WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Lobster Lunges

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of d A lot of people say

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<v Speaker 1>dating in the workplace is a big no no, but

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<v Speaker 1>people get carried than ever a really really hard way.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you're dating in.

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<v Speaker 2>Your live space, like with your roommate.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not saying your roommate. I'm saying like in

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<v Speaker 1>the same building. If that goes wrong, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be awkward, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think it's all well, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I've moved down.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's the situation that our new friend Brian

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<v Speaker 1>is in, and I want to get all the dats

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Brian, what's up? Man? Can I call you dirty? Bright?

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<v Speaker 1>Just jealous because you took her nickname dirty? Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you met? What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>And Stephanie? Okay, live on she was on the ground floor.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, she's a budget girls, dangerous face in the alley.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I would I would know the budget because you see,

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<v Speaker 3>I am the resident manager.

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<v Speaker 1>Made it extra.

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<v Speaker 2>That's different than just living in the same building.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of power that you have control stuff. Dude.

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<v Speaker 2>You can get keys to your apartment and just go in.

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<v Speaker 1>The idea something.

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<v Speaker 4>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not how you met Stephanie? Right, he was home

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<v Speaker 1>from work.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, this is going to go south quick. Then

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<v Speaker 3>you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Dirty, be so go ahead tell us about how you

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<v Speaker 1>and Stephanie met.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we met because she's a lieutenant, right, I'm the

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<v Speaker 3>one who showed her the unit. I'm the one who

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<v Speaker 3>filled out her leave And.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you did you have a yeah? Did you have

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<v Speaker 2>a crush on her as soon as.

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<v Speaker 3>You saw Oh, I don't know if I want to

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<v Speaker 3>admit this, yeah, before she even came in. Sometimes when tenants,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, they'll I'll pre screen them and every once

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<v Speaker 3>in a while I'll look up their name because they'll

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<v Speaker 3>be like, they'll pre qualify over online. I did see

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<v Speaker 3>her on social media and I was like, look, you

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<v Speaker 3>said she was on You're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like pre qualified.

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<v Speaker 4>Basically, every once in a while, when there's a tenant

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<v Speaker 4>whose name is female and is in this right range.

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<v Speaker 1>Your background check very very detailed top dive on a

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<v Speaker 1>background You want.

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<v Speaker 3>To make sure that there's a real person coming in

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<v Speaker 3>and they're not locked about who they are in their

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<v Speaker 3>position and stuff. A lot of people do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Her last datus is like I burned my old apartment down,

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<v Speaker 1>got to look for.

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<v Speaker 5>A new one.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was your read on Stephanie?

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<v Speaker 3>So, I mean she looked very presentable, So I'm you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we went through the process. She wanted to get the place.

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<v Speaker 3>I said, great, and then I was kind of crushing

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<v Speaker 3>on it on her a little bit. And then I

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<v Speaker 3>noticed on her application where she worked she had a

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<v Speaker 3>couple of different jobs. One of them is this yoga place.

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<v Speaker 3>So I might have I might have shown up at

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<v Speaker 3>the yoga place.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, still with you, man, If you know

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<v Speaker 1>what you want, you got to go out and get it.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing Ursula the sea Witch said that, So keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not doing anything illegal here. I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 1>yoga studio.

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<v Speaker 2>How long has Stephanie lived in the building at this point?

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<v Speaker 3>This is probably two weeks in.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, really quick, that you're moving things forward.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, I'm just I'm just going to the yoga place.

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<v Speaker 1>So what was her reaction when she saw you in

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<v Speaker 1>her yoga studio?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she actually didn't really recognize me. She was looking

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<v Speaker 3>at me, but she wasn't immediately like, oh my god, Brian.

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<v Speaker 1>So why would she wrote?

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you want to avoid your landlord at

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<v Speaker 2>all costs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I didn't think of that. Maybe the opposite where

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, oh my god, my Landlords, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Know you only met him once for the walk through,

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<v Speaker 4>basically the place and handing the key zone.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the reaction Brian was hoping to get clearly, So.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm not a bad looking guy, so it's

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<v Speaker 3>not like I'm some you know, weird living in the

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<v Speaker 3>basement kind of you know, Landlord, you're in their shirt.

