Speaker 1: The second date of d A lot of people say
Speaker 1: dating in the workplace is a big no no, but
Speaker 1: people get carried than ever a really really hard way.
Speaker 1: But what if you're dating in.
Speaker 2: Your live space, like with your roommate.
Speaker 1: No, I'm not saying your roommate. I'm saying like in
Speaker 1: the same building. If that goes wrong, it's not going
Speaker 1: to be awkward, right.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's all well, I don't know if
Speaker 2: I've moved down.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the situation that our new friend Brian
Speaker 1: is in, and I want to get all the dats
Speaker 1: on it. Brian, what's up? Man? Can I call you dirty? Bright?
Speaker 1: Just jealous because you took her nickname dirty? Tell us
Speaker 1: about the girl that you met? What's her name?
Speaker 3: And Stephanie? Okay, live on she was on the ground floor.
Speaker 4: Okay, she's a budget girls, dangerous face in the alley.
Speaker 3: Well, I would I would know the budget because you see,
Speaker 3: I am the resident manager.
Speaker 1: Made it extra.
Speaker 2: That's different than just living in the same building.
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of power that you have control stuff. Dude.
Speaker 2: You can get keys to your apartment and just go in.
Speaker 1: The idea something.
Speaker 4: I think.
Speaker 1: That's not how you met Stephanie? Right, he was home
Speaker 1: from work.
Speaker 3: Oh man, this is going to go south quick. Then
Speaker 3: you are.
Speaker 1: Dirty, be so go ahead tell us about how you
Speaker 1: and Stephanie met.
Speaker 3: Well, we met because she's a lieutenant, right, I'm the
Speaker 3: one who showed her the unit. I'm the one who
Speaker 3: filled out her leave And.
Speaker 2: Did you did you have a yeah? Did you have
Speaker 2: a crush on her as soon as.
Speaker 3: You saw Oh, I don't know if I want to
Speaker 3: admit this, yeah, before she even came in. Sometimes when tenants,
Speaker 3: you know, they'll I'll pre screen them and every once
Speaker 3: in a while I'll look up their name because they'll
Speaker 3: be like, they'll pre qualify over online. I did see
Speaker 3: her on social media and I was like, look, you
Speaker 3: said she was on You're.
Speaker 1: Like pre qualified.
Speaker 4: Basically, every once in a while, when there's a tenant
Speaker 4: whose name is female and is in this right range.
Speaker 1: Your background check very very detailed top dive on a
Speaker 1: background You want.
Speaker 3: To make sure that there's a real person coming in
Speaker 3: and they're not locked about who they are in their
Speaker 3: position and stuff. A lot of people do it.
Speaker 1: Her last datus is like I burned my old apartment down,
Speaker 1: got to look for.
Speaker 5: A new one.
Speaker 1: So what was your read on Stephanie?
Speaker 3: So, I mean she looked very presentable, So I'm you know,
Speaker 3: we went through the process. She wanted to get the place.
Speaker 3: I said, great, and then I was kind of crushing
Speaker 3: on it on her a little bit. And then I
Speaker 3: noticed on her application where she worked she had a
Speaker 3: couple of different jobs. One of them is this yoga place.
Speaker 3: So I might have I might have shown up at
Speaker 3: the yoga place.
Speaker 1: I'm with you, still with you, man, If you know
Speaker 1: what you want, you got to go out and get it.
Speaker 1: The thing Ursula the sea Witch said that, So keep going.
Speaker 1: You're not doing anything illegal here. I just want to say,
Speaker 1: yoga studio.
Speaker 2: How long has Stephanie lived in the building at this point?
Speaker 3: This is probably two weeks in.
Speaker 2: Oh, really quick, that you're moving things forward.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm just I'm just going to the yoga place.
Speaker 1: So what was her reaction when she saw you in
Speaker 1: her yoga studio?
Speaker 3: Well, she actually didn't really recognize me. She was looking
Speaker 3: at me, but she wasn't immediately like, oh my god, Brian.
Speaker 1: So why would she wrote?
Speaker 2: I feel like you want to avoid your landlord at
Speaker 2: all costs.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't think of that. Maybe the opposite where
Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, my Landlords, I.
Speaker 4: Know you only met him once for the walk through,
Speaker 4: basically the place and handing the key zone.
Speaker 1: That was the reaction Brian was hoping to get clearly, So.
Speaker 3: You know, I'm not a bad looking guy, so it's
Speaker 3: not like I'm some you know, weird living in the
Speaker 3: basement kind of you know, Landlord, you're in their shirt.
Speaker 1: List with yoga pants on.
Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, to see you here, I'm there and
Speaker 3: I haven't really done this yoga before. I mean, I
Speaker 3: was shocked how hard it was to hold certain poses
Speaker 3: or even to get into them. So I'm sweating, I'm shaking, yeah,
Speaker 3: and obviously she sees me, and then she then she
Speaker 3: recognizes me. She's like, wait, are you wait, don't you
Speaker 3: aren't you in the And I'm like, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: She recognized you when you were in the pretzel position,
Speaker 1: but not when you were standing up right.
Speaker 3: So I felt it was kind of stupid about obviously,
Speaker 3: you know, not being a successful practitioner.
Speaker 1: But practitioner.
Speaker 3: She ended up walking with me back, and on the
Speaker 3: way back, you know, I asked her if she wanted
Speaker 3: to get a bite if she was if she was hungry.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you made them you made the transition to
Speaker 4: asking her out on a date.
Speaker 3: Mm hmmm, I sure did. Su Yes, so she said yes, Yes.
Speaker 3: We went to dinner, and I felt like it was
Speaker 3: a fun date. We didn't really talk about anything too deep.
Speaker 3: We didn't get into any subjects that were stimulating and unique.
Speaker 3: We just kind of generally spoke.
Speaker 1: Can I ask what type of food did you go
Speaker 1: grab with her?
Speaker 2: Are you worried? Is it experience of that.
Speaker 1: Like sushi or something?
Speaker 3: We had seafood? We went to a really nice seafood place.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's classy.
Speaker 4: And you're saying that you guys didn't get into deep conversation,
Speaker 4: but I think that that's okay on a first date.
Speaker 2: Like what was the vibe by the end of the night.
Speaker 3: You know, I felt like we were getting along. We
Speaker 3: definitely laughed, We were joking about a few different things,
Speaker 3: and I wasn't sure exactly how it was going to end.
Speaker 3: So we were walking back obviously were going to the
Speaker 3: same place.
Speaker 4: Right, I mean, it's so easy, like forgot come over
Speaker 4: to my place.
Speaker 1: This is where you pulled out the ts to her apartment.
Speaker 1: Yourself in, let me let you end of your place.
Speaker 3: No, I uh, you know, I wasn't sure if maybe
Speaker 3: it was going to be like a kiss or something,
Speaker 3: but she pretty quickly was thank you so much for
Speaker 3: the night, and then boom the doors closed, curtains of
Speaker 3: the window or shut.
Speaker 2: You don't have to around floor. You had always got
Speaker 2: to shut your curtains down there?
Speaker 1: Did you walk around, look through her windows and shut?
Speaker 1: She did? The dead bolt started nailing. That doesn't sound
Speaker 1: like the best ending to the night. But again, it's
Speaker 1: okay to not kiss on my first day.
Speaker 2: I'm actually with jose and this one.
Speaker 1: It isn't always.
Speaker 3: Maybe she was nervous, she could have been intimidated, who knows.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it sounds sounds like what it is. We'll
Speaker 1: conturn that when we reach out to her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Right after this, we're on the
Speaker 1: phone with Brian, the property manager with restraint soon to
Speaker 1: turn into a restraining order possibly but her now he's
Speaker 1: using restraint and not using the company keys to enter
Speaker 1: his dates apartment.
Speaker 2: That is highly illegal.
Speaker 1: I mean, given him a bad time briment. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: been a really really good sport, even though we've been
Speaker 1: joking around with him. He did ask out one of
Speaker 1: his tenants, though, and they went out to a nice
Speaker 1: seafood place. Had a great time, but the end of
Speaker 1: the night was kind of brief. She just said thank
Speaker 1: you for dinner and shut the door to her apartment
Speaker 1: pretty quickly. Yeah, and that was pretty much the end
Speaker 1: of it. Now he's looking to us for answers.
Speaker 2: By the way, can we just ask her quick? Have
Speaker 2: you not run into her in the building at all
Speaker 2: since your date?
Speaker 3: Well? I saw her leaving once, but I don't think
Speaker 3: she saw me with your binoculars.
Speaker 1: She was climbing out down through the window. Yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: don't worry.
Speaker 2: We will talk you up to her, yes, Stephan.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we're about to call her, but I am
Speaker 1: not going to mention. And I don't think anyone in
Speaker 1: this room should mention that Brian found out where she
Speaker 1: worked from the application, because that is not going to
Speaker 1: come well.
Speaker 3: Thank you. Yeah, even though it was.
Speaker 1: A background check, it definitely looks really bad.
Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, if you want to keep up that lot,
Speaker 4: you need to keep going to yoga, which would probably be.
Speaker 2: Good for you. It sounds like your hips are very tight.
