WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Stranger in the Night

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<v Speaker 1>Second day. Normally, if things go really well on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date, you'll end the night by inviting them back

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<v Speaker 1>to your place. Oh yeah, but one of our listeners, Haley,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't need to do that because she started the night

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<v Speaker 1>over at his place. Okay, are you naughty? Narwhal? You

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<v Speaker 1>don't mess around do your hales? You know what. I

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<v Speaker 1>normally would never ever do that. Oh, don't say that.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that. Yeah, ladies, you don't have to say that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay if you do it, it's okay. Lean into it.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about the guy that you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>or stayed in with. What's his name? Okay, his name

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<v Speaker 1>is Eric. Okay, we met online. We met on Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like it felt a little bit different

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<v Speaker 1>right off the bat, just from other people I've kind

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<v Speaker 1>of met online. And so we talked for a few

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<v Speaker 1>weeks without every meeting up. Oh that's a long time, yea.

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<v Speaker 1>So that feels like you're trying to establish something, like

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<v Speaker 1>you're not just looking for a hookup, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Like, if you're going to put that much

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<v Speaker 1>time into it beforehand, what was it about Eric that

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<v Speaker 1>was so different that stood out? It was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>the way he was talking. He was the way we

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<v Speaker 1>started off talking to each other. It just felt like

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<v Speaker 1>friends right away. And I like that because it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>so pushy and like he wasn't trying to meet up

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<v Speaker 1>the first second he started talking. I swear I've had

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<v Speaker 1>girls be like immediately, Hey, we should get dinner sometime.

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<v Speaker 1>I know you don't know me, and I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, sister, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know you. I mean, you're right, I do

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<v Speaker 1>like to eat. But yeah, so comfortable with someone. That's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it Eric's idea? Your idea to go back to

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<v Speaker 1>his place? So it was his idea to meet his place,

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<v Speaker 1>But it was because he said he had this whole

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<v Speaker 1>surprise planned and I couldn't know about it. Yeah, So alexis,

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<v Speaker 1>if a guy says, Hey, come over to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a surprise planned for you, what do you think. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably not a prize your house, Take me somewhere, fancy,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing there? That's just the beginning of

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<v Speaker 1>the night. Maybe he had something else playing. The surprise

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<v Speaker 1>is probably his height or his weight. Yeah, what was

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<v Speaker 1>the surprise? So I went to the house and getting

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<v Speaker 1>the car and we went to just like a random

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant nearby. It wasn't really anything special, but we just

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<v Speaker 1>had apps and drinks. Okay, So I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>the surprise, and I was just like a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>disappointed because I was like, I could have met you

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<v Speaker 1>here for sure. Yeah, but it was fun. And then

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<v Speaker 1>like twenty minutes goes by and he told me that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the surprise, and he had concert tickets for us.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good surprise. Good, I know. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was like an outdoor country concert and I love that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff. So I was like, Okay, this is good.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice dude. So he puts some money, he puts some time,

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<v Speaker 1>he puts some thought into this. I love it. Now

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying hard, like the guys that you don't like

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<v Speaker 1>online histories on the line off. At that point, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I really liked him, and so it was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of getting better and better. Okay, how was the show?

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<v Speaker 1>How was the concert with him? The concert was amazing

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<v Speaker 1>and we had so much fun and we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>act we had to kiss at the concert. Yeah, how

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<v Speaker 1>was that? It was good? Go it? Yes, And so

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<v Speaker 1>it was like going perfectly. I have so much fun,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really leave. But then it was around I think

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<v Speaker 1>the concert ended, like it was pretty late, it was dark,

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<v Speaker 1>it was around eleven. Okay, So we got in his

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<v Speaker 1>car and we drove back to his place where my

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<v Speaker 1>car was, and he asked me to come in, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to but I didn't because I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>first day, and also my parents were coming the next

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<v Speaker 1>morning for my dad's birthday. Yeah, walk of shame into

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<v Speaker 1>your dad's birthday, alexis walk of shame to your dad? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, totally risk everybody. It's a family walk. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean but I think that's a fine. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what was his reaction when you said you didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to stay. I mean he was he wasn't super weird,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he seemed a little bit disappointed, and he tried

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<v Speaker 1>to get me to come in like one more time,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he was like pretty fine about it. He's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I get it, and we kissed again before I laugh. Cute. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But what's happened since the day? Yeah, Well, since that's

