WEBVTT - NLP Book Club | MiniPod

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<v Speaker 1>Well come, well come, welcome, well, come, well, come, welcome,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome home everybody. This is Keiviny Cross, Angela, Rye and

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<v Speaker 1>A and Gill and this is a mini pod and

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<v Speaker 1>we don't know what we're about to talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, that was Angela's suggestion that we wait and figure

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<v Speaker 2>out what we're going to talk about. And I was saying,

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<v Speaker 2>listen record, yeah, which, well, we've heard you guys in

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<v Speaker 2>the audience ask us about what we're reading, what we

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<v Speaker 2>like to read, and so I thought this might be

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<v Speaker 2>a good opportunity for the co host to share some

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<v Speaker 2>of their favorite books and things we would recommend to

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<v Speaker 2>you guys. I know I have a lot. I, as

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<v Speaker 2>I talked about, have read Charles Blow's book The Devil,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so I would love for folks to read

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<v Speaker 2>that we can have a conversation about it. I am

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<v Speaker 2>reading The Color of Money, Wealth and Black Banks. I

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<v Speaker 2>might have the subtitle wrong, but it's MRSA but Darridon.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's my fair name. I had her on

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<v Speaker 2>my show some years ago and started the book and

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<v Speaker 2>in bear so did not finish it. And I hate

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<v Speaker 2>when folks, when people do that. This is a question

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<v Speaker 2>I'll ask you, guys, I might be a bit of

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<v Speaker 2>a I don't think it's snobbery. I think it's just

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<v Speaker 2>the art of reading. I do not think audio listen.

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<v Speaker 2>When people say they listen to the audiobook, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know if that's reading. And I say that because, like

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<v Speaker 2>your brain literally processes it differently and for the right

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<v Speaker 2>like when you read something, you're comprehended. It's the difference

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<v Speaker 2>between listening to a podcast like y'all are doing now,

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<v Speaker 2>versus actually reading the words, like your brain literally processes it.

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<v Speaker 2>And so you know, and you have friends with kids

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<v Speaker 2>and they're like, oh, I did the audiobook, and the

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<v Speaker 2>parents are like, no, no, no, you need to read

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<v Speaker 2>the book. I think if I had kids, i'd be

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<v Speaker 2>one of those parents, like, you have to strengthen that skill.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to read. So do you all think that

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<v Speaker 2>audio books counts as reading?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, if you are an auditory learner, yeah what some

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<v Speaker 1>people are. Some people like I need to hear it

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<v Speaker 1>out loud. In fact, when I'm actually reading, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>a report or a book or even an article, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I will say out loud to myself a piece that

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<v Speaker 1>is something I want to want to remember, a piece

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<v Speaker 1>that I may want to go back to now. I

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<v Speaker 1>love I love physical books because I like writing in them.

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<v Speaker 1>I got tabs for days. If you wanted to get

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<v Speaker 1>me a you know, a gift and you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I like, she just get me some post its

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<v Speaker 1>because they're going to end up in books the flags. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that. I love it, and mainly because I

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<v Speaker 1>even commit you know, certain passages to memory when they're

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<v Speaker 1>really you know, that thought provoking and that kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I think audio books work just as fine.

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<v Speaker 1>I tell my kids all the time because my son, Jackson, particularly,

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<v Speaker 1>who's a really competitive reader, you know, wants me to

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<v Speaker 1>know that he started the day at page twenty three

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<v Speaker 1>and he ended at one hundred and twenty. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>well that's good, Jackson, but do you remember what you read?

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<v Speaker 1>But I would not object to at you know, at

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<v Speaker 1>some point when they get introduced to audio books to

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<v Speaker 1>them listening as well, we're gonna get the fundamentals of

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<v Speaker 1>reading down. We're gonna get the fundamentals of you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, root words, because it's going to be important

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<v Speaker 1>for you at some some point in time. But I

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<v Speaker 1>will tell you I have I have I have a

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<v Speaker 1>question one, does it make a difference to you listening

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<v Speaker 1>versus reading yourself fiction nonfiction, Because I'll say this, for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I am I don't read fiction at all. In fact,

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<v Speaker 1>my therapist has told me you've got to you have

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<v Speaker 1>got to read more fiction. It is where the imagination. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it exists, and I'm so like, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>But why would I waste my time on that one?

