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Speaker 1: I master my morning, I master my.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna say masturbate.

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Speaker 3: I was like, bitch, I don't have to know.

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Speaker 2: I wake up at five am to masturbate.

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine what you gotta do?

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Speaker 2: Bitch? I said, what in the farmhand is going on?

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Speaker 1: It's the only time I have to do it.

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Speaker 2: What happens when we spring forward? Now, this is too much.

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Speaker 2: Hi you guys, Welcome to Adult Thing. I'm Jordan Carlos.

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Speaker 1: I'm Michelle.

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Speaker 3: So it is the upside down the Welcome to Stranger

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Speaker 3: Things Season eighteen.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: We're both in pattern sweatshirts and I think we just

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Speaker 4: went through like a void in the in the matrix.

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Speaker 4: But anyway, yes, Michelle, I'm so glad that we're doing this.

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Speaker 4: This is like one of our first recordings of twenty

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Speaker 4: twenty three, and I just like, I just want to

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Speaker 4: have a good year, and I want to have a

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Speaker 4: good year with you, friend, and it just means so

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Speaker 4: much to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that we can be doing this. When did we

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Speaker 1: start this?

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Speaker 3: We started this as a live show in twenty seventeen

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Speaker 3: at Union Hall, a nice little place in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: And what were you wearing?

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Speaker 4: Girl?

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Speaker 2: I don't remember it's something probably clean with a hole

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Speaker 2: in it, you know what I mean. It's clean, but

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know, some plus size bitch with

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Speaker 3: top teddy meat and lip clow's what you mean.

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Speaker 1: I was wearing jeans with stretch for my dad thighs.

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Speaker 2: I remember, like.

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Speaker 3: We would sit on stools and do the live show

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Speaker 3: and you would always have a like a pair of

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Speaker 3: pants with like a rip by the crotch, and I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just like, girl, get it together.

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Speaker 4: I realized that I needed to change up the game

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Speaker 4: a little bit, and five years later I have.

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Speaker 2: Here we are now pair of jeans five years later.

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Speaker 3: You know, I always feel like like I don't mind

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Speaker 3: being casual, but I like it elevated casual, especially if

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Speaker 3: people have paid money to come see you, like just

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Speaker 3: put off some a little key, a little nice, Like

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Speaker 3: you don't have to wear a three piece suit. We

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Speaker 3: don't have to be Steve Harvey out here posting family

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Speaker 3: feud with gators shoes, you know what I mean, and

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Speaker 3: you might as well.

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Speaker 4: Philips Stiller always said, look better than your audience. I

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Speaker 3: Is this a big secret, like a plus sized secret

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Speaker 3: or a teeny tiny.

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Speaker 4: It's a teeny tiny secret. But I want you to know.

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Speaker 4: Oh boy, I've changed up my routine. Oh boy, guess

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Speaker 4: what time I'm waking up now?

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Speaker 2: Are you waking up at like four thirty in the morning?

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Speaker 1: Five am? I wake up at five am for what?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 1: First of me, what do you have to do?

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Speaker 2: Are you running? Are you drinking kale?

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not running. I am not a black man

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Speaker 2: Don't do it?

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Speaker 1: Not doing that? Not doing that?

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Speaker 4: Do the yoga, or I'll do kettlebells, maybe like twenty

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Speaker 3: When you swing at kettlebell, don't you ever just want

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Speaker 1: Every time I want to throw it.

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Speaker 2: Through the fucking window. Every time I think.

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Speaker 3: About the ending of shape of water, I want to

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Speaker 2: I'm like, she fucked a fish.

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Speaker 1: Like I get beautiful?

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Speaker 2: Is a fish? Ah? I want to throw that kettlebell

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Speaker 1: I'm just no.

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Speaker 4: I try to do like that and then meditate, and

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Speaker 1: That's basically it.

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Speaker 4: But just instead of wedging them into the day, starting

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Speaker 4: twenty three. It's holding me. It's five am, Jordan. That's

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Speaker 3: That's amazing that you can make time. You're making time

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Speaker 2: And go, I'm just doing everything for everyone.

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Speaker 3: And I don't think I eat breakfast till ten am,

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Speaker 3: I need to look out for me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm waking up at five am.

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Speaker 1: So you are no caffeine, No caffeine five am. I've

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Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna tell you something else. It's just going

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Speaker 3: Oh, for fuck's sake, I just got a new phone.

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Speaker 3: Now I gotta throw it.

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Speaker 1: What is it? I'm gonna do a twenty one day cleanse? Ah?

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Speaker 3: Why do you sound like a newb actor in Los

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Speaker 3: Angeles for your first pilot season? Why are you doing

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Speaker 4: Ads have no no no, Can I say something now?

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Speaker 2: You sound very defensive. You sound very defensive.

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Speaker 4: I just I've done so much like kind of negative

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Speaker 4: also a reset and try to master my again masturbate.

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Speaker 1: I want to try to master.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of masters of their craft, should we should we

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Speaker 2: I would love to talk about our guest.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, do you think they've ever been on a

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Speaker 4: twenty one day clins? Well?

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Speaker 2: I will say this in terms of doing things that

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Speaker 3: And for me, as a thick ums from the age

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Speaker 3: It's not how smart are you going to be? It's

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Speaker 2: For me, these cleanses.

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Speaker 3: And these juice diets and all these things, like I

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Speaker 2: And so I am so.

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Speaker 3: Tired of people tell me what is good for me

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Speaker 3: I'm working on. But I love that you're on this

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Speaker 2: You want to do? What you want to do? Do you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean? And so for me, that's just

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Speaker 3: A shining example of how to carry herself in the world.

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Speaker 3: And one thing I'm not going to do is say

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Speaker 3: Diet fat obviously like definitely looking at food, having a

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Speaker 3: to our podcasts who are learning to love their bodies

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Speaker 3: because society has told us that we shouldn't and we

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Speaker 3: should fix it. You are perfect, you are worthy, you

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it doesn't define you.

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Speaker 4: I will say this, I do not own a scale,

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Speaker 4: I want to keep up with my daughter. I don't

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Speaker 4: And that's basically why I'm doing it. It feels so good,

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Speaker 3: Next time, let's start with all that information, because that

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Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean? That's your right.

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Speaker 3: So thank you so much, speaking a beautiful So excited

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, we have our first yap on the show.

