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Speaker 1: Who do who? This is George and I am here

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Speaker 1: to say that. Guess what. I Am taking my stand

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Speaker 1: up show on the road this summer, and I'm going

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Speaker 1: first show will be in none other than Chicago on

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Speaker 1: July twelfth. You can find tickets in my Instagram bio

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Speaker 1: at linktree dot com slash George Severs. That is link

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Speaker 1: slash George Severs. And if you live in Pittsburgh, Philly, Boston, DC, Seattle, Portland,

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Speaker 1: or San Francisco, all of those tickets will become available

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Speaker 1: slash George Severs in the coming days. But for now,

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Speaker 1: if you live in Chicago, please buy tickets to my

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Speaker 1: show on July twelfth. It's going to be at the

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Speaker 1: Den Theater, which is where we did our Stradio Lib show.

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Speaker 1: in Chicago. I can't wait. Can't wait to see everyone,

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Speaker 1: So please please buy tickets and bring your friends. All right,

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Speaker 1: enjoy the episode.

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Speaker 2: Bye podcast starts now what is up everyone around the globe?

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Speaker 2: We are, if you can believe it, doing that time

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Speaker 2: Thank God.

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Speaker 1: Our favorite thing to do.

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Speaker 2: It's my favorite thing to do is do that time thing.

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Speaker 1: I love doing that time thing. But this is an

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Speaker 1: even more rigorous version of that time thing because we're

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Speaker 1: doing it quite literally right after we finished this recording.

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Speaker 1: We're about to hear so much so that one of

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Speaker 2: I mean talk about nonlinear storytelling.

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Speaker 1: Non linear storytelling is having a moment, and that's and

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Speaker 2: Is that nonlinear? Haven't seen it?

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Speaker 1: Actually it's actually they do it famously. Each scene is

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Speaker 1: I mean? And then at the end you get a story.

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Speaker 2: I'm just sort of like enough with the gimmicks. No,

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Speaker 2: I mean that's basically being like Broadway in four D,

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Speaker 1: I know, gimmicks? What if we need to come up

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Speaker 1: like how what is it? What is it for a

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Speaker 1: similar to our deeply held belief that you can only

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Speaker 1: ironically like something bad maybe once a financial quarter. And

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Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, it's pushing it.

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Speaker 2: I said, I celebrate this. This is a gimmick. But

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Speaker 2: Okay, I know another gimmick. You know at Disney when

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Speaker 1: Okay, here's a gimmick that I think that I have

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Speaker 2: And then you know what else we have is bumper

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Speaker 2: Yeah, aspirational, bumper stickers aspirational.

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Speaker 1: But you can even write with sharpy aspirational LGBTQ plus

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Speaker 2: Where else would it be? Mama and and George. You're

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Speaker 1: Am going on a little eight city tour. I'm actually

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Speaker 2: Have you thought about dropping into hot clubs and parties to,

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Speaker 2: It was really really really humbling, which you know, I

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Speaker 5: Yes, exactly, like kind of like something crazy.

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Speaker 5: I feel about Katy Perry.

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Speaker 2: We've actually never discussed our position on divorce.

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Speaker 1: Well, Sam is anti the HBO show Divorce because it

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Speaker 2: The moment we watch a show about where there is conflict,

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Speaker 3: So what do we do? How can we what's Joe

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Speaker 3: No, this summer's gonna be amazing. We're gonna sleut you out.

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Speaker 1: Does that make sure nice about the you know, we

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Speaker 3: I actually think you have to go into being getting

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Speaker 5: And we're not married. That's why neither of us are married.

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Speaker 4: I would love like a divorce party would be nice,

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Speaker 1: That's better because it also there's an escape. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I think talk about someone who loves getting divorced? Has

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Speaker 4: I forgot overall trying to get over it. So recovering from.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I remember this song, but I do not

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Speaker 1: I know what were they dating?

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Speaker 3: They were dating hard.

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Speaker 1: People forget that.

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Speaker 3: They did a lot for like interracial couples.

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Speaker 4: That was a bad It was like a rough few

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Speaker 1: Did she go blonde and go pixie cut at the

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Speaker 1: same time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you have to pick one, BITCHI struggle.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Sam, what do you think is the

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Speaker 1: Katie stan.

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Speaker 2: I So it's funny. Did you call me a Katie Stan.

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Speaker 5: Are you a Katie Cat?

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Speaker 2: You are? I just find it interesting, you know. It's

453
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Speaker 2: it's more that I've remained the same, relatively positive towards Katie,

454
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Speaker 2: but the culture has shifted to hating her so much

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Speaker 2: that in contrast to them, I look like a Katie Stan.

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Speaker 2: But I do feel that we are due for her comeback,

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Speaker 2: and I even feel that we're almost due. Not Britney level,

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Speaker 2: but there's gonna be like a reckoning you were so

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Speaker 2: mean to her, You were so mean to her and

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Speaker 2: she's actually a good person or something like that.

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Speaker 5: U two things. I am a Katie Cat. I will

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Speaker 5: stand on it, thank you. So I think there's.

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Speaker 3: Always gonna be one.

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Speaker 4: Talk about how j Loo is like getting there's like

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Speaker 4: the j Loo hate wave, which I don't honestly really

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Speaker 4: I'm driving the bus by.

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Speaker 1: The way, yeah I'm saying too too. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But now there's like the Jlo like anti hate train.

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Speaker 4: I just saw Isaac Gonzalez maybe last night or today

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Speaker 4: post like everyone stopped being mean to Jlo, Like she

471
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Speaker 4: really put herself out of and I'm like, wait, she

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Speaker 4: burned twenty million dollars of her own money down because

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Speaker 4: she wanted to make a vanity progress sure, across three mediums.

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Speaker 4: That's her business. That doesn't above me.

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Speaker 1: The thing with the anti backlash about Jalo is it

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Speaker 1: is so clearly funded by Jalo. Yeah, there is no

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Speaker 1: grassroots movement. There is no free Britney movement for Jail.

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Speaker 1: It's literally just her being like, Okay, what did they

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Speaker 1: do for Britney, Let's do that, and she's hiring a

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Speaker 1: crisis PR team. But I do so you think it's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen for Katie because I think it's going to

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Speaker 1: happen for uh Gaga because I think in a post

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Speaker 2: No, there's the Gaga backlashes, only just to be gone.

