1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Today I have to up by having a threesome with 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: my fiance and his best friend, how best how friend. 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: This comes from J and J J three W three Y, 4 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 1: who is also a member of our slow stockery story 5 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: Time sending your stories. There were popping off, but let's 6 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: dive into this one popping off. I thirty female in 7 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 1: my fiance thirty male, have been in a monogamous relationship 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 1: for the past five years. And while he is very 9 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: experienced okay, al brag, weird flags but okay, and has 10 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: pretty much seen and done it all while living it 11 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 1: up in his early twenties, I have much less experience 12 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: in both the dating world and with spicy sleep in general. 13 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 1: That is an organic use of spicy sleep. E. 14 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: It's gonna catch on. 15 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: It's catching it's catching on already, like fire, come on 16 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 1: the barley. That's right, it's it's catching its fucked fire 17 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: around barley? Is barley easily flammable? 18 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 2: Really? 19 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's confirmed. We don't need to look that up 20 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 1: at all. My experiences are solely with long term partners 21 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: and nothing overly crazy or wild. He and I had 22 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,720 Speaker 1: talked in the past about what we would and would 23 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 1: not be willing to try in bed and a threesome 24 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: with a trusted friend was on the list of possibilities, 25 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: so it was pre discussed that it could it could happen. 26 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 2: We're all getting these friends though, like. 27 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: I've hm threesome friends dot com the source for friends 28 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: who are also threesome participating. 29 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: You know, I feel like we've read a lot of 30 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:44,399 Speaker 2: stories where people are like, Yeah, we had this friend 31 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:45,919 Speaker 2: who's just up friends. 32 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: Some of these friends. 33 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: Are you go into that friendship with that always there? 34 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: You know what? 35 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 2: Or is it like all you build it? 36 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: I think it's a birds of a feather flock together. Ah. 37 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: So if you are the person that would would want 38 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: a threesome friend, you will probably attract other people who 39 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: want some friends and boom a match made in trimony. 40 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 1: Is it a word? It is now at the time, 41 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: we also discussed which of our friends would make the 42 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: cut for both of us. 43 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 2: They have a Bachelor style competition, like you are our 44 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 2: threesome friends. 45 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 1: Jamie, Alex. You both brought great qualities to the. 46 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 2: Table, but only one should be the threesome friends. 47 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 1: You should do that after this commercial break. 48 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: This should be this should be a new show. 49 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: That is true. That would be pretty wild. 50 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, the catchphrase is a triangle is the strongest shape. 51 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: You just crushed that. Are you a team? Are you 52 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: an early two thousands reality show TV producer Sophia because 53 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: that was amazing. 54 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 2: Thank you. 55 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:57,960 Speaker 1: As for the people who would make the cut for 56 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: both of us, his best friend twenty nine, let's call 57 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: him Josh, was an instant yes for us. Both. For me, 58 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,360 Speaker 1: it was because Josh was sweet and attractive and being 59 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: around him was always comfortable. How comfortable apparently very My partner, 60 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: being a heterosexual man, chose him for two different reasons. 61 00:03:19,639 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: Number one, he was positive that Josh was smaller than 62 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: him boom made it to. 63 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,239 Speaker 2: The lists interesting. 64 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: And he would not have to compete with him in size. 65 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: Don't get me started on this reasoning. I am not 66 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:35,840 Speaker 1: going down the rabbit hole of toxic male masculinity and 67 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: size inferiority. And number two, Josh was a. 68 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: Virgent Okay, I was about to ask, what's it like? 69 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: Why did he suggest this? What's in it for him? 70 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: But it seems like he's just trying to help his 71 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 2: friend out, which is slightly strange. 