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Speaker 1: I'm so happy that you guys have joined us on

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Speaker 1: our journeys of hoism and everything the funk else over

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Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy Be and I'm wheezy. Hi. I love

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Speaker 1: you a hundred times over? How about that. No, I'm

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Speaker 1: I don't like what polyamory kind of means because I'm

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Speaker 1: with your mind, you know. I mean, obviously there's some

423
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Speaker 1: things that will just feel amazing, like God damn, but

424
00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:01,960
Speaker 1: usually that's like you let your mind go into that

425
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 1: so much that you are unable to connect yourself. Medicine

426
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 1: can help you, but like you do need to work

427
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:09,840
Speaker 1: it is. I was thinking one thing when when you

428
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 1: were talking about it, um, when it comes to like

429
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,160
Speaker 1: you know, the orgasm, like notatorially, it could be there's

430
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 1: like what five or seven thousand nerve endings in our

431
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 1: clip to the which is why I never wanted to

432
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,240
Speaker 1: even pierce it, like meaning I would be so afraid

433
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 1: to pierce my clip for that reason, but I wanted

434
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 1: to talk so reading this article, um and something that

435
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 1: we even mentioned on yeah you mention, Um, you mentioned

436
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:35,320
Speaker 1: it on our Sex Resolution episode that you wanted to

437
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,720
Speaker 1: experience a tantric massage. And so is tantric massage? Is

438
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: that dealing with your genitals or is it just the

439
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,200
Speaker 1: massage that makes you come? What is that? Some some does,

440
00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:48,360
Speaker 1: some doesn't mean It all depends on who's the practitioners

441
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: tantra tantric sex. I am not a tantric practitioner, so

442
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 1: somebody would probably give you a way better definition. But

443
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: I think I think it's really like from what I understand,

444
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,399
Speaker 1: is people who are able to connect like the spiritual,

445
00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: the mind and the body for a deeper sexual experience

446
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 1: than just like yeah, I'm trying to. And that's where

447
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 1: I heard that women have orgasms. Like watched a couple

448
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,280
Speaker 1: like him given an orgasm just from like breath play

449
00:23:13,400 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: and like breathing and like she said it took a while,

450
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:19,479
Speaker 1: but said she watched this girl called Hardest book. Well,

451
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,400
Speaker 1: I know, I know personally, I've I've spoken to people

452
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,440
Speaker 1: and they've told me that I should go like deeper

453
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: into it because I've had orgasms without busting the nut before.

454
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:33,960
Speaker 1: You have had an orgasm without coming? Yeah, how how

455
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:38,080
Speaker 1: does that work? Like? How do how does fluid? I

456
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: mean you feel it like I've I've felt orgasms that

457
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 1: have gone through my body, different things like that. And

458
00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 1: it definitely has to do with things that I've When

459
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 1: I've spoken to people who actual tantric practitioners, they say,

460
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: it has to do with your breathing, has to do

461
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: with you know, your comfortability, your mind state, and all

462
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,719
Speaker 1: of that. So why so why would you orgasm as

463
00:23:56,720 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: a man but not ejaculate because I want to keep coming? Okay,

464
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 1: have you ever had a dude like tell you they

465
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:06,439
Speaker 1: felt like they came when they were sucking you, but

466
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:10,040
Speaker 1: they didn't. I've had guys that thought they were going

467
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: to come, so they would pull out so that they

468
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,200
Speaker 1: didn't come, and then they went back. But maybe twice

469
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: in my lifetime I've had someone say, fun like I

470
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:19,040
Speaker 1: thought like I felt like I came. I thought I came.

471
00:24:19,119 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: I mean I did have a guy tell me that

472
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: I gave him the best sex ever out of all

473
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: the time. Flex. No, No, I didn't have someone that

474
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 1: I you didn't let me finish down. So we know

475
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 1: we have been fucking like for years and so on

476
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 1: one of the most recent times we had sex, he said,

477
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 1: oh my god, that was like probably our best time

478
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 1: having sex. I pinned it to my weight loss, but

479
00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: he's like, no, like it just felt really good. And

480
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, how he didn't come? He didn't come at all,

481
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,160
Speaker 1: probably because I made him wear a condom the entire

482
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 1: time and I wasn't working with that bullshit at all

483
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: and so and normally, like, you know, all suck is it?

484
00:24:57,560 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: And I was just like not in the mood. But

485
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 1: he told me was the best session he had had

486
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: with me, and and I was confused because he literally

487
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: did not come. Have you sad something different from the

488
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 1: times that it's happened to you with the sex that

489
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,080
Speaker 1: you were having, Like was there a lot of for play,

490
00:25:12,160 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 1: like with anything different that you think happen in those

491
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: moments that don't normally happen. I know the first time

492
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: that it ever happened to me, I was like just checking,

493
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I was like, because if

494
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 1: it feels almost the same, like the same way that

495
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: your muscles contract and different things like that, but just

496
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: I think time wise, it just has to do it

497
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 1: more like how how into what I am and just

498
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: how I feel and kind of like if I feel

499
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: like I'm about to come, I'm like I don't want

500
00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: to right now, and just kind of like push through

501
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: it and then the body reacts how the body reacts,

502
00:25:44,560 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: and then it just keep you you kind of like

503
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: keep feeling it and it's like waves like things I've

504
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 1: heard from women talk about like or like multiple massage

505
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:57,240
Speaker 1: almost anything like a linga massage is when a woman's massage.

506
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: Like in the linga massage, they say that men reach

507
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,120
Speaker 1: it almost two or three times, like they keep peeking

508
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 1: and then finally they So this kind of like when

509
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: a man has sex and he comes, and then after

510
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: he comes, he's still hard because I've had that. Nah,

511
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,399
Speaker 1: that just means you kind of skip to refractory period

512
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 1: like that can happen, but that that has nothing. That's

513
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: not the Yeah, it's different because if I mean that's

514
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 1: good too, it's great, but multiple orgasms. Men can't experience

515
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 1: multiple orgasms because of the refractory period, which basically means

516
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: you're dick can't get back up once it ejaculates. Right,

517
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,119
Speaker 1: I want to get into but real quick just to

518
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:42,880
Speaker 1: go back to what you were saying. Like for example,

519
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,439
Speaker 1: like some of the massages that I have done for

520
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 1: like erotic touch, there are certain times like I had

521
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: one client, I was just kind of like massaging her

522
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: forearm and she was just like, I've never really been

523
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: touched there before in my life. So when you start

524
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: to in essential way, So I think when it comes

525
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: to massage in general, or tantric massage, erotic massage, sensual massage,

526
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:09,680
Speaker 1: whatever whatever people are calling it, it's like if you've

527
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 1: never really had somebody pay attention to your body, if

528
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: you've never had somebody touch you in a certain kind

529
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: of way, and you are someone who is in especially

530
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,919
Speaker 1: a woman who's in you know, in in communication with

531
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 1: her body and control of her body, could definitely orgasm.

532
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 1: Have you had one, man? All I know is every

533
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: time I go to a motherfucker massage place, even in Asia,

534
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: all the little Asians, I wouldn't even attracted to them,

535
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 1: but bitch, my pussy was wet as fun every time

536
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,080
Speaker 1: they massage me. And it was just like a little

537
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 1: Asian woman. I don't I don't want to suck her,

538
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: but bitch, I kind of was hoping she fingered me,

539
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: but they never did. But I be getting horning. So

540
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 1: it just part of the massage I've ever had. It

541
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 1: just made me think of that thing. I don't even

542
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 1: know if I've about this before. It was my cabs

543
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 1: and I remember him telling me, like, nobody ever touched

544
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: me like that there freaking I'm like, why am I

545
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,600
Speaker 1: getting excited? It's just my cab. No, I love like

546
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: the inside of my thighs ass and like his fingers

547
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: are kind of close to my post and I'm like

548
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 1: they're going in. They just close. That's it. It turns

549
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: me on just like that, Like that's all I need.

550
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: So I wanted to get to get into our kink

551
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: of the week, and our kink of the week is

552
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 1: going to focus on something that you are actually familiar with,

553
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,360
Speaker 1: something that people may not even know exists. Um So

554
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 1: the kink of the week is fetish training. Um. I

555
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 1: kind of wanted to get into what fetish training is,

556
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:27,360
Speaker 1: um and why people may come to you for it,

557
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,480
Speaker 1: What is what it entails? Um? So, can you explain

558
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: to our listeners what fetish training is? Well, fetish training

559
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,920
Speaker 1: is the act of engaging in your fetish. What is

560
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,240
Speaker 1: I think actually it was the first time I ever

561
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: heard determined. It was like when Jazz was trying to say,

562
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 1: how do we describe what it is we do for people?

563
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: And a lot of people hire us because they don't

564
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: know they have a fetish, But every single person here

565
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,959
Speaker 1: has a fetish, every person in the world, in the world, okay,

566
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: like even just y'all saying, like I got turned on

567
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: by a massile, is your massage? A fetish is basically

568
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: something that is not directly correlated to procreation that turns

569
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 1: you on sexual glasses. That's what Yeah, that's what I

570
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,680
Speaker 1: was going for them. But the last episode Mandy and

571
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: I were doing um, she was saying, here's the difference

572
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: between a kink and a fetish, which I really think

573
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: is subjective, even though I mean she was reading textbook. Shit,

574
00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: can you tell us what you think the difference between

575
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 1: a kink and a fetishes. Yes, a person can be kinky.

576
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 1: A person can't be a fetish. Like a lot of times,

577
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: a lot of times, like you'll see people like, oh,

578
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,840
Speaker 1: you know, I have a fetish for this type of person,

579
00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,840
Speaker 1: uh b b W black man, Asian woman or something

580
00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: like that. A human being can't be a fetish. A

581
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 1: human being is a human being. A person can be kinky,

582
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: like I'm kinkys fuck, you know what I'm saying. But like, uh,

583
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 1: it's kind of like a fetish is like what it is,

584
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: you know, kind of like more like a definition. However,

585
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 1: be down it. It's it basically said that a fetish

586
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,320
Speaker 1: is the whole meal. A kink is the salt and pepper.

587
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: It's the seasoning too. You know what you do in

588
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: the bedroom. So what are some of the what are

589
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,040
Speaker 1: some of I guess the fetishes or kinks that go

590
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: on during fetish training, like some of the main ones.

