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Speaker 1: It's the Fresh Show. This is what's trending.

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Speaker 2: Busy weekend, lots of news and of course you've heard

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Speaker 2: about this plan now. But former President Donald Trump was

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Speaker 2: injured Saturday during a rally in Pennsylvania and what the

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Speaker 2: FBI says was an assassination attempt and a potential act

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Speaker 2: of domestic terrorism. A gunman and at least one audience

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Speaker 2: member are dead, and two other attendees were critically injured.

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Speaker 2: Trump said on social media that he was hit by

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Speaker 2: a bullet in the upper part of his right ear.

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Speaker 2: The Secret Service of the former President in safe after

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Speaker 2: he was rushed off stage. President Joe Biden has ordered

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Speaker 2: an independent review of security measures at the campaign rally

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Speaker 2: where this attempt took place. In an address to the

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Speaker 2: nation on Sunday, Biden once again condemned the violence and

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Speaker 2: urged Americans to let the FBI investigation unfold. There was

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Speaker 2: an AT and T data breach, and I guess a

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Speaker 2: lot of customers are now exposed to different kinds of scams.

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Speaker 2: So what are you looking for? We need to be

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Speaker 2: aware of your an AT and T customer. The hackers,

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Speaker 2: I guess they have a lot of call and text

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Speaker 2: logs then make it easier to scam you using context

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Speaker 2: then from your phone. So are you guys getting all

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Speaker 2: the like random texts that say like, hey, you're in

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Speaker 2: my phone and I don't know who you are, Like

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Speaker 2: can you tell me who you?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 2: I'm getting a lady now, I'm getting all these random

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Speaker 2: texts from numbers I don't know, And I think all

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Speaker 2: it is is an effort to see if the number

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Speaker 2: is real, like to see if you'll respond. I think

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Speaker 2: that's part of the I mean, we did something about

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Speaker 2: this on the air, and people were calling in telling us,

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Speaker 2: But it has something to do with a scam to

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Speaker 2: see if there's someone on the other end. But like

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Speaker 2: they'll bait you somehow. They'll be like, oh hi, or

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Speaker 2: hey is this so and so, Or they'll like say

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Speaker 2: something like hey, I don't know, I can't remember the

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Speaker 2: last one I got, But I seem to get them

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Speaker 2: like maybe once or twice a week, and it's the

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Speaker 2: number I don't know, and it looks like it's a

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Speaker 2: personal text. But then I'm like, I don't know anybody,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I don't know Birmingham wherever, Alabama or

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Speaker 2: something like some random area code.

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Speaker 4: You get those two I get those two, it'll be

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Speaker 4: like hey, are you available today or like something like that,

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Speaker 4: and I'll be like, wait for what like but then

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Speaker 4: I don't respond to someone, They're gonna hack me.

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you don't respond? I? No, I don't respond.

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Speaker 2: Do you sometimes say? Well what? Maybe?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 4: But I did something really stupid yesterday. Mike was like,

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Speaker 4: you're an idiot. So I got a letter from Charles Schwab.

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Speaker 4: I didn't even say it, and they were like, you

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Speaker 4: have unclaimed money. And I was like, oh okay, So

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Speaker 4: like I call and I talked to the guy and

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Speaker 4: they're like, give me all your informations like whatever. But

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Speaker 4: then I like google the number and it was an

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Speaker 4: actual number and they're like, you have an account open.

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Speaker 4: They logged me into my account or whatever. But then

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Speaker 4: I got off the phone and Mike's like, you're dumb,

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Speaker 4: Like someone could have like that could have been like

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Speaker 2: Well, whose money was it?

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Speaker 6: It's mine? I have like an account open, I guess

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Speaker 6: from whom.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what. Yeah, so you just someone opened

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Speaker 2: an account put money in yours.

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Speaker 6: I guess, yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 4: But afterwards he was started questioning me and I was like,

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Speaker 6: I'm smart sometimes Yeah, obviously not. Have you checked your

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Speaker 2: Like, well, I'm scared, Jason. So some random person calls

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Speaker 2: you and says there's money in an account. You go okay,

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Speaker 2: and you give them all the info, but you know, well,

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Speaker 2: what happened to the money?

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Speaker 6: It's still in my my Schwab account.

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Speaker 1: You didn't know you have?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think investments or something.

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Speaker 6: I don't know who made the investment crypto? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Oh you have crypto?

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Speaker 7: No, I don't d dollars?

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Speaker 6: How do you get your money?

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Speaker 2: Can?

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Speaker 6: They said? I can ask for a check, get your check?

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Speaker 6: Should I get a check?

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Speaker 2: He's one of those do you have to write them

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Speaker 2: a check first? And then the one of those things.

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Speaker 6: Like what's your routing number?

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Speaker 6: I didn't. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: So someone calls your text you and asks you to

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Speaker 2: do something, you have to verify and make sure it's

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Speaker 2: actually them, I guess. Do not give out any financial

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Speaker 2: or personal information unless you can verify who you're communicating with.

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Speaker 2: Be on guard about deep figs, and know that hackers

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Speaker 2: probably know your location too. Oh that's good anyway, sorry

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Speaker 2: if you're a victim of that. Did you guys see this?

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Speaker 2: Over the weekend, fans without tickets for Sunday's Copa America

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Speaker 2: Final climb fences had ram pass security for more than

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Speaker 2: an hour before the Argentina Columbia match at hard Rock

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Speaker 2: Stadium in Florida. This forced an hour long delay to

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Speaker 2: get all the people out that weren't even supposed to

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Speaker 2: be there. People were climbing through ventilation system vents trying

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Speaker 2: last time I saw this was Kaylin trying to get

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Speaker 2: into the Taylor Swift Show and it was through a

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Speaker 2: ventilation You should have seen it. I mean, how long

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Speaker 2: were you crawling through those things? Did you even know

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Speaker 2: the way to go?

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Speaker 6: However long it takes.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that was very lucky of you that you

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Speaker 2: They could go on forever.

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Speaker 6: Well, the Swifties caught me next, like.

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Speaker 2: Fifteen people arrested. Other fans were trying to enter inappropriately.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what that means inappropriately and then escorted out.

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Speaker 2: Fans were also caught on video sneaking through the stadium's

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Speaker 2: it went on. I think Argentina one Southwest Airlines is

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Speaker 2: adding ten flights to its schedule in October to accommodate swifties.

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Speaker 2: Taylor Swift fans going to the different shows. Southwest on

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Speaker 2: ten percent bump in bookings in the US markets where

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Speaker 2: Swift played last year expects the same demand when the

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Speaker 2: Eras Tour returns to the US in the fall. So

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Speaker 2: you've got Miami New Orleans, added flights, Nashville and Miami

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Speaker 2: to make sure everybody can get there. So here we

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Speaker 2: go again, Taylor Swift back on US soil, which means

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna start getting a bunch of those same texts again,

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Speaker 2: except this time little can't remember me from six years ago? Nope,

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Speaker 2: no I don't. But man was not popular for was

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Speaker 2: it last summer? Taylor was here?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Man? And yeah, I have to say, I mean, the

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Speaker 2: most difficult ticket maybe ever to get. Honestly, I mean,

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Speaker 2: has there ever been I don't think in our lifetimes

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Speaker 2: has there ever been anything quite like Taylor Swift and

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Speaker 2: people trying to get into the Aras tour. You got

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Speaker 2: some real balls. If you're going to text someone you

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Speaker 2: remember me. Can I have the most difficult ticket in

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Speaker 2: the world, honestly, and people had no shame and I

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Speaker 2: get it, like why not? You may as well ask,

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Speaker 2: but I mean one of the odds. I mean, come on,

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Speaker 2: at least like butter me up, a little, warm me up,

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Speaker 2: a little bit like some foreplay. Ask me how my day?

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Speaker 2: You know, come on, make it seem like you care

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Speaker 2: about me. But I'm sure that's about to start again.

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Speaker 2: It must have been worse for you. Jason. Yeahs as

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Speaker 2: the holder of the tickets.

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Speaker 4: It was wild, but I very much got ahead of

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Speaker 4: it and I was like, I have nothing, don't come

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Speaker 6: I got nothing.

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Speaker 2: That's actually part of my disclaimer now, like if I

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Speaker 2: meet someone and I'm like, if I can ever do anything,

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Speaker 2: do anything for you, let me know anything, but Taylor

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Speaker 2: Swift tickets. You can ask me for whatever you want.

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Speaker 2: No Harry Styles and no Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. Oh yeah, it was bad.

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Speaker 2: Can help you. It's social media Giving Day, encouraging everyone

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Speaker 2: to use social media to make a difference in the

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Speaker 2: world by promoting charitable giving. Get out of the doghouse

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Speaker 2: day to day, National Gummy Warm Day, National I Love

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Speaker 2: Horses Day, It's National Pet Fire Safety Day, and National

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Speaker 2: Give Something Away Day today as well. So those a

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Speaker 2: lot of days you got to pay attention to all that.

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Speaker 2: The Entertainment Report two minutes from now. Fred Show's on.

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Speaker 2: Ever been left waiting by the phone? It's The Fred Show. Hey, Jesse,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you hey, I'm doing good things.

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Speaker 2: Are you all right doing? Okay? What's going on with

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Speaker 2: this woman? Summer on? Waiting by the phone?

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Speaker 5: Here?

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Speaker 2: You guys, tell us how you met, and then about

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Speaker 2: any dates that you've been on, and then why you

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Speaker 2: think you're being ghosted and how we can help.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean we met on Tinder and she was

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Speaker 3: beautiful and so I, you know, I wanted to make

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Speaker 1: I got her number and we had some drinks. It

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Speaker 1: was a Friday that that.

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Speaker 3: Was the night that we hung out and got a

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Speaker 3: at her place, okay, and yeah, yeah we did.

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Speaker 1: We hooked up and I thought that was a good sign.