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Speaker 2: I predicted this on our LA Live show a few

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Speaker 2: weeks ago. I think we're about to get hardcore into

487
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Speaker 2: Gaga backlash era. It's going to be art pop times two.

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Speaker 2: I think people are going to be absolutely rancid towards her.

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Speaker 2: And I'm afraid because as someone who has to live

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Speaker 2: out loud and be honest, I'm going to be fighting

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Speaker 2: for my life and being like and being like, no,

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Speaker 2: you don't understand her. You don't understand her. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: be insane for the next year.

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Speaker 3: Actually, have so many pause up right now, you have

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Speaker 3: a pause. Your hands are full, like okay, like you're

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Speaker 3: carrying so much.

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Speaker 1: You know who? He doesn't have pause up for the

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Speaker 1: only person Billie Eilish. He does not support young precocious

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Speaker 1: women in these.

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Speaker 3: Says because you hate women.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird. I'm just like, where's the strife? Like,

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Speaker 2: you can't be famous at sixteen and just like everyone

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Speaker 2: always loves you, critically acclaimed, commercially acclaimed, and it.

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Speaker 1: Was out on the red carpet. You do not know

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Speaker 1: what that's like.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I was outed in high school. It's

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Speaker 2: way worse.

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Speaker 3: It Actually, I would so much rather be outed off

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Speaker 3: the red carpet. Yeah, come on in middle school? Oh

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Speaker 3: come on, come on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess you're sad on your way from the

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Speaker 1: red carpet to winning an oscar. But you'll get over.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I like when she has a backlash, then of course

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Speaker 2: I will fight for her. But until then, I'm just

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Speaker 2: sort of like, Okay, so you're perfect, so you have

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Speaker 2: no flaws? What is there to latch onto?

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Speaker 5: I think there is some real tension, because isn't there

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Speaker 5: like drama between her and Taylor Swift?

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Speaker 1: Billy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think so, that's kind of what I was

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Speaker 5: reading that.

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Speaker 4: Billy fans believe that Taylor Swift was like kind of

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Speaker 4: coming after her by releasing some more delexe editions on

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Speaker 4: the Heart Heart So Soft Break so long?

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Speaker 3: What did you say?

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Speaker 5: What is the album?

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Speaker 3: You just cursed us?

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Speaker 2: What did you in my life?

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Speaker 5: That's exactly what I said.

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Speaker 1: So soft? Well, sorry, I don't know what someone write

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Speaker 1: because here's actually kind of better than the real last

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Speaker 1: and she was in the room with us, right, I'm

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Speaker 1: like ripping Carr found dead.

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Speaker 3: I actually do want someone to write down whatever that was.

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Speaker 3: And then so softly, so low, Yeah, something crazy happen?

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait should we? I'm almost like, let's rush into

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Speaker 1: our for a segment, get it out of the way,

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Speaker 1: and then really get into the topic. What do you think?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think that's genius.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So our first segment is called straight Shooters, and

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Speaker 1: we will go absolutely crazy on your ass. I will

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Speaker 1: feel any remarse. Got it, Sam, take it away?

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Speaker 1: trying PCP.

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Speaker 5: Charlie XCX.

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Speaker 3: I just want my I feel like I was on

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Speaker 2: Why not get out of the way, Okay, rinse and

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Speaker 1: Okay, ladies and gentlemen, or Haley's dad eminem.

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Speaker 3: You both deserve jail time, by the way, I just

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Speaker 3: want to get that on the record.

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Speaker 1: Why do you think you moved to la He's escaping.

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Speaker 3: I got it now, I got it.

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Speaker 3: Jesus you kidding, Zolu?

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Speaker 1: I think, love of God, we are reclaiming vote blue

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Speaker 1: no matter who. Now, in the world of this podcast

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Speaker 1: matter who, but it's not about the Democrats.

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Speaker 2: Is ironic?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you need some kind of actually me getting dressed today,

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Speaker 4: but voting matter who is very blue today almost.

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Speaker 3: You are, thank God.

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Speaker 2: I mean? I love that there was disagreement. I love

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Speaker 1: Does I completely agree? There was I could sense the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, July, she's a bitch.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I think nine twenty three yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a really good story.

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Speaker 1: One of our best recent scores.

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Speaker 5: I would say, so, Honor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, should we get into the topic, yes.

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Speaker 1: I would love it if two of you could tell

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Speaker 3: What's straight about the sanctity of marri So yeah, our

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Speaker 3: a point of contention in our relationship dynamic because Hunter

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Speaker 3: I've been invited to one one.

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Speaker 2: One what wow, wow wow?

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Speaker 1: And you're dare I say, you know, I've only just

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Speaker 3: And if you want to say that to each camera, yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: But the thing is, my friends are gay and rare.

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Speaker 3: I've only got I'm like Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I've been to a lot

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Speaker 1: where did this come from?

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Speaker 3: Because you didn't.

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Speaker 2: I think dynamic. George is similar. George is at weddings

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Speaker 5: Who are the weddings? Like was it family? For people

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Speaker 5: who don't go to weddings?

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Speaker 3: It was like it was a good family. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: where you'll have a good time, you'll get wasted, and

664
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:24,960
Speaker 3: you'll just like you'll just key with all the girls,

665
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 3: Like that's what I want to be, Like, I want

666
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 3: to care enough to think about crying, but I'm not weeping.

667
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 3: But I haven't gotten that.

668
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: It was just like and then you don't have to

669
00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: be involved to no one's going to be like, can

670
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 1: you take care of the.

671
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 4: Floors, and I'm like, oh gosh, I would hate to

672
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 4: be asked to do a favor on a wedding day,

673
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 4: not to be rue.

674
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 3: Yeah I am. I okay, I'm kind of like doubling

675
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 3: back on my point. But I am going to be

676
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 3: in a wedding.

677
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 5: Made Yeah.

678
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 3: I don't even know what that's what it's called, right, Yeah, yeah, okay.

679
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: Straight wedding, lesbian, straight, heterosexual.

