1 00:00:01,520 --> 00:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Every day. 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 2: Up, Click up the Breakfast Club. Finish for y'all, dump morning. 3 00:00:07,200 --> 00:00:10,840 Speaker 1: Everybody is the j n V. Just hilarious. Charlamagne the God. 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: We are the Breakfast Club. Laura Lorosa is here as well, 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 1: and we got a. 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 2: Special guest in the building, the legend Bobby Brown. 7 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: Hello, listen, which one now? I gotta tell me which one? 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,240 Speaker 1: This is not new edition Boston, my prerogative, Bobby Brown. 9 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: This is Bobby Brown, makeup artists, entrepreneur, owner of Bobby 10 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: Brown Cosmetics and more. She has a new book out 11 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 1: right now called Still Bobby. 12 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 2: Well, hold on now. Bobby Brown Cosmetics was old? 13 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that was That was the first one. Jones 14 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 3: Road is the new one. 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 4: I love that you have Jones Road. I'm gonna just 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 4: let you know right now. I hope this is not 17 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 4: of thing you I thought you were black. I ain't 18 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,839 Speaker 4: gonna lie to you because you're Bobby Browne. It's so 19 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 4: good for my skin, our skin, you know what I'm saying. 20 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, and usually you. 21 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 4: Know, you know, we only we're the only ones who 22 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 4: know our skin. 23 00:00:56,800 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 3: But it's like, baby, Bobby, I'm you know, my background 24 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 3: as I'm a makeup artist. I spent my life doing makeup, 25 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 3: and I had this crazy idea that you should put 26 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 3: a foundation on that's the exact color of your skin. 27 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 4: The skin stick, the correct man everything that the foundation 28 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 4: with the sunscreen, the SBF. 29 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. 30 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Jones Road is even better. Jones is even better. 31 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 3: But you know, I've I've I've done so many, so 32 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 3: many different makeups, so many celebrities, so many women, and 33 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,559 Speaker 3: you know, it took a while to kind of teach 34 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 3: women that you just want to look good, you want 35 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 3: to look like yourself. I mean I used to do 36 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 3: with In Houston's makeup. She did not like the makeup 37 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:41,039 Speaker 3: to look natural. She wanted a lighter foundation, and I 38 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:42,559 Speaker 3: used to fight, I'm like, you can't. 39 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 4: It's got to match your skin, especially under them lights. 40 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 4: So thank you, miss. 41 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: I'm great. I'm great. 42 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 5: I want people to buy the book still, Bobby, but 43 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 5: I do want you to give them a little bit 44 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 5: of your history. 45 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 2: Like you started as a makeup artist. 46 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 5: How does the makeup artist go from that to creating 47 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 5: her first billion dollar brand? 48 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: Bobby brant Well, I. 49 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: Was a makeup artist that when I started in the eighties, 50 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 3: it was all really artificial makeup and just really not attractive, 51 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 3: and I started doing makeup a different way. But the 52 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: makeup on the market sucks. It was not good. I 53 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 3: used to have to fix everything. And one day I 54 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 3: met a chemist and I said, hey, I've always wanted 55 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 3: to make this lipstick, and he's like, I can make 56 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 3: it for you. So we made it, and I said, 57 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 3: I bet I could sell this, you know, And then 58 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 3: I thought about ten colors and I made it and 59 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 3: I started selling out of my house, you know, when 60 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: I had my first baby and my hometown of Montclair, 61 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 3: New Jersey, and I would be going into the city 62 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 3: to do fashion and Vogue and all that stuff. And 63 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 3: then it just kind of grew from there. And one 64 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 3: day I met someone and I talked to everybody because 65 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 3: I think most people are nice and interesting, and I said, 66 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: what do you do? She said, I'm a cosmetics buyer 67 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 3: at Burgdorf Goodman. I'm like, oh, I have this line 68 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 3: of makeup. I'm more. And I got into Bergdorf Goodman 69 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 3: didn't shop there at the time. Wow, But I sold 70 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 3: the makeup there and the rest is history. And then 71 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 3: we sold the company to Esti Lauder after four and 72 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 3: a half years. 73 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 5: Now, I don't want to give too much away, but 74 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 5: just break down the details of that situation. 75 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 2: I didn't even know that. 76 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, after four and a half years, we sold to 77 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 3: STI Lauder. I stayed as an corporate employee twenty two years. 78 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: You could read the book, you could text me afterwards 79 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 3: and ask me other questions. But you know, so that 80 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 3: was the first brand. And then I you know, while 81 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 3: I was I think the only reason I was able 82 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 3: to stay in corporate America because I am the least 83 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 3: corporate person you have ever met. I don't break the rules. 84 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: I just make up my own is. I used to 85 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: do all these cool things on the side. I was 86 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 3: an an entrepreneur, you know, so I did a lot 87 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 3: of different projects and you know, became a on Elvis Duran. 88 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 3: I became the beauty editor of Elvis Duran and Elves. Yeah, 89 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 3: and uh, you know, by the way, that's how I 90 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 3: met Charlemagne. I was lucky enough to sit next to 91 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: him at a wedding, Elvis's wedding, yeah, which I guess 92 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: is like six years. I think he just celebrated. I 93 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 3: think so something something like that, and you know, and 94 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:17,479 Speaker 3: I just liked this guy, and I'm like, let's have 95 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 3: dinner and he's like, all right, great, and we made 96 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,039 Speaker 3: dinner plans and the rest is his. 97 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, what foundation. 98 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 3: Well, he's got such beautiful skin. He doesn't wear any that's. 99 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 4: His secrets of his which you would would would be 100 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 4: the shade back then. 101 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: Did you know him before that? 102 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: I did, I did not. I did not, But I 103 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 1: love that. 104 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: You had a nod compete for twenty. 105 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 3: Five twenty five years. And so when we sold the company, 106 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 3: I was thirty four. And when my husband said we 107 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: got this non compete, I mean I always got ds 108 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 3: in math that I'm very proud of. To be successful, 109 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 3: you know, and not be good in school, I think 110 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 3: is something to consider. But I counted on my fingers. 