WEBVTT - Gavin a Good Time 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:04.360 This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:08.480 to grab and I heard radio podcast. Welcome to another 0:00:08.520 --> 0:00:10.920 episode of How Men Think. My name is brooks Like 0:00:11.080 --> 0:00:14.760 and wearing his patriotic hat to my left always. Mr 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:19.520 Gavin de Gros, you know you've got some amazing you know, 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:22.880 that's it. You know you're really riveting our audience. Thank 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:27.360 you bringing the house now with that knowledge, you're supposed 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:30.440 to understand that Brooks Um, yeah, I know. Um. He 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:33.839 surprises me every time on this show. I never know 0:00:33.920 --> 0:00:35.640 what I'm going to get from. Yeah, It's kind of 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:38.080 why I love doing the show. I never know what 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:42.479 I'm gonna get with myself either. For our listeners out there, 0:00:42.640 --> 0:00:45.080 this is what happens. The rest of us get a 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.560 like breakdown of what the episode is going to be about, 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:50.919 so our producer Amy will send us an email. This 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:53.720 is what the episode is about. Review this. Here's some questions. 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:55.360 What are your thoughts? Come in prepared a little bit 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:58.320 for it. We don't even send those to Gavin. It's true. 0:00:58.360 --> 0:01:04.480 I'm too busy playing single players. Yes, he doesn't even 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.080 get them. So he's off the cuff, which is how 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.240 we prefer. And I hope you guys enjoyed listening like that. 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:11.440 I would like to see you, like prepare one day 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.679 and see if it's just terrible or if you're actually 0:01:13.680 --> 0:01:15.720 better if you're prepared. Yeah, but what if I came 0:01:15.720 --> 0:01:19.120 in and I actually like some kind of scientists like Gav, 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:22.720 this sucks, man, You're way too ready for this. Yeah, 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.000 that's what I'd like to see. Where my pocket protector, 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:29.000 your peman, wearing my clinical lab coat, I could see 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.360 you doing that. I don't I get a chalk part 0:01:31.400 --> 0:01:33.560 up here. I could write out some equations of how 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:35.720 I think you'll answer certain questions and see how right 0:01:35.760 --> 0:01:37.600 I was. I'm gonna be honest. That doesn't sound like 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:42.640 a fun Gavin to me boring yea, so I say so. 0:01:42.880 --> 0:01:44.759 I agree the other boys that you here. We have 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:47.640 Dmitri in house with us. Dmitri is that brother? How 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:49.680 are you doing? Fantastic? We missed you in the last 0:01:49.680 --> 0:01:52.520 two episodes. This is your first new or first podcast 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:54.640 the new decade. Yeah, so coming out of the gate 0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:56.480 a little late, but I'm ready to go. Yeah, ready 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.440 and strong. And we also got we also got Rick 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:02.920 in studio. Top Rick. I want to acknowledge you always 0:02:03.000 --> 0:02:05.400 for flying down from Oakland. Hey, thank you. I actually 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:07.640 get the email, but I just don't read it. No damn, 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:09.360 by the way, so I'm kind of I'm kind of 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.920 flying off the handle tape. I'd take prepared Rick over 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.280 unprepared Rick. I think he wants to be like Gavin. 0:02:16.320 --> 0:02:18.120 Maybe he looks up to Gavin. He's like, damn, that 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:20.120 guy's cool. I want to try that. Can I say that? 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:23.320 I like? I like Rick's glasses with the white T shirt. 0:02:23.440 --> 0:02:26.200 It's looking like a little bit like scientists, an adult 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:32.920 version stand by me, the old school blackgroom glasses with 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.480 the T shirt. You know what I mean. I like it. 0:02:36.560 --> 0:02:40.000 You guys can't see it, but you just made Rick's day. 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:41.680 Our listeners can't see it. But well, if they go 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:43.680 to the Instagram, hopefully they'll post the photos. You know, 0:02:43.720 --> 0:02:46.079 who knows. But the reality is that I didn't want 0:02:46.080 --> 0:02:48.359 to pay the eight dollars for the WiFi on the Southwestlide. 