1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of my Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to use it now. Many of us 4 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: are tempted to save things for special occasions, but life 5 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: itself can be a special occasion, and we don't want 6 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 1: to accidentally wait too long. A few years ago I 7 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: received an absolutely lovely little notebook. I should add here 8 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: that I am infatuated with little notebooks in general, but 9 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 1: this one had some gold foil on the details and 10 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: just lovely colors, perfectly exquisite. I didn't want to sully 11 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: this note book with random work day thoughts, so I 12 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: put it unopened in my desk drawer until I had 13 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: worthy enough musings to justify such a beautiful home. Well, 14 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: you can guess what happened time past. I didn't look 15 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,399 Speaker 1: in the drawer. About two years later, I pulled the 16 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 1: notebook out, looked in it, and realized that it was 17 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: actually a calendar for a year that had passed, so 18 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: it wasn't of much use as anything any more. Maybe 19 00:01:19,640 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: you have had this experience too. We don't want to 20 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: use the good china for a random day, but then 21 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: we never quite have days that seem worthy of the china, 22 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: and the china sits unused. Maybe you have an entire 23 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: dining room or formal living room that goes unused. We've 24 00:01:39,240 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 1: all heard stories of people saving a bottle of wine 25 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: for a special occasion and then something's gone wrong in 26 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: storage and the bottle is ruined. Several years ago, the 27 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: Wall Street Journal's wine columnists started an event they called 28 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 1: Open that Bottle Night. It is now an annual event 29 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: in late February. They encouraged readers to open whatever fine 30 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: wine they were saving and just enjoy it. Even if 31 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: it happened to be an otherwise ordinary day, they would 32 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: all celebrate together. I love this idea, and I think 33 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: it's great for all kinds of things. Decide that one 34 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: Saturday a month you will use the good china. Everyone 35 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: can dress up if they like, or you could just 36 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: eat your cereal out of a nice bowl. Do you 37 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: risk breaking it? Sure, but it risks getting broken sitting 38 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,040 Speaker 1: in a closet too, And as I've seen with some 39 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: estate sales I have witnessed recently, it all gets sold 40 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: for pennies on the dollar. In the end, you may 41 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: as well get some enjoyment out of it. Now, I 42 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,799 Speaker 1: know that first some of us, this is easier said 43 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 1: than done. I still have a pile of nice notebooks 44 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: sitting in my desk drawers. I keep accumulating them and 45 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: then judging my thoughts unworthy of such fine paper. Real 46 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: estate people give me things like nice soaps, and then 47 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: they sit in the closet until they go bad. While 48 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: I'm using Irish Spring, not because I am necessarily making 49 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: an active choice, but because the nice soap seemed too 50 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,080 Speaker 1: nice to use. Even pretty packaged cosmetics do sometimes should 51 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:19,920 Speaker 1: I wear such a nice lipstick on a Tuesday. But 52 00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: the soap will be worthless eventually, and since it exists, 53 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: better to use it, better to get pleasure from it 54 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: rather than having it wind up in a landfill unused. 55 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: So in any case, if you are like me, let's 56 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: commit to using one thing this week that we have 57 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: been saving for some future time which may never happen. 58 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: Use that gift card, use that nice soap, open that bottle, 59 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: and go ahead and write your grocery list and that 60 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 1: lovely little notebook. At least the trip to the grocery 61 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: store will feel extravagant. And these days we need all 62 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: the adventures we can get in the meantime. This is Laura. 63 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening and here's to making the most of 64 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 1: our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you. 65 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: You can send me your tips, your questions, or anything else. 66 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at 67 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:28,479 Speaker 1: Before Breakfast Pod. That's b E the number four, then 68 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: Breakfast p o D. 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