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<v Speaker 1>List with yoga pants on.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, yeah, to see you here, I'm there and

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't really done this yoga before. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>was shocked how hard it was to hold certain poses

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<v Speaker 3>or even to get into them. So I'm sweating, I'm shaking, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and obviously she sees me, and then she then she

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<v Speaker 3>recognizes me. She's like, wait, are you wait, don't you

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<v Speaker 3>aren't you in the And I'm like, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She recognized you when you were in the pretzel position,

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<v Speaker 1>but not when you were standing up right.

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<v Speaker 3>So I felt it was kind of stupid about obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, not being a successful practitioner.

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<v Speaker 1>But practitioner.

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<v Speaker 3>She ended up walking with me back, and on the

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<v Speaker 3>way back, you know, I asked her if she wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to get a bite if she was if she was hungry.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you made them you made the transition to

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<v Speaker 4>asking her out on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm hmmm, I sure did. Su Yes, so she said yes, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>We went to dinner, and I felt like it was

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<v Speaker 3>a fun date. We didn't really talk about anything too deep.

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<v Speaker 3>We didn't get into any subjects that were stimulating and unique.

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<v Speaker 3>We just kind of generally spoke.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask what type of food did you go

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<v Speaker 1>grab with her?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you worried? Is it experience of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like sushi or something?

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<v Speaker 3>We had seafood? We went to a really nice seafood place.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's classy.

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<v Speaker 4>And you're saying that you guys didn't get into deep conversation,

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<v Speaker 4>but I think that that's okay on a first date.

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<v Speaker 2>Like what was the vibe by the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I felt like we were getting along. We

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<v Speaker 3>definitely laughed, We were joking about a few different things,

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<v Speaker 3>and I wasn't sure exactly how it was going to end.

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<v Speaker 3>So we were walking back obviously were going to the

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<v Speaker 3>same place.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, I mean, it's so easy, like forgot come over

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<v Speaker 4>to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where you pulled out the ts to her apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yourself in, let me let you end of your place.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I uh, you know, I wasn't sure if maybe

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<v Speaker 3>it was going to be like a kiss or something,

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<v Speaker 3>but she pretty quickly was thank you so much for

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<v Speaker 3>the night, and then boom the doors closed, curtains of

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<v Speaker 3>the window or shut.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't have to around floor. You had always got

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<v Speaker 2>to shut your curtains down there?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you walk around, look through her windows and shut?

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<v Speaker 1>She did? The dead bolt started nailing. That doesn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like the best ending to the night. But again, it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to not kiss on my first day.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm actually with jose and this one.

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't always.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe she was nervous, she could have been intimidated, who knows.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it sounds sounds like what it is. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>conturn that when we reach out to her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Right after this, we're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with Brian, the property manager with restraint soon to

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<v Speaker 1>turn into a restraining order possibly but her now he's

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<v Speaker 1>using restraint and not using the company keys to enter

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<v Speaker 1>his dates apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>That is highly illegal.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, given him a bad time briment. Yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>been a really really good sport, even though we've been

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<v Speaker 1>joking around with him. He did ask out one of

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<v Speaker 1>his tenants, though, and they went out to a nice

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<v Speaker 1>seafood place. Had a great time, but the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night was kind of brief. She just said thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for dinner and shut the door to her apartment

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<v Speaker 1>pretty quickly. Yeah, and that was pretty much the end

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Now he's looking to us for answers.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, can we just ask her quick? Have

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<v Speaker 2>you not run into her in the building at all

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<v Speaker 2>since your date?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I saw her leaving once, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 3>she saw me with your binoculars.

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<v Speaker 1>She was climbing out down through the window. Yeah, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry.

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<v Speaker 2>We will talk you up to her, yes, Stephan.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, we're about to call her, but I am

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<v Speaker 1>not going to mention. And I don't think anyone in

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<v Speaker 1>this room should mention that Brian found out where she

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<v Speaker 1>worked from the application, because that is not going to

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<v Speaker 1>come well.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you. Yeah, even though it was.

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<v Speaker 1>A background check, it definitely looks really bad.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, honestly, if you want to keep up that lot,

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<v Speaker 4>you need to keep going to yoga, which would probably be.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for you. It sounds like your hips are very tight.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, on a scale of one to ten. How loose

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<v Speaker 1>your hips?

