WEBVTT - Catching Up on a Few Things…

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, folks, it feels like it's been a while.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a lot we want to say and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot we want to share with you right now in

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<v Speaker 1>this episode of Amy and TJ, including the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>Roboc and I have been living together full time as

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<v Speaker 1>of two weeks ago. It was not by choice. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't usually respond to headlines related to us, but

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<v Speaker 1>today we need to clear up some bs that's been

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<v Speaker 1>attributed to us. Also, as many as you know, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been training five months for a marathon that's in two

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<v Speaker 1>weeks now. Only one of the two of us might

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<v Speaker 1>end up running that marathon. Also, I am getting my

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<v Speaker 1>it's just an honor to be nominated speech ready in

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<v Speaker 1>anticipation of a humiliating defeat I'm going to suffer at

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<v Speaker 1>the hands of Taylor Swift's boyfriend. Plus in this episode,

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<v Speaker 1>in the past few weeks, we've launched two more episode,

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<v Speaker 1>two more podcasts. We've been really busy. Also, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to invite you to come to see us live on

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<v Speaker 1>stage in Chicago. And finally, I quite literally tossed Robes

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<v Speaker 1>into the arms of another man. But I had a

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<v Speaker 1>very good and a very scary reason for doing so,

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<v Speaker 1>And with that everybody welcome. What are you giggling about?

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<v Speaker 2>Ro because I love so I don't know what your

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<v Speaker 2>intro is before you do it. And the last one

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<v Speaker 2>threw me for a second and I thought he did what?

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<v Speaker 2>And then I laughed because I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, speaking of throwing you, I did literally throw you.

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<v Speaker 1>We will get into that, but that was It was

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<v Speaker 1>scary for a moment there. We laugh about it now,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was a life lesson in a lot of ways.

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<v Speaker 2>It was, and it actually had us re evaluating our

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<v Speaker 2>own lives afterwards. That's absolutely the truth. Where you'd think

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<v Speaker 2>you go through enough of life and enough things happened

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<v Speaker 2>that you've you've gotten some good perspective, but man it

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes it just takes a millisecond and new perspective is

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<v Speaker 2>immediately gleaned.

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<v Speaker 1>We got it that. We went from Skinny Wagarita's doche

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<v Speaker 1>and about us split second. So I'll tell you all

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but I want to add we have our

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<v Speaker 1>super producers in the room, Andy and Emma Animal by

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<v Speaker 1>Def Leppard. Do you all know the song They're Youngsters

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<v Speaker 1>Me and Bobby McGhee by Janis Joplin. You'll know that one. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a yes. To Andy. Emma is a no California

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<v Speaker 1>love by Tupac Shakur. Do you all know that song? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Emma California done? Okay, I bring those up for what reason? Robot?

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<v Speaker 1>We've had a very difficult cultural back and forth in

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<v Speaker 1>the last few.

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<v Speaker 3>Weeks, last few weeks, how about the last ten years?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Yeah, maybe I can't.

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<v Speaker 2>Believe you don't know songs. You can't believe I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know songs. Yes, So I guess we'll start with Animal

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<v Speaker 2>right because we went to go see Finally Speak No Evil,

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<v Speaker 2>so good the twenty twenty four rendition and I and

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<v Speaker 2>we both loved the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>But can we give James McAvoy some James boy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think deserves an Oscar nomination for his portrayal. It

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<v Speaker 2>was creepy and perfect and evil and likable all in one.

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<v Speaker 3>He was a charismatic, scary person, right, but.

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<v Speaker 1>He creeps you out the whole time. You were uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>even though there wasn't horror and gore. You were uncomfortable

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<v Speaker 1>for so much of that movie, and he carries it

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<v Speaker 1>in a way. Look, the reviews weren't great, so we

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<v Speaker 1>even questioned whether or not you've been wanting to go

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<v Speaker 1>for weeks. We finally go. He nailed it. But a

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<v Speaker 1>song comes on in the beginning and you lose your mind,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm looking around, like, why these white people getting

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<v Speaker 1>excited in the theater.

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<v Speaker 2>Death Leopard was the first concert I went to. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a huge deaf Leopard fan. And they start out the

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<v Speaker 2>movie playing animal and you looked at me and you said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know this song?

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<v Speaker 3>And I looked at you and said, you don't know

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<v Speaker 3>this song.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually think if y'all heard it, you would say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I know that song, and we can't play it for

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<v Speaker 2>you know, royalties and all the reasons why we can

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<v Speaker 2>never play. But I'm telling you check it out. Really

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<v Speaker 2>don't necessarily know the name of it. If you've listened

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<v Speaker 2>to it, I bet you most.

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<v Speaker 1>People will know that song all right. And me and

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<v Speaker 1>Bobby McGhee, oh classic. No, we're talking about this now

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<v Speaker 1>because we just got word. We're recording this after hearing

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<v Speaker 1>just Chris Christofferson passed away at the age of eighty eight,

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<v Speaker 1>and he actually wrote that song. I was listening to

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<v Speaker 1>it this morning. I went through the whole thing. I

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting on a chorus, a line and did nothing

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<v Speaker 1>sound to familiar.

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<v Speaker 2>Da da da da Da Da da d It's so

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<v Speaker 2>funny because I said, well, wait, have you heard it?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I in my mind you just don't know this title.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, no, I listened to the whole thing first

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<v Speaker 2>time I ever heard it in my life, which close

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<v Speaker 2>my mind.

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<v Speaker 1>Apa.

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<v Speaker 2>My daughter actually sang that one time at one of

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<v Speaker 2>her concerts, so you know, maybe she'll sing it again.

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<v Speaker 1>I missed that concert, but there.

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<v Speaker 2>Was another one coming up this Thursday.

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<v Speaker 1>So but it held this. We have a long lived

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<v Speaker 1>and to the point we wanted to do an episode

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<v Speaker 1>strictly on music. And you are blown away when I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you I have never heard a song before, to

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<v Speaker 1>the point that I said to you, okay, you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know California Love by Tupac. Nope, as shocked as you

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<v Speaker 1>were about these other That's how shocked I was about

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<v Speaker 1>you not knowing that song Tupac. And there's tons more.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't think of them now we have a list

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<v Speaker 1>of them. But that was mind blowing. But that was

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<v Speaker 1>Hilarious's always funny, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It continues, like I guarantee you next week we'll have

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<v Speaker 2>more songs. And we can't believe the other one's never

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<v Speaker 2>heard before.

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<v Speaker 1>But we have been Look, we have been extremely It

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<v Speaker 1>has been a crazy busy summer. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>we've had a chance or a podcast to just to

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<v Speaker 1>do kind of a debrief, but we have had an

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<v Speaker 1>incredible fun summer. Kids been busy, We have been busy,

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<v Speaker 1>we have been traveling, and in the past few weeks

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<v Speaker 1>here we haven't even got a chance. On this regular

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<v Speaker 1>episode of Amy and TJ got to talk about the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that we just launched two more podcasts in the

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<v Speaker 1>past couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing. I think the last time we did a

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<v Speaker 2>debrief was when we were wrapping up Rome and we

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<v Speaker 2>did it in a rivaderci and.

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<v Speaker 1>That was fun.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think that's the last time we've actually sat

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<v Speaker 2>down and kind of gone over what's been happening in

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<v Speaker 2>our lives. And yes, so much has been happening that

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<v Speaker 2>we haven't had a chance to do. So Yeah to podcast. First,

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<v Speaker 2>we launched our daily podcast called Morning Run, and we're

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<v Speaker 2>now on our third week of doing it and we're

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<v Speaker 2>getting into the groove. We're still for those of you

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<v Speaker 2>who've been listening, thank you, and we're tweaking it. We're

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<v Speaker 2>listening back and thinking what we can do differently or better.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I would actually encourage anybody to jump on

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<v Speaker 2>our Instagram and let us know if you have any suggestions.

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<v Speaker 1>We mean that really you really would like to hear what.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to know. We're trying to give you all

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<v Speaker 2>a sense of what's happening and what has happened, and

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of our spin on it, but really

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<v Speaker 2>just get you up to date. So when you're walking

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<v Speaker 2>into your place of work or you're on your run, whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>you feel like you've got a good sense of what's going.

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<v Speaker 3>On in the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Quick, easy and entertaining is what we're going for. But

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<v Speaker 1>that has been it has caused us. I again, we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to get the schedule a little better, but we are.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been getting up at three in the morning, some

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<v Speaker 1>of us later than others to get it all raided

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<v Speaker 1>to rock. And we have been recording that thing essentially

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<v Speaker 1>from the dining table or from the bed, or from

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<v Speaker 1>the couch or from whatever at the house very early

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Five am is when we record it, right.

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<v Speaker 2>And we're used to look, this is not this is

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<v Speaker 2>something is in our wheelhouse. We actually love and have

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<v Speaker 2>missed being a part of the headlines and having a

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<v Speaker 2>real a good sense of what's happening in the world.

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<v Speaker 2>But we were used to having a staff, a quite

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<v Speaker 2>large one, and so now it's just the two of us,

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<v Speaker 2>and so we have had to This is a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of work, and we're excited about it, but it's we're

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<v Speaker 2>wearing a lot of hats.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but at the same time, we are getting the

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<v Speaker 1>freedom to be how sometimes we were asked not to

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<v Speaker 1>be or to back it off a little bit. This

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<v Speaker 1>is not we're not giving opinions, but we are still

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<v Speaker 1>able to give perspective on in context to things that

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't able to do so necessarily in previous jobs

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<v Speaker 1>we've had. And we're able to do it fairly quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>This is not like we need so many and it's

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<v Speaker 1>or an hour to explain the story. It's boom boom boom.

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<v Speaker 1>And it again, to be in the daily news business,

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<v Speaker 1>quite frankly, is exciting to us. And so yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate folks have been checking it out so far.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you know, I was gonna say it very much

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<v Speaker 2>is and I think one of the cool things that

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<v Speaker 2>we're kind of getting our head around now is look,

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<v Speaker 2>media bias exists. Everyone comes into any sort of story

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<v Speaker 2>with an opinion or an experience. But I have always

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<v Speaker 2>said we all have tried to be as objective as possible.

