Speaker 1: Second day. Normally, if things go really well on a
Speaker 1: first date, you'll end the night by inviting them back
Speaker 1: to your place. Oh yeah, but one of our listeners, Haley,
Speaker 1: didn't need to do that because she started the night
Speaker 1: over at his place. Okay, are you naughty? Narwhal? You
Speaker 1: don't mess around do your hales? You know what. I
Speaker 1: normally would never ever do that. Oh, don't say that.
Speaker 1: I hate that. Yeah, ladies, you don't have to say that.
Speaker 1: It's okay if you do it, it's okay. Lean into it.
Speaker 1: Tell us about the guy that you went out with
Speaker 1: or stayed in with. What's his name? Okay, his name
Speaker 1: is Eric. Okay, we met online. We met on Instagram,
Speaker 1: and it was like it felt a little bit different
Speaker 1: right off the bat, just from other people I've kind
Speaker 1: of met online. And so we talked for a few
Speaker 1: weeks without every meeting up. Oh that's a long time, yea.
Speaker 1: So that feels like you're trying to establish something, like
Speaker 1: you're not just looking for a hookup, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, if you're going to put that much
Speaker 1: time into it beforehand, what was it about Eric that
Speaker 1: was so different that stood out? It was kind of
Speaker 1: the way he was talking. He was the way we
Speaker 1: started off talking to each other. It just felt like
Speaker 1: friends right away. And I like that because it wasn't
Speaker 1: so pushy and like he wasn't trying to meet up
Speaker 1: the first second he started talking. I swear I've had
Speaker 1: girls be like immediately, Hey, we should get dinner sometime.
Speaker 1: I know you don't know me, and I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, sister, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know you. I mean, you're right, I do
Speaker 1: like to eat. But yeah, so comfortable with someone. That's good.
Speaker 1: Was it Eric's idea? Your idea to go back to
Speaker 1: his place? So it was his idea to meet his place,
Speaker 1: But it was because he said he had this whole
Speaker 1: surprise planned and I couldn't know about it. Yeah, So alexis,
Speaker 1: if a guy says, Hey, come over to my place.
Speaker 1: I have a surprise planned for you, what do you think. No,
Speaker 1: it's probably not a prize your house, Take me somewhere, fancy,
Speaker 1: what are you doing there? That's just the beginning of
Speaker 1: the night. Maybe he had something else playing. The surprise
Speaker 1: is probably his height or his weight. Yeah, what was
Speaker 1: the surprise? So I went to the house and getting
Speaker 1: the car and we went to just like a random
Speaker 1: restaurant nearby. It wasn't really anything special, but we just
Speaker 1: had apps and drinks. Okay, So I thought that was
Speaker 1: the surprise, and I was just like a little bit
Speaker 1: disappointed because I was like, I could have met you
Speaker 1: here for sure. Yeah, but it was fun. And then
Speaker 1: like twenty minutes goes by and he told me that
Speaker 1: wasn't the surprise, and he had concert tickets for us.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good surprise. Good, I know. And it
Speaker 1: was like an outdoor country concert and I love that
Speaker 1: kind of stuff. So I was like, Okay, this is good.
Speaker 1: Nice dude. So he puts some money, he puts some time,
Speaker 1: he puts some thought into this. I love it. Now
Speaker 1: he's trying hard, like the guys that you don't like
Speaker 1: online histories on the line off. At that point, no,
Speaker 1: I really liked him, and so it was just kind
Speaker 1: of getting better and better. Okay, how was the show?