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Speaker 3: I thought, you know, green flag, green flag, green flag,

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Speaker 3: all across the board. And then she goes to me

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Speaker 3: like like nothing, like I even like waited a little bit,

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Speaker 3: you know, didn't want to, like I didn't want to

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Speaker 3: you know, seem desperate or anything. But like now it's

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Speaker 3: just like, I don't know, we had good chemistry. I thought,

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Speaker 3: like not just physical, but also like I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I thought there was something more. Yeah, so it's just

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Speaker 3: surprising to me that like it's just complete ghosting after

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Speaker 2: Yeah, these are always the puzzling ones for me, where

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Speaker 2: the date went so well that you're back to someone's

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Speaker 2: place and stuff's going on and whatever that that's usually

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Speaker 2: all good. So you know, it's kind of weird that

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Speaker 2: then after that you don't hear any thing. And I'm

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Speaker 2: sure I was bugging you because you were probably excited

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Speaker 2: about the potential with Summer. So I'm gonna play a song.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna come back in a couple of minutes, gonna

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Speaker 2: call Summer. You'll be on the phone. We'll ask these questions,

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Speaker 2: see if we can figure out what's going on, and

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Speaker 2: you know, as always, our hope is that wee can

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Speaker 2: straighten things out and then set you guys up on

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Speaker 2: another date.

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Speaker 8: And pay for them.

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Speaker 2: Let's see what's up. It parts to you of waiting

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Speaker 2: by the phone right after Submarina Carpenter back in two minutes,

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Speaker 2: it's the Fread Show, the Carpenter, It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: It's two hundred bucks with show be is Shelley in

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Speaker 2: ten minutes you win after the entertainer report, that's coming

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Speaker 2: up to Hey Jesse. Hey, okay, let's call Summer. You guys,

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Speaker 2: you met on one of the apps. You went out,

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Speaker 2: had a great date. It went back to her place.

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Speaker 2: Is this Summer?

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Speaker 9: Hi?

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Speaker 6: Yes, it is Hey Summer.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 2: thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 2: So he told us he called us. He told us

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Speaker 9: Well, I can't I can't believe I really have to

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Speaker 9: This is a little weird.

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Speaker 2: It is a little weird, but we'd love to know

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Speaker 6: You don't have to, but we need you.

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Speaker 2: Don't. You don't have to, but like you do, you

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Speaker 9: Well, I mean, you don't know and judge me here,

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Speaker 9: It was really literally kind of disturbing. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: So you you were disturbed by his ripped Holy boxer

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it looked very unsanitary. I'm just like thinking, you

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Speaker 2: Know how do you think those holes were created? Exactly

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Speaker 6: I okay, but you're already hooked up.

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Speaker 9: I said, no judgment, I'm sorry, Okay, I'll just make

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Speaker 6: I would be like, you can't put on your good.

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Speaker 10: Toonies for me, but he already hit it. I mean,

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Speaker 10: you need to have one pair of underwear that doesn't

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Speaker 2: Okay, here's my question. You didn't apparently didn't see the

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Speaker 2: So yeah, there's a chance there's a hole in my

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Speaker 6: Right there might have been his lucky underwear, like he knew, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, let me ask him because he's here, Jesse, he's

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm honestly like shocked that that's what that that's

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Speaker 3: real like like I I they're just like old boxes.

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Speaker 1: It was laundry day.

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Speaker 3: I threw him on. I didn't expect that we were

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know what to tell you.

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Speaker 3: I'm surprised that that's that's the.

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Speaker 1: Hang up here. I thought everything was going good this summer.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it could. There could be reservations, like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what else in your life have you

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Speaker 2: not replaced that. I'm sure you know what does your

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Speaker 5: You know?

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Speaker 2: I guess I guess you could go there. But I

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Speaker 2: don't know that. I think he's unclean. They could be clean.

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Speaker 3: That far, that's too far. That's straight up too far.

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Speaker 3: I like, like, from going from like having like Holy

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: That seems like a stretch for me, Jesse.

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Speaker 9: It just tells me you don't like take care of

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Speaker 11: That was our first date.

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Speaker 6: I was cute, I had nice under her on, Like.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I guess I do think about that, like you

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Speaker 1: What's it?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 1: What's it mean?

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Speaker 3: If I don't like for the first time, like we meet,

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Speaker 3: Like that's it's a first it's a first encounter.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean are you cheap? Like are you? Do

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Speaker 2: you not? I don't know, but I mean the clothes

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, everything led to a point where there

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Speaker 2: that gave you every indication that this is a guy

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Speaker 9: It I cannot see it?

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Speaker 2: Don't you really? You would just qualify a man with

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Speaker 7: Absolutely at least have the decency to like kick it

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Speaker 2: But he eventually I had to put him back on

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Speaker 2: to leave.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, especially not to see that. Okay, I'll admit it.

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Speaker 7: I have had holes in my underwear before, Like that's

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Speaker 6: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 12: I mean, are we asking too much for just one

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Speaker 2: God? Okay, but we must remember it all led to

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Speaker 2: he was clean, he showered. I mean, there were no

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Speaker 13: With a guy who doesn't shower for three days, right,

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Speaker 7: That's true.

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Speaker 2: We don't know that all the underwear is this way.

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Speaker 2: Like maybe he maybe that was just the last pair.

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Speaker 2: We've all been there, we've all been down to the

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Speaker 8: Boy, right, like was laundry day.

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Speaker 6: We got another issue?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, he's frustrated. Is he liked the girl and

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Speaker 2: he's upset. He's upset because he's being disqualified because of

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Speaker 2: his holy underwear. All right, look, Summer, let's say that

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Speaker 2: we use part of the budget for this date and

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Speaker 2: we get the man some new hies, Yeah, some new

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Speaker 9: Yeah, it's too late. It's just I'm not his mom,

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Speaker 9: and I already feel like we're momming him with the boxes,

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Speaker 9: saying like you should be a grown a doll, and no,

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Speaker 9: you shouldn't be wearing Holly underwear on a first date.

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Speaker 2: Well that's a good point.

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Speaker 9: I'm not asking for a lot.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I hear you. I'm just I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: I understand you. This is your expectation. I think it's fair.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I'm sorry, Jesse. We can't fix this one

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Speaker 3: No, I found through this, through this chat that I

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Speaker 2: But throw the underwear away. Let's just get some new underwear.

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Speaker 2: Let's make sure we don't have holes in our underwear.

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Speaker 2: We are grown ups. I mean, it's it's an easy

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, yes, that's I'll get new underwear.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Good we did our good deed today. That's wonderful, summer.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your time, Jesse you as well. Best

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Speaker 2: of luck to both of you. Yeah, hey, Alex, how

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Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? I'm doing fantastic.

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Speaker 2: How about yourself, Alex Man, welcome to the program. Tell

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Speaker 1: Let's see, I'm thirty nine years old. I'll be forty

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Speaker 1: August eighteenth.

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Speaker 3: I'm the proud owner of Park Course Window Cleaning.

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Speaker 1: We do commercial and residential window cleaning. And right on.

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Speaker 2: Damn well, so plugg ding. You're welcome for the free advertising.

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Speaker 2: Well we got kids. Two waterbucks is the prize today.

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Speaker 2: My man Shelley's record nine and eleven wins, sixty losses

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Speaker 6: You guys ready, all right, ready, you get buck?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, with all the respects. Get the hell out. Whoa

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Speaker 2: whoa hell we got a daycare? Go, we get a

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Speaker 5: We go?

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Speaker 2: Question number one, Alex. In an interesting turn of events,

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Speaker 2: Alec Baldwin's trial has been dismissed. What movie was he

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Speaker 2: working on at the time of the incident?

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Speaker 8: Three?

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Speaker 6: Two?

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Speaker 2: We got four more. We're gonna rally. It's all good, Alex.

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Speaker 2: Many people are paying tribute to this Beverly Hills nine

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Speaker 6: Three two.

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Speaker 2: I mean, my man, we did all the stories. But anyway,

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Speaker 2: Jimmy Butler joined country singer Parker McCollum on stage at

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Speaker 2: the Windy City Smoke Out in Chicago over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: What sport does Jimmy play professionally? You know this? Here

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Speaker 2: you go. In an online video, Selena Gomez said she

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Speaker 2: said I love you to her boyfriend first? Who is

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Speaker 6: Three two?

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Speaker 2: All right, well, Alex, let's go for a two here,

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Speaker 2: let's let's rally. Let's save this. You ready, I'm begging you.

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Speaker 2: Patrick Mahomes and his wife are expecting their third child together.

443
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Speaker 2: Name his wife, Name his wife, Brittany, Say Brittany, Brittany. Yes,

444
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Speaker 2: fantastic too, excellent, Okay, good. Let's bring Shelley back. I

445
00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:57,280
Speaker 2: think she'll be okay too, is what he? I feel

446
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,840
Speaker 2: good about this for you, Schelle. In an interesting turn

447
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Speaker 2: of events, Alec Baldwin Stral has been dismissed. What movie

448
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,439
Speaker 2: was he working on at the time of the incident?

449
00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 6: Russ?

450
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, many people are paying tribute to this. Beverly Hills

451
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,000
Speaker 2: nine oh two e O actress after she sadly lost

452
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,760
Speaker 2: her battle with breast cancer. Shannon Jordan Jimmy Butler joined

453
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Speaker 2: country singer Parker Parker McCollum. Yehow Country and Western on

454
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,600
Speaker 2: stage at the Windy City Smokeout over the weekend. What

455
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Speaker 2: sports does Jimmy play professionally?

456
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Speaker 6: Basketball?

457
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,080
Speaker 2: Yeah? In online videos, Selena Gomez said she said I

458
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Speaker 2: love you to her boyfriend first. Who's her boyfriend?

459
00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:29,399
Speaker 6: Benny Blanco?

460
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Speaker 2: Yes, Benny Blanco's correct. I mean what Alex is trying

461
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Speaker 2: to run in like an operation on the side, Like

462
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Speaker 2: is he like a drill instructor too? Or what's going on?

