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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and today is a

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Speaker 2: very special day.

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Speaker 3: It should be a national holiday.

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Speaker 2: And honestly, it is a national holiday in the scrubbing

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Speaker 2: in world. It is Tanya Rad's thirty fifth birthday.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Becca, national holiday.

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Speaker 3: It's a national holiday.

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Speaker 2: In my eye.

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Speaker 1: It does feel symbolic that it falls on modern woman Monday.

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Speaker 3: It is on a Monday, the first.

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Speaker 1: Monday it's been in a minute.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you feel about a Monday birthday?

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Speaker 1: I've had a few, you know, this one was particularly

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Speaker 1: interesting because thirty five is a weird number, and you know,

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Speaker 1: everyone's talking about fertility and stuff, and once you get

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Speaker 1: thirty five, you're not like in your early thirties, You're

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Speaker 1: like mid thirties.

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Speaker 3: Who is everyone's talking about it?

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Speaker 1: Just like Internet.

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Speaker 2: I think that's your algorithm tailored to you. I don't

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Speaker 2: think everyone's talking about it.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I don't really want to celebrate the five.

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Speaker 1: It just feels like it's on Monday.

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Speaker 3: Celebrate everything.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you, I got a perspective check

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Speaker 1: because I realize I think I think we can all

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Speaker 1: when you get older, even if you're in your twenty

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Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, I can't believe in twenty six,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe in this. And you always just always

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Speaker 1: feel behind in life, whether it's in your personal life

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Speaker 1: or your professional life or whatever. And I'm like, you

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Speaker 1: know what, every year of life is a blessing. Some

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Speaker 1: people don't even get to be thirty five. And so

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Speaker 1: and I'm so much smarter now than I've ever been smarter, and.

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Speaker 2: She's smarter, wiser, she says.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, you know what, So I was

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Speaker 1: kind of poo poo on it for a while, and

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Speaker 1: then I'm gonna embrace it, and we're gonna go We're

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Speaker 1: having a nice dinner tonight Robbie and night, and then

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do Taco Tuesday tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: But like it's just next level Taco Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be like just like all my best friends,

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Speaker 1: So it's gonna be kind of like what we normally

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Speaker 1: do want a Tuesday, but just elevated with all my

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Speaker 1: best friends. And we celebrated last night with his kids

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Speaker 1: and with like my family and his family on Saturday.

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Speaker 1: So it's just been a lot of there's.

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Speaker 3: Some things to talk about with that Saturday night hang

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Speaker 3: but we'll get to that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because I also have a really funny story about

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Speaker 1: a scrubber that I ran into. It's so embarrassing, but

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Speaker 1: I'm like, if you're listening to scrubbing in podcast, it's

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Speaker 1: not as embarrassing because you know, well, should I get

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Speaker 1: into it or what do you want to talk about first?

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Speaker 1: At first I want to say get into it yet.

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Speaker 2: But at first I want to say, thirty five is

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Speaker 2: the year to thrive? Oh, because I watched this thing

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Speaker 2: the other day and it was saying, how right now

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Speaker 2: it seems like thirty is the new twenty, like being Yes,

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Speaker 2: thirties is the new twenty. Yes, like this is when

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Speaker 2: we're like thriving. This is when we're in our prime.

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Speaker 2: So thirty five, you're writing the thick of it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you're right in the thick of your prime years.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: So you have to celebrate every birthday because if you're

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Speaker 4: like thirty five, it's not exciting getting old. That means

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Speaker 4: you're never going to celebrate another birthday because they're all

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Speaker 4: going to be older than this one. So you got

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Speaker 4: to celebrate every birthday. I turned fifty one last week,

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Speaker 4: and I really want to set example for my kids

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Speaker 4: to never be fifty one. I told my kids, it's awesome.

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Speaker 4: I'm fifty one. This is the greatest birthday ever. It's

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Speaker 4: the greatest day of the year. I try to make

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Speaker 4: a really big deal of it because I do love

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Speaker 4: my birthday and I don't ever want them to be like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I'm old, because OK, because don't do that. It sucks.

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Speaker 4: You're alive. Enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: It's a privilege. Every birthday is a privilege. It's true,

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Speaker 2: and everyone gets it.

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Speaker 1: It is true. But you know what, I will I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to even be ashamed to admit I did

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Speaker 1: have that moment. I'm like, oh, no, how are those

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I actually got so many messages about the kid conversation,

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Speaker 2: the baby conversation.

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Speaker 3: And I, you know, I realize.

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Speaker 2: I knew it was going to be a sensitive topic

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Speaker 2: where people got maybe offended by it, and that's why

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Speaker 2: I tried to put some disclaimers out there, like I'm

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Speaker 2: This is not to offend anyone.

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Speaker 3: So if you were even.

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Speaker 5: Mildly before offended, well yeah, because like you know, people

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Speaker 5: love their children, so to have someone question like why

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Speaker 5: would you choose that or make that decision right feels

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Speaker 5: you know, I get it.

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Speaker 3: I would. I would probably like when people are like,

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Speaker 3: why would you ever have a dog? I'm like, because

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Speaker 3: I love her?

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Speaker 1: Yeah know?

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Speaker 3: She say buddy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Anyways, so you got messages about someone a scrubber? Is

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Speaker 2: that what you were saying?

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Speaker 1: So I so after we had Jenna Kutcher, Yeah, one

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Speaker 1: of my best friend's birthdays is coming up this week,

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Speaker 1: and so I was like, this is a great idea.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to do this for her. So I took

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Speaker 1: her to this jewelry store and I was like, you

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Speaker 1: get something engraved in it, but nobody can know what

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Speaker 1: and she loved the idea so much she did it

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Speaker 1: for me too, So we ended up getting it for

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Speaker 1: each other for our birthdays.