680
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 3: I wish was a prople wedding. It's my it's my throuble. Yeah,

681
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 3: I'm going to be in the wedding. Yeah, let's be clear.

682
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,280
Speaker 3: But in October October, I.

683
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 5: Think, what are you gonnaware? I've never been a bridesmaid before.

684
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 3: The color is red, I think, so, oh sorry, if

685
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 3: everyone's getting this incredible and red, so I think, yeah, yeah.

686
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: I can imagine you're looking stunning and red.

687
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 3: Thank you, Panta.

688
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 2: What are all these weddings you're going to?

689
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, just friends.

690
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 5: I'm from Oklahoma.

691
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 4: My boyfriend is from Kansas, so there are just a

692
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 4: lot of weddings in the.

693
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 5: Midwest and the Plains. Yeah.

694
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 4: Last year we had I think in total nine, this

695
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 4: five or six. The year before we probably had five.

696
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 1: Huh. Yeah, it's interesting because I also go to a

697
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 1: lot of weddings. But I mean the places I've lived

698
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: in the States are San Francisco and New York. Like

699
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: I my boyfriend is from New York. It's not a

700
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: sort of there's no Oklahoma coated element to it. It's

701
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: just like I have a lot of lesbian friends who

702
00:32:59,240 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 1: keep getting married.

703
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: Where are Why are they calling me?

704
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: Right right?

705
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 3: They've heard the by allegations on me though they said

706
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 3: not her.

707
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: Y no, But I really I've been going to so

708
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 1: many I would say more gay weddings and straight weddings

709
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 1: in the last two years, both gay men and gay women.

710
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: So maybe that's counter to our point of it being.

711
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: No, I think weddings are still straight even if gay

712
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: people are the ones getting married. Yeah, it's like the

713
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 1: one I have the patriarch I want to say, this

714
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: is okay, here's what big idea I just thought of.

715
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:36,280
Speaker 1: Weddings are away for gay people to microdos heterosexuality. Polly

716
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:38,760
Speaker 1: amory is a way for straight people to micro dose queerness.

717
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 2: Thoughts genius, no notes yet, No, No.

718
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 4: I'm not trying to do the transit of property and understand,

719
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 4: but I think I'm hunter as an ally.

720
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: It's literally like a straight couple, like a men and

721
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: men and women couple going on field looking for a

722
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: third is there way to be like what if we're

723
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: bad a little bit? And then for gay people it's like, okay,

724
00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: well I just took forty three loads on a two day.

725
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: How about we get married and like for a little

726
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: you know, for two hours, we can be respectable.

727
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the good about it there's like poppers.

728
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: Yes, exactly, exactly.

729
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

730
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 3: I feel like that the act of getting married is

731
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 3: so and just like the background of marriage. There is just.

732
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,680
Speaker 4: Such a formality though to like how even like weddings

733
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 4: that are a little bit non traditional are pretty traditional,

734
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 4: like everyone does like changing of vows, like the rings

735
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 4: or sorry in some cases a walk.

736
00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:29,919
Speaker 1: Oh god, really nice one.

737
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 5: So we got told about that.

738
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 1: We have to dress and we have to address in

739
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: the room.

740
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,840
Speaker 5: No, let's get into it, because it was well so funny.

741
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: You know. I do think actually that part of my

742
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: personality is in there and sometimes she comes out in

743
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: a sort of scary way. What happened was Peyton I

744
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 1: was saying, you know, I'm planning a wedding, and Peyton

745
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 1: I could sense was looking for a ring. She was

746
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 1: sort of like looking directly at my fingers, and so

747
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 1: then I go, I point to my engagement watch, and

748
00:34:57,440 --> 00:34:59,760
Speaker 1: I go, it's this thank.

749
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 3: You for me true to history because it was like County.

750
00:35:02,600 --> 00:35:05,880
Speaker 1: It was kind of harsh. I cannot believe I did that.

751
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 3: Like I sat back in my oh yeah yeah. On

752
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 3: this podcast, I said, no, you're so real.

753
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 2: For that King God, Yeah, Georgia, I'm glad you did that.

754
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,120
Speaker 2: I'm glad you stood up for yourself and.

755
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:23,399
Speaker 1: A lot of that without me wanting. I'm not trying

756
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,439
Speaker 1: to be a girl who's like he asked the question,

757
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 1: he popped the question, But then people do look for

758
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 1: something and I do keep being.

759
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 4: Like, okay, not I can respect though, because I do

760
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 4: have this whole complex about when women post photos at

761
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 4: their hands, like the engagement ring, like photo and their

762
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 4: nails aren't done like.

763
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,800
Speaker 5: I when I tell you no, like real.

764
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 4: My friends know I have screenshots on my phone from

765
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 4: like taking and like sending them around. So I'm like,

766
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 4: can you believe this? Can you believe this? You have

767
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 4: a big old hangnail and a rain that costs a

768
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 4: million dollars? Is actually I'm thinking about someone very specific.

769
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I actually think I am at my most

770
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: conservative and at my most frankly misogynist. When a woman

771
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: doesn't have her nails or toenails, I'm literally like, all

772
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 1: progresses out the window.

773
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 5: It's you and club.

774
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 2: I like that.

775
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,479
Speaker 3: Yes, not even a top coach.

776
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: If I see someone in sandals without with like ugly

777
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,680
Speaker 1: ass nails, I'm like, what are you doing? Put on

778
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: a pair of converse Chuck Taylor's brow up.

779
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I celebrate them, I want to say. I think

780
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 2: the straightest part about the marriage is that it is

781
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 2: like such a life like you're like, it's it's in

782
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: the linear style of life where you're like, Okay, so

783
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 2: I went to school, I went to college, I had

784
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 2: my graduation, I had my blah blah blah, I got

785
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,759
Speaker 2: my job, and now I have my marriage. Yes, it's

786
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 2: so like, okay, we have to follow this path.

787
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: It's not queer temporality, a term I learned recently. Oh yeah,

788
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 1: I don't what is that temporality? According to TikTok I

789
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:03,120
Speaker 1: saw is that because queer people don't, you know, sort

790
00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 1: of don't have the traditional markers of a traditional life,

791
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: they have a like non normative relationship to time. True.