111 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 3: I said, well, I'll be sick in my sixties. I'm 112 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: not going to want to work when I'm in my sixties. 113 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:05,239 Speaker 3: Fast forward, I'm sixty eight right now. So I started 114 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 3: this company really good. 115 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:07,559 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. 116 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,919 Speaker 3: I mean that, you know why, because I don't shoot 117 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,679 Speaker 3: anything in my face? Okay, I'm shocked, you look really 118 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:17,400 Speaker 3: really honestly, it's the truth, I think. But I'm also 119 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 3: into health and wellness and fitness, and you know. 120 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: So let me ask you about that, because it seems 121 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: like that's the new trend now. If you watch any 122 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:28,039 Speaker 1: show on television, it's all about lip fillers and fillers 123 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: and botox and this talks and net talks and detox 124 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: and red talks. What do you think about someone that's. 125 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 3: I don't like it. I don't like I don't like 126 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,159 Speaker 3: any of it. I don't I don't feel it looks natural. 127 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 3: I don't think it looks good. And I think you know, 128 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 3: the important thing is how you feel and your lifestyle choices. 129 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 3: I mean, I like to have fun like everyone, but 130 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: I know how to balance and I know what to 131 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 3: do to make me feel better. And when I look bad, 132 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 3: I don't run to the doctor to say fix me up. 133 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 3: I look at myself in the mirror and say, what 134 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 3: have you been doing that's not working? And change it? 135 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,560 Speaker 6: Wow, So how do you implement? 136 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: She cut her off? She was a grown woman, and 137 00:06:04,760 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 2: you launched another brand? 138 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I launched another brand when the day my 139 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 3: non compete was out, and which was literally a week 140 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 3: before the presidential election. You remember that time, in the 141 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 3: middle of the pandemic. I just flicked the light up 142 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 3: and did three things and we launched the brand. Didn't 143 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 3: know what was going to happen and this we're celebrating 144 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 3: five years amazing. It's yeah, it's been amazing. 145 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,960 Speaker 2: Now George rod Is a billion is like I got 146 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: to buy this one now too, right. 147 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: Something we're not for sale. 148 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 6: I forget what I was. 149 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 7: I guess now that we're here in that part of 150 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:44,919 Speaker 7: your journey, like business wise, like what are your go to? 151 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 7: Like here's what I always rule of thumbs and business 152 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 7: because you make it just seems so effortless, like oh 153 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 7: I met a woman at Berdiff Goodman and boom, we're 154 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 7: in the store. I know it's not but in not 155 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 7: giving away too much from the book, but like, what 156 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 7: are those things that you kept very near and dear 157 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:01,200 Speaker 7: to your chest? 158 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 3: It honestly you do every time, honestly, Like it's common sense. 159 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: It's just doing things the way you do things. And 160 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: it's doing things the way you know my parents taught me, 161 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 3: you know my grandparents, Like I grew up with this 162 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:17,960 Speaker 3: loving family, complicated but loving and but they were you know, 163 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 3: everyone worked really hard, everyone worked really hard. Everyone had 164 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 3: to be nice. You had to be nice. You just 165 00:07:23,880 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 3: there was no excuse not to be nice, and you 166 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 3: had to you know, be a little creative with your thinking, 167 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 3: and when things didn't work, you're like, all right, that 168 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 3: didn't work, let me do something else. That's how I 169 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,320 Speaker 3: lead business is like the same way I would lead 170 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 3: my life. And I'm like right to the point, like 171 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 3: I don't I don't mess around. I don't like when 172 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: people are like talking about what they should do and 173 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 3: how and strategizing. I've already done it. Yeah, I've already 174 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 3: done it. 175 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: Now how do you work with I know your son 176 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: is the CEO of your company. A lot of people say, 177 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't want my family part of 178 00:07:57,400 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: the companies because family usually mess things up. You can't 179 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: talk the family. But you took a different route, So 180 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 1: break that down a little bit. 181 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 3: I did not choose to work with my family and 182 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 3: my I. You know, my husband and I. I've always 183 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 3: done everything with my husband. But our kids were not 184 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 3: interested three boys, none of them were interested in beauty 185 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 3: or business really, and it just kind of happened. Our 186 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 3: second son, Cody, who I named Dakota, which I thought 187 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:26,160 Speaker 3: was the coolest name. But he's Cody. He came to 188 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 3: work with us on some growth things. He knows a 189 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 3: lot about digital marketing, he's he's now people meet us 190 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 3: and they're like, oh my god, your son is the 191 00:08:34,640 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 3: you know, is the guy. I'm like, yeah, I'm so 192 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 3: proud of that. But so he started helping and we 193 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 3: had to see a coeo, we had a president. One 194 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 3: by one, Cody started doing their jobs and so it's 195 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 3: like it's it seems like the more we get rid 196 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 3: of people, the better our team is. It's about having 197 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 3: like your community, your posse, and putting your heads together 198 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 3: and figuring out what to do. And he's been incredible. 199 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 3: I mean, he's just been incredible, and it's not the 200 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 3: easiest thing working with the family. 201 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 2: Sure. 202 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 3: On top of that, my head of brand is his wife, 203 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 3: which is amazing, and she's a very beautiful, tough, smart woman. 204 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 3: And they have my two grandkids. So I've learned, you know, 205 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 3: the most important thing in my life is not to 206 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:19,840 Speaker 3: piss them off, because I want to see those grand 207 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,479 Speaker 3: kids every single day. 208 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 5: How has motherhood influenced your philosophy and business our beauty? 