Speaker 1: How was the concert with him? The concert was amazing
Speaker 1: and we had so much fun and we ended up
Speaker 1: act we had to kiss at the concert. Yeah, how
Speaker 1: was that? It was good? Go it? Yes, And so
Speaker 1: it was like going perfectly. I have so much fun,
Speaker 1: didn't really leave. But then it was around I think
Speaker 1: the concert ended, like it was pretty late, it was dark,
Speaker 1: it was around eleven. Okay, So we got in his
Speaker 1: car and we drove back to his place where my
Speaker 1: car was, and he asked me to come in, and
Speaker 1: I was going to but I didn't because I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: first day, and also my parents were coming the next
Speaker 1: morning for my dad's birthday. Yeah, walk of shame into
Speaker 1: your dad's birthday, alexis walk of shame to your dad? Yes,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, totally risk everybody. It's a family walk. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean but I think that's a fine. I mean,
Speaker 1: what was his reaction when you said you didn't want
Speaker 1: to stay. I mean he was he wasn't super weird,
Speaker 1: Like he seemed a little bit disappointed, and he tried
Speaker 1: to get me to come in like one more time,
Speaker 1: but then he was like pretty fine about it. He's like, okay,
Speaker 1: I get it, and we kissed again before I laugh. Cute. Okay,
Speaker 1: But what's happened since the day? Yeah, Well, since that's
Speaker 1: been texting back and forth a little bit, but he's
Speaker 1: definitely not been initiating anything, like it's always been me
Speaker 1: texting him and I kind of just feel like he's
Speaker 1: been blowing me off a little since then, and it's
Speaker 1: just gotten a little bit weird because I feel like
Speaker 1: everything went so well, but maybe it's your turn to
Speaker 1: like take control and ask him out. I mean, like
Speaker 1: he put all the energy into the concert, into the dinner,
Speaker 1: into the stuff, and then now now you go, right,
Speaker 1: alexis is that what you would do? You would take
Speaker 1: the initiative on day two? No? Never, that's what I'll
Speaker 1: pick you up. Yeah, do you drive over so I
Speaker 1: feel like you want you to stay the night? Enough
Speaker 1: work just showing up to the first date. What does
Speaker 1: he expect? Well, I've been like hinting at going out again,
Speaker 1: but he's not really been catching on to it or
Speaker 1: really going with it. But honestly, if he's mad that
Speaker 1: I didn't come into his house and the first night,
Speaker 1: then that's not really the kind of guy I want
Speaker 1: to be with anywhere. I don't know. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: there's I think there's something else going on. I don't
Speaker 1: think it can be that we're going to drop the
Speaker 1: biggest hint ever that you want to go out with
Speaker 1: him again, because a whole radio station is about to
Speaker 1: call him and ask him why he's not calling you back,
Speaker 1: and at the end we promised to ask him to
Speaker 1: go out with you. We're going to be direct. Well,
Speaker 1: we're not going to be gentle with him when we
Speaker 1: do the second date update right after this second update.
Speaker 1: Apparently all you need to do is tell a girl
Speaker 1: that you have a surprise for her, and she will
Speaker 1: immediately show up at your place. Prices are pretty fun
Speaker 1: from someone you trust. Okay, Yeah? Yeah, like what two
Speaker 1: weeks worth of trust? That's enough, because that's what happened
Speaker 1: to Haley. She took the bait, and what was the
Speaker 1: big surprise that Eric had waiting for her absent drinks
Speaker 1: at his favorite bar. That's when he reached into his
Speaker 1: pants and pulled out something that made her smile, a
Speaker 1: pair of concert tickets to an outdoor country music show,
Speaker 1: which Haley said is her fave, and they enjoyed the
Speaker 1: concert together and even had a first kiss that she
Speaker 1: described as good. Great. Yes, but now Haley wants to
Speaker 1: know why Eric isn't putting in more effort to get
Speaker 1: a second date from her. Yeah, is there anything else
Speaker 1: Eric did wrong on that first date that you picked
Speaker 1: up bombrook that he did wrong? Yeah? Or you mean
Speaker 1: that she did wrong because she's the one that's not
Speaker 1: getting a call back. Usually it's the guy that messed.
Speaker 1: I just think that maybe there wasn't the connection that
Speaker 1: you think that there was. I mean, I think she's
Speaker 1: trying to say, maybe you could have been annoying. I
Speaker 1: did not. I heard Brook say that too. Is that
Speaker 1: what you heard, Haley, that you were annoying? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: heard you say that. Every time the listeners come on, Brooke,
Speaker 1: you are terrible mostly Haley though, right, yeah, okay, call
Speaker 1: the guy. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna find out who the
Speaker 1: terrible one was. We're just gonna call Eric right now
Speaker 1: and see what he asked to say. You're ready to
Speaker 1: do this, Haley? Yeah? All right, here we go. Oh
Speaker 1: Hey is this Eric? Yes? Erl Hey, my name's Jeff
Speaker 1: from a radio show that you may or probably haven't
Speaker 1: heard of, called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey Eric,
Speaker 1: All right, okay, okay, did we catch you in? Okay,
Speaker 1: time's going okay, Well, we're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: date update. We're trying to help one of our listeners
Speaker 1: get a hold of you after you two went out
Speaker 1: on a really nice date the other day. But now
Speaker 1: you're not calling her back anymore. Well, they're texting. She's
Speaker 1: just getting a bad vibe. Well, yeah, I guess you're
Speaker 1: not asking her out on a second date fast enough.