0:02:48.800 --> 0:02:50.320 That's why I didn't get the email. So I don't know. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:54.519 It's unscripted. Perfect, it's perfect though. This this episode today 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.200 is unscripted. So today we're gonna have a lot of fun. 0:02:57.560 --> 0:03:00.520 We're doing Remember, like as a kid, you throw stuff 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:01.800 in a hat and you'd pull a draw out of 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:04.040 a hat, or if you still do it, we're doing 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:08.359 that with questions today. So we always said we started 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:10.320 this podcast, and we always said, our mission here is 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:14.040 to be real, unauthentic and genuine and open and vulnerable 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.280 all that kind of stuff. Uh. And so we piled 0:03:16.320 --> 0:03:18.960 together a bunch of listener questions that you guys have 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:21.800 sent in for us. Amy has chopped them all up, 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:23.880 put him in a hat, and we're gonna pull from 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:26.600 a hat, and Amy's gonna introduce us. But this is 0:03:26.600 --> 0:03:28.440 what we're gonna do. We want to answer your questions. 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.720 And I'm challenging all three of you, gentlemen, and Amy 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:35.880 you'll probably chime in on this too. Two really go 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:37.800 at this because our mission is to serve our listeners, 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.920 to serve our audience, UM, and to share how men 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:43.720 think and how we approach things. So I'm challenging all 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:46.960 of you guys want to level up this podcast. Gavin's 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:51.440 already laughing. Your buddy Joey's here, So if you don't 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.480 tell the honest story, we're gonna get Joey, because I 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:56.640 know Joey knows the real story. I agree with Brooks. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:04:01.920 You guys need to be more honest, more vulnerable, houlnerable, 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.800 tell us like it is, because sometimes I think you 0:04:06.800 --> 0:04:08.680 guys are a little bit too nice, a little bit 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:13.960 too vanilla, a little bit too safe. Bring it vanilla 0:04:14.040 --> 0:04:17.800 is a fine flavor. Favor. Is there an alternate hat 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.880 that also has all the answers that we could just 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:25.600 draw some random Okay, here's much. Here's what we did. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.400 Danielle Tory and I worked all week. We combiled questions 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:34.480 from Instagram, from listeners, from other women we know, and 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:38.680 we did extensive research into what do women want to know? 0:04:39.120 --> 0:04:40.640 And we put all of it into a hat. We 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:43.520 chopped it up. Here are the rules. You are not 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:47.200 allowed to pass. You cannot say pass. You cannot toss 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:50.280 the question back into the hat or avoid answering it. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:53.479 You must answer, and you must tell the truth. And 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:56.920 this game is called We have three options for what 0:04:56.960 --> 0:04:59.000 the title is of the game. You guys pick. It 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:02.480 can be called great Minds Think alike, get it like 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.599 like l A like how men think sure sure sure sure, 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.159 I like that double on tender, come to think of 0:05:08.200 --> 0:05:13.080 it for wishful thinking? What should we call this game. 0:05:13.240 --> 0:05:16.279 I like the first one. I feel like this is great. 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:20.720 Minds think alike, Well, okay, except we don't think alike though. 0:05:23.560 --> 0:05:25.880 How about here's how you burn down your own career 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:31.120 in forty minutes. About about g having a good time, 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:39.080 having a good time. Alright, we're gaving a good time tonight. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.440 That's pretty good, pretty good, Chuck, set the clock for 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:45.720 sixty minutes. This game is a sixty minute game. When 0:05:45.760 --> 0:05:47.800 it is sixty minutes, it is up, it is over, 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:51.240 and you are out of the studio. It's four sixteen, 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:57.880 it's four seventeen, it's four seventeen. At five seventeen. Can 0:05:57.920 --> 0:06:00.200 you put a window up of the outdoor so it 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:06.559 kind of like when king out? I will not chime 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.880 in too much, too much. Okay, here is question number one, 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:11.800 and then I'm going to pass the hat onto Brooks. 