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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod, which Teddy Mellencamp and Tam

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Speaker 1: rich Idge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of two Teas in

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Speaker 2: a Pod and see I'm here with Cynthia. We've got

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Speaker 2: Orange County and some housewive headline.

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Speaker 3: Hi Cynthia, Bye, Hi Teddy.

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Speaker 2: How's it going? What's going on?

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Speaker 3: Everything is good, Everything is good. Excited to get back

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Speaker 3: on here and hang out with you for a little bit.

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Speaker 3: I have to shout out. I had a few followers

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Speaker 3: from the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Oh many.

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Speaker 3: I think I had about six people comment and say, hey,

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Speaker 3: I was watching you and Teddy and I saw that

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Speaker 3: you're on your mission. They understand the mission. A meet

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Speaker 3: four million, every follow up camps. At this point, I'm

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Speaker 3: so close, so thank you to like now. I think

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Speaker 3: it's a total of maybe twelve people.

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Speaker 2: Don't say that to Teas in a Pod. Doesn't women

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Speaker 2: empowering women over here? Okay, yes, yes.

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Speaker 3: No, I appreciate you guys. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: following me, and I love you guys. We'll get there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's gonna happen. Guys. We need at least six

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Speaker 2: more this week, so let's get it going. What else

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Speaker 2: is going on with you. I had like kind of

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Speaker 2: a brutal day yesterday. I'm not going to get too

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Speaker 2: much into the details, but essentially, someone sent me a letter.

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Speaker 2: I went to my mailbox at my home. I opened

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Speaker 2: the letter and somebody wrote me the most disgusting things

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Speaker 2: about my daughter, what yeah about your time? About my

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Speaker 2: ten year old daughter? And it was so mean and

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Speaker 2: so hurtful and just so untrue. It just it really

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Speaker 2: my mind is. I posted it for sac like I

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Speaker 2: had a moment of like mama bear rage, and I

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Speaker 2: posted it for a second it on Instagram because I

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Speaker 2: wanted to find out who wrote it. And I just

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Speaker 2: was like and then my husband's like, take that down.

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Speaker 2: Take it down. I'm like why, and he's like, because

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Speaker 2: if Slate ever sees what these people said, it will

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Speaker 2: crush her. She can never find out. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I know. Then I was like, all right, you're right.

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Speaker 2: But then I did post a clip because not only

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Speaker 2: did I get a two page typed out letter in

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Speaker 2: my mailbox, I also my slave's horse trainer got a

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Speaker 2: voice message from this person yelling, do.

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Speaker 3: You have any idea who this person is?

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Speaker 2: No? And that's the thing, Like I posted, I cut

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Speaker 2: out you know my daughter's name, and just posted a

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Speaker 2: clip of the woman's voice because she's like, you know,

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Speaker 2: she's she just sounds like angry. It really hit me

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Speaker 2: in like a way that I wasn't even expecting, Like

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Speaker 2: I feel like people can come at me all they want.

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Speaker 3: Listen as a mom myself teddy like I already feel

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Speaker 3: your pain, I feel your anger. And Noel's a twenty

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Speaker 3: three year old woman and still leave my kid alone

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Speaker 3: because she's going to be my kid, And I get it,

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Speaker 3: and I'm so sorry that that happens to you.

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Speaker 2: But I just more I want to know, like do

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Speaker 2: we know this person? Is it someone in the horse world?

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Speaker 2: They knew like specifics that you couldn't get from my Instagram,

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Speaker 2: so they must have some sort of in with the

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Speaker 2: horse world. But it's like and then you know the

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Speaker 2: part that I did post, people said something along the

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Speaker 2: lines of like, you know, don't give these trolls any

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Speaker 2: more attention. It's not worth it. But I have kind

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Speaker 2: of a different take on it and some extent, like

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Speaker 2: I think sometimes we need that wake up call like

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Speaker 2: so unnecessary and if you're in a place where you

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Speaker 2: feel like you want to go and send a letter

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Speaker 2: to a stranger about their child, there's like some real

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Speaker 2: reflection we need to do. And I mean, I get it.

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Speaker 2: I'm on a shit talking podcast where we talk about everybody,

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Speaker 2: the good, the ugly, all those things. But these are

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Speaker 2: people choosing to be on television right.

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Speaker 3: Well, well, I think what concerns me is that it

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Speaker 3: w wasn't beyond Instagram, Like, now there's a letter coming

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Speaker 3: to your house, Like, we don't know who this person is.

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Speaker 3: You could get in your car and go somewhere and

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Speaker 3: they could show up where you are. I mean there's

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Speaker 3: just don't know how big or how serious this thing

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Speaker 3: could become. And that's what's really scary. And I think

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Speaker 3: sometimes we feel like a little invincible. We think, oh, well,

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Speaker 3: I had a situation before too years ago where I

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Speaker 3: had a stalker and he would literally show up to

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Speaker 3: everything that I that I went to, and it got

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Speaker 3: I just didn't think he was totally well. I couldn't

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Speaker 3: call it. So I finally anytime I started to do events,

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Speaker 3: if he tried to come, they just stopped letting him in,

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Speaker 3: and it finally just went away. But it could have escalated.

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Speaker 3: He could have showed up in my house. You just

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Speaker 2: And so it's like, and if you are that person

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Speaker 2: and you're listening to this podcast right now, I want

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Speaker 2: you to know, like one, nobody ever needs to hear

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Speaker 2: these things about their child. Nobody ever wants to see them.

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Speaker 2: Nor would I ever take advice from a stranger, especially

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Speaker 2: when it's such hurtful things to say. And I don't know,

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Speaker 2: I just I think that sometimes forget people forget like

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Speaker 2: we're actual human beings. And you know the fact that

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Speaker 2: last night I'm staying up late to order air tags

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Speaker 2: that I'm able to translate it every second. It's like

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Speaker 2: this is it's just it's so unfortunate, and you know,

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Speaker 2: it is what it is. But if I feel seem alone,

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Speaker 2: like uh down today, that's why it like really hit

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Speaker 2: and then I was just like, ugh. Bella was sitting

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Speaker 2: like sobbing crying, and she's like you okay, Teddy, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god, like I couldn't even breathe.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm so sorry, and just you know, I get it. Well,

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean, I'll send you the letter. It's insane.

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Speaker 2: But let's get into some fan questions here. I lighten

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Speaker 2: the mood, like, how does Cynthia feel that she was

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Speaker 2: edited out of the latest episode of the Real Housewives

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I can't believe that this has turned

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Speaker 2: Okay, there's like twenty memes now, no, oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, are you serious? Okay? I had like everyone flooding

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Speaker 3: my dms and then I saw it was trending. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so let me give you guys some insights so I

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Speaker 3: that one particular scene that they to put in the trailer,

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Speaker 3: the first trailer when they started promoting Housewives of Atlanta

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Speaker 3: I even ended up in that scene. I just honestly

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Speaker 3: I get there and my producer tells me, oh, I

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Speaker 3: think Housewives is shooting next, and I was like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god. Like, not only am my friends with most

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Speaker 3: So I was like just popping over. They said, oh,

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 3: So I pop in, and of course, and you know

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Speaker 3: we mic? It. I was like, no, I was just

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Speaker 3: So it was it was just one of those things.

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Speaker 3: They're not going to use this. Like at that point,

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Speaker 3: I hadn't even I hadn't even started popping in with

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Speaker 3: So of course, as a producer, what are you going

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Speaker 3: the neighborhood, right, the man that she's actually interested in,

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Speaker 3: who goes by her shoe to support her?

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Speaker 2: So, okay, what.

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Speaker 3: Happened to you guys? And that's all it is. So

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Speaker 3: I don't feel any kind of way about it because

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Speaker 3: Those are not even the scenes that I was really,

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, because that's I was like, does this mean

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Speaker 3: But I found a thing.