591
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: It ranges. I mean, people come to us because they're

592
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:24,240
Speaker 1: like I want to expand my my my sexuality, or

593
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: I know what I like but I don't know how

594
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: to engage in it in a safe way, or I

595
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: don't know where to find people who like what I'm into.

596
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: So that's what we help. What's the kinkiest thing that

597
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 1: someone just wrote my phone? I was trying to be

598
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: quiet by the way listeners gave this advice. They were like, damn, wheezy,

599
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: can't shut the funk up? Type the questions on your phone?

600
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,160
Speaker 1: What did I just type? She said, what are the kinkies?

601
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,239
Speaker 1: What are the kinkids? I wanted to ask, what are

602
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 1: the kinkiest things you've heard? But what are also things

603
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 1: like that? Ain't ship that people think it's crazy? I

604
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: mean I don't. I don't ever. I don't ever like,

605
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: oh man, I love spit, but I don't. I don't.

606
00:30:57,360 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: Let's see, let's see. That's the thing that's what makes

607
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: everybody different in where it's hard for me to say, like,

608
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: that's some wild kinky ship or that's a boring kink,

609
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: you know, because what might be like for you, like, yo,

610
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: this is the edge for me, Like I'm trying it

611
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: all right here and putting it on on the table

612
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 1: for her, she might be like, that was fine for you.

613
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 1: I think. I think the one that I was first

614
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: kind of like, what, like, what is this is lunars?

615
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 1: People who are into into balloons? Oh wait what? I

616
00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: don't know if well, a whole lot of year we

617
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 1: didn't cover that. I used to watch real sex when

618
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:34,479
Speaker 1: I was a kid because that was the only thing

619
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: I could like hunch the bed too, And I always

620
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 1: thought a lunar, So what do they do with balloons?

621
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: Some people, some people like Um. Some people like to

622
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: watch people be afraid by a balloon popping, like that's

623
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 1: what turns the more. Other people like to watch a

624
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 1: woman just play with a balloon and not pop. It's

625
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 1: so the first time I ever, the first time someone

626
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: ever hit us up, like can you do a royal

627
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: Fittish lunar video? I was like, I was thinking the moon.

628
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 1: I was like, what are you talking about that? Right?

629
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 1: So like so then they were like, well, you know,

630
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 1: they send over this thing because we do you know,

631
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: we do custom custom films for people. They send over

632
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: this this long like script and then they send jasmine

633
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,440
Speaker 1: like a box of different types of balloons. Like some

634
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: of these balloons, Yo, there's one joint. It's called a

635
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,920
Speaker 1: hippie hot like that ship got fucking handles on it

636
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: and it's like the size of his chair. Okay, that's

637
00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: like everything, Yeah, but a balloon being like, they didn't

638
00:32:43,560 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: send him Some of our some of our fetishes we

639
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 1: we get from our childhood. Some of them could just happen,

640
00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: like on your on your training ride over here, something

641
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: could happen. He's just like, I wonder and you might

642
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: just delve deep into that. But some of the things like,

643
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 1: you know, some people who are a lunar, they might

644
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: have had an experience as a kid where it was

645
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:05,920
Speaker 1: a party in a balloon pot and they saw the

646
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: girl they like jumped to it or something, you know

647
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: what I mean. Like, some fetishes are like so intricate

648
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 1: into our brains. That's why fetishes are just as as

649
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: infinite as the mind. I swear to God. Got a

650
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: story about ever realized why I like spitting my mouth

651
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: for me and this dude got an argument when I

652
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: was in high school and he spit on me, and

653
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: I liked, he spit on therapy? You do you absolutely

654
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:36,840
Speaker 1: need therapy right there? I don't know somebody you enjoying

655
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: the spitting on you. Listen, we were fighting that nigga

656
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: would die. We were close, really face to face. We

657
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 1: were arguing about me and this other dude and he

658
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 1: spit on me, and I was like, you were we righting? Fun?

659
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: No way, brow Now it is hands bro, I'll fight

660
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: anybody who spit on me. Bro. Obviously in the bedroom

661
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: I might ask for it, but outside of the bedroom,

662
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: so we're not seeing. I never spoke again, right, but

663
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: I remember being so angry about it. But in that

664
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,920
Speaker 1: moment he was so close to my face. I didn't

665
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 1: know if I liked it or not. Maybe that's why

666
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 1: I like spitting and ship. Maybe maybe you need therapy.

667
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 1: Oh thank you. It might be her glasses, but you

668
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: just psychoanalyze. So what what are If they contact you,

669
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: it can be individuals or it can be couples, and

670
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: so basically what you do is you kind of walk

671
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: them through how to communicate about these or do you

672
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: are you actually showing them what it looks like. We

673
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,720
Speaker 1: also do events all over kinky pop up events, and

674
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 1: we help people basically if they're like, yo, this is

675
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: what I'm into. Say it's spanking or flogging or something

676
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 1: like that. You don't really just want to start hitting

677
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,840
Speaker 1: on somebody without knowing what you're doing. We spoke about

678
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: that last time. So okay, So so you brought up flogging.

679
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: You have floggers with you, and we have a better

680
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: video now, so I'm glad that you brought them. If

681
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: you want to, I guess, show the camera what floggers are?

682
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: Can you explain um to our new list what flogging is?

683
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: So flogging is a former impact play? No, bro, that

684
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: ain't that's these are These are actually handmade their leather

685
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: and all that handmade. Wow. So like I have them,

686
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: but they don't like I'm I guess that's why I

687
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 1: don't hurt. This is like it's not these aren't gonna

688
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: really hurt you like that. These are more they're more

689
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: like a thud. So it's it's more like if you

690
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: get spanked, do we see can we see I gotta

691
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 1: warmer up? And all you got a warm up? Why

692
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: do you got a warmer up? So that's gonna feel

693
00:35:35,120 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: good for they don't have gloves on? That looks like

694
00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 1: you got to go ride a bite. No, I use

695
00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 1: I use these gloves actually, Like it's another another thing

696
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: for spanking, right, So like if someone spanks you and

697
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: they use just their fingers, there's more of a sting

698
00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: to it. Someone spank you're using using the center of

699
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:53,959
Speaker 1: their hand, there's more of a cup to it, back

700
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: out the bottom, more hit. Yeah, So if you're more

701
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,400
Speaker 1: of a person who likes the thud, you would enjoy these.

702
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,759
Speaker 1: So I know Mandy is trying to surprise me right

703
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: now with the whole flogging thing. Can I just like

704
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:07,399
Speaker 1: learn how to spank? Can we like learn? Can you? Yeah,

705
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,920
Speaker 1: you have to spank on Andy. Wait, many has a

706
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:13,879
Speaker 1: good spanking, but I have less. I don't. I got

707
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 1: you turn it should be could When I came in

708
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,359
Speaker 1: the studio, she was like, oh, yeah, you're gonna get

709
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: flogged today. And even though I'm totally into it, what

710
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: I really want to say is she's been you want

711
00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: to hit me, you hit me? Everybody tells me, and

712
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 1: my ass is just so chigg Okay, let's just spigure out. Okay,

713
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: so wait, wait, waitle you talk about it first. So

714
00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,920
Speaker 1: the hand sorry by the way, Christomer running light, but

715
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: the hand right, these goddamn rings off because in the

716
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 1: bottom definitely got to take those rings. I'll take my

717
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:44,000
Speaker 1: rings off. So Fellas, if you have rings on your hand,

718
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 1: because my daddy Jamaican, he used to wear goals are

719
00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 1: all goddamn every finger. So if you're fucking you would

720
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: suggest to take jewelry off the hand for sure. Okay,

721
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,320
Speaker 1: So slap with your right hand if you married, Fellas,

722
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: because that was so great. This is what I was

723
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: going to make a joke because it's our hundred episode

724
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: that like we didn't fight, I could to hit you

725
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: during Okay, so check it out. When when you're when

726
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:08,440
Speaker 1: you're talking about impact play before we even get to

727
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: any of the spanking. When you get to impact play,

728
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: it's very important because you can hurt somebody, right, So

729
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: the reason I talk about warming somebody up with things

730
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 1: like floggers is you want to get all those important

731
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: all those important dopamine and all all the chemicals from

732
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: the brain that relaxes the body. You start really lightly kissing,

733
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,840
Speaker 1: and yeah, I mean you could do that. You know,

734
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,880
Speaker 1: we can keep each other h like for example, like

735
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: if I was flogging, I would start at your shoulders,

736
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: but we practicing, we were spanking and were flogging. I

737
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: want to I want to teach me. So okay, okay,

738
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm so I would take my hand. I'm going to

739
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 1: use the bottom. Let's maybe see you do the good

740
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: speak first. You really okay? So hold on because I

741
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:58,799
Speaker 1: want to make sure that you tell the listeners. So

742
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: what's the correct way to spank? So king I just

743
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 1: stood up. Man, he's sent over YouTube. So women, if

744
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: you're spanking your man, men, if you're spanking your women,

745
00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:12,759
Speaker 1: anybody has uh the same, the same vibe that you're

746
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 1: gonna get in here from the lady tank, Like we're

747
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: horny you know what I'm saying. No, it's it's all

748
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: in the podendal nerves. Podendal nerves. That's a big word

749
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: from school ship, you know, say what's the what is there?

750
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:29,359
Speaker 1: As I reading ship, but I never read no, man,

751
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: take that's the other words. So that's where we all

752
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,959
Speaker 1: have these nerves. And when you speak properly is gonna

753
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: send waves through those nerves. But you don't want to

754
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,319
Speaker 1: just run up on somebody like a disrespectful dude at

755
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: the club and just smack the ship out of something. Yeah,

756
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:41,919
Speaker 1: because then it hurt. That was a real hood rat smack.

757
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: Let's see the I'm a fetish trainer smack. But so

758
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 1: we start, oh oh my god. See so I want

759
00:38:53,680 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 1: to say, I'm watching him do it, and he's starting

760
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 1: like from the bottom of the child from what I

761
00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,120
Speaker 1: see that wave going, because yes, I feel the wave.

762
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:05,400
Speaker 1: Like if we was we was really into it and

763
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: spank you, then already had me pounding on you and

764
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,880
Speaker 1: pushing that nerve. Okay, so you'd already be warmed up.