0:06:13.040 --> 0:06:21.920 The topic is crying. How do you feel when your 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:25.760 wife or partner cries? You understand it and want to help? 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:30.239 Question Mark, You wish it would stop? Question Mark, would 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:33.320 you prefer that she do that crying alone or with 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.880 her girlfriends? Or are you okay with being the shoulder 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:40.799 to cry on if it is not necessarily your fault? 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.960 Is it easier to help her with her tears? If 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:47.680 it is your fault, what do you do crying? I'm 0:06:47.720 --> 0:06:51.920 fine with, completely fine with like emotions. This is one 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.400 thing I've really learned in my life. Emotions are real, 0:06:54.560 --> 0:06:58.080 Like they are real things. And for us to judge 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:01.480 anybody else's emotions or what somebody else's going through, for 0:07:01.520 --> 0:07:04.400 them to cry and express, for them to be courageous 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.000 enough to express what they're going through, and and my 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.760 wife to do that, Like, yeah, I am. I am 0:07:09.800 --> 0:07:14.239 absolutely fine with crying and actually really improud to be 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.440 a person that she trusts to to move through something 0:07:17.480 --> 0:07:26.240 like that. With crying is a sign of great weakness, polarity, 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:32.160 polarity on this show. You know it crying it depends listen. 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.200 You know you want to be the shoulder to cry 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:38.040 on um, but also it depends. There's a lot of 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:39.720 it's not you don't want it's not like you don't 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:41.240 want to be the shoulder to crime, but also a 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:43.360 lot of it it's also you know, what is the 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:47.200 cause of the emotions? So what is the root of 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:53.560 that that sadness or or um that issue, And uh, 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:55.200 the one thing you don't want to be is the 0:07:55.720 --> 0:07:58.720 source of the crying, right, So it depends you know, 0:07:58.760 --> 0:08:01.400 if you're if you're the reason that they are crying, 0:08:02.080 --> 0:08:04.760 you know, then, um, that can be a really difficult 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:06.760 scenario to be and trying to work through the problems 0:08:06.760 --> 0:08:10.680 of relationship and this and that. Um. But there's so 0:08:10.720 --> 0:08:13.760 many different versions of what could cause somebody to have 0:08:13.800 --> 0:08:18.600 that that sort of emotional response. So yeah, you definitely 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:20.840 want to be able to be there for somebody in 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:25.720 that scenario. But sometimes, to be honest, sometimes the the 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:29.920 scenario can be actually very uncomfortable. Um. And so it 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:33.160 it really it happens to be. It's case specific, and 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.120 I think it can go a lot of different directions. 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:39.120 I think a lot of guys have a hard time 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:46.280 being around when are you a politician? You've talked for 0:08:46.280 --> 0:08:48.440 two minutes but haven't said one way or the other, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.320 Yes I have, Yes, I have, you're a politician. Yuys, 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:54.040 there's a whole hour I need to fill up here. 0:08:54.679 --> 0:09:00.199 This is called philibus. So so so here's the thing. 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:02.800 Here's the thing. A lot of guys have a hard 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:06.280 time being around when they're significant others starts crying and 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:09.440 they don't want to be there because they feel partially guilty, 0:09:09.520 --> 0:09:11.360 even if they're not the source of what it is. 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:13.440 They feel like they're not doing a good job helping. 