792
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,360
Speaker 3: True, That's why I'm always exactly yeah literally yeah, and

793
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,320
Speaker 3: I'm black, so double nothing. I get fifteen minutes, thirty

794
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 3: thirty five. Yeah it stuff. Wait, I was gonna say, though,

795
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 3: it's I feel like it's more of me wanting to

796
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 3: go to a party, like a wedding is what's calling

797
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,719
Speaker 3: me to wanting to attend a wedding or you know,

798
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 3: celebrate the sanctity of marriage. It's not like the idea

799
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 3: of like, oh, partnership and that's calling me, Like, I

800
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 3: don't feel like I'm doing that thing, like turn thirty

801
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 3: years old and like, oh my god, I need to

802
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 3: get married. I'm on a path. I just want to

803
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 3: turn up like totally that's what I'm.

804
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 1: And I do think that's the difference between queer people

805
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,640
Speaker 1: and straight people. Attending weddings is oftentimes with straight people,

806
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: and I'm hitting in broad strokes here. Either it's like,

807
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: oh God, I have to go to my stupid bitch

808
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 1: friend's wedding and I hate her and whatever, I'm resentful,

809
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: or it's like eternally single and like depressed that the

810
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: wedding and gets too drunk because somehow she's like twenty

811
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: four and thinks it's too late for her, or it's

812
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: like dark like asshole, like woman who's mad at her boyfriend,

813
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: or like because they're attending the wedding and he refuses

814
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: to put on you know, shoes, Like he refuses to

815
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,280
Speaker 1: put on like dress shoes. Yeah, yeah, whereas queer people

816
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,800
Speaker 1: are literally like, oh, this is my chance to basically

817
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,280
Speaker 1: dress as I'm going to Charlie XX and Troy.

818
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 3: We just do it for attention, yes, yeah, which is

819
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 3: the only reason.

820
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: To get It's literally like going somewhere knowing there will

821
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 1: be a photographer, Like now I get, I understand what

822
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:40,959
Speaker 1: we're doing.

823
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 4: I yeah, I do think there's something about like wanting

824
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 4: to do the main character of a wedding, yes, when

825
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 4: it's like absolutely not your I mean, I'm a Leo's

826
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,760
Speaker 4: that's kind of every day for me, but like wanting

827
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 4: to really like cause a scene, make a moment, and

828
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 4: it's not only like guess. I feel like a lot

829
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 4: of speakers at weddings will do this sometimes. And I

830
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 4: love a bad wedding speech, oh I remember, not even

831
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 4: like bad, Like this actually was one of the greatest

832
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 4: wedding speeches I've ever like heard, but it was so

833
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 4: funny and so like, wait, this is your wedding, Like congratulations,

834
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 4: you just want this wedding? Like sister of the writer's

835
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 4: speech was incredible and I remember every word like it

836
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 4: was hilarious.

837
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,280
Speaker 2: Why do you think it's people's first time being creative

838
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 2: a lot of times? Yes, And like both writing the

839
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 2: speeches and the people throwing the wedding at all, like

840
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,759
Speaker 2: they've never had to make a creative choice, like they're like, oh,

841
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 2: what color do we want the card to be? Like

842
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 2: what what should the tablecloths look like? And in a

843
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 2: way that I'm like sometimes it's so deeply revealing in

844
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,759
Speaker 2: a way that they normally get to hide. Yes, and

845
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, this is what you like?

846
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, one hundred percent that I feel like, I like,

847
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:52,359
Speaker 4: we sound like such snops as members of the creative clubs.

848
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 3: Of course, members of the creative class.

849
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 1: You know, some people don't even have a podcast or

850
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: a substat Yeah, that's really some people in Ohio. Every day?

851
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 5: How do they do it?

852
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 4: Like like oh my god, but really and truly I'm like,

853
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, Like, oh, you're like not a public speaker.

854
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 4: That's crazy, Like oh interesting, that's like not really a punchline,

855
00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 4: but it's a sentence.

856
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 3: You don't have a musical theater background. Shit.

857
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:17,520
Speaker 1: Yeah.

858
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:19,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

859
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 1: From the perspectives of the couple are like, wait, this

860
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: is the friend you chose knowing he this is not

861
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,840
Speaker 1: his strong suit and he's literally the first sentence is

862
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: we met sophomore year.

863
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: What.

864
00:40:31,800 --> 00:40:34,600
Speaker 4: There is a thing though that I've encountered where straight men,

865
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 4: let's talk about it.

866
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 5: Straight men think that every speech is a roast.

867
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 4: That's the old way they know how to express like

868
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,520
Speaker 4: adoration of like someone that they've known their entire lives

869
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 4: is to like roast them and really inappropriate way, like

870
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 4: for the setting. And I've heard that so many times

871
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 4: and it's just like kind of shocking in a new

872
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 4: way every time.

873
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, interesting, Yeah, street men love to roast.

874
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,400
Speaker 2: There's like a there's they don't trust themselves just be

875
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 2: funny without being mean. They're like, well, if it's not mean,

876
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 2: then what's funny about it?

877
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 3: If I'm not mean? How well they know that I

878
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:07,759
Speaker 3: like that I like her like or like I like

879
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 3: my brove here if I'm not fucking like horrible to them.

880
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,840
Speaker 3: That's also they treat women too, though, Yeah, I mean

881
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 3: I went to middle school. I don't know about you,

882
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 3: but it's like skipped it.

883
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: Actually you're actually fifteen. You're younger than fifteen.

884
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:25,880
Speaker 5: Fifteen oscars, What am I doing?

885
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: Fifteen?

886
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 6: No oscars in the middle of miamiscars in the middle

887
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 6: of Miami.

888
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: Wedding every night. I know that was gonna land. I

889
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: was like, this is gonna be I actually recently revisited

890
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: We actually can't get into this, but I recently revisited

891
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: that song and I was like, sometimes it's important to

892
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 1: go back and be like, oh, this is where we

893
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:48,280
Speaker 1: were and that was okay.

894
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know.

895
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,040
Speaker 4: I recently also rewatched the music video and it's same,

896
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 4: this is like.