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<v Speaker 2>The problem is when you choose what to cover. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's where a lot of bias takes place, where

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<v Speaker 2>you know what you don't cover what you do cover.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's been pretty cool for us to be able

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<v Speaker 2>to make our own rundowns, decide what we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about and what we're not going to talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>And the other podcast, the second one, which has been fun,

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<v Speaker 1>I do part two. Now, this is one where I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it kind of it's right there in the title

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<v Speaker 1>right what it's about. But it's for folks who haven't

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get it right the first time with the didn't

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<v Speaker 1>marry a high school or a college sweetheart thing, worked

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<v Speaker 1>out the pick of fence and the dog and the

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<v Speaker 1>two kids, and it doesn't look like maybe on your

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<v Speaker 1>second marriage, maybe on your third marriage, maybe you had

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<v Speaker 1>some difficulties, and most people have. But this is a

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<v Speaker 1>place in Broges. Please help me with the explanation. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we are going to with the help of a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of other hosts help people find love.

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<v Speaker 2>We are we're doing that, and everyone who is a

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<v Speaker 2>part of this podcast has been down that road or

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<v Speaker 2>is currently walking down that road. So it's called I

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<v Speaker 2>Do Part two, but for some of us it's Part three,

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<v Speaker 2>Part four. You get the point. But we're all in

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<v Speaker 2>it together. And in addition to having our hosts, we

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<v Speaker 2>also have some celebrity mentors. I believe is what we've

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<v Speaker 2>landed on. It was either a.

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<v Speaker 3>Celebrity coach but who's also looking for love.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we have asked listeners to call in, to

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<v Speaker 2>write in, to email in and see if you'd like

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<v Speaker 2>us to help guide you on your journey to find

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<v Speaker 2>the one.

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<v Speaker 1>No, well, not us in particular necessarily. We do have

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<v Speaker 1>some professionals, if you will, I say professional in that

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<v Speaker 1>they have experience in this, and we are the hosts.

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<v Speaker 1>Jenna Kramer and Jenny Garth. Jenny Garth both have their

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<v Speaker 1>own life experiences and they didn't everything wasn't pretty and

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<v Speaker 1>with a bou the first time around, so we are

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<v Speaker 1>all in that position. Jenna Kramer is the other the

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<v Speaker 1>love this girl. She's We've gotten to know her a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit and this is this is a compliment when

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<v Speaker 1>I say that she's nuts and right, she's just my

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<v Speaker 1>kind of crazy. She's just I love this girl.

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<v Speaker 2>In the best way. Posy who wants a boring person

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<v Speaker 2>to host a show with be friends with? I mean, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we're all in this. We're all we're all nuts, Let's

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<v Speaker 2>be honest, We're all certifiable.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's why it's working. And but one of our

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<v Speaker 1>first that we had on our first.

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<v Speaker 3>Celebrity Coaches Celebrity Mentor Mentor.

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<v Speaker 1>We had to be introduced to Kelly beIN Simon from the.

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<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives of New York of New.

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<v Speaker 1>York My only my first introduction to her was watching

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<v Speaker 1>the show and watching what was the wet episode, the

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<v Speaker 1>scary Island episode Island. That was the first exposure I

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<v Speaker 1>ever had to Kelly ben Simone. So if you have

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<v Speaker 1>seen that, you would know she's out of her mind. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just in that episode.

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<v Speaker 2>I would just say she says she didn't have a filter.

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<v Speaker 2>That might be the best way to put it, which is,

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<v Speaker 2>I actually appreciate people who don't have filters because you

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<v Speaker 2>know exactly where you stand, and you know exactly where

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<v Speaker 2>you stand with Kelly, and I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 1>I need filters. I need filters, But what I say,

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<v Speaker 1>I set it up that way to say this. She

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<v Speaker 1>came in here in the studio, she was the most pleasant,

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<v Speaker 1>the light. We had such a good time with her,

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<v Speaker 1>and we will see her again socially, and so she's

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<v Speaker 1>just I just to see the show and to have

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<v Speaker 1>that exposure to her that way the first time. You wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course you're going to come to some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>conclusion about her or have some opinion. And then she

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<v Speaker 1>walks in here, and we've been around enough people. We

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<v Speaker 1>weren't being fool she wasn't putting on for us. She

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<v Speaker 1>was being herself, and it was in such contrast necessarily

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<v Speaker 1>to what we saw, and so I appreciated and enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>the time we got with.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she came in and said, Yeah, I get paid

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<v Speaker 2>to speak my mind. I get paid to sometimes be

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<v Speaker 2>the mean girl. I've made a lot of money doing

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<v Speaker 2>what they want from me, and so I am always myself,

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<v Speaker 2>but I know exactly why I'm there and what I'm delivering.

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<v Speaker 2>So I appreciated the real speak.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's going to be a part of But that

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<v Speaker 1>has been fun as well. That's something that's necessarily we

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<v Speaker 1>would normally be doing or think to do something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>But it is it's in our wheelhouse to a certain degree,

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<v Speaker 1>being open about where are your relationships and the mistakes

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<v Speaker 1>you've made, and how it's been and it hasn't been easy,

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<v Speaker 1>and where you are now and finding love and getting

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<v Speaker 1>it right later in life, all those things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and so I think, and hopefully the goal is

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<v Speaker 2>that other folks out there who have been in that

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<v Speaker 2>exact same position. You don't have to have had your

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<v Speaker 2>relationship woes splashed in headlines to still feel the pain

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<v Speaker 2>and feel the frustration of not getting it right. So yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we hope that you all, or at least some of

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<v Speaker 2>you listeners out there, will join in on the fun

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<v Speaker 2>and up your hearts to possibly you know, I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 2>we can have some pretty awesome matchmaking going on. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>there could be a wedding or two.

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<v Speaker 1>You want that responsibility, you want that you want, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to love it, but I take it on. But

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<v Speaker 1>do you want it? But it has to work out.

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<v Speaker 1>If things don't worry out, you will feel bad that

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<v Speaker 1>you put these people you try. Well, there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You said this early on the train. Actually here you

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<v Speaker 1>said that I was like, wow, that's a very good

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<v Speaker 1>point about where we were a year, a year and

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<v Speaker 1>a half ago, thinking the world at end. It will

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<v Speaker 1>never everybody hates us, we'll never be able to work again.

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<v Speaker 1>We're hiding out in our apartments and to the point,

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<v Speaker 1>we are so busy right now that we can't. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we're barely above water without busy. And look we did

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<v Speaker 1>we started up a production company together, which has been

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<v Speaker 1>a part of putting the original podcast together and the

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<v Speaker 1>other podcasts together. But now we're starting to take meetings

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<v Speaker 1>and develop project and be active with that now. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's to your point, Babe, you said it. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>to everybody out there, you think it's the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the world, and it's just not. You got to get

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<v Speaker 1>through whatever storm you're going through.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you live enough life you will get stuck

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<v Speaker 2>at some point, and it doesn't have to be as

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<v Speaker 2>dramatic necessarily as what happened with us. And please God,

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<v Speaker 2>yes I never wish that upon anybody. But it's always

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<v Speaker 2>this moment where you get this perspective and a year,

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<v Speaker 2>a year and a half, two years of pass and

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<v Speaker 2>you think, where was I even a year ago? And

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<v Speaker 2>look where I am now, and it's always just a

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<v Speaker 2>good reminder to know that you're not going to stay stuck.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to get better. Things are going to change.

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<v Speaker 2>Change is inevitable, and that's a good thing when you're stuck.

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<v Speaker 2>So yes, I was just thinking about a year ago.

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<v Speaker 2>We were not going out socially, we were not feeling

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable being out and about. We were just getting back

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<v Speaker 2>on social media and a little scared, not a little scared,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot scared to get back out in the public.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I just say, a year later, Wow, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so happy to be this busy. I'm grateful to be busy,

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<v Speaker 2>and we have a heck of a fall lined up

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm genuinely excited about it, like so excited.

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<v Speaker 1>We will be you folks in Athens. We will be

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<v Speaker 1>on the University of Georgia campus this weekend for a

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<v Speaker 1>game at Robox, alma mater of folks in Fayeville. We

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<v Speaker 1>will both see you there soon as well. We plan

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<v Speaker 1>to be recording to podcasts, a podcasts from each of

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<v Speaker 1>our respective campuses. That's fun. In between, there is a

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<v Speaker 1>marathon we are going to be heading to Chicago to run,

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<v Speaker 1>and then also in October maybe the most meaningful trip

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<v Speaker 1>we are all going is that the end of October.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, right, see end of October.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. We are all piling up in hen to Spain.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, TJ, my oldest daughter, Ava, and me all heading

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<v Speaker 2>to Sabilla Seville. And honestly, I'm so excited because I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to push TJ in this direction because it violates,

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<v Speaker 2>it breaks some of his travel rules that he has

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<v Speaker 2>put in place. So there is no direct flight, there's

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<v Speaker 2>a long ass layover, and it's going to be a

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<v Speaker 2>full day of travel. We aren't changing rooms when we

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<v Speaker 2>get there. But it's a quick trip, but it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be a fun one. And I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>say thank you for bending bending your rules.

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<v Speaker 1>All this is all analyse. I assure you, if we

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<v Speaker 1>were going to see Ava, this wouldn't be happening. I'm kidding, Ava,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding, Ava, I'm kidding. Okay, just a joke.

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<v Speaker 2>She's happy to be along for the ride. She's fine,

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<v Speaker 2>She's not going to complain at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of Ava, Ava is the reason that Robike and

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<v Speaker 1>I are living together. We have been a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people have been asking for a while about our living situation.

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<v Speaker 2>We have.

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<v Speaker 1>Our respective apartments are easily vocable, so we go back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth all the time. But we're together every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>every single night, essentially living together. Yes, okay, but now

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<v Speaker 1>it's beneficial for the last.

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<v Speaker 2>Few weeks it has indeed, because Ava has an apartment

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<v Speaker 2>in the village and it's a little grungy, but it

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<v Speaker 2>should be. It's her first apartment, and it's a sixth

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<v Speaker 2>floor walk up, and it's an old building. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it has a massive roach infestation, like a massive roach

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<v Speaker 2>infestation that we have been trying to battle. I've been

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<v Speaker 2>trying to help her out. We've gotten exterminators multiple times.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how many raid camps. Raid cans have

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<v Speaker 2>been purchased. We've got roach motels all over the place.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a small, small apartment if you can just envision this,

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<v Speaker 2>but still she comes in every day. There are dozens

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<v Speaker 2>and dozens of roaches in the roach motel every day,

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<v Speaker 2>and live ones in her bed, et cetera. Anyway, she

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<v Speaker 2>has a hoarter living next door. Guys, if you don't

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<v Speaker 2>know about the squatters, he hasn't played paid rent in

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<v Speaker 2>six years and they can't get him out of the apartment.