72 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: I was reading. He's like, you know, Josh ain't no 73 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: competition for old me here. He ain't got the size 74 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 1: or the experience up to the task, so I'll say, hey, Josh, 75 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 1: let me show you how it's done. That's the vibes 76 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: that I'm getting if. 77 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: He is suggesting the threesome, because that's how I read 78 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 2: it as he was bringing this on the table. 79 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:16,520 Speaker 1: I think he more or less led the threesome. But 80 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 1: both of them were like in their lists. Josh was 81 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:20,279 Speaker 1: in both of their lists. 82 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 2: Okay, okay. 83 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: My closest guess is that he's like, what's kind of 84 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,200 Speaker 1: like getting him off in this scenario is that he's 85 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: like the better one at Spicy Sleep of the two 86 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 1: of them, and he can kind of like friend Josh. 87 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: I guess he was a virgin, who knows. A few 88 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,840 Speaker 1: weeks ago, my fiance got it into his head that 89 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 1: we really needed to do this free zome and started 90 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 1: talking about it with me and planning it. I played 91 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: along because honestly, it was a turn on to think about, 92 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 1: and whenever we would get talking about it, we would 93 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: role play and pretend that it was happening in you 94 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: know what It hlped me up to, not me but hope. 95 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: But I don't think I ever really thought we would 96 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: actually go through with it. Oh, but he is planning it. 97 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, I think that you like, in this scenario, 98 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 2: you need to be really on board. And if you're 99 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 2: not really on board, then you have to you have 100 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: to let him know. 101 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: Now, my fiance can be the jealous type for one, 102 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: and I highly doubted that Josh would want this as 103 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: his first ever experience. But ladies and gentlemen, I was wrong. 104 00:05:30,200 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 1: Fast forward to that fateful night. Oh we we're here. 105 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: We're here, faithful night is here. 106 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: I was not expecting to get to progress so quickly, 107 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: I ask laated quickly. The three of us were hanging 108 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: out when my fiance came up to me and whispered, 109 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: he's down. 110 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: We never got together, and he was like, it's happening, happening, everyone, 111 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: stay home, it's happening. 112 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:56,039 Speaker 1: Confused at first, I asked him what he meant, you know, 113 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,200 Speaker 1: he said with a wink. 114 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, oh, you have to plan that. Put 115 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 2: that in your Google calendar. 116 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: Putting it in calendar now, instant embarrassing. I could not 117 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: look Josh in the eye for the rest of the night, 118 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,920 Speaker 1: knowing that my fiance just proposition this man for a threesome. 119 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: Despite it being his first time, and he actually agreed. 120 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 1: I played through all the worst case scenarios in my mind, 121 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: just a very quick pause. OPI is uncomfortable and that 122 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 1: should immediate. 123 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 2: Yet no, I mean that what I'm saying, if you 124 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: were not one hundred percent on board, like your partner 125 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 2: should make sure that you're one hundred percent on board. Yes, 126 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 2: if you're uncomfortable at all, done. Obviously I'm joking about 127 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 2: calendar invite, but there should be communication about this is 128 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 2: the tenth time, or like you're you are one hundred 129 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 2: percent on board for this right, there should have been 130 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 2: that conversation and there wasn't. And the fact that OPI 131 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 2: feels at all uncomfortable is like blazing red flags on 132 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: the part bad of your partner. 133 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: I played through all the worst case scenarios in my mind, 134 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: dragging my feet for as long as humanly possible, until 135 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: it was late into the night and I had to 136 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: make my final decision. Josh goes out first smoke and 137 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: my fiance asked if I'm ready. Hell, no, I'm not. 138 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: I start to cry a little from nerves. He says, 139 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,200 Speaker 1: it's okay if I don't want to, but I have 140 00:07:13,280 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 1: to decide now because he is coming back, and then it's. 141 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: Go to That is not how you say it's okay 142 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 2: if you don't want to, and then proceed to put 143 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: pressure on them. 144 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 1: Chill, bro. 145 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 2: Chill, do it another night. Why does it have to 146 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: happen tonight? 