765
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: But if you're not warmed up, that's why you work.

766
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 1: You work some people you can also work to Okay. Yeah,

767
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: the thigh is my spot. I'm not even a lie

768
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 1: to you. I cannot got just handle this shirt right now, bro,

769
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: like I can't. I'm getting nervous. Okay, me too, is it? Okay?

770
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 1: This is Benson. Get a climb up there and change

771
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 1: the a secause I'm sucked up right now. God, Okay,

772
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: let's switch seats. We know yours, so okay, let's just

773
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 1: I'll just stay here because we can rock like this

774
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. But like the same thing with flow. By

775
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: the way, our next guest is sitting here. I want

776
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 1: you to know this is not something normal. She's probably like,

777
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: what the fund I came there talking about my goddamn book,

778
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 1: not getting sucked in here come. But like so, like

779
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: for example, that you were working with flogging, you go

780
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: straight to to somebody with something like that. You start

781
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: with the you start up here because like I said,

782
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: that's what releases all those good vibes and from your brain.

783
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 1: You know that flight like I've seen well, I used

784
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 1: to have a dumb a few and they would always

785
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 1: like use the flogger like slightly on my face and

786
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: my chest, like they would kind of put it on

787
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: my body first. I would get to know how it

788
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: feels I've never had someone do, like the shoulder but

789
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: like my breast. Yeah, And like one thing I noticed

790
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: that I've never seen someone do, and I've seen your

791
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 1: videos is like you all do some kind of acrobatic

792
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: ship where you're like, fucking, what's that calls Florentine? What

793
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 1: is it? Florentine? The big words. It looks like it's

794
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: basically like a figure eight. It's two different ways to

795
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: do it that will make like let's say, if I

796
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: if I keep my elbows low or something like that,

797
00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 1: it's going to hit you a certain way. If I

798
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:53,759
Speaker 1: raise my elbows up, it's gonna hit you a different way.

799
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: So kind of like where I'm aiming. Yes, because I'm hot,

800
00:40:56,560 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: Thanks bro, I'm hot over here. The only time I

801
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: really got super turned on and wet and here was

802
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 1: when Nina K said, Oh my god, I love cream

803
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 1: pies all I love when they come in my pussy.

804
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:10,359
Speaker 1: I was sitting here like professional and right now. Yeah,

805
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: And I never thought I would get this wet from

806
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: watching you. You know you want to watch me, Vin,

807
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: you want to watch me get it? Kind of it's

808
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: like heavier than any flogger I've ever felt. But he's

809
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,520
Speaker 1: also much stronger than you. No, no, no, but I

810
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: mean just touching it. Oh yeah, they all have Like

811
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:29,919
Speaker 1: I have something that are really light that will sting

812
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 1: more different kinds of like the throws I made with

813
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:35,799
Speaker 1: something different. It all depends on kind of like what

814
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: you're going for and the's I like to use with

815
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,279
Speaker 1: people who aren't particularly like, yo, beat the ship out

816
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: of me, you know what I mean? Like, these are

817
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: what you like to use with people that say, don't

818
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: beat the ship out of me when you feel it,

819
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: when you feel it. If I'm not like swinging for

820
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:51,520
Speaker 1: the fences and nothing like that. If I'm if I'm

821
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: just using it to warm you up, those are very comfortable,

822
00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 1: Like can I just feel like when you don't have

823
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: to warm me up? I just want to feel one good?

824
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:02,040
Speaker 1: Like you just hit her one time one time? Can

825
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 1: you just I got a hole in my legs and

826
00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 1: my house. Oh that's fine, that's right, So go over

827
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: and just flog her one time. Oh oh okay, wait too,

828
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 1: I go sit forward or backwards around just like that,

829
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 1: all right, y'all. So basically now she is bending over.

830
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 1: Keep you there, we go. Oh, spread your legs open

831
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:27,479
Speaker 1: a little bit, hold on that explain a little bit. Yeah,

832
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: she was not here where I think I covered it

833
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: up for you. Okay, so look he's bending her over.

834
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:41,439
Speaker 1: Oh so that little bit of nervousness that she had,

835
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:53,240
Speaker 1: Uh huh yeah, oh he said, keep your heads straight.

836
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 1: I really like feeling it on my shoulder, like more

837
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 1: than I thought you like it on your shoulder? Yeah,

838
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: I really do. Like I didn't think i'd get excited

839
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,839
Speaker 1: at it from my shoulders. And then when you moved

840
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 1: down and now he's hitting your ass, can you not move? Oh?

841
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: There you go? All right, I got to say servant,

842
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: somebody man, somebody daddy, and he's doing the figure eight

843
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: motion to now bro um. You know, I honestly I

844
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,839
Speaker 1: forgot people were in the room. Really. Yeah, you're really

845
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: good at what you do. So everybody wants me to

846
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 1: stop white guys. There you go. So I love that

847
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:43,480
Speaker 1: we got into this because this is what's going to

848
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: lead into decision you take so much, I guess focus

849
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 1: on pleasing women, touching them were they'll feel sensations that

850
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 1: maybe they haven't felt before. And so for the horrible

851
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 1: decision for this episode, because we do have a lot

852
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:05,840
Speaker 1: of men listeners um. I wanted to get into a

853
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 1: conversation on how a man can get into pleasing a woman,

854
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: how they know they're pleasing their woman, and kind of

855
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: the things that maybe they should look to do in

856
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: order to make sure that their woman reaches orgasm because

857
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: of course, as we know, people fake orgasms, um, which

858
00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: is an awful thing in en do not reward bad

859
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: But even if it was good sex and you just

860
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: can't get there, like, it's okay to say, like it

861
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 1: was a good funk, but I didn't come. I've told

862
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: guys that before and they've felt some type of way

863
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 1: about it. But I think it's important. I would say

864
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: it's been me being into in my head, are stressed

865
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: out or whatever, or like a new experience. Sometimes with

866
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: new people, I'm like a little you know, tense um,

867
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: not now for one person, and foremost, talk to the

868
00:44:54,680 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: men first. There's too much focus men. We focus too

869
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 1: much on busting or nut like well, first and foremost like,

870
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 1: if if that's your entire focus of why you're being

871
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: with somebody sexually, then you're already wrong. Oh I like

872
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 1: that because it's two people that are there right focus

873
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:15,839
Speaker 1: on your nut when you're jerking off. Do you think

874
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: that this comes from porn? I've heard I want to

875
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: go see a woman John Dereka Llust and she was like, listen,

876
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,480
Speaker 1: all the porn we watch growing up is showing men

877
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,520
Speaker 1: coming and then it's finished, and we're all waiting for

878
00:45:27,560 --> 00:45:30,359
Speaker 1: that climax, and we're always learning that thing of like, oh,

879
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:32,439
Speaker 1: if women don't come, it's your fault, and if men

880
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,680
Speaker 1: don't come, it's also your fault. Like, yeah, I think

881
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 1: I think porn has something to do with it, for sure,

882
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,959
Speaker 1: But I think that this is a mentality that dates

883
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: way back before porn even exists, well at least porn

884
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: as we know it. You know, I think that we

885
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: live in a society that doesn't really value women at all.

886
00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 1: So sea, men, are you getting them sessions? Book? Now? Boys,

887
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: men are only concerned not only with their orgasm, but

888
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,920
Speaker 1: with their point, with their voice, with their thoughts. You know,

889
00:45:58,080 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: women are overlooked with pretty much things. So when it

890
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 1: comes down to this most carnal of things, at this

891
00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:05,799
Speaker 1: moment of pleasure, a man is the only thing about.

892
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: Why do you think that is this something that innately

893
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: like do you think it? Did you have sisters? Like,

894
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: what was it about you, then make sure why do

895
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: you think you're so focused on it or what upbringing

896
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: that did you have it affected how you view women

897
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: or treat women during sex or anything like that. What

898
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 1: do you think it's been different about your life? I mean,

899
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: I was raised by a group of great women who

900
00:46:30,280 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: did everything. You know what I'm saying, Like, um, not

901
00:46:33,120 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 1: to say that there were no good men in my life,

902
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: but I was raised by my mother, my grandmother, my

903
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: great grandmother. But did they have that conversation with you?

904
00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: Not really, I mean it was just more like my

905
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: perception of women isn't that women are less than me.

906
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,719
Speaker 1: I think that I think that that's kind of like

907
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: what most men have is no matter what, like even

908
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: some men who were raised by great women still have

909
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: a perception that women are are to be valued less

910
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: in whatever kind of aspect it is. So sex is

911
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,640
Speaker 1: only another aspect of life. So I mean, I wouldn't

912
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: say that I had that conversation specifically, but I definitely

913
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: learned to value all human beings. But also like I

914
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 1: think that women should be put on a pedestal. I

915
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,960
Speaker 1: think that if especially when it comes to pleasure, and

916
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:24,760
Speaker 1: this even if even if you have a selfish motive.

917
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:26,840
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, your sex is going

918
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 1: to be better if you please the woman you're with. Like,

919
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,959
Speaker 1: even if you're just a selfish asshole and you can't

920
00:47:30,960 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 1: look past the selfishness of it, your sex will still

921
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 1: be better. Focus on what are some of the focuses

922
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,759
Speaker 1: or what are some of the things that you think

923
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: a man can do If he's been one of those

924
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,439
Speaker 1: that just suns to get his nut and now he's

925
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 1: maybe maturing and wants to please the women that he's fucking,

926
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: what would be some of the first steps that you

927
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:51,720
Speaker 1: would give that man to make sure that he's going

928
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 1: into it to please the woman. Ask her what she likes.

929
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 1: It's so crazy. I just had a tweet and this

930
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: actually applies to women as well. I just had a

931
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:05,920
Speaker 1: tweet by by one of our listeners and she said, Hey,

932
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 1: my boyfriend, every time he goes down on me puts

933
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,479
Speaker 1: fingers in my vagina and I really don't like it.