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<v Speaker 2>New York City is insane with their squatter laws, and

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<v Speaker 2>they have more rights than people who actually are on

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<v Speaker 2>the lease.

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<v Speaker 3>He's not on the lease.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess he got the apartment from his aunt who died,

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<v Speaker 2>and now they can't get him out and he is

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<v Speaker 2>a hoarder.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's a true story about New York laws. Here

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<v Speaker 1>it's if you don't know, go to Netflix and what

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<v Speaker 1>was it? Worst Roommate Ever is a series and there's

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<v Speaker 1>one in there about a squad and explains the laws

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<v Speaker 1>in New York. You cannot get a squatter out. It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost impossible. So what they're dealing with now is the

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<v Speaker 1>building is not a terrible building. They just have a

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<v Speaker 1>terrible neighbor who is hoarding things. And to the point,

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<v Speaker 1>it is so disgusting that you can see, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not exaggerating, almost armies of roaches making their way from

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment over to hers. It's that bad.

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<v Speaker 2>They can see the roaches coming underneath, and they've tried

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<v Speaker 2>to stop the door, but they can see them coming

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<v Speaker 2>out of Those things can flatten themselves out.

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<v Speaker 3>They're prehistoric.

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<v Speaker 2>But the worst was when they decided to finally say mom,

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<v Speaker 2>She and her roommate rye, can we come live with you?

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<v Speaker 2>We can't live here anymore. They saw a steady line

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<v Speaker 2>of roaches coming out of his bathroom window, which was

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<v Speaker 2>cracked open an inch and coming straight in through their

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<v Speaker 2>air conditioning units that are in the window. So you

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<v Speaker 2>can't fully seal your window when you have an air

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<v Speaker 2>conditioning unit coming out of it. And that's when they

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<v Speaker 2>just said, we're done. So they are getting a new

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<v Speaker 2>apartment within the building away from this man, this horder.

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<v Speaker 2>But in the meantime, I've got people all in my

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<v Speaker 2>apartment living with me, and so I've just said, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all knock yourselves out. I'll be at TJ's.

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<v Speaker 1>And so we have. We have been living together full time.

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<v Speaker 1>And the thing is, we were are schedule. We could

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<v Speaker 1>go back and forth, but you got people there and

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<v Speaker 1>we're up at five eight. Were recording three? Yes, we're

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<v Speaker 1>up at three, but recording at five am it just

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't work. So we have We've getten a dose of

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<v Speaker 1>living together. So there you go. Put that in the headline.

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<v Speaker 1>Have been living together full time? We have as of

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<v Speaker 1>two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. Supposedly they're moving out this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>So we might be living together longer.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll just have to wait and see what happens.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, this is what you do for you kids

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, you're excited to be able to help

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<v Speaker 1>them out, and this is what it's for. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>unfortunate to hear what's happening some The broach thing is

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<v Speaker 1>just awful. And now I heard you all talking this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>She wants to bring some stuff over.

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<v Speaker 2>Or what was it, Yeah, she wants to bring her

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<v Speaker 2>bedding over to wash it my apartment in anticipation of

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<v Speaker 2>this move. And I said, girl, do not be bringing

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<v Speaker 2>any roaches over to my place because I have not

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<v Speaker 2>seen one bug in my place and I would like

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<v Speaker 2>to keep it that way. One I'm nervous about.

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<v Speaker 1>That, Okay, you know the Oh god, well, look I

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<v Speaker 1>have Look, I've enjoyed the time and we've had together,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's it's been a little different, but I've liked it.

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<v Speaker 1>I've liked the different type of routine where we know

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<v Speaker 1>where we're going to end up every night, but decide

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<v Speaker 1>instead of having a plan like.

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<v Speaker 2>Your place or mine, well, I don't know, yeah, all

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<v Speaker 2>that back and forth. It's just a foregone conclusion because

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<v Speaker 2>when we're getting up at two three o'clock in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning to record our podcast or to prepare for the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>That's when they oftentimes are rolling in. So it just

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<v Speaker 2>was not going to work out from a spatial and

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<v Speaker 2>noise level. So it all worked out. And yeah, we're

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<v Speaker 2>getting a little trial run, are we not a trial?

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<v Speaker 1>You know it's been going well. I'm trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to complain about something because no, no, you you've

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<v Speaker 1>been at mind plum. I'm trying to think what is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's something that the upside. You are better

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<v Speaker 1>at cleaning, making sure the kitchens clean than I am. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>I keep my place clean, but you're on and on

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<v Speaker 1>top of the kitchen. Ah, it's too damn cold at

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<v Speaker 1>night in the bed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay to always been our issue, that's an issue.

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<v Speaker 2>I like things color, You like things warm.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hot, and uh it's it's it's hot for you

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<v Speaker 1>and it's freezing for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, y'all should see us. It's this awful scene to

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<v Speaker 1>where you literally you can look at the bed and

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<v Speaker 1>you see on one side all you see is a

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<v Speaker 1>light skin head and dark hair sticking out with all

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<v Speaker 1>the covers covering them. On the other side. You see

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<v Speaker 1>a butt naked white woman on top.

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<v Speaker 2>Of the covers, on top of the wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how as always sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true. And then yeah, when I'm not high, you

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<v Speaker 2>cannot touch me because I'll get even hotter.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all we struggled cuddling at night because you're like, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't last for about oh and a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's so sweet. It's so sweet cuddling it just

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<v Speaker 1>like then.

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<v Speaker 3>And then in my mind, I'm like, oh no, it's happening.

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<v Speaker 3>It's happening. The sweat's coming.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't stop it. Oh my god.

0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:40.479
<v Speaker 1>But then you panic, you freak yourself out and make

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<v Speaker 1>yourself sweat more. It's not that bad, you just completely

0:22:44.119 --> 0:22:45.199
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you it's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Point it out, though you'll start wiping like ew ew,

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<v Speaker 2>and then yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>You get me on. I get all more, getting nervous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I can't make it stop.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's I would say that's been the issue. Other

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<v Speaker 1>than that, Yeah, we've been good. No, there's nothing else.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>We working well together. Our other thing. This is gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be a tough one here. Baby. We are as we

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<v Speaker 1>sit here, only a couple of weeks out from the

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago Marathon and one of the two of us might

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<v Speaker 1>not be running it, and that one was almost in

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<v Speaker 1>tears this morning after going on what was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>be a eight mile run. Yeah, we landed on eight

0:23:20.119 --> 0:23:23.720
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do an eight mile run and I only

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<v Speaker 1>made it one point six.

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<v Speaker 2>Miles, I know. And what we did run yesterday, we

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<v Speaker 2>ran six miles yesterday and you felt pretty good. But

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<v Speaker 2>the reality is you're dealing with some pain in your achilles.

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<v Speaker 2>And I have to say, you have been so on

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<v Speaker 2>top of it. Every day. You're icing, you're heating, you're heating,

0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:44.840
<v Speaker 2>you're icing. You've gone to a foot specialist who's done

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<v Speaker 2>some laser heat therapy. You've done everything you can. You're

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<v Speaker 2>on a steady dose of a leave and advil, and

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<v Speaker 2>it hasn't gotten better.

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<v Speaker 1>O can't get to get right. It's been two months now.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot get this thing to get right.

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<v Speaker 2>And you skipped like you know everyone and anyone who's

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<v Speaker 2>done a marathon knows it's a pretty specific regimen for

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<v Speaker 2>five months. And you know now that this will be

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<v Speaker 2>my sixth I'm a little I know how to say,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have to do that, but I can do this,

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<v Speaker 2>and so the long runs are the one thing that

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<v Speaker 2>needs to be constant. So you end up doing a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of longer runs than even a half marathon, and

0:24:21.240 --> 0:24:25.760
<v Speaker 2>it culminates with a twenty miler you you weren't ready

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<v Speaker 2>to do it. I ended up. This is the first

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<v Speaker 2>time I've ever run a twenty miler by myself. But

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up on Wednesday earlier last week, running it

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<v Speaker 2>on my own, and you thinking, Okay, well, I'll try

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<v Speaker 2>to rest up enough to be able to do it, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I just can't. I don't know what I'm gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if anybody out there, if you

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<v Speaker 1>sounded my voice, if you have any remedy, because I

0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:48.600
<v Speaker 1>have been down to as foot, specially as a foot doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>I've done the heat laser thing on my on my

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<v Speaker 1>achilles but he has a fancy name for it, but

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<v Speaker 1>essentially achilles tendonitis. So dealing with that pain back there

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<v Speaker 1>have a not the inflammation the back of my heel,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just can't get it to go down, and

0:25:03.920 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I can't get it to just heal up and loosen

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<v Speaker 1>up right. It just can't get it. So it might

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<v Speaker 1>just be pain management he said, he can just get

0:25:11.200 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 1>me through the marathon. But today was bad enough that

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:15.359
<v Speaker 1>I had to stop after on one pointy six miles.

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<v Speaker 2>So you don't want to rupture your achilles, obviously, And

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<v Speaker 2>that's the fear. If I mean you did do You

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<v Speaker 2>made it through an eighteen miler, oh yeah, and you

0:25:21.920 --> 0:25:23.720
<v Speaker 2>made it through the fourteen miler. Those are the last

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<v Speaker 2>two big runs before the twenty miler, and you made it,

0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:29.000
<v Speaker 2>but you were in pain. And so the question is

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<v Speaker 2>can you push through the pain and do the marathon

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<v Speaker 2>or do you risk doing permanent damage to your achilles.

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:38.440
<v Speaker 2>And when you're a runner, to think at your age

0:25:38.480 --> 0:25:40.280
<v Speaker 2>at forty seven that you would have to stop running

0:25:40.320 --> 0:25:41.720
<v Speaker 2>as a pretty scary thought.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know. This is the first time my

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<v Speaker 1>body has failed me in my life to where there's

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:47.639
<v Speaker 1>something you want to do and your body says no,

0:25:47.800 --> 0:25:50.479
<v Speaker 1>you actually cannot do that thing. That's new for me.