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<v Speaker 1>been texting back and forth a little bit, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not been initiating anything, like it's always been me

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<v Speaker 1>texting him and I kind of just feel like he's

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<v Speaker 1>been blowing me off a little since then, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just gotten a little bit weird because I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>everything went so well, but maybe it's your turn to

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<v Speaker 1>like take control and ask him out. I mean, like

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<v Speaker 1>he put all the energy into the concert, into the dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>into the stuff, and then now now you go, right,

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<v Speaker 1>alexis is that what you would do? You would take

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<v Speaker 1>the initiative on day two? No? Never, that's what I'll

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<v Speaker 1>pick you up. Yeah, do you drive over so I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you want you to stay the night? Enough

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<v Speaker 1>work just showing up to the first date. What does

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<v Speaker 1>he expect? Well, I've been like hinting at going out again,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's not really been catching on to it or

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<v Speaker 1>really going with it. But honestly, if he's mad that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't come into his house and the first night,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's not really the kind of guy I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with anywhere. I don't know. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's I think there's something else going on. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it can be that we're going to drop the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest hint ever that you want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>him again, because a whole radio station is about to

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<v Speaker 1>call him and ask him why he's not calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>and at the end we promised to ask him to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you. We're going to be direct. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not going to be gentle with him when we

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<v Speaker 1>do the second date update right after this second update.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently all you need to do is tell a girl

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<v Speaker 1>that you have a surprise for her, and she will

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<v Speaker 1>immediately show up at your place. Prices are pretty fun

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<v Speaker 1>from someone you trust. Okay, Yeah? Yeah, like what two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks worth of trust? That's enough, because that's what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to Haley. She took the bait, and what was the

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<v Speaker 1>big surprise that Eric had waiting for her absent drinks

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<v Speaker 1>at his favorite bar. That's when he reached into his

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<v Speaker 1>pants and pulled out something that made her smile, a

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<v Speaker 1>pair of concert tickets to an outdoor country music show,

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<v Speaker 1>which Haley said is her fave, and they enjoyed the

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<v Speaker 1>concert together and even had a first kiss that she

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<v Speaker 1>described as good. Great. Yes, but now Haley wants to

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<v Speaker 1>know why Eric isn't putting in more effort to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date from her. Yeah, is there anything else

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<v Speaker 1>Eric did wrong on that first date that you picked

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<v Speaker 1>up bombrook that he did wrong? Yeah? Or you mean

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<v Speaker 1>that she did wrong because she's the one that's not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back. Usually it's the guy that messed.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that maybe there wasn't the connection that

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<v Speaker 1>you think that there was. I mean, I think she's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to say, maybe you could have been annoying. I

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<v Speaker 1>did not. I heard Brook say that too. Is that

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<v Speaker 1>what you heard, Haley, that you were annoying? Yeah? I

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<v Speaker 1>heard you say that. Every time the listeners come on, Brooke,

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<v Speaker 1>you are terrible mostly Haley though, right, yeah, okay, call

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<v Speaker 1>the guy. Yeah, yeah, we're gonna find out who the

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<v Speaker 1>terrible one was. We're just gonna call Eric right now

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<v Speaker 1>and see what he asked to say. You're ready to

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<v Speaker 1>do this, Haley? Yeah? All right, here we go. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Eric? Yes? Erl Hey, my name's Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>from a radio show that you may or probably haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard of, called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, okay, did we catch you in? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>time's going okay, Well, we're doing something called a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. We're trying to help one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of you after you two went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a really nice date the other day. But now

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling her back anymore. Well, they're texting. She's

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<v Speaker 1>just getting a bad vibe. Well, yeah, I guess you're

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<v Speaker 1>not asking her out on a second date fast enough.

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<v Speaker 1>She called like some dating police on me. Let's go, yea,

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<v Speaker 1>we are the dating police. Wow, put up the berries

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<v Speaker 1>and cherries. Boys, do you have any idea who we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? Yeah, I'm pretty sure I do. Okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really likes you. Did you have a good time with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean as far as the date, the date was great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we went to a concert. Man, she's saying, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't the greatest thing, but I love that she's

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<v Speaker 1>saying those he had a good vibe. The big surprise

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<v Speaker 1>you had and we heard, yeah, we heard you orchestrated

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing and surprised her with the concert tickets

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<v Speaker 1>and showed her a really great time. But now after that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not asking her out again, and she's not understanding why. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is like, this is embarrassing, man, it's embarrassing. But wait,