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<v Speaker 1>I know if I read this, this is history, this

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<v Speaker 1>is this, this is you know, these are things that

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<v Speaker 1>I can put under my under my tool bell. So

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<v Speaker 1>I got to still make that adjustment. But I do

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<v Speaker 1>wonder whether or not it would be different for me

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<v Speaker 1>if I were listening to an audiobook of a fiction

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<v Speaker 1>story versus an audio book of a fact story. And

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder if it makes a difference to either of you.

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<v Speaker 3>I will say, Lenard actually suggests reading the book and

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<v Speaker 3>listening to it at the same time. He was telling

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<v Speaker 3>me that it was a good experience, and he did

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<v Speaker 3>it with Viola Davis's book. So I did that with

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<v Speaker 3>Viola Davis's book, and I agree.

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<v Speaker 4>So I think it depends.

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<v Speaker 3>I definitely am somebody the way my mind moves if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just listening to the audio book and I start

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<v Speaker 3>looking at something else or like I'm texting at the

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<v Speaker 3>same time, you can forget it.

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<v Speaker 4>I basically have blocked everything out.

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<v Speaker 3>But if I'm concentrating just on that book or closing

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<v Speaker 3>my eyes and just listening to that book, it helps.

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<v Speaker 3>But I did appreciate the experience of reading and listening

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<v Speaker 3>at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus fiction nonfiction equal leader.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not I'm not a fiction person.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that there was a time, like growing up,

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<v Speaker 3>where I was more of a fiction person. But I

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<v Speaker 3>think now there's so much going on. I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>if I'm going to be reading, I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 3>historical based, strategy based, political based, economics based, something with

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<v Speaker 3>some solutions in there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, so I do know.

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<v Speaker 3>The last fiction book that I was really into is

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<v Speaker 3>Derek Beale Faces at the Bottom of the Well in

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<v Speaker 3>law school, and it was because I could see it

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<v Speaker 3>and here we are about to get shipped off the

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<v Speaker 3>hill to.

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<v Speaker 4>Marsh right now.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean I understand it. I asly has a

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<v Speaker 3>little tinge of accuracy.

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<v Speaker 2>I go through about a book a week, and I

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<v Speaker 2>try to go back and forth. If one week it's fiction,

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<v Speaker 2>the next week, I'll try to do nonfiction, but I

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<v Speaker 2>really enjoy fiction. Angela. You talked about finding me Viola Davis.

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<v Speaker 2>That book was therapy for me. I mean that book,

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<v Speaker 2>Viola Davis, just so I couldn't read or listen to that.

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<v Speaker 2>I read that, and I can't do audio at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time as reading because our are different. And I'll

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<v Speaker 2>read something over, like if a paragraph or even a

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<v Speaker 2>sentence it's just beautifully constructed, I will read that over

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<v Speaker 2>and over and over and over. Tony Morrison said, ones

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<v Speaker 2>which I it is a torturous process to write. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't believe in ghostwriters either, because not that ghostwriters can't

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<v Speaker 2>have good books, but when people say I wrote a book,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, well, did you write or did you have

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<v Speaker 2>a ghostwriter? Because when you are writing Tony Morrison, when

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<v Speaker 2>I was fourteen, I was listening to a conversation with

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<v Speaker 2>her and Oprah and she was saying that as a writer,

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<v Speaker 2>you will take one sentence and structure it in every

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<v Speaker 2>possible way to make it the point that you want

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<v Speaker 2>to see what works. And I tried to have a

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<v Speaker 2>discipline to do that. And it is a torturous process

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<v Speaker 2>and so but it's also a beautiful process when you're

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<v Speaker 2>all done. So I like the way that fiction doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>constrict you to the realms of reality that you know.