463
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,040
Speaker 2: And Patrick Mahomes and his wife are expecting their third

464
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Speaker 2: child together. Their name is wife for Britney. Britney. Britney's correct.

465
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Speaker 2: That's a win. That's a five win, number nine twelve,

466
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Speaker 2: three straight, two fifty tomorrow. That's surprise, my man, Alex,

467
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Speaker 2: you do have to say it though. My name is Alex.

468
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Speaker 2: I got showed up on a showdown. You know the rest.

469
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Speaker 1: My name is Alex. I got showed up on the showdown.

470
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Speaker 2: And Alex and now we're customs to Alex. Come on, man, Alex,

471
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Speaker 2: you're a mess. I love you, Alex.

472
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Speaker 8: You can't hang a real cat.

473
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Speaker 6: Cat cat cat cat cat Cat Alex. Got a lot

474
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Speaker 6: going Oh freedom man.

475
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Speaker 2: Cat cat.

476
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Speaker 9: Cat cat.

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Speaker 2: Alex, Alex, Alex, I love you, man. Hang on a second,

478
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Speaker 2: have a great day. Go make all those windows crystal clean. Man,

479
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Speaker 2: you're gonna do a great chat. Shelly, you need some

480
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Speaker 2: window cleaning. I'll send the guy over.

481
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Speaker 6: Yes, actually I do.

482
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Speaker 2: Good. I'm gonna send him over to your house. So

483
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Speaker 2: tomorrow it's two fifty three straight nice job shells. We'll

484
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Speaker 2: talk to you that have a.

485
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Speaker 6: Good Daycome and I did.

486
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Speaker 2: You're referring to this as them cut.

487
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Speaker 7: Yeah, so they called the mom chop. I didn't know

488
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Speaker 7: I had a name. I call it the Kaalin, but

489
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Speaker 7: apparently called the mom chop. So when moms give birth

490
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Speaker 7: or they have kids, whatever, they just chop off all

491
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Speaker 7: their hair.

492
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Speaker 6: It's a thing like the long hair is no longer.

493
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Speaker 2: So what'd you cut off? Maybe six inches?

494
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Speaker 7: Yeah, right, a lot? Because my hair is not long

495
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Speaker 7: at all. And they wear extensions, but I haven't had

496
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Speaker 7: them in a while. But I would say a good amount.

497
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Speaker 7: When I saw that video posted of me playing the

498
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Speaker 7: definitely gonna be Paulina game and I saw my hair

499
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Speaker 7: and you guys let me look like that.

500
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Speaker 6: I was so upset.

501
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Speaker 2: You looked fun you Yeah, what do you think that is?

502
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Speaker 2: I'm curious? Eight five five five three five What do

503
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Speaker 2: you think that is?

504
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Speaker 9: Like?

505
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Speaker 2: What's that about? What is it? Is it that you

506
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 2: just get tired of You're trying to simplify your life

507
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:40,639
Speaker 2: after you have a kid, and it's just there's so

508
00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,160
Speaker 2: much going on. You don't have to wash your hair,

509
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Speaker 2: mess with it, so you just cut it off.

510
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Speaker 6: So our friend Ac I saw her over the weekend.

511
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Speaker 7: She told me that because she did it too, and

512
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Speaker 7: she's like, yeah, we just think it's easier, so we

513
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Speaker 7: just chop it off, you know, less time to like,

514
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Speaker 7: you know, do it, get it ready.

515
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Speaker 6: For me, it was more of like an identity thing.

516
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Speaker 6: I don't know.

517
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 7: I was just like, you know what, like, my hair

518
00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 7: doesn't look that great. Let's go for a new look,

519
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 7: new era, right mom era.

520
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 6: I was like, let's just do it.

521
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Speaker 7: I didn't know it had a whole term and there

522
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,440
Speaker 7: was a whole movement behind it. I just thought it

523
00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 7: was me cutting my hair off. But people say they

524
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Speaker 7: do it all the time for that reason because they

525
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Speaker 7: don't want to get ready the baby.

526
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Speaker 6: Also, the baby starts to pull your hair.

527
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Speaker 7: That's like a pain the ass because oh really, yeah,

528
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Speaker 7: my daughter my hair hearings because she's doing the.

529
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Speaker 6: Reaching thing now, so like when I put her down,

530
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 6: it's me and the hair going down.

531
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Speaker 2: Because I've had like a mental breakdown before where I

532
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Speaker 2: think I want to shave. I have shaved my beard

533
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Speaker 2: off because it just felt like it felt cleansing, Like

534
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Speaker 2: I can't really describe it, but I never felt more

535
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: like Britney than I did. This was years ago, but like,

536
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Speaker 2: I don't know, I felt like I had to take

537
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:37,440
Speaker 2: some drastic control over my life somehow. I'm like, what

538
00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: am I gonna do? And I just I don't know.

539
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 2: It like felt like I needed to strip myself of

540
00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: all ancillary I don't know. I wouldn't shave my beard off.

541
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Speaker 2: It was random and I felt like in control until

542
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,359
Speaker 2: I looked at myself. I was like, this looks terrible

543
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Speaker 2: grow back.

544
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Speaker 7: Maybe that's what I did in control thing because I

545
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 7: didn't even plan it. It was Thursday after work and

546
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Speaker 7: I hit up one of my girls and I was like, Hey,

547
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Speaker 7: I just want to cut this off. Can I come

548
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:01,199
Speaker 7: in and she's like, yeah. I walked in, sat down

549
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 7: to like what are we doing? And I was like,

550
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 7: just chop it off? Like that's not like me.

551
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 6: Girls usually plan these things like should I do it? Whatever?

552
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 6: When I went blonde, I thought about this for weeks.

553
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 2: That's why I was asking was it a practical thing?

554
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 2: Was it an emotional thing? I think it was emotional

555
00:24:14,560 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 2: for it.

556
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Speaker 7: Well, kind of both emotional because I saw a video

557
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 7: of myself and I was like, my hair looks like

558
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 7: a rat's nest.

559
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 6: It was awful, Like I know it's curly, but it

560
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 6: looked so bad.

561
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Speaker 2: Hold on, Alyssa, you chopped all your hair off too?

562
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Speaker 6: All of it?

563
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Speaker 9: Oh?

564
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Speaker 14: Okay? So yes I did. I shaved my head. Oh

565
00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 14: and people at people came to me and at least

566
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Speaker 14: side and asked, Melissa, is everything of chase or are

567
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:40,760
Speaker 14: you okay? Do you want to talk about it? And

568
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Speaker 14: I'm like nope. I just at the time I was single,

569
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 14: so I knew I wasn't going to scare anyone away.

570
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 14: So yes, I chopped off my hair. It was a

571
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 14: liberating thing and I loved it.

572
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does feel like you're taking control or over something.

573
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: I guess is what it is? So how long was

574
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 2: the hair before you shaved it off?

575
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 14: So my hair was I don't know, let's say it

576
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 14: was probably it was packed my shoulders, mid.

577
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 2: Back, okay, drastic. So you walked in with like mid

578
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,959
Speaker 2: back long hair and you walked out with bald shaved

579
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 2: or just really shake oh oh.

580
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 14: I shaved. I ended up doing well. I shaved and

581
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 14: then I ended up going into a cute pixie cup

582
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 14: for a year or two.

583
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Speaker 9: Wow.

584
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So I can see why people might think that

585
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 2: now here was the second part of this.

586
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Speaker 14: They're like, they're like, are you having your Britney Spearson quinn.

587
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 14: I'm like, okay, is it is it not okay for

588
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 14: women to just chop there here? And it's like, I

589
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 14: don't have to have a mental disability, you know, to

590
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 14: chop off?

591
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 2: Well I do, So it's fine, It's it's all good.

592
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 1: Now.

593
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Speaker 2: You mentioned and Paulina mentioned this too off the air,

594
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 2: but you mentioned Alyssa that you didn't have a partner,

595
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Speaker 2: so you didn't feel like you had to run this

596
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,360
Speaker 2: by anybody.

597
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 14: Paulina, no, no go ahead, that I had that permission

598
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Speaker 14: or anything. But it was like, you know, eyes have

599
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 14: preference and I knew, you know, maybe if I was

600
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Speaker 14: doing someone that, you know, they'd be like, no, oh

601
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 14: my god, I love your hair I have. I have

602
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,879
Speaker 14: curly hair naturally, and I you know, i'll sil it

603
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 14: from time to time. But I was like, you know what,

604
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 14: I don't have anyone that's gonna tell me no, don't

605
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 14: do it, aside from maybe my family. So I did it.

606
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 14: I shaved it, and I got more compliments shaved than

607
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 14: I actually did it with my natural hair.

608
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 2: Oh right, fair enough, thank you, listen, have a good day.

609
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 14: Thank you too.

610
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,119
Speaker 2: So people were asking you, Paulina, if you asked hobby

611
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 2: ahead of time and did you.

612
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Speaker 6: No, he didn't even know I was going. He was

613
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 6: at work that day and I chexted himy, I'm gonna

614
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 6: go cut my hair.

615
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 7: And I don't think he expected that much, but I

616
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 7: said him a picture of the hair on the floor,

617
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 7: and it's a lot of hair because you know, I

618
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 7: didn't just trim it. I mean I cut off a lot.

619
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Speaker 7: And he was just like oh, And I sent a

620
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 7: picture of my hair and he was like, oh, we

621
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Speaker 7: went short, and I was like, yeah, we did.

622
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,879
Speaker 6: And so his short hair Queen is what he calls me.

623
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Speaker 7: No. Oh, I know he likes it. He prefers it's

624
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:58,719
Speaker 7: a preference thing. He prefers longer hair. But I did

625
00:26:58,800 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 7: what I did, But you don't have it.

626
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 6: Ask no, No, I mean, have you met me. I'm

627
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:03,639
Speaker 6: not asking nobody.