209 00:09:25,960 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 3: You know, the greatest thing about being a woman and 210 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 3: being a mother is we know how to multitask. If 211 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 3: I ask my husband or my chiropractor, any guy a question, 212 00:09:36,720 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: they stop what they're doing and answer you women, you 213 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 3: ask a question. You know, we're on the phone, we're 214 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 3: getting her nails done, we're chopping vegetables. So it's you know, 215 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 3: I just think being a mom, I have figured things out, 216 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 3: you know, how to get the kids ready for all 217 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,440 Speaker 3: the things. I mean, you tell me, how's it like, 218 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 3: you know, having four daughters and watching your success and 219 00:09:57,840 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 3: how do you fit it all in? Well, I know 220 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 3: how you fit it in. You the best wife. 221 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 5: Give her all the credit. I'm just here, like she handles, 222 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 5: she's the CEO of the household. Yeah, and she makes 223 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 5: our lives that much easier. 224 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,760 Speaker 3: And she just loves you, man, she does you know. 225 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 5: So if I told my daughter that last name, my 226 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 5: ten year old, I was like, this is the most 227 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 5: important woman in all life. Then my wife goes, I right, 228 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 5: stop gassing it up, and I'm like, who else would 229 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:23,959 Speaker 5: it be? 230 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 2: It's not you? And I really feel that way. 231 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:27,559 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's evident. 232 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 6: You dedicated your book to your husband. 233 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 3: He is the light of my life. He's amazing. And 234 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 3: by the way, we've been married thirty seven years. It's 235 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: not easy, guys, nothing's easy, right, Is there anything easy 236 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 3: in this world? Nothing's easy. I work really hard. 237 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:47,240 Speaker 4: You know, how is the impacted that that journey, you know, 238 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 4: between you know, the woman you are, your professionalism, business owner, 239 00:10:52,559 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 4: all of that house. He impacted that. 240 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 7: You know. 241 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 3: He's look, I can't do anything without him, because I'm 242 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:59,199 Speaker 3: the one that's like, oh my god, how am I 243 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 3: going to do this? I'm only four hours sleep I 244 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 3: just got back for and he's like, come down, come down, breathe. 245 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: That was what he said to me on my way 246 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:10,319 Speaker 3: out of the door this morning, he said, breathe. I don't. 247 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 3: I didn't. That was my first Poe. 248 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 2: Was there anything you discovered about yourself? 249 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 5: You know, maybe something that even surprised you in the 250 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,800 Speaker 5: process of writing this book reflecting on your journey? 251 00:11:19,920 --> 00:11:23,160 Speaker 3: Actually yes, and I suggest everyone writes a memoir at 252 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 3: some time in their life, even if it's not to 253 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 3: be published, because it's very cathartic. You know. It's not 254 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 3: like being in therapy where you discuss things. But when 255 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: people ask you questions and you're talking about your journey, 256 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: you start to tie things together. And I realized how 257 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,680 Speaker 3: watching Papa Sam and his car business, who came from 258 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 3: another country, you know, watching my dad kind of go 259 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 3: through different. He was a lawyer, but then he kept 260 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,679 Speaker 3: hating it and doing other things and then coming back 261 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 3: to it because that's what paid the bills. I realized 262 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 3: some of my entrepreneurial spirit is from watching all my 263 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 3: family members. 264 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 7: The girls who are like starting today where they're not 265 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 7: doing like magazines because everything's digital and they're trying to 266 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 7: grow their brains like physical products. What do you advise 267 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 7: them to do because everybody's online with a product now right. 268 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:10,719 Speaker 3: Well, you just you know, I have a lot of 269 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 3: you know, female founder friends and male founder friends, and 270 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,040 Speaker 3: I help them all and I tell them the same 271 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 3: thing my husband tells me is breathe first of all, 272 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:22,480 Speaker 3: and just keep doing it. You just gotta like how 273 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 3: do you start? You just start, and you just keep 274 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 3: doing it. Put a post up if it didn't work, 275 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 3: figure out what are you going to do next? And 276 00:12:29,880 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 3: you know, and meet people, you know, get out there 277 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 3: and meet people. 278 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: I was going to ask, you know, why is it 279 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: so important to you to document a lot of this, 280 00:12:39,120 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: this is your tenth book, like to share a lot 281 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: of knowledge. Why is that important to you? 282 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,599 Speaker 3: Well? I think somehow, you know, all I wanted to 283 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 3: do when I was a kid, was be a teacher 284 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 3: and a mother, So I'm kind of both, right. I mean, 285 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 3: I'm a mother, I'm definitely a teacher. I like I 286 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 3: like to learn. I'm like I'm like notorious for like 287 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 3: wanting to try new things and learn new things. I 288 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 3: like to around myself with really smart people to teach 289 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 3: me things. But I also like to surround myself with 290 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 3: young people that I would like to teach certain things. 291 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 3: You know, how you can have And I'm hoping this 292 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 3: book is going to serve as you know, many different 293 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 3: things for people, but for young for a young person 294 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 3: to read and say, wow, you can do these things, 295 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 3: and you know you don't have to do everything so well. 296 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 3: I don't have to be perfect. 297 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,080 Speaker 1: I want to ask you know, we see it here 298 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: a lot of people all the time, women and men 299 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: that's trying to create their own company, right, their own 300 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: lipstick line, their own hair line, and it's very difficult. Right, 301 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: what would you tell that young entrepreneur that's trying to 302 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: break through the doors and they're having a problems. Target 303 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: won't take their calls, Bloomingdale's won't take their calls, Macy's 304 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: tells them no, or they don't have enough stop what 305 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: do you tell that young entrepreneur. 306 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I tell everyone, try to work 307 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: for someone first. Try to spend a year, and you know, 308 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,320 Speaker 3: just think of it as being in school. Go work 309 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,160 Speaker 3: for a company that you admire. I don't care if 310 00:13:56,200 --> 00:13:59,480 Speaker 3: you have to be the receptionist or social media manager. 