0:25:50.560 --> 0:25:52.639
<v Speaker 1>So this is a bad one. I don't know, And

0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:54.960
<v Speaker 1>this will be a game time decision. We will take

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<v Speaker 1>it right up to the last moment to make the

0:25:57.359 --> 0:25:58.679
<v Speaker 1>call to see if I'll be able to run it.

0:25:58.680 --> 0:26:00.560
<v Speaker 1>But I'm supposed to do that, and then new York

0:26:00.680 --> 0:26:04.400
<v Speaker 1>the week three weeks after. I have just we'll figure out.

0:26:04.440 --> 0:26:04.960
<v Speaker 1>It'll be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>You may end up doing one, you may have doing both,

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:10.320
<v Speaker 2>you may end up doing none. But you put in

0:26:10.359 --> 0:26:12.560
<v Speaker 2>the work and your head's in the right place. I

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<v Speaker 2>applaud you for where you are mentally with all of this,

0:26:15.320 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 2>because it is frustrating when you put in that much

0:26:17.280 --> 0:26:20.640
<v Speaker 2>work for something and you love doing something so much,

0:26:20.640 --> 0:26:23.159
<v Speaker 2>and it's a big communal fun activity. We've got a

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<v Speaker 2>bunch of people coming to Chicago, all running with us.

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<v Speaker 1>I might be rooting you on at the Chicago Marathon.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just tough.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know it's tough.

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<v Speaker 2>And perhaps maybe you save yourself for New York even

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<v Speaker 2>and I root you on in New York and we

0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:39.840
<v Speaker 2>do that. But I'm hoping for the best, and I'm

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:49.440
<v Speaker 2>hoping you make it well.

0:26:49.520 --> 0:26:55.479
<v Speaker 1>To add now insult to my injury, this was funny.

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<v Speaker 1>Not too long ago, we saw everybody knows. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's next in November announced the Sexiest Man Alive. But

0:27:03.680 --> 0:27:05.919
<v Speaker 1>they start the voting. It's been going well. I think

0:27:05.920 --> 0:27:08.040
<v Speaker 1>it's ended now, but for a little while. How all

0:27:08.040 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 1>these subcategories sexiest Athlete Alive, Sexiest race car driver. I

0:27:12.560 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>don't know. Sexiest different categories, different categories, but there is

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a category for sexiest podcaster. Sexiest podcast are alive, And

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:25.919
<v Speaker 1>I guess it's supposed to be an honor. Rightly. So

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<v Speaker 1>there were only four podcasts that were mentioned in this group,

0:27:31.240 --> 0:27:35.680
<v Speaker 1>but five four podcasts, but four podcasters in the group.

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<v Speaker 1>I was among them. So at this point that I'm speaking,

0:27:38.560 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>you do not you can't vote anymore, not that you

0:27:40.800 --> 0:27:43.520
<v Speaker 1>would vote for me, my suggesting that I'm just making

0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:48.800
<v Speaker 1>the point here, Andy that these were the other podcasters

0:27:48.880 --> 0:27:49.760
<v Speaker 1>that I was up against.

0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:51.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, yes, yes, And by the way, I got my

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:56.160
<v Speaker 2>vote in the day before voting end in official Did

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:59.479
<v Speaker 2>you seriously I voted for you?

0:27:59.520 --> 0:28:00.479
<v Speaker 1>But I wouldn't ever know.

0:28:00.680 --> 0:28:01.600
<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't even like.

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:03.840
<v Speaker 1>Going to the voting booth on election day? Did You're

0:28:03.880 --> 0:28:04.320
<v Speaker 1>never going to know?

0:28:05.119 --> 0:28:05.480
<v Speaker 2>For you?

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.080
<v Speaker 3>I voted for you the moment I decided to be

0:28:08.200 --> 0:28:08.439
<v Speaker 3>with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, So TJ.

0:28:10.640 --> 0:28:15.359
<v Speaker 2>Holmes sexiest podcast hosts. Could it be Josh Peck from

0:28:15.560 --> 0:28:22.600
<v Speaker 2>Good Guys, Penn Badgeley from pod Crushed, or the Kelsey

0:28:22.640 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Brothers from New Heights. So I looked at that group

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 2>and I said, Babe, I love you and you are

0:28:27.880 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 2>the sexiest man alive to me, But I don't think

0:28:30.640 --> 0:28:35.280
<v Speaker 2>you're going to beat the power of the swifties, who

0:28:35.320 --> 0:28:38.479
<v Speaker 2>will all be voting collectively for the Kelsey brothers. How

0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:39.920
<v Speaker 2>do you You don't even have a shot.

0:28:40.000 --> 0:28:42.480
<v Speaker 1>But how are they the sexiest? That was a little much,

0:28:42.480 --> 0:28:43.080
<v Speaker 1>don't you think.

0:28:42.960 --> 0:28:44.880
<v Speaker 3>Emma, with the power of Taylor's No.

0:28:44.960 --> 0:28:46.920
<v Speaker 1>No, no no. But I'm saying if something that what's going

0:28:47.040 --> 0:28:49.000
<v Speaker 1>to take This is what's going to happen. Somebody's going

0:28:49.080 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>to grab the headline that says Amy Robot says her

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 1>boyfriend TJ. Holmes doesn't have a chance in the hell

0:28:55.800 --> 0:28:58.400
<v Speaker 1>of being the sexiest man.

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<v Speaker 3>You are so right, that's that's.

0:29:02.000 --> 0:29:06.960
<v Speaker 2>Sorry. But yes, because the headlines never come with context ever,

0:29:07.720 --> 0:29:11.240
<v Speaker 2>and the context is you're up against the power of Taylor.

0:29:11.320 --> 0:29:11.920
<v Speaker 1>That what we're doing.

0:29:12.640 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean I'm just a realist at that point.

0:29:15.120 --> 0:29:20.440
<v Speaker 2>I mean, you could have anybody up against the Kelsey brothers, yes,

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:23.080
<v Speaker 2>and how they would win because of this power of

0:29:23.120 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 2>this one?

0:29:23.440 --> 0:29:25.760
<v Speaker 1>How can you vote on them as a collective like

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 1>they're collectively sexy as brothers? What does that even mean?

0:29:29.920 --> 0:29:30.880
<v Speaker 3>Two for the price of one?

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Wait, Okay, so those two are sexier than the one.

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean, come on, what do we do with this?

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm kidding. We had a lot of fun with this,

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 1>but it is. It's one of those let me get

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:43.280
<v Speaker 1>my it's just an honor to be nominated. But though,

0:29:43.440 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 1>but anything you lose, that's a tough that's a tough

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:49.720
<v Speaker 1>one to lose. What what what did you lose?

0:29:50.480 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 2>The sexiest competition of podcasting? Yeah, the subset, Yes, of

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 2>podcasters who have faces for radio. So all of these

0:30:05.360 --> 0:30:07.240
<v Speaker 2>people have been in front of the camera, they all have.

0:30:07.680 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 1>But it was fun and it was fun. We had

0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:11.440
<v Speaker 1>fun with that. But yes, I am getting ready for

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:14.600
<v Speaker 1>my Uh, it's just an honor to be nominated speech. Now, well, I.

0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 2>Consider it to be an honor just to be dating you.

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 3>So there you go.

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:19.520
<v Speaker 2>So it's like I feel like that as well.

0:30:19.600 --> 0:30:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's trying to make up for that. He has

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 1>no chance in hell comments, right, But we talk about

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:30.000
<v Speaker 1>the headline. It might be grabbed and we know this,

0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:32.200
<v Speaker 1>and we know this better than most that are walking

0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 1>the streets. But we we don't look at headlines. We've

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 1>talked about that plenty here. But we started getting calls

0:30:40.360 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and texts and emails and in conversation with friends of ours,

0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:47.240
<v Speaker 1>we're giving us a heads out up about headlines that

0:30:47.240 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 1>were taking place, So headlines that were out there that

0:30:49.840 --> 0:30:53.520
<v Speaker 1>had to do with initially where we used to work,

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:57.320
<v Speaker 1>and then came headlines about us that we were like, whoa,

0:30:57.600 --> 0:30:59.520
<v Speaker 1>Now we need to speak.

0:30:59.480 --> 0:31:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Right, I mean, I think and we've made this very clear,

0:31:01.600 --> 0:31:04.760
<v Speaker 2>but hopefully if you're just hearing this for the first time,

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:12.440
<v Speaker 2>headlines are not necessarily facts. And anytime you see a

0:31:12.480 --> 0:31:16.280
<v Speaker 2>headline or any kind of story attributed to sources, or

0:31:16.320 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 2>a source says also probably not something you can take

0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:25.640
<v Speaker 2>literally because it is so ambiguous. It is such a

0:31:25.640 --> 0:31:28.000
<v Speaker 2>gray area, and it is frankly, it's a cloak a

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:31.040
<v Speaker 2>lot of organizations hide behind to be able to say

0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:33.040
<v Speaker 2>whatever it is they want to say, and there's almost

0:31:33.040 --> 0:31:36.960
<v Speaker 2>always an agenda attached to a headline. But yes, friends

0:31:36.960 --> 0:31:38.720
<v Speaker 2>were coming up saying, oh, I bet you guys love

0:31:38.800 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 2>the new story that's been out and everyone's republishing, reposting,

0:31:42.360 --> 0:31:43.960
<v Speaker 2>And I said, I don't know what you're talking to,

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:49.239
<v Speaker 2>no clue, And I will google every now and then,

0:31:49.360 --> 0:31:52.440
<v Speaker 2>especially if we see maybe a paparazzi following us, or

0:31:52.520 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 2>if I have a bunch of people telling me, Wow,

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:57.560
<v Speaker 2>there are these headlines out there, this latest one, and

0:31:57.640 --> 0:31:59.480
<v Speaker 2>it dates back I think even to a week or

0:31:59.480 --> 0:32:05.360
<v Speaker 2>two ago, or somehow somebody picked up on sources from

0:32:05.400 --> 0:32:10.760
<v Speaker 2>ABC News saying that perhaps at this point, now nearly

0:32:10.800 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 2>two years later, they are realizing that they made a

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:19.000
<v Speaker 2>mistake in letting us go and that they don't have

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:23.240
<v Speaker 2>the star power to replace one of the main three

0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 2>at Good Morning America if that event were to come up,

0:32:26.200 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 2>if they needed to groom someone, if they were looking

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:30.680
<v Speaker 2>to just have somebody waiting the wings.