Speaker 1: Yeah, on a scale of one to ten. How loose
Speaker 1: your hips?
Speaker 3: I'd give it a nice seven.
Speaker 2: Wow to keep it?
Speaker 1: Trying to get you a date? All right? Here we
Speaker 1: go to call her right now? Hello, Hi is a Stephanie.
Speaker 1: Hey Stephanie. We heard you teach a yoga class, and
Speaker 1: we're very tight hipped people over here. We're hoping that
Speaker 1: we could be stretched out a little bit.
Speaker 2: This is where we're starting. Well, Hi, Stephanie.
Speaker 3: Hi.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we were recommended to you by someone who's taken
Speaker 1: your class before, named Brian.
Speaker 5: Sorry, are you guys trying to call the studio?
Speaker 1: No, no, we were giving your direct line from Brian
Speaker 1: because we're trying not just to sign up for yoga class,
Speaker 1: but also trying to figure out if we could get
Speaker 1: you back on another date with him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you didn't mention we're a radio show called Brooke
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the br Yeah.
Speaker 1: Well, I thought that might come off a little weird.
Speaker 1: So Brian reached out to us because he told us
Speaker 1: a little bit about the day that you two hung
Speaker 1: out and the lovely.
Speaker 2: Seafood dinner that you went to.
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm curious that too, but you heard uh, pretty.
Speaker 1: Simple to give up to give you a snapshot of it,
Speaker 1: is that he ended up meeting you and taking your
Speaker 1: yoga class then, and you parlayed that into a seafood
Speaker 1: dinner date date, and then after that he walked you home.
Speaker 2: He said, conversation was light. People were laughing.
Speaker 5: Well he was laughing.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, laughing, not really.
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess we have different sent of humor.
Speaker 2: Okay, did you find him unfunny?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Kind of whoa Can you tell us what happened?
Speaker 5: Well, he took my yoga class, and it took me
Speaker 5: a minute to like notice it was him, And I
Speaker 5: felt really bad for him because he was really struggling,
Speaker 5: you know, but I gave him some kudos for making
Speaker 5: it through the whole box.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just even showing up right.
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 5: And then he, you know, he asked me out to
Speaker 5: dinner and told me that he knew about this really
Speaker 5: nice seafood restaurant and like hyping me up and up. Yeah,
Speaker 5: you know, and I was excited. All right. So we
Speaker 5: get to the seafood restaurant and it's a red lobster.
Speaker 4: Oh hey, my grandpa still thinks those are really really good.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he sounds like you were unimpressed.
Speaker 5: I mean, he kept talking about like the best deep food.
Speaker 5: He did all this research online and they get all
Speaker 5: this fresh everything fresh every day, and.
Speaker 4: Well, but I mean, come on, he tried, and that's
Speaker 4: his opinion of something nice. You know, like maybe he's
Speaker 4: not a guy who is a real foodie.
Speaker 1: Right, and his defense it was fresh when they caught it,
Speaker 1: and then they freeze it and they.
Speaker 2: God asked the name of the restaurant before you going
Speaker 2: to date?
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, I guess I guess what you mentioned though
Speaker 1: that he was laughing during the date and you weren't
Speaker 1: what was that about?
Speaker 5: So at one point I was like, I asked him
Speaker 5: if it was just a coincidence that he showed.
Speaker 3: Up to my yoga class.
Speaker 5: You asked him, what did he got really weird? And
Speaker 5: he started playing with his lobster and putting it in
Speaker 5: yoga positions, going look a downward blaster. Not when I'm
Speaker 5: asking him a serious question, and he's like diverting it by.
Speaker 1: Maybe with it comes off.
Speaker 2: Cray fish and a sun salutation.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I mean he tried to make a
Speaker 1: funny joke and it didn't land. That were really like
Speaker 1: not worth giving him another chance, you'll make.
Speaker 2: Me laugh and mountain, you know.
Speaker 5: And if that wasn't bad enough, something else happened.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, you know, I mean, I've heard enough.
Speaker 3: I think.
Speaker 1: Brian has been actually listening on the other line this
Speaker 1: whole time, supposed to wait, but he's there.
Speaker 2: I think he needs to hear it. Step, you can
Speaker 2: hear the rest of the story. Oh yeah, what else happened?
Speaker 3: I don't need to hear the rest of the story.
Speaker 3: I think I'm good. I think I got the gist
Speaker 3: of it.
Speaker 5: Oh.
Speaker 2: Oh, do you know what she's gonna say? I would
Speaker 2: be so.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Of course he doesn't want to hear the rest of
Speaker 5: it because he probably doesn't want me to say it
Speaker 5: on the radio.