934
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,920
Speaker 1: How do I tell him in a nice way? I

935
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: don't like. I saw you retweet a reply from someone

936
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:18,799
Speaker 1: that I didn't like either. She was like, why are

937
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: people not why are people doing this? Like kind of

938
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 1: I think We've got to give women a little bit

939
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: of a break because we're always so focused on men

940
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: and kind of trained that way. I mean, even my

941
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,839
Speaker 1: mother saying, got to make sure you do this for him,

942
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: and got to make sure you do this this for

943
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: your man. We think we can't say when we don't

944
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: like something, right. I mean, this is goes back to

945
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: hate to bring it up, but very much that azizonsary

946
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: moment with people blaming that girl for not knowing when

947
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: to say no. A lot of women don't know when

948
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:49,799
Speaker 1: to say no. And even though that is a different situation,

949
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 1: there's so many times in my life, you know, Leaven

950
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: a little bit older, even twenty five, I'll say where

951
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: I've been sucked away him and like I don't really

952
00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: like this, but like I'll just let it be finished

953
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 1: for him. I think. I think there's also kind of

954
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:08,640
Speaker 1: like this romantic romantic idea that the person that is

955
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 1: the perfect sexual partner for you is going to know

956
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 1: everything you like, right. And I think that if you

957
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: think about yourself, to make that point, if you think,

958
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: if you think about yourself today and you think about

959
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: yourself five years ago, chances are most things are gonna

960
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: have changed, even if slightly, not just sexually, but just

961
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: in your entire life. So it's kind of like you

962
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,280
Speaker 1: might you might also like certain things with one person

963
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: and not with somebody else, Like you might be like, yo,

964
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:34,879
Speaker 1: I love the way you flogged, but this other time

965
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,799
Speaker 1: I got flogged, I did not like it because they

966
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: did A B and C. So that could happen the

967
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:45,319
Speaker 1: same thing, like men assume that because they listened to

968
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: the show that I'm just like such a submissive, Like

969
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't want you to smack me in the face.

970
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: I like this from certain people i'm with. I don't

971
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: want it from everybody. I think, you know what I'm saying, Like,

972
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 1: it's I think um a lot of a lot of

973
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 1: times too. People will say something like, yeah, I'm into kink,

974
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,719
Speaker 1: or I'm into b DSM, or I'm a sub. But

975
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you're a sub to everybody, just like

976
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: people think that because I'm a dumb I just walk

977
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,600
Speaker 1: around telling people what to do all day, and that's

978
00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: that's not how life works, you know. So it's kind

979
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: of like what I like to do sexually doesn't mean

980
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: that I'm an asshole of people in everyday life. We

981
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:21,200
Speaker 1: say that about the podcast. Just because we talk about

982
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 1: sex openly doesn't mean we want to have sex with you.

983
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: And a lot of people automatically assume that because we

984
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: are sex positive and open freely, that now anyone can

985
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 1: send us dick pics an just like people especially think

986
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: even more than porn stars strippers get because like it's

987
00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: really I can't even imagine someone like giving you money

988
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: in that moment, watching you dance and thinking they can

989
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,240
Speaker 1: violate you. Bro, I'd be going off on everybody. Yeah, yeah,

990
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: I definitely. It's it's interesting because of my profession. You know,

991
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: I definitely can. I mean I don't. I can't say

992
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 1: I can walk into woman's shoes, you know what I'm saying. Like,

993
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: I know, y'all deal with it. I'll never have to understand.

994
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:02,440
Speaker 1: But oh, like from my home girls, Actually it was

995
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,279
Speaker 1: Taomi who said it's like optical rape. You know, I

996
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 1: get dudes who send me dick picks all the time,

997
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: Like I want to be important, bro or whatever? What

998
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,480
Speaker 1: do you think it's like? Or just men who are

999
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,960
Speaker 1: interested in me, you know, just send me dick picks

1000
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: all day. And I'm like, and I get women who

1001
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: send me pussy picks. I get all day and it's like,

1002
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: I love pussy, but that doesn't mean I want you

1003
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: to send me yours, you know, And I'm pretty and

1004
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: I'm pretty, and so I think about the sisters I

1005
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:38,399
Speaker 1: know who get dick picks. They might have never even

1006
00:51:38,520 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: talked about sex to a dude. And he's like, just

1007
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 1: some guy I met. I gave him my number, he

1008
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 1: said hi, and send a dick pick. You know what

1009
00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like that ship is crazy. And it still

1010
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: goes back to that thing that we were just talking

1011
00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:54,560
Speaker 1: about about men who do not care about women and

1012
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 1: what they think or how they feel. So all of that,

1013
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,719
Speaker 1: it's a societal thing and it's gonna be reflecting how

1014
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 1: people have sex. Have you ever, I'm curious to know,

1015
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 1: Like I want to tell you this, but I I

1016
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,040
Speaker 1: didn't think I would tell you, but now I want to.

1017
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 1: So when I first had you, I mean when I'm sorry,

1018
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 1: when we first had you on horrible decisions, right, I

1019
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 1: wasn't there A dude I know was like, oh yeah, yeah,

1020
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 1: so his fasture ain't ending gay. I was like, why

1021
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 1: would you think that? And he was like I don't know,

1022
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 1: Like I saw like what he does. Have you ever

1023
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: noticed that men that are more in tune with their

1024
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: sex or like men that do fetish, Like people always

1025
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,000
Speaker 1: assume male sex workers are gay, and like, how does

1026
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:36,319
Speaker 1: that play into your role? Because I think I think

1027
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:40,360
Speaker 1: it happens for sure. For one, I've had people say,

1028
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: DoD you gay because I think our Kelly is a

1029
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 1: piece of ship. Yeah, I mean no, I'm definite. Like

1030
00:52:49,280 --> 00:52:52,680
Speaker 1: arguments that I've had with people online or in person

1031
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: where it's like insside with a woman and they'd be like,

1032
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: you must be gay or you just do that to

1033
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:00,680
Speaker 1: get pussy, you know what I mean, Like it's one

1034
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:02,120
Speaker 1: or the other. And I'm like, those are two really

1035
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 1: different things, but you're calling me both right now, you

1036
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like, I think that there's this

1037
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: whole perception that if a man has respect for women,

1038
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 1: or if a man is in tune with his body

1039
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:15,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, that he's gay. First, I don't take it

1040
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,000
Speaker 1: as an insult. I know a lot of great people.

1041
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 1: I don't think that gay as an insult. But my

1042
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: sexuality is, um, it's women, you know what I'm saying.

1043
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: But I think that it's just kind of like people

1044
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 1: might use that as an insult. I really like the

1045
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:27,920
Speaker 1: way you said that. Did y'all see the video of

1046
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: the dude that was like, listen, God could deal with

1047
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: you the way he wants, but no, shame to the gays,

1048
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: but don't send me dick picks. I was like, that

1049
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,600
Speaker 1: sounds like shame. Yeah, God can deal with you. Did

1050
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,680
Speaker 1: you see that? No? I didn't. It was like circling

1051
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: around I don't know if it was a male model

1052
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: or a porn star was going around Twitter, and I

1053
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: was like, why did they have to say it's so angry?

1054
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:51,319
Speaker 1: Like okay, like you're that fucking fine that everybody wants

1055
00:53:51,360 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: to fuck you. That's it. The interesting thing is, though,

1056
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: when when I've told women like, yo, chill, don't don't

1057
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: send me that unless I asked for it. You gay women, No,

1058
00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:03,480
Speaker 1: women are actually way more like that. I think they

1059
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: come back into themselves and be like, oh ship, yeah,

1060
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:11,880
Speaker 1: that was kind of a really but why why do

1061
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: you think women then say if you don't like something

1062
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: or you don't want to suck them, then you're gay?

1063
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,000
Speaker 1: Like why do you think we throw that out? Is

1064
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 1: that our own insecurity? I think that that's just like

1065
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: one of those insults that they know will resonate with

1066
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: most people. You know. I think that that's like that,

1067
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: and your mom is a bit that pretty much set

1068
00:54:28,160 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: off everybody, you know. So it's kind of like those

1069
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: are the go to John's right there. Yeah. So I

1070
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 1: wanted to to circle back into a man pleasing his woman,

1071
00:54:38,800 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: UM And I kind of wanted to get this into

1072
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:42,759
Speaker 1: maybe one of the kinks that we've discussed on the

1073
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,440
Speaker 1: show previously, um, which would be cuc holding. UM. So

1074
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring this up because in that fashion

1075
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 1: or when I watch it, it makes me feel like

1076
00:54:52,239 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: a man is choosing cup holding as a means to

1077
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: please a woman because he can't please his woman. UM.

1078
00:54:58,200 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 1: So I kind of wanted to get into maybe the

1079
00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 1: site key if a man is with his woman and

1080
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:06,480
Speaker 1: chooses maybe to bring another party into the bedroom, what

1081
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:09,160
Speaker 1: that means the psyche of it. And you've done cut holding,

1082
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,440
Speaker 1: So I want to know kind of your psyche as

1083
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 1: the person who's being the giver, and that that's actually

1084
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:18,600
Speaker 1: like one of the things that first UM introduced me

1085
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: into into B D s M and that whole lifestyle

1086
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 1: cuc holding was before. Yeah, because I actually I started,

1087
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 1: like when I first did porn. Some people started reaching

1088
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 1: out like, hey, would you fuck my wife? You know,

1089
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: that's actually kind of like how I got into That's

1090
00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:39,839
Speaker 1: how I learned um about domination and submissions. Like cuc

1091
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 1: holding is way a little bit above like just dressing

1092
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: up and spitting, and those to me are like baby steps.

1093
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: So cut holding being your baby step into beding. Remember

1094
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:50,919
Speaker 1: resturin guy wanted like the cuc holding ship to happen

1095
00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: all the time. That's kind of crazy and I was

1096
00:55:53,040 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 1: super into it until he was like, oh, it can

1097
00:55:55,560 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: only be a black guy. And then I was like

1098
00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm done, and do you get that too? Like being

1099
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 1: definitely get that um. And of course our listeners are

1100
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:05,200
Speaker 1: gonna be like, he's racially ambiguous. I don't know why

1101
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,839
Speaker 1: you'll want to call it like they do not want

1102
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,439
Speaker 1: to give us the black title for ship, but tell

1103
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 1: that ship to the police and you know, there you go.

1104
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:16,359
Speaker 1: Now when the coucolding does happen, right, the couples hit

1105
00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,840
Speaker 1: you up so like this is something that they want.