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Speaker 4: I guess Ammy winning, Oscar winning and Peabody Award winning creator, writer,

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Speaker 4: producer extraordinaire Hilarious, Yes, Hilarious worked for the Daily Show

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Speaker 4: for a long time, wrote for The White House Correspondence Dinner.

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Speaker 4: Now has their own documentary, thirty eight at the Garden.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, y'all, please give it up for the

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Speaker 4: one and only tray Vine.

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Speaker 1: Trayvon, you're in the.

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Speaker 5: Building, Say, how's it going? It is nice to be here.

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Speaker 2: Look at this. I can't believe we've never physically met.

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Speaker 1: You never met.

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Speaker 2: I don't think we ever met. You're like one of

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Speaker 5: We met once at an event in New York.

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Speaker 6: It was some kind of like live taping event type thing.

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Speaker 6: We were both there and that was like the first time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I still lived in New York then I was

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Speaker 1: So Where are you today? Where do we find you today?

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Speaker 5: I'm in LA now.

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Speaker 3: You feel like a sassy ghost to me sometimes because

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Speaker 3: I didn't even know we met, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: I know you through yeah no internet, and we have

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Speaker 3: it feels like you're presenting New York.

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Speaker 2: When you're in New York, it feels like you're presenting

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Speaker 2: I don't know the South.

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Speaker 5: I miss New York so much.

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Speaker 2: What do you miss about it?

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Speaker 6: It's a city that gives me so much creative energy

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Speaker 5: New York's great place for street photography.

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Speaker 3: You're like, I'm so hungover and I can't stop eating bagels.

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Speaker 5: I'm like that week got cow.

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Speaker 3: Not it's coconut, okay, And what it is it's a

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Speaker 4: Those are mushrooms. That's not beef. Those are hell Wow.

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Speaker 5: Actually? You know what, here's the thing, it was really

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Speaker 6: It's considered that after they got their three Michelin stars,

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Speaker 4: Ooh, will never rise above you will never be good enough.

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Speaker 6: Fired Damn, there was no duck, there was no steak.

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Speaker 2: In fact, we have what is your relationship to spice?

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Speaker 6: When it comes to me, I'm not a big spice person,

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Speaker 6: Not like people who do, Like I just want my

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Speaker 6: There's just an Indian place in London called Jim Kna

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, like it's.

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Speaker 2: Make it hurt so good. I love that.

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Speaker 6: That's to me when this works, when you're like, Okay,

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Speaker 5: You back tomorrow.

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Speaker 4: For another you're saying that this spice is like triangle

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Speaker 5: It's working for you.

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Speaker 4: What So, have you always been like way into food

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Speaker 1: Have you been into food since you were like a

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Speaker 6: I grew up with family from the south, right, so

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Speaker 6: You don't got to tell me that, you just put

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Speaker 1: They might make you buy the wagon cow and then

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Speaker 3: What is one thing that you have developed a taste

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Speaker 3: for it later in life, Like for me, I am

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Speaker 3: a late bloomer to oysters, Oh me too.

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Speaker 2: And like I like teeny tiny ones, nice and briny.

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Speaker 3: Give them to me in the r months. I don't

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Speaker 2: Sorry everybody, you.

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Speaker 7: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: But big and juicy right up, like in Nola. Put

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Speaker 3: It was like prive step, but like I was force

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Speaker 4: I became an oyster person in twenty seventeen eighteen.

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Speaker 5: That was that was my fame.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like really late to the oyster game. And I

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Speaker 6: And then I became a duck liver person, like in

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Speaker 1: Here force feeding dust.

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Speaker 2: What in the Game of Thrones is going on?

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Speaker 6: You know what's funny is New York has one of,

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Speaker 6: if not the biggest duck liver farms, like really the

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Speaker 5: But I didn't realize that they got.

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Speaker 4: They gotta have their own room, they gotta I gotta

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Speaker 6: They have to watch the whole first season of Abdelment Tree.

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Speaker 3: I just saw Marcel the shell with shoes on because

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Speaker 6: Oh my god. You know what's funny? My octopus teacher

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Speaker 6: ruined octopus for me?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 5: It just made me feel bad for like eating.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna die anyway. They die. They died a year

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Speaker 1: and a half. Yes, their brain. I love that movie.

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Speaker 4: You ingest they're smarts. You take their intelligence in.

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Speaker 1: You know it works. That's how it works. You become

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Speaker 4: And teach a South African white man the being of life.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to keep doing it, but every time a

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Speaker 6: octopusm It just makes me feel bad.

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Speaker 2: Unless it's got a good char on it, I feel

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Speaker 6: Or it's tandury. If it's tandury meaning it maybe. Caviar

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Speaker 3: Yes, sure, and even then, one or two bites with

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Speaker 2: Just licking it.

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Speaker 5: I always have it on things.

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Speaker 2: We got name dropping. I need a shovel to pick

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Speaker 1: Y'all ain't ordinary people.

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Speaker 6: He had a big like ice sculpture with caviar in it,

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Speaker 6: and that was like, oh look, there's like Chris Janner

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Speaker 2: Was this a season finale of Blackish? Like this this

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Speaker 5: I was just as shocked as you.

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Speaker 4: I got the invite guy, I was like, Okay, we're

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Speaker 2: Okay, brisket is it dry or is it wet?

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Speaker 4: I can't have dry brisket. Yeah, it's gotta be what

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Speaker 4: they have like brisket sator? Yeah, where you have brisket,

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Speaker 4: get invited.

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Speaker 2: It's also lamb off the bone.

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Speaker 1: Jewish families be sucking it up.

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Speaker 5: It's been.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: I love cooking that ship for forty days and night.

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Speaker 1: No, my wife's juice. That's why I know. My wife's Jewish.

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Speaker 1: That's why I know.

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Speaker 4: But it's crazy that brisket is also barbecue, you know,

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Speaker 4: So it's like, do you like a barbecue brisket?

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Speaker 5: Is that you I didn't realize there was another kind.

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Speaker 2: For my T shirt?

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Speaker 5: It's people out there eating dry brisket.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, unfortunately I do.

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Speaker 3: I do all your dry brisket, and I don't mind

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Speaker 3: dipping it in different sauces.

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Speaker 6: Okay, when you say dry, are you talking about it

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Speaker 6: doesn't have any barbecue on it or anything like that,

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Speaker 6: where you're like, this meat has literally no moisture in it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know what that makes me so sad.