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<v Speaker 2>It can still you can learn from it. It can

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<v Speaker 2>still based in history, but it's beautiful writing that you

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<v Speaker 2>know deeply explores. And with fiction, they're more than likely

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<v Speaker 2>is not a ghostwriter. With nonfiction sometimes, I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>particularly with biographies, people will, you know, hire somebody. I

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<v Speaker 2>know a lot of people who are like hired ghostwriters

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<v Speaker 2>who offered They're like, hey, I could write this chapter

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<v Speaker 2>for you, and I'm like, as if I would never

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I want to construct this myself. But this

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<v Speaker 2>leaves me I have some sound that I want us

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<v Speaker 2>to listen to from a writer that I thought was

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<v Speaker 2>so amazing. She since passed away, but I'm sure many

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<v Speaker 2>of you have read Octavia Butler. Probably not you, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 2>since you or you Angela, I guess since you guys

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<v Speaker 2>don't read fiction, but her work it speaks to so

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<v Speaker 2>much that's happening right now. And she actually made a

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<v Speaker 2>good point I think, around just the process of writing,

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<v Speaker 2>but also how she bases it in what's happening in society.

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<v Speaker 2>And she was so far ahead of her time, So

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<v Speaker 2>take a listen.

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<v Speaker 5>I got the idea for it when I heard someone

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<v Speaker 5>answer a political question with a political slogan, and he

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<v Speaker 5>didn't seem to realize that he was quoting somebody. He

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<v Speaker 5>seemed to have thought that he had a creative thought there,

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<v Speaker 5>And I wrote this verse. Beware, all too often we

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<v Speaker 5>say what we hear others say, We think what we

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<v Speaker 5>are told that we think, we see what we are

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<v Speaker 5>permitted to see. Worse, we see what we are told

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<v Speaker 5>that we see. Repetition and pride are the keys to this.

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<v Speaker 5>To see and to hear even an obvious lie again

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<v Speaker 5>and again and again may be to say it almost

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<v Speaker 5>by reflex, then to defend it because we have said it,

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<v Speaker 5>and at last to embrace it because we've defended it,

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<v Speaker 5>and because we cannot admit that we've embraced and defended

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<v Speaker 5>an obvious lie. Thus, without thought, without intent, we make

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<v Speaker 5>mere echoes of ourselves, and we say what we hear

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<v Speaker 5>others say.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a work of fiction, But that beautifully constructed paragraph,

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<v Speaker 2>I think speaks to so much of what's happening in

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<v Speaker 2>society about how we will regurgitate a lie. And I

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<v Speaker 2>don't mean maga Republicans, you know, obviously that happens, but

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<v Speaker 2>I even mean amongst ourselves because something existed, or because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we will take We talked about this in parody.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, Fox News will run a piece and then

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<v Speaker 2>the Shade Room will post it. You know, it's it

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<v Speaker 2>is something where it dulls our intellect and it declines

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<v Speaker 2>our reasoned thinking. And so I don't know, I think

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<v Speaker 2>there are some lessons to learn in But when she

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<v Speaker 2>talked about that, I just thought, wow, that's true. I

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<v Speaker 2>see that happening a lot from some things that took

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<v Speaker 2>place in the Black Church that I, you know, don't

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<v Speaker 2>agree with in adulthood. But people, you know, it's it's orthodoxy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's culture. These axioms become principal after a while.

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<v Speaker 2>And if we just imagine, but what if this is

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<v Speaker 2>not the case. What if this man saying this to

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<v Speaker 2>me is wrong? What if this leader projecting this to

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<v Speaker 2>me is incorrect? What if this leader really wants to

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<v Speaker 2>rule and not lead and just to question everything around me?