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Speaker 2: Well, then I went down the rabbit hole and I

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Speaker 2: was like, do we think that she was at that

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm confused. Is that how much said?

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Speaker 3: And I was like, no, I was not at the

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Speaker 3: and I wasn't even It was just a random oh

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Speaker 3: can we mike you King is going to be so

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Speaker 3: excited for you to surprise her. It wasn't even supposed

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Speaker 3: to happen, but it happened. And then they put it

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Speaker 3: in a trailer and that made it a thing, and

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Speaker 3: there you go.

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Speaker 2: I can live with that. I can live with that right.

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Speaker 2: The next question for you is, was were you surprised

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Speaker 2: that Kim and CROI called off their divorce?

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Speaker 3: Was I was surprised both ways. I was surprised they

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Speaker 3: filed for divorce and then I was surprised that they

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Speaker 3: called it off. Yeah, both ways.

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Speaker 2: And then what about that timing? Like I sometimes I

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Speaker 2: wonder if TMZ just hold on to stuff and then

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Speaker 2: wait to release it until something else happens. Because once

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Speaker 2: of a sudden, I think TMZ released that video of

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Speaker 2: Well, there's also a clip where Kroy says that she

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Speaker 3: It's all over the place at this point, I will

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Speaker 3: They both kind of like to have issues.

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Speaker 3: He played since he played Okay, so.

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Speaker 2: My guess is he was compensated like a first season housewife.

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Speaker 2: So if you've got to gam if you if you

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Speaker 3: to gamble, Okay, the chances of you winning, especially when

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Speaker 2: You only want money.

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Speaker 3: When you actually have money.

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Speaker 2: In my theory, yeah, you only won money when you

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Speaker 2: If you're doing it for sport versus necessity, that's different.

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Speaker 3: But I wish them well. I do, whether they stay, go,

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Speaker 2: The next one is for you. We've got three back.

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Speaker 2: Vack used how I.

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Speaker 3: Never did any questions.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't stand there with the people on the trip

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Speaker 3: absolutely right, But I felt like I never had an

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Speaker 2: So yeah, and you were like you had your feeling, sir.

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Speaker 2: You were because that's Cynthia. Because I remember watching Girls

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Speaker 2: Trip and I hadn't we hadn't done Big Brother together

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, that was a tough trip for me. And again,

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Speaker 3: some other stuff that didn't have anything to do with

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, she said Cynthia's jealousy put her in shock.

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Speaker 3: My jealousy, Okay, So where that came from was basically

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Speaker 3: So I guess it could have come off like I

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Speaker 3: It was just kind of like you were disappointed, so

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Speaker 2: So do you think that at all it was intentional

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Speaker 2: with Kenya, like when looking back, or you like, do

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Speaker 2: you think she picked too you know, too popular housewives

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Speaker 3: I I have to just because I have been friends

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Speaker 3: I'm going to, as her friend, give her the benefit

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Speaker 2: It was a minute. And like Shannon and Tam are long.

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Speaker 3: I can when I'm hurt, I can kind of hold

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Speaker 3: I don't, in my heart believe that it was. I

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Speaker 2: My feelings yeah, this one's for both of us. Have

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Speaker 2: But I haven't reached out again solely because sometimes, especially

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And I'm that kind of friend as well, because

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Speaker 3: I definitely kind of want like, I'm excited that you

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Speaker 2: Oh and how was it?

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Speaker 3: It was amazing?

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Speaker 2: Oh now I want to get cracked. I feel so sore.

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Speaker 2: You know, some days we just fell one hundred and

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Speaker 3: Oh honey, get my age, like you definitely need to

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Speaker 3: appreciate a good nick cracking and oh I know right

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Speaker 3: now everything.

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Speaker 2: I mean, can we do it to teas in a

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Speaker 3: I know I need to else.

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Speaker 2: This one is how does Cynthia navigate being friends with

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's very easy. Actually, the relationship you and such

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Speaker 3: relationship is none of my business. That's why I navigated

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Speaker 3: the same way you navigate being friends with calid me.

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Speaker 3: But we were having issues. It ain't none of you

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Speaker 3: have nothing to do with Yeah, no skin off my ass.

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Speaker 2: Who's who you're friends with and who you're not? Like,

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Speaker 2: it is what it is. I can and like my

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Speaker 2: relationships and same with you, I'm sure, but like I've

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Speaker 2: hang out with that person, or that person's bad, or

436
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,320
Speaker 2: that person's a user, like you make your own judgments

437
00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,280
Speaker 2: and like. And I'm not saying sence any of those things.

438
00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:48,879
Speaker 2: I'm just saying in any relationship, I've never been a

439
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 2: fomo person or any of those types of things either.

440
00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,399
Speaker 2: So I'm also a little different.

441
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,360
Speaker 3: I'm saying, we're not in high school, and I'm all

442
00:20:57,400 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 3: my friends are very grown and know I would never

443
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 3: ask them to like you just said. I'd never say, Hey,

444
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:04,760
Speaker 3: you know, I'm not really in a great space with

445
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,160
Speaker 3: so and so. Could you like just not hang out

446
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 3: with her right now? No? No, do you like but

447
00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 3: just tell me if we're doing an intimate dinner and

448
00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 3: I'm gonna, yeah, let me know about that.

449
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 2: Well, that's the next question. Would the three of us

450
00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: have dinner and hash it out one I don't think

451
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:23,000
Speaker 2: there's anything to hash out, Like, there's not. We don't

452
00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:26,479
Speaker 2: have this like defining moment that caused a problem. I

453
00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 2: just think we have different ways of communicating and I

454
00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,560
Speaker 2: don't think we understand each other's language.

455
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,600
Speaker 3: And that's okay because guess what, you know, when you're

456
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 3: like put in a group of six women. Some women

457
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 3: you're just a gonna have things in common with, some

458
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,640
Speaker 3: you're gonna be more compatible with than others, and some

459
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:46,560
Speaker 3: you maybe would never in a million years ever be

460
00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 3: around them if you weren't on a TV show with them, right,

461
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,879
Speaker 3: and some you just can live in a respectful space

462
00:21:51,920 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 3: with them. I understand what that is. And the girls,

463
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,879
Speaker 3: the ladies that I have been around that I have

464
00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,399
Speaker 3: organic connection with, like it's it just works, and the

465
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 3: ones I don't. When I see them, we just have fun.

466
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 3: But it's not like I'm like blowing them up to

467
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 3: like hang out all the time.

468
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,479
Speaker 2: So it's just, yeah, it's more just And it's almost

469
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,399
Speaker 2: easier for me to be able to talk about certain

470
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 2: situations that happen on the show if I'm not having

471
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 2: super close relationships with the women on there, So it's

472
00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 2: easier for me to just disengage, and you know, then

473
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 2: I can talk about whatever it is that I want.

474
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 3: It's like, because you guys do have friends in common

475
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,479
Speaker 3: and you actually might have to see each other as

476
00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:30,959
Speaker 3: opposed to like in the real world, where you if

477
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 3: you don't like somebody.

478
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 2: You probably just don't see them.

479
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 3: That's it. I think for me, it just comes down

480
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 3: to disrespect as long as they're just is like cordial

481
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 3: respectfulness going on. You know, you guys can live in

482
00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 3: the same dinner situation, party situation and keep it moving.

483
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I mean it is what it is. We Oh,

484
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:53,440
Speaker 2: this is interesting. Would either of us ever do a

485
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 2: Big Brother again if they had an All Stars?

486
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 3: I think I would.

