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Speaker 1: So that feels like you're trying to establish something, like

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Speaker 1: How was the concert with him? The concert was amazing

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Speaker 1: Apparently all you need to do is tell a girl

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Speaker 1: That's why I didn't bring it up, because it's not important. Haley,

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine if the tables were reversed? Tayley and

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Speaker 1: You know, I've heard of women purposely leaving things behind

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Speaker 1: She claimed the whole thing was an accident. But you

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