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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, right here,

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Speaker 1: right now. You spoke al up and old on site

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Speaker 1: is to Strawberry Little Thank you, Billy D What a

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Speaker 1: coming back, all right? Subject, I didn't know who he was, Okay,

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Speaker 1: just Stephen Shirley. I am a married woman with five children,

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Speaker 1: and I had a very interesting Halloween night. We were

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Speaker 1: invited to a costume party at a friend's house, so

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Speaker 1: I dressed up in a red devil costume. My husband

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Speaker 1: dressed up at Zora. We took four shots before we

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Speaker 1: left home, and I was so frazzled I forgot my glasses.

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Speaker 1: I knew my husband was freaking before we got married,

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Speaker 1: and he has asked me for threesomes a lot lately.

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Speaker 1: He said he'd let me be with another man while

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Speaker 1: he watched. I told him I'll pass. He told me

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Speaker 1: to keep an open mind about the party because the

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Speaker 1: hosts were wild and free. I could barely see all

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Speaker 1: of the guests, but I did see there were a

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Speaker 1: few men dressed up like Zoro or something similar. By midnight,

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Speaker 1: I had more drinks and I was in the powder

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Speaker 1: room trying to get myself together. The door was slightly

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Speaker 1: he was going to rock my world, and the man

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Speaker 1: was dressed like Zoro, so I thought it was my

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Speaker 1: husband at first. He made me lie down on the

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Speaker 1: floor and got really freaky. Yeah, he laid me down

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Speaker 1: and got really freaky. The whole experience was off the charts,

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Speaker 1: and I knew it was not my husband, but I

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Speaker 1: didn't stop him. When it was over, the man passed

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Speaker 1: out on the floor. I turned on the bathroom light

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Speaker 1: and my husband was standing there taking it all in.

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Speaker 1: I frantically started lying and I told my husband I

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Speaker 1: thought it was him. My husband swears that I knew

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Speaker 1: who I was having sex with, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: that man. That was last month and he has not

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Speaker 1: touched me since then. He told me that he has

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Speaker 1: been having sex with people he doesn't know too. I

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Speaker 1: think my husband set me up so he can do

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Speaker 1: whatever he wants to do. Am I right or wrong?

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Speaker 1: Who's right or wrong? That's your question. There's no right

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Speaker 1: in any of this. And you already know that all

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Speaker 1: of this is wrong. I mean, first of all, you

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Speaker 1: had to know that something might go down at this party.

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Speaker 1: Your husband warned you beforehand that it could get a

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Speaker 1: little crazy. He said that people were wild. He said

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Speaker 1: So do I think he set you up? Yes? Didn't

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Speaker 1: you say he told you that he wanted to watch you? Yes?

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Speaker 1: So how is it that he just miraculously showed up

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Speaker 1: immediately after the other Zoro passed out? He was right

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Speaker 1: there all the time. You said it in your letter.

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Speaker 1: Now he's mad? Well, yeah, he's mad, and I think

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Speaker 1: it's because you enjoyed it too much and he was there,

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Speaker 1: he saw it. Because people might say that they want

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Speaker 1: to see their mates being intimate, you know, with other

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Speaker 1: men and women while they watch and all of that,

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Speaker 1: but until they actually see their husbands or see their

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Speaker 1: how they'll feel about that situation. That stuff is just

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Speaker 1: nothing to play with, as you see now, because your

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Speaker 1: man hasn't touched you in a month, and he's been

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Speaker 1: just doing random stuff. Like he said, he's just been

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Speaker 1: having sex with people he doesn't know. You know, this

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Speaker 1: stuff is nothing to play with. Your marriage is ruined now,

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Speaker 1: you know the trust is broken. Your lies about thinking

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Speaker 1: you know the man was your husband didn't work with

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Speaker 1: your husband, because now your husband is feeling justified in

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Speaker 1: his cheating. You just, you know, gave him permission more

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Speaker 1: or less. That's the way he took it anyway. After

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Speaker 1: he saw you do what you did. You got played

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Speaker 1: in all of this. You got played, Steve Well. I

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Speaker 1: don't know who he was. I didn't know who he was.

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Speaker 1: This title letter. I don't care about this letter. I

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Speaker 1: really don't. I don't. I don't know what you want

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Speaker 1: me and surely to do. You're not asking for advice.

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Speaker 1: You want to know where you're wrong in all this hit?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about? This whole thing is wrong.

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Speaker 1: You're mad with five kids, You had an interested Halloween night,

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Speaker 1: went to a costume party. Your husband was zero. You

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Speaker 1: was a devil. You took some four shots for y'all

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Speaker 1: left the house, you forgot your glass asses. So now

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Speaker 1: what you're trying to set us up for is you

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Speaker 1: didn't have your glasses, so now you can't see good.