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Speaker 3: It's like when you pick up a roch hisstory chicken

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Speaker 3: just like, why would you even sell this to me?

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00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,800
Speaker 3: Like I'm going to crack my tooth on the leg,

447
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:31,439
Speaker 3: that's crazy.

448
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,400
Speaker 6: But it looks like a white woman from Venice Beach.

449
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:35,160
Speaker 6: You're just like, what is going on?

450
00:19:35,359 --> 00:19:37,560
Speaker 3: I would have sent a white woman's booty in Malibu,

451
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:38,160
Speaker 3: but let's.

452
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,600
Speaker 1: Talk about it very specific.

453
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,200
Speaker 3: I love this conversation so much because my idea of

454
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,840
Speaker 3: luxury is still functional.

455
00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,520
Speaker 2: And you know, one day, I don't know.

456
00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,520
Speaker 3: I would love to fly private once in a while,

457
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,439
Speaker 3: but for the most part, like you know, I like

458
00:19:57,480 --> 00:20:00,240
Speaker 3: to upgrade. But when it comes to food and going

459
00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,920
Speaker 3: out to eat and enjoying an experience with people, this

460
00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:05,760
Speaker 3: is my jam and this is something that I can

461
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,320
Speaker 3: afford to do. And I do have friends like Dana Dude,

462
00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 3: who not only has a food podcast, he also books

463
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:14,399
Speaker 3: trips around Michelin Star restaurants, mainly in Europe, which is

464
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:18,000
Speaker 3: like really fucking fun. And I feel bad for people

465
00:20:18,080 --> 00:20:20,840
Speaker 3: who are like, just give me whatever on a plate.

466
00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,920
Speaker 3: I don't care, and I'm like, there's so much more

467
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 3: to life than that.

468
00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,680
Speaker 2: Like you don't have to cook it, but like go

469
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:28,760
Speaker 2: experience it.

470
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:31,720
Speaker 6: Yeah, once you start eating at good restaurants, you just

471
00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:36,160
Speaker 6: cannot go back. It is hard, Yeah, to like go

472
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:41,520
Speaker 6: there was like we got we got so used to

473
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:47,760
Speaker 6: chasing fancy restaurants and Michelin stars that I forget where

474
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 6: we were. But the only thing they had was the

475
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:52,200
Speaker 6: PF Chanin's.

476
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Speaker 5: We were like, let's just go to be Are we

477
00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 5: gonna go to p Chang? Right, Let's go to Po Changs.

478
00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 6: And then as we were like eating the food, we

479
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 6: were like, oh my god, are we those people where

480
00:21:03,359 --> 00:21:07,720
Speaker 6: like this food is so like it's not it's.

481
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,280
Speaker 1: Not up just enough, it's not it's not working.

482
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's not happening. Yeah, Like can we talk to

483
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 5: the chef? Is there a chef?

484
00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,800
Speaker 4: Do you feel as though because you came up in

485
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:39,320
Speaker 4: Compton and you know, get the Daily Show and all

486
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 4: these wonderful things And by the way, I just want

487
00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:45,119
Speaker 4: to say, like, really proud of you, bro, like Oscar Winner,

488
00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,440
Speaker 4: Oscar Winner, but the most like chill dude, ever, it's

489
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 4: almost unsettling.

490
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: You're very You're very calm and chill.

491
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Speaker 4: Do you ever feel as though you have a lot

492
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,240
Speaker 4: of like living to do and making up.

493
00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,080
Speaker 6: I think about that all the time, where I'm like,

494
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 6: I'll be places that I never even remotely dreamed I

495
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 6: would be, or rooms with people. I'm like, this feels

496
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 6: like an out of body experience. How the hell did

497
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 6: I get here? And I think about where I grew

498
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 6: up and where I came from, and like how many

499
00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 6: people just do not get that experience, or like how

500
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:23,679
Speaker 6: impossible it is to go from there to hear and

501
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,960
Speaker 6: even thinking about like no bullshit, just like how close

502
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 6: you come to death, like growing up in that city

503
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 6: at that time that I was growing up, like in

504
00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 6: the nineties. You're like, if I had just been like

505
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 6: across the street that day, I could have been not

506
00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 6: here on any given like day, right. And so now

507
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:45,719
Speaker 6: when I'm getting the opportunities to do things that I

508
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 6: have and like to be places that I've been, it

509
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,680
Speaker 6: really feels like genuinely I'm like, I hope I don't die.

510
00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 6: I hope like I didn't like beat the game, you

511
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,840
Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like where it's like, well you

512
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 6: did it, congratulations, and you survived the hood and now

513
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 6: you're like on the beach in Mexico, and looking at

514
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 6: the stars, and that's it.

515
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 4: It's Morgan Freeman right the end of Shawshank. What's happening

516
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 4: right now?

517
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 5: I love it.

518
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: I try to keep up.

519
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 6: Are you genuinely feel like fuck? Like Tarantino said after

520
00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 6: he wrote Pulp Fiction, he thought he was gonna die

521
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,640
Speaker 6: because he thought he had done the thing he had

522
00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 6: come to the world.

523
00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:24,800
Speaker 5: To do, which was to give the world that movie.

524
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 6: Hearing him talk about that, it totally made sense after

525
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 6: I had certain experiences like, oh fuck, have I done

526
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 6: the thing?

527
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god? Okay, yeah, okay. You know what's crazy

528
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 2: is that I had this.

529
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 3: Thought that I've never said out loud, don't cry. As

530
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,800
Speaker 3: I was doing my show last year, I'm like, my

531
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 3: kids are three and a half and I'm doing my

532
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 3: own TV show because Netflix optioned my book.

533
00:23:49,480 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's too good. I might die. That's

534
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: a real fucking thing.

535
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:55,240
Speaker 3: And I was like, and every time we went through,

536
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: like the first block, the second block, Everyone's like, ah, Michelle,

537
00:23:58,119 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 3: you're such a good mood. I'm like, I'm so happy

538
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 3: to be And when people ask me how it's going,

539
00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 3: I keep saying, I'm so glad I got to do this.

540
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 2: Before I die, and I thought it was me.

541
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 6: No, No, it's it's I think it's a combination of

542
00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 6: when you come from somewhere where there are no opportunities

543
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 6: or where you're not supposed to do something, or when

544
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 6: you have a background where people have like denied you

545
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 6: entry to something right, and you think about, like why

546
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 6: is Chadwick gone right?