897
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 1: Odd, yeah, it really is just straight.

898
00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 3: We actually should have known better. We got God. Like, yeah, anyway,

899
00:42:04,239 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 3: I Zaleen Banks is what I just called And that's

900
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,400
Speaker 3: actually more powerful than you would know.

901
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,040
Speaker 5: That's actually really it's like pop Craves Burner.

902
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 3: Wait, I did have a thought. I had a thought

903
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: about marriage besides the need to be invited to a

904
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 3: wedding is I feel like weddings are straight, but divorce

905
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,879
Speaker 3: is so gay and specifically lesbian because it's like, oh,

906
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 3: I'm in tune with what I need, and I'm tapping

907
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 3: into my truer self, and I'm ready to evolve lesbian

908
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 3: a hundred.

909
00:42:37,719 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: I think weddings, straight divorce is lesbian. And I think, actually,

910
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 1: in a weird way, being together forever but unhappy is

911
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: gay man. Because what gay men have realized is that

912
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: because they're all open, being deeply unhappy with their partner

913
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: is like not an issue.

914
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,280
Speaker 5: I'm learning so much to be surely.

915
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: She's like there like statistics about like gay men stay

916
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 2: together longer than like straight couples and lesbians because of

917
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 2: exactly what you're saying, George.

918
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: Yes, no lesbians. It's like there needs to be, you know,

919
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: a un tribunal every time they're like about to cook

920
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: dinner or something.

921
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 2: Lights.

922
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can tell you some stories. Let's talk about

923
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: a check in.

924
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, No, gay man. It's just like they actually

925
00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:25,319
Speaker 1: just get more and more passive aggressive. I keep saying

926
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: this and it never lands. But a classical thing with

927
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: old game ale couples is two men together at an event.

928
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,319
Speaker 1: Another man walks in that they both know, and one

929
00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: of them turns to the other and goes, oh, look

930
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: at your boyfriend. And that is that is being a

931
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 1: gay man when you're like fifty five and have been.

932
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 3: You know what's crazy is you saying that reminded me

933
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 3: of Hunter? Like I was like, that actually seems like

934
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 3: something you do really well as a gay man. It's

935
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 3: like an older gay man. You love to talk shit,

936
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 3: you love to beef.

937
00:43:56,680 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 5: You're selling it to me, You're selling.

938
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 3: It like hold on, you've made.

939
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: Some obsessed with pop culture like who are you?

940
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:03,839
Speaker 3: Yeah?

941
00:44:05,520 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, sounding pretty gay guy.

942
00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 3: It's getting gay guy.

943
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: Wait.

944
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think because I know we're running out

945
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 1: of time, but I'm like, okay, we've covered wedding speeches.

946
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: We've covered Oh so you said something really smart Hunter,

947
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: which is that like, even when you try to not

948
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: do the traditional things, it almost makes it more traditional

949
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: because you are like referencing the like if you are wearing,

950
00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: you know, a bright yellow wedding dress, it's actually weirdly

951
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 1: more straight than if you're wearing a white wedding dress

952
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 1: because you're trying so hard to be different in a

953
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 1: way that is like, oh no, this is your one

954
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: this is like your one chance to be different, and

955
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: then you're going to go back to your job at

956
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: the firm.

957
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:46,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that sounds so like bone chilling. Yeah, this is

958
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 4: your one day. As said, it's like your one day

959
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 4: to be created, Like this is what you choose.

960
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 2: Are we being like bitchy?

961
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 3: Well yeah, hopefully landing.

962
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 4: I wait, one time I went to wedding and this guy,

963
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 4: this like older man, came up to me. I was

964
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 4: like dancing with some friends and he like taps me

965
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 4: and he's like, you're so beautiful and I'm so old.

966
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 4: That's where it ended, and I was like, no, just

967
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 4: a cold straight man.

968
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 5: It was so weird.

969
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 1: But like, was was he hitting on you?

970
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 5: I don't think so, because his wife was right there

971
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 5: and she was looking him so crazy.

972
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:21,840
Speaker 1: It was.

973
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 5: It was hilarious.

974
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 4: But I think there's like something about someone getting so

975
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 4: drunk at a wedding and like really like there's a

976
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 4: way to be the main character to the wedding, like

977
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 4: when you're everyone's like fan favorite, but there's also way

978
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,080
Speaker 4: when you just like are embarrassing, And that's like a

979
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 4: whole other don't You wouldn't know You've never been so

980
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 4: many weddings.

981
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 3: And I'm wait, whoa, sorry, there's a gun in the

982
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 3: room and it's pointed out my head and it's about

983
00:45:44,680 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 3: to go off. It sounds like I'm sorry, there's blood everywhere.

984
00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 3: It was right there and it was so nasty because

985
00:45:52,840 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 3: I just went, yeah, shut up. It's like, sorry, I

986
00:45:57,640 --> 00:45:58,799
Speaker 3: just thought I heard something over here.

987
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 1: But I think you are I think that I am

988
00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:04,880
Speaker 1: so old. Thing points to the fact that at a wedding,

989
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: because you're seeing someone else's big life event, yeah, it

990
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,759
Speaker 1: forces you to sort of take a step and be like, wait,

991
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:13,399
Speaker 1: where am I in life? And I think that's why

992
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: some people can be so happy because they're like, oh,

993
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:17,640
Speaker 1: isn't it amazing that like I'm happy and they're happy

994
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,800
Speaker 1: and we're celebrating together. And then if you're not happy,

995
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: suddenly you are crying and telling Hunters is beautiful and.

996
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 3: You're so old.

997
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 2: So well, there are like a million different hierarchies within

998
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: the wedding because there's like the bridal party has more power,

999
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:32,880
Speaker 2: like the groom and the bride have all the power

1000
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 2: that there's like it's so much there's power dynamics. But

1001
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: also if you're sort of a tertiary character, then there's

1002
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 2: power in like are you young and hot or are

1003
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 2: you like some old rando, Oh my god?

1004
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 4: And just the like confluence is that a word of

1005
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 4: all of these like social dynamics, Like I'm like not

1006
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 4: to be red with like sometimes having your work friends

1007
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 4: meet your like actual friends who meet your like friends

1008
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 4: that you used to go out with when you're twenty four,

1009
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,279
Speaker 4: Like that's I can't think of anything more humiliating.