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Speaker 4: But were if anybody miss that, you're like, you're manifesting

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Speaker 4: something in the Yeah, we.

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Speaker 1: Put like these words new York Times bestseller on the

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Speaker 1: inside of this ring, because Jenna, and it's you know,

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Speaker 1: it's it's directly goes directly these ring fingers or these

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Speaker 1: And so we were like, let's try on some of

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Speaker 1: asking them to like pull out different ones. We're trying

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Speaker 1: them on, and we're having so much fun with it,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like I'm like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: I always thought I liked this oval and like, oh,

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Speaker 1: And like you we're just like having like a ball

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Speaker 1: girl and she looks at me and she goes, I

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Speaker 1: just want to say, you are a ray of sunshine.

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Speaker 1: I love listening to you. And I literally turned like

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Speaker 1: beat red because I was like, this is not not

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Speaker 1: something you want, you know, people to know that you're doing.

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Speaker 3: Especially, I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, do you listen to the morning show or

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Speaker 1: the podcast? Because I feel like if you listen to

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Speaker 1: the morning show, you know a difference, you know, a

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Speaker 1: different side of me. If you're a scrubber, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, Like you know that this is something

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Speaker 1: I would totally do. Yeah, so she said she listens

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Speaker 1: to both, and so I wasn't as embarrassed, but shout

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Speaker 1: out to Heather. I was dying laughing because I was

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, you just never know.

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Speaker 1: You never know.

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Speaker 3: Did you find a ring that you like? Do you

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Speaker 3: like have a cut that you like?

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Speaker 4: Or I did?

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Speaker 1: I mean only there wasn't like a crazy ton of options,

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Speaker 1: but I tried like every different cut. So yeah, you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not the actual ringing, but like you like,

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Speaker 6: you find one that looked like what you like on

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Speaker 6: your finger shape, like it's there is like vague a

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Speaker 3: Correct, that's not too specific, correct.

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Speaker 1: But I literally was just like, oh no.

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Speaker 3: I was gonna get you a ring with an engraved

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Speaker 3: in it. Thank God. I didn't. Like I literally thought

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Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, that's personal, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't know if that's crossing that line of like manifest

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Speaker 2: I don't know, but I literally was on the website

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Speaker 3: Gonna do it. Let her do it. This leads me

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Speaker 3: into I'm assuming this was either Pauline or Sophia. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So I'm browsing the gram yesterday and I see Tanya

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Speaker 2: post a TikTok dance of her, Robbie, Sophia and Paulina

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Speaker 2: doing a TikTok dance that I had actually asked her

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Speaker 1: Oh you asked her to do that specific one.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I did.

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Speaker 2: Oh, and so I someone sends me the someone. Oh,

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Speaker 2: I didn't even see it. Someone sent it to me.

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Speaker 2: That's how I ended up going to your Instagram and

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Speaker 2: they were like, I cannot believe Tanya did this after

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Speaker 2: she did not like they were offended for me.

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Speaker 1: I got quite a few of those DMS.

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Speaker 2: I had a lot of people that were like, I'm

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Speaker 2: definitely teamed Beeck on this when that feels rude, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I hope no one's sending two

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Speaker 3: It's not that deep, but I do have some questions.

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Speaker 1: Ask away, why what's the funny you asked her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so.

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Speaker 1: I'd thrown back a couple On Saturday, was feeling good,

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Speaker 1: my boyfriend has officially joined TikTok because yeah, so he

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Speaker 1: he's never even been on. He can't even look at tiktoks.

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Speaker 1: So he's been and somebody mentioned one of our TikTok oh.

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Speaker 1: I did like the couple's challenge on TikTok with him,

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Speaker 1: and he wanted to watch it. So he was like,

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Speaker 1: do I need to get is it timep No, So

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Speaker 1: he could have even like we wasn't even watching anything.

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Speaker 1: So he's like, Okay, I'm going to get it because

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Speaker 1: I want to like see what you're posting. And it's

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Speaker 1: a whole new He's been kind of like watching videos.

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Speaker 1: He was watching videos all weekend. But so he joined

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Speaker 1: TikTok on Saturday and we were all home that after,

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Speaker 1: he's setting up his Instagram or sorry, he's setting up

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Speaker 1: his TikTok, and we're all just like laughing hysterically. And

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Speaker 1: I think it was Paulina and she suggested, She's like,

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Speaker 1: why don't we do one of these dances. We know

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Speaker 1: and that can be your first like TikTok post.

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Speaker 3: It on, Robbie.

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Speaker 2: We're basing it on other things for Conrad to win.

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Speaker 2: But it was I really enjoyed the conversations. I think we,

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Speaker 1: I think so too. Yeah, so it's a great show.

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Speaker 3: It's a great show as you should watch it. You

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Speaker 3: Should ye? Should we take a break?

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Speaker 1: I think we sho take a break and come back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna take a break and we'll be right back.

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Speaker 2: All right, we are back. So there's a TikTok you

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Speaker 1: About, yes, because it has to do with all the

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Speaker 1: Chloe Kardashian and Tristan Thompson baby number two news. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so you know how mind you, I'm very winded right

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Speaker 1: But I saw this TikTok and I wish that I

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Speaker 1: Hi again, he's the scum of the year.

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Speaker 2: D U.

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Speaker 1: And then like but then they're like, or he could

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Speaker 1: I feel really connected to Chloe because I'm the same way.

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Speaker 1: You know, we all judge her and we're like, he's

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Speaker 3: That's a cancer trade.