628
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 2: If you were gonna, like, if you're gonna shave your head,

629
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,480
Speaker 2: I guess I can see asking, But I mean cutting

630
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 2: to a few inches off. It's nobody's business. But I mean,

631
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 2: if you're gonna completely transform the way you look, shouldn't

632
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 2: I mean that's not to say you can't, but shouldn't

633
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: you at least consult the person Kiki? I mean like

634
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,440
Speaker 2: consult like again, if they say no, I don't know

635
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: that that means you don't do it. But I mean,

636
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 2: you know, if you're with someone and they're attracted to

637
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: the way that you look, and again they don't get

638
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: the final say. But I mean, wouldn't you want to

639
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 2: be considerate of what this other person who's highly invested

640
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 2: in you thinks of the way that you look.

641
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a.

642
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:42,119
Speaker 13: Constant argument in my house because I don't ask anybody anything.

643
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,680
Speaker 13: You know, I switch wigs from Monday to Thursday. I

644
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 13: might be a whole Another person However, I feel like

645
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 13: with Big Tim, like you should talk to me about

646
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 13: what I would like for your hair. And so he's

647
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 13: on this whole thing like I'm growing my hair out

648
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 13: and it's not even up for discussion. I'm like, okay,

649
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 13: I mean you want to go down that road, but

650
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,719
Speaker 13: I feel like I should have a say in how

651
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 13: he looks.

652
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 2: But he did well raetorical question. He doesn't get a

653
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 2: saying how you look? I knew the answer. I always

654
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,680
Speaker 2: feel like I make good decisions for me, don't, well,

655
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 2: then he should make make great decisions for him. The

656
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 2: other thing is he's not going to say anything to

657
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:16,920
Speaker 2: you because you got so many wigs that one day

658
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 2: you got this kind of hair, and if he doesn't

659
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,359
Speaker 2: like it, the next day you'll have a different kind

660
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:21,200
Speaker 2: of hair exactly.

661
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Speaker 13: So it's not like it's permanent, but with him, it's permanent.

662
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Speaker 13: So that's why I'm like, you should talk to your partner,

663
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Speaker 13: even women. I feel like, you know, we obviously can

664
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Speaker 13: do whatever we want, but like, if I was to

665
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 13: go shave my head or to like do a significant haircut,

666
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Speaker 13: I would talk to him about it because I want

667
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Speaker 13: to be you know what I'm saying I wanted to

668
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Speaker 13: be attracted.

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Speaker 2: At least have a conversation, and anyone who's like, do

670
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Speaker 2: not do that like I dump you or something like

671
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Speaker 2: somebody that will buy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

673
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Speaker 2: No, you don't get to control me like that, but

674
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Speaker 2: I think it's considerate.

675
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Speaker 6: Was that bad for not asking? Or I like him

676
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 6: because I told him when I told the world basically, no,

677
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Speaker 6: you look cute.

678
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Speaker 2: It looks great, but it's not. It's not that direct

679
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,240
Speaker 2: like if you'd gone like a like a I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know about scottishman.

681
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean you got I think you got to

682
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 2: at least say, hey, heads up, this is what I'm

683
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 2: thinking about doing, because that's a that is a that

684
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 2: you are changing the way you look fundamentally correct at

685
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Speaker 2: that case. In that case, Hey Ashley, hie bye, good morning.

686
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: So you're also a new mom cut all your hair off?

687
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Speaker 15: Good morning?

688
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 9: Yes I did.

689
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Speaker 16: I kind of had to.

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Speaker 7: My son is going to be uh.

691
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Speaker 12: One in two weeks, and when he was four months old,

692
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 12: my hair started coming out.

693
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Speaker 5: The most part of hair loss was real.

694
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Speaker 2: I'm all icy, okay, so then you just cut it

695
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: short to sort of I don't know, mitigate.

696
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 12: Yes, I had it was just no loner serving me,

697
00:29:41,080 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 12: it had to go.

698
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Speaker 16: Okay, So this was and I loved it, and they

699
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 16: grab it, they grabbed that hair everything they did it okay.

700
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Speaker 14: So for those reasons, it.

701
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Speaker 2: Was just it was time to go, and I love

702
00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 2: it all right, fair enough, thank you, Ashley.

703
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 16: You're welcome.

704
00:29:57,520 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 17: A good day.

705
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Speaker 2: They haven't hi. You wanted to You wanted to show

706
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: the outside. You wanted to show all the people how

707
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 2: much your life has changed. So you chopped it all off.

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Speaker 6: That's right, that's right, Good morning morning.

709
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Speaker 17: So after I had my baby, I felt like a

710
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 17: whole different person, like now I'm a mama, you know.

711
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 17: Before I had the long, curly hair and going out

712
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 17: and all that, and then all of a sudden, I

713
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 17: had this precious little baby girl, and I cut my hair.

714
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Speaker 17: And I think subconsciously it was because I wanted to

715
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Speaker 17: reflect on the outside that I was a different person

716
00:30:32,880 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 17: now that I'm a mama. So I got my hair cut,

717
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Speaker 17: and I don't think I actually realized it at the time,

718
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 17: but I was a new person and I wanted to,

719
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Speaker 17: you know, show everybody, hey, I'm a mama now.

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Speaker 6: So I changed my look to reflect the way that

721
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Speaker 6: I had changed inside.

722
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Speaker 2: So you don't think. Maybe you holding the kid was

723
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: like enough for them to go, hey, she's got a kidnap,

724
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: she's a mom. And did you did you ask Linda?

725
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,479
Speaker 2: I don't know if you have a partner, but did

726
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,000
Speaker 2: you ask your partner at a time? But did you

727
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:02,280
Speaker 2: just do it?

728
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 9: No?

729
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: I did not, No, I did not.

730
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Speaker 6: I got a pixie cut and I came home and

731
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 6: he said, what the hell.

732
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Speaker 3: Did you do?

733
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Speaker 2: I'm a mom? Now did you tell him Linda?

734
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Speaker 1: I'm a mom?

735
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 2: Now give my heads up? That's how he found out.

736
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Speaker 2: Thank you, Linda, have a great day. Kay loves you

737
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Speaker 2: Blogs next waiting by the phone. His new money was

738
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Speaker 2: always except saying a lot Jason Brown Goo, Yes, thank you,

739
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Speaker 2: dear blogs.

740
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Speaker 4: So my parents, let's see, I'm thirty five, so they've

741
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,480
Speaker 4: been married like thirty six years. And something happened recently

742
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Speaker 4: in interaction with them that I got to witness that

743
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 4: I thought was just hilarious. So my dad's retired, my

744
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 4: mom still goes to work every day. And there's a

745
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Speaker 4: new neighbor in town. She is a single woman and

746
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 4: her let's call her Donna, okay, and she you know,

747
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 4: when you do.

748
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Speaker 2: That, you're supposed to make up the name. Is that

749
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 2: really Donna? Let's call her Donna. Yeah, her name is Donna.

750
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Speaker 4: No in for her as donnay or may not be Donna.

751
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 4: So she is single and walks her dog like every

752
00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 4: day up and down the street, and my dad like

753
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 4: sits outside or he's outside, you know, working, you know,

754
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 4: in the yard or whatever, and she'll stop and they'll talk.

755
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 4: My dad is like the mayor of the neighborhood, right,

756
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 4: Like he has nothing to do, so he just like

757
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,240
Speaker 4: sits home all day, plays with the dogs, and like

758
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Speaker 4: talks to neighbors. So my mom thought out that this

759
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 4: was happening, and she's like, oh, well, she's why is

760
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 4: she walking down here?

761
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Speaker 6: Like you can't talk to her?

762
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Speaker 1: Like whatever.

763
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Speaker 4: I was like, Mom, you are about to be sixty,

764
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Speaker 4: my dad is sixty seven years old, and you're worried

765
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Speaker 4: about Donna in the pink yoga pants walking down here

766
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Speaker 4: with her dog talking to James.

767
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Speaker 6: Brown, Like what is going on? I just thought it

768
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Speaker 6: was so funny that they'd been married so long.

769
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Speaker 4: And this is the first time that I ever sort

770
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Speaker 4: of saw my mom's like claws come out, like she's

771
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 4: gonna attack this woman if she tries to make a

772
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Speaker 4: move on her man.

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Speaker 6: That's why I'm like staring on business.

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Speaker 2: I can get some pink yoga pants, Linda.

775
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Speaker 6: Writes, Now I have a birthday present for her.

776
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so I don't know there's neighbor.

777
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Speaker 6: Yeah, And I just never seen that side of my mom.

778
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,720
Speaker 2: And I'm like, mom, you think your dad like plays

779
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 2: into it? Now he kind of likes it.

780
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Speaker 6: Well now it's like a it's like a joke.

781
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,040
Speaker 4: And I'm like when we're like talking about like oh, Dad,

782
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 4: like what did Donna say about that?

783
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 6: Or like did you ask? Yeah, we have a little

784
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Speaker 6: left left.

785
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Speaker 13: I'm with missus Brown, Okay, stand down business about your man.

786
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 13: You gotta watch miss Donna, Miss Parker soever coming out

787
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 13: water in that grass, walking.

788
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Speaker 1: Up and down the street.

789
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Speaker 13: It's a lot of ways for you to walk up

790
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 13: down the street. And I need to walk past my

791
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 13: man and my house. So I am with missus Brown

792
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 13: how to set on business. And then whenever miss Parker

793
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 13: get to walk in or what's her name, Donna's donna

794
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 13: get to walk in, she get out there and walk

795
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Speaker 13: your brother, Duke.

796
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Speaker 2: You're so confusing to me because you're you know, no

797
00:33:51,440 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 2: one can talk to your man, but then you don't

798
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 2: claim your man.

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Speaker 6: I don't claim him, just not on my Texas.

