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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Drew is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Jess,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna see if we can help him out.

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Speaker 2: What's up, Drew? How are you?

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Speaker 3: Hey, guys, thanks for taking my car. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no problem, man.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I went on this first date with this girl, Jess.

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Speaker 4: You know, I met her recently and we went out,

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Speaker 4: and you know, she told me her she was into basketball.

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Speaker 4: You know, I'm into basketball, so you know, I wasn't

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Speaker 4: going to take her to the court on the first day.

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Speaker 3: That's much.

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Speaker 4: Well, what I did is I took her to an

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Speaker 4: arcade that had like you know, they had the basketball

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Speaker 4: hoops there that you can just like shoot, that's fine.

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Speaker 3: That we played that.

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Speaker 4: We played a bunch of other games, you know, air

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Speaker 4: hockey stuff like that. Ended up making it out by

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Speaker 4: the motorcycle game. You know, it's pretty cool.

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Speaker 2: Oh sweet, what happened?

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Speaker 3: Well, you know, everything was good.

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Speaker 4: We you know, end of the night with a few

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Speaker 4: beers and you know, some advertisers, some wings and stuff like.

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Speaker 3: That and I you know, in of the night, I

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Speaker 3: took her home, I walked her door door door. We

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Speaker 3: kissed a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit more, and I saw I had I thought we

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Speaker 4: had a great night.

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Speaker 3: She said she had a great night. I knew we

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Speaker 3: had a great night.

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Speaker 4: And so I was expecting a second date to come around.

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Speaker 3: But now, yeah, she's not returning my calls or my

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Speaker 3: text messages or anything that. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's been over a week, and I figured, you know,

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Speaker 4: did I do something wrong? Like I thought we were

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Speaker 4: having a great time, and now I'm feeling I'm getting

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Speaker 4: ghosted here?

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Speaker 5: Is there anything that could have happened during the date,

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Speaker 5: Like are you super competitive?

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Speaker 4: I mean I was like, you know, just joking around

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Speaker 4: and you know, like screaming air ball every time she

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Speaker 4: throw it. But that I mean at one point, you know,

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Speaker 4: when I was paying the bill, she I don't.

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Speaker 3: Know, called me out for leaving a big tip.

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Speaker 4: I don't I used to, you know, serving Barton when

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Speaker 4: I was in college. So you know, when people take

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Speaker 4: good care of me, I take good care of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: She dropped something like I tipped like thirty percent. She said,

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Speaker 4: you're just throwing away money. And though that line was

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Speaker 4: kind of weird to me, kind of off. But I

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Speaker 4: don't know if maybe she's a little conservative with her spendings,

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Speaker 4: but I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I take care of my own.

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Speaker 6: That wasn't a red flag to you. Yeah, wow, I.

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Speaker 4: Mean no, I didn't really see it that way, you know,

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Speaker 4: at the moment, I mean I just stopped, you know, Okay,

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Speaker 4: she was maybe a little more conservative, but I didn't

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Speaker 4: think anymore than that.

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Speaker 2: For people not get a call, to not get a

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Speaker 2: call back when they've been a terrible tip, yeah, not

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Speaker 2: for being a good tipper.

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Speaker 4: Like it's one thing that's stingy and another thing to

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Speaker 4: be over generous.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like I'm right somewhere in the middle.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 5: I hate to even jump to this conclusion, but the

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Speaker 5: only other thing that ever crosses my mind when you

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Speaker 5: hear about people that did make out on a date

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Speaker 5: and not get a call back, it's like, was something

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Speaker 5: there with the chemistry? Like are you just not a

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Speaker 5: good kisser? I know I've said that before, but I've never.

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Speaker 3: Gotten any complaints on my kissing style. And know, maybe

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Speaker 3: I had that brass or something. I don't know. I

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Speaker 3: don't know. I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: So did she talk to you well at all after

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Speaker 2: your date?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: That's the thing is that, like I haven't been in

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Speaker 4: touch with her since that one date, and which is,

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Speaker 4: like I said, so random and weird to me because

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Speaker 4: I thought we had something.

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Speaker 3: I thought there was a spark. I thought maybe I

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Speaker 3: thought there was chemistry.

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Speaker 2: How long has it been since you talked to her?

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Speaker 4: It's been like a it's like a week and a half,

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Speaker 4: I guess. I mean, if something did come up in

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Speaker 4: their life, I mean I kind of feel like she'd

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Speaker 4: have time to deal with it by now and at.

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Speaker 3: Least return a text or something. You know.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, how many times have you reached out to her?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I will text her in the morning, you know, just

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Speaker 4: you know, a little good morning text. No response, when

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Speaker 4: I know she's at work and I'm like, hope you're

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Speaker 4: having a good day at work. No response, and then

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Speaker 4: I'll call her, you know, at night, see if everything's fine.