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Speaker 1: I think, so, yeah, Mark.

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Speaker 4: As a cancer, I think I can vouch for that. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I could see being something I would do and have done.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like where you.

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Speaker 2: Just get burned and keep going back to touch the flame.

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Speaker 7: You just like hopeful and yeah, I can't relate Scorpio.

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Speaker 1: I know it's good. But I saw the TikTok and

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Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, because I was too

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Speaker 3: I was like, why would Chloe do this?

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Speaker 4: That guy sucks?

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Speaker 1: And then I saw that TikTok and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I actually think that I have something rising or moon

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, how scary. She's like, You're so scary.

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Speaker 3: It's true, you too, God TikTok dance without me?

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Speaker 1: Should we do a TikTok dance tomorrow night?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that'd be fun. We should find we should do

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Speaker 2: like something. We don't have to do a dance, but

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Speaker 2: like I just want you to participate in TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Is all fine with that, but maybe we could all

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Speaker 1: We start our own trends.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, although I do think that if Robbie posts on

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Speaker 1: He's like, what is the stuff that you post?

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Speaker 2: This is so funny? Haley literally will be like, I'll

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Speaker 2: It's like, I will never post this because that scopo side.

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Speaker 1: That will make me so mad.

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Speaker 2: I know. I was like, well, I shouldn't have shown

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Speaker 3: I was like, it's so cute and I would love that.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know. So our partners are like just no.

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Speaker 1: But it's not even about him. Like do you remember

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Speaker 1: and he was like do I need to help you

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Speaker 1: with it? Like he was like what is this? And

444
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Speaker 1: so for a really long time he just thought I

445
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Speaker 1: just did that. I was like, no, it was like

446
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Speaker 1: a trend. Everybody was posting these planets flying around their

447
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Speaker 1: faces on them with like something that they can't believe

448
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Speaker 1: is still I don't even know.

449
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Speaker 2: Or like a thought, like a random thought basic Yeah yeah, yeah, so.

450
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Speaker 1: He I don't think he realized he doesn't. He's unaware

451
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Speaker 1: of the trend, so he just thought I was posting

452
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Speaker 1: these to think I was being funny, and he was like,

453
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Speaker 1: these are not it?

454
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Speaker 3: That is funny.

455
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Speaker 2: I've never thought of someone getting on and seeing like someone.

456
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 2: I never look at someone's whole feet. I just say,

457
00:21:02,840 --> 00:21:05,280
Speaker 2: like what pops up on my four you page? So

458
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,960
Speaker 2: like I'm imagining myself going to someone's page and just

459
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Speaker 2: like scrolling without knowing trends, being like.

460
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Speaker 3: What am I watch exactly?

461
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Speaker 1: So that was a real humbling moment as we can.

462
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Speaker 2: Yeah, well, Haley, isn't the TikTok reels doghouse right now?

463
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Speaker 1: I like to watch TikTok's is much more than I

464
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Speaker 1: like to make them.

465
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Speaker 3: Me too, It's so fun to watch.

466
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's just such a and the amount of

467
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Speaker 1: information that's out there. I'm like, if I had TikTok

468
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 1: as a teen, I would be making salmon bowls and

469
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Speaker 1: like cleaning my couch with a cute tip because it

470
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Speaker 1: gets it out better. Like I find all these like

471
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Speaker 1: amazing little tips and tricks.

472
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Speaker 2: See, I don't see myself being that productive as a

473
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Speaker 2: teenager with it. I think I would have been more

474
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Speaker 2: on like the side of me trying to do like

475
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Speaker 2: cringey like dancing.

476
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Speaker 3: Oh Yeah, unfortunately.

477
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Speaker 2: I love the actually and what I've heard about high

478
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Speaker 2: school Donya Rat, I don't know that you would have

479
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Speaker 2: been doing salmon bo with your Shakira John Mayer club

480
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Speaker 2: Senergy Club, Wow, judgment.

481
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Speaker 3: What are your thoughts? Okay?

482
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Speaker 2: So j Lo and Ben Affleck got married in a

483
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Speaker 2: Vegas drive through wedding and they had like a bluetooth

484
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 2: speaker playing the wedding march and her the videos I've

485
00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: seen of her are so wedding planner and I love it,

486
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Speaker 2: Like there's this something really endearing about like her getting

487
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Speaker 2: ready and in her dress, which was so like beautiful

488
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Speaker 2: and simple and.

489
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Speaker 1: Very simple and like a little old fashioned.

490
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I loved it. Happy Are you not happy for that?

491
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Speaker 2: You know?

492
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Speaker 1: I have thoughts. I don't know how I feel about Benefer.

493
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Speaker 1: I know everybody loves the story. I I don't know,

494
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Speaker 1: but I'm also unsure about the Why is that like

495
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 1: that everybody has to get married in Vegas first, and

496
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Speaker 1: then there's no way they're not going to have like

497
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Speaker 1: a lavish wedding.

498
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Speaker 2: It's like a trend, you know. I don't know, Maybe

499
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Speaker 2: they won't, maybe they won't have a lavish wedding.

500
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Speaker 4: Well, who cares whether they do or they don't.

501
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: Great, Yeah, true, I mean, live your life.

502
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Speaker 3: But I'm also like, I have not.

503
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Speaker 2: Read anything further than what I've just seen pop up

504
00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,719
Speaker 2: on my news feeds about them, So I'm not like

505
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 2: a die hard benefit.

506
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Speaker 1: But I don't understand the newsletter, Like why is it

507
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Speaker 1: in her newsletter? Is she making money off this newsletter?

508
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 2: Oh?

509
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:37,919
Speaker 3: I'm sure?