Speaker 2: Why would you do? Did he do something inappropriate?
Speaker 3: I didn't do I didn't do anything inappropriate. Okay, sure
Speaker 3: he stuck me with the bill?
Speaker 1: Oh like stuck the bill to your body?
Speaker 5: Or no, like I paid for dinner.
Speaker 4: Oh you're the one that asked her out.
Speaker 2: You're the one that picked the spot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay. My question is what's wrong with that?
Speaker 5: What he invited me out?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Look, I don't make I mean, I get like compensation
Speaker 3: for certain things. You know, dis kind of rand et cetera.
Speaker 3: But you know, like I know how much Stephanie makes
Speaker 3: from the application. Well no, but hear me out. I
Speaker 3: know it sounds bad, but she has a bunch of
Speaker 3: side hustles. She has, like main income, what anthing't do
Speaker 3: with anything?
Speaker 5: That's really creepy that you know that I make more
Speaker 5: than you.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I don't know if it's creepy. He saw
Speaker 1: it on your application.
Speaker 5: Well that's what doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird, that doesn't matter.
Speaker 5: So then that confirms that he didn't just randomly step
Speaker 5: into my yoga clock.
Speaker 1: Brian, any comments on that, look, I will No.
Speaker 5: There's nothing to look at your ratchet.
Speaker 1: He's a handy with a ratchet. That means I don't
Speaker 1: think she still used it.
Speaker 3: I was going to pay. I actually had a coupon
Speaker 3: or red Lobster that I had with me that I
Speaker 3: did not pull out because I was like, oh, that's
Speaker 3: going to look cheap.
Speaker 2: Here's what happened, Brian.
Speaker 4: If you can't afford red Lobster, fine just pick another date.
Speaker 3: Like I can afford red Lobster. I just figured that
Speaker 3: she has the means. I mean, I already like the
Speaker 3: yoga class. Imagine went directly to her, soble that's a
Speaker 3: good boy.
Speaker 1: He technically did pay you directly.
Speaker 2: That is not okay.
Speaker 4: There's a building, there's a studio, you have to pay
Speaker 4: for broke insurance.
Speaker 1: Jose, Alexis and I are all on the same page here.
Speaker 1: You're the one who's on the outlier against Brian. For
Speaker 1: some reason. I just devoted and caring listener.
Speaker 3: When everything's said and done, I think I paid almost
Speaker 3: two dollars for everything because I had it was it
Speaker 3: was like a rental thing. I had, I drink, I
Speaker 3: had water, I had a protein drink at the mat.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you overcharged him.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Now, before I offer to send you guys out on
Speaker 1: another date, would you mind paying Brian back first said
Speaker 1: the overclass yoga class. You have money.
Speaker 2: Come on, we're kidding.
Speaker 1: Well, then let's just offer to send you guys out
Speaker 1: on a date.
Speaker 3: Then, yes, I'm good.
Speaker 1: We didn't get the chance. Let Brian throw down a
Speaker 1: cupon Brian. I'm sorry, man, it sounds like we can't
Speaker 1: get you another date here. But at the very least,
Speaker 1: would you mind sending us a video of you putting
Speaker 1: that lobster into downward lobster. It sounds really funny. We
Speaker 1: could put it up on our on our page.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll send you guys a new video, I guess.
Speaker 3: But yeah, he.
Speaker 2: Can't afford lobster.
Speaker 1: In the morning. I know we're supposed to talk at
Speaker 1: this point about the date and the people on it,
Speaker 1: but maybe this time we should take a second and
Speaker 1: critique ourselves. I mean, we're trying to have fun and
Speaker 1: be entertaining and joke around with our callers. That's our job.
Speaker 1: But maybe is it coming off as like a roast? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean it's when.
Speaker 4: We all are on the same side.
Speaker 2: Made her pain like job.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I just think overall we need to be we need
Speaker 1: to go a little gener a little softer.
Speaker 2: I'm kind of going against you now, but these.
Speaker 1: Are our listeners. If you're listening right now, you want
Speaker 1: a second date. You know, we joke around like it's
Speaker 1: expected to be.
Speaker 4: Jokes, but you also have to have a critical stance
Speaker 4: of what you're doing wrong here, and those are clearly
Speaker 4: things he was doing wrong.
Speaker 1: Those are all that's absolutely all true, one hundred percent. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But I do think I want to be able to
Speaker 1: go a little softer, so stick around to hear Jeff
Speaker 1: go soft and we're gonna put that up on the website.
Speaker 1: Just make sure you listen to that. If that man,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get record numbers on our site.
Speaker 4: Now.
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