311 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 3: Just see how things are. And when you're ready to 312 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:08,400 Speaker 3: launch your own business, don't don't overinvest, because then you're 313 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 3: going to be stuck. People think it takes a lot 314 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:13,440 Speaker 3: of money, And do it really slow and make sure 315 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 3: what you're doing is different than what's on the market. 316 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 3: And if you don't know if it's gonna work, just 317 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 3: make a couple things figure out. You know. People come 318 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:24,200 Speaker 3: to me with these big decks and they're the most 319 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 3: beautiful decks and like, oh, this sounds amazing. Can I 320 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 3: try the product? Well I don't have the product. Well, 321 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 3: how do you know it's going to work? I mean, 322 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 3: you know, I had this one girl with a Harvard 323 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,800 Speaker 3: degree come to me with this beautiful deck. I said, right, 324 00:14:36,880 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 3: let me try it. She was a woman of color. 325 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 3: She wanted to make this special sun screen that looked 326 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 3: she didn't even know where the lab was. I'm like, 327 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 3: how could you do all this until you actually know 328 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 3: the product works, and you know when you do have 329 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 3: one that you think is great, put it in little 330 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 3: containers and start giving it to all your friends. If 331 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 3: they like it, then give it to other people. Like, 332 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 3: just start slow. You don't need like people think you 333 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 3: need it all figured out. 334 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:04,240 Speaker 5: I want to say, this is a woman who's been 335 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 5: two billion dollar brands telling y'all it is okay to 336 00:15:06,400 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 5: have a job. 337 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 1: Okay, said worked for years. 338 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 2: So I'm saying, but most people will be like, we haven't. 339 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: We know a lot of entrepreneurs that no, I no, 340 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 2: I don't want to have a job. You shouldn't have 341 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 2: a boss. 342 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. First of all, you got to learn things like 343 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 3: arriving on time, saying hello, or if you're late, calling 344 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 3: and saying I'm so sorry I'm late. How do you 345 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 3: learn those things? And you also have to figure out 346 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 3: how you can work with other people, and so you 347 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 3: know it's okay to work with people that you don't 348 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 3: like because you have to learn how to do it. 349 00:15:35,960 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 3: Like all these things in life, we're learning things. 350 00:15:38,600 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 1: I was gonna ask with makeup, it seems like it's 351 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,280 Speaker 1: a it's a difficult industry, right, And the reason I 352 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 1: say that is like the red lipstick, right, Charlemagne puts 353 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: it on his lips and he might have a reaction 354 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: to it. That's a fantasy or you know something like that. 355 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: You never know what product works with somebody's skin. How 356 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:58,120 Speaker 1: do you go around that to make sure something can 357 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: work for I guess everybody? Or do you say I'm 358 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 1: looking for a particular market and I'm going to focus 359 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: for that. 360 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 3: You know, either one of those work, it doesn't really matter. 361 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 3: I mean, Jones Road is a clean makeup brand, so 362 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: I know people are not going to have problems with it. 363 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 3: You know. I also know the only people that aren't 364 00:16:15,080 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 3: going to like Jones Road are people that like artificial makeup. 365 00:16:19,480 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 3: If you like artificial makeup and want to look like that, 366 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 3: there's other brands for you. So I don't have to 367 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 3: be everything for everybody, but you know what I want. 368 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 3: It's you know why Jones Road. I think one of 369 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 3: the reasons why it's successful is because it's what I 370 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 3: believe in, which is makeup that when you put it on, 371 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 3: you just look better and you don't know why, because 372 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 3: it's almost like magic. You're like, oh my god, what happened? 373 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:48,600 Speaker 3: Because it looks like you. You look less tired, your 374 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: skin looks more even, it looks fresh. But that's my aesthetic. 375 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 3: It's not every makeup founder's aesthetic. And my biggest warning 376 00:16:58,440 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 3: to people that want to start their own brand is 377 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:02,760 Speaker 3: don't just go out there and do what other people 378 00:17:02,800 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 3: are doing. It's you got to have a point of 379 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 3: difference or you're just gonna sit there and you're gonna 380 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 3: invest too much money. You're gonna borrow from everyone you know, 381 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 3: and then you're gonna be like, well, this don't work. 382 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 7: I saw your your master class and most people hear. 383 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 7: And you want to be a teacher, makes a lot 384 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 7: of sense most people who teach. While teaching, you're still 385 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 7: learning a lot from other people. What are you still 386 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 7: learning today with all the this success? 387 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I'm learning so much. First of all, 388 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 3: I'm you know, I'm learning a lot. I'm learning. I'm 389 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: learning how to hip hop. That's, you know, the most 390 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 3: important thing which I need some help with. I love. 391 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:38,639 Speaker 3: There's nothing I like better in life than dancing. And 392 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,080 Speaker 3: I'm have you ever seen a Jewish girl dance? 393 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 7: It's not but I do it anyway about the dance, huh, 394 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 7: I thought you were getting up the dance. 395 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,120 Speaker 3: No, but that's how I wake up every day. As 396 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,240 Speaker 3: I put I followed this guy in the UK who's 397 00:17:52,280 --> 00:17:54,720 Speaker 3: a hip hop dancer and I and it just gets 398 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 3: my brain going in the morning. But that, I know, 399 00:17:57,520 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 3: that wasn't the question. What was the question? Please? 400 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,479 Speaker 6: What are you still learning in today? Like you with 401 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 6: all your success? 402 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 7: You know? 403 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean just trying new things and just being 404 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:10,960 Speaker 3: curious and you never you never know who you're gonna 405 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 3: meet and what interesting thing is going to happen because 406 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 3: of it. 407 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 5: You don't say learning how to hip hop, I'm learning. 408 00:18:19,440 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 2: Learning how to dance. 