510
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 1: How Like I need somebody that knows anything about Hollywood

511
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: or any of this stuff, Like why did she release

512
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Speaker 1: the news in her newsletter?

513
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Speaker 3: Do you see herself?

514
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Speaker 4: Why does she ast?

515
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:53,080
Speaker 1: Why does she have a newsletter?

516
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Speaker 2: Well, isn't a newsletter just to update people in like

517
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Speaker 2: what's going on, like where you can buy new merds?

518
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Speaker 1: But I think that was in twenty fifteen.

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Speaker 4: Oh I I two thousand and five.

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Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, maybe I'm wrong here.

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Speaker 4: That's that seems like old school Internet. I didn't know

522
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Speaker 4: that celebrities were still doing newsletters.

523
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Speaker 2: Listen, we're having I don't know if you've realized, but

524
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 2: we're having a surge of things that were popular in

525
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 2: the early two thousands coming back around. So maybe she's like,

526
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Speaker 2: maybe her social team is like, hey, let's let's go

527
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Speaker 2: back old school and do a newsletter?

528
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Speaker 1: Should I do a newsletter? How do you even do

529
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Speaker 1: a newsletter?

530
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 4: Just an email blast, right, yeah, Like I think we

532
00:24:33,800 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 4: used to have one for the morning show, and then

533
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Speaker 4: that got phased out because who.

534
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Speaker 1: Has the time right now?

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Speaker 4: Instagram, Yeah, it's not a thing anymore. I was fascinated

536
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Speaker 4: by that.

537
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Speaker 1: I was so fascinated by that, and also the all

538
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Speaker 1: the scuttle about changing her name to Affleck.

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Speaker 3: Your name, I don't know, Like I think so Tanya Radgad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like kind of has the same. Yeah, I'm d Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think so. I think I'll always professionally go by

542
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Speaker 1: Tanya rat. But I think there's something. But I don't know,

543
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Speaker 1: Like I don't know. I haven't really thought yes or no.

544
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Speaker 1: I'm kind of on the fence because I'm like, you

545
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Speaker 1: go your whole life. I always find it so weird

546
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Speaker 1: that you go, your whole life is one name and

547
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Speaker 1: then you just change it.

548
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Speaker 4: Yeah, why do you combine them?

549
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Speaker 1: Oh like a hyphen?

550
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Speaker 4: I mean he has because his last name charts with

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Speaker 4: Y A D. So you could be Tanya Yaddy Savie

552
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Speaker 4: oh and Robbie Yadyavievich.

553
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Speaker 2: Just someone else did Oh, so I think someone messaged

554
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Speaker 2: me and said that they had combined their last names.

555
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Speaker 2: But I mean that could flow because rad and yead.

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Speaker 4: It kind of works.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but the other well, also, I just saw Amanda

558
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Speaker 2: Stanton said she's gonna move her her main name, her

559
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Speaker 2: last name, to her middle so she'll be a man

560
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Speaker 2: of stan Fogel.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I guess I could do that because I don't

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Speaker 1: have a middle name.

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Speaker 3: You don't have a middle name. They just said it's

564
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Speaker 3: too long.

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Speaker 1: We can Serbians don't have middle names. It's like a

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Speaker 1: cultural thing. Oh wow, interesting name me a Serbian with

567
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Speaker 1: a middle name.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 2: You're the only exactly same good job.

570
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Speaker 1: Finally won an argument over here. It's tough.

571
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Speaker 3: It's tough in these streets for you.

572
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Speaker 1: Tough in these streets for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Do you see yourself having like a lavish wedding or

575
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Speaker 2: could you see yourself in like a drive through Vegas wedding.

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Speaker 1: It's funny you asked that, yeah, Becca, because I've been

577
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Speaker 1: giving it some thought lately. Even planning a birthday party

578
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Speaker 1: seems like a big to do. Well, that's like the

579
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Speaker 1: higher you have a wedding planner, But it's still like

580
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Speaker 1: a big to do. It's a lot of money.

581
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot, all of it.

582
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Speaker 1: It's a lot, but it's a lot. So I guess

583
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Speaker 1: my question is to myself or anybody that's had a

584
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Speaker 1: big wedding, would you rather keep that money and like

585
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 1: buy a bigger house. Correct, Yeah, that's kind of where

586
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: my head's at. But I don't know if that has

587
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Speaker 1: to do with maybe my age.

588
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Speaker 4: I also think with age comes with them in practicality,

589
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Speaker 4: I think that is the right decision. But whether you

590
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Speaker 4: do it or not, no judgment whatsoever. I think a

591
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Speaker 4: lot of people love those big weddings, they want to

592
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Speaker 4: have them, but yes, practically speaking, it'd be a lot

593
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Speaker 4: smarter to put that money towards the house.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, maybe, Okay, you can still do

596
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Speaker 1: a wedding, but do like a.

597
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Speaker 2: Smaller a Taco Tuesday wedding, backyard wedding.

598
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Speaker 1: No, No, that is taking it too far. There's only

599
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: so many things you can do on talk about Tuesday, birthdays, weddings, weddings. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So I'm kind of I don't know,

601
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Speaker 1: teetering because I actually was talking to Aaron Limb about

602
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Speaker 1: this because she had like a quick kind of wedding

603
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Speaker 1: in the pandemic, just because it was the pandemic and

604
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Speaker 1: they wanted to get married, so you know, they she

605
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Speaker 1: wore white dress, it was beautiful and they took photos.

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Speaker 1: It was like her immediate family and his immediate family

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Speaker 1: in their backyard. And I think the plan was to

608
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Speaker 1: have like a big wedding after the pandemic. And I

609
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Speaker 1: don't even know if she's going to anymore because it's like.