487
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 2: I mean I came out of there and I was

488
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 2: only there eighteen days, like with the with the quarantine

489
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 2: and the house, and I came out and I remember

490
00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 2: there was like forty eight hours, so I barely knew

491
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: my name.

492
00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 3: It took a minute. Yeah, I would do it again, Teddy,

493
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:17,159
Speaker 3: just because I feel like I didn't know what I

494
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:22,720
Speaker 3: was doing the first time. And now I remember, I've

495
00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 3: literally had no clue how to play the game. How

496
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 3: I lie?

497
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 2: And you never believed me when I told you. I

498
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 2: would be like, I know, yeah, they're coming for you.

499
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 3: No, that's so nice.

500
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:34,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, this is okay.

501
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 3: But I was like a hot mess. I did not know.

502
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 3: It is still like baffling. How I actually, well, I

503
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 3: know how I made it to top three because I

504
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:45,760
Speaker 3: was never threatned knowing what I know now after doing

505
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 3: Big Brother, I would absolutely do it again because now

506
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 3: I kind of know how the game works and how

507
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,000
Speaker 3: it's played. You won't go far either, because you could

508
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,919
Speaker 3: have won because you were a threat, and that's what

509
00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 3: he had to get your butt out.

510
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: A sat well is what it is. And did we

511
00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,760
Speaker 2: talk to anybody from the cast? I talked to Carson

512
00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 2: some and then occasionally I'll DM with Shana, we'll dealm

513
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 2: with her. But I you know, I haven't really I

514
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 2: don't think I don't have seen anyone.

515
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 3: I still keep in contact with you. I still keep

516
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 3: in contact with Carson. We're like, do a lunch and

517
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 3: I keep in contact with Toddrick. I do, yes, But

518
00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 3: we'll just move on from that.

519
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: We'll just move right on because this isn't a Big

520
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 2: Brother recas.

521
00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 3: Keep in contact with Toddrick.

522
00:24:29,640 --> 00:24:29,960
Speaker 1: Yes.

523
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 2: Interesting. Well, let's take a little break and we'll come

524
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 2: back and talk about Watch what Happens Live in Orange County.

525
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,200
Speaker 2: All right, we are back. We've got some housewife headlines

526
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: Watch what Happens Live. So the first housewife headline is

527
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: it's a jen Aiden one. Jen Aiden declared she's team

528
00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:01,120
Speaker 2: Louis after Megan King slammed him on Watch What Happens Live.

529
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 2: So I guess what happened was Megan King was on

530
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,879
Speaker 2: Watch What Happens Live?

531
00:25:07,240 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 3: And I'm sorry, I'm not even trying to be so much.

532
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 2: Megan Edmonds, she was on Real Housewives of Orange County

533
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 2: for a couple of seasons.

534
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 3: Okay, what did she say about Louis?

535
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: She said that essentially, she said he's a slimeball narcissist.

536
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 2: And so then jen Aiden posted this comment. Listening to

537
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: an opinion from a person who doesn't know him at

538
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 2: all and has never met him a day in her

539
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: life is not that smart. But then again, neither is

540
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 2: her track record with men hashtag team Louis. Okay, this

541
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 2: is my question. I know, I don't even know if

542
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 2: you watched Jersey you probably don't. My guess I see.

543
00:25:57,440 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 3: It on you know, my tim. I feel like I

544
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 3: see enough of the juicy stuff or whatever.

545
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:08,280
Speaker 2: I just wonder why jan Aiden is feeling such a

546
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 2: need like I get if it was her husband. But

547
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: this is Teresa's mm hmmmm hmm. Like clearly, Megan Edmonds

548
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 2: didn't ask to say something. She was asked a question

549
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 2: and she answered it from coming from an like her

550
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 2: past husband. Allegedly she's said his narcissistic, So I think

551
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 2: she was speaking from experience because she has picked poorly

552
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 2: before HM and said that by the characteristics she knows

553
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 2: from who she's been with, she sees those things in Louis.

554
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 2: But I'm just wondering why Jen felt the need to comment.

555
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,159
Speaker 2: Is is she commenting because she really wants to have

556
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 2: Louis back? Or she commenting because she wants us to

557
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 2: talk about it, right, not us in particular, but anybody well.

558
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 3: And I note that she is you know, from what

559
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 3: I understand, she is friends with Teresa for sure, which

560
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 3: doesn't mean that she necessarily has to defend you know,

561
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 3: this situation. But I do know from what I know

562
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 3: that they are friends. In regards to Megan's comment, I

563
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:18,320
Speaker 3: feel like, you know, we always get asked those questions,

564
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 3: those uncomfortable questions, and I think, you know, there's always

565
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,119
Speaker 3: a way to answer it. Like, I don't know, I

566
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 3: just felt like it had like a little exclamation point

567
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: on it just sounded really like she said, like a

568
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 3: slim back slim but like it just yeah, it was

569
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: like a little heart and a paint for me, like Okay,

570
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 3: you don't like him on the show, I assume you

571
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 3: don't know him or whatever. I just felt like it

572
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 3: was a little hard, like you could just say, hey,

573
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 3: you know, from what I'm seeing on the show, I

574
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 3: don't like that guy. Keep it moving, you know what

575
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 3: I'm saying. It is what it is. I've met Louis,

576
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,120
Speaker 3: I went to their wedding. I've been around this man.

577
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 3: I've had dinner with Teresa and Louie. And my experience

578
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: with Louie is he is crazy about Teresa and Judice

579
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: and she's crazy about him. And I love them together.

580
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 2: And crazy in a good way. Crazy and it could

581
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 2: be a bad.

582
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 3: Way, in a good way, it was all love. Like

583
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 3: I liked them together and like again, but I'm not

584
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 3: in their business. I'm just their friend. I see them

585
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 3: when I see them, and I've never gotten like, oh wow,

586
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 3: Teresa should be careful. I'm getting bad vibes from this guy.

587
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: I've never gotten anything from Louie except great vibe. So

588
00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna leave it right there. And this is

589
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 3: someone who's been around, so I'm not just looking at

590
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 3: it on TV making Yeah, right, I'll leave it right there.

591
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 3: All right.

592
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: I got it. I got it, Okay, then another watch

593
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: What Happens Live is Garcel was on last night and

594
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 2: you know, of course Andy Andy does all the things

595
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 2: because you know, in the past Garcel called me a NAT,

596
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,600
Speaker 2: so of course he does the game called Teddy a NAT.

597
00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 2: But now I'm the one pet string you and I'm like,

598
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 2: I will never live down the NAT thing. I'm watching

599
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 2: it and Edwin's like, Teddy, what is a NAT?

600
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 3: Right?

601
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: Like, I think it's like a mosquito that he goes,

602
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 2: Is it like a fly? And I said, not a fly.

603
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 3: It's like in between a flying and mosquito. It's like

604
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: do they bite, No, but they're annoying. They just here.

605
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 3: You can kill. You can kill a fly. Net just

606
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 3: kind of like it like when you think it's gone,

607
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 3: it comes back, you know what I mean. I mean

608
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 3: that tracks.

609
00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, you gotta let it linger.

610
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 3: Let it linger. That is. I saw it on my

611
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 3: timeline and I never knew I would see the neat thing,

612
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 3: but I never knew where it originated. So that was

613
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 3: a moment I was like, oh it came from Garcel.

614
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 3: I never knew that until oh yeah.

615
00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 2: It's because every time I would hang out with Garcel

616
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 2: she'd be nice to my face. And then in her

617
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: confessional she goes, Teddy is like a gnat and everyone

618
00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 2: loved it, of course, and I was like, oh my gosh,

619
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 2: so I'm a boring nat Welcome to my freaking life.

620
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 2: But then Andy asked about Kyle and she said wow,

621
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,720
Speaker 2: and then says that it was a topic of conversation

622
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: this season between her and Sutton.