0:32:30.760 --> 0:32:35.160
<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear what she just said saying there's no

0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:39.160
<v Speaker 1>star park or not. Ay, please do not interribute that

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:39.959
<v Speaker 1>that's not us.

0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:44.160
<v Speaker 2>I am only repeating what I read, which I am saying, huh,

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<v Speaker 2>I you know, you just you. I always question the

0:32:46.280 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 2>timing of these and I say planted stories, because because

0:32:50.600 --> 0:32:53.000
<v Speaker 2>that's what they are. They're not reporting on something that's happening.

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 2>Someone In almost every case when it comes to insider

0:32:58.000 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 2>or sources say it is someone who is planting a

0:33:00.600 --> 0:33:04.520
<v Speaker 2>story with a group. And that's what this looked like

0:33:04.600 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 2>to me now just recently, within the last twenty four hours,

0:33:08.280 --> 0:33:10.840
<v Speaker 2>a day or two now, they've gone on to say

0:33:10.880 --> 0:33:13.200
<v Speaker 2>the story, We have read the story, we have seen

0:33:13.240 --> 0:33:15.720
<v Speaker 2>the story, and that TJ and I, this is what

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:21.280
<v Speaker 2>these reports say, are saying it's karma, and feel vindicated

0:33:21.600 --> 0:33:25.200
<v Speaker 2>that those words never came out of our mouths, nor

0:33:25.200 --> 0:33:27.240
<v Speaker 2>do we even feel that way at all. In fact,

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:31.280
<v Speaker 2>we have genuinely said this. We are rooting for our

0:33:31.400 --> 0:33:34.600
<v Speaker 2>former colleagues to be the best they can be. We

0:33:35.200 --> 0:33:37.840
<v Speaker 2>loved so many of the folks who live and work

0:33:37.880 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 2>at ABC, and it's their lifeblood, it's what they do,

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:44.480
<v Speaker 2>it's what they love, and we're supporting them. We never

0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:49.360
<v Speaker 2>want to see ABC fail, we never want to see

0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 2>them not do well. And so I guess it's just

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:53.720
<v Speaker 2>a little frustrating then for it to seem as though

0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 2>we're saying, you know, haha, or we're even commenting on

0:33:57.040 --> 0:34:00.520
<v Speaker 2>these reports in my opinion, that we're planted with whatever

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:03.240
<v Speaker 2>organization for some agenda I can't possibly know.

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.040
<v Speaker 1>Well, we just can't say it enough, and it's not

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:09.359
<v Speaker 1>even a matter of words or feelings being attributed to us.

0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing, I know how you feel about it

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:18.600
<v Speaker 1>because you and I speak privately and talk about things

0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 1>that nobody else will ever know. No matter how close

0:34:20.760 --> 0:34:22.520
<v Speaker 1>a friend is or a parent, there's some things you

0:34:22.520 --> 0:34:24.200
<v Speaker 1>and I talk about that nobody else will ever know.

0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:27.759
<v Speaker 1>There's no point in any private conversation you and I

0:34:27.800 --> 0:34:30.319
<v Speaker 1>have expressed to each other. Ha ha, look at that.

0:34:30.600 --> 0:34:34.600
<v Speaker 1>Who who? There's karma, this vendic nothing, No, because there's

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 1>just how in God's name, anybody out there, ask yourself,

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:42.239
<v Speaker 1>why and why would you feel good about somebody else's misfortune?

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:46.160
<v Speaker 1>Why would you ever feel good that even an X

0:34:46.280 --> 0:34:49.200
<v Speaker 1>of yours or somebody who in a relationship with any

0:34:49.200 --> 0:34:53.040
<v Speaker 1>way is not doing so well? Which we have. We

0:34:53.120 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 1>got friends in that building. We don't need to read

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 1>any headline to get an idea of what's happening in

0:34:57.760 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 1>the building because we've got plenty of folks and friends

0:34:59.640 --> 0:35:01.719
<v Speaker 1>that we are very close to who continued to talk

0:35:01.719 --> 0:35:03.719
<v Speaker 1>to us about what's going on. You know what, We're

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:05.880
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do relate to you here on the podcast

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 1>what they're saying to us. But I can assure you

0:35:09.239 --> 0:35:11.680
<v Speaker 1>there is never a moment where you and I have

0:35:11.800 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 1>ever felt good. We have heard rumblings about what could

0:35:17.080 --> 0:35:19.120
<v Speaker 1>happen to the show we used to be on, Yes

0:35:19.360 --> 0:35:22.239
<v Speaker 1>and we're like, oh no, oh, that would be to God.

0:35:22.400 --> 0:35:24.200
<v Speaker 1>Please wait, that was something we were a part of it.

0:35:24.239 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 1>We want to see that thing go on forever God.

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I know I took great pride in that show, starting

0:35:30.719 --> 0:35:33.200
<v Speaker 2>it during the pandemic, and it really gave me new

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:36.960
<v Speaker 2>life in my career, getting to do that show and

0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:41.040
<v Speaker 2>feeling like it's served a valuable purpose, which is rare

0:35:42.239 --> 0:35:45.160
<v Speaker 2>in journalism these days to feel like you actually did

0:35:45.160 --> 0:35:48.600
<v Speaker 2>something that helped someone else. So I take great pride

0:35:48.640 --> 0:35:50.600
<v Speaker 2>and took great pride in starting that show, and then

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:54.080
<v Speaker 2>when you came on it, it breathed new life and

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.160
<v Speaker 2>it just became what it was and we were proud

0:35:56.200 --> 0:35:57.800
<v Speaker 2>of it. And we don't want to see it go away.

0:35:58.040 --> 0:36:01.600
<v Speaker 2>We don't want to see it do poorly in our absence.

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:05.000
<v Speaker 2>So I know, look, a human emotion I think could

0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:08.319
<v Speaker 2>be like haha, when you mentioned relationships, Oh see, wish

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:10.839
<v Speaker 2>bet you wish you hadn't let me go. Now, bet

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:13.080
<v Speaker 2>you wish you hadn't broken up with me. Now, Look,

0:36:13.160 --> 0:36:15.880
<v Speaker 2>I think those types of feelings serve zero purpose. And

0:36:15.920 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 2>I think we've made a really I know that you

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 2>and I have talked about and we don't just talk

0:36:23.360 --> 0:36:25.560
<v Speaker 2>the talk, We walk the walk of staying positive. And

0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:28.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, this door closed, but what door is opening

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:30.239
<v Speaker 2>now that wouldn't have otherwise? And look where we are

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:33.200
<v Speaker 2>right now. We've got our production company and we're doing

0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:35.279
<v Speaker 2>something we love with each other, and we're getting to

0:36:35.360 --> 0:36:37.320
<v Speaker 2>talk to people who we wouldn't have been able to

0:36:37.320 --> 0:36:40.480
<v Speaker 2>do otherwise in depth in a way we couldn't have otherwise.

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.359
<v Speaker 2>And things are starting to open up and build and

0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:47.320
<v Speaker 2>blossom that would never have happened if things didn't happen

0:36:47.320 --> 0:36:50.000
<v Speaker 2>the way they did. So we do not feel any

0:36:50.120 --> 0:36:54.200
<v Speaker 2>ill will or negativity or any sort of vindication if

0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 2>things aren't going well over there. So I just we

0:36:56.560 --> 0:36:58.840
<v Speaker 2>just want to really put that out there that you know,

0:36:59.160 --> 0:37:01.520
<v Speaker 2>yes it hurt, Yes it was hard. Yes it wouldn't

0:37:01.560 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 2>be what we wanted or what we would have chosen,

0:37:04.840 --> 0:37:07.440
<v Speaker 2>but we're on a different path now and it's a

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 2>beautiful one.

0:37:09.120 --> 0:37:15.560
<v Speaker 1>And that path makes us appreciate ABC News as being

0:37:15.560 --> 0:37:18.080
<v Speaker 1>a part of the journey that we've been on. We

0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:23.400
<v Speaker 1>are rooting. We have deer dear friends, not just colleagues.

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:26.120
<v Speaker 1>We have dear friends that are still in that building.

0:37:26.200 --> 0:37:29.520
<v Speaker 1>So please don't ever and if you ever see what

0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 1>you say sources, and there used to be ones that say, uh,

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:37.720
<v Speaker 1>friends of the couple or a source close to the couple. O, folks,

0:37:37.760 --> 0:37:42.960
<v Speaker 1>this is very there's what your daughters, my little eleven

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:50.560
<v Speaker 1>year old Sabine ye, your parents, Nicky Chuck, Charles, Matt Morgan.

0:37:51.280 --> 0:37:54.040
<v Speaker 1>If there is a source that's not any of those

0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:56.440
<v Speaker 1>ten people in our lives, it's not true. And I

0:37:56.440 --> 0:37:59.120
<v Speaker 1>can assure you those ten people are not talking to

0:37:59.160 --> 0:37:59.560
<v Speaker 1>a tablet.

0:37:59.640 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 2>They are not no are Our circle is a dot

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:06.920
<v Speaker 2>now yeah, right, so I don't you know sources and

0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:12.000
<v Speaker 2>none of them would tell anybody anything and certainly would

0:38:12.000 --> 0:38:14.120
<v Speaker 2>not be calling up certain magazines.

0:38:14.960 --> 0:38:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So it's just and I hate to, you know,

0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I hate being even feel like we are compelled to

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:24.200
<v Speaker 1>speak on something that's some bs. That's it's one lying,

0:38:24.239 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 1>completely made up. So I'm not putting it on the

0:38:26.320 --> 0:38:31.240
<v Speaker 1>tabloid that reported it. Possibly they're lying, but it's possible

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:33.640
<v Speaker 1>they were lied too, but they would know they're lied

0:38:33.719 --> 0:38:36.400
<v Speaker 1>to if it's not nobody's in our circle.

0:38:36.560 --> 0:38:37.960
<v Speaker 2>Nobody's in our circle who would be.

0:38:38.280 --> 0:38:41.279
<v Speaker 1>Possibly say anything about what's going on?

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:44.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel guessing how they think we feel.

0:38:44.040 --> 0:38:47.279
<v Speaker 1>We don't feel that way. It's not even close of

0:38:47.320 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 1>any joy to anything. And we don't even want going.