409 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. It's like the stuff I say to my husband 410 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 3: about golf. I'm you know something, Oh you're playing whatever 411 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,120 Speaker 3: I say, it's never the right thing about golf. 412 00:18:27,520 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 2: Now. 413 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: I wanted to go back to your artificial What is 414 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,160 Speaker 1: the difference and does that affect skin? 415 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 2: Right? 416 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: Because my daughters danced, Yeah, and they have to wear makeup, 417 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:40,439 Speaker 1: oh yes, you know, because it's hair back. And I 418 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: always wonder will that makeup that they put on affect 419 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 1: them later on? 420 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,439 Speaker 3: As long as they wash their face before they go 421 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 3: to bed. Most of the time, if they miss it 422 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 3: a day or two they're gonna be fine. But no, 423 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 3: as long as you take care of your skin, then 424 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 3: you're gonna be fine. And it's not even the makeup 425 00:18:56,280 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 3: on your skin that makes problems. 426 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,200 Speaker 1: It's like you see people with the creatives sometimes. I 427 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 1: always wonder if that's like an effect of makeup that too. 428 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I think look at your head. 429 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 2: No, I'm saying that. 430 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,720 Speaker 7: If your hair is dirty and touches your face, yeah, you've. 431 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 3: Got to You've got to clean yourself. But you also 432 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 3: have to really realize so much of skin. You know, 433 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 3: skin's an organ. It's the food you put in your body. 434 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:22,440 Speaker 3: And if you're eating junk food all day long, every day, 435 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 3: you're gonna look like junk. 436 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:24,679 Speaker 2: Damn. 437 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 3: What about fried chicken, Bobby? You know what just do? 438 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:29,439 Speaker 3: First of all, I also went back to school got 439 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 3: my degree as a health coach. So fried chicken, French fries, 440 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 3: those things that taste good, just do less of it. 441 00:19:36,000 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 3: Just don't have it as your everyday diet unless you 442 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 3: don't care about how you feel. I mean, maybe you 443 00:19:42,760 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 3: feel good. I don't know. I don't feel good when 444 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 3: I eat junky food. 445 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,120 Speaker 7: You know, that's interesting to hear you talk about going 446 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 7: back to school because a lot of a lot of entrepreneurs, 447 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 7: especially in the beauty space too, will say they don't 448 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 7: do school because it doesn't like nothing creative comes out 449 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 7: of being in college, of being in a classroom. 450 00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:58,680 Speaker 6: A lot of people feel like that as well. 451 00:19:58,840 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: Well. 452 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 3: I went to my third college, which was Emerson College 453 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 3: in Boston. I went because I wanted to study theatrical makeup. 454 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 3: They let me. They didn't have a course. They let 455 00:20:08,960 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 3: me make up my own course. Well, I didn't know 456 00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 3: the word entrepreneur back then. I still don't know how 457 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 3: to spell it, by the way, but they let me 458 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 3: make it up. So I learned how to kind of 459 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 3: craft my own road by going to school. So I 460 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 3: have a degree in theatrical makeup. 461 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: Wow. 462 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 5: The thing I love about still Bobby the most is 463 00:20:27,480 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 5: like it just shows how rooted and family you are. 464 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 5: And when you think about the two major brands that 465 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 5: you've built and you raised a family, what was some 466 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,000 Speaker 5: of the hardest trade offs you had to make? 467 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 3: It was tough. I mean, you know, I when you 468 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,639 Speaker 3: commit to a certain trip, if something comes up, I 469 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 3: couldn't cancel it, you know. I once was supposed to 470 00:20:47,240 --> 00:20:50,640 Speaker 3: do like this big fashion show, and I said yes 471 00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,080 Speaker 3: to it. It was confirmed, and then my kids and 472 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 3: my husband said they're gone skiing. Whatever break it was, 473 00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,160 Speaker 3: I canceled the fashion show and guess what, they never 474 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 3: hired me again. Opes. Oh well, so every year I 475 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 3: made sure I went to the principal the first day's 476 00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:10,239 Speaker 3: school with lip glosses, say hi, you know, here's some 477 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 3: a gift for you. Could you please tell me what 478 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 3: are the dates? 479 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 2: Like? 480 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 3: When is the school sing along? When's you know, the 481 00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,679 Speaker 3: teachers conferences? Because I wanted to be there and I 482 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 3: put them in my calendar, so I blocked those out 483 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 3: and I never missed one. I think I missed one 484 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 3: out of all the years of the three kids one 485 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:33,200 Speaker 3: of their singalongs. And my kids are wonderful, but they 486 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 3: got no talent. But I was at every sing along. 487 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 3: None of them could sing, none of them could dance, 488 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,160 Speaker 3: but I was. 489 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,159 Speaker 2: There looking back, Would you change how you balanced those roles? 490 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 7: No? 491 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,439 Speaker 3: I got really lucky. I really did put my family first. 492 00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 3: And you know, my kids might say I wasn't there 493 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 3: all the time, but for a working mom, I was there. 494 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,520 Speaker 3: I was the class mom almost every year for at 495 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:57,600 Speaker 3: least one of them. You know, and it was so 496 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,359 Speaker 3: stressful for me because I don't know how to type. 497 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,479 Speaker 3: And how could you be a class mom and not 498 00:22:01,800 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 3: know how to type. I don't know how to type. 499 00:22:03,960 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 5: What would you say to women who feel like they 500 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 5: can't have it all, like they can't balance it all? 501 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 3: You do what you can. I mean, I got better 502 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,359 Speaker 3: as I got older, Like I was not this Bobby 503 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 3: Brown when I was a thirty year old, you know, 504 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 3: worker or mom. I got better and I just learned. 