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<v Speaker 3>I'd give it a nice seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow to keep it?

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to get you a date? All right? Here we

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<v Speaker 1>go to call her right now? Hello, Hi is a Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Stephanie. We heard you teach a yoga class, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're very tight hipped people over here. We're hoping that

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<v Speaker 1>we could be stretched out a little bit.

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<v Speaker 2>This is where we're starting. Well, Hi, Stephanie.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we were recommended to you by someone who's taken

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<v Speaker 1>your class before, named Brian.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, are you guys trying to call the studio?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, we were giving your direct line from Brian

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<v Speaker 1>because we're trying not just to sign up for yoga class,

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<v Speaker 1>but also trying to figure out if we could get

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<v Speaker 1>you back on another date with him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you didn't mention we're a radio show called Brooke

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the br Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I thought that might come off a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>So Brian reached out to us because he told us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about the day that you two hung

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<v Speaker 1>out and the lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>Seafood dinner that you went to.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I'm curious that too, but you heard uh, pretty.

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<v Speaker 1>Simple to give up to give you a snapshot of it,

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<v Speaker 1>is that he ended up meeting you and taking your

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<v Speaker 1>yoga class then, and you parlayed that into a seafood

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date date, and then after that he walked you home.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, conversation was light. People were laughing.

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<v Speaker 5>Well he was laughing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, laughing, not really.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess we have different sent of humor.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you find him unfunny?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of whoa Can you tell us what happened?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, he took my yoga class, and it took me

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<v Speaker 5>a minute to like notice it was him, And I

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<v Speaker 5>felt really bad for him because he was really struggling,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, but I gave him some kudos for making

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<v Speaker 5>it through the whole box.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just even showing up right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>And then he, you know, he asked me out to

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<v Speaker 5>dinner and told me that he knew about this really

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<v Speaker 5>nice seafood restaurant and like hyping me up and up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and I was excited. All right. So we

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<v Speaker 5>get to the seafood restaurant and it's a red lobster.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh hey, my grandpa still thinks those are really really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he sounds like you were unimpressed.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, he kept talking about like the best deep food.

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<v Speaker 5>He did all this research online and they get all

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<v Speaker 5>this fresh everything fresh every day, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, but I mean, come on, he tried, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>his opinion of something nice. You know, like maybe he's

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<v Speaker 4>not a guy who is a real foodie.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and his defense it was fresh when they caught it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then they freeze it and they.

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<v Speaker 2>God asked the name of the restaurant before you going

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<v Speaker 2>to date?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh, I guess I guess what you mentioned though

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<v Speaker 1>that he was laughing during the date and you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>what was that about?

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<v Speaker 5>So at one point I was like, I asked him

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<v Speaker 5>if it was just a coincidence that he showed.

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<v Speaker 3>Up to my yoga class.

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<v Speaker 5>You asked him, what did he got really weird? And

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<v Speaker 5>he started playing with his lobster and putting it in

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<v Speaker 5>yoga positions, going look a downward blaster. Not when I'm

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<v Speaker 5>asking him a serious question, and he's like diverting it by.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe with it comes off.

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<v Speaker 2>Cray fish and a sun salutation.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, I mean he tried to make a

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<v Speaker 1>funny joke and it didn't land. That were really like

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<v Speaker 1>not worth giving him another chance, you'll make.

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<v Speaker 2>Me laugh and mountain, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And if that wasn't bad enough, something else happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, okay, you know, I mean, I've heard enough.

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<v Speaker 3>I think.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian has been actually listening on the other line this

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<v Speaker 1>whole time, supposed to wait, but he's there.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he needs to hear it. Step, you can

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<v Speaker 2>hear the rest of the story. Oh yeah, what else happened?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't need to hear the rest of the story.

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm good. I think I got the gist

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<v Speaker 3>of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, do you know what she's gonna say? I would

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<v Speaker 2>be so.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Of course he doesn't want to hear the rest of

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<v Speaker 5>it because he probably doesn't want me to say it

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<v Speaker 5>on the radio.

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<v Speaker 2>Why would you do? Did he do something inappropriate?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't do I didn't do anything inappropriate. Okay, sure

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<v Speaker 3>he stuck me with the bill?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like stuck the bill to your body?