0:38:50.200 --> 0:38:53.279
<v Speaker 1>Gma was long fine long before we got there. They're

0:38:53.280 --> 0:38:55.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna be fine long before are We didn't make the

0:38:55.440 --> 0:38:59.600
<v Speaker 1>difference to that place. We contributed. Sure, we didn't make

0:38:59.600 --> 0:39:02.359
<v Speaker 1>a different So then one way or another Jesus chrime,

0:39:02.880 --> 0:39:17.680
<v Speaker 1>all right, but we did mention. And this this is true, folks.

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:20.680
<v Speaker 1>I did literally throw Robock into the arms of another man.

0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:27.799
<v Speaker 1>It's I didn't look He've been in New York during

0:39:27.800 --> 0:39:31.360
<v Speaker 1>the pandemic, A lot of folks, a lot of restaurants

0:39:31.360 --> 0:39:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you had to eat outside, the dining outside. So you've

0:39:33.640 --> 0:39:35.080
<v Speaker 1>been to New York. Folks that live here know this.

0:39:35.960 --> 0:39:38.240
<v Speaker 1>All the outdoor dining is set up. They have these

0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 1>little station or dining areas, and some of them have

0:39:41.640 --> 0:39:43.480
<v Speaker 1>been I only have How would you describe them?

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:46.840
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes there are wooden structures made of plywood that have

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:53.560
<v Speaker 2>been constructed fairly shabbily, but.

0:39:52.640 --> 0:39:54.959
<v Speaker 3>They protect you from wind rain.

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:58.719
<v Speaker 2>Some of them have heating elements or cooling elements to

0:39:58.760 --> 0:40:02.759
<v Speaker 2>try and help with yeah temperature, but there makeshift kind

0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:04.440
<v Speaker 2>of out house looking.

0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 1>Wow, you nailed this description. I was struggling. No, no, no,

0:40:07.400 --> 0:40:09.280
<v Speaker 1>you're right right where.

0:40:09.120 --> 0:40:11.200
<v Speaker 2>You can eat and drink and be merry and still

0:40:11.200 --> 0:40:15.360
<v Speaker 2>be outside and see the city sidewalks and feel the

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 2>energy of the city. So they're still fun to sit

0:40:17.640 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 2>out in.

0:40:18.120 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Every New Yorker knows what you're talking about. But you

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:22.759
<v Speaker 1>did that was really good, baby, You nail that.

0:40:23.040 --> 0:40:25.600
<v Speaker 2>You're shocked and surprise that my ability to do that

0:40:25.719 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 2>is actually no.

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:30.480
<v Speaker 1>Because my inability to do it. Wow, she is really

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:34.720
<v Speaker 1>nailing this. So Rooves and I go to a restaurant

0:40:34.719 --> 0:40:38.960
<v Speaker 1>we love Edwards here in New York and it's in

0:40:39.120 --> 0:40:40.960
<v Speaker 1>Tribecca is right on Church Street.

0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:42.919
<v Speaker 2>No, it's on West Broadway. I always get that wrong.

0:40:43.120 --> 0:40:46.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So we de sign on a Sunday, two of

0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:48.960
<v Speaker 1>us along with Sabine. We're gonna go to lunch. Now,

0:40:49.040 --> 0:40:51.719
<v Speaker 1>we had all kinds of debate about where we're gonna go,

0:40:51.800 --> 0:40:54.080
<v Speaker 1>when we're gonna go. The timing was off. When is

0:40:54.120 --> 0:40:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Sabine coming? You walking here? Now, that was a lot

0:40:56.640 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 1>of things that were that came to be to get

0:40:59.719 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>us Edwards and we're sitting outside for dying. Now. We

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 1>get there and we're sitting in the table that is

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:12.000
<v Speaker 1>in the far corner of this outdoor sitting area. So

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:14.879
<v Speaker 1>a better way to describe it. Let's say, if a

0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:18.160
<v Speaker 1>car was going to hit that structure, we would be

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:19.560
<v Speaker 1>hit first. Is that fair to say?

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:22.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yes, Because the direction of West Broadway is heading

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:26.400
<v Speaker 2>south and we were on that southeast corner.

0:41:26.080 --> 0:41:29.600
<v Speaker 1>So we were right there in the line of danger.

0:41:29.760 --> 0:41:31.879
<v Speaker 1>We didn't realize or didn't think about that. You don't

0:41:31.880 --> 0:41:34.719
<v Speaker 1>you just sit outside and eat. So we're going to

0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:37.280
<v Speaker 1>sit at this table. And we had, for whatever reason,

0:41:37.719 --> 0:41:41.440
<v Speaker 1>a strange amount of time that we debated where everybody

0:41:41.520 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>was going to sit. I can't remember why, but I

0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 1>think it was me who were saying, well, you go there,

0:41:45.239 --> 0:41:45.440
<v Speaker 1>you go.

0:41:45.600 --> 0:41:47.560
<v Speaker 2>Why I don't know, but there was a discussion, and

0:41:47.719 --> 0:41:50.080
<v Speaker 2>finally it turned out that you and I had our

0:41:50.160 --> 0:41:53.560
<v Speaker 2>backs to the road. And these structures are out in

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.080
<v Speaker 2>the road where people would park for people would be driving,

0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 2>but you're actually taking up a lane. Basically, these structures

0:41:59.040 --> 0:42:01.880
<v Speaker 2>are jutting out. A lot fewer of them because the

0:42:01.920 --> 0:42:03.799
<v Speaker 2>city came down on them, but this is one of

0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:06.120
<v Speaker 2>the ones that is left over from the pandemic. And

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:08.120
<v Speaker 2>then Sabine was sitting across from us, but you and

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:10.160
<v Speaker 2>I had our backs to the traffic.

0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Coming, so Sabine could see, but there was a little

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:15.840
<v Speaker 1>barrier she had had to lift up, so she couldn't

0:42:15.880 --> 0:42:17.960
<v Speaker 1>see it clearly, the traffic that was coming. So we're

0:42:17.960 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 1>sitting there having a good time, enjoying lunch, and our

0:42:22.600 --> 0:42:25.360
<v Speaker 1>back is to the traffic and I hear, well, I

0:42:25.400 --> 0:42:29.879
<v Speaker 1>guess we all hear screeching tires, right, screeching. We start

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:32.279
<v Speaker 1>to hear this. So by the time you hear the

0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:37.640
<v Speaker 1>screeching tires, then you hear impact. Impact. You hear a

0:42:37.760 --> 0:42:42.880
<v Speaker 1>vehicle crash into another. Now at this point I turn

0:42:43.200 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>and look back, but I have to sit up a

0:42:45.960 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 1>little bit because of a little barrier to see clearly

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:52.120
<v Speaker 1>what was coming. And what I saw coming at speed

0:42:52.760 --> 0:42:57.760
<v Speaker 1>was a white mini van with the red cross label

0:42:58.160 --> 0:43:00.720
<v Speaker 1>on the front. This is a true sorry, right Cross.

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:02.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I'm not trying to call you all out,

0:43:02.239 --> 0:43:06.200
<v Speaker 1>but this is what was coming at us. So imagine that, folks,

0:43:06.280 --> 0:43:09.319
<v Speaker 1>you are sitting with a piece of plywood as the

0:43:09.360 --> 0:43:13.720
<v Speaker 1>only thing between you and a vehicle coming at speed

0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:17.239
<v Speaker 1>that had just crashed into another parked car that's coming

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:22.399
<v Speaker 1>at you. So what was the resulting action?

0:43:22.920 --> 0:43:25.080
<v Speaker 2>And you say this as if there was time it

0:43:25.120 --> 0:43:26.799
<v Speaker 2>was as if it was in still motion, but it

0:43:26.840 --> 0:43:29.640
<v Speaker 2>was a split second, and you heard and saw what

0:43:29.680 --> 0:43:32.600
<v Speaker 2>you saw, and you took me and you threw me

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:35.799
<v Speaker 2>like you threw me as far away from where the

0:43:35.840 --> 0:43:39.160
<v Speaker 2>car would have been coming. And I landed on top

0:43:39.239 --> 0:43:42.440
<v Speaker 2>of this older gentleman who then landed on the floor

0:43:42.480 --> 0:43:46.520
<v Speaker 2>as well, so I was thrown onto him, which caused

0:43:46.680 --> 0:43:49.040
<v Speaker 2>him to fall over. And I'm laying on top of

0:43:49.120 --> 0:43:52.080
<v Speaker 2>a man. And then, by the way, everyone else in

0:43:52.080 --> 0:43:54.720
<v Speaker 2>the restaurant, because hearing this and then seeing our reaction,

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:59.080
<v Speaker 2>everyone started jumping, like you know, like plates were flying.

0:43:59.200 --> 0:44:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Everybody was run.

0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:02.359
<v Speaker 1>Well, please know everybody, as this is happening, you hear

0:44:03.280 --> 0:44:07.839
<v Speaker 1>glasses breaking, crashing down. Everything is just it is an

0:44:07.840 --> 0:44:11.080
<v Speaker 1>insane scene. I don't realize you're on top of the

0:44:11.120 --> 0:44:11.440
<v Speaker 1>other guy.

0:44:12.160 --> 0:44:14.320
<v Speaker 2>And Sabina, I've got to say she had some quick

0:44:14.800 --> 0:44:17.880
<v Speaker 2>reflexes that she obviously inherited from you, because she jumped

0:44:17.920 --> 0:44:20.560
<v Speaker 2>as well, like she just took off. I mean, it

0:44:20.600 --> 0:44:23.960
<v Speaker 2>was everybody. I was really impressed because I know you

0:44:24.000 --> 0:44:28.080
<v Speaker 2>either is it flight, flight, fight, or freeze. I think

0:44:28.160 --> 0:44:32.080
<v Speaker 2>I froze in that second, but man, I ended up

0:44:33.200 --> 0:44:34.839
<v Speaker 2>flying and.

0:44:34.560 --> 0:44:36.560
<v Speaker 1>Me and my black child know how to fight.

0:44:38.840 --> 0:44:41.160
<v Speaker 3>We do, but it was this akromm.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really sorry, sir. On top of it, he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay, Oh my god.