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Speaker 3: Goes straight to void.

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Speaker 2: Drew, you're using like you're not using past tense words.

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Speaker 2: Are you still texting her that right now? Like a

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Speaker 2: week and a half later.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I've lightened up, but still shut it out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean been texting her every morning and calling her every night.

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Speaker 4: No, no, I'm not trying to be like creeper like that,

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Speaker 4: but you know it's kind of like, hey, thinking about you,

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Speaker 4: kind of shooting it out there, balls in your court,

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Speaker 3: Right right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, all right, good one. Well we'll try

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Speaker 2: to figure out for you man. We'll play a song

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Speaker 2: come back, and then call her and see if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you and get you another

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Speaker 2: date if you still want one with your first day

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: All right, play a song come back, get your first

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Speaker 2: day follow up, next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of your first day follow up

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Drew is on the phone,

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Speaker 2: and Drew might not be getting a call back because

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Speaker 2: he's a good tipper. I don't think that's the reason, Drew.

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Speaker 2: But we're about to call the woman that Drew went

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Speaker 2: on a date with named Jess and see why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and see if we can get him another date.

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Speaker 2: In just a second, but first Drew, refresh everybody's memory

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Speaker 2: about your date with Jess.

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Speaker 4: Well, I took her out to a little arcade. We

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Speaker 4: played a little hoops there. We had a great time.

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Speaker 4: I had some beers and food, did a little makeout.

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Speaker 4: Sish that we had a great time. And now I'm

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Speaker 2: About to call it right now? Anything else you want

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Speaker 2: to say before we do that, Drew.

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Speaker 3: I hope she has a good answer.

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Speaker 6: I hope so.

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Speaker 2: Too, he Drew. All right, I'm going to I'm going

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Speaker 2: to call her right out here we go. Hello, him,

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Speaker 2: I speaking to Jess. Please, This is she Jess. How

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Speaker 2: are you? This is my name is Jubil from a

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Speaker 2: radio show called The Jebel Show.

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Speaker 7: Hi Jess, I know your show. Hi guys, oh hell,

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Speaker 7: oh my god.

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Speaker 6: I love this enthusiasm. Jess. My name is Nina. I'm

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Speaker 6: the new one.

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Speaker 2: Jess. Thank you for listening to the show. Appreciate that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm so nervous.

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Speaker 6: Why are you?

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know the options. It could be a

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Speaker 2: first day follow up. Are you in a relationship and

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Speaker 2: cheating on someone or think that they might be cheating

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Speaker 2: on you? No, but I did go on a date,

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Speaker 2: so it is a first day follow up, Yes, you

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Speaker 7: I'm goasting him.

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Speaker 8: His name is Drew.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his name is Drew. We talked to Drew.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he's a nice guy. He's a really nice guy.

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Speaker 7: He went on a date. I had a really good time.

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Speaker 7: Id I really believed, and he's a really nice guy.

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Speaker 7: But you know, I, you know I could date him,

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Speaker 7: but right now I'm at the point where, you know,

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Speaker 7: I only want to date someone who's going to be

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Speaker 7: much fun as I had, I don't see him as

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Speaker 7: the husband. And I don't want to, you know, be

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Speaker 7: dating if it's not going to be the long term one.

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Speaker 6: But so what about him makes you feel like he

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Speaker 6: is not the one?

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Speaker 5: Because if he's so great you went on one date,

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Speaker 5: you obviously were attracted to him enough.

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Speaker 6: We heard you guys made out and stuff.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but you know, you have you have friends that

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Speaker 7: you love to death and they're wonderful, but you would

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Speaker 7: never marry them, you know. Sure, so he's one of those,

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Speaker 7: was a good kischer and all. But it didn't take me.

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Speaker 7: I don't know, it didn't hit me spiritually the place

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Speaker 2: So he kissed you like a date and not a husband.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: Well, you know a lot of people are good kiss

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Speaker 7: I mean, let's don't get me wrong. He was a

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Speaker 7: really nice guy, but he's not the one for me.

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Speaker 7: I could introduce him to somebody because he's a really

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Speaker 7: nice guy, he's not the one for me.

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Speaker 5: So, jess, are you going on a lot of these

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Speaker 5: first dates and just you know, having a great time

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Speaker 5: and figuring out that they're not the one?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean he has a formula, you know, yes, yes,

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Speaker 7: I mean you know I could waste his time his money.

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Speaker 7: I mean, oh, he was a great difference to you know,

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Speaker 8: Well, actually that's another thing.

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Speaker 9: I mean he like so we or kids, you know,

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Speaker 9: like thirty percent, and I'm looking for somebody who knows how.