1106
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I actually get um single males to who

1107
00:56:23,000 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: want to be cuckolded, and I'll just sit there and

1108
00:56:25,800 --> 00:56:28,720
Speaker 1: watch me and Jasmine work, or me and another performer

1109
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:32,360
Speaker 1: as well's I think a lot of it has to

1110
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 1: do with what you say. Like some people who feel inadequate, um,

1111
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 1: some people who feel like they can never please a

1112
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:43,680
Speaker 1: woman in in the same way. But for some people,

1113
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: it's like the ultimate submission, like there's someone who's so

1114
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 1: dominant over them that they dominate their household, or there's

1115
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:58,360
Speaker 1: someone that's so dominant over them that it's like for

1116
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: for some they want to be what's considered like cissified

1117
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 1: or forced to be by That's another where like I

1118
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:12,719
Speaker 1: got it, like they like you forced them to like

1119
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: suck your dick or something like that. Are you comfortable

1120
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: with that doesn't make you I have not had a

1121
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,760
Speaker 1: cluck suck my dick before, but I definitely make them

1122
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: eat my comb from shut up, dude, you know what

1123
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,920
Speaker 1: I did? I am booking my session. Where do you

1124
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: normally come that they lick off up? Like? Well, it

1125
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: depends like in um there was if you if you

1126
00:57:34,920 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: go to Royal Fetish x x X dot com, I'm

1127
00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:44,880
Speaker 1: joining Like I shot a scene with slave Fluffy and

1128
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: Ivory Brooks. I came like all over her stomach and chest.

1129
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 1: I don't know what I was eating that week, but

1130
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that, did you? Did you? Maybe not

1131
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 1: like he couldn't finish as much as I could, wait,

1132
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 1: but you wanted it like it was kind of his

1133
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: task to lick it all up. That was his duty. Yo.

1134
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: Shot you see me here on the internet. Look, don't

1135
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: be trying to look it up. Yeah, bet you gotta

1136
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,760
Speaker 1: pay for his ship. Ain't even freeing on the business account.

1137
00:58:14,800 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: Okay you hear me. Decisions LLC. We're gonna share this

1138
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:22,920
Speaker 1: password that this that this, So it's this scene. She's

1139
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 1: really fucking cute. Yea. So like there was another scene

1140
00:58:26,520 --> 00:58:29,880
Speaker 1: I shot with Jasmine for another company and Jazz is

1141
00:58:29,920 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: my partner, so I can't evenside of her and the

1142
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: cop ate it out. You made him eat the creams

1143
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,919
Speaker 1: my favorite party. She'd be eating like by eating cream pot.

1144
00:58:38,080 --> 00:58:39,760
Speaker 1: I look all that ship up. I mean look, did

1145
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: I say? Look you nasty? Um? Yeah, I'm so like, hey,

1146
00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 1: I can't film it, but if you can block the

1147
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 1: tattoos out, I'm in um look look, but I mean

1148
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 1: it's funny because like for me, that being like one

1149
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: of my first like super extreme the first the first

1150
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: experience I've ever had. It was it was hit in

1151
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,440
Speaker 1: New York it was in Long Island this couple day

1152
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 1: was like nice Long Island, travel out there from Jerors

1153
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 1: or whatever. You know. Were you in the house. Yeah,

1154
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: they had this table and all that ship, and I

1155
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: destroyed her on the pool table and made him sit

1156
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: in the corner and jerk office his ship with two fingers.

1157
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: Not one of those those are like that was your

1158
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: first experience? That my first Were you excited about it?

1159
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 1: Were you nervous? It was? It was one of those experiences.

1160
00:59:37,880 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: Was like she was hot. I was like I was

1161
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: all for it, you know, and you know I left

1162
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 1: with some bread too, so that was great. But I mean,

1163
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 1: you know, they filmed it and all this other stuff

1164
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: like it was. It was. It was crazy. I was

1165
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,520
Speaker 1: going to ask you if they filmed it, because like

1166
00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: whenever I'm important hub looking at like amateur, sometimes I

1167
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 1: wonder like yo, I feel like they found this dude

1168
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: on tender and they were like yo can and like

1169
01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 1: they had and then I feel like the phone is

1170
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,160
Speaker 1: always in a position like the other person doesn't know,

1171
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm gonna come watching this, but it's

1172
01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 1: also sucked up. Yeah, I definitely knew about it ahead

1173
01:00:16,280 --> 01:00:18,880
Speaker 1: of time, so that was cool. It was it was

1174
01:00:19,360 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 1: they reached out through a company that I worked for.

1175
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: So so as a man who comes in and does

1176
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 1: the performing while the other man watches, what kind of

1177
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:31,280
Speaker 1: goes through your mind? Or if a man is interested

1178
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: in maybe doing that, is there any type of preparation

1179
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:36,040
Speaker 1: mentally that you have to do. I don't know. Everybody

1180
01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:38,720
Speaker 1: is different. I mean me, I'm a complete exhibitionist. Like

1181
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: when people watch me too, like like when people ask

1182
01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,000
Speaker 1: like what what what makes you different? Like I look

1183
01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: at porn and all that. I think of it as

1184
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 1: like being a sexual athlete, you know, like you gotta

1185
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: show up, you gotta perform. You we are so grateful

1186
01:00:56,160 --> 01:00:59,240
Speaker 1: that you're not accountant, because what a waste of skill,

1187
01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 1: you know what. Sometimes I stuck tick and I'd be

1188
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:03,800
Speaker 1: like I should totally feel that, Like that's what makes

1189
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,280
Speaker 1: me have so many videos. Someone just told me I

1190
01:01:05,280 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: was born to be a porn star, and I kind

1191
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 1: of take that. It's like, wait, I could do more

1192
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 1: than I gave a laby a massage so good the

1193
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:14,080
Speaker 1: other day and I was like, I can teach the class,

1194
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: like you know, and I think in the day and

1195
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: age that we live a porn star doesn't limit you

1196
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: to just one thing. I think slowly. I mean, there's

1197
01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 1: still a whole lot of you know, bad connotation with

1198
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: it and all that. But we've seen certain people who

1199
01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: have come into the business from all kinds of walks

1200
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:33,760
Speaker 1: of life. You see some people who take this business

1201
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: and go to other walks of life that back in

1202
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 1: the day they were like, now you can't do that.

1203
01:01:37,960 --> 01:01:40,040
Speaker 1: So you know, I think that that for me, Like

1204
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: from the first time I was on your show, there

1205
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 1: were people who are like, wow, I didn't know you

1206
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:50,520
Speaker 1: were articulate, Like they automatically think that. Jau. Then you

1207
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 1: came straight out of jail. You couldn't get a knowledge

1208
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: you could guess jail because you'd be like, damn, he

1209
01:01:55,560 --> 01:02:00,160
Speaker 1: must have read a lot. I could be all sick

1210
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,960
Speaker 1: and go to jail. I think, you know, I think

1211
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: the way the world works. I think the way the

1212
01:02:05,200 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 1: world works. I think it's very important for me to

1213
01:02:08,600 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: just break as many boxes as possible. Absolutely, I think

1214
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 1: I think like the work that we do, for example,

1215
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: with with our class point in parenting. You know, we're

1216
01:02:17,240 --> 01:02:19,080
Speaker 1: not telling people that, you know, you could go out

1217
01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: there and be porn stars, but we're saying you could

1218
01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: be a point star on your own bedroom, you know,

1219
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: but as a but as a parent, you know, there's

1220
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 1: certain responsibility that you have, you know what I'm saying.

1221
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: And then also at the same time, how can you

1222
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: be a sex positive parent so that your children will

1223
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: not be shamed or won't shame themselves, but can still

1224
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: live a safe And now I want you, Jasmine and

1225
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: the baby in here next time. But I'm not even

1226
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:40,840
Speaker 1: a lie like that. I want her best feed. I

1227
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:43,280
Speaker 1: want to make it a whole mom. That's like a

1228
01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 1: thing with me, Like when I go, like if I'm

1229
01:02:45,400 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 1: sucking a guy and he has a kid in the house,

1230
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I can't even moan. And I'm a moner.

1231
01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:50,840
Speaker 1: I love being loud, but it's nothing. I don't want

1232
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:53,520
Speaker 1: the child to hear me moaning. And that's so that's

1233
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 1: kind of what. Yeah, that's when, that's when you could

1234
01:02:58,120 --> 01:02:59,920
Speaker 1: get the pillow. You know. I want to tell you

1235
01:03:00,120 --> 01:03:02,600
Speaker 1: thing you just said checking off the boxes. I think

1236
01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: the most impressive and interesting thing about you that I

1237
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:09,000
Speaker 1: found from just being a listener in that episode was

1238
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: that you were a dom that carred so much about

1239
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: pleasuring women like you could almost tell it wasn't phony.

1240
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: You know that it's a very genuine thing about you,

1241
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:20,919
Speaker 1: Even me saying I want to spank Mandy, you making

1242
01:03:20,960 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 1: sure that I did it a certain way. Having a

1243
01:03:23,880 --> 01:03:26,520
Speaker 1: dom that loves to give pleasure is a great thing.

1244
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 1: Like I've had doms that, you know, spank me, make

1245
01:03:29,920 --> 01:03:32,280
Speaker 1: me suck not that don't like, make me suck a dick,

1246
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: and it's just like, and I'm going crazy because I'm

1247
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: ready to come. And even though that's part of it

1248
01:03:36,400 --> 01:03:40,360
Speaker 1: sometimes like I don't know if they necessarily care or

1249
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 1: if it's just part of the play, but I think

1250
01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: you seem to make it very clear that that is

1251
01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:47,600
Speaker 1: a priority, and that's what makes it so fun. I

1252
01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:49,960
Speaker 1: think that it should because there's a lot of men

1253
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: who are so dominant in the bedroom where like, you know,

1254
01:03:53,560 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: where they like a woman to gag because they you know,

1255
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:57,680
Speaker 1: it's a dumb thing to do and all that stuff.