147 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: Josh returns and my fiance calls him over to sit 148 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 1: beside us on the couch. Oh my god, I brush 149 00:07:35,680 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 1: away my tears. 150 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 2: If your partner is crying, stop. 151 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: I brush away my tears and decide to just go 152 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: for it. If it's awful, we can stop, and I 153 00:07:50,960 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: would likely regret not going for it and having this experience. Yolo, right, Yolo, No, 154 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: tell my heart that it's just starting and I'm about 155 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: to freak out. And then Josh kisses me. It's sweet 156 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:11,400 Speaker 1: and gentle, but also curious and just really nice. Okay, 157 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: probably the first first kiss I've had where the man 158 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: didn't immediately shove his tongue down my throat. 159 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 2: What the frick? Op, that's not how you kiss. 160 00:08:21,760 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: Man, blend twice. 161 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: If you need us, please come and get you out. 162 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 2: Please leave this other man. 163 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:30,720 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. Maybe maybe go for Josh the rest 164 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 1: of the night, When just as well had I not 165 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 1: known he lacked experience. I never would have guessed. There 166 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: were no really awkward moments and it all went very well. 167 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 1: He was very sweet and worried about my comfort, treating 168 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: me as if I would break Okay, okay, yeah, No. 169 00:08:53,760 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 1: My fiance managed to get off twice. 170 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 2: You know what, I don't want you to get off. 171 00:08:58,760 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 2: I want you get out. 172 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 1: Don't get me out. Lee. However, Josh and I did 173 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: not once not to say that it wasn't enjoyable. On 174 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 1: my part. Not getting home is par for the course 175 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 1: for me when it comes to a new partner. It 176 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 1: takes me time for me to feel comfortable enough for that. Josh, 177 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:23,600 Speaker 1: despite maintaining his salute for the entire two hour experience, 178 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:28,199 Speaker 1: did not finish either, which I admit was slightly disappointing 179 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 1: in a little bit of an ego bruise. The next 180 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 1: morning was slightly awkward. I guess they decided to keep 181 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: the good times rolling. I felt like things had shifted 182 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: between Josh and me, but my fiance was his usual 183 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,520 Speaker 1: self and he had agreed between the three of us 184 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: that we would be up for continuing where we left 185 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 1: off at a later date. We parted ways with a 186 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: very prolonged hug, which took me by surprise but was 187 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: not unpleasant. My fiance later asked about it, and I 188 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: joked that it was probably a thank you hug. Josh 189 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,960 Speaker 1: and I never really spoke outside of him coming to 190 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: hang out with my fiance, But after that night I 191 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:12,520 Speaker 1: was left with burning questions. Why didn't he finish? Was 192 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: I doing something wrong? Was it the situation I wanted 193 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: to know, especially if there was going to be a 194 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 1: next time. The man had already seen me naked, so 195 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: I might as well question his man. 196 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: Made and ask ask why he didn't get off all right. 197 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: Thankfully, Josh has an excellent sense of humor, because I 198 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: had thought it would be a good icebreaker to hit 199 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: him with a good old STD joke, Oh no, kill me. 200 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: He didn't mind any questions and answered honestly, yeah, hey, virgin, 201 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:49,240 Speaker 1: do you got anything going on? 202 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: Als Wigan says man he had twice the audience for 203 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 2: his first performance. Give him a break. 204 00:10:56,320 --> 00:10:59,600 Speaker 1: First question led to many more questions. Talking and getting 205 00:10:59,640 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: to know each each other outside in this time, I 206 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,079 Speaker 1: didn't question it. I wanted to know him. I enjoyed 207 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 1: talking to him, and before long I was obsessively checking 208 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 1: my phone, wondering what was he doing, what was he thinking? 