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Speaker 1: That's what you're trying to say. Lady. Anyway, your husband

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Speaker 1: was freaking before y'all gotten married. He asked me for

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Speaker 1: a threesome a lot lately. He said, he let you

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Speaker 1: be with another man while he watched. First of all, y'all,

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Speaker 1: marriage is shot anyway. Ain't no real husband fitting to

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Speaker 1: watch another man do his wife. I don't care what

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Speaker 1: That's that's my opinion. That's just you know. Y'all can

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Speaker 1: thanking another way if you want to out there. But

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Speaker 1: any man that will allow another man on his wife

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Speaker 1: while he watching, he'll give a damn about you. We're

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Speaker 1: just a piece of meeting, a piece of property right there.

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Speaker 1: So you don't have a marriage. Okay, you told him

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Speaker 1: you a pass. He told me keep an open mind

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Speaker 1: at the party because the host they wild and free.

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Speaker 1: I could barely see all the guests here, and now

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Speaker 1: I see you lying. I could barely see all the guests.

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Speaker 1: She trying to use that because she forgot her glasses.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot. It was a costume party. They had

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Speaker 1: on costumes anyway, But I did see what There were

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Speaker 1: a few men dressed up like Zoro or something similar.

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Speaker 1: By midnight, I had some mo drinks. You know, already

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Speaker 1: took folk shots. I was in the powder room trying

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Speaker 1: to get yourself together. The door was slightly cracked. I

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Speaker 1: saw us hand slide in and turn off the light.

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Speaker 1: It was a funny male voice saying he was going

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Speaker 1: to rock my world. And the man was dressed like

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Speaker 1: Zorod hair. Well, that wasn't your husband. Yeah, all right, listen.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. The subject of today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter is I didn't know who he was. We'll

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Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening, all right,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is,

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who he was. This ignorant mass. This

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Speaker 1: woman got five kids married to this freaky man. They

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Speaker 1: go to a costume party at a friend's house. Her

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Speaker 1: husband dressed like Zoro. She dressed like a red devil. Costume.

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Speaker 1: They had some folk shots for they left the house.

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Speaker 1: She was so frazzled she forgot her glass. That's to

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Speaker 1: make us think she can't see good. And then he yo,

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Speaker 1: her man was real freaky. She knew that before. She

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Speaker 1: had been asking for threesomes a lot lately. He said

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Speaker 1: I told him my pass. If a man will let

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Speaker 1: care nothing about that woman, period at all. He don't

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Speaker 1: care nothing about that woman. Period. You're a piece of

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Speaker 1: property or slab of meat, that's all. He don't give

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Speaker 1: He told you to keep open mind. At the party,

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Speaker 1: She would drunk. But I did see that were a

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Speaker 1: few men dressed up like Zoro or something similar. By midnight,

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Speaker 1: I had some more drinks. I was in the powder

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Speaker 1: I saw a hand slide in the turnout, the like

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Speaker 1: Now for a woman that ain't got no glasses, I

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Speaker 1: can't see good. Come on, come on, you show ain't

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Speaker 1: don't go in the bathroom without closing the door. Who

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Speaker 1: do that? It was a funny male voice saying he

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Speaker 1: You just a damn lie. You just a damn lie.

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Speaker 1: You ain't married to no man, got no five kids

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Speaker 1: with him, and don't know his damn voice, teach Field

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Speaker 1: mannerisms all that lady missed me saying he was gonna

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Speaker 1: dressed like zero, So I thought it was my husband

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Speaker 1: at first. He laid me on the floor when he

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Speaker 1: your man's hands. And it got really freaking. The whole

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Speaker 1: not my husband. Hell yeah, because your husband don't do

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Speaker 1: off the chart stuff. But the other zoo this was

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Speaker 1: was at Hulu plus. You had zero plus. I knew

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Speaker 1: it wasn't my husband. He was just in there. Jack clowning.

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Speaker 1: He was who girl, but I did not stop him.

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Speaker 1: there taking it all in. Wait a minute, Wait a minute, now,

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Speaker 1: how big was this powder room? How your husband in

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Speaker 1: the room and you don't know it? Now? You didn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that man. Lady. He right. That was

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Speaker 1: don't know. He he don't know too. I know my

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Speaker 1: to do. Yeah, he didn't divorce you. He didn't tell

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Speaker 1: you he was disgusted with you. He just told you.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm sleeping with women. He don't care about you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sleeping with women. I don't know too. Wow, you

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Speaker 1: want me to bring something to the house and you

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Speaker 1: join in? Or what piece of meat slab a woman?

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Speaker 1: Am I right or wrong? Are you right about what

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Speaker 1: I think? My husband setting me up? You know good

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Speaker 1: in hair? Well, that wasn't your husband. Can't nobody set

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Speaker 1: you up like that. You're a woman. A woman, don't

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Speaker 1: I'm not easily aroused, y'all. Ain't y'all. Ain't y'all. Don't

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something freaking that. You laid you on

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Speaker 1: the floor. You went there like your husband, followed instruction.

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Speaker 1: Kia cruing it in junior. Yeah, I've been laying down

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