Speaker 1: She called like some dating police on me. Let's go, yea,
Speaker 1: we are the dating police. Wow, put up the berries
Speaker 1: and cherries. Boys, do you have any idea who we're
Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah, I'm pretty sure I do. Okay, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: really likes you. Did you have a good time with her? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean as far as the date, the date was great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we went to a concert. Man, she's saying, I mean,
Speaker 1: she wasn't the greatest thing, but I love that she's
Speaker 1: saying those he had a good vibe. The big surprise
Speaker 1: you had and we heard, yeah, we heard you orchestrated
Speaker 1: this whole thing and surprised her with the concert tickets
Speaker 1: and showed her a really great time. But now after that,
Speaker 1: you're not asking her out again, and she's not understanding why. Wow,
Speaker 1: this is like, this is embarrassing, man, it's embarrassing. But wait,
Speaker 1: just being on the show is because of when we
Speaker 1: get that. Ye we're embarrassed every day. Bro. The reason
Speaker 1: that you're not asking her out again is embarrassing and
Speaker 1: I don't want to, you know, kind of put her
Speaker 1: business out there. Oh she doesn't care. Well, you know,
Speaker 1: the date was cool and everything, and we got I
Speaker 1: got her kids within the bait. She didn't want to
Speaker 1: come in and I didn't really press anything like that.
Speaker 1: But all right, that seems fine. It would be bad
Speaker 1: if you pressure her into it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: You know it's saying everything like that. Of course. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's important, crucial. But you were hoping that she would
Speaker 1: accept your invitation in. Is that the reason that you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back? No, that's not the reason why
Speaker 1: I'm not on our back. I have like a ring
Speaker 1: doorbell camera. O ye fancy okay, Yeah. It pained at
Speaker 1: two third in the morning and it was her. Wait wait,
Speaker 1: she came on your phone. She was at your house.
Speaker 1: Yeah what yeh, she did accept your invitation over It
Speaker 1: was just like five hours late, rushing up. I'll be back, sketchy.
Speaker 1: What's going on? What did she do? I got no idea.
Speaker 1: And that's funny you said she fresh it up. She
Speaker 1: was in a whole different outsit. She had my own
Speaker 1: like the red boussel, and I was like, this is
Speaker 1: the weirdest cat burglary ever. What did she do though?
Speaker 1: Did she come up and go up to your door
Speaker 1: or like, what did you see happen in the video?
Speaker 1: All right, I saw her walk up to the door
Speaker 1: and kind of looking in. Or did she like went
Speaker 1: across my lawn or something. But it was definitely her
Speaker 1: weird She could have been sleep driving. I can't believe
Speaker 1: you didn't say anything to her. I'd be like, Yo,
Speaker 1: what were you doing at my house at two thirty
Speaker 1: in the morning. That would freak me out. You probably
Speaker 1: want to mess like a crazy girl. Yeah, you don't
Speaker 1: want to promote them. Clearly, she has no problem pulling
Speaker 1: up on me. That's crazy. I don't know she uh
Speaker 1: was checking to see if I caused somebody else to
Speaker 1: hear place, so she didn't come here. Oh you think
Speaker 1: she was over there sleuthing to see if you hooked
Speaker 1: up with someone else. It was weird if you had
Speaker 1: another day. Yeah, well, Eric, it's funny that you said
Speaker 1: that she was slinking around, and I might actually believe
Speaker 1: it because she's slinking around right now on the other
Speaker 1: phone line wanting to talk to you. What. Oh my gosh, Eric,
Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. Why would why would you even say this?
Speaker 1: I didn't even tell him about that, Haley. Are you
Speaker 1: saying that you weren't there wait or that you were No?
Speaker 1: I mean I was there. I was. It wasn't creepy.
Speaker 1: That's why I didn't bring it up, because it's not important. Haley,
Speaker 1: were there two in the morning? Why did you show
Speaker 1: back up? But he plays at two thirty in the
Speaker 1: morning him. I was there at two thirty in the
Speaker 1: morning because I went home and realized I left my earring.
Speaker 1: It's like a little tiny gold hoop and my dad
Speaker 1: bought them for me, And like I said, it was
Speaker 1: my dad's birthday the next day. Back to the reason
Speaker 1: I went home, and so I just thought, like whenever
Speaker 1: we were kissing, it probably fell out, and it was
Speaker 1: in his front yard the morning. Yeah, because I was
Speaker 1: going to ask me about it the next day if
Speaker 1: I didn't have them, because I read them all the time.
Speaker 1: But if he looked, I was like walking around with
Speaker 1: a flashlight. It wasn't looking in your window. I was
Speaker 1: looking on the ground flashlight. What didn't you tell him?
Speaker 1: Can you imagine if the tables were reversed? Tayley and
Speaker 1: you saw him wandering around in your yard, you'd be
Speaker 1: scared out of your mind. Well, if he was a
Speaker 1: true gentleman, he would have just come out there and help.
Speaker 1: Well she did. How was he supposed to go? That
Speaker 1: would have turned on the lights. I have lights out
Speaker 1: there food while you looked. Well, I didn't know you
Speaker 1: saw that, So you should have just texted me or
Speaker 1: called me and then like, why were you doing that?
Speaker 1: I would have explained it and it would have made
Speaker 1: perfect sense. Do you believe her story about the earring?