209 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 1: Then I asked the leading questions, questions I knew I 210 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: shouldn't ask, oh, questions that I needed to hear the 211 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:25,080 Speaker 1: answer to, but I already knew. It all came to 212 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: an end with a romantic confession. It was too hard 213 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 1: to keep it going this way, It wouldn't be right 214 00:11:31,120 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 1: to do it again, and it was best to go 215 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: our separate ways. Now we only saw each other one 216 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: to two times a year. Anyways, I couldn't deny I 217 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: felt the same, but maintained that he just had feelings 218 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 1: for me because I was his first, and that it 219 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: would pass for him regardless. There was only one course 220 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: of action, date him, Throw it all on the line. 221 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 2: Date him, break up your fiance, and then date him. 222 00:11:56,040 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: That does seem like the best, That's the solution. Kamsas says, 223 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,200 Speaker 1: as a demisexual, I cannot nut with someone I don't 224 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: have a bond with. 225 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: It probably could be that could. 226 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: Be that it's only been two weeks, but I feel 227 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: like I have lost my best friend and I'm going 228 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:17,599 Speaker 1: through a bad breakup the same time, and I'm a 229 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 1: little confused. But I think She's like, we're distancing ourselves 230 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,079 Speaker 1: from Josh, so it feels like a breakup. It feels 231 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,559 Speaker 1: like I'm losing a friend and all at the same time, 232 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: I believe in open honesty, and my fiance knows everything. 233 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: Though he was not impressed, he understands how it happened 234 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: and does not hold it against either of us. I, 235 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 1: on the other hand, am not well. I feel guilty 236 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: and awful for the whole thing. I miss Josh like crazy, 237 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: but no, we can't even be friends now, and feel 238 00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 1: even more guilty and off for wishing that we could. 239 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:50,920 Speaker 1: We're still as knowing that I put a strain on 240 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: their fifteen year friendship by being in between them literally 241 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:59,280 Speaker 1: and figuratively. I wish that the whole thing never happened 242 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: to spar us all the time turmoil, and in the 243 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,479 Speaker 1: same breath, am so grateful for both for the experience 244 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: and getting the honor of being Josh's first Any advice 245 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: on how to get past this would be great. And 246 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: the final relevant comment from Riley, who just added, it 247 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 1: was it you who caught romantic feelings? Just Josh or 248 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: both of you? To what Joep responds, Josh admitted to 249 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: catching feelings for me, but I also felt the same girl. 250 00:13:25,360 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 2: We'll go get him, Go get him, go get him. 251 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 1: And you are exactly right. We did not discuss nearly 252 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 1: enough beforehand what the aftermath might look like. It all 253 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:36,120 Speaker 1: happened well. 254 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:42,440 Speaker 2: The discussion was it's happening. That was the discussion, which 255 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 2: is why all of this is happening. 256 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,439 Speaker 1: The context was in the eyebrow raise. It was like, 257 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,559 Speaker 1: you know, like you're I'm sorry, I don't like your 258 00:13:49,559 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 1: fiance an eyebrow. Some toxic fiance is saying, eyebrow raise 259 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: is worth a thousand words, Sophia. I heard that that's 260 00:13:56,360 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: what some toxic fiance. I feel complicit because I should 261 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,839 Speaker 1: have known that I could get emotionally attached. As you 262 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: pointed out, some people can have meaningless coitus, but I 263 00:14:08,120 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: am not one of those people. I am incapable of 264 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: turning off my feelings when it comes to that, and 265 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: I one one hundred percent knew that about myself. Not 266 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: to mention, there's a big difference between effin and intimacy, 267 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: and that definitely felt intimate to me. Another part of 268 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,160 Speaker 1: me wonders if we both might have had some feelings 269 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: for each other going in I know I was definitely 270 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: attracted to him, but never really thought of anything past 271 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,880 Speaker 1: that because it wasn't a possibility, So why waste the energy? 