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Speaker 2: I don't know it. It's a strange dichotomy. It's like,

801
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: stay away from him, but I'm single, so you have

802
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,879
Speaker 2: to stay away from me, but stay away from him.

803
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Speaker 2: Waiting by the phone is new at Next Friend Show,

804
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Speaker 2: Fresh Show. It's Kiki's Court, all right, the Honorable Kikileik

805
00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 2: is in the courtroom. Judge, take it away.

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Speaker 6: Oh yes, court is in session.

807
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Speaker 13: Okay, this one has me torn, so I definitely need

808
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 13: the thirteen to wait in It says hey, Kei, Kei,

809
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Speaker 13: my name is Maya and I'm getting married in September.

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Speaker 6: Please tell me if I'm wrong.

811
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Speaker 13: But I just had the biggest argument with my sister,

812
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Speaker 13: who also happens to be my maid of honor. The

813
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 13: argument started because we're going over my wedding guest list

814
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Speaker 13: and my sister ex wor plus one.

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Speaker 6: She's been dating this.

816
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Speaker 13: Guy for a few months and now all of a sudden,

817
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 13: she wants to bring him to my wedding. I said

818
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Speaker 13: no because my fiance and I are paying for this

819
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Speaker 13: wedding out of our pockets and our budget is already tight.

820
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Speaker 13: I'm not paying for some random guy that you're dating.

821
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Speaker 13: If you're not married, you don't deserve a plus one.

822
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Speaker 13: Single people need to understand that, why would I pay

823
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 13: for someone to just start that you just started dating

824
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 13: to eat and drink for free. Now she's threatening to

825
00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 13: drop out of my wedding and causing a lot of

826
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,440
Speaker 13: drama all because of her little boyfriend.

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Speaker 6: Am I wrong?

828
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Speaker 1: Wow?

829
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Speaker 2: I've always been a little like unclear on the rules

830
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 2: with the plus ones same same cause, like you know,

831
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 2: people will say, well, you get the invitation, and it

832
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 2: will say and guessed, But I've had plus ones where

833
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 2: it didn't say that right. And then I've also like

834
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 2: had to do the uncomfortable thing where I have to

835
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,440
Speaker 2: ask like, hey, can I bring somebody to this thing

836
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Speaker 2: or you know, and then you ask, well, I mean,

837
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Speaker 2: I don't know what else. Isn't that better than just

838
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Speaker 2: showing up with somebody?

839
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Speaker 13: Well, if they don't put plus one on my invitation,

840
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 13: I just assume that a plus one is not allowed.

841
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 13: And that's what I think is like crossing the wires

842
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 13: here because Maya, like you, I understand, this is your

843
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 13: wedding and a wedding is not a date night you

844
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 13: know what I'm saying. A lot of people get that confused.

845
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 13: A wedding is not a party for the family. A

846
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 13: wedding is not a family reunion. It's somebody's wedding. So

847
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 13: you have all rights to invite whoever you want and

848
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 13: disinvite whoever you don't want. However, to say single people

849
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 13: don't deserve a plus one, that's a little that's a

850
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 13: little crazy to me. But if I get an invite

851
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 13: and I don't see the option for a plus one,

852
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 13: I just automatically assume that I cannot bring somebody.

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00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 6: Well, because this is where it gets confusing.

854
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Speaker 2: Most of the time, the RSVP card is the same

855
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 2: for everybody, so like you have to look at I

856
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: guess how it's addressed to you, like if it's so

857
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 2: and so and guests or whatever. But because like oftentimes

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00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 2: everybody has the thing to fill in, you know, I

859
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,239
Speaker 2: summer custom, I guess, and it will only give you

860
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Speaker 2: one choice, but like others will be like how many

861
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 2: are attending, and it's.

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Speaker 6: Like whoa sacred chicken? Then it'll say like two, yeah, right.

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Speaker 2: Well I'm taking I'm bringing all three my girlfriends. I mean,

864
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: there's an empty line there I just filled it in.

865
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Speaker 2: Yeah that's crazy, but I get it, and I don't

866
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Speaker 2: get it because I feel like, if you're inviting me

867
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Speaker 2: to an event, it's maybe not fair to assume that

868
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: I'm just going to show up by myself. Maybe I

869
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,359
Speaker 2: don't know a lot of people there. Maybe it's kind

870
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Speaker 2: of I don't mean.

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Speaker 13: It's your sister's wedding. So if your sister told you,

872
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,279
Speaker 13: Amanda was like, Fred, you're in my wedding. I need

873
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 13: you at my wedding. You're my brother, but you cannot

874
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 13: bring the girl you just started dating five months ago.

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Speaker 2: Well you know what's your drop back? That actually did happen? Oh,

876
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: I was seeing somebody and for a couple of months

877
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 2: before my sister got married. And the only rule was

878
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 2: my parents were like, don't bring this girl. The first

879
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: time that we meet her should not be at your

880
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 2: sister's wedding, like we need cause we're not going to

881
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,399
Speaker 2: have a chance to really even meet her because we're

882
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: going to be busy with other stuff. So you need

883
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 2: to bring you need to bring her around before then.

884
00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 2: And then that we went wound up breaking up, so

885
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:42,440
Speaker 2: it didn't matter. But there was a rule. It was

886
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 2: basically don't bring this person around here for the very

887
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: first time unless we've also had a chance to get

888
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 2: to know work.

889
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: I could.

890
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 2: It would be uncomfortable for her too.

891
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 13: Right, But if she had given you the ultimatum like

892
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 13: I don't care if you bring her around. You've only

893
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 13: been dating her for five months, she's not allowed to

894
00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,840
Speaker 13: come to my wedding. Would you have been upset with

895
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 13: Amanda or threatening to drop out of her wedding at No?

896
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 2: Okay no, But I also think, like, I mean, I

897
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 2: should be able to bring up somebody with me. I ASSUREE,

898
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have to just because I'm single doesn't mean

899
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 2: or I'm unmarried. Really in this case, yeah, it doesn't

900
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 2: mean I should have to show up everything by myself.

901
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 13: That's what I say to as a single woman, you know,

902
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 13: I feel like I should get a plus one. But

903
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 13: in my case, in her case, if I'm only dating

904
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 13: this guy a couple months, I don't know if he's

905
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 13: going to be around a long time. Like, people need

906
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,840
Speaker 13: to understand, a wedding is very expensive, and when you

907
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,759
Speaker 13: think about putting it together, I would think if I

908
00:38:36,800 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 13: wouldn't pay seventy dollars or more for a dinner with

909
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,240
Speaker 13: this person.

910
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 6: Why would I invite them to my wedding.

911
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,360
Speaker 7: Because she's your maid of honor and she's your sister,

912
00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 7: and I would be okay with her bringing the guy

913
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 7: that she's dating, Like that's completely fine.

914
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 6: To me, honestly.

915
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 7: And I say this for you guys too, like, if

916
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 7: you are single, you can bring a plus one that

917
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,280
Speaker 7: doesn't bother me. I think at that point the host

918
00:38:57,520 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 7: or the brideing room should just offer that to their guests.

919
00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 7: Like for example, with Rufeo, I said, Rufio and Jests

920
00:39:03,160 --> 00:39:04,880
Speaker 7: are invited. Rufio wasn't going to come with no other

921
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 7: plus one. It was Rufio and Jess because there are

922
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 7: a couple and I know them, they're married. But for

923
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 7: like you guys or whoever was single, I said, bring

924
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 7: bring somebody if you'd like. Kaylen brought a friend, Like,

925
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 7: I was completely okay with you. Kaylen brought a friend.

926
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:16,799
Speaker 7: And then I probed she was propped.

927
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 2: Up against me.

928
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:18,360
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah I was.

929
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 1: I was.

930
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 2: I was a physical tripod for this woman, Like yeah,

931
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,799
Speaker 2: like literally was weekend at Bernie's at your wedding. It was, yeah,

932
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,640
Speaker 2: she brought a friend and it was here and after

933
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 2: two drinks. She was so hammered. It was just proper

934
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 2: up against the six foot five guy and you'll just

935
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 2: Dand I wasn't mad about it.

936
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 6: But at least she made it to the welcome party.

937
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 2: She did like it, that's true. Unlike you're now husband, right,

938
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 2: you didn't make it.

939
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:41,839
Speaker 6: She had to be propped up, and she was there.

940
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 3: She was there.

941
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 6: All that matters. There wasn't.

942
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 2: I don't think there was really a time except we

943
00:39:46,280 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: were in the pool that I wasn't concerned that she

944
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 2: was going to fall over if I didn't stand next

945
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 2: to her, and in the pool, I was worried about

946
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:53,080
Speaker 2: her drowning.

947
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 6: Don't give them plus one.

948
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 12: In my experience, if you're ever in the wedding party,

949
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 12: no matter if you're single or with someone, you always

950
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 12: get a plus one because I think it's a nice

951
00:40:02,440 --> 00:40:04,359
Speaker 12: nod to say, hey, thank you, it's a lot of money.

952
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 12: Whatever I have heard of. If I don't know of

953
00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:09,440
Speaker 12: you dating someone, you're not getting a plus one.

954
00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 6: I've heard of that. I think it gets shady.

955
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 12: I guess maybe when it's family, because you want your

956
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:16,680
Speaker 12: sibling to like be with you the whole day and

957
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 12: spend family time. And it's hard with some like random

958
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,560
Speaker 12: dude around, But what do I care? I mean, get

959
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 12: your plusurele See.

960
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 2: I would argue, if you're in the wedding, unless it's

961
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: someone you're pretty serious with who knows other people there,

962
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 2: I would argue not to bring. I would argue that

963
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 2: the time to bring somebody you just started dating is

964
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 2: if you're just a guest, Because if I just started

965
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:37,239
Speaker 2: dating you and I'm in the wedding, that means there's

966
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 2: a lot of time that this person who nobody knows

967
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 2: is just going to have to offend for themselves, right,

968
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,120
Speaker 2: And I'm not sure if I think that's fair.