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<v Speaker 2>So fiction, I would say, can invite that kind of Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that was beautiful. And what I loved about it is,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, Miss Butler, the obvious lie, right is obviously

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<v Speaker 1>not the truth. So we're not debating whether another is

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<v Speaker 1>true or false. We all are looking at the thing

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<v Speaker 1>and saying it's not true, and then yeah, we keep listening,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we start to repeat, and then the repeating

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<v Speaker 1>becomes the you know, our foundation of defense, and we

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<v Speaker 1>fight over it. And now we've gotten so deep in

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<v Speaker 1>we cannot even acknowledge that we all knew it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. And I just kept running with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, what I love.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think, Tiffany, your appreciation is well learned. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a writer, and so you love words. You love the

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<v Speaker 1>written word, not as you know, maybe not even the

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<v Speaker 1>spoken words so much as you love the written Yeah. Sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Michael Harriett is one of those people who I have underlined,

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<v Speaker 1>double underline circled because he's it feels like, while it

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<v Speaker 1>comes off so easy as a person who likes to

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<v Speaker 1>see subtexts, I imagine a person who has, as you

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<v Speaker 1>described earlier, written a sentence so many different ways that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants it to stick. He wants it to land,

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants it to land on first impact. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you know, the written word as well, obviously more

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<v Speaker 1>more more fact than fiction, But I do want to

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<v Speaker 1>reprioritize and reorient myself a little bit here, because I

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<v Speaker 1>do think there's some truth in this sort of imaginative,

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<v Speaker 1>imaginative space where for a lot of my life I've

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<v Speaker 1>sort of had to live and deal in what is present,

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<v Speaker 1>what I know to be the case, either what has

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<v Speaker 1>happened or forecast to occur, And I do think it

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<v Speaker 1>robs us a little bit of the what's outside the box,

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<v Speaker 1>what's not on the page, what isn't being said? Where

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<v Speaker 1>are the possibilities for this to go? And I think writers,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly those who are skilled at it, have a beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>way of lifting us off of it. So I appreciate

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<v Speaker 1>that about good writers, but I appreciate them in equal measure,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, both written and spoken.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you recommend to our audience that they pick

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<v Speaker 2>up and maybe even to me? Maybe I haven't read some.

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<v Speaker 4>Of the books you have, So this is one.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm using this one because this is a quote from

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<v Speaker 3>the Congressional Black Caucus that we say often it was

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<v Speaker 3>no permanent friends, permanent enemies, just permanent interests. And this

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<v Speaker 3>book is from William Lacey Clay. This is Congressrom Lacy

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<v Speaker 3>Clay's father, William Lacy Clay was one of the CBC founders,

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<v Speaker 3>and he talks about the journey of Black Americans in

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<v Speaker 3>Congress from eighteen seventy to nineteen ninety one. This book

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<v Speaker 3>is called Critical Race Theory and it is a collection

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<v Speaker 3>of essays. It's a text that I used in law school.

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<v Speaker 3>This actually talks about this is It includes Kimberly Crenshaw

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<v Speaker 3>as well as many many other scholars. This book is

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<v Speaker 3>important because it will actually tell you about what critical

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<v Speaker 3>race theory.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually is, and not the donsonce they tell you. So.

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<v Speaker 3>The foreword is by corn O West is edited by

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<v Speaker 3>Kimberly Crenshaw, Neil Gatanda, Gary Peller, and Kendall Thomas.

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<v Speaker 4>Medical Apartheid.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm bringing this up because this woman, doctor Harriet Washington,

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<v Speaker 3>talks about why black folks don't or why the system,

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<v Speaker 3>the healthcare system, the medical system has not proven itself

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<v Speaker 3>trustworthy to black people, which is a slight modification.

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<v Speaker 4>On what we normally talk about. Very good text.

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<v Speaker 3>Ron Brown, in addition to Reverend Jesse Jackson, Ron Brown's

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<v Speaker 3>picture was on our mantle in the house. My dad

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<v Speaker 3>was in a diehard Democrat, but what he loved about

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<v Speaker 3>Ron Brown was his way of advocating for black people.

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<v Speaker 3>He was the DNC chair and also was the Department

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<v Speaker 3>of Commerce Secretary under Bill Clinton. This is his memoir,

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<v Speaker 3>Ron Brown, An Uncommon Life. Asada obviously an autobiography, very important.