272 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: Have you? But maybe that ran deeper than I had thought, 273 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 1: and the fact that he jumped into opportunity might have 274 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: suggested that he did too. Or maybe he just wanted 275 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: to do it. Hah. I don't know. As you can tell, 276 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: I am still thinking about it. I need something to 277 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: take my mind off it, or keep your mind on it. 278 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: Maybe not it As for next time, I have no 279 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 1: interest in trying with another man. I could see myself 280 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 1: trying it with another woman for my fiance, but after 281 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 1: this fiasco I have no drive to go there again 282 00:15:10,560 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: for a very long time. 283 00:15:12,480 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 2: It would be hilarious if the fiance became a match maker. 284 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: Oh p, leave your fiance Okay, sorry he was, and 285 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 2: I'm still saying that. Oh P, yeah, oh Pee, you 286 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 2: are an okay fam? Okay fam. And I say this 287 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:30,480 Speaker 2: to you in a loving way because I love you. 288 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 2: I don't like your fiance. Oh sorry, I'm sorry. 289 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: Hey, you know what. Sorry, that's okay, speak your mind. 290 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 1: But I like Josh like Josh, you like, and Josh 291 00:15:41,120 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: likes you. Will get a poll with the whole community, 292 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 1: the whole community. 293 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 294 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: I love you, I love you, love you, and you. 295 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:52,359 Speaker 2: Know what, you have a right to make your own decisions. 296 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 2: And if you want to stay with this person, you 297 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: know you know your relationship better. 298 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:56,560 Speaker 1: Than we do. 299 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: We're only getting a little little looking a little liber 300 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: a little What did you say? 301 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 1: I said sliver? You said, I I like how you're like, 302 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,680 Speaker 1: You're like a little liver. What did you say? What 303 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: was that crazy that you just said? 304 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 2: I know, I thought you said liver and then I 305 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 2: repeated it and it was like, why did I say liver? Anyway? 306 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 2: What was this saying? 307 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 1: You were saying? Uh? So, to be fair to you, 308 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: maybe this is a potentially harsh truth to deliver. But 309 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:28,280 Speaker 1: what do we do to the people we love the most? 310 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: So we give them We give it to them directly. 311 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: You give it to them straight, because we are just 312 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: throwing it out there anymore. And I'm gonna give it 313 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:41,320 Speaker 1: to you straight. Sound off, sound off. 314 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:45,240 Speaker 2: Okay, think about if this is a good maybe, because 315 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 2: maybe it is. Maybe you're gonna look at it and 316 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: you're like, you know what, No, I don't agree with 317 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 2: these people online. I know my relationship. He is very 318 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 2: loving man and this was like a one time thing. 319 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 2: But if you take a look at your relationship and 320 00:16:55,720 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 2: you're like, you know what, Actually, I don't appreciate these 321 00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 2: things that he's doing, and I didn't feel comfortable in 322 00:16:59,760 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 2: this situation. And that is a you thing to decide. 323 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 1: Maybe you don't want your fiance to stick his tongue 324 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,920 Speaker 1: down your throat like a rabid octopus. Maybe that's what 325 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: you don't want. 326 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 2: Maybe, uh, I mean, we have thirty three votes for. 327 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 1: Josh literally in one, So Sophia to revisit the question 328 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: at hand, which is when should you move on from 329 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: a relationship now? Maybe to just generalize it as much 330 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:31,400 Speaker 1: as we can, when you stop being valued, especially when 331 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: you see you could, when you. 332 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 2: See yeah, when you see something better for your mental health, 333 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 2: for your you know, happiness, don't feel locked in to 334 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 2: an old relationship is not is not doing you all? 335 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,399 Speaker 2: Is maybe a little bit toxic. 336 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 1: You know what, Sophia. I think that is a great 337 00:17:50,160 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: note to end this episode on me Too. If you 338 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:57,360 Speaker 1: love us op may or may not love you or Josh, 339 00:17:57,480 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe. 340 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 2: We Love you, Josh and sr Gosh gosh, this is 341 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 2: an episode from Deep within the Archives. 342 00:18:07,280 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: Time for okop Relash. I'm ditching my grandma on her 343 00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:16,880 Speaker 1: birthday because what she did to me was way worse. 344 00:18:17,119 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 1: Am I the a whole? 345 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like she died. That would be I mean 346 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 3: she died on purpose on my birthday? 