1256
01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:00,160
Speaker 1: And there are some men where I think I've draw

1257
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 1: on the line where I don't feel like they cared

1258
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:04,440
Speaker 1: whether I was being pleased or not and how they

1259
01:04:04,440 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 1: were treating me, from the slaps to the choking to

1260
01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: all of that. There's even ways to choke where which

1261
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,360
Speaker 1: sometimes it hurts, but there's very ways. There's ways to

1262
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:14,520
Speaker 1: also choke someone where it does it feels good, it

1263
01:04:14,520 --> 01:04:17,200
Speaker 1: turns you want Wheezy wants to almost die and no,

1264
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 1: she I'll be honest with you, I don't like to

1265
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:21,120
Speaker 1: have sex with people like that. I have no experience

1266
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,240
Speaker 1: has no experience with it yet, know I mean, you can,

1267
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: you can definitely hurt somebody. And I think that there

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01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:29,120
Speaker 1: are people who get into b D s M because

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01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:31,280
Speaker 1: they want to hurt people and they think that it

1270
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 1: might be a way that they can hurt people in

1271
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:37,040
Speaker 1: a way that's like oh no, no, no no, no, Like

1272
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:38,440
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm a dom and that

1273
01:04:38,560 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 1: one was so interesting about even though people think it's

1274
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:43,240
Speaker 1: a very vanilla movie in fifty Shades of Gray, when

1275
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 1: he beat her a little too hard because he had

1276
01:04:45,120 --> 01:04:47,960
Speaker 1: that in him, Like, I feel so bad to know

1277
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,000
Speaker 1: there are doms like that. We've had Kiki on here

1278
01:04:50,520 --> 01:04:52,760
Speaker 1: um a sub who was talking about almost like some

1279
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 1: violence ship where I was like, like, but when it

1280
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: comes to I think it's important Like for me, I

1281
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 1: think one of the things I love about domming is

1282
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 1: it forces me to I have to pay such attention

1283
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:12,160
Speaker 1: to myself, especially in a session because you're breathing, you

1284
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 1: know how your body responds, like if you're bruising or

1285
01:05:15,760 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: anything like that, especially if you're like, yeah, I want

1286
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: to like push it. I want to I won't go crazy,

1287
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: so like if we're pushing your limits. But that's also

1288
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: different for everybody. And I'm not attentive enough to your

1289
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 1: body to know, like you know, because some subs will

1290
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want to disappoint my dom, so

1291
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,640
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say my safety word, but they might

1292
01:05:31,680 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: go past the point where they should have said it

1293
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,680
Speaker 1: already if you're not paying enough attention to that person

1294
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 1: to know, like you should cheer for a minute. Let's

1295
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 1: yellow without for a bit, Let's let's relax. That's it

1296
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 1: ready yellow now. I do want to ask if you

1297
01:05:43,760 --> 01:05:45,400
Speaker 1: could just tell us about a time where, like you,

1298
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 1: you know, you do erotic massage and stuff like that.

1299
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a time where you did erotic

1300
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 1: massage and started having sex with that? But like y'all

1301
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 1: were just it was getting crazy, and like, do you

1302
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: have someone in mind or a person or a moment

1303
01:05:56,920 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: you're thinking about? Watch that on Royal Fetish County. You

1304
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 1: got to take right. She got to charge it to

1305
01:06:04,800 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 1: the business account. I'm gonna be like, no, but you

1306
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: make enought, you gotta take that. I'll be honest with

1307
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:13,920
Speaker 1: you next time you're in New York. I'm really um considering.

1308
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,600
Speaker 1: So I've been digging this girl, call her Scissors, and

1309
01:06:17,400 --> 01:06:20,040
Speaker 1: we've dated years ago, and I've been talking about bringing

1310
01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:22,520
Speaker 1: a guy in the room with us, and you know,

1311
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: having an experience, not knowing what it will be, and

1312
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: I think sometimes she worries about male energy and maybe

1313
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:29,840
Speaker 1: like how I'll feel about that person, And I think

1314
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: that I would love to, if you're down, have a

1315
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: session of all three of us and maybe document it

1316
01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 1: like together, sure, all of who you and the other

1317
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:43,920
Speaker 1: girl on him. Yeah, don't be trying to put that

1318
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: on a business count neither, hope research. I want to

1319
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: go ahead before we get out of here, I want

1320
01:06:49,360 --> 01:06:51,840
Speaker 1: to get into our homemaale real quick. As you guys know,

1321
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: you can submit homemail at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com.

1322
01:06:56,200 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: This one was actually sent into my d M, and

1323
01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 1: normally I don't read y'all motherfucking dia. I hate homel

1324
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:04,560
Speaker 1: and dias, but this one was good and I don't

1325
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:06,160
Speaker 1: know if she wanted me to personally help, because you

1326
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 1: know herd my issues in life. But I was like,

1327
01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,400
Speaker 1: we have an open man on the show, so let's see, um,

1328
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:13,120
Speaker 1: you know, if maybe you can help us. So it

1329
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: says good morning, girly. UM, I have a big question.

1330
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:19,840
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know how to even handle this. I've

1331
01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,320
Speaker 1: been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over

1332
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: a year and we lived together. I recently found out

1333
01:07:25,720 --> 01:07:29,000
Speaker 1: that before me, he lived with a transsexual woman for

1334
01:07:29,080 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 1: two years, and supposedly he didn't know she still had

1335
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: a penis. He even put a restraining order out on her.

1336
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 1: At the end, I'm thinking he only did this to

1337
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:42,240
Speaker 1: cover his own ass with his family. I've called him

1338
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:45,960
Speaker 1: talking to other transsexuals and he just says they're friends.

1339
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 1: Am I wrong to hate him for not telling me

1340
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:50,920
Speaker 1: the truth? I can't even sleep at night with him

1341
01:07:50,960 --> 01:07:53,880
Speaker 1: knowing that he likes men like He won't kiss me

1342
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:55,840
Speaker 1: or go down on me, but he'll be quick to

1343
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 1: suck a dick. He drinks a lot, and I think

1344
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:00,680
Speaker 1: it's something that he's been trying to find himself. I

1345
01:08:00,720 --> 01:08:04,520
Speaker 1: hate her already, what I like, I see why ending

1346
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 1: of it. When I read the ending of it, I

1347
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, so first off, you have a whole

1348
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 1: issue with identify. You're the reason that motherfuckers have to

1349
01:08:11,400 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: write restraining orders, and frankly, I'm almost embarrassed that you're

1350
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 1: a fucking listener of this show. I hope to god

1351
01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,920
Speaker 1: you get offended at what I'm saying. You're a piece

1352
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:23,680
Speaker 1: of ship. You're exactly why we have fucking issues with

1353
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:27,879
Speaker 1: Is she black? She she looks Latina. Fine, she probably

1354
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: likes to fun niggas and she's sucking them up. This

1355
01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 1: is such a toxic way of thinking, Like I don't

1356
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: know who raised you with this fucking bullshit, but let's

1357
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 1: stop calling them transsexuals one that's like, really fucking if

1358
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:43,920
Speaker 1: they also identify and carry themselves as women. We are

1359
01:08:43,960 --> 01:08:46,240
Speaker 1: too IDENTI to suck a dick. Maybe you just don't

1360
01:08:46,240 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: want to fuck you. Maybe it's not enough with you.

1361
01:08:48,760 --> 01:08:50,800
Speaker 1: Maybe that's the fucking problem. Maybe you could d M

1362
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 1: me and we could talk about it more on I Live.

1363
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:55,559
Speaker 1: Because I'm gonna tell you right now the problem with

1364
01:08:55,680 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 1: men not being comfortable with enjoying other people. I'm not

1365
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,599
Speaker 1: even gonna a men or women or whoever other people

1366
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 1: is because of the fear of them looking like whatever

1367
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:06,800
Speaker 1: you're thinking of him. It doesn't make him less of

1368
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: a man. It doesn't make him less of a person

1369
01:09:09,120 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: to fucking make a restraining order on somebody over some

1370
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: bullshit like that. I really hope he lied to you,

1371
01:09:14,040 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 1: because you're such a judgmental cunt. And I rarely use

1372
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 1: that word, so I don't care. So when I got

1373
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 1: to the ending of that, I was I felt a

1374
01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 1: a little hurt. Um. But also again, I have a

1375
01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,320
Speaker 1: friend who is also going through this um to where

1376
01:09:31,439 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 1: it's led him down alcoholism, therapy, depression because he isn't

1377
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:39,799
Speaker 1: two trends women, and he's he knows that his family

1378
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: may not be accepting of it because he grew up

1379
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:44,640
Speaker 1: in the church, so hiding that piece of himself from

1380
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,639
Speaker 1: his mom. He even told me like, yo, I brought

1381
01:09:47,680 --> 01:09:49,599
Speaker 1: a white girl home to my mom one time. Could

1382
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,760
Speaker 1: you imagine if I brought you know, x y Z.

1383
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,440
Speaker 1: And even just that thought process is just it's unfortunate

1384
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,080
Speaker 1: that and we've Wheezy and I have both said it

1385
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 1: before that unfortunately as women, um are just as much

1386
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:04,360
Speaker 1: the root of the cause to men not being able

1387
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:06,960
Speaker 1: to open up sexually, whether it's their kinks that they

1388
01:10:06,960 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: want in the bedroom, um, like pegging or other things

1389
01:10:09,960 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: that I've mentioned on the show, UM, or whether it

1390
01:10:13,200 --> 01:10:16,640
Speaker 1: isn't experimenting or finding out what they genuinely like in

1391
01:10:16,640 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: the bedroom in fear of what the women they date,

1392
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,679
Speaker 1: or the women they speak with or their women family

1393
01:10:22,680 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 1: members will think of them. UM. So I like that

1394
01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:26,640
Speaker 1: you went as hard as you did. Normally i'd be like,

1395
01:10:26,640 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 1: I bet she's one of those that loves gaze and

1396
01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:35,720
Speaker 1: like I love got yeah, ask mean, okay, same ship, right,

1397
01:10:35,760 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: and then you're shady. So I guess realize you have

1398
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:40,479
Speaker 1: to cull a lot of ship out of your life.

1399
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: If you have that much of a problem with trans women,

1400
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 1: a lot of ship out of your life. Gotta go, bitch,

1401
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 1: all the fucking TV shows you watch, all the make up,

1402
01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 1: all of it, bitch, just stop, cancel it, Join City Girls,

1403
01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: what yo? Shut the far? I'm sorry, Like she had,

1404
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:00,519
Speaker 1: I was just like for someone who I was listened

1405
01:11:00,560 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: to our show for you to still be so close minded,

1406
01:11:03,479 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 1: it kind of like, bitch, have you not been listening

1407
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 1: to what the funk we've been saying on this goddamn

1408
01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 1: show I was about to like real something back, but

1409
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 1: I don't care. Yeah, So what would be I guess

1410
01:11:12,840 --> 01:11:15,120
Speaker 1: your response to that, or how do you think maybe

1411
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 1: she should approaches you being a man? What would be

1412
01:11:17,920 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: the right way for her to have this conversation with

1413
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,680
Speaker 1: her man? I think first and foremost, I just want

1414
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: to say that whatever you're into and whoever you're into,

1415
01:11:27,560 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 1: as long as you leave children, animals and people who

1416
01:11:30,360 --> 01:11:34,080
Speaker 1: say no out of it, you're good. Is that description?