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<v Speaker 3>This is written by Asada Shakur. She is I believe,

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<v Speaker 3>the only woman on the FBI's most Wanted list. She

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<v Speaker 3>should not be there. Free Asida, all right. And finally,

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<v Speaker 3>my good brother, Resma Menechem, has a book called My

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<v Speaker 3>Grandmother's Hands.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a New York Times bestseller.

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<v Speaker 3>It helps deepen us into what ancestral trauma looks like,

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<v Speaker 3>what it means to regulate and corregulate our nervous systems,

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<v Speaker 3>and how to ensure that we heal from racialized trauma

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<v Speaker 3>in the body. It's a sematic therapy book that teaches

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<v Speaker 3>us different modalities to call upon to heal ourselves and

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<v Speaker 3>to heal the communities that.

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<v Speaker 4>We are a part of.

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<v Speaker 2>I did we meet him? Did we have dinner with him? Somewhere?

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<v Speaker 2>I remember you talking about this book that you just loved,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was maybe it was he?

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely, I definitely have been breaking bread with Resma. Maybe

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<v Speaker 3>you were there, Tiff I'm sure, if not there in spirit,

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<v Speaker 3>oh yeah, he was.

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<v Speaker 4>There was a panel for me.

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<v Speaker 2>That was years ago. I remember when you said that

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<v Speaker 2>for the centennial. Yep, what you got, Andrew oh Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel, for one, your book is all the way

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<v Speaker 1>at the top, as is my friend Kenisha doctor Kisha

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<v Speaker 1>oh Grant. So I didn't get to pull them down saying.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't reach it. I didn't get my chip book

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<v Speaker 4>let me grab.

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<v Speaker 1>They're up at the top, but some that were closer

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<v Speaker 1>down obviously up there is.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like that was okay, Thank you guys. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that was my first book and I've turned

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<v Speaker 2>into rough draft and they published it because now when

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<v Speaker 2>I read it, I'm like, I would it never run

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<v Speaker 2>like that? But thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, you got a book out of friend. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>another one coming, so four hundred souls my fellow rattler

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<v Speaker 1>Iram Kenny and Keisha Blaine, and I especially especially especially enjoy.

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<v Speaker 1>I told you about my tabs and stuff and books,

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<v Speaker 1>just just proof that I put tabs in books when

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<v Speaker 1>I read them. My favorite essayist contributor, of course, would

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<v Speaker 1>be none other than Michael Harriot.

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<v Speaker 2>Harriot Harriot, and I just have let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't know why, Michael, forgive me. I like

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<v Speaker 1>pronouncing it that way, but I'm gonna do it with you. Harriet,

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<v Speaker 1>Harriet Harriott, Who is our griot? Can I say?

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<v Speaker 4>Griotture Michael Harriot?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, there it is, But I love The hero of

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<v Speaker 1>this drama is black people. All black people, the free blacks,

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<v Speaker 1>the uncloaked Maroons, the black elite, the preachers, the reverends,

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<v Speaker 1>the doormen and doctors, the sharecroppers and soldiers. They are

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<v Speaker 1>all protagonists in our epic adventure. Spoiler alert, the hero

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<v Speaker 1>of this story does not die ever. The hero is

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<v Speaker 1>long suffering, but unkillable, bloody, and unbowed. In this story

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<v Speaker 1>and in all the subsequent sequels now and forever, this

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<v Speaker 1>hero almost never wins. But we still get to be

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<v Speaker 1>the heroes of the true American stories simply because we

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<v Speaker 1>are undestructible. Try as they might, we will never be

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<v Speaker 1>extinguished ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Trying to figure out why you got to read excerpt.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the That's the only one I read because he's

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite And then of course Heaven McGee

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<v Speaker 1>the some of us again evidence I do tab Books

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<v Speaker 1>wrote wrote really beautifully and I think accessibly about why black, brown,

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<v Speaker 1>working class white folks should be in common cause with

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<v Speaker 1>each other. And then this is my political scientist in me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think these are very important for anyone who

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<v Speaker 1>is interested in strategy around politics. The Art of war,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, sunsu Ah, the well Whi's One Talk Teaching