1010
00:46:58,320 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true.

1011
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, most people were not meant ton no over episode,

1012
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:02,879
Speaker 3: no one asked.

1013
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, they were not meant to be in the same room,

1014
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:07,359
Speaker 4: especially me, like in front of everyone. Oh my god,

1015
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 4: I've took all my feelings to an audience.

1016
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 5: We do it every week.

1017
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: And the old the archetype of the old rando at

1018
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 1: a wedding is actually really important because these are the

1019
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: people that actually are like an aunt and uncle that

1020
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 1: are most happy for the bride and groom, and yet

1021
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: everyone else is like, who the hell are you and

1022
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: why are you not a designer? Yeah?

1023
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, when I go to a wedding of a college

1024
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: friend and I see their uncle and like, get the

1025
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 2: hell out of my sight.

1026
00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:36,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, we're this is the LGBTQ plus community

1027
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. You are not welcome here.

1028
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm about to take my shirt off and you're

1029
00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 2: not allowed to look get.

1030
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 3: The hell out of my sight.

1031
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,759
Speaker 4: So I do think that there are a lot of

1032
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 4: things about weddings that are not straight, and that's like

1033
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 4: a thoughtful touch. A thoughtful touch is like a not

1034
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 4: straight element of a wedding I love, like a like

1035
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 4: a gift basket in the room I love. I've been

1036
00:47:57,320 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 4: to a couple weddings where they have handwritten notes at

1037
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 4: your like place and like, oh, like that's amazing, Like

1038
00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 4: those things are also.

1039
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: That's her faith. Weddings are very or a way to

1040
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: queer a wedding to be inclusive.

1041
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 2: Of course, that's very coexist.

1042
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 3: Very very exists with back PRIs exactly.

1043
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. I also think the okay thing at the wedding

1044
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,760
Speaker 2: is like why are they taking pics of the guys

1045
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 2: getting dressed? Why is that always the thing, like you

1046
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: have to get a pick of the guys in the

1047
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 2: underwear and the total getting yes.

1048
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 1: And actually I want to say that picks in general.

1049
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: The reality show like circus of a wedding is kind

1050
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 1: of queer because it's like, for one day we are

1051
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: the cast of the real world San Diego, Like there

1052
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: are literally like four camera groups. Yeah, while Grandma is

1053
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 1: putting on her way.

1054
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 4: And I've been to weddings too where like one like

1055
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 4: like camera guy is in the way at the photographer

1056
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 4: liked with like a film camera, and like the interfighting

1057
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,520
Speaker 4: between them is hilarious. Is this one saying get out

1058
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 4: of my shot? Out of my shot and he's like,

1059
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 4: it's like you don't really need b roll of? Like

1060
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 4: I don't know someone like looking up at the ceiling

1061
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,439
Speaker 4: like there's nothing running a like cathedral that stuff. I

1062
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 4: really love to see the drama between wishing the staff.

1063
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 3: I hope it's like, well, maybe I'm like planning planning

1064
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 3: my wedding. I'm so far from so many things, and

1065
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 3: I haven't gone to the wedding.

1066
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: So far from so many things. Album actually that.

1067
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 3: Oh my god, there's so many things we need to

1068
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 3: write down and put in likes and like ital size is.

1069
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,399
Speaker 3: I would love actually like a confessional booth out away

1070
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 3: like oh my god, John need just the BT. What

1071
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 3: am I gonna do with that? Yes on my post

1072
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 3: on my TikTok No. I want a confessional. I want

1073
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 3: people sitting down wasted Jersey Shore style kind of hopefully

1074
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 3: talking about me.

1075
00:49:43,480 --> 00:49:45,839
Speaker 4: Actually, and actually I have been to a wedding where

1076
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:46,880
Speaker 4: it's something like that happened.

1077
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 5: This was two summers ago. I went to a wedding

1078
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 5: where they had like a phone.

1079
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 4: This is like, it's just happened to watch and you

1080
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 4: can like record a voice so for the couple for

1081
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 4: them to listen to and my friends.

1082
00:49:57,520 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 5: Unfortunately, like the file was corrupt. It was like they

1083
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:01,919
Speaker 5: just they just didn't record anything.

1084
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 3: Sorry, that's what actually, I don't know.

1085
00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 1: That's issues a career art failure.

1086
00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:08,640
Speaker 3: Earlier.

1087
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, the phone. Okay, so that was at a wedding

1088
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,920
Speaker 1: I went to recently and I didn't do it because

1089
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: audio only almost felt like too much pressure. As I

1090
00:50:15,280 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: do think if you go into a booth and it's

1091
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: sort of photo booth vibes, you can go with someone,

1092
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:23,760
Speaker 1: it's less pressure. Yeah, I love a confessional booth. Wow,

1093
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:24,359
Speaker 1: this is I love.

1094
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: I also want to know, okay, sponsor me someone that's.

1095
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:30,480
Speaker 1: Weird you have never been to a wedding, because you

1096
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: actually have some great ideas well.

1097
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes when you haven't been, when you haven't experienced something,

1098
00:50:35,600 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 2: you come at it with a fresh approach.

1099
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's what's going on.

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00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: You can be a destructor.

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Speaker 3: It's so derogatory. Actually like, shut the fun up all

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Speaker 3: of you. That's cool.

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Speaker 1: Wait have we Okay? One more thing is, of course

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00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:54,360
Speaker 1: dad giving away the bride.

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Speaker 5: I hate it.

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Speaker 4: I would never That's like my actual only opinion. If

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Speaker 4: I ever had a wedding, I wouldn't do that.

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00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:01,879
Speaker 1: Would you do? Because I've been seeing more and more

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00:51:02,040 --> 00:51:04,720
Speaker 1: both parents, which I think is sweet. Also, not everyone

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00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 1: has two parents, and not everyone has a man and

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Speaker 1: a woman parent. That's right. I'm in cloud inclusive like

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Speaker 1: wrapping up Katie parents. But I'm saying, if you do

1114
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:18,799
Speaker 1: have to, I do think that's a nice way to

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00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 1: just like still have that tradition, but do it in

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00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:22,919
Speaker 1: a less sexist way.