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Speaker 2: Why, well, I think, and I guess Mark, you can

611
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Speaker 2: weigh in on this when you have a wedding. I

612
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Speaker 2: imagine what I feel like I would look back on

613
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Speaker 2: would be the people and the photos, like so I

614
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Speaker 2: don't know that i'd remember the details that I like

615
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,440
Speaker 2: spent so much time stressing over, like the little like

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Speaker 2: what does the silverware look like? I imagine I would be

617
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Speaker 2: like who was there? And the photos to look back on.

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Speaker 2: So I think the good photographer, a good videographer, good cake,

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Speaker 2: and your favorite people.

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Speaker 4: That was one thing we did not cheap out on

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Speaker 4: was the photographer. We spent a lot of money in

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Speaker 4: the photographer and that was well spent. He was not

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Speaker 4: He's a guy who didn't do weddings. Like he made

624
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Speaker 4: a special exception for us because he's a friend of

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Speaker 4: a friend. But his deal was, I'm not going to

626
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Speaker 4: do a lot of stage stuff. It's gonna be a

627
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Speaker 4: lot of candid stuff. That's what I do, is candid stuff.

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Speaker 4: So he was just always around. It will be a

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Speaker 4: spectacular pictures from that whole day, And we got a

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Speaker 4: guy to do good videos too, and we're gonna watch

631
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Speaker 4: those videos in about a week and a half because

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Speaker 4: that's such weddy Weding anniversary. So we're going to look

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Speaker 4: back and show the kids the wedding and the reception

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Speaker 4: and our honeymoon in Australia and stuff like that. So, yes,

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Speaker 4: you're absolutely right, that is the stuff you remember. I

636
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Speaker 4: don't remember the silverware, the flowers, any of that stuff.

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Speaker 4: It's who was there. I remember what we ate and

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Speaker 4: the pictures are fak fantastic.

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Speaker 1: How many people did you have your wedding?

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Speaker 4: I think about two hundred.

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Speaker 1: You know what. I realized though, But like even if

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Speaker 1: you think you want to have a small one, it

643
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Speaker 1: adds up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, so fast.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you could probably come up with easily

646
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Speaker 2: one hundred people just sitting here listing.

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Speaker 1: Literally, I could blinket it beyond it. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 1: don't know there. I don't even think I can have

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Speaker 1: a small one at this point.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait for that.

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Speaker 2: Well what about you, I mean I don't even think

652
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Speaker 2: about like I see myself doing something more like either

653
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Speaker 2: traveling and doing like a more of an intimate destination

654
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Speaker 2: wedding vibe, or doing like a more.

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Speaker 3: Haley would probably be like, this is actually not my

656
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Speaker 3: vision at all. We need to talk about this.

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Speaker 2: But like more so like us, if we if we

658
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Speaker 2: like got married and then having like a big party,

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Speaker 2: you know, like a big celebration, Like our friends got

660
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Speaker 2: married at the courthouse in Santa Barbara and their photos

661
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Speaker 2: are just like so chic and cool. Yeah, and then

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Speaker 2: they had like a beautiful backyard wedding and everyone more white,

663
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Speaker 2: I mean, big party, and it was just it was

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Speaker 2: so fun, you know. It kind of took the pressure

665
00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 2: off I think of like, yeah, the ceremony aspect, but

666
00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 2: I mean I just think it's like, really what you

667
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 2: want because ultimately, if you're happy, that's what's gonna come through.

668
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: I know. And there's like this part of me that

669
00:31:09,720 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: I love everybody being together and coming together and like

670
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: having a good time. So watch I'm gonna be like

671
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 1: balling out of them. I'm it's gonna be like a rager.

672
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, for sure.

673
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: This is all I talk a big game.

674
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 4: There's no way, Tanya rats on having a big wedding.

675
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 3: I can't even imagine that.

676
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 2: I can't even imagine you having like a a small

677
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: intimate gathering.

678
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 1: But it's like that, even that, like literally even that

679
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: would be fifty people.

680
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 4: Yeah it doesn't. But what if it was just you

681
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 4: and your mom, dad, brother, sister, and then him and

682
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,000
Speaker 4: his intimate family and their family. So yeah, you're right,

683
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 4: he gets up there a little bit, but that's it.

684
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: Can't Well, there you go that.

685
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 4: I think the decision has made.

686
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: What am I gonna do? What's my role in that?

687
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: Right ship? Ship? Yeah? No, I can't.

688
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 3: Who's your maid of honor? Going to be.

689
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: My sister?

690
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: That's your matron of honor?

691
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm gonna step in the next year

692
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: of life, you know, set I'll write that down.

693
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:28,080
Speaker 3: Yeah that was she said, in this next year this

694
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 3: is my testing period.

695
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 2: Yeah that's okay. I'm happy to be a I'm happy

696
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 2: to just be a part flower girl.

697
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 1: Whatever you need who's gonna be your maid of honor.

698
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 3: I mean, I have three sisters, so it's a little

699
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 3: different for me.

700
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: An easy escape.

701
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 2: I actually don't even know, Like I don't even know

702
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 2: if I want to have a wedding party like that

703
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 2: stands up there. I know there's something kind of like Also,

704
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 2: someone said this is getting into like some detailed parts.

705
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 3: But someone I've seen bride say.

706
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 2: They wish they had switched their wedding parties to where

707
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 2: because you know, typically the bride's back is to her friends,

708
00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 2: her her bridesmaids, and they've switched to where her bridesmaids

709
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: were in her eyeline and then his smart so that

710
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: they can see them and like get to experience that

711
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 2: with them, which I thought was I'm like.