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:52.440
<v Speaker 1>So tables are turned over, bags are everywhere, chairs are

0:44:52.440 --> 0:44:54.960
<v Speaker 1>strewn about. So we just calmed down for a second

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:57.120
<v Speaker 1>and we walk around to the outside of the sitting

0:44:57.120 --> 0:45:00.000
<v Speaker 1>area and sure enough, and you tell me what you think.

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:02.520
<v Speaker 1>Think how this She finally was able and it was

0:45:02.560 --> 0:45:05.200
<v Speaker 1>a woman driving this Red Cross van. It was I

0:45:05.239 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 1>think she had one passenger in there with her. But

0:45:07.920 --> 0:45:11.560
<v Speaker 1>she eventually stopped at how far from that plywood and

0:45:11.600 --> 0:45:13.160
<v Speaker 1>from our backs, which one say it.

0:45:13.160 --> 0:45:14.120
<v Speaker 2>Was one foot?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was scary.

0:45:15.520 --> 0:45:17.720
<v Speaker 2>It was everybody like we were shaking.

0:45:17.920 --> 0:45:20.719
<v Speaker 3>It was a scary. Oh my god. That could have

0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:22.160
<v Speaker 3>been much worse.

0:45:22.440 --> 0:45:25.880
<v Speaker 2>And I don't know if her hitting the car was

0:45:25.920 --> 0:45:27.840
<v Speaker 2>a buffer for her to then to be able to stop.

0:45:27.880 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 2>But it was actually the chef, the chef of the

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:33.640
<v Speaker 2>restaurant's car park there, so he came out. But it

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<v Speaker 2>was It was interesting because in my mind, I'm like,

0:45:35.800 --> 0:45:39.080
<v Speaker 2>the Red Cross usually comes to the scene of an

0:45:39.080 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 2>accident or a tragedy or a trauma instead of causing it,

0:45:42.520 --> 0:45:45.400
<v Speaker 2>which is what unfortunately this poor driver did. And I

0:45:45.400 --> 0:45:48.160
<v Speaker 2>don't know that she spoke much English, because never once

0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:51.840
<v Speaker 2>did she come to say everybody, okay, I'm so sorry. Nothing.

0:45:51.920 --> 0:45:53.799
<v Speaker 2>She was just kind of stayed in her vehicle. Maybe

0:45:53.840 --> 0:45:56.759
<v Speaker 2>she was embarrassed. I don't know, but it was. It

0:45:56.800 --> 0:46:00.359
<v Speaker 2>was definitely you know, you live in New York enough

0:46:00.360 --> 0:46:02.680
<v Speaker 2>and enough, thing's good. I've never had anything like that

0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:05.160
<v Speaker 2>happen where you thought, oh my god, I was inches

0:46:05.200 --> 0:46:11.719
<v Speaker 2>away from a very serious and potentially deadly situation and

0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:14.720
<v Speaker 2>I we.

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:16.920
<v Speaker 1>We went back, but this was a couple of days ago.

0:46:17.120 --> 0:46:17.800
<v Speaker 2>We went back.

0:46:18.040 --> 0:46:20.480
<v Speaker 1>We we just to be like, hey guys, it's been

0:46:20.520 --> 0:46:23.160
<v Speaker 1>long enough. Let's just go get this. We like the food,

0:46:23.239 --> 0:46:25.560
<v Speaker 1>let's get it. We like the food. But we sat

0:46:26.360 --> 0:46:29.960
<v Speaker 1>in that same seat, well, it was the only seat open.

0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:33.399
<v Speaker 3>Though it was a beautiful day.

0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:36.240
<v Speaker 2>We thought, you know what, let's go back and let's

0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 2>you know, like you know, if you have an accent,

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:39.000
<v Speaker 2>you get back up on your horse.

0:46:39.040 --> 0:46:41.080
<v Speaker 3>Right, let's just get back on this table. We'll be fine.

0:46:41.239 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 2>We could not.

0:46:42.000 --> 0:46:43.399
<v Speaker 1>We cannot be horse launch ever.

0:46:43.960 --> 0:46:48.840
<v Speaker 2>You were nervous. The entire every noise, every every visual,

0:46:48.840 --> 0:46:50.960
<v Speaker 2>I mean car that drove by it, it was just like,

0:46:50.960 --> 0:46:52.799
<v Speaker 2>we can't come back here again. You can't sit in

0:46:52.840 --> 0:46:55.360
<v Speaker 2>that seat again. It's just too much.

0:46:55.239 --> 0:46:57.239
<v Speaker 1>After the experience we had. But it made us think

0:46:57.880 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 1>because that day, so many things had to come in

0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:03.960
<v Speaker 1>to play, and so many things had to go a

0:47:03.960 --> 0:47:06.279
<v Speaker 1>certain way for us to end up in that seat

0:47:06.320 --> 0:47:09.520
<v Speaker 1>at that exact moment. Life is funny that way. I mean,

0:47:09.600 --> 0:47:12.560
<v Speaker 1>so many decisions, little decisions we made, even to go there,

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:15.120
<v Speaker 1>the time we went there, where we decided to sit

0:47:15.400 --> 0:47:17.600
<v Speaker 1>who we decided to place where in those seats, because

0:47:17.640 --> 0:47:19.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what scared me is that Sabine was supposed

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:21.640
<v Speaker 1>to sit in the seat that I ended up sitting

0:47:21.719 --> 0:47:24.720
<v Speaker 1>in right on that side. It just it's a weird.

0:47:24.760 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 2>Life is funny, And if something had gone terribly you

0:47:28.239 --> 0:47:31.239
<v Speaker 2>would be going over those moments in your mind at

0:47:31.320 --> 0:47:34.239
<v Speaker 2>nauseum because you'd think I should have done this, I

0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:36.239
<v Speaker 2>could have done this, Why did we do that? And

0:47:36.280 --> 0:47:38.560
<v Speaker 2>it brought you back to so many moments in your

0:47:38.600 --> 0:47:40.680
<v Speaker 2>life where you rethink and you try to change the

0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 2>past by thinking you should have done something differently, when

0:47:43.760 --> 0:47:46.520
<v Speaker 2>in reality, sometimes you just have to accept what happened

0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:48.560
<v Speaker 2>and then make better choices going forward, which means we

0:47:48.600 --> 0:47:51.040
<v Speaker 2>should not sit in that seat again. And I actually

0:47:51.120 --> 0:47:52.840
<v Speaker 2>don't even know that I want to sit in an

0:47:52.880 --> 0:47:56.520
<v Speaker 2>outside structure again, because you feel like the sense of

0:47:58.120 --> 0:48:01.400
<v Speaker 2>invincibility until something like that happens and you think it

0:48:01.440 --> 0:48:04.480
<v Speaker 2>just takes you're Now, I'm trusting that every driver driving

0:48:04.480 --> 0:48:07.600
<v Speaker 2>down those streets in Manhattan is paying attention, isn't you know,

0:48:08.000 --> 0:48:11.040
<v Speaker 2>messing with their phone or changing the channel on their

0:48:11.200 --> 0:48:14.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, on whatever music they're listening to. It takes

0:48:14.480 --> 0:48:17.400
<v Speaker 2>one second to look down to miss and to to

0:48:17.680 --> 0:48:20.719
<v Speaker 2>hit something or someone. And so yes, I I am

0:48:20.840 --> 0:48:24.239
<v Speaker 2>changing my behavior and even trying it again. Making it

0:48:24.560 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 2>known that we can't sit there peacefully is all I

0:48:27.719 --> 0:48:29.360
<v Speaker 2>need to know that I probably am not going to

0:48:29.400 --> 0:48:30.640
<v Speaker 2>sit out in those structures again.

0:48:32.840 --> 0:48:35.160
<v Speaker 1>That's a one hundred percentury story that them.

0:48:35.320 --> 0:48:38.200
<v Speaker 2>It also made us. These are all the little moments,

0:48:38.280 --> 0:48:41.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, where you just it's again time. We're all

0:48:41.080 --> 0:48:44.200
<v Speaker 2>on borrow time. No one knows what tomorrow brings, and

0:48:44.480 --> 0:48:46.880
<v Speaker 2>it's just another reminder. We kind of really felt it

0:48:46.920 --> 0:48:49.719
<v Speaker 2>that day, and it's continued for us to appreciate what

0:48:49.760 --> 0:48:52.600
<v Speaker 2>you have, appreciate who you're with, tell the people you

0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:54.680
<v Speaker 2>love that you love them. It's just you never know.

0:48:54.719 --> 0:48:57.400
<v Speaker 2>It can take one second and everything changes.

0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:00.600
<v Speaker 1>It was a lesson. It was a lesson, but I'm

0:49:00.640 --> 0:49:02.120
<v Speaker 1>glad I learned it. And that's going to pay off

0:49:02.160 --> 0:49:04.520
<v Speaker 1>for us at some point somewhere else. We're going to

0:49:04.560 --> 0:49:07.239
<v Speaker 1>make a decision based on that experience that's going to

0:49:07.280 --> 0:49:08.799
<v Speaker 1>pay off for us, and we don't even realize how

0:49:08.800 --> 0:49:11.600
<v Speaker 1>it's going to pay off. So we'll see moving forward.

0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:14.680
<v Speaker 1>But we do want you all to know your folks

0:49:14.719 --> 0:49:16.879
<v Speaker 1>in Chicago in the surrounding area, we're going to see

0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:19.200
<v Speaker 1>you only a couple of weeks. Now. I might not

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:21.359
<v Speaker 1>run the marathon, but I'm still going to be there

0:49:21.760 --> 0:49:24.920
<v Speaker 1>because we're actually going to do a recording of our

0:49:24.960 --> 0:49:29.560
<v Speaker 1>podcast live at the Expo. Yes, at the expos or

0:49:29.680 --> 0:49:31.400
<v Speaker 1>the Chicago Maryland.

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:33.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes, And it's I had the pleasure of going two

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:38.680
<v Speaker 2>years ago. And it's this bustling, big fun center where

0:49:38.719 --> 0:49:41.160
<v Speaker 2>everyone's picking up their bibs. You have to get you know,

0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:43.000
<v Speaker 2>some things before you run a race. You have to

0:49:43.000 --> 0:49:45.720
<v Speaker 2>have your number, you have to have your tracking device.

0:49:45.719 --> 0:49:46.719
<v Speaker 1>That happening time.

0:49:46.920 --> 0:49:47.759
<v Speaker 3>It's just really fun.