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00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 4: I think, no, no, no, no no. If I'm walking on

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00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 4: the aisle, I'm walking on the aisle.

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Speaker 5: Oh this is listen. I don't want to be sext

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00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 5: model for nothing.

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00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,479
Speaker 3: You're literally a rotten way walking flower girls, like the

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00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 3: fuck up out of my way?

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00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're doing the like fun tyre walk when

1124
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 1: she because you're I feel like, maybe I'm wrong, but

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00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: I feel like her innovation was rather than walking sort

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00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: of seriously, she would walk and be like and I

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00:51:45,080 --> 00:51:46,240
Speaker 1: could walk down the aisle.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Miss Jay is critiquing a part the whole time. George,

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Speaker 2: are you thinking of ways to queer your wedding?

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00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is a really great question. My dream,

1131
00:51:59,680 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 1: which I have not emailed them yet, is for everyone

1132
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:05,359
Speaker 1: after the wedding to walk to Julius and to have

1133
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 1: like a big, like sloppy gay night after the fancy.

1134
00:52:10,239 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love a mix of high and low completely.

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00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: Thank you for saying it.

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00:52:15,400 --> 00:52:18,319
Speaker 3: Calling it low is not like, but it's true. No, Yeah,

1137
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:19,600
Speaker 3: the vibe.

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00:52:19,280 --> 00:52:22,319
Speaker 1: There's also, I mean, as anyone we know, I'm sure

1139
00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:24,240
Speaker 1: I feels when they get buried. You have such conflicted

1140
00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 1: feelings about doing it because you're like, oh god, with

1141
00:52:26,560 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 1: everything happening, I'm my ever mixed feelings about gay marriage

1142
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:33,359
Speaker 1: or whatever, and so you're like, okay, well, at least

1143
00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 1: we can like be having you know, chicken tenders at

1144
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 1: Julius and pretend that we're still all comedy.

1145
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, at the very you deserve.

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00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, Actually, I have a really huge

1147
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: way that I'm quarrying my wedding, and I think this

1148
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: is going to elicit some gasps. Oh so I specifically

1149
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: chose my aunt or not biological, but you know, spiritual

1150
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: spiritual aunt to.

1151
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:57,720
Speaker 3: Get that no.

1152
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 1: To officiate, and she is a Freudian psychoanalyst. So I

1153
00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,799
Speaker 1: will have my wedding, my gay wedding, officiated by a

1154
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: Freudian psychoanalyst. And I do think that's pretty queer. Am

1155
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 1: I wrong? So I was like, oh, like that's our

1156
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 1: way of queering. The the concept of like a religious

1157
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:20,920
Speaker 1: figure is to have a therapist, literally a therapist.

1158
00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:23,800
Speaker 2: No, I do love that, but I do have to

1159
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:24,800
Speaker 2: say I didn't gasp.

1160
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: All right, well you guys have seen it all.

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00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 3: It was so dirty of you. Oh I love that.

1162
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:35,839
Speaker 6: I didn't guess, didn't know that all of them were.

1163
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 6: I don't know how alternative I'm being because they don't

1164
00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 6: have anything to compare it to.

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00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:43,640
Speaker 5: It's okay one day.

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00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, well Sam's coming to mind. I invited him as

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00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:52,439
Speaker 1: his re make a wish because he's been Yeah.

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00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:55,840
Speaker 2: I do have, for the record, two weddings this summer.

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00:53:55,920 --> 00:53:58,319
Speaker 2: One is yours and one is Mike and Mike's two

1170
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 2: gay weddings, my first gay weddings ever.

1171
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:01,800
Speaker 1: Wow.

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00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I'm gonna go protest.

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00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: Damn. It's kind of crazy that I think, you know,

1174
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: I think my wedding is gay. And then these two

1175
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: guys are named Mike and Mike. Yeah, they kind of

1176
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: ate me.

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00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm sorry about that.

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00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 1: Okay, should we do our final segment, Sam?

1179
00:54:17,719 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 2: I think that's a good idea.

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00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:27,919
Speaker 1: Okay. Our final segment is called shout Outs, and this

1181
00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:30,399
Speaker 1: is a segment where we pay homage to the oral

1182
00:54:30,560 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: straight tradition of the radio shout out. I think you

1183
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: know you're a TRL shouting out the people you know outside.

1184
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,160
Speaker 1: You're on Z one hundred, chatting out your spot back home.

1185
00:54:39,400 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: You have to give a shout out to something that

1186
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: you like, and we always think of them on the spot.

1187
00:54:44,040 --> 00:54:47,839
Speaker 1: So I will think of one right now. Okay, all right, Sam,

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00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: do you have one?

1189
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:50,880
Speaker 2: I have a I can I can do one. Okay,

1190
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 2: go Okay, what's up everyone around the globe? Freaks, losers,

1191
00:54:54,920 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 2: perverts all. I want to give a huge shout out.

1192
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:01,799
Speaker 2: Yes it's obvious, But to Charlie XC, I am you know.

1193
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 2: Do I know her personally? Of course not, but I

1194
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:06,879
Speaker 2: feel like I do. And she is a girl who

1195
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 2: always knows exactly who she is. And sometimes I listen

1196
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,560
Speaker 2: to her music and I'm like, this is the coolest

1197
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 2: bitch on earth, And sometimes I listen to her music

1198
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:15,400
Speaker 2: and I'm like, this girl's kind of dumb, huh. And

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Speaker 2: I love that she can be kind of both and

1200
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 2: I think that is so powerful. And sometimes I like

1201
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 2: she's a person that confuses me in a way that

1202
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you, I like to be confused. And

1203
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: I like that she knows what is cool but doesn't

1204
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 2: always do that. And this is supposed to be in

1205
00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 2: support and I do love her, and I think I'm

1206
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 2: excited for to really get to know the new album

1207
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 2: and this is coming out. We're recording this on the

1208
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:46,319
Speaker 2: day the album came out, so you know, by the

1209
00:55:46,320 --> 00:55:48,640
Speaker 2: time it's released, I will know every single word. But

1210
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 2: right now, I'm just saying, wow, this is a pile

1211
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 2: of songs that I have yet to get to know.