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Speaker 8: To manage their money.

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Speaker 9: You know, my husband that's not going to like be

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Speaker 9: spending all the money stuff, you know when he's away

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Speaker 9: from me.

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Speaker 8: I mean that's that's a red flag.

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Speaker 2: So you want a husband who's gonna tip like a

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Speaker 2: standard eighteen to twenty percent, No, you.

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Speaker 9: Know, according to what's you know, but I mean thirty percent.

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Speaker 9: I mean it wasn't like I mean, Purvis, wasn't that amazing?

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Speaker 6: Jesus, She's like, tip, well just not too well.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well just thank you for your honesty, Thank you

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Speaker 2: for listening.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, thank you for calling me your show, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Are you forgetting something about the first ay follow up?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 8: Oh god, no, I don't want another day.

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Speaker 2: I remember that that part. I remember that part's coming up.

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Speaker 8: That part.

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Speaker 2: There's another part.

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Speaker 8: Though, Oh god, tru you on the phone.

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Speaker 2: Yes, Drew's on the phone.

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Speaker 7: Oh no, I forgot that's part of it.

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Speaker 8: Oh my goodness. Oh no.

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Speaker 7: When I'm listening, when I listen to the show, I'm

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Speaker 7: always like, oh, I hope.

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Speaker 8: You don't hear that. Oh god, I forgot. Well it was.

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Speaker 7: Nice, Drew.

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Speaker 8: I'll you find a wonderful person just right.

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Speaker 6: At least we're being honest now.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was quick though, to the point.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I say, wrote me off real quick there. Huh.

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Speaker 9: Well, you deserve somebody else, You deserve somebody else. I'm

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Speaker 8: I'm not the one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm trying to pick that up now.

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Speaker 8: Very perceptive.

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Speaker 6: How do you feel about just not feeling like you're

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Speaker 3: Like I could be hobby material.

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Speaker 8: I totally have a material like not for me, but

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Speaker 8: you could.

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Speaker 3: Had a good time. Was it because I gave too

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Speaker 3: much money to the server?

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Speaker 8: Or I mean, oh lord, that was that was something?

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Speaker 8: But you know, come on, guys, I mean we.

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Speaker 4: Have you know, I'm totally husband material though, I mean,

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Speaker 4: you just got to get to know me. You know,

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Speaker 4: I'm a nurture, I'm caring, I'm funny, I'm a good cook.

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Speaker 3: I'll let you beat me in basketball.

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Speaker 2: How are you a diy projects drew?

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Speaker 3: Everything I own is from Ikia, so I'm pretty good.

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Speaker 8: You guys think that was too quick, too rash. Do

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Speaker 8: you think maybe I should give him a break?

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Speaker 3: Well?

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Speaker 6: I think we were kind of leaning in that direction, Jess.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean I think it'd be very hard to

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Speaker 2: tell if somebody is potential long term boyfriend material or

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Speaker 2: a husband material after one date. I'm more interested that

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Speaker 2: it was Ikea that got you to kind of turn around.

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Speaker 4: You're like, oh hello, I mean that's how we had

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Speaker 4: a good first impression. But if I had to throw

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Speaker 4: in a second impression and then I'll be more than happy.

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Speaker 3: To.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you guys are dates. Hikea is a move.

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Speaker 8: I don't know. I don't know. Maybe we could go

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Speaker 2: I personally as a dude. I feel like Drew hearing

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Speaker 2: and I didn't want to get married at all. I'm

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Speaker 2: And if I was out with someone and I heard

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Speaker 2: I heard them say that, I'd be like, well cool,

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Speaker 2: I'm not your material. Definitely not because I didn't want

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Speaker 8: Okay, Julie as a dude, I heard your response, but

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Speaker 8: can I have it to age response?

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Speaker 6: I don't think a second date would be a bad thing.

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Speaker 3: I agree.

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Speaker 8: Okay, Well what if? What if I'm willing to do

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Speaker 8: one more we give it one more try? Should we

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Speaker 8: give it one more try?

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Speaker 2: Jess? Would you like to go out on another date

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Speaker 2: with Drew? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 8: Okay, that settles it. Let's go true, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, sweet, But this time, Jess, you can't go, so

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Speaker 5: you just have to straight up say I still don't

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Speaker 5: think you're my husband.

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Speaker 9: We can go, we'll have a great time, but I

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Speaker 9: won't marry you.

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Speaker 8: I still don't think you're my husband.

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Speaker 4: By little, little by little baby sets, baby SEFs, stay tuned, everybody.

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Speaker 2: No checking with us, and let us know. Jess, congratulations, Drew,

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Speaker 2: you got another date man.

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Speaker 3: Awesome, Thank you guys, that worked out well.

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