you're making her feel too comfortable. 0:14:29.080 --> 0:14:33.680 I mean, I'm kind of blushing on my end. I mean, 0:14:35.120 --> 0:14:38.920 I'm glad I've made you feel good. I'm sorry that 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:43.080 apparently other dates haven't made you feel good. 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:45.160 She doesn't want to, she doesn't want to enjoy your time. 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:49.960 Oh boy, you are so cute. 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:53.920 Are you opening to feel more good in the future, 0:14:53.960 --> 0:14:57.320 because I, like I said at the end of our date, 0:14:57.480 --> 0:15:01.120 I'm down to have a contradictory day the other way. 0:15:01.440 --> 0:15:04.440 Yeah, you around a bad date like you want it, 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:07.080 or you just tell them to treat you poorly all 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:08.040 night long, because. 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:11.200 That would definitely make me feel more comfortable. 0:15:13.640 --> 0:15:15.280 One of my sure friends as a shirt says, don't 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:16.200 be mean, it turns me on. 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:20.160 Yeah, damon, are you capable of that? Can you be 0:15:20.200 --> 0:15:21.640 the opposite of what you normally are. 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:25.240 I mean, that would be way outside my own comfort zone. 0:15:25.440 --> 0:15:27.480 And that's not exactly what I had in mind for 0:15:27.520 --> 0:15:28.560 a contradictory date. 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:32.200 But if that's what you's into, it's. 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:36.240 Different, that's awesome. It is possible. Like Brooks said that, 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:39.320 maybe there's a chance you two are just made for 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:41.400 each other opposite. 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.960 They do say that, So this contradicting thing may. 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:46.400 Be onto something makes me sick to say it. But yeah, 0:15:46.440 --> 0:15:51.440 you guys sound cute, and that's contradictory to everything that 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:57.840 I believe in. So yeah, I mean, this is disgusting. Yeam, 0:15:57.880 --> 0:15:59.480 I want to get off the phone with these two. 0:15:59.600 --> 0:15:59.920 I will. 0:16:00.000 --> 0:16:02.560 I'm wondering. I'm wondering if Marissa has been out with 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:06.400 you before, mister. 0:16:07.080 --> 0:16:11.440 I mean, she's not my type, so yeah, likes him now. Anyway, Look, 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:13.360 we want to send you guys out on another date. 0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:18.040 That's the whole reason that we called you, Marissa. We 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:19.920 will pay for it if you say yes. 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:21.840 If you don't say yes, I'm going to call all 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:26.320 your girlfriends. I'm gonna let them know are listeners. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:29.480 Oh my god, all my girlfriends are going to start 0:16:29.560 --> 0:16:34.200 dating this way. This is going to be crazy. I 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:39.520 think they would kill me if I if I said no. So, Gamon, 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.720 I would like to go on another date with you. 0:16:44.560 --> 0:16:50.440 It's so cute, it's disgustingly beautiful. Congratulations too. 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:54.040 I'm so excited to go on the worst date of 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:54.600 my life. 0:16:55.800 --> 0:16:58.840 I will do whatever I can to make it terrible. 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:01.640 This is the wrong come we needed. 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:07.360 Yes, rooking Jeffrey in the morning. Was that the most sweetest, 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:10.000 touching second date update we've done all year? 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:14.480 Yes? And my soul needed that. It was so good. Look, 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:17.480 there's hope for love out there. People don't give up. 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:19.720 Try something new, try something different. 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:21.959 You can do it right. 0:17:22.480 --> 0:17:24.040 Tell me you don't want to hear a part three 0:17:24.080 --> 0:17:26.639 from these two. Get an update update. I don't know 0:17:26.680 --> 0:17:27.919 if I could stomach. 0:17:27.560 --> 0:17:29.919 It unless they go on the second date and it's terrible. 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:33.560 Yeah, heartbroken. I want to know is that she gonna 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:34.800 have just as much fun as he. 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:37.760 This is just making all of our single listeners feel 0:17:37.760 --> 0:17:39.680 bad listening to stuff like this. 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:40.600 Did you give him hope? 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:42.160 Nobody wants hope? 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:44.560 Yes, jeff wants. 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:46.360 Yeah. 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:51.159 Well, if you do have any hope left, yikes. But 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:53.720 you can always email the show. We'll call that person 0:17:53.760 --> 0:17:55.480 who's not calling you back. Go check out all of 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:58.280 our second dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brook 0:17:58.320 --> 0:17:59.920 and Jeffrey Broken. 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:01.600 Jeff Free in the morning. 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:05.440