547
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 5: Right?

548
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,400
Speaker 6: Like why is he gone? Like why is Virgil gone right?

549
00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,960
Speaker 6: You're like these people were doing incredible things.

550
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 3: I was thinking about John Singleton as you were talking

551
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:36,440
Speaker 3: about your childhood, and I'm just.

552
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:41,040
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, fucking like Vanilla Ice is still out there

553
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 4: like doing shows somewhere.

554
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:45,320
Speaker 1: Noah, And you're like.

555
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 4: What.

556
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 2: We like, No, I can't handle, can't handle No, No.

557
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,880
Speaker 7: We had to give up the King of Wakanda and

558
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:02,359
Speaker 7: he gets to keep going out there ruining Queen and

559
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 7: David Bowie's classic at the same time. Eh, it makes

560
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 7: you feel like I'm glad I got to do this

561
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 7: before I died, Like did I.

562
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 4: Beat the game? Like is it gonna reset? Like is

563
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 4: that an implicit or baked in fear?

564
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 5: Then?

565
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 4: Maybe like you take your art to its maximum expression,

566
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 4: you're handed in Oscar. Yeah, not that you're handed in Oscar,

567
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 4: but you're rewarded an Oscar.

568
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:23,680
Speaker 5: Yeah.

569
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,959
Speaker 6: I think it's a combination of the what now and

570
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:30,439
Speaker 6: I think because people like us don't walk into the

571
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 6: game with the entitlement of thinking we're oled something, and

572
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 6: so when we get something, especially something of that magnitude,

573
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,199
Speaker 6: you're like, oh shit, Like I've not walked into this

574
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:44,399
Speaker 6: with the conditioned mindset of like absolutely, I'm supposed to

575
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 6: be here now, who's gonna give me my Marvel movie?

576
00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:49,600
Speaker 6: Goddamn it? Like it's a very different mentality of like,

577
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,879
Speaker 6: oh shit, Like what what am I gonna get to

578
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:52,320
Speaker 6: do now?

579
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 3: Like?

580
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 5: Do I get to do things now? Like is there

581
00:25:55,200 --> 00:25:57,479
Speaker 5: like a new door that opens? I don't know. Do

582
00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 5: you internalize that?

583
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 6: You realize how much of the doubt and the imposter

584
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 6: synngine that you've internalized getting there? Because even if no

585
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 6: one's telling you explicitly you don't belong here, if all

586
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 6: you see is white people doing it, you're thinking.

587
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 4: I don't belong there, you've internalized that, you've adopted it.

588
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, one hundred.

589
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 6: Did I actually earn it or did they just like

590
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 6: throw me a bone? Like all those things are like

591
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 6: going through your mind and what.

592
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: Do you do about that?

593
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 3: Then I did see this one quote that I love

594
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 3: to bring up all the time. It really helps me.

595
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,239
Speaker 3: And the quote is something like the tools that you

596
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 3: have to survive won't be the ones.

597
00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 2: You need to thrive.

598
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,480
Speaker 5: Oh that's great, And it's like.

599
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,239
Speaker 3: Also learn how to fucking enjoy it and be in it,

600
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,479
Speaker 3: because I'm so used to just work, work, work up

601
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 3: that mountain, like do all this stuff, and then when

602
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:50,120
Speaker 3: you're there, you're like, oh, this is the view travon TV.

603
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 1: I've seen your feed. You definitely know how to enjoy it.

604
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 4: I saw you dancing. It felt like literally on top

605
00:26:59,400 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 4: of the world. It was like something at Puffy's house

606
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,960
Speaker 4: with orth. I was like, I was like, what in

607
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:09,400
Speaker 4: the black excellence is happening? What that was?

608
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 6: That was one of the most random days. So I

609
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 6: bet I bet that day I was supposed to go

610
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 6: to the Lakers game with Terrence J. He got like

611
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 6: he had like Lakers tickets. He's like, you want to

612
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 6: go to the game? I have an extra ticket?

613
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 5: Cool? We get in the car. He's like.

614
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 6: Puff also said he wants you to come to his

615
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 6: house today and bring the oscar, And I was like,

616
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 6: is this is this. Do I have a choice. It

617
00:27:36,359 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 6: doesn't sound like I have a choice. It's like a demand.

618
00:27:39,960 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 6: The exact quote was come to his house and bring

619
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 6: that bang.

620
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 4: Bring that in any other context.

621
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 5: And I knew exactly what that thing was.

622
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 6: And so we get there and it's a full fledged

623
00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 6: like Diddy party and literally like everyone is there, and

624
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 6: what did you wear?

625
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 5: God?

626
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: What did I I don't remember.

627
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 6: I don't remember what I had on. I'm trying to

628
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:12,879
Speaker 6: picture the photos. I think I had on, like one

629
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 6: of those really thin like bomber jackets, like a spring

630
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 6: summer bomber.

631
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: Yes, sure, sure, sure sure.

632
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 2: Do you remember what shoes you were or sneakers.

633
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 5: I had on? Jordan's for sure?

634
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 2: Was your haircut? Were you ready to be out?

635
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 5: I was still blonde at the time.

636
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Was it seaside his house?

637
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 6: Yeaheah, oh yeah, the ocean is the other side of

638
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 6: the pool that way. I've never seen it was like

639
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 6: being at a museum but someone lived.

640
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 5: There, right.

641
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 6: Oh, Like that's how big and that's how expansive it was.

642
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:49,479
Speaker 4: So Puff bought the Getty and you're at the Getty,

643
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: So let me ask you a question. So let me,

644
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:54,560
Speaker 4: let me ask you this, like, because that's exactly what

645
00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 4: I'm getting at. You threw your arm around the moment

646
00:28:57,120 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 4: said yes, Terrence J. He said yes to it because

647
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 4: you just won something awesome, you know, and you really

648
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 4: are doing the work of like being your buddy, being

649
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,720
Speaker 4: your friend and like celebrating yourself.

650
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 1: You know, that is grown up to me, you know

651
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like I love that.

652
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 6: I love doing this so much that I'm just like

653
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 6: always ready to do the next thing when one when

654
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 6: one thing is over, so I have to make myself

655
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 6: slow down and like take a day or a week off.