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<v Speaker 1>is also a must read, and the Analects of Confucius,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just think these are important philosophical documents. And

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<v Speaker 1>in the Art of war, I think it is really

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<v Speaker 1>tactical and strategic and it has survived centuries. Uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's still highly regarded by I think political scientists around strategies,

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<v Speaker 1>strategies to win. And then just a just a slight favorite. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>The Obstacle is the Way, I said, I think during

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<v Speaker 1>our New Year's show that the only way is through

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<v Speaker 1>m hm. You know you try to figure out, like God, Lee,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just this too much, you know, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to blink out, numb out, And so The Obstacles the

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<v Speaker 1>Way is one of those books that just sort of

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<v Speaker 1>helps to encourage you to push through. Well, I have

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<v Speaker 1>not I got a lot of favorites.

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<v Speaker 2>I've not read any of the books that you guys reference.

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, but this is great because now yes, exactly

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<v Speaker 2>what black a f History, of course, but the other

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<v Speaker 2>books I had in all the books, Angela, read your

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<v Speaker 2>own book, I've read my own book, but the Asada Chaquur,

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<v Speaker 2>I'd really like to read that one. In the conversations

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<v Speaker 2>I've had with the elders lately, her name has come

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<v Speaker 2>up a lot, so I think I'm gonna put that

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<v Speaker 2>next on my list, So thank you, guys. Mine is

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<v Speaker 2>How to Say Babylon by Sophia Sinclair. And this was

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<v Speaker 2>recommended to me by Van Newkirk, who also recommended that

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<v Speaker 2>I write a book. I write my second book. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's so beautifully written. I mean, just somebody I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>And you might think, well, why do I want to

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<v Speaker 2>read a memoir of someone I didn't know? But it

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<v Speaker 2>was so beautifully written and so captivating. I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm about to order it.

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<v Speaker 2>And who has already talked about Black a f History?

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<v Speaker 2>But Michael Harritt Harriet Harry Ots Michael Harriet is such

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<v Speaker 2>a gift and his book was so popular it was

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<v Speaker 2>on the New York Times bestseller list forever fell off

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<v Speaker 2>and then inexplicably just bounced back on there because I

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<v Speaker 2>think people were like, oh, I didn't know it was

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<v Speaker 2>this dope, But there still have so many yes, and

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<v Speaker 2>I have so many highlights of this book. Another one

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<v Speaker 2>the Love Songs of W E. B.

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<v Speaker 4>Du Boys.

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<v Speaker 2>This is fiction, but it is beautifully beautifully written and

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<v Speaker 2>takes you through generations and time. I have others that

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have pictures of, but The Poison What Bible

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<v Speaker 2>is probably my all time favorite book by Barbara Kingsolv.

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<v Speaker 2>I give that book away and Michael Harriet's book Away

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<v Speaker 2>and another book, Ghana Must Go. And I'm embarrassed to

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<v Speaker 2>not remember the writer's name. She's a woman. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>just an amazing book about three siblings who are Ghanaian

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<v Speaker 2>and it goes back and forth with them from Ghana

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<v Speaker 2>to America.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's my book.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you guys are looking for something to read,

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<v Speaker 2>that's your NLP, this summer reading list or autumn reading

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<v Speaker 2>list or whenever you get to your read Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, I'm reading something from this now. Okay, this is

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<v Speaker 3>from Resma and I think it goes back to I

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<v Speaker 3>know this is an evergreen episode, so God only knows,

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<v Speaker 3>but this goes back to our episode from today that

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<v Speaker 3>we recorded prior. This is about when democracy falls is

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<v Speaker 3>I guess the name of the episode something like that.

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<v Speaker 4>It says.

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<v Speaker 3>An African American elder said to me recently. There is

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<v Speaker 3>a root to the trauma tree, and what we see

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<v Speaker 3>now is the fruit. That tree, which was planted roughly

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<v Speaker 3>fifteen centuries ago, now casts a shadow across our entire nation. Today,

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<v Speaker 3>many of us still feed each other. It's bitter, poisonous fruit.