505 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 3: I like hacked my life. I just, you know, I 506 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: hacked my life things that were stressful, like you know, 507 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 3: realizing your kid is a birthday party on a Saturday 508 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 3: and you didn't buy a gift and you run out 509 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 3: you buy a gift and then you come home and 510 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:34,399 Speaker 3: you got to wrap it and you gotta get the 511 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 3: kid ready. I'm like, this is stupid. I went to 512 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 3: the local bookstore and I bought gift certificates for ten 513 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,800 Speaker 3: and twenty dollars, and every time they had a birthday party, 514 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,400 Speaker 3: I just threw a couple in an envelope like I'm done. 515 00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: Well, I've been doing that one, I know, but I 516 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 1: didn't think of that. That's an easy one. Yeah, A 517 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 1: bunch of GI certificates. Go ahead, every one. 518 00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 2: We yeah, six six kads? 519 00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: Yeah it Me and my wife got six wow, married 520 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,360 Speaker 1: twenty four years, Yeah, six kids. Logan's number two. Madison 521 00:22:59,440 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: is old. 522 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 3: Didn't know you guys were married. 523 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 4: No, she has a Mexican I don't have a Mexican. 524 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,879 Speaker 4: Mexican crazy. We have two kids, and I'm going to 525 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 4: get my wife of six. 526 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 3: And you have four. 527 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 4: And I'm showing ask you that question because that's what 528 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,199 Speaker 4: I'm trying to do now, trying to balance, you know, 529 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 4: the work, the mom life, everything I have going on. 530 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 3: Don't worry when your kids are out of the house. 531 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 3: She'll have it together, okay, And you know what, so 532 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,000 Speaker 3: what you don't have it together? I remember, you know, 533 00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 3: and I had to be a corporate person and dress 534 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:41,679 Speaker 3: up and show up like, you know, like I was 535 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,880 Speaker 3: Melanie Griffith and working girl. You know, I didn't know anything. 536 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 3: And I'll never forget. Tina Brown, who was this big 537 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 3: editor in chief, was on stage once and someone asked 538 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,360 Speaker 3: her how she did it. She goes, oh my god, 539 00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 3: it was a ship show. It was always a mess. 540 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 3: I always forgot things, and that just gave me permission 541 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,719 Speaker 3: to be like, yeah, to be real, Like that's my advice. 542 00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 3: Be real, Yes, it's sometimes it's a shit show. And 543 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,840 Speaker 3: tell your boss if you're gonna be late, tell them 544 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 3: if there's a reason you're not your best self, maybe 545 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 3: the kid didn't sleep all night, whatever it is. Yeah, 546 00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:17,639 Speaker 3: you know, yeah, be real and don't worry about it. 547 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 5: How important is people knowing Bobby Brown the person to 548 00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 5: Bobby Brown the brand. 549 00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,720 Speaker 3: Well, I think people get confused. They think I am 550 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 3: still with the brand and I am not. The book 551 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,760 Speaker 3: tells the whole story. And yeah, it was hard. You know, 552 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 3: I don't own my name, so I can't just you know, 553 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 3: slap my name on things or use it the way 554 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 3: I want. But it's okay. You know, I've been able 555 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,920 Speaker 3: to my husband and I have probably sent twenty twenty 556 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,240 Speaker 3: five kids to college, so it's it's okay. I'm glad, 557 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 3: you know, I'm at peace with it. And Jones Road, 558 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 3: you know, just came. I found it on Ways when 559 00:24:53,440 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 3: I was given my husband direction, and I'm like, oh, 560 00:24:55,600 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 3: that sounds like a cool name. 561 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,160 Speaker 2: But I feel like Bobby bron the person is the brand. 562 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 3: There, Bobby Brown the person is the Jones Road brand. Yeah, 563 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 3: it's not. I know it's complicated, right, it's complicated. But 564 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:11,639 Speaker 3: you know, there's Calvin Klein, there's HARMANI, there's all you know, 565 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 3: Donna Karen. So it's you know, it is the way 566 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 3: of the world. But you know, yeah, I Bobby Brown. 567 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,760 Speaker 3: I mean, who knew people were brands, but we are apparently. 568 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 5: I was alway Jones Road. 569 00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 4: The significance behind that is just you just saw it 570 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:30,120 Speaker 4: on Wait. 571 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, my husband said, if I didn't have a name 572 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,600 Speaker 3: by Monday. It was a Friday. We were driving to 573 00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 3: the Hampton's and my husband always has me look at 574 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 3: ways and Google Maps because god forbid, we're five minutes late, 575 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,920 Speaker 3: even though we have nowhere to go. So my head 576 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 3: was down and I saw Jones Road and I said, 577 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 3: Jones Road. Makeup Instantly, I thought it sounded like a 578 00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:52,480 Speaker 3: British bespoke, you know brand, And I thought, oh, that's 579 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,679 Speaker 3: a cool name. And I can't use Brown, I might 580 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 3: as well use Jones. So he said I like it, 581 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 3: and it was available, and that's how it became Jones Road. 582 00:26:01,040 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 7: Why don't you believe in contoorn. 583 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 3: Because what's wrong with your face? Then you need to contour. 584 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 7: I think when you contour, it just gives you like this, 585 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 7: like slim like pool together. Like I see the difference 586 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 7: in photos when I contour when I don't. My face 587 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:19,199 Speaker 7: is fire either way, but I do see. But I 588 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:19,959 Speaker 7: do see the difference. 589 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,960 Speaker 3: A lot of people that contour. First of all, it 590 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 3: makes them think there's something wrong with their face. Contour 591 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 3: is when you put something dark to make it recede. 592 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 3: Like I like to contour my stomach. I'm sorry, put 593 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,480 Speaker 3: something nice and tight on. I will contour that all day. 594 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:38,880 Speaker 3: But my face, well first, so I don't. I don't 595 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 3: have a lot of fat in my face, so I 596 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,800 Speaker 3: like to use blush to make my face look a 597 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,719 Speaker 3: little bit fuller. And I don't know. I think people 598 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 3: are beautiful as they are. They don't need to change 599 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 3: the shape of their nose. 600 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,680 Speaker 1: Oh that's the thing where I see online where they 601 00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 1: put the dog online. 602 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 5: And make the. 603 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,199 Speaker 6: Cheeks too. 604 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 5: And you know you didn't have to get a those job. 605 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: I did not get a noose jobs. If he did 606 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: tell her what happened to no, I did not. I 607 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: was ignoring a lot. So when I went to the doctor, 608 00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,680 Speaker 1: they removed the polyps. That was it. There was no 609 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 1: nose job. It's the same nose, Flimmers. 610 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 2: I'm not judging fixed. 611 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:16,840 Speaker 3: You have a beautiful nose. 612 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: He does eyebrows though, you see that way You never 613 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 1: did you eyebrows? 