1212
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 2: Charlie XCX, you are cool, you are stupid. I celebrate

1213
00:55:57,040 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 2: you and like that you're in this niche not niche,

1214
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:03,280
Speaker 2: but middle ground, not quite Lady Gaga but not quite

1215
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 2: let's say indie artist xoxo.

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00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,359
Speaker 3: Whoo wow, that's really good.

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00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 1: You know, I think maybe I'll do a music when

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00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: inspired by you. We're very like popcirlies today. Okay, okay,

1219
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:19,600
Speaker 1: what's up? Times Square I want to give a shout

1220
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: out to the people in charge of Spotify Partnerships at

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00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:27,839
Speaker 1: Chapelone HQ and Sabrina Carpenter h Q. Every single time

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00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: a song ends that I'm listening to, I either get

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00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: espresso or I get good luck Babe, both songs I

1224
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 1: generally like, I have nothing negative to say about them.

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00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: I've heard them at this point, I actually don't need

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00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,359
Speaker 1: to hear good luck Babe. After I'm done listening to like,

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00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:45,839
Speaker 1: you know, Fiona Apple, like, maybe let's feed some more

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00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,880
Speaker 1: data into the algorithm and then we'll start talking. Because

1229
00:56:49,000 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: I'm sensing that this is not AI, this is human intervention.

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00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: There is human intervention happening. That is non stop feeding

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00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: me good luck babe by chaperone, and I support her.

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00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 1: But it is time that I am served something else.

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00:57:02,360 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: So this is my flee to the tech industry. Let's

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00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 1: get those algorithms back in there and let's start training

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00:57:07,480 --> 00:57:13,320
Speaker 1: them because it's not looking good. That's right, I would myself.

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00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 7: I like it.

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00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 5: So important.

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00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: So yeah, whenever you guys are ready, those are hard.

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00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:25,240
Speaker 1: I mean it's like, okay.

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00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 4: What's up people on the internet who put your hairs

1241
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,840
Speaker 4: in your ear and I'm ready to shout out my

1242
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 4: friend bald and Down. She is so cool and her

1243
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 4: posts are so good, and there's no one who genuinely

1244
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 4: loves Hoppenheimer as much as I do and also knows

1245
00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:45,520
Speaker 4: it's a movie about gossips and haters and.

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00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 5: Bald and doubt.

1247
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 4: It's kind of like I would choose to read her

1248
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 4: tweets before I even read my own teets, and that

1249
00:57:51,080 --> 00:57:52,600
Speaker 4: is something that I don't say about anyone else.

1250
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 5: That's kind of the high phrase. I think, Wow, that's

1251
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 5: my sister. I'm sticking to her.

1252
00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,320
Speaker 1: And I want to say, bald and Down shout out

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00:57:59,360 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: from us. First of all, we are on record as

1254
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: being the number one Oppenheimer stands in the country, So

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00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: I feel glad we can connect from that. Okay, and

1256
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:09,600
Speaker 1: posted about us the other day, and I was very flattered,

1257
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:12,760
Speaker 1: very starstruck, and I said, I hope we can maintain

1258
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 1: your support, queen, because you know, sometimes these Twitter accounts

1259
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:16,760
Speaker 1: will turn on you.

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Speaker 3: Fast, fascinating you blink of an eye, no like highest honor, baldoon. Okay, Okay, alkay, you.

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00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:26,160
Speaker 5: Know I love those.

1262
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 3: I love an airhorn edited in later make it sound cool.

1263
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 3: Lovers haters. Children of divorce, This one's for you, my

1264
00:58:33,840 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 3: ing circle. Shout out to divorce. Shout out to specifically

1265
00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 3: my parents who got divorced in two thousand and eight.

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00:58:40,080 --> 00:58:42,080
Speaker 3: I was the most epic thing that's ever happened. Shout

1267
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 3: out to Cole Kidman. Shout out to my entire personality

1268
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,240
Speaker 3: that's built around the trauma that I had from that divorce.

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00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 3: That wouldn't be this funny or gay without it. Somehow,

1270
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,320
Speaker 3: I don't know how to explain that, and I won't.

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00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:54,560
Speaker 3: So if you are married and unhappy, get up, get

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00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 3: out and go girl, get divorce. That's my that's my pitch.

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00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 3: And if you want to get divorced and you are

1274
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 3: maybe gay now and you're a really beautiful woman, then

1275
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 3: you want to find me, you could do that too.

1276
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 3: So we love divorce in this house. Thank you so much.

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00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 2: Wow, I love that.

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00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,560
Speaker 1: Well. Thank you both so much for doing the podcast.

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00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: Everyone can listen to Let me say this your podcast

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00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: wherever they listen to podcasts. Yes, can I say the

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00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 1: word podcast anymore time?

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00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 2: Keep going, keep going?

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00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 1: Yeah. Hunters newsletter Hung Up is on literally substack dot com.

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00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:32,959
Speaker 4: Yes, Hunter, and I'm on Instagram is at Hunter h

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00:59:33,000 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 4: and Peyton is.

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00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 3: At Peyton Dick's.

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Speaker 5: Imagine how your whole name is your handle? That's so sexy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have people on the inside. I may not

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00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 3: be at weddings, but people on Instagram.

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00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 2: You know what, it's crazy. I also have my real

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00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:47,760
Speaker 2: full name on Instagram. There you go.

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Speaker 5: Wow e wait wait, so twins, I'm the only one

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Speaker 5: who doesn't. I'm Hunter H. Why Why was I fourteen

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00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,120
Speaker 5: and I chose Hunter H or not just Hunter? That's

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Speaker 5: been so good.

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Speaker 1: It's my favorite house. Z Way is still z Way

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Speaker 1: f because someone refuses to.

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Speaker 3: That's so funny about to keep it up. It's it's

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Speaker 3: art like one of us. We have a burnercount.

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Speaker 1: It's just do it. Wow. We'll shout out to add

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Speaker 1: z Way wherever you are hold on that account.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you guys for doing the pod.

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01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: This is so fun.

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