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Speaker 1: How are you very well? Devin's got a deep voice.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Devin.

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Speaker 1: Let's hear about this date that you went on with

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Speaker 1: Jackie is her name. We got to know kind of

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Speaker 1: all the background, how you met, about the date or dates,

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Speaker 1: and then where you guys stand right now?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I met Jackie actually on a dating app,

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Speaker 3: and we decided we're going to go out to dinner.

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Speaker 3: So we had like a dinner date and I really

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean, I guess some people are forward enough

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, and then ghost you wish isn't cool, but

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Speaker 1: you know, who knows. But you look back on this

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Speaker 1: into or like. I mean, just I don't mean we've

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Speaker 1: heard everything. We've heard everything on this thing. I mean honestly,

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Speaker 1: Like you look back and you say this was a

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Speaker 2: There should be another day.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean, I those of my best behavior.

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Speaker 3: It's such a good time. Like there's nothing could have

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Speaker 1: Okay, you don't have a pet snake collection, you don't.

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Speaker 1: You didn't lie about your job. I mean, this is

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Speaker 1: All right, Well let's I'm going to play one song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back in a couple of minutes. We'll call Jackie.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone. We'll ask some questions. At

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Speaker 1: our hope is that we can straighten this out, figure

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Speaker 1: out what's going on, set you guys up on another date,

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Speaker 1: so it'll be a very nice date if it happens.

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Speaker 3: I'm good.

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Speaker 2: Can you hang off for a second, going to be

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, let's see what's going on Part two of

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. We'll get to it next two

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Speaker 1: minutes away. Say right there, it's the Fred Show. It's Friday. Oh,

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Speaker 1: here's the Fred Show. Good morning, it's Friday. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: having us on the radio. On the iHeart app anytime

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Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show on demand, Devin, All right,

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Speaker 1: let's call Jackie. You guys met on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: You went on a date, you thought it went great,

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Speaker 1: good chemistry. You talked about a second date, except she's

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Speaker 2: And you want to know why you're being ghosted. Let's

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Speaker 2: call her right now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Jackie? Yes, Hi, hey Jackie, good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. The whole crew is here from

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. I'm sorry to bother you, but I

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Speaker 1: a couple of minutes. Oh, okay, I know it's weird.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've heard this before, maybe not,

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Speaker 1: but we're calling on behalf of a guy named Devin

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Speaker 1: who says he met you on a dating app and

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Speaker 1: you guys recently went on a date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, Well, so what happened with this guy?

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Speaker 1: Because he called us sounds like a nice enough guy.

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Speaker 1: They usually do, but there's always something. Nonetheless, he said

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Speaker 3: Oh that's the story he's going with.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, that's the story. Then that's not all

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Speaker 3: No, we did go on a date.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he was nice and the date went well,

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Speaker 1: I mean, because they put you under for that, you know,

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Speaker 1: and you you think that you think that's a little intrusive.

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Speaker 4: Not just that he wanted to stay at my house

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, but this person that I just met, But

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Speaker 4: And I then take him to his Colonomoh whoa.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, like NonStop. I don't want someone some stranger

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Speaker 1: And he thought, and so he thought that was okay

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Speaker 3: I mean I had to get my medical procedure done.

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Speaker 1: That you wanted to Let me tell you when I'm

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Speaker 2: Like exactly? It's real bad. I don't know if you've

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Speaker 1: And I don't do you not have a friend or

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Speaker 3: Nobody lives here in town, so it's like I need

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Speaker 2: No, no, no.

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Speaker 3: We have a really really really good time though, like

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Speaker 2: Times one think Kevin, you want to ruin it?

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Speaker 3: That was our one. It's only a few moments to

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Speaker 2: Like uh, and then a few moments to talk to me.

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Speaker 3: Like a housewife and your mom all in one. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you don't have anybody else to

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Speaker 3: But the door would have been closed, I mean, not

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was a reach it was too personal, it

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Speaker 2: Oh good, good, glad to hear it. How was that prep? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean, in my opinion, it wasn't that bad.

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Speaker 2: He was a lot, but yeah, it was ok Yeah,

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Speaker 2: where did you end up going at your house? You

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got one of my neighbors that kind of

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Speaker 1: All a.

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Speaker 2: Look, that's yeah, okay. Did are you in love with

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Speaker 1: The Entertainer Report is next up to Nelly. In two minutes,

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Speaker 1: SAT Day Time Breaker was showing Shelley for nine hundred

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Speaker 1: and fifty bucks in the Showdown, the Friday Throwback gas party,

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Speaker 1: all on the way.

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Speaker 2: It's the Frend Show