969
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 12: It's just a gesture that like usually the Brian groom do.

970
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 12: But I also would say that this is the deal.

971
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 12: You're going to be alone a lot of the day

972
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:49,879
Speaker 12: and leave it up to my date.

973
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 6: And if they're fine with it, why.

974
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 2: Not eight five, five, five, nine one three five. You

975
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:58,000
Speaker 2: guys are the jury? Kate, good morning, Hi, good morning,

976
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 2: how are you hey? Good morning? So Kiki's court, why

977
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,600
Speaker 2: don't you recap it real quick for everybody.

978
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 13: Maya is getting married in September. Her sister wants to

979
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 13: bring a guy that she just started dating to the wedding,

980
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 13: and Maya said absolutely not. Now the sister who's also

981
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 13: the maid of honor is threatening to drop out of

982
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 13: the wedding, same.

983
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 2: He can drop out of the wedding over and do

984
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 2: it anyway.

985
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 18: What do you think, Kate, Well, I think if the

986
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 18: bride and groom are paying for the wedding, they do

987
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 18: have the right to decide, like if you get a

988
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 18: plus one or not. If they can't afford it and

989
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 18: they want their friends there, I think that's fine. But

990
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,640
Speaker 18: to say that people don't deserve a plus one, that's

991
00:41:30,800 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 18: like giving me Bridezilla a little bit.

992
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:33,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

993
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 11: Yeah.

994
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 2: And then to say that you're not going to attend

995
00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:40,240
Speaker 2: your sister's wedding, come on, Like, you can be pissed,

996
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 2: but don't do that. Don't hold it over. I mean

997
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: it's you know, you hope this only happens like two

998
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 2: or three times in her life, so you happen to once,

999
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 2: so like, but you don't that's not cool. I mean,

1000
00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,960
Speaker 2: you could be pissed, but you still you don't tell

1001
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 2: her You're not going to add to the stress of

1002
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: the event by saying also, I'm not gonna calm Like, come.

1003
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 6: On, I mean that she I want to stand up.

1004
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 2: What's that kid?

1005
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 15: Well, what is this guy going to do if there's

1006
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 15: no other close?

1007
00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:06,839
Speaker 18: Uh?

1008
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 3: Oh?

1009
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 2: If what you broke it? You broke up? What what's

1010
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 2: that going to do with one?

1011
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: If?

1012
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 18: Like, if there's no other plus one? There bridal party's

1013
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,920
Speaker 18: got to go, like do pictures and all the wedding parties.

1014
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean he can fend for himself. But yeah,

1015
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 2: I get I guess it's more about the expense than

1016
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 2: it is like his happiness or comfort or whatever. But Kate,

1017
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:31,840
Speaker 2: thank you so much. Have a great day you too. Taylor. Hi, Taylor,

1018
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 2: good morning. How you doing.

1019
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 15: I'm doing great.

1020
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 11: Thanks.

1021
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 5: How are you guys? Hey?

1022
00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 2: Great? Welcome. What do you think?

1023
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 15: So this actually happened to me at my wedding. I

1024
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 15: have two sisters and one of them I didn't even

1025
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 15: know she was dating someone. She had been dating him

1026
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 15: secretly for six months, and she was like, where's my

1027
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 15: plus one? And I was like, b you didn't even

1028
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 15: tell me you we're dating somebody. But I think to

1029
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 15: what some other people have said, like with immediate family,

1030
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 15: I think you give them that. I think there's a

1031
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 15: ring of kind of like if an extended friend is

1032
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 15: asking for a plus one and I didn't know you

1033
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 15: were dating someone. I'm sorry, but no, but if you're

1034
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 15: my sibling, I'm going to give you a pass. So

1035
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:14,360
Speaker 15: I allowed my sister to bring her secret boyfriend. I

1036
00:43:14,480 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 15: had allowed my other sister then to bring her boyfriend

1037
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:21,160
Speaker 15: of three months. Thankfully my persister not married to her

1038
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:25,320
Speaker 15: secret boyfriend. So had I denied, had I denied that,

1039
00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 15: I would have been essentially denied my future brother in law.

1040
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 19: So I think there's a little liberty.

1041
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 15: And grace you have to give your you know, your

1042
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 15: siblings to say that if you think this is the one, Yes,

1043
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 15: they need a friend for themselves because they're going to

1044
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 15: be by all day. I need you to hold my

1045
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,040
Speaker 15: dress while I pee.

1046
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 2: So no, right exactly. It's like, look, you can bring somebody,

1047
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 2: but like your obligation is by going to be the

1048
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 2: maid of honor or whatever your obligation is to me

1049
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 2: on this day.

1050
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 15: So like that, right, yeah, Because I think what would

1051
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 15: be worse is in the future if your sister ends

1052
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:01,400
Speaker 15: up marying that guy and that she's mad at you

1053
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 15: because you didn't let him come to your wedding. The

1054
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 15: repercussions of that might be really unfortunate for you.

1055
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, true truth. Thank you so much. Have a

1056
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 2: good day, Taylor, Yeah you too.

1057
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:10,919
Speaker 5: Thanks guys.

1058
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 2: The other thing is the guy who's always single you

1059
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 2: also and who brings has been known to bring a

1060
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 2: plus one now and again. You got to be as

1061
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:19,800
Speaker 2: the person bringing a plus one. You got to be

1062
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 2: thoughtful about who you're bringing, because you're right, this is

1063
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: not date night. Like, I'm not bringing the girl I

1064
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,920
Speaker 2: just met on he Inju or whatever to the wedding

1065
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: of my close personal friends because that's awkward for her.

1066
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 2: It's awkward for me. Like either, if you're seeing somebody

1067
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 2: and it's semi serious, maybe you bring that person. But

1068
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 2: if you're not, don't just bring somebody and take a

1069
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,839
Speaker 2: spot and spend their money just because you don't want

1070
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 2: to be alone. Yes, you got to be thoughtful about

1071
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 2: Like I've gone to a couple of weddings where I

1072
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 2: didn't want to go alone, so I brought in somebody

1073
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 2: that was more significant to me than just someone I

1074
00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:54,080
Speaker 2: was dating, you know, because I didn't want to go alone.

1075
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,759
Speaker 2: But I also needed somebody who could like hold their

1076
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 2: own and was gonna you know, a known quantity, right,

1077
00:44:58,480 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 2: because the last thing I'm trying to do is bring

1078
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 2: somebody I don't know to a wedding only to find

1079
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 2: out at the wedding that they're a crazy person.

1080
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 6: Right, They're mean drunk, right all my friends and family.

1081
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 2: And then I just did that to myself, Malise, I'm Elise, Hey, hey,

1082
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 2: good morning. What do you think?

1083
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 16: So I think she has to take an account too,

1084
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,879
Speaker 16: is how far is the wedding Because some venues they

1085
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 16: have between like three months, you have to have the

1086
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 16: final count. Okay, so if you don't have the final count,

1087
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 16: that's an unexpensed so they're going to charge your arm

1088
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 16: in a lake.

1089
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,760
Speaker 2: Oh I see. So if you meet somebody within three months,

1090
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 2: then it's like I'm not adding I'm not adding this

1091
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 2: person for you.

1092
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 5: I mean it.

1093
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 16: Depends also two when when is her wedding? Okay, it's

1094
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 16: like six months in advantage. Okay, I don't know if

1095
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:49,720
Speaker 16: you guys are going to be together.

1096
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:50,759
Speaker 14: Have I met this man?

1097
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 16: Like for me when I had my wedding, I but

1098
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 16: if I didn't know the person and they're going to

1099
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 16: meet them within that year, like my friend and his friends,

1100
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 16: I didn't.

1101
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 1: Invite them to the wedding.

1102
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 2: I think you only allowed one.

1103
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 16: Exception, which was one of his closest friends his childhood.

1104
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 14: Brians.

1105
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 16: I'm like, okay, you're the only one who can bring

1106
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:12,320
Speaker 16: someone I don't know.

1107
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair. Yeah, thank you, Malise, have a good day.

1108
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:19,719
Speaker 2: Thank you, glad you called. Good morning. Thanks for listening.

1109
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 2: Hey Cheryl, Hi, Hi, Hi Cheryl. What do you think

1110
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 2: so Jakiki's Court, this woman is getting married, her sister

1111
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 2: who is the maid of honor, who wants to bring

1112
00:46:28,520 --> 00:46:31,720
Speaker 2: this dude she's been dating for three months. The bride

1113
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 2: says no, and so now the sister's looking to back

1114
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: out of the whole thing because she wants to bring

1115
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:37,279
Speaker 2: this dude. What do you think?

1116
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 11: Well, well, my take is.

1117
00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 19: A little different. It's kind of not about the money.

1118
00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:42,280
Speaker 2: It's about if.

1119
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 19: She's not letting her sister bring a plus one, if

1120
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 19: she not letting anybody else say she's inviting to the

1121
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:51,399
Speaker 19: reception bring a plus one either.

1122
00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 13: Well, what she said was single people, if you're not married,

1123
00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 13: you don't get a plus one.

1124
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 6: That was her words. Oh, if you're not married, you

1125
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 6: don't last one.

1126
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 19: Yeah, but I don't know, I think, you know, I'm

1127
00:47:04,160 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 19: just wondering if she the way I the way I

1128
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 19: you know, heard it was like she's not she's only

1129
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,400
Speaker 19: inviting like married people.

1130
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's just the person has to be more

1131
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 2: significant than just a flame or just a casual date,

1132
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 2: because it's expensive and you're taking a spot of somebody

1133
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 2: that maybe this person knew well or better.

1134
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 19: Yeah, but also you want everybody to have fun at

1135
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 19: the at the at the wedding. Also, you know, you

1136
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 19: don't want her, you know, her sister just sitting there.

1137
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,719
Speaker 19: You know, I wish you know, so and soul could

1138
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 19: have been invited.