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.600 And I think a lot of guys become overwhelmed with 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:19.680 that because a lot of guys, um men don't necessarily 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:24.000 have a propensity to demonstrate their ability to cry right, 0:09:24.520 --> 0:09:25.920 So a lot of times it's hard for them to 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:29.920 process someone else crying near them. Um And I think 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.480 a lot of men operate out of out of sort 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:35.319 of potential guilty scenario. And you're like, oh God, I 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:37.280 hope I didn't I hope I didn't cause this. You know, 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:39.920 I had a quick question. We probably want to move 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.200 on the next question, but I want to say or ask, 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.400 is like, do do chicks just go into the crying mode? 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:49.720 They're like, you know, like as like a defense mechanism 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:52.440 or like because sometimes that pisces me off. You know, 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:55.120 it's like you're in an argument, like and then all 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.040 of a sudden they go into cry mode. So like 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:00.760 they're becoming because yeah, it's like, you know, screw you, 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:03.760 like stop crying, like we're talking about you know, we're 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:06.599 in an argument, like get over it. Or sometimes it 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.600 come out of left field, big Hey, I'm thinking about 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:13.920 we should go get some dinner. Right now, you can 0:10:14.000 --> 0:10:18.120 walk out and go by yourself, Party one, Dmitri. Listen, 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:19.880 I don't like when people cry. I don't want to 0:10:19.880 --> 0:10:22.480 be the source of the crying. But depending on what 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:23.840 it is, I'll take it for a little while. But 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:25.920 to be honest, I have a little bit of a 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:27.560 fuse that where it's like, all right, well we've done 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:32.320 the crying, so now shut the up. The hammer comes 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:35.160 down from next question? All right, next question, I'm pulling 0:10:35.160 --> 0:10:37.120 this out of the hat. Oh, here we go, because 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:41.280 it's it's very timely Valentine's Day. Love it or dread it? 0:10:42.080 --> 0:10:43.880 Love it or dread it? I hate it to not 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:49.160 holiday from me. Wow, Gav says. The two married guys 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:57.520 have the eternal romantic, the eternal romantic Valentine's Day? Dread 0:10:57.559 --> 0:11:00.720 it could be either or man? Can this can be 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:03.600 an either or thing? Listen, depends if you're dating somebody 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.280 or not. It depends if if they're taking it more 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:08.800 seriously than you are. Right, there's a lot of other 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.439 options here. So it could be like, oh Valentine's Day, 0:11:11.440 --> 0:11:13.040 what are you talking about? It? Like we just met, 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:15.559 you know, what I mean, it's it's a chick holiday. 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:18.839 I mean, is there a dude holiday? I think it's 0:11:19.640 --> 0:11:22.200 I think I think it's a good diver a holiday. 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:28.199 Rick is throwing some heat. I love it. I think 0:11:28.280 --> 0:11:31.199 Valentine's Day was created by Hallmark and Good Diva. I 0:11:31.200 --> 0:11:33.960 think they got together, they had a giant meeting and 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:37.520 they were like, we gotta sell some cards, we gotta 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:41.160 sell some job. I don't I don't know why are 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.800 we being romantic because everyone else is being like, there's 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:46.280 nothing more uncomfortable than going to the restaurant and sitting 0:11:46.280 --> 0:11:47.600 there and everyone else is there and you have the 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:49.120 short menu. It's like, do you want to go to 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:50.840 a nice restaurant, go to a nice restaurant on a 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:53.679 different day, but to go out because it's Valentine's Day? 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:55.760 Everyone else is doing it. I feel like you're just 0:11:55.800 --> 0:11:59.040 going through the motions. I can't stand Valentine's I equally 0:11:59.120 --> 0:12:01.760 like it and believed rd it. I think it's fun. 