623
00:29:59,080 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

624
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 2: Then, uh, this one, I actually I feel Garcela on

625
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 2: this one. Garcela says Oliver was used on vander Pump Rules,

626
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: which do you remember that backstory? So yeah, so like

627
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: scanned of all it all. You know, Oliver was the

628
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 2: precursor to all of that because he was the one

629
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: that made out with Rachel Raquel.

630
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, then, but I knew it was like something happening.

631
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, so on camera. I'm not speaking of anything

632
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: that's off camera, so I'm not talking about her child

633
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 2: that wasn't shown on television.

634
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:38,480
Speaker 3: This was right, You just expected what happened.

635
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 2: So he made he They went to Vegas where he

636
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 2: works or I don't know if he still works there,

637
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: but where he worked, and Raquel and Laala both thought

638
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 2: he was cute, and then they all met up at

639
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:57,520
Speaker 2: a club afterwards or bar or whatever, and Raquel and

640
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: Oliver made out and then you know, a couple of

641
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 2: weeks later, a week later, he comes into town and

642
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: at the same time he comes into town, Oliver's uh

643
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,880
Speaker 2: mother of his children reaches out to Raquel.

644
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I remember seeing on online.

645
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, and says yeah, okay. But either way, that's

646
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,400
Speaker 2: why I'm assuming she says he felt used because this

647
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:27,080
Speaker 2: is this was the start of everything that happened in

648
00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: regards to Raquel being you know, a hashtag mistress or

649
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 2: whatever it is, like she is somebody you know that

650
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,600
Speaker 2: that I don't know who knows. It was all part

651
00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 2: of storyline. But then Garcel said she unfollowed La La

652
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: on Instagram because of her comments about Oliver. She got

653
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 2: sat at the same table as an LVP at the Gallas,

654
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 2: so she and Oliver got out. She answers, I don't

655
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 2: know when asked if the seating arrangement was on purpose.

656
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 2: So this is all interesting because Garcel, I warned you,

657
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:05,960
Speaker 2: I warned you.

658
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 3: You warned her? You did warn I did?

659
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 2: I did? I warned her.

660
00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 3: Let me just say this because I am friends with Garcela.

661
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 3: I've known her for years, and I think, you know,

662
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, you know, garcel handles

663
00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 3: herself with class. I don't think she's just looking for

664
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 3: smoke with people just necessarily obviously you and her don't

665
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 3: get along, or she didn't see it for you or whatever.

666
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: But that's neither here nor there, Nor is it my pa.

667
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:32,320
Speaker 2: But it's not even that I dislike Garcela.

668
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 3: It's just exactly, I just know, at the end of

669
00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 3: the day, if she unfollowed someone, or you know, when

670
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: it comes to our kids, it's included, it's off limits,

671
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 3: and I would unfollow, block, mute whatever, anybody that I

672
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 3: felt like I needed to if I was in my

673
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 3: feelings or I needed to protect my kid, yeah, or

674
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 3: if you don't.

675
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 2: Sometimes you just don't want to see it. You don't

676
00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,040
Speaker 2: hello that part that I'm like, do what you need

677
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 2: to do. Yeah, he signed up, he went on the show,

678
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 2: do what you gotta do. But I don't need to

679
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 2: see it. I have no interest in seeing it.

680
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 3: That's why I feel the same way. So you know,

681
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 3: she you we're all gonna do what's in the best

682
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 3: interests of the people that we love and want to protect.

683
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 2: And also, you guys don't need to tag us in

684
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 2: these things, like when you're coming for us on the

685
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 2: internet or anybody.

686
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:25,320
Speaker 3: And sent it to us anyway, so you don't have

687
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:25,880
Speaker 3: to tag.

688
00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 2: You don't have to tag us. And then in the

689
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 2: comments you don't have to tag us either. I do

690
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 2: not need to be alerted. I'm sure I'll hear about

691
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 2: it one way or another. And then this part she's

692
00:33:36,560 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 2: getting a little bit of heat on but she says

693
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: that Garcela says she knows who's behind the box, but

694
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: will never say publicly. She says it was multiple people.

695
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,600
Speaker 2: She accused other people at reunion, but it wasn't shown.

696
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 2: So I don't know if this is coming off of

697
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 2: Diana's you know, where she ended up dropping the I

698
00:33:57,360 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 2: think she dropped the charges or whatever it was, but

699
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: she was found that it wasn't her or whatever it was.

700
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 2: I'm assuming at this point Garcel doesn't even really want

701
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 2: to talk about it. But I do think if you're

702
00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 2: going to say you know who it is, but you're

703
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 2: not going to say, then it leads people to then

704
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:17,520
Speaker 2: come for other.

705
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 3: Conversation going because now it's like we've forgot about it,

706
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 3: and now it's like, wait, you know it is and

707
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 3: what happened, like you know, it kind of picks it

708
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,720
Speaker 3: back up a little bit. Yeah, So I think.

709
00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 2: In that point you said, you know, Garcela isn't one

710
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 2: to have, you know, to put smoke. But at this point,

711
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 2: like if she really wants it to go away, she

712
00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 2: could have.

713
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 3: Just said, you know, I don't want to talk about that.

714
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about it, or we figured

715
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 2: it out or you know, it's over. I just don't

716
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: want it to happen again. Like, but she what she

717
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 2: did right there was so it can be create.

718
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,320
Speaker 3: It maybe been a sparkler that she threw for sure,

719
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 3: But again I'm going to stand by my friend that

720
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 3: you know, she's first of all, she's on Andy's show,

721
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 3: so a lot of times we say stuffing like okay,

722
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:08,640
Speaker 3: I know hell, I mean, that's yea happens all the time.

723
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 3: So again I feel like my girl moves with intention

724
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: to really not go to what the smoke of. She

725
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 3: is on a reality show. So now you know, every

726
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: now and then you gotta throw a sparkle on the flame.

727
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 3: I guess yep, really good today I'm dodging all these bullets.

728
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 3: I know, you know what, Teddy, I will say this

729
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:30,160
Speaker 3: like when I like, I love this show and I

730
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 3: love like giving my opinion on the show because I

731
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 3: do feel like if anyone's ever been a housewife, this

732
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,040
Speaker 3: is certain things, like you know, we have empathy for

733
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 3: it because we've been yeah, a lot of the same things.

734
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 3: But when I tell you, like I was not giving

735
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 3: Gina like a hard time on last week's episode, but

736
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 3: you know, I definitely was like, Okay, she may be

737
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 3: being a little judgmental, and I think she's like using

738
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 3: like you know, I feel like she's being overly triggered

739
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 3: by this whole thing. It's not really her thing, but

740
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:56,520
Speaker 3: or whatever. And then somebody, of course jumped in my comments.

741
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:59,879
Speaker 3: It's like, why are you like being so mean to Gina.

742
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 3: I was like, what did I say about Gina? And

743
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 3: I was like, and it's just me just standing on

744
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:09,200
Speaker 3: like what I feel. Yeah, after I watched the show.

745
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 3: So it's I take my hat off to you to

746
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,600
Speaker 3: have this show you and Tamor, because it's like you're

747
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 3: damned if you do, You're damned if you don't. Yeah,

748
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:18,760
Speaker 3: if you don't.

749
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 2: Say anything, then you don't have an opinion.

750
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 3: Because it's boring because you're not really just you know,

751
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,920
Speaker 3: really giving your true feelings and opinions about it. And

752
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,439
Speaker 3: if you do, you're like, oh my god, like get

753
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 3: a life, Like why are you talking about them? Because

754
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 3: you have podcasts?

755
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:39,960
Speaker 2: And you're because because we're getting paid to show me

756
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: the money.