347 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: Wow? That would that would be the biggest power move. 348 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to ruin your birthday forever by dying 349 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: on it. 350 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: But Sam an even bigger power move. This was a 351 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: story submitted on our very own r slash Okop show. 352 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 3: My goodness, I love it. Please keep submitting to our 353 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:47,080 Speaker 3: slash Okop show so we can keep reading your delicious, 354 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:48,159 Speaker 3: delectable story. 355 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 1: Right, I'm bravy, just pouring out so big. Shout out 356 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 1: to Cultural Flamingo three seventy. 357 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,080 Speaker 3: That is a great username, Cultural Flamingo. 358 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, very very nicely done. So shout out to UOPI. So, 359 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: I female seventeen have a grandmother sixty one which is 360 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 1: turning sixty two soon soon. I love my grandma very 361 00:19:13,280 --> 00:19:16,359 Speaker 1: much an overall respect her until recently. 362 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:19,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't respect your anders anymore after this? 363 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: Here we go, Yeah, we don't respect elders on this show. 364 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 3: Yo, if you're older, bro, you're dead to us. 365 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 1: Get out of here. 366 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, until we're over forty and then respect us exactly. 367 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. A few months before this, she never sided with 368 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 1: me or understood where I was coming from. 369 00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:41,440 Speaker 3: It's like she doesn't understand anything anymore. She keeps saying, 370 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 3: are you yeah. She keeps calling me Claire, which is 371 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 3: really I've been dead for twenty five years. Oh my god. 372 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 3: She would always be moody and stuff, moody grandma. But 373 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,159 Speaker 3: I didn't seem to be bothered by it. I always 374 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 3: seem speaking of a Reddit post about how much I'm 375 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:01,919 Speaker 3: not bothered by it. It's just an intrusive thoughts. 376 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 1: I always seem to ignore it and just think it's 377 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: something in my head. She would always love me. 378 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:09,639 Speaker 3: That's probably true. Your grandma probably lost you. 379 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: Maybe onto the backstory two months ago, I would say, 380 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 1: less than two months ago. 381 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:18,639 Speaker 3: I said two months ago that question. 382 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: I turned seventeen. My mother begged me to spend time 383 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:25,320 Speaker 1: with my grandma on my birthday, which I did not 384 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: want to do. 385 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 3: Ew old Grandma, I want to be seventeen again. 386 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: I saw my grandma and she gave me the dick. 387 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,479 Speaker 3: Ew all. 388 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 1: I want to spend my weekend how I want to 389 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: spend it with a friend because my birthday was on 390 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:40,800 Speaker 1: the weekend and I had school the next day. Yea. 391 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,280 Speaker 1: With all her nagging, I finally decided to go to 392 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:49,680 Speaker 1: my grandmother's house. Anyways, worst mistake I made. 393 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 3: She's like, oh, it's your birthday. Here's a Shannon niggle to. 394 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 1: Bass some jacks, Like, this is the worst decision I've 395 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 1: ever made, Grandma. Oh that day, I was supposed to 396 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,120 Speaker 1: get the Apple Watch that I wanted for my birthday, 397 00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 1: but my. 398 00:21:05,640 --> 00:21:08,879 Speaker 3: Grandma gave me a roll at doesn't even have a 399 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 3: computer screen. 400 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: She gave me this thing called a patach whatever that is? 401 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:20,480 Speaker 1: What is patach? It's only a hundred thousand dollars watch. 402 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:22,080 Speaker 3: I want to know what a PA tech is? 403 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: P A T E K. I don't know how much 404 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: they are, but I know they're expensive. Really. Oh yes, 405 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, who's Pat Who's Philip? 406 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 3: What the fuck? 407 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: Bro? 408 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 3: PA tech Watch one hundred thousand dollars, seven hundred thousand 409 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 3: dollars light work, flight work five hundred thousand dollars light work. 410 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,959 Speaker 1: It's not that tech, Philip. Nothing Pat Philip. 411 00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 3: It's probably patic Felipe, but I'm gonna say patic Philip. 412 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: P tech Philippe. I think is the actual, like legitimate. 