614 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:22,760 Speaker 3: Wow? 615 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 2: In high school. 616 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,639 Speaker 3: With me being an adult and you know, guys are 617 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 3: allowed to groom. Guys are allowed to groom. It's not 618 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 3: a bad thing. 619 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, what was the most difficult memory our chapter for 620 00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 5: you to revisit while he was writing? 621 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 3: You know, it's really funny because I had a you know, 622 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 3: it's an audible book too right now, So I had 623 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,440 Speaker 3: to I had to read it and I cried once. 624 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 3: And it was talking about my mother in law that 625 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 3: I just adored her, and I just you know, the 626 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,919 Speaker 3: hard part, the hard weird thing is all the people 627 00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 3: that were my family are not alive anymore, right, like 628 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:58,879 Speaker 3: my original Chicago family. I mean, my dad is ninety 629 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 3: right now and he's still there, but he's only one. 630 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 3: You know. I lost a brother, I lost a mom, 631 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 3: I lost my grandparents, you know. And it's like and 632 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:09,560 Speaker 3: my ninety four year old aunt Dallas is still there, 633 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,879 Speaker 3: sharp as attack. She has a boyfriend who's ninety five. Wow, 634 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 3: and she's interviewing me on stage in Chicago when I 635 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:21,080 Speaker 3: come there at her retirement community. Wow, that's what I'm 636 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,119 Speaker 3: excited about this book tour. When are you going to 637 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:26,240 Speaker 3: Chicago October tenth or something? 638 00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 5: How did that make you look at your own mortality? 639 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 3: You know? I look, it's weird because I know, you know, 640 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 3: my parents were twenty and twenty one when I was born, 641 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 3: So I'm like, I'm just twenty years to go, right, 642 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 3: I mean, it's like, you know, I hope to live 643 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:48,160 Speaker 3: over ninety. But it's like shit, you know sixty eight guys, 644 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 3: like it's totally young. Keep learning hip path. 645 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, it takes me years off. 646 00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I'm gonna text Flo Rider to come 647 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 3: DJ my birthday and Floriade's if they today. Actually, I 648 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 3: can't believe it. I hoped. My One of my best 649 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:05,800 Speaker 3: memories of my life is hop it on stage with 650 00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,920 Speaker 3: Flow Rider made he put his chains on me and 651 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 3: I Also I also hopped on stage with Salt and Pepper. 652 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you did the Apple bottom Jean, you 653 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: did all that. You did push it. 654 00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 3: No, we didn't do push it. We did get low. 655 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 3: I got low with Flow. Well, you know, my dad's 656 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,200 Speaker 3: name is James Brown. So when you meet my dad, 657 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,480 Speaker 3: you'd be like, James Brown is like, yeah, I feel good. 658 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 3: How are you saying that for ninety years? 659 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: James to great. 660 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 7: Part one of your book is now where You're from? 661 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,479 Speaker 7: Talking about your family, and then you go into your 662 00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 7: nana and your papa. Right, Why why is knowing where 663 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 7: you're from? Or how has that been so important in 664 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:50,719 Speaker 7: every brain you've created? 665 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 3: Because it's who I am? Right, it's you know, being 666 00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 3: from Chicago has made me like a much I think, 667 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 3: a much more like stable person with my feet in 668 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,520 Speaker 3: the ground, you know. I know Charlemagne talks about where 669 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 3: he comes from. I just think it's important. And by 670 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:12,239 Speaker 3: the way, some people say my childhood was complicated, and 671 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 3: I don't look at it that way. I mean things happened, 672 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,080 Speaker 3: and I moved around it, and I you know, I 673 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 3: take the good stuff and I don't blame anyone for anything, right. 674 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 3: I mean my mother there's a story in the book 675 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,240 Speaker 3: where she told me I was really pretty and I said, 676 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 3: thank you. She said, but you'd be gorgeous if you 677 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,960 Speaker 3: had your nose fixed, and I didn't clearly, and I 678 00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 3: just it didn't define me, but it did push me 679 00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 3: to help people appreciate who they are. 680 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,680 Speaker 7: Oh so that that that's what steers you away from 681 00:30:43,720 --> 00:30:44,200 Speaker 7: the contour. 682 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 3: I think yeah, I think so. And you know, every 683 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 3: time I'd go to Asia and I would tell the 684 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:50,760 Speaker 3: women they're beautiful, they would just say, oh no, my 685 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 3: eyes are this and my feet and I'm like no. 686 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 3: And you know, in women of color, it's like, guys, 687 00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 3: you have this beauty that we don't have, like, appreciate it, 688 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 3: your skin color, your features, everything. And you know, to 689 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 3: my fellow friends with lips small, you know that match 690 00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 3: their faces, leave those things alone. 691 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,920 Speaker 1: Right, Like people look so stupid with them their lips. 692 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 3: Who if you get it's just it doesn't work even 693 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,480 Speaker 3: when you just I'm just gonna do a teeny bit. No, 694 00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:18,320 Speaker 3: you look like a duck. 695 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 2: How do you define authenticity? 696 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 3: But just be yourself, be real, Just be yourself, be real. 697 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,880 Speaker 3: And all of a sudden, now it's a trend. Being 698 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 3: authentic as a trend. 699 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:34,720 Speaker 5: Okay, great, has your definition of authenticity I've a shifted 700 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:35,200 Speaker 5: over time? 701 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,560 Speaker 3: No, I think I think I've gotten much more comfortable 702 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 3: with who I am. And that's that's a good part 703 00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 3: about getting older. You're like, you realize I tried on 704 00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 3: everyone else and it didn't work right. 705 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,880 Speaker 7: I was gonna ask about your light weight makeup approach, 706 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 7: like that's like your your calling card. How do you 707 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 7: deal with people who are on the other side that 708 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 7: feel like lightweight makeup isn't as substantial or doesn't show 709 00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 7: up the best. 710 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 6: I like when people are complaining that things are so. 711 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:06,720 Speaker 3: Late, it's fine, stop complaining, go use something else. It's fine. Yeah. 712 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,720 Speaker 3: I mean there's you know, like not everything works for everybody, 713 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 3: and that's okay. 714 00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 6: You have such a simple approach to everything. 