757
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 3: Not for free, like you just want to like talk

758
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 3: about I.

759
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 2: Oh god, why are you doing this? I'm like for fun.

760
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,080
Speaker 2: I love it. I mean I do love it, but

761
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:58,160
Speaker 2: it doesn't feel like work some days, and or like

762
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,839
Speaker 2: when ed when my husband leaves for work and I'm

763
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 2: like putting, I'm changing out of my workout clothes, showering

764
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,280
Speaker 2: and putting my jam. He's on to watch four hours

765
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 2: of Brava. He's like, must be nice. I'm like, is it.

766
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 3: All right?

767
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:18,439
Speaker 2: But getting into Orange County it starts off. Okay, I'm

768
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:22,240
Speaker 2: really in a place like having a hard time because

769
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: it starts out. Tarmra says Jin is not the only

770
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 2: married woman that Ryan ft and her gym. Tarmra says,

771
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: if she didn't care about Gin, she wouldn't have said anything. Okay,

772
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 2: do you think this is something that maybe should have

773
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 2: been mentioned off camera or do you think it had

774
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 2: been mentioned off camera or do you think.

775
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 3: Door for sure? If they are friends, she deserved a

776
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:51,200
Speaker 3: heads up, like the off camera heads up and you

777
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 3: know what I'm talking about where you say, hey, friend,

778
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,080
Speaker 3: there's a red dot on your head today, I have

779
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 3: to tell you something. It's you're man. I'm not gonna

780
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 3: go into details, but I have to tell you something.

781
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 3: We can have a bigger conversation later. I'm not gonna, like,

782
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 3: you know, completely destroy you in the scene, but I

783
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 3: gotta give you some information. And I want to tell

784
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 3: you in the scene. Are you saying you know what?

785
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 3: A lot of times girls will tell you what it

786
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 3: is and say I have to tell you the scene too.

787
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 3: However it is it's different for different shows. For me,

788
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 3: I always try to stay pretty authentic in that moment.

789
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: But if it's my friend, you better believe. I definitely

790
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 3: was like, hey, I gotta I gotta drop something on

791
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 3: you today, So Betty, and it's about A B and.

792
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: C Beverly Hills. Most of the time you don't get

793
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:39,359
Speaker 2: a warning like the girls won't tell you, but I

794
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 2: do remember there was one moment, like when Eric and

795
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: I were having it out right before she did. I

796
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 2: wish they would like show up what she kind of

797
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 2: looks at me, and she like gives me the like

798
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 2: like it's about it's happened. And if I could have

799
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 2: gone back and realized, like maybe I wouldn't have cried.

800
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 3: But don't she always like anytime the bread that was

801
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 3: on my head, I can read the energy because I'm

802
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 3: a good energy reader, and I'm like, because you know,

803
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 3: everybody else would be prepped and I'd be, yeah, well.

804
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 2: I always knew if I like was walking dinners, it's

805
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,760
Speaker 2: hard to tell when it's coming sometimes for me always

806
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 2: on a land I know, but like a lot of

807
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: the time i'd be like walking into something. I could

808
00:39:20,040 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 2: always feel it. When I was walking into something, I'd

809
00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:24,640
Speaker 2: be like walk, the door would start to open, I'd

810
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 2: be like, the handle feels hot, it's gonna be mine.

811
00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: Like But what I did, what I didn't necessarily realize,

812
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 2: was I thought that Jen, the way they've they've made

813
00:39:37,239 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 2: us all kind of think about this is that Jen

814
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 2: and Tamra were close friends, right, But I didn't realize

815
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 2: they kind of had like a falling out prior.

816
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't know that, Okay.

817
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Allegedly so yeah, yeah, so they this was something

818
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 2: that I saw just by looking at both of their

819
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 2: instas stories. So I guess Jen used to train at

820
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 2: Tamra's Jen Tamar and Eddie's Jim. It's because they trained

821
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 2: them for I'm gonna say whatever, the competition is wrong,

822
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:11,359
Speaker 2: but like body women's body building whatever. And then they

823
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 2: have another mutual friend named Heather who also is at

824
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,840
Speaker 2: the gym, who also was good friends with Ryan, and

825
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 2: there became issues, right, got it because of all this

826
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 2: stuff that's playing out on the show now. But so

827
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 2: going into the show, it's not like Tamar and Jen

828
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: were super close at that point in time, so that

829
00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:32,919
Speaker 2: at least gave me like, Okay, this makes more sense

830
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 2: now because what we're meant to believe is Tamar's brought

831
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 2: this girl in and now is just airing her dirty laundry.

832
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 2: But really, it's like when they thought that, you know,

833
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,280
Speaker 2: Dury brought me in and then me and Duried are fighting.

834
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, I met her one time prior, Like, calm down.

835
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 3: Okay, So now did I have that information what I

836
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 3: think is good or what I would appreciate if I

837
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 3: was in that position, if I was in Jen's position.

838
00:40:57,840 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 3: Whatever information you have on my man, just give it

839
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 3: to me all one time. Yes, just say he tried

840
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 3: to if me, he tried to if everybody else and

841
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 3: this person boom, that's it. Just clear the shoot the load,

842
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, and let me just

843
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: process it with that. Like what I don't like is

844
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:21,440
Speaker 3: just rationing it out, like oh and just when you

845
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 3: get past one hurt or you're like, oh, and by

846
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,200
Speaker 3: the way, he tried to sleep with you know this

847
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 3: person too, You're like, so I can like processes and

848
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 3: make the decision how I want to move with this man.

849
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 3: Just give me the information at one time and be

850
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 3: done with Yeah.

851
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 2: I know, I feel like I forgot about the fact

852
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 2: that that it was rationed out. We didn't get all

853
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 2: the jo But I think that's what ends up happening

854
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 2: anytime you're at an event or doing anything like this.

855
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 2: You know, when you're in Housewives, you you hope that

856
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:55,759
Speaker 2: you're going to give a little and then the other

857
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 2: person is going to share because you've opened the door

858
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: for them to do it so you don't have to

859
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 2: be the But then when they don't open up, then

860
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 2: you're like, damn it.

861
00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:08,320
Speaker 3: Back on, you go back again. I'm gonna talk.

862
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: About this tomorrow.

863
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 3: Like I gave me the door, walk through it, and

864
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 3: let us always the queen, Like I'd love to just

865
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 3: open up the door, and then I would love for

866
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 3: everybody else to really say the bad stuff, because I

867
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 3: never felt comfortable dropping the bomb bombs, but I would

868
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 3: be like, oh, put the bomb in place, but then

869
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 3: you guys drop me because I don't want any party.

870
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 2: I always had to drop the bombs and look where

871
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: I'm sitting.

872
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I dropping bombs and look at where

873
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 3: I'm sitting. So we're both sitting here on the same

874
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 3: podcast right now, So podcastle stir. Okay, I'm.

875
00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:56,880
Speaker 2: Stop it. I can't say that this episode, I laughed

876
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 2: a good amount, Like I when Tamra and Gin and

877
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 2: Taylor go whitewater rafting and the guy's balls are hanging

878
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 2: out and they're making the jokes about the spaghetti and

879
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: meatballs and all that tears were coming out of my eyes.

880
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:16,960
Speaker 2: I feel like the rafts Guid's balls were simply hanging

881
00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 2: out because they was like, I need to get out

882
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,360
Speaker 2: of this raft with these three driving, like get me

883
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 2: out of here. His balls were like escape.