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<v Speaker 1>just being on the show is because of when we

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<v Speaker 1>get that. Ye we're embarrassed every day. Bro. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not asking her out again is embarrassing and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to, you know, kind of put her

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<v Speaker 1>business out there. Oh she doesn't care. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the date was cool and everything, and we got I

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<v Speaker 1>got her kids within the bait. She didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>come in and I didn't really press anything like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But all right, that seems fine. It would be bad

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<v Speaker 1>if you pressure her into it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's saying everything like that. Of course. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's important, crucial. But you were hoping that she would

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<v Speaker 1>accept your invitation in. Is that the reason that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling her back? No, that's not the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not on our back. I have like a ring

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<v Speaker 1>doorbell camera. O ye fancy okay, Yeah. It pained at

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<v Speaker 1>two third in the morning and it was her. Wait wait,

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<v Speaker 1>she came on your phone. She was at your house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah what yeh, she did accept your invitation over It

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<v Speaker 1>was just like five hours late, rushing up. I'll be back, sketchy.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? What did she do? I got no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's funny you said she fresh it up. She

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<v Speaker 1>was in a whole different outsit. She had my own

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<v Speaker 1>like the red boussel, and I was like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the weirdest cat burglary ever. What did she do though?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she come up and go up to your door

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<v Speaker 1>or like, what did you see happen in the video?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I saw her walk up to the door

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<v Speaker 1>and kind of looking in. Or did she like went

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<v Speaker 1>across my lawn or something. But it was definitely her

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<v Speaker 1>weird She could have been sleep driving. I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't say anything to her. I'd be like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>what were you doing at my house at two thirty

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. That would freak me out. You probably

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<v Speaker 1>want to mess like a crazy girl. Yeah, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to promote them. Clearly, she has no problem pulling

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<v Speaker 1>up on me. That's crazy. I don't know she uh

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<v Speaker 1>was checking to see if I caused somebody else to

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<v Speaker 1>hear place, so she didn't come here. Oh you think

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<v Speaker 1>she was over there sleuthing to see if you hooked

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<v Speaker 1>up with someone else. It was weird if you had

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<v Speaker 1>another day. Yeah, well, Eric, it's funny that you said

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<v Speaker 1>that she was slinking around, and I might actually believe

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<v Speaker 1>it because she's slinking around right now on the other

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<v Speaker 1>phone line wanting to talk to you. What. Oh my gosh, Eric,

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<v Speaker 1>this is ridiculous. Why would why would you even say this?

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even tell him about that, Haley. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you weren't there wait or that you were No?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I was there. I was. It wasn't creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I didn't bring it up, because it's not important. Haley,

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<v Speaker 1>were there two in the morning? Why did you show

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<v Speaker 1>back up? But he plays at two thirty in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning him. I was there at two thirty in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning because I went home and realized I left my earring.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like a little tiny gold hoop and my dad

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<v Speaker 1>bought them for me, And like I said, it was

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<v Speaker 1>my dad's birthday the next day. Back to the reason

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<v Speaker 1>I went home, and so I just thought, like whenever

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<v Speaker 1>we were kissing, it probably fell out, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>in his front yard the morning. Yeah, because I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask me about it the next day if

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have them, because I read them all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>But if he looked, I was like walking around with

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<v Speaker 1>a flashlight. It wasn't looking in your window. I was

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<v Speaker 1>looking on the ground flashlight. What didn't you tell him?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you imagine if the tables were reversed? Tayley and

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<v Speaker 1>you saw him wandering around in your yard, you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>scared out of your mind. Well, if he was a

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<v Speaker 1>true gentleman, he would have just come out there and help.

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<v Speaker 1>Well she did. How was he supposed to go? That

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<v Speaker 1>would have turned on the lights. I have lights out

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<v Speaker 1>there food while you looked. Well, I didn't know you

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<v Speaker 1>saw that, So you should have just texted me or

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<v Speaker 1>called me and then like, why were you doing that?

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<v Speaker 1>I would have explained it and it would have made

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<v Speaker 1>perfect sense. Do you believe her story about the earring?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Do you remember to break in or

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<v Speaker 1>knock or wake you up or anything? Haley? Did you

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<v Speaker 1>find the other earring? No? I didn't find it. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even find it, and my dad asked about it

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, and so wait, I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 1>the part I don't get them. Then why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>follow up with Eric and say hey, even if it

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<v Speaker 1>was maybe you wait until the next morning. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I lost my earring. Have you seen it? Well? I

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<v Speaker 1>just thought I would be weird, and he was already

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<v Speaker 1>given me like weird vibes and not really responding to

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<v Speaker 1>my text, so I didn't want to make it a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. Dads, normally buy their daughters like goldhood earings

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<v Speaker 1>my actual dad no sense of But I mean, Haley,

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<v Speaker 1>were you meeting up with your daddy the next morning? Daddy?

