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Speaker 1: Candice in Lexington. Colo says, I had game night at

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Speaker 1: my apartment and my boyfriend came for the very first time.

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Speaker 1: He got very upset because other guys were in my home.

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Speaker 1: Should I attempt to fix things with him or let

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Speaker 1: him figure out this one on his own? Did I

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Speaker 1: do anything wrong?

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Speaker 2: Well, you had game night over your house, you invited

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Speaker 2: your boyfriend. He comes over there and it's other men

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Speaker 2: at your house. He's a little throwd off and the

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Speaker 2: first time he ever came over. So obviously now you're

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Speaker 2: telling him these are your friends. So you introduced some

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Speaker 2: male friends to him. He's not going to stand now, yeah,

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Speaker 2: because he looking at you and he knowing all what

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Speaker 2: all your male friends want?

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Speaker 1: So what do they want her? Yeah? For sure?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So she's as I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, and it's hard for you to tell a man

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Speaker 2: they don't want you when the man that you're telling

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Speaker 2: it to he wants you. So he trying to figure out, Okay,

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Speaker 2: he see it in you? How you figure they don't

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Speaker 2: see it. That's the part that women don't understand that.

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Speaker 1: So should she do anything to pick things with him?

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Speaker 1: She's saying, what should she do?

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Speaker 2: Well, of course, but I mean you're not gonna I

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Speaker 2: don't know what she can say because.

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Speaker 3: They think y'all think that the truth. Well we're just friends.

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Speaker 2: You think that fixes it, And that's not gonna fix

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Speaker 2: it because he knows better, you know. But that's his

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Speaker 2: first time over there, so it might be his last, so.

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Speaker 3: Don't I wouldn't about it.

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Speaker 1: According to yea, what if the other guys, maybe that'll

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Speaker 1: be better.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that that'd be cool. But that ain't high it.

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Speaker 3: What's working.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't seem.

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, yeah, I'm here for game night. What's up? Good?

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Speaker 2: Because you're not going over no woman's house for game

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Speaker 2: night that you don't like. I'm gonna tell you that

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right back, all right. Moving on to

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Speaker 1: Rex in Oakland, Rex writes, I met a woman in

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Speaker 1: a cigar bar, and I called her and left a message.

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Speaker 1: Her husband called back. I apologized and said I didn't

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Speaker 1: know she was married. My brother said I probably got

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Speaker 1: her in trouble. Was I supposed to lie to that

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Speaker 1: man about his wife?

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Speaker 2: No, no, you got to get up out of the dog.

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Speaker 2: Oh my man, I'm sorry. I didn't know she was married.

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Speaker 2: My bad. Yeah, And that's and and bruh, and then

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Speaker 2: click because that's it. Man, it's enough women out here.

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Speaker 2: You ain't got to mess with nobody wife.

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Speaker 3: Man, you ain't gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: He didn't know.

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Speaker 2: No, you do not have to mess with nobody's wife.

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Speaker 2: Plenty women out here.

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Speaker 3: You're in trouble.

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Speaker 1: She is, so yep, how does that conversation go? See

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Speaker 1: husbands and wife?

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Speaker 3: Huh? Who is calling you?

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Speaker 2: Who called me? How he give my number? I didn't

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Speaker 2: give my number to anybody. Yeah, I was at the

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Speaker 2: cigar Bob, but I don't know if he got it

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Speaker 2: from a friend.

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Speaker 3: I ain't gave nobody my number. And you know that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, come on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, stick with a light. I'm moving on to that.

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Speaker 1: Sheelle in Danbury, Michelle writes, I asked my husband if

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Speaker 1: we can abstain from sex for a week, one week

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Speaker 1: because I'm doing a cleanse and I would like to

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Speaker 1: focus on myself for seven days. You would have thought

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Speaker 1: I said we would never have sex again. Why can't

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Speaker 1: he be understanding for just seven days?

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Speaker 2: Come on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: For real, man, what.

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Speaker 2: Hold up?

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Speaker 3: Next Friday?

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Speaker 1: It's always Friday with you?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 3: What? What? What happened?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: That's clean? Maybe I bathed every day.

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Speaker 1: Inside.

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Speaker 3: What you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: An internal clan?

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Speaker 3: Oh, well, we're gonna have to do something.

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Speaker 1: We have to do something.

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Speaker 3: Yeah he is, Yeah he is. He can't a week

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Speaker 3: don bro.

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Speaker 1: Co.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you something. What they married for a while?

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Speaker 3: Watch this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the longest you've gone without?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 3: I hadn't done some cleans and didn't know I was planning?

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Speaker 1: Was put a time? Yeah? Longer than seven days?

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Speaker 3: Oh hell yeah? Oh hell yeah? Seven?

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Speaker 1: The day was good right now.

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Speaker 2: I'd have been bed reading before I've been locked up,

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Speaker 2: all right, guys. At one point in time, I actually

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Speaker 2: thought I was doing time.

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Speaker 3: I was sitting in the bed.

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Speaker 2: At one point, I just say, can we get like visitations?

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Speaker 1: Come see me intimate jail? You have the phone.

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Speaker 2: Better, But seriously, man, like we've had some uh or

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Speaker 2: some medical issues.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know some things.

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Speaker 3: Man, they have to be considered. Yeah something boy?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Absolutely, all right. Last one, guys, Last one. This

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Speaker 1: is Alita in Frisco. Alita writes, my husband isn't a Texter.

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Speaker 1: He likes to call me to tell me everything he's doing.

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Speaker 1: He calls when he gets to work and when he's

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Speaker 1: headed from a home from work. If he's out with

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Speaker 1: the boys, he calls to check in. How do I

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Speaker 1: get my husband used to texting me? What?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Come home?

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Speaker 2: Last? I ain't never heard nobody complain about that. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you gonna get what you want.

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Speaker 3: In a minute. Yeah, I ain't heard. Yeah, you know

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Speaker 3: what I mean? How can you? How can you get

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Speaker 3: this and then not want this?

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Speaker 2: Because I'm telling you right now, if you put him

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Speaker 2: on the text thing, you go miss them.

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Speaker 1: Phone calls? Yeah, hearing his voice? Yeah, all of that?

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Speaker 1: Will you? You think they're young? This is young people.

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Speaker 1: She's young. Yeah, preferring texting overphone.

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Speaker 3: That's all she didn't have. She ain't had no man

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Speaker 3: calling her, checking in, talking to her. Nice.

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Speaker 2: Some some women are used to ill treatment and don't recognize.

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Speaker 3: Good treatment when they see I love.

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Speaker 1: You.

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Speaker 2: Know, you can condition yourself to accept anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you definitely have to teach people how to

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Speaker 1: treat you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got a lot of these young dudes don't

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Speaker 3: even really know how to talk to women.

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Speaker 2: They in the text business and they grew up in

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Speaker 2: there and that's what they accept.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, phone calls are a good thing. Alita

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Speaker 1: and Frisco Thank you. Clo YO. This is Jamie Fox,

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Speaker 1: This is Kim Whitley.

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Speaker 2: You already know what it is, managin mat g go

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