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:03.520 It can be a fun event. It's fun to plan 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:06.880 something to surprise my wife with. But also then when 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:09.520 you're like right now, you're thinking like, oh man, I 0:12:09.559 --> 0:12:11.800 have no idea what I'm gonna do for Valentine's Day. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:15.080 It can be stressful and then if there's expectation with 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:17.760 it too as a dude, that's like, oh god, it 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:20.320 just puts heat on you. To me, to me, it's 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:24.280 an opportunity to wear my favorite teddy. Um, I think 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:28.200 next question, I can't wait to break that thing out 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:31.280 every year. I'm like, this one's got the fuzziness on it. 0:12:31.800 --> 0:12:34.560 The lady talking about Teddy Barry. I just want to 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:36.200 see if I could fit in it again, you know 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:38.920 what I mean? Like, look to this. I have another question. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:43.880 Let's rock that thing you are. You are given one 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:46.719 thousand dollars? What do you do with it? No one 0:12:46.840 --> 0:12:49.480 will ever know you received it, you won't be taxed 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:52.200 or judged. What do you truly want to do with it? 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.960 And be selfish if that's what you want to do, Okay, 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:56.560 go ahead, Dmitri you what do you want to do? 0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:01.199 Underground cash? Boom, hundred grand cash straight. I'd probably buy 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.920 a few gifts for myself. I buy some gifts for people, 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:09.040 Like what what give me a gift? Um? I don't know, 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.839 I mean, I probably you know what. I'd probably buy 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:12.920 a car. What kind of car? I don't know the 0:13:13.280 --> 0:13:18.480 one you drive, Tessa, Oh you have the S. I 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.760 gotta get the X because I've got four kids. Yeah, 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:24.439 do that. It's either get that or send them to college. 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:26.120 So I'm trying to I'm debating right now. But you 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:27.920 get to do whatever you That's what I'm saying. That's 0:13:27.920 --> 0:13:30.040 why I would get that. Yeah, I would. I would 0:13:30.040 --> 0:13:31.760 be a little selfish with it. I would also do 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:33.360 some nice stuff though. I would help some people that 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:37.240 don't have things for sure. Who knows, man, I mean, 0:13:37.320 --> 0:13:39.319 I definitely I like to give. I'd like to give 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:41.880 gifts to people, you know, or like buy dinners and 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:45.480 stuff like that. So I'd probably be uh kind of 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:48.960 long long those lines, you know. I'd like to pay 0:13:49.000 --> 0:13:51.040 for people's dinners and stuff like that. What about like, 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:54.520 what about a way goose steak for the boys here? Oh? Yeah, 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:56.840 that'd be nice. I'd like to buy stuff from my 0:13:56.880 --> 0:14:01.720 friends Ricky, rick I can't believe he's talking about you 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:05.560 like that, right, So Brooks and I get steaks then, right? 0:14:05.960 --> 0:14:10.160 It's just terrible. Um, this is this is probably the lamest, 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.960 most boring answer. I would invest it, and I would 0:14:13.000 --> 0:14:15.280 just watch that baby grow. I tuck that thing away 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:19.000 and what Rick's making some code here. I have no 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:24.320 idea what it is you need to donate that to Ryan? Oh? 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:28.840 I mean Ryan doesn't get any But what I would 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:30.800 do as I would invest it and then I would 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:34.000 text Bryan how much it goes up each month? You 0:14:34.000 --> 0:14:35.760 know what? You know what? You know? What it might 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:38.120 be a thing to do, like put that money aside 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:40.600 and like when you have kids, you put it aside 0:14:40.640 --> 0:14:42.760 and say, look, I'm gonna either pay for college. I'm 0:14:42.760 --> 0:14:45.680 going to give you all the money for college. I 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:50.080 would not even say college. I think, in all honesty, 0:14:50.200 --> 0:14:52.520 Hunter grant isn't a whole lot. Like it's gonna go 0:14:52.640 --> 0:14:57.080 pretty fast. You start buying a few watches, you Rick, 0:14:57.160 --> 0:14:59.320 what's you doing with your money? Give us, give us something. 