1417
01:11:34,120 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: I don't know what right. I don't know think that

1418
01:11:38,200 --> 01:11:42,200
Speaker 1: there is, though, there's this perception of what manhood is,

1419
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 1: and unfortunately, the perception of manhood is pretty fucked up,

1420
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 1: Like it's pretty toxic, as you've stated, you know, I

1421
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:56,320
Speaker 1: think that men posture a lot because they don't know

1422
01:11:56,400 --> 01:12:00,200
Speaker 1: how and especially unfortunately, I mean in our community, we're

1423
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:03,360
Speaker 1: we're always told that our lives don't matter, whether it's man, woman,

1424
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:06,840
Speaker 1: or trans like, we're all told our lives don't matter.

1425
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 1: But there's this perception in Western society that the man

1426
01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:13,559
Speaker 1: is supposed to be the top in the head of everything.

1427
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 1: So in the black and brown community, a lot of

1428
01:12:15,920 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 1: black and brown men are like, why I gotta be

1429
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:20,040
Speaker 1: the head in the top. So then it leads to

1430
01:12:20,800 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 1: men bullying transpho at least to men bullying women. And

1431
01:12:25,080 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 1: then like there was this post. I forget who posted it,

1432
01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:29,120
Speaker 1: but it was so real that it was like black

1433
01:12:29,120 --> 01:12:31,440
Speaker 1: men have become the white men of our own community

1434
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:38,840
Speaker 1: because because everybody else and I think that now, you know,

1435
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:43,040
Speaker 1: you see women who perceive, um, a man is less

1436
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:46,240
Speaker 1: than a man because he was, you know, and you

1437
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:48,800
Speaker 1: you actually said you just want to go see a streak.

1438
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:51,760
Speaker 1: So James Baldwin is one of my greatest heroes of ever,

1439
01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:54,120
Speaker 1: you know, I mean, like, I think that man was

1440
01:12:54,200 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: a man, and he stood up for his people, and

1441
01:12:56,479 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 1: he stood up for everything the way a human being

1442
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,839
Speaker 1: should stand up. You know what I'm saying. His gender

1443
01:13:02,000 --> 01:13:03,920
Speaker 1: was just a part of his story, you know what

1444
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying, just like his blackness is a part of

1445
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 1: his story. And a lot of times we get so

1446
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:10,320
Speaker 1: caught up in all these little things that we try

1447
01:13:10,360 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: to nitpick, to break people apart and break people. And

1448
01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:16,840
Speaker 1: that's what she's doing because she's not happy. And maybe

1449
01:13:16,880 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: y'all just don't fucking fit together. It might not be

1450
01:13:19,880 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 1: because of who he likes. It might not be you

1451
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 1: know what I mean, But I think it's just kind

1452
01:13:26,000 --> 01:13:27,679
Speaker 1: of like if you're trying to find all these things

1453
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 1: about him, Like if you love somebody, you love them

1454
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:31,680
Speaker 1: for who they are. If you like them, you like

1455
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:33,439
Speaker 1: them for who they are. If you don't like them,

1456
01:13:33,479 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 1: then you don't like them at all these other things,

1457
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like you're trying to make

1458
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 1: it about other stuff to justify how you feel about

1459
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 1: him instead of just being like, you know, maybe we

1460
01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,760
Speaker 1: ain't meant to be together. We really can't forget that

1461
01:13:46,800 --> 01:13:48,479
Speaker 1: people are humans though, Like just I mean, you said

1462
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: you thought she was Latina. Like I can't sit here

1463
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,400
Speaker 1: and like be a Black Lives Matter bit and not

1464
01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 1: think about latinas or be a feminist and not thinking

1465
01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 1: about every woman like I can't. I have to remember

1466
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:02,439
Speaker 1: everybody's sucking human, you know. And sometimes I even get

1467
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 1: little brainwashed in my own Euroses where I'm like, I

1468
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,559
Speaker 1: like all the white people and we're like something most

1469
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:09,080
Speaker 1: of them are just a lot of white people are

1470
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:11,280
Speaker 1: not trash, They're just that, you know. And it's like

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01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: I have to really break that shift down and just

1472
01:14:14,880 --> 01:14:18,439
Speaker 1: practice what I preach, but also from what she's trying

1473
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: to do is label him into putting it like something

1474
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 1: is wrong with him for liking trans women um or

1475
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 1: being into sucking dick or whatever. You know. I think

1476
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: that as humans to sit here and classify or degrade

1477
01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: someone based on their sexual preferences, whether you know, our

1478
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 1: next guys talking about sluts or us liking host shit,

1479
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: or if a man likes to engage in other things

1480
01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 1: that may not be of the norm. It doesn't make

1481
01:14:42,360 --> 01:14:45,040
Speaker 1: anyone less Dan, and you shouldn't sit here and feel

1482
01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,320
Speaker 1: the need to make him feel less than because those

1483
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: maybe his choices behind closed doors. So I like that

1484
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: we got on that bitch, you will piece of trash,

1485
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 1: but were gonna hope that you work through this, and

1486
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 1: after we sat here and talk, we hope that you

1487
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: see your I can't wait to read her reply. She's

1488
01:14:57,479 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 1: gonna be like, UM, can I just say it's someone

1489
01:14:59,479 --> 01:15:01,360
Speaker 1: I thinks they should be accepting. Y'all don't want to

1490
01:15:01,400 --> 01:15:04,599
Speaker 1: make it a teaching moment. No, bitch, we did it.

1491
01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:06,880
Speaker 1: It's too late. It's two thousand nineteen. I ain't got

1492
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 1: time to teach all. Well, we wait, let before we

1493
01:15:12,200 --> 01:15:15,080
Speaker 1: go just kind of like tell people like um exactly

1494
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:17,760
Speaker 1: what they can look forward to in a session with you,

1495
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 1: because I know that you're in a where to find you,

1496
01:15:19,680 --> 01:15:23,519
Speaker 1: but you can definitely explore your kink. I don't ever

1497
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:26,280
Speaker 1: like there's no that's our k phrase. I'm just sorry,

1498
01:15:27,600 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: there's no there's no two sessions that are ever the same.

1499
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 1: It's like I always tell people, if you make love

1500
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,559
Speaker 1: the same way twice, you're doing it wrong. What I'm saying,

1501
01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: it's the same. It's the same thing every girl that

1502
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:44,080
Speaker 1: listens to the show. I mean, it's it's and and

1503
01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:47,080
Speaker 1: I'm not saying like, yo, now you gotta go funk

1504
01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 1: on a plane, you know what I mean. But I

1505
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,240
Speaker 1: mean you can do that. But I mean, if all

1506
01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,879
Speaker 1: you got is your bedroom, just try a different position,

1507
01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:56,120
Speaker 1: try with the lights on, you know what I mean.

1508
01:15:56,120 --> 01:15:58,439
Speaker 1: It's it's just little things to change it up that

1509
01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,840
Speaker 1: will make you learn something new about your partner and

1510
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 1: learn something new about yourself. And all the fetish training sessions,

1511
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 1: that's what it's really about. It's about learning about yourself

1512
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:11,040
Speaker 1: and opening yourself up to different forms of pleasure, different

1513
01:16:11,080 --> 01:16:16,720
Speaker 1: forms of of kink, and open it up. Do you like?

1514
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 1: So if someone you know messages you like they can

1515
01:16:18,760 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: maybe like do you do a little emailing before hand

1516
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:24,720
Speaker 1: consultation coll because we have we have we have like

1517
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: a survey that goes over something like two or three

1518
01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: hundred different fetishes and it might not be a fetish

1519
01:16:30,320 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 1: that you would yourself want to experience, but you saying like, like,

1520
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 1: let's just say there's a line of things and it's

1521
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:42,519
Speaker 1: like gag, ball, spit and handcuffs. Do you have yours? Know?

1522
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 1: Or maybe right? And to me, that just lets me

1523
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:49,760
Speaker 1: know a little bit about who you are and what

1524
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 1: you are either a open to, because I don't always

1525
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:53,760
Speaker 1: say like Okay, I'm gonna come in there and then

1526
01:16:53,760 --> 01:16:55,640
Speaker 1: we're gonna do five minutes of flogging and you know

1527
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:58,599
Speaker 1: what I mean, it's not how it works. Asking about

1528
01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 1: the booty hole, I was like, can I lick it?

1529
01:17:00,840 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 1: Can I figure it? Can I pay it? Yes? No? Maybe?

1530
01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:05,680
Speaker 1: And that's pretty much how I gauge what I can

1531
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 1: and cannot do to the booty can't it? Pretty much?

1532
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:11,599
Speaker 1: But they're like if they're like, yeah, you could do

1533
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 1: all three, you're not just gonna jump them, Tom gotta start.

1534
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:17,040
Speaker 1: You got a woman with it. So it's like the

1535
01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:20,439
Speaker 1: same kind of thing within if you're I'm an artist,

1536
01:17:20,640 --> 01:17:23,040
Speaker 1: so you're gonna You're just gonna tell me what types

1537
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:25,240
Speaker 1: of paint I'm gonna use, and then we're gonna paint

1538
01:17:25,240 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 1: from there. I like that if I could a text

1539
01:17:28,040 --> 01:17:32,680
Speaker 1: message like that and then take the draw. But can

1540
01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:34,800
Speaker 1: you go ahead and let our listeners know where they

1541
01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 1: can find you and book you can? You can definitely

1542
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:43,040
Speaker 1: hit me up in my d ms on Twitter, Instagram.