884
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 3: You know, that's always such a tricky situation because I've

885
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 3: been in a situation where a guy had on like

886
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 3: loose shorts or whatever and they're sitting and they're not

887
00:43:32,560 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 3: conscious that guys don't sit with their legs close, and

888
00:43:34,520 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 3: the balls might be showing, and it's like so uncomfortable,

889
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 3: such an uncomfortable position to be in because you want

890
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 3: to like say, you know, like if my breast popped out,

891
00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 3: which happens all the time. I always appreciate when people say, hey,

892
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 3: you're nipples showings and the like. Yeah, but like I

893
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 3: always felt like I'm just gonna act like I don't

894
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 3: see this because I don't really want to have the

895
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 3: ball conversation and say, hey, you're the balls are showing

896
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:57,399
Speaker 3: right now.

897
00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:01,840
Speaker 2: But I would think, I mean, here's the thing. I yes,

898
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,399
Speaker 2: I always appreciate when somebody tells me I have food

899
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 2: and my teeth and my boob's hanging out or anything. Yeah.

900
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:09,799
Speaker 2: I mean the other day, I freaking get home, like

901
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 2: I'm like going through early menopause.

902
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,799
Speaker 3: I think and joined the club go ahead one time

903
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 3: early I'm into it.

904
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: Well, I get I'm on the airplane with my kids.

905
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 2: I get home and I have a huge stain on

906
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 2: my butt. And I go from my friend and I go, guys,

907
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: I look at Edwin and the kids and everyone. I go,

908
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 2: did I have this at the airport? And they're like yeah,

909
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, anyone gonna say it? And they were like, well,

910
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 2: we didn't really have to say.

911
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 3: You said you have a blood stain? Oh your butt?

912
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 3: Like like ties a sweater around it?

913
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, like do something like don't just let me aimlessly

914
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: wander around. But I don't know. It is something different

915
00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: when it's like the opposite gender and it's their privates,

916
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:04,800
Speaker 2: it's a little no, it's.

917
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 3: I get it. I get it. I was really concerned about, like,

918
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 3: you couldn't tell me that someone was not going to

919
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 3: fall out of that wrath that whole time, because it

920
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: was like my nerves were shot just watching it.

921
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 2: I know whether he's telling them to row and none

922
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 2: of them are rowing, or I was like, this looks frightening.

923
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,399
Speaker 2: And then but actually more frightening was watching the other

924
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:28,319
Speaker 2: women try to whatever they were doing, fly fishing, do

925
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 2: not of them swim? I'm like, what's happening here? They

926
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 2: all look it looked.

927
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 3: Dangerous, Yeah it did, and not not to mention like

928
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 3: they just don't. They're not going to balance either, Like

929
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 3: I've never seen the watering group of like dizzy falling over,

930
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 3: Like they weren't even like deep in the water. Like

931
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 3: I was like, Okay, you guys definitely didn't need to

932
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 3: be why work because you guys can't even just stand

933
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 3: in like two feet of water and throw a fishing

934
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 3: pole out whatever it is I know.

935
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 2: And then walking back, I mean all of it, I

936
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 2: was like this, and I'm like they're not drinking at

937
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 2: this point, so what's happening? But it was good. And

938
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: then they do the favorite game when you sit down

939
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: to a dinner and you talk about your highs and lows,

940
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 2: which is it's like, you know, your favorite thing or

941
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 2: what was one of your games, who's the prettiest?

942
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 3: That's what set me in cow.

943
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 2: Yes, So Shannon says she's so happy she got to

944
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:37,399
Speaker 2: reconnect with Tamra on this trip, and then Heather's low

945
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 2: is that she feels left out now that Tamra and

946
00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:44,560
Speaker 2: Shannon are friends again. Shannon gets emotional, saying she never

947
00:46:44,600 --> 00:46:48,439
Speaker 2: thought this would happen, and so she's upset that Heather

948
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: would say that, do you think Heather really cares about

949
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,439
Speaker 2: their friendship is or is more worried about her place

950
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 2: on the show.

951
00:46:55,600 --> 00:47:01,280
Speaker 3: Hmm, Well, from what you know, so new to Orange County,

952
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 3: So from what I can tell, I feel like Heather's

953
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 3: a pretty solid character on the show. I do like

954
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 3: her position on the show. I feel like she's definitely

955
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 3: needed on the show. So I I like her on

956
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 3: the show. So I don't know why she would feel

957
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 3: that way. But you know, we only are as good

958
00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 3: as the season we're shooting itself. Always. I feel like

959
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: most of us are always like, you know, are we

960
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 3: coming back? Are we coming back? However, I feel like

961
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 3: I don't feel like Heather was jealous per se. I

962
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 3: just think it just sucks when you just kind of

963
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 3: feel like the odd man out, because you know, I've

964
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,239
Speaker 3: been in that position where it's like you're glad that

965
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 3: they made up, but then like they're sleeping in the

966
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 3: bed together, like she wasn't invited to like be a

967
00:47:40,800 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 3: part of that, and those little things kind of like,

968
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 3: oh man, it's like I just think she just feels

969
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,359
Speaker 3: left out. I don't think it's like, man, I hate

970
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 3: they got back together. Now I'm out. I just think

971
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 3: she wants to be in the bed with them drunk too.

972
00:47:53,200 --> 00:47:54,759
Speaker 2: I think she was, you know.

973
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,720
Speaker 3: She felt a little like they always.

974
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 2: Say, three never works. Three just doesn't work. Doesn't work

975
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,120
Speaker 2: in relationships, doesn't work in friendships.

976
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 3: Three could be problematic by the number three is an

977
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 3: odd number because if you're the third person, you are

978
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:14,720
Speaker 3: literally the odd man out. Using it is what it is, and.

979
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,360
Speaker 2: I think that I can. I think what I'm just

980
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:22,960
Speaker 2: feeling like is she was a little intimidated when Tamor

981
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 2: came back because of their past issues. When they you know,

982
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,439
Speaker 2: they were good friends and they had issues and blah

983
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 2: blah blah, like all of their ups and downs in

984
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 2: the past. But I do feel like sometimes Heather feels

985
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 2: isolated because she's she puts up so many walls. So

986
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 2: then it starts, how can you get close to somebody

987
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 2: if if you're always the fixer, if you're always the

988
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 2: one you know that knows better, or that is done

989
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: the most, or has the most money, it's always the

990
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: upper the upper one. It's hard to connect.

991
00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 3: It's hard to Heather and Tamra two different personalities. Uh,

992
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 3: Heather's guarded, guarded. Heather's guarded. Tamra has no Tamra's open books.

993
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 3: She's all over the place. She just puts it all

994
00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 3: out there. She's like, hey, here, whatever, whatever, And I

995
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:15,759
Speaker 3: feel like Heather is the complete opposite of that. So

996
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 3: I think, what the result is going to be accordingly

997
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 3: to the person in that person's personality. Yeah, no, I agree, Like,

998
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:26,680
Speaker 3: you can't expect Tamra results.

999
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 2: If you're not tamor you know, And I think, but

1000
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,560
Speaker 2: the problem is when you and you know this because

1001
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 2: of what we were just talking about earlier. But the

1002
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 2: problem is now that Heather said it, I feel like

1003
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 2: it's going to be even a bigger divide because if

1004
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:42,800
Speaker 2: you are a somebody that doesn't get fomar isn't that way.

1005
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: And it's like, I have a girlfriend and I have

1006
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 2: to tell her she's one of those people that she

1007
00:49:47,000 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 2: wants everybody to be included into everything, and I'm not

1008
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 2: that person. Like I'm I want like a one in

1009
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:54,840
Speaker 2: one dinner catch up sometimes and even though we're a

1010
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: group of you know, five girlfriends, sometimes I'm like, no,

1011
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 2: I just want to see this one are like. And

1012
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:03,279
Speaker 2: it's not because I don't love you, it's because it's

1013
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:07,239
Speaker 2: hard to have deeper, meaningful conversations if we're all there

1014
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: all the time. And I just had to tell her, like,

1015
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 2: that's that's my love language with my friends. It's like, yes,

1016
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:17,000
Speaker 2: I love to do big group gatherings, but sometimes I

1017
00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 2: like the one in one And it's not because I

1018
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,720
Speaker 2: don't want to be with you, right, but I think

1019
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 2: but the problem is once somebody, you know, once you

1020
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 2: kind of lay that groundwork and then they keep coming

1021
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 2: for you, that's where then you start to pull away.

