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Speaker 2: If we did it with the six top, we could

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Speaker 2: tight end you and be like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, the band's here. What do you have for users?

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Speaker 3: Hit it?

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Speaker 1: Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi, this is my first time talking to you in

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Speaker 2: probably like a week. We know where you were at

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Speaker 2: the wedding of the Century, of the year, the wedding,

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Speaker 2: the Royal wedding, and we will get into that on

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Speaker 2: the big show. I don't think there is a big

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Speaker 2: enough show for all the details that I can't wait

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Speaker 2: to ask you on and offline.

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Speaker 1: But fine, goodness, gracious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're going to get through this pregame here and

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Speaker 2: this segment is brought to you by Macy's and Hell

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Speaker 2: is going to kick it off. She said, I know

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Speaker 2: we feel like we're not great hosts, but what are

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Speaker 2: we doing to get ready for the fourth of July.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna be apart and I hate that, but then

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Speaker 2: I hope you're coming on down my way later on.

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Speaker 3: I am. We're not gonna be together on the actual fourth,

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Speaker 3: but I'm gonna see you right after that, which I

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Speaker 3: cannot wait. So Fourth of July is one of my

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Speaker 3: favorite holidays. Everyone knows I love America as to you

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Speaker 3: give me some red, white, and blue. I'm not kidding

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Speaker 3: any holiday that. Like when I go into a Macy's

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Speaker 3: I also love and I'm gonna do this at the ranch.

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Speaker 3: I'm at the ranch a little bit later in the week.

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Speaker 3: But I like decorating my outdoor pillows. So like, for example,

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Speaker 3: Maggie said, you're looking for ideas for hosting for the

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Speaker 3: fourth of July, swap out your outdoor pillows easy, red, white,

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Speaker 3: Any sort of outdoor little shift or change makes it

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Speaker 3: feel festive again. Your outfits are an easy go. I

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Speaker 1: When we were younger, my mom.

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Speaker 3: Used to dress us up for all these holidays, right Easter,

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Speaker 3: As a forty three year adult old adult, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: give me that pin stripe, red and white dress, give

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Speaker 3: dressing in themes, so I would definitely suggest Maggie's. Start

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Speaker 3: with Macy's. They have everything you need. But yeah, swimwear.

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Speaker 3: Who doesn't love a stars and stripes bikini? Nothing says

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Speaker 2: We got to talk about some of the bikinis we

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Speaker 2: Matt, Macy's they have a fourth of July sale, so

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Speaker 2: you want to hit that. I love what you talked

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Speaker 1: That's kind of my thing with mac It's like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: My man's got glasses, So you can check all of

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Speaker 2: that out Maggie on Macy's dot com and hit their

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Speaker 1: So cute, Kendramy.

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Speaker 3: When did it become okay to let your child act up.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Kendra May, you're speaking my language. We

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Speaker 2: If it got to a point where it's just obnoxious,

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Speaker 3: Keza J two eight three five.

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Speaker 1: I see both sides of this argument. I am listen.

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Speaker 2: I was living vicariously through Chris's Instagram and Steve's Instagram

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Speaker 2: this week for the wedding of the of the royal

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Speaker 1: But you made a comment about him and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I love him, And I thought to myself, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: That's a win.

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Speaker 2: You don't need the ring, you don't need the marriage

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Speaker 1: But I don't want a wedding my goal.

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Speaker 3: There is just this aversion that I have to the

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Speaker 1: He's great.

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Speaker 3: So now I will not marry Steve. And it's not

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Speaker 1: I just you know, I don't like planning these things.

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Speaker 3: And then there's so much pressure someone Yeah, but there's

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Speaker 3: the party planning part. So anyways, kez A Jay twenty

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Speaker 3: eight to thirty five, I appreciate that you want Steve

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Speaker 2: Who French riviera that we could pull it off. But listen,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to start therapy.

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Speaker 3: Again, Aaron Jill Andrews. I am so I gotta proud

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Speaker 1: Got to do it.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we've got this is one of the things I

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Speaker 3: Do I let her know he is rude and disrespectful

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Speaker 2: Oh no, There's two ways to look at this.

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Speaker 1: She's ninety five. Let her live her life. But you

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Speaker 3: Yeah at nine or five? Yeah, exactly. So let's start

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Speaker 2: What would Kelly and Judy do not have a mouth

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Speaker 3: Wait time out, so they don't swear? Now there are

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Speaker 1: Well I'm not.

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Speaker 1: What are we going to do with your your mother?

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Speaker 1: To get defensive of that. So start with her happiness.

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Speaker 1: No matter what.

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Speaker 2: Age, your mother is agreed, agreed, you want her happiness,

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Speaker 2: Families are tough. Last, but not least, girl is laid low.

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Speaker 1: Help. My two year old.

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Speaker 2: Is really into He's really big into asking everybody where

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Speaker 2: We start school in September, and how's that going to

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Speaker 3: His teacher or the other girls in class? Everyone, Hey,

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Speaker 3: miss Andrews, we have an issue. Mac is lifting up

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Oh God, I don't know how to navigate this, but listen,

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Speaker 1: I don't, but.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've learned, like I haven't learned anything.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a two and a half year old,

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Speaker 3: My advice would be incentivize him right where it's like

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Speaker 3: because that's like, no, we just keep our pants on.

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Speaker 2: Lesson Lauren and Jeff's wedding, and then Chris will go

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Speaker 3: Is I wore next to nothing most nights and guess

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Speaker 3: does he have a favorite superhero, who's his favorite cartoon characters?

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Speaker 3: Things like that, And fine, cartoon character is wearing pants?

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Speaker 3: Be like, oh, look, I don't know who they are

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Speaker 3: these days. Uh, you know, give me a cartoon character,

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Speaker 3: Woody from Toy Story.

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Speaker 1: Lying Guard.

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Speaker 3: Great, look at wood he's wearing pants. And then be like,

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Speaker 3: you can take your pants off when we're at home,

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Speaker 3: because he takes his pants off when he's in How

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Speaker 3: we're out in public and we're around other people, Woody,

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Speaker 3: and you are going to leave your pants on. Elmo

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Speaker 3: is naked, so he doesn't. He doesn't work in this scenario.

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Speaker 3: But find a person a character that he he or

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Speaker 3: she likes, and then use them as an example.

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Speaker 1: Because you know, Mickey Mouse keeps his making mouth, dies

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Speaker 1: Donald not so much. No pants dance there but and with.

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