656
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 6: Like it's just really hard to do because one, there's

657
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 6: so many good projects in the pipeline and you feel

658
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,640
Speaker 6: like you want to take advantage of it and you

659
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 6: want to like get to it. Because the other side

660
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,479
Speaker 6: of that, feeling like you don't belong there or feeling

661
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 6: like you've been let in, is like now I have

662
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 6: to prove that I belong.

663
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 2: Like dance Monkey, I hate that feeling.

664
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, who are you proving it to?

665
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 6: I come from sports, right, so like I have this

666
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 6: like mindset of like I want to beat you at everything.

667
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 6: I want to be the best at everything. Okay, so

668
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 6: we were doing a deal on a movie after the

669
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Speaker 6: Oscar is like kind of like quite a bit after.

670
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 6: Now keep in mind this is not at all to brag.

671
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 6: This is context because this is what you can do

672
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 6: as a person of color, and this is what they

673
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,600
Speaker 6: will still say to you. Now, at this point when

674
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 6: this is said, I have an Oscar, three Emmys, and

675
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:24,160
Speaker 6: a Peabody. Right, so things have been going well. Yeah,

676
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 6: and this person says to my manager after the deal

677
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 6: kind of hit a wall of like a difference in money.

678
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 6: He goes, well, they're still unproven. They're still unproven. There's

679
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,800
Speaker 6: still you know, they're still kind of unproven.

680
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: You have an eop.

681
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Speaker 3: What When I started stand up, I also was like

682
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 3: really trying to put myself out there with dating, and

683
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 3: I came up with this just to saying that I

684
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 3: would always tell myself and it's if you don't want

685
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 3: to hear from me, you're gonna hear about me, bye, bitch.

686
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 5: Yes, absolutely for us.

687
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 2: It's not us trying to catch up to them. It's

688
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: the world catching up to us.

689
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 3: Yes, but bye, I'm sorry that you are so small

690
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 3: minded that your world is that small, But bye bye.

691
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I laughed so hard.

692
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, as was that to your face? Were you in

693
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: the room, like, what was going on? No?

694
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 6: So this was this was relayed to my manager by

695
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 6: this person, and then my manager called me and told me, yeah,

696
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 6: and so like I was at dinner, and you know,

697
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 6: we know this is going on.

698
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 5: So I'm waiting on.

699
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Speaker 2: The call a nice dinner, I'm sure.

700
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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I was actually at Sugarfish on Sunset. So

701
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 6: the picture I remember where this happened, and I like

702
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 6: stepped outside to take the call, and I remember him

703
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 6: telling me. When he said that, I laughed so hard,

704
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 6: and I was like, that is such a validation of

705
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 6: exactly how I know these people think, yeah, they're still yeah,

706
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 6: but they're still not. There's still unproven, unproven by what standard?

707
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 6: What exactly what do I have to do? Avatar?

708
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

709
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is why when people are like, I'm frustrated,

710
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 3: I don't like this.

711
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: When is it ever gonna be my turn?

712
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:08,880
Speaker 4: This?

713
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:09,080
Speaker 1: That?

714
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 3: And the third we have to stop giving these people

715
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 3: so much power because a lot of these executives make

716
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 3: fear based decisions. They don't ever want to think outside

717
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 3: the box. They already are coming in with being a

718
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 3: product of their society and they think whatever the fuck

719
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 3: they think about us. And so that's why it's so

720
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 3: important if you're listening to this and you want to

721
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 3: do your own thing, to just do your own thing

722
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 3: and keep doing your own thing.

723
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 5: Because they'll still call you unproven.

724
00:32:31,120 --> 00:32:32,840
Speaker 2: Yes, no matter the fuck what.

725
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 3: So you really just you know, have to do your

726
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 3: own thing, because that is what.

727
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 4: Let me tell you something, if I had an oscar,

728
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 4: you'd be everywhere your critics choice.

729
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: You were carrying a critics choice in your purse for

730
00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 1: a while.

731
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 3: I did.

732
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 5: I did.

733
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: Everyone's like, what's that. I'm like, it's an a word. Shone, bitch,

734
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 2: look it up, you.

735
00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:50,640
Speaker 3: Know what I mean?

736
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: Like, shit't it feel how happy it is?

737
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: Because if we ever pat ourselves on the back, were assholes,

738
00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 3: right right? But then what are we supposed to just

739
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,680
Speaker 3: keep bending over and taking it? You know, like, thank

740
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 3: you so much for fucking this general meeting.

741
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:06,120
Speaker 2: It's like, oh fuck that we got to do our thing.

742
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 6: On the outside looking in, when they see you, like

743
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 6: being proud of anything you've done, they're like, oh, well, that.

744
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:17,720
Speaker 5: Person feels like they're like bragging or whatever whatever.

745
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 4: Like because you didn't hear the exact tell you you

746
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 4: were unproven after you did one of the hardest things

747
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:27,280
Speaker 4: to fucking do in the business, Like you aren't hearing

748
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 4: the thing, you aren't experiencing the other side of it.

749
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 6: You're only seeing the celebration when they do happen. And

750
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 6: so it's because of that, Like now, everything I do,

751
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,360
Speaker 6: I don't have any expectation of them getting it. I

752
00:33:40,360 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 6: don't have any expectation of them even understanding what uh

753
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:46,200
Speaker 6: what we're sitting out to do.

754
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:46,960
Speaker 5: I'm just like, I'm just.

755
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 6: Gonna do dope shit and you can think whatever you

756
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 6: want to think. And because I know what I'm doing,

757
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 6: I know what I'm capable of, I don't need you

758
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 6: to think that I'm I've proven anything. So it's the

759
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 6: athlete mentality of like I'm just gonna I'm just gonna

760
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 6: outscore you. I'm just gonna go I'm gonna get them

761
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:08,040
Speaker 6: going to the court, I'm gonna get them the field,

762
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,480
Speaker 6: and I'm gonna as score you. I'm gonna beat you

763
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:10,480
Speaker 6: every single time.

764
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: That's a really good parallel for relationships too. I don't

765
00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:14,399
Speaker 3: need you, I want you.

766
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 5: Yes, I say that all we can work together, do.

767
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

768
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 3: Like I We all can do everything we do in

769
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 3: a day by ourselves, but we make it better with

770
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 3: our partners, and so I think, you know, it's a

771
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 3: very healthy place to be living. And plus, like if

772
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 3: people are seeing shit on the internet and believing it, honey,

773
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 3: that's like saying that.