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<v Speaker 3>None of us ask for this trauma, none of us

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<v Speaker 3>deserves it, yet none of us can avoid it. It

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<v Speaker 3>is part of our personal and national histories. In many

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<v Speaker 3>American bodies, the Civil War, or the American Revolution, or

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<v Speaker 3>the Crusades rages on.

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<v Speaker 4>Today. We're head of reckoning. We Americans have an opportunity

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<v Speaker 4>and an obligation to recognize the trauma embedded in our bodies,

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<v Speaker 4>to accept and metabolize the clean pain of healing, and

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<v Speaker 4>to move through and out of our trauma. This will

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<v Speaker 4>enable us to mend our hearts and bodies and to

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<v Speaker 4>grow up.

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<v Speaker 2>That That is why I like reading, because I would

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<v Speaker 2>read that over and over. It's beautiful to hear you

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<v Speaker 2>read it. But I don't even know if I could

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<v Speaker 2>that was so poetic and literate, and yes, like that's

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<v Speaker 2>something that.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll like about this to really and I'm serious, like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not even saying this because of what you just said,

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<v Speaker 3>and it didn't occur to me though right now. I

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<v Speaker 3>think what you will appreciate about this book in particular

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<v Speaker 3>right now because of what you're moving through. And honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>I might challenge us all to I'll pick it back up, Andrew,

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<v Speaker 3>I would read this with you too.

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<v Speaker 4>There are somatic body based.

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<v Speaker 3>Practices in this book at the end of each chapter

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<v Speaker 3>to help you move through the trauma that you carry

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<v Speaker 3>in your DNA and the trauma that you are currently

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<v Speaker 3>experiencing by just living in this country. And so I

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<v Speaker 3>think that it really is a good like I was

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<v Speaker 3>going through it in twenty twenty. Yeah, but I think

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<v Speaker 3>it's a great thing just to have an embodied practice

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<v Speaker 3>to you know, metabolize the history, to feel what you're

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<v Speaker 3>feeling from a DNA and ancestral memory standpoint, to feel

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<v Speaker 3>what you're experiencing as you carry what feels familiar even

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<v Speaker 3>though we haven't lived it before, but like the breath

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<v Speaker 3>work of it all, like tapping into your nervous system.

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<v Speaker 3>Tapping into your survival instinct, no one want to tap

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<v Speaker 3>out of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Humming.

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<v Speaker 3>You know the practices that are like tapping your foot.

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<v Speaker 3>Those are all things that our ancestors did, and part

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<v Speaker 3>of that was helping them to move through their trauma.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I will read draw A quick excerpt is

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<v Speaker 2>because but mind only one sentence. This is from Octavia Butler,

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<v Speaker 2>parable of the Sewer, And I didn't mention this book,

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<v Speaker 2>but I strongly encourage everyone to read that. It begins

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty twenty four, but it was written in the

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<v Speaker 2>eighties or maybe the seventies. And this speaks to something

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<v Speaker 2>that we've talked about a few times on the podcast

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<v Speaker 2>over the weeks and months about immigration and people being

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<v Speaker 2>shipped off to offshore torture camps. And it's just one sentence.

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<v Speaker 2>The main the protagonist is a young girl and she

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<v Speaker 2>has a disorder some might say called hyper empathy, and

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<v Speaker 2>it causes her to feel whatever the other person is feeling,

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<v Speaker 2>so which is can be a good thing or it

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<v Speaker 2>could be a bad thing. If you're having sex with somebody,

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<v Speaker 2>you have your orgasm, you feel their orgasm. If someone yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>good point. If someone unfortunately, if someone is getting raped,

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<v Speaker 2>you feel their pleasure, but you feel your own terror

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<v Speaker 2>and pain. So the book goes through a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>things as she navigates her own hyper empathy. So the

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<v Speaker 2>one sentence I would just read is when she says,

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<v Speaker 2>if everyone could feel everyone else's.

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<v Speaker 1>Pain, who would torture amen?

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<v Speaker 2>So maybe we can move with a little bit of

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<v Speaker 2>empathy and imagine that we could feel everybody else's pain

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