1022
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 2: So I'm wondering now if we're going to start to

1023
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 2: see Tamra and Shannon actually pushing Tamra away, I don't

1024
00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 2: think they were doing I mean pushing Heather away now.

1025
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's going to be interesting to see how

1026
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 3: that plays out. It really is, I do say, I

1027
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 3: bo said. I do love love love love the Tamara

1028
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 3: and Shannon are back together. Yeah, Like it's great, Like

1029
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 3: I love their friendship and Heather will just have to

1030
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:00,320
Speaker 3: figure it out. It does. I understand her fee.

1031
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 2: I understand her feelings, but I think she has to

1032
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,040
Speaker 2: figure out who she really wants to be friends with

1033
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 2: and who she really wants to connect with and then

1034
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 2: build that. I mean, I think even Gina made a

1035
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:14,399
Speaker 2: good point, she said, Heather said, I can't call you

1036
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:18,919
Speaker 2: and I can't reach out to you. To Travis, she goes,

1037
00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 2: but then Heather didn't check on me, and then Heather

1038
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: wasn't there for me. So it's like, if you want

1039
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 2: a closer friendship, you want to solidify these relationships, doesn't

1040
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:28,960
Speaker 2: have to work in.

1041
00:51:29,239 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 3: That's what I was gonna say. I think what Heather

1042
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 3: has to figure out is, like I can see from

1043
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 3: watching her how she shows up as a mom. I

1044
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: just need to figure out how she wants to show

1045
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 3: up as a friend of these ladies, because you know,

1046
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:44,360
Speaker 3: some people need a lot, some people need less. It

1047
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 3: just seems like, you know, she just needs to figure

1048
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:48,439
Speaker 3: out how she fits in and how much she wants

1049
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 3: to give as a friend.

1050
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 2: Yeah. But I think even in that moment once she

1051
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: realized that they were hurt, you saw her like immediately go.

1052
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 3: Like, oh, shoot, yeah, what did I say? What did it?

1053
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 2: Yeah? Like I didn't even Like I think she was

1054
00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 2: just trying to say like I'm feeling a little left out.

1055
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 3: But I think this is her truth and I have honesty,

1056
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 3: and that's why I feel like it wasn't coming from

1057
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 3: a jealous place. I just feel like she just feels

1058
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 3: left out, and it sucks to feel left out when

1059
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 3: the people you've been hanging out with, you know.

1060
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that was her version of being vulnerable

1061
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 2: and then and then a bitter so, you know, I.

1062
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 3: Know she's like, I dam but I should have just

1063
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: stayed my strong guard itself lessen.

1064
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: I should have said I have no.

1065
00:52:28,160 --> 00:52:32,439
Speaker 3: Loaves, I'm going to have loaves. Yeah.

1066
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 2: But then they were saying that they thought that she

1067
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:39,760
Speaker 2: didn't bring up the stuff with Taylor because she didn't

1068
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,360
Speaker 2: want it to be talked about again, which I always

1069
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:45,000
Speaker 2: wonder when when people say that, they're like, oh, you know,

1070
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,879
Speaker 2: I do we think that it was planned to not

1071
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 2: talk about it again, or you think just in the

1072
00:52:49,719 --> 00:52:53,279
Speaker 2: moment she was like, this is my low because this

1073
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 2: recently happened, Or do you think she really was like, Oh,

1074
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,279
Speaker 2: I just don't want to talk about my career stuff again.

1075
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,759
Speaker 3: I think I mean, she kind of unloaded on t

1076
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 3: I think when she said what she had to say,

1077
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 3: she was probably just over it. And I think, honestly,

1078
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 3: from an emotional standpoint, her true love was probably, you know,

1079
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 3: feeling isolated from her friends, like once you like, I

1080
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 3: mean I'm the kind of person. Once I blow your

1081
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 3: head off and get it over with, I'm actually good. Yeah,

1082
00:53:18,680 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 3: no longer a low I said. Now, if you hurt

1083
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:25,759
Speaker 3: my feelings and leave me out, then that makes me sad.

1084
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 3: That would be not actually getting in the closure I

1085
00:53:28,400 --> 00:53:30,520
Speaker 3: need from you saying something that hurt my feelings and

1086
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,600
Speaker 3: me saying, hey, well that sucks, and you're an ASSHOLEE

1087
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 3: for saying it. We're good, you know, No, that makes sense.

1088
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 2: Then we get home from the trip, which I feel

1089
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 2: like has been going on quite a long time. But

1090
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 2: I did I did enjoy it. I thought they did

1091
00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 2: a lot of things. I like that all of them participated.

1092
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:57,440
Speaker 2: Then we get to Tamor telling Eddie what Ryan Jen's

1093
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:03,000
Speaker 2: boyfriend said about wanting to her at cut Eddie's well,

1094
00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:06,760
Speaker 2: my favorite part is Eddie's face when he goes, really,

1095
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 2: I why not know? And then he says he went

1096
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 2: over to Ryan's house and one of his friends told

1097
00:54:18,280 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: him that Ryan has a reputation for going after married women.

1098
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 2: This then remind this reminds Tamra of Brooks and Vicki

1099
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: all over again. Do we really feel like Ryan is

1100
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 2: at the level of Brooks level of deceit Brooks to

1101
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,360
Speaker 2: give you backstory. Brooks pretended he had it cancer.

1102
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 3: Oh oh, I did hear about that? Okay, okay got its.

1103
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think they are in different places, but

1104
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 2: I I don't know. I'm still trying to give Ryan

1105
00:54:49,680 --> 00:54:51,719
Speaker 2: the benefit of the doubt, even though I did check

1106
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 2: snapchat and you can't what he's alleging happened with the

1107
00:54:55,080 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 2: dick pic can't happen. But I like Jen, So I'm

1108
00:54:59,320 --> 00:55:01,919
Speaker 2: trying to give Ryan the benefit of the down right

1109
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 2: right right, But I could be proven wrong.

1110
00:55:04,640 --> 00:55:09,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I gotta just see how this thing plays out.

1111
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 3: Right now. I'm team Gin, I'm team Love. It looks

1112
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:16,439
Speaker 3: like it's a mess on that end, but I do

1113
00:55:16,600 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 3: like the way that Jin is handling everything because I

1114
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,399
Speaker 3: would have lost my shit on these women a few

1115
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: episodes ago.

1116
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 2: To be hop Yeah, I have a feeling if she

1117
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 2: you know, I hope she does, but I hope she

1118
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,440
Speaker 2: stays around a couple of seasons. I feel like once

1119
00:55:29,480 --> 00:55:34,040
Speaker 2: she gets comfortable, I think she's just first season. Yeah,

1120
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,839
Speaker 2: Like you get more in your feelings, you're more emotional,

1121
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 2: like you're inside of yourself, Like you you're so shocked

1122
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 2: that this is happening.

1123
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 3: Like there's nothing like first season, you turn up, you

1124
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 3: don't know what you're doing. You're like okay, and then

1125
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,400
Speaker 3: you're like wait, like you don't even realize they're coming

1126
00:55:47,400 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 3: for you first season, Like you're.

1127
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:53,480
Speaker 2: Like that's like, yeah, you're just even though you watch,

1128
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 2: even if you watch the show, you still have no

1129
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 2: idea what it actually is like. But the fan reaction

1130
00:55:58,480 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 2: has been good to her.