774
00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: You might have an orgo you believe you're gonna have

775
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 2: an orgos the first time you have sex.

776
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 3: It's just not real, is the point. And that's mainly

777
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:43,000
Speaker 3: for women. Thank you so much. We do have to

778
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 3: get to the questions, Jordan, did you want to say

779
00:34:45,080 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 3: something that part?

780
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Speaker 4: It was only that from the Yeah, I'm sorry, my kouchie.

781
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,479
Speaker 4: So let me just say this more like cuchie, but.

782
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Speaker 1: I will say I will say that I'm trying to

783
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:02,280
Speaker 1: I saw that from your story.

784
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 4: What I takeaway was that like normative culture often sees

785
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 4: the potential in others and you know, of their own,

786
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:11,359
Speaker 4: and then for you, it's like you have to meet

787
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:14,919
Speaker 4: a certain criteria where it's like it's like, man, this guy,

788
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 4: I'm telling you he's gonna go places, he's gonna do this,

789
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 4: that and the other, and like you have to like

790
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 4: check off every little box, you know what I'm saying,

791
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 4: which is insane to me, and that's what I took

792
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 4: away from it, but it's it's something to definitely keep

793
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 4: in mind. And I really want to say this, I

794
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 4: love before we go to questions. I love that you

795
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 4: made thirty eight at the Garden. I remember that night

796
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 4: that he poured in thirty eight Jeremy Lent.

797
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: I cried.

798
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 4: I thought that was so cool and amazing, and I

799
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 4: can't wait to see the doc man, And I love

800
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 4: that you wrap your brand like that every day because

801
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 4: you're a very smart, intelligent and unfortunately it's a podcast,

802
00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 4: but I'll just tell you that Traymon is wearing his

803
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 4: thirty eight at the Garden cap because that's that's the

804
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 4: documentary on HBO, which is is it out now?

805
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 5: Yeah?

806
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: It's out, fantastic, love it, love it and the.

807
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 2: Brooklyn Steve Harvey is going on boo boo, I love

808
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 2: it man. Okay.

809
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 3: So every episode we get questions from the audience about adulting.

810
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 3: We answer them, We try to we try not to judge,

811
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 3: but whatever, we'll ever meet each other. So the first

812
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 3: question is I want to host more parties and get togethers,

813
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 3: but I don't know how to cook and takeout can be.

814
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 2: Expensive any hats.

815
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: Oh.

816
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 2: I love that you.

817
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 3: Want to get into hosting. That is such a kind

818
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: place to be. I love that you want to like

819
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,239
Speaker 3: create memories and stuff For me. When I had no

820
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 3: money and I want to host out of my studio,

821
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 3: I kind of went to the freezer section like at

822
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 3: Trader Joe's and just got a bunch of many kishoes

823
00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck, got them together and just try

824
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 3: to make them look fancy.

825
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: A charcuterie board. It's really fun too, Like invest in

826
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,479
Speaker 2: a big board and just put a bunch of shit

827
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:49,560
Speaker 2: on it and that looks fancy. Also, I don't know,

828
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,759
Speaker 2: I guess pizza, what do you guys say?

829
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 6: I would just like maybe start by encouraging people to

830
00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,759
Speaker 6: bring something like, yeah, if everybody brings one thing, do

831
00:36:58,840 --> 00:36:59,800
Speaker 6: a poll up style.

832
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:01,920
Speaker 5: We all ain't balling, so you know.

833
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 6: But I want to create an environment where we can

834
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 6: hang out and you can get together and like commune

835
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 6: over some good food. And one day, when I got

836
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 6: the money, I'll, you know, I can throw.

837
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 5: John Legends forty your birthday party.

838
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: But until then, luck that pot pot that luck.

839
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 3: Yes, games are fun too, like a Mediterranean themed pot

840
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 3: luck party.

841
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: Then everyone gets to bring something. I think it's fun.

842
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 2: So sorry, Joan, where were gonna say?

843
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 4: No, it's just gonna say people are now it's like

844
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 4: butter boards people are doing. It's like literally taking a

845
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 4: thing of butter, right, and it's smashing that out of

846
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 4: our board and then just going to town.

847
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: Obviously it's not so yuck. I haven't tried it yet,

848
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: but it doesn't look so bad. I mean, it looks disgusting.

849
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,280
Speaker 3: It looks like we're eating cereal out of a fucking toilet.

850
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sorry, Wow, it's fucking yuck.

851
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So you see them on the fence about

852
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:54,959
Speaker 4: butter boards, all right, cool, you could go both ways?

853
00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:55,319
Speaker 5: All right?

854
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Good luck out there.

855
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: Here's the dating question. Is it weird to casually date

856
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 3: just one person at a time? Am I doing it wrong?

857
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 3: I think we all have a different definition of casual.

858
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,919
Speaker 3: Casual to me means that you don't talk every day.

859
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 3: You're not the first phone call the last phone call.

860
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,640
Speaker 3: Casual also means to me, you don't follow each other

861
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: on social media. You're just seeing each other hooking up,

862
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,880
Speaker 3: having a nice meal, maybe a little omelet in the

863
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:25,719
Speaker 3: morning after you had a fun night. So I say

864
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,280
Speaker 3: you should date more than one person if it's casual.

865
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 2: That's me. Yeah, I'm not jading Cellivant, but hello.

866
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 6: If you have the capacity, you know, I feel like

867
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:39,919
Speaker 6: some people maybe aren't able to juggle two or three

868
00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 6: like casual dating situations, if you feel like you want

869
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,839
Speaker 6: to check them off one at a time and you know,

870
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:54,280
Speaker 6: give yourself a decent amount of investigation time into that person.

871
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 5: Because maybe I.

872
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 6: Think it also depends on what stage you in, Like

873
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 6: if you're fresh off a breakup and you're just trying

874
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,080
Speaker 6: to have fun, like who gives a shit? Go like

875
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 6: casually date seven people. Yeah, but if you're like, you know,

876
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 6: looking for something serious and you want to take time

877
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 6: to decently invest in investigating the individual that you're like,

878
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 6: spending time with.

879
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 3: Casual is also probably a way for them to protect

880
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:20,440
Speaker 3: themselves to say, all my eggs aren't in this basket, right,

881
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 3: but maybe they do. Like people or someone like I

882
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 3: have a friend that cannot be casual. The minute she

883
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: goes out on a date with someone, she's like, should

884
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 3: we follow each other on Instagram?