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do you remember to break in or
Speaker 1: knock or wake you up or anything? Haley? Did you
Speaker 1: find the other earring? No? I didn't find it. I
Speaker 1: didn't even find it, and my dad asked about it
Speaker 1: the next day, and so wait, I mean, this is
Speaker 1: the part I don't get them. Then why didn't you
Speaker 1: follow up with Eric and say hey, even if it
Speaker 1: was maybe you wait until the next morning. I think
Speaker 1: I lost my earring. Have you seen it? Well? I
Speaker 1: just thought I would be weird, and he was already
Speaker 1: given me like weird vibes and not really responding to
Speaker 1: my text, so I didn't want to make it a
Speaker 1: big deal. Dads, normally buy their daughters like goldhood earings
Speaker 1: my actual dad no sense of But I mean, Haley,
Speaker 1: were you meeting up with your daddy the next morning? Daddy?
Speaker 1: Um No, it's my real dad and he bought me
Speaker 1: real ear rings and it was his real birthday. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's part. I mean, it sounds like a big miscommunication
Speaker 1: to me. If she would have been like going to
Speaker 1: the back of the house trying to light inside a window,
Speaker 1: but she just stuck on the grass and laughed. It
Speaker 1: makes sense. Your communication about it is terrible, that's the thing.
Speaker 1: It's like, she's creepy, He's creepy. Let's not talk to
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, you guys are blowing his way out
Speaker 1: of proportion, Like just because I didn't tell him that
Speaker 1: I was looking for my earring, now all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I'm this creepy like monsters making up stories like that
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense. Dating police were just doing the investigation
Speaker 1: part of the process. I don't know who want to arrest.
Speaker 1: I mean, do you feel better Eric finding out why
Speaker 1: she was there? I mean yeah, I mean at least
Speaker 1: I can still text her now. We could still be cool. Okay,
Speaker 1: who knows? Who know? We might, we might, we might
Speaker 1: guard again if we had a good time. So so
Speaker 1: he knows now, I mean, Haley, I want to believe
Speaker 1: you that it really was just you trying to find
Speaker 1: your lost here and hopefully Eric is starting to come
Speaker 1: over onto that side. And actually for a second date,
Speaker 1: the two of you could spend it in Eric's front
Speaker 1: lawn looking for some lost yearings. Maybe we could get
Speaker 1: them a metal detector to borrow. Yeah, we can do
Speaker 1: the metal detector thing. And I want to interview her
Speaker 1: dad too. Oh is that cool with you? Um, the
Speaker 1: metal detector. Fine, but I'm not bringing my duty. That's good,
Speaker 1: That's okay, Okay. So I know this is like weird
Speaker 1: to bring it up, but I might as well since
Speaker 1: you're the one that said it. But like you didn't
Speaker 1: actually have anyone over right, like that night a girl,
Speaker 1: you see. I gotta watch my back with you. Man,
Speaker 1: you're kind of dangerous. I like that Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, I've heard of women purposely leaving things behind
Speaker 1: at a guy's place to see them again, but usually
Speaker 1: it's inside the building. Well, and usually you let them
Speaker 1: know so that you could actually meet them. Yeah, was
Speaker 1: a little bit of a strange strategy. But something that
Speaker 1: I didn't bring up in the call is apparently their
Speaker 1: makeout was pretty physical. Yeah, like you don't hear about
Speaker 1: earrings flying off. I don't know, my hoops always falling
Speaker 1: into they don't have backs typically and they go you
Speaker 1: wouldn't understand. Yeah, yeah, it's actually not that big of
Speaker 1: a thing. I mean, I know you're trying to give
Speaker 1: him props and he did some great thing during the makeout,
Speaker 1: But yeah, I've actually found many earrings in my car before. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, the weird that the women didn't come back
Speaker 1: for Josey that was dozens. But you gonna have to
Speaker 1: say goodbye to Way. Yeah. I was actually a hundred board,
Speaker 1: like a hundred percent on board with her excuse until
Speaker 1: the very end of the call, where she was asking like,
Speaker 1: by the way, like did you have another girl in there?
Speaker 1: She's just kind of slipped out. Why didn't he go
Speaker 1: out and say anything to her as she's on his
Speaker 1: front lawn like that would be scary? Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: scary scary about Tide watch her when the police get
Speaker 1: involved by have evidence, Yeah, I get an intervene officer.
Speaker 1: She claimed the whole thing was an accident. But you
Speaker 1: know what they say about accidents. They make an ac
Speaker 1: out of eye in dent. Nobody does that. Only work
Speaker 1: with the ard assume it. Okay, well screwed that one out.
Speaker 1: That was an accident. I'm in an act on him myself. Okay.
Speaker 1: I remember if you ever leave, you ever left something
Speaker 1: at somebody's house, inside or outside, you need to get
Speaker 1: a second date. Update. Email the show. We'll call the
Speaker 1: person who wasn't calling you back.