712
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 3: Why why why didn't we.

713
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: Have taken a thousand million years to figure that one out?

714
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 3: Well, it's all.

715
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,479
Speaker 2: I think. It's like tradition, and we all do tradition

716
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 2: until someone breaks tradition and then it's like, oh, we

717
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 2: can do that.

718
00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: But like, also, I just don't even think I could

719
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: go through with the wedding because I cry at the

720
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: smallest little thing, like I could not get There's no

721
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: way I can get through it like I just be crying.

722
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 4: I makeup w bms like who we are cancers. I

723
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,320
Speaker 4: was crying. Well, I've mentioned before how the proposal she

724
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 4: thought I was good. She thought I was telling her

725
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 4: that I was dying because I was crying so hard

726
00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 4: as I was trying to get the words will you

727
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: marry me? But the wedding itself as she was coming

728
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 4: down the aisle, I gotta say, these eyes have never

729
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 4: seen before or since, anything as beautiful as my wife

730
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 4: walking down the aisle, like the definition of an angel

731
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 4: on earth. My dad was my best man, and he

732
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 4: had to talk me through it like it's okay, everything's fine,

733
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 4: like like pull it together, keep it together.

734
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think I could do it.

735
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's tough.

736
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,680
Speaker 2: I think it's just so romantic, like and I also think,

737
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: on top of it being like such a beautiful romantic thing,

738
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,400
Speaker 2: I think it's also there's like nerves because you're you know,

739
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 2: it's everyone's watching you, and I imagine as the groom,

740
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 2: it's probably more nerve racking because everyone's like.

741
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 3: Waiting for you to cry.

742
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 2: Like I remember Jordan Rogers being like, I don't know

743
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: if I'm gonna cry, and then like I was just

744
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 2: eyes locked on him the whole time, and he like

745
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 2: immediately started crying when he saw Jojo.

746
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:00,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really sweet.

747
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: It is really sweet.

748
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,360
Speaker 3: I feel like Robbie would cry for sure, like a

749
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 3: single tear.

750
00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, wow, a lot of It's a lot of

751
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: emotion in one podcast. You know, we went from like

752
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 1: shriveled eggs to weddings.

753
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 3: To yeah, that's what thirty five is, you know. Yeah,

754
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 3: it's like a conversation a box of chocolates. You never

755
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 3: ever know what you're gonna get.

756
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: It's a skittle, and then you know you're getting some.

757
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 4: Not fit for human consumption.

758
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you didn't see that. I love skittles. What

759
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: happened in them? That's like, so they're not fit for

760
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 1: human consumption.

761
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 4: So claims a lawsuit. We should probably not say that

762
00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 4: as if it's factual, but a lawsuit claims skills are

763
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 4: unfit for human consumption because of a known toxin in

764
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: the ingredients called titanium dioxide.

765
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,640
Speaker 2: Tear, box of chocolates, This girl is eating a lot

766
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: of things not fit for consumption. I do love a skittle.

767
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 2: That's upsetting, but I'm probably gonna keep eating them. It

768
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 2: presented fair enough. Okay, we're gonna take a break and

769
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:29,359
Speaker 2: we'll be right back with emails. All right, we are

770
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:33,720
Speaker 2: back and we have some emails. Mark take it away,

771
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:34,840
Speaker 2: all right.

772
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 4: Beck, and thank you very much. This is from Mary,

773
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 4: she says. Backstory. In October November, I went on a

774
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 4: couple of dates with a guy and it really started

775
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: to like him. Things didn't work out, but I still

776
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:45,359
Speaker 4: had a crush on him and continue to talk about

777
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 4: him with my friends for many months, hoping he'd come

778
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 4: back into the picture. Fast forward to today, one of

779
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 4: my very best friends told me that my October November

780
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 4: guy asked her out on a date. I didn't think

781
00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 4: she would go, but she told me that they went

782
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 4: out last night and they had fun. It sounds like

783
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 4: she's interested in pursuing a relationship with him. I don't

784
00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 4: know how to handle this. This girl has been one

785
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 4: of my best single girlfriends for several years. I want

786
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 4: to be happy for her, but I can't help but

787
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 4: think why this guy. It definitely makes me sad, but

788
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 4: I don't know if I even have the right to

789
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 4: be upset because he and I didn't officially date.

790
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: Did she say in the beginning how many dates had

791
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 1: gone on.

792
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 4: I believe she says a couple, which I believe would

793
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 4: be two.

794
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,400
Speaker 2: Sometimes people say couple and it means a few. But

795
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 2: she went on multiple dates, not just one.

796
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 4: Yes, correct.

797
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,399
Speaker 1: I feel like they're with friendships. There's this underlying thing

798
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 1: of you know when not to go out with somebody

799
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: that your friend has gone out with, Like, there are

800
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 1: many men that I have gone out with that I

801
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,760
Speaker 1: would have been perfectly fine with any of my friends

802
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: going out with, and then there's a few that were not.

803
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: So clearly, this friend doesn't feel like that guy crossed

804
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: that threshold. So she doesn't think she's doing anything wrong.

805
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get the impression your friend doesn't. I would

806
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 2: hope she doesn't feel like she's doing something wrong, because

807
00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 2: if she feels like she's doing something wrong and she

808
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:14,840
Speaker 2: ignored your feelings about it, then that's different. But I

809
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: also think, like, I don't know, it's complicated, because I

810
00:38:23,440 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 2: do think this would be different if Mary was in

811
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 2: a relationship and she was happy and had moved on

812
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: from that and then this happened, It'd be like, all right, whatever,

813
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship, do whatever you want. But the

814
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 2: fact that she has talked about how she still has

815
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: a crush on him and was hoping he'd come back

816
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 2: into the picture. Makes me feel.