1131
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you always go home going dammit, I should

1132
00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,719
Speaker 3: have said this when she said that. When did I

1133
00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 3: say that?

1134
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 2: What?

1135
00:56:05,400 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 3: I respond this way? Like, I beat myself up all

1136
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,120
Speaker 3: first season looking at the show, thinking what did I

1137
00:56:11,160 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 3: just look like I do in her headlights when this

1138
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 3: woman clearly insulted me.

1139
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 2: Like you're it's like, come on, my reaction. Time needs

1140
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:22,719
Speaker 2: to get it together, wake up?

1141
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:26,280
Speaker 3: All right, right, it'll be good to see what happens.

1142
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 3: And she makes it bag so.

1143
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 2: But then in TAM's confessional, she says that her and

1144
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 2: Jen and Heather used to be the trace of me

1145
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 2: gas like they used to all be close. I'm like,

1146
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: we need to get Heather on the show already, because

1147
00:56:38,200 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 2: all this talk.

1148
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 3: About Heather someone who's not on the show right now.

1149
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,120
Speaker 2: My favorite part is Jen holding a mug that says

1150
00:56:45,200 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 2: be honest as Ryan, maybe telling a little bit of

1151
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 2: a fib that's that.

1152
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's brilliant.

1153
00:56:55,719 --> 00:56:58,960
Speaker 2: I was like, uh huh ah and then like the

1154
00:56:59,120 --> 00:57:01,720
Speaker 2: dog even looks into the camera like can you believe

1155
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: this bullshit? I thought it was pretty great, but we'll

1156
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,319
Speaker 2: have to see I want to still see it. I

1157
00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 2: think thank God for Tamra and Jen because that is

1158
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:15,520
Speaker 2: holding this season down because now we are back to

1159
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: talking about Matt Gina's ex husband.

1160
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 3: Yep, yep, yep, yep. Yeah.

1161
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 2: I mean Travis seems does seem like a good guy.

1162
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: It made me really want Foe. I want them right now.

1163
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 3: I do too.

1164
00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 2: But what are your thoughts on sharing everything with your

1165
00:57:37,040 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 2: ex about your ex with your new I think, I think.

1166
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 3: For me, when I'm in relationships, it's good to have

1167
00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 3: insight of people's backstories with past relationships, like especially if

1168
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 3: it was like traumatizing for them, right, I think we're

1169
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 3: I don't once you tell me what it is, if

1170
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 3: you're going to be true to every five minutes about it,

1171
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 3: that for me makes me feel like are you off

1172
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 3: this guy? Are?

1173
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:04,960
Speaker 2: Like?

1174
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 3: What? Like, what's happening that makes it weird, like sharing

1175
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 3: and said, hey, this is my story, this is what

1176
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 3: it came from, this is what happened, this is what

1177
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 3: happened X. This really messed me up. Whatever harken or whatever.

1178
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 3: I'm with you now, I'm a work in progress.

1179
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 2: Whatever. Yeah, I mean that that's how I feel too.

1180
00:58:22,960 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: I mean a little bit. I was like, do we

1181
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 2: need to start calling gena broken foot because she's using

1182
00:58:29,120 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 2: Travis as a crutch, Like I'm wondering, like it's one

1183
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 2: thing to be upset, Like there are moments in my

1184
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 2: life where I will say, like, gosh, I'll have a

1185
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 2: moment where I'll think about my ex husband. Not because

1186
00:58:42,760 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 2: I'm sad, but I'm like, oh my gosh, that was

1187
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 2: such a fun time. That was like a situation. Most

1188
00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 2: of the time, I don't need to share that information

1189
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 2: with Edwin.

1190
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 3: You go thinking about it as one part yeah, feeling

1191
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,720
Speaker 3: I need to share is is. I don't know. I

1192
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,160
Speaker 3: don't think it's necessary either, but I will say, and

1193
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 3: his defendancy just seems like such a great guy, like

1194
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 3: he was just like no, it's fine, just you know,

1195
00:59:05,040 --> 00:59:08,320
Speaker 3: tell me what or whatever. But I don't know. I

1196
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 3: just think even if he's a sport about it, teddy,

1197
00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 3: I just think that she should just have enough. It's like,

1198
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:16,720
Speaker 3: I think the best thing to do is put you

1199
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 3: on another foot. Would she want to keep hearing about

1200
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 3: it if it's him?

1201
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 2: And then it made me sad when he goes, don't worry,

1202
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 2: I'm not going anywhere. I'm too fat. No, I don't

1203
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:28,439
Speaker 2: say that.

1204
00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:35,000
Speaker 4: No, I know, but he seems like a good guy. Yeah,

1205
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 4: but I feel like Gina's going through it a little

1206
00:59:38,680 --> 00:59:41,360
Speaker 4: bit when even when she says that she was triggered

1207
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 4: going to a church wedding because yeah, she saw a church.

1208
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't want to like belittle her triggering

1209
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 3: because it is a real thing, and I know, like

1210
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 3: you know that's real. Like I am triggered all the

1211
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 3: time by stuff as well.

1212
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:58,280
Speaker 2: But I think triggered is a very strong word. Do

1213
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:02,080
Speaker 2: sometimes things and maybe I'm a little overused, That's what

1214
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 2: I mean, like gaslighting, triggering, narsses, like we all throw

1215
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 2: all the worlds around so much.

1216
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 3: I think everyone's a narcissist at this point, now that

1217
01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 3: I understand, I mean personality and disorder. That is love

1218
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 3: bombing you are love Like now I'm like, who's not

1219
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 3: a narcissist?

1220
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 2: Who's not one? I'm no one on Bravo, But either way,

1221
01:00:29,240 --> 01:00:32,280
Speaker 2: I think I think it's picking up. I'm liking the cast,

1222
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 2: I'm liking the dynamics.

1223
01:00:34,520 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 3: I want to see where it's gonna go with Gina

1224
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 3: because she's the one that I feel like I don't

1225
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 3: I want to know more about her and her her stuff,

1226
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 3: but in a less triggering way, you know. And I

1227
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 3: love this cast and I'm really falling in love with

1228
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:52,520
Speaker 3: the show thanks to you guys, because I never really

1229
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:54,720
Speaker 3: focused on and I watched it before, and I'm really

1230
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 3: becoming invested in these ladies. And it's it's it's fun

1231
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,000
Speaker 3: because you know, it's always something. Great thing about these

1232
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 3: shows is you can always a little something and put

1233
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:02,400
Speaker 3: it in your life and be like, you know what,

1234
01:01:02,480 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 3: I was kind of thinking something similar, or this happened

1235
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:07,520
Speaker 3: to me the other day, and it's it's I always

1236
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 3: love the the conflict resolution part of it. Like I

1237
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 3: pass the drama and like what you know, how how

1238
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 3: people deal with being in clearly very uncomfortable situations where

1239
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 3: you know they're more than likely set up situation to

1240
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 3: get to the five and get out of it and

1241
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 3: actually still live a great life on and off the show, well.

1242
01:01:26,920 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: What I do. I also liked is that the fan

1243
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:32,720
Speaker 2: thoughts when we checked on our Instagram, they were all

1244
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:36,479
Speaker 2: positive in the way that like, I'm laughing, I'm enjoying this,

1245
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:39,919
Speaker 2: this is fun, Like even though there is drama within it,

1246
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 2: it's nothing is so life altering or things that they

1247
01:01:44,080 --> 01:01:48,960
Speaker 2: don't already know right exactly. So I am appreciating the

1248
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:53,160
Speaker 2: show and appreciating you. But that's it for today. I'll

1249
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 2: see you next week, all right, Bye you guys.

1250
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 3: Bye.