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<v Speaker 1>Um No, it's my real dad and he bought me

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<v Speaker 1>real ear rings and it was his real birthday. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's part. I mean, it sounds like a big miscommunication

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<v Speaker 1>to me. If she would have been like going to

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the house trying to light inside a window,

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<v Speaker 1>but she just stuck on the grass and laughed. It

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Your communication about it is terrible, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, she's creepy, He's creepy. Let's not talk to

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, you guys are blowing his way out

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<v Speaker 1>of proportion, Like just because I didn't tell him that

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for my earring, now all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm this creepy like monsters making up stories like that

0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:34.960
<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense. Dating police were just doing the investigation

0:14:35.040 --> 0:14:40.080
<v Speaker 1>part of the process. I don't know who want to arrest.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you feel better Eric finding out why

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<v Speaker 1>she was there? I mean yeah, I mean at least

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<v Speaker 1>I can still text her now. We could still be cool. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>who knows? Who know? We might, we might, we might

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<v Speaker 1>guard again if we had a good time. So so

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<v Speaker 1>he knows now, I mean, Haley, I want to believe

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<v Speaker 1>you that it really was just you trying to find

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<v Speaker 1>your lost here and hopefully Eric is starting to come

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<v Speaker 1>over onto that side. And actually for a second date,

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<v Speaker 1>the two of you could spend it in Eric's front

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<v Speaker 1>lawn looking for some lost yearings. Maybe we could get

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<v Speaker 1>them a metal detector to borrow. Yeah, we can do

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<v Speaker 1>the metal detector thing. And I want to interview her

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<v Speaker 1>dad too. Oh is that cool with you? Um, the

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<v Speaker 1>metal detector. Fine, but I'm not bringing my duty. That's good,

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<v Speaker 1>That's okay, Okay. So I know this is like weird

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<v Speaker 1>to bring it up, but I might as well since

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<v Speaker 1>you're the one that said it. But like you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>actually have anyone over right, like that night a girl,

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<v Speaker 1>you see. I gotta watch my back with you. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>you're kind of dangerous. I like that Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I've heard of women purposely leaving things behind

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<v Speaker 1>at a guy's place to see them again, but usually

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<v Speaker 1>it's inside the building. Well, and usually you let them

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<v Speaker 1>know so that you could actually meet them. Yeah, was

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a strange strategy. But something that

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't bring up in the call is apparently their

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<v Speaker 1>makeout was pretty physical. Yeah, like you don't hear about

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<v Speaker 1>earrings flying off. I don't know, my hoops always falling

0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:15.400
<v Speaker 1>into they don't have backs typically and they go you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't understand. Yeah, yeah, it's actually not that big of

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. I mean, I know you're trying to give

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<v Speaker 1>him props and he did some great thing during the makeout,

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I've actually found many earrings in my car before. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, the weird that the women didn't come back

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<v Speaker 1>for Josey that was dozens. But you gonna have to

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<v Speaker 1>say goodbye to Way. Yeah. I was actually a hundred board,

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<v Speaker 1>like a hundred percent on board with her excuse until

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<v Speaker 1>the very end of the call, where she was asking like,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, like did you have another girl in there?

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<v Speaker 1>She's just kind of slipped out. Why didn't he go

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<v Speaker 1>out and say anything to her as she's on his

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<v Speaker 1>front lawn like that would be scary? Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>scary scary about Tide watch her when the police get

0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.880
<v Speaker 1>involved by have evidence, Yeah, I get an intervene officer.

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<v Speaker 1>She claimed the whole thing was an accident. But you

0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.080
<v Speaker 1>know what they say about accidents. They make an ac

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<v Speaker 1>out of eye in dent. Nobody does that. Only work

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<v Speaker 1>with the ard assume it. Okay, well screwed that one out.

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<v Speaker 1>That was an accident. I'm in an act on him myself. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember if you ever leave, you ever left something

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<v Speaker 1>at somebody's house, inside or outside, you need to get

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. Update. Email the show. We'll call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who wasn't calling you back.