1543
01:17:43,080 --> 01:17:48,559
Speaker 1: Sound right said it? I mean, I got I got

1544
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:50,439
Speaker 1: emails to and step you know. Okay, We'll go ahead

1545
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 1: and drop the outside a Kingdom wall k I N

1546
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 1: G N O I R E and you can go

1547
01:17:55,400 --> 01:17:58,759
Speaker 1: to Kingdom war x x X dot com, Royal Fetish

1548
01:17:58,960 --> 01:18:01,040
Speaker 1: x x x dot com and you could see all

1549
01:18:01,080 --> 01:18:03,200
Speaker 1: of my films and get some ideas for your sessions.

1550
01:18:03,200 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna show easy the ones you don't send me.

1551
01:18:05,120 --> 01:18:07,840
Speaker 1: And by the way, paying for porn it's a big

1552
01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:11,920
Speaker 1: came here the trailer when they come out, he'd be

1553
01:18:11,960 --> 01:18:15,479
Speaker 1: sending me the Can I be in the email? Yeah?

1554
01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:17,320
Speaker 1: I had you because he's sending me All of them

1555
01:18:17,320 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: did look beautiful. So y'all think I'm playing. Anybody listening

1556
01:18:20,160 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 1: thinks I'm playing about like doing this session altogether. Like,

1557
01:18:22,320 --> 01:18:25,519
Speaker 1: I think it only makes sense. You say, love what

1558
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,160
Speaker 1: you want to invite the whole got them fifty lists. No,

1559
01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to invite them in the bedroom, Like

1560
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:31,479
Speaker 1: I don't want to film it, but I would love

1561
01:18:31,520 --> 01:18:33,519
Speaker 1: to just make it something where like we can all

1562
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 1: talk about how it was together, you know, like if

1563
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,560
Speaker 1: I was nervous or like, you know what I mean that,

1564
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:44,000
Speaker 1: I just want to watch exhibition. No, the voyer vary,

1565
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the voyer. No, you couldn't say GENITALI anyway,

1566
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 1: got it for that one, you know. Anyways, guys, um,

1567
01:18:53,160 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 1: we're looking forward to seeing you guys on tour. Thank

1568
01:18:56,600 --> 01:19:00,160
Speaker 1: you to everyone who came out to motherfucking d C. No,

1569
01:19:00,240 --> 01:19:03,120
Speaker 1: we did two shows. It was little what I've um,

1570
01:19:03,160 --> 01:19:06,160
Speaker 1: but I'm excited to stay here and see everyone in Atlanta,

1571
01:19:06,600 --> 01:19:09,720
Speaker 1: see everyone in Houston. We got Toronto, see everyone in

1572
01:19:09,800 --> 01:19:12,120
Speaker 1: New York City March ninth, and then you can go

1573
01:19:12,120 --> 01:19:15,880
Speaker 1: see b TUKH and then um we still are waiting

1574
01:19:16,160 --> 01:19:18,960
Speaker 1: um for Miami and l A possibly have it out

1575
01:19:18,960 --> 01:19:21,240
Speaker 1: by noways out by now. Um. If you want a

1576
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:23,400
Speaker 1: little bit more horrible decisions, listen to this clip we're

1577
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 1: about to give you. If you think this episode was great,

1578
01:19:25,520 --> 01:19:26,960
Speaker 1: thank you. If you think it could have been better,

1579
01:19:27,000 --> 01:19:28,599
Speaker 1: and you want to help us out where they call

1580
01:19:28,680 --> 01:19:31,519
Speaker 1: us at the fifteen dollar patreons here after four months

1581
01:19:31,520 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 1: we send you merch and right at the beginning, you

1582
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:35,559
Speaker 1: can give us a call. We'll read you an outline

1583
01:19:35,560 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 1: that we have upcoming, and you can give us feedback

1584
01:19:37,600 --> 01:19:40,240
Speaker 1: or create your own outline and pretty much produce an episode.

1585
01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:42,519
Speaker 1: At only five dollars a month, you get three bonus

1586
01:19:42,520 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: episodes a month right after each Horrible Decisions episode. You're

1587
01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:48,680
Speaker 1: here on Mondays and I'm tired of talking. I just

1588
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 1: want to go jerke off in the bathroom after getting clog,

1589
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:53,759
Speaker 1: I know, I feel like I gotta go white my pussy. Anyways, guys,

1590
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:59,280
Speaker 1: this has been yet another episode of Horrible Decisions y

1591
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:03,080
Speaker 1: In my mind, I sometimes can't watch the same scenes

1592
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: over and over. But that's also my problem with probably

1593
01:20:06,160 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 1: why I haven't been able to mutually masturbate. Because if

1594
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: I'm if I'm watching a porn and I'm allowing you

1595
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:14,760
Speaker 1: to play with me while I watch a porn, you

1596
01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 1: have to be comfortable. There's gonna be two guys, fucking

1597
01:20:17,200 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 1: and that one I haven't kind of gotten into yet.

1598
01:20:20,439 --> 01:20:25,120
Speaker 1: Literally like literally I'm and even the guys or Tranport,

1599
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 1: so literally even the guys that have allowed me to pay,

1600
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 1: they don't like the idea that I like too many

1601
01:20:29,800 --> 01:20:31,519
Speaker 1: men because they like to make it be known that

1602
01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:35,559
Speaker 1: they don't like man. So like they're just not into

1603
01:20:35,720 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 1: gay porn. I even be trying to send them links,

1604
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,400
Speaker 1: but they're like, man, what you sent me there for? It? Like,

1605
01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 1: but they'll watch t trndport, So would you just say,

1606
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:47,559
Speaker 1: MANDI trand port they'll watch trend porn. I thought you

1607
01:20:47,600 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 1: said train and then be d D and g trany.

1608
01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:56,400
Speaker 1: I thought that, Like I was trying to first off

1609
01:20:56,400 --> 01:21:00,439
Speaker 1: it why I know, but the work we got it

1610
01:21:00,479 --> 01:21:07,560
Speaker 1: recorded I in sight, So that second um mutual masturbation

1611
01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:09,760
Speaker 1: for me. Um the girl needy on the phone stip

1612
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:11,439
Speaker 1: that she on like she gotta be upside down and

1613
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 1: ship because then they got to see and blah blah blah.

1614
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 1: But here's how I've done it right, which I really

1615
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:21,479
Speaker 1: enjoyed one I recently I think was it a year ago? Yeah, yeah,

1616
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,560
Speaker 1: it wasn't this year. Last year I was home for Thanksgiving,

1617
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:26,920
Speaker 1: went home with this guy. He didn't have a condom,

1618
01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:29,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, you should remember this, and so

1619
01:21:29,040 --> 01:21:30,880
Speaker 1: I did it that way, and like we just were

1620
01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 1: side by side and like he and I were like

1621
01:21:35,120 --> 01:21:37,200
Speaker 1: making out and touching each other. It was good. I've

1622
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: also like almost done a quote unquote scissors position, like

1623
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,600
Speaker 1: I've kind of like almost stood on top or like

1624
01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:44,920
Speaker 1: was on top of a dude like masturbating. It's like

1625
01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:46,920
Speaker 1: my titties was in his face. It was really good.

1626
01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:51,719
Speaker 1: And then one that I really love, my best musical masturbation,

1627
01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:53,960
Speaker 1: where we were like really far apart. I was at

1628
01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: lover Boy's crib and he was on the computer doing

1629
01:21:58,320 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: some kind of online gambling ship I don't know whatever

1630
01:22:00,320 --> 01:22:04,880
Speaker 1: European ship. He had this couch in front and I

1631
01:22:04,920 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 1: sat on it while he was on there because he

1632
01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:09,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't pay attention to me, and I started masturbating and

1633
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:10,519
Speaker 1: then he came over to my pussy and I told

1634
01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 1: him now and he was like what. I was like,

1635
01:22:13,120 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna come like this because you're just so

1636
01:22:14,960 --> 01:22:17,599
Speaker 1: fucking busy, see, and I so, I guess I've done

1637
01:22:17,600 --> 01:22:20,280
Speaker 1: it out of I've done it out of revenge. Then

1638
01:22:21,080 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 1: like I remember, um, someone when I brought him up

1639
01:22:24,960 --> 01:22:27,000
Speaker 1: on the show before. But I ain't gonna down talking

1640
01:22:27,120 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 1: right now. But there's been times where we've had sex

1641
01:22:30,160 --> 01:22:32,559
Speaker 1: and it wasn't good. I didn't come and he wasn't

1642
01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:35,600
Speaker 1: trying to get back up. So I've literally just to

1643
01:22:35,960 --> 01:22:38,559
Speaker 1: let him know how much he did not please me.

1644
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,640
Speaker 1: I've turned on porn right next to him, loud so

1645
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:44,920
Speaker 1: that he couldn't watch TV and played pussy and when

1646
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 1: he said, like, what are you doing, I'm gonna come

1647
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:50,280
Speaker 1: since you didn't make me, And I've literally sat in

1648
01:22:50,320 --> 01:22:54,720
Speaker 1: the bed, girl, I ain't gonna say his name really. Yeah,

1649
01:22:54,840 --> 01:22:57,400
Speaker 1: And we argued so much every night. Yeah, So I've

1650
01:22:57,439 --> 01:22:59,680
Speaker 1: done that with him and I didn't and I did

1651
01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:01,519
Speaker 1: it with an got piste on well now because I

1652
01:23:01,560 --> 01:23:03,400
Speaker 1: know I was just really doing it to sun up

1653
01:23:03,400 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 1: his ego. I really couldn't get in the mood to come,

1654
01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:07,320
Speaker 1: but I was just doing it to make it show like, nigga,

1655
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:09,640
Speaker 1: please myself because you were nigga and you ain't make

1656
01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:11,760
Speaker 1: me come. What did he do? Is he just sitting there? Oh? No?

1657
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:13,519
Speaker 1: You know we had a whole lass argument about it

1658
01:23:13,640 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 1: while he was doing it again, you know, like I

1659
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,000
Speaker 1: was doing and then like of course I turned up.

1660
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 1: He was mad that my porn was on because he

1661
01:23:21,080 --> 01:23:22,479
Speaker 1: was trying to watch a game or something, and I

1662
01:23:22,520 --> 01:23:25,519
Speaker 1: was like, so you ain't made me come go to

1663
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 1: the living room. Then I'm sitting right here and I'm

1664
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 1: gonna make myself come since you didn't. So it's really

1665
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:30,880
Speaker 1: more so like fuck you.