817
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: Sad.

818
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 3: Sad.

819
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:51,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, but if we assume she thinks she's doing nothing wrong,

820
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 4: does Mary say something? Does she tell her look this

821
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:58,800
Speaker 4: bothers me. Look, I really wish you wouldn't. Does Mary interject?

822
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 4: Because if the friends Oblivia, I'm not sure that Mary does.

823
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 2: But if she doesn't say something, is it gonna build resentment? Like,

824
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 2: is it gonna be like every time she's like, is

825
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 2: it gonna hurt their friendship?

826
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 3: If there's no conversation about this, I just.

827
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:19,799
Speaker 1: Think sometimes calling dibbs or like having claim over a guy,

828
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,239
Speaker 1: it's usually never the guy for you anyways. So I

829
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 1: think it's just kind of let it go.

830
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: Okay, let's do a hypothetical here of me and you, Okay, Okay,

831
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 2: hypothetically we're both single, you go out with.

832
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 3: Who is senor Butterfly? Okay, remember who that is?

833
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 2: Yes?

834
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 3: Okay, it almost like a.

835
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 1: Cross zone like that one would have hurt my.

836
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:52,320
Speaker 3: Feelings, right, So this sounds like this sounds similar to that.

837
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 1: But I dated him for like a couple of months.

838
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 3: But I think even after a couple of dates, you

839
00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 3: were pretty interested.

840
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's not a good that's not a good comparison.

841
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 3: Okay, what was doctor, doctor D? Doctor D?

842
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: I would have been perfectly fine with anybody dating.

843
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 2: Really, mister Wilsher, Oh god, don't even we cannot we

844
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:17,720
Speaker 2: cannot use.

845
00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 4: Him as.

846
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: Miss perfectly fine, perfectly fine.

847
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 4: But give her somebody that becka trying to come up

848
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,000
Speaker 4: with somebody who you went out with a couple of times.

849
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 2: Senor Butterfly is good because even though you'll date it

850
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 2: for longer, I do feel like you were really into it,

851
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 2: like fast.

852
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

853
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 2: So I think if if it hadn't worked out after

854
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 2: two dates and you were like pretty like hurt by that,

855
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 2: and then I was like, hey, I went on a

856
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: date with Signor butter But I.

857
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: Think that and to be honest, and maybe this is

858
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: a testament to your friendship with this girl, because I

859
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: feel like none of my friends would have asked about

860
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: Senyora Butterfly, like not not a single one of my

861
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 1: close friends would have said I'm gonna go out with him.

862
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, So that okay, So that's where we are. So

863
00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 4: I would say if Mary's if Mary feels like her

864
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,440
Speaker 4: friend knows this is a guy that she's really got

865
00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 4: a thing for, then I think the friendship has irreparably

866
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:15,840
Speaker 4: damage to anyway, and it's going to come between you.

867
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 4: And maybe that's okay. If she's oblivious, maybe you just

868
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 4: kind of got to rise above it and hope for

869
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 4: the best for her, because this is only going to

870
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 4: bother you until you find somebody else.

871
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:26,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

872
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 2: I think if if Mary's friend had come to her

873
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,640
Speaker 2: and been like, hey, I know you liked this guy,

874
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: and you know, in a weird turn of events, he

875
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,160
Speaker 2: appeared in my life. We went on a date, we

876
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,880
Speaker 2: had a great time. How do you feel about that?

877
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 2: And given Mary a chance to like that would have

878
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 2: been the best move her friend could have done, just

879
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: to like acknowledge her feelings in it and be like,

880
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 2: this is just a dude, you're my best friend. I'm

881
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 2: not even gonna go there if it hurt your feelings.

882
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:59,040
Speaker 2: But it sounds like it was kind of just assumed

883
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 2: that she was over it because they weren't dating anymore.

884
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 2: Because that was back in October November. You know, like

885
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 2: she feels like enough time has passed that she doesn't

886
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: need to like acknowledge it but I think if this

887
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 2: friendship is really important, I think you have a conversation

888
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 2: with her just say I felt hurt that you I

889
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:18,879
Speaker 2: didn't feel considered in this and like I don't want

890
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,320
Speaker 2: to say, like I'm calling Dibbs. He's not my boyfriend,

891
00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 2: but as a friend and as a best friend, I

892
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:28,400
Speaker 2: wanted to tell you how I feel, so that our

893
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 2: friendship isn't damaged over this over a guy.

894
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 3: Not worth it. It's never worth it.

895
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 4: I don't I don't even think the conversations are where

896
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 4: it personally. I think you move on and try to

897
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 4: put on a brave face if you can. But if

898
00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 4: you think she knows how you feel, then worth pursuing anyway,

899
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 4: That friendship is not worth continuing. And he's not your guy,

900
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 4: and you got to put him and you got to

901
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 4: make sure that in your brain he goes into that box.

902
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 4: He gotta go into the not your guybox because he's

903
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 4: not and so it's time to consider him that.

904
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's sort.

905
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 2: That's gonna say. I'm sorry, And I was gonna say

906
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: it's hard. I said, that's hard. Yeah, okay. Next email.