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:02.880 What's you're doing with a Hunter ground cash? I think 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:05.960 I would save half of it. This is kind of 0:15:05.960 --> 0:15:07.320 the story of my life. I'd save half of it 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.760 and then I'd go and spend the other half Trusted 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:20.160 Speedo nice yeah one. All the cross all right? As 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:23.000 it crusted my opportunity when I hate reading in public? 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:31.120 How do you like your eggs frozen? So sorry, that's 0:15:31.120 --> 0:15:34.800 for you. Gavin you're running out to get his breakfast. Uh. 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:38.600 Anybody want to answer this for me? Let me ask Brooks, 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:41.360 how do you like your eggs? Traditionally scrambled? But like 0:15:41.400 --> 0:15:43.680 the last two months, I've switched to easy over because 0:15:43.720 --> 0:15:46.080 I scrambled my entire life and something I just want 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:47.800 to try to feel like I'm gonna get crazy. Yeah, 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.320 I'm going wild with some easy overs? Is it because 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:56.920 you like you risk hurt over? Easy to it? And 0:15:56.960 --> 0:16:00.560 I don't. I don't cook sounds like some some fishing 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:06.600 gear like fans, And when I don't know, I don't 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.480 think I can cook them that way. That's why I 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.200 just scrambled eggs because I'm not a very good cooking 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:11.720 I just I'm not a good push them around. And 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.120 I had some scrambled eggs today. But when I eat 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:16.600 it like a restaurant, Yeah, I want the easy over 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:20.520 easy over easies. I go scramble if I'm in a 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:22.880 short if I don't have much time. If I have time, 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:25.600 I go poached. I love poached eggs and I like 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.480 cooking them. There's a whole science too. You gotta spin 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:29.720 the water, you gotta throw a little vinegar in there, 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:31.520 and then you gotta watch them and time it and 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:35.160 poke them and looking forward to science, looking forward a 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:38.080 brunch of your science. I know how you did in 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:41.680 school over easy. It's a very bougie answer. I like 0:16:41.800 --> 0:16:46.920 my eggs over medium, very specific. Did you say? Rick's 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:48.840 answer was bougie? The same guy that said, you know, 0:16:48.840 --> 0:16:50.720 a hundred grand isn't a lot of guys. I like 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:54.080 my eggs poached. But I mean those are all pretty 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:57.480 fundamental answers. Does anybody here not prefer like waves rancheros 0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.360 because those are pretty damn good. Okay, yeah, but it 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:03.800 didn't take it said, yeah, okay, you're right. Rick got 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:07.120 a question. Everybody kept it real simple. We're like, let's 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.320 it was a question about because I wasn't gonna go 0:17:10.359 --> 0:17:14.160 super deep on it. Okay, next question, How happy are 0:17:14.200 --> 0:17:17.280 you on a scale of one to ten? One reason 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:20.080 why you were, why you are where you are on 0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:24.159 the scale. How happy are you on a scale of 0:17:24.160 --> 0:17:28.680 one to ten? Go Rick, I mean this second, let's 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:31.280 see happy. Actually, you know what, going into this year, 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:33.560 I've been really happy. I've been I'd probably give myself 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:35.760 about a seven. Okay, here's here's the rule for this. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:37.920 You cannot on a one to ten scale. There's a 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:40.600 rule for anything on a one, you can't pick a 0:17:40.640 --> 0:17:43.680 seven because six is like everybody goes seven, it's a 0:17:43.720 --> 0:17:45.880 safe play. Six is like, oh, I'm not doing so good. 0:17:45.920 --> 0:17:49.160 Eight I'm doing really good. The safe spot, the safe play, 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:52.080 the vanilla play is a seven. Sevens are out. You 0:17:52.160 --> 0:17:56.280 cannot pick a seven. So I on a scale from yes, 0:17:57.200 --> 0:18:02.520 come on no sevens rick m that makes that makes 0:18:02.560 --> 0:18:05.280 eight the new seventh. I found it interesting that he said, 0:18:05.280 --> 0:18:08.200 I'm really I've been really happy. A seven Like seven 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:10.680 doesn't sound that's not a tent. A ten is like perfect. 