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<v Speaker 5>Or no, like I paid for dinner.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh you're the one that asked her out.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the one that picked the spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay. My question is what's wrong with that?

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<v Speaker 5>What he invited me out?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Look, I don't make I mean, I get like compensation

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<v Speaker 3>for certain things. You know, dis kind of rand et cetera.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, like I know how much Stephanie makes

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<v Speaker 3>from the application. Well no, but hear me out. I

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<v Speaker 3>know it sounds bad, but she has a bunch of

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<v Speaker 3>side hustles. She has, like main income, what anthing't do

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<v Speaker 3>with anything?

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<v Speaker 5>That's really creepy that you know that I make more

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<v Speaker 5>than you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, I don't know if it's creepy. He saw

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<v Speaker 1>it on your application.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's what doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's weird, that doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 5>So then that confirms that he didn't just randomly step

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<v Speaker 5>into my yoga clock.

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<v Speaker 1>Brian, any comments on that, look, I will No.

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<v Speaker 5>There's nothing to look at your ratchet.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a handy with a ratchet. That means I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think she still used it.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to pay. I actually had a coupon

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<v Speaker 3>or red Lobster that I had with me that I

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<v Speaker 3>did not pull out because I was like, oh, that's

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<v Speaker 3>going to look cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's what happened, Brian.

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<v Speaker 4>If you can't afford red Lobster, fine just pick another date.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I can afford red Lobster. I just figured that

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<v Speaker 3>she has the means. I mean, I already like the

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<v Speaker 3>yoga class. Imagine went directly to her, soble that's a

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<v Speaker 3>good boy.

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<v Speaker 1>He technically did pay you directly.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not okay.

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<v Speaker 4>There's a building, there's a studio, you have to pay

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<v Speaker 4>for broke insurance.

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<v Speaker 1>Jose, Alexis and I are all on the same page here.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the one who's on the outlier against Brian. For

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<v Speaker 1>some reason. I just devoted and caring listener.

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<v Speaker 3>When everything's said and done, I think I paid almost

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<v Speaker 3>two dollars for everything because I had it was it

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<v Speaker 3>was like a rental thing. I had, I drink, I

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<v Speaker 3>had water, I had a protein drink at the mat.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you overcharged him.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, before I offer to send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date, would you mind paying Brian back first said

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<v Speaker 1>the overclass yoga class. You have money.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, we're kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then let's just offer to send you guys out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>Then, yes, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't get the chance. Let Brian throw down a

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<v Speaker 1>cupon Brian. I'm sorry, man, it sounds like we can't

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<v Speaker 1>get you another date here. But at the very least,

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<v Speaker 1>would you mind sending us a video of you putting

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<v Speaker 1>that lobster into downward lobster. It sounds really funny. We

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<v Speaker 1>could put it up on our on our page.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'll send you guys a new video, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, he.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't afford lobster.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning. I know we're supposed to talk at

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<v Speaker 1>this point about the date and the people on it,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe this time we should take a second and

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<v Speaker 1>critique ourselves. I mean, we're trying to have fun and

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<v Speaker 1>be entertaining and joke around with our callers. That's our job.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe is it coming off as like a roast? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's when.

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<v Speaker 4>We all are on the same side.

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<v Speaker 2>Made her pain like job.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think overall we need to be we need

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<v Speaker 1>to go a little gener a little softer.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of going against you now, but these.

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<v Speaker 1>Are our listeners. If you're listening right now, you want

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. You know, we joke around like it's

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<v Speaker 1>expected to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Jokes, but you also have to have a critical stance

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<v Speaker 4>of what you're doing wrong here, and those are clearly

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<v Speaker 4>things he was doing wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are all that's absolutely all true, one hundred percent. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>But I do think I want to be able to

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<v Speaker 1>go a little softer, so stick around to hear Jeff

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<v Speaker 1>go soft and we're gonna put that up on the website.

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<v Speaker 1>Just make sure you listen to that. If that man,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna get record numbers on our site.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>If you want to hear any of our second dates,

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you head over to your favorite podcast hub

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<v Speaker 1>and find us at Brook and Jeffrey. Don't go to

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