885
00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 2: What are you doing next week? Like she just feels

886
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 2: the need to like take over and become friends or

887
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:38,080
Speaker 2: you don't.

888
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 4: Ever have to see that person that get Well, it's

889
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 4: just about being in the moment, right. It seems like

890
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 4: the person needs to populate their time with different people.

891
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 4: How about the second person that you hang out with

892
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 4: is yourself? You know what I'm saying, Like, take yourself

893
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,720
Speaker 4: out and what are you about? Rather than like finding

894
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,319
Speaker 4: another random person to hang out with and like listen

895
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 4: to their stories and things like that. Check in with

896
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:04,160
Speaker 4: yourself maybe and then go see this person again. But

897
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 4: like if you want to every once in a while

898
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 4: see this person sporadically, that's okay.

899
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:10,879
Speaker 1: You haven't violated any laws.

900
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,279
Speaker 5: Enjoy pre commitment, enjoy it.

901
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 4: Oh yes, yeah, watch whatever you want, Watch whatever you want,

902
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 4: Watch White Lotus, watch White Lotus on your schedule.

903
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 5: Yep, when you want to.

904
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:27,480
Speaker 2: Watch What Happens Live?

905
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, yes, absolutely. You want me to ask us

906
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 4: this next one?

907
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:31,399
Speaker 1: Here?

908
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:32,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the next question?

909
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 1: Jordan?

910
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:35,200
Speaker 4: Okay, how do I politely tell my sister she can't

911
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 4: bring her very mean, very small foster dog to the

912
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,320
Speaker 4: gathering I am hosting for twenty people.

913
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 2: She can't bring her foster dog to the gathering.

914
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: Yes, to the gathering. It's mean.

915
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 6: I mean for me, that feels easy because like when

916
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 6: it comes to dogs and animals that like have potential

917
00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 6: to be snippy or can hurt somebody in any kind

918
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:01,319
Speaker 6: of world. Yeah, it's very easy for me to go, hey,

919
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 6: you can't bring Chachia to the party.

920
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: I love that boundary.

921
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 5: You gotta you.

922
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:14,560
Speaker 6: Gotta leave little fucking el Choppo at home because Chopoo,

923
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 6: you can't be Your dog's a menace.

924
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know it.

925
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, especially if especially if they know it too and

926
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 6: they try to like, oh no, he's just playful. It's like, no,

927
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 6: your dog tried to eat someone totally, it's not playful.

928
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, you just you just gotta be straight up.

929
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:36,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say I'm handling enough hosting twenty people.

930
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 3: I also cannot host your dog. We'll find another time,

931
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 3: you know, because I really feel for people that want

932
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Speaker 3: to foster animals.

933
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:48,560
Speaker 2: That's amazing. You are walking angel on Earth. Thank you

934
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 2: so much. But you know you're fostering these dogs at

935
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 2: your home, not somebody else's.

936
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 3: So I think it's really ridiculous to think that you

937
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: can bring them all the time. But it's just like

938
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 3: one more thing to worry about. You have to worry

939
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 3: about the bring your wine chilled, be prepared to wear

940
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 3: magic socks, you have to take off your shoes, and

941
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: fucking ask them if they need help cleaning up the

942
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 3: plates after dinner, Like, fucking get your shit together. It's

943
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 3: not about your dog and where the water is. And

944
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 3: this is coming from a person that has two dogs.

945
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: Okay, by the way, I love how diverse our crowd is.

946
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:19,399
Speaker 4: I mean it's definitely a white person asking, because no

947
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 4: self respecting black person is gonna bring a dog to

948
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 4: a house Like what like, yeah, we eat, I brought

949
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 4: my dog. I hope that's okay.

950
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Okay, last question, can we still have

951
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 3: stuffed animals on our bed?

952
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 2: I feel like this is also a white person and like, look,

953
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 2: you know what I've seen.

954
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 3: I've seen really cute gifts, like my friends that have

955
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 3: dogs or a kid or whatever, Like they'll have a

956
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 3: pillow or like a sassy saying or like a pillow

957
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 3: cut out of the dog that's cute, but like a

958
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,759
Speaker 3: stuffed animal from like, it makes me thinet that it's

959
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 3: seen in interview with a vampire.

960
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: Where a homegirl just like had all the dolls and

961
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 2: a dead body.

962
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 1: And adult right right, right right, that's.

963
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 2: What it's giving. So I'd say, no, don't do it.

964
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna go know on that one. You gotta.

965
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: I want a collection of dolls staring straight at me

966
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 4: at the I have a Teddy Bear, Teddy and Teddy.

967
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 4: He lives in my childhood closet, so I like show

968
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 4: it to my kids. I'm like, this is my Teddy Bear,

969
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 4: and then he goes back on the shelf where he

970
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 4: should be, not on my bed.

971
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 5: Yeah. I can't.

972
00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 6: I can't have things in a space where I do

973
00:43:34,600 --> 00:43:36,720
Speaker 6: adult things that reminds me of children.

974
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:38,360
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I can't.

975
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:39,920
Speaker 6: Like I don't want to be I don't want to

976
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 6: be reminded of childhood or children while I'm trying to

977
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 6: be grown up.

978
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:45,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I try to be grown.

979
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 3: That's my husband because we had like a huge playroom

980
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,279
Speaker 3: for the kids and he's like, we need to get

981
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 3: the shit out of here and put in a real

982
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 3: ass couch and I was like, but they.

983
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 2: Need a space. He's like, we need a space, bitch.

984
00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 2: I'm like to shave.

985
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: And it's fun for the kids because we made it

986
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 3: like a little listening area with records and we'll like

987
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 3: let them put on a record so they know what

988
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 3: it's like to actually play something instead of just swipe.

989
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 3: And so it actually is nice because I went in

990
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 3: with the mentality like this ship might break. No one

991
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 3: has broken anything yet, so that's also nice. But yeah, man,

992
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 3: I can't be reminded of my childhood when I'm trying

993
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:22,319
Speaker 3: to do adult things.

994
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: That is love that.

995
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 2: But he just said that. I didn't say it.

996
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 1: I just resonate with all of it, that's all.

997
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 2: Michelle is brilliant. Oh my god, I didn't say it.

998
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: We're gonna edit. We're gonna just edit.