0:18:10.720 --> 0:18:15.399 I mean, I don't know. Uh, I don't know. Screw 0:18:15.440 --> 0:18:21.680 you Brooks. Are you he was really happy until you 0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.760 brought I've gone down to a four and a half. 0:18:25.000 --> 0:18:27.360 So okay, I'll go at this. I would say right now, 0:18:27.720 --> 0:18:33.040 I would be an eight point five. Um, I can't 0:18:33.040 --> 0:18:37.040 do eight point five. New rule, okay, eight, fine, whatever, 0:18:37.200 --> 0:18:38.560 eight point five you don't want to go over. It's 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:41.280 like the prices right. Um. Here's the thing. I loved 0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:43.360 the turn of the new year. I love the turn 0:18:43.400 --> 0:18:45.879 of the new decade. Um in my life, there's a 0:18:45.920 --> 0:18:49.040 lot of things I'm really working towards and and things. 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:52.080 I'm I want to step into a new stage in 0:18:52.119 --> 0:18:54.960 my life. I'm trying this year. I'm really excited about 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:57.840 retiring from hockey and that there's a lot of culture 0:18:57.840 --> 0:18:59.880 and conditioning that came with it that I want to get. 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:02.359 I want to let go, not get rid of because 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:03.480 it's a part of me, but I want to let 0:19:03.520 --> 0:19:05.920 go of some of that stuff. And so I've never 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:09.520 really had a New Year's because most days, or most years, 0:19:09.560 --> 0:19:12.080 we would play at twelve thirty at like at noon 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:14.919 on New Year's Day, so we'd be sleeping the night 0:19:14.960 --> 0:19:16.520 before because we have a game at new like the 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:18.720 Winter Classic. Yeah, we'd play it the next day, so 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:20.919 big massive game. We wouldn't get New Years. So this 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:22.800 is like the first year that I got to do 0:19:22.960 --> 0:19:26.040 New Year's and really have like an excitement and a 0:19:26.080 --> 0:19:28.960 Hope movie and a new decade and stuff and so um, 0:19:29.000 --> 0:19:30.800 I would say, like I'm an eight, there's things in 0:19:30.800 --> 0:19:32.439 my life I really want to improve and work on, 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:36.240 but like I love my life, and there's good days 0:19:36.240 --> 0:19:39.520 and there's bad, but I love my life. That's good. 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:44.639 Good answer, you buddy, good answer. I'm like in the 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:53.480 nine nine five place I feel because I damn, that's 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:57.600 I feel really good, just plummeting over here. If you 0:19:57.600 --> 0:20:02.000 guys are that high, I'm screwed, single man. I mean, 0:20:02.960 --> 0:20:05.200 if you're under a nine and a half, you're doing something. 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:08.359 When he said seven, I was like, I'm duncan on 0:20:08.400 --> 0:20:14.600 this right now. The I just feel really good. I 0:20:14.640 --> 0:20:17.560 feel like, you know, like, I just feel like good 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:21.960 things are happening, good things are coming. And um, uh, 0:20:22.440 --> 0:20:26.160 you know, maybe it's over maybe I'm over confident about 0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:30.760 about um, about where where I'm at in my in 0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:34.560 my world, in my life. But I think I just 0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:36.320 have a lot of hope, you know what I mean. 0:20:36.400 --> 0:20:40.240 I don't know if that's if that's turned into overconfidence 0:20:40.280 --> 0:20:43.199 or I just feel very hopeful, you know, UM, And 0:20:43.240 --> 0:20:46.400 I feel like things are going in a really good direction. 0:20:46.440 --> 0:20:49.639 I feel like, UM, over the course of the last 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:54.560 two to three years, two and a half three years, 0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:59.679 I got through a lot of difficult things and UM, 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:05.280 and so it gave me perspective and um, it's been emotional, 0:21:05.640 --> 0:21:09.800 but but it having gone through a lot of difficult times, 0:21:10.320 --> 0:21:12.720 I can reflect on where I'm at now as compared 0:21:12.760 --> 0:21:16.919 to those times, and it gave me a new barometer 0:21:17.440 --> 0:21:20.679 on what it means and what that scale means, because 0:21:21.320 --> 0:21:25.960 in my in the darkest depths, they were definitely way 0:21:25.960 --> 0:21:29.840 below four, you know what I mean. And um so 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:32.200 I know what that is. I've been and I have 0:21:32.359 --> 0:21:36.919 been way below for and so that's why I feel 0:21:36.960 --> 0:21:39.760 like where I'm at now is certainly more in the 0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:43.680