715 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: Everything is. 716 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, it seems so like to get to where you 717 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,360 Speaker 7: are and what you do, especially with product you it 718 00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 7: feels so heavy when you're trying to do it, but 719 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 7: you were sitting here just like no, well first. 720 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,959 Speaker 3: Of all, and also don't forget about your people around you. 721 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 3: Ask their opinion. Do you like this? Like that's how 722 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 3: I started. I had these little you know, I made 723 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,840 Speaker 3: Miracle Balm. I didn't know it was going to be 724 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 3: this big company. It was during the pandemic. I put 725 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 3: it in little things and I sent it to all 726 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:42,480 Speaker 3: my friends and they would call me up and say, 727 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 3: what is this? I need more? And it was during 728 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:48,120 Speaker 3: the pandemic. They would call and say, all right, I 729 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 3: need more. I'm coming to your house. But they would 730 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 3: stand outside and I'd have to throw it from from 731 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 3: my you know, porch to them, and I knew I 732 00:32:56,240 --> 00:32:59,560 Speaker 3: had something. But that's how I started my market research. 733 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 3: I didn't hire a market research company. I just asked people. 734 00:33:03,400 --> 00:33:05,600 Speaker 3: And when I made my first lipstix years ago, I 735 00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:08,360 Speaker 3: would go to the park and the nannies were from 736 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:10,840 Speaker 3: all over the world. They had all different coloring and 737 00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 3: all different color lips. They would try things and I 738 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 3: would see how it looked on them. That was another 739 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 3: focus group. Mmmm, it's just common sense. 740 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 5: Amazing. 741 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,960 Speaker 2: What do you hope readers take away from still Bobby? 742 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:26,840 Speaker 3: You know, I hope it gives them encouragement to, you know, 743 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:31,280 Speaker 3: to live their life their way and you know, and 744 00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 3: and it's not as difficult as you make it. Yeah, 745 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 3: and just be be naive, be positive, and you know, 746 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,000 Speaker 3: just work hard and keep at it and just be nice. 747 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,440 Speaker 2: And I noticed just the first week of a book. 748 00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:47,480 Speaker 5: But now that you shared this memoir, what's next, Like, 749 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 5: what are you excited to accomplish or create moving forward? 750 00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:53,080 Speaker 2: Not even just in the beauty world, just life. 751 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 3: You know, I try, I try things, like I did 752 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 3: a you know, a series on YouTube that I can't 753 00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 3: seem to get enough eyeballs on called I Am Me, 754 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:03,520 Speaker 3: which I interview all these really cool women. You know, 755 00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 3: I don't know how to get more eyeballs on it, 756 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,760 Speaker 3: but that's fun. You know. It was sponsored by JP Morgan, 757 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 3: which is cool, and I'm like, all right, I'll just 758 00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 3: keep trying stuff. 759 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 2: You know. 760 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,840 Speaker 3: I had a podcast with iHeart. It was cool. It 761 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,800 Speaker 3: was fun, don't you know. I'm like, I don't know, 762 00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 3: maybe I'll do something else. I don't know, I don't know. 763 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 5: You get eyeballs on it by going on Mail show. 764 00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 5: You go on Mail Robins Show and you tell everybody. 765 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 2: You had. 766 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,319 Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, all right, well that's on my list. I 767 00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 3: have her and I have one other one and then 768 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 3: I'm good, okay, yeah, and I'm good. I wanted this 769 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:35,160 Speaker 3: was on my list. So thank you for this. And 770 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 3: by the way, when I became Time one hundred this 771 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:42,719 Speaker 3: year and ready to thank you, and they said, we're 772 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 3: going to reach out to someone you know, who would 773 00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 3: you like to write this thing? And they said we 774 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 3: need five people, and I ranked them and number one said, yes, 775 00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 3: it was Charlott Magne. But so I so there I 776 00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 3: was walk in the red carpet. You know, Bobby look here, Bobby, 777 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 3: look here. People didn't say how do you feel about this? 778 00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,640 Speaker 3: You know what they said to me? How do you know, Charlemagne? 779 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 1: How did you get. 780 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,720 Speaker 3: Them to do that? Really? 781 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 2: No, I love Bobby and I love her husband, Steven. 782 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:10,800 Speaker 5: And the thing I like that you bring people together, 783 00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 5: like you know that that dinner you had with all 784 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 5: these different people walk their life to math class and 785 00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 5: just making. 786 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 3: Everybody like Salmon Rushty was at that dinner. I'm like, 787 00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,799 Speaker 3: I'm sitting there with like Charlemagne and Salmon Rushty, you know, 788 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,920 Speaker 3: and Don Garber, the Major League Soccer czar. 789 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:29,160 Speaker 5: Because it's amazing conversation. Everybody, you know, put their phones 790 00:35:29,200 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 5: down and just talk. And I just think that does 791 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 5: so much. And bringing people together, man, And I think 792 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,879 Speaker 5: we need those kind of safe spaces in this world 793 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 5: that we're in right now. 794 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,120 Speaker 6: That's what You're sit down conversations are like too. All 795 00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 6: those people. I'm like, I've never would have even known 796 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:41,839 Speaker 6: who these people were. 797 00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 3: People are interesting, by the way. I love people's stories. 798 00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 3: And Jones Road just launched something called Beauty Stories because 799 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 3: I want to share people's beauty stories. You know, think 800 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,160 Speaker 3: about your grandma, your mom, your aunt. Where did you 801 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:56,759 Speaker 3: learn and what things kind of stay with you? 802 00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 6: I love that. 803 00:35:58,520 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 804 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 5: Still, Bobby, A masterclass and leading and authentic life is 805 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,719 Speaker 5: available everywhere you buy books right now. 806 00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: That's right, so make sure you pick it up. And 807 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: we appreciate you for joining us absolutely and thank you 808 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:09,120 Speaker 1: so much. 809 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:10,799 Speaker 3: Oh my pleasure, thank you for having me. 810 00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:14,839 Speaker 1: Bobby Brown. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, hold every 811 00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:15,399 Speaker 1: day up. 812 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,640 Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club. You're finish for y'all done,