1139
00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 2: Also, you know, yeah, ye, fair enough, thank you, Cheryl,

1140
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 2: have a good day. Thank you. I've said fair enough,

1141
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 2: like thirty times to day. I don't know if that's

1142
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 2: like my new new thing. Fair enough, fair enough, fair enough. God,

1143
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,760
Speaker 2: I need to shut up. Emily, Hi, good morning, good morning.

1144
00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 2: So this just happened to you, the same scenario kind of.

1145
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1146
00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 11: My sister just had her wedding in May, and I

1147
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 11: was her maid of honor, and she had the room

1148
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 11: that if I hadn't been with a significant other for

1149
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 11: a year before the wedding, then I couldn't invite a

1150
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,360
Speaker 11: significant other because she didn't want no random person in

1151
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 11: her photos.

1152
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's true. That's true.

1153
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 5: At the end, she did let me bring up my

1154
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,879
Speaker 5: best friend, though she's still gave me a plus one.

1155
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 5: She just we had the situation where my parents, one

1156
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 5: of their uh siblings had a random date and.

1157
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 11: Because he broke up with his girlfriend. But then that

1158
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 11: old girlfriend uh I ended up being his wife, and

1159
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 11: so we had this random person at all of my parents'

1160
00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:34,520
Speaker 11: wedding photos.

1161
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's a good point about the pictures. I mean,

1162
00:48:36,800 --> 00:48:38,560
Speaker 2: not like the formal ones, but they would still be

1163
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 2: in the casual pictures, like from the event. It's like,

1164
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,200
Speaker 2: who is this idiot? Like, oh yeah, I dated I

1165
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 2: met him on Tinder. I dated him for two months.

1166
00:48:45,440 --> 00:48:47,760
Speaker 2: It's like, oh, well, thanks, now he's in our pictures forever.

1167
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:51,880
Speaker 2: Well yeah, I get that. Thank you, Emily, have a

1168
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 2: good day. Thank you, loving yeah, love you to Crystal. Hi, Crystal,

1169
00:48:56,880 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 2: you had a tough time getting the plus one of

1170
00:48:58,600 --> 00:48:59,280
Speaker 2: your friend's wedding.

1171
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,160
Speaker 1: I did, to make a long story short, because she

1172
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't let me have a plus one, which I've been

1173
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: with this guy for all those two years at the time.

1174
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,800
Speaker 3: We ended up going to Mexico the weekend of her wedding.

1175
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 6: Damn not only was there?

1176
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, damn? Now was it worth burning your friendship down over?

1177
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 5: No? Not at all.

1178
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 16: I even told her like the week beforehand, like girl,

1179
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:26,240
Speaker 16: you should have he would have bought the gifts.

1180
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so you you would. She wouldn't let this guy go.

1181
00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:32,239
Speaker 2: So you say, I'm not gonna I'm not going to

1182
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 2: the wedding at all. I'm going to Mexico instead, and

1183
00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 2: this woman is still your friend?

1184
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, well I didn't.

1185
00:49:37,400 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 3: I didn't propose the trip.

1186
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 6: He did.

1187
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 14: I had to oblige.

1188
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 2: Oh I mean no, you didn't. You played christ You

1189
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:45,919
Speaker 2: could have said no, I got to go to this wedding.

1190
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 2: You can't go see this. This friendship is more important

1191
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 2: to me than than this trivial experience here. But this

1192
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 2: woman forgave you. You're still friends with her?

1193
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: TDD what's that TV?

1194
00:49:58,239 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 2: TVD? Okay, well I don't.

1195
00:50:00,520 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 6: Did you have fun fun in Mexico? Yeah?

1196
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:03,799
Speaker 11: I did?

1197
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 2: We did? We did?

1198
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:05,920
Speaker 1: There?

1199
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 2: You have a good day?

1200
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone?

1201
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 2: It's the Freendshell, Hey, Jesse, good morning, welcome to the program.

1202
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:20,240
Speaker 1: How are you hey, I'm doing good things?

1203
00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:22,800
Speaker 2: Are you all right doing? Okay? What's going on with

1204
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: this woman summer on waiting by the phone. Here, you guys,

1205
00:50:25,760 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 2: tell us how you met, and then about any dates

1206
00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 2: that you've been on, and then why do you think

1207
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 2: you're being ghosted and how we can help.

1208
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we met on Tinder.

1209
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:39,880
Speaker 3: And she was beautiful, and so I, you know, I

1210
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 3: wanted to make a good impression and it seemed to work.

1211
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 1: I got her number and we had some drinks.

1212
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: It was a Friday that that was the night that

1213
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:54,879
Speaker 3: we hung out and got a little tipsy after after

1214
00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,720
Speaker 3: after hanging and we ended up back at her place, okay,

1215
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 3: and yeah, yeah we did.

1216
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: We hooked up, and I thought that was a good sign.

1217
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:08,080
Speaker 3: I thought, you know, green flag, green flag, green flag,

1218
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 3: all across the board. And then she goes to me

1219
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 3: like like nothing, like I even like waited a little bit,

1220
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 3: you know, didn't want to, like I didn't want to

1221
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 3: you know, seem desperate or anything. But like now it's

1222
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 3: just like I don't know, we had good chemistry. I thought,

1223
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 3: like not just physical, but also like I don't know,

1224
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 3: I thought there was something more.

1225
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's just surprising.

1226
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 3: To me that like it's just complete ghosting after like

1227
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 3: such a good time.

1228
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, these are always the puzzling ones for me. Where

1229
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 2: the date went so well that you're back to someone's

1230
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 2: place and stuff's going on and whatever. That that's usually

1231
00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 2: all good, So you know, it's kind of weird that

1232
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:51,440
Speaker 2: then after that you don't hear anything. And I'm sure

1233
00:51:51,480 --> 00:51:54,279
Speaker 2: I was bugging you because you were probably excited about

1234
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: the potential with Summer. So I'm gonna play a song.

1235
00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come back in a couple of minutess gonna

1236
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,720
Speaker 2: call Summer. You'll be on the phone. Well, ask these questions,

1237
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 2: see if we can figure out what's going on. And

1238
00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 2: you know, as always, our hope is that we can

1239
00:52:04,239 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 2: straighten things out and then set you guys up on

1240
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 2: another date and pay for them. Let's see what's up.

1241
00:52:10,719 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 2: In part two of Waiting by the phone, right after

1242
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 2: Submarina Carpenter back in two minutes, it's the Fread Show.

1243
00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 2: The carpenter, It's the Fread Show. It's two undred bucks

1244
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 2: with the show is Shelley. In ten minutes, you went

1245
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 2: after the entertainer report, that's coming up to Hey Jesse, Hey, okay,

1246
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:25,360
Speaker 2: let's call Summer. You guys, you met on one of

1247
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,800
Speaker 2: the apps. You went out, had a great date. It

1248
00:52:27,880 --> 00:52:30,279
Speaker 2: went back to her place. You guys messed around, you said,

1249
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 2: but you have not heard from her since, and you're

1250
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 2: confused because you thought everything went really well. You want

1251
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,239
Speaker 2: to know what's going on. Yeah, well let's call her now.

1252
00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 2: Good luck, Jesse, thank you.

1253
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 3: Hello. Hi?

1254
00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: Is this Summer.

1255
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:49,239
Speaker 3: Hi?

1256
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 2: Yes, it is Hey Summer. Hi. Good morning. My name

1257
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 2: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning

1258
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,880
Speaker 2: radio show, and I do have to tell you that

1259
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 2: we are on the radio right now, and I do

1260
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:58,560
Speaker 2: need your permission to continue.

1261
00:52:58,160 --> 00:52:58,520
Speaker 3: With the call.

1262
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 2: Can we chaut for just a second? Okay, sure, Well,

1263
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:04,920
Speaker 2: thank you very much. We're calling on behalf of a

1264
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 2: dude named Jesse who reached out to us. I guess

1265
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: you met him on a dating app and recently went

1266
00:53:10,080 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 2: on a date. Do you remember Do you recall going

1267
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 2: out with this guy? Do you remember him? Yeah? Okay,

1268
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 2: So he told us he called us. He told us

1269
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 2: that he really enjoyed meeting you and thought the chemistry

1270
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 2: was there. He said that you guys did mess around

1271
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 2: at your place after the date that was you know,

1272
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:26,800
Speaker 2: he didn't get too specific, but he also says that

1273
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:28,120
Speaker 2: he has not been able to get ahold of you.

1274
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 2: Since the date, you're not responding to him, and he

1275
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 2: feels like he's being left on red. So what what's

1276
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,359
Speaker 2: going on? Why are you ghosting him?

1277
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 5: Why?

1278
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 9: Well, I can't I can't believe I really have to

1279
00:53:38,640 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 9: share all these details online or you know, on the phone.

1280
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 6: This is a little weird. It is a little weird.

1281
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 6: But we'd love to know all the details. You don't

1282
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 6: have to, but we need you don't.

1283
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 2: You don't have to, but like you do, you know

1284
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like you could hang up, but that'd

1285
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,440
Speaker 2: be really upsetting to us. So what are the details

1286
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 2: that you're reluctant to tell us?

1287
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 9: Well, I mean, you don't know, and judge me here,

1288
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 9: but yeah, we met and went out for drinks and

1289
00:54:03,880 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 9: ended up poking up at my place and I mean

1290
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 9: it was it was fine.

1291
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 2: But yeah, I haven't really caught him back for a reason,

1292
00:54:12,600 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: which is.

1293
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 9: Gosh, I can't believe I have to say this. Okay, Well,

1294
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 9: when we were in bed after we hooked up, he

1295
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 9: went to get dressed, and I noticed his boxers had

1296
00:54:23,719 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 9: a bunch of holes and then like in the back

1297
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 9: and kind of kind of everywhere, and it was they

1298
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:30,759
Speaker 9: looked like they were hanging on by a threat, but

1299
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:34,800
Speaker 9: it was really literally kind of disturbing. Yeah, it was

1300
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:35,439
Speaker 9: kind of gross.