999
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: So we ask all our guests what's the most adult

1000
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 3: thing And it could be anything that you want to

1001
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 3: do for yourself that you haven't had a chance to

1002
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:45,919
Speaker 3: do yet.

1003
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 6: Probably a mix between like a good investment fund or

1004
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 6: maybe or maybe like owning property, Like I keep telling

1005
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 6: myself I want to do those things and I never

1006
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 6: do it. Like this year, I might, you know, put

1007
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:59,760
Speaker 6: some money in an investment account, like see what happens.

1008
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 6: Or should I be buying a house? You know, all

1009
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 6: the things you think you're supposed to do as a

1010
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 6: grown up. Yeah, and they tell you, like, yeah, you

1011
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 6: gotta buy a house. You gotta have kids, You got

1012
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:09,640
Speaker 6: to put some money into the stock market and take

1013
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 6: it out when you're ninety and like the whole I'm like,

1014
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 6: I'm not doing any of those things and I'm having

1015
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 6: the time of my life.

1016
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 2: And so okay, Jennifer Grade, let's go.

1017
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: Jennifer.

1018
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,760
Speaker 4: Great if you if you want those things for yourself,

1019
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 4: you can get certain investments that will you know, pay

1020
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 4: you like three percent return, which would be great.

1021
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,240
Speaker 5: I just don't trust the white people who in charge

1022
00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:33,160
Speaker 5: of it. That's the thing.

1023
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:35,760
Speaker 4: Okay, there are black banks as well. When the next

1024
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 4: crash comes, well, where my money gonna be? Like, that's

1025
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:40,399
Speaker 4: a great question. It's like that wand de size joke.

1026
00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 4: I don't need my money working for me. I wanted

1027
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 4: that home barefoot and pregnant. That's what. I don't need

1028
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 4: my money to work for me.

1029
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 1: I get that. Yeah.

1030
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 4: I think it's a good problem to have, though, Tramon,

1031
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:52,240
Speaker 4: because it points to like new levels, new devils.

1032
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,240
Speaker 5: That's right, yes, very much.

1033
00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,359
Speaker 4: And you know there's plenty of people that can help

1034
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 4: you out in that situation and advise you. But I

1035
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 4: feel like for you, you've been your own best advocate for

1036
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 4: so long. So it's like it's hard to probably let

1037
00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 4: go all of those rains.

1038
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: A little bit.

1039
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, and funny money is hard to make. Yeah, they

1040
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 4: take it and you're like, you know how hard it

1041
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 4: was to make that funny money? Like, yeah, that's just something.

1042
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:17,920
Speaker 4: I mean, I just put it out there, put it

1043
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 4: out there. But I know you'll figure it out this sir.

1044
00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm I'm working it out.

1045
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 2: I'm excited.

1046
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,800
Speaker 4: See if twenty twenty three comes with an investment account, that's.

1047
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 1: Right, it'll do great.

1048
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm excited for you. Well, thank you for doing our show.

1049
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:33,399
Speaker 5: Thank you guys for having me. This is so much fun. Yeah,

1050
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 5: do this forever.

1051
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 2: We have to go out to dinner now period.

1052
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 5: I'll be back in New York soon. So perfect.

1053
00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 6: And they're they're opening a gym Conna in New York

1054
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,839
Speaker 6: as well, so you know when that plays opens. Got

1055
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 6: like good Indian food. It is a Michelin Star quality meal.

1056
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 2: Yes, bring my Tom's and my wet wipes. Let's go.

1057
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 4: You heard it there, We'll leave it down.

1058
00:46:59,200 --> 00:46:59,839
Speaker 5: Thank you guys.

1059
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: All right, man, I know we.

1060
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 3: Started this episode talking about cleansing and fascinating, but.

1061
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,640
Speaker 2: We talked about food f dying.

1062
00:47:13,760 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: So much.

1063
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 2: I am hungry.

1064
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 1: I'm so hungry.

1065
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I want to go to a nice

1066
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 3: restaurant with like cloth napkins, and I want to feel

1067
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 3: like Julia robertson Pretty Woman and be like which fork

1068
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 3: do I eat from?

1069
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:28,280
Speaker 1: Slippery little suckers?

1070
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 4: Absolutely, and you know, you know what, please don't be

1071
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 4: that person, because I'm that person and I'm trying to

1072
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 4: get over it.

1073
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 1: That's like, I don't think the waiter likes me. I

1074
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 1: don't think the waiter likes me.

1075
00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, please get over it.

1076
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 3: We've been out before where you just like walk away

1077
00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 3: and I'm like, this isn't a disagreement.

1078
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: We're just talking. I'm from Jersey, there from Greece. This

1079
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: is how we sounds. You're like, why are like stranger danger,

1080
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:51,720
Speaker 2: run away?

1081
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 4: You know what, I'm gonna go eat with Otis. I

1082
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 4: think Otis gets me. Odie gets me, like he understands.

1083
00:47:58,400 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 4: It's just like we're just gonna go to a nice

1084
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,879
Speaker 4: little shop and they're gonna give us what we want

1085
00:48:02,080 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 4: and it's gonna be peaceful and there's gonna be no problems.

1086
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, I will say my kids are loving

1087
00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 3: lollipops now and they want to hear the Lollipops song

1088
00:48:10,040 --> 00:48:10,479
Speaker 3: while they.

1089
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: Have lollipops is too much.

1090
00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 3: I'll send you a video. You guys, thank you so

1091
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 3: much for listening and liking. Tell your friends and their

1092
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 3: friends and then like their other friends.

1093
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 4: It's a Ponzi scheme. It's multi level marketing. That's what

1094
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 4: we're trying to do.

1095
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:28,600
Speaker 2: Buy everyone, treat yourself to a nice meal.

1096
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: This has been an exactly right production.

1097
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,480
Speaker 2: Our senior producer is g Holly.

1098
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: Our associate producer is Alex Cheat.

1099
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 2: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

1100
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

1101
00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: Additional production support from Pana Kyle Kriich.

1102
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,839
Speaker 4: Theme song and live show DJing is by DJ Don will.

1103
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 2: Our live show producer is Maryann Ways.

1104
00:48:50,320 --> 00:48:51,919
Speaker 1: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

1105
00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 2: Photography by Guys vander Most.

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Speaker 4: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstar and Danielle Kramer.

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Speaker 2: Follow the show on Instagram at the pod.

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Speaker 4: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 2: Okay m HM