907
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 4: Next email is from anonymous. I recently got out of

908
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 4: a seven year relationship that I've been in since I

909
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 4: was eighteen. All right, so eighteen to twenty five. Do

910
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 4: the math there. I'm fully recovered. I feel like I'm thriving,

911
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 4: but I don't know how to relaunch my Instagram. Since

912
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 4: the breakup a few months, I haven't posted anything on

913
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 4: my social media because I didn't want to seek any

914
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 4: attention while I was in the process of healing and

915
00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 4: getting over him, especially since a lot of our friends

916
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 4: are mutual. However, I'm ready to post a fire selfie

917
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,759
Speaker 4: to essentially say, hey, the dms are open without being

918
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,279
Speaker 4: aggressive and petty. Please give me some advice on how

919
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 4: to hard launch my single self while still being classy

920
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 4: and tasteful.

921
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: I say something so I wouldn't even say dms are open.

922
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 2: I would say something like single girl Summer, like single.

923
00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 1: That's in the caption, yeah, yeah, in the caption.

924
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 2: Like single girl Summer, and keep it just like simple.

925
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 2: It's it's like a power or full statement, like you're

926
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:04,240
Speaker 2: obviously saying I'm single and ready to mingle without coming

927
00:44:04,320 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: across like revengeful.

928
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: Or you can post like a hot photo maybe said

929
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 1: fire selfie, but not even a selfie. I think you

930
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: should get a little ass in there. It's summer. Get

931
00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 1: like a little butt cheek.

932
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 4: And it's a swim suit. Is this on the beach?

933
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 4: What do we look?

934
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:20,399
Speaker 2: What are.

935
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: Daisy dude? So if you don't want to be in

936
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: a bathing suit, maybe like a sarong wrapped around like

937
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 1: your butts hanging out and just she said anonymous. So

938
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: her name is anonymous, so you can say, like Anonymous

939
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: two point.

940
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 4: Oh, let's give her a name. Anonymous is a weird Okay,

941
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 4: let's say her name is that is Kayla?

942
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: Kayla, Kayla two point oh. She is uh, sassy, single

943
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: and ready to mingle.

944
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So there's two two options for you. There's a

945
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,919
Speaker 2: tony way and there's a back away.

946
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 1: But no what you can like say like Kayla two

947
00:44:57,960 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: point oh and then kind of like hint that you're single.

948
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 2: You don't need to like live if you're not hinting, yeah,

949
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 2: you're really What if we combined and said single girl

950
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 2: summer Kayla two point zero.

951
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: I like that Yeah, hashtag dm me no hashtag it

952
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: goes down, and the hashtag dick pics welcome, okay, okay.

953
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 4: I like the two point h and I like the

954
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 4: single girl summer, and I don't think that's going to

955
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 4: offend your mutual friends. I don't think there's any issues there.

956
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 4: I think that's great.

957
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:34,359
Speaker 3: I think it's hey, this is where i'm at.

958
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: Let's relaunch. I love a relaunch.

959
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 4: Yes, and if you're driving, let the world know it. Yeah.

960
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: Or they have like these butterfly costumes at like kid stores.

961
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: You can do like a video that you're like in

962
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,280
Speaker 1: a cocoon and then you're coming out of your cocoon

963
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: into a butterfly, meaning like you're it's a new area.

964
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 2: Now.

965
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,279
Speaker 4: Some weeks the podcast goes ten seconds too long, and

966
00:45:56,400 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 4: it just did. I'm afraid that was.

967
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: Renewed for a new season.

968
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 2: I need.

969
00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 3: You know if that's the subtle clossy vision she has no.

970
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,080
Speaker 1: Classy butterflies, or she as hell.

971
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,919
Speaker 4: Everyone's gonna think she's insane if she goes and gets

972
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 4: a child's costume and where's it Instagram?

973
00:46:17,600 --> 00:46:22,279
Speaker 3: Yeah that one, it's your birthday. But I do think

974
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 3: that that's that.

975
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: I might not be my sharpest right now. I have

976
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: not eaten today, so I am weak.

977
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 4: I am weak.

978
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,759
Speaker 2: She's weak and as opposed to her other ideas she

979
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 2: has every other podcast erect.

980
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: Like normally I'm on it, I have my brain fuel,

981
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,760
Speaker 1: and today I have not had my brain fuel.

982
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 3: Okay, well we got to get you some brain fuel.

983
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm not half masked.

984
00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 3: We got to get you full masked. And happy birthday.

985
00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: Thank you.

986
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 2: I think I speak for the whole scrubbing in community

987
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 2: when we say we are so grateful you were born,

988
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 2: bless this with sunshine and sayings and just your joy.

989
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 4: Have a fantastic thirty sixth year.

990
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: Thank you. But I will say I'm realizing I'm a

991
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: big words of affirmation gal, because last night before we

992
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: went to bed, Robbie was like, you know, he's like,

993
00:47:14,600 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna, you know, say a lot of this, say

994
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:18,640
Speaker 1: a lot more in depth tomorrow at dinner. But he

995
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,360
Speaker 1: was just like going on and on about me and

996
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 1: how I was brought into his life and what I've

997
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,760
Speaker 1: shown him and what we've done together, like all this stuff.

998
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: And I started crying. I was like, my god, I

999
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you tomorrow to hear what else there.

1000
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 3: Is to say.

1001
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,000
Speaker 1: She's a simple gal. Oh Gal, it's just some words.

1002
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: It's all I need, you know, maybe a nice real Yeah.

1003
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 1: Believe me, I've been working on waiting on that one

1004
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: from beck Atilly.

1005
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 3: Working on it. Don't you worry. I already had it

1006
00:47:47,520 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 3: in the in the can, in the can.

1007
00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 2: Wow, and yours and Haley's one of y'all will appreciate

1008
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 2: it more than the other.

1009
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 3: All right, we love you all, have a great week.

1010
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 3: We'll be back Thursday.

1011
00:47:58,280 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 4: Love you bye.

1012
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:01,280
Speaker 2: Seven