0:49:47.800 --> 0:49:50.319
<v Speaker 2>So we're going to be there's a stage there we're

0:49:50.360 --> 0:49:53.080
<v Speaker 2>going to be on from four pm. To five pm

0:49:53.320 --> 0:49:57.280
<v Speaker 2>Chicago time, so local time, I guess that's Central time zone.

0:49:57.480 --> 0:50:00.000
<v Speaker 2>We'll be doing a live podcast, So if you happen

0:50:00.200 --> 0:50:06.040
<v Speaker 2>to be in the Chicago area on Friday, October eleventh

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:11.200
<v Speaker 2>at four pm at the Expo Center where the marathon

0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:14.160
<v Speaker 2>is all taking place or right there, I don't know

0:50:14.160 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 2>exact I don't know Chicago well enough to say where

0:50:15.920 --> 0:50:17.440
<v Speaker 2>are the Expo Center is, but you can google it

0:50:17.480 --> 0:50:19.799
<v Speaker 2>and find it, and we'd love to see you. We'd

0:50:19.800 --> 0:50:22.759
<v Speaker 2>love to have you swing by, and we hope you

0:50:22.760 --> 0:50:25.279
<v Speaker 2>guys enjoy whatever it is we have to say.

0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:27.320
<v Speaker 3>We haven't figured it out yet, and a lot.

0:50:27.160 --> 0:50:28.400
<v Speaker 2>Of it might have to do with whether or not

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:29.480
<v Speaker 2>you're running the race or not.

0:50:29.640 --> 0:50:32.919
<v Speaker 1>It will hopefully, I mean, you know I'm going to try.

0:50:33.000 --> 0:50:34.279
<v Speaker 3>I know you're going to try.

0:50:34.440 --> 0:50:36.080
<v Speaker 1>So even as bad as it was today, I had

0:50:36.080 --> 0:50:38.319
<v Speaker 1>to quit in a mile and a half, I would

0:50:38.400 --> 0:50:40.480
<v Speaker 1>keep running if that was marathon day, I know you're

0:50:41.000 --> 0:50:42.640
<v Speaker 1>keeping going. So but we are. This is fun, like

0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:44.680
<v Speaker 1>I say, folks, and you're right. You reminded me of

0:50:44.719 --> 0:50:46.799
<v Speaker 1>it in the on the train right here today, like

0:50:46.920 --> 0:50:49.960
<v Speaker 1>just where we were a while back to now to

0:50:49.960 --> 0:50:51.759
<v Speaker 1>the point like damn, we need a vacation, Like, we're

0:50:51.800 --> 0:50:53.480
<v Speaker 1>so busy and so much going on. It's all the

0:50:53.480 --> 0:50:54.480
<v Speaker 1>exciting stuff.

0:50:54.239 --> 0:50:54.440
<v Speaker 2>You know what.

0:50:54.440 --> 0:50:57.280
<v Speaker 1>It's all stuff that we are choosing to do, yes,

0:50:57.480 --> 0:51:00.279
<v Speaker 1>and not an assignment being handed to us. So it's

0:51:00.320 --> 0:51:02.560
<v Speaker 1>just I love you, baby, and it's been as a

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:04.840
<v Speaker 1>hell of a journey and it continues, and it's just

0:51:05.480 --> 0:51:08.799
<v Speaker 1>to be sitting here this moment, this day, surviving car

0:51:08.840 --> 0:51:12.960
<v Speaker 1>crashes at restaurants, at a brunch and all the other.

0:51:13.719 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 2>I love you.

0:51:14.160 --> 0:51:14.359
<v Speaker 1>Soon.

0:51:14.400 --> 0:51:17.040
<v Speaker 2>We had a great weekend. We should mention, did you

0:51:17.040 --> 0:51:18.680
<v Speaker 2>want to? We were going to talk about it.

0:51:18.760 --> 0:51:22.360
<v Speaker 3>My birthday was a month ago birthday weekend.

0:51:23.120 --> 0:51:28.359
<v Speaker 1>My gift finally paid off just a couple of days ago.

0:51:28.440 --> 0:51:35.719
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, this was wonderful birthday celebration. Yes, on

0:51:35.800 --> 0:51:39.040
<v Speaker 1>my birthday August nineteenth, rold took me up with several gifts,

0:51:39.239 --> 0:51:41.640
<v Speaker 1>but one that she gave me and we didn't say

0:51:41.680 --> 0:51:45.400
<v Speaker 1>it at the time concert tickets to one of my

0:51:45.719 --> 0:51:49.400
<v Speaker 1>absolute favorite artists right now, Teddy Swims.

0:51:50.360 --> 0:51:53.960
<v Speaker 3>Teddy Swims, Teddy wo amazing.

0:51:54.160 --> 0:51:59.439
<v Speaker 1>Oh my voice is effortless. How he does that? He

0:51:59.520 --> 0:52:03.440
<v Speaker 1>gets like he gives no effort or energy into that voice,

0:52:04.000 --> 0:52:04.799
<v Speaker 1>belting that out.

0:52:04.880 --> 0:52:07.960
<v Speaker 2>It's so soulful. It's so soulful, Okay, can I say this?

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:12.480
<v Speaker 2>So I was telling my mom about where we went,

0:52:12.520 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 2>and she didn't she'd never heard of him before. I

0:52:14.280 --> 0:52:17.360
<v Speaker 2>so Teddy swims. So I sent her one of his

0:52:17.440 --> 0:52:22.479
<v Speaker 2>songs and she wrote back, is he white? Because he's

0:52:22.480 --> 0:52:26.200
<v Speaker 2>so soulful it's actually shocking. You can't imagine this white

0:52:26.239 --> 0:52:29.040
<v Speaker 2>boy is singing the way he is singing. But man,

0:52:29.160 --> 0:52:31.840
<v Speaker 2>he can belt it out and it's just the depth.

0:52:32.560 --> 0:52:35.520
<v Speaker 2>He sings with such depth and it's hard to describe

0:52:35.560 --> 0:52:38.200
<v Speaker 2>until you hear it. But we would urge everybody to

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:41.480
<v Speaker 2>check him out. He's phenomenal. And the opening act.

0:52:41.600 --> 0:52:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Brilin You on this Country artist Brelin, black guy from

0:52:45.239 --> 0:52:50.239
<v Speaker 1>New Jersey. Amazing voice. Love him, love him. This was

0:52:50.280 --> 0:52:53.239
<v Speaker 1>the best that I want all my birthday gifts now

0:52:53.360 --> 0:52:55.680
<v Speaker 1>to be paid off in a month or two because

0:52:55.680 --> 0:52:58.080
<v Speaker 1>it seems like a constant celebration. But we were in

0:52:58.080 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 1>an Atlantic city. Someone was interesting, people watching and stuff

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:04.560
<v Speaker 1>we love watch.

0:53:04.640 --> 0:53:06.239
<v Speaker 3>Oh man, so fun.

0:53:06.360 --> 0:53:08.359
<v Speaker 1>It was great. I am not going we're gonna wrap

0:53:08.400 --> 0:53:10.160
<v Speaker 1>this up because I'm not gonna tell them the story

0:53:10.160 --> 0:53:12.879
<v Speaker 1>about how you embarrassed me more than you probably ever

0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:15.400
<v Speaker 1>embarrassed me at that concert.

0:53:15.480 --> 0:53:16.719
<v Speaker 2>We're gonna save it for another story.

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Let's do it later because it's it's I really want

0:53:19.160 --> 0:53:21.040
<v Speaker 1>to dive deep into that.

0:53:21.000 --> 0:53:23.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and I did it. I embarrassed myself.

0:53:23.920 --> 0:53:28.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, unfortunately I was at long for the ride. But folks,

0:53:28.760 --> 0:53:31.560
<v Speaker 1>that's it for now. It's been a lot going on.

0:53:31.640 --> 0:53:35.880
<v Speaker 1>We are so so frankly happy, and so that probably

0:53:35.880 --> 0:53:40.800
<v Speaker 1>means somebody's coming for us real soon. But it's been great.

0:53:40.880 --> 0:53:43.440
<v Speaker 1>We hope you all are doing well as well. We

0:53:43.520 --> 0:53:46.640
<v Speaker 1>have a journey to continue with you all with the

0:53:46.680 --> 0:53:49.719
<v Speaker 1>I Do Part two, the daily newscast that we're we're

0:53:49.719 --> 0:53:53.120
<v Speaker 1>doing now with iHeart, and now with that, we're continuing

0:53:53.120 --> 0:53:55.160
<v Speaker 1>with our regular Amy and TJ podcast, And we have

0:53:55.239 --> 0:53:58.080
<v Speaker 1>to say, look, Amy Sugarman and the folks at iHeart,

0:53:58.239 --> 0:54:01.919
<v Speaker 1>thank you. Look there's that needs to be said. Yeah,

0:54:01.920 --> 0:54:05.360
<v Speaker 1>And you all have believed in us and invested in us,

0:54:05.640 --> 0:54:08.080
<v Speaker 1>in us and encouraged us and supported us along this

0:54:08.160 --> 0:54:10.600
<v Speaker 1>journey as we figure things out. And it's just been

0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:13.000
<v Speaker 1>a great, great, great, great partner to have right now.

0:54:13.040 --> 0:54:16.759
<v Speaker 2>They have been amazing partners professionally and even personally, just

0:54:16.920 --> 0:54:20.680
<v Speaker 2>always there to support us and to help build what

0:54:20.719 --> 0:54:23.200
<v Speaker 2>we're trying to build here. And thank you all. Thank

0:54:23.239 --> 0:54:25.880
<v Speaker 2>you for listening and for keeping up with all the

0:54:25.920 --> 0:54:29.200
<v Speaker 2>podcasts that might be entering into your phone, like another one.

0:54:29.320 --> 0:54:30.840
<v Speaker 2>I think my mom and dad said that to me.

0:54:31.040 --> 0:54:33.560
<v Speaker 2>Every time I look there are more podcasts that I'm

0:54:33.560 --> 0:54:37.160
<v Speaker 2>behind on. I was like, so sorry that I'm inundating

0:54:37.160 --> 0:54:38.239
<v Speaker 2>your life with podcasts.

0:54:38.239 --> 0:54:40.520
<v Speaker 1>We are the Amy and TJ. We are the DJ

0:54:40.640 --> 0:54:45.680
<v Speaker 1>Kali of the podcast word. Another one that's us

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So tune in tomorrow for another one.