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Speaker 1: Harry Styles as it was on LA's number one at

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Speaker 1: music station. Good morning, it is Ryan Seacrest's listening and

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Speaker 1: Tanya with you. Such a great ceremonial thing to wake up,

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Speaker 1: have our coffee together, those of us who are drinking coffee.

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Speaker 1: What do you think most of us now are again coffee? Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Have you had youurist this morning?

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Speaker 2: Tanya, I have my mushroom tea this morning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can tell we can. There's a there's no

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Speaker 1: different tempo. No you cannot, well we can. Now here's

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Speaker 1: the thing, getting up, getting here, having this ceremony is

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Speaker 1: like the way I like to start my day, and

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Speaker 1: that hopefully is contaged to the people who are listening,

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Speaker 1: and then we all go off to work. Right, So

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Speaker 1: this you can't really consider that even though it is

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Speaker 1: the job. But we we.

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Speaker 2: Got rid of our coffee maker when we got off coffee,

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Speaker 2: and we haven't found anyone that we like. So I'm

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Speaker 2: still just going to be doing my mushroom.

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Speaker 3: So many do.

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Speaker 1: Group text me. I've been through a lot of coffee makers.

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Speaker 1: Tell me, tell me simple drip and don't go with

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Speaker 1: these like press the button and grind your beans overnight

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Speaker 1: on a timer simple drip. I I've a queas an

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Speaker 1: art simple drip coffee machine. Okay, it's so good. It's expressed.

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Speaker 2: So it's coffee.

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Speaker 1: It's not espresso. When have I said espresso.

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Speaker 4: It's coffee, and clearly it's called coffee.

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Speaker 1: That's what you want to feel.

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Speaker 4: Like that emote, guys, it's emotion. Motion creates emotion. Okay,

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Speaker 4: well you could either emote or not. I'm just saying

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Speaker 4: I like the ceremony of us together every morning.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you just get the light roast. Yeah, like dark

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Speaker 1: and strong.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't need dark and strong because then she'll be

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Speaker 3: like this.

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Speaker 1: This is quite a pleasure actually attacking her about the drip.

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Speaker 4: I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm passionately pitching you my queasin art drip machine. I'll

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Speaker 1: send you picture. I'll send you photo. Okay, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. All right, let's get to the trending report.

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Speaker 2: Okay. So Dwayne Wade and Gabrielle Union, they made the

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Speaker 2: decision to contribute equally to their household after Dwayne he

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Speaker 2: said something during an argument, and I want to tell

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Speaker 2: you because I would have the same reaction as Gabrielle Union.

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Speaker 2: So he was working in Florida and he made a

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Speaker 2: comment that they were in my house that I paid for.

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Speaker 2: Dwayne said, my wife looked at me and said, you

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Speaker 2: will never say that to me again when it's something

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Speaker 2: that we share. So when we moved to La, my

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Speaker 2: wife said, I got half on it, and you will

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Speaker 2: never say my house again.

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Speaker 1: So they bought a new house and split it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, correct, and the two of them they both signed

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Speaker 2: prenups when they got married. But it got me thinking

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Speaker 2: just about that dynamic because I know people. Everybody does

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Speaker 2: it differently, and I think it to each their own.

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Speaker 2: But I think because the way that I was raised,

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Speaker 2: my mom was very adamant about being independent, making my

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Speaker 2: own money and not ever fully relying on a man.

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Speaker 2: And so as I get, you know, more serious in

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Speaker 2: my relationship, we're having those conversations of like what does

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Speaker 2: that look like? Because I, you know, he likes to

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Speaker 2: be the provider. He wants to be the provider, and

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Speaker 2: I like that about him, but I also want to

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Speaker 2: provide and contribute. And it's interesting So I read stories

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Speaker 2: like this and I'm like, what is the best way

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Speaker 2: to do it? Do you just throw all your money

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Speaker 2: in a pot and then that's where you.

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Speaker 1: Do have sty for you and Michael, how did you

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Speaker 1: address this, because I know he's very savvy in the

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Speaker 1: economic finance world.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and when I when we first met, I was

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Speaker 3: very much independent and on my own. I had my

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Speaker 3: own condo at twenty four and so that was like a.

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Speaker 1: Huge contribution condominium at twenty four years old.

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Speaker 3: Purchased my own property.

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Speaker 1: I did. How fun was it to own it? Condo

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Speaker 1: medium at twenty four apartment? Lots of difference in a

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Speaker 1: condo in an apartment. This is the shorter way.

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Speaker 2: Of saying condomitis apartment you rent and a condo you own.

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Speaker 1: You can't buy an apartment, yeah, and others apartment cities

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Speaker 1: you can.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and probably even in La.

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Speaker 1: But I love that way we say we know for sure, No,

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Speaker 1: it's because you can't. You can't buy an apartment.

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Speaker 2: Well, I guess you could rent a condo if you're

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Speaker 2: like leasing it from somebody.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, Sisney could have rented out her condo twenty.

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Speaker 3: Five and actually, funny you say that, I did. So

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Speaker 3: we lived in it for a while and then we

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Speaker 3: wanted more space, but we weren't ready to sell at

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Speaker 3: the time, so we rented out for a little bit,

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Speaker 3: and then we eventually were able to sell that condo

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Speaker 3: use that money to buy our home in Studio City.

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Speaker 3: So it was all as soon as we were married,

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Speaker 3: all of our money went together.

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Speaker 1: It didn't matter. It's all merged.

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Speaker 3: It's all merged. I still have my own account that

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Speaker 3: I had from when I was seventeen years old, that

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Speaker 3: you know, I created with my dad that he actually

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Speaker 3: still has access.

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Speaker 1: To from right there, I do, like, you just transfer

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Speaker 1: some money there.

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Speaker 2: I find it so interesting. So, like, do you when

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Speaker 2: you get like your paycheck from work, it goes into

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Speaker 2: your joint account?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, both of you.

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Speaker 3: So when I get my paycheck from work, I do

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Speaker 3: the majority percentage. Let's say I do like eighty percent

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Speaker 3: of the paycheck into our joint. I do ten percent

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Speaker 3: into my personal and then ten percent into savings or

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Speaker 3: something like that or like whatever, you know, like it's

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Speaker 3: divided in See.

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Speaker 1: The thing that struck me about that story that you

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Speaker 1: mentioned was that Tanya that they're they're married, they're raised,

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Speaker 1: they have kids, right, so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he has a couple. Like it's kind a

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Speaker 2: little bit confusing because they have kids of their own,

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Speaker 2: and then he has some kids before he married her.

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Speaker 1: But when you say your family, you're married and you're

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Speaker 1: raising kids, and you say something in my my turf,

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Speaker 1: the house I bought it is not that is not

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Speaker 1: ever the way that it's God.

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Speaker 2: I know that I have the same reaction to me, like, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm going I'm blitting.

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Speaker 1: We're in a family, we're married, we're raising kids together.

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Speaker 1: What that will some feathers?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, coming up.

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Speaker 1: There's always that moment where I tell you, fifteen minutes

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Speaker 1: a kiss, music is in the que I'm gonna do

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Speaker 1: it next stand by