413 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 3: Yo, how much, dude, it's so expensive they don't even 414 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 3: put the fucking how much it is on here? 415 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: Exactly seven hundred K light work, seven K four one 416 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: hundred for a watch steal yo, it's deal? 417 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 3: Oh, p are you kidding me? 418 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,879 Speaker 1: No, there's no. She didn't get a attech. I was 419 00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: saying that jokingly. You were sitting here thinking she literally 420 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: got like a million dollars I was. I was adding 421 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:23,080 Speaker 1: in my own, uh, fictitious ad libation, Okay, ad libation. 422 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 1: That was just a word I made up for you guys, 423 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: like I love you so much. Libation. 424 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,919 Speaker 3: I was going to be like, wait, does ad lib 425 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 3: stand for ad libation? 426 00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:34,600 Speaker 1: Maybe it is true for something, but I'm sure it's 427 00:22:34,640 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: not ad libation. 428 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,960 Speaker 3: Hey, Siri, what does ad libs stand for? Abbreviation of 429 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 3: ad libatum? Ad Libitumm. I don't want to be in 430 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 3: the car for much longer because I get car sick. 431 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: But again, my mother still was nagging me to do it. 432 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 1: And the worst part about this is that I have 433 00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: just gotten on my period. That does suck. So after 434 00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: being in the car for much longer than I anticipated, 435 00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 1: I started crying, saying that I didn't feel well. And 436 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:02,639 Speaker 1: after my grandma came back, my mom told her my 437 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 1: grandma was mad at me the whole day all about Grandma, 438 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: how I betrayed her, and that I am no longer 439 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 1: her grandchild. 440 00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 3: That seems a bit much. 441 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 1: That is a massive overreaction, Jesus. 442 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 3: And what was the reason that she said, you're not 443 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 3: my grandchild because she didn't like the watch? 444 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: Because no, because she was complaining. Basically the whole day. 445 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: She like goes around with her grandmother in this car, 446 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: she gets carsick, she's on her period, like all these 447 00:23:27,640 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 1: things are adding up, and then she's like I don't 448 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:36,920 Speaker 1: want Yeah, you're dead to me. Yeah. Basically, actually it's 449 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,760 Speaker 1: the reverse. The Grandma's like you're dead to me. After like, oh, 450 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: you're like not enjoying this whole day. You're dead to me. Yeah, 451 00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: you have to enjoy every second. 452 00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:46,959 Speaker 3: Thing, but you want to not be carsick on your 453 00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 3: birthday and hang out with your friends. No, it just 454 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 3: stands on time and on Grandma, you're not having a 455 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 3: good tax. 456 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 1: Just stop being carsick. It's so simple. Just stop it. 457 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 3: Tell your body no, stop being on your period. Come on, 458 00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 3: turn it off, turn it off. Obviously the light switch 459 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,120 Speaker 3: is goal click. Its little Mormon trick. 460 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,360 Speaker 1: I was about to say that sounded like a light commercial, 461 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,399 Speaker 1: but it's the Book of Mormon. The reason why we 462 00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:13,119 Speaker 1: went out originally was because I had my Apple Watch 463 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,399 Speaker 1: and it was to find her something that she was missing. 464 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 1: So there I have it. I was so confused and 465 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: I was crying. I didn't understand why my grandma was 466 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,919 Speaker 1: so mad. Then they told me that she was missing something, 467 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: so we went to the store to find it. I 468 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,639 Speaker 1: didn't listen to the conversation because I had air pods on. 469 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 1: Is this an Apple commercial? 470 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,480 Speaker 3: Yeah? 471 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 1: This is literally like. 472 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 3: To get Apple watched the Apple Store and I had 473 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,679 Speaker 3: my air pods on. And then my grandma sent me 474 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: an air drop and I'm like you, Grandma, aren't you 475 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 3: gonna go on iCloud and send me an email. 476 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to use find my iPhone for you. 477 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 1: I want to save it for me. 478 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 3: Most integrated Apple family ever. 479 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,399 Speaker 1: Seriously, the whole day of my birthday, she did not 480 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,679 Speaker 1: want to spend time with me or even come to 481 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,560 Speaker 1: an understanding with me which I felt hard broken over 482 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: and can never forgive her for. She didn't outright apologize, 483 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: never forgive I mean, she did say that she wasn't 484 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:07,960 Speaker 1: a grandchild anymore. That was crazy.