1301
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:41,240
Speaker 2: So you're you were disturbed by his ripped Holy Boxer

1302
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 2: brief or Roxes shorts. I guess in this case like

1303
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 2: they just looked old and worn out.

1304
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:49,279
Speaker 9: Yeah, it looked very unsanitary. I'm just like thinking, you

1305
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,840
Speaker 9: know about I don't know all the gross things that

1306
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 9: happened down there, and I don't.

1307
00:54:54,160 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 2: Know how do you think those holes were created exactly

1308
00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 2: like I mean, I wanted though, Okay.

1309
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 6: But you're already I.

1310
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 16: Said, no judgment.

1311
00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Okay, I'm just making sure.

1312
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 8: I get it.

1313
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:10,600
Speaker 10: I would be like, you can't put on your good

1314
00:55:10,680 --> 00:55:15,520
Speaker 10: toonies for me, but he already hid it. I mean,

1315
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 10: you need to have one pair of underwear that doesn't

1316
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 10: have holes of it. Okay, But here's my question. You

1317
00:55:20,480 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 10: didn't apparently didn't see the underwear before the acts. You're

1318
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:27,880
Speaker 10: saying me, no, okay, But then in the process of

1319
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 10: hooking up with him, did you notice anything unsanitary, like

1320
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 10: any strange smell holes or I mean, did he appear

1321
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 10: to be put together and sort of clean, you know,

1322
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:40,120
Speaker 10: other than the the old underwear Okay, So yeah, there's

1323
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:41,680
Speaker 10: a chance there's a hole in my sock that I'm

1324
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 10: wearing right now.

1325
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,040
Speaker 2: There is a chance of it on the bottom. I'm

1326
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 2: not I can't confirm or did I, but I'm saying like,

1327
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 2: just because there are holes in underwear does not mean

1328
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:53,880
Speaker 2: that the person is unclean. Right, there might have been

1329
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 2: his lucky underwear, like he knew, you know you look,

1330
00:55:56,920 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 2: let me ask him because he's here. Jesse been very quiet.

1331
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:03,800
Speaker 2: But Jesse, what's up with the holes in the underwear? Like,

1332
00:56:03,800 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 2: why don't we get just get, you know, new underwear

1333
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:06,840
Speaker 2: that's a little more presentable.

1334
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: I'm I'm honestly like shocked at that.

1335
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:13,799
Speaker 3: That's what that that's what she said. I'm a little

1336
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 3: bit floored. I'll be real like like I I I

1337
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 3: they're just like old boxes.

1338
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:24,239
Speaker 1: It was laundry day. I I threw him on.

1339
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,840
Speaker 3: I didn't expect that we were going to hook up,

1340
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 3: and you know, things went well. I don't know, I

1341
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 3: don't know what to tell you. I'm I'm surprised that

1342
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 3: that's that's.

1343
00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: The hang up here. I thought everything was going good

1344
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: this summer.

1345
00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it could there could be reservations

1346
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,400
Speaker 2: like I don't know what else in your life have

1347
00:56:42,520 --> 00:56:45,840
Speaker 2: you not replaced that? What does your house look like?

1348
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 5: You know?

1349
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,160
Speaker 2: I guess I guess you could go there, But I

1350
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,439
Speaker 2: don't know that. I think he's unclean. They could be clear.

1351
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 3: That's too far. That's straight up too far. I like,

1352
00:56:56,800 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 3: like from going from like having like boxers to not

1353
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,160
Speaker 3: being clean, that's a stretch. I don't know. That seems

1354
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 3: like a stretch, Jesse.

1355
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:08,400
Speaker 9: It just tells me you don't like take care of

1356
00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 9: yourself and take pride in what you wear, how you

1357
00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 9: present yourself.

1358
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:12,799
Speaker 3: That was our first date.

1359
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,120
Speaker 9: I was cute, I had nice underwear on, Like.

1360
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 8: Yeah, I guess I do think about that, like you

1361
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 8: did have to take underwear on? And like what's it?

1362
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:25,680
Speaker 1: What's it like? What's it mean? If I don't like

1363
00:57:25,800 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: for the first time, like we mean, like that's you mean,

1364
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: it's the.

1365
00:57:28,640 --> 00:57:30,200
Speaker 3: First it's a first encounter.

1366
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean are you cheap? Like are you do

1367
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 2: you not? I don't know, but I mean the clothes

1368
00:57:35,800 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 2: he was wearing were presentable obviously, right, I mean summer.

1369
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 2: I mean, look, everything led to a point where there

1370
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,439
Speaker 2: were no clothes. So everything leading up to you seeing

1371
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 2: that gave you every indication that this is a guy

1372
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,840
Speaker 2: that you would like, and so he has holes in

1373
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 2: his underwear, and so we can never talk to him again. Apparently,

1374
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:52,160
Speaker 2: like we.

1375
00:57:54,000 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 3: See it.

1376
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 9: I cannot see it.

1377
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,880
Speaker 2: I don't really. You would just qualify a man with

1378
00:57:58,960 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 2: holes in his underwear.

1379
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,480
Speaker 7: Absolutly at least have the decency to like kick it

1380
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,280
Speaker 7: under the beat or something to hide it, like.

1381
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:04,560
Speaker 6: Get rid of the evidence.

1382
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:06,920
Speaker 2: But he eventually has to put him back on to leave.

1383
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, especially not to see that. Okay, I'll admit it.

1384
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 6: I have had holes in my underwear before, like that's

1385
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 6: normal for women.

1386
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 7: However, I would never let a man see that, not

1387
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 7: even my husband. Absolutely not.

1388
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 12: I mean, are we asking too much for just one

1389
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 12: pair of underwear for a date without holes?

1390
00:58:22,760 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 6: God?

1391
00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:25,400
Speaker 2: Okay, but we must remember it all led to the

1392
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 2: point where there was no clothing, including the clothing with holes,

1393
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 2: so everything was going to the communication was good. Obviously,

1394
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 2: he was presentable from the exterior, he was put together,

1395
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 2: he was clean, he showered. I mean, there were no

1396
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 2: issues until.

1397
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,840
Speaker 13: Wow, well I'm just saying it with a guy who

1398
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 13: doesn't shower for three days, right, this is choice?

1399
00:58:46,640 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 2: Oh that's true. We don't know that all the underwear

1400
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 2: is this way, like maybe he maybe that was just

1401
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 2: the last pair. We've all been there, we've all been

1402
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,000
Speaker 2: down to the last pair. We're like, oh boy, he.

1403
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 6: Commando right like I was laundry day.

1404
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 2: Okay, well.

1405
00:59:06,160 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 6: We got another issue.

1406
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, he's frustrated. Is he liked the girl and

1407
00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 2: he's upset. He's upset because he's being out disqualified because

1408
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: of his holy underwear. All right, look, Summer, let's say

1409
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:24,440
Speaker 2: that we use part of the budget for this date

1410
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 2: and we get the man some new honies, Yeah, some

1411
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:28,720
Speaker 2: new furuit of the loom. We send the guy over

1412
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:31,480
Speaker 2: to Tommy John or whatever, get him some nice fancy,

1413
00:59:32,160 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 2: some nice fancy boxer briefs. Then, Summer, would you give

1414
00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:37,080
Speaker 2: him another chance? Or is it just too late?

1415
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 9: Yeah, it's too late. It's just I'm not his mom,

1416
00:59:39,760 --> 00:59:42,360
Speaker 9: and I already feel like we're momming him with the boxes,

1417
00:59:42,400 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 9: saying like you should be a grown a doll, and no,

1418
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 9: you shouldn't be wearing Holly underwear on a first date.

1419
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:48,840
Speaker 6: That's a good point.

1420
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:49,960
Speaker 14: I'm not asking for a lot.

1421
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 2: I mean, I hear you. I'm just I'm trying to

1422
00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 2: I'm really trying to see the good of this. But

1423
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,000
Speaker 2: I understand you. This is your expectation. I think it's fair.

1424
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 2: But anyway, I'm sorry, Jesse. We can't fix this for you.

1425
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 17: No.

1426
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,760
Speaker 3: I I found through this, through this chat that I

1427
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 3: don't think it skips for me either.

1428
01:00:08,080 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 2: But troll the underwear away. Let's just get some new underwear.

1429
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 2: Let's make sure we don't have holes in our underwear.

1430
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 2: We are grown ups. I mean, it's it's an easy thing.

1431
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 3: To do, right, yeah, I mean, yes, that's I'll get

1432
01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 3: new underwear.

1433
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,520
Speaker 2: Thank you. Good wait of us. We did our good

1434
01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 2: deed today. That's wonderful summer. Thank you for your time, Jesse.

1435
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 2: You was well best e lected, both of you. The

1436
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 2: Fread Show is on Friend's Fun.

1437
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,000
Speaker 15: Facts Fun.

1438
01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 2: So much. Guys.

1439
01:00:42,280 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 6: Did you know?

1440
01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 2: Did you know that the tongue is the only muscle

1441
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 2: in your body that is attached at only one end? Really? Yeah,

1442
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:01,520
Speaker 2: the tongue is the only must in your body that

1443
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:07,320
Speaker 2: is attached at one end. Now, what about my fingers? Well,

1444
01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 2: because the muscles attached to like the end of your

1445
01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:11,160
Speaker 2: finger and the end of your toe.

1446
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,440
Speaker 6: Oh, the tip and the knuckle right, Okay, put your

1447
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 6: tongue in your mouth. Please, don't.

1448
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: Wait, what do you hold on?

1449
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 6: I was touching my nose. Yeah, hold on, I can

1450
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 6: pick my nose too with it.

1451
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 2: What a neat neat party trick?

1452
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, because it's hard. You can't do it right.

1453
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: No, And that's okay that I can't pick my nose

1454
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: with my tongue. It's fine,